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Speaker 1: Second date of to day. How do you know when

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Speaker 1: you've met that special someone? I think you just know,

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Speaker 1: you just do. I hear that a lot. I mean

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Speaker 1: oh those other times I didn't actually know, I'd say.

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Speaker 1: A good hint is when you find yourself drunkenly emailing

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Speaker 1: a radio show at three in the morning demanding that

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Speaker 1: they help you get your romantic life back on trackways

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Speaker 1: a good sign. One of our listeners, Laura, felt like

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Speaker 1: she may have found her once in a lifetime kind

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Speaker 1: of love, and she's on the phone with us right now. Now. Laura,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you were necessarily drunk when you

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Speaker 1: sent us your email, but it did arrive in our

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Speaker 1: inbox at two fifty five am, so you're not totally wrong.

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Speaker 1: She's like, what email? Who are you? Yeah, Well, tell

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Speaker 1: us about this one of a kind guy. What's his name? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I actually can't even believe I'm really doing

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Speaker 1: this because I've heard this part of your show before

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Speaker 1: I see it's like you're a little judgie about the

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Speaker 1: other people who did it. But I get it now

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Speaker 1: because I met this guy and he is incredible. His

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Speaker 1: He's just like tech entrepreneur guy, and I mean really

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Speaker 1: one and again, something you probably never thought you'd do,

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Speaker 1: because that was for other people, not for you. I'm

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Speaker 1: not that judgy, I swear. But we did meet on

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Speaker 1: an app, and yeah, we went out on a date

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Speaker 1: frizzye golfing. Do you know what frizzee golfing is? Frolfing? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Ok, yeah yeah, what was my first time?

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Speaker 1: I've never done frolfing before. I mean, it's a pretty

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Speaker 1: awesome stereotypical tech bro activity to me. He's a tech

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Speaker 1: Well he did. He had a little bit of sweat

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Speaker 1: So could you tell what his interest level was like?

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Speaker 1: Was he just trying to feel you out? Or was

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Speaker 1: there more romantic flirting going on? Like I didn't get

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Speaker 1: the vibe that he was just after, like, you know,

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Speaker 1: After the frisbee golf, But that's sort of a thing.

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Speaker 1: The frisbee golf was fun. I thought, you know, okay,

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Speaker 1: I've never done this before, so I'm going to give

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Speaker 1: guess putting is what you call it in frisbee golf

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Speaker 1: And those discs are hard. They're not like the flimsy

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Speaker 1: sounds like you're willing to change yourself for him. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know, and like maybe it's something simple. But did

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Speaker 1: His name's Charlie. He's smart, kind, funny, good listener, and

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Speaker 1: good to be true. He sounds like me ten years ago.

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Speaker 1: else that we miss from that? Laura? No, you pretty

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Speaker 1: and see how funny he really is. I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: Let's style the phone number and we'll try and get

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Speaker 1: you your second day. Stop laughing, bro stop it. I

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Speaker 1: think you're adorable to whatever. Let's just do the phone number. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how's it going. My name is Jeffrey from the radio

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Speaker 1: a second to talk with us? Uh? Sure, Okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: Is that funny? I'm sorry you say you're calling about

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Speaker 1: Oh Okay, you remember Laura. Yeah, I say went out.

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Speaker 1: on a second date with Laura? Yeah, it's kind of

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Speaker 1: the complicated word means that do you have someone else? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: touch with her again. I don't know what to say. Guy,

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Speaker 1: I demand, do you have a girlfriend? Is that why

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Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to us about it? Well, um,

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Speaker 1: I am engaged, engaged? Yeah, why you on a dating

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Speaker 1: app if you're engaged? Yeah, dude, Well my fiance knows

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Speaker 1: I went on a date. Okay, Like we've actually been

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Speaker 1: engaged for eight years. This is the thing we do.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's all on the upper doors about this.

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Speaker 1: So wait, you have an open relationship with your fiance

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Speaker 1: not exactly, Oh no, I don't get it. We kind of,

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Speaker 1: like how we feel about the relationship. What a test

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Speaker 1: date to see if you still like your fiance better

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Speaker 1: and so after your test date with Laura, then where

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Speaker 1: all I was thinking about if that's your one day

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Speaker 1: But my fiance's schedule took go on her date this week,

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me with this? I'm right here, Charlie.

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Speaker 1: well I don't know that that's true. Laura actually been fine.

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Speaker 1: for you there, Charlie. No, thank you, and your fiance

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Speaker 1: I want no part in this. Insane. I mean, to

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Speaker 1: You just don't need to involve other people. What are

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Speaker 1: We forgot's sake. It was just frisbee golf and a

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Speaker 1: this is the biggest twist, and second, we'll pay for it. Charlie, No,

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Speaker 1: is like a blessing. I'm so glad that it didn't

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Speaker 1: well wishes to Charlie and his fiance. Oh yeah, he's

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