Speaker 1: Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
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Speaker 2: Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Speaker 2: Other Side.
Speaker 3: Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
Speaker 3: everything on the other side.
Speaker 2: Yes we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
Speaker 2: or to some the invisible world, life is going to
Speaker 2: be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 3: Uh heck, yes it can. Because let's be honest, br in,
Speaker 3: earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2: That, let's crush Earth School together. So welcome Insider's Guide listeners.
Speaker 2: So this is the deal. My hard work and elf
Speaker 2: is working hard somewhere, and I'm going to do my
Speaker 2: best to create some really fun content with the support
Speaker 2: and the aid of our talented producer Joey. Joey's in
Speaker 2: the house.
Speaker 4: Hi.
Speaker 5: Super excited to be on.
Speaker 2: Joey, who does so much for us. Really, I mean,
Speaker 2: we're just so grateful. So thank you, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2: And Joey volunteered. It was amazing. He's like, you know, hey,
Speaker 2: you all might need some content, as you know, well,
Speaker 2: Julie's is the hard working out and traveling and doing
Speaker 2: all the things. So they stepped up in the most
Speaker 2: beautiful way, and I'm like, yes, yes, yes, thank you.
Speaker 2: So I get to do a reading and you all
Speaker 2: get to listen, and this is going to be fun.
Speaker 2: So we're really excited. So thanks for joining us, and
Speaker 2: there may be some things that have some meaning to
Speaker 2: you as we discuss the best way for Joey to
Speaker 2: navigate his world energetically. We're going to do a little astrology,
Speaker 2: a little numerology, and a little to row, because that's
Speaker 2: how I that's how I roll, Joey. Any questions from you.
Speaker 4: Not really, I think. I mean we talked a little
Speaker 4: bit before this my astrology. I've had my chart read once,
Speaker 4: but definitely excited to hear more reading a little bit
Speaker 4: more about neurology lately, so definitely interested to hear about
Speaker 4: all that.
Speaker 2: Okay, a willing participant, I love it. That's really need Okay.
Speaker 2: So the other thing I've asked Joey to do is
Speaker 2: to manage when the breaks are because you know, when
Speaker 2: I get reading, blah blah blah time. So all right,
Speaker 2: so here we go. So Joey, your job is to
Speaker 2: just breathe deeply and sort of settle into your heart
Speaker 2: space and as you gently focus on the areas in
Speaker 2: your life where you would like more information, more guidance,
Speaker 2: more support. I asked the universe, in accordance with everything
Speaker 2: that it's good and everything that's light, let it be
Speaker 2: in the reading. Okay, thank you, nice a nice drop in.
Speaker 2: That's always a nice, nice place to start. Doesn't always
Speaker 2: happen that way. People get so excited for their readings
Speaker 2: they're like jumping out of their skin. Okay, so I'm
Speaker 2: going to have this out lovely spread. Of course it's
Speaker 2: too so they're all lovely in my opinion. But what
Speaker 2: are going to jump first to astrology? Now? Knowing I
Speaker 2: assumed that you had had your chart read somewhere along
Speaker 2: the way, so I wanted to focus on just some
Speaker 2: things that really caught my eye that I want to
Speaker 2: pull out so that you can figure so that you
Speaker 2: have an option to leverage some of the blessings in
Speaker 2: your chart. Okay, you have all kinds of things that
Speaker 2: would take a whole hour to navigate and to dive
Speaker 2: into the twists and turns, but this is just going
Speaker 2: to be a high level okay, Okay, So the first thing,
Speaker 2: of course, is that your son is at twenty nine
Speaker 2: degrees cancer, right, so you are cancer, which is the
Speaker 2: cardinal sign of water. And so the sun is like,
Speaker 2: this is my basic identity and my conscious purpose, and
Speaker 2: it's in the sign. It's in the house of you know,
Speaker 2: I feel, right, or the sign of I feel. It's
Speaker 2: actually in the eighth house, but it's in the sign
Speaker 2: of cancer, which is all about I feel. This is
Speaker 2: the emotional support. This is like the you know how
Speaker 2: they have like support animals that you can take on
Speaker 2: airplanes and things like that. This is this, This is
Speaker 2: the support sign of the astrology chart. Cool.
Speaker 4: Cool, I'm the emotional support friend basically.
Speaker 2: Well and well do you The thing about the cancer
Speaker 2: is the sign of cancer is that it literally is.
Speaker 2: One of my first astrology teachers says, I hate that
Speaker 2: it's called the sign of cancer because in our mind
Speaker 2: we think of that as a disease. That's the first
Speaker 2: thing people think of. Of course, you know, centuries ago
Speaker 2: that was not the case. But she said it should
Speaker 2: be renamed the sign of love, right, because that's what
Speaker 2: cancer is. And the thing that's really important about this
Speaker 2: sun sign not anything that happens in this sign is
Speaker 2: that it's about reciprocity. Right, there are times I'm sure
Speaker 2: you've experienced where you have been How can I a
Speaker 2: taken for granted? Tapped on too many times? Because what
Speaker 2: appears to be unlimited unconditional support and love for your
Speaker 2: people is not unlimited. Because you have a physical body,
Speaker 2: you have physical requirements and limitations just like everyone else,
Speaker 2: and so sometimes you can end up overgiving. Does that
Speaker 2: sound right? Does that ever happen? Yeah, maybe somewhere along
Speaker 2: the way. And so it's a really important lesson for
Speaker 2: you to learn to actually embrace the cardinality. Right. The
Speaker 2: cardinal sign is all about taking initiative, setting boundaries, and
Speaker 2: being leaderly like right, So I want you to embrace
Speaker 2: your cardinal son as in cancer as though I'm going
Speaker 2: to show you people how to love with appropriate boundaries
Speaker 2: and don't be a hot mess all the time and
Speaker 2: sometimes show up and take care of me because it's
Speaker 2: really important. So does that does that sound like a
Speaker 2: good growth edge for you? A good plan?
Speaker 4: Actually? No, that I think that definitely is. I'm I
Speaker 4: definitely am bad about like my personal boundaries too, so
Speaker 4: I you know, I'm also the I'm the eldest child
Speaker 4: and all of that.
Speaker 5: So I'm definitely not with the.
Speaker 4: You know, you know, given a little bit too much,
Speaker 4: and I think for my own kind of personal being,
Speaker 4: something I've been trying to work on is the setting boundaries.
Speaker 2: So beautiful, Okay, oldest child syndrome. So I'm going to
Speaker 2: give you. I pulled this out of one of my
Speaker 2: favorite books that says, for for cancer, I need to
Speaker 2: give and receive emotional warmth and security. Right, So if
Speaker 2: you like you know, and your friends or your tribes,
Speaker 2: or your your partners, whoever you know, and they're like, oh,
Speaker 2: don't fuss over me, you're like, I need to give
Speaker 2: and receive social warmth and security. Like I need to
Speaker 2: be able to fuss over who I want to fuss over,
Speaker 2: and I need who's ever next to me to give
Speaker 2: me that security as well. Right, it has to be reciprocal.
Speaker 2: And again it's not it's never a one to one,
Speaker 2: it's always one hundred percent. So that's what I want
Speaker 2: to say. But it's not one hundred and ten percent.
Speaker 2: It's not one hundred and fifty percent. That's going to be.
Speaker 2: That's on you, and you can come back to that.
Speaker 2: The other thing that I think is really important. And
Speaker 2: the reason I hit this is a lesson under the
Speaker 2: you know one that is, you just exude caring about
Speaker 2: and for people like it's it's an easy move for you.
Speaker 2: You've always done it, you know all the things, but
Speaker 2: especially when it's at twenty nine degrees, because that means
Speaker 2: for lifetimes you've been practicing and you've mastered this skill
Speaker 2: of being generous unconditional love and support for people. And
Speaker 2: so it's it is easy for you, but it's also
Speaker 2: inappropriate to overgive, right to overgive at the twenty ninth degree,
Speaker 2: like you're almost in that mastery. So next lifetime you'll
Speaker 2: come out, you know, your birth chart will have nothing
Speaker 2: in this house of cancer or the sign of cancer
Speaker 2: because you've already you've already learned everything there is to learn.
Speaker 2: It'll be fabulous. You'll get like check that box and
Speaker 2: moving on. Okay, that's the opportunity. So I really wanted
Speaker 2: to drive drive that point. Now. The other thing about
Speaker 2: the cardinal the cardinality of cancer is that there are
Speaker 2: times when people can be a little foolish or self
Speaker 2: centered or naive, and they will mistake your kindness for weakness.
Speaker 2: Does this make sense, and they will. There's probably some
Speaker 2: times where you come at them like, hey, knock it off,
Speaker 2: you know, you know, I'm not gonna put up with that,
Speaker 2: and they're surprised you take them aback right, They're like,
Speaker 2: what just happened? Don't even know what just happened. And
Speaker 2: so I just want to remind you that when people
Speaker 2: do that, you can just giggle and go, oh that's
Speaker 2: so cute. You think that I'm not strong in that way?
Speaker 2: Too bad? So sad. You know, like you draw that line,
Speaker 2: and you draw it hard, because you do have firepower,
Speaker 2: you do have willpower, you do have ignition that says
Speaker 2: I can push back. This is not a problem, okay,
Speaker 2: so use that leverage. It super important. And the other
Speaker 2: thing is, as you know, you have seven planets in
Speaker 2: fixed signs, so you can dig in with the best
Speaker 2: of them. You can be really stubborn. You can like say, no,
Speaker 2: I'm not budgeting, I'm not budging. That is your birthright.
Speaker 2: And I encourage you because you're so generous, because you're sensitive,
Speaker 2: because you give people things they need before they need them,
Speaker 2: before they know they need them. They're like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: that's exactly what I need. How do you do that,
Speaker 2: You know, you're always kind of scanning in that way
Speaker 2: when you've had enough, you've had enough and don't back down. Okay, definitely, okay, good,
Speaker 2: all right, And so of course, so we're gonna talk
Speaker 2: about the sun and the moon, and then we're going
Speaker 2: to talk about your ruling planet and then some some
Speaker 2: of the special gifts you have with your planets in dignity,
Speaker 2: which is a really fun thing. Right, So, so next
Speaker 2: about your moon. So your moon is in the eleventh
Speaker 2: house in Scorpio. So we know that your emotional processing
Speaker 2: runs really deep, Like you feel so deeply. I imagine some
Speaker 2: people are like, what are you talking about? I can't
Speaker 2: even I've never I've never even thought about it or
Speaker 2: felt what you're talking about. Can you explain it to me?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 2: So some people can't can't track with you. Does that
Speaker 2: make sense?
Speaker 5: That definitely makes sense. Yeah.
Speaker 4: That was like one when I found out on a
Speaker 4: Scorpio moon and I was like, oh, okay, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, now I get it. Yeah that makes sense.
Speaker 2: But there I imagine there are times like you know
Speaker 2: you're feeling deeply, but sometimes you don't even know what
Speaker 2: you're feeling. You need time to process. And usually it's
Speaker 2: helpful if you have like a trusted you know, one
Speaker 2: or two people, right, because again because of the depth
Speaker 2: of how you feel and you need to unwind it
Speaker 2: and bringing language into both the planet and the sign
Speaker 2: that sometimes struggles with language. Does that make sense because
Speaker 2: I'm I'm just feeling. I don't know what I feel.
Speaker 5: That makes sense.
Speaker 4: But also, like I I'm self aware enough to know
Speaker 4: that I'm very bad about talking about my feelings.
Speaker 5: So just feeling a lot of feelings.
Speaker 4: So that makes sense to you With the Scorpio, yeah,
Speaker 4: because I never thought about like that too, about the
Speaker 4: having difficulty communicating and talking.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it can take a while. And so what
Speaker 2: I would do is, you know, make friends with someone
Speaker 2: who has like mercury rules are charged, or a strong
Speaker 2: Gemini or a strong third house that can help with
Speaker 2: deep compassion, not making you ripe, but saying well, does
Speaker 2: it kind of feel like this? Well you can because
Speaker 2: you can edit it. Well, you know, it's not that
Speaker 2: it's it's more like this, like but just having that
Speaker 2: you can see how just having the conversation can kind
Speaker 2: of help you. And then once you can put your
Speaker 2: hands around it, then you can pull the meaning and
Speaker 2: purpose of the emotion instead of being overwhelmed by it.
Speaker 2: Does that make sense?
Speaker 5: Definitely?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because sometimes you know, with those scorpios who
Speaker 2: are so psychic always and you are no different, right,
Speaker 2: the scorpions are so psychic and they they need help actually,
Speaker 2: like okay, I have to contain this because it it
Speaker 2: can feel like it can sweep you away sometimes, right definitely,
Speaker 2: ah yeah, yeah yeah. So just find find that tribe,
Speaker 2: whether it's a therapist or just a few close you know, confidants,
Speaker 2: and say I need some great listening power and compassion.
Speaker 2: Can you can you just walk me through this and
Speaker 2: and that can be really helpful.
Speaker 5: Definitely.
Speaker 2: So next I want to talk about the planets and dignity. Well,
Speaker 2: so there's you know, uh, planets like to be in
Speaker 2: certain houses and sometimes like get cranky in certain houses,
Speaker 2: and then sometimes that really exalted in certain houses, and
Speaker 2: then other times there's a there's what they call a fall,
Speaker 2: which means the energy of that planet isn't available in
Speaker 2: that house. And that is where your mercury is. It's
Speaker 2: in the eighth house of Leo. And this is why
Speaker 2: I want you to find someone with a strong mercury
Speaker 2: or energy, because uh, you know, it's so interesting to
Speaker 2: me because you work in communication, right, and mercury is
Speaker 2: all about words and and thinking and communicating and you
Speaker 2: make all these people sound good and put things together
Speaker 2: and work with all the technology and the words. But
Speaker 2: sometimes words elude you and you and I imagine that's
Speaker 2: really frustrating for you because your mind is very quick,
Speaker 2: but the words can be elusive and and so that's
Speaker 2: just what I want to say about that. That's why
Speaker 2: you know, before you say, hey, are you going to
Speaker 2: be some of my inner circle trusted tribe, I'd like
Speaker 2: to see your chart.
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, living in Brooklyn, but.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. I love it.
Speaker 4: Yeah that's interesting, Yeah, because I definitely the Leo Mercury.
Speaker 5: I didn't know as much about that too, but yeah.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 4: The next thing about podcasting too specifically is it's a
Speaker 4: lot of communication that you get to edit afterwards and
Speaker 4: script beforehand. So maybe that's also because I definitely you
Speaker 4: know that makes sense, right, I write outlines and scripts
Speaker 4: for the that I have to do on on Mike.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: That's great. That's yeah, because then you're like I can
Speaker 2: control it, I can think about it. I can feel
Speaker 2: my way through it as opposed to in the moment.
Speaker 2: So yeah, really really good. And so but what I
Speaker 2: really want to talk about are your planets in dignity. Right,
Speaker 2: So this is like where the planets radiate so much
Speaker 2: juice and so much energy for you to leverage. And
Speaker 2: you have three planets in dignity, which is a lot.
Speaker 2: It's kind of it's kind of extraordinary. I think of
Speaker 2: it as a great so to me, this is like
Speaker 2: a great blessing. So this means you have full access
Speaker 2: to their to their gifts and we and and that's
Speaker 2: why I really want to highlight this so that in
Speaker 2: case your other reading didn't address this, have you have
Speaker 2: you they talked about this with you before? Have you
Speaker 2: had this conversations?
Speaker 5: Not as much.
Speaker 4: I haven't heard it framed as the planet's about dignity.
Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah, it's it's it's a little bit of slice,
Speaker 2: but it's such a special blessing and I want you
Speaker 2: to be able to take advantage of these. So when
Speaker 2: you look at your charge, like you can just put
Speaker 2: a little star next to these planets in the houses, right,
Speaker 2: So Uranus in Aquarius is in the second house and
Speaker 2: Uranus is you know, rules rules, Aquarius, so it's really
Speaker 2: happy here. So it's in the second house, which is
Speaker 2: all about what do I value? Right, what do I value?
Speaker 2: And it's Uranus in Aquarius. So what you value is
Speaker 2: actually being your own individual self. You don't conform and
Speaker 2: you want that for everyone because it's in the house
Speaker 2: of Aquarius, which is the collective, the greater good of all.
Speaker 2: Like this is the energy of Aquarius, right, and it's Uranus,
Speaker 2: so it doesn't mind being disruptive. So Uranus, you know,
Speaker 2: is happy in the house of Aquarius. Because Aquarius is
Speaker 2: about technology, it's about breakthroughs, it's about innovation. So something breaks,
Speaker 2: it doesn't matter because so if you're honest as an
Speaker 2: Aquarius and it breaks something, it creates breakthroughs, It creates
Speaker 2: opportunities for something that's better. I'll figure it out. You're
Speaker 2: a great innovator. You don't like doing the same thing
Speaker 2: over and over and over. You get a little antsy.
Speaker 2: You don't mind being masterful at it, Like that's okay
Speaker 2: with you, but you're like, what are we going to
Speaker 2: do this different how differently? How are we going to
Speaker 2: make it better? Like how like you're always thinking about
Speaker 2: how you can improve things. It's just how you move
Speaker 2: through the world. So you don't get tied to doing
Speaker 2: things over and over just because that's the way we've
Speaker 2: always done it right, Like it's yeah, and and like
Speaker 2: you see the rules and you're like, oh, that's interesting,
Speaker 2: but you don't really by biome that's so cute. People
Speaker 2: think like that, you know, that's a limited We're not
Speaker 2: going to do that. You literally are a change agent
Speaker 2: and you're comfortable with that. And again because you have that,
Speaker 2: you know, beautiful cancer sun, you you don't have to
Speaker 2: blow things up. You can guide people to the change
Speaker 2: right and otherwise, urine just can feel like, you know,
Speaker 2: a lightning bolt to people, like you're just throwing light
Speaker 2: bolts at me. Yeah, sometimes I do. But it's okay,
Speaker 2: we're going to change, We're going to find the breakthrough.
Speaker 2: It's going to be okay. Stick with me. The other
Speaker 2: thing about this energy is sometimes you can go off
Speaker 2: by yourself and you'll get lost in whatever you're innovating
Speaker 2: or creating, which which is fun. You know, it can
Speaker 2: be really fun for you. It can even be comforting
Speaker 2: to you. Like in the chaos of the world, you're
Speaker 2: like I'm so much better off just being by myself
Speaker 2: and just kind of doing it this way, and so
Speaker 2: I'm going to take some time and really expand it
Speaker 2: and you know, create something that's fantastic that I love
Speaker 2: or I'm proud of, right, And so I want you
Speaker 2: to be able to do that on the regular. But
Speaker 2: it's you also need to come together with your people,
Speaker 2: right because you you like to unify, you like, you
Speaker 2: really like to bring people together. And again, part of
Speaker 2: it's that cancer sun, but it's really playing off this
Speaker 2: powerful Uranus and Aquarius. That's that's all about bringing tribes together.
Speaker 2: And I imagine you're pretty loyal to your tribe and
Speaker 2: does this make sense?
Speaker 5: And yeah, definitely.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you have a couple of different tribes?
Speaker 5: I do, Yeah, I definitely.
Speaker 4: I'm also like I don't know, I've moved around a
Speaker 4: little bit, like throughout my life and yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 4: really interesting that that definitely resonates.
Speaker 5: It's a cool, cool kind of perspective on it too.
Speaker 5: It's like yeah, I like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah. And it's it's like I feel like wherever
Speaker 2: you go, you bring this energy of yes, we're a
Speaker 2: tribe and we're inclusive.
Speaker 5: Oh, yeah, I like that. I definitely. I don't know.
Speaker 4: I feel weird called myself a nonconformists, but I've been
Speaker 4: I've been told of a little bit of an on
Speaker 4: conformists sort of.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to find out what's what's Where did.
Speaker 5: I have for you?
Speaker 2: Oh? I think I said you're a change agent? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: an innovator and change agent. Yeah, for sure, you.
Speaker 5: Know, I think especially I don't know which do.
Speaker 4: You've talked a little bit about on the show about
Speaker 4: like the Pluto shift and everything too. But I think
Speaker 4: it's interesting that that just happened, and you mentioned comunity too,
Speaker 4: because I think something I was like definitely thinking about
Speaker 4: for this year was like focusing on community and.
Speaker 5: All of that.
Speaker 2: So I just feel like whenever you decide to do something,
Speaker 2: you could hang out a flag and people will come
Speaker 2: running because because and and to be clear, it's Aquarius,
Speaker 2: So it's going to be like you know how we
Speaker 2: call my alf nerdy elf, you know, because she goes
Speaker 2: off like it's going to be nerdy people. It's going
Speaker 2: to be total and and but you'll know how to
Speaker 2: track people.
Speaker 5: Those are my people.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're gonna be and it's gonna be awesome and
Speaker 2: they're going to be so excited to have a place
Speaker 2: to go, which is interesting case. Literally what I said,
Speaker 2: you know, you're you're inclusive, you're supportive, and you like
Speaker 2: people who think for themselves. You're not looking for people
Speaker 2: who think exactly like you, right, You're looking for people
Speaker 2: who can have a conversation and be interested or curious
Speaker 2: about how other people think. Like it's not you're not
Speaker 2: into the cookie cutters, right, Oh my god, don't conform
Speaker 2: whatever whatever that this is annoying to you, and and there.
Speaker 2: But the the the extension of that is you actually
Speaker 2: you see yourself as part of the larger collective of humanity,
Speaker 2: which is like this extraordinary special lens of how you
Speaker 2: play and process in the world. Does this just makes sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I think so. Yeah, that's cool. I really
Speaker 5: like that. I like that kind of perspective. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, which is you know, as I'm pulling and looking
Speaker 2: at this and you know, your charge playing and talking
Speaker 2: with me, I just I just think in that way,
Speaker 2: I love this role for you because you are literally
Speaker 2: like putting together all this different these different message tracks. Again,
Speaker 2: it's not about whether you agree with them or don't
Speaker 2: agree with them, but you have this pulse and this
Speaker 2: view of humanity that has in what they're getting and
Speaker 2: how they're receiving it, and it's it's you know, like
Speaker 2: your a puppet master or something. It's kind of cool.
Speaker 2: So I like that. So that's that's how I see
Speaker 2: Uranus in Aquarius for you in the Second House, which
Speaker 2: I loved.
Speaker 4: Actually that's interesting too because one of the other shows
Speaker 4: that I work on is all about like technology and
Speaker 4: looking at particularly like marginalized folks and women and how
Speaker 4: they kind of interact with technology and the Internet and
Speaker 4: those experiences which it's called there are no goals on
Speaker 4: the Internet shameless plug if anybody wants to listen. But
Speaker 4: but yeah, I definitely I feel like a lot of
Speaker 4: those kind of themes are are what I work on
Speaker 4: with that other show, Yeah, which I totally like. I
Speaker 4: feel like all of the all the kind of podcasting world,
Speaker 4: the things that I do, it all sort of falls
Speaker 4: into this.
Speaker 2: I love that. I love that so much. Okay, welcome
Speaker 2: back from our break. As we move on to what
Speaker 2: I was going to talk because you had brought up
Speaker 2: you know, we just did that episode on Pluto and
Speaker 2: astrology that you rushed for us. Thank you. And what
Speaker 2: I talked I wanted you to know is that for
Speaker 2: next year, so twenty twenty five, Pluto, right, the planet
Speaker 2: of transformation, of death and rebirth will transit over your
Speaker 2: natal Neptune, which is the planet of my capacity to
Speaker 2: transcend the finite self through expressing unity and the greater whole.
Speaker 2: Like this is such a big concept, Like people think, well,
Speaker 2: Neptune's like dreams and deception. Yeah, it absolutely is. But
Speaker 2: the higher octave of Neptune is one of transcendents. So
Speaker 2: you've got the planet of transformation right going over the
Speaker 2: planet of transcendence. So next year I want you to
Speaker 2: be thinking ahead. I want to bring this up so
Speaker 2: that you could think ahead about It's a great year
Speaker 2: to create personal reflection. So whatever your spiritual practice is,
Speaker 2: or get a spiritual practice, whether it's a yoga retreat
Speaker 2: or silent retreat that you can even do at home,
Speaker 2: like get a personal couch or spiritual guide, like this
Speaker 2: is going to be your opportunity to really go deep
Speaker 2: and find some essence that is bubbling. But you never
Speaker 2: really get the chance to get to or you get
Speaker 2: to process. You have glimpses of it, you have experiences
Speaker 2: of it, but it's like it's gonna be the perfect
Speaker 2: time to crack wide open. Okay, do this makes sense? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: And you know, of course this all happens in the
Speaker 2: sign of Aquarius, so you can be like this social reformer,
Speaker 2: it's gonna be amazing, So we can't wait for that.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, any questions about that? Does that
Speaker 2: make sense?
Speaker 4: Yeah, if that makes sense, I'm glad I got some
Speaker 4: some prep time to think about.
Speaker 5: But yeah, that's a that's a cool, cool combination.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's extraordinary. It's completely extraordinary, all right. So
Speaker 2: that the second planet in dignity right in that elevated spot,
Speaker 2: of course, is Venus and Virgo in the ninth house.
Speaker 2: So so your mind is quite active, your spirit is
Speaker 2: quite active. Your philosophy of how you approach things is
Speaker 2: always like oh I wonder how that works, or I
Speaker 2: wonder how this group's gonna function, or you know, like
Speaker 2: you care about these things. You notice these things not
Speaker 2: everyone does, and you know, once in a while you
Speaker 2: can go down a rabbit hole like everyone else, like, oh,
Speaker 2: I don't think this is going to work. But what's
Speaker 2: important to remember when you have Venus in virgo is
Speaker 2: that you want to focus on what you value, what
Speaker 2: your preferences is. Like if you find yourself spinning out
Speaker 2: mentally or just like stressed and anxiety, you have to go, wait,
Speaker 2: what do I value? What do I value? Like I
Speaker 2: have to block out the world to go, wait, who
Speaker 2: do I, as Joey value, And that's what I'm going
Speaker 2: to give my energy and attention to. Energy and attention
Speaker 2: is your greatest resource. Right, So because you you are
Speaker 2: social and you you are literally in social and you're
Speaker 2: you know, in this broadcasting sort of position, it's easy
Speaker 2: to look out and every once in a while you
Speaker 2: have to cut that all off and go, wait, what
Speaker 2: do I personally value? What do I want to bring
Speaker 2: my attention to? Does this make sense?
Speaker 5: That makes sense?
Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely, definitely talked about therapist about that.
Speaker 2: So yes, super super important. And you have Venus, right,
Speaker 2: the goddess of beauty and value and hearts and you know,
Speaker 2: connections and relationships like all these things that Venus owns,
Speaker 2: things that you care about. You have her blessing you
Speaker 2: in this this house of dignity for her, so in
Speaker 2: the sign of dignity. So this is really really important
Speaker 2: for you to know and go Venus bless me, Like
Speaker 2: that's the amount of remind me what I value, Remind
Speaker 2: me what's important, right, And if you don't really like
Speaker 2: what's being talked about, change the channel literally just flip
Speaker 2: it and that's you know, if it's something like you
Speaker 2: can pass off to someone else, Hey, can you take
Speaker 2: care of that? That really bums me out? You can't
Speaker 2: do it? And then come back to what you're passionate about.
Speaker 2: Because you're passionate about a lot of things. There's a
Speaker 2: lot of things you care about, and you care about
Speaker 2: how life works. Like our school is hard? Is our
Speaker 2: you know? And it is? And you're like, but why
Speaker 2: why is it hard? We should think about this? You know,
Speaker 2: you care about humanity, you care about I actually wanted
Speaker 2: to ask you about this because it's in the signe
Speaker 2: of Virgo. Do you have like are you curious about
Speaker 2: like the body, like how the body works and like
Speaker 2: or do you listen to podcasts and like I don't know,
Speaker 2: like how the brain gets stressed or you know, different
Speaker 2: processings in the body, because sometimes Vigo can be very
Speaker 2: curious about stuff like that.
Speaker 4: A little bit definitely more on a less of like
Speaker 4: I think how the body works, but I definitely uh got.
Speaker 4: There was a podcast that I listened to like about
Speaker 4: a year ago that was all about like it was going.
Speaker 4: It was talking about different like drugs and how the
Speaker 4: effect like the brain, and it was like all these
Speaker 4: different kind of it was really like with that kind
Speaker 4: of stuff, I'm always really interesting. I think stuff that
Speaker 4: has to do with like the brain and how people
Speaker 4: you know, Yeah, the the hardcore science ye, stuff that
Speaker 4: kind of of grosses me out a little bit, but
Speaker 4: I like the I think the like psychology behind stuff
Speaker 4: is really interesting.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And again, anyone who can like is talking about
Speaker 2: a podcast they heard a year ago, this is this
Speaker 2: is unusual. Okay, so this is one of your superpowers.
Speaker 2: I also feel like you have a sense of beauty,
Speaker 2: like what is pleasing to you and and the aesthetics
Speaker 2: are very specific to you, and like it's really important
Speaker 2: for you to have as much of that as possible.
Speaker 2: Does this make sense?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I mean I and Brenda you can see part of it.
Speaker 4: But I have like posters and art like all over
Speaker 4: my room, which any any room I've ever lived in
Speaker 4: has looked like this because I cannot stand looking at
Speaker 4: just like blank walls.
Speaker 5: So yeah, I feel that I feel like that would
Speaker 5: be connected.
Speaker 2: The visuals are really important and they're specific. They're not
Speaker 2: just like, oh, I'm gonna put up you know whatever.
Speaker 2: They are specific, they're curated, they're edited, and they are specific,
Speaker 2: and so that's really important. So this is another thing
Speaker 2: to do that when you get stressed or overwhelmed or
Speaker 2: caught in something that isn't pleasing aesthetics interesting to you, like,
Speaker 2: you have to pivot to I'm going to go create beauty,
Speaker 2: you know, I'm going to create something that is pleasing
Speaker 2: to me. I'm going to listen to a podcast and
Speaker 2: how the brain functions, you know. So yeah, this is
Speaker 2: super important. So again I just want you to be
Speaker 2: able to leverage and celebrate the venus energy that's extraordinary
Speaker 2: in your chart. And then the last planet that is
Speaker 2: in dignity for you is Mars and Scorpio, and it's
Speaker 2: in the eleventh house. Okay, Mars, which is your power,
Speaker 2: your ignition, you get into action fuel, right, So that's
Speaker 2: Mars resides in the House of in the eleventh House,
Speaker 2: which is the collective house of tribes. Social reform, social aspirations, ideals,
Speaker 2: ideals that serve the collective and the greater good? Right,
Speaker 2: does this like anything we've already talked about, right, because
Speaker 2: it's it's in that natural house of Aquarius, right, but
Speaker 2: it's in the house of Scorpio, which is all about
Speaker 2: digging to the depths, getting to the essence of things
Speaker 2: and surfacing them. So I imagine there are times where you
Speaker 2: can end up being the keeper of a lot of
Speaker 2: secrets for people. Does this make sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah, that makes sense.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and you will protect those till the
Speaker 2: day you die, like.
Speaker 4: You That is so funny because I just like the
Speaker 4: other day, was talking to one of my friends about
Speaker 4: this because I was like, I, when it comes to
Speaker 4: my secrets, like it's something that is about me, I
Speaker 4: cannot keep that to myself, Like I will tell everybody
Speaker 4: if it's somebody else's secret, like I will take that
Speaker 4: to the grave, Like there's nothing you can do to
Speaker 4: get that out of me.
Speaker 5: So maybe that's yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: That is Mars and Scorpio. Yep, you can torture me.
Speaker 2: Is not coming out. So again, there's so many other
Speaker 2: things we could talk about in your chart that I
Speaker 2: adore and that you know, we'll do a session two someday.
Speaker 2: But that's what I wanted to talk about. And then
Speaker 2: I got to your to your numerology chart, which is amazing.
Speaker 2: So the neurology chart literally says your soul essence is
Speaker 2: a one and you are an original, right, And so
Speaker 2: we go right back to Urana's inaquarius right that we
Speaker 2: talked about. Right, I am an original. I don't conform
Speaker 2: I'm a social reformist. I you know, I am fueled
Speaker 2: in the space of social aspirations, ideals to serve the
Speaker 2: greater collective with visions and innovation. That's how I move
Speaker 2: through the world. So this is what you came to do.
Speaker 2: This is where your happiest right. So yeah, and you
Speaker 2: can see how I did your astrology chart first, because
Speaker 2: it's it can be complex and trying to choose what
Speaker 2: I want to talk about. And then I did your
Speaker 2: neurology chart, which is a quicker process, and I'm like, oh, there,
Speaker 2: it is there, it is there, is is all reflected
Speaker 2: right in your numerology chart, which I love. And then
Speaker 2: how your mind works, which is how you're going to
Speaker 2: fuel this. I'm not a conformist. I came to originate
Speaker 2: and innovate. Your mind works in a way that is
Speaker 2: it's the seven, which is I like to fully understand things.
Speaker 2: I don't go off half cocked, like I really want
Speaker 2: to understand how this is going to work. If we're
Speaker 2: going to do it, I want to know it. I'm
Speaker 2: not going to wing it. Right. Does that make sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah? That makes sense.
Speaker 2: Yeah. And you know a lot of things, so you're
Speaker 2: quick to pick up on things and process so that's helpful.
Speaker 2: But the depth that you know things is probably more
Speaker 2: complete than most people out there. So because you'll run
Speaker 2: into people have once a while, they'll be like, oh,
Speaker 2: I know about that, and you're like, oh really, and
Speaker 2: you start talking about it and they're like, I have
Speaker 2: no idea what you're talking about, right, Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 4: This has been good for my ego too, like these
Speaker 4: are all great things. No, but I'm definitely you know,
Speaker 4: I've definitely had the experience, particularly from certain types of
Speaker 4: men that will try to explain things to me that
Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, yeah, I know that I actually did
Speaker 4: a research project on that or whatever, so I do.
Speaker 4: I mean, like half of what I do is basically
Speaker 4: just like research.
Speaker 5: So that makes sense.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And you're happy there and you're you're good there,
Speaker 2: like other people would die. They would be like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, just shoot me now, this is awful. I
Speaker 2: can't do this right. And you're like, okay, what else
Speaker 2: did you need? That was fun? But this is what
Speaker 2: I mean. You know, you have a very curious mind,
Speaker 2: so you know about a lot of things that's fun
Speaker 2: for you. And then but what's interesting to me is
Speaker 2: what people see from you, like the output of your work.
Speaker 2: They see mastery. They see like you you have a
Speaker 2: powerful impact. Whatever you put out is a high level
Speaker 2: of quality and it's impressive, and they don't see all
Speaker 2: the action that goes with it, right because they're like,
Speaker 2: here did this, and you're like here you go, boom
Speaker 2: right back at you. You know, you give it back
Speaker 2: to them, but they don't know how long you worked,
Speaker 2: how fast you worked, how much master you have. And
Speaker 2: so I just want to say that they you probably
Speaker 2: don't get affirmed or thanked at the level of how
Speaker 2: you pull rabbits out of a hat and they're like, oh,
Speaker 2: that was that's awesome things and you're like, no, that
Speaker 2: was freaking magic people, you.
Speaker 4: Know, So yeah, again, I feel like that's a very
Speaker 4: like we're getting a creative field, I think.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I just want to call out and thank
Speaker 2: you for your magic.
Speaker 5: Thank you, yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2: It is an honor to work with you. And and
Speaker 2: so one of the life lessons you just brought this up.
Speaker 2: So I'm going to firm you here. But one of
Speaker 2: the life lessons that you came to enact is how
Speaker 2: much creativity can I bring? Right? So it's you do
Speaker 2: work in a creative field, and sometimes there's so much
Speaker 2: work it's hard to be creative. Does that make sense?
Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely Yeah.
Speaker 2: And so you have to say you have to like
Speaker 2: push back where you where you can and remind people like, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm I have a lot of creativity. I can do
Speaker 2: more and not just more quantity of what I'm doing,
Speaker 2: but I can get creative. What else do you need?
Speaker 2: So let people let people know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely that I that definitely resonates.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I really like that, especially with the I think
Speaker 4: the Virgo and Venus and talking about like needing to
Speaker 4: you know, kind of go into my creativity, go into
Speaker 4: my world, go into the things that are creatively fulfilling
Speaker 4: for me that night. Yeah, I definitely feel that.
Speaker 2: And again when you know, when Pluto is going to
Speaker 2: go over your natal neptune, it may be like I'm
Speaker 2: going to take some fill in the blank creative class
Speaker 2: whatever it is. I don't know if it's filmmaking or
Speaker 2: music writing or painting or I don't know what it is,
Speaker 2: but write it might be something like that. That might
Speaker 2: be a version of it. So the other thing I
Speaker 2: want to talk about in your personal your name and
Speaker 2: your chart, there are all kinds of what we call
Speaker 2: master numbers that get reduced down that don't get reduced down,
Speaker 2: and neumalogy, everything reduces to one. But like eleven is
Speaker 2: always known as eleven two, which is different than the
Speaker 2: two because one in one equals to right. So but
Speaker 2: eleven stays as eleven two. And so you have a
Speaker 2: number of eleven twos in your chart. And this speaks
Speaker 2: to your superpower because it's repeated a number of times.
Speaker 2: Of sensitivity, of emotional sensitivity, sun and cancer, right for sure.
Speaker 2: But it's also just it points to also psychic abilities.
Speaker 2: And I think you know, we've you know, had quick
Speaker 2: exchanges about your high level of sensitivity and psychic gifts,
Speaker 2: and I just I want to call that out that
Speaker 2: it's it's mirrored in this and that it's only going
Speaker 2: to get stronger if you can create that even five
Speaker 2: minutes a day of sitting and reflecting and listening deeply
Speaker 2: within and of course you have Mars and Scorpio, which
Speaker 2: is completely psychic.
Speaker 4: So definitely, yeah, yeah, we've had back and forth.
Speaker 5: That's definitely.
Speaker 4: It's like an area of my life too that I'm like,
Speaker 4: I think I need. I'm bad at taking the time
Speaker 4: to actually sit down and focus on that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2: But five minutes a day, seven a day, yea. And
Speaker 2: you can start with three and then like after thirty
Speaker 2: days you can do up to five. You know, just
Speaker 2: do it slowly, but because you can, and it's so
Speaker 2: good for your brain. It literally gives the brain like
Speaker 2: time to go through a rint cycle, is what it is.
Speaker 2: By fifteen minutes is best, but five minutes counts because
Speaker 2: if you do five minutes every day, that's like a
Speaker 2: couple of fifteen minute sessions. Okay, so start with that.
Speaker 2: It's super important. And so I'm dangling this super psychic
Speaker 2: power in your senior years, which is a lot you know,
Speaker 2: ways off, but I'm dangling that out front. And if
Speaker 2: you want to be a wise Joey, then then you
Speaker 2: will you know, that's my that's my offer to you.
Speaker 5: Awesome.
Speaker 2: When I look at twenty twenty four for you, I
Speaker 2: want you to know that this is a one year,
Speaker 2: so you're going to probably start something new for you. Okay,
Speaker 2: so this is this is going to be a curious year.
Speaker 2: This is going to be like what am I going
Speaker 2: to do differently?
Speaker 5: You know?
Speaker 2: And maybe you bring up that aspect of how do
Speaker 2: I how do I study something new? I don't know
Speaker 2: what it is, but that's something creative, a new outlet
Speaker 2: for my creativity. Or maybe you get like hey, you know,
Speaker 2: Mike gives you, hey this, can you do this project
Speaker 2: off the side of your desk for a couple of
Speaker 2: months or something like that where you get to bring
Speaker 2: all your creative gifts to it. That could be a
Speaker 2: two and then of course next year will be a
Speaker 2: two year, which is a year of great emotional sensitivity.
Speaker 2: Now I know this feels redundant speaking to you because
Speaker 2: we already established that you were already very emotionally sensitive,
Speaker 2: which is exciting and a gift for sure. But it
Speaker 2: could also be a year where you end up having
Speaker 2: a significant relationship and it could be it could be
Speaker 2: a work relationship or a romantic relationship or both, but
Speaker 2: I'm going to put that out there as well. Okay,
Speaker 2: all right, so let's take a break and then we'll
Speaker 2: come back and wrap up with tourot and welcome back.
Speaker 2: So we did a quick coaching session in between the
Speaker 2: break because you know, because I can't stop talking. I'm
Speaker 2: so excited about your charts, Joey. All right, So we
Speaker 2: have some cards spread here, and so just a quick
Speaker 2: wrap up of bringing it again from the sole impression
Speaker 2: of both the neurology and the astrology chart, like this
Speaker 2: is your blueprint for this life. That's what this is,
Speaker 2: and trou is the snapshot of what to do about it,
Speaker 2: what to do with it now? Right, So we have
Speaker 2: this window and it says, hey, you've been really steady
Speaker 2: in how you show up and get things done, how
Speaker 2: you show up for other people, how you show up
Speaker 2: for your work, like you work really hard to get
Speaker 2: things done on time. I know, Julie and I have
Speaker 2: benefited from this many times. Thank you. And we also
Speaker 2: have this aspect that says, I'm so much more than
Speaker 2: just the steadiness of work. My mind is so agile
Speaker 2: and I actually can't stop from creating new ideas and
Speaker 2: creative things. And I know some things I think about
Speaker 2: are not anything that are in my lane, but it's
Speaker 2: just fun for me to play with it. And so
Speaker 2: I've been doing that in a way that kind of
Speaker 2: excites me. And so I'm going to encourage you to
Speaker 2: go ahead and talk to people about some of the
Speaker 2: things you think about. Again. Sometimes with it that cancer
Speaker 2: sun and the scorpio moon, sometimes you won't get chatty
Speaker 2: at all, and then every once in a while you'll
Speaker 2: start getting chatty and people are like, oh, Joey's well
Speaker 2: fired up, you know, right, but you can get a
Speaker 2: little quiet. And I'm going to challenge you to get
Speaker 2: a little more chatty, okay, because that's going to be fun.
Speaker 2: And then I want to ask, do you have a
Speaker 2: relationship that you are excited about or a relationship that's new,
Speaker 2: a friendship that's new that you're like, Oh, and this
Speaker 2: is what UH will tend to be male, But someone
Speaker 2: who's very strong and very clear and very steady.
Speaker 4: Interesting in terms of like new stuff, Not really I am,
Speaker 4: you know, I guess on that kind of vein.
Speaker 5: I have kind of started dating again.
Speaker 4: You know, these past this past month especially, kind of
Speaker 4: been trying to get back into that.
Speaker 2: So nice that could.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and also that definitely sounds it. I also, I'm
Speaker 4: I'm moving out of my current apartment into a new
Speaker 4: one in a month, so I'm having some sort of
Speaker 4: like you know, just people in my in my immediate
Speaker 4: household in life kind of changes within the next month
Speaker 4: or so.
Speaker 2: So and are you moving? Will you be by yourself?
Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna be moving within a couple of friends,
Speaker 4: so okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, because the move looks like it takes some of
Speaker 2: the chaos down, is what I'd say. Does this make.
Speaker 4: Sense, like like a moving Yeah, yeah, okay, that's interesting.
Speaker 5: That's good to hear. Yeah, I feel like that definitely
Speaker 5: would be helpful. That would be helpful.
Speaker 4: There also was a little bit of chaos like the
Speaker 4: past week and just trying to figure out what the
Speaker 4: situation was going to be.
Speaker 5: So yeah, that resonates.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, but you'll definitely have your own room, correct,
Speaker 2: That's well. I just need to make sure because otherwise I'm.
Speaker 4: Like, oh, yeah, no, I am past the point of
Speaker 4: my life where I'm sure I group with somebody.
Speaker 2: I just want to make sure Sometimes this space is
Speaker 2: so good it's worth it. But I'm just saying, you know, yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: And then I do want to ask sometimes we talked
Speaker 2: a lot about how fast your mind works. There are
Speaker 2: times when you or let me ask this differently, is
Speaker 2: there something that has taken place or something that maybe
Speaker 2: you're even kind of grappling with now that doesn't feel
Speaker 2: fair or it doesn't feel like it went down in
Speaker 2: the right way. Nothing comes to mind.
Speaker 4: I something does? I think, ok yeah, no, something does.
Speaker 4: I think my brain is trying to work around it
Speaker 4: a little bit. But that definitely has been a kind
Speaker 4: of situation recently like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So this is what I want to say about that.
Speaker 2: You're not someone who moves to the world lightly. You're
Speaker 2: very intentional about how you create, connect execute express right.
Speaker 2: You're very intentional, and not everybody is, and that can
Speaker 2: create a lot of things where situations where you roll
Speaker 2: your eye and like, are you kidding me with this?
Speaker 2: You know?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And so I just want to I want to call that out.
Speaker 2: And this might be one of those situations. But I
Speaker 2: do feel like there is a core thread, so I've
Speaker 2: I don't let's just say, okay, so this person maybe
Speaker 2: you've known for a while has done something, or someone
Speaker 2: you just met that has done something that resonates almost
Speaker 2: like a like a callback or a hangover from something
Speaker 2: that happened before. So it feels like a continuous thread
Speaker 2: for you, like why does this happen in the world? Right?
Speaker 2: It feels like it's not even like this is unfair.
Speaker 2: They were mean to me. It's not that it's like
Speaker 2: this is unjust. And so that's the deeper essence. Even
Speaker 2: though if what was a surface scratch, the essence of
Speaker 2: how that came to be or how it was handled
Speaker 2: is really not up to your caliber of how you
Speaker 2: move through life. And I'm going to invite you to
Speaker 2: do two things which seemed contradictory but are going to
Speaker 2: make sense hopefully actually important. And one is to speak
Speaker 2: this is how this made me feel. I don't need
Speaker 2: you to do anything. I just I need to have
Speaker 2: closure with it. So by that I need to speak
Speaker 2: this out loud. And I don't think you have any idea,
Speaker 2: I don't think you don't care, but I just I
Speaker 2: needed to say it so that you know and we're back,
Speaker 2: we're on the same page. That makes me feel better
Speaker 2: if we're on the same page. And does this make sense?
Speaker 2: Is that possible? Have you done that?
Speaker 4: That makes sense? I? Yeah, it was like the situation
Speaker 4: I'm thinking of had it definitely? Yeah, resulted in kind
Speaker 4: of a little bit of that. There's definitely a couple
Speaker 4: of steps I think I still need to do.
Speaker 2: But yeah, you skipped a few, didn't you. You skipped
Speaker 2: a few steps, Yeah, a little bit that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: And so I want you to speak your truth and
Speaker 2: just say again, I want us to be to remain connected,
Speaker 2: and I want us to, you know, be on the
Speaker 2: on the same page about this, and I'm happy to
Speaker 2: listen to anything you have you know that you would
Speaker 2: want to say too. And then I'm going to ask
Speaker 2: you to let it go, not because it doesn't need
Speaker 2: to be resolved, but because I don't feel like the
Speaker 2: person that this went down with has the skills to
Speaker 2: actually step up and resolve it. Does this make sense?
Speaker 5: Yeah? That makes sense?
Speaker 2: Yeah? And so I just want I feel like you
Speaker 2: don't because you move through the world with a lightness
Speaker 2: and a caring and integrity. You don't have a lot
Speaker 2: of loose ends. You write a lot of loose ends
Speaker 2: in your relationships. You you are very clean in that area.
Speaker 5: That one. It depends. I'm definitely.
Speaker 2: For the people who matter to you for the poll.
Speaker 4: Now for the people that matter to me, No, there isn't.
Speaker 4: And actually that's interesting because I did just have a
Speaker 4: like situation too, where like a friend that I've known
Speaker 4: since like middle school and I kind of like a
Speaker 4: little bit of a falling out. But it was like
Speaker 4: this same kind of thing, and this is a different
Speaker 4: situation than when I was thinking of but it was
Speaker 4: kind of like, yeah, it was it was like it
Speaker 4: wasn't allowing me to let it be a loose signs
Speaker 4: like it ended up we got all kind of we
Speaker 4: figured it out and we talked it out and all that,
Speaker 4: which I think was good. But yeah, yeah, when it.
Speaker 5: Comes to things that matter, it does.
Speaker 4: When it comes to things that are outside of kind
Speaker 4: of that, I could be a little more.
Speaker 5: Not as careful about it.
Speaker 2: But yeah, well you don't have to close those because
Speaker 2: it's like they're on the outer they're in the outer
Speaker 2: outer circle, right, They're not in the inner circle, right,
Speaker 2: And so you're like, eh, we were just off on
Speaker 2: that day or you know, we're never We're never going
Speaker 2: to connect like that anyhow, So it doesn't matter. But
Speaker 2: the people in the inner circle you're not careless with
Speaker 2: and you don't have loose ends, and so if this
Speaker 2: person's a little bit that's why I would like you
Speaker 2: to treat this as though this is someone who can't
Speaker 2: really meet you where you are. So I don't want
Speaker 2: you to exhaust yourself or let it burn in your field,
Speaker 2: because it's just wasted energy. Okay, you have high standards, Joey,
Speaker 2: You just you have high standards of how people should act,
Speaker 2: how work should be done, how you know, like you
Speaker 2: and you have it for yourself mostly right, But you
Speaker 2: also there's also a line, you know, beneath that that
Speaker 2: says this is unacceptable and that what I'm seeing was unacceptable,
Speaker 2: and it's okay, it's okay to speak it, and it's
Speaker 2: okay to move on definitely, all right, Yeah, all right,
Speaker 2: So I feel like you like to travel. You talked
Speaker 2: a little bit about moving around a little bit. This
Speaker 2: is your rising sign and Sagittarius, right, So do you
Speaker 2: have some some trips planned coming up?
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 5: Actually, I'm gonna be well this is interesting for serious because.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a I'm gonna be out in Colorado
Speaker 4: next or later this month and then uh, I think
Speaker 4: Virginia with a just doing kind of a trip with
Speaker 4: my mom.
Speaker 5: So you know, actually it's funny because.
Speaker 4: I one of my friends was just is moving out
Speaker 4: to California this year and I was like just talking
Speaker 4: to him about how I was like, I definitely am
Speaker 4: we gonna like try to find some time to fly
Speaker 4: out there in the next couple of months. One of
Speaker 4: my kind of goals that I set for myself was
Speaker 4: I want to travel boar this year because last year
Speaker 4: I was I had also just moved out to New
Speaker 4: York last year, but that was something I hadn't done
Speaker 4: as much and ended the year with a California trip
Speaker 4: that I really loved, and I was like, wait a minute,
Speaker 4: I don't want to do this more. This is fun.
Speaker 4: I have friends in their cities. I can go visit
Speaker 4: and crash on their couch for free.
Speaker 2: But yeah, and they're so excited to see you, which exactly.
Speaker 2: The other thing is it's really important for you to travel.
Speaker 2: It's it's like, you know, some people need to see
Speaker 2: the sea or the ocean on the regular You just
Speaker 2: need to move to a different place regularly. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 2: I would think if you can swing at least three
Speaker 2: trips four trips a year minimum, ideally spaced out so
Speaker 2: quarterly would be amazing. And that's just that's just the minimum,
Speaker 2: right for your sanity, for your well being, for your balance.
Speaker 2: It's just like I always need a trip planned, that's all.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So when you come home, you're like, Okay, I'll
Speaker 2: wait a week and then I'll start planning and then
Speaker 2: i'll you know, or book ahead. It's really important. It's
Speaker 2: really important. Yeah, So that's really good. And then I
Speaker 2: do want to talk just a little bit about managing
Speaker 2: you know, we talked about meditation. Obviously it's a constant
Speaker 2: conversation I have with people, but especially for you because
Speaker 2: you have that fast mind, right, learning to figure out
Speaker 2: the space between the thoughts and expanding that is really
Speaker 2: important and just like just sink into them, into that
Speaker 2: that you know, that's Mars and Scorpio, right, it goes
Speaker 2: deep in the score. Bio energy super super important, really
Speaker 2: really helpful. So that's definitely that helps with the worry.
Speaker 2: That helps with the racing mind. You know, when you're
Speaker 2: so smart and you're alone, your mind can turn against
Speaker 2: you really quickly. And the way to stop that pattern
Speaker 2: is what do I value? I'm going to focus on that.
Speaker 2: And now I'm going to create some space between my thoughts. Okay,
Speaker 2: this is going to be really important. Write that down.
Speaker 2: And then the last thing I want to talk about
Speaker 2: because sometimes you're like, I can't trust my mind right.
Speaker 2: Every once in a while it feels like that. And
Speaker 2: and I know you're not alone in that. I know
Speaker 2: a lot of people tell me about this, and so
Speaker 2: this is why I really would like you to, you know,
Speaker 2: try just try some meditation, try some spaciousness to you know,
Speaker 2: start with three minutes. Start with three minutes. I'm gonna
Speaker 2: I'm going to breathe, you know, deep inhales in hell
Speaker 2: for seven. You know, you'll make whatever in hellful four,
Speaker 2: hold for four, exhale for five, right still for four
Speaker 2: and he'll do that extended exhale. Super important, just to
Speaker 2: create a little a little spaciousness in the thoughts. And
Speaker 2: then the last thing I just will show you is
Speaker 2: the outcome of your reading, of course, is the ten
Speaker 2: of water, which is the soul make card. So I'd
Speaker 2: say your efforts to put yourself out there are going
Speaker 2: to pay off this year. So enjoy you'll travel, travel,
Speaker 2: with someone. Yeah, I like it a lot.
Speaker 5: I like it a lot.
Speaker 2: I would love that for you. So do you have
Speaker 2: any questions about your tureau section of your reading?
Speaker 4: I think I'm that sounds about right, all sounds yeah, definitely.
Speaker 4: You know some things that I got to work on
Speaker 4: in the next year, slash some goals I want to
Speaker 4: step for myself and uh yeah, definitely.
Speaker 5: The travel thing.
Speaker 4: I love that that came up because that has been
Speaker 4: something that I have had multiple conversations about in the
Speaker 4: last week.
Speaker 5: It's time. It's definite time.
Speaker 4: Yeah and good yeah, yeah, very very cool, very yeah.
Speaker 2: And I think you'll find like a direct correlation between
Speaker 2: the access of the level of creativity you have, which
Speaker 2: is a lot, right, and the frequency of your meditations.
Speaker 2: They will feed each other beautifully. So and don't feel
Speaker 2: like you have to you can on. It only counts
Speaker 2: if you do it in the morning, first thing, before
Speaker 2: you get out of bed, Like you don't don't like,
Speaker 2: let it be where it happens. Sometimes you'll be like
Speaker 2: hard at work, hard at work, and you'll be deep
Speaker 2: into some data or something you're like, wait, I need
Speaker 2: to integrate this a little bit before I go further
Speaker 2: and step away for five minutes. I'm telling you you will.
Speaker 2: You will make it your own and it'll be really
Speaker 2: valuable to you. So okay, definitely, Joey, thank you so
Speaker 2: much for today spend spend time with you like this.
Speaker 2: I just love it. And thanks for sharing so generously
Speaker 2: with our audience.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, of course at your time. This has
Speaker 4: been super fun.
Speaker 2: Oh good, good, good good. So now I need you
Speaker 2: to be to be your best version of you and Julie,
Speaker 2: and I'm going to remind people. Thanks for listening everybody,
Speaker 2: and remember our school is.
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