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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Charlotte,

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the program. How are you.

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Speaker 2: I'm good, How are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Okay? What's going on with this guy? Eric? In waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone? Trying to figure out if maybe you've

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Speaker 1: been ghosted? So I set us up with all the

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Speaker 1: backstory here. How did you guys meet? Tell us about

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on and why you think

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Speaker 1: you're being ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so we've actually we've been on one date, but

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Speaker 2: we met at a bar. He was super fun, super nice.

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Speaker 2: We were flirting a lot. He ended up buying me

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Speaker 2: a drink, asking my number, and we went out on

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Speaker 2: a date a few days later, and it was I mean,

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Speaker 2: it was a really great time. There's really nothing, you know,

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Speaker 2: more sure avgant than that. But I had a lot

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Speaker 2: of fun and I just wanted to go out again.

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Speaker 2: And you know, I've been texting him and nothing. I'd

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Speaker 2: get nothing back, and I just don't really know what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So, Charlie, you guys met in person, so you

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Speaker 1: were able to gauge a little bit of chemistry. You

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Speaker 1: saw what each other looked like. I mean, we've heard

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Speaker 1: about all kinds of different things happening. But when you

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Speaker 1: meet someone on the apps, which a lot of people do,

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Speaker 1: there's a lot that you don't know. You don't know

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Speaker 1: if they look the same in person, you don't know

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Speaker 1: how the chemistry is going to go to the conversation.

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Speaker 1: But you kind of knew that going into the date,

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Speaker 1: So that's not it. It wasn't like, you know, I

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Speaker 1: don't know, you're not as advertised, or he wasn't as advertised.

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Speaker 1: You already knew. So then you go on this date

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Speaker 1: and you felt like it went really well. The conversation

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Speaker 1: was good, everything kind of flowed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and of course, like you know, your anxiety starts

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Speaker 3: to go and you're like, did I say something like?

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Speaker 2: Did I do something like?

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Speaker 3: But he literally is not answering.

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Speaker 2: So I really don't know.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, I had no signs that it was

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Speaker 3: going south at all. I thought it was really fun,

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Speaker 3: and so I just I really don't know.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's call Eric now, good luck Charlotte. Thanks, Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Eric? Yes, Eric, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning

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Speaker 1: radio Show. The whole crew is here and I have

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Speaker 1: to tell you that we are on the radio right

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Speaker 1: now and I would need your permission to continue with

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Speaker 1: the Is that okay? If we chat for a couple

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Speaker 1: of minutes, you can hang up anytime?

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Speaker 4: Sure, for sure.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a ton of time, but yeah, it's fine. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well we'll try and make it quick. We're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a woman who I guess you met at

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Speaker 1: a bar and went on a date with recently. Her

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Speaker 1: name is Charlotte. Do you remember Charlotte?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: I do. Okay, So she called us and told us

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Speaker 1: that she had met you out and you guys exchanged

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Speaker 1: numbers and she liked you, and then you went on

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Speaker 1: a date that she thought went well. But now she

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Speaker 1: can't get a hold of you. You haven't called her,

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Speaker 1: I guess, or responded to her. So she kind of

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Speaker 1: wants to know why what's going on.

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Speaker 4: I just I just don't think it's a good idea,

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Speaker 4: And I don't think we're a match.

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Speaker 1: You don't think that you guys are a match? Why though?

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you mind if I ask you know,

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Speaker 1: for a little more.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's yeah, you know, she's great, she's great.

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Speaker 4: The date it was fun, but when I took her

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Speaker 4: home afterwards, like to say goodbye. She was like, hey,

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Speaker 4: come inside, and I go inside, and she introduced me

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Speaker 4: to her roommate, and I realized, like, oh, I know her,

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Speaker 4: Like her roommate is someone I actually dated for a

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Speaker 4: little while.

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Speaker 1: A while.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah. I just think it's kind of weird, and

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Speaker 4: so going through with that, it's just going to be complicated,

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Speaker 4: and I think it's just not a good idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I've got to mention that Charlotte is here. I'm

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Speaker 1: very forgetful about these matters. Charlotte, did your roommate say

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Speaker 1: anything to you about dating Eric or did she keep

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Speaker 3: No, not at all, Like she didn't tell me.

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Speaker 4: That's so weird.

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Speaker 3: No, she didn't tell me anything. And even after you left,

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Speaker 3: she didn't tell me anything.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, wow boy, because you would think that she

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Speaker 1: would be like, hey, heads up, I know that guy.

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Speaker 1: But for some reason, she didn't say anything. Why wouldn't

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Speaker 1: she say anything? Eric, I mean, did it end poorly?

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Speaker 1: Are you weird? Is she weird? Is it weirdness?

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Speaker 4: I don't. I don't think so. I just think it's

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Speaker 4: I don't know why she didn't say anything. Maybe Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 1: Weird she's still in love with this guy?

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Speaker 3: Well, how did you get there? Why wouldn't you say

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Speaker 3: it into your room?

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Speaker 4: I'd be like, hey, that that I dated that guy,

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Speaker 4: or hey he's no good But you don't say anything.

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Speaker 1: That kind of means, like, I mean, she might still

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Speaker 1: be interested in this dude. How long feelings came back

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Speaker 1: when he walked through the door? Eric, How long did

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Speaker 1: you date Charlotte's roommate?

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Speaker 4: Oh, like a couple of months.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's long enough to say something. Is it

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Speaker 1: been like a date or a hookup or something like that.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I would probably still tell my roommate, but at the

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Speaker 1: same time, I wouldn't make a big deal out of

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Speaker 1: it because there wasn't a whole lot to it. But

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Speaker 1: I mean, a couple of months is long enough that

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Speaker 1: this person has an impression of you and feelings could

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Speaker 1: have been developed, So I would think. I think it's

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Speaker 1: a little sus that the roommate, Charlotte, your roomate, Charlotte's

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Speaker 1: not saying anything to you about it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that is really weird that she never said anything.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I have to call her.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you might want to ask that question. So

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Speaker 1: here's the thing here. Well, yeah, so he can move

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Speaker 1: in too. Let's say let's say Eric that she calls

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Speaker 1: and talks to her roommate and the roommate was, God,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to make it weird, and it has a

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Speaker 1: good explanation as to why she didn't sort of disclose

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Speaker 1: this and they strained it out amongst them. Then would

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Speaker 1: you be okay going out with Charlotte again? Like if

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Speaker 1: they're okay with it.

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Speaker 4: Uh, it has to be pretty like, yes, it's totally fine,

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Speaker 4: one hundred percent. I don't want it to be too weird,

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Speaker 4: but that would sort of be up to Charlotte after

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Speaker 4: she talks to her.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So yeah, you're not harboring any because my first

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Speaker 1: thought was, you know, you don't want to go out

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Speaker 1: you're not harboring any sort of lingering feelings.

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Speaker 4: Then no, no, no, we tripped apart. Whether or not

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Speaker 4: she feels a different way, I don't know, but you

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Speaker 4: know that was it just didn't happen all right.

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Speaker 1: So Rufio's theory is that the roommate still has feelings,

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Speaker 1: but we can figure this out.

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Speaker 4: Quickly.

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Speaker 1: So Charlotte, why don't you guys sort that out and

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Speaker 1: then and then Eric, Charlotte can call you again if

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Speaker 1: they work it out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that would be great. I like you, Charlotte.

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Speaker 4: I just don't want it to be weird and complicate

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Speaker 4: your life. Well, you know, my roommate's kind of a kind.

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Speaker 2: Of a whole bag.

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Speaker 3: Whoa, I don't kind of see what's going on there.

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Speaker 1: Oh did you know, Eric, did you know that her

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Speaker 1: roommate was uh, and I call kind of a whole bag?

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Speaker 2: I did not, But.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so then now my question is, Hrolatt, does he

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Speaker 1: give you pause? Like, do you now not want to

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Speaker 1: go out with him? Because they went out?

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Speaker 2: You know, it's.

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Speaker 3: Definitely news that I'm gonna have to like shit and

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Speaker 3: think about for a little bit.

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Speaker 4: I didn't want to.

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Speaker 3: I do want to talk to her though, and kind

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Speaker 3: of just see what the situation was, why she didn't

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Speaker 3: call me, or I just tell me that.

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Speaker 1: This something I don't know. Yeah, there's something that's something

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't like about this, but I don't

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Speaker 1: like you.

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Speaker 3: He gotta move on to the next friend in a group,

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Speaker 3: just smashing.

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Speaker 1: Every many whole bag friends, you got right one and two. Okay, look,

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Speaker 1: I don't know you guys. You often worked this out.

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Speaker 1: I'm confused. This is like a rap This is like

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Speaker 1: the rap battle we got break in here somewhere at

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Speaker 1: twenty one seven.

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Speaker 4: I don't like us.

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Speaker 1: We all need to sort this out, and I wish

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Speaker 1: you guys best, both, the best of luck. I'm flustered

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Speaker 1: myself here. I really don't know Obi over there. Jesus,

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Speaker 1: good luck, guys.

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Speaker 4: Thanks