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Speaker 1: enjoy a Second Date Update.
Speaker 3: Second Date Update date when you meet someone and you
Speaker 3: chat with them for just a few minutes, but there's
Speaker 3: an obvious connection there and you have a lot of
Speaker 3: fun together. Can that be considered an insta date or
Speaker 3: do you need to have like an official meet up
Speaker 3: for it to count.
Speaker 1: Yes, I mean, it could be a hangout, it could
Speaker 1: be the first meeting, but it's not a date, which
Speaker 1: is a conversation.
Speaker 3: I disagree. I think it is like an instidate is
Speaker 3: considered a real date because I've had many, many experiences
Speaker 3: that you wouldn't call a buy the book's pre prepared hangout,
Speaker 3: and next thing you know, all the paper towels are
Speaker 3: gone from the dispenser and you're both calling the maintenance
Speaker 3: guy asking for assistance. I don't expect you guys to
Speaker 3: understand how fun works, but you just leave that to me.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I think that counts. And that's why
Speaker 3: we got in touch with one of our listeners who
Speaker 3: said that she had an instidate recently. Her name is Amanda.
Speaker 2: So are you the clingy one in the relationship like
Speaker 2: Jeffrey is Amanda?
Speaker 4: I guess we'll see right.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, you and I are on the same page, Amanda.
Speaker 3: But for my clue out co host over here, why
Speaker 3: don't you tell us what happened?
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I met this guy Z a couple of
Speaker 4: weeks ago my friend Claire. Her job is super cool
Speaker 4: and trendy and they usually have like a happy hour
Speaker 4: like a work happy hour.
Speaker 2: Oh, Like her company is one of those that like
Speaker 2: as much food.
Speaker 1: As you want all the vacation time, and they constantly
Speaker 1: drink together.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's pretty awesome. Her friends are much coower than me,
Speaker 4: but that's why I went. Okay, And like I said,
Speaker 4: I met this guy, Zach, and he was extremely good
Speaker 4: booking And I don't usually go up to guys. But
Speaker 4: I mean, it just was the atmosphere we went to,
Speaker 4: like this traditional cowboy bar.
Speaker 2: Traditional that's funny, a dive bar.
Speaker 1: Probably one was like line dancing and country music and stuff.
Speaker 4: Yeah, like the bar stools were a horse saddle and
Speaker 4: there was a merry ground. Yeah there was.
Speaker 1: There was.
Speaker 4: Now it's a real.
Speaker 3: So you said that you were the one who actually
Speaker 3: went and approached him, Like what did you What did
Speaker 3: you do? How did that interaction happen?
Speaker 4: Well, here's the thing. I went next to him, so
Speaker 4: I wouldn't say that. I you know, I kind of
Speaker 4: gave myself a little more credit.
Speaker 3: But you want to look like you were too aggressive
Speaker 3: with it exactly.
Speaker 1: But it's a good move, right, Like somebody stand in
Speaker 1: the bar, you go stand directly next to that.
Speaker 3: I imagine bumping into him by accident over and over.
Speaker 4: Well that worked because we ended up talking. And here's
Speaker 4: the thing. I didn't know that a lot of people
Speaker 4: like to ride horses really until social media. You know,
Speaker 4: like I thought it was more of a thing that like.
Speaker 3: Just your and I thought it was more just musty.
Speaker 1: Wait if you do it, because she does like probably
Speaker 1: you know, she's like a question.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's not a Western style.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're into horses and you didn't expect him to
Speaker 1: be also.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And so we got we started talking and I
Speaker 4: brought up a story of when I was younger, and
Speaker 4: it was going so well that he ended up sitting
Speaker 4: some of his drink out because I made him laugh
Speaker 4: so hard. Oh really, okay, yeah, it was just about
Speaker 4: I brought up a story when I was younger, my
Speaker 4: favorite horse. He was like slower, he was older, and
Speaker 4: he was kind of chubby, but they called him waffle face.
Speaker 3: Waffle face, they called him, well, that was the name
Speaker 3: of the horse.
Speaker 4: That was the name of the horse.
Speaker 2: Yeah, love, And that's what made him laugh so hard.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, must have had to have been there, Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think so.
Speaker 3: So you guys bonded over horses. That's cool, yes.
Speaker 4: Yeah, And unfortunately he said he had to go, so
Speaker 4: it was like twenty thirty minutes of us talking. But
Speaker 4: right before he left, there was this Britney Spears song
Speaker 4: that came on.
Speaker 2: It's a country bar, just a Louisy and a girl.
Speaker 4: Do you remember this song? Hit Me Baby?
Speaker 5: When Yeah.
Speaker 4: Started doing the dance and he started, he followed me,
Speaker 4: he was doing the same dance as I was doing it.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's an obvious sign of attraction. When a guy
Speaker 3: is mirroring you, that's a sign that he's actually pigtails
Speaker 3: the skirt on all about it?
Speaker 1: Did you check in with your friend Claire because Claire
Speaker 1: works with him, right, Like, that's how you guys all met.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So here's the thing. Right before we left, I
Speaker 4: was brave enough to ask him for his member. Okay,
Speaker 4: I was like, it's not every day that someone dances
Speaker 4: like mirrors you dancing?
Speaker 3: All right?
Speaker 4: Oh yes, I did. Well, let's help because I this
Speaker 4: is where you guys come in. I texted him a
Speaker 4: couple of days after and he said he was busy
Speaker 4: but that he wished that he could hang out. So
Speaker 4: I waited a couple of days after that, and you
Speaker 4: never text me back after I texted him again. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and so you brought up Claire and I asked her
Speaker 4: and she doesn't know. So it was a friend of
Speaker 4: a friend.
Speaker 2: So yeah, I see. So it's not someone that works
Speaker 2: with her that she could Okay, well we have.
Speaker 3: Some information to work with here. We're gonna play a
Speaker 3: song come back and call your horse Love and Cowboys? Zach?
Speaker 3: Can I request that we don't blame the Britney Spears song.
Speaker 2: Oh, I would love to hear it. Are you joking me?
Speaker 2: I don't want to dance.
Speaker 3: I just want to see what this horse loving guy
Speaker 3: has to say when we ask for a second date.
Speaker 3: Is it going to be a ya or a name?
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a funny.
Speaker 3: We'll do a second date update. Next second date update.
Speaker 3: Saddles for seats, boots for drinks, and a mechanical bull
Speaker 3: that's been out of order for the lad decade?
Speaker 2: Why am I always have order?
Speaker 3: Seriously, sounds like every single country dive bar within a
Speaker 3: ten thousand mile radius. So I just described there. But
Speaker 3: that's where one of our listeners went recently. Her name
Speaker 3: is Amanda, and she met a very well put together,
Speaker 3: good looking man named Zach while she was there. The
Speaker 3: two of them vibed over horseback riding stories and even
Speaker 3: danced to an old Britney Spears song in Like I
Speaker 3: said earlier, this was an instandate. It wasn't something that
Speaker 3: they had planned to meet up beforehand. They just ran
Speaker 3: into each other. So we don't know if Zach is
Speaker 3: technically even single or what's going on. That's what I think.
Speaker 2: But he texted her back that he was excited to
Speaker 2: see her.
Speaker 3: He said, like, I wish I could see you. Also,
Speaker 3: I wish I could see you. It means I can't
Speaker 3: see you because I.
Speaker 2: Have a girlfriend. Why wouldn't you just say that.
Speaker 3: Because dude still like to be hit on. We're going
Speaker 3: to call him and we're gonna see what he meant
Speaker 3: by that. And Brooke, you've been skeptical and bitter throughout
Speaker 3: most of this so far, So what are your thoughts
Speaker 3: before we reach out to Zach?
Speaker 2: I mean, I just don't want you to be too invested, Amanda.
Speaker 3: You know that's hopeful.
Speaker 1: Well I don't.
Speaker 2: You know, It's like what my mom taught me. You know,
Speaker 2: you you plan for the worst, hope for the best.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 3: That's a good lesson, mom. Want household to grow all right, Amanda,
Speaker 3: how are you feeling? You feel a little optimistic?
Speaker 4: I I definitely am. But like you guys said, that
Speaker 4: has been something that Claire and I have been discussing,
Speaker 4: and I mean it wouldn't put it past him because
Speaker 4: he seems I mean, he's such a catch.
Speaker 3: Right, Like, Well, let's get some answers from horse Love
Speaker 3: and Cowboy Jack. Zach.
Speaker 1: Oh you should be Jack though, it's a much better all.
Speaker 3: Right, Zach. Here we go.
Speaker 4: Boy.
Speaker 3: You gotta remember that, Zach, Zach, here we go. Dollar's
Speaker 3: number right now? Hey? Is it Zach? Uh? Yeah?
Speaker 4: He Wait?
Speaker 5: Jeff what how do you know that?
Speaker 2: It's Jeffrey?
Speaker 4: Is this is Jeff right?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Oh my god? What's up? Why are you? Why are
Speaker 4: you calling?
Speaker 3: I'm calling from a radio show Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 3: the morning.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I I know what you do.
Speaker 1: We talked about it one night.
Speaker 3: What what's wait?
Speaker 2: You're starting to freaking out? Are you joking? You don't
Speaker 2: know this guy?
Speaker 3: We know each other.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know Zach from a far We met like
Speaker 5: a month ago.
Speaker 3: Are you just every week?
Speaker 4: I do not remember?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Hey, Jeff, why why are all these people on
Speaker 1: the line?
Speaker 3: What's up?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 3: No, yeah, radio shows at work and we're we're doing
Speaker 3: something right now, you know.
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, so you're just doing your show.
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's so awkward.
Speaker 5: That's that's cool, man, that's really cool. We should we
Speaker 5: should hang again, you.
Speaker 4: Know last time?
Speaker 2: Yeah, why are you so red?
Speaker 3: Jeffrey, I don't know any Zach. Let's talk to Zach.
Speaker 3: We need to talk to you about something else.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 3: We do a segment called a second date update.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you're so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: And there's Brooks stop. There's a girl named Amanda who
Speaker 3: reached out to us. She said that she met you
Speaker 3: at a happy hour the other night. Okay, hi, Zach,
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, so that that's her. This is like a
Speaker 3: This is more of a business calls.
Speaker 2: How it normally goes normally do it? You have one
Speaker 2: flustered host over there.
Speaker 3: Amanda wanted our help to find out from you if
Speaker 3: you would be interested in seeing her.
Speaker 5: Okay, you're so, you're saying Amanda called you to call me.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how this works. It's called a second date update.
Speaker 5: So this is just this is just like a random thing.
Speaker 5: That's the only reason you're calling.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's just for our listener. Amanda and not for
Speaker 3: anything else.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 4: This is kind of new for me, but I felt
Speaker 4: like we had just great energy. I feel like we clicked.
Speaker 3: Remember, Zach, you guys talked about horses.
Speaker 2: At the Country Bar.
Speaker 3: At the country Bar.
Speaker 4: And remember Waffle Phase, her favorite fat horse.
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, yeah, I was just having a normal conversation.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we got a long great Amanda.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean and I.
Speaker 4: Alone.
Speaker 2: What was wrong? Are you not attracted to Amanda?
Speaker 4: And I know she was? You're very beautiful? Oh thank you.
Speaker 4: I'm really attracted to you too.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, she's coming out and saying it.
Speaker 1: I like it.
Speaker 5: I don't know that's what I said.
Speaker 4: Uh, I know you're shy, Zach. I just figured maybe
Speaker 4: I could take the reins here and jump fue on
Speaker 4: and see.
Speaker 3: Little cowboy reference, Zach, how does that sound?
Speaker 4: I'm not shy, see comment. You are riding horses, and
Speaker 4: so do I. We were dancing to Britney Spears.
Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, you know it's like his responses. You seem
Speaker 5: really you seem really cool, and it's it's kind of like,
Speaker 5: you know, if you know, if I really wanted, if
Speaker 5: I would have reached out right, I would have found
Speaker 5: you know, like, Okay, you seem great. Uh you're you're
Speaker 5: not You're not quite my type.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's very clear at least, Zach. Are you disappointed
Speaker 2: in this phone call?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: Greatly?
Speaker 3: Actually yeah, yeah, I did not see this coming. This
Speaker 3: is all making sense now.
Speaker 2: Though it does make it makes sense.
Speaker 3: You have to explained, you know, with just like the
Speaker 3: interest in horses and the Britney Spears dancing, and I.
Speaker 4: Think Mac you told me that, like I can change
Speaker 4: my hair if I'm not like if this color is
Speaker 4: not okay for you, like.
Speaker 1: You don't mind the fashion tips it's yeah, okay, So Zach,
Speaker 1: this isn't for.
Speaker 5: You in so many ways?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay.
Speaker 4: Is it just because you're not in the right spot
Speaker 4: or that maybe?
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's go with that one.
Speaker 1: And I say that.
Speaker 3: I don't know what to say.
Speaker 2: Do you got to finish it?
Speaker 1: Man?
Speaker 2: You gotta ask a second date to do my job
Speaker 2: over here.
Speaker 3: So what we do on this segment, Zach, is we
Speaker 3: offer to send you and our listener out on another date.
Speaker 3: So that would be you and Amanda going out and
Speaker 3: we would pay for it.
Speaker 4: Yes, thatch, come on, it'll be a blast. I'll change
Speaker 4: what I wear, like I don't. I just feel like
Speaker 4: our energies too good to give up or to ignore,
Speaker 4: So please give me a second hand.
Speaker 3: Zach offers on the table.
Speaker 5: I think you need to be more blunt, Amanda Gurly, Now,
Speaker 5: I don't change your hair.
Speaker 4: Don't change your hair for some guy. This isn't grease.
Speaker 3: I like, I love all right, Yeah, well we should
Speaker 3: probably stop talking. You should hang out with Zach Moore,
Speaker 3: I think so. I just I'm sorry.
Speaker 5: What Yeah, I will be expecting a front cross from here.
Speaker 3: Don't do that to me. Okay, I'm lending this now
Speaker 3: that's your second dated. Yeah no, now, definitely no day.
Speaker 3: We're out of here.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.