WEBVTT - Second Date Update: 8 Year Test

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<v Speaker 1>Second date of to day. How do you know when

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<v Speaker 1>you've met that special someone? I think you just know,

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<v Speaker 1>you just do. I hear that a lot. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I knew a lot of times before I

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<v Speaker 1>actually knew, But like then, when you know, you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh those other times I didn't actually know, I'd say.

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<v Speaker 1>A good hint is when you find yourself drunkenly emailing

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show at three in the morning demanding that

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<v Speaker 1>they help you get your romantic life back on trackways

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<v Speaker 1>a good sign. One of our listeners, Laura, felt like

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<v Speaker 1>she may have found her once in a lifetime kind

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<v Speaker 1>of love, and she's on the phone with us right now. Now. Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you were necessarily drunk when you

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<v Speaker 1>sent us your email, but it did arrive in our

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<v Speaker 1>inbox at two fifty five am, so you're not totally wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, what email? Who are you? Yeah, Well, tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about this one of a kind guy. What's his name? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I actually can't even believe I'm really doing

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<v Speaker 1>this because I've heard this part of your show before

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<v Speaker 1>and I always thought it was like I just never

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<v Speaker 1>really thought that I would ever do something like this.

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<v Speaker 1>I see it's like you're a little judgie about the

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<v Speaker 1>other people who did it. But I get it now

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<v Speaker 1>because I met this guy and he is incredible. His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Charlie. He is smart, he's got his stuff together.

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<v Speaker 1>He's just like tech entrepreneur guy, and I mean really

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<v Speaker 1>really like chext off all the boxes for me. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we met on this online app I want to beat

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<v Speaker 1>one and again, something you probably never thought you'd do,

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<v Speaker 1>because that was for other people, not for you. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not that judgy, I swear. But we did meet on

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<v Speaker 1>an app, and yeah, we went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>frizzye golfing. Do you know what frizzee golfing is? Frolfing? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, Ok, yeah yeah, what was my first time?

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<v Speaker 1>I've never done frolfing before. I mean, it's a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>awesome stereotypical tech bro activity to me. He's a tech

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<v Speaker 1>bro for sure, but a tech bro with like a

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<v Speaker 1>snix pack, so I'm not judging. Wait, did he did

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<v Speaker 1>he take his shirt off? He played frisbee golf because

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<v Speaker 1>it gets so tense through the game, did you know that?

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<v Speaker 1>Well he did. He had a little bit of sweat

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<v Speaker 1>on his forehead and he lifted up his shirt to

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<v Speaker 1>blot his forehead and I got a view. I all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So could you tell what his interest level was like?

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<v Speaker 1>Was he just trying to feel you out? Or was

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<v Speaker 1>there more romantic flirting going on? Like I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe that he was just after, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a hook up or anything. Well that's good, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's I assume what you're looking for to Yes, definitely,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean especially with him. Yeah, okay, so how did

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<v Speaker 1>this date? Where did it go from Frisbee golf? Nowhere?

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<v Speaker 1>After the frisbee golf, But that's sort of a thing.

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<v Speaker 1>The frisbee golf was fun. I thought, you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never done this before, so I'm going to give

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<v Speaker 1>it a go. He had like packed a whole cooler

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<v Speaker 1>of some goodies and some beer, which I'm not like

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<v Speaker 1>a big beer drinker. But there was a moment where,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm not great at frisbee, so I threw

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<v Speaker 1>the frisbee at him and it did get him in

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<v Speaker 1>the head. Yeah. So was that buddy or was it awkward?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was like kind of funny. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't seriously injured, he wasn't bleeding or anything. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he went down, he did. Oh wow, It's still

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<v Speaker 1>not fun getting like hit in the face unexpectedly frisbee.

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<v Speaker 1>He would doubt like he fell like you hit him

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<v Speaker 1>that hard. So he was up ahead of me. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess putting is what you call it in frisbee golf

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. Actually, I think it's called fretting in frisbee golf.

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<v Speaker 1>Just saying. And I never thought that I would actually

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<v Speaker 1>even get it to him, so I really put some

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<v Speaker 1>muscle behind it to get it all the way to

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<v Speaker 1>where he was. And yeah, it's got him in the head.

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<v Speaker 1>And those discs are hard. They're not like the flimsy

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<v Speaker 1>like free frisbee that you get with a promotional name

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Okay, so after you assaulted your date with

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<v Speaker 1>a frisbee, did you go over and help him? I did,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean he was pretty cool about it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he was kind of more funny than anything. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't He was a really good sport about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the only thing that you can think of

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<v Speaker 1>that went wrong on the date. There's only one other thing,

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<v Speaker 1>which I think is pretty small, but it did have

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<v Speaker 1>me thinking, Like I said, I don't. I don't normally

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<v Speaker 1>drink beer, so when I was drinking it, it it was

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<v Speaker 1>making me really burpy, and I don't know how to

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<v Speaker 1>describe it. So, you know, we were trying to talk

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<v Speaker 1>and like I kept either trying to stifle a burp

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<v Speaker 1>or definitely I let a couple slip, and I know

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<v Speaker 1>he had to have noticed. Nice. I mean, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>a turn off, though, is it. I mean anything, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's a turn on. I think guys like a

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<v Speaker 1>girl that can hang with the boys and they'll let

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<v Speaker 1>out a big burp like on a date would be

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a turn off. That's the thing that I could

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<v Speaker 1>think maybe could have gone wrong. But again, he was

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<v Speaker 1>still really sweet gentleman the whole time. And at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the day he walked me to my car

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<v Speaker 1>and he hugged me. There was no kiss, but he

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<v Speaker 1>did give me like a nice hug and said he

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<v Speaker 1>had a good time, okay. And then ever since then,

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<v Speaker 1>I've reached out and he just hasn't really followed up,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just not sure what's going on. And like

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I really like this guy, and I'm hoping

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<v Speaker 1>you guys can help me like figure it out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>did I do something? Is there something I can do differently?

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<v Speaker 1>If I did? You know, I really want to make

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<v Speaker 1>it work with this guy. Wow, you're really really like

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're willing to change yourself for him. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, not change myself, but if there's something like

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<v Speaker 1>about your personality that you can do differently, behave different

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<v Speaker 1>that's what she is saying. No, she just really likes him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and like maybe it's something simple. But did

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<v Speaker 1>he give you any indication that he wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you again? Um, he said he'd call me

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<v Speaker 1>when we left, and then I reached out and I

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<v Speaker 1>just haven't heard from him. Yeah, kind of sketch. So

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<v Speaker 1>I guess we're going to play a song. We'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call Charlie for you, and we'll try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, Laura, Oh my god, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on second d update. All right, we're in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second date update with one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners named Laura. She met a guy online who she

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<v Speaker 1>describes as a once in a lifetime kind of person.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Charlie. He's smart, kind, funny, good listener, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's got a six pack. Oh he sounds like too

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<v Speaker 1>good to be true. He sounds like me ten years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>He does think, where are you ever? Funny? Hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do this anymore. It was too much Jeffrey,

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<v Speaker 1>too easy. Laura and this guy who is much funnier

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<v Speaker 1>than me. When frisbee golfing or frothing where they she

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<v Speaker 1>accidentally hit him in the head with one of her frisbees.

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<v Speaker 1>The only other thing that she can think of that

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<v Speaker 1>might have been a turn off is that she kept

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<v Speaker 1>burping while they were drinking beers out on the course, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and now he's not calling her back. Is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>else that we miss from that? Laura? No, you pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much got it. I mean, like I said, I just

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<v Speaker 1>really hope that it wasn't something that's sort of silly,

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<v Speaker 1>as just like burping or accidentally hitting him on the head.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, true, I think my dream list guy, he's

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<v Speaker 1>got everything. He's such a great listener, he's obviously good looking,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know he's just like got his life together

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<v Speaker 1>because we're building him up so much bigger. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right, Laura. I just want you to be like

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<v Speaker 1>somewhat guarded on this one, because you said the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, he said, yeah, I'll call you later.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it just sounded like he may not be

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<v Speaker 1>as interested as you are. Yeah, I hope it's not that.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope he's just maybe been busy with work or something.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well let's find out. Let's call it Charlie

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<v Speaker 1>and see how funny he really is. I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's style the phone number and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you your second day. Stop laughing, bro stop it. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're adorable to whatever. Let's just do the phone number. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Charlie please? This is Charlie. Hey, Charlie,

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<v Speaker 1>how's it going. My name is Jeffrey from the radio

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<v Speaker 1>show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>a second to talk with us? Uh? Sure, Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry. What is this about it? We're calling about

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<v Speaker 1>your dating life because you went out with a girl recently.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that funny? I'm sorry you say you're calling about

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Yes, you went out on a date recently

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<v Speaker 1>with a woman and you're not reaching out to her afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>So she got a hold of us to see if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get in touch with you. Her name's Laura.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Okay, you remember Laura. Yeah, I say went out.

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<v Speaker 1>Was there not too long ago? Yeah, we know that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we just said to you. But Laura is

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<v Speaker 1>wondering why after your date you've decided to ignore her.

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say I'm ignoring or I just I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>talked to us. It's the date. She's really excited about you,

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<v Speaker 1>so maybe she's a little over eager in terms of

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<v Speaker 1>you getting back to her. I mean, were you planning

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date with Laura? Yeah, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a complicated question. Oh no, okay. I always feel like

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<v Speaker 1>the complicated word means that do you have someone else? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the situation? Yeah, I mean you know, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>went on one date and I guess I just haven't

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<v Speaker 1>thought about it after that. There's kind of like other

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<v Speaker 1>things going on. So the other thing, did you connect

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<v Speaker 1>with Laura? Because I mean, the way she described you,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a damn unicorn. Yeah. She says that you're smart

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<v Speaker 1>and kind and just hilarious and that you have a

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<v Speaker 1>six pack, and she had a lot of fun frisbee

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<v Speaker 1>golfing with you, and she's really blindsided because she has

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<v Speaker 1>no idea why you wouldn't be wanting to get in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with her again. I don't know what to say. Guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I demand, do you have a girlfriend? Is that why

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to talk to us about it? Well, um,

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<v Speaker 1>I am engaged, engaged? Yeah, why you on a dating

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<v Speaker 1>app if you're engaged? Yeah, dude, Well my fiance knows

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<v Speaker 1>I went on a date. Okay, Like we've actually been

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<v Speaker 1>engaged for eight years. This is the thing we do.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's all on the upper doors about this.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, you have an open relationship with your fiance

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<v Speaker 1>not exactly, Oh no, I don't get it. We kind of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we do it once a year where we

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<v Speaker 1>test our relationship out and we go on a date

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<v Speaker 1>and see what it's like and where we're at and

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<v Speaker 1>like how we feel about the relationship. What a test

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<v Speaker 1>date to see if you still like your fiance better

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<v Speaker 1>than the options that are available. That's interesting. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>heard of that, but I can see the logic. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's kind of like get a new perspective

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<v Speaker 1>on things and trying to see where you're at. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and so after your test date with Laura, then where

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<v Speaker 1>are you at now? Like I told you, I hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>really thought about it a lot. It just happened, you know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're engaged, right years if you go home one day

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<v Speaker 1>a year to see if you still like your fiance,

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't thought about it a lot, Like, wouldn't that

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<v Speaker 1>be all you're thinking about? Because it certainly would be

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<v Speaker 1>all I was thinking about if that's your one day

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<v Speaker 1>a year, but kind of a big moment of the year,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I mean I because I have thought about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But my fiance's schedule took go on her date this week,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna talk about it once it's all done.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, So what do we tell Laura? Does

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<v Speaker 1>Laura even know that you're engaged? Did you? Were you

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<v Speaker 1>upfront with her about that? Well? No, I didn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think she would go out with me if I

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<v Speaker 1>told her that. I wonder why. Well, the good news

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<v Speaker 1>is you're not gonna have to take a moment to

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<v Speaker 1>have a conversation with Laura. Not again. Yeah, because you've

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<v Speaker 1>actually already told her, now, Charley, Yeah, Laura's been on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and she heard everything that you said.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you kidding me with this? I'm right here, Charlie.

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<v Speaker 1>This is insane. Who does this, well, I do, and

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<v Speaker 1>so does my fiance. Oh my god, Oh my god. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's why when you think that somebody is too

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<v Speaker 1>good to be true, it actually is too good to

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<v Speaker 1>be true. This is insane. Can I just say this?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was really nice. All the nice things

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<v Speaker 1>you said about me, though, well, can I take them

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<v Speaker 1>all back? You crazy? Like crazy canceled out six packs? Sorry? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well I don't know that that's true. Laura actually been fine.

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<v Speaker 1>There's cut lines too, Laura, you have to you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear what he said. He said that he still has

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<v Speaker 1>to think about it yet. He hasn't completely ruled you out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he has his wife. We'll make the decision super easy

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<v Speaker 1>for you there, Charlie. No, thank you, and your fiance

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<v Speaker 1>can just go be crazy with whoever else you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I want no part in this. Insane. I mean, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest, I was kind of leaning toward the old

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<v Speaker 1>relationship anyway. I mean, I mean, look at how you're looking,

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<v Speaker 1>at how you're reacting to your fiance does sound pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the thing is, Laura, would you have ever

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<v Speaker 1>gone out with him if he would have been honest

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<v Speaker 1>in the beginning? That's a hell now. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's where you're going wrong with this, Charlie, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead and do your one day to year if

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you and your fiance you know, But you

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<v Speaker 1>can't pull people in and not be honest with them

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<v Speaker 1>when you're involving others emotions. I mean, she never asked

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<v Speaker 1>me if I was engaged. I would have told her

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<v Speaker 1>if she had asked me. See, it's her fault. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that is a pretty typical first day question, like are

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<v Speaker 1>you engaged? It honestly should be these days apply. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't understand why everybody's freaking out about this. Mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I was honest with you guys when you asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>because you've committed yourself to marrying another woman already. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>but once a year I get to go on a

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<v Speaker 1>test date and we didn't kiss. I'm not doing anything shady.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's the first date that's called leading someone

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<v Speaker 1>on that is shady. Don't be on a dating app

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't want to be investing time with someone.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. Yeah, dolls, advertisement for sure on your dating profile,

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<v Speaker 1>and don't be engaged if eight years later you're still

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna get married, Like when are you eventually gonna decide? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>now's the right time. We're gonna get married now, like

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<v Speaker 1>another eight years you called me? I mean, like, are

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<v Speaker 1>you you just like calling me to tell me how

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<v Speaker 1>to run my life? Here? I mean I don't, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I am calling you to tell you how to run

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<v Speaker 1>your life. Don't get engaged and then drag out the

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<v Speaker 1>engagement for eight years, but tests once a year to

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<v Speaker 1>try and figure out if you still want to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>He has a fal commitment that he needs to work through.

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<v Speaker 1>You just don't need to involve other people. What are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing if not? Miss so similar way? Are you engaged? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>We forgot's sake. It was just frisbee golf and a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of beers. I don't understand why you guys are

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<v Speaker 1>freaking out about it, because I think Jeff thinks that

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<v Speaker 1>he actually went out with you at one point he

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god. Oh man, Well, at this point, i'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to ask if you would like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>on another date with Laura. One of them says, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the biggest twist, and second, we'll pay for it. Charlie, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean looking all right, Well, that's all right, Charlie Laura,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, sorry you didn't get a second date. This

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<v Speaker 1>is like a blessing. I'm so glad that it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out. Yeah, and don't you want to give your

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<v Speaker 1>well wishes to Charlie and his fiance. Oh yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna got a six pack in the morning.