1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Make sure to subscribe, rate, and review The Doctor Sex 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: re Show wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. On 3 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: today's episode of The Doctor Sex Reese Show, we talked 4 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: to a caller who's squeamish about his shoulder, a woman 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 1: with a wild request for her lover, and a man 6 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 1: who can't cream without a scream. And now The Doctor 7 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: Sex Reese Show with your host, Dr Robert sex Reese. 8 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: This is the Doctor Robert sex re Show. I'm Dr 9 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: Robert sex Reese. How can I help you today? Every 10 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: caller that calls me, I take as it's me or them. 11 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: I don't like that either, honestly, now that I'm hearing 12 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 1: it come from you, very excited to talk about this, 13 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: Can you give me a second? I'm choking on a walnut. 14 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: You know you're on the air. Can we just put 15 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,680 Speaker 1: aside our differences and agree that I was right, very 16 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 1: impatient to hear your question, but also living in fear 17 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: of it. I'm rowing gems at you and you just 18 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: keep dropping them in the river. My situation is, I'm 19 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: doing what I love. I'm free from human touch, and 20 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: I'm here to give what I have to you. Hello, Hello, Helloha, 21 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: and Welcome to the Doctors Sex Reese Show. Today's topic 22 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: is scars. Now, for years, I've been trying everything I 23 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: can to keep people away from sex, because you know, 24 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: people get hurt, and sometimes that hurt can lead to scars. 25 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: But it's not just from the lashes of a poorly 26 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: handled cat of nine tails or from having every muscle 27 00:01:39,720 --> 00:01:42,120 Speaker 1: in your body go into a Charlie Horse causing you 28 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: to collapse into your stained glass coffee table. There's mental 29 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: scars as well. There's emotional scars, and even relationships can 30 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: be scarred. And actually it's kind of weird that this 31 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,160 Speaker 1: topic came up today. I originally thought we were going 32 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: to talk about state parks, not having sex in them, no, 33 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 1: but the general appreciation of state parks and how they 34 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: can turn you on mentally and emotionally. But our new 35 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: producer Shelley, Hello Shelly, and for me that the topic 36 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: of parks is too politically charged at the moment, which 37 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: is a complete surprise to me because I rarely follow 38 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: the news. But apparently it's a part is an issue, 39 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: and since I am a coward, I refuse to talk 40 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: about politics. So instead today we're covering scars, which is 41 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 1: doubly odd and suspect because I just heard back from 42 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: my doctor, which I'm revealing here for the first time ever, 43 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: that I do indeed have a scar on my perennium, 44 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:41,240 Speaker 1: which is what you goblins might call a taint. And 45 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: I was not aware of this scar because I do 46 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: not ever look at my body below the belly button, 47 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: and I honestly either pass out or go into a 48 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: fugue state during routine physical exams. So this is all 49 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: new to me, and it's a lot to process. So 50 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: it turns out that one of Jeff F's lies might 51 00:02:57,680 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: have a little bit of truth to it. But that's 52 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: how you know it's a lie. Now, did Chili choose 53 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: this topic because she already knew about the scar on 54 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 1: my perennium? Is she in cahoots with my doctor? Is 55 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 1: everyone in cahoots against me? I don't know all of 56 00:03:16,760 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: that aside. I'm here to help you, and I want 57 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: to help you with your own scars. So let's open 58 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: the lines to our callers. We're gonna talk about scars 59 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 1: today on the Doctor Sex Reese Show. Our first caller 60 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: is Dave Hidr Reese. Um, here's my question, I have, Um, 61 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: I have a scar that I am very self conscious about, 62 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 1: and when my boyfriend and I have sex, uh, he 63 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: likes to touch it. His ring finger kind of fits 64 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 1: right into the low divid that it is, and he 65 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: just kind of likes to do it. I also don't 66 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 1: like it because it's it brings up bad feelings and 67 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm self conscious and it's I've had memories and feelings 68 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 1: associated with it, and I want him to stop. But 69 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: I you know, but also sex is very you know, 70 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: otherwise good, and it's and it's we're intimate and connected 71 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 1: and I don't want to take him out of the moment. 72 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: Have you guys tried not having sex at all? Right now? 73 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: I like having We both like having sex. So no, honestly, 74 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,119 Speaker 1: why this is something I've been wanting to ask people 75 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 1: for a long time and I never got a straight 76 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: answer here. Yeah, it's just it's it's a feeling of 77 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: oneness with the universe when you have an organstic. But but 78 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: but the rest of it is also everything around it 79 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: is is something that I find very pleasurable. It's it's um, 80 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: it's a way to get more intimate with your partner. 81 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 1: It's um, you feel like you're sort of physically in 82 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: a bubble where no one else exists. That that would 83 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: be nice. I would love to be in a bubble 84 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 1: where no one else exists, but also no one else 85 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: is touching me. Because when you're a public figure like 86 00:04:56,520 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: I am, and you go out in public and you 87 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: recognize which I surprisingly am recognized quite a bit. Um, Yeah, 88 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: I think I would. I would be able to pick 89 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 1: you out of it. Yeah. People sometimes will hear my 90 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: my my voice and recognized me able to just sort 91 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: of sense I'm around generally where people want to touch me, 92 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: as well as on busses, and I don't like it, 93 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:19,919 Speaker 1: and yes, it is, it is true, um, And I 94 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: ride a lot of busses, And there's a reason why, 95 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 1: because I like buses. I've always liked busses. Something deeper 96 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 1: than that. No, I just didn't want people to think 97 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,280 Speaker 1: it was because I was poor or anything like that. 98 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: It's because I enjoy the experience of riding a bus. 99 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:38,119 Speaker 1: And but I hate people and I don't like being 100 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: close to people. So I would love to find some 101 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 1: sort of portable bubble that would keep people away from 102 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,799 Speaker 1: me while also being able to see what's happening around 103 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:51,719 Speaker 1: me at all times. Because I don't also trust people. 104 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: This isn't that important, Dave. It's just something that I've 105 00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: been thinking about. And a lot of times people call 106 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: me and I just give and give and give and 107 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: give and talk about their problems, and every once in 108 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 1: a while I have a problem as well. I'm not 109 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: saying you can help me with it, but thank you 110 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:08,239 Speaker 1: for listening. But no, I was listening and it seems 111 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 1: like what you're describing as a car. Okay, that's definitely 112 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: worth looking into. I appreciate that a car. I mean no, 113 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 1: I don't have a car. No. Um, okay, okay, Well 114 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: something to think about. I mean, yeah, do you have 115 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 1: a driver's license? I don't have a driver's license. Now 116 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: there's a reason for that as well. What is that reason? 117 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 1: I don't like having my picture taken and I understand 118 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: in order to drive a car, you have to have 119 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: an identification card. How did how did you pose for 120 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: your ad campaign? There's an organization that you can contact 121 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 1: that specializes in covert portraiture, so you know that they're 122 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,600 Speaker 1: going to take a portrait of you at some time 123 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: during the next X number of weeks, and a lot 124 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: of times they'll do it right on that first day 125 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: because you're on high alert. But you're on such high 126 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 1: that you're not actually paying you know what I mean. 127 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 1: Like you're sort of like you're looking in all the 128 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 1: wrong places and their pros um but you just know 129 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,040 Speaker 1: that they're going to take beautiful portraits of you at 130 00:07:09,080 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: some time during the next three weeks or whatever. You 131 00:07:10,920 --> 00:07:13,360 Speaker 1: never know where. That's why a lot of those on 132 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: a lot of those um ads with my picture on it, 133 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: I seem confused or wet. Yeah, I now, looking back, 134 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 1: there is there is one that is shot from you're 135 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 1: looking over your shoulder, but it does look like you're 136 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: running away. It looks like you're it looks like you're 137 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: fleeing something. Yeah, they do a thing where they make 138 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: they make a loud noise to get you to look 139 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 1: behind you and then they capture the photos. But that 140 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: happens to me a lot. I'm always hearing loud noises 141 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: and running away, So it could have been from any 142 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: time at all. But thank you for being a fan. Well, okay, no, 143 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: I mean I enjoy the show. Let's let's get back 144 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 1: to your problem. You're Yeah, there's a divot on your 145 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: shoulder and you're and even though your boyfriend's finger fits 146 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: in it perfectly, which to me would be a symbol 147 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: that this is the person that you meant to be 148 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: with for the rest of your life, and this universal 149 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: communion that you're talking about is taking place on multiple levels, 150 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: physical and spiritual. You are too much of a baby 151 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:10,120 Speaker 1: to tell him you don't like it? Is that right? 152 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: You need baby food and a debee? Oh wow, that's 153 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: that's aggressive. I don't like that tone. All right? Should 154 00:08:17,920 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: I try a good cop? Then? Could you look? Look? 155 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,400 Speaker 1: Dr Reese comes in here. He comes in with his 156 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: with his fist swing, and it's because he was never 157 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: really loved, you know, So he's trying to find tough 158 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:31,559 Speaker 1: love with anybody who comes in here. But the minute 159 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,080 Speaker 1: you show him a little bit of vulnerability, he just 160 00:08:34,120 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: wants to shut it down. But I'm telling you, Dr Sex, 161 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: he's a good guy. He really wants to help you out, Dave. 162 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 1: So why don't you tell me what what's the real problem? 163 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: Why won't you talk to your boyfriend about this? Are 164 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:50,480 Speaker 1: you not Dr Reese? Now? I'm good cop Dr Reese? Okay, 165 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: but you're just talking about Dr Reese like he was 166 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: a different person. Yeah, bad cop, doctor Reese. Oh you 167 00:08:58,080 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: want coffee, Dave. Yeah, come on into the kitchen and 168 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 1: get it with the lights out. You'll see what happens 169 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 1: to people like you. I don't know if that makes 170 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:10,679 Speaker 1: sense either. I don't know what setting we're in. I 171 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: don't know what's saying. Okay, I don't either. Set the stage, 172 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: please for for for this interrogation. Uh, do you want 173 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: me to have a mustache? What do you want? Yeah, 174 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,360 Speaker 1: it feels like you would have a mustache, and and 175 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:31,200 Speaker 1: like the transitions lenses. Okay, yeah, I got that. All right, 176 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: let's start out. Okay, here I come, okay. And it's 177 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:38,680 Speaker 1: just a room. Yeah, and you've been sitting in there 178 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: with a flickering lights, yeah, thinking about the scar and 179 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:47,559 Speaker 1: how your boyfriend's finger fits. Right, okay, here, I come, okay, 180 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 1: all right, punk, So what's the problem. You don't like 181 00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: the fact that your boyfriend puts his finger in your 182 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: scar every once in a while. Listen to me. Everything 183 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: else about your life is great. Everything you've asked for 184 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:00,160 Speaker 1: you've gotten. Your problem is you don't know to look 185 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:01,839 Speaker 1: at a good thing when you have it, My friend, 186 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 1: you and if you keep looking somewhere else for good things. 187 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 1: Guess what, You're never gonna get it? You know why, 188 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: because people don't like people who don't appreciate what they have, 189 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: and I should you know, I have a good mind. 190 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:19,000 Speaker 1: Give you a mouthful of bloody chicklets. I would kill 191 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 1: for what you have. Punk wow. Alright, alright, alright, calm down, 192 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: Dr Rees, Calm down, Doctor Rees, Dave. Can I get 193 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: you a cup of tea or anything like that? You 194 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: want to talk about this? Are you afraid to tell 195 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: him because you're afraid that you might lose him? Yeah? 196 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 1: All right? Have you ever asked him if he's afraid 197 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: of losing you? No, Maybe the reason he's putting his 198 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: finger in that gross scar ears because he wants to 199 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: feel even closer to you than he can during the 200 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: physical act of love. Maybe the reason that he won't 201 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: ask you about it is because he's just as afraid 202 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: of losing you as you are of losing him. Dr Reese, 203 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:07,720 Speaker 1: I have to tell you both both approaches worked really well. 204 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: Thank you, You're very welcome. And if that doesn't work, 205 00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: I just suggest that you just pack up and leave 206 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,719 Speaker 1: the guy alright, because no one needs that. No one 207 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: needs that. Life's too short for that. Okay, and also 208 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:23,280 Speaker 1: make sure you're putting neo sporing on it. It's from 209 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:27,680 Speaker 1: seven years ago. Yeah, but you never know. Okay, Okay, Dave, 210 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: thanks for calling. I hope that was helpful, and if 211 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: it wasn't, I at least hope you enjoyed my performance. 212 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 1: I did, Thank you. Dr Reese. Another satisfied customer. All right, 213 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 1: let's pay some bills and then we'll be right back. Okay, 214 00:11:46,760 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 1: let's take a moment to hear from one of our sponsors. 215 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: Thank you to the non fetish Spatula, the only spatula 216 00:11:54,040 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 1: designed so that I can't be used for any kind 217 00:11:58,120 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 1: of fetish, whether it be spanking or a cooking based fetish. 218 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: Flip with confidence with the non fetish spatula wherever non 219 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: sexual objects are soul. All right, thank you to our sponsors. 220 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 1: Thank you for your support, continued support, and mystifying support 221 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: of the Doctor Sex Rees Show. Today's topic is scars 222 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: so far, I would give this episode a C plus. 223 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 1: Let's see if our next caller can bring it up 224 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:35,439 Speaker 1: to a B minus. I have on the line, Donna 225 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: bessek Am I saying that right, Donna Beska, Well, thank 226 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: you and welcome to the Doctor Sex re Show. How 227 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: can I help you? Oh? Thank you so much. It's 228 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: great a long time listener. It's great to finally get 229 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: to talk to you. So my boyfriend, I would prefer 230 00:12:54,000 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: it if he looked like a young j C. From 231 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:03,319 Speaker 1: and Sink the Band. And you know, I told him 232 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 1: I'm willing to pay for the plastic surgery to do it. 233 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: But he was, I guess like butt her by the suggestion. 234 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:15,079 Speaker 1: And so now, how can I convince him that it's 235 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 1: perfectly normal to surgically alter your appearance to look like 236 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: the celebrity of your partner's choice. Well, let me ask 237 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: you this. How did you broach the subject with him? Yeah, 238 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: it was just kind of a funny thing. Um, we 239 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: were out having a date night, having a great time. 240 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: We'll put back up you the Grownies, and we're actually 241 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: in Hollywood, and I thought I saw J C. Chaze 242 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 1: and then I just kind of said I just kind 243 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: of said it. I was like, he's such a good 244 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:49,520 Speaker 1: looking guy, you know, like what about Like what do 245 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: you think about this idea type of thing? Now? Did 246 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: you come up with the idea on the spot there 247 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: or is this something you've been thinking about for a 248 00:13:56,040 --> 00:14:01,200 Speaker 1: while I just kind of popped in my head. Now 249 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: I can't put the idea to rest, and I just 250 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: will not. And to you, is it is it? Would 251 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,439 Speaker 1: it be a financial burden to pay for this plastic surgery? 252 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: Oh no, I I told him right away. I said, 253 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: I will absolutely pay every red cent of it. Don't 254 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: worry about it, babe, Mama has got you covered. And 255 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: that wasn't good enough for him. No, he in fact 256 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: told me it was not about the money at all. 257 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: Oh well, then what was it about? He said, I 258 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 1: don't want another face. It's so messed up of you 259 00:14:36,240 --> 00:14:39,520 Speaker 1: to try to say that you can put on someone 260 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 1: else's face on my face, Like that's really hurtful. But 261 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: he also, as he said, I love you to you, yeah, 262 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: he really loves me a lot. And do you love him? Oh? 263 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 1: I love him to the moon and back. But it 264 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: would be better if he looked like this jac Chase 265 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 1: from in Sync. Well, I think love is about conform 266 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:03,400 Speaker 1: rising on preferences and so like, I assumed he wasn't 267 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:08,400 Speaker 1: gonna maybe give me so much pushback on this right now, 268 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: surely you sound like a reasonable woman to me. You 269 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: must have made some concessions to this guy at some 270 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: point in time, right, Yeah, he said he wanted us 271 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 1: to be a dairy free household, and you know that 272 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 1: was something I was really not on board with. I'm 273 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,960 Speaker 1: not really into the whole nut milk craze. I think 274 00:15:27,000 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: it's a little funny. But guess what, I love him 275 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 1: so and you're slurping out milk left and right now, 276 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: even though you hated the taste of it. It makes 277 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: you nauseous. Yeah, I'm choking down oat milk out of 278 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 1: love for my honey. So j C. Scha for you? 279 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 1: Is is he? Would you consider him to be the ultimate? Like? 280 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: Is he your number one? Or is it that you 281 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: think that that face would fit well on your boyfriend's body? Yeah? Yeah, 282 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: I I just think Jac is as pretty slamming as 283 00:15:56,800 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: it gets, and I would actually like to heat my boyfriend. 284 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: But just have j C. Chas based on it. Have 285 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 1: you done any um, any role playing to this end. 286 00:16:09,960 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 1: Have you pretended to be the tour manager or anything 287 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:15,040 Speaker 1: and then catching J. C. Chase in the in the 288 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:20,000 Speaker 1: dressing room and having to yell at him or demand 289 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 1: that they, you know, work harder at their dance moves, 290 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: or have you pretended ever to be his accountant and 291 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: when he finds out that you've been skimming money off 292 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 1: the top and you have to seduce him or anything 293 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: like that. It's funny that you asked that, because yeah, 294 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:38,200 Speaker 1: I was role playing on my end um. I was 295 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 1: playing his tour manager, and I was like, hurry up, Jac, 296 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: come on, let's go chop chop, we gotta get to rehearsal. 297 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: And then he wasn't really playing back. Okay, so how 298 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 1: long did this go on where you were pretending to 299 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:57,800 Speaker 1: be J. C. Chase as tour manager without your boyfriend's 300 00:16:57,800 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: knowledge that he was playing j. C. Shaw's a in 301 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 1: your fantasy kind of any time we got into the bedroom. 302 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 1: I I have done a lot. I've read a lot 303 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,600 Speaker 1: of romance and sex books and they say, really just 304 00:17:11,680 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 1: kind of be vulnerable, put your heart out and go 305 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 1: into the role play because sometimes maybe your partner it 306 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: will take them a while to get into it with you. 307 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,959 Speaker 1: Do you usually tell him that you're about to do 308 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: the role play, or you just jumping in and assuming 309 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:30,560 Speaker 1: that he's going to figure it out. I say, I'm oh, hell, 310 00:17:30,600 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: I'm the tour manager from Encinc. You know me, and 311 00:17:33,960 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: let's get going and then um, sometimes usually like he 312 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: will push me out of bed, or shut the door 313 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 1: on me, or or try and hide in the closet. Yeah, 314 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:49,960 Speaker 1: those are those seem to be pretty strong signals unless 315 00:17:50,080 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 1: now there's a possibility that he is role playing, and 316 00:17:53,440 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 1: that he's role playing as J. C. Chaz A, role 317 00:17:56,800 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 1: playing as a prison guard or a big motorcycle brute. Okay, 318 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: you know, and that you are not aware of the 319 00:18:07,040 --> 00:18:10,159 Speaker 1: next level of role play that he is doing, like 320 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: he might be playing three dimensional role played chess with 321 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:18,199 Speaker 1: you and you're still playing checkers. My honey, whoa, I 322 00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: haven't even considered that. I mean that day is again 323 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 1: why you are the expert. That wasn't pretty crazy if 324 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,359 Speaker 1: I was getting three D chess played. Even if that 325 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:33,439 Speaker 1: is happening and he is actually incredibly plot driven, I 326 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 1: still how about the surgery though, I want my surgery 327 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 1: for him? And how much have you looked into how 328 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: much this surgery might cost? I think it's upwards of 329 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: seventy five thousand dollars, but probably a closer. Yeah, probably 330 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: a lot higher than that. I think that was on 331 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 1: the cheaper end of this place I found in Chino. 332 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 1: But um, all right, you might want to consider other countries. 333 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:02,080 Speaker 1: That's a good idea. Yeah, I'm you could kind of 334 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:04,159 Speaker 1: fold a vacation into it and sort of make a 335 00:19:04,160 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 1: whole thing. Now what I think is actually happening here. 336 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: If you want to know my take on it, he's 337 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: playing almost impossible to get. You need to if he's 338 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:18,440 Speaker 1: playing three D chess with you, you need to play 339 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: for D or five D chess with him, and you 340 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: need to basically create a scenario where what I'm basically 341 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 1: saying is you should either kidnap him or take him 342 00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 1: on vacation and while you're there get the surgery through 343 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 1: some you know, through some I don't want to say 344 00:19:39,440 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 1: tricky means, but through some playful role playing means. Yeah. Yeah, 345 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 1: you could create a scenario where when you're in I mean, 346 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,600 Speaker 1: I know, Vietnam is a place where you could go 347 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:52,399 Speaker 1: to get some of the stuff done. Thailand is a 348 00:19:52,400 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 1: place where you could go to get some of the 349 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 1: stuff done. Yeah. Yeah, I did a little bit of research. 350 00:19:57,560 --> 00:20:00,080 Speaker 1: We found a place for them in Peru and it 351 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 1: was a very similar situation um and we actually wound 352 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: up as part of the whole package deal. The doctors 353 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 1: themselves actually pose as drug cartel members. Yeah, and then 354 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:15,719 Speaker 1: you can sort of like it's a it's because it's 355 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 1: kind of fun too, because it's it takes a role 356 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:20,159 Speaker 1: playing to the next level. They you know, put you 357 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 1: through a little bit of a car chase, corner you 358 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: in an alley, they would pretend to knock you out. Yeah, 359 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: it's like a video game. Yeah exactly. And then he 360 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 1: and then you kind of see like, well, what's gonna happen. 361 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 1: Is my boyfriend gonna play along with this? Is he's 362 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:34,440 Speaker 1: going to put up a fight? Is he going to 363 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,159 Speaker 1: quickly fold? So you get to learn a little bit 364 00:20:36,160 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: about them too, bing bang boom. Next thing you know, uh, 365 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 1: you guys are back state side. You know, he's probably 366 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: been asleep for two three weeks. Take off the bandages. 367 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: Looks exactly like j C. Chaz A. Damn, I knew 368 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: you would have all the solutions. This is why I 369 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: always listen to That's Crazy. Yeah, because you know, we've 370 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,320 Speaker 1: had on a dating app and he said on there, 371 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: he said looking for a girl who loves adventure, and 372 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 1: so like, I know that he actually wants this, he 373 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: just doesn't really know it, and like, only someone like 374 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 1: me who loves him, so much would do this and 375 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: pay for it. I mean, even though I am a 376 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: very rich woman, it is expensive. Now, let me just 377 00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:28,000 Speaker 1: to be clear. Has he ever said the word no 378 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 1: to your request to have him change his face to 379 00:21:30,960 --> 00:21:34,040 Speaker 1: look like J. C. Chaz A from in Sync? Yeah? 380 00:21:34,040 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: I know. He said that very very clearly, and he 381 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: said no. If you ask me that again, I'm going 382 00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:45,680 Speaker 1: to freak out. And he said, um, that's extremely insulting 383 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: that you would need another face to be in love 384 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: with me like that type of thing. Right, So he's 385 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: really playing the long game on this one. The game 386 00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:56,919 Speaker 1: is a foot so to speak. It's a it's a 387 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,120 Speaker 1: it's a it's a war of wits at this point 388 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 1: between you and he, is it not? It's seeming more 389 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,360 Speaker 1: and more like that now that you say that, and 390 00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,359 Speaker 1: and now that I'm seeing it from your fresh expert eye, 391 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 1: that feel like I can really turn up the high 392 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 1: to high gear, you know, right. So I think at 393 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 1: this point you need to start putting the onus back 394 00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 1: on him right down? Okay? Good onus is O n 395 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:29,399 Speaker 1: U S. Let's be very careful with that word. I 396 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 1: think you want to drop the subject and never bring 397 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: it up again, you know, for a while until we 398 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 1: get to the point, until we get to the end 399 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: game in a foreign country with like got a um 400 00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,399 Speaker 1: incredible resort, and then we go like kind of maybe 401 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: for a day trip, and things kind of take a turn. Yeah, exactly. 402 00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: Maybe there's a maybe there's a local tour guide who 403 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 1: befriends you and seems it seems extremely congenial and unlike 404 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: the other people who are constantly trying to take advantage 405 00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:02,320 Speaker 1: of American tourists, he wants to show you the real whatever. 406 00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 1: Right next thing you know, you guys are driving down 407 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,280 Speaker 1: a dirt road that you don't recognize. Things are starting 408 00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 1: to get a little harry. A few other people on 409 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: motorcycles show up. The air condition goes out, air conditioning 410 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,880 Speaker 1: goes out. He leaves the truck to go take care 411 00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: of it, or maybe it's a bus of some kind, 412 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 1: and then on walk the paramilitary people who are actually 413 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 1: not paramilitary people that are actually nurses at the plastic 414 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: surgery facility. But he doesn't know this. But it's all 415 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,920 Speaker 1: part of the game. It's all part of the game. 416 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: The only thing I would say is after if you 417 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:36,440 Speaker 1: go through all of it, watch out for his next move. 418 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: You know, because whatever he has, he's he's he's not 419 00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,440 Speaker 1: going to be able to help. But appreciate how much 420 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: effort you put into this surprise, right, Yeah, I think 421 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: so cute. I think he's really going to come around 422 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,800 Speaker 1: because like he doesn't see he is. But it's really 423 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,240 Speaker 1: I'm doing this for him because what could be more 424 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: beautiful than looking like nineties Fox star j C shows it. 425 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,679 Speaker 1: But here is the only issue that I see with this, 426 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: and this is literally the only issue. Can he also 427 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,560 Speaker 1: bust a move in the same way j C could? 428 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 1: And if not, is that going to be a problem. 429 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,399 Speaker 1: Do you want to go in to get a knee 430 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 1: surgery done at the same time? Um? Wha, I mean yeah, 431 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 1: this is why they pay you the big box because 432 00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:25,119 Speaker 1: I haven't really thought of that. Like, We've been playing 433 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,080 Speaker 1: partner boc ball, and I have noticed he kind of 434 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,720 Speaker 1: drags one leg a little bit, which really, um takes 435 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 1: me off. Yeah, I mean is that because of how 436 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: he's affecting your BOCY game or is it because it's 437 00:24:38,320 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: kind of ruining your image of perfection that you're trying 438 00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:45,640 Speaker 1: to project onto this guy, doctor Doctor, I'm not trying 439 00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:51,119 Speaker 1: to push any perfection on him. Other than just being 440 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: JC and think. But you know, when I'm out here, 441 00:24:56,280 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 1: we're trying to do our couples fun games, and this 442 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 1: dude can't keep up. I think also we need to 443 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:09,720 Speaker 1: slip in a knee surgery, as you show apt Lee suggested. Now, 444 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: there is one issue I want to bring up, which is, 445 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 1: what if he's not actually involved in an elaborate game 446 00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 1: of cat and mouse with you? And what if after 447 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,320 Speaker 1: you go through all of this, you've done a terrible 448 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: disservice to him as a person, to the two of 449 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:29,159 Speaker 1: you as a as a couple. And then also, you know, 450 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 1: committed a number of crimes. I mean, you've got to 451 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 1: have I think you have to have a bit of 452 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: an exit strategy there. I mean, what do you mean, like, 453 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,639 Speaker 1: I'm not really committing any crimes. I think we all agreed. 454 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,120 Speaker 1: I was just helping him, doing what's best for him. 455 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,600 Speaker 1: I know, but sometimes people don't know when they're getting 456 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 1: the help that they need and they lash out. Um, 457 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,919 Speaker 1: I don't really want anyone to bother me just because 458 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm doing the right thing. But um, I guess I'm 459 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:59,679 Speaker 1: going to roll the dice because you only live once. 460 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,920 Speaker 1: But it Yeah, if anyone also comes after me, then 461 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: I don't know, there could be kind of like a 462 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: price to pay for them, right for them, Yeah, because 463 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,919 Speaker 1: you're not someone who's going to forget any slight Right. 464 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: You didn't get to where you are by letting people 465 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 1: by living and let living you know, right? Did you know? No? 466 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:20,800 Speaker 1: I was one of the richestle in California. Um, yeah, 467 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: I've had to step on a few next to get 468 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:26,360 Speaker 1: where I am. But look, I mean it's gets stepped 469 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: on or step or gets stepped on, is what I 470 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: always say in in my ted talks. Now have you 471 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,840 Speaker 1: have you made any of these requests with with previous 472 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 1: boyfriends anything similar? How has that gone? Um? I kind 473 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 1: of just made my last partner as many years ago, 474 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 1: just like dress up and go. I forced him to 475 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,760 Speaker 1: go by the name j C. Chaz And was he 476 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: okay with that? At first? No, No, he was not, 477 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:55,360 Speaker 1: But then he kind of just got used to it 478 00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 1: because it's not a big deal, right, and also with 479 00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:01,280 Speaker 1: your money power, you know, an influence, it's like, what 480 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 1: is he going to do about it? Yeah? I said, sweetie, 481 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:07,440 Speaker 1: it's okay, you're Jason. You are not You're j C. 482 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,399 Speaker 1: Cha now, But I will buy you a tiger. And 483 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,400 Speaker 1: did you buy that tiger? Yeah? Yeah, yeah? How much 484 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 1: do tiger's cost? Just out of curiosity, UM, this one 485 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 1: I think was like dollars wow. Yeah, and to you 486 00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: that's nothing. Oh no, that's a penny in the bucket. Listen. 487 00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:30,040 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you, I think you're a hero, UM 488 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,160 Speaker 1: for going after what you want. I think you're very accomplished, 489 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,080 Speaker 1: uh person. And I can tell by the timber of 490 00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 1: your voice that you're also a person who gets what 491 00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 1: she wants. And I like that. I like that a lot. Yeah, 492 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,959 Speaker 1: thank you. I'm going to send you a tiger, please 493 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:49,159 Speaker 1: do so, I guess. Uh. The only other thing is, 494 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 1: you know, could you lend me forty dollars? UM? Yeah, 495 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 1: well maybe I might need you to do a few 496 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: things for me first, like what beyond just this incredible 497 00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,119 Speaker 1: advice and yeah, and I just want to reiterate and 498 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 1: thank you so much for this advice. I've been listening 499 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: for so long, like basically your entire time on UM. 500 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 1: But I would if I can also request this offline too. 501 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: But I was wondering if I could just have UM 502 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 1: one of your ears for the forty dollars because I 503 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 1: just wanted like a token because I am such a 504 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 1: huge fan. Odd to me, how premeditated that sounds from 505 00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 1: something that seemed like a kind of a spontaneous transaction. 506 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 1: But yet again, you're the master and I'm the king. 507 00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,480 Speaker 1: So we're going to meet somewhere in the middle. Oh yeah, 508 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: just a friendly thing, you know. Well, Donna, Um, I 509 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:51,800 Speaker 1: want you to keep me up to date on how 510 00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:53,800 Speaker 1: this is going. And then yeah, I wish you the 511 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:57,000 Speaker 1: best of luck. Thank you so much. I really appreciate 512 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 1: you really has some incredible ideas and advice, and I 513 00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,520 Speaker 1: really feel, you know, soothed and comfortable with my choice 514 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:06,600 Speaker 1: and decision. Now good great, um off air. Uh, my 515 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 1: producer Shelley will give you my routing number. Okay, no problem, 516 00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: I'll send over my guy your guy. Well, I dread that, 517 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: but I do thank you for your call, Donna bessek 518 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 1: uh and uh yeah, please tell your friends, all right, 519 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:29,200 Speaker 1: thank you so much, Okay, goodbye bye. Every once in 520 00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: a while you get somebody on the air who uh 521 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:34,719 Speaker 1: is true to themselves, true to their heart, knows what 522 00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 1: they want and will stop nothing to get it. And 523 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 1: I have to say I admire that as a coward 524 00:29:40,800 --> 00:29:44,600 Speaker 1: and as a mid range celebrity. This is the Doctor 525 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: Sex re Show. I'm your host, Dr Robert sex Reese. 526 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: Today's topic is scars were two for two and I 527 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 1: would say right now, yeah, this episode probably just got 528 00:29:54,400 --> 00:30:02,680 Speaker 1: bumped up to a solid B. Let's take him inute 529 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: here to hear from one of our sponsors on The 530 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 1: Doctor sex ri Show. This is the best of Space 531 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 1: Fails DVD Volume one. You've loved every video and gift 532 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 1: on space fails dot com, but now you can watch 533 00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 1: your favorite astronauts get hit in the nuts by a 534 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: meteor on DVD Houston. 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I have our next caller on 545 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:28,520 Speaker 1: the line, Jordan's Jordan's You're on with Dr Sex Reese. 546 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,680 Speaker 1: That's me, Hi, doctor. Well, I'll just I'll just jump 547 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: right into it. As a teenager, I went into a 548 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,800 Speaker 1: haunted house with a friend on a dare and that 549 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 1: night lost my virginity in the haunted house and um, 550 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 1: during a real haunting. Yeah, what I believe to be 551 00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,680 Speaker 1: a real haunting. I mean, I know some people believe 552 00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,200 Speaker 1: in this stuff and some people don't. And I don't 553 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: want to like push my you know, agenda on anybody, 554 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 1: but yeah, I believe it to be to be an 555 00:31:55,040 --> 00:32:01,000 Speaker 1: authentic haunting. And that has kind of affected my adult 556 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: sex life because now I can't I can't climax or 557 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:13,040 Speaker 1: I can't I can't come unless I am unless I'm terrified. Yeah, 558 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 1: and I would like to, you know, find a way 559 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,239 Speaker 1: to have sex without being scared. Do they have them 560 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 1: put on a scary mask? Are you? Are you playing 561 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:26,160 Speaker 1: scary music? What? Yeah, it's it's it's it's escalated over 562 00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: the years. I mean obviously, as a you know, in 563 00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 1: my younger days, you know, it was fairly mild. I 564 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 1: you know, would just ask partners. If it was okay, 565 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 1: if I, you know, put on a spooky Halloween sound 566 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: effects tape, I don't know if you remember those from 567 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: childhood on tapes and c D s. No, wow, okay, Um, 568 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:51,080 Speaker 1: how's a sound on CD A little crisper. But there's 569 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: something about the warmth of a cassette tape that I 570 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: just am partial to. But yeah, but kind of started 571 00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 1: out like that that was fairly mild. And now you know, 572 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a thirty eight year old halt and 573 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: and it just it takes more to get me off. 574 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,000 Speaker 1: I mean sorry if that that's a little bit crass. 575 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:10,440 Speaker 1: But now I need a you know, I need to 576 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 1: be doused with a hose that shoots blood. I need to, 577 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: you know, see my dead mother's head in the mirror 578 00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:26,200 Speaker 1: when I closed the medicine cabinet during sex, during sex. Yeah, 579 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 1: the degree of horror that I need to ejaculate is frankly, 580 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,680 Speaker 1: it's not it's not sustainable. Give me some of the 581 00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 1: details about about the night that you lost your v 582 00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 1: V word in this haunted house. What's the setting set 583 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,240 Speaker 1: the stage for me? Sure? I mean, well, I grew 584 00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 1: up in a small town in Maine, and um, you 585 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 1: know there was a really colorful history. There were a 586 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: lot of you know, like factory fires and you know 587 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:58,800 Speaker 1: mill fires and witch burnings and you know circuses that 588 00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: burned down, and you know, so obviously you know, as 589 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 1: as as a kid, you know, one of the rights 590 00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:09,840 Speaker 1: of passages, you know, spending the night in a haunted structure. Um, 591 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 1: you know, an old mill about house right, a mental 592 00:34:13,239 --> 00:34:18,359 Speaker 1: hospital men silent, yeah, an old prison, all these all 593 00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,479 Speaker 1: these work. And so you know, as as a kid, 594 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 1: I spent the night with a with a with a 595 00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: friend at a in a in a house that you 596 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: know they called the Old sat Or White Place, and 597 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: you know, we went through a supernatural ordeal there that 598 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:38,200 Speaker 1: culminated in us having sex. And it's kind of just 599 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:41,560 Speaker 1: been part of my DNA ever since. So the Saturn 600 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 1: White Place itself, what was it? Was it a father 601 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,440 Speaker 1: who went crazy and killed his whole family? Was it 602 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,359 Speaker 1: bride left at the altar who killed everyone who came 603 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 1: to the wedding? And you can still, you know, see 604 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:56,040 Speaker 1: her in her wedding dress. While you were having sex, 605 00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: you spotted the ghost bride or we well, we fought, 606 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 1: we fought with the ghost bride um in the attic 607 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 1: and we we were able to to force her through 608 00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:11,840 Speaker 1: a portal to a hell dimension. Okay, and then my 609 00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:14,480 Speaker 1: my friend and I we had sex with each other. 610 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:19,040 Speaker 1: And as I was climaxing, the bride's hand reached back 611 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:25,359 Speaker 1: through the portal and grabbed my my hooded sweatshirt and 612 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 1: I was able to wriggle out of it as the 613 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: portal was, you know, sucking the hand back in. But yeah, 614 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,400 Speaker 1: it really just changed everything for me. I think you 615 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 1: got to go back to the original scene where you 616 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 1: lost your virginity. But I think the most important thing 617 00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:40,920 Speaker 1: is that by the end of it, you need to 618 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 1: burn the old, sadder white place down, just like kill 619 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:48,399 Speaker 1: all evidence of this ever having happened, because then you 620 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:52,759 Speaker 1: can actually, especially if you do, rekindle a relationship with someone. 621 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,120 Speaker 1: And the two of you were looking into each other's 622 00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 1: eyes as the as the reflection of the fire glimmers, right, 623 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,719 Speaker 1: and maybe we kind of slowly start to join hands 624 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:05,680 Speaker 1: as were watching the as we're watching the house burn. Yeah, 625 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,920 Speaker 1: and with it your your trauma and your pain. You know, 626 00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 1: that's something you could do. I guess here's a concern 627 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:16,640 Speaker 1: is that, um, you know, like obviously burning down that house, 628 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 1: um is easier said than done. Well, this is the 629 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 1: other thing I wanted to ask you about, and I've 630 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 1: I've been a little I've been a little wary to 631 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 1: do it because you're obviously emotionally raw. But what do 632 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:30,880 Speaker 1: you know about this bride that you pushed back into 633 00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,440 Speaker 1: the into the hell dimension? Is there anything? Is there any? 634 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 1: Could it possibly be the case that when she was 635 00:36:37,560 --> 00:36:39,960 Speaker 1: reaching out of that portal to grab you is because 636 00:36:39,960 --> 00:36:43,560 Speaker 1: she cared about you? Oh? Boy? Um, I don't know. 637 00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:46,800 Speaker 1: I mean I was just sixteen, so I mean obviously 638 00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 1: it's be a little bit problematic, But I mean, you 639 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: know that's yeah, that's that's true. A lot of life 640 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 1: experience under your belt, and you probably know what you 641 00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:59,040 Speaker 1: want a lot more than you did when you were sixteen. 642 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,319 Speaker 1: You know, if she can get past the whole being 643 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,600 Speaker 1: pushed into the hell dimension thing, um, you know, if 644 00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,839 Speaker 1: she's like you said you were six she she made 645 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: mistakes too, that's true. She did kill everyone at her wedding. 646 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,839 Speaker 1: If you can reopen the hell portal and get down 647 00:37:13,840 --> 00:37:17,280 Speaker 1: in there, maybe I don't know, Maybe you're just maybe 648 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 1: you're just the man she's been waiting for and and 649 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,839 Speaker 1: maybe she's what you've been looking for all this time. 650 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,520 Speaker 1: I guess it's possible. I mean, you know, it would 651 00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:30,719 Speaker 1: get my motor going. Tell your boss you're taking a 652 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,359 Speaker 1: four day weekend, Get in the car, put on some 653 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:39,239 Speaker 1: Genesis and dry like Phil Collins Genesis. Yes, the two 654 00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: of you may wind up living forever in the hell dimension, 655 00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,480 Speaker 1: and then then you have all the time in the 656 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:46,880 Speaker 1: world to figure this stuff out. Do you think I 657 00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 1: would be happy in the hell dimension? Are you happy? Now? 658 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,840 Speaker 1: Oh boy, that's a big question. Um, I mean not 659 00:37:53,880 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 1: as happy as I could be. I'll be I'll be 660 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 1: perfectly honest with you. Yeah. I mean again, my my 661 00:37:57,760 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 1: job pays the bills, but it's it's not my path. 662 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:03,320 Speaker 1: And I'm in publishing. I work for a small press 663 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 1: that does mainly kind of cookbooks and bartending guides and 664 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:10,920 Speaker 1: things like that. Um. Yeah, nobody's buying books anymore, you know. No. Yeah, 665 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:12,920 Speaker 1: well we do a pretty good e book business honestly. 666 00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 1: But it's something you could talk to her about. I'm 667 00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,000 Speaker 1: sure she doesn't even know what the internet is. Yeah, 668 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 1: I guess I could tell her about modern times and 669 00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 1: she can scream in your face. It sounds pretty nice. 670 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,720 Speaker 1: So keep me, keep me in the loop, keep me updated, 671 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 1: let me know if you're able to. You know, I 672 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 1: don't know if you might wind up in this hell 673 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:34,160 Speaker 1: dimension if all goes well, but uh, yeah, I wish 674 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:36,759 Speaker 1: you the best Jordans I think thanks, Yeah, I know 675 00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:39,280 Speaker 1: you really, Yeah, you really have an ear for this stuff, 676 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,880 Speaker 1: you really like Um yeah, you really. I feel like 677 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: took the words right out of my mouth and a 678 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 1: lot of a lot of occasions. So thank you very much. 679 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:50,800 Speaker 1: Another satisfied customer. Um and uh, I'm sure there's hundreds 680 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 1: of you out there who have had similar experiences and 681 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 1: are dealing with a very similar issue. Hopefully this provided 682 00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 1: some guidance for you too, whether it's a whether it's 683 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:07,439 Speaker 1: a fisherman who haunts your town, or a pirate ship 684 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,879 Speaker 1: under your city, or giant worms, whatever the case, maybe 685 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 1: I wish you all the best of luck. Thank you 686 00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 1: very much. Well, we're at the end of the show, 687 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:18,240 Speaker 1: and I gotta say, other than that perennium thing about 688 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: the scar at the top of the show, Jeff f 689 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 1: and his bull crap did not come up once. That's 690 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,279 Speaker 1: a win. It actually felt kind of good to help 691 00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,800 Speaker 1: Jordan there. Thanks to everyone for listening. Keep your mind opening, 692 00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 1: your eyes closed. As The Doctor sex Rees Show I 693 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 1: have been your host, Dr Robert sex Reese. Make sure 694 00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,440 Speaker 1: to rate, review, and subscribe to The Doctor sex Risho 695 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,279 Speaker 1: wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts