1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 1: Right before we get into the Strawberry Letter, I have 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: to take the time to take the time to thank 3 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,559 Speaker 1: everyone who came out to my candle launch yesterday at 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: Phipps Plaza Merchco. I appreciate you guys so much. Mississippi 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:21,159 Speaker 1: Monica was there, Kier Junior Spates was there with the 6 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:24,960 Speaker 1: film crew and everything. I appreciate you guys so much. 7 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,280 Speaker 1: Thank you for all the love. Thank you for purchasing 8 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: my candles. I hope you love them. And it's just 9 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: a sign up more to come. I appreciate you guys. 10 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:39,680 Speaker 1: Thank you. Time now for the strawers. Thank you guys, 11 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: appreciate it. Time now for the Strawberry Letter. And if 12 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, or more, 13 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 14 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: by clicking on submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 15 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna 16 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and it could 17 00:00:58,120 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: be yours. You never know, you never know. Buckle up 18 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: and hold on type. We got it for you here. 19 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter. All right. Thank your nephew 20 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: subject he keeps sharing his toys Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm 21 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,640 Speaker 1: a forty four year old single woman and I'm in 22 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:17,520 Speaker 1: a long distance relationship with a man that lives with 23 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 1: two females. They have all been friends for years, so 24 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: he's allowed them to stay with him after they got divorced. 25 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: The first woman moved in about four months ago, and 26 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: she's not even working and claims she's very depressed, so 27 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: she lies around the house all day in a robe 28 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: and a bonnet. The other female moved in last week 29 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: and she's got all of her boxes in the living 30 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,960 Speaker 1: room where I've set up my desk to work when 31 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: I'm in town visiting him. I am cordial with these women, 32 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: but it's awkward to be with him and they're moving 33 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: around his house. He doesn't see anything wrong with it. 34 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: One of the things he and I have in common 35 00:01:56,040 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: is our kindness, and we love to role play use 36 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: toys to keep the magic going in the bedroom. We 37 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: go to the store together and pick out things to tribes. 38 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: I was there a few weeks ago and I was 39 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:11,120 Speaker 1: lying in the bed with him and I noticed a 40 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: harness on his dresser. He turned bright red when I 41 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 1: pointed it out. He said he let his roommate borrow it. 42 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: I had to first address the fact that he said roommate, 43 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: as if the woman would be living there a while. 44 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: He told me that she is paying rent, so she's 45 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 1: a roommate. He said, they're being there. They've both been 46 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:37,640 Speaker 1: having a rough time right now, so the toys helped 47 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 1: them release tension. I was disgusted and told him he'd 48 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: better not ever try to use any of those toys 49 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: with me. Ever, again, I still couldn't figure out why 50 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:52,120 Speaker 1: it was on his dresser though, And after sharing this 51 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: info with a girlfriend, she said, he is not letting 52 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: them borrow the toys. They are all having playtime together. 53 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: She suggests that he's into polyamory and this is all 54 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: new to me, so why would he keep me around 55 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 1: if he has those two Haven't you heard the saying, 56 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: you know, why have two when you can have three? 57 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 1: All you know, there are a lot of things going on. 58 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 1: You should never have gotten into this relationship in the 59 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: first place. I mean, this whole arrangement is stupid. Well, 60 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: of course, not for him, but definitely for you. And 61 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: like I said, haven't you heard the term, you know, 62 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: why have two when you can have three? Haven't you 63 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 1: heard the term variety is a spice of life. I mean, 64 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: your friend was right with what she said. They're all 65 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: doing it. Okay, you're not there in the house, but 66 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: that's exactly what's going on. You're not the woman of 67 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: this house. You're just someone who comes in occasionally, who 68 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: thinks she's number one and sleeps with the man of 69 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: the house. He doesn't even care enough to put the 70 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: toys up when you get there. You need to look 71 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: at this situation as it really really is and not 72 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: how you want it to be. You have no power 73 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: in this You have no no, no love, no respect 74 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:11,119 Speaker 1: from them in this relationship, and you need to move 75 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:17,679 Speaker 1: on and find someone in your own town. Period. Steve. Wow, Wow, 76 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:21,640 Speaker 1: this right here, boy, let me let me just go 77 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: and put some work here right here. Let me tell 78 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: you something, Nady, he's sharing his toy. Really, that's what 79 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:34,920 Speaker 1: you think this letter is about. Well, I got some 80 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 1: bad news for you, ma'am. This Stephen Sherley. I'm afforded 81 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: for year old single woman. I'm in a long distance 82 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: relationship with the man that lives with two females. Let's 83 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: stop right there. I'm in a long distance relationship with 84 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: a man that lives with two females. See you in alone, 85 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 1: dist relation? See at what you in? He not in that? 86 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: He doing long distance, shout distance. He doing right down 87 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: right here? Who coming in? Who turned? He doing all that? 88 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 1: That's what he doing now you party four. I'm assuming 89 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: he in that age range. They all been friends for years, 90 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,600 Speaker 1: so he allowed them to stay with him after they 91 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: got divorced. The first woman moved in about four months ago, 92 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: and she's not even working and claimed she's very depressed, 93 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 1: so she lies around the house all day in a 94 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: robe and a bunnet. We're gonna bring her back up 95 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: later on, because I can assure you she shows up 96 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: again later on in this letter with that robe on. 97 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 1: The other female moved in last week, and she's got 98 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 1: all her boxes in the living room while I've set 99 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: up my desk to work when I'm in town visiting him. 100 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 1: Oh you got a little crowded, little ragged ass office, 101 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: ain't you The boxes in? Now? People in? Now hust 102 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: uff in now, boy you bet now zoom. Ain't nobody 103 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: gonna understand what all that? Who's on the people? And 104 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: why did the lady keep walking out with that rob one? 105 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 1: What are they doing? What is all the nose. You 106 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:31,359 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on. I am cordial with these women, 107 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: but it's awkward to be with him and they're moving 108 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 1: around the house. Go ahead and shirt. All right, listen, Steve. 109 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up at 110 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Strawberry leathers subject for 111 00:06:47,040 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: today he keeps sharing his toys. We'll get back into 112 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:56,920 Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, 113 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter and finish 114 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 1: up with you or respond. Yeah, I ain't gonna take 115 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 1: too much time on this. Come, I just going to 116 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: get to it. I'm for it for your old single woman. 117 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: I'm in a long distant relationship with a man that 118 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: lives with two females. You in a long distance relationship, 119 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 1: that's what you win. He stayed with two women. See 120 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 1: so you in a long distance relationship. Here in a 121 00:07:24,040 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 1: long distance relationship and a short distance relationship. He David 122 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: friends for years who he lied to stay with after 123 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: they got divorced. The first woman moved in four months ago. 124 00:07:35,120 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 1: Ain't even working, claim she depressed, so she lied around 125 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 1: the house all day in the road with a bonnet on. 126 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you we're gonna bring her back up 127 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: in a minute. The other female moved in last week, 128 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 1: and she got all her boxes in the room while 129 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: I set up my desk to work. When I'm in 130 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:53,679 Speaker 1: town visiting him, you got a little crowded, ragged ass 131 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 1: off his mouth. You just got all kinds of stuff 132 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: in that damn Your offers got boxed picture frames, other 133 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: people clothes and stuff. Got a wardrobe box in the way. 134 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: He got a rack with some clothes hanging on the 135 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: back of the dope. I'm cordial with these women, but 136 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: it's awkward to be with him and they're moving around 137 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 1: his house. He don't see anything wrong with it. One 138 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: of the things he and I have in common is 139 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: our kinkiness. See, and we love to roll play and 140 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: we see see you thought it was kind of kindness. Yeah, nay, 141 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,959 Speaker 1: that's kinkiness. See. But see, one thing they have in 142 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 1: common its kinkiness. And I know you got it in 143 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: common because he lived with two women and you the 144 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: third one, and you are right with it. That's can't 145 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 1: get right there? See all this the whole damn letter, 146 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: can't you? But now you come on, Nah, Shelly, it's 147 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: O and we love to roll play and use tords 148 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,880 Speaker 1: to keep the magic going in the bedroom. So we 149 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: go to stow together, we pick out things and tripping 150 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,680 Speaker 1: out there. A few weeks ago and I was living 151 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: in bid with him and I noticed a harness on 152 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: his dresser. He turned bright red when I pointed out 153 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:09,880 Speaker 1: he said. He let his roommate bar and then let 154 00:09:09,880 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 1: me flame something to you by the harness. I've never 155 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,719 Speaker 1: used a sexual harness before, but the hardest mean you 156 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: got to get in something to be restrained or hell back. 157 00:09:20,960 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: You put a harness on a horse. You put a 158 00:09:24,320 --> 00:09:27,679 Speaker 1: harness on the mule, put a harness on the auction. 159 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: Anytime we fit the plow, plowing requires a harness. You 160 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: want to hook a horse up to a buggy wagon, 161 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 1: we gotta put the harness on his head. And I 162 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 1: noticed a harness on his dresser. He turned bright red. 163 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: When I pointed, Okay, now this is a light skin, dude, 164 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: he lights because it turned bright red. This ain't on 165 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,040 Speaker 1: the dog skin, dude, some little yellow board and talk 166 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: to you into this stupidness, he said, Now listen to this. 167 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: He let his roommate barring. I first had the dress, 168 00:09:56,559 --> 00:09:58,959 Speaker 1: the fact that he said roommate, as if the woman 169 00:09:59,000 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: would be living there for while. He told me she 170 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: paying rents, so she a roommate. So what we're getting 171 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 1: at right now is he charges to be there. So 172 00:10:08,679 --> 00:10:11,360 Speaker 1: the other woman that's laying around in the robe and 173 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:15,720 Speaker 1: the bonnet that he ain't, she ain't paying rent. He's 174 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 1: still charging her. She rummate because she paying rent. The 175 00:10:19,600 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: other one in here ain't got no money right now. 176 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 1: She depressed and she fit to show up again. He said, 177 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:29,839 Speaker 1: they are both having a rough time right now. So 178 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 1: the toys helped them release tension. What he just told you, 179 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 1: he said, baby, look we're both having a rough time 180 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: right now. So the toys helped them release tension. Can't 181 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,080 Speaker 1: getting this harness by yourself. And if you put the 182 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: harness on, somebody got the pool. You don't. You don't 183 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 1: go in there and put a harness on by yourself. 184 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: Harness need and somebody got to pull you, push back off, 185 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: and they jerk, and here you come back with that harness. 186 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 1: Now they're both going through a rough time. So the 187 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: toys helped him release tension. I was disgusted and told 188 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 1: him he'd better not ever try to use it in 189 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:25,840 Speaker 1: them toys with me again? Are you stupid? That's what 190 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: you're mad about because you're thinking that they used it. 191 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 1: Hell yeah, they used it, But what is it in 192 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 1: his room? Fall on his dresser? And how he's so 193 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: comfortable he forgot to put it up. You haven't seen 194 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 1: the harness. Y'all go to the store which you can't 195 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: get ass and buy new stuff to try, and that's 196 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: your first time seeing the harness, and you know it's 197 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: let out a couple of notches because that other girl 198 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 1: in they're little thicker than y'all. Why do you say that? 199 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: So it had a couple of notches on there, So 200 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: even if you put it on, it fall on the float, 201 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 1: your little bony ass. After sharing this info with a girlfriend, 202 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: she said, he's not letting them bother the toys. They're 203 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:14,840 Speaker 1: all having played time together. She sat, suggested that he's 204 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: in the u polyamory, polyamory whatever. That this is all 205 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 1: new to me, So why would he keep me around 206 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: if he has those two? Why not keep you a run? Yes, surely, 207 00:12:26,440 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 1: said the best. Why I have two when you can 208 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: have three? He got them two around because you in 209 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:36,199 Speaker 1: a long distance relationship. He don't like long distance relationship. 210 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: So he got these two things at the house, one 211 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: of them paying rind and he charging on the one. 212 00:12:43,360 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: Somebody is whipping somebody with that damn harness on and 213 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 1: it ain't being you. And I need you need to 214 00:12:50,120 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: check with that little hef with that rob on in 215 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 1: that bonnet, get that robe off, and I bet she 216 00:12:54,520 --> 00:13:02,360 Speaker 1: marked up pretty good. I'm just saying, I'm just saying, 217 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: Oh God, all right. Hit us up on Instagram at 218 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey FM to comment on today's Crazy Strawberry Letter. 219 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: You can also check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on 220 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 1: demand on demand. Coming up next, it is Junior and 221 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: Sports Talk. Right after this, you're listening to the Dame 222 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:20,160 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.