Speaker 1: West. It's lip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gi McGuire,
Speaker 1: I'm stepping in Santiago. I'm Young Defensy architect never goes
Speaker 1: and listen. This is our second back in the studio episode.
Speaker 1: So you know, we are super excited to have y'all
Speaker 1: hair to be here. And I feel like, Okay, is
Speaker 1: there anything that's um that we can't talk about because
Speaker 1: Young Devon's here, and you know, I gotta be a
Speaker 1: role model. Now, I got kidding. I'm kidding. I'm really kidding.
Speaker 1: This is such a Brooklyn episode though, you know, to
Speaker 1: have both of you guys on here representing Brooklyn and
Speaker 1: then you know, I'm from Brooklyn, so this is exciting
Speaker 1: for me. So this and Stephanie step when you from
Speaker 1: the low Chelse keep saying the Lower east Side, Chelsea, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm from and from Philly. Yes, Philly, I'm from Philly.
Speaker 1: I live in Atlanta, but my daughter lives in Brooklyn
Speaker 1: through that count. Yeah count. She lives in between the
Speaker 1: worklaids in the the Brooklyn Museum. Yeah she got money, she's
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. She's rich. Okay, mom, So do y'all did
Speaker 1: you guys Young Devon and Erica Archas. Did y'all know
Speaker 1: each other like before? No? I really we just met.
Speaker 1: Like really, I've been feeling like Brooklyn artists needs to
Speaker 1: know each other more. I feel so too, just that
Speaker 1: everybody is so divided. But I think that's really important.
Speaker 1: That's Eric l a. Oh I just moved there. Okay,
Speaker 1: So it was like a flap wish though, So okay,
Speaker 1: me too. What are you from? Oh you're ready now, Devin.
Speaker 1: You had this song, um, and I felt bad about this.
Speaker 1: It was entangled, right, and you know, the entanglement thing
Speaker 1: all came from this August I've scene and everybody wanted
Speaker 1: an entanglement after that. So have you been in any entanglements? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Like I just feel like I don't know when I
Speaker 1: make music, I don't know. Rowing up, I've always kind
Speaker 1: of been like the player type of girl because I
Speaker 1: grew up around like a lot of guys, like my
Speaker 1: brother and my pops, Like they showed me kind of everything.
Speaker 1: So when it came to dating, I just always felt like,
Speaker 1: all right, like you'd be a player, you have fun,
Speaker 1: but in a classy way of course, because I still
Speaker 1: know I'm a female. But yeah, like entanglements like that
Speaker 1: was all I was doing at one point, Like I
Speaker 1: was not trying to be a no type of relationship
Speaker 1: like that was not my vibe at all. So yeah,
Speaker 1: what's it like? Give us an example. It's just always
Speaker 1: every time I would even try to talk to somebody,
Speaker 1: they would start liking me like super like that though,
Speaker 1: like my thing is just slowed down a little bit,
Speaker 1: like we'd would be like a week or two win,
Speaker 1: it's a little too deep for me. Damn, that sounds
Speaker 1: like me after a week, I want to move in
Speaker 1: when we lived together. Now, every time are you in
Speaker 1: these type of situations, you know, I'm gonna first start
Speaker 1: this office say I have a girl, so right that
Speaker 1: the relationship. The second thing I would say is that
Speaker 1: eight plus years? Yeah, so I think I don't know entanglement.
Speaker 1: I think that I was definitely running away from any
Speaker 1: type of serious situation for a long time. It was
Speaker 1: like moment you with the shorty, she's be feeling your vibes,
Speaker 1: and then I would see her get more into it,
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, damn, I gotta do some dickheads
Speaker 1: ship so she could leave me alone. I knew that
Speaker 1: I always think you to break up with them. They
Speaker 1: don't really want to break up with you. They try
Speaker 1: to do like wax ship and then until it's like
Speaker 1: there's nothing you could do about it, and this is
Speaker 1: just ridiculous. Now we do that. I'm sorry on purpose. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And if you don't want to be with her, give
Speaker 1: me some examples of some things you've done before you
Speaker 1: got in a relationship. To try to break up bro,
Speaker 1: bro like, oh he got to say something real, go back.
Speaker 1: It will be ship like all right, like little ship
Speaker 1: like all right, you know I want to be there
Speaker 1: at six o'clock. I show up nine o'clock. That's crazy.
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm about to leave right now and she's like, yo,
Speaker 1: you're still coming up with Yeah, and I would come
Speaker 1: like mad late, she'll get tight like that. But but
Speaker 1: I also knew doing that that this was not gonna
Speaker 1: be my girl, So why go it off like it
Speaker 1: wasn't really about like because to me, that type of
Speaker 1: interaction you know it or you don't. It's not like
Speaker 1: I've hooked up with somebody and was like, Yo, this
Speaker 1: is not my girl, and my girl I kind of
Speaker 1: knew that the first couple of moments you wish somebody
Speaker 1: at least to me, I'm like, yo, this could be
Speaker 1: my wife, this could be my girl. But otherwise it's
Speaker 1: just fun. You know what's interesting? I want to ask
Speaker 1: you about this, Like, for women, we'd be feeling like
Speaker 1: annoyed when we get whack dick, when we're like, okay,
Speaker 1: I added this to my playlist and it was whack.
Speaker 1: But for guys, do you ever have like whack pussy
Speaker 1: like man, that was a waste? Yes, yes, there is
Speaker 1: a thing. It's definitely uh to me. Some girls they
Speaker 1: just don't got it. Like maybe it's the inexperience, maybe
Speaker 1: it's just the comfort. Like personally, I don't like when
Speaker 1: girls look at themselves the whole time. You're fucking the girl,
Speaker 1: but she's looking at herself. She's not even making eye
Speaker 1: contact with you. It's like she would love with her
Speaker 1: breast and her body, but she's not even giving me attention.
Speaker 1: You feel me like, because to me, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: please the girl, I always put them before my pleasures,
Speaker 1: you feel me, But like in that situation, at least
Speaker 1: want some type of communication. I think the only something
Speaker 1: I think, the only time I've looked at myself while
Speaker 1: I'm having sex is in the miror in the mirror,
Speaker 1: or I want to see it going in. I'm looking like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want It's not like a self indulgent Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: so beautiful you. That's the type of encounters I would
Speaker 1: deal with. What about have you had at threesome? N Never?
Speaker 1: You never wanted to. It's not really my thing. Wait,
Speaker 1: but going back to you saying about wex sex, I
Speaker 1: always asked men because I always want to hear each
Speaker 1: guy's answer with different men's answers rather, Um, what makes
Speaker 1: it wack besides her looking at herself and not giving
Speaker 1: you eye contact? Chemistry, chemistry definitely that I never yo,
Speaker 1: I've never used k Y in my I never had
Speaker 1: a girl like bring the KP like said, if you're
Speaker 1: pussy job spitting my dick and put it in was
Speaker 1: already ready to go. I mean he's he already said
Speaker 1: that he's a pleaser. That's already I've never been like, yo,
Speaker 1: I have to get something that ignited you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That already there, but like something like that
Speaker 1: could make it way. And then you said it might
Speaker 1: be the inexperience, But don't guys want women who haven't
Speaker 1: been to you. You know what I'm saying, I don't
Speaker 1: necessarily attest to that. You want somebody experience. You want
Speaker 1: somebody that at least knows how to communicate with their body, okay,
Speaker 1: but not looking at it. You want them to communicate.
Speaker 1: You want to communicate your body as well. Yeah, exactly, now, baby,
Speaker 1: go young Devin? What makes what makes a man whack
Speaker 1: in the bedroom? First of all, I like you rushing
Speaker 1: turn off? I feel like that's really immature, Like yeah,
Speaker 1: like here, like we're literally here. Just relax um, take
Speaker 1: your time. And then it's like if you're rushing again
Speaker 1: during that's like if it's too fast, I'm going to
Speaker 1: be tight. Like now I gotta be like a good
Speaker 1: time and okay everything else if I'm not enjoying it, like,
Speaker 1: I'll make sure I enjoy it myself. So okay, how
Speaker 1: do you do? What about size? Like how important to
Speaker 1: size to you? M I'm small, so you know, I
Speaker 1: don't really I don't really expect anything like super like like, nah,
Speaker 1: I'm small, so I'll take you know it. Just you
Speaker 1: gotta know what you're doing. You know what you're doing.
Speaker 1: Mostly it's the motion. Yeah, that's what I was saying.
Speaker 1: But it can't be too small, nah, because then I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be like, what's going on? Like no, I'm real
Speaker 1: blunt when it comes to stuff like that, like I'll
Speaker 1: stop completely. That's probably so disappointing to I'm a capital.
Speaker 1: Don't know if it's like a bold thing. I just
Speaker 1: I stopped. I will really just cut the hole aious.
Speaker 1: You know what I did. One time I was messing
Speaker 1: with this guy and we had never had sex, to
Speaker 1: me about his dick was so small. I really did leave.
Speaker 1: Oh it was a long time ago, but I was
Speaker 1: definitely like, I don't think I could do this to myself,
Speaker 1: and I just played it up because we had never
Speaker 1: had sex, and I was like, oh, yeah, I'm not right.
Speaker 1: But when he had to know, because I feel like guys,
Speaker 1: but like little dicks have to know that they know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they I hope they know. They know. Somebody told him
Speaker 1: MEAs like when you were younger, because you know the measurement.
Speaker 1: I don't know now, Okay, getting biggest, keep going, keep going.
Speaker 1: It was growing up the over like like a growing
Speaker 1: up thing like puberty, Like you nineteen twenty years old,
Speaker 1: youre trying to figure it out, you think Jack enough
Speaker 1: makes you dig bigger. That's the thing. I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, like telling it. Yeah, I didn't. I didn't
Speaker 1: think that was real. Now, yeah, how did you learn
Speaker 1: about sex life? I don't know. I guess like being
Speaker 1: like growing up in a Caribbean household, you just learned
Speaker 1: about certain things like whining and gyrate in your body,
Speaker 1: like that's a part of the culture. So you learn
Speaker 1: about those types of stuff early on. But then you know,
Speaker 1: just life being in Brooklyn, going to school, kids they
Speaker 1: got especially if the generations get more advanced with technology,
Speaker 1: you just it's way easier to access. So you know,
Speaker 1: that was kind of a conversation to school early on.
Speaker 1: And then you ever been whining on somebody and they
Speaker 1: busting and that on himself? Well never, never at that point,
Speaker 1: like something gotta go down there. I feel like that's
Speaker 1: like sexual harassment or something like you're excited like a
Speaker 1: body and they can You said you, yeah, I was
Speaker 1: a stripper, same too, had Stuck had that same but
Speaker 1: that being you giving the lap dance and next thing
Speaker 1: you know, he didn't came in the pan. You're like,
Speaker 1: my job, that's unattractive, right? It didn't it be powerful? Yes,
Speaker 1: but you don't want it to get nowhere. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't want it on your legs. Yeah, it's kind of funny,
Speaker 1: but it's like l so, yeah, I remember the guy
Speaker 1: that it happened to me. I knew the words to
Speaker 1: um doing it doing it well el song, and um
Speaker 1: that's when he did it. So then like a few
Speaker 1: years later, UM, I was like working the club and
Speaker 1: then I start talking to this guy and he's like,
Speaker 1: I know you don't you know the worst of the song.
Speaker 1: I just walked away. He should have it like he
Speaker 1: didn't know you are not about to come with me again.
Speaker 1: Excuse I never had unlike unplanned you know, exaculation every
Speaker 1: guy's had. I'm not going to say, of course, I
Speaker 1: won't say. I don't know if old Niggas is like this,
Speaker 1: but I'm definitely like this. I'm so tight after something
Speaker 1: is probably like, oh, well, I'm like hurt. I'm hurt.
Speaker 1: I'm probably more hurt in a way because it's like,
Speaker 1: like I said, just be like that moment is so important,
Speaker 1: you know me, so like I don't want to just
Speaker 1: blow my load O D fast And then do you
Speaker 1: say anything like I'm sorry, of course, but I know
Speaker 1: that makes it worse. So it's just like fun. But
Speaker 1: that's just a reaction, like I think a two experiences
Speaker 1: and I know I've told you all this before. The
Speaker 1: one time I hadn't had sex with this guy yet.
Speaker 1: It was about to be our first time. And then
Speaker 1: while we were doing four play, he like net it
Speaker 1: and it hit his chin. It's he's a Shooter's the shooter? Wow,
Speaker 1: Yeah that was awful what he say right? He was, man,
Speaker 1: watch his face like little go to gave itself a
Speaker 1: facial no. But it's good to hear that a man
Speaker 1: really has a real, a real feeling of anger when
Speaker 1: you do that, because usually when a guy does that
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh my god, like I'm so sorry,
Speaker 1: and my mom, I'm like yeah, okay, yeah you're sorry.
Speaker 1: But then I'm so dope for that. Nah, not me.
Speaker 1: It's like it's like it's like, yeah, that's the thing
Speaker 1: you got to make up for the next time. I again,
Speaker 1: Yeah what you gotta do it right away, right because
Speaker 1: sometimes for guys don't you'll get that first one off
Speaker 1: and then that's the that's the trick though, guy first
Speaker 1: before they pull up, and then you'd be extra ready.
Speaker 1: You know, okay, before they pull up, oh, like the
Speaker 1: movie something about Mary exactly, and it works every movies.
Speaker 1: She's like, oh is that hair? Jall? And then what
Speaker 1: are you gonna say, Jef? And I was gonna say
Speaker 1: so the way that's like it's all alive, like so
Speaker 1: you need to tell me. They do it before and
Speaker 1: then when the girl gets there, they just act like
Speaker 1: nothing that for happened. It probably called me yeah, just
Speaker 1: to quick. Yeah, It's not like it's like two minutes.
Speaker 1: It's like earlier you feel me like I don't shower,
Speaker 1: make sure you get it out so that. But it's
Speaker 1: more about, at least for me once again, it's like
Speaker 1: because I want to last longer. It's not just about
Speaker 1: because I don't want to have an I'm sorry moment
Speaker 1: or some weird interaction. You know, Devin, have you had
Speaker 1: an orgasm? Do you remember your first time? Um and
Speaker 1: and being like damn that was amazing kind of yeah,
Speaker 1: like with somebody, yeah I do. I was just kind
Speaker 1: of at first it was new. I was like, what's
Speaker 1: going on? But then when I realized what was happening,
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, like it needs to happen again.
Speaker 1: We're here and so you know, of course I growing
Speaker 1: up and I started figuring my body out of figuring
Speaker 1: myself out. Then I kind of started figuring out like
Speaker 1: what does what? But yeah, like yeah, so you figured
Speaker 1: that out like kind of on your own. Nobody told
Speaker 1: you anything. No, I had a I had a boyfriend.
Speaker 1: So for a long time we was just doing everything.
Speaker 1: But I mean, like like another woman, like okay, here's
Speaker 1: you know, like yeah, my mom, she's definitely very open,
Speaker 1: like she's always been able to have those conversations with me.
Speaker 1: Like I never was scared to ask any question like
Speaker 1: she anything I wanted to know she was there. So
Speaker 1: I never had to experiment too much or do anything
Speaker 1: too risky because my mother literally any question I had,
Speaker 1: I knew what could ask. My mom's are you in
Speaker 1: a relationship now? How so how long has it been?
Speaker 1: It's bad if I don't ship, I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's too short or too long. And she don't know. No,
Speaker 1: it's like a while, is it like off and on? No,
Speaker 1: it's straight through. But it's just like because at first
Speaker 1: it was like an entanglement that it turned into relationships.
Speaker 1: I don't know what to count, right, don't count the entanglement,
Speaker 1: So what was the beginning like that it was just
Speaker 1: an entanglement. She wasn't trying to be held down right
Speaker 1: like it was someone had just got signed. So I
Speaker 1: was just lit, just let living. But then it's like
Speaker 1: you know when you just start liking somebody and it
Speaker 1: kind of gets further. But at this point, like I
Speaker 1: was a little bit older, and I kind of started
Speaker 1: being able to separate, like my personal life from my business.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, all right, I could balance the two. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, So you don't know how long it is
Speaker 1: still though, its gonna be so bad, Like you don't understand.
Speaker 1: It's gonna cause an argument because it's like, what do
Speaker 1: you mean you don't you don't know how long? I
Speaker 1: would say, like a yeah, okay, that's not that long. Okay,
Speaker 1: how supportive is here? What you do? I mean? I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not a crazy like I'm not really a crazy
Speaker 1: type of wild young rapper, like I've been chilling out
Speaker 1: mind my business. I stay out the way you know
Speaker 1: like rappers DM mea like ball players or other people
Speaker 1: delete like I don't even pay anyone. Yeah, like I
Speaker 1: really be deleting it out of my threat because I
Speaker 1: don't even like the little number bubbles and my d
Speaker 1: deleting emails, tech messages. I don't want none of that alerts.
Speaker 1: It wasn't I got my tex from two thousand sixteen ships.
Speaker 1: There was even alerts. You know it says a thousand there.
Speaker 1: Forget it. It's like I don't even know. Forget it? Now,
Speaker 1: what about you? I haven't been in a long term relationship.
Speaker 1: But also like obviously being part of the Flappersama and
Speaker 1: being a seller, artist and producer, working with all these
Speaker 1: different people, how is it being in a relationship like
Speaker 1: and having trust to be honest without that? This is
Speaker 1: this is something I'm glad that I'm here to actually
Speaker 1: say because I know a lot of Niggers gonna say this, right,
Speaker 1: what will happen to me? Because I always have a girl.
Speaker 1: But what happened is you go on the road, feel me,
Speaker 1: and you do your thing when you go home. At
Speaker 1: least me, I would be like, damn, I only for
Speaker 1: the past three months, I would just working with groupies
Speaker 1: and I didn't know how to make love or do anything.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to hold a girl hand. And then
Speaker 1: when you start talking to girl, you like you don't
Speaker 1: even do the ingredients, like you were saying earlier, too slow,
Speaker 1: You're just trying to get to it, and like it
Speaker 1: was wrong with you, and then you almost realized that
Speaker 1: you just being a piece of ship. So every time
Speaker 1: I would come off to I would just be like,
Speaker 1: I wish I had a girlfriend, you feel me, because
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't have to do this ship and you
Speaker 1: can just chill and save your ship too when you
Speaker 1: come back, you know. But I almost felt like doing
Speaker 1: that ship after a while, just got like tired. From
Speaker 1: what age did it get tiring? I mean I started
Speaker 1: touring it like twenty to three years old. So what
Speaker 1: time did you get tired? Shortly after that? Shortly? How
Speaker 1: did you know she was the one? Because I feel
Speaker 1: like my like thirty four, thirty five, I god should
Speaker 1: be like tired. I'm thirty three, okay, So yeah that's
Speaker 1: what eight years because for me, because you know what
Speaker 1: it is, it's not to me. I always live. Even
Speaker 1: going to college, it was already I was already moving.
Speaker 1: I was really doing stuff. Yeah I was doing stuff.
Speaker 1: So yeah, not that necessarily, but you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like to me, I always it's because of my mom's
Speaker 1: I was raised right. I always wanted to really experience
Speaker 1: what it was like to be like an m C
Speaker 1: or rapper and going tour. But once I I really
Speaker 1: excelled in the studio, you know what I'm saying, I
Speaker 1: don't really excel being this woman, and they trying to
Speaker 1: get mad puss. Yeah, so why did you do it
Speaker 1: just because I wanted to? Yeah? Yeah, I wanted to
Speaker 1: see because to me, as much as I'm a rapper
Speaker 1: and ship, I think I'm more up like an artist.
Speaker 1: I don't really have like a thing that I do.
Speaker 1: I just do a bunch of ship that I like.
Speaker 1: So I guess I was. Yeah, I was emulating like
Speaker 1: what I thought rappers should do. You feel me, because
Speaker 1: that's what we do. Going to you girls, did you
Speaker 1: pussy when you was sucking these girls? Yes? You did?
Speaker 1: Like groupie. No O, I care you saying? Do I
Speaker 1: like where you? He means his wife? No? Yeah on
Speaker 1: tour No, that's like a no. No. Actually made a
Speaker 1: tour bus rules and I was like one of them.
Speaker 1: What else with the rules? Check? I d okay phones
Speaker 1: with the other rules? No phones? So where phones? Okay?
Speaker 1: Nobody had a problem with that. Okay, and then no
Speaker 1: phones check I d and no he didn't pussy, Yeah, don't, don't.
Speaker 1: Don't be too crazy. I don't try to set on
Speaker 1: my face. But never felt like you had to do
Speaker 1: a great job just in case you made the blogs,
Speaker 1: because you know, you don't know when nobody to go
Speaker 1: to block like terrible. Yeah he was terrible. I think
Speaker 1: what I would find out that those same girls would
Speaker 1: just fu the next rapper from the next tour. You
Speaker 1: feel me, and I would know because they would tell me. Like, so,
Speaker 1: guys talk about stuff like that sometimes when it's good. Okay,
Speaker 1: Guys talk about it when the pussy's good. Okay, that
Speaker 1: makes sense about women talk. Okay, So what about this?
Speaker 1: Do women talk about guys with good dick and pass
Speaker 1: them around? It depends. It's a scenario. Yeah, it's a case.
Speaker 1: Because some guys are just for the streets. You gotta
Speaker 1: share them. You can't keep them. You gotta get from
Speaker 1: like it's just fair like that, you know what I mean. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just fair. You don't keep him. You have got
Speaker 1: home girl over, Yeah exactly, I just sent her to you,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Yeah, I love her and
Speaker 1: it was good. It was a light you know there
Speaker 1: I sent you with, I sent her with a good review.
Speaker 1: It's a case of my case thing for sure. Now
Speaker 1: for bother you have, wasn't being in a relationship during
Speaker 1: the pandemic fire? Okay, that's good? That really love someone? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because I was gonna say, if you can't survive that, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's over for your relationship, because I feel like you
Speaker 1: just you own each other. Because all right, like say
Speaker 1: a Netflix show was fired whatever? Right when your girl, Uh,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like what was that ship Tiger King?
Speaker 1: Like that ship was popping during the pandemic. But I
Speaker 1: had watched that alone, and then I told my girl
Speaker 1: about it had been way different than experiencing those things together,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So like that little kind
Speaker 1: of ship inside, right, and you pick up later and
Speaker 1: then you got jokes that it just doesn't you know,
Speaker 1: it's so much fun. You gotta show with your boy.
Speaker 1: But we watched everything together just so that we could
Speaker 1: keep keep going. You never be mad like watching without you.
Speaker 1: Probably more guilty of that than her, because sometimes we'd
Speaker 1: be so good and then they that I know she
Speaker 1: don't like, So I just watched the whole Um, I
Speaker 1: watched uh, The Invincible it's like a cartoon, uh fucking
Speaker 1: animation on Amazon. That's how you know you listen, buddy
Speaker 1: when you said watching it, you really don't want to watch,
Speaker 1: but you're doing it just for them. I watched The
Speaker 1: Animal king just because no Animal the Animal Kingdom, Animal
Speaker 1: king you know what what show? What it's about the
Speaker 1: guys who rob people and their mother. It's a lot.
Speaker 1: I don't want to tell everybody. Yes, it's called Animal Kingdom.
Speaker 1: It's on t or something like that. And I didn't
Speaker 1: want to watch, and I'm like, oh my god, you
Speaker 1: want to watch this, but it ended up being like
Speaker 1: one of my favorite shows. Yeah, it's nice to do
Speaker 1: the couple show thing it is. Is there a show
Speaker 1: that you can't watch with your partner? There's another show
Speaker 1: that I'm not really interested in. It is good, but
Speaker 1: I I'm mad if he watches it without me. And that's,
Speaker 1: um The Heist, you know that high show, Money Heist. Yeah,
Speaker 1: The Money Heist. It's just I like watching the show,
Speaker 1: but you could tell that they're speaking a different language
Speaker 1: and they're talking English over and that kind of Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's the only thing. But that's another show that
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't really want to watch this,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, what's gonna happen now? Yeah, deviit What
Speaker 1: about you and your relationship? How was it during the pandemic?
Speaker 1: Even though you don't know how long it's been you
Speaker 1: you definitely get to like learn people because it's like
Speaker 1: you have nothing but time on your hands. It's not
Speaker 1: like anybody's going to work or anybody has things to do.
Speaker 1: It's like you have no choice, but you know you're
Speaker 1: either gonna be with your partner, what you're gonna be
Speaker 1: doing outside doing something that's supposed to So you definitely
Speaker 1: get to learn people. And I've always been a person
Speaker 1: who like to be alone, Like I used to get
Speaker 1: tired of people fast. So just trying to figure out
Speaker 1: how to mature and grow with the person is something
Speaker 1: that I was learning. Did your mom like him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a little nervous not. Yeah, it was just like
Speaker 1: like the last one and she was kind of like
Speaker 1: you know when your parents likes them too much and
Speaker 1: they start ruling for them even when it's over. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you know my mother, she'd be chilling, like she's chilling.
Speaker 1: Like I said, I could ask her anything. I could
Speaker 1: talk to her about anything. So she's like a real
Speaker 1: cool person to have in my corner. Does he ever
Speaker 1: have any problems with anything, like anything you post on
Speaker 1: the Graham or outfits or anything like that, or do
Speaker 1: you think about like that's not even a conversation. What
Speaker 1: about like pictures with guys or being in the studio
Speaker 1: with guys or not, Because like, I have a lot
Speaker 1: of like guy friends. Like a lot of guys listen
Speaker 1: to my music. So I'm around a lot of guys
Speaker 1: with their rappers and street dudes. That's just what I
Speaker 1: grew up around. I used to play on the old
Speaker 1: boys basketball team. So nobody can't tell me to, you know,
Speaker 1: be around a guy or not being around a guy.
Speaker 1: And you know, like I'm not one of those females
Speaker 1: that I get around a guy to act differently as
Speaker 1: to oppose when he wasn't in the room. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: still be the same way. So what about girlfriends. You
Speaker 1: have a lot of girlfriends like females, Yeah, like a lot.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I don't know, like it's
Speaker 1: like the females in my life, I look at them
Speaker 1: more like sister because it's been so many years and
Speaker 1: years of friendships. So like my best friend, I've been
Speaker 1: best friends since I was four years old. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I don't really like the new females coming around. I
Speaker 1: don't try to get too caddy and get into it
Speaker 1: too much with them. Do you think the other female
Speaker 1: artists embrace you? Some some of them do, some of
Speaker 1: them don't. Before the majority, I can say, yeah, like
Speaker 1: Laki has been definitely showing me love, Asian Dole Mally
Speaker 1: like so many, so many amazing female rappers Cardi. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's a bunch that's definitely shown me lovely. Would be
Speaker 1: some like in the City that be throwing little shots,
Speaker 1: but I ignore it. Competitive though, Yeah yeah, I just
Speaker 1: take it with a grain of salt and I just
Speaker 1: respond back in the song. Right now, let's talk about
Speaker 1: your EP future Proof that you put out like during
Speaker 1: the pandemic, right and so during this time, you know
Speaker 1: how therapeutic was that for you? Well, I'm sure it's
Speaker 1: a m C two. Every ball was Corona. I'm like,
Speaker 1: y'all gotta stop sucking trying to figure out the ship
Speaker 1: that rhyme with coronademic Yeah, pandemic, Every ball was like that,
Speaker 1: And I was like all right, like, but what do
Speaker 1: I really want to say? You know? And I think like,
Speaker 1: in the height of all the ship that was going on,
Speaker 1: I started to build out my studio my basement, you know,
Speaker 1: and you know, um, I think I already kind of
Speaker 1: had some of the ingredients for a good studio, but
Speaker 1: I was like, that's what I was ordering mass ship,
Speaker 1: just figuring it out. I was. I was teaching myself
Speaker 1: all this new stuff because I knew I would be
Speaker 1: home a lot, and people kept saying, yo, Torn is
Speaker 1: coming back. Bro chill, like you yo, chill, you know,
Speaker 1: because I was acting like it was over, you know,
Speaker 1: in my mind. But that's just something I creatively did
Speaker 1: so I could feel like I had a responsibility to
Speaker 1: say something important, you know what I'm saying because to me,
Speaker 1: my platform, I'm not on a big label. I'm independent,
Speaker 1: you know, so every little thing I do really matters.
Speaker 1: And I have to think about that ship that time.
Speaker 1: I really want to make sure that even if it
Speaker 1: was just five songs, it was like going to be
Speaker 1: impactful because I knew that much like now is going
Speaker 1: back to the drop tops back in the you know,
Speaker 1: but at least I had that took back to listen
Speaker 1: to to say, well, this is how I was feeling,
Speaker 1: and hopefully this was making people feel not alone, right,
Speaker 1: because a lot of people that would loss And I
Speaker 1: know you did too, you know, during that time. And
Speaker 1: I'm sure for you to even be able to express
Speaker 1: yourself and for people to be able to relate to you,
Speaker 1: you know, during that was important. And to put that
Speaker 1: in the music, yeah, because I mean that's all we have, really,
Speaker 1: you know, And I think to look back on music,
Speaker 1: that's our profession, but it also was our therapy, you know.
Speaker 1: And I think there's so much of the music that
Speaker 1: is fun. And I like fun music too, but I
Speaker 1: think during that time I felt a little guilty to
Speaker 1: play ship that wasn't about stuff I was going back
Speaker 1: and playing. I think I went through like a thousand phase.
Speaker 1: I was listening to the only Erica Badou and Outcast,
Speaker 1: and D'Angelo noticed two thousand is when all that music
Speaker 1: was really happening. Kind of the the change between what
Speaker 1: happened in nine and twenty kind of similar, like a
Speaker 1: new decade. And K was scaring niggers too. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: everything was gonna shut. Everybody was so scared that I
Speaker 1: wasn't boy yet, so she don't know I was in
Speaker 1: Can you believe that? That's wow? I feel old as
Speaker 1: I remember that, I don't feel Yeah, people was like
Speaker 1: thinking that their phones and she was just gonna break
Speaker 1: and like the Internet, it was like the very beginning
Speaker 1: of it. But it was like nothing happened. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: was like yeah. But the music though, I think Stink
Speaker 1: only came during that time. Voodoo um Ship like like
Speaker 1: water for Chocolate, all those albums Jill Scott was Scott.
Speaker 1: All those albums came out with those two years and
Speaker 1: that's what I listened to it like, wow, sodeed they
Speaker 1: made this music in apparel a time apparel. You know
Speaker 1: that life you some good music. You just triggered what
Speaker 1: I'm about, right Radio. Yeah, since we have erything architect
Speaker 1: here and we have young dev In here, right, I
Speaker 1: want to ask a question and this is for j
Speaker 1: G and Steff two. Okay, So let's say you have
Speaker 1: to go to a wedding, right, So dev Let's say
Speaker 1: you have a wedding to go to and you invite
Speaker 1: your your dude, but it's your friends getting married, right,
Speaker 1: who should pay for the gift? Me? I'll pay it's
Speaker 1: my friend and he's coming as your guess, Yeah, I'll
Speaker 1: pay for the game. I mean it depends if the
Speaker 1: gift is like a little bit price eed and it's like,
Speaker 1: but you don't even know these people. But you know,
Speaker 1: if it's my friend, I would definitely pay for the gift.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even think what if it's a destination wedding,
Speaker 1: who should pay for the trip? Now? I'm still paying,
Speaker 1: like your you're my guests, Like you didn't have to
Speaker 1: even come, So I'll still pay. Eric, what do you think?
Speaker 1: Are you like? Are you like buying and pay? You
Speaker 1: your girl and you don't know these people? People have
Speaker 1: to split. But let's just say it's earlier on. Because
Speaker 1: you've been together for so long, it's different. But let's
Speaker 1: just say it's earlier on. And she asked you to
Speaker 1: come to this wedding and it's her friends. Should you
Speaker 1: be paying for the flight? In the room? I'll chip in,
Speaker 1: I'll chip in. I don't think I should pay the
Speaker 1: whole thing, though, I think I think that's a little
Speaker 1: that's a lot to ask. That's not your friend, right,
Speaker 1: I don't really know this, nigga or not. I don't
Speaker 1: know you're not gonna know that I paid for either.
Speaker 1: It's not like you should be like, hey, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, here's my word for what I mean. But typically,
Speaker 1: even though you guys are going to set destination for
Speaker 1: a wedding, is still considered like a vacation because y'all
Speaker 1: going to be there for longer than just the wedding,
Speaker 1: and that's not the only thing you're gonna do while
Speaker 1: you're there. Yeah, so that the trip, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: could do some freaky things in the balcony. I'm I'm struck.
Speaker 1: I would pay for everything. I'll be like, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: paying for the gift I'm buying. I'll buy your flight, babe,
Speaker 1: let's go out to my friend's wedding. That's nice. I
Speaker 1: would do that. Or but but I know inviting guys
Speaker 1: to weddings makes them a little nervous that, you know.
Speaker 1: So I'll pay for everything. I'll pay I'll pay for
Speaker 1: the room and everything. I might even buy his outfit.
Speaker 1: Yeah we yeah, Look, that's a little cute woman trick
Speaker 1: on you. Na never I wish I could sleep talk
Speaker 1: about that. I don't know you, and I mean a
Speaker 1: nice gift, not one nice gift. When I was like
Speaker 1: twenty something. This girl I was dating was younger than me,
Speaker 1: and she would try to cash me out all the time.
Speaker 1: But then like she was evil, like she was trying
Speaker 1: to use that to like hole ship over me and
Speaker 1: let me she value just like I'm from Brooklyn, Like
Speaker 1: we don't wear some of the other ship. I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna say where she was from, but she's from somewhere
Speaker 1: in New York and they got different swag. I was
Speaker 1: trying to wear, like nuties and ship. She was trying
Speaker 1: to buy me like so big, Yeah, it's trying to
Speaker 1: switch my swag up, but then kind of doing it
Speaker 1: in a sneaky way, you know, like trying to like, oh,
Speaker 1: maybe you should wear this. I don't even like that ship,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But that's when I realized,
Speaker 1: like maybe I should make my own money so I
Speaker 1: could wear my own ship. But I made less than
Speaker 1: hert the time. So if you have a woman buying
Speaker 1: you things, not at all. It just it was more
Speaker 1: about if she's got your nutyjeans have been all right.
Speaker 1: If it was the right ship, I would have been lit.
Speaker 1: But it was stuff I didn't really want to wear.
Speaker 1: I am not sorious for buying Man Louisaton wallets. I
Speaker 1: don't know how many I've bought. I buy all my Yeah,
Speaker 1: my boyfriends. I get that that she was in grade,
Speaker 1: so they don't give it to anyone else. And sometimes
Speaker 1: a cardholder because men like cardholders. Now nobody has kind
Speaker 1: so yeah, well yeahrdholders. Yeah, guys love cardholders now, so
Speaker 1: that's yeah, what is it? Wait? If you see a
Speaker 1: guy with a funked up wallet, it's like, why do
Speaker 1: you for that? Just don't have a wallet. Yeah, keep
Speaker 1: you a brand wallet, like a good leather wallet. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: why is your wallet over? Yeah? Like is that your grandfather's? Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: take the backwards. Um Solderney before people his money, bards
Speaker 1: holding never he madelet guy, Hell no, people don't care
Speaker 1: because they fall up. Now just bring in your pocket.
Speaker 1: I thought about it. When you're going to pay for something,
Speaker 1: I don't do it. That's crazy. Now I want to
Speaker 1: see empty backward I'm gonna be looking at maybe I
Speaker 1: should check. Let me stop on it. Make sure that's right. Now,
Speaker 1: let's give us some advice here. So ladies, first, if
Speaker 1: a guy you were talking to, and I know people
Speaker 1: are relationship, but let's just say a guy you were
Speaker 1: talking to it was like, I really want to get
Speaker 1: you a gift, Like what would be something nice for
Speaker 1: me to get you? What would your answer be? Is
Speaker 1: there like a price range? You know, like we have?
Speaker 1: He said, I want to get you something like, you know,
Speaker 1: you've been really supportive of everything I've been doing. You
Speaker 1: helped me, Like, I just want to get to a gift.
Speaker 1: Ward would you like, wait, is this someone knew your
Speaker 1: dating or okay, someone knew like what's the tax bracket?
Speaker 1: Like I'm not gonna say, just somebody asked you what
Speaker 1: you want? What would you say? I would ask for
Speaker 1: something that I probably needed okay at the time, or
Speaker 1: something I had my way, like I don't know, like
Speaker 1: if I wanted like a new TV or something I
Speaker 1: don't know, something but I could get you like the
Speaker 1: black Ass brand television. Okay, now, don't be buying me
Speaker 1: no Hyacinths TV. At least give me a video for
Speaker 1: k don't get me sixty five TV, that Crust one
Speaker 1: nine Okay, something that I need? I mean I don't
Speaker 1: need to you know. That just popped in my head
Speaker 1: because I have a friend. I have a friend who
Speaker 1: herd TV just died and she was a new TV.
Speaker 1: So that's what popped in my head because I knew
Speaker 1: she needed Okay, well that's a huge I know, but
Speaker 1: that's what popped in my head. That's why I said, like,
Speaker 1: if I need, like, what's a good safe gift to
Speaker 1: get somebody to get you are a purse if that? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: there's different rangers. Yeah yeah, no, that's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you know. No, No, when it's a new guy, I
Speaker 1: like Louis Vason a lot. I'm really addicted to convince
Speaker 1: your stuff. I like some of the new stuff, you know, whatever.
Speaker 1: So you could have him by the cheapest one. They
Speaker 1: could get a d eight hundred dollar purse from shoes.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not because dollars for a person's a
Speaker 1: bargain and I just got a bargain, Okay, I like,
Speaker 1: but I mean a purse or bag a wallet. But
Speaker 1: if it gets you a purse from like a card
Speaker 1: holder like Marshals, Oh God, a guy bought me something
Speaker 1: from coach, I'm a grateful person, so I would be
Speaker 1: grateful for it. I would thank him and I would
Speaker 1: act like I love it, and then you would give
Speaker 1: it to your mind, and then I would give it
Speaker 1: to my mom. But you wouldn't want to tell him
Speaker 1: that's not my vibe. I would definitely gift him. I
Speaker 1: would probably being being the person that I am, I
Speaker 1: would probably make a joke about it, like Coach Swove.
Speaker 1: Its only would be something like I would definitely make
Speaker 1: a joke, but I would still act like I love
Speaker 1: it because you know, it's a gift that counts, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. But I wouldn't say it in
Speaker 1: the mean way. Yeah, I would definitely let them know,
Speaker 1: like's not make a joke about style, what about you whatever,
Speaker 1: Like let's say we know you're in a relationship, but
Speaker 1: let's just say somebody's like, I just want to get
Speaker 1: to a gift to show my appreciation. Do I need
Speaker 1: ear rings? Okay, jewelry yeah, Cannie costumes, jewelry no, No,
Speaker 1: you see what I'm saying. A fair rings, if I
Speaker 1: could guy for a fair arrands, If I asked a
Speaker 1: guy for a pair of arrands, We're talking about ten
Speaker 1: to twenty dollars, you know what I mean. That's how
Speaker 1: much diamonds. Course, that's how much cool. That's a long
Speaker 1: one little arrings. He can't go to connect. I don't want.
Speaker 1: I don't want little errands like maybe maybe eight thousands
Speaker 1: at eight eight, that's good. You can get a good
Speaker 1: eight five, you know. That's what I'm saying. Get a little,
Speaker 1: a little light. Louis vas not that bad when it
Speaker 1: comes to eight dollar are rings with Louis that he
Speaker 1: offered the gift just something light. I'm not kind of
Speaker 1: girl bodies things for myself. I bought it more expensive
Speaker 1: ones for myself. So you know, you can buy me
Speaker 1: something light from the Louis Vasion store. This is my favorite.
Speaker 1: He better that appreciates you too much? What whatever? My
Speaker 1: I'm expensive? What's expensive? What about your what's it? What's
Speaker 1: a good? But you know that wasn't really for me?
Speaker 1: That was very nice. Yeah, that's a hard get to get.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a purse and wants to watch. But
Speaker 1: I would, but I would if somebody asked me. But
Speaker 1: I wasn't out of control. I would experson like Apple No,
Speaker 1: not a yeah, I don't want to Yeah, so the
Speaker 1: guy got t like it. I actually would prefer air
Speaker 1: and gave us the watch. Actually don't know what Apple
Speaker 1: watches are for like one right now? Updated. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: a good getting so confused like one too. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: that's an apple. I took the band off. But that's
Speaker 1: what the all right, so we got you that you
Speaker 1: wouldn't be like that's lit. I would. I would appreciate you.
Speaker 1: I love if a guy gave me the air mes
Speaker 1: ump the air. One guy just randomly was like here,
Speaker 1: I was thinking about you when I was in the
Speaker 1: Apple store. I picked you up a watch. I would
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Yeah, I like where Yeah, I would like
Speaker 1: where it. But honestly, honestly, I'll take some flowers and
Speaker 1: a nice a little if I can say, like something,
Speaker 1: you know, something special. You know, if a guy asked me,
Speaker 1: I want to buy you something, you know for something
Speaker 1: like moving woman, anyone, just get some roses. I love that.
Speaker 1: That's fire And I want to just ask you, like,
Speaker 1: can I get you a little gift? What would you say?
Speaker 1: It's a good present? Video game guy, video season past
Speaker 1: or something like that. See your passes not like the
Speaker 1: TV one that you mean like go to the I
Speaker 1: mean that's really not Any trips are amazing. I would
Speaker 1: appreciate a trip you got to Yes, goes for the trip. Yeah,
Speaker 1: trip is nice. That's why I'm staying there. I'm staying
Speaker 1: with it. But if anybody wants to buy me some
Speaker 1: let's book a trip. Yeah, because that's an experience, and
Speaker 1: they always they experience gifts are the best because it's
Speaker 1: something that you can't ever like, you know, replicate or anything,
Speaker 1: and then you'll both get to enjoy it. Yes, I
Speaker 1: like that. Now, what if you books the flight for you,
Speaker 1: but it is coach, I ain't going coach with your
Speaker 1: coach was too grateful for the wallet. I just should
Speaker 1: have told him the truth. No, no, But to be honest,
Speaker 1: if I'm dating somebody and they get me a coach sicker,
Speaker 1: I'll go up riding myself if I like, and his too.
Speaker 1: He's gonna sit his ass in the back and the front,
Speaker 1: and I'll wait for having the front finished with everything first,
Speaker 1: because you know, especially when you're trying, when you're traveling internationally,
Speaker 1: when you get off the plane first, you get to
Speaker 1: the customs first, then you finish first. It's important. It's important. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you be in the back of the plane. You end
Speaker 1: up on a line for mad loan. Yeah, I ain't
Speaker 1: got time for that. Sounds good. I got anxiety in
Speaker 1: a regular seat. Yeah, you're too tall. The shortest you
Speaker 1: could take is the exit window. Okay, yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: the whole time. Perfect. Remember your first time flying first class? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's my accident though. Loki nig Um Nigga knew who
Speaker 1: I was when I was flying in l A one
Speaker 1: of the first times, and he upgraded my ship fire.
Speaker 1: He was just like, yo, that's they they have the power.
Speaker 1: That's just let you know they have the power. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't let them tell you they can they can
Speaker 1: do it. What about your step but you said the
Speaker 1: first time I flew first class? It was it was
Speaker 1: when I first became single after a long term relationship.
Speaker 1: If I met a guy in a club and he
Speaker 1: flew me to essemble that Yeah, and um we flew
Speaker 1: first class and it was international first class. It was
Speaker 1: ice cream Sundays whatever, and then they give your little
Speaker 1: bailies at the end. You know. It was just it
Speaker 1: was there was a bed. It was the first time
Speaker 1: I was on an airplane with a bed. There was
Speaker 1: no going back. And like that's why she feels like
Speaker 1: she got to be in first Yeah. And I put
Speaker 1: the money up to pay for my tickets. Like when
Speaker 1: I book parties, you know, I'll have them book my
Speaker 1: and my stuff, and I put in my right remember
Speaker 1: my first Yeah, and sometimes they don't. Sometimes promoters be
Speaker 1: jankie and they don't put you in first class. And
Speaker 1: I'll just I'll just upgrade. I won't even complain. I'll
Speaker 1: just upgraded myself. My first first class flight was with
Speaker 1: a Sugar Daddy. Oh ship, where'd you go Atlanta? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's not too expensive, Billy to Atlanta, we flew first class. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm someone shopping when you get when you're landing, he was, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was. I was like one. I was ecstatic. Remember
Speaker 1: your first time flying first And my first time was
Speaker 1: really young. I was like nine. I was on tour
Speaker 1: and then they flew me out to um Anguilla. It's
Speaker 1: like this off sew me first class. I felt like
Speaker 1: I was a superstar. That's what and a whole little
Speaker 1: show was. But I think the first time I flew
Speaker 1: first class, this guy um we went to put it
Speaker 1: was Puerto Rico, and he took me on the tip
Speaker 1: to Puerto Rico. We flew first class and we stayed
Speaker 1: at the Ritz and he got me my own room.
Speaker 1: I got my own suite. He had his own suite
Speaker 1: and everything that was real respectful. What about the first
Speaker 1: time everybody here been on a jet before? Right, the
Speaker 1: first time ever. I'm not gonna lie. You're living on
Speaker 1: like I got I got to bring me on a flight.
Speaker 1: But you said, you just said that you moved to
Speaker 1: l A recently, Right, they got jet Suez. You're gonna
Speaker 1: get on the jet. And weeks ago everybody, and yes, listen,
Speaker 1: we were going to UM Atlanta and Kanye had won
Speaker 1: a jail Electronica to come and come to his UM
Speaker 1: listening session, and so they were trying to book my
Speaker 1: stuff and then they were like, would you mind, just
Speaker 1: happened on the jet with the locks. And this was
Speaker 1: the day after the versus battle. So my first ever
Speaker 1: ride on a private jet was just recently and I
Speaker 1: was with the locks on the My first UM ride
Speaker 1: on the jet was on some stripper ship and it
Speaker 1: was on it was on ludicrous is um jet. But
Speaker 1: he had nothing to do with it. I don't want
Speaker 1: to put his in. It was he had jet. It
Speaker 1: was Karma Karma Airlines, which his at and we were
Speaker 1: we got flown flute out, we got flewed out from
Speaker 1: Atlanta to New Orleans to do a um to do
Speaker 1: a bachelor party for a famous UM NBA player's brother.
Speaker 1: I do want to say the names. That's fun. But
Speaker 1: it was like it was like eight of us, and
Speaker 1: it was crazy because I didn't know, like my first
Speaker 1: time on the jet. I didn't know that we literally
Speaker 1: pulled up the car to the plane and you didn't
Speaker 1: go through like you know that you could really like
Speaker 1: two minutes before literally literally literally, So it was. It was.
Speaker 1: It was a good experience to and from New Orleans.
Speaker 1: But I just recently it was a Javonte Davis was like,
Speaker 1: you don't even want to fly pipe it no market? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why because it is yeah, oh yeah, because those little
Speaker 1: planes be scary. Yeah. It isn't a turbulence like crazy
Speaker 1: sometimes on jets though, because it's so small. Yeah. And
Speaker 1: let me tell you my first time on the jet.
Speaker 1: The first time I was on a jet. We were
Speaker 1: flying from somewhere in Europe to um somewhere else in Europe.
Speaker 1: We get on the jet. First, I hit my head
Speaker 1: walking onto it because you know how you gotta bend
Speaker 1: your head because it's a little plane. I hit my
Speaker 1: head walking onto the jet and We got on it
Speaker 1: and it was fabulous. Everything, you know, gold fixtures everywhere,
Speaker 1: everything was fabulous. It was just he and I and
Speaker 1: the flight attendants and the pilot on the plane. But
Speaker 1: when we took off, I realized that this little plane
Speaker 1: goes so fast and you could like feel everything. So
Speaker 1: the first time on a private jet for me was
Speaker 1: like devastating. I was holding on like are we gonna die?
Speaker 1: And then I feel good for him. But I've had
Speaker 1: better experiences on private jets, of course I've had. Now
Speaker 1: you was on the party plane. I've been on a
Speaker 1: lot of Hey Kanye, and Kanye sent up it was
Speaker 1: too for one of his events when I was living
Speaker 1: in l A. So I've been on a jet for
Speaker 1: a Kanye event too. Yeah, it's gonna be what are
Speaker 1: you talking? Yeah, I'm telling you no jet sweets. It's
Speaker 1: like it's a jet. It's not the jet that it's
Speaker 1: not like it's like it's like a uber it's not
Speaker 1: like drinks jet or future jet. But it's like, um,
Speaker 1: it's a jet and you pull up your car to
Speaker 1: the plane and all of that, and it's a hundred
Speaker 1: and fifty dollars two hundred dollars but it only goes
Speaker 1: to Vegas, it only goes to San Francisco, the Bay Area. Yes,
Speaker 1: and yeah they have an airport in Burbon like to
Speaker 1: be able to make that. Yeah, but they're like two
Speaker 1: hundred fifty dollars and you get first. Is more money?
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, way more money. That's and it's better. Jet
Speaker 1: sweets is so much better. Look it up, jet sweets,
Speaker 1: Jet sweets. Yeah, hopefully we cut that because we're not
Speaker 1: getting a check for that. We'll set that out, but
Speaker 1: we can't. Maybe already alright, we're good number one. I'm
Speaker 1: just kidding. So young Devon. Being as young as you are,
Speaker 1: do you think about things like um, marriage, yes or no?
Speaker 1: Like I try not to think about it too much,
Speaker 1: but yeah, I think about it, like of course being married,
Speaker 1: settling down, have I won't always want to like a
Speaker 1: little boy, so you know, of course that's definitely been
Speaker 1: in my mind, but that's not something I'm thinking about. Like,
Speaker 1: what about you, Eric, Since you've been in a relationship
Speaker 1: for so long, I feel like that's the next step.
Speaker 1: We we we we West Indian. I know mad at
Speaker 1: my cousins they'll date the same girl for years. I'm
Speaker 1: like nigga you Married's like it was a little weird.
Speaker 1: It's just like, I mean, if I'm going to spend
Speaker 1: it much time with somebody, that's like the natural order
Speaker 1: to to me. Maybe it's just too much TV and
Speaker 1: movies and ship. But I feel like you get the crib,
Speaker 1: you get the car, you know. And I think that
Speaker 1: I always imagine myself haven't been a dad and I
Speaker 1: was like part of it too, you know, being married.
Speaker 1: Do you know how you want to propose? Have you
Speaker 1: thought about that? Is it in front of people? Is
Speaker 1: it a private situation? Because that matters too, it does.
Speaker 1: The one thing I will say is that I don't
Speaker 1: I see a lot of people like filming and put
Speaker 1: it online. I don't want nobody to have it. I
Speaker 1: wanted to be like if I do wherever I do it,
Speaker 1: I just want her to have it and then she
Speaker 1: could give it to w whatever she wants. But I
Speaker 1: don't want to be like live and like put it
Speaker 1: on my page and I don't know, I just feel
Speaker 1: like I'm a personal with like that. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: it would mean more, especially ten years from now, to
Speaker 1: be happy that only you and I have that moment
Speaker 1: together and you've been together so long, man, it just
Speaker 1: makes sense. You never cheat it. Nah, that's dope. I
Speaker 1: don't do that because you know why. It's the same
Speaker 1: shot I told you before. It's like, why would I
Speaker 1: It's just stupid, Like you know what I mean. If
Speaker 1: I'm want to do that, I would at least have
Speaker 1: a conversation to be like, yo, I gotta you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. I wouldn't just do it and try
Speaker 1: to hide it, you know what I'm saying. I feel like,
Speaker 1: especially with COVID out of here, I honestly feel like
Speaker 1: when a guy says that he's tired of the of
Speaker 1: the bullshit, he's really tired. I feel like he wore
Speaker 1: himself out. That the person of your men cheating has
Speaker 1: gone down since COVID. What you're saying, you think that
Speaker 1: people are like being work. You think that people are
Speaker 1: being more cautious of like who know they're with or
Speaker 1: because everybody homes, everybody could pull up, everybody nothing but
Speaker 1: time when they here. Actually the perfecting people is way
Speaker 1: more litt now. I don't know. I live in Atlanta
Speaker 1: and we were only on lockdown for six weeks, and
Speaker 1: even it was kind of like fake. So I did
Speaker 1: personally quarantine for about three months, but um, once I
Speaker 1: went outside, that's how to get it. Got to use
Speaker 1: a condom. Let a don't care about COVID, that's a fact.
Speaker 1: Go to the doctor. And I was like, now, if
Speaker 1: yea man proposed, how would you want it to be? No, am,
Speaker 1: I gotta be lit like you gotta have all my
Speaker 1: friends on my family. I don't really know like where
Speaker 1: it would be per se, but it definitely has to
Speaker 1: have like all my people's there just something fun. I'm
Speaker 1: not really like the overly romantic, like you don't gotta
Speaker 1: be crazy, just something that I would enjoy and be
Speaker 1: like annuinely like surprised about. Okay, good, hopefully here's this
Speaker 1: thing you know right? This is it? Is it? Is
Speaker 1: it a bad idea to propose something? I've heard this
Speaker 1: from other from some ladies. Is it a bad idea
Speaker 1: to propose on your birthday? Yeah? It is right because
Speaker 1: I'm still like the type of person like a what if,
Speaker 1: Like I know you're not supposed to be that way,
Speaker 1: but I'm always have that one percent in the back
Speaker 1: of my head. So it's like, you propose on my birthday,
Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, and what if you break up. Now
Speaker 1: my birthday is ruling like that? Yeah, yeah, I think that.
Speaker 1: You know what's the good idea for women about that? Though?
Speaker 1: Because if you propose on a holiday, it's a gift,
Speaker 1: So if it doesn't work out, you get to keep
Speaker 1: the ring. But on any no, no, no, any other day,
Speaker 1: legally you have to give it back and lyle Christmas,
Speaker 1: your birth If if it's a gift like Christmas, Valentine's Day,
Speaker 1: your birthday or something like that, you get to keep
Speaker 1: the ring because it's a gift. But if you propose
Speaker 1: on a random ass day, then legally the just can
Speaker 1: tell you you have to give the ring back. Then
Speaker 1: I want to me some bread for that before you
Speaker 1: can tell that information. Thanks for the information. Angel. That's
Speaker 1: a crazy Why is that a law like? That's like
Speaker 1: literally a law like yeah is legally like they can
Speaker 1: do that in correct now, But if your girl proposed
Speaker 1: to you, Sorry for anybody that I know somebody that
Speaker 1: that happens to him too, But I just you would
Speaker 1: say no. I'm not gonna say no, but just let me,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, let me do that. If
Speaker 1: it happen, I'm gonna say yes. I just I just
Speaker 1: I just like I said, I I want to be
Speaker 1: that guy. I want to I want to give that
Speaker 1: to you, So I don't want you to feel like
Speaker 1: you had to do that. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: What if she had all her friends family, you say,
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, but would you tell her like after
Speaker 1: the fact, like I would rather you had not. I'll
Speaker 1: be like, I don't want to say it, and you
Speaker 1: wouldn't be saying like you wouldn't have wanted to say no,
Speaker 1: It's just that you would have wanted to be doing
Speaker 1: the proposed right exactly. I feel like that. I mean,
Speaker 1: I know we're in the living in the world where
Speaker 1: we want to be equal and men and women should
Speaker 1: be able to, you know, be able to live on
Speaker 1: the same you know, balance or whatever. But I don't
Speaker 1: think that I would want I would definitely never proposed
Speaker 1: to a man um but I would definitely um if
Speaker 1: one of my friends came to me and said they
Speaker 1: wanted proposed to their man, I would definitely tell them, bitch,
Speaker 1: don't you were going to say I would be supportive. No,
Speaker 1: I would not be proportive. Oh, I just feel like,
Speaker 1: let that let him have that. Now, what if you propose,
Speaker 1: and she says, I'm not really ready right now? Could
Speaker 1: you still date? Yeah, that's not that big of a you. Okay,
Speaker 1: you six months in and then I brought you a
Speaker 1: crazy bag and you just want to get more bags
Speaker 1: from you before you wanted to, Right, Maybe I was wilding,
Speaker 1: you said earlier, like, oh, maybe that's unattractive that I'm
Speaker 1: to odin. Maybe after a couple, you know, yeahs always,
Speaker 1: but it's always been like that. Girls always don't like
Speaker 1: the nicer guy, Like I've never been attracted to, like
Speaker 1: the super overly nice guys. Like I always feel like
Speaker 1: I could walk all over those types of people because
Speaker 1: I have like a real like dominant personality sometimes, like
Speaker 1: I'm Boklyn, I'm from Brooklyn, and I'm training. So it's
Speaker 1: like you have like a sertin spice to you that
Speaker 1: you've got to be like the right person to teen me.
Speaker 1: So yeah, if you're too nice, But sometimes you go
Speaker 1: through some bullshit and then you want somebody nice take
Speaker 1: for you to go through all that bull and you'd
Speaker 1: be like, I'm tired of this ship. Can I just
Speaker 1: please get a nice guy? I don't I haven't learn
Speaker 1: my lesson. Yeah, I'm still younger. You got time girls,
Speaker 1: I don't really nice girls. You don't my girls used
Speaker 1: to me, but you're not. You're gonna be nice to you,
Speaker 1: but not to other people like that, Like I don't
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna put myself on I'm sure right now,
Speaker 1: but like I bet like my I can explain it.
Speaker 1: It's almost like I want to know that I'm important
Speaker 1: to you, but I also want you kind of made
Speaker 1: me feel like you ain't shipped sometimes, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, because then to keep you on my toes,
Speaker 1: it's not just a challenge, but you don't feel like
Speaker 1: you can make that right with that super nice like
Speaker 1: I've dated super nice girls were you're born and ship. Okay,
Speaker 1: everything is fine, thot, I like every guy that I've
Speaker 1: ever dated, know is that like it could be over
Speaker 1: and I'm hearty if you sunk up. Yeah, but that
Speaker 1: keep him, it does because then you know you can't
Speaker 1: suck up now, I make that clear from the beginning, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: beginning during the argument after the affair of God in him. Yeah, alright,
Speaker 1: but let'sten. Yeah, I really appreciated this Brooklyn episode, and
Speaker 1: I both I appreciate both of you for coming through
Speaker 1: the antelay day. That meant a lot to me, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: people is representing in Brooklyn, you know, it was legendary
Speaker 1: after the pandemic. Well during this pandemic, still just for
Speaker 1: people to come out and have a good time. And
Speaker 1: y'all really like should improve and fir for you guys
Speaker 1: to donate your time for that. This meant a lot
Speaker 1: to me, so doing app and then we're coming through
Speaker 1: the lift service. Yeah absolutely, yeah, back to studio. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's right. When y'all getting listen, we'll bring you in
Speaker 1: your girl. We love couples on here. Yeah, we love that.
Speaker 1: He just said, you don't want no audience. You know
Speaker 1: what's got I want to come back forgetting and Baby Go,
Speaker 1: what's up with you? I'm chilling, definitely working on my
Speaker 1: second EP because you know, Baby Go is out right now,
Speaker 1: has been doing amazing so many open doors, you know.
Speaker 1: So I'm appreciative of all the blessings and all the
Speaker 1: newfound notoriety. Like I used to literally just watch this
Speaker 1: show every single day, Like you know, before I will
Speaker 1: go to school in the nighttime, I'll be sleeping watching
Speaker 1: the show. It was a point where I didn't know
Speaker 1: even though if I should tell my mother that I
Speaker 1: was watching the show like, but then it became like
Speaker 1: a bob thing thing. So, you know, for my dreams
Speaker 1: to come true, for me to be sitting on this couch,
Speaker 1: this is a real moment. I'm a fan of all
Speaker 1: of you guys. I love that. I feel like we
Speaker 1: you know, you're growing up with that appreciated listen. I
Speaker 1: would say this show has done a lot of education.
Speaker 1: We had a lot of never mind, I only want
Speaker 1: to do it and giving away a lot of tips,
Speaker 1: a lot of tricks of the trade. I learned a
Speaker 1: lot today. I'm not gonna lie, I did you did?
Speaker 1: That's good because it's not many times that guys could
Speaker 1: hear girls talk, really talk, because then it's like you're
Speaker 1: the only nig in the room and then they might
Speaker 1: censor something or they don't want to offend me. But like,
Speaker 1: to me, that's how you really learn and just be
Speaker 1: communicating feeling bad about like that coach. But you see
Speaker 1: how I knew that though. I was like, I know
Speaker 1: that's a bad look. You never bought it. I know
Speaker 1: you did exactly. He's like, I wasn't even going after
Speaker 1: not doing it once I see the logo. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't know you know that wrong line right and
Speaker 1: that nice steff. I'm not gonna hate on coach at all,
Speaker 1: because you're not hating on coach, just girl. I just
Speaker 1: know that's not that's for your grandma. If you have
Speaker 1: to cheach between coaching Michael Coores, what do you pay
Speaker 1: coach Michael Course? I picked a regular playing another bag coach. No,
Speaker 1: you gotta between you gotta pick between those two. Then
Speaker 1: what coach between coaching Michael Corps? I think Michael Course,
Speaker 1: it's long as you about kid, That's what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: not monograph, not little emblem. But I don't want to know.
Speaker 1: I'll take the plane Michael Corp's back that it says
Speaker 1: Michael corp is really small. Happen. It's like a plane
Speaker 1: leather bag I'll wear backwards. You won't even see the
Speaker 1: logo effort. It's cute. Adn't matter, right if it's how
Speaker 1: many I want to ask Angela, how many Michael Corps
Speaker 1: bags do you want to I don't know how many, coach,
Speaker 1: I don't know how It's like, okay, so for God
Speaker 1: buys you a certain type of gift, like does that
Speaker 1: mean they hold you to s instead they're like, you know,
Speaker 1: some guys don't. Yeah, that's true. That's why I'm grateful,
Speaker 1: Like you don't know, you don't know, but if you
Speaker 1: like out here, I honestly like guys who don't be
Speaker 1: carrying that much about stuff like that. I like that.
Speaker 1: I like you guys don't be like wrapped up in
Speaker 1: like labels and name brands. I know, I like clothes
Speaker 1: and I like things, but I don't like a guy
Speaker 1: has to be the same way, you know, And I'm
Speaker 1: not mad at that. I actually like guys who are
Speaker 1: more into investing their money and being ambitious and investing
Speaker 1: into into that. But you can't invest in your shorty,
Speaker 1: No you can. But some guys really just don't know.
Speaker 1: Because it also makes me know that you ain't had
Speaker 1: no real bits before me, So then that's good too, know,
Speaker 1: And I can't lie Being with a guy who's fashion
Speaker 1: forward is annoying. It's like we labeled battle exactly, like
Speaker 1: like like you're not wearing the same yours things don't
Speaker 1: wearing today. It doesn't about me. I think we're not
Speaker 1: doing that. Don't be knowing about that ship. It doesn't
Speaker 1: really batter me. Yeah, I don't mind when they don't
Speaker 1: be knowing, which that's what I'm saying. If a guy
Speaker 1: asked me what do you want? I would tell them
Speaker 1: gonna get me something like from something from leaving something
Speaker 1: under two thousand dollars serous girl. I think that's mine exactly.
Speaker 1: I think that's not about the girl that doesn't know
Speaker 1: and the nigga does about that? What is me? And
Speaker 1: and shorty don't you put it on? And yeah, and
Speaker 1: then and you're featuring her want her but we'll get
Speaker 1: more attention to detail. But I do feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with with guys who don't know about
Speaker 1: those things. I don't think that because I do think
Speaker 1: the majority of guys don't like around the world. We're
Speaker 1: thinking about here. We're in New York, right, But if
Speaker 1: you think about around the world, some place don't even
Speaker 1: have those stories. No, yeah, you're right, only by fake
Speaker 1: ship too. I know I can't. I could see a
Speaker 1: fake from three miles away. I'm not get away from
Speaker 1: your for you, like, just don't wear a watch, just
Speaker 1: don't wear anything, please. But you could look at young
Speaker 1: Devin and be like, Okay, I gotta look at her
Speaker 1: boots on. Do you think like looking at a certain
Speaker 1: person that they would want, you know, like a coach
Speaker 1: bag if they dressed a certain ways. But they do
Speaker 1: got some fly a coach bags. One of my friends
Speaker 1: had on the coach back the other day and it
Speaker 1: was like leather. It was nice scorchios, gorgeous, but not
Speaker 1: the monogram with the monogram. I don't want SCS all
Speaker 1: over my back. I just want to. That's it. That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. That's CCS on the cliff. That's I
Speaker 1: don't want. I don't want to. I want. This pandemic
Speaker 1: made me feel like not spending money on bullshit no more.
Speaker 1: Though I will say that I was in there for
Speaker 1: like six months and then I got back on my
Speaker 1: bullshit the same my money, and that I was like,
Speaker 1: it made me feel like I don't need to spend
Speaker 1: money on ship like that no more. I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: you're not going outside as much, right, but then you're
Speaker 1: getting flee for the for the zoom calls and all that.
Speaker 1: And honestly, I'm gonna tell you something. I just paid
Speaker 1: off my condo today because I had but investment and
Speaker 1: I bought a lesson two years ago, and I was like, man,
Speaker 1: see I stopped buying all this extra bullsh I'm not
Speaker 1: pay made off your property, and I paid off my
Speaker 1: little investment property. You know you're a couple of years ago,
Speaker 1: I paid off my brownstone and I got this like
Speaker 1: that should be feeling so good to me. I'll be like, man,
Speaker 1: all this name branch, but you also have all of
Speaker 1: the n't even be wearing that ship. That's why you
Speaker 1: just yea, you know. But that's how I feel about
Speaker 1: handbags and jewelry. It's a security blanket. This is money
Speaker 1: in the bank, you know what I mean. If if
Speaker 1: I get sucked up, I'm gonna get a couple of
Speaker 1: bands back from my stuff, you know what, I'll be
Speaker 1: right back up. It feels good, sounds good, so all right,
Speaker 1: well anyway, that is the service. I'm a la yee,
Speaker 1: I'm g G maguire, I'm Steparty Santiago and we're back. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, architect. We appreciate you'all so much.
Speaker 1: Thank you go through in person and risking your lives,
Speaker 1: you know what it outright the rest of your last
Speaker 1: that's seriously mine