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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: million bucks things in it. To me, good to other? Please,

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Speaker 1: I don't join join me? You turn you going? You

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Speaker 1: gotta turn to turn them out. Turn you haven't got

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Speaker 1: Come come on your bad uh huh, I sure will

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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now. One and all is Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: Man got a radio show. Steve Harvey got a radio

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Speaker 1: show because God in the blessing business. Yeah, that's all.

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Speaker 1: I'm just a recipient. Steve Harvey got a radio show

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Speaker 1: because God is in the show you favor business. He

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Speaker 1: showed me some favor. Steve Harvey got a radio show

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Speaker 1: because God is in the forgiving business. God and forgave

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Speaker 1: me thousands and thousands of times, you know. And I

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Speaker 1: probably true. God is a forgiving God. That's how I

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Speaker 1: exist today, and that's how you exist today. And one

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Speaker 1: of the things I want to remind you about even

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Speaker 1: in existing today, you know, Joel Oldstein had a has

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Speaker 1: a book out called It's Your Time. I love this book.

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Speaker 1: It's called It's Your Time, And that's kind of what

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Speaker 1: I want to touch you on today. And I want

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Speaker 1: to remind you all that it's still your time. See,

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Speaker 1: you know, there's look. You know, they've got unsuccessful people

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Speaker 1: have created a lot of sayings to justify our failures

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Speaker 1: as people. Well, my ship has passed. That that was

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Speaker 1: created by a person who did not quite make their

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Speaker 1: So to justify it, here comes this great, seemingly very

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Speaker 1: clever saying, and a lot of us adapt, Well, my

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Speaker 1: ship has passed, so we adopt that. Here's another one. Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess it just wasn't meant to be. That sounds good,

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Speaker 1: don't it, Because they mix it up with a little

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Speaker 1: bit of faith base in it. I guessed it wasn't. Well,

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Speaker 1: here's another one. I guess if God wanted it for me,

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Speaker 1: i'd have it. Are you serious? Man? Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: You're actually gonna use that one to to to justify

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Speaker 1: where you are in life? Man? That's that's so, that's

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Speaker 1: so not the case. I want to remind everybody today

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Speaker 1: that it's still your time that you know your ship

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Speaker 1: hasn't sailed, you didn't miss all of your opportunities. There's others.

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Speaker 1: It's still your time. You know you still got a chance.

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Speaker 1: You still have a shot. Here's a good one. You

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Speaker 1: still have hope, you do all of you. As long

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Speaker 1: as God is who he is, there's always hope for you.

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Speaker 1: You can never lose sight of that. You can never

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Speaker 1: let the devil win that battle that there is no

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Speaker 1: hope for you and cause you to do something that's unthinkable.

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Speaker 1: I'm just gonna cash in the chips. I'm gonna take

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Speaker 1: my life. I'm gonna commit suicide. No no, no, wait

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Speaker 1: a second, Wait a second, Are you for real? That's

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Speaker 1: not God talking to you. That's something wrong and it's

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Speaker 1: not coming from him. It's still your time. You still

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Speaker 1: got a chance. There's always hope. But listen to me.

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Speaker 1: You got to move and you got to move on it.

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Speaker 1: So many people are not getting the full benefit of

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Speaker 1: the blessings that God has for because you keep waiting

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Speaker 1: on the perfect time. Man, how many times have I

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Speaker 1: waiting on the perfect time to get can't tell you something.

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Speaker 1: If I were waiting on the perfect time, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: be hardly any of the things that I've become. And

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Speaker 1: one of my greatest blessings was marrying Marjorie. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: perfect time, because I had gone through what I thought

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Speaker 1: when I was first divorced, I just said, man, it's

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Speaker 1: gonna be five six years before I do this again.

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Speaker 1: I said it. Two years later I was married. But

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Speaker 1: guess what, man, it wasn't the perfect time. I didn't

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Speaker 1: It was still some things I needed to clean up.

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Speaker 1: And guess what it wasn't. So if you're out there

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Speaker 1: here comes one on one. The road to success is

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Speaker 1: always under construction. You ain't gonna go out there and

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Speaker 1: see it. So guess what. Stop waiting on the stars.

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Speaker 1: I got man, this is a perfect time to do

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Speaker 1: it now. If you're waiting on the perfect time, that

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Speaker 1: could be one of your biggest problems. You're still waiting.

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Speaker 1: You have got to move and you've got to move

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Speaker 1: you to get through. But you can't quit though. See

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Speaker 1: road you're own is under construction. You can't get off

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Speaker 1: like I said, get you some God, and go on

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Speaker 1: and go see what your life can be like. So

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Speaker 1: stars to align themselves. You got to move and you

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Speaker 1: got to move on it. Get you some God, apply

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Speaker 1: out there, coming towards your goal, the road to construct,

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Speaker 1: the road to success is always under construction. If it

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Speaker 1: was easy, everybody would be it. Stop expecting it to

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Speaker 1: It's funky out here. Yeah I got all that. It's

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Speaker 1: hard out here, yeah I got all that. But what

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Speaker 1: There's always hope, there's always God. That's my conversation today.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Ladies and gentlemen, you know what

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Speaker 1: it is. It's a new day, and we started the

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Speaker 1: same way every day, man, and today as a special day,

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Speaker 1: because today it's the day that the Lord has made.

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Speaker 1: Let us rejoice and be glad in it. This is

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Speaker 1: the one we got, yesterday, gone tomorrow, and promise, this

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Speaker 1: is the one we're dealing with. So since this is it,

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Speaker 1: after man. Let's be glad about it. Get your tuted up,

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Speaker 1: get your tued up. I start this day like I

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Speaker 1: do every day, with gratitude, which then affects my attitude,

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Speaker 1: which has a direct correlation to my altitude. Without one,

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Speaker 1: If you ain't flying high, as you won't altitude wise,

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Speaker 1: I bet your attitude is the reason why you're not there,

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Speaker 1: And the reason why your attitude ain't there, it's probably

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Speaker 1: it's probably because you ain't grateful for the stuff you have,

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Speaker 1: so you can't even see what God done for you.

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Speaker 1: So now you you steady on the ass till when

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Speaker 1: grateful for. So why would he give you more? If

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Speaker 1: God is a just god, Now why would he give

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Speaker 1: Now you better get to being grateful, Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, Morners Show, Shirley Strawberry, The Mouth of the South, Mississippi,

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Speaker 1: Tommy Junior. I would tell you this luck. Let me

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Speaker 1: You know it's a mentor care weekend. You said, Man,

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Speaker 1: Therefore you don't need to see. You had the means.

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Speaker 1: keep doing it? Well, Faith without works is dead. You

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Speaker 1: What you keep asking God for? Dear God, give me

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you something, Man, God sir, that God, I sir,

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Speaker 1: when I find out what Christ type Christian I really

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Speaker 1: am it? Say something me about it. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: don't go. Steve coming up at thirty two minutes after

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Speaker 1: cat Dog, Your wife is in a limo. Hello. Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm sure I'm trying to read Rob Robert. This this Robert.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Boss? Hey? Hey? How you doing? Hey? Hey, listen, man,

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Speaker 1: my name Field Dog. I know you threw some other

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Speaker 1: people your brothers right, Yeah, that's my brother. Yeah, what's happening? Listen? Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you cause little something going on. Hold. First

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Speaker 1: need this ain't no, he ain't no trouble is it? No? No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: no no straight man. Listen, No, you're married to right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: trying to explain why he ain't done it. That's why,

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Speaker 1: because dudes ain't No, I'm a middle aged man, and

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Speaker 1: how do you fitted? How do I get? How do

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Speaker 1: It ain't Listen to me. He's in love with I know.

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Speaker 1: I know man with a lot of money, and that's

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Speaker 1: Well you said it best. That's just not you, and

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Speaker 1: but money? Is not all that matters. Well, you're gonna

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Speaker 1: to every other thing. Everything I'm talking about. You're gonna

420
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: have to get good at every other damn thing and

421
00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: overshadow the fact man in the words, in the words

422
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 1: of the Great Fight Trainer, you could do it wrong.

423
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 1: You're listening. Finding out a secret about someone's spouse is

424
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: always a tricky situation, and one woman is now wondering

425
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: whether or not she should tell her best friend the

426
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: scandalous thing she just discovered about her husband. Now, Steve,

427
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: this woman is from New York City. She sent us

428
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: this story from the internet, and she is asking for

429
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 1: a friend. Ha ha ha quote quote, you know those

430
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 1: air quotes. She's asking for a friend who might be

431
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 1: in a similar situation. A woman was recently at a

432
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: prenatal doctor's appointment when she saw her best friend's husband

433
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: there with a very pregnant woman. She notes by their

434
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: actions they were definitely a couple. Okay. She adds, I

435
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 1: was shocked when I saw him, and I regret not

436
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 1: speaking to him now and wonders whether she should tell

437
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 1: her best friend and what she saw now And I

438
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: know I already know what you're gonna say. But what

439
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 1: do you think this woman should do? Or have you

440
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 1: ever caught a friend's spouse in a compromising situation? Yeah? Yeah,

441
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: but see, here's see, here's what probably happened. This is

442
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:19,320
Speaker 1: probably what happen. Just yeah, this is all this is.

443
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,640
Speaker 1: He took his cousin to the doctor cause she needed

444
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: a ride his cousin. Yeah yeah, yeah. Did you hear

445
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: the part when I said they by their actions, they

446
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: were definitely a couple. You can hold your cousin's hand

447
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 1: and pat it and be supportive, you know, listen, cousin,

448
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: Well you got it? You know he kicking? Oh, let

449
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: me here and put your head on the stomach. That's

450
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: probably all that was, right. Oh he can just go

451
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: and just kill himself right now. Options he got you

452
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: got easy, got to sell his cousin story, or you

453
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 1: got to go on to start killing yourself. Scrape up

454
00:30:06,480 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: some money and give it to this best friends, or

455
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: she can be quiet. Hush money, the hush money. Okay,

456
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: get her my fifty thousand in her hand real quick. Okay,

457
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: that's thud. I'm I'm talking. I don't ever say nothing

458
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: ever ever. Yeah, so you for the rest of her life,

459
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: Church mouse man. So should she tell her friend though,

460
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 1: ain't it no your friend? For what? Because the woman

461
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: was pregnant? Up you saw her husband at the doctor's

462
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: office with another woman. Yeah, for y'all, ladies, you know

463
00:30:55,120 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: I'm not my business. You're gonna tell the carp face

464
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: I'm after doctor's office. Girl, God, it's not my business.

465
00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:07,719
Speaker 1: As soon as I see you on your phone, I'm

466
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: snatching your damn phone running out because you already know

467
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: you don't being called nobody ready, not right now? You Now,

468
00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 1: if I see caller at a doctor's office, put my

469
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: fold out. I just pull a gun out and robbed

470
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 1: the place. That's what I now. Now you're carrying, that's

471
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 1: what I was doing in there. You're a criminal that

472
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: everybody on the floor. Yeah, that's what I do. What

473
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 1: I before, I before I let you carriage back to

474
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: the house. I just robbed the place. That's your business.

475
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: Surely you wouldn't say anything. This is just her. I

476
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: couldn't do it. I haven't seen it go bad every time.

477
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: Car couldn't do it. Yeah, I just couldn't do it.

478
00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: It's not your business. You don't know, friend, you don't know, yeah,

479
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: that's yeah. I don't. I don't see what telling this

480
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 1: is gonna accomplish. Because here's a deal. Here's the truth

481
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:14,360
Speaker 1: of the matter, in all seriousness. You can't hide a baby,

482
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:21,040
Speaker 1: you can't this this, you can't hide the other family. Na. Man,

483
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: this here, this here comes to light. Yeah, and it's

484
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: not necessarily I feel your job to bring it to light.

485
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 1: In due time, everything will come out. But now let's

486
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: just suppose let's take this scenario. You go to her

487
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: and you're telling turns out it's nothing. And now you

488
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: bought this to me to try to mess me up.

489
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 1: Tell me exactly you mess backfire on you. If it's

490
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 1: my best friend, that relationship that I have with my

491
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:56,520
Speaker 1: best friend, that's like a sister to me. I don't think.

492
00:32:56,640 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: I don't think our relationship, you know, I say that

493
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: your your your responsibility as her best friend is support

494
00:33:05,560 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: her when she finds out, because she's going to find out.

495
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be there for her when she finds out,

496
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: that shoulder to cry on. Okay, and let me ask

497
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: you another question. Here's a question for everybody. Tommy. I'm

498
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: gonna start with you. Have you ever had a best

499
00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:27,600
Speaker 1: friend that ain't your best friend? No more? Yep, Corlin,

500
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: have you ever had a best friend that ain't your

501
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 1: best friend? No more? No, have you ever had a

502
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: best friend that ain't your best friend? Yes, yes, I

503
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: have had a best friend that ain't my best friend.

504
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:51,840
Speaker 1: No more. You you've had a You've had a wonderful life. Calngratulations, wonderful. Oh,

505
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: because I still have my best friend. Well, I mean,

506
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just talking about in your life. Have

507
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: you ever had a best friend. I'm talking about throughout

508
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,400
Speaker 1: the duration. I'm i talking about your girl toy, because

509
00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 1: you and your girl toys your best friend. Yeah, but yeah,

510
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: before that in college, you ain't have a best friend

511
00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:10,600
Speaker 1: growing up? Because in college I had a best friend.

512
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 1: She was she's been my best friend since we were

513
00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: thirteen years old. But our moms were best friends, right,

514
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:23,640
Speaker 1: so we kind of hold on, hold on, hold on,

515
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: let me ask you that question. Have you ever had

516
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: another really good friend other than her? And y'all ain't friends?

517
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,719
Speaker 1: No more? Absolutely, here we go. That's what I'm talking about,

518
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 1: right there? Yeah, yeah, yeah, Because I see you may

519
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 1: not have lost your very best friend, but all of

520
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,839
Speaker 1: us that have lived in this world long enough has

521
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:51,959
Speaker 1: lost what we thought was a ride at that absolutely oh, absolutely, yeah,

522
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: yeah you're listening. Hey, what's up, Steve Harvey Nation. We've

523
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 1: made it to Friday. It is the middle of August.

524
00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:06,879
Speaker 1: Who is hot though summer is winding down, but we're

525
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: gonna hold it on, hold on to it as long

526
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 1: as we can by enjoying a chilled, fruity and colorful

527
00:35:12,280 --> 00:35:16,959
Speaker 1: Seagrums Escapes cocktail this weekend. You know we are, Yes, ma'am.

528
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: Check this out. You can pick up the Seams Escapes

529
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 1: Variety pack and unwind with us. All the flavors sound

530
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:28,880
Speaker 1: as delicious as they taste. There's to make me happy, strawbery,

531
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:35,479
Speaker 1: dacquerie classical and margarita my favorite, Calypso colada, passion fruit,

532
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 1: mango and wild berries. Sterly girl. I know, and I

533
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,760
Speaker 1: like to mix my you know, like put fresh fruits

534
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: in there. You know how we do, Carla, We freeze them. Yes? Please?

535
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 1: Can I ask? Yeah, what you got? Junior? Can I

536
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: put vodkats kili nies? Can I? Yes? Live your life? Yes?

537
00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 1: Whatever makes you feel good? Do you boo? Uh? These

538
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: drinks are perfect for a relaxing evening at home or

539
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 1: a lively house party with your friends. You can even

540
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: add your favorite spirit. Here's your question, answered junior to

541
00:36:12,960 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: to create a signature cocktail, like you can have the

542
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: you know, the Junior the Junior Sippancy or whatever, the

543
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 1: Junior blues, whatever you whatever you want to make it,

544
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 1: you can have all of that. Okay, So yeah, you

545
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:32,239
Speaker 1: can do that. Get your Sequins escapes variety pack. Have

546
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: a great weekend, stay cool, and you can do that

547
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 1: with sequence escapes. I mean, I'm gonna be sipping on

548
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 1: that strawberry dachie and jamaking me happy. Yes, all weekend.

549
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 1: See myself right now, said when she Cars said, what

550
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 1: you doing, I'm sitting on the junior blues. Yeah, here's

551
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 1: the Calypso Colado for that. I love that. When you

552
00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: but the way you say it, Carl, it almost almost

553
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 1: sounds like you're saying Calypso Carla. I like it. I

554
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: like its Colada. You didn't know, Nie, I like it.

555
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: I like it a lot. And we can't, you know,

556
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 1: we can't leave out the passion fruit mango that is

557
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:18,359
Speaker 1: so delicious and refreshing, the wild berries, all of them

558
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: are good, you know. I like the variety. I love

559
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 1: the variety, get your sequence escaped variety pack and have

560
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: a beautiful weekend because guess what, sure will right, yeah, absolutely,

561
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: sure will. And you gotta give a shout out. It's

562
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,279
Speaker 1: back to school time. We gotta give a shout out

563
00:37:37,320 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 1: to the parents, to the educators, we love you, but

564
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: the parents, we are very happy right now. So we

565
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 1: will be sipping happiness this weekend. It's bad, yes, absolutely,

566
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: and the grandparents such as myself, Yes, yes, that's what

567
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 1: are we doing these kids? He's gone back. I'm so glad. Yes,

568
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 1: as my junior blues. Yes, we're gonna be turning up. Okay,

569
00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 1: Sigrum's Escapes, Sip happiness. More of the Steve Harvey Morning

570
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 1: Show coming up right after this, you're listening to show.

571
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 1: We're gonna pose the question if you guys could choose

572
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: which exotic animal, uh you could communicate with, what would

573
00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 1: it be? And let's start with you, Steve. Well, I'm

574
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 1: gonna let timmy junior take a crack. Let's see where

575
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 1: they coming to go with you. Okays, my stand up buddy,

576
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: go head Junior. You're trying to be a friend. Thank you.

577
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: You know my low light. They asked, would like to communicate,

578
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:58,280
Speaker 1: went earth. Yeah, I would want to communicate with a hyena,

579
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:04,439
Speaker 1: because I'm what out here in this juggle? I really

580
00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:06,960
Speaker 1: want to know why we out here laughing and lions

581
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:11,279
Speaker 1: is killing everything. I just looked at you when you

582
00:39:11,360 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 1: said that, because I hardly ever think about those I

583
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:19,680
Speaker 1: been watching fights just to be able to what we

584
00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 1: laughing at. Good, very good. Yeah, come on tell me.

585
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: I think I would want to talk to and octopus.

586
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: I thought she was gonna say, an ass, he's getting

587
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: Hoodie's waist halting mean, explain man, do it? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

588
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: And all of them have little suction cups on them.

589
00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: It's the conversation. You know, how you moving around the ocean,

590
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: how you handling things? You know what you sucked up today?

591
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 1: You know? Okay, yeah, stuff like that. He said, I know,

592
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:18,719
Speaker 1: all right, come on, Steve, that damn gorilla. I was

593
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 1: talk to a gorilla. So the next time I go

594
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: into a meeting, you know how they always say he

595
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 1: was in the meeting with eight hundred pound gorilla. Get what, Yeah,

596
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 1: come on there and cheat them and a real gorilla

597
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 1: walk in the meeting and he sit there and just

598
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: be looking at people. And anytime somebody say something I

599
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 1: don't like. I wink and he knocked the ass through

600
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 1: the walk. That's your boy, dog, I'm talking about man.

601
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 1: I have people mind be signed so many contracts. But

602
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 1: that would be a different Doctor Dolittle movie with Steve Yes.

603
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, that's funny. Yeah, that's funny. I

604
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:10,280
Speaker 1: could see you know, damn animals shut up? Man, No dogs?

605
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: Who told you to talk? Yeah? See you could do that.

606
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 1: Eddie Murphy did it right, didn't he do it? I

607
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 1: don't know how to do stuff because himmy will Smith

608
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 1: his experts. That talking to stuff that ain't ain't there,

609
00:41:24,200 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, yeah, it ain't had real animals in there.

610
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: There wasn't animation. I can't be in the room talking

611
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 1: to no real animal. That's it's gotta chain on it.

612
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: You don't care what it is. Oh no, I don't see.

613
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 1: We ain't too much happening with real animals. Huh. Now

614
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 1: all of them got to be chained up. Then, Ellen

615
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:49,839
Speaker 1: gonna right here, she gonna be made saves gorillas. Yeah, yeah,

616
00:41:50,320 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 1: it's been some animals with its, some went bad. Befoto

617
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: you right about that? Remember that painned the bad that

618
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: was sitting up and turning to that lady next remember

619
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: that what I'm sorry twisted? I was telling people. You

620
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: know somebody? It was, man, how do you stay so young?

621
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 1: I laugh every day? And I laugh. Yes, if you

622
00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: want to stay young, you have to laugh hard every

623
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: day in order to laugh hard every day, because you're

624
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 1: not gonna hear a joke or something funny every day.

625
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to learn how to laugh at stuff

626
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: you ain't supposed to laugh at. Now, ain't got a panda,

627
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: damn it. I'm yeah, I was. You don't remember that call?

628
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: I look at oh man, you're listening to show coming

629
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,319
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour above four minutes after.

630
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:56,320
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today. Subject My man treats

631
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: me like an afterthought. We'll get into that, but right now, nephew,

632
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 1: tell me, is here with today's prying phone call. What

633
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: you got for his niff? A small favor? That's what

634
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: I want. I'd like to ask for a small favor.

635
00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: Now this sounds perfectly harmless. Don't just sure to tell

636
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: him to run it? Small favor? Run run it. Hello,

637
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Vicky. Vicky, Hey, Vicky, how are

638
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: you doing? Are you the m Are you the niece

639
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: of of uh? Uh? I think it's ain't ain't your aunt? Yes? Okay,

640
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: and you're you're now you aren't passed away? I mean

641
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: I mean years ago, y'all passed. It was about five

642
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, listen, I'm over here at the funeral home.

643
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 1: Uh my, my my sister just passed away, and uh

644
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: they gave me your phone number, did you guys? We're

645
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 1: going through a little bit of a situation here. Did

646
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,400
Speaker 1: you guys aren't have to you know your was a

647
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: heavy set woman, Is that right? Yes? Okay, now they

648
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 1: had to Did they have to put her in a

649
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:08,840
Speaker 1: in a Did they have a bill of a special

650
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: casket for her? Yeah? Okay, that's what we're kind of

651
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 1: going through with my sister. We ordered a special casket

652
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:21,200
Speaker 1: for for for my sister, and I'm assuming this is

653
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: the same thing that you guys went through. I've called

654
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: several of her, her children, but I wasn't able to

655
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: get in touch with anybody. But the funeral home actually

656
00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 1: had your name on file as well, so they gave

657
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 1: me your number where I would be able to talk

658
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:36,720
Speaker 1: to you. Is that is that? Okay? Yeah, that's Okay,

659
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,240
Speaker 1: you can speak to me, but you know, let's seems

660
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 1: to be a problem. Well listen, uh, we the funeral

661
00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 1: is actually in two days, okay, and we ordered one

662
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,839
Speaker 1: of those special caskets, but it doesn't look like it's

663
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: gonna be in for another week. So you know, it's

664
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: almost like we're gonna we're gonna we're not gonna have

665
00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: a casket for her, um, you know, for the funeral.

666
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 1: And you know, like I said, the funeral home told

667
00:45:01,880 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: us about you know that you guys were the last

668
00:45:03,760 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: ones that order a casket of that size, and you know,

669
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 1: me and the rest of the family has been you know,

670
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: we've been trying to figure out what to do and

671
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: what to do. Do you think it's any way possible

672
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: we can borrow the casket that your Ain't is in,

673
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 1: and then when the casket comes in and we ordered,

674
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: we can put her in that casket and put her

675
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 1: back down to rest like she's always been. Do you

676
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: think that? Excuse me? Hello, hello ese thin cold you

677
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:38,840
Speaker 1: repeat yourself? What exactly are you asking me? Well, what

678
00:45:38,960 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying is, do you think we can borrow your

679
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 1: ain't casket? Because you know the funeral is in two

680
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,360
Speaker 1: days and the casket is not going to be in

681
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: in order for us to be able to bury her

682
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: in a in a casket for you know, to accommodate

683
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:55,960
Speaker 1: her size. That's what I'm asking. What kind of that

684
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:59,680
Speaker 1: you're talking about? First of all, who is this? Okay? No,

685
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: as Larry, Like I said, my name is Larry. I

686
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: got you, I got you guys. Like I said, I

687
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:06,960
Speaker 1: tried to call some of her kids, but nobody ever

688
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 1: picked up when I called her niece's number on file too.

689
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: You you are her niece, Vicky, right, Yes, I am. Okay,

690
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Do you think that maybe you

691
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 1: can talk to the children and see if we can

692
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 1: maybe use that particular casket? Okay, wait a minute, what

693
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 1: the talking about this? The First of all, who who

694
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 1: is this? You? You gotta be losing your mind if

695
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 1: you think I'm gonna let you dig up my amy

696
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: for just to bury yourself stuff. But I understand where

697
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: you're coming from. But what I'm trying to say is

698
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,759
Speaker 1: that we don't have a casket big enough. And they

699
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 1: were they they let us know that you guys were

700
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: the last ones that had a casket that you know,

701
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 1: you gotta do with us. Dash. You don't trying stuffing out,

702
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 1: have you? No? No? Well, okay, First of all, what

703
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do is this. The family been grieving

704
00:46:57,280 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: pretty hard and I just wanted to make sure that

705
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: the funeral was be right. And it ain't gonna be right.

706
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: We don't have that bring my family gonna feel digging.

707
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: Any of you lost your They don't call me with this.

708
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:13,280
Speaker 1: Who is the funeral home that gave you my number

709
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: to ask me to use the casket so you can

710
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,320
Speaker 1: bury your sister? Who is the name of that person?

711
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 1: I can't remember, but it was it was a guy.

712
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 1: The funeral director let me know that you guys had

713
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 1: went through a situation where you had to bury your

714
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:28,279
Speaker 1: your your your aunt. Like I said, I try to

715
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 1: call what's your name again? My name is Larry. Okay, Larry,

716
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,640
Speaker 1: this is this is I don't know what give you

717
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 1: my phone number to call me asking you this? Dun

718
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: Can you believe they call here asking me so can

719
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: dig so they can bury the foster. Here's don't have

720
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: a casset. Hello, No, No, what's your fault? No? I

721
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 1: understand it's not your fault. What I'm trying to say,

722
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 1: is what y'all show some sympathy and some love for

723
00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: what me and my family going through because we don't

724
00:47:59,800 --> 00:48:02,360
Speaker 1: have a casking Like I say, my sister, My sister

725
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,000
Speaker 1: wasn't was you know, was it? If the heavens was

726
00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 1: a heast good? You know, my condulesce go out to

727
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: you and your family. You know I'm trying to be

728
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: as reserved as I can with this whole situation. But

729
00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: do you understand what kind of stupid you're asking me

730
00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 1: right now to actually dig up my art? Whose army,

731
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 1: who's been and what for fare years? Because there your sister.

732
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:29,360
Speaker 1: Let me let me ask you this row if this

733
00:48:30,200 --> 00:48:32,879
Speaker 1: when you you ain't ain't gonna know, she ain't gonna

734
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: know where you for you to say to me? What

735
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:43,320
Speaker 1: you stupid? You're smoking on you smoking crack? What don't know?

736
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,360
Speaker 1: I don't know more. First of all, you know what

737
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: I First of all, I appreciate you trying to work

738
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 1: with me, but I want to say it is you.

739
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:53,200
Speaker 1: You don't even have the authority to make that decision

740
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,279
Speaker 1: if you give me one of the numbers to one

741
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 1: of your cousins. Because I was really trying to be

742
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: nice and became but guess what. We're not doing this stupid.

743
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be nice to you and tell and

744
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: trying to help you out, but no, you want me

745
00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: to get ignorant and ask stupid with you. I was

746
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 1: trying to be nice and sympathetic, but we're not doing it.

747
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,760
Speaker 1: I'm not giving you the number. I got the authority

748
00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:18,399
Speaker 1: to tell you right now. No, we're not digging up

749
00:49:18,520 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: so you can bury your sister fear. Okay, so so

750
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: so so, so, that's just it. I can't talk to

751
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 1: now that. No, you ain't talking to know, but you're

752
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,080
Speaker 1: talking to me. Okay, I got, I got, I got

753
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:30,759
Speaker 1: something else I need to tell you though, I need,

754
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,439
Speaker 1: I need to tell you something else. Are you listen

755
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 1: but tell me? I want to tell you this. This

756
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mornings. Your Vicky.

757
00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:44,479
Speaker 1: Your sister Sheila got me the prank phone called hub.

758
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:51,320
Speaker 1: Who is this again, Biggy Vicky. This is nephew Tommy

759
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister Sheila got

760
00:49:55,320 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: me to prank phone call you. Oh h y'all you

761
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: got me over, y'all worked up. I'm I'm gonna played

762
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 1: too much. She ain't got. I got one more thing

763
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: to ask you, baby, what is the baddest and I

764
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: mean the baddest radio show in the land, Steve Harvey

765
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 1: Morning Show for y'all crazy, it's just a it's just

766
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: a small umbody. The casket, Hey dog, the casket is perfect.

767
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: But for for my sister, that just pas. You know

768
00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I should just use it once? Why

769
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 1: all that money for one time? There you go, Jay,

770
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: Tommy Baby, Team Tommy. Know what I'm saying. Why should

771
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:54,280
Speaker 1: a cast could only be used once? Why the person

772
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:59,279
Speaker 1: is already in the cast, but they gone? How about

773
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 1: we just do that a show? You sell it again? Yeah?

774
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 1: And if you if you borrow it, are you going

775
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 1: to give it back? Ye have any idea? But that

776
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 1: thing gonna smell a lot with some sense. Plea, damn

777
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:18,280
Speaker 1: each other. We'll get your ashes out of there. Stupid

778
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:21,400
Speaker 1: keeps rolling, stupidest rolling this weekend and stupidest rolling right

779
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,640
Speaker 1: into West Palm Beach Plotter at the Improv. That's the

780
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:26,400
Speaker 1: twenty second, twenty third, and twenty four Friday, Saturday and

781
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: Sunday night. Get your tickets they don't sell right now.

782
00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: And laying in the cut Arlington Improv February twenty eight,

783
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: that is Thursday night, and then February and then March

784
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:38,080
Speaker 1: first and second. The nephew will be in Arlington Improv,

785
00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: Dallas texting. Get your tickets they own seal Read now

786
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 1: all right, thank you nephew, Jesus all right, Coming up

787
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letter. Subject my man treats me like an afterthought.

788
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Steve

789
00:51:53,719 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

790
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:02,320
Speaker 1: if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting

791
00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

792
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

793
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,279
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're going

794
00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now. Buggle up,

795
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 1: hold on tight, We got it for you here it

796
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:22,080
Speaker 1: is draw up every letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject my

797
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 1: man treats me like an afterthought. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've

798
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:29,040
Speaker 1: been in a relationship for almost two years, and when

799
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 1: I think about the things this man has shown me

800
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:37,920
Speaker 1: sexually and mentally, I am floored. He literally takes my

801
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:42,239
Speaker 1: breath away. But there are a few problems with our relationship.

802
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: We've never spent a night together, and I've never met

803
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: his family except for his twin daughters and their mother.

804
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 1: What except for his twin daughters and their mother. It

805
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: was a quick high and by when we ran into

806
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: them at Target. We were not together on our one

807
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: year anniversary because of his job. You got it now.

808
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 1: I didn't see him on Valentine's Day because he had

809
00:53:10,239 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: his daughters that night. I saw him the next day

810
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 1: and he gave me flowers. His birthday is three days

811
00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 1: before Christmas, but I didn't see him until Christmas Eve

812
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 1: because his grandparents were in town. There was nothing on

813
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:26,319
Speaker 1: Christmas Day and he went to church for New Year's

814
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,839
Speaker 1: Eve without me. Then he came over for a few

815
00:53:29,920 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: hours on New Year's Day to make up for it.

816
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: I don't discuss how I feel about things for fear

817
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:38,799
Speaker 1: of running him off, because he told me his ex

818
00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: girlfriend nagged him a lot. He is always busy if

819
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:44,799
Speaker 1: I asked to see him. If I asked to see him,

820
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 1: but when he calls me, I will drop everything to

821
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: be with him. I don't know why he's acting this way,

822
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,279
Speaker 1: and I pray it's not what my subconsciousness telling me

823
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: it is in his defense. He does work extreme hours.

824
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,640
Speaker 1: He has his kids every other weekend, and he likes

825
00:54:00,680 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: to chill with his boys to unwind. I offered to

826
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 1: cook dinner at his house so we could have a

827
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 1: heart to heart, and he said he still needs to

828
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,239
Speaker 1: buy furniture and fix his place up before I can

829
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: come over. I need him to make me a priority

830
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: in his life. How can I get this through to him?

831
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:21,040
Speaker 1: Has our relationship run its course? He'll never make you

832
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: a priority. He'll never do that because guess what, he

833
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,879
Speaker 1: already has a priority in his life. Okay, he has

834
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,640
Speaker 1: a priority. You should have titled and titled this letter

835
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: for two years I've been in a relationship with a

836
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,839
Speaker 1: married man, because that's what it is. I mean, think

837
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:41,920
Speaker 1: about it. You never ever get holidays. You don't get Christmas.

838
00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: You don't even get his birthday, which is three days

839
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,080
Speaker 1: before Christmas. You don't get New Year's Eve, you don't

840
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 1: get New Year's Day, well you get a couple of

841
00:54:49,080 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 1: hours when he decides to come over. You don't get

842
00:54:52,640 --> 00:54:56,160
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day, that's the day for lovers. You don't get anything.

843
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 1: And he played you so hard. He told you his

844
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:02,240
Speaker 1: ex girl for and nagged a lot. So now you're scared.

845
00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: You said, you're scared of running him off. You're scared

846
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 1: to tell him how you feel and what all of

847
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 1: this means to you, and why doesn't he spend more

848
00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: time with you and what's going on. You're scared to

849
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,959
Speaker 1: bring up how you feel he puts you off. He's

850
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:20,359
Speaker 1: always too busy for you. He's got the kids every

851
00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 1: other weekend, or he's going out with his boys. You

852
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: can't even go over his house because he doesn't have

853
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 1: any furniture, really, and you make excuses for him at

854
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 1: every turn. You have to stop this talking about in

855
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 1: his defense, he's very busy, Yeah, busy with his wife

856
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,960
Speaker 1: and family running away from you. You have to stop

857
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: all of this. You got to stop seeing him. You

858
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 1: have to stop answering his call, stop calling him, stop

859
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:48,319
Speaker 1: everything all of the above, because you already know what's

860
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 1: going on. You said it. You're subconscious. You don't want

861
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 1: it to be what you're subconscious is telling you that

862
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 1: it is. Well, that's what it is. Listen to your

863
00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 1: self conscious, all right. Please please don't be stupid on this.

864
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 1: I mean, don't be just don't be get yourself together,

865
00:56:04,320 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: Listen to your head and not your heart. In this situation,

866
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: the man has a wife. Steve, I just wow, I

867
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 1: know how long have we been doing these letters? Yeah?

868
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: How obvious does it have to be? Yeah? How many

869
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,839
Speaker 1: times have we given advice on this subject? Right here?

870
00:56:26,400 --> 00:56:30,000
Speaker 1: You say, my man treats me like an afterthought. That's

871
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:34,080
Speaker 1: caust that's what you are. See. You solved that the

872
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: answers in the letter. I've been in relationship for two

873
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 1: years and now hear what you hear? You hear the

874
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: glory of it. When I think about the thing this

875
00:56:42,840 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 1: man has shown me sexually and mentally, I'm floored. Why Well,

876
00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: let's talk about what he didn't showed you. We don't

877
00:56:48,960 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: know what he's doing sexually, but obviously you sprung. He

878
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 1: literally takes my breath away. Now here, go to letter.

879
00:56:56,480 --> 00:57:00,120
Speaker 1: We've got some problems though. I've never spent enough, you've

880
00:57:00,160 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 1: never spent a night together, and I've never met his family.

881
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 1: What two years and you ain't been over his house?

882
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 1: And later on in the letters say because he ain't

883
00:57:10,280 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 1: got no furniture, who would take two years to get

884
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:21,880
Speaker 1: a couch? A couch? Who then got this place? And

885
00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 1: in two years. Ain't got a couch, ain't got no

886
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: damn bad, ain't got a TV? Who did a day

887
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:33,440
Speaker 1: house for two years without no damn cable and somewhere

888
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: to sick? Where do he eat when he at home?

889
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: What do you mean he don't have furniture? Listen to me,

890
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 1: and I've never met his family except for his twin

891
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:47,080
Speaker 1: daughters and named mother. And it was a quick hid by.

892
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,480
Speaker 1: We ran into them and talking. That was an accident.

893
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: That was a damn accident. He damn sure wasn't intended

894
00:57:55,000 --> 00:57:58,120
Speaker 1: for you to meet them then, but you did. We

895
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: were not together on our one your anniversary, that's because

896
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: y'all don't have anniversary. What you what is you making up?

897
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:12,080
Speaker 1: Y'all don't have anniversary because of his job. I didn't

898
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 1: see him on Valentine's date that cause you ain't his Valentine.

899
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just give it to you because he had

900
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: his daughters that night. Who'll spend Valentine's with the damn kids? Right?

901
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 1: Which supposed me having sex on Valentine's date? What is

902
00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 1: your kids in here? Fault? Keep you as waving the

903
00:58:31,040 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 1: dog crazy? I got the rest of it for you

904
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,440
Speaker 1: when I come back, Steve, I'm not even putting no

905
00:58:42,560 --> 00:58:45,760
Speaker 1: punches with this. Please don't well that Part two Steve's

906
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

907
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:54,360
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's

908
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 1: strawberry letter. My man treats me like an afterthought. Well,

909
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 1: that's caused you, and it's all in the damn letter,

910
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: other than when y'all having this crazy ass sex where

911
00:59:05,400 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: you didn't learn so much. You on the floor. So

912
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: now he literally takes my breath away. But then we

913
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: got some problems. She ain't never spend the night at

914
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:21,080
Speaker 1: the man's house two years? Why? Because he say he

915
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: don't have no furniture yet. My question is, who ain't

916
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 1: bought a couch in two years. I don't know where

917
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 1: do he eat when he at home? He just standing

918
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 1: in the middle of the floor with some containers. I've

919
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:48,440
Speaker 1: never met his family except for his twin daughters and

920
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: their mother. And it was a real quick hide and

921
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:54,440
Speaker 1: by we ran into them at Target. That was a

922
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 1: damn accident. We were not together on our one year anniversary.

923
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 1: That's because y'all don't have anniversaries. I'm just going over

924
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 1: what I went over and then we'll get to the

925
01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: rest of it. Because of his job. I didn't see

926
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: him on Valentine's Day. No, that ain't caused his job.

927
01:00:11,360 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: It's because you didn't see him on Valentine's Day, because

928
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,240
Speaker 1: you ain't as Valentine. Because he had his daughters that night.

929
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 1: Who the hell spend Valentine Night with their kids, even

930
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,280
Speaker 1: if it's my week of custody. Somebody for the watch

931
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 1: their ass or Valentine's Night because I got to go

932
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:31,760
Speaker 1: see somebody naked with a dipper on with a bow

933
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: and arrow Cupid. I didn't played Cupid on Valentine's Day.

934
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:43,600
Speaker 1: I didn't jumped out the closet with a dipper. You

935
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 1: have a long time ago, y'all ain't know me then

936
01:00:46,840 --> 01:00:48,960
Speaker 1: I was young. I had the body for that dipper.

937
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 1: I saw him the next day and he gave me flowers.

938
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 1: You know why you got flowers because he spent all

939
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:00,439
Speaker 1: the money on the person, the candy on the girl.

940
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 1: And anybody give you flowers, that's just stop. They sell

941
01:01:06,400 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 1: them on the corner. His birthday is three days before Christmas,

942
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 1: but I didn't see him until Christmas Eve because his

943
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:18,080
Speaker 1: grandparents was in time. Wow, who need four days with

944
01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 1: some old ass people to say marry Christmas? Who needs

945
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: fall damn days with some old people that say Mary Christmas.

946
01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:32,680
Speaker 1: Then there was nothing on Christmas Day, as jo, No, no, no,

947
01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 1: that's where you're wrong. Oh, Christmas Day was popping, It

948
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: was jis family woman, Christmas was lit. It just wasn't

949
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: with you, because who can leave their house on Christmas Day?

950
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: And why would he not come over to your house

951
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 1: on Christmas Day? He got no damn furniture, He didn't

952
01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: even got no nothing to sit on and look at

953
01:01:55,760 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: the damn lights on the tree. Everybody like putting that

954
01:02:00,160 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: tree up, getting a cup of call fel, some hot chocolate,

955
01:02:02,800 --> 01:02:05,919
Speaker 1: looking at the tree and they dream and then having fun.

956
01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: That's the purpose of a tree Christmas. Yeah, that was

957
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:13,360
Speaker 1: nothing on Christmas Day. And he went to church on

958
01:02:13,520 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: New Year's Eve without me. That man was not in

959
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:20,400
Speaker 1: church on New Year's Eve. He was just without you.

960
01:02:21,240 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: He told you he went to church on New Year's Eve.

961
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: His ass ain't go to church on New Year's Eve.

962
01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: Then he came over for a few hours on New

963
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: Year's Day to make up for it. Oh, I bet

964
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 1: that's when y'all was in the flow, having some of

965
01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:39,560
Speaker 1: that mind blowing sex. I don't discuss how I feel

966
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: about things. For feel running him off because he told

967
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 1: me his ex girlfriend nagged him a lot. You know why,

968
01:02:44,840 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 1: because she was trying to figure out how the hell

969
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 1: you gonna come over because he had he ain't had

970
01:02:50,040 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: no furniture in this apartment for about eight years. Oh really,

971
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:56,600
Speaker 1: she weared his ass to death about coming over, and

972
01:02:56,760 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: she had never spent the night over there. Okay, he's

973
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: always busy if I ask to see him, but when

974
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:07,880
Speaker 1: he calls me, I drop everything. I don't know why

975
01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 1: he's acting this way. What You've been with him two

976
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 1: years and you don't know why he acted in this way.

977
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,960
Speaker 1: He can't act no other way. He got a family.

978
01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 1: He got a family. He can't act no other way.

979
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:25,440
Speaker 1: I pray. It is not what my suspicion is telling me.

980
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: It is stop praying for something God gives you to

981
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 1: protect you. You have this thing called intuition. It's telling you.

982
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: Now you want to call it your self conscious. I'm

983
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: prayer is not what my self conscious is telling me.

984
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: It's your intuition and it is telling you that, and

985
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: God gives it to women to protect them, and all

986
01:03:48,800 --> 01:03:51,960
Speaker 1: of women out there listening know every time they go

987
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:56,120
Speaker 1: against what their intuition tells them, they pay for Every

988
01:03:56,160 --> 01:04:00,200
Speaker 1: woman has done it. True. Now in his defence, is

989
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 1: he does work extreme hours? What is he a forst fighter?

990
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:09,120
Speaker 1: Come on? What job he got where he work for

991
01:04:09,440 --> 01:04:14,960
Speaker 1: stream hours? What is he in the UFC fighter? What

992
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 1: is extreme hours? So he don't get no time? He

993
01:04:18,800 --> 01:04:22,440
Speaker 1: working all these hours and still can't buy no damn

994
01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:30,840
Speaker 1: couch and bed? But he worked extreme hours? Dat He

995
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 1: has his kids every other weekend and he likes to

996
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 1: cheer with his boys on wine. I like cheering with

997
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:39,280
Speaker 1: my boys on wine too, But I'd rather be somewhere

998
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 1: having six What are you talking about? I want to

999
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:45,760
Speaker 1: cook dinner at his house. He can't have you over there.

1000
01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 1: Somebody over there already cooking and they're not gonna understand

1001
01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:54,680
Speaker 1: you coming over because that's they kitchen, right all right?

1002
01:04:54,800 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: I need him to make me a part in his life.

1003
01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:58,680
Speaker 1: He's not. How can I get through to him? You can't.

1004
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,800
Speaker 1: Is our relationship run its course? You have no relationship.

1005
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 1: That's your strawberry let all right? Thank you Steve, post

1006
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:07,840
Speaker 1: your comments on today's Strawberry letter and Steve Harvey FM

1007
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't forget to check

1008
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:14,240
Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're listening to

1009
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Come on Junior with Truth Be Told.

1010
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, do god listen, Charlie. I'm so happy

1011
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 1: right there. I really tell me, because Truth be Told,

1012
01:05:29,280 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 1: I'm told I'll need no help getting necked off the counters.

1013
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:43,000
Speaker 1: All of us on the showcase say that HU have

1014
01:05:43,160 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: to go get the step out on the side of

1015
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 1: refrigerator to get up there. I don't have to do that.

1016
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 1: Three people, I'm in there the most tall stuff. I

1017
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: do stuff at the top of the closet, Like, shoot,

1018
01:05:57,200 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 1: I get that, you're that, I get that. No problem.

1019
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: I ain't got no problem getting none of that. Everybody

1020
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 1: on Screwing in Light Bulls no problem. I'm tall. I

1021
01:06:07,680 --> 01:06:13,760
Speaker 1: can't do that. Now, everybody on this show, percent of

1022
01:06:13,840 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: us can do that, not one hundred percent, but ninety five.

1023
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:22,160
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, I like getting stuff out the freezer

1024
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: at the top. I can do that. I can go

1025
01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 1: in there and get it back of me. At the

1026
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: top of the Tommy can put a light bubby easy

1027
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 1: bake oven. It it just had to be a night

1028
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 1: like night. It had to go at the bottom. But

1029
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 1: he got to get up here where I had to

1030
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 1: me like, man, don't worry about that. I got tall

1031
01:06:52,680 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 1: shoulders for you to stand on if you need help.

1032
01:06:55,800 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 1: And I love you. Man, what you do? Short behind you?

1033
01:06:57,960 --> 01:07:00,560
Speaker 1: All right? No? No, no, no, no, no, no no no,

1034
01:07:00,800 --> 01:07:05,320
Speaker 1: you made a mistake. Hits behind ain't shot. That's the

1035
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:09,800
Speaker 1: tallest thing can get in the talk club? Can he

1036
01:07:09,880 --> 01:07:17,600
Speaker 1: get in the talk club? Now? Tall? A little lag man,

1037
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: a little hunchback and not the dame booty. Yeah, he

1038
01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:27,960
Speaker 1: was a little short with us doing that segment. No, man,

1039
01:07:28,000 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: don't verybody. One day timing one day, man, one day,

1040
01:07:32,760 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 1: one day. Man. You know they sell these things you

1041
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 1: can put in the shoes and make you you know left. Yeah,

1042
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:42,400
Speaker 1: they give you like another a couple of inches action

1043
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: still shot, a couple more inches, you get two inches,

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01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 1: you're still short. I lose two inches. I'm still talking. Yeah,

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01:07:53,120 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 1: you put those in the shoes, but your heel is

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01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:59,240
Speaker 1: sticking at the back of your shoe. It looks real, man,

1047
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 1: your shoe. By walking you're listening to show you guys

1048
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:14,040
Speaker 1: already know. But sometimes honesty isn't the best policy. Here's

1049
01:08:14,040 --> 01:08:16,800
Speaker 1: a situation or a question that we found on Facebook,

1050
01:08:16,840 --> 01:08:19,280
Speaker 1: and this one is from Jerry. Jerry says, when my

1051
01:08:19,400 --> 01:08:21,839
Speaker 1: wife comes home from getting her hair done and colored,

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01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:25,600
Speaker 1: it doesn't look great, but I always tell her it

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01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:31,080
Speaker 1: does always okay. Any married man should know this, no

1054
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:34,320
Speaker 1: matter what, tell her she looks beautiful. So when do

1055
01:08:34,439 --> 01:08:38,960
Speaker 1: you feel like honesty isn't the best policy all the time.

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01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:44,760
Speaker 1: I'm not all attended. I've been on the hardest look

1057
01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:49,920
Speaker 1: on me, just man, just yeah, j I've been on

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01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 1: the old what you're saying, I've been there. Yeah, yourself, virgad.

1059
01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: I'm trying to save myself from what I already know.

1060
01:09:06,280 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 1: If I tell the truth, what's gonna happen? So why

1061
01:09:10,240 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 1: not try this? Yet? You put your hand on the

1062
01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 1: Bible and still lie. That's not a real Bible ship

1063
01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 1: And the people that's in there trying to get me

1064
01:09:24,000 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 1: is not religious people. Everybody in that line to prosecutor line,

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01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 1: everybody in that line. I ain't you even put my

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01:09:35,920 --> 01:09:37,800
Speaker 1: hand on the Bible and then hold me to that.

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01:09:41,720 --> 01:09:45,720
Speaker 1: Have you lied sh in the relationship? Yeah? Last time

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01:09:45,760 --> 01:09:47,439
Speaker 1: you lied to you, Last time you lied to you?

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01:09:47,520 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: Who Uh, it's been a while. That's been a while,

1070
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:55,280
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not Yeah, I don't you know, I

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01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 1: don't really lie. But last time you lie your wife time,

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01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 1: there's morning once you call? What perfectly comfortable answer? Yeah,

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01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:12,920
Speaker 1: Now that was an honest answer from you. When when Steve? Yeah,

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01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 1: well she out of town right now, So I'm anticipating

1075
01:10:18,280 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 1: you sooner. Well, I'm anticipating as soon as she called. Exactly.

1076
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,960
Speaker 1: But why do you guys lie when the truth will?

1077
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:31,759
Speaker 1: Will we beat? Just fine? I don't get that. Fine,

1078
01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 1: don't say that. No truth, Yeah, ninety percent of the time,

1079
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 1: the truth is not fine. Okay, what is she gonna

1080
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 1: ask you that you have to lie about this? I don't.

1081
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:44,920
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what asked me.

1082
01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:50,080
Speaker 1: So let's let's just practice. Let's go, Hi, honey, is

1083
01:10:50,120 --> 01:10:57,760
Speaker 1: the raining there about to seem? Like? Why are you asking?

1084
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:02,559
Speaker 1: Because see now I got to Is it raining there?

1085
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:04,880
Speaker 1: Because now what I got to see in you? Yeah?

1086
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:09,640
Speaker 1: In the mail? No, go ahead, She'll ask me something, Uh,

1087
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 1: what are you doing today? What are you gonna do today?

1088
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:14,400
Speaker 1: Like after work? I know you have to work, but

1089
01:11:14,520 --> 01:11:16,800
Speaker 1: like after working all day, bab, I ain't I'm gonna

1090
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 1: work all the way to this time to go to bed.

1091
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 1: I ain't got no breaks, no breaks because I was

1092
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 1: thinking about coming down and maybe we could have lunch together.

1093
01:11:26,560 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 1: Now we don't have a lunch today because we got

1094
01:11:28,960 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: we got cases as backed up for COVID. What did

1095
01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:42,920
Speaker 1: you wear to work today? Did Ellie? Um? Did Ellie

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01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:45,320
Speaker 1: pick something out for you to wear? No? No, I

1097
01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 1: just put on something myself. Just got on sweatsuit, that's all.

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01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 1: Well I saw you posted something and it had Ellie's

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01:11:52,600 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 1: name under it. Yeah, I was picture from last week.

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01:11:57,640 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 1: You know I don't post nothing, no damn way, So

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01:11:59,520 --> 01:12:04,240
Speaker 1: let's put just from last week. Well, um, have you

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01:12:04,360 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? Instagram social media? Yeah? Have you

1103
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:13,840
Speaker 1: been on Instagram lately? When did they When did they start? That?

1104
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:27,400
Speaker 1: To lie? You know, just that that just gets she

1105
01:12:27,640 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 1: just be going black ass if you don't ride fast, Steve,

1106
01:12:32,120 --> 01:12:35,040
Speaker 1: what are you lying about Instagram for? I don't know,

1107
01:12:35,280 --> 01:12:41,960
Speaker 1: just practice discussion? Who ye? All right? When did they start?

1108
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1109
01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 1: up in twenty minutes after right after this. I work

1110
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:54,719
Speaker 1: with a bunch of liars. Yeah, you're listening to show.

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01:12:56,840 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 1: All right, guys, before we left for break, we were

1112
01:12:59,840 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 1: talking about lying. Isn't a good time to lie? But

1113
01:13:05,280 --> 01:13:08,000
Speaker 1: you guys like, regardless, it doesn't matter. Yeah, And I

1114
01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:13,759
Speaker 1: tell you why I lie? Regardless? Why if you tell

1115
01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:17,760
Speaker 1: a woman the truth? Yeah, they're gonna expect it all

1116
01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, thank you, and then expectations Yeah, and

1117
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 1: then what happens when I do tell the truth and

1118
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:34,280
Speaker 1: then she don't believe me? I picked those moments where

1119
01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 1: I will tell you the truth, but they're very few.

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01:13:37,880 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: And then when you when you assume that's a lie,

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01:13:41,880 --> 01:13:44,400
Speaker 1: then I jump out and improved that it was the truth.

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01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:48,559
Speaker 1: And then I'm good for another year. See, Damn, every

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01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:51,040
Speaker 1: time I tell you something, you think I'm lying, then

1124
01:13:51,080 --> 01:13:54,439
Speaker 1: I tell you the truth. Now look at this right here, Damn,

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01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:59,439
Speaker 1: baby allowed me to lie for another year. Love it?

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01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying? You see that, Shirley, That's

1127
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:06,919
Speaker 1: how they would I see it. But you know whatever

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01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:13,000
Speaker 1: with that all the live line. Yeah, ain't you still

1129
01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 1: with your husband after all these years? Yeah? Thank the Lord.

1130
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 1: He's been lying? Yes, Yeah, so you're so then you're saying,

1131
01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 1: all men, lie, that's what you're saying I'm saying, you're

1132
01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 1: saying all men lie absolutely yeah, coming up in thirty

1133
01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 1: three minutes after the hour. Well, we'll try to get

1134
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:37,040
Speaker 1: the truth out of you when we play a round

1135
01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:41,120
Speaker 1: of would you rather? Right after this you're listening to

1136
01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:46,760
Speaker 1: show time now for would you rather? Would you rather

1137
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:51,080
Speaker 1: let your boss see your full Internet history? Or would

1138
01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:57,560
Speaker 1: you rather let your spouse see your full Internet history? Yeah?

1139
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 1: You see this all yeah, and he won't fire you,

1140
01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:07,800
Speaker 1: And he's gonna fire you might get a raised out

1141
01:15:07,840 --> 01:15:15,639
Speaker 1: of them if I do it right. You bade me proud?

1142
01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:21,240
Speaker 1: All right, boss, all day? All right? Would you rather

1143
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:25,519
Speaker 1: lose a finger? Lose a finger, or have a headache

1144
01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 1: every day for the rest of your life. No, I'm

1145
01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: gonna take this damn finger. You know that head but

1146
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:38,640
Speaker 1: but but take that Take that ring finger on the

1147
01:15:38,840 --> 01:15:43,120
Speaker 1: right hand, you know, the ring finger on the left hand.

1148
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,479
Speaker 1: Just give me the ring finger on the right hand

1149
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 1: because I'm left handed, and that finger. I don't need

1150
01:15:49,600 --> 01:15:51,800
Speaker 1: that finger to button my shirt or nothing, zip up

1151
01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:58,599
Speaker 1: my pants. That finger kind of useless. I'm gonna need that. Yeah,

1152
01:16:00,040 --> 01:16:01,759
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be able to hold a knife without

1153
01:16:01,800 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 1: that thumb without looking like a cave man. Yeah, all right,

1154
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,639
Speaker 1: hard to button your shirt with both your index fingers.

1155
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:19,280
Speaker 1: I tell you that right now. All right, picking up

1156
01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 1: French fries gonna look a little crazy like you smoking

1157
01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 1: a cigarette. Yeah. Would you rather be trapped on a

1158
01:16:27,400 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: desert island with someone who never speaks, never talks to you,

1159
01:16:31,880 --> 01:16:34,000
Speaker 1: Or would you rather be trapped on a desert island

1160
01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 1: with someone who never shuts up? Hey? Quiet all the time?

1161
01:16:40,880 --> 01:16:44,599
Speaker 1: You're gonna get tired of that. Talking, gonna drive you crave.

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01:16:44,920 --> 01:16:47,720
Speaker 1: I really had to talk. Yeah, you rather have to

1163
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:51,679
Speaker 1: talk to silence to kill me? Junior. You want someone

1164
01:16:51,760 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: who saw the talk to me? We talk every morning.

1165
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:58,200
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to talk all time. Okay?

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01:16:58,479 --> 01:17:01,160
Speaker 1: Do you want someone who who's quiet? What about you

1167
01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 1: never shut up? No? I want the person to talk

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01:17:03,439 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: all the time. I know how to cut I know

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01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 1: I know how to shut people out. Anyway. You can

1170
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:10,479
Speaker 1: be talking my ass off to me. Man, I just

1171
01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:12,320
Speaker 1: look right at you and be looking right through the

1172
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:16,080
Speaker 1: back of your head. I know how to I know

1173
01:17:16,120 --> 01:17:18,960
Speaker 1: how you hearing me. I know you hear me. You're

1174
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 1: looking right at me and make them think I'm looking

1175
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:23,240
Speaker 1: at them. But I'll be my man. Man, I'll be

1176
01:17:23,320 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 1: looking at something right off to the side of your head.

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01:17:26,280 --> 01:17:29,800
Speaker 1: Answer me, you know you don't like a bush or something,

1178
01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 1: and you as don't even know you talking to me.

1179
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 1: All right, that's today's round guys of would you rather? Now?

1180
01:17:40,920 --> 01:17:43,080
Speaker 1: Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour, it

1181
01:17:43,240 --> 01:17:45,080
Speaker 1: is our last break of the day, and of course

1182
01:17:45,160 --> 01:17:47,320
Speaker 1: we'll have some closing remarks from the one and only

1183
01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:53,439
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening show, all right,

1184
01:17:53,479 --> 01:17:56,000
Speaker 1: here we are, last break of the day. Time for

1185
01:17:56,160 --> 01:18:04,360
Speaker 1: Steve's closing remarks. Okay, today Tommy sent me something, sent

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01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,000
Speaker 1: me a caption that I'm gonna keep because I oftentimes

1187
01:18:07,160 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 1: keep quotes in my motivational folder in my photo stream

1188
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:15,760
Speaker 1: and I just look at him from time to time

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01:18:15,800 --> 01:18:17,880
Speaker 1: when I'm feeling a certain kind of way. Sometimes I

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01:18:18,000 --> 01:18:21,400
Speaker 1: just need a little uplift myself, you know. And Tommy

1191
01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:24,720
Speaker 1: sent me this today and I'm gonna share it with you,

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01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 1: and it's gonna call me cause me to expound on

1193
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: it a bit because it's something I really do believe in.

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01:18:31,880 --> 01:18:34,760
Speaker 1: It says, do not ask God to guide your footsteps

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01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:40,600
Speaker 1: if you're not willing to move your feet. Do not

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01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:44,880
Speaker 1: ask God to guide your footsteps if you're not willing

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01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:50,240
Speaker 1: to move your feet. You know, folks, it's very simple.

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01:18:52,120 --> 01:18:55,400
Speaker 1: God can put his finger on something to bless if

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01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:58,840
Speaker 1: you give him something to put his finger on. But

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01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:01,960
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't ask God to do something, and

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01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:05,080
Speaker 1: you're making no effort. Lord, help me get a job,

1202
01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:10,560
Speaker 1: but you ain't putting in no applications. Lord, help me

1203
01:19:10,680 --> 01:19:13,200
Speaker 1: do right. But all you ever want to do is wrong.

1204
01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:18,559
Speaker 1: You're just committed to wrong. You know, you gotta make

1205
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 1: a move in the right direction. You know, faith without

1206
01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:25,519
Speaker 1: works is dead. So what Timmy sent me? Do not

1207
01:19:25,680 --> 01:19:29,360
Speaker 1: ask God to guide your footsteps if you're not willing

1208
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:32,040
Speaker 1: to move your feet. It's something all of us, and

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01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:34,160
Speaker 1: all of us are guilty of it. From time to time.

1210
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:38,080
Speaker 1: Sometimes we get complacent. Sometimes we just get the feeling

1211
01:19:38,160 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 1: side fiurself. You know, man, I guess it ain't meant

1212
01:19:41,040 --> 01:19:47,400
Speaker 1: to be. Oh Lord, whatnot? You know? Look, man, you

1213
01:19:47,520 --> 01:19:49,479
Speaker 1: can complain your way through life if you want to,

1214
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:52,519
Speaker 1: but you really have to make an attitude adjustment. You

1215
01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:56,679
Speaker 1: gotta get two things moving, your attitude and your feet.

1216
01:19:57,320 --> 01:20:00,240
Speaker 1: Those two things have to get moving. You gotta start

1217
01:20:00,360 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 1: taking steps. You may not know the weight how to

1218
01:20:04,040 --> 01:20:07,120
Speaker 1: get to the finish line. But the finish line is somewhere,

1219
01:20:07,160 --> 01:20:10,680
Speaker 1: It ain't where you at. The finish line is never

1220
01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 1: where you're standing. So you got to start taking some steps.

1221
01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:17,799
Speaker 1: And once again, you may not know all the steps

1222
01:20:17,960 --> 01:20:21,040
Speaker 1: necessary to get to the tape, but you got to

1223
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:25,320
Speaker 1: start the process. Man. So, like the caption says, stop

1224
01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:28,080
Speaker 1: asking God to guide your footsteps. If you ain't willing

1225
01:20:28,120 --> 01:20:34,320
Speaker 1: to move your feet, you got to put it into motion. Look,

1226
01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 1: it's just a dream when you're thinking about it, but

1227
01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:41,519
Speaker 1: you gotta put some You gotta put your dreams to work.

1228
01:20:43,720 --> 01:20:48,000
Speaker 1: Motivation is when your dreams put on work clothes. You

1229
01:20:48,120 --> 01:20:50,599
Speaker 1: gotta take your dreams and put work clothes on the man,

1230
01:20:51,479 --> 01:20:54,479
Speaker 1: you gotta start stepping in the right direction. You've got

1231
01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:57,400
Speaker 1: to make a move towards the light. You've got to

1232
01:20:57,479 --> 01:21:00,240
Speaker 1: step towards the finish line. You've got to start to

1233
01:21:00,360 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: get the way you're trying to get to. You gotta

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01:21:03,000 --> 01:21:09,080
Speaker 1: get to go. You gotta go to get. Period. You

1235
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:12,000
Speaker 1: cannot stay that whereever you're trying to get. You can't

1236
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:15,640
Speaker 1: be right where you at. It can't be. It can't be.

1237
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:20,799
Speaker 1: I give you look this is. This is a silly example.

1238
01:21:21,960 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 1: But let's say your family reunion is in Wyoming, which

1239
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 1: I know it's not. That's why I said, And you

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01:21:33,640 --> 01:21:38,439
Speaker 1: drive to Wyoming. When you get to Wyoming, and you

1241
01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:44,320
Speaker 1: reach Wyoming, the state of Wyoming, you still got to

1242
01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:50,479
Speaker 1: do something because what where is the family reunion at?

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01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:55,240
Speaker 1: It just can't go to Wyoming. Well, I'm here, Lord,

1244
01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: you hear you, wom you Even when you get the

1245
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:01,120
Speaker 1: way you say you going, you got to move around.

1246
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:04,040
Speaker 1: Let's say you get to the park where you're holding

1247
01:22:04,120 --> 01:22:07,559
Speaker 1: the family reunion. And you get to the park. Once

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Speaker 1: you get to the park, but what you gotta do something.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna play softball, volleyball. You're gonna sit there on

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Speaker 1: the tree and play domino. You're gonna bob kill, You're

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Speaker 1: gonna make the lemonade. You constantly gotta be doing something.

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Speaker 1: There is no when you get there, you there. There

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Speaker 1: is no more movement required. There's movement required throughout your

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Speaker 1: life because wherever you're trying to get to it ain't

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Speaker 1: where you at. I can promise you that it's never

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Speaker 1: where you at. I'm doing very well in my life,

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Speaker 1: it ain't where I'm going. How would I be just

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Speaker 1: I'm here now, this it this in what No more dreams, Steve,

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Speaker 1: no more visions. You want nothing else. You hear this

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Speaker 1: it for you and it doesn't matter mead that people

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Speaker 1: look at me and go, man, you gotta all this.

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Speaker 1: I don't even see what you're tripping for. I ain't tripping.

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Speaker 1: I just to be more than I am. I'm really

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Speaker 1: trying to be a better person. I really, really am.

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Speaker 1: I'm not content with the person I am. I could improve.

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Speaker 1: I could actually be a better person. So I'm in

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Speaker 1: the process. God ain't through with me yet. He's working

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Speaker 1: on me. I'm trying. I'm better than I used to be,

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Speaker 1: but I'm still got my feet moving. So I'm asking

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Speaker 1: God to God my steps. But I got my feet moving. Man,

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Speaker 1: stop asking God to guide your footsteps. If you ain't

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Speaker 1: willing to move your feet can't happen. It's what you want.

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Speaker 1: Come on, man, stop that, dude. You're being unreasonable to God.

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Speaker 1: Guiding your footstep and moving your feet down the path.

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Speaker 1: That's too different that you got to do that. You

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01:23:46,760 --> 01:23:50,960
Speaker 1: make one step, he'll make two. So if you don't

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Speaker 1: make the one, you cannot expect him to make the two.

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Speaker 1: He can touch you and bless you, but you got

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Speaker 1: to give him something to bless you. Gotta do some. Okay,

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Speaker 1: sit at the house watching TV. That's it. Stop asking

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Speaker 1: God to gad your footsteps. If you're not willing to

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Speaker 1: move your feet, Thank you, Tom, those are my clothing

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Speaker 1: them drop it. Okay. Oh now that actually sounded like

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Speaker 1: am Mike. That was encouraging. Yeah, all right, y'all have

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Speaker 1: a good one. Have a great weekend too. I'll be

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