Speaker 1: Determining the relationship these days is so hard. It could
Speaker 1: walk like a relationship, talk like a relationship, act like
Speaker 1: a relationship, Smell like a relationship, look like a relationship,
Speaker 1: and he'd be like, We're not in a relationship. You're like, what,
Speaker 1: so what is this? We're just showing were good? What's
Speaker 1: you're worried about, Freddie when you are Alex Well? Actually, hi, guys, um,
Speaker 1: if you heard all of the nonsense going on prior
Speaker 1: to us saying welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions,
Speaker 1: it's because we have Mr Rowdy Hella late, always late,
Speaker 1: probably my bad. We got I bet you late, brilliant idiots.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, anyway, y'all we got mouse Jones in the
Speaker 1: MOTHERFUCKINGI ya heard, y'alla heard mouse Jones. Apparently he's doing
Speaker 1: a press run. At the moment um, he had been
Speaker 1: on every motherfucker's show you can possibly think of, and
Speaker 1: so it would only be right that he came onto
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions because we lit it took two years, but
Speaker 1: it didn't. I'm talking a lot, so let me can't
Speaker 1: Can I be real honest with you? And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: put him on Blast two? So a king was supposed
Speaker 1: to be here, and do you know, and I wanted
Speaker 1: you with Mac Wilds And do you know why I
Speaker 1: wanted another guy here? Because I'm like, listen mouse with
Speaker 1: his logic and how he thinks we need a man
Speaker 1: with some common sense in the room. Is it? I'm
Speaker 1: a balanced human being. You equated us being black and
Speaker 1: white to Latina because we're in New York. That still
Speaker 1: doesn't matter what no one else knew y'all was black
Speaker 1: and white. Even he also agreed that you was spinished.
Speaker 1: Black and white equal spinning. So real quick, since y'all see,
Speaker 1: we got um. By the way, my name is Mandy
Speaker 1: getting hype because that delayed cotton. No, I do also
Speaker 1: just want to let y'all know this motherfucker's equivalent to wax,
Speaker 1: so just so I could read mad good yo, and
Speaker 1: I know mad words. No wax don't know no words
Speaker 1: whacks yo. By the way, I took a test the
Speaker 1: other day that talks about how many words you know,
Speaker 1: and they give you like a hundred words and you
Speaker 1: pick the ones you know, and from there they told
Speaker 1: me I knew twenty eight thousand words, so I felt
Speaker 1: like I was great. I sent you to one of
Speaker 1: my niggas. I'm like, what you guy, He's like thirty
Speaker 1: eight Ye, you could definitely yes. I don't know about that,
Speaker 1: so if you I'll let you see she always offered
Speaker 1: her there's no way off of a test words things.
Speaker 1: I learned that. So before we get into the show
Speaker 1: and the icebreaker and everything else with your with your
Speaker 1: motherfucking asked, can you go ahead and let our audience,
Speaker 1: who may not know who the mouse Jones is, tell
Speaker 1: them who the funk you are? Mouse Jones BT's resident
Speaker 1: rebel rouser, the host of I'll Apologize later, the host
Speaker 1: of Bats to pull up, host of he Man Will
Speaker 1: made his club podcast sound claud of iTunes cash member
Speaker 1: on the grape Vine on YouTube. Um, I've done a
Speaker 1: ship ton of talking, had pizza. Shout out to Revolt,
Speaker 1: shout out to MTV, shout goddamn, shout out all the networks.
Speaker 1: But don't you driver was just lost? Is that why
Speaker 1: he took so long? I didn't get a driver. I'm
Speaker 1: still broke, all right, I'm gonna need all these networks
Speaker 1: to kind of goddamn check the um. You know, I'm
Speaker 1: just I'm just somebody here for the culture. If you
Speaker 1: didn't know who Max Mouse was and you follow our Instagram.
Speaker 1: He was the nigga that brought up to Ivy that
Speaker 1: she was talking shit about the Spanish girl. Oh you
Speaker 1: were talking about the Spanish girls? What? What the what
Speaker 1: the what's they podcast? Oh? But lo ky you mad?
Speaker 1: It took so long for you to get here. But
Speaker 1: now you don't know the podcast. Nigga, who don't know
Speaker 1: the podcast? What's the name? Any podcast? The Spanish Girls?
Speaker 1: You did? I didn't say that? You did say? No,
Speaker 1: I did not. Charlottagne said, who you're talking about? I said,
Speaker 1: you gave you gave ship to them Spanish girls because
Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to make it hot, but you didn
Speaker 1: you didn't. You want to be honest. We're gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: The person started all that ship is right there. I
Speaker 1: started all that ship. How do we pay? In the camera?
Speaker 1: I thought, no, go down? So no, Ni Alex started
Speaker 1: all of that ship. So I was talking that ship before.
Speaker 1: I was talking that ship before the show even started.
Speaker 1: Like because she because wax loving and she was like,
Speaker 1: oh you're not gonna stay. I want to let everyone listen. Clearly,
Speaker 1: I'm telling you she fell some type of way, but
Speaker 1: me or we they have not done anything sexual with Wax,
Speaker 1: So that's kind of like she was a little I
Speaker 1: just want to I don't hear like that. She just
Speaker 1: wanted Wax to be in and when she so Alex
Speaker 1: was like everything. So Alex being the fucking consummate wrestling promoter,
Speaker 1: he was like he text my phone while we're recording,
Speaker 1: like damn, give her shit about the horrible decisions. So
Speaker 1: I'm like, say, that's what I did. To be fair,
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk too much of it because
Speaker 1: I would like the Ivy, I really would. I think
Speaker 1: I was cute. I hit. I don't know. Let's see
Speaker 1: how any words you know first, But honestly, I like
Speaker 1: girls that like kind of like play that. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Ivy is and it's not fake, Like that's really I
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it is fakew and I like that
Speaker 1: little like I don't. I don't. I don't. The voice
Speaker 1: that don't really talk got you, all right, So we
Speaker 1: can go ahead and get into the ice break Girl
Speaker 1: for the episode. So we don't ask you the question
Speaker 1: that we ask all niggas, because well, we just wanted out.
Speaker 1: So would you rather look ask or licktoes look as
Speaker 1: is that? So no one really likes feed like that?
Speaker 1: So I guess we all just talk BuzzFeed buzz feed
Speaker 1: quick us the other day and they said, like to
Speaker 1: show how kinky worse, every time you click something, it
Speaker 1: will show you what people voted. And when I clicked
Speaker 1: no one feet only of people said that they were
Speaker 1: to feed and that really, but to be fair, one
Speaker 1: out of ten is kind of high. That's why we
Speaker 1: maybe see so much foot ship. I ain't gonna hold you,
Speaker 1: I like, if you're my girl, I ain't even gonna
Speaker 1: hold you, like if I funk with you in any
Speaker 1: kind of way. I like, in an intimate setting you
Speaker 1: have a hard day, I might rub your feet, like
Speaker 1: if your feet done or whatever I might rub. I
Speaker 1: might rub your feet, but I'm not putting my mouth
Speaker 1: on your feet. You might get then out of disgusting
Speaker 1: I aint when talking about like like I don't want
Speaker 1: to see something. I remember a girl trying to put
Speaker 1: her toe in my mouth, like you didn't discuss this,
Speaker 1: like why is your foot in? She put her touch
Speaker 1: your and what did you do? You just swatted the
Speaker 1: funk out of her foot, like or did you put
Speaker 1: it in your mouth, you put it in your now
Speaker 1: my whole month, but you grabbed on my teeth. You
Speaker 1: grabbed and told her don't put your gun. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: ad bit it hard and she jerked back. So I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you this next question because it's gonna
Speaker 1: go into what the funk I think you are. So
Speaker 1: I want to ask you love or money? Love. I've
Speaker 1: been broke all my life, so I asked this because
Speaker 1: he has been broke all his life. Guys, and I
Speaker 1: referred to him as a hobo sexual. I refer to
Speaker 1: me as he is a homosexual. So we want to
Speaker 1: define a hobosexual because it's not a real word, but
Speaker 1: right now in the culture, it is a real world.
Speaker 1: Oh real word. So hobo sexually hobo, Yeah, hobo not
Speaker 1: not holmost love. I love my brothers and sisters, you know,
Speaker 1: shout out happy pride and all that happy pride. Gott
Speaker 1: we eat. So a hobosexual is a broke man who
Speaker 1: praise on women for money, shelter and perks. I mean,
Speaker 1: I thought that was the word, because you know words.
Speaker 1: P r e y s. Let me taste, Let me
Speaker 1: take the left lip. Let me taste the left lip.
Speaker 1: I brought this up, guys because I was listening to
Speaker 1: The Man Woman Haters Club. This was probably two seasons ago.
Speaker 1: This was a while seasons. I don't know, but it
Speaker 1: was a while ago. Yeah, but you'll be taking a
Speaker 1: little breaks sometimes to me, because you've been taking breaks
Speaker 1: and you come back and then it just we record
Speaker 1: a lot, you know what I'm saying. Like we've been,
Speaker 1: especially since I started it, like we just record record.
Speaker 1: Like the first year that was literally every week, no breaks.
Speaker 1: And then when I started that, when I was working
Speaker 1: at TRL, that's when we took like the little a
Speaker 1: month break just just so I could like focus on
Speaker 1: work and like get that situated and then be able
Speaker 1: to fund all that back into the podcast. Okay, So
Speaker 1: one of the stories that you had on your show,
Speaker 1: and what prompted me to bringing this up, um, is
Speaker 1: that you mentioned stealing money out of the purse of
Speaker 1: a It wasn't at her person want to kitchen table.
Speaker 1: So I would never go inside a woman's purpose the
Speaker 1: hierarchy of prime. Oh, I would never scam. But I'll
Speaker 1: tell weird yo. Yes there is a hierarchy of crime,
Speaker 1: not a hierarchy to home. Yes there is, Okay, actually
Speaker 1: we mentioned the hierarchy of we have, but there shouldn't
Speaker 1: be the real quick did this woman after you stole
Speaker 1: the money off her kitchen encounter? Did she let you
Speaker 1: funk again? Like he laughed. So did you get caught?
Speaker 1: How did you get caught? It? So this was her
Speaker 1: grocery money, This is her grocery buddy, Brian kiss, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, you can't even hello. You ain't no. This
Speaker 1: was also two fifteen. I was a different person. I'm
Speaker 1: not even the same person I was last week alone
Speaker 1: to change, let's hear it. Share the story, share the story,
Speaker 1: all right. So this girl has been like on me
Speaker 1: since like I want to say, eleventh grade, like I'm
Speaker 1: from Long Island, Like I know everybody thinking I from
Speaker 1: I'm from Long Island. I just fun with Brooklyn heavy,
Speaker 1: so on, so on Long Island. Like if you you
Speaker 1: ust see everybody you went to school with, like pretty much,
Speaker 1: it's it's a bourbon town. So I kept seeing the
Speaker 1: girl and I would curve a and um, I would
Speaker 1: curve a in high school like just be like, oh
Speaker 1: you're a whole, Like just leave me alone, like just
Speaker 1: leave me alone. Like high school I was big, like
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't want to ruin any like holes
Speaker 1: were already holds. I want to like ruin, want to
Speaker 1: ruin your dick status. Yeah, you know what I actually
Speaker 1: feel you. That's why I want to you feel exactly.
Speaker 1: This is what I'm saying. You gotta put you gotta
Speaker 1: put the ink in the water. Don't bring me an
Speaker 1: inkfield you feel me. And so so I would curve
Speaker 1: all through high school whatever, like man of fact. I remember,
Speaker 1: like I remember we had sidekicks. This since I might
Speaker 1: be dating myself, we have we had sidekicks. And like
Speaker 1: everybody would be in the AIM group chats in the
Speaker 1: AIM chat room, they go across schools. Right. She was
Speaker 1: working something in another town and her nudes hit the
Speaker 1: chat room and then everybody was like, Yo, did you
Speaker 1: fuck Melsei? And I was like, bitch, better say no,
Speaker 1: don't don't bit bit said no. I was like, shed
Speaker 1: the damn. You gotta tell the truth when your vagina.
Speaker 1: So after two fifteen, um, she hits me up randomly
Speaker 1: as I get off the train, and she lives like
Speaker 1: right down the street from the train station. So she
Speaker 1: was like, yo, come through and I'm like, it's like
Speaker 1: one o'clock in the morning, Like, fuck it, I fun
Speaker 1: this bitch. So I go over there and see the bitch. Like,
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, Shna look too bad after high school?
Speaker 1: Like she didn't fall off. Like she didn't fall off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a fact. She looked. She looked just as decent
Speaker 1: as she looked at high school. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: Like everybody has a sandwich sometimes, um, like you get
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like everybody has had a turkey sandwich before.
Speaker 1: Good let's say like balogney or something. I don't eat pork,
Speaker 1: but sure, okay with that, let's do that. Everybody's had
Speaker 1: a blogne everybody's had a grilled cheese. She was grilled cheese.
Speaker 1: It's like, you know, you could finesse, you could put
Speaker 1: a little pepperrik on it, but at then they're still
Speaker 1: a grilled cheese. So I'm like, so I walk in
Speaker 1: down mind you I'm just getting I'm not even know
Speaker 1: I'm still in the streets, matter of fact. So like
Speaker 1: my mind works as it works, So as soon as
Speaker 1: I walk in the spot, I start seeing everything. You know,
Speaker 1: on Long Island. You know, if you're rint in the house,
Speaker 1: everybody knows the rented house on Long Island, because soon
Speaker 1: as you walk in, you in the kitchen. So as
Speaker 1: soon as I walk in, I see the kitchen table,
Speaker 1: I see I see eight twenties. How many you take
Speaker 1: out the eight? So first I've seen it and I'm like, boom,
Speaker 1: got it. We go in the back room. We start,
Speaker 1: you know, fiddling around, and I like, yo, it's your
Speaker 1: bathroom mat because in my mind, I'm like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: get this money for get a bad So I went
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. So I went to the bathroom, showing
Speaker 1: me the bathrooms, went right to that kitchen. I took three.
Speaker 1: I took no, I might took me more than that,
Speaker 1: you know, I took three twenties. I took three eight
Speaker 1: took three of them put in my pocket, like I'm
Speaker 1: good going there. Fucker, that ship was trash. It was
Speaker 1: like it was like sucking a tire. It was just
Speaker 1: so like it was the It's literally I don't believe
Speaker 1: in bad sex, but that was bad sex, like like
Speaker 1: she was just like floundering, like too much noise. I'm like, bitch,
Speaker 1: come on, like I didn't even know, like I did.
Speaker 1: The Charlie Horse Sholl like like just to get it
Speaker 1: off of me or whatever I did I promise you
Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, what the funk? I'm like,
Speaker 1: So she's like I think it's because he was thinking
Speaker 1: about the twenties. It wasn't like you might have been.
Speaker 1: My thing is if she had a hundred and six,
Speaker 1: Like I'm a fucking notice if it gets I don't know, Okay,
Speaker 1: So after after after, after she gives me that terrible
Speaker 1: um asked, I'm like, I'm taking the rest of the bread,
Speaker 1: like this is that's your payment? Like you like, that's
Speaker 1: your payment. That's the least you can do is pay
Speaker 1: me for this. So we're laying there and you know,
Speaker 1: it really made me he want to take it because
Speaker 1: we're laying there, She's laying next to me talking ship
Speaker 1: like you could have had this in high school, bitch.
Speaker 1: You would not have ruined my high school experience like
Speaker 1: I was getting mad good section high school. This would
Speaker 1: have ruined it. Like so no, like she was talking
Speaker 1: cash it like she sucked the ship out of me,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, if only you knew there's so much
Speaker 1: Maybe Charlie horse game was good. Let me see it though,
Speaker 1: It's like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like I
Speaker 1: gave it the full all right. So it's like if
Speaker 1: so she was on top, so I grabbed a butt
Speaker 1: or whatever, grabbed a little butt, grabbed it like real
Speaker 1: tier like and she was like, that's how nigga's fake. Come.
Speaker 1: I don't know about because I know about me. Like
Speaker 1: you want to say I'm going to come, No, I said,
Speaker 1: I say right there. I say right there, right right there,
Speaker 1: right right there, right there, like if I really come,
Speaker 1: I don't say ship like I come smoothing in the
Speaker 1: mom Like do you say something everybody in the house
Speaker 1: knows I'm coming in the neighbor No. I mean cool,
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, but you tell me you don't tell No,
Speaker 1: I don't have my niggas to tell me they're gonna Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean she was like she was talking like she
Speaker 1: was at all the time, like I'm like, bro, I
Speaker 1: ain't alive like that. I'm wanting to know. I need
Speaker 1: the announcement like you don't know, especially like you of
Speaker 1: course you know, but I don't know when you're taughting
Speaker 1: to come. Like that was our first time. I was
Speaker 1: like and she was talking it, so I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: let me I gotta get back. She must not have
Speaker 1: walked you out. No, she didn't. She was like, she
Speaker 1: lets you see yourself out and you snatched up the
Speaker 1: rest of that ship. She didn't hit me to like
Speaker 1: months later and she so I get a hit up.
Speaker 1: How old is the kid? Maybe she's not the kids
Speaker 1: saw it at the time. She's got fifteen. I think
Speaker 1: her kids around my kids age, so it's like maybe
Speaker 1: four or five. And so I just like I said,
Speaker 1: I left at it, took that ship. I was like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm locking the door, locked the bottom lock, and I was.
Speaker 1: I didn't hear nothing from her. She hits me the
Speaker 1: same week that Cutty and Til come on my podcast.
Speaker 1: She hits me that day before, like, let me ask
Speaker 1: you something. I'm like, what's up? Did you know what
Speaker 1: it was? Yeah? I know exactly what time doing? And
Speaker 1: a bit trying to get me, she like, did you
Speaker 1: still like I had two addressed it? Did you still
Speaker 1: no bit I stole? I didn't steal that muchcause that
Speaker 1: as much wasn't there. And maybe she had another neig
Speaker 1: and he took before me or whatever, But I know
Speaker 1: I took what I took. Did you admit to it? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the fact. Did you send it back? No? She
Speaker 1: was like, how could you do that? That was my
Speaker 1: kid's money. I think she's had like a baby. I'll
Speaker 1: get it for like the electricity, like the dog you go.
Speaker 1: I can't wait on you. They didn't give it back
Speaker 1: after you admit it dealing it. I'm not pussy. No,
Speaker 1: I told her. I told her sex like she talked,
Speaker 1: talk like she was talking, talking like you'll send your nigga,
Speaker 1: send your nigga, come get it. I can't. I can't.
Speaker 1: So ladies don't have a deal with a nigga like mouth.
Speaker 1: Don't give me whack pussy, bro. I can't even say
Speaker 1: you took it before you got the pussy you did took.
Speaker 1: I took a deposit. You gotta put half, you know what.
Speaker 1: I'm so annoyed with you right now. I want my mother.
Speaker 1: If the pussy wasn't trashed, I probably have put back twentys. Oh,
Speaker 1: you would have only took forty exactly, aren't you generous? Listen?
Speaker 1: I've heard too many times women talking about the least
Speaker 1: you can do if I give you my pussy, the
Speaker 1: least you're goold dude and pay for my but to
Speaker 1: be fair. I used to work with this drug dealer
Speaker 1: that had like hundreds and twenties in his all right,
Speaker 1: just take a little bit. So I always used to
Speaker 1: take a little bit. And look at one time I
Speaker 1: took some money and then about to he sucked the
Speaker 1: ship out of me. And then after we fucked tol
Speaker 1: him he was gonna take me shop and I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go put this bag. I felt so bad.
Speaker 1: I was like, how could I take it that that he
Speaker 1: gave me that bomb? Dick shut up to him, like, yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm pretty trifling. But I never stole from Oh well,
Speaker 1: but you never fu drug dealers though, I don't care.
Speaker 1: I don't like drug dealing. Drug dealers money. Ask for
Speaker 1: you to take drug dealer pussy mad drug dealer pussy Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know about see I don't. They can't put
Speaker 1: their money anywhere. They have to get rid of it.
Speaker 1: Mine as well give it to a college student at
Speaker 1: the time. I mean, but so do athletes, so I'll
Speaker 1: stick with them. I would not guess that a fucking
Speaker 1: athlete would have Oh they do. They have money, like
Speaker 1: they have money laying around, but like drug dealer money
Speaker 1: is ruth. I ain't not basketball play women another trash person.
Speaker 1: Um that I want to bring up, Well, yeah you
Speaker 1: were a little thing. My nigga maybe had kids, but
Speaker 1: but whatever. Alright, UM, So I want to say how
Speaker 1: ironic this is because me and Mandy have been on
Speaker 1: air arguing back and forth and tussling about the Instagram
Speaker 1: model thing. But I want to say I would never
Speaker 1: shame sex work, and I was very shocked that a
Speaker 1: woman that we claim to all love could do something
Speaker 1: like this to other women women. Excuse me, read a
Speaker 1: quote then, So Nicki Minaj did. Nicki Minaj did an
Speaker 1: interview with um L magazine, and this is a full
Speaker 1: quote where she defends her sexual image. Maybe I was naive,
Speaker 1: but I didn't realize how many girls were modern day prostitutes,
Speaker 1: whether you're a stripper or whether you're an Instagram girl.
Speaker 1: These girls are so beautiful and they have so much
Speaker 1: to offer. But I started finding out that you give
Speaker 1: them a couple of thousand dollars and you can have
Speaker 1: sex with them. It makes me sad as a woman,
Speaker 1: and it makes me sad that I've contributed to that
Speaker 1: in a way. You fucking cunt let's start with the facts.
Speaker 1: Sex work could also include you popping your pussy on
Speaker 1: your album cover too, because let's just say, let me
Speaker 1: just finish for a second. Sex work in a broad way, right,
Speaker 1: could be you, I don't know, maybe doing the cry
Speaker 1: baby ship in your condo video. You were shaking that
Speaker 1: ass on camera. You for some reason felt like it
Speaker 1: was perfectly okay to show us everything but your pussy hair.
Speaker 1: But then you want to ship on other fucking women
Speaker 1: on Instagram who are not millionaire rappers that are fucking
Speaker 1: making their own money. This blows my mind. The only
Speaker 1: thing that I think is bullshit is women that hide it.
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm really mad at you, so hide
Speaker 1: like you wait to suck out my nigga. How can
Speaker 1: you really ship on someone when you're sitting at the
Speaker 1: top of millions of dollars when they need to fucking
Speaker 1: feed themselves. How can you fucking shot on anybody that's
Speaker 1: doing work. Why is sex work diminished when it's not
Speaker 1: in your lane? You know what I'm saying. Let's say
Speaker 1: that we all had to be there where we had
Speaker 1: to get money. How can you really shoot on the
Speaker 1: fucking escort? How can you not think that someone's gonna
Speaker 1: shoot on you for being a fucking how are you all, um?
Speaker 1: Cover you do the same thing. You're just too big
Speaker 1: to do this now, but let us I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: I'll be willing to bet money before Nicky popped off.
Speaker 1: She sucked with niggas for money. I don't care if
Speaker 1: they ever don't even get her. I'm sure I don't
Speaker 1: know whether you fucking fut time. I'm sure whether you
Speaker 1: did whatever you had to do that was the shittiest
Speaker 1: thing you could have done. And I am not mad
Speaker 1: at all that I've fucking decided to leave your ask
Speaker 1: for Cardi b because let me tell you something, because
Speaker 1: I really didn't like how she was treating Cardi. But
Speaker 1: up with this because Cardia. One thing that someone said
Speaker 1: to me, and I remember who said it, but they said.
Speaker 1: The thing that makes it so easy to listen to
Speaker 1: Cardi more than Nikki and this little feud is a
Speaker 1: car d gets really excited about women. She makes you
Speaker 1: feel included, she makes you want to have a good time,
Speaker 1: and she feels like she has this girlpotter thing. And
Speaker 1: when you listen to Nikki, she's telling you what you
Speaker 1: don't got. I got this. I got that. I'm this
Speaker 1: bitch blah blah blah, and bitch, let me tell you
Speaker 1: something was a fucking hole and you look like a
Speaker 1: hole on every video you do. You look like a
Speaker 1: hole on Instagram. You look like all No matter what
Speaker 1: you just told us, I've never been a single bitch.
Speaker 1: We were still calling you home with the knicks because
Speaker 1: you look like one if you want to really go there.
Speaker 1: I just cannot believe she did that. You already are
Speaker 1: taking ells every day and then you want alienate the
Speaker 1: bitches on Instagram that like dance to your videos. You're
Speaker 1: a fucking dumbass. Like I don't understand. It's like she
Speaker 1: wants to dig her own grave. I almost feel like
Speaker 1: she must have stock and Cardi b because she consistently
Speaker 1: is taking els over and over and over. I just
Speaker 1: don't get it. Yeah, no, I've actually for once agree
Speaker 1: with on this, Like how could I just think at
Speaker 1: your dad? You know, I think that has to do
Speaker 1: with the whole hierarchy, like what she does. I have
Speaker 1: no saying this, like like I literally don't have this.
Speaker 1: Like whatever y'all do, what your agency is, what you
Speaker 1: choose to do it. And now if you choose to
Speaker 1: you know, profit off of it. Um, I damn that,
Speaker 1: say go ahead, because one thing about it I watched
Speaker 1: men do UH do this dickheadship with will judge women? Right,
Speaker 1: We'll judge women for being holes and kind of like
Speaker 1: Nikki did, right, So we have the type of um
Speaker 1: urban patriarchy where will judge women for you know, being holes,
Speaker 1: and judge women for making money or if their sexuality
Speaker 1: and think of that nature. But we also will judge
Speaker 1: them or or ridicule them if they are just to
Speaker 1: be taken care of, not squire, but if they want
Speaker 1: us to take care of them, we'll also judge them.
Speaker 1: But you can't be a stripper and beyond the pole.
Speaker 1: But you also can't ask me for money, but you
Speaker 1: also can so if so, if you are making money,
Speaker 1: who the fucking mind? And I think it plays all
Speaker 1: into I think it all plays into the way we
Speaker 1: view women as they're just supposed to be consumed, right
Speaker 1: and I don't. I don't. So so it's like we're
Speaker 1: judging every woman as if they are our women, right,
Speaker 1: and that's not fair, which I think what what type
Speaker 1: of what UH separated me from like the rest of
Speaker 1: the rhetoric that you might see on Twitter, like from
Speaker 1: people that might try and speak like me or whatever.
Speaker 1: I think what separated me to the fans was I
Speaker 1: make it very clear, like if I'm discussing something or
Speaker 1: dislike about a woman, I'm specifically talking about a woman
Speaker 1: I want to date. If I don't want to date you,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to attempt to push my narrative or
Speaker 1: stand Okay, you have a quote unquote standard for what
Speaker 1: you want and whatever the other women do. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's kind of shaming saying I wouldn't be with you
Speaker 1: if you had. I didn't even say that. I didn't
Speaker 1: even go as far to say, as long as you
Speaker 1: don't do that and you're now now, is that what
Speaker 1: I want? Like that, if you ask me the perfect woman,
Speaker 1: am I going to build that woman? No? Probably not.
Speaker 1: But I'm also a human being realized that everybody lives life,
Speaker 1: like by the time you meet me, I don't know
Speaker 1: what got you here, right, I don't know how you
Speaker 1: got here, Like talk to me at least someone the
Speaker 1: other day, Like if I lost my job today, I
Speaker 1: just got this new apartment and I really love it,
Speaker 1: and I keep having these thank you I keep having
Speaker 1: these day dreams that I'm gonna lose my job and
Speaker 1: lose it all, And I think, what would I do
Speaker 1: if that really happened? Right so that pussy, I would
Speaker 1: sell my pussy before I would strip, only because I
Speaker 1: think that. I feel like stripping is a lot harder
Speaker 1: at work. I agree. And you're white and black and
Speaker 1: white and black, so you don't have no rhythm. White
Speaker 1: and black girls don't ever have really both of your
Speaker 1: clap on the one in the three. I know for
Speaker 1: a fact, I know for a fact. Hold on. First
Speaker 1: of all, I'm the one with the black mom. Do
Speaker 1: this to Mandy h No, I'm the one with the ass,
Speaker 1: so I can make my ass because I can do it.
Speaker 1: I can tick talk and all that ship not on beat.
Speaker 1: And she used to headtop. She used a pussy pop
Speaker 1: in the Jamaican cloth. Do you want to read that?
Speaker 1: The reason I'm about the strip? Though, stripping is hard work,
Speaker 1: hard work. You have to put investment in outfits and
Speaker 1: ship like that. You tell me all, it's kind of
Speaker 1: like vector knives. It's like, if you remember, if you
Speaker 1: in New York, they used to do this thing with
Speaker 1: like you to apply for a job in his place
Speaker 1: called vector. Right, so you'd get gassed and they'll call
Speaker 1: you back for an interview and you're like all right,
Speaker 1: and you'll get real dressed up and they'll be talking
Speaker 1: ship in the in the interview, like you can make
Speaker 1: this amount of mine, this amount of money, what are
Speaker 1: we doing? It ain't even a course. And it's a knife,
Speaker 1: Like you have to go door to door selling knives,
Speaker 1: but you gotta buy the knife. What you gotta buy
Speaker 1: the knife? So that's what that's just the pymis came
Speaker 1: like her like okay, so this was the response. But
Speaker 1: that's so so stupid. Someone names your own trement. Dear
Speaker 1: Minicki minaj, your lyrics are hypocritical. You went over to
Speaker 1: l magazine to slect shame certain types of women. Because
Speaker 1: that wasn't your quote. Augedly, people need to stop trying
Speaker 1: to dictate and police women in their bodies. If you
Speaker 1: can't help, don't hurt, right, She wrote bank and said,
Speaker 1: suck my dick, asshole. Had you read the article. I
Speaker 1: was critiquing myself more than anything, and what I said
Speaker 1: was I hope my overt sexual lyrics and photos don't
Speaker 1: make my fans think I'm telling them to be promiscuous
Speaker 1: and to know they're worth lyrics, photos and fucking are
Speaker 1: three different things. Um. What I don't like about that, though,
Speaker 1: is saying that fucking for money is bad. It's not.
Speaker 1: But this is the thing. Sex work is work. No,
Speaker 1: what do we okay, okay, what do we considering like
Speaker 1: you're doing? You're leaving a payment for Have you ever
Speaker 1: paid for bussy? Um? Not outright sole from the bitch
Speaker 1: And that was a dumps. Yeah, yeah, I'll leave the
Speaker 1: cab running if you know, I'm alright, not listen. I
Speaker 1: have faith for pussy with somebody I was with, and
Speaker 1: this girl was very professional. She was beautiful, she made
Speaker 1: sure she was safe, she brought condoms like she talked
Speaker 1: about this. She felt like I was sucking a professional
Speaker 1: like there was a professional I don't want because I
Speaker 1: don't think I got professional dick. Okay, so I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't, Well, you don't have to because you I'm
Speaker 1: saying I don't have professional dicks. So I don't want
Speaker 1: a professional pussy like you don't want to come on
Speaker 1: like a rapper. She looked like like one of the
Speaker 1: Instagram models she's talking about. And you know what happened
Speaker 1: to we will be saying that same ship about you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well here go to the thing though a lot of you,
Speaker 1: a lot of those Instagram girls don't be fucking yo.
Speaker 1: Like I got a lot of homegirls. They got the
Speaker 1: cave and they got the flat, tim d. It's hard
Speaker 1: to fuck. That's why my friends not drop. You know,
Speaker 1: they're not fucking y'all might have just like you might have.
Speaker 1: The dog that went really hard was not giving them
Speaker 1: are you talking about? And my thing also with the
Speaker 1: sex workship is if it puts a one, is their rebate?
Speaker 1: Is their refunds? What is them? So there's actually yeah,
Speaker 1: well I'm not going to ruin everybody. Also review customers.
Speaker 1: And the reason that there's a big deal that um
Speaker 1: sex work is trying to be like decriminalized. They're taking
Speaker 1: like sites like this away, but it's keeping the girls unsafe.
Speaker 1: So where is a dude may of like assaulted a
Speaker 1: woman or something like that or stolen from them, she
Speaker 1: can report you didn't have to do that. But like
Speaker 1: let's say that they like fucking took all their money
Speaker 1: and left these girls or whatever, like did something yeah,
Speaker 1: which a lot of men have done, is they'll set
Speaker 1: the escorts up. They can go on that site and
Speaker 1: show there be able to get robbed at the time.
Speaker 1: We don't feel bad for them. Well they not. Pussy
Speaker 1: dealer is getting pussy deal is getting robbed as a
Speaker 1: part of the game. We're all criminals here. If I'm
Speaker 1: buying the pussy, I'm a criminal. If you're selling the
Speaker 1: pussy a criminal. If I robbed you, I'm a criminal. Listen,
Speaker 1: as long as I didn't put as long as that
Speaker 1: man then put his hands on her, I think it's okay.
Speaker 1: I think it's fair. Pussy can't kill you, though put
Speaker 1: kill you. I didn't see some niggas dies. I hadn't
Speaker 1: seen pussy killed him. Mother. We're gonna get talking about it. Man,
Speaker 1: they got the right one. Pro woman pro. You're the
Speaker 1: one who at me here confused? What a bitch like
Speaker 1: Denise Burgos saying, now, what's she don't know? Got grandma?
Speaker 1: She got to grab my name? She do have a
Speaker 1: grand Bernice was made grandmother. I mean Bernice is about
Speaker 1: the age of you know. I can't believe she looks
Speaker 1: like that with a name. She was handcrafted by Satan.
Speaker 1: No no, I feel like whoever it was like watch
Speaker 1: like y'all watched y'all watch Supernatural, like those Supernatural shows
Speaker 1: where like the devil would take over somebody body that's
Speaker 1: who Bernie's doctor was like it was a regular doctor,
Speaker 1: but Satan took over and was like, We're going to
Speaker 1: take everything. Like yo, we read here. It's really surprised
Speaker 1: at how people have been coming at her on her Instagram,
Speaker 1: like it's crazy. It's been bad about her body, and
Speaker 1: I'm just like, you know why because real life is
Speaker 1: starting to set in. You gotta think about it, right,
Speaker 1: Women who don't get the surgeries and all that ship, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got about what five to six years every phase
Speaker 1: before your body do some ship. It didn't do five
Speaker 1: years before the exact same for the past seven years.
Speaker 1: So now earlier coming in, so I love it. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. Fact that was not fake like surgical. Yeah
Speaker 1: that's got to be uncomfortable. Yeah, Abs, now you go
Speaker 1: and get ab etching. But they look are they herb
Speaker 1: Like you just cut around. She claims that she works
Speaker 1: out to keep them there and to profound them, but
Speaker 1: she got is like a laundry bag, like you just
Speaker 1: threw everything in. But know what I'm saying is like
Speaker 1: every five years, you change, right. So five years ago
Speaker 1: when Bernie's first birst, I don't seen everybody loved it,
Speaker 1: like yeah, bitch. Now years ago you got people want Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's weird that, like everybody is saying, I mean quevo.
Speaker 1: When when the only thing I don't like is that
Speaker 1: girls that don't have a real ass, they'd be like, no,
Speaker 1: it's real because it's their own fat. I'd be like, okay,
Speaker 1: you got to ask them technically, technically that's there. If
Speaker 1: it's not if it's not selicon or shot, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not fake. Yeah, if it's if it's from your body
Speaker 1: there before, but now it is food fat from one
Speaker 1: place to another. Okay, I'm not shipping on this. I
Speaker 1: don't think anbody should on the surgery, but I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: I still don't think you know, if you play, it's
Speaker 1: all fair game. It's all fair game. I mean you
Speaker 1: got if you're walking around setting off alarms like that,
Speaker 1: I would have you know what I'm saying. But I
Speaker 1: can't what side of you like a double A. I
Speaker 1: can't see through this. You can't she knew I was coming.
Speaker 1: I know what you are to say that? What am
Speaker 1: I that's the h it's actually a double D. Thank
Speaker 1: you very much. Yes, I tell that I wanted like
Speaker 1: I was, like, I want pies a little bit, but
Speaker 1: like natural porn tities. Oh you got your titties done? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I got them done. Sixers neither natural. I can tell
Speaker 1: these natural. I could. I could see the blue veins.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm well. This is the reason niggas
Speaker 1: don't be know when I got my titties done because
Speaker 1: he left the front of my boob in there like
Speaker 1: so sometimes I'll scoop it out to make it more around.
Speaker 1: So because he left the first part of my breast,
Speaker 1: that's all you feel when you grab it, So no
Speaker 1: one ever knows, nigga, it's great. I mean, now they
Speaker 1: know I talk about after me getting good questions out.
Speaker 1: I want people to be excited they I always talk
Speaker 1: about my breast surgery because I want people to feel
Speaker 1: good about it and excited about it. I think that
Speaker 1: it is perfectly okay to get your body done. And
Speaker 1: a few months I've done a couple of things to
Speaker 1: my body, so I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
Speaker 1: Done a few things in my body as well. What
Speaker 1: you do I've had, I got ahead, I'm done with you.
Speaker 1: We're gonna we're gonna go ahead to get into the
Speaker 1: the show. So the kick of the week is probably
Speaker 1: something Mouse has never experienced, but we're gonna today. You
Speaker 1: probably don't want to experience. I don't know. Maybe you
Speaker 1: do a couple of trains, don't play. He calmed down
Speaker 1: the kink of the week guys for this episode. And
Speaker 1: I brought this up because, um, it was actually a
Speaker 1: question asked that our live show. But we're gonna dig
Speaker 1: into this, but I wanted to do it, um kind
Speaker 1: of as it pertained to the question of the live show. Um,
Speaker 1: so I want to do it double anal. So what
Speaker 1: we're doing today is double penetration. Well, you know we
Speaker 1: should do we should talk about all the different types
Speaker 1: of d Yeah, there's a lot of there's DP, there's
Speaker 1: deep double with penetration, which is generally a term for
Speaker 1: one in your post and one in your ass and less. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there is you have a dick in your mouth. Well
Speaker 1: that's really called triple penetration, right because wh we're talking
Speaker 1: about penetration, we're talking about generally like can your mouth
Speaker 1: your mouth? That's so that's a penetration of my mouth.
Speaker 1: I mean it is, but you asked, I asked, I
Speaker 1: asked my face. How did they and what's their facial reaction?
Speaker 1: They love it? I wouldn't love that my face reaction.
Speaker 1: I'm one, I'm gonna do it. You're gonna do it
Speaker 1: this one. Okay, let's say what can I do to
Speaker 1: make you happy? I like being tired up and having
Speaker 1: my face all right, I'm not so I actually wanted so. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she well no, so um So there's also DV or
Speaker 1: a K d V P and that's double vagin. That's
Speaker 1: two dicks in your pussy at the same time. So
Speaker 1: the penetration that Mandy was talking about that I've seen
Speaker 1: is normally two in your pussy in one in your
Speaker 1: How does that work? How does that? How does that?
Speaker 1: That means two dicks are touching, two of them are touching. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't know how. So it works? Like you do?
Speaker 1: You have to the only way that the position can
Speaker 1: really work is if you're sitting all right, I'm sitting Okay,
Speaker 1: I would say I'm sitting on you. So let's just
Speaker 1: say your I'm trying to see where the other dick
Speaker 1: fits in you have to because okay, because they're not
Speaker 1: gonna be able to hear the audio right there, right there,
Speaker 1: not that type of audio. I mean they didn't hear
Speaker 1: the fun either, but it worked. And no, no wait,
Speaker 1: not a real one. It was on a plastic bottle.
Speaker 1: It was a demonstration. Yeah, with that, I gotta come on,
Speaker 1: I gotta come over the loud speaking. I gotta come
Speaker 1: over the loud speaking. So uncle, were such a family.
Speaker 1: And then okay, no, seriously, if I'm on top of
Speaker 1: you and I'm straddling you, let's say, I don't think
Speaker 1: this is possible what you're saying. I've watched it, dude,
Speaker 1: So it goes you want whatever, you're wherever you're going in.
Speaker 1: And then there's someone behind me, and then there's someone
Speaker 1: else underneath, so it's jinga. Yeah, I'm gonna show. So
Speaker 1: that means the nigga is sitting on the other nigga.
Speaker 1: So obviously somebody in this is gay. Yeah, okay, they're
Speaker 1: not gay. And then the other one and we live
Speaker 1: show was double double penetration anally, so that's two dicks
Speaker 1: in your asshole. So I don't gotta ship like nobody
Speaker 1: like using the asshole after this, you can use your asshole.
Speaker 1: I mean it's also it shrinks back right here? What
Speaker 1: am I looking at? Which one? Can you describe that position?
Speaker 1: And wow? First of all, I knew it was going
Speaker 1: to be some white people ship. I'm gonna that two
Speaker 1: dicks are meeting um in a vagina and there's one
Speaker 1: going right in the but hoole right, but like, what
Speaker 1: is his ass is pretty much in the O's in
Speaker 1: his face. It's in his face. The reason it's in
Speaker 1: his face is because he's on top of him like
Speaker 1: a froggy. So he's sucking the ass like frog. Okay,
Speaker 1: So one dude is laying down, one dude is hitting
Speaker 1: it from the back quote unquote, and the other is
Speaker 1: on top like a froggy. Yeah, that's okay, look at this,
Speaker 1: nig No, that's not um. And it's funny that I
Speaker 1: bring this up. Of course, anyone who's interested in doing
Speaker 1: this has to do a I see a ton of lube. Um.
Speaker 1: We brought this up in the live show because one
Speaker 1: of the wonderful audience members in Atlanta had a problem
Speaker 1: with the dicks falling out of his ass. Yeah, damn no, no, no,
Speaker 1: excuse me, it's not a ton of loube. The reason
Speaker 1: it was slipping out is because there was a ton
Speaker 1: of lube. And I say, I'm saying, if you want
Speaker 1: to do this at all, alright, but you need some friction.
Speaker 1: So the reason that the dicks were slipping out is
Speaker 1: too much lube. Have had good we were just so
Speaker 1: the reason that they are stipping up too much loubes.
Speaker 1: And you need someone to have friction, right, So like
Speaker 1: there could be lub maybe from the contact of the
Speaker 1: skin so it doesn't hurt as much, but there has
Speaker 1: to be some friction in order for them to move
Speaker 1: in and out. So like it has to be maybe
Speaker 1: one dry dick and maybe one loube dick and then
Speaker 1: it'll trip onto the other day. If you guys have
Speaker 1: any experiences of double penetration or double anal or double vaginal,
Speaker 1: please on those. Double penetration isn't going to be that
Speaker 1: bad because you can be I have never done it. No, No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's not that bad. I've never been DP. Like,
Speaker 1: I have a real inner block of two niggas judging me.
Speaker 1: As long as I'm on edibles and zoned out, I
Speaker 1: can probably do it. Yeah, So as comfortable as you
Speaker 1: are with you guys sexual sexuality, and you know, as
Speaker 1: as k as you guys are of your sexual agency,
Speaker 1: you still feel unless you while you said it, so um,
Speaker 1: you having to be like high and shipped, like oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I have to be under the influence for something for
Speaker 1: some things like even I went to the sex club.
Speaker 1: Me and my friend killed a whole bottle of down.
Speaker 1: So did that? So to you, that doesn't say like damn,
Speaker 1: maybe I'm not not forcing yourself. But maybe that's not me.
Speaker 1: It is maybe I don't like how I feel when
Speaker 1: I'm under an influence and I feel like I'm more free, Okay,
Speaker 1: So to me, I just enjoy being under the influence
Speaker 1: and then you do or your sexuality. I like a
Speaker 1: lot of experiences sober, Like I've had a ship like that.
Speaker 1: I like sober. I like to be a little tipsy.
Speaker 1: So but when I'm more drunk, sometimes I get more
Speaker 1: so I'm more emotional. So when I get drunker, I
Speaker 1: get more of my feelings about it, and I'm more
Speaker 1: like black and white, black and white black and white
Speaker 1: women always real emotional, especially after the sex. Really, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not so that's different. I mean if it was
Speaker 1: good sex, I would be, but just emotionally. The reason
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't do it is because as confident as
Speaker 1: I am like with my sexuality, I think that's who
Speaker 1: I am, not necessarily always how I viewed. So there's
Speaker 1: still things that have mental blocks about. Like I'm confident, sure,
Speaker 1: but there's some things that have some insecurities about. And
Speaker 1: for some reason, having two men in the room makes
Speaker 1: me feel a little more nervous. You know what makes
Speaker 1: me feel nervous. So that's what I want to like
Speaker 1: walking Ah, there's only one vaginantes two of us. You
Speaker 1: never you've never, you've never done a train, none of that. Um.
Speaker 1: Two reasons Number one, I UM, I think everybody knows
Speaker 1: at this point. I'm not homophobic at all, but I
Speaker 1: don't want to be in the room with another penis
Speaker 1: just it's not it's not not my cup of tea.
Speaker 1: Not my cup of tea. Second of all, um, And
Speaker 1: I've found out just recently that this is like problematic
Speaker 1: thought for some women. But I feel like I have
Speaker 1: too much respect for a woman to do that. I won't.
Speaker 1: I respect you too much to just dog you out
Speaker 1: like that, Like I won't you think that's worse than
Speaker 1: stealing money. I was just about you're you're in my
Speaker 1: mind right now, hierarchy of criminals. So honestly, I think
Speaker 1: that I just couldn't do You think is it almost
Speaker 1: relates to the nick if you thinking that a woman
Speaker 1: doesn't want to do these things that she's asking. I
Speaker 1: didn't say she doesn't want to. Every time I've been
Speaker 1: asked to run a train, it's always been no, dude.
Speaker 1: One time, when when I was sixteen at homeboys like, yo,
Speaker 1: we're about to this bitch. This this bitch is the
Speaker 1: only singular. Now you go, Um, I'm my bike's gonna
Speaker 1: stay right here and shut no. Um. But every other
Speaker 1: time after that, since I've been in the doubt, every
Speaker 1: time I've been asked, it's been by a woman, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, you gotta get on my phone. You have
Speaker 1: to get on my phone with this man. It's because
Speaker 1: number one, I am a uh. I live by that code.
Speaker 1: One dick in the room, I lived by that code um.
Speaker 1: And secondly, I just can't. I can't do that. Like
Speaker 1: I have respect for you and I'm not and you're
Speaker 1: dispecting yourself. I just won't be the one to do Okay,
Speaker 1: I can respect that. That's a good I wonder if
Speaker 1: you would be able to like not even like if
Speaker 1: you couldn't get it up or not probably can't. There's
Speaker 1: another dick in the room. Yes, it can't be two
Speaker 1: hard dicks in the room. I'm not adding to the
Speaker 1: two dicks in the room. I've always been very curious
Speaker 1: as two men that are like, it's not gay because
Speaker 1: the dicks on't touch. But do my homeboy said that
Speaker 1: when they did that ship. No, but it doesn't because
Speaker 1: you could always if they could be doing the both
Speaker 1: the dpi, but that's not always needed in a threesome
Speaker 1: or if a let's get horrible decisions. I know you'd
Speaker 1: like to be like terms that is a train, appropriate train,
Speaker 1: it's just two men. A train is two men one woman.
Speaker 1: Yes it is because the woman in the middle, the
Speaker 1: woman in the middle has the track. We're going into
Speaker 1: the horrible decision now because I'm not gonna I'm not.
Speaker 1: I realize you've had two many nigs with drays on
Speaker 1: reason again we have again. I'm coming back. I'll come back,
Speaker 1: and it's already I can't do no. How much do
Speaker 1: you know how much I would would be no, no, no,
Speaker 1: that's a train because I feel violated. I would feel violent.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into our harn decision. We're not
Speaker 1: We're not gonna talk about We're gonna get to our
Speaker 1: horror decision. The horrid decision for this week is d
Speaker 1: t R. And this isn't like DP. So calm down,
Speaker 1: you look scared. Uh dick train ran so so DT
Speaker 1: are it's actually determining the relationship. Okay, okay, we can
Speaker 1: do so we got lighter, right, we're kind of heavy.
Speaker 1: We're kind of heavy. So I wanted to bring this up, um,
Speaker 1: kind of in the sense of situation, ship versus relationship
Speaker 1: versus What the funk in this day of ages? Dating?
Speaker 1: What is it when you tell somebody I'm dating her?
Speaker 1: We're dating? Is dating now? Is that boyfriend? Girlfriend? Is
Speaker 1: that I'm just seeing you? Is that we're going on dates?
Speaker 1: When you say you're dating somebody? And I guess we
Speaker 1: could all kind of have our own definitions here. What
Speaker 1: what does it mean to be dating? Number one? First
Speaker 1: and foremost, Um, if you and I are dating, that
Speaker 1: simply means don't play with me like point like I
Speaker 1: don't play like that, Like if I am dating you,
Speaker 1: and mind you, this is coming from me. This is
Speaker 1: not me saying, you know, women, you better get in
Speaker 1: the kitchen. If I am dating you. It's very it's
Speaker 1: a very big step for me to like make a
Speaker 1: claim right to like say I'm dating this woman. This
Speaker 1: is my girl. Yeah, yes, because you're I'm dating you
Speaker 1: right like I am dating you. And once you hear
Speaker 1: those words, it's exclusive with me with me, like there
Speaker 1: is no a boyfriend girlfriend her hot. No, but we're
Speaker 1: right there, we're right there on the custom. But I think,
Speaker 1: so I think when I think there's because I think
Speaker 1: that we're dating too. Does not mean boyfriend girlfriend, It doesn't.
Speaker 1: It does not mean it by any chance. But if
Speaker 1: you if you should always date your your mate. But
Speaker 1: I'm but I'm here. But what I'm saying, so it's
Speaker 1: like a mirror from talking. I'm sure you So talking
Speaker 1: is when you guys first. By the way, this is
Speaker 1: terms we're talking. We graduated to twenty six white people.
Speaker 1: I don't know who came up with these hood as rules,
Speaker 1: but I've heard them too, because we terms we do,
Speaker 1: we do, we do. But But I'm okay, So I
Speaker 1: learned all my dating and romance terms from nineties sitcoms,
Speaker 1: because that's I grew up in the nineties, right, So
Speaker 1: like going steady, dating boyfriend, girlfriend, these things right, And
Speaker 1: it's just I grew up watching I absorbed a lot
Speaker 1: of content growing up, so a lot of that ship
Speaker 1: stayed with me. So when I when we're talking, that's
Speaker 1: the I got your number. We might be dem in
Speaker 1: back and forth on Instagram because sometimes women feel safe
Speaker 1: that way, and I won't, like, I won't press the issue,
Speaker 1: Like if we're having a conversation, I'll drop my number
Speaker 1: in the Instagram And if you don't text me, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna be like text if you if that's how
Speaker 1: you feel comfortable, how you feel comfortable, it's so crazy
Speaker 1: that you say that, because to me, if a guy,
Speaker 1: if I'm talking to a guy via d M or
Speaker 1: even texting, if he goes to the next nig and say, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: we used to talk and to me, it wasn't that.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to say that we used to talk,
Speaker 1: So like me talking to somebody is kind of right,
Speaker 1: was he? Once you start talking to no, because that
Speaker 1: always doesn't it doesn't. It's how serious you take it.
Speaker 1: If you tell the next person, Yo, I used to
Speaker 1: talk to wheezy. They're gonna think that y'all used to date,
Speaker 1: not that y'all used to DM each other. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: it's very simple. We used to talk on the regular,
Speaker 1: like call answer, called back. I'm gonna call you like
Speaker 1: to me. If I'm talking to somebody, I'll call you back.
Speaker 1: If he was talking to somebody, have you fucked him? No?
Speaker 1: If you're yeah, if nigger tells me he used to
Speaker 1: talk to a gul did because I feel like nick
Speaker 1: should not say that to each other unless it's your manny,
Speaker 1: And like, Yo, what's right below talking? Yeah? If you
Speaker 1: know the introduction sliding in the DA No, look so
Speaker 1: they're sliding into D and making the initial. Yeah, So
Speaker 1: we're gonna do like so there's the initial talking initial
Speaker 1: number one and then and then dating then after now
Speaker 1: this now talking now talking, you might have to do
Speaker 1: the little that little ship, that that little triangle ship
Speaker 1: between it, because talking could also lead to a situation ship. Now,
Speaker 1: a situation ship, a situationship and dating is not the
Speaker 1: same thing. Situation ship is the two a of dating.
Speaker 1: Situation ship needs to go. Dating may not be your boyfriend. Girlfriend,
Speaker 1: but we might have a situation ship. I feel like dating. No,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why, because dating, dating has room
Speaker 1: for growth, a situation ship doesn't. A situation ship is
Speaker 1: very linear, and that's can turn into more No no, no,
Speaker 1: they can't. Every time they do, they go left. My
Speaker 1: situation ship turned into some just now what what it
Speaker 1: turned into? That your boyfriend is that your nigga, that
Speaker 1: your nigga, no, don't cut it out bossing up? Is
Speaker 1: that your nigga, No, I can't people all right, And
Speaker 1: that she's gonna crash. She's gonna crash and burn. It's
Speaker 1: going to the horrible like I don't like, it's going
Speaker 1: to don't I don't know. I don't like that word. Are.
Speaker 1: You guys are going to in terribly. This isn't gonna last.
Speaker 1: You might not make it out to summer situation. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you why because the situation ship is literally
Speaker 1: a relationship like thing with no titles, which means I'm
Speaker 1: giving you everything I would give you in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Because dating is literally that dating is what they would
Speaker 1: call in the old times. Courting means I'm taking. But
Speaker 1: like situation, you guys are acting like, yea, in a situation,
Speaker 1: we're dating. If you were in a situation acting like
Speaker 1: a boyfriend and girlfriend, yeah, then you were in a
Speaker 1: situation and the ship is going to end. But why
Speaker 1: are you I'm gonna like a boyfriend and a girlfriend
Speaker 1: where you're dating because you're not my fucking girlfriend. That's why,
Speaker 1: like literally, like okay, perfect example. So I'm dating that, right,
Speaker 1: I'm dating someone. I'm seriously dating this this woman right,
Speaker 1: nobody else. It is just me and her. Okay, it's relaxed,
Speaker 1: So why is it not you might get upsetting. So
Speaker 1: we're seriously dating, right, it is not a situation Okay.
Speaker 1: So the situation ship is if you said it's going
Speaker 1: to be nothing, then yes, okay, because from dating you
Speaker 1: get into what a relationship. So this is a question
Speaker 1: that I want to ask you, And it's because that
Speaker 1: conversation you're saying, because once you get into a situation ship,
Speaker 1: it's a perfect example. It's like hiring somebody. You go
Speaker 1: and hire a manager. You don't bring the stockboy the
Speaker 1: funk up and make him the manager. Why everything this
Speaker 1: motherfucker already knows how to do. There's no way this
Speaker 1: nick could be the manager. He's been the stockboys, maybe
Speaker 1: knows how to stock real. Well, you go exists if
Speaker 1: you both agreed, it's nothing, or if one person only
Speaker 1: one person? Because what what's going to happen with a situationship?
Speaker 1: No matter what somebody, nobody's going to see it the
Speaker 1: same way. Somebody's gonna fall too far in and then
Speaker 1: that gray area is going to explode and it's to
Speaker 1: become red because somebody's going to be sick. A situation
Speaker 1: ship you give and I don't know, maybe I grow
Speaker 1: around too many black women. I read a Steve Harvey
Speaker 1: book of something. But I really do believe that once
Speaker 1: you're in a situation ship, that glass ceiling is there.
Speaker 1: You're gonna exist in this space and there's nothing passage
Speaker 1: because you ever had relationship, Well, I want to I
Speaker 1: want to ask you this question because um so me
Speaker 1: and Fellen Bay had this conversation. Okay, shout out, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so me and Fella Bay had a paper here just
Speaker 1: right now. Well now he's actually he's out, he's outcast.
Speaker 1: I mad, I know mad, I got mad big homeies
Speaker 1: that don't know. I was like, yo, let me do
Speaker 1: download you out. He knows about it, Adam subscribed it
Speaker 1: to it on the phone. What's what is this? What
Speaker 1: is He actually knows big words? And I told him
Speaker 1: I think it's because he used he used the library. Nick,
Speaker 1: you want to jil, he knows a lot of words.
Speaker 1: They always started well versed in one subject, and that's
Speaker 1: whatever the book. He'd always come back, Nigga, that knew
Speaker 1: everything about the Civil War. All he would do whenever
Speaker 1: he wanted to suck me, like, did you know about
Speaker 1: the Sayson Maria? Then shut up? So you're telling me
Speaker 1: right now the minds and the Pilgrims. So you're telling
Speaker 1: me right now that the mind did quarter Ship. We know,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you about thinking. He's not even
Speaker 1: he's not even into those days later. But so anyways,
Speaker 1: let let me get into this top conversation that's gonna
Speaker 1: be arguing with SPU. Shut the funk up, Barbara. You
Speaker 1: don't even know, Barbara. That is a fucking class. Ain't felony? Motherfucker?
Speaker 1: That's easily fired a ten. Well, anyways, we have Felon Bad.
Speaker 1: We're talking, and Felon Bad has an issue right now
Speaker 1: because I think he wants more and I'm telling him
Speaker 1: I don't want more at all with him. It's well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I love his motherfucking commissary. When you go back, well yeah,
Speaker 1: you see how she'd be shading. Anyway, he's not gonna
Speaker 1: go back. Hopefully he's still on parole. He went back
Speaker 1: right when you met it. I know he's on paro
Speaker 1: statistics always. Well he's already been back since I met him. Um.
Speaker 1: But anyways, so we were having the conversation and I
Speaker 1: told him, like, you know, it is what it is,
Speaker 1: what what we have. Honestly, it is what we have,
Speaker 1: and I don't want more. Then we got into a
Speaker 1: really discussion, in a debate that I want to talk
Speaker 1: about because I enjoy the intimacy with him as far
Speaker 1: as cuddling, kissing, laying up all that stuff. He wants
Speaker 1: me to cook for him, and I'm like, no, cooking
Speaker 1: his boyfriend girlfriend ship. He's like cuddling and kissing his
Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend ship. So your boyfriend girlfriend ship. That to
Speaker 1: me is the no no no no no aspect, the
Speaker 1: expect the expectation, meeting the expectation that his boyfriend and girlfriend.
Speaker 1: But when you're dating, when you're dating, you are you
Speaker 1: are getting to know one another. You are you are
Speaker 1: getting comfortable with this person to represent the representatives of
Speaker 1: one another, and you are it's like negotiations. You're you're saying,
Speaker 1: all right, so before we go to next, before you
Speaker 1: get in this relationship, I'm willing to do this, and
Speaker 1: you're like, well, I'll do this, and then you counter, right,
Speaker 1: And that's what the whole dating period? How long does
Speaker 1: the dating period last? Completely up to that? How long
Speaker 1: have you been dating the girl? A Now? I wanted
Speaker 1: to say I had someone told me that they felt
Speaker 1: like six months was too long. First, yeah, I felt
Speaker 1: like six months was too long. But she'll be in
Speaker 1: a situation ship for three years. But to be honest,
Speaker 1: I think that's for her age, right, she's study four. Okay,
Speaker 1: there's that. I understand why she's feeling like that. But
Speaker 1: I said to him, like, look honestly to me, you
Speaker 1: calling me a girlfriend and what you're giving me like,
Speaker 1: I've had boyfriends that wasn't ship. So if we're dating
Speaker 1: and maybe those titles are a little too much fucking pressure,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna calm down of six months is a little
Speaker 1: too soon for you, and a lot of the view
Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend is the segue like, right, into marriage because
Speaker 1: nothing really like that's all the pressure're gonna get out.
Speaker 1: Just crazy that, which is crazy because because you don't
Speaker 1: even get that. People don't even it's like what the
Speaker 1: funky I refer reversed. It's like Pokemon. Right, there's like Pokemon.
Speaker 1: If you got groll around the same major Pokemon, right,
Speaker 1: you get you a char Amanda, a squirrel or boat.
Speaker 1: So they evolved three times, right, so you're a char Amanda, right,
Speaker 1: and then char Mand at like level twenty, level sixteen
Speaker 1: becomes char char millions millions, and then at level fifty
Speaker 1: becomes charges are right and people kind of right, So
Speaker 1: people interact with she's dead right, sooth getting a charge's ard.
Speaker 1: It's very hard to I'm sorry so now, and so
Speaker 1: people view dating at this linear thing where you go
Speaker 1: from Charmander to charges ard and you don't experience you grow, right,
Speaker 1: And like if you think about it from level what
Speaker 1: you get the Pokemon a level five and then they
Speaker 1: evolved at level sixteen, but then the next time they
Speaker 1: evolved until level fifty. You got so much time to
Speaker 1: grow as a person with this person that you're dating,
Speaker 1: that your relationship is going to go through so much
Speaker 1: and grow through so many different phases that by the
Speaker 1: time you are knocking that marriage and you are ready
Speaker 1: for marriage, you're not even the same people you work
Speaker 1: when you first started dating. But people skip over that
Speaker 1: because they have this very linear fact that you said that.
Speaker 1: I literally like, so to me, I've been single forever,
Speaker 1: Like I'll get in situation ship and a date. The
Speaker 1: guys your date, how long have you been? No? No, no,
Speaker 1: Well that's what I'm saying, like all date or be
Speaker 1: dealing with someone or being a situation ship. But I
Speaker 1: won't No, No, I'm very sing, I'm very single. I
Speaker 1: won't make a nigg of my boyfriend though, unless I
Speaker 1: see him as a husband. And you're laughing, I don't
Speaker 1: have a boy. Alex is telling me to get out
Speaker 1: the frame with the my damn Alex telling that ship
Speaker 1: in the mic. I'm being professional, get your ass out
Speaker 1: to Mike as the frame is move No. No. But
Speaker 1: to me, I won't make a nigg of my boyfriend
Speaker 1: unless I see him long term. And that's kind of
Speaker 1: what I had to tell day, like sometimes he ain't
Speaker 1: even got enough works that works for you, But I
Speaker 1: didn't believe some women that makes real quick and so
Speaker 1: I had that question. So this is an other questions. Oh,
Speaker 1: I mean no, it's sweet him, but it's good. Like six,
Speaker 1: it's good, probably six and a half it's good, but
Speaker 1: seven is a solid eight and a half nine babies,
Speaker 1: so you know I like more. But anyways, listen to this,
Speaker 1: doesn't let's go how you say. That's the only reason
Speaker 1: he got back on my phone. I had the time me.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about how to make it. Can't say. He
Speaker 1: can't say scription didn't know he has a subscription. He doesn't.
Speaker 1: He knows how to know. He knows how to say something.
Speaker 1: Both of them know how to say. You have a
Speaker 1: spelling beach for the pussy that night Friday night. We
Speaker 1: both want the pussy niggas spell anti establishment area that
Speaker 1: you got out this or the stuff. So I hate you.
Speaker 1: So I want to ask you this question too, because
Speaker 1: we had the conversation. So I start my new job
Speaker 1: next month. Gratulations queen, thank you. What is career? No,
Speaker 1: it's a career. It's a it's a career. It's not
Speaker 1: a job. It's a career. Um. And so where he's
Speaker 1: at right now, especially since he just got out of jail,
Speaker 1: his money ain't where I needed to be, and which
Speaker 1: is what I told him, which is why I don't
Speaker 1: look at him as a boyfriend. And I know. So
Speaker 1: his response was, so, when I get this money, I
Speaker 1: can't look at you as a girlfriend because you wasn't
Speaker 1: want me shooting in the gym. However, right ever, that
Speaker 1: was his answer. But I hate so, But this is
Speaker 1: my question as women, and I want to ask you too.
Speaker 1: So at seven, I don't feel like I have the
Speaker 1: time because I don't know how long it's gonna take him,
Speaker 1: and I don't I don't have kids. I don't want
Speaker 1: to raise a grown man. So it's cool, toy um
Speaker 1: why he spent eight years in the fence. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I have this theory that everybody who gets locked up
Speaker 1: when they get out there are the same as they
Speaker 1: was when they got before they went in. I think
Speaker 1: it's twenty son. That nigga is. That nigga right now
Speaker 1: is about to hop on. He just found out what
Speaker 1: FaceTime was. Oh, he's definitely a twenty year old. We
Speaker 1: FaceTime a lot, thank you because he's excited. Pick up,
Speaker 1: pick up, turn turn it around, No, you gotta turn
Speaker 1: it around. No, not the phone. No, not the phone, you, Alex,
Speaker 1: I think like this. I can't man, No, I can
Speaker 1: see the mirror. Turn the phone. Okay, now I'm just
Speaker 1: call you. Oh you open it with your finger. Now
Speaker 1: I don't get it, but I see you. No, man, wheezy.
Speaker 1: At this point in you're like no, no, he said.
Speaker 1: He was like, your a piece of ship, are the
Speaker 1: same age, and she is doing more than the man
Speaker 1: that she met at the same age. Why does that good?
Speaker 1: Quite pressure on it? Good question? Why does that not?
Speaker 1: Let me? Let me let me say before I answer
Speaker 1: this for real, I'm not a piece of ship. I
Speaker 1: would just okay you wait, no, real quick, before we
Speaker 1: get into this. I just want to share. What did
Speaker 1: you ask? Oh this Nigga asked if he was going
Speaker 1: to get to get to funk one of us. Show
Speaker 1: did not say that the make out the same thing. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's the same baby, don't kiss me. You don't get
Speaker 1: this one. He was going to get the make out
Speaker 1: with one of us at the Okay, that's more than
Speaker 1: thirty eight thousand words right out with her. I'm not
Speaker 1: on the table. Okay, it's easy. That's easy. It's like
Speaker 1: a cool fifty Oh can we record this. If this happened,
Speaker 1: we're gonna make him take the test right after the show,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna record it for all of you guys
Speaker 1: to see on Instagram. The girl you're dating and your
Speaker 1: boyfriend like that part right there to the table. You
Speaker 1: gotta cut that out, put that out. You gotta remember
Speaker 1: this content, baby, I do. I'm a content creator, right,
Speaker 1: this is all content. I'm an actor as well. I
Speaker 1: was in I was I was in After Hours with
Speaker 1: Mac Wilds on title and YouTube. Great. I'm an actor.
Speaker 1: I'm an actual act. All the mouth should be the
Speaker 1: type of b no, no, no, no no. We practice
Speaker 1: in this she's from horrible is not even in bit.
Speaker 1: But my dick, don't even feel it. I bet you,
Speaker 1: I don't come. I'm not the question? Yes, what makes
Speaker 1: him like no? So so okay, go back in this
Speaker 1: same right, So without you giving the uh, without you
Speaker 1: giving that prerequisite, it right, there's no issue. Right to listen.
Speaker 1: Sometimes people don't stay around. Sometime when you gave him
Speaker 1: a prerequisite, when you said I don't see you as
Speaker 1: a boyfriend because of this, he was well within he's
Speaker 1: right when he's like, well, okay, so don't expect that
Speaker 1: from me when I get when I get right now now,
Speaker 1: as a half black woman, well technically two of you
Speaker 1: make one black woman, or just make second. The reason
Speaker 1: that we identify as black is because we understand our
Speaker 1: privilege as lighter skinned women. And I feel like it's
Speaker 1: dismissive to just then say that might not be black,
Speaker 1: but you're PCs. No, but um so what I will
Speaker 1: say to that? So women, especially black women in our
Speaker 1: in our in our culture, have been the hugest supporter
Speaker 1: of you know, rider die. They definitely stayed at until
Speaker 1: they come up. And I won't because you've probably seen
Speaker 1: or not white women, white women women who we met,
Speaker 1: Which is funny because that's why he Apparently he tried
Speaker 1: to call me from Rikers, but I didn't answer the calls.
Speaker 1: I thought it was a bill collector. So he keeps
Speaker 1: holding it against me that I didn't answer his Hello, Hello,
Speaker 1: what are you? What are you calling for? No? No,
Speaker 1: I don't know anything. But when we met, I never
Speaker 1: had a card with a Rikers. Where do you swear? What? No?
Speaker 1: But no, if you're if you're not right there, that's cool,
Speaker 1: that is cool, but don't but then you can't have
Speaker 1: you know, what. You can't have that because if somebody
Speaker 1: buys into that, then that's fine, but you cannot expect.
Speaker 1: You can't expect ride or die. You can't expect somebody
Speaker 1: to wait for you if you're not gonna wait for him.
Speaker 1: But you're also a woman who was attractive. So if
Speaker 1: you find that it's well within are right, I'm go
Speaker 1: for it. But off the back, you can't expect that.
Speaker 1: So he's what you're asking for is unfair. You're you're saying, hey,
Speaker 1: when you get this money, you got funk with me
Speaker 1: like I did, hold you down. But you're not holding
Speaker 1: him down, and you have every right not to because
Speaker 1: if you look at the numbers, motherfucker's do not respect
Speaker 1: the woman that holds him down. Motherfucker you you hold
Speaker 1: him down. Motherfucker's is gone or went off to the
Speaker 1: billionaire woman. You see that he paid for his kids
Speaker 1: for his kid first of all, to me, the baby mama,
Speaker 1: not ship. So you're just kid off for some money. Wait,
Speaker 1: you would sell your kids for some money a six
Speaker 1: figure duo? Yes, you really to their mother who already
Speaker 1: has to be indebted to them anyway, You mean to
Speaker 1: tell me I not get money on top of it
Speaker 1: for them saying, mother fucking way to take care of
Speaker 1: him anywhere? Yes, yes, yes, So I want I want
Speaker 1: to happen because this actually goes I think that you're
Speaker 1: one of the perfect guests to answer this. We're gonna
Speaker 1: happen to our homemail. I hope you guys enjoyed this
Speaker 1: um fucking conversation. This goes into things that I think
Speaker 1: me and Wheezy have battled with um and I appreciate
Speaker 1: this listener for sending this in. I wrote to you,
Speaker 1: I'll look here you go, and I want you all
Speaker 1: to know I wrote you'll to y'all in instant and
Speaker 1: you said to email. So here it goes. Because I
Speaker 1: told you all we came from this was a good one.
Speaker 1: So my question slash situation is I'm trying to date
Speaker 1: after a long history of being a kinky slut. I
Speaker 1: enjoyed the I enjoyed the hell out of the time
Speaker 1: that I had in my life, but now I'm looking
Speaker 1: for something more substantial slash serious. When I bring up
Speaker 1: my past or sexual interest, guys perception of me totally changes.
Speaker 1: Now I'm not a dating prospect. I'm a sex toy,
Speaker 1: a freak, a slut. I want to be open about
Speaker 1: my past have super kinky sex with my partner, but
Speaker 1: I also want to be respected and seeing his girlfriend material.
Speaker 1: Have you experienced this and any suggestions? Yes, I know.
Speaker 1: I saw this and I was like, okay, let's see
Speaker 1: what mouth thinks of this. But this is a good question. Yeah, um,
Speaker 1: she got a lie, like I don't understand what's the
Speaker 1: problem Like women, you're such a good list. She wants
Speaker 1: to be open because she still wants that, all right,
Speaker 1: but you all right, but she's acting like a dummy,
Speaker 1: like she's a woman. You control all of the ship.
Speaker 1: You lied to, then don't control ship when we open up?
Speaker 1: And then you don't you understand it? Don't open up?
Speaker 1: Don't you? If you it's like right now, if I
Speaker 1: keep trying, you don't want to, but you want to
Speaker 1: open our legs though, No open up. But don't tell
Speaker 1: me that ship, Doug, or you gonna get listen this.
Speaker 1: I'll look at it right, Okay, you're not gonna find
Speaker 1: the Melvin's, alright, the Melvin's. You don't want the Melvin Melvin.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you haven't seen plays Club, but
Speaker 1: Melvin is who loved love he loved, he would have
Speaker 1: took up right. Yeah, you we ain't Melvin. You're not
Speaker 1: going after Melvin. You're not attracted to Melvin. You want that,
Speaker 1: we really don't want. But he would accept all of
Speaker 1: that ship. You want the mouth jones, Right, So now
Speaker 1: you come to meet actually perfect time, Alex Hammers tiwnd
Speaker 1: me yet. All right, So I started a body count thing.
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring it up with you. I see,
Speaker 1: And I was like, and I see that, I've seen
Speaker 1: see set up spection actually does go with this. So
Speaker 1: before you get to that, before you get to that,
Speaker 1: I want I want to say this part. Y'all control
Speaker 1: this ship so much, and I might be like giving
Speaker 1: away information, but if y'all don't know, you're dumb women,
Speaker 1: y'all control everything. It's all about how you play this,
Speaker 1: right you, This ship is not going to be love
Speaker 1: in relationships as adults, like as a whole asset doults.
Speaker 1: That's lived life. That that perfect love, that ship going.
Speaker 1: That ship is a high school memory. If you didn't
Speaker 1: get with your high school steetheart, or get with some
Speaker 1: that's your first, or or y'all caught a few bodies together.
Speaker 1: It's a dub. So you gotta understand do you want
Speaker 1: the result or do you want the fantasy? Because if
Speaker 1: you want, if this girl wants that relationship, the next
Speaker 1: nigga she meets that she put stock in and she's like,
Speaker 1: this is the nigger I could do it. You don't
Speaker 1: tell him about you being a hold back in the day.
Speaker 1: What I say, You don't tell him you used to
Speaker 1: be a hole back in the day. You give that
Speaker 1: nigga none of the knowledge and all of the benefits.
Speaker 1: You don't say nothing to him but good and blow,
Speaker 1: like make this nigga socks sweat and he's going to
Speaker 1: love you forever. That's very hard to do. I'm about
Speaker 1: to throw this chair. But how many lives are you
Speaker 1: holding on you right now? Don't How can you really
Speaker 1: say that when you're looking at the Bitcho's putting it
Speaker 1: all out there. But no, not all. There's some ship
Speaker 1: that you ain't told nobody. Get the funk out of here.
Speaker 1: Why don't don't tell it to the first person I
Speaker 1: ever told that I had another to get paid for
Speaker 1: my apartment. I was working him. He was giving me
Speaker 1: all this ship. I never told anybody that. And he's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? What's he gonna do? The
Speaker 1: point first of all this is that you told him
Speaker 1: after he's already invested your sack of ship. You don't
Speaker 1: tell him, you even tell him, you don't tell This
Speaker 1: is what I was gonna say. There was a conversation
Speaker 1: that me and Mandy had when we did a Dating
Speaker 1: Profiles episode. She was like saying, how bisexual. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: was like, she'll be thinking that, you know what I'm
Speaker 1: doing this and Negus be righting me with this. I
Speaker 1: was like, listen, you have bisexual in your bio. She's like, well,
Speaker 1: I have women on there too. I was like right.
Speaker 1: I was like, but if you already have them click,
Speaker 1: they already know you're looking for women and women will
Speaker 1: see you. No need in putting bisexual. Share that with
Speaker 1: a man later. And the reason that I would never
Speaker 1: tell men that, and I've dated women, and the reason
Speaker 1: I never said anything was because I didn't want them
Speaker 1: to thank chance for a threesome or that I'm a
Speaker 1: home whatever. Because you can never really figure out what
Speaker 1: someone's thinking, you know what I mean. So here's why
Speaker 1: I bring up timing. You need to show yourself as
Speaker 1: you would show too. You're not gonna tell someone you
Speaker 1: first meet like a friendship that you've done all this
Speaker 1: whole ship, right, you've just met someone three times. They
Speaker 1: don't need to know all your hidden desires and all
Speaker 1: the darkest secrets about you, and your sexual history is
Speaker 1: a fucking very personal piece of you. Now you just
Speaker 1: um and I'm talking to Mandy. You just got a job.
Speaker 1: I'm guessing you went on an interview. Right, Oh, it's
Speaker 1: already done, like what I'm saying. You went on an interview, right,
Speaker 1: yes to three even better three interviews, and each of
Speaker 1: those interviews that they felt like they were getting to
Speaker 1: know you some more, right, But they're not gonna know
Speaker 1: six months and you're gonna have your feet off, your
Speaker 1: shoes off at the day. But her sex past is
Speaker 1: not something bad. Don't say that. I'm not teching that bad,
Speaker 1: but I'm saying a good comparison, Yes it is, why
Speaker 1: because it's not. It doesn't have to be bad for
Speaker 1: it to be something that they look at and be like,
Speaker 1: but how do we know? And this is so you
Speaker 1: should have Winn there in a robe with your flip flop.
Speaker 1: That's not who she's always gonna be. She's still that person.
Speaker 1: You could be more than one person, but the job
Speaker 1: and didn't relationship. And just because I did some ship
Speaker 1: in my past doesn't mean I'm not ready for you.
Speaker 1: And the reason I wanted don't. Don't put it on
Speaker 1: me to be You think, don't make me this is
Speaker 1: and you think wants the cheater, always a cheater, wants
Speaker 1: the whole, always a whole, wants a cheat, always a
Speaker 1: cheating Yes, once a whole. Lay is a whole, yes,
Speaker 1: but in a different way. She might not be a
Speaker 1: hole at like she might be an active hole, but
Speaker 1: in perception wise, everybody's going to see her as the whole.
Speaker 1: Give the fun why I want? I want to care
Speaker 1: about body, I went on Instagram. No, I'm saying women
Speaker 1: care about a lot of that whole ship. Y'all throw
Speaker 1: it on men and men we we do, Piet, but
Speaker 1: a lot of that should be across the platform with
Speaker 1: women like we be like we won't know a woman
Speaker 1: as a whole. We don't consider a woman Hope until
Speaker 1: we had another woman called Hope. I'm telling no, but
Speaker 1: but she's not even saying what is it? What if
Speaker 1: it were? His friend's gonna think we're talking about me
Speaker 1: and you. And this is the thing that's care what
Speaker 1: their friends think. No, I'm give my friend day. I
Speaker 1: don't give my friends think. I can't what mouse Jones think.
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, like with every situation,
Speaker 1: any any I don't even call that ship beef, Like
Speaker 1: any industry issue I got with a nigga, any issue
Speaker 1: I got with a nig industreet, any beef I had
Speaker 1: in the street, any situation I had with a woman,
Speaker 1: you don't got nothing to do with nobody watching. I
Speaker 1: don't give a funk about that because I've debt it.
Speaker 1: Very public issues and they could be longer. I can't
Speaker 1: believe you did that. They eat a dick, like, don't
Speaker 1: worry about what you're telling. Got everything. They got everything
Speaker 1: to do with mouse Jones. If I'm comfortable with this
Speaker 1: when I go to bed, and I gotta be comfortable
Speaker 1: with this, how do you know what a nigg is
Speaker 1: gonna be comfortable with? But then you're sitting here and
Speaker 1: telling her, don't tell, don't tell because you know why
Speaker 1: you don't tell. I'm gonna tell you why because she's
Speaker 1: sold five times and lords five times. Butch, try what
Speaker 1: I'm telling you and see if you don't win. Okay,
Speaker 1: I guess so it's who here's that day you want
Speaker 1: to date men? You date yourself. Here's back to the
Speaker 1: body count. I want to give some input that I
Speaker 1: got from a bunch of listeners. I'm gonna date myself outright.
Speaker 1: They yourself then, but don't come. Don't write in and
Speaker 1: talking about what do I do? I just told you
Speaker 1: what to do, nowt or don't tell. I'm think you
Speaker 1: should save all of your experiences for when you feel
Speaker 1: like it's warranted to tell. Yeah, like maybe when after
Speaker 1: you got a ring gonna hang with he's gonna kill himself.
Speaker 1: That's wrong with y'all. I just married you and then
Speaker 1: you tell me you had five dicks at once. Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm jumping off of the hotel. You know, she fucking
Speaker 1: experienced it and she ain't gonna want to be the
Speaker 1: bitches at a fucking bachelorette party like I want to
Speaker 1: talk a dead because she never had it. That's the thing.
Speaker 1: I love your experience, yo. That's for real women that
Speaker 1: go to bachelorette party and don't turn your but you
Speaker 1: know why because they live some life. It's just like
Speaker 1: when niggas be having wives and they go out and
Speaker 1: they act too fucking crazy. They didn't live no life
Speaker 1: alone now prepared whatever she said you, she has to
Speaker 1: tell the mess stuff before they're in a relationship or
Speaker 1: not at all. This is what I keep saying. That's
Speaker 1: what he's saying. Don't whomever I was with before you
Speaker 1: has no relevancy to Okay, let's go back to conversation.
Speaker 1: My question was, is it rude if your partner asks
Speaker 1: you how many men you've been with? And the reason
Speaker 1: that this came up is because I know someone or
Speaker 1: men or women? Actually, sorry, if someone asked you that.
Speaker 1: The reason this came up is because I know someone
Speaker 1: that told me that her man made her give him
Speaker 1: a list would matter of fact, I've seen that. I
Speaker 1: remember it was like last week on a breakfast club.
Speaker 1: Emon said he had to give Tiana. Yeah. I was like,
Speaker 1: and then I've seen other and then I've seen like
Speaker 1: pick me niggas, Like I can't believe she did that. Now,
Speaker 1: what if he asked her for that, we'd be I said, nigger,
Speaker 1: you would want that list? Yeah, please don't give me
Speaker 1: that list. I'm gonna ask you and lie to me.
Speaker 1: Multiplied like don't want to know. So okay, So let's
Speaker 1: start with the first question at hand. Is it rude
Speaker 1: to ask someone their body count? It is very yes,
Speaker 1: it is. Look a look at that, look at the house,
Speaker 1: divided the house. It's very rude to let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. I posted that question. I'm about to put
Speaker 1: my dickets out of you. I would like to know.
Speaker 1: Ask me if I haven't, I don't care. That's not
Speaker 1: buying more about the body counting the disease. Why because
Speaker 1: I can Because listen, there's a pill I could get.
Speaker 1: I could get the pillig I can't get. I can't
Speaker 1: get being number fifty eight. I gotta be numbert You
Speaker 1: never took the number at the d n V. And
Speaker 1: who you are? You ain't never been at the front
Speaker 1: front of DV. Like it doesn't matter who went before me.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna know, mother. Why is the quantity it mattered
Speaker 1: to a certain age. I only care about body count
Speaker 1: up to thirty four? Why I still have more years off?
Speaker 1: And what's too many? And this was a question, I
Speaker 1: ask you, what's that be there? So there's there's a
Speaker 1: few questions. The conversations I got into. So I took
Speaker 1: this poll at three thousand people, Um, it was yes,
Speaker 1: it's a rude question, and and can I tell you
Speaker 1: nig And so then I wrote, I would like you
Speaker 1: all to write me and tell me the max number
Speaker 1: of men for you to be comfortable with for a
Speaker 1: woman the ages and thirty. If a max, no, I
Speaker 1: take it back one, I don't want to virgin. Now
Speaker 1: what do you think? What do you think that? People said?
Speaker 1: What's the number of thing? People said? I would say,
Speaker 1: I think it's six. Really, I think max too. What
Speaker 1: do you think six? Three? So most men wrote back
Speaker 1: and said no more than thirty. Oh, and I was
Speaker 1: very impressed with that. I'm impressed. I want to read
Speaker 1: you one answer. This is from a dude named Chris.
Speaker 1: Chris wrote. Chris wrote back and said, I am thirty four.
Speaker 1: My girls thirty one? I mean I know? And he
Speaker 1: put like five ws. She got quite a few under
Speaker 1: her bell. How could she not? But that's why she
Speaker 1: foks real good. Who wants some ship with four bodies
Speaker 1: as lame as fun? But she probably not gonna please
Speaker 1: you to say. So here's another dude, this is what
Speaker 1: the next guy maybe around thirty. And it also depends
Speaker 1: if I know the guys, or if we are all
Speaker 1: in the same city. I wrote him back and I said,
Speaker 1: what's the problem if you're in the same city? Does
Speaker 1: that a race niggas? He said, If she's made a
Speaker 1: name for herself, I'm not wiping her out. But to
Speaker 1: the guy that does good for him, I won't knock
Speaker 1: him as long as he knows what he's getting into
Speaker 1: and can deal with that. I said, But I'm trying
Speaker 1: to figure out what does it matter if people think
Speaker 1: she's a hoe and what are they necessarily getting into.
Speaker 1: Do you not think that's a personal insecurity with you
Speaker 1: or within the man? He said, it's definitely a part
Speaker 1: of the male ego. Everybody says they don't care what
Speaker 1: people think about them, but we do different degrees. You
Speaker 1: could say it's a personal insecurity, but what makes it
Speaker 1: different or worse than a body insecurity or preference is whatever.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you didn't write where that right. At the
Speaker 1: end of the day, do it makes happy and if
Speaker 1: you're happy with to check that as too and her
Speaker 1: bodies be happy. Um, I said, I'm ain't going to
Speaker 1: read this on the show. He said, don't pay me.
Speaker 1: On the other end of the spectrum, like, I only
Speaker 1: want to check with two bodies. I could hear Mandy
Speaker 1: Spas and now I like a check that's lived a
Speaker 1: little and it's not a prude, it's not all prudent
Speaker 1: proper to uh. I think most men at this point
Speaker 1: care more not about the body count, but who. And
Speaker 1: I say this because well, I watch name we are
Speaker 1: in the industry where niggas passed around the same five
Speaker 1: six women, Well that's different because I feel like that
Speaker 1: has to do with a lot of these niggas in
Speaker 1: the industry music industry specifically, these niggas are cornball. So
Speaker 1: to me, they look more up to Oh, dann you
Speaker 1: were you were working with nas, let me get because
Speaker 1: if not funk with you, now, let me funk with you.
Speaker 1: That's way. Yeah. The same with Amber. So I was
Speaker 1: dating a guy and um so he like went to
Speaker 1: see to see m us, to see him in Miami
Speaker 1: a lot, really really like this guy. I would say
Speaker 1: it was a situation ship. We had a conversation about
Speaker 1: making it more and I had sucked his homie first
Speaker 1: before I had really even met him, and he knew
Speaker 1: I this homie and this homie was a big deal.
Speaker 1: But no, no, that can't cut out anyways, So anyway
Speaker 1: you didn't right if he didn't do that anyways? Well,
Speaker 1: anyways we were anyway, me and him and let me
Speaker 1: scale back, So me and him, it's the worst dick
Speaker 1: I ever had in my life. But me, yes, me,
Speaker 1: I know I got this. I'm gonna do the cutting.
Speaker 1: But look at you see nothing minutes. No, But anyways,
Speaker 1: his concern was listening, if I get married, that nigga
Speaker 1: is gonna come to the wedding and I don't like
Speaker 1: to know that someone fuck my wife. And so because
Speaker 1: of that reason, like he was like, yo, it would
Speaker 1: be really hard for to go anywhere. What he didn't
Speaker 1: care about any of the bodies or how many bodies are?
Speaker 1: How did he asked you have you fucked anybody? I know?
Speaker 1: I mean he knew because I feel like that question
Speaker 1: is more understandable than the counts. I mean, I met
Speaker 1: him at his birthday, Like what's the problem you ask
Speaker 1: how you asked me how big my dick is? You had?
Speaker 1: Where you asked me my mom and name is like
Speaker 1: you asked me a lot of intrusive question you ask me?
Speaker 1: What do you asked me? What am I doing? Like
Speaker 1: what you're doing its way more fun. Where you at
Speaker 1: is way more intrusive than how many bodies you have.
Speaker 1: Where more intrusive. Like had a dude write me back
Speaker 1: and said me and my girl are both reform hose
Speaker 1: and we got bomb sex because of it. Practice Drake
Speaker 1: made a whole song like I can like you're practicing, bro,
Speaker 1: like let us women practice so that we can please
Speaker 1: you later. There was an amazing answer for someone that
Speaker 1: came to our live show and you're not gonna leave
Speaker 1: this count I want to just find this really quick
Speaker 1: and then I won't read another one. But it's insane. Um.
Speaker 1: I've been in several serious relationships and the number has
Speaker 1: never mattered. The woman with three to four has cheated
Speaker 1: on me, while the woman with seventy plus has been
Speaker 1: faithful to me. There is no max. As long as
Speaker 1: she's healthy, happy, and we're faithful to each other, We're good.
Speaker 1: Faithful is not the ideal world to live in, since
Speaker 1: my partner and I have sex with others separately and together,
Speaker 1: but we trust each other and have open communication, and
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, the foundationship foundation is
Speaker 1: really strong for our relationship. So my girlfriend and I
Speaker 1: love the show. Yes, and we appreciate two beautiful, open
Speaker 1: minded women of color. Thank you, thank you. Look at
Speaker 1: the read this one. This dude blew my mind. But
Speaker 1: more than ten implies that she is very intune herself
Speaker 1: in her body, which is incredible, or she gives it
Speaker 1: up real fast. I mean more than to me. I
Speaker 1: just so, what are we saying? More than most women
Speaker 1: probably start sucking around? Right? So we'll still even over
Speaker 1: ten years? One body a year, Yes, yes, that's what. Yes,
Speaker 1: let me tell you this. Let me tell you this
Speaker 1: up until like until four, until it's up until thirty
Speaker 1: four for me, because I'm like thirty four, we've grown,
Speaker 1: you probably got a kid or some ship, all right,
Speaker 1: let's fun it. I don't care about that. You no
Speaker 1: more anything under that. Also, at thirty four, I feel
Speaker 1: like women know who they are, and there are women
Speaker 1: who know who they are before and you definitely reach that.
Speaker 1: You definitely will reach that for a man mostly mostly,
Speaker 1: but I feel like by thirty four, you know who
Speaker 1: you are, you know what you want your I don't
Speaker 1: given about the body account like your thirty four you've
Speaker 1: been alive for three decades, Like I can't, I can't
Speaker 1: anything before that, though, there's something great about experiencing something
Speaker 1: with your woman the first time. It's her first time,
Speaker 1: a woman with forty five fifty sixty bodies. Goddamn bit,
Speaker 1: you did everything. Come to me. I'm gonna stop you
Speaker 1: right there. If I had a relationship for two years,
Speaker 1: right and I'm actually thinking of an X right now together,
Speaker 1: we had experienced B D S M. We had a
Speaker 1: threesomes together. I was I'm sorry, he was. Um. So
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, though, is let's just say I was
Speaker 1: with him even longer than that. I did the next
Speaker 1: nigger and I did everything with that person I was
Speaker 1: in a relationship with. And then that's when I say,
Speaker 1: that's one body, right, Get what I'm saying. There is
Speaker 1: something and I hate to make this analogy because I
Speaker 1: do not view women this way, but there's something about
Speaker 1: the new car smell. There's something about getting in a
Speaker 1: car and looking You're not gonna pay top dollar for
Speaker 1: a car with a hundred thousand miles on it. It's
Speaker 1: just not you know, just not know why the miles
Speaker 1: really bothers me, because we equate bodies into a woman
Speaker 1: being looser and not being are no no, no, no no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, no no, no way, because a lot of
Speaker 1: men do. I don't want to girl this run through.
Speaker 1: But he's not got a nigga who's sucking me three
Speaker 1: or four times. Single women are getting way less dick.
Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, I'll be having a hard
Speaker 1: fucking time, especially when you popping niggas. You know how
Speaker 1: hard it is to get ahold. I know, I know, Okay,
Speaker 1: let dick out of town right now as a single
Speaker 1: sucking women as a nigger, I know what you're talking up.
Speaker 1: And I have no time whine because I am dating.
Speaker 1: I'm serious. But now that I'm sucking with somebody, I'm
Speaker 1: sucking so much it's ridiculous. And like when I was single,
Speaker 1: but and I would. Let's say I sucked three niggas
Speaker 1: from summer to winter, four niggas. I was having less
Speaker 1: sex with them than one person. But I can write.
Speaker 1: I'm not looking at it from an anatomy thing, because
Speaker 1: I'm smart enough to know that there to do with it, right.
Speaker 1: I'm looking at as the aspect of I can see
Speaker 1: direct and what nobody can argue. Nobody can argue this.
Speaker 1: I can see from who and how many people sleeping
Speaker 1: I can see where your mind is at. I can see. Oh,
Speaker 1: so you either are equating love with Dick either doing
Speaker 1: that or you're equating I'm just a carefully spirit of
Speaker 1: funk who I want. Either one of those is a
Speaker 1: turn off for me. It's just a turn off for me.
Speaker 1: Probably a lot of men think that it's just a
Speaker 1: turn off for me. I love you, I'll still probably
Speaker 1: have a lot of sex with you. But if we're
Speaker 1: talking about building my life, I'm not going to put
Speaker 1: my money on the I'm not going to I'm not
Speaker 1: if this is the NBA, I'm not about to give
Speaker 1: so I'm not. I'm not. You're saying that someone, But
Speaker 1: I'm also not gonna I'm gonna. I'm not gonna put
Speaker 1: my money on lebron right, even though you know that's
Speaker 1: a bad one. He's he's but you really, that's what
Speaker 1: you get. You get you a prime, get you somebody
Speaker 1: in their prime. You get you somebody who's in their
Speaker 1: prime because you know that, all right, they got some
Speaker 1: Kimber Walker. That's why i'mna puting my money on I'm
Speaker 1: gonna put my money on Kimba Walker before I put
Speaker 1: my money on Chris Paul so you're telling me putting
Speaker 1: money you meet somebody. We're talking about me and Mandy
Speaker 1: right here, we've both more than ten people. I think
Speaker 1: I can name you all tend you name my fucking multiploded.
Speaker 1: But you have women who are sitting here making over
Speaker 1: six figures, business owners, smart, intelligent and attractive. And so
Speaker 1: now six bodies, how do there's a problem. So now
Speaker 1: it's not a problem. But if you want to date me,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a problem. Why. It's just not what
Speaker 1: I'm wanting. It's literally just like, never wance at this part.
Speaker 1: I've never wanted. How many bodies have you had? Then?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's disgusting. And we're supposed to accept
Speaker 1: that as women though duality dualities. Your son is never
Speaker 1: out with the moon. The world is the world run?
Speaker 1: Oh it was that funny, Alex, you're cracking up over
Speaker 1: there was that funny. This is really not ship No,
Speaker 1: But when I when I when I, when I'm telling
Speaker 1: you this, it sounds funny. But when you think about it,
Speaker 1: this world is created in rant. The very fact that
Speaker 1: the axis of the Earth spins is based off of duality.
Speaker 1: Double standards have to exist for the world to not implode.
Speaker 1: It has to. It has to. You don't want no
Speaker 1: freely asked nigga, nigger. Your friends are gonna ask you,
Speaker 1: is he gay? I don't care. You're talking to the
Speaker 1: wrong bitches. Y'all. Y'all take a gay man, I would take.
Speaker 1: I would take about sexual man. It's like dating. You're
Speaker 1: going to marry a nigga? That okay? You are the exception.
Speaker 1: And I know there's you guys represent a larger number
Speaker 1: of people. I get that, But the bigger number of
Speaker 1: people in the United States are not funking with that. Women,
Speaker 1: especially in our culture. Ain't that's what this show is for,
Speaker 1: because I think that that mindset is. But you would
Speaker 1: be already sucked up. Bring you like you'd be surprised
Speaker 1: if you go to like the rest of these motherfucker's
Speaker 1: that I'm telling I'm not, I'm not. I'm not. Like. No, Now,
Speaker 1: you're really gonna sit here say, after listening to us
Speaker 1: and knowing that we're good fucking women, that someone shouldn't
Speaker 1: take us serious because I know I didn't say that
Speaker 1: that he would. There's a bigger the world. I know
Speaker 1: it's hard, but he's a large majority. No, No, it's not.
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's hard. It might be hard to accept,
Speaker 1: but mouse just might not be the one for you. Goddess.
Speaker 1: It's just personal. It's just I can't come and I
Speaker 1: will never. You never heard me once judge of woman
Speaker 1: for saying I got two kids, right, huh babysh technically woman, yes,
Speaker 1: different baby, but one woman raises them like my second,
Speaker 1: my second. I have cut you my oldest. So when
Speaker 1: I met my second baby mother, we had a relationship
Speaker 1: with Together they create a bond, and just because we
Speaker 1: broke up, I would be an idiot to split them
Speaker 1: up like that was literally, that's literally been her mother's
Speaker 1: from the age of three. To you get what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I was body run it up. No, but I'm so
Speaker 1: serious that you say whatever so that the masculine thing
Speaker 1: might not be the thing that turns your love. But
Speaker 1: there is something that you don't want your man. There's
Speaker 1: something that you do or that you view as feminine
Speaker 1: that you don't want your man doing. It will turn
Speaker 1: you off. I don't care what it is. Duality that
Speaker 1: is a double standard. There are certain things certain we
Speaker 1: don't even have to be sexual about it. There are
Speaker 1: certain personality traits, certain things that you will accept from
Speaker 1: a woman that you will not accept from a man.
Speaker 1: Will you will? You will say, because I'm a woman,
Speaker 1: I should be able to do this, because you're a man,
Speaker 1: and longer that the thing it's about to get. That's
Speaker 1: why you're walking like that. The pockets heavy, that's out
Speaker 1: loud because somebody uses as a pocket. Somebody pockets who
Speaker 1: walk like But I'm gonna keep it very real like
Speaker 1: this right, and it's gonna get very ugly. It's gonna
Speaker 1: be because I think there's a very ugly way to
Speaker 1: look at it. But I see the best reaction and
Speaker 1: understanding when I bring it down to this. I don't
Speaker 1: know you guys, what you've guys done, and you've been
Speaker 1: both been in serious relationships, right, has there been? Have
Speaker 1: you ever hit your nigga? No? Never, I'm not abusive.
Speaker 1: You've hit him. You've hit your nigga, bust them upside
Speaker 1: his fucking skull. But if he hits you, what would happen?
Speaker 1: You know what I want to I need to hear
Speaker 1: you verbalize that because it's very important what I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get here. So I don't need the story about you.
Speaker 1: I just need to know what happened. I don't need
Speaker 1: to know what How would you if he's getting locked up,
Speaker 1: he's getting locked up, the locked up because a woman
Speaker 1: could get locked up exactly, how would you view I
Speaker 1: don't care about the world because we're talking about we're
Speaker 1: talking about linear here, we're talking about one in two.
Speaker 1: How would you Wheezy view that nigga? But I never
Speaker 1: sat here to say to you. But I don't disbelieve
Speaker 1: in gender roles and assuming them sometimes, okay, And that's
Speaker 1: what this body count plays into. It's all a bigger
Speaker 1: the double standard. It's a double standard. It's gender roles.
Speaker 1: My woman can't have more bodies than me. I'll take
Speaker 1: a nigga with a thousand bodies. And we don't really
Speaker 1: care about body count. A lot of women do not,
Speaker 1: but men, for whatever, I don't care about. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: I don't actually understand the guy that said the city
Speaker 1: like niggas in my city more than I do. That's
Speaker 1: why I brought up. And I only feel like because
Speaker 1: I feel like when there's people issues with it, right,
Speaker 1: and it's like I hate it and I hate that,
Speaker 1: Like I guess I am somewhat participant in this urban
Speaker 1: form of patriarchy, because it's like there are so many
Speaker 1: things that would turn that turns me off about a woman, right,
Speaker 1: it's like fuck you. But like I'm just talking about
Speaker 1: like dating right because I'm at the point where I
Speaker 1: want to settle down. I want to find love and
Speaker 1: all that good stuff which I have. Um, so wait,
Speaker 1: you found love. That's not your girlfriend? We're dating? Do
Speaker 1: you say I love you think I hate so much?
Speaker 1: But we're dating? But no, no, but that's your girlfriend though,
Speaker 1: But it is, it is, it is a primary. But no, no,
Speaker 1: my husband, I don't don't. I don't have no other bitches.
Speaker 1: I don't have no other bitches. Why can't you call
Speaker 1: her your girlfriend? Because you know there's two of us,
Speaker 1: there's two people involved in and something. You don't want
Speaker 1: to call you her boyfriend. I think we are both
Speaker 1: a lie lying. Okay, you want to call it, call
Speaker 1: it right now. Let's do it right now. I want
Speaker 1: to know color, call it right now. We can cut
Speaker 1: it out. This is literally gonna take five minutes and
Speaker 1: then we're gonna we called her right now because the
Speaker 1: text's going, Okay, I can't wait, give me, but it's over.
Speaker 1: Why her number and says, right, she's supposed to have
Speaker 1: emojis at least know what? This is a brand you
Speaker 1: know what? Do look fresh? This is a brand new phone.
Speaker 1: Ain't even got a case. I'll let you Damn. She
Speaker 1: ain't picking up because I don't know. I'm not doing that.
Speaker 1: You better be dead in jail. Phone call one. Okay,
Speaker 1: he's called a real cow. Can we call her as
Speaker 1: a nickname? Because you know the sound like you make
Speaker 1: when you blue? Blue? Dude? Hello, what are you doing? Speaker? Huh?
Speaker 1: All right, well I need you to be up for
Speaker 1: a second. Alright, any five minutes of your time? All right.
Speaker 1: I'm here at the Horrible Decisions podcast and they trying
Speaker 1: can you hear him? How do? Dope? How are you?
Speaker 1: We're calling you dope do because we're trying to be
Speaker 1: um private with your name. But we're sitting here in
Speaker 1: mouse My name is easy, by the way, and Mandy's
Speaker 1: here and we're talking to him about dating and relationships
Speaker 1: and how you grow from dating to having a title.
Speaker 1: And he says he found love and that he he
Speaker 1: loves you, and he says that he does not use
Speaker 1: the title girlfriend and boyfriend. So me, I said, we
Speaker 1: are not right. We are not that right now. So
Speaker 1: me and many started, no, we're recording, Well we're not.
Speaker 1: We're recording. Yeah, so we said, well, why you ain't
Speaker 1: calling her your girlfriend? He's like, how do you know?
Speaker 1: She don't want that? So what we want to ask you, wo,
Speaker 1: mental woman. I'm coming to you as a woman's because
Speaker 1: we think he's a liar. So basically we're asking you,
Speaker 1: how come you haven't made that title dating? Because we're
Speaker 1: trying to help you win? What's that? I don't know
Speaker 1: you like that? Um so, um, I think we both
Speaker 1: but we came into this. We had a lot going
Speaker 1: on separately, and I came out of a very long
Speaker 1: topic relationships. Relationships kind of scare me, like that whole
Speaker 1: title thing. Um So it was just a decisions that
Speaker 1: I made where I decided like I don't, I didn't want.
Speaker 1: I don't. I mean I don't. Really we were together,
Speaker 1: really need a title you have? But you're saying you're
Speaker 1: saying you don't need it, but do you want? She
Speaker 1: said they used condoms about condoms. I didn't say that
Speaker 1: all the time, but you said you don't need it,
Speaker 1: but if you want? If you today, it was like
Speaker 1: I want you to be my girlfriend? Would you say, yeah,
Speaker 1: are you I'm I'm sorry, you know what I feel
Speaker 1: like y'all to y'all love to say it's okay, So
Speaker 1: it's not mouse okay. So some women may not want
Speaker 1: to tie the too. I didn't know. I never met
Speaker 1: a woman that didn't want to talk. I still feel
Speaker 1: like you didn't Well you didn't answer yet, would you
Speaker 1: have said yes? If you chick on your ass? Days
Speaker 1: are recently probably not made. We felt the ancient about
Speaker 1: the room. But he did. Thank you girl, Thank you dude. Dude,
Speaker 1: bleep bleep boo boo. I get off the phone. Done
Speaker 1: a right, all right, say goodbye? I love you, love you?
Speaker 1: Can we leave that? So? Okay? I think you want
Speaker 1: to be your girlfriend? And I believe like it's nothing
Speaker 1: that we're not saying we don't want a relationship. We're
Speaker 1: saying right now, we're dating and we're literally I think
Speaker 1: she's saying. I think she's saying that because when people
Speaker 1: say something that she don't like it her my favorite
Speaker 1: part today no, because he knows what then he just no, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no, she said, I'm like, oh, well, guys, um,
Speaker 1: I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. In this conversation,
Speaker 1: we clearly fuck talked about a whole lot. And I
Speaker 1: hope that you guys have these conversations with your people,
Speaker 1: like are you dating right now? Do you have a
Speaker 1: boyfriend girlfriend? Non boyfriend? Girlfriend's situation? Ship going on? What
Speaker 1: is going on? Have this conversation with your friends. Thank
Speaker 1: you now, Joe, find you, nigga? Where can they find you?
Speaker 1: They like you somewhere sucking up? But um, if not,
Speaker 1: you can find me Twitter, Instagram, Mouse Underscore Jones. Um,
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm on, I'm gonna bet got my
Speaker 1: own show on BT. I'll apologize later. He just had
Speaker 1: it's ont put us. What's up? We're already Actually we're
Speaker 1: already doing that, so just relaxed, ye down. Um, you know,
Speaker 1: shout out to season two. We just got signed to
Speaker 1: the season two, so there will be a season two. Um,
Speaker 1: so yeah, shout the show. Who's been on? Designer Mac
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Speaker 1: you with your finance. Thank you, you just find thats all.
Speaker 1: I just want to shout out her short too. But
Speaker 1: he's actually like six foot he's like you. It is,
Speaker 1: but he's an exception. Yeah Mac, what bro, that's my brother?
Speaker 1: Shut up? Um, yeah, don't catch no disease. But yeah,
Speaker 1: that's where you can find Yeah, that's where you can
Speaker 1: find the content. I'll apologize later and um the pull up.
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