1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,760 Speaker 1: Kiki, is that's here that you I need? You have 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: to sort of explain this to me. But you wrote 3 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 1: the wedding venue two er start this weekend, so I 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: know what that means. But I'm putting my bridal team 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: on a point system. Lol. It's strict around here, Yes 6 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: it is. What does that mean? What does that mean? 7 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: It's a point system? 8 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: Okay? 9 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 3: So all right, my friends, all right that are going 10 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:24,919 Speaker 3: to be helping me with my wedding, and my sister 11 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 3: and she's a part of this team as well. I 12 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 3: figured the best way to handle this situation that we're 13 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 3: about to walk into is just come out from the 14 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 3: gate with a point system. So everybody will start with 15 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 3: five points. Every meeting you miss, every venue tour that 16 00:00:42,680 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 3: you can't come to, everything that you drop the ball on, 17 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 3: you hook it a point. Once you lose your five points, 18 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 3: you are on a performance improvement plan. Okay, and then 19 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 3: and then if you don't do the steps of that, 20 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 3: you are out of the Bridal team. 21 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: You do Reliaze, these people don't work for you, hold on, 22 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:02,640 Speaker 1: they don't. 23 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:04,039 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no no. 24 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: These are your friends, Yes, these are your friends that 25 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 1: you're inviting into the circle. 26 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 4: Your bridal team. Yes, hire hire a wedding planner. 27 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 3: Then no, no, no, no, no, we don't have the 28 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 3: budget for that. We have a dedicated bridal team. 29 00:01:20,120 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: So you have you've bestowed the honor of them doing 30 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: all the work for you. 31 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 5: Well, no, they're gonna help me. 32 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: They're gonna be there to support me. 33 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: But then you're gonna tell them whether they're not doing enough, 34 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 1: and you're gonna dock points. 35 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 4: You're gonna give them to merits. 36 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,559 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that is how you You know, everybody gets 37 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 3: a fair equal points, you know, five points to start 38 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: and then at the end if you would hope that 39 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:42,399 Speaker 3: you have all five of your points. 40 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: So who is on this team? Your sister, yes, so far, 41 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 1: and then who else? 42 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 2: Jason, Kaylin, Colleen? Then for it? Ryan Ryan. Ryan is 43 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 2: the chief of staff. 44 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I'm sure you all will get. 45 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 2: Your get your assignments from Ryan. 46 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 4: We all need a Ryan. I don't have a Ryan. 47 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, Ryan, I'm fine with this. 48 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 6: Okay, even though you did not ask, I am completely 49 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 6: fine with this. However, is there an incentive like if 50 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 6: I do really well, is do I get something like 51 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 6: a little treat or something? 52 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? 53 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 4: You get points back? 54 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, like, if you lose the point, then can you go, 55 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 1: you know, do a little extra and then get yourself 56 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 1: right back in. 57 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, that comes with a performance improvement plan. So I 58 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 3: don't want to have to I don't want to have 59 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: to put you on a PIP. But if you end 60 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 3: up on a PIP, you can work your way out. 61 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: Of So how many people are attending the tour this 62 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: weekend to the venue? 63 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 3: So the stre this weekend is just requiet for Helena 64 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 3: and Ryan she was half and then no, no, no, 65 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:40,639 Speaker 3: I haven't even announced my bridal party. Now I don't 66 00:02:40,639 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 3: have a date, so people don't know if they're in 67 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 3: it or out yet. 68 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 5: But yeah, listen, I've worked on many for free. 69 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 6: So honestly, if she does have incentives to do well, 70 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 6: then maybe I wouldn't. 71 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 5: Mind this because I've done it for free. 72 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 4: See, it's almostly. 73 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 1: It's not like this obviously on the on the male 74 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: side of the wedding planning, because most men are doing 75 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: much of anything. So again I will say this much, 76 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:05,639 Speaker 1: it's because it really doesn't I'm not gonna say it 77 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: doesn't matter what the guy thinks. But like my friends 78 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: who my friends who have gotten married, it's sort of 79 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 1: like I'm fine with whatever you want. Like it's not 80 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: that they don't want to be involved, it's just that 81 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 1: they're gonna get you know, they'll go to the cake 82 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: tasting thing and it'say, I like this one up, but 83 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: we're doing this one and you know it's just like okay, 84 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: well then why am I here? 85 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:22,000 Speaker 4: Right? 86 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: You know, so it's like we're doing this your way 87 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: and I'm fine with that. But then don't be mad 88 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: when I'm not jumping up and down to do whatever. 89 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: But I'm we don't have any duties, like I haven't 90 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 1: had to do any work. 91 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 5: Oh lovey you see wow. 92 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:37,200 Speaker 4: But I think if I had. 93 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: To do work, I'd probably be like I'm good, Like 94 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: I'm actually just gonna show up like I don't need 95 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: I don't need to do that. I don't need to 96 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: be subjected to this, like I'll just I'll just come 97 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: to the wedding like I. 98 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 2: Want to support your friend, help your friend, come on, man. 99 00:03:50,320 --> 00:03:52,480 Speaker 1: But it sounds like it sounds like I work for 100 00:03:52,520 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 1: you for the next two years and I don't really 101 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: feel like it. 102 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 3: Yes, that's part of being a bridal team. People love 103 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 3: to want to be in a wedding, but instead you 104 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 3: have actually done it. You don't know the amount of 105 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: work that comes comes with it. You don't know how 106 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 3: much money you are required to spend to be a 107 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 3: bridesmaid or a groomsman. It is expensive and it is 108 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 3: a commitment. So I am in the beginning going to 109 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 3: give everybody an option. 110 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 1: You know, now, I've never really heard of bridal party 111 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 1: having to go on venue tours. 112 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 4: I've never heard that. 113 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 5: No, you don't have to, but you should. 114 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 4: You get a point off if you don't. 115 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: Right, extra part. 116 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: Someone texted the bridal party should only be a part 117 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: of dress shopping, hair makeup and the bachelorette. 118 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 4: That's it. 119 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 1: Venues should only be a kiki in big tim Oh please. 120 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 2: No, I agree with that. That's why I'm only taking 121 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,080 Speaker 2: my chief of staff and my sister. 122 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't want like too many opinions too, right, 123 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 3: that's gonna get tricky too, because, like. 124 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 5: You know, so we're going to be silenced. 125 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 4: I don't know what. 126 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 1: Texasn't make a whole lot of sense. Something I want. 127 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: I think it's I once got. I think it's what 128 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 1: this is meant to say. Kicked out of my best 129 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: friend's wedding because two years in advance, she started a 130 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 1: monthly meeting with all of her bride I ended up 131 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: missing the first one because I had the flu, and 132 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: I missed the second because he landed on my husband's 133 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: birthday and I chose to go to dinner with him 134 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: instead of meeting for her wedding. So she told me 135 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: that she should be more important than my husband and 136 00:05:15,680 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: kicked me out of her wedding. 137 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:18,039 Speaker 4: She did you a favor. 138 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 5: I love bred so much. 139 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 6: My best friend and I who I will not name, 140 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 6: but you guys all know, got kicked out of a 141 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 6: maid of honor duties multiple times for one wedding. And 142 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 6: one of the times is because she wore two short 143 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 6: of shorts around. 144 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 5: The groom whoa keep all shorts and they were down 145 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,160 Speaker 5: to her knees. But like, you'll get kicks out of 146 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:36,119 Speaker 5: the wedding for some while. 147 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, brides get really crazy. 148 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 4: Yeah I knew gave Really your. 149 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:40,040 Speaker 2: Emotion is hahi? 150 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 5: You know you get nuts? 151 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, someone's calling you a bride zilla already. Everyone can 152 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: make its every appointment. Only my husband came to venues 153 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: with me. Don't need other opinions on where we got 154 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: married that's true. Now are you expecting these people to 155 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 1: contribute financially as well to. 156 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 2: Their portion of what they need to cover? 157 00:05:57,520 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 4: Excuse me? 158 00:05:58,960 --> 00:05:59,679 Speaker 2: You have a portion? 159 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 1: What is what is my portion of what I need 160 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 1: to cover for your wedding? 161 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 3: You are part of the entertainment committee, okay, Yeah, so 162 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 3: when we get that all finalized, you will get. 163 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 5: Your your invoice suities. 164 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, in your assignment. 165 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 3: Yes, Salina is part of marketing. 166 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 4: Girl. I don't know. 167 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 5: You want to rethink that one. No, I mean look 168 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 5: at her go party bus. 169 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 1: She's on a TV tour right now. So yeah, on 170 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 1: a press tour. So we have to get you a 171 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 1: press tour for your wedding. 172 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 5: I got you, girl. 173 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:34,159 Speaker 3: I told me at the end of this, it's just 174 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: gonna be me and Big Tim at my wedding. 175 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 1: Yes, that's what I'm saying. That's what I mean. You 176 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: know what I don't. I don't want to be on 177 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: the committee. I just want to show up and have 178 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: a little chocolate fund and get the. 179 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 4: Hell out of there. 180 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 2: Abuse. 181 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 5: I'll be there. 182 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, come in there, get my little my little 183 00:06:51,440 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 4: chicken breast. Yeah, they talk better than they These are 184 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 4: the radio blogs on The Fresh Show. 185 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: You gotta stick around. I was thinking about going, but 186 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: I think I'll stick around. I think it's a good idea. 187 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 1: I like writing in our diaries, except we say I'm aloud. 188 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 1: We call them blogs, Calin. 189 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:08,159 Speaker 5: Go, thank you, dear blog. 190 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 6: So I feel like I'm typically someone who can kind 191 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 6: of usually take myself outside of my own perspective and 192 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 6: see other people's perspective. But there is like one thing 193 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 6: that I really just can't comprehend that people don't feel 194 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 6: the same about me. 195 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 5: And if you have. 196 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 6: Allergies or like a traumatic story, please don't at me. 197 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 5: That's not what this is about. 198 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 6: But and people have called us out, specifically Fred, like 199 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 6: the way in which we love animals is a little 200 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 6: bit more probably than others, specifically dogs, like I will 201 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 6: I'll put my face up to like a barn animal's 202 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 6: face too. 203 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I'm a Sickoh, I get it. 204 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:45,200 Speaker 4: Because I don't think any of them are going. 205 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 5: To hurt me, right, Why would they? 206 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 4: They wouldn't because. 207 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,560 Speaker 5: They feel us exactly, they know us. 208 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: As you know, Caln, I believe that I can reason 209 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: with the wild animal. And this is not a joke, 210 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: This is not a bit, This is not a gimmick. 211 00:07:56,640 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: Like I firmly believe that in the wild, if I 212 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: came across a wild animal, that we wouldn't have an issue. 213 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 5: I feel the same. 214 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: I genuinely believe that if I were walking down some 215 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: trail and a jaguar came out or something, that I 216 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 1: could reason with it and be like, yo, I'm good, 217 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,040 Speaker 1: Like I'm totally good, showing pictures on my phone to 218 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: be you know, animals I've rescued and stuff, and then 219 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: boom in the jaguar. Before long, the jaguar and I 220 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: are hunting together for prey, petting each other and yeah, 221 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: I'll just you know. 222 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 5: Wants to send us into the world. 223 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: You would like to lock me in this aquarium I 224 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: mentioned before with a jaguar, I just like saying jaguar. 225 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 4: By the way, it's not it feels like you do. 226 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, anyway, you can continue anyway. 227 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,760 Speaker 6: So I've always loved animals, and we love dogs specifically. 228 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 6: And while I have had dogs in the past, like 229 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 6: family dogs, I you know, have sense taken over my 230 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:48,559 Speaker 6: boyfriend's dog because we are just we are we're road dogs, 231 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 6: like we're busties whatever, and so I have it's the 232 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 6: first time of me like having a dog as an 233 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 6: adult and she's small, she's like thirty eight pounds, and 234 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:00,400 Speaker 6: just just the experience of seeing people who are like 235 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 6: really not dog people has been very shocking for me. 236 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 5: And like even in my building, like if people. 237 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 6: Are weird about like riding the elevator with her, like 238 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 6: I very much judge them, like I'm like, you should 239 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 6: live in like a special like non dog building because this. 240 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 5: Is this is weird energy. Another thing that I've. 241 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 6: Noticed is like I always ask if I can bring 242 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 6: her with, because if she can come with, she's coming with. 243 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 6: And this is specific to people's homes as well. 244 00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 5: And I'm starting to get like weird reactions from people. 245 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 6: Is it rude to ask even like you can tell 246 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 6: me no and I'm cool about it. 247 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 5: Is it rude to ask if I could bring a 248 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 5: dog to your house? 249 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 4: Why are you looking at me? Who is looking at me? 250 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 3: As I am a dog owner, I'm a dog mom. 251 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 3: This is Lexus world, in my opinion. So when we 252 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:49,880 Speaker 3: get on the elevator, this is his elevator. Right now, 253 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 3: we're the guest. So I have the same problem as you. 254 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 3: My sister allowed, for example, not hate stocks, but she 255 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 3: is not a dog person, like she does not play 256 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 3: around with dogs, she doesn't want to be around dogs. 257 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 2: And I always. 258 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 3: Say, like, you're weird, Like I'm like her, this is 259 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 3: your nephew, right, like this is your family. So it's 260 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 3: it's the same thing here. I don't think it's a problem. 261 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 3: I get dogs like I look at children. That's my baby. 262 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 4: Well to some MAKEX sense. 263 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: I use that by the way, that one right there 264 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: makes people so angry for some reason. All the people 265 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: think dogs are like cutes And I know that's some 266 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: what you mean literally, but yeah, right, that's that's what 267 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: I mean when I say that. But I've got I've gotten. 268 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 4: It before too. 269 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 1: Well you think having a dog's are coven No, that's 270 00:10:28,080 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 1: not what I said, But I treat we've always treated 271 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: animals in our family like they're the same as family, 272 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: and they're not, of course, Like I get it. If 273 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: it's a person eating or a dog eating, well, I mean, 274 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 1: I hope you know what's ever in a situation, I 275 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,440 Speaker 1: have to choose between dogs and animals. But whatever the 276 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: case between humans and animals, but whatever the case may be, 277 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: they get the same love and attention that we would 278 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,400 Speaker 1: give to any other member of the family. That being said, 279 00:10:53,360 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: I don't think people are going to tell you no 280 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: as often as they would like to. 281 00:10:57,960 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 4: And I know that you think that you. 282 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 1: Take no well, but I think that if you were 283 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: to say can I bring my daughter my best friend 284 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,720 Speaker 1: to your house with me, and they and they say uh, 285 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 1: I think it probably puts some people in a spot 286 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: because maybe they don't want that, but they're not. Maybe 287 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: they're there they don't want hair in their house, or 288 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 1: they have allergies where they just don't want it, or 289 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: they don't know the dog, or they or they don't 290 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 1: know how your dog's didn't get along with their dog 291 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: or whatever. I don't know that I think people would 292 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: necessarily tell you no as often as you think they would. 293 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 5: Well, I've gotten it. 294 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 6: Three times and I've taken it well, I secretly judge 295 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 6: for sure. 296 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 4: Well, that's what I mean, though it's not people are 297 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 4: afraid of that. 298 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 5: Well, you know, they can be afraid, but ask for 299 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 5: what you need. But I don't know. 300 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 6: And one of my friends, you know, she has let 301 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 6: me bring her every other time, and then finally she said, well, 302 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:49,440 Speaker 6: my husband is really weird about it and doesn't want 303 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,559 Speaker 6: her to come over. Anymore. And I said, okay, that's fine, 304 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 6: and she said, but when we get her, I go. 305 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 6: But I thought you guys were gonna get it dug. 306 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:56,680 Speaker 6: And she's like, well, when it's ours, it's fine. So 307 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 6: I don't know, it's just been an interesting thing, and yeah, 308 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:00,480 Speaker 6: you're right, maybe I put people on the spot. 309 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 1: But because like we've had you know, we have dogs 310 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: in Arizona. My mom has dogs, two dogs, two cats. 311 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: And people will be like, well, you have a big 312 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 1: yet backyard and you have dogs, So I'm gonna bring 313 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: so and so dog over to whatever. 314 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 4: And we've done that before. 315 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: But the problem is so and so dog is maybe 316 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: not that well behaved, or so and so dog maybe 317 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: isn't nice to one of our dogs, or so and 318 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: so dog peace in the house. 319 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 4: And so there's just so many variables. 320 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: Okay, And so I think my mom, who loves animals 321 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:26,959 Speaker 1: and volunteers with animals and all the things, I think 322 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 1: she's now inclined to say no, I don't want that, 323 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 1: because it's just there's just so many variables. And I 324 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:36,560 Speaker 1: don't really think as many people as you think are 325 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:38,559 Speaker 1: going to be honest with you about it, because I 326 00:12:39,520 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: just don't because you can say that's cool. But if 327 00:12:42,440 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, I want to bring so and so 328 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: over and it's like no, it's deflating. 329 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 4: It is deflating. 330 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: And you've admitted that you would judge the person saying 331 00:12:49,960 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 1: I probably would too, So rather than do that, I 332 00:12:52,360 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 1: probably wouldn't just I just wouldn't say. I wouldn't ask hey. 333 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 4: Elaine, Hey, what's up? Hi Elayne? What do you think 334 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 4: about this? Do you think? Do you think you have 335 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 4: a dog? 336 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:03,560 Speaker 1: Do you think that if you want to take the 337 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:05,240 Speaker 1: dog everywhere and you call ahead and say can I 338 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 1: bring the dog? Is that fair to the people that 339 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 1: you're asking? 340 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 5: Ale? 341 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I. 342 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 5: Don't think she's the a hole. 343 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 7: But I have a German Shepherd, and my German Shepherd 344 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 7: is like my child and I love to bring her 345 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 7: everywhere that I can. But if someone called me and 346 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,080 Speaker 7: was like, Heylene, is it cool if I bring my 347 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 7: dog over to play with your dog? 348 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: I'd be like, I think it just puts people on 349 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 1: a spot that you don't necessarily need to put them in. 350 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 4: Okay, because it's. 351 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 5: Like her toys. 352 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 7: She doesn't want anybody to play with her toys, so 353 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 7: I have to like pick. 354 00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 4: Them all up and put them all away, and then 355 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 4: it's like. 356 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 7: Get along, yeah, okay, oh no, my dog loves other dogs, 357 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 7: loves other dogs, but not to the extent of like, hey, 358 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 7: we're going to be Bessie's but I put the dog, 359 00:13:57,960 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 7: but she wants them to come over, and then she's 360 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 7: going to try, like, you know, be like oh wait, no, 361 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 7: don't do that or don't do that well. 362 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: And also dogs in a dog park are different than 363 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: dogs in their own home sometimes. Yeah, And I don't 364 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,440 Speaker 1: even know if it's about. And thank you Elaine, by 365 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: the way, I appreciate you calling. Have a good day. 366 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: I'm not even sure if it's about. Certainly, if they 367 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 1: have dogs, then that's important, I get yeah, But then 368 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: if they don't have dogs, it's kind of like I 369 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 1: don't know, Like I don't think a person. I don't 370 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 1: think a bad person is a bad person if they 371 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: don't want another dog in their house. 372 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with that. 373 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,680 Speaker 5: Interesting, Yeah, I don't know if I do. 374 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 2: You're not a bed. Yeah, you're not a bed. 375 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 6: Also, I know my dog, like I would love Willy 376 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 6: to come over now, Benzo the tank is I'm not 377 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 6: bringing him out? 378 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 5: Which yes, which if if the. 379 00:14:41,320 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 6: Issue is there's another dog I have the utmost respect. 380 00:14:44,200 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 6: I just would love if you guys would go, Can 381 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 6: I bring Benzo? Can I bring Lucks? Can I bring 382 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 6: them over? That would be the best day of my life. 383 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 2: But I love it, I get it. 384 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I just tend not to. 385 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, I tend not to ask questions like 386 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: that because maybe that's maybe that's wrong on me, But 387 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: it's just like that way, I'm not putting anybody in 388 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 1: the spot where they have to say something that is 389 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: within their comfort level and their right, but then also 390 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 1: would cause maybe you to think differently about. 391 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 5: Me, right, And I love dogs, O love you guys. 392 00:15:12,200 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 4: See, this is what I mean. There is judgment.