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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest Show, Taylor Swift and before that, Harry Styles.

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Speaker 1: Every time I see Harry, Harry, the name Harry, no

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Speaker 1: matter what Harry it is, I keep thinking of Prince Harry. Well,

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Speaker 1: are you going to read that book? Spare read? Maybe

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Speaker 1: I'll listen to it audible, Johnny, what about for you?

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be a note for me? Okay, you're giving

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Speaker 1: this some thought. I just I'm a little burnt out

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Speaker 1: by all the headlines, um, and I watched the documentary,

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Speaker 1: so I think I need a little bit of a

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Speaker 1: little bit of a moment. Okay, well you take your

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Speaker 1: moment as a fellow authoror I do want to, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, invest in books and read more. But I

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Speaker 1: feel like, you know this one, I'm gonna sit there

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Speaker 1: and I want the thing. No, you'd really given that

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Speaker 1: some thought? Yeah, okay, well what about you? Are you

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Speaker 1: going to read it? Yeah? I mean I haven't read

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Speaker 1: much in my life? Why start now? All right? Let's

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Speaker 1: see mostly catting today hides around seventy. We talked about this.

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Speaker 1: I do read, but it takes me a long time

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Speaker 1: to get through a book because I get distracted, I

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Speaker 1: set it down and for reread pages because I find

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Speaker 1: myself daydreaming while I'm reading. I know that's why you

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Speaker 1: gotta do audible. You're gonna like my book because it's

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Speaker 1: bite size. It's like daily Yeah, I need little like mints. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got it, like quotes. What is your book? What's

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Speaker 1: your book called? The Sunshine Mind? Comes out January one,

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Speaker 1: and you will be getting your copy in the mail.

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Speaker 1: What can just bringing to the office. Well, because it's

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Speaker 1: like I'm putting in a cute little sunshine box. So

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Speaker 1: we're getting the promotional copy. Yeah. But I wrote you

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Speaker 1: a letter, like a personal letter. And how many personal

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Speaker 1: letters did you have to write? Um? I did about

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Speaker 1: forty two, and Requel my author did about sixty. Who

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Speaker 1: gets these personal letters? Can you give us an example

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Speaker 1: of the mailing list? Well? Sure, we gave one to

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Speaker 1: all of our people that endorse the book. So Selena Um,

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Speaker 1: Sophia Devon, Franklin, Patty You, sissany umz, Sofia Carson, Patti Rodriguez,

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Speaker 1: Patti Rodriguez. Um, who else is on our mailing list? Um?

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Speaker 1: Is that one to Aurora Copo? Um? I'm blinking now,

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Speaker 1: on my list. Well there's a hundred and something people.

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Speaker 1: That's all right, but that's well, we're on the right list.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to read it. That book I will, of

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Speaker 1: course I'll read you. That's like days away. I know

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Speaker 1: our book signs at the Grove in like two weeks.

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna have a premier party? Well, the book

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Speaker 1: signing is kind of kind of be like, that's what

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Speaker 1: that is. Yeah, it's the night before the book comes out,

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Speaker 1: so it'll be like a party. Cute. Yeah, did you

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Speaker 1: send one? Is a Malick? Did not send one to

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Speaker 1: Zae Maleec? No, that's random. Why would you bring that

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Speaker 1: because it's his birthday? Oh no, the stars have aligned.

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Speaker 1: I'm just curious of what's a Alex getting in the middle. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did you said one to Lizzie? Require you said one

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Speaker 1: to Downtown Disney It opened twenty two years ago. Oh

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Speaker 1: let's see, what are we gonna do today? Well, look

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Speaker 1: it's Thursday, so we do have a Ryan's roses. Tubbs,

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Speaker 1: you just should know. As this show goes on the air,

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey Tubbs, or engineer, has been putting in some extra

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Speaker 1: hours as the pinch hitting producer that normally sits in

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Speaker 1: sitting in his usual location. He's on the other side

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Speaker 1: of the studio. Is that throwing you off? No, well,

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Speaker 1: the only thing throws me off is that he's an

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Speaker 1: engineer producing. But that's why I just gonna's got a

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Speaker 1: stack of things. Yeah, yeah, well he's an extra hours

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Speaker 1: and heeds being knowledge. Sure, am okay, did you send

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Speaker 1: him one? No, you did not get a copy. You

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Speaker 1: can use my copy after I've been going to the mailbox.

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Speaker 1: Haven't seen anything, Well, they haven't yet. He wasn't listening, No,

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Speaker 1: not at all. All right, listen today, we're paying your

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Speaker 1: bills all day. That's good news. That starts in a second. Also,

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Speaker 1: it's Ryan's roses after seven o'clock, so I guess he

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Speaker 1: So she wants to know why, and you know it's

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Speaker 1: relate to it too, because I've had I've had to

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Speaker 1: and the email says I can't find you. No no,

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Speaker 1: So you feel my pain. So what happened to you?

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Speaker 1: So in my case, I don't. It's funny because I

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Speaker 1: my streamings that no mine. We have it, we don't

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Speaker 1: these days. She loves opening up the because the trash

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Speaker 1: think it might have fallen through a crack in there

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Speaker 1: and now it's just gone. Who knows, it's been missing

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what's happened and how to get back.

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Speaker 1: confuses me is the double authentin authentication Authentication Authenticity authentication

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Speaker 1: And if you've ever been you know, someone else has

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Speaker 1: When you get the AADE, it goes to their phone.

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Speaker 1: Like I've seen million Dollar listening already. I'm caught up

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Speaker 1: morning this on TikTok. I'm seeing this, but what we

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Speaker 1: Right before TikTok, we had really had to dig and

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Speaker 1: And that is a promo. Kiss morning um. Today's quote

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Speaker 1: itself a bit more time to send out the remaining

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Speaker 1: middle class tax refunds. The inflation relief payments will continue

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Speaker 1: to be sent out through February. However, the FTP says

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Speaker 1: the vast majority of recipients still have their payments issued

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Speaker 1: by January fourteen. Big changes are coming to Disneyland Resort

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Speaker 1: as Disney celebrates it's one hundredth anniversary. Disneyland is increasing

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Speaker 1: We have Ryan's roses. Now. I don't if you've ever

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Speaker 1: pay bills again next hour and all day until this evening.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much? So you accidentally sent a screenshot

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Speaker 1: right now, we've all done this cringe. I just the

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi is this Daniel. Hi Daniel.

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Speaker 1: My name is sheina, I'm calling from the Modern Florist.

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Speaker 1: How are you doing this morning? Fine? How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm good. UM. We're actually new on Ventura Boulevard here

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Speaker 1: I just I just need the name of the person

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Speaker 1: you want to send them to. There's nobody in your life, wife, mom, sister, girlfriend, No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: after birthday party of your friends. Uh, and you were

423
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 1: not responsive to your wife's texts and calls and so

424
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:53,960
Speaker 1: just to very in much detail, So Daniel, to be clear,

425
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,200
Speaker 1: were you with anyone that night? Oh no, no, absolutely

426
00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: not No that kind of party at all. What kind

427
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:07,640
Speaker 1: of party would that be? It was just the kind

428
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: of party where you hook up. No, this was just

429
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 1: a friend's fiftieth birthday party. We ended up going to

430
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 1: one of those I'm not sure if I could use

431
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 1: brand names, but the big arcade restaurant kind of place

432
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:22,639
Speaker 1: where guys can just be guys and m tell you

433
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 1: the truth. I was the only one was out of

434
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: white there, and so it was like the only non couple,

435
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: so all my friends had to hang around with me.

436
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: And what about what about overnight? Daniel? To be clear,

437
00:25:33,880 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: your wife Wendy thinks that you cheated on or while

438
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:37,680
Speaker 1: you were gone, So can you tell us anything about what?

439
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:46,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. No, I just was drinking and it's there's

440
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 1: a hotel that's close enough that was in walking distance

441
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 1: of where the party was being held that I just

442
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 1: spent the night there and I pretty much passed out

443
00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 1: after three drinks. Nobody came with me a way. You're

444
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 1: on the line, you're hearing this. Do you believe your husband?

445
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,320
Speaker 1: I mean I want to, Dan, I want to believe you,

446
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 1: So why are we here? There must be a reason

447
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 1: we're having this conversation. You want to believe him, but

448
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,840
Speaker 1: you don't, and this was only one night. Why are

449
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 1: we in this situation, and why didn't you go, Wendy.

450
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,200
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I just I don't know the people,

451
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,160
Speaker 1: and I just didn't seem like something I wanted to do.

452
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: But the fact that you thought one night he was

453
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,239
Speaker 1: cheating on you makes me think something else is going on.

454
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: What's going on? Why isn't there trust in your marriage?

455
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,400
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, Dan hasn't been as affectionate as

456
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 1: he normally is, and we just haven't been communicating the

457
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: way we normally do. And I just, you know, assume

458
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: maybe he's looking for somebody else. Dan absolutely not. You know,

459
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 1: we're both working our weeks. I don't have time to cheat,

460
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:05,919
Speaker 1: and you let a them think about another woman, all right,

461
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: So you need to turn up the affection of him.

462
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: That's what I thought we were doing, like going to

463
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: this party because we got to wait for her. You

464
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 1: thought that she thought something else. You need to talk

465
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 1: about where you meet in between Wendy and Daniel. Good luck.

466
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: You need to communicate a little more, right, Yeah, I guess.

467
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: Look all right, thank you very much, money for reaching

468
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: out and good luck. Thank you. Okay, thank you, Daniel.

469
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 1: So someone stuck out to me, But she said she

470
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 1: she didn't want to go. I didn't want to go,

471
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 1: she said, because I didn't want to go. I didn't

472
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: want to She didn't want to hang out with The

473
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: scenario was he stayed out one night and she thought, well,

474
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 1: because he did, uh, someone else was with him, and

475
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: to go right to that place there's and and I

476
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 1: guess we learned there's just no uh, there's no affectionists.

477
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: There's a lack of sort of the little things that

478
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: you need to feel secure in your relationship, the hugs,

479
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 1: the cuddling, and when you get busy and you get tired,

480
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: sometimes that's snowballs into not happening. Right, But she's also

481
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,439
Speaker 1: distancing herself from him too. There was an opportunity to

482
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: go spend time with her husband. Yeah, she didn't want

483
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: to be around I guess that group of friends, but

484
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: that was an opportunity to be with him, and she

485
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: chose to stay back, and she chose to stay back,

486
00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:30,959
Speaker 1: he chose to go. And then that's how we got

487
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: to this place. But did you believe it was Wendy

488
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 1: and Daniel that that was the couple we were talking

489
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 1: to out of Sherman Oaks? Right? And did you believe

490
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: Daniel when he said, no, nothing's happening. Did you believe him?

491
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: I actually did believe him. I did too, but I

492
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:53,719
Speaker 1: was wondering I shouldn't feel bad about believing him, actually

493
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,080
Speaker 1: believed him. I thought he was genuine in saying, no,

494
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: nothing happened, and you didn't come, and you know, we're

495
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:06,960
Speaker 1: both working and we're tired. Gina in La Plante, Good morning, Gina.

496
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: What did you think after hearing that? Okay, so what

497
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 1: I have to say might be like not going I

498
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: might be going against the grain a bit here, but

499
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: I really do not think that that guy is cheating

500
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: on his wife. I listened to a lot of a

501
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: lot of Ryan's roses in. You know, most of the

502
00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: time got guys who are cheating, they have some game.

503
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: You know, they talking like a little bit of a

504
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: lower voice as well. And you know that guy, he

505
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: has no game. Do you tell them truth? She should

506
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 1: have went to the party with him and had a

507
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: good time. So you're saying his lack of swagger indicated

508
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 1: he's not cheating. He had a little nerdiness to him.

509
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: I know what you mean, Gina. Yeah, so it's a

510
00:29:53,480 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: good thing that he had no game. Nerds cheats cheats

511
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 1: to go on a shirt. Hey, he passed out up

512
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: to three drinks. That stood out to me too, Gina

513
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: had three drinks and he was out passed up. That's out. Lightweights. Donzo.

514
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: We used to say Gonzo tanas and I used to

515
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: say he's Gonzo bro Gonzo, you know Gonzo, the character Gonzo. Hey, Gina,

516
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:27,959
Speaker 1: thank we digressed, Thank you for calling up went they

517
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: thank you for listening. Thank you all right, she's Gina's funny.

518
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 1: I like it. Ryan Sam Smith and Kim Petras Unholy

519
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: one or two point seven kiss f M. Can you

520
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 1: believe this rain is coming back? And can you believe

521
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: that they're calling for it for so many more days?

522
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: Wait was just Saturday. No, they're saying this. This jet

523
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: stream could continue to push water through different parts of

524
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: the state of California for another week. It's crazy. You

525
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: know a jet stream time you know about jetstreams. It

526
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 1: was picking up water and Pacific and dumping it all

527
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: over the place. And you see the mud sliding. Mean

528
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: you were the one of the first to encounter the

529
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:18,600
Speaker 1: Canyon mud slide. Yes, I was very didn't you see

530
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 1: some of the stuff on the news swerving on the

531
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 1: other side of the street to get away from. But

532
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: luckily was so early nobody was on the road. Yeah,

533
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: to be careful. That's also dangerous when you're the first

534
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 1: car through a pass. Then it hasn't you know, cars

535
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: haven't gone over rocks or knocked him out of the way.

536
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: Be very careful as the as the trailblazer on your

537
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: way into work. Trailblazer. Right now, we're looking at rain

538
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 1: Friday night through Tuesday, like specifically, and then they're saying

539
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: it could continue after I know, and it's it's dangerous.

540
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: We went one this weekend. My little weather guy just

541
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:52,120
Speaker 1: does not show that. And what it's name here, a

542
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: little weather guy, come one on my phone, you know,

543
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: just just have some clouds and the little rain on Saturday. Yeah,

544
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 1: I found that to be less than precise sometimes. Yeah,

545
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: it is, uh, and so is not sleeping. That's also

546
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: a bumber. Sleep is just as important as a healthy

547
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:17,920
Speaker 1: eating plan, what else as healthy good exercise And one

548
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: of the ways that we were all taught as kids

549
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: to fall asleep before phones, before all the different devices.

550
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: If you can't fall asleep at night, count sheep, not mongoose,

551
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: not puma. But now I guess they're saying no sleep.

552
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: Experts say no, absolutely not. It doesn't work. It might

553
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: even take longer to finally rest if you count sheep.

554
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: So why this breaking news? Now? What happened? Um? Basically,

555
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: what you're supposed to do is go on a mental

556
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:57,600
Speaker 1: walk if you're having a restless time going to bed.

557
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: So if you're sitting there tossing into herning and I

558
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: think we've all been there, right, your mind is racing

559
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: and you can't fall asleep. I tried. I tried this

560
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 1: last night, you guys, and let me tell you it worked.

561
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: What did you do on a mental work? So this

562
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: is what you do. You're supposed to think about a

563
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:18,080
Speaker 1: walk that you know very well. Okay, actually go on

564
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: the walk mental walk. I thought you would, just like

565
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 1: for your mental peace, go on to help this child.

566
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 1: I was like, well that sounds counter to getting out

567
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 1: of bed, getting your feet cold, walking around the house

568
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: with a mental mental walk, right, So you have to

569
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: picture it, so you take your mind out of all

570
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 1: those things you're laying there. It's almost like meditation, right,

571
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 1: So you're you visualize it, but it has to be

572
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:46,160
Speaker 1: very detail oriented. You have to picture yourself leaving the house.

573
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 1: Locking the door, walking down your steps, going down you

574
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: have like really leaving your house. So I I kid

575
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: you not. I was so detailed with my walk. I

576
00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 1: barely made it down my street and I was asleep,

577
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 1: so I was trying on my mental walk. I was

578
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 1: trying to get down my street and go into this

579
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:08,279
Speaker 1: little like hiking drop on my house that like I

580
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 1: know very well. And I didn't even make it down

581
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: my street before I was asleep. It was very impressive.

582
00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:15,879
Speaker 1: I was like, So when I woke up this morning,

583
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:17,919
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, it worked. It work.

584
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 1: So wait, So could I forget lee mask? Could I

585
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: just automatically, you know, zapped myself to the beach, just

586
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:25,879
Speaker 1: take a walk on the Yes. So if you love

587
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: walking the boardwalk or the strand in Manhattan Beach or

588
00:34:28,920 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: like wherever you like, wherever you're great place that you

589
00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: love to walk, running canyon you know once you park,

590
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,520
Speaker 1: like you know, like your place that you love, that

591
00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 1: is your mental walk. What if I'm out on my

592
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: walk and I passed tubs mentally like she's walk, would

593
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 1: that be were? I don't know whatever. You guys on

594
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 1: a walk at the same time because you can't sleep, Fine,

595
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 1: and if there's like a dog barking, like you have to,

596
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 1: I guess you kind of got to control your thoughts

597
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: a little bit, a little bit. Yeah, I think it's

598
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: a great idea. I'm going to try it. And they're

599
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: also those walks that, like when you're on the treadmill,

600
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,439
Speaker 1: they show you those videos of a walker. I yeah,

601
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: pecturing those might work too. It was so nice. I

602
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 1: had a great sleep. I slept so well. I didn't

603
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: want to wake up this morning. I didn't want to

604
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: come to work. I didn't well. I have a shorter

605
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:25,840
Speaker 1: walk coming up next. Sam Smith at the Forum this summer. Sabrina,

606
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: thank you for calling in. How are you? I'm doing

607
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,680
Speaker 1: all right? How are you doing well? So you're saying

608
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: you're calling us about this your friend lives in the

609
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 1: same city as your long distance relationship. Yeah, and it

610
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 1: sounds great, but it's actually really tough. What'shis aren't tough enough?

611
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: But what's the problem with your friend living in the

612
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: same city as a long distance relationship. Well, any time

613
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:55,880
Speaker 1: I come to visit my boyfriend, he lives in Chicago,

614
00:35:55,960 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: I'm in l A. Anytime she knows I'm planning on

615
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 1: a trip, she always wants to see me when I'm

616
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: in town and anytime I'm out. Let's say I'm at

617
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: out at restaurant with my boyfriend having dinner. She sees

618
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,360
Speaker 1: me on Instagram and she's like, Hey, we're going to

619
00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: such and such bar afterwards. Come with us. I can

620
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:18,520
Speaker 1: never really just get one on one time with my boyfriend.

621
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,319
Speaker 1: So she wants your time just as much as anything else.

622
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:24,320
Speaker 1: Because you're there, she thinks that you should be spending

623
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: time with her, and you don't want to. So you

624
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 1: want to spend time with your boyfriend, is that right? Yeah?

625
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:31,879
Speaker 1: And I'd love to see her. You know, I love

626
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:35,640
Speaker 1: I love a friend, but I just can't spend every

627
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: time I'm in the city visiting my boyfriend with her.

628
00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 1: So I have learned how to handle this, and it's

629
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:48,839
Speaker 1: really it's a very direct but nice conversation with your

630
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,399
Speaker 1: friend to say, hey, look, I only get so much

631
00:36:51,480 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 1: cut with my cutie that I gotta I gotta, you

632
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: know it, hang, I gotta hang with my man, and

633
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Speaker 1: I'll check you out next time we'll hang. You know,

634
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Speaker 1: you've never spoken like that ever. See know what I'm saying.

635
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 1: The message is, I need quality time with my lover.

636
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: With my partner with my mad and we'll hang next time.

637
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: And they just got to deal with it. You have

638
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: to make your priorities clear to yourself and then clear

639
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: to those around you. But you can't feel guilty that

640
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: you need to be with your significant other and not

641
00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 1: your friend as much to keep your relationship alive. It's

642
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 1: happened to me before too, because my best friend lives

643
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: in the Bay and her now fiance his family is

644
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 1: from Beverly Wood here, so whenever they come to visit

645
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,440
Speaker 1: his family, it's like I want to see her too,

646
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: but she's coming to visit his parents and stuff. So

647
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 1: like there was a few times, especially in the early relationships,

648
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: that they would come and I was like, you were

649
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: in l a and you didn't even like see me

650
00:37:56,160 --> 00:37:58,560
Speaker 1: because they were just with his family, and I would

651
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,919
Speaker 1: get kind of mad. But then we figured it out.

652
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: Like there was times where like she would just come

653
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,640
Speaker 1: and spend a few hours with me and then go

654
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 1: back to his family. So you got to just figure

655
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 1: it is. You can't carry guilt as you prioritize what

656
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: you need and what your boyfriend needs. You'll figure it out.

657
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:18,320
Speaker 1: Good luck to bring it thanks in due time. Thank you.

658
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:20,799
Speaker 1: I mean the other thing is you can merge it.

659
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Speaker 1: I mean I've been in situations where there's limited time

660
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: and emerge it. Merging it every time, not in the beginning,

661
00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,120
Speaker 1: and the beginning, focus on the relationship, and then down

662
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: the road it's like separate it. You don't like a merge,

663
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Speaker 1: not in the beginning and focus on I kind of

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Speaker 1: like for twenty years, I've emerged things like I bring

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00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,480
Speaker 1: different friends together for a dinner because they don't get

666
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 1: much time with them, and I just he's the only

667
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: way to do it. So yeah, you can call in,

668
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 1: you can send us a text for one or two seven,

669
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,319
Speaker 1: or you can email us. But for some reason, I

670
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: don't know why. I mean, he's email your first choice

671
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: to communicate with some money. Um, I find it easy.

672
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 1: Remember when business like business was only done via email

673
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Speaker 1: and personally is done be attack. Now there's so much

674
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,560
Speaker 1: business done to be attacked. And now with Instagram dms like,

675
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: listeners can reach us anywhere, which is great. So here's

676
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 1: some feedback we got the email. Do you mind if

677
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: I read some of these. I've already read this one

678
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: because I've already responded to Thomas. He emailed me, so

679
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 1: Thomas writes to sissany, have you ever listened to yourself

680
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: and heard how many times you say the word? Like?

681
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: Some of these can be candid. I mean, you know,

682
00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 1: you probably don't know if you are speaking. You probably

683
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: don't realize how many times you say M or like, oh,

684
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: I say so much? Do you say any? Yes, I

685
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 1: don't think I say um. I don't think I'm an

686
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: I don't notice I'm on you. But do you know

687
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 1: what I do? Notice that you say a lot? Is

688
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Speaker 1: you're welcome? He does, No. Oh, yeah, that's like you're like,

689
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: that's like you what's your christ response? Yeah, like you're

690
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 1: you know, I'm with you, Crutch. That's your version of

691
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: being silent on this show. Yeah, we ask you something

692
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: and you just open your eyes and like what we

693
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 1: do have is a So what did you say? How

694
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 1: do you would you reply? Um? Well, he says, you

695
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: use it like is a verb? You use it. You

696
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: use it as a verb and an adverb. You often

697
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:23,360
Speaker 1: use it more than once in the same sentence. The

698
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 1: Kardashian sisters do the same thing. An adverb. What's aver?

699
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: I know? It's very was like English lesson. So I

700
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 1: responded to him and I said, you know what, I

701
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: do use the word like. I feel like I do

702
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 1: it all the time because I've speak this way my

703
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,960
Speaker 1: whole life. And I told him that I've been watching

704
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: the Kardashians for many years, and ironically I find them,

705
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, relatable because they talk like me. Still

706
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 1: irony there. I guess it's normal for me. Well, my

707
00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: mother used to correct me when I would say, like

708
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:57,279
Speaker 1: growing up, she would stop me when I'd say, Mom,

709
00:40:57,280 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: they were like all going to like this party and

710
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: like this weekend. So it's good the California thing too,

711
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 1: And it's also didn't bother me when I hear people

712
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 1: using it. It does if you notice it and then

713
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 1: you hear people do it, then it does start to

714
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,120
Speaker 1: bother you after a while if it's frequent. It was

715
00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: funny because we were and then we've been going back

716
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: and forth and he was just like, I don't mean it.

717
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 1: He was just like, what I know. He's like, I

718
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 1: don't mean it. As He's like, I don't mean it

719
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Speaker 1: to be a job. Um. He's it's probably a generational thing.

720
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:31,759
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm fifty two and he's like, and I

721
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: love your show. He's like I'm a loyal listener. So

722
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: we love you, Thomas, thank you for writing in. And

723
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,400
Speaker 1: so he's a sweeter and I told him to call in,

724
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:40,399
Speaker 1: and he gave us his number, so maybe we will

725
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,719
Speaker 1: give him a call and chat with him. But he

726
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 1: was very sweet. Let's see what B says. B says,

727
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:48,480
Speaker 1: I'm addicted to your segments second Date Outdate. I can

728
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: relate to it because I'm single. I'd like to know

729
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,960
Speaker 1: if you'll do it twice or three times a week

730
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: rather than once a week. I enjoy listening all the time.

731
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Speaker 1: We should you more success. Why don't know we could if? Yeah?

732
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 1: I mean, look, people need help in the second date

733
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 1: update area. It's interesting, you know when we first starting

734
00:42:03,160 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: Second Date Update, they really disappointed me. Yeah, because still

735
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: don't like them, so I don't like them. I just

736
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:14,919
Speaker 1: felt like at the beginning we were doing more harm

737
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: than good with whoever was reaching out to us. Now,

738
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 1: I feel like we've gotten to a place of seeking

739
00:42:21,280 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: a little piece of mind and satisfaction and what people

740
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,439
Speaker 1: are looking for? What is it? More harm than good?

741
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:28,879
Speaker 1: Roses is more harm than good? What are you talking about?

742
00:42:28,920 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: Second update is at least answers. I concur but we

743
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: can all have just like like I'm disagreeing, like, but

744
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: thank you be um Phaedra says to Ryan, I heard

745
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: you talking about Megan and Harry and how you didn't

746
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: like it, and you're gonna stop after episode two. Please

747
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: finish the documentary before you judge it. I'm just saying

748
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: that I was seeing it all on the Newsmudger, but

749
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:58,000
Speaker 1: you're right, I do need to see it through finishing really,

750
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 1: because if you didn't like what you saw, why would

751
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: you continue? Well, she has a point, she says, I've

752
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:07,120
Speaker 1: changed my view. I'm empathetic on what they went through,

753
00:43:07,520 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 1: and it is true there is you know what, She's right.

754
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,440
Speaker 1: The abuse they took from the media was extensive. I

755
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: really believe that if Ryan, Tani and SSNY finished it,

756
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:20,239
Speaker 1: they would appreciate in respect what Harry and Megan did.

757
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 1: I finished it, and I think there's lack of respect.

758
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 1: I think that what I was saying was I was

759
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:28,359
Speaker 1: seeing all that a lot at once, right. I saw

760
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: him on Anderson Cooper, I saw him on and then

761
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 1: I happened to be watching documentary just trying to take

762
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: it all in so fair point, favor, fair point, and

763
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,959
Speaker 1: we and I will, and it wasn't that Louie didn't

764
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: respect it. I think it was the I think a

765
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 1: lot of people are grappling with the idea of the

766
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 1: fact that they wanted privacy and then it's like every

767
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:49,680
Speaker 1: other news article and you know, documentary and it's just

768
00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: a lot. But if you I did see something very

769
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: very striking about how Harry saw what was happening to

770
00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 1: his girlfriend and how she was being treated, and he

771
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:00,200
Speaker 1: felt like if that was having her hert was having

772
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,560
Speaker 1: to other people by media and so he you know,

773
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: he was, So you're right, Fader, I will, I actually

774
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 1: will finish that. Thank you for reaching out and thank

775
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Speaker 1: you for emailing