1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:03,680 Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan. 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 2: Part one behind a scene with a member of the show. 3 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 2: Welcome to the weekend, everybody, What is up? Morgan's here 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 2: and I'm joined by Abby. 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: Abby. How are you? I'm good, We're up. 6 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: You're in the new studio where we're recording best Bits. 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: It's one of our new studios, and I have to 8 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: kind of face forward. 9 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: I know this is weird. 10 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 2: The microphone's having a mind of its own. It is, 11 00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 2: but we're doing it. 12 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: And I'm controlling the boards. I know, look at you. 13 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 1: Watch out Ray, someone's coming for the board. Oh gosh, no, 14 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: don't give me that one. 15 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 2: Too many buttons. All right, Well, Abby, we have a 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 2: lot of things that happened on the show this week. 17 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 2: So you are going to see a therapist for easy 18 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 2: tria and other things. 19 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,159 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 20 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: I gave an update on Halloween Man, and I asked 21 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: a favor from Bobby about something that we'll kind of 22 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: talk a little bit today. Amy admitted she said something 23 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,800 Speaker 2: on the phone and it was a very mom of 24 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 2: the Year moment in sarcasm. Bobby came through for a 25 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,920 Speaker 2: listener who made it bet with his son over these 26 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 2: Taylor Swift tickets, and the show played games all day 27 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: post election day, which was super fun, and we'll include 28 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: some of those. So if you want to catch up 29 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 2: on the show, go check out part two. But for now, 30 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: we're just chatting about Live Abby. How are things going, 31 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,839 Speaker 2: How are you? What's the latest? 32 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: What's the latest? I feel like I'm just working a lot. 33 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:29,559 Speaker 1: Like always, I feel like I don't really have an update. 34 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: I'm just working. But I got to go on a 35 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 1: nice little trip. So yeah, you just want to chat 36 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: and Chattanooga is that right? Yeah? Chat? 37 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 2: I remember the last time I thought it was Knoxville, 38 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 2: so I can remember it was Nxvill. 39 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this time Chattanooga. It's only like two hours away. 40 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: But what do you guys do We just wanted to 41 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: see like the fall leaves, you know, like the drivers. 42 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: Did you get to see him? Pretty Yes? I think 43 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: we need It's like in two weeks, I think it'll 44 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: be like at the Prime it was not. 45 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 2: Quite really so you're saying I could go do it? 46 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? Now is the time, Like this is my favorite 47 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 1: time of year because it's like the drive is so you. 48 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: Know that it makes me really want to go the 49 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 2: one place I would love to go for the fall 50 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 2: leaves is Vermont and like Upper Northeast because everybody says 51 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: those fall leaves are insane. 52 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I've heard that too. What it in Massachusetts? Yes, 53 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: like Salem. I've been seeing so many posts of. 54 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 2: People always supposed to go to Salem in October because 55 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 2: of like the Salem witch trials and stuff. So it's 56 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: like a Halloween activity mm hmm. I think they have 57 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 2: a lot of activities that go on around that holiday. 58 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 1: I feel like that'd be really fun. So you know 59 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: what I mean? Halloween? Yes, and then they go do 60 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: fall you do? You do love Halloween? Did you get 61 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: see a lot of scary movies? 62 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 2: Is Halloween? I was a favorite? 63 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: Yeah? I did. I watch all the Halloweens. Again. 64 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 2: Does Searhead like Halloween movies? 65 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: Not as much as me? But he did? He like 66 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: he he liked these. 67 00:02:46,680 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so it won't be a problem moving forward that 68 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 2: you like to basically watch scary movies all the time. 69 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: Right. He doesn't like to watch them by himself, but 70 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: he's there if he's with me, I just don't get scary. 71 00:02:57,960 --> 00:02:59,799 Speaker 1: Like I can be at home and watch them by myself, 72 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: and I don't get scared. Are you afraid of anything? 73 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: Not really anything in life? Yeah? Oh oh, are you 74 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: getting me? 75 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 2: I said nothing very confidently, and I was just gonna 76 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: let that happen. 77 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 1: I'm not scared of people like breaking in my house 78 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: really or like a murder coming with a knife. 79 00:03:15,160 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh dang, I'm scared of all those things. I 80 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 2: shouldn't have said that, but you might have just chinxed 81 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 2: it now, Oh my gosh, hope not. Oh yeah, I'm 82 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 2: a big baby, like I'm not a worst case scenario person, 83 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 2: but like sometimes I'll be like, Nope, this is where 84 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 2: I'm gonna die. Somebody's gonna come barging in. Or I'll 85 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 2: hear something outside just like one little noise and it'll 86 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 2: actually make Remy bark and Remy never barks, Okay, well yeah, 87 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 2: and then it'll be like, I don't know, something just 88 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 2: crunched on a leaf wrong, and that's she just happened 89 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:43,160 Speaker 2: to hear it, And I'm like, oh I'm dying. 90 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: No, that does scare me. When I've been at your 91 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: house watching her she barks, I'm like, oh my gosh, 92 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 1: she knows something I don't know. Oh my, she heard it. 93 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: What's happening. She knows your house better than these lot's 94 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 1: going on well, and she doesn't bark it a lot 95 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: of things. 96 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:56,240 Speaker 2: So when she does bark, you're like, okay. 97 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 1: Something's happening. 98 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 2: Yes, but now she also barks at my cat. So 99 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 2: it could have just been Hazel doing her nocturnal stuff 100 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 2: and her. 101 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: Like pulling open the cabinet. Cabinet. What in the world, 102 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: little rascals, it's so funny. 103 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 2: Okay, So scary movies. Watch a lot of scary movies. 104 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: And you guys went to Chattanooga, did you have a 105 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 2: favorite place. 106 00:04:15,680 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: Were then there was what was it the stone cup 107 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:21,559 Speaker 1: that was really good for breakfast, the bread stone cup? 108 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: Fist ever, Yes, it's like her or just there, okay, 109 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: there see, I just just there big statements today. 110 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 2: You know, it's it's a Thursday that we're recording this, 111 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 2: so you. 112 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: Deserve that it is. Oh my gosh, the ice Cream 113 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: Show is the best. I've probably told you this before. 114 00:04:38,839 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: I don't know if we've talked about it, but the 115 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: ice Cream Show. It's like they have thousands of combinations. 116 00:04:43,080 --> 00:04:45,440 Speaker 2: Of ice cream and it's the ice cream Show. 117 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: That's what it's called. The ice Cream Show. It's like 118 00:04:47,240 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 1: a you walk in. It's just a normal ice cream shop. 119 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: But it's called the ice Cream Show. 120 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 2: For some reason, I thought you were talking about a 121 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: show on Netflix. 122 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,880 Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, it's a place place. It's an 123 00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: ice cream place. 124 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 2: And do they put on ice Cream Show? Not really. 125 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 1: I don't know why it's called that, but like just 126 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: the way they mix it, it's just different. It's like 127 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: this machine that's really old and it like squishes it down, 128 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: like crunches everything and then squishes it into a cup. 129 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: It's really weird. I don't know. 130 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 2: It's so good though, and it tastes amazing. Yeah, it's delicious. 131 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 2: The Stone Cup and the ice Cream Show. Yeah. If 132 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 2: you go to Chattanooga and go check out the fall 133 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 2: Leaves in a couple of weeks. 134 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: Yes, and walk across the bridge. Oh my gosh. Oh 135 00:05:20,520 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: there was this the largest like rowing it's called a 136 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: regatta that was happening in Chattanooga. I was like, why 137 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: can't we find a hotel? That's why there were five 138 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: thousand athletes in Chattanooga. Pretty small for the weekend. Well 139 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 1: they were like college athletes in high school? 140 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 2: Is okay? 141 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know I should have said that otherwise, Yeah, 142 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: that would have been wild. There were a lot of athletes, 143 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:44,599 Speaker 1: but it was really cool. 144 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 2: Like row it like the longest, meaning like it's longer 145 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 2: than a typical row. 146 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: It's the largest, like in international I guess everybody meets there. 147 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 2: It's the largest largest rowing competition, or the most particular 148 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: boat is the longest, it's internationally largest competition. 149 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: Because I was. 150 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 2: Definitly rolling with the fact that these are like the 151 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 2: largest longest boats ever. 152 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: No, I wanted to note because like some of them 153 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 1: there's twelve people or I guess, no, six people, twelve 154 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: ors six people. Sometimes there's four, sometimes there's only two. 155 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: So I wanted to know like all about it. It 156 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: was really cool. Did you guys watch a race competition, Yeah, 157 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: it's it's intense. I actually tried out in college to 158 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 1: be on the road routine really, but I would have 159 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: been the I think the coxsin where you sit in there. 160 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 1: It's like the one that sits at the front and 161 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: tells the rowers what to do oh and yells at 162 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: everybody yeah, And I was like, oh my gosh, I 163 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: don't think I can do this. That's like they're not 164 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 1: even looking. They're back is forwards so they're trusting you 165 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: one hundred percent. 166 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. It's like you have to have a lot 167 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,040 Speaker 2: of knowledge and a lot of motivation. 168 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: Yes, and you have to say all these terms like 169 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: starboard side, turn left, you know, oh, we're coming towards 170 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: a bridge, like don't hit it. 171 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's funny. We There was a decent 172 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 2: amount of people that tried out for the rowing team 173 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 2: when I was at k State, like friends wise, because 174 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,599 Speaker 2: they were just recruiting, like whoever wanted to try out. 175 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 2: I never I never had the desire to be a rower. 176 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: I'ma be honest. 177 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 2: I do rowing in workouts out and even then I'm 178 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 2: like fifty meters that's a lot. 179 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: It is a an intense workout, Like if I do 180 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: the rowing machine, Yeah, it's like oh my, oh. 181 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: Sorry, and not fifty meters because that's not a lot. 182 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 2: Fifty calories is what they make us do, and that 183 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 2: is so much. 184 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: Geez, how many is that? Oh? 185 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 2: It takes you solid a couple of minutes to get 186 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 2: to fifty at least at my capacity for rowing. But 187 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 2: there's a really good rowing movie that you should Boys 188 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:32,960 Speaker 2: in the Boat. 189 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: Oh I did see that? Isn't Netflix, No, I mean, 190 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:37,800 Speaker 1: I didn't see the movie. I should know better. 191 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: You didn't watch it, You never watched any of the movies. 192 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: You'd be shocked, so shocked. 193 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's on Netflix. I rented it 194 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: at one point, but I do think it's on one 195 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 2: of the streaming services. 196 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 1: Now let me see, let me look it up. 197 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 2: Do a little flibbering for me right now. 198 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was cool. It was intense, so that 199 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: that was crazy because Chattanooga's pretty small, so I have 200 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: five thousand athletes and then their parents. But it was 201 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: just really cute all the parents cheering them on. It 202 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: was really sweet, like from the bridge because they were 203 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:08,119 Speaker 1: standing on the pedestrian bridge like looking down and cheering, 204 00:08:08,120 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my gosh, it brought me 205 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: back to like high school, my sports days. It was 206 00:08:12,040 --> 00:08:12,559 Speaker 1: really cute. 207 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 2: That's so fun. That's like a fun weekend. Okay, it's 208 00:08:14,920 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 2: on Amazon Prime and Roku also Channel premiums. Okay, I'm 209 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 2: gonna check that out or Sling TV or you can 210 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 2: rent it. Yeah, but I think it's on Amazon Prime. 211 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 2: So if you have Amazon Prime, gotcha. But cool, Chattanooga. 212 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 2: What else is new? 213 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: Oh? Man? 214 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: You guys moved in together yet not yet. 215 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 1: No, that's still in the works, taking things slow. It's 216 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 1: been a year, So. 217 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 2: Did you celebrate your year anniversary? Was the Chattanooga trip 218 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 2: the year anniversary trip? 219 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 1: No, it wasn't. It hasn't. I guess been officially since 220 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,319 Speaker 1: we've met, it's been over it, or we're in between. 221 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: I guess, like, when do you celebrate a year anniversary? 222 00:08:50,920 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: Is it when you're official or when you like your 223 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:53,719 Speaker 1: first date? What is it? I? 224 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,200 Speaker 2: Well, I always like not for known each other for 225 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 2: however long since you met, But I feel like the 226 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 2: anniversary is like when you officially started dating, so you 227 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 2: at least typically remember that date more than you remember 228 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 2: the date of your actual meeting. 229 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: Sometimes, yeah that's true. 230 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 2: Sorry, you guys, gonna do something for it? Or you 231 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 2: can get him a gift first anniversary gift? 232 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: Oh, I probably will. What do you get that? 233 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 2: I mean, things that they like, personal things to them 234 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,559 Speaker 2: would be a really like, yeah, you can get just 235 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 2: a regular just gift anything that they might like, but 236 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 2: I would say something personal to him that, like maybe 237 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 2: he doesn't realize you've noticed about him, would be a 238 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 2: good gift. M H, especially at being like your first 239 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 2: anniversary to celebrate together something that like you've come to mind. 240 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 2: Like what I do when I start seriously, like exclusively 241 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:42,320 Speaker 2: dating someone is I put a bunch of notes on 242 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 2: my phone and I'll keep track of just things that 243 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 2: I've noticed, and I use that for Christmas or birthdays 244 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: or anniversaries or whatever not that I've had. Anniversary and 245 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 2: a hot minute, but I use that like for my thing. 246 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 2: So I don't know if you do that, but uh, 247 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 2: that could be a way to like find some a 248 00:09:58,920 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 2: few different personal things. 249 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's cute to go together. The hard thing is 250 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 1: is our the anniversary would be like two weeks before Christmas, 251 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: then there's Christmas, and then his birthdays two weeks after. 252 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: So it's just like all these gifts ever you know. 253 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 2: Okay, so Yetta spread them out. 254 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:13,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like spreading it out, and I'm like, which 255 00:10:13,600 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: would be best for this and this and this. 256 00:10:15,240 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 2: So maybe the anniversary gift is a good experience for 257 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:22,640 Speaker 2: both of you, and that's your gift. But I don't 258 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 2: know what you're doing about, like this is mine. Yeah, 259 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 2: that's something you guys can do together. 260 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 1: It's like an experience. Yeah, yeah, I like doing that anyway, 261 00:10:28,320 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 1: Like the game, Like, I'd rather take him to a 262 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,280 Speaker 1: game since an experience and have a thing. Yeah, he's 263 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: not all about like just material things he likes, So. 264 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:38,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, then experiences. And there's so much stuff you guys 265 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 2: would go do in Nashville that you'd have so much 266 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 2: fun doing. For that kind of thing, you should go 267 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 2: eat at House of Cards. It's one of my favorite 268 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 2: places to eat. Yeah, I've never I sent my parents 269 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 2: on an anniversary dinner there. It's been a long time 270 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 2: since I've gone, but I sent my parents shortly after 271 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 2: and they also loved it. They went for their anniversary dinner. 272 00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 2: It's a cool spot. You get a magic show or 273 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 2: you could do the petite chef that looked like which 274 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: is really cute. 275 00:11:02,720 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: Also, dinner in a show that's so fun. Do they 276 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 1: still have it? It wasn't just like a thing. 277 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 2: No, it's like a long standing pop up. They're doing 278 00:11:09,520 --> 00:11:10,160 Speaker 2: it for a long time. 279 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: That's awesome. 280 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 2: So I would say either one of those is really cool. 281 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, I gotcha. 282 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: Cool experiences. He's not gonna listen to this, so he. 283 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: Won't know he's not I hope not. 284 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 2: Hey, she said, please leave. 285 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: Listen it with you listen it with you, Let's go. 286 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 2: I mean, honestly, nothing abby. 287 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:29,079 Speaker 1: I'm not on. 288 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 2: Dating apps. My birthday weekend, I deleted all the dating apps. 289 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 2: I'm just floating and existing in the world and letting 290 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 2: things happen to me. I'm very much in this space 291 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 2: where I'm just letting things pass how they're supposed to pass, 292 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 2: kind of thing. I've tried to really like relinquish control, 293 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 2: if you will, to just about everything of like I felt, 294 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 2: there was so much of me that was just trying 295 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 2: to because I like, I look at my life and 296 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 2: I have like a really awesome life. I have a 297 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 2: good career, and I have good friends and family, and 298 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 2: I have my house and the animals, and like, life 299 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 2: is good. I have a really good life that I'm 300 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 2: very very lucky to have. And I was just so 301 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,360 Speaker 2: caught up and trying to meet someone because I desperately 302 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 2: want it. That's still there, right, like, the feeling of 303 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 2: that is still there. I want to share my life 304 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: with somebody because it is so great. I want somebody 305 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 2: to be in it and it just be this incredible love. 306 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:37,760 Speaker 2: But I'm also just I'm not going to force that either. 307 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna settle and I'm not you know, Sally 308 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 2: had her situation that happened, and Sally wasn't gonna force 309 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 2: that situation to happen. The HALLOWEENA situation is going on 310 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 2: with Halloween, man, I'm not forcing that. I'm just I'm 311 00:12:56,920 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 2: in this place where like, I want to meet someone 312 00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 2: who genuinely wants to be part of my life and 313 00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 2: wants us both to be very, very happy, and I 314 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 2: feel like there's just been so much pressure and stuff 315 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:14,760 Speaker 2: like feeling I feel, and I put it on myself 316 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 2: sometimes where like a ha, you know, I gotta find 317 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 2: this and I gotta figure this out. And I'm just 318 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 2: no longer in that space anymore where I'm like, I'm 319 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 2: just done. I'm just done allowing that pressure to control 320 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 2: all of this because I'm tired. Dating sucks so bad, 321 00:13:29,120 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: Like genuinely, it's so exhausting, I know, and meeting somebody 322 00:13:34,000 --> 00:13:37,199 Speaker 2: and getting excited about them and then it like going 323 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 2: to crap. It's not fun to keep doing all the time. 324 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 1: It is exhausting. It's so exhausting, sharing so much your 325 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 1: life and then just being like, okay, we was nothing 326 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: like you. Now you don't want to hang out with 327 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 1: me like. 328 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: Or just like the lack of communication as adults, like 329 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 2: this is what, this is what I don't understand. It's 330 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 2: like I went out with a guy. We had drinks, 331 00:13:57,720 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 2: and the drinks were good, but I just I wasn't 332 00:14:01,040 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 2: really feeling it afterwards. There wasn't a part of me 333 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:06,239 Speaker 2: that's like so it was so excited to go see him, 334 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 2: and so like my texting was not great. I wasn't 335 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 2: like communicating super well of like it was like I 336 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 2: would text back, but it takes a couple hours or whatever, 337 00:14:15,400 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 2: and then it just kind of fizzled and a few 338 00:14:18,120 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 2: days went by and I was like, I'm not I'm 339 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 2: not going to be this person. That's not who I am. 340 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:25,040 Speaker 2: I'm not going to sit here and like does he 341 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: probably care that I didn't to an extent, no, but 342 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 2: like there's not a person in this world that doesn't 343 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 2: deserve the closure of even if it didn't work out 344 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 2: of after a first date, not getting some type of hey, 345 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 2: like sorry, this won't work. So like I sent a 346 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 2: text over to him and I was like, hey, I'm sorry. 347 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 2: I know it's been a few days. This might feel weird, 348 00:14:43,320 --> 00:14:45,480 Speaker 2: but I just wanted to let you know like I 349 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 2: think I was not super as interests interested as I 350 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:52,120 Speaker 2: wanted to be, and you know, I wish you all 351 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 2: the best, and like we had a great amlicable like 352 00:14:54,720 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 2: ending conversation and that never happens. Nobody ever does that. 353 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 2: I don't know how many guys phone numbers I have 354 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 2: that have just like went into the abyss and I 355 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 2: just never heard from them again. 356 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know what I mean. Oh yeah, sometimes 357 00:15:09,240 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: they would do that, and I was like, oh my gosh, 358 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: I appreciated that so much, like more than you know, 359 00:15:13,440 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: which is sad because it shouldn't be like this, Oh 360 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: my gosh, he actually did text me. That should just 361 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: be like a standard thing, like just be honest, like 362 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 1: why would you not? And I know they're probably scared 363 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: of the response or you know, like afraid to hurt 364 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: their feelings, but I'm like, I would rather have the 365 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 1: truth than wonder why, because then you're just like, okay, 366 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: what happened if you say, if you're just upfront and 367 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: they're like, hey, I didn't feel it or I met 368 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: somebody else. 369 00:15:36,480 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 2: Or like yeah, sure it's a sting for a second. Yeah, 370 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 2: you know, it's a little birsy. You go you're like, dang, okay, 371 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: that sucks. But you get a closure, like a door opened, 372 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: it closed, and you're like, I don't just have this 373 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 2: door sitting there open forever and wondering like there were 374 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: there's I mean, they're like, these are all casual dates. 375 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 2: None of them have gotten to the point of like 376 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: full blown dating. But there was also like two guys 377 00:15:58,920 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: that at different time times that I had gone out with, 378 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 2: and both of them am local amblicably. That's such a 379 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 2: tough word. I like to say, I don't know why 380 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:14,320 Speaker 2: I am amblicably. Yes, ended well, because you know, I 381 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 2: was like, I'm not feeling this, but like I And 382 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 2: what was interesting is my new therapist had said, give 383 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 2: them the opportunity to still be in your life if 384 00:16:24,240 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 2: they want to in a capacity of friendship. 385 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know. 386 00:16:27,040 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 2: That just feels so weird, and and she's like why, 387 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 2: She's like, it's not your decision to make, it's theirs 388 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:34,800 Speaker 2: if they would like to stay in your life and 389 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 2: be your friend. But like, you're not even giving some 390 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 2: situations to that option. So that helps me see things 391 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 2: in a new way. So I've at least ended them 392 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 2: a little bit more in the terms of like I'm around, 393 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 2: if you ever like, would like to hang out as friends, whatever, 394 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 2: and they did. They've transpired to be like friendships or whatever, 395 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: and that just never was really a thing before because 396 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 2: dating was so black and white to me. 397 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: No, that is interesting, like to think of it that way, 398 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: to be like, oh no, just because we didn't work 399 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 1: out as like romantic partners, like why can't he just 400 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,399 Speaker 1: be a friend that we just like hang out and 401 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: then you meet his friends and. 402 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 2: And there, and I guess to me, there's always been 403 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 2: this touchy where like somebody's gonna have feelings if one 404 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 2: person ended it over the other. And I think that's 405 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 2: why I always like would just cut it off completely. 406 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 2: But I don't know. You know, we're growing, we're seeing, 407 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 2: we're seeing how things go. It could go horribly wrong, 408 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 2: who knows. Yeah, But so one of them is still 409 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 2: a friend, another one is friend by friends, so we're 410 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 2: still on good terms. And both of both of them 411 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,080 Speaker 2: were like, well, if you know anything changes, let me know. 412 00:17:39,880 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 2: It's like, okay, I can't really tell if we're open 413 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 2: ended friends or like, what's happening here? I know that 414 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 2: is And then the Sally one man Sally she uh. 415 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 2: She had ended that and sent a text like kind 416 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 2: of being like I'm not sure this is gonna work, 417 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,280 Speaker 2: and literally never heard from him again. 418 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:59,239 Speaker 1: Nah uh oh man, you want to kick her? 419 00:17:59,359 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's still watches her social media. 420 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 1: Really wait does he follow her? 421 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 2: Yep? 422 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:05,560 Speaker 1: Does she follow him? 423 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:06,280 Speaker 2: Yep? 424 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 1: But I don't understand. I don't understand that. Yeah, well, 425 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:12,720 Speaker 1: because Sally's. 426 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 2: Like, well, I didn't really do anything, so I'm not 427 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 2: really sure how to you know, handle this situation. I'm 428 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 2: just gonna exist here, I guess, just all in my life. 429 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 2: But again, it just goes back to like why why 430 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:27,199 Speaker 2: as adults can we not just genuinely communicate? I mean, 431 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 2: and I'm still learning, and I'm still learning that, like 432 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 2: I can accept people as friends, like that's something, but 433 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:35,479 Speaker 2: that's that's even deeper than just the communication level. So 434 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:39,040 Speaker 2: all that to say, dating is still freaking weird, and 435 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 2: I'm exhausted and I've given up in a way don't 436 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,880 Speaker 2: give up, but also in a way of like I'm 437 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 2: open to it in real life. I'm just no, I'm 438 00:18:48,880 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 2: not on the dating apps anymore, and I have like 439 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 2: my goal for myself is I'm not getting back on 440 00:18:53,880 --> 00:18:55,800 Speaker 2: them until after the new year. 441 00:18:55,880 --> 00:18:57,199 Speaker 1: Wow. I love that. 442 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 2: I'm just allowing myself to be in this space right 443 00:19:00,800 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 2: now where I'm just I'm good. 444 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, not a nice little refresher. 445 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, Okay, well I can get back on, 446 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:10,359 Speaker 2: but I just don't. I don't think it's productive for 447 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 2: me right now. And if somebody would really like to 448 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 2: date me, then they will, whether that be in real life, 449 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 2: social media or whatever. 450 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: Like, they will make it happen. If they want to 451 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 1: spend time, They're gonna make the effort. Exactly people do 452 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: what focus their attention on what they want. So it's like, oh, 453 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: if you're too busy, that's I think your priorities are 454 00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:30,640 Speaker 1: somewhere else. 455 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:34,479 Speaker 2: Well that's totally fine, that's okay. It's just not And 456 00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:37,760 Speaker 2: I'm I am learning to just no longer like forcibly 457 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 2: try and control anything. I'm just letting it like roll 458 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,760 Speaker 2: off my back and just let things pass through me 459 00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:46,919 Speaker 2: like they're supposed to and have zero expectations for what 460 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 2: they could be. And it's really hard. 461 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 1: That is not easy at all. 462 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 2: No, but I am I'm just I'm just imagine me 463 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 2: like a pretty little butterfly just around I land on things. 464 00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 2: Occasionally some times I hang out longer than the others. 465 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 2: But for now I am just a Christmas butterfly. 466 00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that. There's nothing wrong with that. 467 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 1: It's it's like time to focus on yourself and what 468 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 1: you get to do. 469 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:13,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, which you know, but I feel like for the 470 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,879 Speaker 2: last ten years I've been focus to see all myself. 471 00:20:15,880 --> 00:20:18,000 Speaker 1: As I said, that's what I'm saying. 472 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,240 Speaker 2: Like, if somebody keeps making me focus on myself, I'm 473 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,520 Speaker 2: gonna be focusing on myself. 474 00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:21,960 Speaker 1: A little too hard. 475 00:20:22,280 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 2: Especially I'm gonna get to a moret where I'm like, 476 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:25,200 Speaker 2: I'm good. 477 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: I know that's the thing you start getting set in 478 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: your waist. I thought that for a while actually, like 479 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: last year, like I was like, oh my gosh, what 480 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 1: if I'm just like too good at being single? If 481 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: I don't know how to be with somebody. What if 482 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 1: I'm so set in my ways, like I have my 483 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: own house, I have things the way I want it. 484 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: What if I'm not physically able to be in a 485 00:20:43,359 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: relationship at this point. But I guess I can. But 486 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: I thought that. 487 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 2: I was scared, And I am sure there's been challenges 488 00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 2: for you where that's come up where you're like, Okay, 489 00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 2: now we're getting serious things and I am gonna have 490 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 2: to let go of some of that. Yeah, it's been 491 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 2: a lot like and that's probably why you sitting here 492 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:01,679 Speaker 2: like Okay, we need to take this though, Like I 493 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 2: really need to take this all in and understand what's 494 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:09,280 Speaker 2: happening here. So I think that's totally normal too, because 495 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:10,880 Speaker 2: you did. You were at a place in your life 496 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:12,199 Speaker 2: where you were good and you were happy. 497 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: But I was also like very lonely because what we do, 498 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: like we go to concerts and it's all fun. We 499 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:19,400 Speaker 1: take our girlfriends. But I was like, oh my gosh, 500 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: I'm tired of taking my girlfriend, you know, like I'd 501 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: like to take a guy because you always see it concerts, 502 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 1: like everybody holding hands and you're just like. 503 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:27,720 Speaker 2: It's because the country concerts. 504 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 1: Yes, they're all romantic. They got all these love songs, 505 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 1: everybody like embracing each other. And I just remember being like, 506 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 1: oh my. 507 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 2: Gosh, I'd be like I embrace this here real quick, 508 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,679 Speaker 2: throw another one back, let me go to the. 509 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: Bathroom real quick. Yeah, So like I that was like 510 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: hard too. It's it's like a fine line. It's like 511 00:21:43,359 --> 00:21:46,760 Speaker 1: in between, like I'm so I'm happy, content with myself, 512 00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 1: but also I do want to add a good guy. 513 00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,119 Speaker 1: That's a good addition to my life, you know, and 514 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: exactly and said, yeah, and now you're just. 515 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 2: Like your body's your nervousism is trying to allow it 516 00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 2: to continue. 517 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 1: To have it right and not like chase it away 518 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,080 Speaker 1: or be scared of it. Yeah, and so it's like 519 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 1: I know it's out there, and that's why I know 520 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,920 Speaker 1: with you like it, it's a lot like just waiting 521 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:09,119 Speaker 1: and you feel like you're like, oh my gosh, am 522 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 1: I never going to meet somebody. But it happens when 523 00:22:12,080 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 1: you least expect it. 524 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:17,360 Speaker 2: No, And I I used Martha may hoo va as 525 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 2: a verb the other day. Wait, okay, first of all, 526 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 2: do you know the Grench movie? I need to ask 527 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 2: that before I try to make this reference. Yeah, okay, yes, 528 00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 2: how the Grin Show Christmas Doctor Seuss. 529 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 1: Yes, you know this movie? 530 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 2: Hm? Okay. So I got a dress that has like 531 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 2: fur on it and I'm obsessed with this. It's very Christmasy. 532 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 2: And I was like, if somebody does not Martha may 533 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 2: hoo va me up in this dress, I give up. 534 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm hilarious that's. 535 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 2: Funny, waiting for somebody to Martha mayho via me up. 536 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:54,919 Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, let's go. That's funny. That's your motto. Yeah season, 537 00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: And then if they know that's also a test, if 538 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 1: they know the reference. 539 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 2: That's so true. We just I just keep entering different 540 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 2: random seasons and just seeing you know, what sticks. Something 541 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 2: has to stick at some. 542 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:11,880 Speaker 1: Point, I know I'm not. Oh my god, We're. 543 00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 2: Gonna take a little break here and we'll be your back. Okay, Abby, 544 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:22,720 Speaker 2: What is something you probably should do but you never do, 545 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 2: Like as an adult, I should probably do this, but 546 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,480 Speaker 2: I don't like to, and I won't do it. The 547 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:31,560 Speaker 2: reason this came up is because I was talking to 548 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 2: one of my friends with kind of a lawyer, and 549 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 2: they were like, you know those terms and conditions, like 550 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:38,639 Speaker 2: you really should read through this, oh gosh, Because they 551 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 2: watched me just like scroll, oh yeah, and just going it. 552 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: I was like, admittedly, I don't. 553 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 2: Think I've ever seen, ever, ever read a single terms 554 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 2: and condition on any level. I even like when I 555 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:52,960 Speaker 2: was going through like buying my house, like all of 556 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 2: that paperwork. Thankfully, my mom surrealed her and so she 557 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,040 Speaker 2: knew a lot of the language. 558 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 1: And everything. 559 00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,440 Speaker 2: But my eyes rolled in the back of my head 560 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 2: when I started reading everything, asking I don't know what 561 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,679 Speaker 2: any of this means. 562 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,520 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so me neither. Oh, and like now 563 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 1: at this now they make you like scroll away at 564 00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 1: the bottom just to say but it's like you're just scrolling, 565 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:13,360 Speaker 1: you're not really reading exactly. 566 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,400 Speaker 2: They do that to be like you should read it, 567 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 2: but nobody does. 568 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,440 Speaker 1: And then they're like when you say, oh, I didn't 569 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 1: see that, and they're they're like, oh, you scroll to 570 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,639 Speaker 1: the bottom, so you you saw it. 571 00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:25,400 Speaker 2: Oh gosh, exactly, so like you really should read it. 572 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I should really do. But if you. 573 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 2: Imagine how much of our life we would waste if 574 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 2: we all actually read the terms and conditions m hm, 575 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:33,800 Speaker 2: so much? 576 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: That's true because what what? How many terms are they 577 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: don't even know? On every single app? 578 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 2: Thing about on every single TV streaming you have on 579 00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 2: your computer or on your TV, every single app you 580 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 2: have on your phone, every single time you check out 581 00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:53,840 Speaker 2: at I don't know, like say a best Buy, sometimes 582 00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,119 Speaker 2: the Target they have them depending on the product that 583 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 2: you buy. Imagine that we all actually sat there and 584 00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 2: read terms and conditions. 585 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna got time for that hold on, what 586 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 1: are the main points, like something that I really need 587 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,120 Speaker 1: to be worried about, because I mean. 588 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,959 Speaker 2: A lot is just I believe, and a lawyer out 589 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 2: there can correct me on. But really the most important 590 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:17,400 Speaker 2: thing is that whoever makes the product or and whoever 591 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:22,840 Speaker 2: is selling the product is not liable for certain things. 592 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 2: But what's crazy is the reason this also got brought 593 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 2: up is because there was a story about a guy, 594 00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 2: and I think we talked about on the show too, 595 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 2: a guy who was a doctor and he died at 596 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 2: Disney from like an allergy something that happened. And this 597 00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,120 Speaker 2: is all like I'm paraphrasing here, I'd have to look 598 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 2: it up, but he died and because he had signed 599 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 2: terms and conditions on Disney. 600 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,720 Speaker 1: Plus oh my god, it was like. 601 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,679 Speaker 2: They couldn't sue Disney or something. I don't know if 602 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,480 Speaker 2: that ended up panning out and what the. 603 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: Update is there. 604 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 2: But this is why this whole conversation came up, as 605 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 2: like make sure you do terms and conditions. 606 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,439 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, But we also take your information. They're like, 607 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:06,400 Speaker 1: can we access your whole Facebook and your whole life? Yeah, 608 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 1: I like, also all. 609 00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:10,679 Speaker 2: The social media that you're on that's scary. 610 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 1: So they have your info. That's basically what they're you're 611 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:15,399 Speaker 1: giving them. Okay, it's like, no, all I wanted to 612 00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: do is like watch this TV show or I don't 613 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: even know what I'm trying to get what I'm trying 614 00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: to do, but terms and conditions, and I'm like, well, no, 615 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:22,880 Speaker 1: I don't really want to but. 616 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:24,920 Speaker 2: And I believe it's like a lifetime thing. So once 617 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 2: you sign it once, like whatever that is is a 618 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 2: good for life. All could be speculation. I like I said, 619 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,159 Speaker 2: I haven't read it enough to have the information, but 620 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 2: those are the things that I've learned so far on 621 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,200 Speaker 2: terms and conditions. But because to say, is there something 622 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 2: in your life that you probably should do and you 623 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:42,639 Speaker 2: don't actually do. 624 00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,919 Speaker 1: I'm usually pretty good at this, but lately I have 625 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,639 Speaker 1: not well changing your oil in your car. I'm way past, 626 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:51,920 Speaker 1: way past the oil change. 627 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 2: My mean, like, you know, a couple thousand. 628 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 1: Miles thousand, a thousand. I usually am so good at 629 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,240 Speaker 1: it because I'm like, I want my car to last forever. 630 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,600 Speaker 2: This this reminds me abby, and you should definitely do 631 00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 2: that because there's a reason maintenance. 632 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,960 Speaker 1: Nothing maintenance on your car, even though you've waited. 633 00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 2: I took my car in to get oil, and tires rotated, 634 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 2: like I do, tires rotated. 635 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 1: That's another one. Oh my gosh, my left tires were bald. 636 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 1: He was like bald. That's what the guy said to me. 637 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 1: He's like, your left tires are bald. I was like, 638 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,639 Speaker 1: oh my gosh. He's like, do you rotate them? I 639 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:28,640 Speaker 1: was like no, far. 640 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,359 Speaker 2: I was like, I've never in my life hurd's something 641 00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 2: called tires bald. 642 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, my tires are bald. I mean there's nothing left, 643 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 1: there's no traction, no the grooves or whatever. They're just like, 644 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: so you need new tires. 645 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:43,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so. 646 00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: As I ruined them because I didn't rotate them. See, 647 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:47,680 Speaker 1: but I get my rotated every as. 648 00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 2: The thing, I have the little sticker in the corner 649 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 2: of my car and every time I go and I 650 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 2: get them, my oils change. My tires rotated. So I 651 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 2: go in to do that and I'm like, man, you 652 00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 2: need new tires. 653 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 1: Oh. 654 00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:00,880 Speaker 2: I'm like, cool, lovely, this sucks. Let's get my new tires. 655 00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:02,120 Speaker 2: And they're like you'll have to come in next time. 656 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 2: We'll get a ordered whatever. So I go in get 657 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 2: my new tires and they're like, and that's when they did. 658 00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 2: They were going to do alignment and fix some break 659 00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 2: pad stuff. It was my car is getting older. And 660 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 2: I was like, okay, fine, just do it. So I 661 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,119 Speaker 2: sat there for like four hours getting my car worked on, 662 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 2: and at the very end, they're like, we can't do 663 00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 2: the alignment because you need a new rod. And I 664 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,160 Speaker 2: was like, you've got to be getting me so I'm 665 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 2: not about to return for my third time to sit 666 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,399 Speaker 2: at the service center to get my car worked on. 667 00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 2: You're talking about being an adult. Car issues are one 668 00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:33,080 Speaker 2: of the worst problems. 669 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: They are the worst. That's the last thing you want 670 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,960 Speaker 1: to spend money on. Like the absolute last thing is 671 00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: I want to buy tires. 672 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,240 Speaker 2: Exactly in my car. If we lived in a city 673 00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 2: like New York, I'll be on the subway all the time, 674 00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 2: way all the time. Like if we had a great bus, 675 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 2: like we ic busses around here, but we actually had 676 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 2: a full blown great subway bus system, I would be 677 00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 2: using it. 678 00:28:53,120 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 1: You would, really I. 679 00:28:54,200 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 2: Hate I hate getting my car service. Maybe it's so frustrating. 680 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 2: And the poor guys they are like know that I 681 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,720 Speaker 2: get frustrated. They're like, okay, man, we have to like 682 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 2: preface this like because they're really great. They're like a 683 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 2: mom and pop place, and they're like this, this sucks, 684 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,120 Speaker 2: but this needs this, and I'm like, god on why 685 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 2: because back to being single, I don't have anybody who 686 00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 2: can pick me up from there. So either I get 687 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 2: I drop my crof and have to uber back home 688 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 2: the uber back there, or I just have to sit there. 689 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 2: And so I go and sit there because I don't 690 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:30,680 Speaker 2: want to. It's just so much work to uber all 691 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 2: the way across town and pay money for ubers, I know. 692 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 2: So it is then I get frustrated that I'm single 693 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 2: because I'm sitting there. So many car problems. 694 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 1: It's a domino effect. Oh yeah, it just it creates 695 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:43,040 Speaker 1: all of this. 696 00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 2: Like I'm like, okay, I'm just gonna sit right here. 697 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 2: I bring Remy with me and we sit in this 698 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,560 Speaker 2: service center for like four hours and I work and 699 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 2: Remy's just hanging out. 700 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:53,880 Speaker 1: That's a good one. 701 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,120 Speaker 2: Thanks for putting me on the TA And I've forgotten 702 00:29:57,160 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 2: about that. 703 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:02,640 Speaker 1: I forgot about the tires. You both need tires. Yeah, yeah, cool, 704 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:03,720 Speaker 1: because one side. 705 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 2: Is neither one of us want to get it done. 706 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 2: That's what that's adulting is what that is is. 707 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: It's just the worst. I don't have time to sit 708 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:11,160 Speaker 1: in there. 709 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 2: Just don't see did your did she say come and 710 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 2: pick you up? 711 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: I boo bird before, but no, I guess not with him, 712 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 1: well because I haven't got him changed a year. Okay, 713 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 1: let me know if he helped, he would he would, yes, 714 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 1: I'll make you feel better know he would make me 715 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 1: walk home? No, gosh, no, don't make me feel about 716 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 1: it that way. He'd better be helping. No, he totally would. 717 00:30:35,120 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 1: He's always there. 718 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was just sitting there watching people come 719 00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:39,960 Speaker 2: and go with all their couples, and I was like, 720 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 2: I hate my life. I was like I was like 721 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 2: the kid in the window shop because I was at 722 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 2: my computer there and I was literally like a kid 723 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 2: looking out and seeing toys that they have. I'm just 724 00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 2: sitting there working. I'm like, don't mind me, been here 725 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:57,920 Speaker 2: since eleven am. 726 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: That is it's the worst. You're like, they're like, so 727 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 1: you want to stay here? Or like what do you 728 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: want to do? You're like, yeah, what's the wi fi guls? 729 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:04,959 Speaker 1: I want to stay here? 730 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, like a person that drops them off. But I'm 731 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 2: so far across town from this place, that it's such 732 00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:15,080 Speaker 2: it would take more time, Like by the time I 733 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,040 Speaker 2: got dropped off and got home, I'd be there for 734 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 2: like twenty minutes. 735 00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 1: Be like, can you come get me again? So you 736 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: might as well stay? 737 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 2: Oh g dum it stuff. Ever, this is this is 738 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 2: just real, live right here. Oh I want to I 739 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 2: want to tell you about it. Freaking weird DM that 740 00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 2: I got. 741 00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:36,600 Speaker 1: I'm scared, scary really might be just the most offhanded 742 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:40,120 Speaker 1: DEM I've gotten no ever ever. Oh see, ever, that's 743 00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: a big thing. Ever, Okay, out of nowhere. 744 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 2: I've never talked to this person in my life. What 745 00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 2: we'll play a small version of twenty one question see 746 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 2: if you can figure it out. We'll do like five questions, 747 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 2: cast me five questions and see what you can figure out. 748 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:57,320 Speaker 1: What this message was. What the message was? 749 00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:57,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? 750 00:31:58,560 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 1: Do they follow the show? 751 00:31:59,760 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 2: Like? 752 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: Is it regarding the show? It was not about the show. 753 00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: Do they follow you? Yes? Did it have to do 754 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:15,520 Speaker 1: with taking you on a date? No? Did they see 755 00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: you out in public and they wanted to say hi? 756 00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 1: But no, I'm scared. I'm scared. Did they send you 757 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 1: pictures of your house? Because they were out in front 758 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: taking a picture of you could have been the dude. 759 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 2: No, no, it wasn't that. It was nsf W no no, 760 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:39,720 Speaker 2: oh no, no, surprisingly no. I'm surprised that this in 761 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 2: particular text was not accompanied by a picture of something 762 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 2: I would definitely not want to receive. Okay, So I 763 00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 2: wasn't a picture, but it was a comment. No no, 764 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 2: And I don't want to say. I'm gonna I'm gonna 765 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,440 Speaker 2: try and reference this in a way because I in 766 00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:01,200 Speaker 2: case they are a little years around, cover your ears. 767 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:05,280 Speaker 2: It has to do with licking, and it. 768 00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:12,600 Speaker 1: Has to do with no no, wait wait I got 769 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 1: one too. Really, it was really inappropriate. Ye. I didn't 770 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: like it, okay, because it had to do with like 771 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and they were saying, and I'm like. 772 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:22,240 Speaker 2: Oh no, I mean I didn't have to do with 773 00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 2: a boyfriend. Mine had to do with them wanting to 774 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 2: do something involving licking with me. 775 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Oh my god. 776 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,040 Speaker 2: And I've never spoken to this person my entire life. 777 00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: Okay. Had they sent other ones, it was just a blank. Also, 778 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 1: this has gotten to be the worst. It escalated. What 779 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,040 Speaker 1: do they think is going to come out of that? 780 00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, did you reply? I'm just gonna go. 781 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:51,120 Speaker 2: I'm sitting in my request thing or whatever. Yeah, that 782 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 2: is that's all just why welcome to being a woman. 783 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: That's what we don't want that at least it was 784 00:33:57,280 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: in the picture. 785 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 2: I have a feeling that make sure is not far behind. 786 00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 1: Can we receive those? Just Instagram filter those out? 787 00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 2: Instagram at this point is filtering thing. Okay, And I 788 00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,600 Speaker 2: do think you have to approve to see a photo, 789 00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:12,320 Speaker 2: like approve the message to see a photo. 790 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:13,920 Speaker 1: I was like, not on wood, but I have not 791 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: received one. 792 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,799 Speaker 2: I haven't either, and if anybody ever does, you will 793 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,880 Speaker 2: be deleted, blocked and reported to the police immediately. 794 00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 1: I have seen on different ones or like viewer discretion advised. 795 00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,120 Speaker 1: Do you want to see it's sensitive material? Do you 796 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:28,759 Speaker 1: want to see this? Like and you click it's like 797 00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 1: on TikTok or whatever. Yeah, maybe offensive, but that's never 798 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:36,719 Speaker 1: been my gosh, can you imagine it may be offensive? 799 00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 2: And that's. 800 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:47,360 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, you do not send? Okay, that is crazy. Okay, 801 00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:54,440 Speaker 1: I can't even know where to go. I want to 802 00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 1: end on some. 803 00:34:55,800 --> 00:35:00,359 Speaker 2: Fun little notes here, you know, we got fun share 804 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:03,160 Speaker 2: what's happening in her lives? Talked about random dms, that 805 00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 2: we should not be receiving now we're here. Who is 806 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:10,440 Speaker 2: a national treasure that you don't mind like seeing pop up, 807 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 2: whether it's in commercials on your social media feed, like 808 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:15,399 Speaker 2: if they pop up all the time. 809 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 1: Dolly, Dolly, Dolly the cutest lady ever and she does 810 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: nothing but help other people and do good and it 811 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,520 Speaker 1: is so sweet. Always has the cutest outfits, Like I 812 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: never get annoyed, Yeah I could. Dolly's a good one. 813 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 2: I could see Dolly a million times over. She could 814 00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 2: literally tell me like, hey, your life sucks, and I'd 815 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,160 Speaker 2: be like, oh, Dolly, You're so right. 816 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:44,399 Speaker 1: Always speak the truth. Dolly, we're on the same page. Yeah, 817 00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:46,239 Speaker 1: that's a good one. The one that I had was 818 00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: Paul Rudd. Oh, Paul Rudd. He's hilarious. 819 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 2: He is so funny and he like there are always 820 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,279 Speaker 2: just random videos of him and he's in random commercials. 821 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,319 Speaker 2: He's at sports games and he's like on random tell 822 00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:02,520 Speaker 2: what ever the big screens are. Well, he's a k 823 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 2: you fan, yes, And he was a cheese fan too, right. 824 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 1: And one time this kind of relates to that, he 825 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: was at a game and he was eating a hot 826 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 1: dog and I have a picture and it says Paul 827 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:14,880 Speaker 1: Rudd eating a hot dog on the big screen, like 828 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,560 Speaker 1: that's the one picture I got, And I was like, 829 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 1: that's exactly, like so random Paul Rudd eating a hot 830 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 1: dog at this like college game in Kansas. Paul. 831 00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:24,480 Speaker 2: I think he's from Kansas. 832 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, because because he's in clueless. He's in clueless and 833 00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,360 Speaker 1: he was wearing a KU hat in that movie. And 834 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, yeah, I. 835 00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 2: Think he's always no, oh I am stand corrected, Okay, 836 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 2: all right, prothy, Yeah, he is from New Jersey and 837 00:36:47,239 --> 00:36:50,120 Speaker 2: but his mom worked as a sales manager at a 838 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 2: television station in Kansas City. Way okay, So that's the 839 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:55,719 Speaker 2: connection to there had to be something. 840 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,480 Speaker 1: That is really funny. Yeah, I forget like how random 841 00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 1: he is in how it just shows, but he's so funny. 842 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,839 Speaker 2: And he's so just like all the time, really kind. 843 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 2: Nobody's had that I know of, has had anything bad 844 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 2: to say about him, and he just randomly will always 845 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,000 Speaker 2: pop up on my social media v I'm like, yeah, 846 00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:13,359 Speaker 2: you go pe al read. Also, he hasn't aged at all, 847 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,360 Speaker 2: he has not He's like Benjamin Buttoning. 848 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: I know, Oh my gosh, I've never seen him on 849 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: my phone. I bet you anything, now that we're talking 850 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 1: about it, he's gonna come up on my social media 851 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:27,399 Speaker 1: all the time videos of him. A Paul Rud, Oh Rud, 852 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,399 Speaker 1: that's hilarious. All Rud and Dolly. 853 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 2: If you guys could also do a collaboration, that'd be cool. 854 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:31,799 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, please. 855 00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 2: And then what's been What's something that's been filling you 856 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 2: with immense joy recently? Something that maybe it's new, maybe 857 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,520 Speaker 2: it's old and new again, or just something that you're 858 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 2: just like really really happy every time it happens, or 859 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:45,880 Speaker 2: you're involved around it. 860 00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,680 Speaker 1: Oh. Running, I would have to say running, because like 861 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 1: I don't like running when it's freezing, and I don't 862 00:37:50,680 --> 00:37:53,080 Speaker 1: like running in the in summer it's too hot. But 863 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,439 Speaker 1: like this weather right here, I love it. I could 864 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:58,479 Speaker 1: run forever and I find trails that are like along 865 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 1: the river like on bike, you know, like greenways or whatever, 866 00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,200 Speaker 1: and I just run forever, and I run by yourself. 867 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:05,200 Speaker 1: I do run with people. 868 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,120 Speaker 2: Cheese Head, cheese Head, they are both runners. 869 00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, he likes to run because we're gonna do the 870 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,560 Speaker 1: half again next year half marathon, so we're actually training 871 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,399 Speaker 1: this time, and he like loves it and He's super 872 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,719 Speaker 1: competitive and so do I. So try to beat each 873 00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,160 Speaker 1: other and it's just really fun. So I actually like 874 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: feel safe running because I used to just go out 875 00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,759 Speaker 1: and be like, well, I hope I'm making a house. 876 00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 1: I die, I die. Yeah, I'm like in a forest 877 00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:26,320 Speaker 1: and I'm like, well. 878 00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,799 Speaker 2: That's not funny because that does really happen, and it's 879 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:29,359 Speaker 2: really sad. 880 00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it does happen. Like we have to watch 881 00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 1: our backs and like you know, you do as a 882 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: female runner for sure. And so now I actually feel 883 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 1: safe running. And it's just like all the endoor fhins. 884 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 2: Tell the weather had with his cheesehead before that make 885 00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:44,799 Speaker 2: me laugh. 886 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: No, he has not, he has not. 887 00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 2: I'm gonna need him to do that sometimes, just. 888 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,759 Speaker 1: For the picture. If they went to the Super Bowl, 889 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:54,000 Speaker 1: he probably would. That could be a bet, okay, but 890 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 1: I feel like this is a bet that's gonna take it. 891 00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 1: You think that's too easy. 892 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 2: No more so that I just don't know that's ever 893 00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 2: gonna happened. I don't know anything about sports, but I 894 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,839 Speaker 2: don't remember the last time Packers have been. 895 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,359 Speaker 1: In this year, I don't I don't think this year, 896 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,239 Speaker 1: but I don't know. Sorry, I don't know. 897 00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 2: I don't know anything about sports. I could be totally wrong. 898 00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 2: Well that's fun running running little run club, She's head 899 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 2: and Abby. 900 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,879 Speaker 1: Running Away Love. 901 00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,479 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's your new song, running Away and Love. 902 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, actually that's cute. I like that. 903 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 2: I feel like there's something there. Yeah, I like it, 904 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 2: but it's more metaphor. I don't feel like you should 905 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:35,280 Speaker 2: run right about you guys actually running? 906 00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 1: But like read ready ready to run? 907 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, unless you're actually running away from mariatis and I 908 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 2: love the run is a great song. Oh, it is 909 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 2: such a great song. 910 00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:47,279 Speaker 1: What pumps you up? 911 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 2: I need to listen to the chicks on the way home. 912 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:56,320 Speaker 1: Okay, so what phileth your cup? O? Yes, tell me 913 00:39:57,400 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 1: I think this? I think I have. 914 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 2: I have sweated so much in these studios, like there's 915 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 2: nowhere in here. 916 00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 1: Oh it's off. Oh my gosh, don't tell me everything. 917 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,400 Speaker 2: Well, it's off because they're trying to fix ours. 918 00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 1: Can we not turn it on? Nope? Sorry, give me that. 919 00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:18,680 Speaker 2: I would like to take my sweater off right now, 920 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:19,799 Speaker 2: but all I have is a bra and I can 921 00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 2: do that with you because you're a girl. 922 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 1: Could there's a window right here? 923 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,320 Speaker 2: Bra? Okay? Little inside there, but the joint I have 924 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,399 Speaker 2: gotten from I bought. I finally got a record player. 925 00:40:32,440 --> 00:40:36,720 Speaker 2: Stand in I saw that there's a bottom record player abby. 926 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:37,880 Speaker 1: I cannot tell you. 927 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,800 Speaker 2: Every time I put a record on and I hear it, 928 00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:44,120 Speaker 2: like just the little crackling noises, Yeah, I am so happy, 929 00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 2: Like what is it about that? What is it? 930 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,440 Speaker 1: And the other day I went to what are they 931 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: called a vinyl. 932 00:40:50,400 --> 00:40:53,960 Speaker 2: Store, record player store, record store, so many names, so 933 00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 2: I don't record store, record store. I don't know why 934 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:59,560 Speaker 2: I want to keep injury, record player store, record store. 935 00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,319 Speaker 2: And I was just sitting there, like going through all 936 00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:06,080 Speaker 2: these vinyls and finding things, and I was so happy, 937 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 2: like just so filled with joy it is. 938 00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:12,520 Speaker 1: And I was just you know, by myself enjoying it. 939 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,920 Speaker 2: Like I wish I could explain the feeling I get 940 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,879 Speaker 2: when I have it. But that has been really fill 941 00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 2: up my cup, my cup, the vinyls. 942 00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 1: I love it, No, they really are. I remember when 943 00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,879 Speaker 1: I got my record player, but I haven't really used 944 00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:29,600 Speaker 1: it in a while, but like I remember the initial 945 00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: I was like, how did I not know? This is 946 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,360 Speaker 1: so much better than listening to like anything else, because 947 00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: the crackles and you get to control what you want 948 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:39,040 Speaker 1: to put. 949 00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 2: It in, and I get to go over there and 950 00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:42,720 Speaker 2: put the little needle on it, and then it starts 951 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 2: a movie and I'm like, this is so cool. It 952 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,360 Speaker 2: is and maybe it is a thing where it's like 953 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 2: I'm just so infatuated right now because I just got it. 954 00:41:48,719 --> 00:41:52,200 Speaker 1: But I love it. I'm obsessed. Oh my gosh, No, 955 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:53,799 Speaker 1: it really is. And there will come a. 956 00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:57,279 Speaker 2: Time where I will have somebody in my home that 957 00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 2: I love and we will be dancing to that Vinyl 958 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,200 Speaker 2: record player. Yes, yes, you will only go on life, 959 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,920 Speaker 2: not really, I have multiple This is a goal at 960 00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:06,640 Speaker 2: some point in my life. 961 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 1: Hey, that's a cool goal that that is goals right there. 962 00:42:09,560 --> 00:42:11,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I want somebody. I want to be with somebody 963 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:14,759 Speaker 2: who danced me in the living room. This cheers had 964 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:15,799 Speaker 2: dance with me in the living room. 965 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:21,400 Speaker 1: He's a really bad dancing so now, but it sounds 966 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 1: like you're okay with Yeah, he's fine. It's he likes 967 00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:26,160 Speaker 1: to like it's fun, but like it's not going to 968 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: be any like dancing with the stars or like ballroom dancing. 969 00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,080 Speaker 1: But he does want to take like line dancing lessons 970 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,360 Speaker 1: because I've wanted to. And he's like on board now 971 00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 1: and I'm excited. Well, like two came back. 972 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, let me come back into this the Sally situation, right. 973 00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:45,000 Speaker 1: And for anybody who. 974 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:47,919 Speaker 2: Yes, it's me, that's the only time I'm ever gonna 975 00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:55,880 Speaker 2: say sallyp uh. One of the our third date that 976 00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 2: we had went on, he had taken me to We 977 00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,280 Speaker 2: went and took a two set being private lesson together 978 00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 2: really and it was so much fun Abby, like I 979 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 2: think I should totally go to okay, And we had 980 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,280 Speaker 2: a great time, like because he wasn't a big dancer, 981 00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:13,919 Speaker 2: but I knew. I mean my parents kind of raised 982 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:14,680 Speaker 2: me on two stepping. 983 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:15,359 Speaker 1: That's how they met. 984 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:20,040 Speaker 2: That's so cute, oh adorable, And so we went and 985 00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:21,440 Speaker 2: did it and it was so much fun. 986 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,160 Speaker 1: It was how long it's like an hour? 987 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:26,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like an our private lesson is relatively inexpensive. 988 00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 2: And it was a great dat idea. Also the coach 989 00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 2: all time it was like I can tell, you know, 990 00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:33,360 Speaker 2: I always can tell if people are gonna make it 991 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,719 Speaker 2: or not. I guess I should have called him after 992 00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 2: that day because I didn't, and maybe he would have. 993 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 1: He would have known for Sally hold on. 994 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,839 Speaker 2: He said that, Yeah, he's like I can always tell, 995 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,479 Speaker 2: like based on how a couple interacts and how they dance, 996 00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:47,480 Speaker 2: like if it's gonna work or not. 997 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,200 Speaker 1: So this could be a true test for you guys. 998 00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:51,320 Speaker 2: He said what he said, it's like the same tests 999 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:52,800 Speaker 2: as ikea furniture. 1000 00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,560 Speaker 1: You put ikea furniture together, like how does it work? 1001 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: Are you good? Like huh? 1002 00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:58,880 Speaker 2: Do you come away hating each other more? Do you 1003 00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 2: come away that are for it? He's like, dancing is 1004 00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:02,560 Speaker 2: the same way. 1005 00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:04,799 Speaker 1: That is a good test. That is. 1006 00:44:07,239 --> 00:44:12,040 Speaker 2: The guy him or seal He didn't say. He didn't say. 1007 00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 2: He was like, but he's like I've had girls who 1008 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 2: have called me after their lessons and be like, what 1009 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:16,919 Speaker 2: do you think? 1010 00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: No way, every time he's been right, Please call him. 1011 00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,400 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we need a follow up on that, 1012 00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 1: just to see what he said. If he remembers you 1013 00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,719 Speaker 1: and be like just stop it, what did you think? 1014 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,040 Speaker 1: And he'll be like, wasn't feeling it? Be like wow, 1015 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:32,319 Speaker 1: whoa are you a psychic? You're right? Or he could 1016 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, what about dancing? Man, I can see 1017 00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:37,600 Speaker 1: that because it's like it's frustrating. You have to know 1018 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:41,400 Speaker 1: if you're like patient enough, you can work together, like 1019 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:43,759 Speaker 1: be annoyed with the other person not getting it, be 1020 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:44,680 Speaker 1: annoyed with yourself. 1021 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:49,719 Speaker 2: Yep, it's sure, but for sure. See, but it's a 1022 00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,960 Speaker 2: good it's a good lesson because you have to be 1023 00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,960 Speaker 2: able to work through things together and dancing is just 1024 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:59,160 Speaker 2: something that's so trivial, but it's a way to understand 1025 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,040 Speaker 2: how you guys handle situations where you don't know what's 1026 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,520 Speaker 2: happening and know if they have rhythm or not. Yeah, 1027 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 2: that's a red float. First date, ladies, if you're single 1028 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 2: out there, make a guy take you dancing. 1029 00:45:09,200 --> 00:45:10,439 Speaker 1: That was the first date. 1030 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,480 Speaker 2: No, that was our third date. Man, that's I feel 1031 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,960 Speaker 2: like that's it was a great thirday and we had 1032 00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:18,840 Speaker 2: a lot of great dates up until you know, disappear 1033 00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 2: on the birthday. Anyways, let's get. 1034 00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,440 Speaker 1: Out of here about that. God, please let me go 1035 00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:24,759 Speaker 1: jump in. 1036 00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,759 Speaker 2: I feel like I just sat here and we had 1037 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:28,160 Speaker 2: a micro front of us and I just shared it 1038 00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:31,200 Speaker 2: all that did guys? Please me call onto the show, 1039 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:33,320 Speaker 2: leave all of this on the best bits and you 1040 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 2: were just exclusive to this. 1041 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,960 Speaker 1: This is sacred info, the only you guys get. 1042 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,360 Speaker 2: And if anybody calls it and I'm never sharing anything 1043 00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,880 Speaker 2: on I'll hang up I'm just kidding. What did the 1044 00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 2: guys say, I'll hang up and listen. 1045 00:45:46,160 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 1: Oh my god, and I'll hang up an listen. 1046 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,719 Speaker 2: Yes, Okay, let's jump out of here. Tell people they 1047 00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 2: can find you all the good stuff. 1048 00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,879 Speaker 1: On Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson. Check out my new 1049 00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,600 Speaker 1: song we Can't Forget About That. Well, it's kind of 1050 00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:01,120 Speaker 1: new ex boyfriend material. It's about all those guys that 1051 00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,359 Speaker 1: Morgan's talking about right now. All those guys out there. 1052 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:06,800 Speaker 1: Don't be red flag material. Be a green flag, be 1053 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 1: a green flag, be a green flag. That song, be 1054 00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:12,799 Speaker 1: a green flag, be a green flag and running away 1055 00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,920 Speaker 1: from the Yeah, if you get offended by ex boyfriend material, 1056 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:22,680 Speaker 1: you're the problem. Honestly, Yeah, that's true. Okay. 1057 00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,960 Speaker 2: Check out my new podcast Take This Personally. You can 1058 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 2: get it wherever you listen to podcasts. This week I 1059 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,439 Speaker 2: had on the Flirt Coach, who has actually been super 1060 00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:35,359 Speaker 2: helpful on me understanding just connections and not everything has 1061 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 2: to have expectations. That's where some of this came from 1062 00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 2: me in this new way of life. And then I 1063 00:46:40,320 --> 00:46:42,320 Speaker 2: brought on one of my good friends, Ricky Sanchez, and 1064 00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,400 Speaker 2: we talked about more human connection stuff. 1065 00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,960 Speaker 1: So check that out. And did he teach you how 1066 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:48,400 Speaker 1: to flirt? 1067 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,040 Speaker 2: No, his like his whole it's just funny, Like that's 1068 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:55,080 Speaker 2: how you know, he's like the flirt coach. He encourages 1069 00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 2: you to focus on the flirt as genuinely a way 1070 00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:00,640 Speaker 2: to connect with people, not just love interest, but like 1071 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 2: a way to connect with people in the world. And 1072 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,800 Speaker 2: I loved the reframing of that because he's like, you know, 1073 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:08,360 Speaker 2: how often do you have somebody where they come up 1074 00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,320 Speaker 2: and they're like, hey, you're hot, let's date, and it 1075 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,280 Speaker 2: actually work? It doesn't you know? What works is connection 1076 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,600 Speaker 2: and being open to people and not having expectations and stuff. 1077 00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:20,839 Speaker 2: So it was super interesting. It gave me a new 1078 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,239 Speaker 2: perspective that is really cool. 1079 00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:22,840 Speaker 1: So I like that. 1080 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:24,959 Speaker 2: So yeah, we did talk about dating and a little 1081 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,680 Speaker 2: bit of flirting and like dealing with rejection, but not 1082 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 2: so much like hey, you want to flirt, like like 1083 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:34,480 Speaker 2: when you're out at a bar, like make eye contact? 1084 00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 2: Are they making eye contact? See how this goes? Like, 1085 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:38,320 Speaker 2: So he did talk about some of that. 1086 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,000 Speaker 1: Also, Oh my gosh, I was always the worst like 1087 00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 1: eye contact. I would avoid it. I'd be like that 1088 00:47:42,600 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 1: guy is so cute, I'm gonna look down it's never 1089 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:45,120 Speaker 1: look up. 1090 00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,919 Speaker 2: Why do we innately do that, like you guys bike, Yeah, 1091 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 2: we do. 1092 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,719 Speaker 1: It's just like an it's like a reaction, like you 1093 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:54,600 Speaker 1: can't even control it. I don't understand. I always did that. 1094 00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,920 Speaker 2: Because we hate rejection. As humans, we hate rejection. 1095 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: But if but a guy like I'm not to talk too, 1096 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 1: I could stare into his eyes all time. 1097 00:48:03,760 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 2: Poor guys, I guess if Abby is making a contact 1098 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:07,879 Speaker 2: with you, you're in the clear. 1099 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:16,720 Speaker 1: Okay, Bye, that's the best bits of the week with Morgan. 1100 00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out the other 1101 00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:21,680 Speaker 1: two parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all 1102 00:48:21,760 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 1: social platforms and followed web Girl Morgan to submit your 1103 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,040 Speaker 1: listener questions for next week's episode.