Speaker 1: Second date of to day. How do you know when
Speaker 1: you've met that special someone? I think you just know,
Speaker 1: you just do. I hear that a lot. I mean
Speaker 1: I thought I knew a lot of times before I
Speaker 1: actually knew, But like then, when you know, you're like,
Speaker 1: oh those other times I didn't actually know, I'd say.
Speaker 1: A good hint is when you find yourself drunkenly emailing
Speaker 1: a radio show at three in the morning demanding that
Speaker 1: they help you get your romantic life back on trackways
Speaker 1: a good sign. One of our listeners, Laura, felt like
Speaker 1: she may have found her once in a lifetime kind
Speaker 1: of love, and she's on the phone with us right now. Now. Laura,
Speaker 1: I don't know if you were necessarily drunk when you
Speaker 1: sent us your email, but it did arrive in our
Speaker 1: inbox at two fifty five am, so you're not totally wrong.
Speaker 1: She's like, what email? Who are you? Yeah, Well, tell
Speaker 1: us about this one of a kind guy. What's his name? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean, I actually can't even believe I'm really doing
Speaker 1: this because I've heard this part of your show before
Speaker 1: and I always thought it was like I just never
Speaker 1: really thought that I would ever do something like this.
Speaker 1: I see it's like you're a little judgie about the
Speaker 1: other people who did it. But I get it now
Speaker 1: because I met this guy and he is incredible. His
Speaker 1: name is Charlie. He is smart, he's got his stuff together.
Speaker 1: He's just like tech entrepreneur guy, and I mean really
Speaker 1: really like chext off all the boxes for me. And yeah,
Speaker 1: we met on this online app I want to beat
Speaker 1: one and again, something you probably never thought you'd do,
Speaker 1: because that was for other people, not for you. I'm
Speaker 1: not that judgy, I swear. But we did meet on
Speaker 1: an app, and yeah, we went out on a date
Speaker 1: frizzye golfing. Do you know what frizzee golfing is? Frolfing? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Ok, yeah yeah, what was my first time?
Speaker 1: I've never done frolfing before. I mean, it's a pretty
Speaker 1: awesome stereotypical tech bro activity to me. He's a tech
Speaker 1: bro for sure, but a tech bro with like a
Speaker 1: snix pack, so I'm not judging. Wait, did he did
Speaker 1: he take his shirt off? He played frisbee golf because
Speaker 1: it gets so tense through the game, did you know that?
Speaker 1: Well he did. He had a little bit of sweat
Speaker 1: on his forehead and he lifted up his shirt to
Speaker 1: blot his forehead and I got a view. I all right,
Speaker 1: So could you tell what his interest level was like?
Speaker 1: Was he just trying to feel you out? Or was
Speaker 1: there more romantic flirting going on? Like I didn't get
Speaker 1: the vibe that he was just after, like, you know,
Speaker 1: a hook up or anything. Well that's good, I mean,
Speaker 1: because that's I assume what you're looking for to Yes, definitely,
Speaker 1: I mean especially with him. Yeah, okay, so how did
Speaker 1: this date? Where did it go from Frisbee golf? Nowhere?
Speaker 1: After the frisbee golf, But that's sort of a thing.
Speaker 1: The frisbee golf was fun. I thought, you know, okay,
Speaker 1: I've never done this before, so I'm going to give
Speaker 1: it a go. He had like packed a whole cooler
Speaker 1: of some goodies and some beer, which I'm not like
Speaker 1: a big beer drinker. But there was a moment where,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not great at frisbee, so I threw
Speaker 1: the frisbee at him and it did get him in
Speaker 1: the head. Yeah. So was that buddy or was it awkward?
Speaker 1: I thought it was like kind of funny. I mean,
Speaker 1: he wasn't seriously injured, he wasn't bleeding or anything. I
Speaker 1: mean he went down, he did. Oh wow, It's still
Speaker 1: not fun getting like hit in the face unexpectedly frisbee.
Speaker 1: He would doubt like he fell like you hit him
Speaker 1: that hard. So he was up ahead of me. I
Speaker 1: guess putting is what you call it in frisbee golf
Speaker 1: or whatever. Actually, I think it's called fretting in frisbee golf.
Speaker 1: Just saying. And I never thought that I would actually
Speaker 1: even get it to him, so I really put some
Speaker 1: muscle behind it to get it all the way to
Speaker 1: where he was. And yeah, it's got him in the head.
Speaker 1: And those discs are hard. They're not like the flimsy
Speaker 1: like free frisbee that you get with a promotional name
Speaker 1: on it. Okay, so after you assaulted your date with
Speaker 1: a frisbee, did you go over and help him? I did,
Speaker 1: and I mean he was pretty cool about it. I mean,
Speaker 1: he was kind of more funny than anything. You know,
Speaker 1: he wasn't He was a really good sport about it.
Speaker 1: And that's the only thing that you can think of
Speaker 1: that went wrong on the date. There's only one other thing,
Speaker 1: which I think is pretty small, but it did have
Speaker 1: me thinking, Like I said, I don't. I don't normally
Speaker 1: drink beer, so when I was drinking it, it it was
Speaker 1: making me really burpy, and I don't know how to
Speaker 1: describe it. So, you know, we were trying to talk
Speaker 1: and like I kept either trying to stifle a burp
Speaker 1: or definitely I let a couple slip, and I know
Speaker 1: he had to have noticed. Nice. I mean, that's not
Speaker 1: a turn off, though, is it. I mean anything, I
Speaker 1: think it's a turn on. I think guys like a
Speaker 1: girl that can hang with the boys and they'll let
Speaker 1: out a big burp like on a date would be
Speaker 1: maybe a turn off. That's the thing that I could
Speaker 1: think maybe could have gone wrong. But again, he was
Speaker 1: still really sweet gentleman the whole time. And at the
Speaker 1: end of the day he walked me to my car
Speaker 1: and he hugged me. There was no kiss, but he
Speaker 1: did give me like a nice hug and said he
Speaker 1: had a good time, okay. And then ever since then,
Speaker 1: I've reached out and he just hasn't really followed up,
Speaker 1: and I'm just not sure what's going on. And like
Speaker 1: I said, I really like this guy, and I'm hoping
Speaker 1: you guys can help me like figure it out, you know,
Speaker 1: did I do something? Is there something I can do differently?
Speaker 1: If I did? You know, I really want to make
Speaker 1: it work with this guy. Wow, you're really really like
Speaker 1: sounds like you're willing to change yourself for him. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, not change myself, but if there's something like
Speaker 1: about your personality that you can do differently, behave different
Speaker 1: that's what she is saying. No, she just really likes him,
Speaker 1: you know, and like maybe it's something simple. But did
Speaker 1: he give you any indication that he wanted to go
Speaker 1: out with you again? Um, he said he'd call me
Speaker 1: when we left, and then I reached out and I
Speaker 1: just haven't heard from him. Yeah, kind of sketch. So
Speaker 1: I guess we're going to play a song. We'll come back,
Speaker 1: call Charlie for you, and we'll try and get you
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, Laura, Oh my god, Okay,
Speaker 1: hold on second d update. All right, we're in the
Speaker 1: middle of a second date update with one of our
Speaker 1: listeners named Laura. She met a guy online who she
Speaker 1: describes as a once in a lifetime kind of person.
Speaker 1: His name's Charlie. He's smart, kind, funny, good listener, and
Speaker 1: he's got a six pack. Oh he sounds like too
Speaker 1: good to be true. He sounds like me ten years ago.
Speaker 1: He does think, where are you ever? Funny? Hey, I
Speaker 1: don't want to do this anymore. It was too much Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: too easy. Laura and this guy who is much funnier
Speaker 1: than me. When frisbee golfing or frothing where they she
Speaker 1: accidentally hit him in the head with one of her frisbees.
Speaker 1: The only other thing that she can think of that
Speaker 1: might have been a turn off is that she kept
Speaker 1: burping while they were drinking beers out on the course, right,
Speaker 1: and now he's not calling her back. Is there anything
Speaker 1: else that we miss from that? Laura? No, you pretty
Speaker 1: much got it. I mean, like I said, I just
Speaker 1: really hope that it wasn't something that's sort of silly,
Speaker 1: as just like burping or accidentally hitting him on the head.
Speaker 1: He's like, true, I think my dream list guy, he's
Speaker 1: got everything. He's such a great listener, he's obviously good looking,
Speaker 1: and you know he's just like got his life together
Speaker 1: because we're building him up so much bigger. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's right, Laura. I just want you to be like
Speaker 1: somewhat guarded on this one, because you said the end
Speaker 1: of the day, he said, yeah, I'll call you later.
Speaker 1: I mean, it just sounded like he may not be
Speaker 1: as interested as you are. Yeah, I hope it's not that.
Speaker 1: I hope he's just maybe been busy with work or something.
Speaker 1: All right, well let's find out. Let's call it Charlie
Speaker 1: and see how funny he really is. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1: Let's style the phone number and we'll try and get
Speaker 1: you your second day. Stop laughing, bro stop it. I
Speaker 1: think you're adorable to whatever. Let's just do the phone number. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Charlie please? This is Charlie. Hey, Charlie,
Speaker 1: how's it going. My name is Jeffrey from the radio
Speaker 1: show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have
Speaker 1: a second to talk with us? Uh? Sure, Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: don't worry. What is this about it? We're calling about
Speaker 1: your dating life because you went out with a girl recently.
Speaker 1: Is that funny? I'm sorry you say you're calling about
Speaker 1: a date. Yes, you went out on a date recently
Speaker 1: with a woman and you're not reaching out to her afterwards.
Speaker 1: So she got a hold of us to see if
Speaker 1: we could get in touch with you. Her name's Laura.
Speaker 1: Oh Okay, you remember Laura. Yeah, I say went out.
Speaker 1: Was there not too long ago? Yeah, we know that.
Speaker 1: That's what we just said to you. But Laura is
Speaker 1: wondering why after your date you've decided to ignore her.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I'm ignoring or I just I haven't
Speaker 1: talked to us. It's the date. She's really excited about you,
Speaker 1: so maybe she's a little over eager in terms of
Speaker 1: you getting back to her. I mean, were you planning
Speaker 1: on a second date with Laura? Yeah, it's kind of
Speaker 1: a complicated question. Oh no, okay. I always feel like
Speaker 1: the complicated word means that do you have someone else? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What's the situation? Yeah, I mean you know, yeah, we
Speaker 1: went on one date and I guess I just haven't
Speaker 1: thought about it after that. There's kind of like other
Speaker 1: things going on. So the other thing, did you connect
Speaker 1: with Laura? Because I mean, the way she described you,
Speaker 1: you're a damn unicorn. Yeah. She says that you're smart
Speaker 1: and kind and just hilarious and that you have a
Speaker 1: six pack, and she had a lot of fun frisbee
Speaker 1: golfing with you, and she's really blindsided because she has
Speaker 1: no idea why you wouldn't be wanting to get in
Speaker 1: touch with her again. I don't know what to say. Guy,
Speaker 1: I demand, do you have a girlfriend? Is that why
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to us about it? Well, um,
Speaker 1: I am engaged, engaged? Yeah, why you on a dating
Speaker 1: app if you're engaged? Yeah, dude, Well my fiance knows
Speaker 1: I went on a date. Okay, Like we've actually been
Speaker 1: engaged for eight years. This is the thing we do.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's all on the upper doors about this.
Speaker 1: So wait, you have an open relationship with your fiance
Speaker 1: not exactly, Oh no, I don't get it. We kind of,
Speaker 1: you know, we do it once a year where we
Speaker 1: test our relationship out and we go on a date
Speaker 1: and see what it's like and where we're at and
Speaker 1: like how we feel about the relationship. What a test
Speaker 1: date to see if you still like your fiance better
Speaker 1: than the options that are available. That's interesting. I've never
Speaker 1: heard of that, but I can see the logic. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, it's kind of like get a new perspective
Speaker 1: on things and trying to see where you're at. Okay,
Speaker 1: and so after your test date with Laura, then where
Speaker 1: are you at now? Like I told you, I hadn't
Speaker 1: really thought about it a lot. It just happened, you know, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're engaged, right years if you go home one day
Speaker 1: a year to see if you still like your fiance,
Speaker 1: you haven't thought about it a lot, Like, wouldn't that
Speaker 1: be all you're thinking about? Because it certainly would be
Speaker 1: all I was thinking about if that's your one day
Speaker 1: a year, but kind of a big moment of the year,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean I because I have thought about it.
Speaker 1: But my fiance's schedule took go on her date this week,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna talk about it once it's all done.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, So what do we tell Laura? Does
Speaker 1: Laura even know that you're engaged? Did you? Were you
Speaker 1: upfront with her about that? Well? No, I didn't. I
Speaker 1: didn't think she would go out with me if I
Speaker 1: told her that. I wonder why. Well, the good news
Speaker 1: is you're not gonna have to take a moment to
Speaker 1: have a conversation with Laura. Not again. Yeah, because you've
Speaker 1: actually already told her, now, Charley, Yeah, Laura's been on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and she heard everything that you said.
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me with this? I'm right here, Charlie.
Speaker 1: This is insane. Who does this, well, I do, and
Speaker 1: so does my fiance. Oh my god, Oh my god. Okay,
Speaker 1: so that's why when you think that somebody is too
Speaker 1: good to be true, it actually is too good to
Speaker 1: be true. This is insane. Can I just say this?
Speaker 1: I mean, it was really nice. All the nice things
Speaker 1: you said about me, though, well, can I take them
Speaker 1: all back? You crazy? Like crazy canceled out six packs? Sorry? Yeah,
Speaker 1: well I don't know that that's true. Laura actually been fine.
Speaker 1: There's cut lines too, Laura, you have to you didn't
Speaker 1: hear what he said. He said that he still has
Speaker 1: to think about it yet. He hasn't completely ruled you out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he has his wife. We'll make the decision super easy
Speaker 1: for you there, Charlie. No, thank you, and your fiance
Speaker 1: can just go be crazy with whoever else you want.
Speaker 1: I want no part in this. Insane. I mean, to
Speaker 1: be honest, I was kind of leaning toward the old
Speaker 1: relationship anyway. I mean, I mean, look at how you're looking,
Speaker 1: at how you're reacting to your fiance does sound pretty cool.
Speaker 1: I mean the thing is, Laura, would you have ever
Speaker 1: gone out with him if he would have been honest
Speaker 1: in the beginning? That's a hell now. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that's where you're going wrong with this, Charlie, Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: go ahead and do your one day to year if
Speaker 1: that's what you and your fiance you know, But you
Speaker 1: can't pull people in and not be honest with them
Speaker 1: when you're involving others emotions. I mean, she never asked
Speaker 1: me if I was engaged. I would have told her
Speaker 1: if she had asked me. See, it's her fault. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that is a pretty typical first day question, like are
Speaker 1: you engaged? It honestly should be these days apply. I mean,
Speaker 1: I just don't understand why everybody's freaking out about this. Mean,
Speaker 1: I was honest with you guys when you asked me,
Speaker 1: because you've committed yourself to marrying another woman already. Right,
Speaker 1: but once a year I get to go on a
Speaker 1: test date and we didn't kiss. I'm not doing anything shady.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's the first date that's called leading someone
Speaker 1: on that is shady. Don't be on a dating app
Speaker 1: if you don't want to be investing time with someone.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Yeah, dolls, advertisement for sure on your dating profile,
Speaker 1: and don't be engaged if eight years later you're still
Speaker 1: not gonna get married, Like when are you eventually gonna decide? Okay,
Speaker 1: now's the right time. We're gonna get married now, like
Speaker 1: another eight years you called me? I mean, like, are
Speaker 1: you you just like calling me to tell me how
Speaker 1: to run my life? Here? I mean I don't, Yes,
Speaker 1: I am calling you to tell you how to run
Speaker 1: your life. Don't get engaged and then drag out the
Speaker 1: engagement for eight years, but tests once a year to
Speaker 1: try and figure out if you still want to do it.
Speaker 1: He has a fal commitment that he needs to work through.
Speaker 1: You just don't need to involve other people. What are
Speaker 1: you doing if not? Miss so similar way? Are you engaged? Oh?
Speaker 1: We forgot's sake. It was just frisbee golf and a
Speaker 1: couple of beers. I don't understand why you guys are
Speaker 1: freaking out about it, because I think Jeff thinks that
Speaker 1: he actually went out with you at one point he
Speaker 1: oh my god. Oh man, Well, at this point, i'd
Speaker 1: like to ask if you would like to go out
Speaker 1: on another date with Laura. One of them says, yes,
Speaker 1: this is the biggest twist, and second, we'll pay for it. Charlie, No,
Speaker 1: I mean looking all right, Well, that's all right, Charlie Laura,
Speaker 1: you know, sorry you didn't get a second date. This
Speaker 1: is like a blessing. I'm so glad that it didn't
Speaker 1: work out. Yeah, and don't you want to give your
Speaker 1: well wishes to Charlie and his fiance. Oh yeah, he's
Speaker 1: gonna got a six pack in the morning.