WEBVTT - AMA: Better Know the Podcast Hosts! #602

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to How the Money. I'm Joel and I am Matt,

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<v Speaker 1>and today we're hosting an A m A so you

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<v Speaker 1>can better know your podcast host. That's right, buddy, this

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<v Speaker 1>is a This is like an How the Money unplugged.

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<v Speaker 1>Although by the way, my voice, I feel like this

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<v Speaker 1>is my voice sound hoarse to you. That's a little battling,

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<v Speaker 1>a little a little bit of a cold here. But

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<v Speaker 1>this is like like a more casual episode and instead

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<v Speaker 1>of diving into financial tips, different stories, different guests that

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<v Speaker 1>we thought would be interesting for the podcast, we are

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<v Speaker 1>hosting inn A m A and Ask Me Anything for

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<v Speaker 1>those who like to spend time over on Reddit and Joel.

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<v Speaker 1>You posted in the Facebook group asking for just basically

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<v Speaker 1>if you had a question for us or Matt and

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<v Speaker 1>Joel about anything non money related. Those are the questions

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<v Speaker 1>that we wanted to hear from you. And specifically, when

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<v Speaker 1>we say non money related, we didn't want it to

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<v Speaker 1>be like an ask htm episode right where you're asking

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<v Speaker 1>money questions that you have. But some people did ask

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<v Speaker 1>about our financials. They asked about how our podcast makes money.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna get to those questions during this episode. So

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<v Speaker 1>there is there's a little bit of money, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>just like one question. The rest of them are very

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<v Speaker 1>very personal, honestly, and so I don't know about your

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<v Speaker 1>lower back tattoo. Matt Joel actually does have a tramp stamp,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll get to that right after we introduce our beer.

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<v Speaker 1>And actually we wanted to should we did? You want

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<v Speaker 1>to explain the better No your podcast hosts. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a throwback to the Colbert Report, that's right. So

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<v Speaker 1>one of things out there best segments in TV history

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<v Speaker 1>was when Stephen Colbert, who was at that point not

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<v Speaker 1>nearly as well known, and he would sit down with

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<v Speaker 1>a congress person from a small district and a random

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<v Speaker 1>standom state and and so he it was called better

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<v Speaker 1>Know a District, and so he would interview a congress

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<v Speaker 1>person and ask him off the wall questions and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like TV gold and so good. The Colbert

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<v Speaker 1>Report good segment was one of the best shows on

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<v Speaker 1>TV at that point in time. Easily we're back to

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<v Speaker 1>back between The Daily Show and The Colbert Report. Was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that was an hour worth of just utter beautiful political insanity.

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<v Speaker 1>But which Kate and I attended a taping. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if we've ever talked about that. Okay, yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>got there. They were free back in the day. It

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<v Speaker 1>was right before he stopped doing it, right right before

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<v Speaker 1>he it was Yeah, it was the last year, last season,

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<v Speaker 1>and we lucked out and got tickets to one of

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<v Speaker 1>the tapings. Yeah, so it's a fun time in the

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<v Speaker 1>same way, you can feel free to humiliate us with

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<v Speaker 1>your questions and maybe we'll do another one of these

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<v Speaker 1>in the future. But we were like, listen, like we

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<v Speaker 1>we've done matt our personal stories, you and I where

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of interviewed each other, but it was more

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<v Speaker 1>of like the our personal finance background essence and like

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<v Speaker 1>our history of money, how we approached money, how we

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<v Speaker 1>got to where we are today, and if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to know more of those backgrounds will link to both

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<v Speaker 1>of those episodes in the shows. But but this is

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<v Speaker 1>really just a way for you to ask your questions. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've listened for two months or for two years,

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<v Speaker 1>you probably have some questions about who we are, what

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<v Speaker 1>we like, like, what we do, and so we just

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<v Speaker 1>got to be fun to take some of those on

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<v Speaker 1>today's episode us. Right, But first let's introduce our beer,

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<v Speaker 1>which is Double Top, which is a Double I p

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<v Speaker 1>A by Academia Brewing Company. Looking forward to enjoying this

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<v Speaker 1>one with you today, buddy, and we will share our

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<v Speaker 1>thoughts at the end of the episode, for sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this one was a collab with one of our local

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<v Speaker 1>bottle shops, which is the best bottle shop in the area.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll we'll give our thoughts on this beer at the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the episode. But let's get to it, Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do the a m a uh and give you

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<v Speaker 1>guys a chance to know us a little bit better.

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<v Speaker 1>There were some great questions posed on our Facebook group.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, if you are not a member of

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<v Speaker 1>the how to Money Facebook group, go to Facebook dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're you know, if you're so inclined, joined the

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<v Speaker 1>how of Money Facebook group, we'd love to have you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a bunch of awesome people asking each other money questions,

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<v Speaker 1>giving each other helpful financial advice, encouraging each other. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the hive mind at work and there people are sweet

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<v Speaker 1>in there, which is nice because that's a rarity when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to online engagement. But let's get to our

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<v Speaker 1>first question, Matt, that someone in the Facebook group posed.

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<v Speaker 1>This one was from Susan and it says, how did

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<v Speaker 1>you guys first meet each other. Alex also chimed in

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<v Speaker 1>he wanted a friendship history, so you want to start

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<v Speaker 1>on that one, you may kick it off. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, basically, it was a game night. So we've

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<v Speaker 1>got some mutual friends, and they invited Kate and I

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<v Speaker 1>as well as you and Emily and maybe like another

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<v Speaker 1>couple or two over. I cannot remember, but I know

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<v Speaker 1>that y'all were there. I know that we were there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure we played Settlers of Catan. I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>sure I'll probably one unlikely and so honestly, I'm surprised

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<v Speaker 1>we are actually friends because I know you hate getting

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<v Speaker 1>beat competitive, but that was that was when we first

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<v Speaker 1>met and pretty much we've been friends ever since then.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's actually okay, So I take it back.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the first time we met you two as a couple.

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<v Speaker 1>I had met Emily. Kate and I had met Emily

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<v Speaker 1>before previously. We talked about Monday Night Brewing. They make

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<v Speaker 1>Atlanta's best beer, but back in the day, they used

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<v Speaker 1>to brew in one of the founders garage, Jeff's garage,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember meeting Emily way way back in the day.

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<v Speaker 1>This is before you two started dating, act right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good point. So, yeah, you guys have known

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<v Speaker 1>each other longer. I'm slightly longer than little bit longer

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<v Speaker 1>than you, but yeah, we've been friends for now something

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<v Speaker 1>close to thirteen years. I guess that's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 1>long time close to that. Yes, I think it is

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of yeah, so so yeah, and and it's

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<v Speaker 1>one of those things where Matt and we just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of very different personalities in a lot of ways, but

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot of things in common. We care

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<v Speaker 1>about a lot of the same things. We also went

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<v Speaker 1>to the same church for a long time, so that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of it. We're actually we've got a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of faith based questions that we'll get to in a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit too. Yeah. Well, okay, so kind of related

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<v Speaker 1>to how we met each other. Megan asked, how did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet your wives? And I already explained how I

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<v Speaker 1>met your wife, Joel, how did you meet your wife? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so interestingly enough at church, and so her other question was,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious if you guys are religious at all? And yes,

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<v Speaker 1>my wife and I we met it well, actually, the

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<v Speaker 1>first time I ever met her was at a friend's wedding,

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<v Speaker 1>and I remember seeing her on the dance floor and

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<v Speaker 1>she has dance moves like no other, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, who is this girl with those phenomenal dance moves?

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<v Speaker 1>And it turns out she was dating someone else at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and so I had to kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>I asked around behind the scenes, got the got the

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<v Speaker 1>down low, and finally she broke up with that loser,

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<v Speaker 1>and I immediately asked her on a date and it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't take well. Actually, uh, the first three dates did

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<v Speaker 1>not go so well. Um, we just didn't connect at all,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I'm just not gonna ask her

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<v Speaker 1>out again. I don't know. She felt very guarded and

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<v Speaker 1>so we didn't really hit it off immediately. But then

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of started to hang out his friends more

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<v Speaker 1>and more and we realized that we liked each other

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<v Speaker 1>started dating again. Didn't have to date very long before

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<v Speaker 1>we knew, hey, you're the one for me, before we

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<v Speaker 1>put the big question that you are engaged. And so

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<v Speaker 1>this is when y'all are both in your mid twenties,

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<v Speaker 1>you are kind of like young professionals. Kate and I

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<v Speaker 1>we met when we were in college, and so she

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<v Speaker 1>was a freshman. I was more of a young unprofessional.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, you still got to wear your jeans

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<v Speaker 1>and stuts. Kay was a freshman. I was a senior

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<v Speaker 1>the year that we met, and so it didn't make

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<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of sense for us to start dating.

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<v Speaker 1>But we had a lot of mutual friends. Is it

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<v Speaker 1>because of that we started hanging out some and then

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<v Speaker 1>started hanging out more one on one started dating that

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<v Speaker 1>last semester before I graduated. So it was one of

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<v Speaker 1>the didn't really make sense. But you know, agial love,

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't really make a whole lot of sense sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>does it. But yeah, that that is how public philosopher

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<v Speaker 1>money and uh well yeah, and Megan that the second

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<v Speaker 1>part of our question. I've always been curious if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are religious at all. Yeah, and Carol. Carol had

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<v Speaker 1>a question too that followed up on that, based on

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<v Speaker 1>the Ancient Money Wisdom episode. She said, I'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>hear more about how faith factors into your money decisions

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Those are kind of connected, connected questions here.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so I I was raised Catholic, I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up Catholic, and then over time I found myself in

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<v Speaker 1>other branches of Christianity, But does that factor into any

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<v Speaker 1>of our money decisions? And I would say absolutely. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard to tell which aspects, which parts of faith

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<v Speaker 1>directly influenced money decisions. We recently had an episode about

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<v Speaker 1>being charitable, about giving your money away. That is a

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<v Speaker 1>way in which it directly impacts how it is that

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<v Speaker 1>we handle our money. So in in the Bible, there's

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<v Speaker 1>the tithe which is giving away ten percent of your income,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's kind of the Old Testament print ball. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the principle in the New Testament that Jesus bouses

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<v Speaker 1>is to sacrificially give your money, right, which I think

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of like even a higher standard exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And so I mean that's one of like one of

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<v Speaker 1>the direct ways. But ultimately, like I feel like one

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<v Speaker 1>of the core tenets of Christianity is just about it's

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<v Speaker 1>about loving other people, right, like loving your neighbor, loving

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<v Speaker 1>your enemies. And so when it comes to just how

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<v Speaker 1>it is that our family handles our money and just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what it is that we do here on

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<v Speaker 1>the show, Joel, I think, Uh, basically, maybe an oversimplified

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<v Speaker 1>filter is does this action does it demonstrate love to

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<v Speaker 1>other people? To our listeners, and I think by running

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<v Speaker 1>almost every decision that we make sort of through that filter.

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<v Speaker 1>And granted it's not like we're sitting sitting down and

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<v Speaker 1>like literally asking that question every time we have to

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<v Speaker 1>make a decision, but that kind of it tends every

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<v Speaker 1>decision that we make. It it's sort of like this

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<v Speaker 1>underlying current that helps to guide us when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to whether just different advertising opportunities that we're faced with,

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<v Speaker 1>or just the kind of content and how it is

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<v Speaker 1>that we want to approach topics. It's I think, to

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<v Speaker 1>one of things. We we don't really explicitly talk about

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<v Speaker 1>our faith on the show a whole lot, and we've

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<v Speaker 1>had listener emails from time and time to like you

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<v Speaker 1>said this on the show that sounds like somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>might like go to church or have a specific kind

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<v Speaker 1>of faith, and and they they want to ask more questions.

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<v Speaker 1>We're more than happy to discuss it. But it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>one of those things where there are people who are

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<v Speaker 1>really outspoken about their faith who oftentimes do more harm

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<v Speaker 1>than good, I think. And so it's it's not that

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<v Speaker 1>we want to hide what we believe, but it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>the reality is we've seen people use their faith sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>as a cudgel when they're in in places of prominence,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we want to be careful of how we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about our faith, and so we want we'd rather

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<v Speaker 1>live it out more than yell at out. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we appreciate those questions and and so, yes, faith plays

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<v Speaker 1>an important factory factor in our lives. Carol also said,

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<v Speaker 1>you have rules or guidelines forgiving that help you overcome

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<v Speaker 1>your natural frugality, which I think is honestly, he's like

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<v Speaker 1>one of the toughest things I've had to wrestle with

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm naturally frugal, and so giving money away feels

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<v Speaker 1>painful in a lot of ways. And we reference to

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<v Speaker 1>the episode we just did Matt about giving money away,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, so I think that is an important part

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<v Speaker 1>of it for me, is to like a counterbalance. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and it helps me reframe what's true and remember what's true,

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that I'm not promised tomorrow and that my

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<v Speaker 1>money isn't what's gonna save me, and so giving it

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<v Speaker 1>away is part of something deeper and more important, uh

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<v Speaker 1>and more fundamental than probably I even we even talked

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<v Speaker 1>about in that episode totally. All right, let's keep moving.

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<v Speaker 1>Derek said, at this point, why haven't your family's gone

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<v Speaker 1>the commune route. It seems like it could be the

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<v Speaker 1>most frugal option. What do you think about that, Joel.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about it, We really did, because when we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about moving, a part we talked to that's closer

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<v Speaker 1>to the truth than you realize. We talked about moving

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<v Speaker 1>south of town as opposed to north of town. And

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<v Speaker 1>there was like this property with like a creek running

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<v Speaker 1>through it in this giant house, where like, what if

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<v Speaker 1>we all hold up in this one house, is there

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<v Speaker 1>enough space for us? Or we could build We even

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<v Speaker 1>talked about like building two places side by side sort

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. There's this lot that we looked at, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>and it would have been a lot that you could

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<v Speaker 1>it was a pretty big lot, and the idea was

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<v Speaker 1>to potentially purchase this home, demolish it up, divide the lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and then create two houses on this side by side.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you didn't think we were weird already for

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<v Speaker 1>having moved our whole families together, we're literally considering going

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<v Speaker 1>this route. But I mean, honestly, I'm glad we didn't, though,

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<v Speaker 1>because such space is good, I think, especially for your

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<v Speaker 1>family compared to like our family. We're more social beings.

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<v Speaker 1>And you, guys, you love your neighbors. You guys love

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<v Speaker 1>I love your people too, But I think we might

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<v Speaker 1>be if we were your next door neighbors, it might

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<v Speaker 1>be a little intense for you guys. Yeah, we'd have

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<v Speaker 1>to have like visiting hours like before this time, and

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<v Speaker 1>after this time, you were not allowed over here. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>nobody is allowed over You'd have to build a teller

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<v Speaker 1>fence to keep me out. Probably, so h Sheila wants.

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<v Speaker 1>She she's been a listener for a long time and

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<v Speaker 1>she and I actually go back to college. So she listened.

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<v Speaker 1>She listened tell them about your hitchhiking adventures. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind doing that. Back in two thousand six,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I had my I had my first job

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<v Speaker 1>in radio, and it didn't pay much and it was

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<v Speaker 1>morning video, so not just morning radio, but like early

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<v Speaker 1>early morning, early early, so I had to wake up

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<v Speaker 1>by like three at the show I think was on

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<v Speaker 1>from five to eight, and it was just like a

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<v Speaker 1>punishing job. So I did it for like six months.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an amazing learning experience. I'm so glad I

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<v Speaker 1>did it. But then I quit the moment I could,

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<v Speaker 1>because it was just not ideal for me to wake

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<v Speaker 1>up at that time and I want to do something else,

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<v Speaker 1>but I quit. Actually, I'd saved up enough money, even

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<v Speaker 1>on this meager salary, to go on a road trip

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<v Speaker 1>around the country with one of my best buds at

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and yeah, three months in an old beat

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<v Speaker 1>up Hondai court station wagon, got to visit most of

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<v Speaker 1>the United States, see some amazing spots. So those were

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<v Speaker 1>my vagabonding months. And that's one of those things too,

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<v Speaker 1>when you talk about like compounding rates of return Matt

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<v Speaker 1>and investing young, that's kind of one of those things

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<v Speaker 1>that a traditional financial expert would tell you, No, no no, don't,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that. Those months are so important when you're young,

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<v Speaker 1>but so are the memories. And so we're like taking

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<v Speaker 1>time away and I saved up enough to make it happen,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm so glad. I still look back at those

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<v Speaker 1>months with fondness, the people I met, the things I

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<v Speaker 1>got to see, just kind of the learning experience that

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<v Speaker 1>it was. Jason, he's asking if we keep a spreadsheet

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<v Speaker 1>of all the craft beers that we've had on the show,

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<v Speaker 1>and Jason, unfortunately we don't have a spreadsheet, which sounds

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<v Speaker 1>counter to how I like to approach life, but I

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<v Speaker 1>do have a folder. It's a beer folder inside how

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<v Speaker 1>the money folder on my desktop on a computer, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm able to quickly go in there when it

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<v Speaker 1>comes to specifically when we're like, oh, have we had

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<v Speaker 1>this beer on the show before? And then I can

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<v Speaker 1>quickly jog my memory and oh, yeah, no, we we've

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<v Speaker 1>already had that one, or we haven't had one like

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<v Speaker 1>that yet. And if you're wondering what we've had on

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<v Speaker 1>the on the show before, we're kinds of beers specific ones.

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<v Speaker 1>You just follow us on Instagram and you can scroll

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<v Speaker 1>back through there pretty quickly and you can be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you can get a sense of which beers we've had

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<v Speaker 1>trying to post pictures of yeah, of all the beers

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<v Speaker 1>that we have. But ideally, man, we would have a

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<v Speaker 1>single pager on the website that had every single beer

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<v Speaker 1>listed out and then maybe one of these days, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's something that we can hire out for

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<v Speaker 1>someone to do, like on fiber or something. But then

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<v Speaker 1>you click the beer and then it links to the

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<v Speaker 1>episode where we had that be But I mean, at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, we've had like almost four four hundred something. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we had more episodes than beers because we don't have

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<v Speaker 1>beers on Friday flights, and so that's why the numbers

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<v Speaker 1>don't line up exactly. Um Actually, related Lydia, she asked

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<v Speaker 1>if we've tried hot water before, do you know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is? Or? She says, if not, would you would

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<v Speaker 1>you try hot water? Joel, I don't know. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really sure what it is either. I think

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<v Speaker 1>lung and need Us at one point came out with

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of like but I've given a shot, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably not something. I either want to drink water,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to drink beer. I don't necessarily want to

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<v Speaker 1>blend the both. But maybe it's awesome. I'd give it

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<v Speaker 1>a shot. If someone gives me one, I'll try it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right. Josh wants to know, have either be tried homebrewing,

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<v Speaker 1>and if so, how is the experience? I'll start. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I have not tried homebrewing. People ask me that all

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<v Speaker 1>the time as a craft beer lover, but one at

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<v Speaker 1>the time it takes to get up to speed to

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<v Speaker 1>become a decent homebrewer. It seems like it would take

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<v Speaker 1>a while and a lot of wasted, crappy beer that

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<v Speaker 1>I have to drink in order to get there, and

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<v Speaker 1>there's people doing it on such an amazing level. Like

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way it's even possible for me. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to say nothing's possibly. It's not impossible.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not possible, but it is. How how long would

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<v Speaker 1>it take me to be be able to brew a

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<v Speaker 1>beer as good as other half I p A s

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<v Speaker 1>or as good as a barrel age sour from Casey

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<v Speaker 1>Brewing blending and brewing or like, it's just it would

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<v Speaker 1>take me so long to anywhere near that vicinity. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just gonna drink the good stuff that other people make.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true, but there is some I mean there's a

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<v Speaker 1>frugal side of it as well, right, because imagine once

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<v Speaker 1>you did dial in, like right now we're drinking the

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<v Speaker 1>double I p A. Would if you were able to

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<v Speaker 1>dial in a killer, hazy double I p A. It's

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<v Speaker 1>one that you're able to keep on draft at your

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<v Speaker 1>house and anytime friends came over, you would you had

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<v Speaker 1>the honor, the joy to be able to pour them

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<v Speaker 1>your very own double I p A. Y How awesome

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<v Speaker 1>with that? No, that sounds yeah, that sounds like really

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<v Speaker 1>fun to be able to do that. We we did

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<v Speaker 1>talk with a brewery at one point about doing a

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<v Speaker 1>collab beer, which would be really fun. Remember that, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's one of my favorites and and it would

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<v Speaker 1>be really cool if you get to go down there

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<v Speaker 1>and brew a beer with him one day. Okay, remember, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll see. I don't know, maybe that will happen

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<v Speaker 1>at something that would be awesome. That would be cool. Uh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've tried it. I did it once early on

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<v Speaker 1>in my craft beer career, and so because it was

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<v Speaker 1>early on, I'm guessing I probably remember it being better

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<v Speaker 1>than it actually was. But it was a Russian Imperial

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<v Speaker 1>stout and we brewed it, me and my roommate at

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<v Speaker 1>the time. We brewed it with another friend of ours

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<v Speaker 1>who was a pretty serious homebrewer. But I remember it

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<v Speaker 1>being being solid. I even gave a couple of bottles

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<v Speaker 1>to my father in law because I thought he liked beer.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, he does like beer. But the Macro produced

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<v Speaker 1>loggers that first the hot water, which is basically what

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<v Speaker 1>Bud is right exactly. Yea, uh, and so that was Josh.

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<v Speaker 1>Lauren asked, do you have any other craft beer equivalence

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<v Speaker 1>besides beer, Joel, Yeah, we both do. And so that's

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<v Speaker 1>one of those things where, yeah, we we say a

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<v Speaker 1>few craft beer equivalents, right, so that you prioritize not

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<v Speaker 1>just one thing, but typically for the average person is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be something like three or four, three or four things.

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<v Speaker 1>So my other craft beer equivalence, Well, the thing is

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<v Speaker 1>they changed too. So I would have said international travel

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<v Speaker 1>it varies, was one of those things ten years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty kids, it was something we did at least once

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<v Speaker 1>a year. We got to see some really great spots.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually have a question about that later, but uh, now

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of changed. We we've actually our craft beer

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<v Speaker 1>equivalent now is local places to eat is one of

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<v Speaker 1>those things. We spend more money eating out than we

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<v Speaker 1>do on travel these days. Um, it's just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gone up in our book and hopefully that will change

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<v Speaker 1>as we get older and we'll go back. We'll revert

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<v Speaker 1>back to more travel once once our kids get get bigger.

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<v Speaker 1>But one other thing I've always talked about on the

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<v Speaker 1>show is full heart. We buy weird art, uh, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's something my wife and I are into at least

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<v Speaker 1>one piece a year. The weirder the better, the weird

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<v Speaker 1>the better. Joel always said, I know, I like the

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<v Speaker 1>funky stuff. And we actually just went to a full

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<v Speaker 1>heart festival not too long ago about like four awesome pieces,

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<v Speaker 1>but that the cool thing was none None of those

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<v Speaker 1>pieces were more than fifty bucks. So even even so,

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<v Speaker 1>but we we're willing to spend hundreds and hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>on a great piece of art once a year if

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<v Speaker 1>we find the right right thing. Yeah, like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>craft beer equivalence, I think they do evolve and more

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<v Speaker 1>from change over time. But and so right now, I

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<v Speaker 1>would say my craft beer equivalent is most definitely paying

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<v Speaker 1>for my cross fit membership, because it ain't cheap. Anybody

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<v Speaker 1>who has not only joined a gym, but specifically joined

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<v Speaker 1>a cross fit gym knows that they can be quite

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<v Speaker 1>expensive because you're not just paying for access to a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of weights that are sitting there, or like a

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<v Speaker 1>rolling machine that kind of thing. You're you're paying for

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<v Speaker 1>the jobs of a bunch of different trainers who are

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<v Speaker 1>they're guiding you through the movements and teaching you. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And so for me right now, that's most definitely my splurge.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cross fit and actually a little money tip a

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<v Speaker 1>listener I cannot remember her name, but she emailed in

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<v Speaker 1>and shared after that episode. You know, we did the

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<v Speaker 1>you know, going full CrossFit on your finances a few

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago, but she emailed about this, uh, this service

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<v Speaker 1>called street parking, which is something it was something like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty bucks a month and it gives you access to programming.

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<v Speaker 1>So obviously you need to have some sort of foundation

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<v Speaker 1>under your belt before you kind of dive into d

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<v Speaker 1>I y ing it at home. But this is totally

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<v Speaker 1>an option that I think for a lot of folks

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<v Speaker 1>who are looking to maintain that habit but who are

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<v Speaker 1>also looking to not pay off the nose for the

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<v Speaker 1>expensive CrossFit membership, that's definitely worth checking out. Again, it

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<v Speaker 1>is called street parking. Yeah, well we'll link to that

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<v Speaker 1>in the shore notes as well, just so you can

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<v Speaker 1>you can check that out if you're interested. But Mat

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<v Speaker 1>and Matt you would say that you don't necessarily you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to have cross fit, but for you, especially

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<v Speaker 1>as you're learning, it's it's really good and for you,

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<v Speaker 1>the coaching part is really it's been awesome. Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 1>and you might not do it. Provides that perpetuity. Oh yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's I thought. What you're gonna say is that

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<v Speaker 1>I may not do it except for the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>I do have coaches not yelling at me, but just

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<v Speaker 1>the accountability that comes with being there. At the certain classes,

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<v Speaker 1>Folks come to expect that you're going to be there.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a certain level of accountability. So I guarantee I've

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<v Speaker 1>done it more than I would have if it was

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<v Speaker 1>just left to me at home by myself. But again,

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<v Speaker 1>over time, if that's a discipline I can develop, and

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<v Speaker 1>once I learned some of those basic movements, then I

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<v Speaker 1>could Well, I mean, I am all about d I

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<v Speaker 1>Y and stuff and saving money and you know, doing

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<v Speaker 1>stuff at home. Thus the craft beer homebrewing conversation we

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<v Speaker 1>just had, Jole, But in this case, I'm just not

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<v Speaker 1>quite there yet. Cool cool, all right, Well maybe one

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<v Speaker 1>of these days, but for now, you don't mind spending

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<v Speaker 1>the money. It's one of those craft beer clements. When

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<v Speaker 1>you name it like that, totally my splurge, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it becomes a lot less. It's difficult to funnel money

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<v Speaker 1>in that direction when you've kind of named it as such. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's that's the tough thing about it, though,

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<v Speaker 1>is because it's typically at the beginning of the year.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of every calendar year, we sit down

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<v Speaker 1>and we look ahead, and we forecast and we dream

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<v Speaker 1>and we decide sort of preemptively what we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>spend our money on. And this was one that basically

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<v Speaker 1>showed up in the middle of the year. And so

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<v Speaker 1>because of that, I think there is sort of this

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<v Speaker 1>sense of guilt. But I know next year it'll be

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<v Speaker 1>a lot easier because it's something that we've already spent

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<v Speaker 1>money on, and so I will then be able to say, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is something that is important, whereas this year it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of felt like it, uh kind of found its

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<v Speaker 1>way onto the budget without as much planning, but makes

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<v Speaker 1>sense alright. So Lindsay wants to know when did each

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<v Speaker 1>of you become interested in money and financial literacy. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I'll say that, uh, necessity is the mother

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<v Speaker 1>of all invention. I became interested in personal finances when

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<v Speaker 1>I realized they didn't have any money. Like I had

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<v Speaker 1>taken my first job out of college and I was realizing, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>my paycheck is not going nearly as far as I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it would. And so that's when I learned about budgeting.

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<v Speaker 1>That's when I created my first budgets at that point

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<v Speaker 1>in time. It's also when I discovered Dave Ramsey. Though

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<v Speaker 1>at that point I didn't have any any any debt,

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<v Speaker 1>but I still realized the importance of budgeting specifically. And

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<v Speaker 1>so yeah, that started the process of me thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>money talking about it. Kate and I were engaged at

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<v Speaker 1>that point in time as well, and so it was

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<v Speaker 1>a discussion that her and I were having as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't just something I was doing, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>something that we were talking about, which made it more comfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>I think for me to then talk about personal finances

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<v Speaker 1>with other people. I think that may may have led

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<v Speaker 1>to me feeling comfortable with talking about money with you, Joel,

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<v Speaker 1>and which maybe ultimately helped lead us to the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>as well. The fact that was a part of our

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<v Speaker 1>friendship early on. Was just talking about money for sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and for me. You can hear the full, the longest

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<v Speaker 1>version of the story in that that podcast episode where

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<v Speaker 1>Matt interviewed me about my money story. But childhood, it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was my parents not being great with money.

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<v Speaker 1>It was about the troubles that that caused the fights,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I tell kind of like the long form

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<v Speaker 1>story in that one. But and then and then getting

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<v Speaker 1>to to work for a radio show that was for

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen years. It was all about personal finance too, ra advocacy,

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<v Speaker 1>and that combined with my past, like with with what

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<v Speaker 1>I experienced in childhood, just to lit this flame in

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<v Speaker 1>me for a care to to do well with my

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<v Speaker 1>own money and then to help other other people do

0:22:13.480 --> 0:22:16.560
<v Speaker 1>the sense of the perfect recipe for you. Uh, last

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<v Speaker 1>question here before the break, Kevin asked if you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>financial gurus, which I'll put an asterisk next next to

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<v Speaker 1>that right there. Uh what financial idiots? Know? What career

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<v Speaker 1>do you think you would have gone for? Joel? All right, So,

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<v Speaker 1>I've always loved broadcasting. I got into radio because I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was the coolest medium to reach people. Long

0:22:33.560 --> 0:22:37.320
<v Speaker 1>form audio, to me is is really the most effective

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<v Speaker 1>way to get something across. And I love the relationship

0:22:41.040 --> 0:22:42.840
<v Speaker 1>you can build with a listener just by being in

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<v Speaker 1>their ears for forty five minutes, three days a week.

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<v Speaker 1>And so but for me, it would have been being

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<v Speaker 1>the Braves announcer probably like, uh, that's what I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do. The dream job yeah, I took a sports

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<v Speaker 1>podcasting class in college. It I mean, it's possible. It's possible,

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<v Speaker 1>like that's I mean, I don't know. Maybe it's easier

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<v Speaker 1>for me to think this way because for you, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>like it feels like a continuation of your previous career.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me, being a photographer, this has been a

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<v Speaker 1>completely massive pivot in my life, and so it's not

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<v Speaker 1>very difficult for me to imagine the different future, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>other than talking about money with you while drinking beer

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<v Speaker 1>here on the show, but generally speaking, I found that

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<v Speaker 1>one of the most rewarding aspects of what we do

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<v Speaker 1>here on how the money is seeing the positive impact

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<v Speaker 1>on individuals lives. The fact that we've been able to

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<v Speaker 1>encourage and provide the information for folks to completely change

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<v Speaker 1>their life, to to change the trajectory of their life

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<v Speaker 1>has been incredibly rewarding. And so I guess kind of

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<v Speaker 1>going going along that path like finding some way to

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<v Speaker 1>like this is gonna sound super woo woo, but like

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<v Speaker 1>life coaching or like some sort of like general wellness.

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<v Speaker 1>Money is one aspect of living a full, complete, happy life,

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<v Speaker 1>but there are other aspects as well, like um, like

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<v Speaker 1>physical fitness. I mean, like, again, that's something that you

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<v Speaker 1>and I have kind of thought more about recently. But

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<v Speaker 1>like social wellness, spiritual health, men, well, like, there are

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<v Speaker 1>all these aspects of personal health that I think oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>get overlooked, and folks don't give all these other aspects

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<v Speaker 1>the time that they should in order to find the

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<v Speaker 1>balance that they need in their own lives. Some people

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<v Speaker 1>just don't have the time, or they feel like they're

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<v Speaker 1>crunched and think that or they don't feel that they

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<v Speaker 1>have the time when instead it's like, well, maybe if

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't watching Netflix or watching whatever, like whatever it

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<v Speaker 1>is that they're doing. I think if it's yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>think we do. And I think oftentimes we're so focused

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<v Speaker 1>on our careers or whatever specialty that we give all

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<v Speaker 1>of our attention to, that we don't give time for

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<v Speaker 1>these things. Um that would allow us to become like

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<v Speaker 1>more generalists basically as opposed to specialists. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>we might need more generalists in our world, or at

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<v Speaker 1>least more of a generalist approach when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>living a balanced life. All Right, I got it. I

0:24:46.359 --> 0:24:48.200
<v Speaker 1>like that. I like that. All right, So we thank

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<v Speaker 1>you for all those questions we've got a bunch more.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to get to just so many, so many

0:24:51.680 --> 0:24:53.520
<v Speaker 1>good ones that people sent in. So yeah, we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>to our thoughts on a bunch more of your questions.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to those right after this. All right, we're

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<v Speaker 1>back from the break to hit the ground running. Nate.

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<v Speaker 1>He is asking how many bikes do you individually have

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<v Speaker 1>and what's the best one? Are ones that you like?

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<v Speaker 1>I have two bikes, and I don't know have in

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<v Speaker 1>our garage as a whole. Basically everyone in our family

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<v Speaker 1>has one bike. I have too, and that's because I

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<v Speaker 1>have my road bike and I have my Radwagon. My

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<v Speaker 1>Radwagon is the electric cargo bike, and so that helps

0:25:31.320 --> 0:25:33.400
<v Speaker 1>me slinging my kids around town, and the road bike

0:25:33.640 --> 0:25:37.440
<v Speaker 1>helps sling me slinging myself around town. And that's all

0:25:37.480 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>I've really felt like I needed. I'm kind of considered

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<v Speaker 1>getting a mountain bike, but haven't boiled the trigger yet. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we've got like around I think around seven bikes likely

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<v Speaker 1>to I feel like our fleet is likely to increase

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<v Speaker 1>over the years, as as the younger ones are riding

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<v Speaker 1>more as well. But I've got to I've got the

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<v Speaker 1>the Salsa, which is my gravel Bike, which is the

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<v Speaker 1>bike that I ride to work here in our office

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<v Speaker 1>every single day. And then I've got the u BA Mondo,

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<v Speaker 1>which is the long tail cargo bike, which honestly I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not riding nearly as much, which is kind of sad

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<v Speaker 1>to think about. But maybe I should consider selling it.

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<v Speaker 1>But your kids are getting older too, Yeah, they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>getting a part of it. I still take mind to school,

0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:17.400
<v Speaker 1>you have to do your schools. Not close exactly exactly,

0:26:17.480 --> 0:26:19.520
<v Speaker 1>but it's yeah, definitely worth considering because I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to have a road bike like Ugel, Like the gravel bike,

0:26:22.880 --> 0:26:25.199
<v Speaker 1>it's just like a general all purpose bike, awesome for

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<v Speaker 1>just banging around town getting to wherever I need to go.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would love to consider getting like a road

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<v Speaker 1>bike to be able to get on the roads and

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<v Speaker 1>just the ability to go fast to those rides. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, absolutely, man um, but but yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but ultimately, Nate, I would say, like, if you're asking

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<v Speaker 1>this because you are curious and getting a bike, I

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<v Speaker 1>would say, get whatever bike that you're gonna be able

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<v Speaker 1>to ride. And I think oftentimes utility biking is it's

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<v Speaker 1>basically underrated, and that is finding ways to bike to

0:26:51.440 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 1>some of the places that you're already gonna go in life.

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<v Speaker 1>As those hybrid bikes, by the way, are typically perfect

0:26:55.920 --> 0:26:58.359
<v Speaker 1>for a lot of people. They're somewhere in between, kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a gravel bike and a road bike. Tires

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<v Speaker 1>are a little bit fatter. So yeah, I think that

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:04.080
<v Speaker 1>can be a good choice for a lot of folks. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And honestly, just to be honest, like the type of bike,

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<v Speaker 1>like focusing on the gear oftentimes just gets over It's overrated.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the vast majority of the kind of biking

0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:14.360
<v Speaker 1>that folks are looking to do can honestly be done

0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:16.880
<v Speaker 1>on any type of bike. Um. But that being said,

0:27:16.880 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>those are the kind of bikes we have. All right,

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:21.240
<v Speaker 1>let's get to the easiest question, Matt. This one's from James.

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<v Speaker 1>He says, what are the three most important decisions you

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<v Speaker 1>made in your lifetime? And then he says what factor

0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:29.320
<v Speaker 1>questions you say, yes, exactly what factors went into the

0:27:29.359 --> 0:27:33.440
<v Speaker 1>outcome of those decisions? And he says, timing, luck, priorities, etcetera. So,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, three most important decisions you made, buddy? What

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<v Speaker 1>don't they? Um, I thought you're gonna you're gonna call

0:27:37.400 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 1>you and me start, well, I mean, I think who

0:27:40.320 --> 0:27:45.200
<v Speaker 1>who I'm married? Huge? Huge, Like that was okay the first.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that there's any more important decisions I've

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>ever made, because you're you're basically tying your fate in

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:52.160
<v Speaker 1>your future to someone, And especially when you're when you're

0:27:52.200 --> 0:27:54.399
<v Speaker 1>young and you get married, like you're kind of dumb,

0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you grow a lot, and so you're hoping that you

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<v Speaker 1>grow together in wisdom, in love and so oh, I

0:28:00.760 --> 0:28:03.600
<v Speaker 1>just feel really fortunate to have been married to the

0:28:03.680 --> 0:28:06.800
<v Speaker 1>right person and just the ability that hopefully your partner

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<v Speaker 1>can provide you the balance that they can provide you,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I would be such a worse human being if

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:14.199
<v Speaker 1>I had married Kate and you're already pretty bad, Like

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:17.520
<v Speaker 1>could you could you imagine exactly? Like could you imagine? So,

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<v Speaker 1>I yeah, that was totally my first one as well.

0:28:19.560 --> 0:28:22.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm curious to see if our top three decisions mirror

0:28:22.920 --> 0:28:25.760
<v Speaker 1>each other. Having kids number two, it's been massively formation

0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I left I left the kids. Okay, I think it's been.

0:28:28.720 --> 0:28:31.320
<v Speaker 1>It's been huge for me that that just well, it's

0:28:31.359 --> 0:28:33.480
<v Speaker 1>brought a lot of joy to my life having kiddos,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's also made me grow up in a way

0:28:36.119 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 1>that ways that I otherwise would not have. So I

0:28:38.160 --> 0:28:40.760
<v Speaker 1>think the ways in which yeah, you you talked about

0:28:40.760 --> 0:28:42.760
<v Speaker 1>your wife being formation on mine too, but my kids

0:28:43.000 --> 0:28:45.800
<v Speaker 1>formed me in major ways as well. And then faith, faith,

0:28:46.040 --> 0:28:48.280
<v Speaker 1>But I kind of think of faith as like this uh,

0:28:48.480 --> 0:28:51.520
<v Speaker 1>continual decision that I have to make in in in

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<v Speaker 1>in a in a similar direction what Eugene Peterson, a theologian,

0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:56.840
<v Speaker 1>calls along obedience in the same direction, I kind of

0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 1>think of that My faith is that so hard to

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<v Speaker 1>boil down the three most important decisions of your life

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<v Speaker 1>and in like thirty seconds or last But that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I would tell James, Yeah, because I would say that

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<v Speaker 1>both of those last two are also very important to me,

0:29:08.800 --> 0:29:12.000
<v Speaker 1>but I did not include kids or faith. Like So,

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<v Speaker 1>my second decision I put down was choosing to work

0:29:14.720 --> 0:29:20.160
<v Speaker 1>for myself because the just the the entrepreneurship spirit that

0:29:20.160 --> 0:29:22.280
<v Speaker 1>that instilled within me. I mean, I know I had

0:29:22.280 --> 0:29:25.480
<v Speaker 1>a degree of that, but just actually doing that and

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:28.440
<v Speaker 1>getting a taste for that freedom where no one nobody

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<v Speaker 1>is necessarily setting my schedule for me, it's it's me,

0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:32.720
<v Speaker 1>or in this case it was Kate and I. We

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:35.600
<v Speaker 1>were working together, and just the ability that we had

0:29:35.600 --> 0:29:39.239
<v Speaker 1>the freedom and the flexibility and the autonomy that we

0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 1>had during the I mean, it was a decade plus

0:29:41.960 --> 0:29:44.160
<v Speaker 1>that we had being able to live the life that

0:29:44.200 --> 0:29:46.960
<v Speaker 1>we wanted to live was incredible. And there were times

0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:49.280
<v Speaker 1>when I considered going back to like a more of

0:29:49.320 --> 0:29:51.880
<v Speaker 1>a corporate nine to five kind of job, and every

0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:54.200
<v Speaker 1>single time we considered it, we quickly came to the

0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:56.000
<v Speaker 1>realization that there's no way that we can do this.

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:58.240
<v Speaker 1>Like once you have a taste of you know what

0:29:58.320 --> 0:30:01.360
<v Speaker 1>you and I would now call called I don't want

0:30:01.360 --> 0:30:03.440
<v Speaker 1>to say that it's like good life, but the entrepreneur

0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:06.240
<v Speaker 1>entrepreneurship life, well, we we're basically hard to go back

0:30:06.320 --> 0:30:10.040
<v Speaker 1>become unemployable because we're so addicted to the kind of

0:30:10.120 --> 0:30:13.160
<v Speaker 1>lifestyle where for me being able to do that was

0:30:13.320 --> 0:30:16.600
<v Speaker 1>largely it was largely being in creative control, so in

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:19.560
<v Speaker 1>control amount it was important, but just not not being

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:21.160
<v Speaker 1>subject to someone like, well, we want to go in

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:22.800
<v Speaker 1>this direction, and if I don't think that that's the

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:24.920
<v Speaker 1>right direction to go in, I don't have any say

0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 1>if I'm employed by by someone else, a giant machine,

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 1>by a big cog when is our thing. It's just

0:30:29.160 --> 0:30:30.640
<v Speaker 1>like you and I have to sign off on it,

0:30:30.680 --> 0:30:33.520
<v Speaker 1>which I think it's great. Sometimes we have to flip

0:30:33.560 --> 0:30:36.520
<v Speaker 1>a flip a coin if it. Um. So my last one,

0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to really lay the guilt on you with

0:30:38.600 --> 0:30:42.800
<v Speaker 1>this one, Joel, Is you buddy, Joel? So not only

0:30:42.880 --> 0:30:45.200
<v Speaker 1>just I did they cross my mind that I thought

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:48.760
<v Speaker 1>about it? Um? Not not only like obviously we had

0:30:48.840 --> 0:30:51.600
<v Speaker 1>years and years of friendship um, and just you know,

0:30:51.640 --> 0:30:54.200
<v Speaker 1>the good memories, the awesome years of not only like

0:30:54.240 --> 0:30:57.160
<v Speaker 1>you and me, but Kate and Emily traveling together, camping,

0:30:57.960 --> 0:31:00.160
<v Speaker 1>holding each other's first babies. Like the problem is it

0:31:00.200 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 1>says decision that you made, and well I chose you,

0:31:02.920 --> 0:31:05.640
<v Speaker 1>choosing to be friends. And so there's like this whole

0:31:05.680 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 1>personal side of our friendship. But then you can also

0:31:08.200 --> 0:31:10.920
<v Speaker 1>even sort of isolated to to financial because even before

0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 1>we started the company, before we started how the money,

0:31:13.320 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 1>we were still we were challenging each other from a

0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:17.600
<v Speaker 1>financial standpoint, right Like we were saying, oh, what are

0:31:17.600 --> 0:31:19.720
<v Speaker 1>you thinking about about doing here? What are you thinking

0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:22.520
<v Speaker 1>about doing with your tax refund? And in some circles

0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:23.920
<v Speaker 1>it would be there would be a lot of talk

0:31:23.960 --> 0:31:26.680
<v Speaker 1>about spending that in ways that would basically just lead

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:29.240
<v Speaker 1>to consumption going to Bahamas. But we were just talking

0:31:29.240 --> 0:31:31.360
<v Speaker 1>about ways to be smart with that money, about ways

0:31:31.440 --> 0:31:34.600
<v Speaker 1>to invest that money. And and so they're like, I

0:31:34.640 --> 0:31:36.960
<v Speaker 1>know before we started, how the money we were. I

0:31:37.160 --> 0:31:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I can say that I know we were in a

0:31:38.560 --> 0:31:41.240
<v Speaker 1>better financial spot because of our relationship with you and Emily.

0:31:41.480 --> 0:31:43.400
<v Speaker 1>But then you add how the money or originally poor,

0:31:43.440 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 1>not poor, you add that to the mix, and just

0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:48.040
<v Speaker 1>the ability for that just to add even more fuel

0:31:48.080 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 1>to the fire. The ability for us obviously to work

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:55.240
<v Speaker 1>together and spend inordinate incredible amounts of time together. But

0:31:55.280 --> 0:31:57.600
<v Speaker 1>then also too, obviously the business, how the money, it's

0:31:57.600 --> 0:32:00.280
<v Speaker 1>been profitable. It's something that we've been able to now

0:32:00.360 --> 0:32:02.720
<v Speaker 1>do for full time for a couple of years. It

0:32:02.840 --> 0:32:04.760
<v Speaker 1>is incredible. So when I think about, I guess the

0:32:04.800 --> 0:32:06.800
<v Speaker 1>most recent years, I'm like, man, that was a big

0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:09.200
<v Speaker 1>stinking deal, big Harry deal. And then had we not met, like,

0:32:09.440 --> 0:32:12.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, twelve years ago, whatever, And think about the

0:32:12.120 --> 0:32:14.360
<v Speaker 1>things that we've done together, just little things and also

0:32:14.400 --> 0:32:17.160
<v Speaker 1>big things like moving our families at the same time,

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:19.640
<v Speaker 1>so big, yeah. And when you find I think that's

0:32:19.680 --> 0:32:22.920
<v Speaker 1>one of the things it's all my fault. No, it's

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:24.960
<v Speaker 1>been it's been a lovely thing, I think both of

0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 1>our families. But that's one of those things too. I

0:32:27.080 --> 0:32:31.600
<v Speaker 1>think we we undervalue deep, meaningful friendship in our society.

0:32:31.600 --> 0:32:33.400
<v Speaker 1>And we talked about the stats. I don't not too

0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:35.920
<v Speaker 1>long ago, but people have fewer friends than they used

0:32:35.960 --> 0:32:37.680
<v Speaker 1>to have, fewer deep friends that they can count on.

0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:39.800
<v Speaker 1>And so when you have those friends, man nurture of

0:32:39.800 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>those friendships because they're gonna take you places, they're gonna

0:32:42.360 --> 0:32:45.120
<v Speaker 1>encourage you, especially especially all the men out there. Yeah,

0:32:45.240 --> 0:32:48.120
<v Speaker 1>for sure, Yeah enough friends. And James mentioned timing, luck

0:32:48.120 --> 0:32:50.480
<v Speaker 1>and priorities. I don't. Yeah. I think there's that question

0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:52.200
<v Speaker 1>at the end of every depends on how I built

0:32:52.200 --> 0:32:54.480
<v Speaker 1>this about whether it was luck or skill, right, And

0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:57.000
<v Speaker 1>I think that's a really hard question to answer. Um,

0:32:57.040 --> 0:32:59.600
<v Speaker 1>I think there's both, right. There's a lot of intentionality.

0:32:59.800 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 1>There is a lot of good fortune. I think our

0:33:02.120 --> 0:33:04.360
<v Speaker 1>parents have played a massive role in the people that

0:33:04.400 --> 0:33:07.640
<v Speaker 1>we are wives have as well. Everything altogether, it's a

0:33:07.640 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 1>big old cauldron that's that's stirring and a bunch of

0:33:09.840 --> 0:33:12.200
<v Speaker 1>things thrown in, and so we feel really fortunate. We

0:33:12.240 --> 0:33:16.280
<v Speaker 1>also try to work hard to live up to our standards.

0:33:16.360 --> 0:33:20.160
<v Speaker 1>Right that we have for this show, but for our families,

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 1>for for um our broader goals. Yeah, I would say

0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:28.320
<v Speaker 1>it's not like luck hard work. It's like a hundred

0:33:28.360 --> 0:33:30.760
<v Speaker 1>percent of everything. It's it's everything, it's all of it

0:33:30.880 --> 0:33:32.800
<v Speaker 1>combined together in order to to get us to working

0:33:32.800 --> 0:33:37.640
<v Speaker 1>off the math works on that. But I Paul, now

0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:40.360
<v Speaker 1>you're starting to sound like a football coach. That's kind

0:33:40.360 --> 0:33:42.840
<v Speaker 1>of what it feels like. Um Paul said, tell us

0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:45.040
<v Speaker 1>more about your long term fitness goals, Joel, do you

0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:47.600
<v Speaker 1>have any Not really? Honestly, it's funny. We did the

0:33:47.600 --> 0:33:49.560
<v Speaker 1>CrossFit Your Finances episode and when I was thinking about

0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 1>this question, I was like, my main thing is to

0:33:51.880 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 1>be consistent, right, My main thing is to slowly game strength,

0:33:55.360 --> 0:33:57.320
<v Speaker 1>is to get a little more fit. But I don't

0:33:57.320 --> 0:33:59.200
<v Speaker 1>have any major thing. I'm talking with my brother in

0:33:59.280 --> 0:34:02.440
<v Speaker 1>law about doing an abbreviated iron Man like this this

0:34:02.600 --> 0:34:06.280
<v Speaker 1>like it's basically like sprint exactly, so it's like a

0:34:06.280 --> 0:34:10.160
<v Speaker 1>five k and like seven yards swim and rind like

0:34:10.239 --> 0:34:12.320
<v Speaker 1>that's something I can do. Maybe that's a goal worth

0:34:12.360 --> 0:34:15.440
<v Speaker 1>striving for doing that in the spring, But no, my

0:34:15.560 --> 0:34:17.719
<v Speaker 1>ultimate I don't have any long term fitness tools. It's

0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:19.759
<v Speaker 1>just to be consistent because for all of my life,

0:34:19.840 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 1>I've never really worked out, and I've been fairly consistent

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:25.080
<v Speaker 1>here for like four months, and so I just want

0:34:25.080 --> 0:34:27.279
<v Speaker 1>to keep that going. Yeah, yeah, same here. It's I

0:34:27.280 --> 0:34:29.280
<v Speaker 1>don't have like these. I mean, I want to be stronger,

0:34:29.320 --> 0:34:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I want to be like my ultimate goal is just

0:34:31.200 --> 0:34:33.360
<v Speaker 1>to be healthy. I mean, the whole point is to

0:34:33.480 --> 0:34:37.719
<v Speaker 1>have a functioning body that is able to allow me

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:39.680
<v Speaker 1>to do the things I want to do in life. Right,

0:34:40.080 --> 0:34:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I think that's where I had, Like a focus on

0:34:42.920 --> 0:34:46.759
<v Speaker 1>fitness and health can eclipse the other goals, like what

0:34:46.840 --> 0:34:49.399
<v Speaker 1>I would would argue might be the more important things

0:34:49.400 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 1>in life. Right in this way, like health and fitness,

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:55.359
<v Speaker 1>it's like exercising, it's a means to an end in

0:34:55.400 --> 0:34:57.560
<v Speaker 1>my mind. It's not the end in and of itself.

0:34:57.600 --> 0:34:59.840
<v Speaker 1>Like it's certainly fun and it's certainly something I en

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:02.160
<v Speaker 1>really and I understand that there's a lot of folks

0:35:02.160 --> 0:35:06.439
<v Speaker 1>who who even make their living by coaching or being

0:35:06.480 --> 0:35:08.360
<v Speaker 1>an instructor or a trainer that kind of thing. But

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:10.919
<v Speaker 1>for me, I think for the common person, I think

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:12.840
<v Speaker 1>it's helpful to think about it as a means to

0:35:12.920 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>an end rather than the thing in and of itself.

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Same same thing with amassing money, right, It's like money

0:35:18.120 --> 0:35:19.680
<v Speaker 1>is the tool, and if your goal is to mass

0:35:19.719 --> 0:35:21.400
<v Speaker 1>tons of money, like I don't have a goal to

0:35:22.000 --> 0:35:26.640
<v Speaker 1>like bench press four hundred fifty pounds, that's just not

0:35:27.320 --> 0:35:29.480
<v Speaker 1>It's something I care about, and I think it's fine.

0:35:29.520 --> 0:35:31.080
<v Speaker 1>If that's the kind of the metric that you use,

0:35:31.200 --> 0:35:32.920
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. Um, and I think it's I think it's

0:35:32.920 --> 0:35:35.520
<v Speaker 1>more harmful in terms of money when I think your

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:38.719
<v Speaker 1>focus could be so much on amassing more and more

0:35:38.719 --> 0:35:40.480
<v Speaker 1>that you forget that it's a tool to accomplish the

0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:43.399
<v Speaker 1>things that matter to partaking your craftier equivalent and build

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:45.240
<v Speaker 1>wealth so that you can so that you can amass

0:35:45.280 --> 0:35:47.719
<v Speaker 1>freedom and then also find ways to get give that

0:35:47.760 --> 0:35:51.360
<v Speaker 1>money away to the benefit of other people. But Alice

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:53.479
<v Speaker 1>get next question. This one comes from Tiana. She says,

0:35:53.520 --> 0:35:55.520
<v Speaker 1>if you were a first time HomeBuyer in Atlanta, what

0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 1>areas would you recommend. I think we can be brief

0:35:57.600 --> 0:36:00.239
<v Speaker 1>on this one, but uh, we love we love it Ana.

0:36:00.520 --> 0:36:02.400
<v Speaker 1>We just moved just north of the city, but we

0:36:02.440 --> 0:36:04.040
<v Speaker 1>still think it's one of the greatest cities. And actually

0:36:04.040 --> 0:36:06.640
<v Speaker 1>I think it was Money Magazine said Atlanta's number one, Uh,

0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:09.560
<v Speaker 1>the best city in the country, and Atlanta's got it

0:36:09.600 --> 0:36:12.120
<v Speaker 1>going on. I'm not going to disagree that our fair

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:14.560
<v Speaker 1>city was ranking number thirty five where we moved to

0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:17.080
<v Speaker 1>actually interestingly enough, but I would say Capital View and

0:36:17.160 --> 0:36:19.520
<v Speaker 1>East Point. Oh yeah, those are the two neighborhoods I

0:36:19.520 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 1>would say look there because I think they have long

0:36:21.600 --> 0:36:24.680
<v Speaker 1>term pidential I thought you'd have more specific neighborhoods. I

0:36:24.719 --> 0:36:26.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like you like you have your ear to the

0:36:26.120 --> 0:36:28.360
<v Speaker 1>ground more when it comes to to like newer, up

0:36:28.400 --> 0:36:30.359
<v Speaker 1>and coming neighborhoods. I thought I was going to say those,

0:36:30.360 --> 0:36:31.480
<v Speaker 1>and I thought you were gonna be like, oh, those

0:36:31.480 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 1>were those are yesterday's neighborhoods. Now I still really like those.

0:36:35.000 --> 0:36:36.279
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, no, I agree with I think that Tri

0:36:36.360 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 1>City area, that Hapeville College Park, East Point, like all

0:36:40.120 --> 0:36:42.799
<v Speaker 1>those are great towns just south to south the town

0:36:43.000 --> 0:36:45.720
<v Speaker 1>and and and I think later on in the Facebook

0:36:45.760 --> 0:36:47.920
<v Speaker 1>post she mentioned her budget. I think she said four

0:36:48.760 --> 0:36:50.760
<v Speaker 1>thousand and there are other neighborhoods that we could recommend.

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:52.839
<v Speaker 1>It just depends on the side of the house and stuff. Uh,

0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:55.759
<v Speaker 1>Like we could say, oh, Inman Park's great. Imman Park

0:36:56.080 --> 0:36:58.480
<v Speaker 1>is a great neighborhood, but it's also really really expensive.

0:36:58.520 --> 0:37:01.600
<v Speaker 1>So if you're talking about living somewhere that is like

0:37:01.960 --> 0:37:05.200
<v Speaker 1>has is cool in town living, but that doesn't cost

0:37:05.239 --> 0:37:08.120
<v Speaker 1>a ridiculous amount of money. The couple of the neighborhoods

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:10.080
<v Speaker 1>I would consider truly are probably Capital of View and

0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>East Point yep Sylvan Hills that's near their near Capital View,

0:37:13.640 --> 0:37:16.560
<v Speaker 1>kind of that Purkison Park area. But I mean generally speaking,

0:37:16.640 --> 0:37:18.799
<v Speaker 1>focus on the neighborhoods to like, don't just look at

0:37:19.080 --> 0:37:21.520
<v Speaker 1>the financials, but look at the infrastructure, look at what

0:37:21.640 --> 0:37:24.960
<v Speaker 1>they what those communities have that you're looking for when

0:37:24.960 --> 0:37:26.440
<v Speaker 1>it comes to it to where it is that you

0:37:26.440 --> 0:37:28.200
<v Speaker 1>want to live, but find you know, the ability to

0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:31.160
<v Speaker 1>find a community, a neighborhood that feels like it's it's

0:37:31.160 --> 0:37:33.799
<v Speaker 1>got some some runway ahead of it where you do

0:37:33.880 --> 0:37:36.200
<v Speaker 1>see it improving. Yeah, and they're just waiting on those

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:38.359
<v Speaker 1>folks to show up and invest some of that that

0:37:38.400 --> 0:37:41.279
<v Speaker 1>time and energy into making those neighborhoods and making those

0:37:41.280 --> 0:37:43.520
<v Speaker 1>communities into what it is that you and and other

0:37:43.560 --> 0:37:45.239
<v Speaker 1>folks were moving in. What you're looking for. And I

0:37:45.239 --> 0:37:47.160
<v Speaker 1>think when you see a sense of neighborhood pride, stuff

0:37:47.160 --> 0:37:49.560
<v Speaker 1>like community gardens. When I'm driving around, those kind of

0:37:49.600 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 1>things strike me as like, wait a second, even though

0:37:52.280 --> 0:37:55.680
<v Speaker 1>maybe this community hasn't been as loved or hasn't had

0:37:55.719 --> 0:38:00.400
<v Speaker 1>the same infrastructure like input from city developers over years,

0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:02.719
<v Speaker 1>there's something happening here. And I think Capital of You

0:38:02.800 --> 0:38:04.560
<v Speaker 1>was one of those places where and we've already seen

0:38:04.760 --> 0:38:07.279
<v Speaker 1>like a lot happened there in the past since you

0:38:07.320 --> 0:38:09.560
<v Speaker 1>and I bought our first property. Yeah, but then with

0:38:09.600 --> 0:38:11.440
<v Speaker 1>east Point, Like, what's great about east Point is it's

0:38:11.480 --> 0:38:13.640
<v Speaker 1>on the Marty Line and so you've got that direct

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:17.880
<v Speaker 1>public transit, that direct connection to the city, and so

0:38:17.960 --> 0:38:20.920
<v Speaker 1>that's something that you don't want to overlook as well. Uh,

0:38:21.320 --> 0:38:23.919
<v Speaker 1>let's keep moving. Joel Kyle says, when naming your kids,

0:38:23.960 --> 0:38:26.399
<v Speaker 1>did either of you have a name that you really

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:31.000
<v Speaker 1>wanted but your wife vetoed? Did you that happen with y'all? Well,

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 1>just the middle name for Ezra, I really wanted. My

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:37.440
<v Speaker 1>dad's middle name is Luther. My grandpa was a Lutheran minister,

0:38:37.680 --> 0:38:39.520
<v Speaker 1>and so I wanted Ezra's middle name to be Luther.

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:42.319
<v Speaker 1>And then tell you that I don't really like that.

0:38:42.440 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 1>So now he went, he has my middle name and

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:47.319
<v Speaker 1>my dad's first name, which is so it's Ezra David.

0:38:47.400 --> 0:38:50.120
<v Speaker 1>But and I do remember showing for the hospital to

0:38:50.120 --> 0:38:53.360
<v Speaker 1>meet your second daughter, and she was named something different

0:38:53.360 --> 0:38:56.080
<v Speaker 1>than she is today. Well, we had named her, but

0:38:56.360 --> 0:38:58.280
<v Speaker 1>the more we used her name there in the hospital,

0:38:58.320 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 1>the more we realized, this isn't her name. I don't

0:39:00.520 --> 0:39:02.200
<v Speaker 1>know what it was, but it just didn't flow off

0:39:02.239 --> 0:39:04.200
<v Speaker 1>the tongue like we were expecting. And so we literally

0:39:04.840 --> 0:39:07.040
<v Speaker 1>we called him audible, and we did. We'd already told

0:39:07.040 --> 0:39:08.799
<v Speaker 1>our parents and everything, but then when they showed up

0:39:08.800 --> 0:39:10.759
<v Speaker 1>in the hospital, we told her. We told them her

0:39:10.760 --> 0:39:14.480
<v Speaker 1>new name, and they thought we were joking. But I

0:39:14.520 --> 0:39:18.240
<v Speaker 1>am specifically thinking of Kyle Um I our third daughter.

0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:22.480
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to name Savannah because I've got this thing

0:39:22.600 --> 0:39:26.759
<v Speaker 1>for girls that have boy sounding names, like Andy, what's

0:39:26.760 --> 0:39:29.440
<v Speaker 1>another one, Um, There's a bunch of a bunch of

0:39:29.520 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 1>names out there that are traditionally considered boy names, but

0:39:32.200 --> 0:39:35.600
<v Speaker 1>they can also be Taylor, Taylor, uh. And so with Savannah,

0:39:35.719 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 1>the idea was that we would name her Savannah, but

0:39:37.560 --> 0:39:40.799
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to call her Van, which I thought was

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:43.880
<v Speaker 1>going to be the coolest thing ever. Kate disagreed. She

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:46.080
<v Speaker 1>just couldn't get behind naming her like the super southern

0:39:46.200 --> 0:39:50.480
<v Speaker 1>sounding names. Savannah the Van is the leading lady in Atlanta.

0:39:51.040 --> 0:39:54.320
<v Speaker 1>Zazzi beats his character's name, which still one of my

0:39:54.360 --> 0:39:57.080
<v Speaker 1>all time paper shows. All Right, what's a hobby, Matt?

0:39:57.120 --> 0:40:00.040
<v Speaker 1>You you aren't into, but you wish you were? Go

0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:01.680
<v Speaker 1>back to going back to homebrewing. I kind of wish

0:40:01.719 --> 0:40:03.000
<v Speaker 1>I was in. That was also one from Kyle by

0:40:03.040 --> 0:40:05.480
<v Speaker 1>the way, Yeah, yeah, like if I was a master

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:09.399
<v Speaker 1>homebrew again. The ability to have some amazing beer on hand. Uh.

0:40:09.520 --> 0:40:11.279
<v Speaker 1>I wish I was into smoking meat. That's not That's

0:40:11.320 --> 0:40:13.200
<v Speaker 1>something that you've kind of gotten into. And I feel

0:40:13.239 --> 0:40:16.160
<v Speaker 1>like I'm slowly testing the waters a little bit, getting

0:40:16.160 --> 0:40:18.120
<v Speaker 1>the field for but it's not something I do at

0:40:18.160 --> 0:40:19.680
<v Speaker 1>all right now. But I kind of wish I did,

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:21.480
<v Speaker 1>all right. I wish I reade more. I wish I

0:40:21.520 --> 0:40:23.719
<v Speaker 1>read books more. I read a lot of period I

0:40:23.760 --> 0:40:25.239
<v Speaker 1>read a lot for the show. I read a lot

0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:28.720
<v Speaker 1>during my five I wish I wasn't so dang tired

0:40:28.719 --> 0:40:30.560
<v Speaker 1>at night and then I could stay up and read

0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:34.000
<v Speaker 1>more books. Also, pick pickleball. Everybody's into it. I kind

0:40:34.040 --> 0:40:35.160
<v Speaker 1>of want to get into it too. I want to

0:40:35.200 --> 0:40:37.160
<v Speaker 1>join the Bandwagon. I'm not gonna lie. Have you ever played?

0:40:37.520 --> 0:40:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I have not. No. I played one time and I

0:40:40.760 --> 0:40:42.319
<v Speaker 1>had a blast, Like it was one of the most

0:40:42.320 --> 0:40:44.560
<v Speaker 1>fun things I've ever done, So I would I would

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:47.160
<v Speaker 1>totally do pickle ball well. On a related note, what

0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:50.600
<v Speaker 1>are some of the best non financial books that you've read?

0:40:50.680 --> 0:40:53.400
<v Speaker 1>This is another one from Kyle. Anything by John Steinbeck

0:40:53.560 --> 0:40:57.040
<v Speaker 1>and Anything and Everything by John Stebacks is my number

0:40:57.040 --> 0:40:59.480
<v Speaker 1>one favorite book of all time. I also like books

0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:02.400
<v Speaker 1>on more Town like so When Breath Becomes Their and

0:41:02.440 --> 0:41:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Being Mortal. Um, those are two of my favorite books.

0:41:05.440 --> 0:41:08.200
<v Speaker 1>Those are good. UM. I like one that stands up

0:41:08.239 --> 0:41:11.200
<v Speaker 1>my mind, Coddling, The Coddling of the American Mind by

0:41:11.320 --> 0:41:15.000
<v Speaker 1>Greg Lukianof and Jonathan Height. It's such a good book.

0:41:15.080 --> 0:41:17.839
<v Speaker 1>I would and I would recommend recommend it for multiple reasons. One,

0:41:17.880 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 1>it kind of explains like the polarized culture that we're

0:41:21.239 --> 0:41:23.640
<v Speaker 1>in today. I think it explains a lot of how

0:41:23.680 --> 0:41:26.280
<v Speaker 1>we arrived at that point. But then also for parents

0:41:26.360 --> 0:41:31.160
<v Speaker 1>out there, as you are looking to raise resilient, adaptable, smart,

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:34.600
<v Speaker 1>functional children in this world. They spent a lot of

0:41:34.600 --> 0:41:37.200
<v Speaker 1>time talking about like fragility and what it means to

0:41:37.239 --> 0:41:40.200
<v Speaker 1>be anti fragile and what it means to be like

0:41:40.239 --> 0:41:42.880
<v Speaker 1>a kid that can be just resilient in the world today.

0:41:42.920 --> 0:41:45.759
<v Speaker 1>And so yeah, just from a just from a social commentary,

0:41:45.960 --> 0:41:48.360
<v Speaker 1>and it's back by research as well. But it's interesting

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:50.400
<v Speaker 1>from that angle, but also from a from a parenting

0:41:50.440 --> 0:41:53.080
<v Speaker 1>angle as well. I would I would recommend that one. Nice. Yeah, No,

0:41:53.200 --> 0:41:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I like that. I like Jonathan knight Is is one

0:41:56.160 --> 0:41:59.000
<v Speaker 1>of the social psychologists doing great works. Smart smart dude.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Izzy says, does the daily stress of life

0:42:01.960 --> 0:42:06.640
<v Speaker 1>go away when you are financially stable? What you think? No, No, No,

0:42:06.719 --> 0:42:08.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it does. No. I think there's still

0:42:08.800 --> 0:42:10.359
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things to stress you out in life,

0:42:11.160 --> 0:42:13.560
<v Speaker 1>especially as a dad with kids who are going through

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:16.239
<v Speaker 1>a bunch of stuff. But I will say, uh, to

0:42:16.440 --> 0:42:19.680
<v Speaker 1>not have money as a stressor in addition, and it's

0:42:19.680 --> 0:42:21.560
<v Speaker 1>not that we don't stress about money at all, right,

0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:24.640
<v Speaker 1>but to have it largely off the table as something

0:42:24.640 --> 0:42:29.000
<v Speaker 1>that creates arguments or something we have to worry about frequently. Yeah, No,

0:42:29.160 --> 0:42:31.760
<v Speaker 1>it dials down the temperature of a lot of things

0:42:31.840 --> 0:42:34.000
<v Speaker 1>that we have to discuss. And so I think it's

0:42:34.040 --> 0:42:38.000
<v Speaker 1>really important to strive after a certain amount of financial independence,

0:42:38.000 --> 0:42:41.560
<v Speaker 1>of more peace hot money, of just more margin in

0:42:41.560 --> 0:42:43.880
<v Speaker 1>your life, because I do think, yes, it will. It

0:42:43.920 --> 0:42:46.520
<v Speaker 1>can make your relationships better, and it can. It can.

0:42:46.560 --> 0:42:49.160
<v Speaker 1>It can mean that there's less money becomes less of

0:42:49.160 --> 0:42:51.359
<v Speaker 1>a source of constant friction. Yeah, it just depends on

0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:53.719
<v Speaker 1>how many other daily stresses you have. If all your

0:42:53.800 --> 0:42:57.319
<v Speaker 1>daily stress comes down to financial anxieties that you might have,

0:42:57.400 --> 0:42:59.880
<v Speaker 1>then yeah, having some financial margin, having that what you

0:43:00.040 --> 0:43:03.239
<v Speaker 1>and she said, financial stability, that would absolutely help, right,

0:43:03.280 --> 0:43:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Like to not have to worry about whether or not

0:43:06.120 --> 0:43:07.799
<v Speaker 1>you're going to have your power cut off or the

0:43:07.800 --> 0:43:10.040
<v Speaker 1>water turned off like that kind of thing. Oh my gosh.

0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I yes, to be able to have some financial margin

0:43:14.120 --> 0:43:16.920
<v Speaker 1>to where you can remove those worries from your plate,

0:43:17.480 --> 0:43:20.279
<v Speaker 1>that is priceless. But at the same so on one

0:43:20.280 --> 0:43:22.440
<v Speaker 1>hand I would say yes, but on the other hand,

0:43:22.440 --> 0:43:24.680
<v Speaker 1>I would say no, because it depends on what you

0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:28.120
<v Speaker 1>then do with that additional margin. Because the typical cycle,

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:32.080
<v Speaker 1>I think most American consumers, they they basically arrive at

0:43:32.120 --> 0:43:34.560
<v Speaker 1>a certain point, they remove a bunch of stresses from

0:43:34.560 --> 0:43:38.200
<v Speaker 1>their life, but then they uh sign up for additional obligations,

0:43:38.200 --> 0:43:41.799
<v Speaker 1>additional financial obligations that then add more stress to their life. Right.

0:43:42.239 --> 0:43:44.719
<v Speaker 1>So I've known people who are financially free, who are

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:46.880
<v Speaker 1>not in a good place, who are not happy people,

0:43:47.000 --> 0:43:49.200
<v Speaker 1>and who are stressed out because for other reasons. So

0:43:49.719 --> 0:43:53.040
<v Speaker 1>even having enough money doesn't Yes, what if you're only

0:43:53.080 --> 0:43:56.200
<v Speaker 1>looking at financial issues? Right, Like does more money equal

0:43:56.680 --> 0:43:59.759
<v Speaker 1>like less stress? And I think that depends on what

0:44:00.120 --> 0:44:01.759
<v Speaker 1>you introduced into your life. And so what I was

0:44:01.760 --> 0:44:04.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna say is that, like, like you used to maybe

0:44:04.280 --> 0:44:07.239
<v Speaker 1>be concerned with having your utilities cut off, right, but

0:44:07.280 --> 0:44:09.480
<v Speaker 1>then like you mentioned like a boat earlier, but like,

0:44:09.600 --> 0:44:11.279
<v Speaker 1>let's say you decided to buy a boat because you

0:44:11.280 --> 0:44:15.640
<v Speaker 1>know what this said. Two, I'm in a place where

0:44:15.640 --> 0:44:18.360
<v Speaker 1>I can afford a boat. Well, if you're barely getting

0:44:18.400 --> 0:44:20.080
<v Speaker 1>by to where you can afford that boat payment or

0:44:20.160 --> 0:44:24.080
<v Speaker 1>the additional expenses, and like it just escalates, like the wealthier,

0:44:24.160 --> 0:44:26.960
<v Speaker 1>the wealthier you become if you continually sign up for

0:44:27.120 --> 0:44:32.600
<v Speaker 1>additional debt obligations. Essentially, those financial stresses can always be there.

0:44:32.840 --> 0:44:35.200
<v Speaker 1>It's just you're stressing over things that you never would

0:44:35.200 --> 0:44:37.239
<v Speaker 1>have thought you would have been stressing about in a

0:44:37.239 --> 0:44:39.080
<v Speaker 1>previous line. And I guess I think I interpreted the

0:44:39.160 --> 0:44:41.120
<v Speaker 1>question a little different because did she she said, does

0:44:41.120 --> 0:44:43.400
<v Speaker 1>the daily stress of life go away? And look at

0:44:43.480 --> 0:44:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Elon Musk, look at Rogates. Those guys probably pretty stressed

0:44:46.880 --> 0:44:50.880
<v Speaker 1>out with divorces, with taking on way more than might

0:44:50.920 --> 0:44:52.600
<v Speaker 1>not way more than they can chew buying a social

0:44:52.600 --> 0:44:55.719
<v Speaker 1>media company. There will always be things that happened in

0:44:55.760 --> 0:44:58.360
<v Speaker 1>the world that there will always be some sort of instant,

0:44:58.480 --> 0:45:01.240
<v Speaker 1>like something that's gonna make you make your footing feel

0:45:01.320 --> 0:45:03.000
<v Speaker 1>like you're standing on sand. And if you think that

0:45:03.080 --> 0:45:04.920
<v Speaker 1>money is going to cure all of your ills, you're

0:45:04.920 --> 0:45:08.839
<v Speaker 1>dead wrong. And so yes, yes, having more money it's

0:45:08.840 --> 0:45:10.759
<v Speaker 1>a tool and it can help certain things, but there's

0:45:10.760 --> 0:45:12.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things that it can't speak to. There's

0:45:12.320 --> 0:45:14.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things that it can't fix, So you

0:45:14.120 --> 0:45:16.960
<v Speaker 1>have to know that going into it. Joel Alex asked

0:45:17.000 --> 0:45:19.600
<v Speaker 1>what are your favorite music genres? Okay, my all time

0:45:19.600 --> 0:45:22.960
<v Speaker 1>favorite music genre alt country, so not radio country, but

0:45:23.000 --> 0:45:27.080
<v Speaker 1>the old country stuff, so like old school Ryan Adams,

0:45:27.640 --> 0:45:30.600
<v Speaker 1>like Jason Isbell, I like to try by Truckers, like

0:45:30.640 --> 0:45:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Tyler Childer's right now or all the bands I've heard

0:45:33.040 --> 0:45:36.960
<v Speaker 1>you mentioned, but and then just probably indie rock. So

0:45:37.120 --> 0:45:38.799
<v Speaker 1>some people say I like all the music, and I'm

0:45:38.800 --> 0:45:40.239
<v Speaker 1>like no, I kind of like just a little bit.

0:45:40.280 --> 0:45:43.239
<v Speaker 1>We've got the indie rock indie rock overlap, like I

0:45:43.440 --> 0:45:46.319
<v Speaker 1>lean more and like the electronica like post rock kind

0:45:46.320 --> 0:45:49.120
<v Speaker 1>of genre. And so I mean for I mean, I

0:45:49.120 --> 0:45:52.560
<v Speaker 1>still am You're a big name back guy. I don't

0:45:52.560 --> 0:45:54.680
<v Speaker 1>listen to as much music as I used to because

0:45:54.719 --> 0:45:57.520
<v Speaker 1>it is oftentimes filled with podcasts and audio books. But

0:45:57.560 --> 0:46:00.000
<v Speaker 1>like Radio Ahead, I probably have listened to more Radi

0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Ahead than any other band in my entire life, like

0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:05.520
<v Speaker 1>tron like Sun Lux Tycho, So maybe a little bit

0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:08.440
<v Speaker 1>more of that ambient electronic music. But then like like

0:46:08.560 --> 0:46:11.840
<v Speaker 1>Bony there and like Sufion, like these are all folks

0:46:11.840 --> 0:46:14.080
<v Speaker 1>that's we overlap. Yeah, yeah, there's a lot of bands

0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:15.840
<v Speaker 1>that we both like. It's not but but then I

0:46:15.840 --> 0:46:17.759
<v Speaker 1>also like there's some bluegrass that I really like. I've

0:46:17.800 --> 0:46:20.680
<v Speaker 1>been to. I think I've seen more nickel Creek not

0:46:20.840 --> 0:46:24.880
<v Speaker 1>nickel Back shows than any other any other band in

0:46:24.920 --> 0:46:26.759
<v Speaker 1>my entirely be in heaven. If nickel Back opened up

0:46:26.800 --> 0:46:29.560
<v Speaker 1>for nickel Creek, that would be like the top bailing

0:46:29.560 --> 0:46:31.960
<v Speaker 1>for you. I wish I could even sing a line

0:46:32.040 --> 0:46:34.120
<v Speaker 1>or two of a Nickelback song, just to drive the

0:46:34.120 --> 0:46:36.799
<v Speaker 1>point home. But I don't. I can't. All right, So

0:46:36.840 --> 0:46:38.600
<v Speaker 1>on that note, Sandy says, what song when it comes

0:46:38.600 --> 0:46:40.600
<v Speaker 1>on the radio, can you not resist singing out loud

0:46:40.640 --> 0:46:43.239
<v Speaker 1>to Also what movie? No matter when you tune in,

0:46:43.480 --> 0:46:45.080
<v Speaker 1>do you have no choice but to stop and watch

0:46:45.160 --> 0:46:46.640
<v Speaker 1>the rest because you love it so much? All Right?

0:46:46.680 --> 0:46:49.239
<v Speaker 1>I got the song. I would say any song on

0:46:49.480 --> 0:46:53.480
<v Speaker 1>Third Eye Blind's debut album, like literally, I think I

0:46:53.520 --> 0:46:55.160
<v Speaker 1>know the words to every single song on that album

0:46:55.200 --> 0:46:57.520
<v Speaker 1>and when I saw them live recently along the whole

0:46:57.520 --> 0:47:00.879
<v Speaker 1>Time journey for me, probably almost any journeys, like how

0:47:00.920 --> 0:47:03.359
<v Speaker 1>can you not try to mimic step Verry even though

0:47:03.520 --> 0:47:06.440
<v Speaker 1>nobody can? Movie? I don't. I don't have a movie

0:47:06.560 --> 0:47:09.120
<v Speaker 1>like I mean, honestly, movies just aren't really a part

0:47:09.160 --> 0:47:12.319
<v Speaker 1>of our life and we It's just I don't feel

0:47:12.360 --> 0:47:15.080
<v Speaker 1>like I can give an honest answer. Willy Wanka for me,

0:47:15.080 --> 0:47:17.879
<v Speaker 1>will Wanka the track Collectory, not the Johnny Depp version.

0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:20.880
<v Speaker 1>Gosh darn ITTT the original hate that one. Sorry. I

0:47:21.440 --> 0:47:23.520
<v Speaker 1>have a lot of animosity towards the Johnny Depp version

0:47:23.560 --> 0:47:26.359
<v Speaker 1>because it's not nearly as good and I'm obsessed, like

0:47:26.360 --> 0:47:28.759
<v Speaker 1>will that might be? That's Top five movies of all

0:47:28.800 --> 0:47:30.880
<v Speaker 1>time for me. So if I see it, it just

0:47:30.880 --> 0:47:33.439
<v Speaker 1>brings back so much nostalgia and I love the Gene

0:47:33.480 --> 0:47:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Wilder's performance in that version, so it's fantastic. Yeah, it's

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:38.680
<v Speaker 1>a good one. All Right, We've got more to get to.

0:47:39.000 --> 0:47:42.760
<v Speaker 1>More ask me anything questions from you guys. Our listeners

0:47:42.800 --> 0:47:46.000
<v Speaker 1>will will tackle a few extras right after this break.

0:47:55.120 --> 0:47:57.040
<v Speaker 1>All right, we are back from the break, Joel. We've

0:47:57.040 --> 0:47:59.600
<v Speaker 1>got a few more questions we're gonna get to. These

0:47:59.600 --> 0:48:03.560
<v Speaker 1>are questions that listeners submitted in our Facebook group. Someone

0:48:03.600 --> 0:48:05.400
<v Speaker 1>did want to know, partly because in the post I

0:48:05.480 --> 0:48:08.040
<v Speaker 1>mentioned that we could cover your deepest, darkest secret if

0:48:08.040 --> 0:48:10.080
<v Speaker 1>the question was asked. We don't have time for the

0:48:10.120 --> 0:48:13.520
<v Speaker 1>actual I feel like we're even now we're gonna go. Yeah,

0:48:13.560 --> 0:48:15.919
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be long than usual, but okily, as Matt

0:48:15.920 --> 0:48:18.000
<v Speaker 1>ports the soul out in this third segment, it'll be

0:48:18.040 --> 0:48:19.520
<v Speaker 1>worth it. This one is from Michael. How do you

0:48:19.520 --> 0:48:23.440
<v Speaker 1>guys juggle family life and podcasting life more effectively? I'm

0:48:23.440 --> 0:48:26.040
<v Speaker 1>sure there's a learning curve, but when transitioning into self

0:48:26.040 --> 0:48:29.279
<v Speaker 1>own business, what we're your successes and pitfalls early on

0:48:29.360 --> 0:48:32.520
<v Speaker 1>around family life and personal life, you gotta response. So

0:48:32.680 --> 0:48:35.560
<v Speaker 1>first things first, starting something new and trying to do

0:48:35.640 --> 0:48:38.839
<v Speaker 1>it at a high level means extra work when you're

0:48:38.840 --> 0:48:42.440
<v Speaker 1>getting started, and so I think the key is communication, right,

0:48:42.840 --> 0:48:47.520
<v Speaker 1>Like having that conversation with Emily was like, Hey, if

0:48:47.560 --> 0:48:49.440
<v Speaker 1>this is something that you're behind and you think it

0:48:49.680 --> 0:48:51.439
<v Speaker 1>is a good idea for us to start and see

0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:54.400
<v Speaker 1>what happens, just letting you know I'm going to be

0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:56.560
<v Speaker 1>a little more absent and it's going to take more

0:48:56.640 --> 0:48:58.480
<v Speaker 1>effort and work, but we think that there's light at

0:48:58.480 --> 0:49:00.239
<v Speaker 1>the end of the tunnel that this can be some thing.

0:49:00.600 --> 0:49:02.360
<v Speaker 1>And so you have to have buy in and everyone

0:49:02.400 --> 0:49:04.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of has to agree, and you have to kind

0:49:04.000 --> 0:49:07.000
<v Speaker 1>of continually come back to communicate about Okay, how's it going,

0:49:07.440 --> 0:49:10.560
<v Speaker 1>and like are is it worth it for all the

0:49:10.560 --> 0:49:13.560
<v Speaker 1>parties involved? So I don't know, it's a learning curve,

0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:16.640
<v Speaker 1>but communication is key. I totally agree. Communication. And then

0:49:16.680 --> 0:49:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I feel like, I mean, honestly, I learned a lot

0:49:18.600 --> 0:49:20.960
<v Speaker 1>of these lessons when Kate and I started UM started

0:49:20.960 --> 0:49:24.480
<v Speaker 1>our company doing photography, but it was our life like

0:49:24.520 --> 0:49:28.760
<v Speaker 1>it consumed everything. It's saturated every fiber of our being,

0:49:28.840 --> 0:49:30.520
<v Speaker 1>Like every second of the day, I felt like we

0:49:30.520 --> 0:49:33.000
<v Speaker 1>were talking of photography stuff, and that was great and

0:49:33.040 --> 0:49:35.720
<v Speaker 1>on one hand because it meant a very successful business,

0:49:35.719 --> 0:49:39.440
<v Speaker 1>but on the other hand, it was detrimental to our relationship. Uh,

0:49:39.480 --> 0:49:42.080
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of things that we didn't prioritize because

0:49:42.080 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 1>we were so concerned with talking about business things. And

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<v Speaker 1>so what that meant is I learned that for us,

0:49:47.280 --> 0:49:50.839
<v Speaker 1>boundaries were really stinking important. And so for for what

0:49:50.920 --> 0:49:53.080
<v Speaker 1>you know what that means with how the money is

0:49:53.600 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 1>keeping like fairly hard boundaries when it comes to the

0:49:56.320 --> 0:49:58.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, the work that we do here, you know,

0:49:58.160 --> 0:50:00.359
<v Speaker 1>for the show and then the life I lead at home,

0:50:00.840 --> 0:50:02.320
<v Speaker 1>Like the kids like they know that I've had a

0:50:02.360 --> 0:50:04.839
<v Speaker 1>podcast that you know, Daddy and Mr Jolie sit down

0:50:04.840 --> 0:50:06.480
<v Speaker 1>and they talk about beer, and they kind of like,

0:50:06.680 --> 0:50:08.239
<v Speaker 1>I feel like our kids are starting to get older,

0:50:08.239 --> 0:50:09.439
<v Speaker 1>and they kind of make fun of us a little

0:50:09.440 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 1>bit because they'll hear us pull up an episode in

0:50:12.600 --> 0:50:14.640
<v Speaker 1>the car, like we'll check it to make sure certain

0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:17.239
<v Speaker 1>things are playing properly. You know, we're not sitting down

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:19.480
<v Speaker 1>listening to our own show. But they always kind of

0:50:19.520 --> 0:50:21.360
<v Speaker 1>I think they get excited when the height of humors

0:50:22.000 --> 0:50:23.879
<v Speaker 1>when they hear our show come comes up. If you're

0:50:23.880 --> 0:50:25.200
<v Speaker 1>that in love with the sound of your own voice.

0:50:25.239 --> 0:50:27.960
<v Speaker 1>But but otherwise they don't really know much of what

0:50:28.000 --> 0:50:30.160
<v Speaker 1>we do. And for me, I think that's that's something

0:50:30.480 --> 0:50:32.719
<v Speaker 1>that's something I'm proud. I'm proud of. Um. Granted, there's

0:50:32.719 --> 0:50:35.200
<v Speaker 1>some overlap if I'm I'll read an article or read

0:50:35.200 --> 0:50:36.600
<v Speaker 1>a book or something like that that has to do

0:50:36.640 --> 0:50:39.239
<v Speaker 1>with work at home, because I'm just interested in it,

0:50:39.320 --> 0:50:41.759
<v Speaker 1>and there's certainly some overlap. But for the most part

0:50:42.120 --> 0:50:44.239
<v Speaker 1>in my life at least, it means they're they're some

0:50:44.280 --> 0:50:47.120
<v Speaker 1>clear boundaries between work life and personal life. And that's

0:50:47.120 --> 0:50:49.520
<v Speaker 1>probably to Matt while why you and I we don't

0:50:49.520 --> 0:50:51.480
<v Speaker 1>put ourselves out there on Instagram a whole lot. It

0:50:51.480 --> 0:50:53.680
<v Speaker 1>would just be more invasive. And it's it's not that

0:50:53.719 --> 0:50:57.760
<v Speaker 1>we're against obviously we're answering all of your questions today

0:50:57.760 --> 0:50:59.799
<v Speaker 1>on today's episode. We don't mind sharing those things, but

0:50:59.840 --> 0:51:02.640
<v Speaker 1>we working right now, yes, and when it breaks into

0:51:02.760 --> 0:51:05.319
<v Speaker 1>kind of our personal time, our personal lives, uh, it's

0:51:05.640 --> 0:51:09.239
<v Speaker 1>we love meaning listeners, listener hangouts, we love answering your questions, like,

0:51:09.560 --> 0:51:12.600
<v Speaker 1>we love that engagement. But typically between the hours of

0:51:12.760 --> 0:51:16.560
<v Speaker 1>like like Monday through Thursday, half days on Fridays, and

0:51:16.600 --> 0:51:18.520
<v Speaker 1>if we get whatever we can cram into there and

0:51:18.600 --> 0:51:21.640
<v Speaker 1>at that time it's like pure joy and uh yeah,

0:51:21.640 --> 0:51:24.120
<v Speaker 1>So so for us, we gotta we gotta make sure

0:51:24.239 --> 0:51:27.759
<v Speaker 1>we keep those barriers intact so it doesn't feel like

0:51:27.760 --> 0:51:30.720
<v Speaker 1>it's overwhelming, uh, the things we get to do and

0:51:30.719 --> 0:51:34.560
<v Speaker 1>and enjoy at home, because that's the reason we're working right, uh,

0:51:34.680 --> 0:51:37.600
<v Speaker 1>to sustain our families and to be able to really

0:51:37.680 --> 0:51:40.160
<v Speaker 1>enjoy the time that we have away from here to

0:51:40.440 --> 0:51:42.640
<v Speaker 1>all right, Michael says, and this is interesting, one says,

0:51:42.680 --> 0:51:46.360
<v Speaker 1>most of the people advising folks on financial stability didn't

0:51:46.360 --> 0:51:48.799
<v Speaker 1>get their wealth doing what they preached. They amassed it

0:51:48.840 --> 0:51:51.839
<v Speaker 1>by selling a service teaching you about it. He says,

0:51:51.840 --> 0:51:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I'd be curious to get a glimpse inside the financials

0:51:54.040 --> 0:51:57.880
<v Speaker 1>of how running a podcast, investment properties, etcetera. Produces income

0:51:57.920 --> 0:52:01.160
<v Speaker 1>in your cases. In the past, you've referenced spouses education

0:52:01.160 --> 0:52:04.399
<v Speaker 1>goals and expected job dividends, etcetera. But I don't think

0:52:04.400 --> 0:52:08.160
<v Speaker 1>i've ever heard personal results. Well, okay, so Michael, you

0:52:08.320 --> 0:52:11.120
<v Speaker 1>know you're saying that other folks are would he said,

0:52:11.120 --> 0:52:14.040
<v Speaker 1>selling a service teaching you about it? And I would

0:52:14.120 --> 0:52:16.319
<v Speaker 1>argue that is not all that different than what we

0:52:16.360 --> 0:52:18.480
<v Speaker 1>are actually doing here on the show. I think that's

0:52:18.480 --> 0:52:20.080
<v Speaker 1>what he's saying. He's saying, like, so how do you

0:52:20.480 --> 0:52:23.040
<v Speaker 1>did you guys? Are you guys only making money from

0:52:23.040 --> 0:52:25.239
<v Speaker 1>the podcast or did were you? I read his question

0:52:25.280 --> 0:52:28.280
<v Speaker 1>as in like, like, you guys are practicing what you're preaching.

0:52:28.480 --> 0:52:29.920
<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is that, like I feel like

0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:31.839
<v Speaker 1>we're more we've got more in common with those other

0:52:31.840 --> 0:52:34.000
<v Speaker 1>folks who are out there selling themselves on the internet

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:36.279
<v Speaker 1>than maybe it would appear, right like, I mean, like

0:52:36.320 --> 0:52:39.279
<v Speaker 1>those folks have courses and classes and mastermind groups and

0:52:39.280 --> 0:52:41.919
<v Speaker 1>all that kind of stuff that they're selling, and that's

0:52:41.960 --> 0:52:45.360
<v Speaker 1>one model. But for us, like we're talking about similar things,

0:52:45.360 --> 0:52:47.319
<v Speaker 1>but we just have advertising. And so I guess what

0:52:47.320 --> 0:52:49.720
<v Speaker 1>I'm highlighting here is that we're not all that different

0:52:49.760 --> 0:52:52.080
<v Speaker 1>I guess maybe from some of the other content creators

0:52:52.080 --> 0:52:54.280
<v Speaker 1>out there. But maybe what's different than is the spirit

0:52:54.640 --> 0:52:57.600
<v Speaker 1>in which we do things where we're not I mean,

0:52:57.680 --> 0:52:59.160
<v Speaker 1>sort of like what we were saying earlier, you know,

0:52:59.200 --> 0:53:02.560
<v Speaker 1>the ability to ask the question is this something that's

0:53:02.560 --> 0:53:04.880
<v Speaker 1>going to be able to provide value to listeners? Being

0:53:04.920 --> 0:53:07.800
<v Speaker 1>able to run decisions through that filter helps us to

0:53:08.360 --> 0:53:11.040
<v Speaker 1>maybe approach everything that we do with a slightly different

0:53:11.040 --> 0:53:14.080
<v Speaker 1>spirit than just what's that gonna mean for our bottom line?

0:53:14.120 --> 0:53:16.000
<v Speaker 1>Like how's this, how's this going to affect the income?

0:53:16.239 --> 0:53:18.080
<v Speaker 1>That's not the question that you and I are asking

0:53:18.160 --> 0:53:20.440
<v Speaker 1>our right. Well, we also talk about things on the

0:53:20.440 --> 0:53:23.160
<v Speaker 1>show that we have done personally, things that we've studied

0:53:23.160 --> 0:53:25.719
<v Speaker 1>this stuff extensively and we've put it into practice. And

0:53:25.760 --> 0:53:28.319
<v Speaker 1>so I think there is the reality that we've talked

0:53:28.320 --> 0:53:29.799
<v Speaker 1>about on the show before, Matt, there's a lot of

0:53:30.160 --> 0:53:33.280
<v Speaker 1>TikTok influencers the meanwhile, they just don't have the knowledge

0:53:33.400 --> 0:53:35.719
<v Speaker 1>and they don't have the depth of knowledge from doing

0:53:35.760 --> 0:53:37.920
<v Speaker 1>it for a lot of years. You have started your

0:53:37.920 --> 0:53:40.560
<v Speaker 1>own business. You and I have been personal finance nerds

0:53:40.560 --> 0:53:44.439
<v Speaker 1>on this journey for at least fifteen years, and so

0:53:44.680 --> 0:53:47.520
<v Speaker 1>uh and it was my full time job producing personal

0:53:47.560 --> 0:53:50.040
<v Speaker 1>finance radio show for fifteen years. So it's one of

0:53:50.080 --> 0:53:53.920
<v Speaker 1>those things where yeah, we're not financially independent right now,

0:53:54.040 --> 0:53:56.839
<v Speaker 1>right and income from the podcast is a good thing.

0:53:57.280 --> 0:53:59.520
<v Speaker 1>It does help us put food on the table. But

0:53:59.560 --> 0:54:02.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I say, like, so he was sorry to interrupt,

0:54:02.360 --> 0:54:04.080
<v Speaker 1>like he was asking to like how much of our income?

0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:05.920
<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's asking that right, Like how much of it

0:54:06.000 --> 0:54:09.040
<v Speaker 1>does come from the podcast, and we don't have exact numbers,

0:54:09.040 --> 0:54:11.319
<v Speaker 1>but like the majority of our income does come from

0:54:11.400 --> 0:54:13.480
<v Speaker 1>the podcast. We which have a handful of brunt of properties,

0:54:13.480 --> 0:54:16.919
<v Speaker 1>which definitely which means that we have uh income from

0:54:17.160 --> 0:54:19.880
<v Speaker 1>other areas. And so do we need the income from

0:54:19.920 --> 0:54:22.640
<v Speaker 1>the podcast, Like, yeah, we do need to from the

0:54:22.640 --> 0:54:25.600
<v Speaker 1>podcast right now? Do we need it five years from now? No,

0:54:25.880 --> 0:54:29.120
<v Speaker 1>Like we've we've built up a reservoir as we've invested

0:54:29.640 --> 0:54:32.680
<v Speaker 1>intelligently over the years, and so now like if if

0:54:32.880 --> 0:54:35.319
<v Speaker 1>the revenue of the podcast went to zero, that would

0:54:35.360 --> 0:54:38.640
<v Speaker 1>be that would be difficult, right, It's but but we

0:54:38.680 --> 0:54:41.879
<v Speaker 1>are not, like you said, selling a service teaching people

0:54:41.920 --> 0:54:44.839
<v Speaker 1>about it. We have over the years, I would say,

0:54:45.360 --> 0:54:47.520
<v Speaker 1>amassed our wealth by doing the things we talked about,

0:54:47.719 --> 0:54:51.719
<v Speaker 1>and now putting those out in podcast format is is

0:54:51.719 --> 0:54:54.400
<v Speaker 1>a way to continue making money. But it is also

0:54:54.520 --> 0:54:57.800
<v Speaker 1>something that we're passionate about and that we have extensive

0:54:57.800 --> 0:55:00.600
<v Speaker 1>knowledge about, that we talk about regularly totally well. And and

0:55:00.480 --> 0:55:03.400
<v Speaker 1>and the fact is if we let's let's say for instance,

0:55:03.440 --> 0:55:06.640
<v Speaker 1>that I heard just got cane sold or went bankrupt

0:55:06.719 --> 0:55:10.640
<v Speaker 1>or something like that, Um, we could totally survive without

0:55:10.680 --> 0:55:13.440
<v Speaker 1>income from the podcast. It's something that we are leaning

0:55:13.480 --> 0:55:16.560
<v Speaker 1>into right now because honestly, it's the most fun thing

0:55:16.600 --> 0:55:17.960
<v Speaker 1>that I do every day when it comes to the

0:55:17.960 --> 0:55:20.640
<v Speaker 1>work that I do. Uh, it currently does make the

0:55:20.680 --> 0:55:23.759
<v Speaker 1>most money from a time spent, but it also has

0:55:24.040 --> 0:55:26.680
<v Speaker 1>the most potential as well. It totally has the most

0:55:26.680 --> 0:55:29.640
<v Speaker 1>future potential, but the ability there there's other things that

0:55:29.680 --> 0:55:33.120
<v Speaker 1>we are both interested in, and I think it would

0:55:33.120 --> 0:55:35.040
<v Speaker 1>not be difficult for us to kind of fire up

0:55:35.080 --> 0:55:38.799
<v Speaker 1>these alternative sources of income if we wanted to. If

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:41.360
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, I had eight hours of my

0:55:41.400 --> 0:55:43.680
<v Speaker 1>day back every single day too, then focus Like it

0:55:43.719 --> 0:55:46.440
<v Speaker 1>makes me think about the like you hired property management recently,

0:55:46.640 --> 0:55:49.400
<v Speaker 1>and does that eat into your rental property income totally?

0:55:49.680 --> 0:55:52.160
<v Speaker 1>But you're able to use that time in ways that

0:55:52.200 --> 0:55:54.200
<v Speaker 1>you want to, whether it be with how the money

0:55:54.320 --> 0:55:56.239
<v Speaker 1>or just the other things you're interested in. And so

0:55:56.360 --> 0:55:59.160
<v Speaker 1>there's there's different trade offs that you make throughout life,

0:55:59.360 --> 0:56:01.759
<v Speaker 1>and I think what's important is to for there to

0:56:01.800 --> 0:56:04.600
<v Speaker 1>be multiple options available to you. That doesn't mean that

0:56:04.640 --> 0:56:07.360
<v Speaker 1>at certain times, at different given points in time, that

0:56:07.400 --> 0:56:10.640
<v Speaker 1>you're not leaning into one of those areas a little

0:56:10.760 --> 0:56:13.759
<v Speaker 1>more heavily than you otherwise would Does that make sense?

0:56:13.760 --> 0:56:16.160
<v Speaker 1>You know it does, And I think the reality is

0:56:16.200 --> 0:56:18.279
<v Speaker 1>there are a lot of people out there who have

0:56:18.400 --> 0:56:21.839
<v Speaker 1>dabbled in some of these ideas who are still kind

0:56:21.840 --> 0:56:24.200
<v Speaker 1>of fresh and new, but they do they are good

0:56:24.239 --> 0:56:27.360
<v Speaker 1>at social media or they are good at online content,

0:56:27.760 --> 0:56:31.040
<v Speaker 1>and so they're trying to make their money on the

0:56:31.040 --> 0:56:33.400
<v Speaker 1>backs of teaching people in a way that might be

0:56:33.440 --> 0:56:36.640
<v Speaker 1>costly to them, although beneficial for the creator themselves. And

0:56:36.680 --> 0:56:39.799
<v Speaker 1>so that is our goal is to avoid that. We

0:56:40.080 --> 0:56:42.560
<v Speaker 1>I know podcast ads are annoying, but it's our goal

0:56:42.600 --> 0:56:45.600
<v Speaker 1>to keep how to money content like free and readily available.

0:56:45.640 --> 0:56:48.520
<v Speaker 1>We think that it's uh, it's advice and information that

0:56:48.560 --> 0:56:51.319
<v Speaker 1>the masses need to hear, that that everyone out there

0:56:51.320 --> 0:56:55.000
<v Speaker 1>needs access to. And uh, there's nothing that needs to

0:56:55.000 --> 0:56:57.359
<v Speaker 1>be behind a multi hundred dollar paywall. Uh and and

0:56:57.400 --> 0:56:59.680
<v Speaker 1>hopefully we can keep all the content that we create

0:57:00.040 --> 0:57:02.759
<v Speaker 1>re accessible down to earth. That's the goal absolutely. All right,

0:57:02.800 --> 0:57:05.359
<v Speaker 1>let's hear from Katie. She said, I told a friend

0:57:05.400 --> 0:57:08.360
<v Speaker 1>of mine about your podcast and your craft beer equivalent angle.

0:57:08.560 --> 0:57:11.120
<v Speaker 1>Her response was the problem is I have too many

0:57:11.160 --> 0:57:14.279
<v Speaker 1>craft beer equivalents. So what would your advice be for

0:57:14.320 --> 0:57:16.560
<v Speaker 1>someone like this who has a hard time narrowing down

0:57:16.600 --> 0:57:19.040
<v Speaker 1>a few areas to splurge on. Jilly, you have advice

0:57:19.080 --> 0:57:21.800
<v Speaker 1>for Katie's friend, I would send her our Money Mission Statement.

0:57:21.920 --> 0:57:25.240
<v Speaker 1>It is something. It's speaking of free resources. This is

0:57:25.280 --> 0:57:26.920
<v Speaker 1>notthing Matt and I took our time to create. We

0:57:26.960 --> 0:57:29.560
<v Speaker 1>think that walking through these questions and answering them will

0:57:29.600 --> 0:57:32.320
<v Speaker 1>be helpful to you and will be helpful, specifically to

0:57:32.360 --> 0:57:34.960
<v Speaker 1>your friend Katie as she's trying to hone in on

0:57:35.000 --> 0:57:38.120
<v Speaker 1>a why. We We think that when what it's it's

0:57:38.240 --> 0:57:41.120
<v Speaker 1>the Nietzche quote Matt, that he who has any y

0:57:41.240 --> 0:57:45.000
<v Speaker 1>can bear anyhow. It makes it easier to forego like

0:57:45.200 --> 0:57:48.320
<v Speaker 1>frivolous purchases when you have a deeper y attached to

0:57:48.560 --> 0:57:50.760
<v Speaker 1>where your money is going. So, if you know, I'm

0:57:50.760 --> 0:57:52.520
<v Speaker 1>saving up for this really important goal over here, it's

0:57:52.520 --> 0:57:55.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna take me like sixteen months to get there. Well,

0:57:55.760 --> 0:57:58.400
<v Speaker 1>if you have a problem with frivolous purchases, it's it's

0:57:58.440 --> 0:58:00.840
<v Speaker 1>actually going to help keep those in line when you

0:58:00.880 --> 0:58:03.000
<v Speaker 1>know the bigger, more important thing that you're saving for.

0:58:03.480 --> 0:58:06.320
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, the Money Mission Statement hopefully will be helpful

0:58:06.360 --> 0:58:09.000
<v Speaker 1>to her. It's free download a pdf will link to

0:58:09.040 --> 0:58:12.240
<v Speaker 1>in the show notes. Knowing, Yeah, honing in on your wife,

0:58:12.280 --> 0:58:15.640
<v Speaker 1>spending some time doing a little bit of like interior looking,

0:58:16.280 --> 0:58:18.880
<v Speaker 1>I think can help you figure out what matters to you.

0:58:19.160 --> 0:58:23.080
<v Speaker 1>And then just in that process it almost by necessity,

0:58:23.280 --> 0:58:25.680
<v Speaker 1>devalues a whole lot of other things that you did

0:58:25.840 --> 0:58:29.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of uh prioritized at least to some degree. That's right, man,

0:58:29.080 --> 0:58:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I love it. Can I just say to like, I

0:58:30.920 --> 0:58:33.720
<v Speaker 1>think if you have a ton of crappy equivalents, maybe

0:58:33.760 --> 0:58:36.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't really get what that means, because I think

0:58:36.160 --> 0:58:37.840
<v Speaker 1>you have to zero in on a few things, and

0:58:38.000 --> 0:58:40.520
<v Speaker 1>and you can, you can say that everything matters, but

0:58:40.520 --> 0:58:42.560
<v Speaker 1>then if everything matters, then nothing really mad. And so

0:58:42.640 --> 0:58:44.400
<v Speaker 1>you have to prioritize a few things, like what are

0:58:44.480 --> 0:58:46.439
<v Speaker 1>the things that really really move the needle in your life.

0:58:46.520 --> 0:58:48.360
<v Speaker 1>The more you can focus on those things, zero in

0:58:48.440 --> 0:58:52.360
<v Speaker 1>on on those things, pour your money intentionally into those areas, Uh,

0:58:52.400 --> 0:58:54.360
<v Speaker 1>it's going to move the needle, and then those other

0:58:54.400 --> 0:58:56.280
<v Speaker 1>things are gonna look like, well, they don't really matter

0:58:56.320 --> 0:58:58.240
<v Speaker 1>in light of that. Yeah. Yeah, A lot of times

0:58:58.240 --> 0:58:59.840
<v Speaker 1>it takes a little bit of soul searching to figure

0:58:59.840 --> 0:59:03.919
<v Speaker 1>out what it is you truly value. Becca asked, she said,

0:59:03.920 --> 0:59:06.960
<v Speaker 1>favorite places you've traveled to and places you most want

0:59:07.040 --> 0:59:10.040
<v Speaker 1>to travel to if money or life phase for instance,

0:59:10.120 --> 0:59:13.960
<v Speaker 1>kids were no object. Joel, I'm just saying, probably our

0:59:14.000 --> 0:59:16.280
<v Speaker 1>trip to Norway Emily and I, just the two of us,

0:59:16.360 --> 0:59:19.320
<v Speaker 1>was the best trip we've ever taken. Scotland is probably

0:59:19.360 --> 0:59:22.840
<v Speaker 1>the place we most want to go. You Scotland absolutely,

0:59:22.880 --> 0:59:26.800
<v Speaker 1>because it combines two things I love, fantastic drink with

0:59:26.880 --> 0:59:30.320
<v Speaker 1>a country that is beautiful. And we're actually kind of

0:59:30.320 --> 0:59:32.120
<v Speaker 1>talking with a friend of ours actually who's over in

0:59:32.120 --> 0:59:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Scotland and we're trying to find a way to make

0:59:34.240 --> 0:59:37.240
<v Speaker 1>this trip happen. But yeah, I mean generally speaking, like

0:59:37.280 --> 0:59:39.280
<v Speaker 1>when I think about some of the favorite trips that

0:59:39.280 --> 0:59:41.959
<v Speaker 1>that Kate and I go on, it it oftentimes does

0:59:42.320 --> 0:59:45.760
<v Speaker 1>include natural beauty and just amazing food or drink. Are

0:59:45.800 --> 0:59:49.520
<v Speaker 1>usually a Bucky's for you, not not a Bucky's. But like,

0:59:49.720 --> 0:59:51.760
<v Speaker 1>so you mentioned a road trip that that you went

0:59:51.800 --> 0:59:54.080
<v Speaker 1>on with your friend like years ago. Kid and I

0:59:54.160 --> 0:59:55.680
<v Speaker 1>we've only ever done this once, but we took a

0:59:55.760 --> 0:59:59.440
<v Speaker 1>road trip out west and randomly kind of stopped in

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<v Speaker 1>at some the different wineries in Napa and Sonoma, and

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<v Speaker 1>we could not believe how much we loved it out there,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, obviously you're you've got some amazing wine,

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<v Speaker 1>you're there talking to other folks who also are into it,

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<v Speaker 1>but then they've got these trails that you can go

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<v Speaker 1>hiking on, and so it was just this perfect combination

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<v Speaker 1>of enjoying the land but then enjoying the fruits of

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<v Speaker 1>the land. I don't know that there's just something fully

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<v Speaker 1>encompassing and where it felt like we were just fully

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<v Speaker 1>immersed within this particular region, and I think, yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>a similar way, we would also get that in Scotland,

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<v Speaker 1>and so yeah, that's definitely at the top of our

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<v Speaker 1>list as well. So hopefully how the money tripped there

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<v Speaker 1>soon all right? Shari says, what's one piece of non

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<v Speaker 1>financial advice you want to instill in your kids? She's

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<v Speaker 1>another big one. Do you have an answer for this one?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, just the thing I tell my kids all

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<v Speaker 1>the time, and it's what I want them to know

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<v Speaker 1>is that they can do hard things. I think, especially

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<v Speaker 1>in an era of great wealth in this country where

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot of things at our fingertips where

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<v Speaker 1>we can order something on Amazon and get it that

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<v Speaker 1>day or the next day. Uh, it's easy to become soft,

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<v Speaker 1>and the reality is, like, we need to know that

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<v Speaker 1>we can do hard things. It is a comforting reality.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I want to push my kids in that direction,

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<v Speaker 1>not like make them sleep outside and the freezing cold

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like that to develop some sort of hardness,

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<v Speaker 1>but I want them to know they can do hard

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<v Speaker 1>things and to tackle hard things, because I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>where a lot of the joy in life comes from. Nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. I'm gonna take it back to a

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<v Speaker 1>recurring theme love. Uh. Maybe when we're talking about faith

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<v Speaker 1>earlier on, I feel like that's kind of the underpinning

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<v Speaker 1>of so much of what I at least try to

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<v Speaker 1>do right and what it is that I that we're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to teach our kids. I mean, straight from the Bible.

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<v Speaker 1>Greater love has no one than this, he who lays

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<v Speaker 1>down his life for his friends. That's a loose translation,

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<v Speaker 1>but again, the ability to refer back to that and

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<v Speaker 1>find ways to put others before yourself. I think that

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<v Speaker 1>if I had to like distill it down, boil it

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<v Speaker 1>down to you know, what it is we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>teach our kids, it would be that. Uh. And again

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<v Speaker 1>you can take that and go in whatever direction you want.

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<v Speaker 1>You can take that and then go in the financial

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<v Speaker 1>direction and figure out how that applies to your money.

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<v Speaker 1>But that would be my my response there, Joel. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>get to our last question. This is from Tori and

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<v Speaker 1>she said, if you had to pick an all time

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<v Speaker 1>favorite beer, what would it be? And also Joshua asked

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<v Speaker 1>if there was only one style of beer that you

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<v Speaker 1>could have for the rest of your life, what would

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<v Speaker 1>it be. This is again one of those impossible questions.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you do you have a favorite all time

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<v Speaker 1>beer jewel? You know, not really, but I would say

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<v Speaker 1>i'd associated with the memory. So when Emily and I

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<v Speaker 1>were in Belgium, I just remember going to the canton

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<v Speaker 1>and ranking and drinking from the source, and so that

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<v Speaker 1>that's probably my favorite beer memory is those two days

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<v Speaker 1>with her at canton. But yeah, I don't know, any

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<v Speaker 1>raspberry sour it's probably my favorite. Like that'd be the

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<v Speaker 1>this style that I'm really fond of. What what would

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<v Speaker 1>I want for the rest of my life? I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>probably like the finest hazy I p a s in

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<v Speaker 1>all likelihood, but I love food hours too, So I

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<v Speaker 1>mean each beer has its own time. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean there there, I want different beers at different points

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<v Speaker 1>in the year, and I can't even like the season

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I know. Like so I would say an

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<v Speaker 1>underlying theme of all of my favorite beer is oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>is that they're barrel aged. And so whether that's a

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<v Speaker 1>barrel aged sour, a barrel age stouts, but anytime a

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<v Speaker 1>brewery is able to pull that off, man aging beers

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<v Speaker 1>on would add such an additional level of complexity of

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<v Speaker 1>flavor that just takes it up to the next level.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you drink a barrel aged bud light. I'd give

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<v Speaker 1>it a shot. I totally would, because honestly, that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sounds like innocent gun out of the UK whatever

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere out of Europe. I'm sure innocent gun is better

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<v Speaker 1>than that. But those are I don't know, those are

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<v Speaker 1>some bales or loggers or something like that that are

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<v Speaker 1>barrel aged. But I love that taste of oak or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever woods that they that they choose. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a particular favorite beer or even a favorite style,

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<v Speaker 1>but barrel age sours, barrel aged stouts, and those delicious

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<v Speaker 1>hazy I p a s That'll be my non answer,

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<v Speaker 1>uh to Tori in the job. But I think the

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<v Speaker 1>best like memories associated with great things to me are

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<v Speaker 1>what you know. It enhances the ability of the taste

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<v Speaker 1>is one thing, but like, how much more meaningful is

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<v Speaker 1>the glass of wine you had when you were in

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<v Speaker 1>Sonoma versus the bottle maybe you drink when he's the

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<v Speaker 1>one you bought at the grocery store, maybe even from

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<v Speaker 1>the same vineyard. Right. Uh, there's something about being there, participating, partaking, um,

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<v Speaker 1>which is why going back to Becca's question about where

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<v Speaker 1>to travel, it's got to include somewhere with either good

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<v Speaker 1>food or good drink and good nature. It's still important

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. All Right, Well, um, that's enough. Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>was a lot to wrap it up. Yeah, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>guys so much for submitting those questions. Some easy ones,

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<v Speaker 1>some hard ones, but a lot of fun to get

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<v Speaker 1>to go over those. And maybe we'll do another one

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<v Speaker 1>in the future if if you have more hard hitting

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<v Speaker 1>a m A. Questions for the hat of money, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll build another year. Yeah all right, but let's get

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<v Speaker 1>back to the beer we had on this episode, Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>This one was called Double Top Double I p A.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a collab between our local Body bottle shop

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<v Speaker 1>Sprayberry Bottle Shop and Academia Brewing Company. What are your thoughts? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was really solid. Man. It has been

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<v Speaker 1>a minute since we've had a hazy I p a

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<v Speaker 1>let alone a double here on the show, and because

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<v Speaker 1>of my the slight cold that I have, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>totally sure if I was able to pick up all

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<v Speaker 1>the nuances of flavor of the different types of pops

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<v Speaker 1>that they used to say that. There wasn't a ton

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<v Speaker 1>of nuance, So I don't think it's your cold, and

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. It wasn't me. It was good. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>little sweet, a little sweet for my take, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was still. It was still I would say it slid. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>solid beer. I'm glad you and I were able to

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy this one today on the podcast, man, but that

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be it for this episode. We actually

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<v Speaker 1>did refer to a couple of resources like the Money

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<v Speaker 1>Mission statements. That will be sure to link to that

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<v Speaker 1>and others up on our show notes on the website

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<v Speaker 1>at how the Money dot com for sure. But until

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<v Speaker 1>next time, Matt, best Friends Out and Best Friends Out