1 00:00:01,400 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: The Jewels show on demand Jewbils Dirty Little Secret? Hello, Hello, Hey, 2 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:16,319 Speaker 1: what's up. Hello. It's always super awkward because naturally, in 3 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: a conversation you want to go, hey, what's your name? 4 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: But I can't do that because it's dirty Little Secret 5 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 1: and everybody remains anonymous. So you have a dirty little 6 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 1: secret you want to share with us, I do go 7 00:00:25,960 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 1: for it. So my soon to be ex husband is 8 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: cheating on his girlfriend with me. Oh wow, so you're 9 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 1: all you would like have divorced him? Basically, Yeah, we're 10 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 1: like in the presage. It's almost done and he has 11 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: a girlfriend that he lives with. But you guys hook up. 12 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,520 Speaker 1: He's still up with me. Who are you guys still 13 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: hooking up if you guys are getting divorce. Um, that's 14 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: a good question. Our divorce is good. It's good. It's 15 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: just we're still friends. Everything's like mutual, you know what 16 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 1: I mean? But do you want to be hooking up 17 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:06,959 Speaker 1: with him? Or is it like you? I mean, you 18 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like oor is it the one 19 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: that you're in the same room and then I've done 20 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 1: with him for the umber, you know, like sixteen years. 21 00:01:12,560 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: So it's kind of what I'm used to I guess, 22 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 1: so she has no idea, no idea. How often do 23 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 1: you guys hook up? Maybe once a week? Okay, well 24 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: I have a personal question for you. So, like you, 25 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: you're very aware obviously that you two are hooking up. 26 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: Does it not bother you knowing that he's out here 27 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,360 Speaker 1: hooking up with another girl too? Like, yeah, you're helping 28 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,320 Speaker 1: him keep a secret, But how does that not because 29 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: that would eat me away? Eat away? Well, I mean 30 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: that's kind of part of our divorces. He wasn't a 31 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 1: faithful person. He's never going to be. Oh no, no, no, 32 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: no no, because now he has his cake and he's 33 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: eating and you're you're giving him all the goods and 34 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: it's like, I think that you need to find your 35 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,840 Speaker 1: fund somewhere else. Girl, you should tell his girlfriend or that. 36 00:01:58,120 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: I mean, he's getting over on every everybody, right, Like 37 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: he's getting over on you. For sure. You divorced him 38 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:09,079 Speaker 1: because no, I filed right because he cheated, Right, That's 39 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: why I was. I would again was assuming, but you 40 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 1: divorce him because he was cheating on you. Now he's 41 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: got a new girlfriend and he's cheeting on that girlfriend 42 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: with you. You say, he's never gonna be faithful. I mean, 43 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: is it that good? I mean no, I just don't 44 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 1: really Still, I feel like maybe once the divorce is final, 45 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 1: a little stop. Are you were you upset? Like? Are 46 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 1: you upset that he cheated on you? And stuff? Does 47 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: it because make you angry? I mean I was in 48 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,600 Speaker 1: that at the beginning, But it's should I mean, we're 49 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:45,280 Speaker 1: better off separate apart, right for exactly, So maybe you 50 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: should actually be separate and apart and not let him 51 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: be continuing to mess with your feelings like this, because 52 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:51,919 Speaker 1: I think, unfortunately that might be why. Yeah, he's gonna 53 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: keep doing it because he's he's got you under his thumb. 54 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 1: I don't mean that in a rude way, but he 55 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: definitely does like what you're right, Yeah, okay, and he's 56 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: gonna keep using you. Don't don't let that happen to yourself, 57 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: because also, I'm sure at some point you want to 58 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 1: move on, right do Yeah? Yeah? And you probably you 59 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: probably don't want to cheat on your person, no, right, 60 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: but I guarantee you you keep talking to this cat, 61 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: even if you find a new boyfriend, He's going to 62 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: get you to cheat because you just give into him. 63 00:03:17,639 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: If you stop giving into him, then you can find 64 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: someone else. Also, you can know for yourself you're not 65 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: going to be unfaithful. Yeah yeah, I mean I just 66 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: don't want to. I just don't like seeing people get 67 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: used like that. Do you guys have kids? Okay, well 68 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: that makes it more a little bit more difficult. Yeah sure, yeah, 69 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: like other person too, because I'm not gonna piss off 70 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 1: someone but thrown my kids, you know, Yeah, sure, you 71 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: know what you should do is just make it for 72 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: you because obviously you have trouble saying no to this dude, right, 73 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: never just meet up with him when you guys are 74 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: switching off kids or whenever you have to be around him, 75 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 1: meet up with him in public. Just don't let yourself 76 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: be alone because if you're alone, you might do stuff 77 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: that you might do stuff you want to do but 78 00:04:03,400 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: don't want to do, like because you obviously enjoy it, 79 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: But don't do that to yourself. That's what I think 80 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 1: needed the McDonald's parking lot, and if it happens there, 81 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: you guys are getting arrested and everybody's gonna so you 82 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 1: don't be doing anyway. You know, you're right, You're right. 83 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: The Jebel Show on demand