1 00:00:05,360 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 1: Good morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the New Corner Office, 2 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,880 Speaker 1: the podcast where we share strategies for thriving in the 3 00:00:12,960 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: new world of work, where the location and ours are 4 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:20,119 Speaker 1: more flexible than in the past. Today's tip is to 5 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: have a project outside of work, or, as the kids 6 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: like to tell us, to get a life. Work goes 7 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: better and it is less stressful when we do something 8 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: besides work for part of the day. For those who 9 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 1: are parents as well as professionals, and outlet beyond work 10 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 1: and family can make us feel like whole, happier people. 11 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 1: Hobbies and projects outside of work also keep us balanced 12 00:00:43,840 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: and interesting. This is especially true if you have the 13 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,320 Speaker 1: sort of job that lacks a hard stop or start, 14 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: and where work can quickly bleed into all available hours. 15 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: I first discovered the wisdom of having projects outside of 16 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: work back when I was twenty three years old and 17 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 1: first started working from home full time. My roommate back 18 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: then disappeared for a month long work trip, and I 19 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: soon realized that there was nothing to keep the days 20 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:13,759 Speaker 1: from blending into each other. This was before the days 21 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: of video conferencing. I'm pretty sure I still had a 22 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: dial up internet connection there for a while. So there 23 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: was no reason to get dressed. I also had the 24 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 1: disconcerting thought that without any formal, time specific commitments, my 25 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: friends might not notice if anything happened to me for 26 00:01:30,440 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: a while. So, since I've always loved singing, I auditioned 27 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 1: for and joined three choirs. Soon enough. On Monday's, Tuesdays 28 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: and Thursdays I had summer, I was supposed to be 29 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:45,679 Speaker 1: around seven pm. This meant I had to quit work 30 00:01:45,720 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 1: around six or six fifteen to get ready and traveled 31 00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: to rehearsals. That quitting time provided a lot of structure 32 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 1: to my weeks, and it made me more efficient. If 33 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: I knew i'd just work or half work and half 34 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: served the web until ten pm, there was no reason 35 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: to get going on anything. Knowing that anything do the 36 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: next day had to be done by six pm made 37 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: me a lot more focused. Since then, I've recommended coming 38 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: up with a non work evening commitment to all sorts 39 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: of folks who work from home. People who have kids 40 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 1: might naturally have a stopping point to their days, at 41 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: least in normal times you have to pick up the 42 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: kids at daycare or send your sitter home, But people 43 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: without these constraints need to come up with something else, 44 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: and so joining a softball team or volunteering at a 45 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: food bank once a week might serve the same function. 46 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: These commitments give you a reason to clock out and 47 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: have an engaging life outside of work. Of course, these days, 48 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 1: many activities are on a hiatus. That's six thirty pm 49 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: spin class or an eight pm book club or five 50 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: thirty pm volunteer shift at the library. Can no longer 51 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: tell you if it's time to stop work, so we 52 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: have to set our own rhythms for pursuing projects. Maybe 53 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: you remind yourself six p m. Is when I go 54 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 1: for a walk, or six pm is when I start 55 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: my daily project of cooking through the joy of cooking. 56 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 1: In warmer parts of the US, now is a great 57 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: time of year to plant a little garden, So maybe 58 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: you'll want to clock out early enough to get a 59 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 1: good chunk of time in your garden before sunset. Maybe 60 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: you can pick up a craft you used to enjoy, 61 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 1: or read all the works of George Elliott. Whatever your 62 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: particular interests, you'll be happier and more productive if you 63 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 1: do something besides work and worry. When you get a life, 64 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 1: you enjoy life more if you're working from home. What 65 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: lets you know when it's time to end your work day. 66 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: Do you have a project that makes your days richer 67 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: and more rewarding. I'd love to hear about it. You 68 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: can reach me at Laura at Laura Vanderkim dot com. 69 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 1: In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening, and 70 00:03:56,360 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: here's to succeeding in the New Corner Office. The New 71 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: Corner Office is a production of I Heart Radio. For 72 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: more podcasts, visit the I Heart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, 73 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 1: or wherever you get your favorite shows. H