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Speaker 1: I stole my best friend's boyfriend and it destroyed our friendship.

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Speaker 2: This is okop.

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Speaker 1: We tell the truest, funniest stories on the Internet. I'm

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Speaker 1: John and Sam. What do we think about this? Do

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Speaker 1: we think that if someone steals a boyfriend that that

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Speaker 1: warrants a destruction of a friendship?

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Speaker 2: For for sure? Like if someone dates your ex, I

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Speaker 2: don't think that's necessarily destruction worthy. Right, what do they

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Speaker 2: cheat on you? What do they steal that they steal?

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Speaker 2: That's destruction. That's the key word in this, right. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: What if it's like what if it's like, you're dating,

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Speaker 2: she breaks up with you and immediately dates the other Well,

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Speaker 2: I guess that's an X. If you're dating and she

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's I think that that warrants an ending of

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Speaker 2: If like Ron Weasley and Hermione broke up and then

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Speaker 2: Harmony started dating Harry, Ron is like never going to

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Speaker 2: emotionally recover from that, Like Harry's the chosen one and

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Speaker 2: he's gotten Hermione. Like that's too much power.

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Speaker 1: It's way too much better, dude, speaking of too much power,

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Speaker 1: So a disclaimer first, this story happened a long time ago,

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Speaker 1: but I'd still like to know if I was the

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Speaker 1: a hole in this situation. Okay, picture it. Summer of

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Speaker 1: nineteen ninety seven. I was fourteen years old, during the

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Speaker 1: summer between seventh and eighth grade, I was attending for

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Speaker 1: h camp for the second time, which I was pretty

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Speaker 1: excited about. Four h I think it's like, actually they

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Speaker 2: I believe fact fact checked me on Real Quick Riley, But.

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Speaker 1: I think it's a place where you can go like

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Speaker 1: do homesteading type things. I distinctly remember hearing about four

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Speaker 1: ah before Riley's disturbed by the results that he's found. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so it's kind of like a kind of a boy

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Speaker 1: Scouts girl Scouts like thing for thing for kids.

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Speaker 2: To someone's going to check us in the comments, like

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Speaker 2: it's not at all ye boy Scouts and girls. I

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Speaker 2: don't tell you what it's all about.

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Speaker 1: Hey, shout out to you, educate us, let us know

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Speaker 1: in the comments. For the second time, my best friend

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Speaker 1: at the time, Susan, for the sake of the story,

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Speaker 1: because she wasn't quite a Karen had come to the

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Speaker 1: like the year before, promised that we'd do everything together.

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Speaker 2: But it wasn't to be.

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Speaker 1: Why that year we found out that there was going

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Speaker 1: the dances are always the thing that pushed those girls

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Speaker 2: You know, the pot, the pot Manton. Okay.

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Speaker 1: The counselors told us that it would be co ed

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Speaker 2: Where'd she go?

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Speaker 1: I almost literally didn't see her again. The only time

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Speaker 1: in the only bed that I have that is the only.

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Speaker 2: One where I will see you. Where's she going?

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's out there hunting for shorties, gotta take someone

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Speaker 2: Dance with me.

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Speaker 1: Maybe but she got the moves, that's the question. Or

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Speaker 2: Like in like fourth grade. I practiced the pin drop

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Speaker 1: You can drop it like an astac and if I

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Speaker 1: The dance was quickly approaching, and I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: Were I thought were approaching sad territories. Yeah, now we're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. So I go up with dude. No,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't deserve a name. Oh wow, damn. Literally, all

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's like an insecure, like kind of

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Speaker 2: even go dance with their dates. That's true. My references

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Speaker 1: I am not mad at that in the slightest Now

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Speaker 1: Oh literally, that's verbade him what she said. Then within minutes,

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Speaker 2: Let me go check in on a friend, right, I

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Speaker 2: don't know, right, I don't know. I'm just gonna see

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Speaker 1: Maybe here's where I might have been the a hole

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Speaker 1: I saw her date, let's call him cal leaving out

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Speaker 1: He had no clue either. He just said she randomly

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Speaker 2: Man, what you're gonna do? You can't save it? I

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Speaker 1: We spent the rest of the time together, however long

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Speaker 1: that was probably till midnight, dancing and chit chatow.

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Speaker 2: Oh. So it sounds like they're they they're like the

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Speaker 1: Sounds like they like experienced like the bulk of the

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Speaker 2: It should it do?

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Speaker 1: I know she should have stepped up and been like,

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Speaker 1: Voted off the island, buddy, and you were the voter

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Speaker 2: The next day, Susan was so excited. Oh oh, no,

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Speaker 1: Time. She was amazing, And then you don't get your man.

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Speaker 1: The next day, Susan was so excited. The final day

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Speaker 2: On Susan's face. Do you know what's coming? Boys?

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Speaker 1: Then I watched it turn to ash as this path

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Speaker 2: Right in front of her too. He was going.

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Speaker 1: Were I was shocked. Susan was shocked. I eventually said sure.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how old were they again? In seventh grade?

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Speaker 1: relationship with Cal lasted for three years. Whoa, but we

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Speaker 2: There were long distance that entire time. How old are

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Speaker 2: bit of Well, seventh grade, you can have like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I think it could be either that situation where it's

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Speaker 2: A legit case of like she actually goes to another

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Speaker 2: see her twice every three years. Yeah, that could be

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Speaker 2: the case. So I have two theories. One basically that.

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Speaker 1: One where it was like they had you know, a relationship, boyfriend, girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Or maybe because she put relationship.

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Speaker 1: In quotes, maybe it was like Oh, they like knew

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's seventh grade. I feel like it was

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Speaker 1: Yeah maybe, Yeah, that's I think I think that's a

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Speaker 1: pretty Sille classic ones.

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Speaker 2: Although in my freaking the Catholic school was insane. People

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Speaker 2: were giving people blowjobs in fourth grade. Not me, not me,

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Speaker 2: to be clear, I was nowhere near that, but dude, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was worth grade is insane, insane in movie theaters.

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Speaker 1: Seventh to eighth grade. Seventh was when I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, people are going crazy.

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Speaker 2: But dude, yeah, it was. It was into that furth

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's everyone's the a hole, because I do think

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Speaker 1: That's pretty that's that's pretty rough. Camp friend not hanging

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Speaker 2: Time you have So you're gonna get revenge.

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Speaker 1: Not revenge. No, no, no, I'm not revenge. I'm saying

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Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone call, they'll do a little bit. Yeah he doesn't. Well,

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Speaker 2: That's an a whole move if it was just that week.

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Speaker 2: I understand Again, it sucks for seventh grade. It sucks.

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Speaker 1: It's ultimately all of this is like innocuous kid stuff.

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Speaker 2: Truth is outrage. They may their gain where their gain

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Speaker 1: Time for okop relash. My father killed my stepdad. Shit

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Speaker 1: fuck listen, listen. He did not come here today to do,

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Speaker 1: you know, messing around? Oh my dog ate my homework story.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, no, this is y scenario.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: So I am now a twenty eight year old woman

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Speaker 2: My father passed away yesterday.

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Speaker 1: He had textical cancer that made its way to his

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Speaker 1: When I was ten, my stepfather was abusive and he

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Speaker 1: But my stepfather disappeared one night. This is a small

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Speaker 2: Wait? So the dad who has secular cancers on his

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Speaker 2: deathbed confession if I've ever heard that is it's out

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Speaker 2: how many murders just like, you know, just happened like that,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it has to be pretty well now with

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Speaker 2: But it's like, yeah, that doesn't actually make a difference.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like I feel like all these

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Speaker 2: But I feel like it's probably easier than you'd think.

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Speaker 1: I like, where this where this train of thought is going,

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Speaker 1: How easy is it to actually I mean dexter, I

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Speaker 2: How many unsolved murders? All right? Forty percent of the

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Speaker 2: nation's homicides go unsolved. That's a lot. Ninety thousand people

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. But I guess not all of them, like,

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Speaker 1: Fat, right, some of them are just like genuinely missing,

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Speaker 1: But like, still ninety thousand people that is, that is preposterous.

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Speaker 2: The United States currently has two hundred and fifty thousand

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Speaker 2: in the USA year. Twelve thousand a year. That's not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, twelve thousand homicides a year, but ninety thousand people

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Speaker 1: go missing every day.

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Speaker 2: Let's see number of murders by state. It's not that much.

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Speaker 2: California has had two thousand murders, twenty two hundred murders.

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Speaker 2: Texas had nineteen hundred, Florida twelve hundred. This is probably

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Speaker 2: like twenty thousand. That's murders. Not as bad as I

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Speaker 2: thought it would be with ninety gees. Yeah, all homicides

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Speaker 2: twenty four thousand, five hundred.

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Speaker 1: Could be worse. I guess you could say something about

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Speaker 1: a thing like that.

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Speaker 2: It could be worse. It could be worse. Sikes