WEBVTT - Ep67: Determining the Relationship(DTR) Feat Mouse Jones 0:00:00.120 --> 0:00:03.160 Determining the relationship these days is so hard. It could 0:00:03.160 --> 0:00:05.680 walk like a relationship, talk like a relationship, act like 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:08.840 a relationship, Smell like a relationship, look like a relationship, 0:00:08.920 --> 0:00:11.600 and he'd be like, We're not in a relationship. You're like, what, 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:14.520 so what is this? We're just showing were good? What's 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:31.040 you're worried about, Freddie when you are Alex Well? Actually, hi, guys, um, 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:33.320 if you heard all of the nonsense going on prior 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.959 to us saying welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions, 0:00:36.240 --> 0:00:40.040 it's because we have Mr Rowdy Hella late, always late, 0:00:40.360 --> 0:00:43.320 probably my bad. We got I bet you late, brilliant idiots. 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:47.600 Oh oh, anyway, y'all we got mouse Jones in the 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:51.879 MOTHERFUCKINGI ya heard, y'alla heard mouse Jones. Apparently he's doing 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.080 a press run. At the moment um, he had been 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:56.800 on every motherfucker's show you can possibly think of, and 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:58.480 so it would only be right that he came onto 0:00:58.520 --> 0:01:01.680 Horrible Decisions because we lit it took two years, but 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:06.080 it didn't. I'm talking a lot, so let me can't 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:08.760 Can I be real honest with you? And I'm gonna 0:01:08.800 --> 0:01:11.440 put him on Blast two? So a king was supposed 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:13.360 to be here, and do you know, and I wanted 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:16.320 you with Mac Wilds And do you know why I 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:19.840 wanted another guy here? Because I'm like, listen mouse with 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:22.960 his logic and how he thinks we need a man 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:26.479 with some common sense in the room. Is it? I'm 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:30.880 a balanced human being. You equated us being black and 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:34.720 white to Latina because we're in New York. That still 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:38.120 doesn't matter what no one else knew y'all was black 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:43.800 and white. Even he also agreed that you was spinished. 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:49.000 Black and white equal spinning. So real quick, since y'all see, 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:55.280 we got um. By the way, my name is Mandy 0:01:55.320 --> 0:02:00.360 getting hype because that delayed cotton. No, I do also 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.240 just want to let y'all know this motherfucker's equivalent to wax, 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:09.400 so just so I could read mad good yo, and 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.000 I know mad words. No wax don't know no words 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:15.760 whacks yo. By the way, I took a test the 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:17.560 other day that talks about how many words you know, 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:19.360 and they give you like a hundred words and you 0:02:19.400 --> 0:02:21.880 pick the ones you know, and from there they told 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:24.120 me I knew twenty eight thousand words, so I felt 0:02:24.160 --> 0:02:25.480 like I was great. I sent you to one of 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.120 my niggas. I'm like, what you guy, He's like thirty 0:02:27.120 --> 0:02:35.799 eight Ye, you could definitely yes. I don't know about that, 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:41.440 so if you I'll let you see she always offered 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:52.320 her there's no way off of a test words things. 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:54.760 I learned that. So before we get into the show 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:56.840 and the icebreaker and everything else with your with your 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:59.160 motherfucking asked, can you go ahead and let our audience, 0:02:59.160 --> 0:03:01.520 who may not know who the mouse Jones is, tell 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:05.120 them who the funk you are? Mouse Jones BT's resident 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:08.400 rebel rouser, the host of I'll Apologize later, the host 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.799 of Bats to pull up, host of he Man Will 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:14.959 made his club podcast sound claud of iTunes cash member 0:03:15.000 --> 0:03:19.200 on the grape Vine on YouTube. Um, I've done a 0:03:19.240 --> 0:03:23.400 ship ton of talking, had pizza. Shout out to Revolt, 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:27.880 shout out to MTV, shout goddamn, shout out all the networks. 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:32.400 But don't you driver was just lost? Is that why 0:03:32.440 --> 0:03:35.240 he took so long? I didn't get a driver. I'm 0:03:35.280 --> 0:03:37.640 still broke, all right, I'm gonna need all these networks 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:39.880 to kind of goddamn check the um. You know, I'm 0:03:39.920 --> 0:03:41.960 just I'm just somebody here for the culture. If you 0:03:42.000 --> 0:03:46.160 didn't know who Max Mouse was and you follow our Instagram. 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:49.760 He was the nigga that brought up to Ivy that 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:52.320 she was talking shit about the Spanish girl. Oh you 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:54.200 were talking about the Spanish girls? What? What the what 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:56.520 the what's they podcast? Oh? But lo ky you mad? 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:57.720 It took so long for you to get here. But 0:03:57.720 --> 0:03:59.840 now you don't know the podcast. Nigga, who don't know 0:03:59.880 --> 0:04:03.000 the podcast? What's the name? Any podcast? The Spanish Girls? 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.360 You did? I didn't say that? You did say? No, 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:09.280 I did not. Charlottagne said, who you're talking about? I said, 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:11.720 you gave you gave ship to them Spanish girls because 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:13.800 I wasn't trying to make it hot, but you didn 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:18.320 you didn't. You want to be honest. We're gonna be honest. 0:04:18.400 --> 0:04:20.520 The person started all that ship is right there. I 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:22.760 started all that ship. How do we pay? In the camera? 0:04:23.480 --> 0:04:29.919 I thought, no, go down? So no, Ni Alex started 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:32.000 all of that ship. So I was talking that ship before. 0:04:32.480 --> 0:04:34.360 I was talking that ship before the show even started. 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:36.479 Like because she because wax loving and she was like, 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:42.159 oh you're not gonna stay. I want to let everyone listen. Clearly, 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:44.480 I'm telling you she fell some type of way, but 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:47.599 me or we they have not done anything sexual with Wax, 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:50.520 So that's kind of like she was a little I 0:04:50.680 --> 0:04:52.560 just want to I don't hear like that. She just 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:58.880 wanted Wax to be in and when she so Alex 0:04:59.000 --> 0:05:03.000 was like everything. So Alex being the fucking consummate wrestling promoter, 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:06.359 he was like he text my phone while we're recording, 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:10.279 like damn, give her shit about the horrible decisions. So 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:15.640 I'm like, say, that's what I did. To be fair, 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:17.960 I don't want to talk too much of it because 0:05:18.000 --> 0:05:21.280 I would like the Ivy, I really would. I think 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:24.560 I was cute. I hit. I don't know. Let's see 0:05:24.560 --> 0:05:27.000 how any words you know first, But honestly, I like 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:30.560 girls that like kind of like play that. Yeah, yeah, 0:05:30.600 --> 0:05:33.480 Ivy is and it's not fake, Like that's really I 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:37.000 I'm not saying it is fakew and I like that 0:05:37.040 --> 0:05:39.720 little like I don't. I don't. I don't. The voice 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:41.360 that don't really talk got you, all right, So we 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:44.000 can go ahead and get into the ice break Girl 0:05:44.040 --> 0:05:46.479 for the episode. So we don't ask you the question 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:48.840 that we ask all niggas, because well, we just wanted out. 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:52.760 So would you rather look ask or licktoes look as 0:05:53.960 --> 0:05:55.960 is that? So no one really likes feed like that? 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:59.680 So I guess we all just talk BuzzFeed buzz feed 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:01.080 quick us the other day and they said, like to 0:06:01.080 --> 0:06:03.040 show how kinky worse, every time you click something, it 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.440 will show you what people voted. And when I clicked 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.680 no one feet only of people said that they were 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:11.840 to feed and that really, but to be fair, one 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.680 out of ten is kind of high. That's why we 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:15.839 maybe see so much foot ship. I ain't gonna hold you, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:18.440 I like, if you're my girl, I ain't even gonna 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:20.280 hold you, like if I funk with you in any 0:06:20.360 --> 0:06:23.520 kind of way. I like, in an intimate setting you 0:06:23.560 --> 0:06:24.880 have a hard day, I might rub your feet, like 0:06:24.920 --> 0:06:26.480 if your feet done or whatever I might rub. I 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:28.120 might rub your feet, but I'm not putting my mouth 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:31.839 on your feet. You might get then out of disgusting 0:06:31.920 --> 0:06:36.280 I aint when talking about like like I don't want 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.400 to see something. I remember a girl trying to put 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:40.920 her toe in my mouth, like you didn't discuss this, 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:45.479 like why is your foot in? She put her touch 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:47.720 your and what did you do? You just swatted the 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:49.840 funk out of her foot, like or did you put 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:51.960 it in your mouth, you put it in your now 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:55.800 my whole month, but you grabbed on my teeth. You 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:59.920 grabbed and told her don't put your gun. Yeah, like 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:07.479 ad bit it hard and she jerked back. So I 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:09.520 wanted to ask you this next question because it's gonna 0:07:09.520 --> 0:07:11.320 go into what the funk I think you are. So 0:07:11.360 --> 0:07:15.600 I want to ask you love or money? Love. I've 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:17.840 been broke all my life, so I asked this because 0:07:17.840 --> 0:07:19.880 he has been broke all his life. Guys, and I 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:22.440 referred to him as a hobo sexual. I refer to 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:27.600 me as he is a homosexual. So we want to 0:07:27.640 --> 0:07:30.280 define a hobosexual because it's not a real word, but 0:07:31.120 --> 0:07:32.720 right now in the culture, it is a real world. 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:37.960 Oh real word. So hobo sexually hobo, Yeah, hobo not 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:42.480 not holmost love. I love my brothers and sisters, you know, 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:47.080 shout out happy pride and all that happy pride. Gott 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:50.240 we eat. So a hobosexual is a broke man who 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:56.840 praise on women for money, shelter and perks. I mean, 0:07:56.840 --> 0:08:00.760 I thought that was the word, because you know words. 0:08:00.920 --> 0:08:04.400 P r e y s. Let me taste, Let me 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:07.320 take the left lip. Let me taste the left lip. 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.520 I brought this up, guys because I was listening to 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:15.120 The Man Woman Haters Club. This was probably two seasons ago. 0:08:15.160 --> 0:08:17.120 This was a while seasons. I don't know, but it 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:21.360 was a while ago. Yeah, but you'll be taking a 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:26.480 little breaks sometimes to me, because you've been taking breaks 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:29.000 and you come back and then it just we record 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:30.640 a lot, you know what I'm saying. Like we've been, 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:33.400 especially since I started it, like we just record record. 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:36.760 Like the first year that was literally every week, no breaks. 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:39.120 And then when I started that, when I was working 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:41.800 at TRL, that's when we took like the little a 0:08:41.840 --> 0:08:44.960 month break just just so I could like focus on 0:08:45.360 --> 0:08:48.280 work and like get that situated and then be able 0:08:48.320 --> 0:08:50.600 to fund all that back into the podcast. Okay, So 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:53.520 one of the stories that you had on your show, 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.920 and what prompted me to bringing this up, um, is 0:08:56.920 --> 0:08:59.320 that you mentioned stealing money out of the purse of 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:02.400 a It wasn't at her person want to kitchen table. 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:10.160 So I would never go inside a woman's purpose the 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:12.760 hierarchy of prime. Oh, I would never scam. But I'll 0:09:12.800 --> 0:09:15.760 tell weird yo. Yes there is a hierarchy of crime, 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:20.280 not a hierarchy to home. Yes there is, Okay, actually 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:24.280 we mentioned the hierarchy of we have, but there shouldn't 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:27.200 be the real quick did this woman after you stole 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:29.040 the money off her kitchen encounter? Did she let you 0:09:29.080 --> 0:09:33.840 funk again? Like he laughed. So did you get caught? 0:09:33.880 --> 0:09:37.120 How did you get caught? It? So this was her 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:41.640 grocery money, This is her grocery buddy, Brian kiss, Oh 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:47.280 my god, you can't even hello. You ain't no. This 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:51.719 was also two fifteen. I was a different person. I'm 0:09:51.760 --> 0:09:53.880 not even the same person I was last week alone 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:58.439 to change, let's hear it. Share the story, share the story, 0:09:59.640 --> 0:10:02.160 all right. So this girl has been like on me 0:10:02.240 --> 0:10:07.640 since like I want to say, eleventh grade, like I'm 0:10:07.640 --> 0:10:09.440 from Long Island, Like I know everybody thinking I from 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:11.760 I'm from Long Island. I just fun with Brooklyn heavy, 0:10:12.640 --> 0:10:15.960 so on, so on Long Island. Like if you you 0:10:16.080 --> 0:10:18.840 ust see everybody you went to school with, like pretty much, 0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:22.240 it's it's a bourbon town. So I kept seeing the 0:10:22.280 --> 0:10:25.679 girl and I would curve a and um, I would 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.920 curve a in high school like just be like, oh 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:31.960 you're a whole, Like just leave me alone, like just 0:10:32.000 --> 0:10:33.640 leave me alone. Like high school I was big, like 0:10:33.679 --> 0:10:35.760 I don't. I didn't want to ruin any like holes 0:10:35.800 --> 0:10:38.800 were already holds. I want to like ruin, want to 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:41.160 ruin your dick status. Yeah, you know what I actually 0:10:41.200 --> 0:10:44.079 feel you. That's why I want to you feel exactly. 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:47.760 This is what I'm saying. You gotta put you gotta 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:50.200 put the ink in the water. Don't bring me an 0:10:50.200 --> 0:10:54.000 inkfield you feel me. And so so I would curve 0:10:54.040 --> 0:10:57.240 all through high school whatever, like man of fact. I remember, 0:10:57.280 --> 0:11:00.560 like I remember we had sidekicks. This since I might 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:03.679 be dating myself, we have we had sidekicks. And like 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:06.480 everybody would be in the AIM group chats in the 0:11:06.480 --> 0:11:09.439 AIM chat room, they go across schools. Right. She was 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:12.599 working something in another town and her nudes hit the 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:15.640 chat room and then everybody was like, Yo, did you 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:18.720 fuck Melsei? And I was like, bitch, better say no, 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:21.760 don't don't bit bit said no. I was like, shed 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:23.760 the damn. You gotta tell the truth when your vagina. 0:11:24.000 --> 0:11:28.640 So after two fifteen, um, she hits me up randomly 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.280 as I get off the train, and she lives like 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:32.920 right down the street from the train station. So she 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:35.200 was like, yo, come through and I'm like, it's like 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:37.679 one o'clock in the morning, Like, fuck it, I fun 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:41.960 this bitch. So I go over there and see the bitch. Like, 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.040 I'm like, okay, Shna look too bad after high school? 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:48.200 Like she didn't fall off. Like she didn't fall off. Yeah, 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:51.080 that's a fact. She looked. She looked just as decent 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:53.080 as she looked at high school. So I'm like, okay, 0:11:53.280 --> 0:11:58.880 Like everybody has a sandwich sometimes, um, like you get 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:01.880 what I'm saying, Like everybody has had a turkey sandwich before. 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:05.840 Good let's say like balogney or something. I don't eat pork, 0:12:05.920 --> 0:12:08.520 but sure, okay with that, let's do that. Everybody's had 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:11.840 a blogne everybody's had a grilled cheese. She was grilled cheese. 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:14.280 It's like, you know, you could finesse, you could put 0:12:14.280 --> 0:12:16.360 a little pepperrik on it, but at then they're still 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.480 a grilled cheese. So I'm like, so I walk in 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:22.480 down mind you I'm just getting I'm not even know 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.520 I'm still in the streets, matter of fact. So like 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:29.320 my mind works as it works, So as soon as 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:32.000 I walk in the spot, I start seeing everything. You know, 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:34.360 on Long Island. You know, if you're rint in the house, 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:36.520 everybody knows the rented house on Long Island, because soon 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:39.000 as you walk in, you in the kitchen. So as 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:40.960 soon as I walk in, I see the kitchen table, 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:46.720 I see I see eight twenties. How many you take 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:53.960 out the eight? So first I've seen it and I'm like, boom, 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:58.240 got it. We go in the back room. We start, 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:00.880 you know, fiddling around, and I like, yo, it's your 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:03.040 bathroom mat because in my mind, I'm like, I'm gonna 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:05.640 get this money for get a bad So I went 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:08.000 to the bathroom. So I went to the bathroom, showing 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:10.080 me the bathrooms, went right to that kitchen. I took three. 0:13:10.440 --> 0:13:11.760 I took no, I might took me more than that, 0:13:12.400 --> 0:13:16.400 you know, I took three twenties. I took three eight 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:18.760 took three of them put in my pocket, like I'm 0:13:18.840 --> 0:13:23.640 good going there. Fucker, that ship was trash. It was 0:13:23.720 --> 0:13:26.240 like it was like sucking a tire. It was just 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:30.120 so like it was the It's literally I don't believe 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:33.080 in bad sex, but that was bad sex, like like 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:39.280 she was just like floundering, like too much noise. I'm like, bitch, 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.920 come on, like I didn't even know, like I did. 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:44.760 The Charlie Horse Sholl like like just to get it 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:46.920 off of me or whatever I did I promise you 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:48.600 And I was like, yeah, what the funk? I'm like, 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.319 So she's like I think it's because he was thinking 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:53.960 about the twenties. It wasn't like you might have been. 0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:56.120 My thing is if she had a hundred and six, 0:13:57.000 --> 0:14:01.280 Like I'm a fucking notice if it gets I don't know, Okay, 0:14:01.320 --> 0:14:06.439 So after after after, after she gives me that terrible 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:08.720 um asked, I'm like, I'm taking the rest of the bread, 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:12.000 like this is that's your payment? Like you like, that's 0:14:12.040 --> 0:14:13.600 your payment. That's the least you can do is pay 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:16.360 me for this. So we're laying there and you know, 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:18.280 it really made me he want to take it because 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:20.400 we're laying there, She's laying next to me talking ship 0:14:20.560 --> 0:14:23.760 like you could have had this in high school, bitch. 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:26.520 You would not have ruined my high school experience like 0:14:26.600 --> 0:14:29.240 I was getting mad good section high school. This would 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:31.680 have ruined it. Like so no, like she was talking 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:33.400 cash it like she sucked the ship out of me, 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:36.200 and I'm like, if only you knew there's so much 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:38.480 Maybe Charlie horse game was good. Let me see it though, 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:43.840 It's like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, like I 0:14:43.880 --> 0:14:46.760 gave it the full all right. So it's like if 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:48.920 so she was on top, so I grabbed a butt 0:14:49.000 --> 0:14:51.800 or whatever, grabbed a little butt, grabbed it like real 0:14:51.800 --> 0:14:59.000 tier like and she was like, that's how nigga's fake. Come. 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.400 I don't know about because I know about me. Like 0:15:01.400 --> 0:15:04.360 you want to say I'm going to come, No, I said, 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:07.680 I say right there. I say right there, right right there, 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:09.520 right right there, right there, like if I really come, 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:11.720 I don't say ship like I come smoothing in the 0:15:11.800 --> 0:15:15.720 mom Like do you say something everybody in the house 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:18.000 knows I'm coming in the neighbor No. I mean cool, 0:15:18.040 --> 0:15:22.440 I appreciate that, but you tell me you don't tell No, 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:28.200 I don't have my niggas to tell me they're gonna Yeah. 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:29.960 I mean she was like she was talking like she 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:34.280 was at all the time, like I'm like, bro, I 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.120 ain't alive like that. I'm wanting to know. I need 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:41.440 the announcement like you don't know, especially like you of 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:43.080 course you know, but I don't know when you're taughting 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:44.680 to come. Like that was our first time. I was 0:15:44.720 --> 0:15:47.560 like and she was talking it, so I was like, yeah, 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:50.680 let me I gotta get back. She must not have 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:52.760 walked you out. No, she didn't. She was like, she 0:15:52.840 --> 0:15:55.520 lets you see yourself out and you snatched up the 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:58.040 rest of that ship. She didn't hit me to like 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:04.160 months later and she so I get a hit up. 0:16:04.200 --> 0:16:05.640 How old is the kid? Maybe she's not the kids 0:16:05.640 --> 0:16:08.520 saw it at the time. She's got fifteen. I think 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:11.040 her kids around my kids age, so it's like maybe 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:14.080 four or five. And so I just like I said, 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:15.960 I left at it, took that ship. I was like, yo, 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:19.360 I'm locking the door, locked the bottom lock, and I was. 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:23.040 I didn't hear nothing from her. She hits me the 0:16:23.120 --> 0:16:26.040 same week that Cutty and Til come on my podcast. 0:16:26.080 --> 0:16:28.480 She hits me that day before, like, let me ask 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:30.680 you something. I'm like, what's up? Did you know what 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:33.040 it was? Yeah? I know exactly what time doing? And 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:34.640 a bit trying to get me, she like, did you 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:38.480 still like I had two addressed it? Did you still 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:43.400 no bit I stole? I didn't steal that muchcause that 0:16:43.400 --> 0:16:46.680 as much wasn't there. And maybe she had another neig 0:16:46.880 --> 0:16:50.320 and he took before me or whatever, But I know 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.960 I took what I took. Did you admit to it? Yeah, 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.120 that's the fact. Did you send it back? No? She 0:16:56.280 --> 0:16:57.880 was like, how could you do that? That was my 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:00.200 kid's money. I think she's had like a baby. I'll 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:04.600 get it for like the electricity, like the dog you go. 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:10.200 I can't wait on you. They didn't give it back 0:17:10.280 --> 0:17:12.320 after you admit it dealing it. I'm not pussy. No, 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:16.280 I told her. I told her sex like she talked, 0:17:16.280 --> 0:17:18.760 talk like she was talking, talking like you'll send your nigga, 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:23.000 send your nigga, come get it. I can't. I can't. 0:17:23.000 --> 0:17:24.920 So ladies don't have a deal with a nigga like mouth. 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:28.119 Don't give me whack pussy, bro. I can't even say 0:17:28.160 --> 0:17:31.359 you took it before you got the pussy you did took. 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:38.840 I took a deposit. You gotta put half, you know what. 0:17:38.880 --> 0:17:41.280 I'm so annoyed with you right now. I want my mother. 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:44.040 If the pussy wasn't trashed, I probably have put back twentys. Oh, 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:48.000 you would have only took forty exactly, aren't you generous? Listen? 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.440 I've heard too many times women talking about the least 0:17:51.440 --> 0:17:53.119 you can do if I give you my pussy, the 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:56.359 least you're goold dude and pay for my but to 0:17:56.520 --> 0:17:58.360 be fair. I used to work with this drug dealer 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:00.360 that had like hundreds and twenties in his all right, 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:03.159 just take a little bit. So I always used to 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:05.320 take a little bit. And look at one time I 0:18:05.359 --> 0:18:08.040 took some money and then about to he sucked the 0:18:08.040 --> 0:18:09.520 ship out of me. And then after we fucked tol 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:11.040 him he was gonna take me shop and I was like, damn, 0:18:11.040 --> 0:18:13.720 I'm gonna go put this bag. I felt so bad. 0:18:14.200 --> 0:18:15.760 I was like, how could I take it that that he 0:18:15.840 --> 0:18:19.080 gave me that bomb? Dick shut up to him, like, yeah, no, 0:18:19.320 --> 0:18:22.440 I'm I'm pretty trifling. But I never stole from Oh well, 0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:24.560 but you never fu drug dealers though, I don't care. 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:29.359 I don't like drug dealing. Drug dealers money. Ask for 0:18:29.400 --> 0:18:35.159 you to take drug dealer pussy mad drug dealer pussy Yeah, okay, 0:18:36.040 --> 0:18:41.680 I don't know about see I don't. They can't put 0:18:41.720 --> 0:18:43.640 their money anywhere. They have to get rid of it. 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:46.679 Mine as well give it to a college student at 0:18:46.720 --> 0:18:48.760 the time. I mean, but so do athletes, so I'll 0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:52.320 stick with them. I would not guess that a fucking 0:18:52.400 --> 0:18:54.800 athlete would have Oh they do. They have money, like 0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:58.520 they have money laying around, but like drug dealer money 0:18:58.600 --> 0:19:03.879 is ruth. I ain't not basketball play women another trash person. 0:19:04.520 --> 0:19:08.359 Um that I want to bring up, Well, yeah you 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:12.919 were a little thing. My nigga maybe had kids, but 0:19:12.920 --> 0:19:17.439 but whatever. Alright, UM, So I want to say how 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:19.879 ironic this is because me and Mandy have been on 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:22.800 air arguing back and forth and tussling about the Instagram 0:19:22.800 --> 0:19:24.760 model thing. But I want to say I would never 0:19:24.840 --> 0:19:27.560 shame sex work, and I was very shocked that a 0:19:27.600 --> 0:19:30.600 woman that we claim to all love could do something 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:33.440 like this to other women women. Excuse me, read a 0:19:33.520 --> 0:19:39.520 quote then, So Nicki Minaj did. Nicki Minaj did an 0:19:39.560 --> 0:19:43.480 interview with um L magazine, and this is a full 0:19:43.560 --> 0:19:48.240 quote where she defends her sexual image. Maybe I was naive, 0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.480 but I didn't realize how many girls were modern day prostitutes, 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:54.320 whether you're a stripper or whether you're an Instagram girl. 0:19:54.400 --> 0:19:56.640 These girls are so beautiful and they have so much 0:19:56.680 --> 0:19:58.840 to offer. But I started finding out that you give 0:19:58.920 --> 0:20:00.879 them a couple of thousand dollars and you can have 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:03.080 sex with them. It makes me sad as a woman, 0:20:03.280 --> 0:20:05.359 and it makes me sad that I've contributed to that 0:20:05.400 --> 0:20:09.840 in a way. You fucking cunt let's start with the facts. 0:20:10.600 --> 0:20:15.199 Sex work could also include you popping your pussy on 0:20:15.240 --> 0:20:21.399 your album cover too, because let's just say, let me 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:25.359 just finish for a second. Sex work in a broad way, right, 0:20:25.560 --> 0:20:29.040 could be you, I don't know, maybe doing the cry 0:20:29.080 --> 0:20:31.600 baby ship in your condo video. You were shaking that 0:20:31.640 --> 0:20:34.439 ass on camera. You for some reason felt like it 0:20:34.480 --> 0:20:38.120 was perfectly okay to show us everything but your pussy hair. 0:20:38.960 --> 0:20:40.880 But then you want to ship on other fucking women 0:20:40.960 --> 0:20:44.639 on Instagram who are not millionaire rappers that are fucking 0:20:44.640 --> 0:20:47.320 making their own money. This blows my mind. The only 0:20:47.359 --> 0:20:49.439 thing that I think is bullshit is women that hide it. 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:51.680 And that's why I'm really mad at you, so hide 0:20:51.760 --> 0:20:54.440 like you wait to suck out my nigga. How can 0:20:54.440 --> 0:20:56.639 you really ship on someone when you're sitting at the 0:20:56.640 --> 0:20:58.640 top of millions of dollars when they need to fucking 0:20:58.680 --> 0:21:01.880 feed themselves. How can you fucking shot on anybody that's 0:21:01.920 --> 0:21:04.960 doing work. Why is sex work diminished when it's not 0:21:05.800 --> 0:21:07.840 in your lane? You know what I'm saying. Let's say 0:21:07.840 --> 0:21:09.439 that we all had to be there where we had 0:21:09.480 --> 0:21:11.119 to get money. How can you really shoot on the 0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:13.640 fucking escort? How can you not think that someone's gonna 0:21:13.640 --> 0:21:15.879 shoot on you for being a fucking how are you all, um? 0:21:15.960 --> 0:21:19.760 Cover you do the same thing. You're just too big 0:21:19.800 --> 0:21:22.560 to do this now, but let us I'm telling you, 0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:25.400 I'll be willing to bet money before Nicky popped off. 0:21:25.480 --> 0:21:27.320 She sucked with niggas for money. I don't care if 0:21:27.320 --> 0:21:30.480 they ever don't even get her. I'm sure I don't 0:21:31.800 --> 0:21:35.280 know whether you fucking fut time. I'm sure whether you 0:21:35.280 --> 0:21:37.840 did whatever you had to do that was the shittiest 0:21:37.880 --> 0:21:40.160 thing you could have done. And I am not mad 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:42.600 at all that I've fucking decided to leave your ask 0:21:42.640 --> 0:21:48.560 for Cardi b because let me tell you something, because 0:21:48.600 --> 0:21:50.480 I really didn't like how she was treating Cardi. But 0:21:51.080 --> 0:21:54.120 up with this because Cardia. One thing that someone said 0:21:54.119 --> 0:21:55.640 to me, and I remember who said it, but they said. 0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:57.359 The thing that makes it so easy to listen to 0:21:57.400 --> 0:21:59.560 Cardi more than Nikki and this little feud is a 0:21:59.680 --> 0:22:03.240 car d gets really excited about women. She makes you 0:22:03.280 --> 0:22:05.080 feel included, she makes you want to have a good time, 0:22:05.280 --> 0:22:07.119 and she feels like she has this girlpotter thing. And 0:22:07.160 --> 0:22:09.280 when you listen to Nikki, she's telling you what you 0:22:09.320 --> 0:22:11.520 don't got. I got this. I got that. I'm this 0:22:11.560 --> 0:22:13.600 bitch blah blah blah, and bitch, let me tell you 0:22:13.640 --> 0:22:15.800 something was a fucking hole and you look like a 0:22:15.800 --> 0:22:18.000 hole on every video you do. You look like a 0:22:18.040 --> 0:22:20.159 hole on Instagram. You look like all No matter what 0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:22.200 you just told us, I've never been a single bitch. 0:22:22.200 --> 0:22:23.800 We were still calling you home with the knicks because 0:22:23.840 --> 0:22:25.880 you look like one if you want to really go there. 0:22:26.160 --> 0:22:29.080 I just cannot believe she did that. You already are 0:22:29.119 --> 0:22:32.639 taking ells every day and then you want alienate the 0:22:32.680 --> 0:22:35.840 bitches on Instagram that like dance to your videos. You're 0:22:35.840 --> 0:22:38.919 a fucking dumbass. Like I don't understand. It's like she 0:22:39.000 --> 0:22:41.439 wants to dig her own grave. I almost feel like 0:22:41.520 --> 0:22:44.560 she must have stock and Cardi b because she consistently 0:22:44.600 --> 0:22:48.800 is taking els over and over and over. I just 0:22:48.840 --> 0:22:52.479 don't get it. Yeah, no, I've actually for once agree 0:22:52.520 --> 0:22:55.199 with on this, Like how could I just think at 0:22:55.200 --> 0:22:56.639 your dad? You know, I think that has to do 0:22:56.680 --> 0:23:00.399 with the whole hierarchy, like what she does. I have 0:23:00.520 --> 0:23:03.320 no saying this, like like I literally don't have this. 0:23:03.520 --> 0:23:05.600 Like whatever y'all do, what your agency is, what you 0:23:05.720 --> 0:23:07.399 choose to do it. And now if you choose to 0:23:07.480 --> 0:23:10.280 you know, profit off of it. Um, I damn that, 0:23:10.400 --> 0:23:14.080 say go ahead, because one thing about it I watched 0:23:14.160 --> 0:23:18.480 men do UH do this dickheadship with will judge women? Right, 0:23:18.520 --> 0:23:20.920 We'll judge women for being holes and kind of like 0:23:21.000 --> 0:23:23.600 Nikki did, right, So we have the type of um 0:23:23.760 --> 0:23:27.639 urban patriarchy where will judge women for you know, being holes, 0:23:27.760 --> 0:23:30.280 and judge women for making money or if their sexuality 0:23:30.320 --> 0:23:33.720 and think of that nature. But we also will judge 0:23:33.760 --> 0:23:37.199 them or or ridicule them if they are just to 0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:40.920 be taken care of, not squire, but if they want 0:23:40.960 --> 0:23:44.040 us to take care of them, we'll also judge them. 0:23:44.080 --> 0:23:45.520 But you can't be a stripper and beyond the pole. 0:23:45.600 --> 0:23:47.040 But you also can't ask me for money, but you 0:23:47.040 --> 0:23:49.840 also can so if so, if you are making money, 0:23:50.359 --> 0:23:53.160 who the fucking mind? And I think it plays all 0:23:53.240 --> 0:23:55.840 into I think it all plays into the way we 0:23:55.920 --> 0:23:58.960 view women as they're just supposed to be consumed, right 0:23:59.280 --> 0:24:02.280 and I don't. I don't. So so it's like we're 0:24:02.400 --> 0:24:07.080 judging every woman as if they are our women, right, 0:24:08.080 --> 0:24:11.200 and that's not fair, which I think what what type 0:24:11.200 --> 0:24:15.760 of what UH separated me from like the rest of 0:24:15.880 --> 0:24:18.760 the rhetoric that you might see on Twitter, like from 0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:20.760 people that might try and speak like me or whatever. 0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:23.399 I think what separated me to the fans was I 0:24:23.480 --> 0:24:26.359 make it very clear, like if I'm discussing something or 0:24:26.520 --> 0:24:29.920 dislike about a woman, I'm specifically talking about a woman 0:24:30.000 --> 0:24:32.280 I want to date. If I don't want to date you, 0:24:32.720 --> 0:24:36.000 I'm not going to attempt to push my narrative or 0:24:37.040 --> 0:24:39.720 stand Okay, you have a quote unquote standard for what 0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:42.440 you want and whatever the other women do. I mean, 0:24:43.880 --> 0:24:45.679 it's kind of shaming saying I wouldn't be with you 0:24:45.720 --> 0:24:47.720 if you had. I didn't even say that. I didn't 0:24:47.720 --> 0:24:49.919 even go as far to say, as long as you 0:24:49.960 --> 0:24:52.639 don't do that and you're now now, is that what 0:24:52.760 --> 0:24:55.720 I want? Like that, if you ask me the perfect woman, 0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:58.720 am I going to build that woman? No? Probably not. 0:24:58.880 --> 0:25:03.920 But I'm also a human being realized that everybody lives life, 0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:06.239 like by the time you meet me, I don't know 0:25:06.280 --> 0:25:08.480 what got you here, right, I don't know how you 0:25:08.560 --> 0:25:10.960 got here, Like talk to me at least someone the 0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:13.760 other day, Like if I lost my job today, I 0:25:13.840 --> 0:25:15.399 just got this new apartment and I really love it, 0:25:15.440 --> 0:25:17.560 and I keep having these thank you I keep having 0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:19.359 these day dreams that I'm gonna lose my job and 0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:21.080 lose it all, And I think, what would I do 0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:27.359 if that really happened? Right so that pussy, I would 0:25:27.440 --> 0:25:31.119 sell my pussy before I would strip, only because I 0:25:31.160 --> 0:25:33.160 think that. I feel like stripping is a lot harder 0:25:33.160 --> 0:25:36.919 at work. I agree. And you're white and black and 0:25:37.080 --> 0:25:40.200 white and black, so you don't have no rhythm. White 0:25:40.240 --> 0:25:42.199 and black girls don't ever have really both of your 0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:43.520 clap on the one in the three. I know for 0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:47.720 a fact, I know for a fact. Hold on. First 0:25:47.720 --> 0:25:49.840 of all, I'm the one with the black mom. Do 0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:52.639 this to Mandy h No, I'm the one with the ass, 0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:56.600 so I can make my ass because I can do it. 0:25:57.480 --> 0:26:00.160 I can tick talk and all that ship not on beat. 0:26:00.200 --> 0:26:02.080 And she used to headtop. She used a pussy pop 0:26:02.320 --> 0:26:08.879 in the Jamaican cloth. Do you want to read that? 0:26:09.160 --> 0:26:11.120 The reason I'm about the strip? Though, stripping is hard work, 0:26:12.160 --> 0:26:14.280 hard work. You have to put investment in outfits and 0:26:14.280 --> 0:26:16.359 ship like that. You tell me all, it's kind of 0:26:16.359 --> 0:26:19.399 like vector knives. It's like, if you remember, if you 0:26:20.040 --> 0:26:21.560 in New York, they used to do this thing with 0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:24.400 like you to apply for a job in his place 0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:26.600 called vector. Right, so you'd get gassed and they'll call 0:26:26.640 --> 0:26:28.240 you back for an interview and you're like all right, 0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:30.399 and you'll get real dressed up and they'll be talking 0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:32.399 ship in the in the interview, like you can make 0:26:32.440 --> 0:26:34.919 this amount of mine, this amount of money, what are 0:26:34.960 --> 0:26:37.480 we doing? It ain't even a course. And it's a knife, 0:26:37.760 --> 0:26:40.200 Like you have to go door to door selling knives, 0:26:40.240 --> 0:26:44.000 but you gotta buy the knife. What you gotta buy 0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:46.239 the knife? So that's what that's just the pymis came 0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:48.000 like her like okay, so this was the response. But 0:26:48.080 --> 0:26:53.280 that's so so stupid. Someone names your own trement. Dear 0:26:53.320 --> 0:26:56.560 Minicki minaj, your lyrics are hypocritical. You went over to 0:26:56.640 --> 0:26:58.960 l magazine to slect shame certain types of women. Because 0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:02.160 that wasn't your quote. Augedly, people need to stop trying 0:27:02.240 --> 0:27:04.639 to dictate and police women in their bodies. If you 0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:07.720 can't help, don't hurt, right, She wrote bank and said, 0:27:07.880 --> 0:27:10.600 suck my dick, asshole. Had you read the article. I 0:27:10.640 --> 0:27:12.720 was critiquing myself more than anything, and what I said 0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:15.280 was I hope my overt sexual lyrics and photos don't 0:27:15.320 --> 0:27:17.440 make my fans think I'm telling them to be promiscuous 0:27:17.440 --> 0:27:20.040 and to know they're worth lyrics, photos and fucking are 0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:24.560 three different things. Um. What I don't like about that, though, 0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:32.200 is saying that fucking for money is bad. It's not. 0:27:32.560 --> 0:27:37.520 But this is the thing. Sex work is work. No, 0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:43.959 what do we okay, okay, what do we considering like 0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:48.040 you're doing? You're leaving a payment for Have you ever 0:27:48.040 --> 0:27:52.040 paid for bussy? Um? Not outright sole from the bitch 0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:56.960 And that was a dumps. Yeah, yeah, I'll leave the 0:27:56.960 --> 0:28:00.719 cab running if you know, I'm alright, not listen. I 0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:03.159 have faith for pussy with somebody I was with, and 0:28:03.200 --> 0:28:06.800 this girl was very professional. She was beautiful, she made 0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:09.560 sure she was safe, she brought condoms like she talked 0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:11.840 about this. She felt like I was sucking a professional 0:28:11.920 --> 0:28:14.000 like there was a professional I don't want because I 0:28:14.000 --> 0:28:16.520 don't think I got professional dick. Okay, so I don't. 0:28:16.560 --> 0:28:19.720 I don't, Well, you don't have to because you I'm 0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:21.399 saying I don't have professional dicks. So I don't want 0:28:21.440 --> 0:28:24.440 a professional pussy like you don't want to come on 0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:31.800 like a rapper. She looked like like one of the 0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:34.119 Instagram models she's talking about. And you know what happened 0:28:34.160 --> 0:28:36.920 to we will be saying that same ship about you. Yeah, 0:28:36.920 --> 0:28:38.840 well here go to the thing though a lot of you, 0:28:39.480 --> 0:28:41.880 a lot of those Instagram girls don't be fucking yo. 0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:44.560 Like I got a lot of homegirls. They got the 0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:48.960 cave and they got the flat, tim d. It's hard 0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:53.840 to fuck. That's why my friends not drop. You know, 0:28:54.200 --> 0:28:59.960 they're not fucking y'all might have just like you might have. 0:29:00.000 --> 0:29:05.080 The dog that went really hard was not giving them 0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:12.640 are you talking about? And my thing also with the 0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:16.120 sex workship is if it puts a one, is their rebate? 0:29:16.360 --> 0:29:21.120 Is their refunds? What is them? So there's actually yeah, 0:29:23.960 --> 0:29:27.120 well I'm not going to ruin everybody. Also review customers. 0:29:27.120 --> 0:29:28.880 And the reason that there's a big deal that um 0:29:29.000 --> 0:29:31.680 sex work is trying to be like decriminalized. They're taking 0:29:31.720 --> 0:29:34.120 like sites like this away, but it's keeping the girls unsafe. 0:29:34.360 --> 0:29:36.120 So where is a dude may of like assaulted a 0:29:36.120 --> 0:29:38.200 woman or something like that or stolen from them, she 0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:42.840 can report you didn't have to do that. But like 0:29:42.920 --> 0:29:45.120 let's say that they like fucking took all their money 0:29:45.320 --> 0:29:48.600 and left these girls or whatever, like did something yeah, 0:29:49.440 --> 0:29:51.400 which a lot of men have done, is they'll set 0:29:51.440 --> 0:29:54.480 the escorts up. They can go on that site and 0:29:54.480 --> 0:29:56.240 show there be able to get robbed at the time. 0:29:56.280 --> 0:30:00.520 We don't feel bad for them. Well they not. Pussy 0:30:00.520 --> 0:30:03.040 dealer is getting pussy deal is getting robbed as a 0:30:03.080 --> 0:30:06.360 part of the game. We're all criminals here. If I'm 0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:09.200 buying the pussy, I'm a criminal. If you're selling the 0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:13.440 pussy a criminal. If I robbed you, I'm a criminal. Listen, 0:30:15.000 --> 0:30:16.560 as long as I didn't put as long as that 0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:20.520 man then put his hands on her, I think it's okay. 0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:23.400 I think it's fair. Pussy can't kill you, though put 0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:30.400 kill you. I didn't see some niggas dies. I hadn't 0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:36.960 seen pussy killed him. Mother. We're gonna get talking about it. Man, 0:30:38.080 --> 0:30:41.040 they got the right one. Pro woman pro. You're the 0:30:41.040 --> 0:30:43.080 one who at me here confused? What a bitch like 0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:48.200 Denise Burgos saying, now, what's she don't know? Got grandma? 0:30:48.520 --> 0:30:50.760 She got to grab my name? She do have a 0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:54.120 grand Bernice was made grandmother. I mean Bernice is about 0:30:54.120 --> 0:30:56.040 the age of you know. I can't believe she looks 0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:59.920 like that with a name. She was handcrafted by Satan. 0:31:02.240 --> 0:31:05.040 No no, I feel like whoever it was like watch 0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:09.320 like y'all watched y'all watch Supernatural, like those Supernatural shows 0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:11.800 where like the devil would take over somebody body that's 0:31:11.840 --> 0:31:14.560 who Bernie's doctor was like it was a regular doctor, 0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:17.239 but Satan took over and was like, We're going to 0:31:17.320 --> 0:31:23.520 take everything. Like yo, we read here. It's really surprised 0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:25.600 at how people have been coming at her on her Instagram, 0:31:25.640 --> 0:31:28.239 like it's crazy. It's been bad about her body, and 0:31:28.280 --> 0:31:30.800 I'm just like, you know why because real life is 0:31:30.800 --> 0:31:33.440 starting to set in. You gotta think about it, right, 0:31:34.600 --> 0:31:38.520 Women who don't get the surgeries and all that ship, Yeah, 0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:41.400 I got about what five to six years every phase 0:31:41.440 --> 0:31:43.680 before your body do some ship. It didn't do five 0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:49.800 years before the exact same for the past seven years. 0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:55.560 So now earlier coming in, so I love it. Oh 0:31:55.600 --> 0:32:00.280 my god. Fact that was not fake like surgical. Yeah 0:32:00.640 --> 0:32:06.080 that's got to be uncomfortable. Yeah, Abs, now you go 0:32:06.120 --> 0:32:09.080 and get ab etching. But they look are they herb 0:32:09.680 --> 0:32:11.640 Like you just cut around. She claims that she works 0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:13.800 out to keep them there and to profound them, but 0:32:13.840 --> 0:32:17.920 she got is like a laundry bag, like you just 0:32:18.000 --> 0:32:21.480 threw everything in. But know what I'm saying is like 0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:25.120 every five years, you change, right. So five years ago 0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:27.080 when Bernie's first birst, I don't seen everybody loved it, 0:32:27.160 --> 0:32:32.400 like yeah, bitch. Now years ago you got people want Yeah, 0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:35.720 it's weird that, like everybody is saying, I mean quevo. 0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:40.080 When when the only thing I don't like is that 0:32:40.240 --> 0:32:42.600 girls that don't have a real ass, they'd be like, no, 0:32:42.680 --> 0:32:44.360 it's real because it's their own fat. I'd be like, okay, 0:32:44.400 --> 0:32:48.160 you got to ask them technically, technically that's there. If 0:32:48.160 --> 0:32:50.440 it's not if it's not selicon or shot, yeah, it's 0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:52.920 not fake. Yeah, if it's if it's from your body 0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:56.640 there before, but now it is food fat from one 0:32:56.680 --> 0:32:58.960 place to another. Okay, I'm not shipping on this. I 0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:00.840 don't think anbody should on the surgery, but I'm saying, like, 0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:04.040 I still don't think you know, if you play, it's 0:33:04.080 --> 0:33:06.280 all fair game. It's all fair game. I mean you 0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:10.600 got if you're walking around setting off alarms like that, 0:33:10.640 --> 0:33:12.240 I would have you know what I'm saying. But I 0:33:12.240 --> 0:33:20.400 can't what side of you like a double A. I 0:33:20.400 --> 0:33:23.240 can't see through this. You can't she knew I was coming. 0:33:24.040 --> 0:33:26.160 I know what you are to say that? What am 0:33:26.160 --> 0:33:30.680 I that's the h it's actually a double D. Thank 0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:34.080 you very much. Yes, I tell that I wanted like 0:33:34.160 --> 0:33:36.120 I was, like, I want pies a little bit, but 0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:38.960 like natural porn tities. Oh you got your titties done? Yeah, 0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:40.960 I got them done. Sixers neither natural. I can tell 0:33:41.000 --> 0:33:42.680 these natural. I could. I could see the blue veins. 0:33:43.080 --> 0:33:49.480 Oh my god, I'm well. This is the reason niggas 0:33:49.480 --> 0:33:51.040 don't be know when I got my titties done because 0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:53.640 he left the front of my boob in there like 0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:55.520 so sometimes I'll scoop it out to make it more around. 0:33:55.800 --> 0:33:58.360 So because he left the first part of my breast, 0:33:58.640 --> 0:34:00.360 that's all you feel when you grab it, So no 0:34:00.400 --> 0:34:03.680 one ever knows, nigga, it's great. I mean, now they 0:34:03.680 --> 0:34:09.200 know I talk about after me getting good questions out. 0:34:09.360 --> 0:34:12.560 I want people to be excited they I always talk 0:34:12.600 --> 0:34:14.520 about my breast surgery because I want people to feel 0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:16.440 good about it and excited about it. I think that 0:34:16.480 --> 0:34:18.560 it is perfectly okay to get your body done. And 0:34:18.600 --> 0:34:20.200 a few months I've done a couple of things to 0:34:20.239 --> 0:34:22.239 my body, so I don't think there's anything wrong with that. 0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:23.960 Done a few things in my body as well. What 0:34:24.080 --> 0:34:29.280 you do I've had, I got ahead, I'm done with you. 0:34:29.440 --> 0:34:34.920 We're gonna we're gonna go ahead to get into the 0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:37.560 the show. So the kick of the week is probably 0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:41.799 something Mouse has never experienced, but we're gonna today. You 0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:43.520 probably don't want to experience. I don't know. Maybe you 0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:47.480 do a couple of trains, don't play. He calmed down 0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:49.520 the kink of the week guys for this episode. And 0:34:49.520 --> 0:34:52.000 I brought this up because, um, it was actually a 0:34:52.080 --> 0:34:54.359 question asked that our live show. But we're gonna dig 0:34:54.440 --> 0:35:00.960 into this, but I wanted to do it, um kind 0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:05.200 of as it pertained to the question of the live show. Um, 0:35:05.280 --> 0:35:07.120 so I want to do it double anal. So what 0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:10.319 we're doing today is double penetration. Well, you know we 0:35:10.320 --> 0:35:12.080 should do we should talk about all the different types 0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:14.839 of d Yeah, there's a lot of there's DP, there's 0:35:14.880 --> 0:35:18.200 deep double with penetration, which is generally a term for 0:35:18.320 --> 0:35:21.960 one in your post and one in your ass and less. Yeah, 0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:24.520 there is you have a dick in your mouth. Well 0:35:24.560 --> 0:35:27.640 that's really called triple penetration, right because wh we're talking 0:35:27.680 --> 0:35:30.960 about penetration, we're talking about generally like can your mouth 0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:36.200 your mouth? That's so that's a penetration of my mouth. 0:35:36.239 --> 0:35:40.200 I mean it is, but you asked, I asked, I 0:35:40.239 --> 0:35:44.280 asked my face. How did they and what's their facial reaction? 0:35:44.320 --> 0:35:47.280 They love it? I wouldn't love that my face reaction. 0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:49.480 I'm one, I'm gonna do it. You're gonna do it 0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:55.080 this one. Okay, let's say what can I do to 0:35:55.120 --> 0:35:57.399 make you happy? I like being tired up and having 0:35:57.400 --> 0:36:03.120 my face all right, I'm not so I actually wanted so. Yeah, 0:36:03.200 --> 0:36:06.600 she well no, so um So there's also DV or 0:36:06.840 --> 0:36:10.200 a K d V P and that's double vagin. That's 0:36:10.239 --> 0:36:11.840 two dicks in your pussy at the same time. So 0:36:12.320 --> 0:36:15.840 the penetration that Mandy was talking about that I've seen 0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:19.120 is normally two in your pussy in one in your 0:36:19.160 --> 0:36:20.960 How does that work? How does that? How does that? 0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:23.839 That means two dicks are touching, two of them are touching. Yeah, 0:36:23.880 --> 0:36:27.120 but I don't know how. So it works? Like you do? 0:36:28.360 --> 0:36:30.759 You have to the only way that the position can 0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:34.840 really work is if you're sitting all right, I'm sitting Okay, 0:36:35.000 --> 0:36:37.080 I would say I'm sitting on you. So let's just 0:36:37.080 --> 0:36:40.040 say your I'm trying to see where the other dick 0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:43.440 fits in you have to because okay, because they're not 0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:45.879 gonna be able to hear the audio right there, right there, 0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:48.480 not that type of audio. I mean they didn't hear 0:36:48.520 --> 0:36:54.040 the fun either, but it worked. And no, no wait, 0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:55.840 not a real one. It was on a plastic bottle. 0:36:55.840 --> 0:37:01.440 It was a demonstration. Yeah, with that, I gotta come on, 0:37:01.520 --> 0:37:04.120 I gotta come over the loud speaking. I gotta come 0:37:04.120 --> 0:37:07.160 over the loud speaking. So uncle, were such a family. 0:37:08.080 --> 0:37:10.400 And then okay, no, seriously, if I'm on top of 0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:13.080 you and I'm straddling you, let's say, I don't think 0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.200 this is possible what you're saying. I've watched it, dude, 0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:19.319 So it goes you want whatever, you're wherever you're going in. 0:37:19.360 --> 0:37:22.560 And then there's someone behind me, and then there's someone 0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:26.600 else underneath, so it's jinga. Yeah, I'm gonna show. So 0:37:26.640 --> 0:37:28.520 that means the nigga is sitting on the other nigga. 0:37:29.360 --> 0:37:32.960 So obviously somebody in this is gay. Yeah, okay, they're 0:37:32.960 --> 0:37:37.000 not gay. And then the other one and we live 0:37:37.040 --> 0:37:41.800 show was double double penetration anally, so that's two dicks 0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:45.400 in your asshole. So I don't gotta ship like nobody 0:37:45.800 --> 0:37:48.680 like using the asshole after this, you can use your asshole. 0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:52.840 I mean it's also it shrinks back right here? What 0:37:52.920 --> 0:37:54.920 am I looking at? Which one? Can you describe that position? 0:37:55.320 --> 0:37:57.920 And wow? First of all, I knew it was going 0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:00.919 to be some white people ship. I'm gonna that two 0:38:00.960 --> 0:38:04.480 dicks are meeting um in a vagina and there's one 0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:06.920 going right in the but hoole right, but like, what 0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:11.200 is his ass is pretty much in the O's in 0:38:11.480 --> 0:38:14.120 his face. It's in his face. The reason it's in 0:38:14.200 --> 0:38:16.920 his face is because he's on top of him like 0:38:16.960 --> 0:38:19.560 a froggy. So he's sucking the ass like frog. Okay, 0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:21.879 So one dude is laying down, one dude is hitting 0:38:21.880 --> 0:38:23.600 it from the back quote unquote, and the other is 0:38:23.640 --> 0:38:29.319 on top like a froggy. Yeah, that's okay, look at this, 0:38:29.400 --> 0:38:32.920 nig No, that's not um. And it's funny that I 0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:35.600 bring this up. Of course, anyone who's interested in doing 0:38:35.640 --> 0:38:39.200 this has to do a I see a ton of lube. Um. 0:38:39.239 --> 0:38:41.040 We brought this up in the live show because one 0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:45.080 of the wonderful audience members in Atlanta had a problem 0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:49.960 with the dicks falling out of his ass. Yeah, damn no, no, no, 0:38:50.040 --> 0:38:54.200 excuse me, it's not a ton of loube. The reason 0:38:54.239 --> 0:38:55.640 it was slipping out is because there was a ton 0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:57.600 of lube. And I say, I'm saying, if you want 0:38:57.600 --> 0:38:59.920 to do this at all, alright, but you need some friction. 0:39:00.239 --> 0:39:01.960 So the reason that the dicks were slipping out is 0:39:02.800 --> 0:39:09.520 too much lube. Have had good we were just so 0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:11.479 the reason that they are stipping up too much loubes. 0:39:11.520 --> 0:39:13.640 And you need someone to have friction, right, So like 0:39:13.719 --> 0:39:15.759 there could be lub maybe from the contact of the 0:39:15.800 --> 0:39:18.160 skin so it doesn't hurt as much, but there has 0:39:18.200 --> 0:39:19.919 to be some friction in order for them to move 0:39:20.000 --> 0:39:22.720 in and out. So like it has to be maybe 0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:24.480 one dry dick and maybe one loube dick and then 0:39:24.520 --> 0:39:28.120 it'll trip onto the other day. If you guys have 0:39:28.200 --> 0:39:31.840 any experiences of double penetration or double anal or double vaginal, 0:39:31.840 --> 0:39:34.200 please on those. Double penetration isn't going to be that 0:39:34.239 --> 0:39:37.560 bad because you can be I have never done it. No, No, 0:39:37.600 --> 0:39:44.440 I'm saying it's not that bad. I've never been DP. Like, 0:39:44.480 --> 0:39:47.480 I have a real inner block of two niggas judging me. 0:39:47.520 --> 0:39:49.719 As long as I'm on edibles and zoned out, I 0:39:49.719 --> 0:39:53.839 can probably do it. Yeah, So as comfortable as you 0:39:53.960 --> 0:39:57.239 are with you guys sexual sexuality, and you know, as 0:39:57.400 --> 0:40:02.320 as k as you guys are of your sexual agency, 0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:07.560 you still feel unless you while you said it, so um, 0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:10.279 you having to be like high and shipped, like oh yeah, 0:40:10.280 --> 0:40:12.080 I have to be under the influence for something for 0:40:12.120 --> 0:40:13.880 some things like even I went to the sex club. 0:40:14.160 --> 0:40:15.600 Me and my friend killed a whole bottle of down. 0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:20.080 So did that? So to you, that doesn't say like damn, 0:40:20.120 --> 0:40:22.680 maybe I'm not not forcing yourself. But maybe that's not me. 0:40:23.120 --> 0:40:25.759 It is maybe I don't like how I feel when 0:40:25.760 --> 0:40:28.680 I'm under an influence and I feel like I'm more free, Okay, 0:40:28.800 --> 0:40:31.600 So to me, I just enjoy being under the influence 0:40:32.160 --> 0:40:35.960 and then you do or your sexuality. I like a 0:40:35.960 --> 0:40:38.440 lot of experiences sober, Like I've had a ship like that. 0:40:38.480 --> 0:40:40.360 I like sober. I like to be a little tipsy. 0:40:40.440 --> 0:40:44.200 So but when I'm more drunk, sometimes I get more 0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:47.120 so I'm more emotional. So when I get drunker, I 0:40:47.120 --> 0:40:48.839 get more of my feelings about it, and I'm more 0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:52.160 like black and white, black and white black and white 0:40:52.200 --> 0:40:56.320 women always real emotional, especially after the sex. Really, yeah, 0:40:56.400 --> 0:40:58.239 I'm not so that's different. I mean if it was 0:40:58.280 --> 0:41:01.040 good sex, I would be, but just emotionally. The reason 0:41:01.080 --> 0:41:02.880 that I wouldn't do it is because as confident as 0:41:02.920 --> 0:41:04.920 I am like with my sexuality, I think that's who 0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:07.759 I am, not necessarily always how I viewed. So there's 0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.200 still things that have mental blocks about. Like I'm confident, sure, 0:41:10.239 --> 0:41:12.239 but there's some things that have some insecurities about. And 0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:15.640 for some reason, having two men in the room makes 0:41:15.680 --> 0:41:19.120 me feel a little more nervous. You know what makes 0:41:19.120 --> 0:41:22.840 me feel nervous. So that's what I want to like 0:41:23.400 --> 0:41:28.200 walking Ah, there's only one vaginantes two of us. You 0:41:28.320 --> 0:41:31.600 never you've never, you've never done a train, none of that. Um. 0:41:31.719 --> 0:41:35.080 Two reasons Number one, I UM, I think everybody knows 0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:37.440 at this point. I'm not homophobic at all, but I 0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:39.360 don't want to be in the room with another penis 0:41:39.360 --> 0:41:41.719 just it's not it's not not my cup of tea. 0:41:41.960 --> 0:41:45.160 Not my cup of tea. Second of all, um, And 0:41:45.480 --> 0:41:49.040 I've found out just recently that this is like problematic 0:41:49.080 --> 0:41:52.520 thought for some women. But I feel like I have 0:41:52.600 --> 0:41:55.520 too much respect for a woman to do that. I won't. 0:41:55.800 --> 0:41:58.399 I respect you too much to just dog you out 0:41:58.440 --> 0:42:00.839 like that, Like I won't you think that's worse than 0:42:00.880 --> 0:42:04.160 stealing money. I was just about you're you're in my 0:42:04.200 --> 0:42:10.719 mind right now, hierarchy of criminals. So honestly, I think 0:42:10.760 --> 0:42:14.600 that I just couldn't do You think is it almost 0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:18.359 relates to the nick if you thinking that a woman 0:42:18.440 --> 0:42:20.520 doesn't want to do these things that she's asking. I 0:42:20.520 --> 0:42:25.520 didn't say she doesn't want to. Every time I've been 0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:28.680 asked to run a train, it's always been no, dude. 0:42:28.719 --> 0:42:30.640 One time, when when I was sixteen at homeboys like, yo, 0:42:30.680 --> 0:42:33.520 we're about to this bitch. This this bitch is the 0:42:33.520 --> 0:42:37.399 only singular. Now you go, Um, I'm my bike's gonna 0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:39.920 stay right here and shut no. Um. But every other 0:42:39.960 --> 0:42:41.560 time after that, since I've been in the doubt, every 0:42:41.600 --> 0:42:43.759 time I've been asked, it's been by a woman, and 0:42:43.800 --> 0:42:46.160 I'm like, you gotta get on my phone. You have 0:42:46.200 --> 0:42:47.799 to get on my phone with this man. It's because 0:42:47.880 --> 0:42:52.400 number one, I am a uh. I live by that code. 0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:54.879 One dick in the room, I lived by that code um. 0:42:54.880 --> 0:42:57.440 And secondly, I just can't. I can't do that. Like 0:42:58.080 --> 0:43:00.319 I have respect for you and I'm not and you're 0:43:00.360 --> 0:43:03.200 dispecting yourself. I just won't be the one to do Okay, 0:43:03.280 --> 0:43:05.239 I can respect that. That's a good I wonder if 0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:06.880 you would be able to like not even like if 0:43:06.920 --> 0:43:08.839 you couldn't get it up or not probably can't. There's 0:43:08.840 --> 0:43:10.880 another dick in the room. Yes, it can't be two 0:43:10.880 --> 0:43:12.400 hard dicks in the room. I'm not adding to the 0:43:12.440 --> 0:43:14.320 two dicks in the room. I've always been very curious 0:43:14.400 --> 0:43:16.160 as two men that are like, it's not gay because 0:43:16.160 --> 0:43:20.799 the dicks on't touch. But do my homeboy said that 0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:24.399 when they did that ship. No, but it doesn't because 0:43:24.440 --> 0:43:29.400 you could always if they could be doing the both 0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:32.320 the dpi, but that's not always needed in a threesome 0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:38.440 or if a let's get horrible decisions. I know you'd 0:43:38.480 --> 0:43:44.640 like to be like terms that is a train, appropriate train, 0:43:44.880 --> 0:43:47.799 it's just two men. A train is two men one woman. 0:43:48.360 --> 0:43:50.000 Yes it is because the woman in the middle, the 0:43:50.000 --> 0:43:54.600 woman in the middle has the track. We're going into 0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:56.920 the horrible decision now because I'm not gonna I'm not. 0:43:57.960 --> 0:43:59.640 I realize you've had two many nigs with drays on 0:43:59.719 --> 0:44:04.640 reason again we have again. I'm coming back. I'll come back, 0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:12.160 and it's already I can't do no. How much do 0:44:12.200 --> 0:44:16.800 you know how much I would would be no, no, no, 0:44:17.080 --> 0:44:20.160 that's a train because I feel violated. I would feel violent. 0:44:20.239 --> 0:44:22.080 So we're gonna get into our harn decision. We're not 0:44:22.120 --> 0:44:23.600 We're not gonna talk about We're gonna get to our 0:44:23.600 --> 0:44:26.440 horror decision. The horrid decision for this week is d 0:44:26.560 --> 0:44:28.640 t R. And this isn't like DP. So calm down, 0:44:28.680 --> 0:44:38.080 you look scared. Uh dick train ran so so DT 0:44:38.360 --> 0:44:42.920 are it's actually determining the relationship. Okay, okay, we can 0:44:42.960 --> 0:44:47.439 do so we got lighter, right, we're kind of heavy. 0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:50.960 We're kind of heavy. So I wanted to bring this up, um, 0:44:51.120 --> 0:44:54.920 kind of in the sense of situation, ship versus relationship 0:44:55.120 --> 0:44:57.720 versus What the funk in this day of ages? Dating? 0:44:58.600 --> 0:45:02.600 What is it when you tell somebody I'm dating her? 0:45:02.840 --> 0:45:06.560 We're dating? Is dating now? Is that boyfriend? Girlfriend? Is 0:45:06.600 --> 0:45:08.840 that I'm just seeing you? Is that we're going on dates? 0:45:09.120 --> 0:45:11.160 When you say you're dating somebody? And I guess we 0:45:11.200 --> 0:45:13.720 could all kind of have our own definitions here. What 0:45:13.719 --> 0:45:15.759 what does it mean to be dating? Number one? First 0:45:15.800 --> 0:45:19.400 and foremost, Um, if you and I are dating, that 0:45:19.440 --> 0:45:23.880 simply means don't play with me like point like I 0:45:23.920 --> 0:45:26.719 don't play like that, Like if I am dating you, 0:45:26.880 --> 0:45:30.400 and mind you, this is coming from me. This is 0:45:30.440 --> 0:45:33.360 not me saying, you know, women, you better get in 0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:37.680 the kitchen. If I am dating you. It's very it's 0:45:37.719 --> 0:45:40.480 a very big step for me to like make a 0:45:40.560 --> 0:45:44.239 claim right to like say I'm dating this woman. This 0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:49.480 is my girl. Yeah, yes, because you're I'm dating you 0:45:50.040 --> 0:45:53.040 right like I am dating you. And once you hear 0:45:53.080 --> 0:45:57.680 those words, it's exclusive with me with me, like there 0:45:57.760 --> 0:46:01.359 is no a boyfriend girlfriend her hot. No, but we're 0:46:01.440 --> 0:46:03.600 right there, we're right there on the custom. But I think, 0:46:03.760 --> 0:46:06.080 so I think when I think there's because I think 0:46:06.120 --> 0:46:08.880 that we're dating too. Does not mean boyfriend girlfriend, It doesn't. 0:46:08.880 --> 0:46:10.640 It does not mean it by any chance. But if 0:46:10.640 --> 0:46:13.239 you if you should always date your your mate. But 0:46:13.239 --> 0:46:15.120 I'm but I'm here. But what I'm saying, so it's 0:46:15.120 --> 0:46:17.840 like a mirror from talking. I'm sure you So talking 0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:20.200 is when you guys first. By the way, this is 0:46:20.600 --> 0:46:25.439 terms we're talking. We graduated to twenty six white people. 0:46:25.560 --> 0:46:27.560 I don't know who came up with these hood as rules, 0:46:27.560 --> 0:46:30.520 but I've heard them too, because we terms we do, 0:46:30.680 --> 0:46:32.880 we do, we do. But But I'm okay, So I 0:46:32.960 --> 0:46:36.239 learned all my dating and romance terms from nineties sitcoms, 0:46:36.320 --> 0:46:38.239 because that's I grew up in the nineties, right, So 0:46:38.320 --> 0:46:42.600 like going steady, dating boyfriend, girlfriend, these things right, And 0:46:43.280 --> 0:46:45.319 it's just I grew up watching I absorbed a lot 0:46:45.320 --> 0:46:47.080 of content growing up, so a lot of that ship 0:46:47.160 --> 0:46:50.080 stayed with me. So when I when we're talking, that's 0:46:50.120 --> 0:46:52.239 the I got your number. We might be dem in 0:46:52.280 --> 0:46:55.000 back and forth on Instagram because sometimes women feel safe 0:46:55.120 --> 0:46:57.880 that way, and I won't, like, I won't press the issue, 0:46:57.920 --> 0:47:00.359 Like if we're having a conversation, I'll drop my number 0:47:00.400 --> 0:47:03.000 in the Instagram And if you don't text me, I'm 0:47:03.000 --> 0:47:05.080 not gonna be like text if you if that's how 0:47:05.080 --> 0:47:07.000 you feel comfortable, how you feel comfortable, it's so crazy 0:47:07.040 --> 0:47:09.439 that you say that, because to me, if a guy, 0:47:09.719 --> 0:47:12.840 if I'm talking to a guy via d M or 0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:16.080 even texting, if he goes to the next nig and say, oh, yeah, 0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:17.960 we used to talk and to me, it wasn't that. 0:47:18.000 --> 0:47:19.840 I don't even want to say that we used to talk, 0:47:20.440 --> 0:47:23.359 So like me talking to somebody is kind of right, 0:47:24.520 --> 0:47:28.520 was he? Once you start talking to no, because that 0:47:28.560 --> 0:47:32.480 always doesn't it doesn't. It's how serious you take it. 0:47:32.560 --> 0:47:34.239 If you tell the next person, Yo, I used to 0:47:34.280 --> 0:47:37.319 talk to wheezy. They're gonna think that y'all used to date, 0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:40.200 not that y'all used to DM each other. Yeah, it's 0:47:40.239 --> 0:47:43.040 it's very simple. We used to talk on the regular, 0:47:43.080 --> 0:47:46.920 like call answer, called back. I'm gonna call you like 0:47:46.960 --> 0:47:48.719 to me. If I'm talking to somebody, I'll call you back. 0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:51.719 If he was talking to somebody, have you fucked him? No? 0:47:51.920 --> 0:47:57.040 If you're yeah, if nigger tells me he used to 0:47:57.080 --> 0:48:01.399 talk to a gul did because I feel like nick 0:48:01.440 --> 0:48:04.080 should not say that to each other unless it's your manny, 0:48:04.120 --> 0:48:07.800 And like, Yo, what's right below talking? Yeah? If you 0:48:07.840 --> 0:48:13.080 know the introduction sliding in the DA No, look so 0:48:13.120 --> 0:48:15.920 they're sliding into D and making the initial. Yeah, So 0:48:15.920 --> 0:48:19.560 we're gonna do like so there's the initial talking initial 0:48:19.640 --> 0:48:25.359 number one and then and then dating then after now 0:48:25.520 --> 0:48:28.480 this now talking now talking, you might have to do 0:48:28.560 --> 0:48:32.120 the little that little ship, that that little triangle ship 0:48:32.120 --> 0:48:35.600 between it, because talking could also lead to a situation ship. Now, 0:48:35.640 --> 0:48:39.359 a situation ship, a situationship and dating is not the 0:48:39.400 --> 0:48:43.760 same thing. Situation ship is the two a of dating. 0:48:44.440 --> 0:48:48.360 Situation ship needs to go. Dating may not be your boyfriend. Girlfriend, 0:48:48.360 --> 0:48:51.520 but we might have a situation ship. I feel like dating. No, 0:48:51.560 --> 0:48:55.239 I'm gonna tell you why, because dating, dating has room 0:48:55.280 --> 0:48:58.560 for growth, a situation ship doesn't. A situation ship is 0:48:58.760 --> 0:49:02.880 very linear, and that's can turn into more No no, no, 0:49:02.880 --> 0:49:05.560 they can't. Every time they do, they go left. My 0:49:05.640 --> 0:49:08.279 situation ship turned into some just now what what it 0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:13.920 turned into? That your boyfriend is that your nigga, that 0:49:14.040 --> 0:49:17.400 your nigga, no, don't cut it out bossing up? Is 0:49:17.400 --> 0:49:21.799 that your nigga, No, I can't people all right, And 0:49:21.800 --> 0:49:25.319 that she's gonna crash. She's gonna crash and burn. It's 0:49:25.320 --> 0:49:29.440 going to the horrible like I don't like, it's going 0:49:29.520 --> 0:49:32.840 to don't I don't know. I don't like that word. Are. 0:49:35.680 --> 0:49:37.919 You guys are going to in terribly. This isn't gonna last. 0:49:37.960 --> 0:49:39.960 You might not make it out to summer situation. I'm 0:49:40.000 --> 0:49:42.680 gonna tell you why because the situation ship is literally 0:49:42.719 --> 0:49:46.919 a relationship like thing with no titles, which means I'm 0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:49.280 giving you everything I would give you in a relationship. 0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:54.640 Because dating is literally that dating is what they would 0:49:54.680 --> 0:49:57.200 call in the old times. Courting means I'm taking. But 0:49:57.320 --> 0:50:01.640 like situation, you guys are acting like, yea, in a situation, 0:50:02.480 --> 0:50:06.279 we're dating. If you were in a situation acting like 0:50:06.320 --> 0:50:09.360 a boyfriend and girlfriend, yeah, then you were in a 0:50:09.360 --> 0:50:10.960 situation and the ship is going to end. But why 0:50:11.000 --> 0:50:13.920 are you I'm gonna like a boyfriend and a girlfriend 0:50:13.920 --> 0:50:17.279 where you're dating because you're not my fucking girlfriend. That's why, 0:50:19.400 --> 0:50:22.480 like literally, like okay, perfect example. So I'm dating that, right, 0:50:22.480 --> 0:50:26.239 I'm dating someone. I'm seriously dating this this woman right, 0:50:26.920 --> 0:50:33.840 nobody else. It is just me and her. Okay, it's relaxed, 0:50:33.960 --> 0:50:37.120 So why is it not you might get upsetting. So 0:50:37.600 --> 0:50:40.640 we're seriously dating, right, it is not a situation Okay. 0:50:40.719 --> 0:50:43.200 So the situation ship is if you said it's going 0:50:43.239 --> 0:50:48.759 to be nothing, then yes, okay, because from dating you 0:50:48.800 --> 0:50:51.799 get into what a relationship. So this is a question 0:50:51.840 --> 0:50:53.279 that I want to ask you, And it's because that 0:50:53.360 --> 0:50:56.239 conversation you're saying, because once you get into a situation ship, 0:50:56.640 --> 0:50:59.840 it's a perfect example. It's like hiring somebody. You go 0:51:00.080 --> 0:51:02.920 and hire a manager. You don't bring the stockboy the 0:51:02.960 --> 0:51:06.799 funk up and make him the manager. Why everything this 0:51:06.920 --> 0:51:09.440 motherfucker already knows how to do. There's no way this 0:51:09.520 --> 0:51:11.719 nick could be the manager. He's been the stockboys, maybe 0:51:11.760 --> 0:51:16.000 knows how to stock real. Well, you go exists if 0:51:16.040 --> 0:51:19.520 you both agreed, it's nothing, or if one person only 0:51:19.520 --> 0:51:23.400 one person? Because what what's going to happen with a situationship? 0:51:23.480 --> 0:51:26.400 No matter what somebody, nobody's going to see it the 0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:29.839 same way. Somebody's gonna fall too far in and then 0:51:29.880 --> 0:51:32.400 that gray area is going to explode and it's to 0:51:32.480 --> 0:51:36.160 become red because somebody's going to be sick. A situation 0:51:36.160 --> 0:51:40.719 ship you give and I don't know, maybe I grow 0:51:40.719 --> 0:51:43.520 around too many black women. I read a Steve Harvey 0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:46.600 book of something. But I really do believe that once 0:51:46.600 --> 0:51:50.000 you're in a situation ship, that glass ceiling is there. 0:51:50.120 --> 0:51:53.360 You're gonna exist in this space and there's nothing passage 0:51:53.360 --> 0:51:57.360 because you ever had relationship, Well, I want to I 0:51:57.400 --> 0:52:00.360 want to ask you this question because um so me 0:52:00.440 --> 0:52:04.640 and Fellen Bay had this conversation. Okay, shout out, Yeah, 0:52:04.640 --> 0:52:06.279 so me and Fella Bay had a paper here just 0:52:06.400 --> 0:52:10.640 right now. Well now he's actually he's out, he's outcast. 0:52:11.560 --> 0:52:14.440 I mad, I know mad, I got mad big homeies 0:52:14.480 --> 0:52:15.960 that don't know. I was like, yo, let me do 0:52:16.000 --> 0:52:18.960 download you out. He knows about it, Adam subscribed it 0:52:19.040 --> 0:52:27.600 to it on the phone. What's what is this? What 0:52:24.360 --> 0:52:30.040 is He actually knows big words? And I told him 0:52:30.080 --> 0:52:33.080 I think it's because he used he used the library. Nick, 0:52:33.200 --> 0:52:36.759 you want to jil, he knows a lot of words. 0:52:36.800 --> 0:52:39.480 They always started well versed in one subject, and that's 0:52:39.480 --> 0:52:43.520 whatever the book. He'd always come back, Nigga, that knew 0:52:43.560 --> 0:52:46.920 everything about the Civil War. All he would do whenever 0:52:46.920 --> 0:52:50.640 he wanted to suck me, like, did you know about 0:52:50.680 --> 0:52:56.160 the Sayson Maria? Then shut up? So you're telling me 0:52:56.239 --> 0:52:58.799 right now the minds and the Pilgrims. So you're telling 0:52:58.840 --> 0:53:02.280 me right now that the mind did quarter Ship. We know, 0:53:02.640 --> 0:53:05.040 I'm trying to tell you about thinking. He's not even 0:53:05.120 --> 0:53:08.480 he's not even into those days later. But so anyways, 0:53:09.000 --> 0:53:14.080 let let me get into this top conversation that's gonna 0:53:14.080 --> 0:53:16.880 be arguing with SPU. Shut the funk up, Barbara. You 0:53:16.920 --> 0:53:20.800 don't even know, Barbara. That is a fucking class. Ain't felony? Motherfucker? 0:53:20.880 --> 0:53:28.279 That's easily fired a ten. Well, anyways, we have Felon Bad. 0:53:28.320 --> 0:53:30.960 We're talking, and Felon Bad has an issue right now 0:53:31.000 --> 0:53:32.839 because I think he wants more and I'm telling him 0:53:32.880 --> 0:53:35.560 I don't want more at all with him. It's well, yeah, 0:53:36.239 --> 0:53:39.640 I love his motherfucking commissary. When you go back, well yeah, 0:53:39.680 --> 0:53:41.799 you see how she'd be shading. Anyway, he's not gonna 0:53:41.840 --> 0:53:44.319 go back. Hopefully he's still on parole. He went back 0:53:44.480 --> 0:53:47.399 right when you met it. I know he's on paro 0:53:50.640 --> 0:53:55.080 statistics always. Well he's already been back since I met him. Um. 0:53:55.080 --> 0:53:57.600 But anyways, so we were having the conversation and I 0:53:57.680 --> 0:54:00.759 told him, like, you know, it is what it is, 0:54:00.840 --> 0:54:03.400 what what we have. Honestly, it is what we have, 0:54:03.640 --> 0:54:07.400 and I don't want more. Then we got into a 0:54:07.480 --> 0:54:09.560 really discussion, in a debate that I want to talk 0:54:09.560 --> 0:54:12.759 about because I enjoy the intimacy with him as far 0:54:12.800 --> 0:54:15.959 as cuddling, kissing, laying up all that stuff. He wants 0:54:15.960 --> 0:54:18.000 me to cook for him, and I'm like, no, cooking 0:54:18.000 --> 0:54:20.200 his boyfriend girlfriend ship. He's like cuddling and kissing his 0:54:20.239 --> 0:54:24.799 boyfriend girlfriend ship. So your boyfriend girlfriend ship. That to 0:54:24.840 --> 0:54:28.759 me is the no no no no no aspect, the 0:54:28.800 --> 0:54:32.960 expect the expectation, meeting the expectation that his boyfriend and girlfriend. 0:54:33.520 --> 0:54:36.759 But when you're dating, when you're dating, you are you 0:54:36.800 --> 0:54:38.520 are getting to know one another. You are you are 0:54:38.520 --> 0:54:41.640 getting comfortable with this person to represent the representatives of 0:54:41.719 --> 0:54:44.680 one another, and you are it's like negotiations. You're you're saying, 0:54:44.719 --> 0:54:46.800 all right, so before we go to next, before you 0:54:46.840 --> 0:54:49.080 get in this relationship, I'm willing to do this, and 0:54:49.080 --> 0:54:51.160 you're like, well, I'll do this, and then you counter, right, 0:54:51.239 --> 0:54:53.680 And that's what the whole dating period? How long does 0:54:53.680 --> 0:54:57.279 the dating period last? Completely up to that? How long 0:54:57.320 --> 0:55:03.400 have you been dating the girl? A Now? I wanted 0:55:03.440 --> 0:55:06.960 to say I had someone told me that they felt 0:55:06.960 --> 0:55:12.160 like six months was too long. First, yeah, I felt 0:55:12.160 --> 0:55:15.840 like six months was too long. But she'll be in 0:55:15.840 --> 0:55:18.040 a situation ship for three years. But to be honest, 0:55:19.600 --> 0:55:24.880 I think that's for her age, right, she's study four. Okay, 0:55:25.080 --> 0:55:27.600 there's that. I understand why she's feeling like that. But 0:55:27.600 --> 0:55:30.600 I said to him, like, look honestly to me, you 0:55:30.719 --> 0:55:34.399 calling me a girlfriend and what you're giving me like, 0:55:34.840 --> 0:55:37.840 I've had boyfriends that wasn't ship. So if we're dating 0:55:38.080 --> 0:55:40.400 and maybe those titles are a little too much fucking pressure, 0:55:40.480 --> 0:55:43.120 I'm gonna calm down of six months is a little 0:55:43.160 --> 0:55:46.480 too soon for you, and a lot of the view 0:55:46.840 --> 0:55:49.839 boyfriend girlfriend is the segue like, right, into marriage because 0:55:49.840 --> 0:55:51.839 nothing really like that's all the pressure're gonna get out. 0:55:51.880 --> 0:55:54.200 Just crazy that, which is crazy because because you don't 0:55:54.200 --> 0:55:56.880 even get that. People don't even it's like what the 0:55:56.880 --> 0:56:01.560 funky I refer reversed. It's like Pokemon. Right, there's like Pokemon. 0:56:01.600 --> 0:56:04.400 If you got groll around the same major Pokemon, right, 0:56:04.480 --> 0:56:07.239 you get you a char Amanda, a squirrel or boat. 0:56:07.320 --> 0:56:10.080 So they evolved three times, right, so you're a char Amanda, right, 0:56:10.560 --> 0:56:14.320 and then char Mand at like level twenty, level sixteen 0:56:14.360 --> 0:56:18.880 becomes char char millions millions, and then at level fifty 0:56:19.040 --> 0:56:22.880 becomes charges are right and people kind of right, So 0:56:23.000 --> 0:56:27.480 people interact with she's dead right, sooth getting a charge's ard. 0:56:27.520 --> 0:56:30.719 It's very hard to I'm sorry so now, and so 0:56:30.800 --> 0:56:32.759 people view dating at this linear thing where you go 0:56:32.840 --> 0:56:38.480 from Charmander to charges ard and you don't experience you grow, right, 0:56:38.560 --> 0:56:40.680 And like if you think about it from level what 0:56:40.800 --> 0:56:42.480 you get the Pokemon a level five and then they 0:56:42.560 --> 0:56:45.239 evolved at level sixteen, but then the next time they 0:56:45.280 --> 0:56:49.080 evolved until level fifty. You got so much time to 0:56:49.080 --> 0:56:51.360 grow as a person with this person that you're dating, 0:56:51.640 --> 0:56:53.560 that your relationship is going to go through so much 0:56:53.560 --> 0:56:56.719 and grow through so many different phases that by the 0:56:56.760 --> 0:56:59.160 time you are knocking that marriage and you are ready 0:56:59.160 --> 0:57:01.680 for marriage, you're not even the same people you work 0:57:01.840 --> 0:57:04.279 when you first started dating. But people skip over that 0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:06.799 because they have this very linear fact that you said that. 0:57:07.000 --> 0:57:09.840 I literally like, so to me, I've been single forever, 0:57:10.080 --> 0:57:12.880 Like I'll get in situation ship and a date. The 0:57:13.000 --> 0:57:15.279 guys your date, how long have you been? No? No, no, 0:57:15.440 --> 0:57:17.680 Well that's what I'm saying, like all date or be 0:57:17.720 --> 0:57:20.640 dealing with someone or being a situation ship. But I 0:57:20.680 --> 0:57:23.320 won't No, No, I'm very sing, I'm very single. I 0:57:23.360 --> 0:57:25.800 won't make a nigg of my boyfriend though, unless I 0:57:25.880 --> 0:57:28.880 see him as a husband. And you're laughing, I don't 0:57:28.920 --> 0:57:31.720 have a boy. Alex is telling me to get out 0:57:31.760 --> 0:57:36.480 the frame with the my damn Alex telling that ship 0:57:36.520 --> 0:57:39.520 in the mic. I'm being professional, get your ass out 0:57:39.520 --> 0:57:45.520 to Mike as the frame is move No. No. But 0:57:45.600 --> 0:57:47.240 to me, I won't make a nigg of my boyfriend 0:57:47.360 --> 0:57:49.360 unless I see him long term. And that's kind of 0:57:49.360 --> 0:57:51.760 what I had to tell day, like sometimes he ain't 0:57:51.760 --> 0:57:54.320 even got enough works that works for you, But I 0:57:54.360 --> 0:57:58.320 didn't believe some women that makes real quick and so 0:57:58.440 --> 0:58:02.200 I had that question. So this is an other questions. Oh, 0:58:02.240 --> 0:58:04.640 I mean no, it's sweet him, but it's good. Like six, 0:58:04.720 --> 0:58:07.640 it's good, probably six and a half it's good, but 0:58:08.400 --> 0:58:10.840 seven is a solid eight and a half nine babies, 0:58:10.840 --> 0:58:15.200 so you know I like more. But anyways, listen to this, 0:58:15.560 --> 0:58:19.880 doesn't let's go how you say. That's the only reason 0:58:19.880 --> 0:58:21.520 he got back on my phone. I had the time me. 0:58:22.160 --> 0:58:24.080 I'm talking about how to make it. Can't say. He 0:58:24.080 --> 0:58:26.880 can't say scription didn't know he has a subscription. He doesn't. 0:58:26.920 --> 0:58:28.600 He knows how to know. He knows how to say something. 0:58:31.600 --> 0:58:34.040 Both of them know how to say. You have a 0:58:34.080 --> 0:58:36.640 spelling beach for the pussy that night Friday night. We 0:58:36.680 --> 0:58:43.680 both want the pussy niggas spell anti establishment area that 0:58:43.800 --> 0:58:52.920 you got out this or the stuff. So I hate you. 0:58:53.040 --> 0:58:54.960 So I want to ask you this question too, because 0:58:55.400 --> 0:58:57.760 we had the conversation. So I start my new job 0:58:57.840 --> 0:59:02.200 next month. Gratulations queen, thank you. What is career? No, 0:59:02.280 --> 0:59:06.080 it's a career. It's a it's a career. It's not 0:59:06.120 --> 0:59:08.960 a job. It's a career. Um. And so where he's 0:59:09.000 --> 0:59:10.960 at right now, especially since he just got out of jail, 0:59:11.240 --> 0:59:13.160 his money ain't where I needed to be, and which 0:59:13.200 --> 0:59:14.960 is what I told him, which is why I don't 0:59:15.000 --> 0:59:18.360 look at him as a boyfriend. And I know. So 0:59:18.600 --> 0:59:22.040 his response was, so, when I get this money, I 0:59:22.080 --> 0:59:23.840 can't look at you as a girlfriend because you wasn't 0:59:23.880 --> 0:59:27.280 want me shooting in the gym. However, right ever, that 0:59:27.360 --> 0:59:34.800 was his answer. But I hate so, But this is 0:59:34.840 --> 0:59:36.880 my question as women, and I want to ask you too. 0:59:37.080 --> 0:59:40.600 So at seven, I don't feel like I have the 0:59:40.640 --> 0:59:43.600 time because I don't know how long it's gonna take him, 0:59:43.840 --> 0:59:45.480 and I don't I don't have kids. I don't want 0:59:45.480 --> 0:59:52.240 to raise a grown man. So it's cool, toy um 0:59:53.760 --> 1:00:00.800 why he spent eight years in the fence. No, no, no, 1:00:01.520 --> 1:00:06.640 I have this theory that everybody who gets locked up 1:00:06.760 --> 1:00:08.400 when they get out there are the same as they 1:00:08.440 --> 1:00:11.040 was when they got before they went in. I think 1:00:11.080 --> 1:00:13.640 it's twenty son. That nigga is. That nigga right now 1:00:13.680 --> 1:00:15.600 is about to hop on. He just found out what 1:00:15.720 --> 1:00:19.160 FaceTime was. Oh, he's definitely a twenty year old. We 1:00:19.200 --> 1:00:24.800 FaceTime a lot, thank you because he's excited. Pick up, 1:00:24.800 --> 1:00:29.320 pick up, turn turn it around, No, you gotta turn 1:00:29.360 --> 1:00:35.360 it around. No, not the phone. No, not the phone, you, Alex, 1:00:35.400 --> 1:00:39.080 I think like this. I can't man, No, I can 1:00:39.080 --> 1:00:41.680 see the mirror. Turn the phone. Okay, now I'm just 1:00:41.720 --> 1:00:48.920 call you. Oh you open it with your finger. Now 1:00:48.960 --> 1:00:55.600 I don't get it, but I see you. No, man, wheezy. 1:00:55.880 --> 1:00:58.919 At this point in you're like no, no, he said. 1:00:58.920 --> 1:01:00.240 He was like, your a piece of ship, are the 1:01:00.240 --> 1:01:04.280 same age, and she is doing more than the man 1:01:04.400 --> 1:01:07.400 that she met at the same age. Why does that good? 1:01:07.520 --> 1:01:09.920 Quite pressure on it? Good question? Why does that not? 1:01:10.400 --> 1:01:12.800 Let me? Let me let me say before I answer 1:01:12.840 --> 1:01:14.520 this for real, I'm not a piece of ship. I 1:01:14.560 --> 1:01:20.520 would just okay you wait, no, real quick, before we 1:01:20.520 --> 1:01:22.320 get into this. I just want to share. What did 1:01:22.320 --> 1:01:24.280 you ask? Oh this Nigga asked if he was going 1:01:24.320 --> 1:01:26.200 to get to get to funk one of us. Show 1:01:26.360 --> 1:01:30.320 did not say that the make out the same thing. Okay, 1:01:31.720 --> 1:01:33.680 that's the same baby, don't kiss me. You don't get 1:01:33.680 --> 1:01:37.520 this one. He was going to get the make out 1:01:37.560 --> 1:01:40.440 with one of us at the Okay, that's more than 1:01:40.520 --> 1:01:44.400 thirty eight thousand words right out with her. I'm not 1:01:44.440 --> 1:01:49.640 on the table. Okay, it's easy. That's easy. It's like 1:01:49.680 --> 1:01:54.200 a cool fifty Oh can we record this. If this happened, 1:01:54.240 --> 1:01:56.479 we're gonna make him take the test right after the show, 1:01:56.520 --> 1:01:58.280 and we're gonna record it for all of you guys 1:01:58.320 --> 1:02:01.800 to see on Instagram. The girl you're dating and your 1:02:01.840 --> 1:02:05.840 boyfriend like that part right there to the table. You 1:02:05.920 --> 1:02:10.320 gotta cut that out, put that out. You gotta remember 1:02:10.320 --> 1:02:13.880 this content, baby, I do. I'm a content creator, right, 1:02:14.200 --> 1:02:16.800 this is all content. I'm an actor as well. I 1:02:16.880 --> 1:02:19.880 was in I was I was in After Hours with 1:02:20.000 --> 1:02:23.560 Mac Wilds on title and YouTube. Great. I'm an actor. 1:02:23.600 --> 1:02:28.120 I'm an actual act. All the mouth should be the 1:02:28.160 --> 1:02:30.960 type of b no, no, no, no no. We practice 1:02:30.960 --> 1:02:36.320 in this she's from horrible is not even in bit. 1:02:36.880 --> 1:02:39.880 But my dick, don't even feel it. I bet you, 1:02:39.920 --> 1:02:48.640 I don't come. I'm not the question? Yes, what makes 1:02:48.720 --> 1:02:52.280 him like no? So so okay, go back in this 1:02:53.120 --> 1:02:58.600 same right, So without you giving the uh, without you 1:02:58.760 --> 1:03:02.920 giving that prerequisite, it right, there's no issue. Right to listen. 1:03:02.960 --> 1:03:05.520 Sometimes people don't stay around. Sometime when you gave him 1:03:05.520 --> 1:03:07.760 a prerequisite, when you said I don't see you as 1:03:07.760 --> 1:03:12.400 a boyfriend because of this, he was well within he's 1:03:12.520 --> 1:03:15.120 right when he's like, well, okay, so don't expect that 1:03:15.200 --> 1:03:18.200 from me when I get when I get right now now, 1:03:18.240 --> 1:03:22.080 as a half black woman, well technically two of you 1:03:22.120 --> 1:03:33.080 make one black woman, or just make second. The reason 1:03:33.160 --> 1:03:35.360 that we identify as black is because we understand our 1:03:35.400 --> 1:03:38.040 privilege as lighter skinned women. And I feel like it's 1:03:38.080 --> 1:03:43.520 dismissive to just then say that might not be black, 1:03:43.520 --> 1:03:49.400 but you're PCs. No, but um so what I will 1:03:49.440 --> 1:03:53.880 say to that? So women, especially black women in our 1:03:54.480 --> 1:03:59.080 in our in our culture, have been the hugest supporter 1:03:59.240 --> 1:04:02.840 of you know, rider die. They definitely stayed at until 1:04:02.880 --> 1:04:05.440 they come up. And I won't because you've probably seen 1:04:05.840 --> 1:04:10.880 or not white women, white women women who we met, 1:04:10.960 --> 1:04:13.080 Which is funny because that's why he Apparently he tried 1:04:13.080 --> 1:04:15.000 to call me from Rikers, but I didn't answer the calls. 1:04:15.040 --> 1:04:17.320 I thought it was a bill collector. So he keeps 1:04:17.360 --> 1:04:21.560 holding it against me that I didn't answer his Hello, Hello, 1:04:22.240 --> 1:04:24.880 what are you? What are you calling for? No? No, 1:04:24.960 --> 1:04:27.439 I don't know anything. But when we met, I never 1:04:27.480 --> 1:04:38.520 had a card with a Rikers. Where do you swear? What? No? 1:04:38.600 --> 1:04:40.760 But no, if you're if you're not right there, that's cool, 1:04:40.880 --> 1:04:43.520 that is cool, but don't but then you can't have 1:04:43.920 --> 1:04:45.680 you know, what. You can't have that because if somebody 1:04:45.880 --> 1:04:49.720 buys into that, then that's fine, but you cannot expect. 1:04:49.840 --> 1:04:51.920 You can't expect ride or die. You can't expect somebody 1:04:51.920 --> 1:04:54.360 to wait for you if you're not gonna wait for him. 1:04:54.600 --> 1:04:57.640 But you're also a woman who was attractive. So if 1:04:57.680 --> 1:05:00.920 you find that it's well within are right, I'm go 1:05:01.120 --> 1:05:03.600 for it. But off the back, you can't expect that. 1:05:03.680 --> 1:05:07.960 So he's what you're asking for is unfair. You're you're saying, hey, 1:05:08.040 --> 1:05:10.400 when you get this money, you got funk with me 1:05:10.720 --> 1:05:13.919 like I did, hold you down. But you're not holding 1:05:14.000 --> 1:05:16.760 him down, and you have every right not to because 1:05:16.760 --> 1:05:19.680 if you look at the numbers, motherfucker's do not respect 1:05:19.680 --> 1:05:22.480 the woman that holds him down. Motherfucker you you hold 1:05:22.560 --> 1:05:26.200 him down. Motherfucker's is gone or went off to the 1:05:26.520 --> 1:05:29.560 billionaire woman. You see that he paid for his kids 1:05:29.560 --> 1:05:37.120 for his kid first of all, to me, the baby mama, 1:05:37.160 --> 1:05:42.400 not ship. So you're just kid off for some money. Wait, 1:05:42.400 --> 1:05:46.040 you would sell your kids for some money a six 1:05:46.080 --> 1:05:54.320 figure duo? Yes, you really to their mother who already 1:05:54.320 --> 1:05:56.720 has to be indebted to them anyway, You mean to 1:05:56.840 --> 1:05:59.040 tell me I not get money on top of it 1:05:59.640 --> 1:06:01.800 for them saying, mother fucking way to take care of 1:06:01.880 --> 1:06:08.320 him anywhere? Yes, yes, yes, So I want I want 1:06:08.360 --> 1:06:10.600 to happen because this actually goes I think that you're 1:06:10.680 --> 1:06:12.160 one of the perfect guests to answer this. We're gonna 1:06:12.160 --> 1:06:14.480 happen to our homemail. I hope you guys enjoyed this 1:06:14.640 --> 1:06:18.240 um fucking conversation. This goes into things that I think 1:06:18.440 --> 1:06:21.280 me and Wheezy have battled with um and I appreciate 1:06:21.320 --> 1:06:23.560 this listener for sending this in. I wrote to you, 1:06:23.720 --> 1:06:25.280 I'll look here you go, and I want you all 1:06:25.320 --> 1:06:27.400 to know I wrote you'll to y'all in instant and 1:06:27.440 --> 1:06:30.000 you said to email. So here it goes. Because I 1:06:30.000 --> 1:06:34.240 told you all we came from this was a good one. 1:06:34.480 --> 1:06:38.880 So my question slash situation is I'm trying to date 1:06:38.920 --> 1:06:41.920 after a long history of being a kinky slut. I 1:06:42.040 --> 1:06:45.000 enjoyed the I enjoyed the hell out of the time 1:06:45.280 --> 1:06:46.960 that I had in my life, but now I'm looking 1:06:46.960 --> 1:06:50.160 for something more substantial slash serious. When I bring up 1:06:50.200 --> 1:06:54.520 my past or sexual interest, guys perception of me totally changes. 1:06:55.160 --> 1:06:57.480 Now I'm not a dating prospect. I'm a sex toy, 1:06:57.560 --> 1:07:00.200 a freak, a slut. I want to be open about 1:07:00.240 --> 1:07:02.960 my past have super kinky sex with my partner, but 1:07:03.000 --> 1:07:05.480 I also want to be respected and seeing his girlfriend material. 1:07:05.800 --> 1:07:09.200 Have you experienced this and any suggestions? Yes, I know. 1:07:09.760 --> 1:07:12.200 I saw this and I was like, okay, let's see 1:07:12.240 --> 1:07:15.400 what mouth thinks of this. But this is a good question. Yeah, um, 1:07:15.440 --> 1:07:17.360 she got a lie, like I don't understand what's the 1:07:17.360 --> 1:07:21.320 problem Like women, you're such a good list. She wants 1:07:21.320 --> 1:07:23.040 to be open because she still wants that, all right, 1:07:23.240 --> 1:07:25.840 but you all right, but she's acting like a dummy, 1:07:25.880 --> 1:07:28.040 like she's a woman. You control all of the ship. 1:07:28.280 --> 1:07:31.040 You lied to, then don't control ship when we open up? 1:07:31.040 --> 1:07:35.040 And then you don't you understand it? Don't open up? 1:07:35.240 --> 1:07:39.320 Don't you? If you it's like right now, if I 1:07:39.400 --> 1:07:41.120 keep trying, you don't want to, but you want to 1:07:41.120 --> 1:07:44.000 open our legs though, No open up. But don't tell 1:07:44.040 --> 1:07:47.080 me that ship, Doug, or you gonna get listen this. 1:07:47.200 --> 1:07:50.320 I'll look at it right, Okay, you're not gonna find 1:07:50.320 --> 1:07:54.120 the Melvin's, alright, the Melvin's. You don't want the Melvin Melvin. 1:07:54.240 --> 1:07:55.680 I don't know if you haven't seen plays Club, but 1:07:55.720 --> 1:07:59.040 Melvin is who loved love he loved, he would have 1:07:59.080 --> 1:08:02.560 took up right. Yeah, you we ain't Melvin. You're not 1:08:02.600 --> 1:08:07.080 going after Melvin. You're not attracted to Melvin. You want that, 1:08:07.120 --> 1:08:09.440 we really don't want. But he would accept all of 1:08:09.480 --> 1:08:12.280 that ship. You want the mouth jones, Right, So now 1:08:12.320 --> 1:08:16.720 you come to meet actually perfect time, Alex Hammers tiwnd 1:08:16.720 --> 1:08:20.439 me yet. All right, So I started a body count thing. 1:08:20.479 --> 1:08:22.120 I wanted to bring it up with you. I see, 1:08:22.360 --> 1:08:24.400 And I was like, and I see that, I've seen 1:08:25.280 --> 1:08:29.439 see set up spection actually does go with this. So 1:08:30.400 --> 1:08:32.760 before you get to that, before you get to that, 1:08:32.760 --> 1:08:35.839 I want I want to say this part. Y'all control 1:08:36.439 --> 1:08:38.439 this ship so much, and I might be like giving 1:08:38.439 --> 1:08:40.519 away information, but if y'all don't know, you're dumb women, 1:08:40.560 --> 1:08:44.000 y'all control everything. It's all about how you play this, 1:08:44.439 --> 1:08:48.479 right you, This ship is not going to be love 1:08:48.800 --> 1:08:51.840 in relationships as adults, like as a whole asset doults. 1:08:51.840 --> 1:08:55.639 That's lived life. That that perfect love, that ship going. 1:08:55.760 --> 1:08:57.479 That ship is a high school memory. If you didn't 1:08:57.479 --> 1:08:59.840 get with your high school steetheart, or get with some 1:09:00.320 --> 1:09:03.280 that's your first, or or y'all caught a few bodies together. 1:09:03.640 --> 1:09:06.599 It's a dub. So you gotta understand do you want 1:09:07.439 --> 1:09:10.160 the result or do you want the fantasy? Because if 1:09:10.160 --> 1:09:13.400 you want, if this girl wants that relationship, the next 1:09:13.479 --> 1:09:16.240 nigga she meets that she put stock in and she's like, 1:09:16.320 --> 1:09:18.439 this is the nigger I could do it. You don't 1:09:18.479 --> 1:09:20.439 tell him about you being a hold back in the day. 1:09:21.000 --> 1:09:22.479 What I say, You don't tell him you used to 1:09:22.479 --> 1:09:24.840 be a hole back in the day. You give that 1:09:24.960 --> 1:09:27.519 nigga none of the knowledge and all of the benefits. 1:09:27.680 --> 1:09:31.280 You don't say nothing to him but good and blow, 1:09:31.720 --> 1:09:34.400 like make this nigga socks sweat and he's going to 1:09:34.640 --> 1:09:40.120 love you forever. That's very hard to do. I'm about 1:09:40.120 --> 1:09:42.040 to throw this chair. But how many lives are you 1:09:42.080 --> 1:09:44.760 holding on you right now? Don't How can you really 1:09:45.120 --> 1:09:47.080 say that when you're looking at the Bitcho's putting it 1:09:47.080 --> 1:09:49.400 all out there. But no, not all. There's some ship 1:09:49.439 --> 1:09:52.320 that you ain't told nobody. Get the funk out of here. 1:09:52.360 --> 1:09:57.200 Why don't don't tell it to the first person I 1:09:57.280 --> 1:09:59.400 ever told that I had another to get paid for 1:09:59.439 --> 1:10:01.040 my apartment. I was working him. He was giving me 1:10:01.080 --> 1:10:03.120 all this ship. I never told anybody that. And he's like, Okay, 1:10:03.120 --> 1:10:07.880 what are you gonna do? What's he gonna do? The 1:10:07.960 --> 1:10:10.519 point first of all this is that you told him 1:10:10.560 --> 1:10:12.679 after he's already invested your sack of ship. You don't 1:10:12.680 --> 1:10:14.360 tell him, you even tell him, you don't tell This 1:10:14.439 --> 1:10:16.400 is what I was gonna say. There was a conversation 1:10:16.439 --> 1:10:17.880 that me and Mandy had when we did a Dating 1:10:17.920 --> 1:10:23.080 Profiles episode. She was like saying, how bisexual. Yeah, she 1:10:23.160 --> 1:10:25.120 was like, she'll be thinking that, you know what I'm 1:10:25.160 --> 1:10:26.720 doing this and Negus be righting me with this. I 1:10:26.760 --> 1:10:29.840 was like, listen, you have bisexual in your bio. She's like, well, 1:10:29.840 --> 1:10:32.160 I have women on there too. I was like right. 1:10:32.400 --> 1:10:34.400 I was like, but if you already have them click, 1:10:34.479 --> 1:10:36.120 they already know you're looking for women and women will 1:10:36.120 --> 1:10:38.680 see you. No need in putting bisexual. Share that with 1:10:38.720 --> 1:10:40.800 a man later. And the reason that I would never 1:10:40.840 --> 1:10:43.000 tell men that, and I've dated women, and the reason 1:10:43.040 --> 1:10:44.680 I never said anything was because I didn't want them 1:10:44.720 --> 1:10:46.960 to thank chance for a threesome or that I'm a 1:10:47.040 --> 1:10:50.160 home whatever. Because you can never really figure out what 1:10:50.280 --> 1:10:53.240 someone's thinking, you know what I mean. So here's why 1:10:53.720 --> 1:10:59.080 I bring up timing. You need to show yourself as 1:10:59.120 --> 1:11:02.280 you would show too. You're not gonna tell someone you 1:11:02.320 --> 1:11:04.400 first meet like a friendship that you've done all this 1:11:04.400 --> 1:11:06.760 whole ship, right, you've just met someone three times. They 1:11:06.800 --> 1:11:08.760 don't need to know all your hidden desires and all 1:11:08.760 --> 1:11:11.800 the darkest secrets about you, and your sexual history is 1:11:11.840 --> 1:11:14.320 a fucking very personal piece of you. Now you just 1:11:14.680 --> 1:11:18.639 um and I'm talking to Mandy. You just got a job. 1:11:19.479 --> 1:11:21.680 I'm guessing you went on an interview. Right, Oh, it's 1:11:21.680 --> 1:11:24.080 already done, like what I'm saying. You went on an interview, right, 1:11:24.160 --> 1:11:28.680 yes to three even better three interviews, and each of 1:11:28.720 --> 1:11:30.360 those interviews that they felt like they were getting to 1:11:30.400 --> 1:11:32.360 know you some more, right, But they're not gonna know 1:11:32.720 --> 1:11:34.839 six months and you're gonna have your feet off, your 1:11:34.880 --> 1:11:37.840 shoes off at the day. But her sex past is 1:11:37.880 --> 1:11:40.479 not something bad. Don't say that. I'm not teching that bad, 1:11:40.479 --> 1:11:42.360 but I'm saying a good comparison, Yes it is, why 1:11:42.400 --> 1:11:44.400 because it's not. It doesn't have to be bad for 1:11:44.439 --> 1:11:46.080 it to be something that they look at and be like, 1:11:46.600 --> 1:11:50.040 but how do we know? And this is so you 1:11:50.040 --> 1:11:53.000 should have Winn there in a robe with your flip flop. 1:11:53.200 --> 1:11:55.920 That's not who she's always gonna be. She's still that person. 1:11:56.080 --> 1:11:59.639 You could be more than one person, but the job 1:11:59.680 --> 1:12:01.559 and didn't relationship. And just because I did some ship 1:12:01.600 --> 1:12:03.200 in my past doesn't mean I'm not ready for you. 1:12:03.479 --> 1:12:05.640 And the reason I wanted don't. Don't put it on 1:12:05.720 --> 1:12:08.080 me to be You think, don't make me this is 1:12:08.280 --> 1:12:10.400 and you think wants the cheater, always a cheater, wants 1:12:10.400 --> 1:12:12.400 the whole, always a whole, wants a cheat, always a 1:12:12.439 --> 1:12:15.080 cheating Yes, once a whole. Lay is a whole, yes, 1:12:15.120 --> 1:12:17.559 but in a different way. She might not be a 1:12:17.600 --> 1:12:20.000 hole at like she might be an active hole, but 1:12:20.160 --> 1:12:22.800 in perception wise, everybody's going to see her as the whole. 1:12:23.040 --> 1:12:29.559 Give the fun why I want? I want to care 1:12:29.560 --> 1:12:32.280 about body, I went on Instagram. No, I'm saying women 1:12:32.320 --> 1:12:35.800 care about a lot of that whole ship. Y'all throw 1:12:35.840 --> 1:12:39.280 it on men and men we we do, Piet, but 1:12:39.320 --> 1:12:41.120 a lot of that should be across the platform with 1:12:41.200 --> 1:12:43.840 women like we be like we won't know a woman 1:12:43.880 --> 1:12:45.720 as a whole. We don't consider a woman Hope until 1:12:45.760 --> 1:12:53.880 we had another woman called Hope. I'm telling no, but 1:12:53.880 --> 1:12:58.360 but she's not even saying what is it? What if 1:12:58.360 --> 1:13:00.080 it were? His friend's gonna think we're talking about me 1:13:00.120 --> 1:13:02.680 and you. And this is the thing that's care what 1:13:02.720 --> 1:13:05.280 their friends think. No, I'm give my friend day. I 1:13:05.280 --> 1:13:09.240 don't give my friends think. I can't what mouse Jones think. 1:13:09.280 --> 1:13:11.240 And at the end of the day, like with every situation, 1:13:11.280 --> 1:13:13.680 any any I don't even call that ship beef, Like 1:13:13.720 --> 1:13:16.040 any industry issue I got with a nigga, any issue 1:13:16.040 --> 1:13:17.599 I got with a nig industreet, any beef I had 1:13:17.640 --> 1:13:19.719 in the street, any situation I had with a woman, 1:13:19.800 --> 1:13:21.400 you don't got nothing to do with nobody watching. I 1:13:21.400 --> 1:13:23.400 don't give a funk about that because I've debt it. 1:13:23.720 --> 1:13:26.200 Very public issues and they could be longer. I can't 1:13:26.200 --> 1:13:28.439 believe you did that. They eat a dick, like, don't 1:13:28.439 --> 1:13:32.160 worry about what you're telling. Got everything. They got everything 1:13:32.200 --> 1:13:34.880 to do with mouse Jones. If I'm comfortable with this 1:13:35.160 --> 1:13:37.160 when I go to bed, and I gotta be comfortable 1:13:37.200 --> 1:13:39.360 with this, how do you know what a nigg is 1:13:39.360 --> 1:13:41.200 gonna be comfortable with? But then you're sitting here and 1:13:41.240 --> 1:13:43.720 telling her, don't tell, don't tell because you know why 1:13:43.800 --> 1:13:45.680 you don't tell. I'm gonna tell you why because she's 1:13:45.680 --> 1:13:49.320 sold five times and lords five times. Butch, try what 1:13:49.360 --> 1:13:51.559 I'm telling you and see if you don't win. Okay, 1:13:52.080 --> 1:13:54.840 I guess so it's who here's that day you want 1:13:54.840 --> 1:13:56.840 to date men? You date yourself. Here's back to the 1:13:56.880 --> 1:13:59.200 body count. I want to give some input that I 1:13:59.240 --> 1:14:03.960 got from a bunch of listeners. I'm gonna date myself outright. 1:14:04.040 --> 1:14:06.160 They yourself then, but don't come. Don't write in and 1:14:06.160 --> 1:14:08.400 talking about what do I do? I just told you 1:14:08.439 --> 1:14:13.720 what to do, nowt or don't tell. I'm think you 1:14:13.760 --> 1:14:16.599 should save all of your experiences for when you feel 1:14:16.640 --> 1:14:20.479 like it's warranted to tell. Yeah, like maybe when after 1:14:20.520 --> 1:14:22.759 you got a ring gonna hang with he's gonna kill himself. 1:14:25.160 --> 1:14:28.599 That's wrong with y'all. I just married you and then 1:14:28.640 --> 1:14:31.559 you tell me you had five dicks at once. Oh, 1:14:32.240 --> 1:14:35.080 I'm jumping off of the hotel. You know, she fucking 1:14:35.080 --> 1:14:36.640 experienced it and she ain't gonna want to be the 1:14:36.640 --> 1:14:38.560 bitches at a fucking bachelorette party like I want to 1:14:38.560 --> 1:14:40.920 talk a dead because she never had it. That's the thing. 1:14:41.080 --> 1:14:45.120 I love your experience, yo. That's for real women that 1:14:45.720 --> 1:14:48.160 go to bachelorette party and don't turn your but you 1:14:48.160 --> 1:14:50.720 know why because they live some life. It's just like 1:14:50.760 --> 1:14:52.920 when niggas be having wives and they go out and 1:14:52.920 --> 1:14:55.519 they act too fucking crazy. They didn't live no life 1:14:55.520 --> 1:15:01.360 alone now prepared whatever she said you, she has to 1:15:01.360 --> 1:15:04.680 tell the mess stuff before they're in a relationship or 1:15:04.800 --> 1:15:06.519 not at all. This is what I keep saying. That's 1:15:06.560 --> 1:15:08.800 what he's saying. Don't whomever I was with before you 1:15:08.840 --> 1:15:16.600 has no relevancy to Okay, let's go back to conversation. 1:15:17.320 --> 1:15:23.160 My question was, is it rude if your partner asks 1:15:23.240 --> 1:15:25.200 you how many men you've been with? And the reason 1:15:25.240 --> 1:15:30.240 that this came up is because I know someone or 1:15:30.320 --> 1:15:32.800 men or women? Actually, sorry, if someone asked you that. 1:15:32.800 --> 1:15:34.840 The reason this came up is because I know someone 1:15:34.880 --> 1:15:38.040 that told me that her man made her give him 1:15:38.080 --> 1:15:42.640 a list would matter of fact, I've seen that. I 1:15:42.680 --> 1:15:45.840 remember it was like last week on a breakfast club. 1:15:45.920 --> 1:15:50.599 Emon said he had to give Tiana. Yeah. I was like, 1:15:51.240 --> 1:15:52.680 and then I've seen other and then I've seen like 1:15:52.800 --> 1:15:56.360 pick me niggas, Like I can't believe she did that. Now, 1:15:56.400 --> 1:16:00.559 what if he asked her for that, we'd be I said, nigger, 1:16:00.560 --> 1:16:03.160 you would want that list? Yeah, please don't give me 1:16:03.200 --> 1:16:06.000 that list. I'm gonna ask you and lie to me. 1:16:07.080 --> 1:16:09.599 Multiplied like don't want to know. So okay, So let's 1:16:09.600 --> 1:16:11.559 start with the first question at hand. Is it rude 1:16:12.080 --> 1:16:14.680 to ask someone their body count? It is very yes, 1:16:14.680 --> 1:16:17.479 it is. Look a look at that, look at the house, 1:16:17.479 --> 1:16:19.960 divided the house. It's very rude to let me tell 1:16:19.960 --> 1:16:23.080 you something. I posted that question. I'm about to put 1:16:23.080 --> 1:16:24.519 my dickets out of you. I would like to know. 1:16:24.720 --> 1:16:27.680 Ask me if I haven't, I don't care. That's not 1:16:27.920 --> 1:16:31.200 buying more about the body counting the disease. Why because 1:16:31.200 --> 1:16:33.120 I can Because listen, there's a pill I could get. 1:16:33.360 --> 1:16:36.360 I could get the pillig I can't get. I can't 1:16:36.400 --> 1:16:40.640 get being number fifty eight. I gotta be numbert You 1:16:40.680 --> 1:16:42.519 never took the number at the d n V. And 1:16:42.680 --> 1:16:46.200 who you are? You ain't never been at the front 1:16:46.320 --> 1:16:49.000 front of DV. Like it doesn't matter who went before me. 1:16:49.439 --> 1:16:54.120 I'm gonna know, mother. Why is the quantity it mattered 1:16:54.160 --> 1:16:56.200 to a certain age. I only care about body count 1:16:57.840 --> 1:17:00.640 up to thirty four? Why I still have more years off? 1:17:00.720 --> 1:17:02.760 And what's too many? And this was a question, I 1:17:02.760 --> 1:17:05.280 ask you, what's that be there? So there's there's a 1:17:05.280 --> 1:17:07.479 few questions. The conversations I got into. So I took 1:17:07.520 --> 1:17:11.400 this poll at three thousand people, Um, it was yes, 1:17:11.439 --> 1:17:14.559 it's a rude question, and and can I tell you 1:17:15.720 --> 1:17:19.280 nig And so then I wrote, I would like you 1:17:19.320 --> 1:17:21.559 all to write me and tell me the max number 1:17:21.600 --> 1:17:23.200 of men for you to be comfortable with for a 1:17:23.200 --> 1:17:26.360 woman the ages and thirty. If a max, no, I 1:17:26.479 --> 1:17:29.080 take it back one, I don't want to virgin. Now 1:17:29.160 --> 1:17:32.080 what do you think? What do you think that? People said? 1:17:32.080 --> 1:17:33.519 What's the number of thing? People said? I would say, 1:17:33.960 --> 1:17:38.400 I think it's six. Really, I think max too. What 1:17:38.479 --> 1:17:43.720 do you think six? Three? So most men wrote back 1:17:43.760 --> 1:17:47.120 and said no more than thirty. Oh, and I was 1:17:47.240 --> 1:17:49.080 very impressed with that. I'm impressed. I want to read 1:17:49.120 --> 1:17:51.040 you one answer. This is from a dude named Chris. 1:17:51.160 --> 1:17:55.320 Chris wrote. Chris wrote back and said, I am thirty four. 1:17:55.400 --> 1:17:57.479 My girls thirty one? I mean I know? And he 1:17:57.600 --> 1:17:59.720 put like five ws. She got quite a few under 1:17:59.720 --> 1:18:01.880 her bell. How could she not? But that's why she 1:18:02.000 --> 1:18:04.639 foks real good. Who wants some ship with four bodies 1:18:04.680 --> 1:18:07.760 as lame as fun? But she probably not gonna please 1:18:07.800 --> 1:18:11.439 you to say. So here's another dude, this is what 1:18:12.880 --> 1:18:16.559 the next guy maybe around thirty. And it also depends 1:18:16.600 --> 1:18:18.639 if I know the guys, or if we are all 1:18:18.640 --> 1:18:20.800 in the same city. I wrote him back and I said, 1:18:20.840 --> 1:18:22.519 what's the problem if you're in the same city? Does 1:18:22.560 --> 1:18:27.479 that a race niggas? He said, If she's made a 1:18:27.560 --> 1:18:29.320 name for herself, I'm not wiping her out. But to 1:18:29.360 --> 1:18:31.040 the guy that does good for him, I won't knock 1:18:31.080 --> 1:18:32.439 him as long as he knows what he's getting into 1:18:32.479 --> 1:18:34.360 and can deal with that. I said, But I'm trying 1:18:34.400 --> 1:18:36.439 to figure out what does it matter if people think 1:18:36.439 --> 1:18:38.280 she's a hoe and what are they necessarily getting into. 1:18:38.400 --> 1:18:40.559 Do you not think that's a personal insecurity with you 1:18:40.680 --> 1:18:43.160 or within the man? He said, it's definitely a part 1:18:43.160 --> 1:18:44.800 of the male ego. Everybody says they don't care what 1:18:44.840 --> 1:18:46.720 people think about them, but we do different degrees. You 1:18:46.720 --> 1:18:48.600 could say it's a personal insecurity, but what makes it 1:18:48.600 --> 1:18:51.880 different or worse than a body insecurity or preference is whatever. 1:18:52.520 --> 1:18:54.240 I'm sorry you didn't write where that right. At the 1:18:54.280 --> 1:18:55.479 end of the day, do it makes happy and if 1:18:55.479 --> 1:18:56.680 you're happy with to check that as too and her 1:18:56.680 --> 1:19:00.400 bodies be happy. Um, I said, I'm ain't going to 1:19:00.400 --> 1:19:01.720 read this on the show. He said, don't pay me. 1:19:01.840 --> 1:19:03.639 On the other end of the spectrum, like, I only 1:19:03.640 --> 1:19:05.599 want to check with two bodies. I could hear Mandy 1:19:05.720 --> 1:19:08.240 Spas and now I like a check that's lived a 1:19:08.240 --> 1:19:11.080 little and it's not a prude, it's not all prudent 1:19:11.080 --> 1:19:15.519 proper to uh. I think most men at this point 1:19:15.600 --> 1:19:19.360 care more not about the body count, but who. And 1:19:19.400 --> 1:19:24.360 I say this because well, I watch name we are 1:19:24.400 --> 1:19:26.599 in the industry where niggas passed around the same five 1:19:26.720 --> 1:19:29.640 six women, Well that's different because I feel like that 1:19:29.680 --> 1:19:31.160 has to do with a lot of these niggas in 1:19:31.200 --> 1:19:35.840 the industry music industry specifically, these niggas are cornball. So 1:19:35.960 --> 1:19:38.840 to me, they look more up to Oh, dann you 1:19:38.880 --> 1:19:41.040 were you were working with nas, let me get because 1:19:41.280 --> 1:19:42.880 if not funk with you, now, let me funk with you. 1:19:44.320 --> 1:19:47.519 That's way. Yeah. The same with Amber. So I was 1:19:47.600 --> 1:19:51.439 dating a guy and um so he like went to 1:19:51.600 --> 1:19:53.000 see to see m us, to see him in Miami 1:19:53.040 --> 1:19:55.280 a lot, really really like this guy. I would say 1:19:55.280 --> 1:19:57.679 it was a situation ship. We had a conversation about 1:19:58.160 --> 1:20:01.439 making it more and I had sucked his homie first 1:20:01.840 --> 1:20:04.920 before I had really even met him, and he knew 1:20:04.960 --> 1:20:07.320 I this homie and this homie was a big deal. 1:20:07.400 --> 1:20:16.879 But no, no, that can't cut out anyways, So anyway 1:20:17.040 --> 1:20:21.960 you didn't right if he didn't do that anyways? Well, 1:20:22.000 --> 1:20:26.559 anyways we were anyway, me and him and let me 1:20:26.640 --> 1:20:30.960 scale back, So me and him, it's the worst dick 1:20:31.000 --> 1:20:34.519 I ever had in my life. But me, yes, me, 1:20:34.960 --> 1:20:37.240 I know I got this. I'm gonna do the cutting. 1:20:37.520 --> 1:20:47.000 But look at you see nothing minutes. No, But anyways, 1:20:47.040 --> 1:20:50.840 his concern was listening, if I get married, that nigga 1:20:50.880 --> 1:20:53.400 is gonna come to the wedding and I don't like 1:20:53.479 --> 1:20:56.799 to know that someone fuck my wife. And so because 1:20:56.840 --> 1:20:58.760 of that reason, like he was like, yo, it would 1:20:58.760 --> 1:21:01.840 be really hard for to go anywhere. What he didn't 1:21:01.840 --> 1:21:04.600 care about any of the bodies or how many bodies are? 1:21:04.640 --> 1:21:07.960 How did he asked you have you fucked anybody? I know? 1:21:08.880 --> 1:21:11.200 I mean he knew because I feel like that question 1:21:11.400 --> 1:21:13.479 is more understandable than the counts. I mean, I met 1:21:13.560 --> 1:21:15.519 him at his birthday, Like what's the problem you ask 1:21:15.680 --> 1:21:18.200 how you asked me how big my dick is? You had? 1:21:19.080 --> 1:21:21.439 Where you asked me my mom and name is like 1:21:21.479 --> 1:21:24.320 you asked me a lot of intrusive question you ask me? 1:21:24.400 --> 1:21:26.160 What do you asked me? What am I doing? Like 1:21:26.439 --> 1:21:29.160 what you're doing its way more fun. Where you at 1:21:29.479 --> 1:21:31.600 is way more intrusive than how many bodies you have. 1:21:31.800 --> 1:21:35.439 Where more intrusive. Like had a dude write me back 1:21:35.479 --> 1:21:37.639 and said me and my girl are both reform hose 1:21:37.760 --> 1:21:41.240 and we got bomb sex because of it. Practice Drake 1:21:41.280 --> 1:21:45.240 made a whole song like I can like you're practicing, bro, 1:21:45.360 --> 1:21:47.400 like let us women practice so that we can please 1:21:47.479 --> 1:21:49.680 you later. There was an amazing answer for someone that 1:21:49.680 --> 1:21:51.360 came to our live show and you're not gonna leave 1:21:51.400 --> 1:21:53.120 this count I want to just find this really quick 1:21:53.160 --> 1:21:57.320 and then I won't read another one. But it's insane. Um. 1:21:58.120 --> 1:22:01.240 I've been in several serious relationships and the number has 1:22:01.280 --> 1:22:04.040 never mattered. The woman with three to four has cheated 1:22:04.040 --> 1:22:07.320 on me, while the woman with seventy plus has been 1:22:07.360 --> 1:22:09.880 faithful to me. There is no max. As long as 1:22:09.880 --> 1:22:12.200 she's healthy, happy, and we're faithful to each other, We're good. 1:22:12.479 --> 1:22:16.400 Faithful is not the ideal world to live in, since 1:22:16.439 --> 1:22:18.479 my partner and I have sex with others separately and together, 1:22:18.479 --> 1:22:21.000 but we trust each other and have open communication, and 1:22:21.040 --> 1:22:23.560 at the end of the day, the foundationship foundation is 1:22:23.600 --> 1:22:26.320 really strong for our relationship. So my girlfriend and I 1:22:26.400 --> 1:22:29.800 love the show. Yes, and we appreciate two beautiful, open 1:22:29.840 --> 1:22:34.479 minded women of color. Thank you, thank you. Look at 1:22:34.479 --> 1:22:37.960 the read this one. This dude blew my mind. But 1:22:38.000 --> 1:22:40.799 more than ten implies that she is very intune herself 1:22:41.080 --> 1:22:42.920 in her body, which is incredible, or she gives it 1:22:42.960 --> 1:22:47.360 up real fast. I mean more than to me. I 1:22:47.439 --> 1:22:56.160 just so, what are we saying? More than most women 1:22:56.200 --> 1:23:00.800 probably start sucking around? Right? So we'll still even over 1:23:00.880 --> 1:23:06.040 ten years? One body a year, Yes, yes, that's what. Yes, 1:23:07.400 --> 1:23:08.720 let me tell you this. Let me tell you this 1:23:08.960 --> 1:23:12.880 up until like until four, until it's up until thirty 1:23:12.920 --> 1:23:15.320 four for me, because I'm like thirty four, we've grown, 1:23:15.320 --> 1:23:17.000 you probably got a kid or some ship, all right, 1:23:17.080 --> 1:23:18.960 let's fun it. I don't care about that. You no 1:23:19.040 --> 1:23:22.679 more anything under that. Also, at thirty four, I feel 1:23:22.720 --> 1:23:26.280 like women know who they are, and there are women 1:23:26.320 --> 1:23:28.800 who know who they are before and you definitely reach that. 1:23:29.000 --> 1:23:31.280 You definitely will reach that for a man mostly mostly, 1:23:31.760 --> 1:23:33.720 but I feel like by thirty four, you know who 1:23:33.800 --> 1:23:35.840 you are, you know what you want your I don't 1:23:35.840 --> 1:23:38.280 given about the body account like your thirty four you've 1:23:38.280 --> 1:23:42.160 been alive for three decades, Like I can't, I can't 1:23:42.400 --> 1:23:48.519 anything before that, though, there's something great about experiencing something 1:23:48.560 --> 1:23:51.639 with your woman the first time. It's her first time, 1:23:51.880 --> 1:23:55.800 a woman with forty five fifty sixty bodies. Goddamn bit, 1:23:55.840 --> 1:23:59.320 you did everything. Come to me. I'm gonna stop you 1:23:59.400 --> 1:24:03.400 right there. If I had a relationship for two years, 1:24:03.880 --> 1:24:06.879 right and I'm actually thinking of an X right now together, 1:24:06.960 --> 1:24:09.519 we had experienced B D S M. We had a 1:24:09.520 --> 1:24:17.559 threesomes together. I was I'm sorry, he was. Um. So 1:24:18.000 --> 1:24:20.360 what I'm saying, though, is let's just say I was 1:24:20.360 --> 1:24:21.840 with him even longer than that. I did the next 1:24:21.880 --> 1:24:23.600 nigger and I did everything with that person I was 1:24:23.600 --> 1:24:25.960 in a relationship with. And then that's when I say, 1:24:26.280 --> 1:24:31.920 that's one body, right, Get what I'm saying. There is 1:24:31.960 --> 1:24:35.840 something and I hate to make this analogy because I 1:24:35.880 --> 1:24:38.040 do not view women this way, but there's something about 1:24:38.040 --> 1:24:41.960 the new car smell. There's something about getting in a 1:24:42.040 --> 1:24:47.439 car and looking You're not gonna pay top dollar for 1:24:47.479 --> 1:24:49.320 a car with a hundred thousand miles on it. It's 1:24:49.360 --> 1:24:51.559 just not you know, just not know why the miles 1:24:51.600 --> 1:24:55.280 really bothers me, because we equate bodies into a woman 1:24:55.320 --> 1:24:59.000 being looser and not being are no no, no, no no, no, no, 1:24:59.000 --> 1:25:00.720 no, no no, no, no no, no way, because a lot of 1:25:00.720 --> 1:25:02.200 men do. I don't want to girl this run through. 1:25:02.560 --> 1:25:05.720 But he's not got a nigga who's sucking me three 1:25:05.760 --> 1:25:08.720 or four times. Single women are getting way less dick. 1:25:09.000 --> 1:25:11.719 I feel like, you know, I'll be having a hard 1:25:11.760 --> 1:25:14.280 fucking time, especially when you popping niggas. You know how 1:25:14.280 --> 1:25:17.120 hard it is to get ahold. I know, I know, Okay, 1:25:17.240 --> 1:25:19.400 let dick out of town right now as a single 1:25:19.479 --> 1:25:24.120 sucking women as a nigger, I know what you're talking up. 1:25:24.520 --> 1:25:27.080 And I have no time whine because I am dating. 1:25:27.160 --> 1:25:34.240 I'm serious. But now that I'm sucking with somebody, I'm 1:25:34.240 --> 1:25:37.719 sucking so much it's ridiculous. And like when I was single, 1:25:38.080 --> 1:25:40.679 but and I would. Let's say I sucked three niggas 1:25:40.960 --> 1:25:45.000 from summer to winter, four niggas. I was having less 1:25:45.000 --> 1:25:46.840 sex with them than one person. But I can write. 1:25:46.840 --> 1:25:50.280 I'm not looking at it from an anatomy thing, because 1:25:50.320 --> 1:25:52.599 I'm smart enough to know that there to do with it, right. 1:25:52.800 --> 1:25:56.040 I'm looking at as the aspect of I can see 1:25:56.479 --> 1:25:59.760 direct and what nobody can argue. Nobody can argue this. 1:26:00.320 --> 1:26:03.719 I can see from who and how many people sleeping 1:26:03.760 --> 1:26:08.280 I can see where your mind is at. I can see. Oh, 1:26:08.439 --> 1:26:15.360 so you either are equating love with Dick either doing 1:26:15.400 --> 1:26:19.080 that or you're equating I'm just a carefully spirit of 1:26:19.120 --> 1:26:21.080 funk who I want. Either one of those is a 1:26:21.120 --> 1:26:24.200 turn off for me. It's just a turn off for me. 1:26:24.360 --> 1:26:26.400 Probably a lot of men think that it's just a 1:26:26.439 --> 1:26:29.479 turn off for me. I love you, I'll still probably 1:26:29.520 --> 1:26:31.800 have a lot of sex with you. But if we're 1:26:31.800 --> 1:26:36.519 talking about building my life, I'm not going to put 1:26:36.560 --> 1:26:40.360 my money on the I'm not going to I'm not 1:26:40.560 --> 1:26:43.200 if this is the NBA, I'm not about to give 1:26:44.400 --> 1:26:49.280 so I'm not. I'm not. You're saying that someone, But 1:26:49.600 --> 1:26:52.599 I'm also not gonna I'm gonna. I'm not gonna put 1:26:52.640 --> 1:26:55.760 my money on lebron right, even though you know that's 1:26:55.760 --> 1:27:01.160 a bad one. He's he's but you really, that's what 1:27:01.280 --> 1:27:03.040 you get. You get you a prime, get you somebody 1:27:03.040 --> 1:27:05.320 in their prime. You get you somebody who's in their 1:27:05.360 --> 1:27:08.800 prime because you know that, all right, they got some 1:27:09.120 --> 1:27:11.080 Kimber Walker. That's why i'mna puting my money on I'm 1:27:11.080 --> 1:27:12.960 gonna put my money on Kimba Walker before I put 1:27:12.960 --> 1:27:15.799 my money on Chris Paul so you're telling me putting 1:27:15.840 --> 1:27:18.280 money you meet somebody. We're talking about me and Mandy 1:27:18.360 --> 1:27:20.439 right here, we've both more than ten people. I think 1:27:20.439 --> 1:27:23.280 I can name you all tend you name my fucking multiploded. 1:27:23.400 --> 1:27:27.519 But you have women who are sitting here making over 1:27:27.640 --> 1:27:32.320 six figures, business owners, smart, intelligent and attractive. And so 1:27:33.040 --> 1:27:37.880 now six bodies, how do there's a problem. So now 1:27:37.920 --> 1:27:39.519 it's not a problem. But if you want to date me, 1:27:39.720 --> 1:27:42.439 it's gonna be a problem. Why. It's just not what 1:27:42.479 --> 1:27:46.639 I'm wanting. It's literally just like, never wance at this part. 1:27:46.720 --> 1:27:48.400 I've never wanted. How many bodies have you had? Then? 1:27:48.479 --> 1:27:51.240 Oh my god, it's disgusting. And we're supposed to accept 1:27:51.280 --> 1:27:54.519 that as women though duality dualities. Your son is never 1:27:54.520 --> 1:28:00.519 out with the moon. The world is the world run? 1:28:03.040 --> 1:28:05.240 Oh it was that funny, Alex, you're cracking up over 1:28:05.280 --> 1:28:11.840 there was that funny. This is really not ship No, 1:28:11.960 --> 1:28:13.960 But when I when I when I, when I'm telling 1:28:13.960 --> 1:28:16.040 you this, it sounds funny. But when you think about it, 1:28:16.240 --> 1:28:19.599 this world is created in rant. The very fact that 1:28:19.680 --> 1:28:22.880 the axis of the Earth spins is based off of duality. 1:28:23.080 --> 1:28:26.400 Double standards have to exist for the world to not implode. 1:28:27.200 --> 1:28:31.200 It has to. It has to. You don't want no 1:28:31.280 --> 1:28:36.320 freely asked nigga, nigger. Your friends are gonna ask you, 1:28:36.400 --> 1:28:40.240 is he gay? I don't care. You're talking to the 1:28:40.240 --> 1:28:42.960 wrong bitches. Y'all. Y'all take a gay man, I would take. 1:28:43.200 --> 1:28:47.120 I would take about sexual man. It's like dating. You're 1:28:47.160 --> 1:28:50.519 going to marry a nigga? That okay? You are the exception. 1:28:50.560 --> 1:28:53.160 And I know there's you guys represent a larger number 1:28:53.160 --> 1:28:55.720 of people. I get that, But the bigger number of 1:28:55.760 --> 1:28:59.960 people in the United States are not funking with that. Women, 1:29:00.240 --> 1:29:03.080 especially in our culture. Ain't that's what this show is for, 1:29:03.200 --> 1:29:05.679 because I think that that mindset is. But you would 1:29:05.720 --> 1:29:08.759 be already sucked up. Bring you like you'd be surprised 1:29:08.800 --> 1:29:11.960 if you go to like the rest of these motherfucker's 1:29:12.000 --> 1:29:16.519 that I'm telling I'm not, I'm not. I'm not. Like. No, Now, 1:29:16.560 --> 1:29:19.479 you're really gonna sit here say, after listening to us 1:29:19.720 --> 1:29:22.639 and knowing that we're good fucking women, that someone shouldn't 1:29:22.640 --> 1:29:24.720 take us serious because I know I didn't say that 1:29:26.040 --> 1:29:28.840 that he would. There's a bigger the world. I know 1:29:28.920 --> 1:29:31.280 it's hard, but he's a large majority. No, No, it's not. 1:29:32.000 --> 1:29:34.200 I'm saying it's hard. It might be hard to accept, 1:29:34.560 --> 1:29:36.839 but mouse just might not be the one for you. Goddess. 1:29:37.320 --> 1:29:40.439 It's just personal. It's just I can't come and I 1:29:40.479 --> 1:29:43.120 will never. You never heard me once judge of woman 1:29:43.200 --> 1:29:55.679 for saying I got two kids, right, huh babysh technically woman, yes, 1:29:55.880 --> 1:29:58.519 different baby, but one woman raises them like my second, 1:29:58.640 --> 1:30:01.120 my second. I have cut you my oldest. So when 1:30:01.120 --> 1:30:03.759 I met my second baby mother, we had a relationship 1:30:03.800 --> 1:30:06.640 with Together they create a bond, and just because we 1:30:06.680 --> 1:30:09.479 broke up, I would be an idiot to split them 1:30:09.560 --> 1:30:12.080 up like that was literally, that's literally been her mother's 1:30:12.080 --> 1:30:15.559 from the age of three. To you get what I'm saying, 1:30:18.000 --> 1:30:25.559 I was body run it up. No, but I'm so 1:30:25.640 --> 1:30:28.840 serious that you say whatever so that the masculine thing 1:30:28.960 --> 1:30:31.200 might not be the thing that turns your love. But 1:30:31.280 --> 1:30:33.920 there is something that you don't want your man. There's 1:30:33.960 --> 1:30:36.400 something that you do or that you view as feminine 1:30:36.439 --> 1:30:38.760 that you don't want your man doing. It will turn 1:30:38.800 --> 1:30:42.720 you off. I don't care what it is. Duality that 1:30:42.840 --> 1:30:46.000 is a double standard. There are certain things certain we 1:30:46.000 --> 1:30:47.680 don't even have to be sexual about it. There are 1:30:47.720 --> 1:30:51.559 certain personality traits, certain things that you will accept from 1:30:51.640 --> 1:30:53.360 a woman that you will not accept from a man. 1:30:53.800 --> 1:30:56.599 Will you will? You will say, because I'm a woman, 1:30:56.640 --> 1:30:58.559 I should be able to do this, because you're a man, 1:30:59.800 --> 1:31:03.639 and longer that the thing it's about to get. That's 1:31:03.640 --> 1:31:07.439 why you're walking like that. The pockets heavy, that's out 1:31:07.479 --> 1:31:12.000 loud because somebody uses as a pocket. Somebody pockets who 1:31:12.120 --> 1:31:14.360 walk like But I'm gonna keep it very real like 1:31:14.400 --> 1:31:19.120 this right, and it's gonna get very ugly. It's gonna 1:31:19.120 --> 1:31:21.080 be because I think there's a very ugly way to 1:31:21.120 --> 1:31:23.760 look at it. But I see the best reaction and 1:31:23.840 --> 1:31:27.080 understanding when I bring it down to this. I don't 1:31:27.080 --> 1:31:29.080 know you guys, what you've guys done, and you've been 1:31:29.320 --> 1:31:32.479 both been in serious relationships, right, has there been? Have 1:31:32.560 --> 1:31:35.759 you ever hit your nigga? No? Never, I'm not abusive. 1:31:36.600 --> 1:31:40.160 You've hit him. You've hit your nigga, bust them upside 1:31:40.200 --> 1:31:43.920 his fucking skull. But if he hits you, what would happen? 1:31:44.560 --> 1:31:47.200 You know what I want to I need to hear 1:31:47.280 --> 1:31:49.960 you verbalize that because it's very important what I'm trying 1:31:49.960 --> 1:31:52.519 to get here. So I don't need the story about you. 1:31:53.840 --> 1:31:56.040 I just need to know what happened. I don't need 1:31:56.040 --> 1:31:59.000 to know what How would you if he's getting locked up, 1:31:59.200 --> 1:32:02.040 he's getting locked up, the locked up because a woman 1:32:02.080 --> 1:32:05.680 could get locked up exactly, how would you view I 1:32:05.720 --> 1:32:08.160 don't care about the world because we're talking about we're 1:32:08.160 --> 1:32:10.000 talking about linear here, we're talking about one in two. 1:32:10.160 --> 1:32:12.880 How would you Wheezy view that nigga? But I never 1:32:12.920 --> 1:32:15.120 sat here to say to you. But I don't disbelieve 1:32:15.160 --> 1:32:17.920 in gender roles and assuming them sometimes, okay, And that's 1:32:17.960 --> 1:32:20.439 what this body count plays into. It's all a bigger 1:32:20.920 --> 1:32:23.160 the double standard. It's a double standard. It's gender roles. 1:32:23.479 --> 1:32:25.680 My woman can't have more bodies than me. I'll take 1:32:25.680 --> 1:32:27.400 a nigga with a thousand bodies. And we don't really 1:32:27.400 --> 1:32:29.120 care about body count. A lot of women do not, 1:32:29.560 --> 1:32:32.840 but men, for whatever, I don't care about. Yeah. So 1:32:33.000 --> 1:32:35.800 I don't actually understand the guy that said the city 1:32:35.880 --> 1:32:38.200 like niggas in my city more than I do. That's 1:32:38.200 --> 1:32:40.400 why I brought up. And I only feel like because 1:32:40.439 --> 1:32:44.320 I feel like when there's people issues with it, right, 1:32:44.320 --> 1:32:47.240 and it's like I hate it and I hate that, 1:32:47.280 --> 1:32:51.519 Like I guess I am somewhat participant in this urban 1:32:52.160 --> 1:32:55.479 form of patriarchy, because it's like there are so many 1:32:55.600 --> 1:32:58.800 things that would turn that turns me off about a woman, right, 1:32:58.960 --> 1:33:02.000 it's like fuck you. But like I'm just talking about 1:33:02.120 --> 1:33:03.640 like dating right because I'm at the point where I 1:33:03.680 --> 1:33:05.920 want to settle down. I want to find love and 1:33:05.960 --> 1:33:09.639 all that good stuff which I have. Um, so wait, 1:33:09.680 --> 1:33:13.000 you found love. That's not your girlfriend? We're dating? Do 1:33:13.040 --> 1:33:15.080 you say I love you think I hate so much? 1:33:15.240 --> 1:33:17.840 But we're dating? But no, no, but that's your girlfriend though, 1:33:17.920 --> 1:33:22.640 But it is, it is, it is a primary. But no, no, 1:33:22.760 --> 1:33:26.200 my husband, I don't don't. I don't have no other bitches. 1:33:26.360 --> 1:33:28.000 I don't have no other bitches. Why can't you call 1:33:28.040 --> 1:33:30.360 her your girlfriend? Because you know there's two of us, 1:33:30.520 --> 1:33:32.599 there's two people involved in and something. You don't want 1:33:32.640 --> 1:33:34.679 to call you her boyfriend. I think we are both 1:33:35.520 --> 1:33:39.640 a lie lying. Okay, you want to call it, call 1:33:39.680 --> 1:33:42.920 it right now. Let's do it right now. I want 1:33:42.920 --> 1:33:45.880 to know color, call it right now. We can cut 1:33:45.880 --> 1:33:48.200 it out. This is literally gonna take five minutes and 1:33:48.200 --> 1:33:51.200 then we're gonna we called her right now because the 1:33:51.560 --> 1:34:05.599 text's going, Okay, I can't wait, give me, but it's over. 1:34:06.439 --> 1:34:10.720 Why her number and says, right, she's supposed to have 1:34:10.760 --> 1:34:15.280 emojis at least know what? This is a brand you 1:34:15.280 --> 1:34:17.200 know what? Do look fresh? This is a brand new phone. 1:34:17.240 --> 1:34:19.080 Ain't even got a case. I'll let you Damn. She 1:34:19.080 --> 1:34:24.240 ain't picking up because I don't know. I'm not doing that. 1:34:24.760 --> 1:34:29.679 You better be dead in jail. Phone call one. Okay, 1:34:29.720 --> 1:34:31.800 he's called a real cow. Can we call her as 1:34:31.800 --> 1:34:35.000 a nickname? Because you know the sound like you make 1:34:35.000 --> 1:34:47.599 when you blue? Blue? Dude? Hello, what are you doing? Speaker? Huh? 1:34:48.120 --> 1:34:49.920 All right, well I need you to be up for 1:34:49.920 --> 1:34:53.920 a second. Alright, any five minutes of your time? All right. 1:34:54.000 --> 1:34:57.960 I'm here at the Horrible Decisions podcast and they trying 1:34:59.120 --> 1:35:04.559 can you hear him? How do? Dope? How are you? 1:35:04.760 --> 1:35:07.040 We're calling you dope do because we're trying to be 1:35:07.200 --> 1:35:09.800 um private with your name. But we're sitting here in 1:35:09.880 --> 1:35:12.000 mouse My name is easy, by the way, and Mandy's 1:35:12.040 --> 1:35:15.920 here and we're talking to him about dating and relationships 1:35:15.960 --> 1:35:18.759 and how you grow from dating to having a title. 1:35:19.240 --> 1:35:21.920 And he says he found love and that he he 1:35:22.000 --> 1:35:24.920 loves you, and he says that he does not use 1:35:24.920 --> 1:35:28.080 the title girlfriend and boyfriend. So me, I said, we 1:35:28.160 --> 1:35:30.360 are not right. We are not that right now. So 1:35:30.439 --> 1:35:33.840 me and many started, no, we're recording, Well we're not. 1:35:34.560 --> 1:35:38.559 We're recording. Yeah, so we said, well, why you ain't 1:35:38.560 --> 1:35:40.280 calling her your girlfriend? He's like, how do you know? 1:35:40.400 --> 1:35:43.680 She don't want that? So what we want to ask you, wo, 1:35:43.760 --> 1:35:47.920 mental woman. I'm coming to you as a woman's because 1:35:47.920 --> 1:35:51.800 we think he's a liar. So basically we're asking you, 1:35:52.520 --> 1:35:58.599 how come you haven't made that title dating? Because we're 1:35:58.600 --> 1:36:00.880 trying to help you win? What's that? I don't know 1:36:00.920 --> 1:36:09.160 you like that? Um so, um, I think we both 1:36:10.439 --> 1:36:12.479 but we came into this. We had a lot going 1:36:12.560 --> 1:36:18.880 on separately, and I came out of a very long 1:36:19.000 --> 1:36:22.880 topic relationships. Relationships kind of scare me, like that whole 1:36:23.000 --> 1:36:27.400 title thing. Um So it was just a decisions that 1:36:27.520 --> 1:36:32.439 I made where I decided like I don't, I didn't want. 1:36:32.479 --> 1:36:37.519 I don't. I mean I don't. Really we were together, 1:36:39.080 --> 1:36:43.880 really need a title you have? But you're saying you're 1:36:43.920 --> 1:36:47.000 saying you don't need it, but do you want? She 1:36:47.040 --> 1:36:55.240 said they used condoms about condoms. I didn't say that 1:36:56.880 --> 1:36:59.960 all the time, but you said you don't need it, 1:37:00.080 --> 1:37:01.920 but if you want? If you today, it was like 1:37:01.960 --> 1:37:06.120 I want you to be my girlfriend? Would you say, yeah, 1:37:06.600 --> 1:37:13.200 are you I'm I'm sorry, you know what I feel 1:37:13.200 --> 1:37:17.400 like y'all to y'all love to say it's okay, So 1:37:17.439 --> 1:37:19.559 it's not mouse okay. So some women may not want 1:37:19.560 --> 1:37:20.960 to tie the too. I didn't know. I never met 1:37:20.960 --> 1:37:22.400 a woman that didn't want to talk. I still feel 1:37:22.439 --> 1:37:24.000 like you didn't Well you didn't answer yet, would you 1:37:24.040 --> 1:37:36.280 have said yes? If you chick on your ass? Days 1:37:36.360 --> 1:37:46.360 are recently probably not made. We felt the ancient about 1:37:46.439 --> 1:37:51.719 the room. But he did. Thank you girl, Thank you dude. Dude, 1:37:51.960 --> 1:37:55.960 bleep bleep boo boo. I get off the phone. Done 1:37:59.240 --> 1:38:05.480 a right, all right, say goodbye? I love you, love you? 1:38:05.520 --> 1:38:10.880 Can we leave that? So? Okay? I think you want 1:38:10.880 --> 1:38:13.320 to be your girlfriend? And I believe like it's nothing 1:38:13.320 --> 1:38:16.400 that we're not saying we don't want a relationship. We're 1:38:16.439 --> 1:38:23.599 saying right now, we're dating and we're literally I think 1:38:23.640 --> 1:38:28.360 she's saying. I think she's saying that because when people 1:38:28.360 --> 1:38:32.679 say something that she don't like it her my favorite 1:38:32.720 --> 1:38:36.479 part today no, because he knows what then he just no, no, no, 1:38:36.479 --> 1:38:42.680 no no, she said, I'm like, oh, well, guys, um, 1:38:42.720 --> 1:38:45.360 I hope you guys enjoyed this episode. In this conversation, 1:38:45.479 --> 1:38:47.680 we clearly fuck talked about a whole lot. And I 1:38:47.720 --> 1:38:50.439 hope that you guys have these conversations with your people, 1:38:50.560 --> 1:38:52.640 like are you dating right now? Do you have a 1:38:52.640 --> 1:38:56.400 boyfriend girlfriend? Non boyfriend? Girlfriend's situation? Ship going on? What 1:38:56.560 --> 1:38:58.439 is going on? Have this conversation with your friends. Thank 1:38:58.439 --> 1:39:02.559 you now, Joe, find you, nigga? Where can they find you? 1:39:02.800 --> 1:39:05.080 They like you somewhere sucking up? But um, if not, 1:39:05.880 --> 1:39:09.880 you can find me Twitter, Instagram, Mouse Underscore Jones. Um, 1:39:09.960 --> 1:39:13.160 like I said, I'm on, I'm gonna bet got my 1:39:13.200 --> 1:39:15.840 own show on BT. I'll apologize later. He just had 1:39:19.720 --> 1:39:24.040 it's ont put us. What's up? We're already Actually we're 1:39:24.040 --> 1:39:26.720 already doing that, so just relaxed, ye down. Um, you know, 1:39:26.920 --> 1:39:28.680 shout out to season two. We just got signed to 1:39:28.720 --> 1:39:30.720 the season two, so there will be a season two. Um, 1:39:30.760 --> 1:39:33.400 so yeah, shout the show. Who's been on? Designer Mac 1:39:33.439 --> 1:39:40.200 wild naively dreams. Shout out specifically mackawc Wilds. We want 1:39:40.240 --> 1:39:43.080 you with your finance. Thank you, you just find thats all. 1:39:43.120 --> 1:39:44.560 I just want to shout out her short too. But 1:39:45.120 --> 1:39:47.960 he's actually like six foot he's like you. It is, 1:39:48.040 --> 1:39:51.000 but he's an exception. Yeah Mac, what bro, that's my brother? 1:39:51.280 --> 1:39:54.599 Shut up? Um, yeah, don't catch no disease. But yeah, 1:39:54.640 --> 1:39:56.280 that's where you can find Yeah, that's where you can 1:39:56.280 --> 1:39:59.439 find the content. I'll apologize later and um the pull up. 1:39:59.520 --> 1:40:05.160 You can find that on bt um subscribe at bt networks. 1:40:05.320 --> 1:40:08.479 On YouTube, uh he man woman Hite his club podcast 1:40:08.760 --> 1:40:10.720 you can find that on sound client of iTunes each 1:40:10.760 --> 1:40:14.320 and every Wednesday. What is a bibliography? We're gonna have 1:40:14.360 --> 1:40:17.639 to do with scroll at the end. Work we're working. 1:40:17.960 --> 1:40:22.559 You catch my episode on my brand idiot, my fucking 1:40:23.200 --> 1:40:27.840 friend zone. I'll speak out the brand's happy shout a 1:40:27.880 --> 1:40:32.679 loud speaking network. Let's work. That was for you first, 1:40:32.720 --> 1:40:35.840 that you first, Thank you so much. You guys know 1:40:35.880 --> 1:40:38.760 where to catch us already. Horrible Underscore Decisions. I'm your girl, Mandy. 1:40:38.760 --> 1:40:41.320 You can find me at full Core Pumps, Wheezy wt 1:40:41.520 --> 1:40:44.280 after Instagram. 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