1 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,400 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:14,200 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to take a mental health morning. We 4 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: can all feel overwhelmed with our responsibilities from time to time, 5 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: and while taking a vacation is great, that can involve 6 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: a lot of time and effort and expense. Plus, if 7 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: you have small children, a vacation probably won't involve a 8 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 1: break from those responsibilities. It can be fun and lots 9 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: of other ways, but it won't exactly be a break. 10 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 1: So what can you do? I like this suggestion from 11 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 1: Before Breakfast listener Melinda, who wrote in about what's been 12 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:50,479 Speaker 1: working for her. She calls her solution a mental health morning. 13 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: About once per month, I take two hours of paid 14 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: time off in the morning to go to the gym. 15 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 1: She says. After working out, I take a long shower 16 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: are I have a toddler in an infant so this 17 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: is especially luxurious, And then I go to my favorite 18 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: coffee shop and read for thirty minutes. Then I go 19 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:12,479 Speaker 1: to work. She says that this two hours of playing 20 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 1: hookey from life works better for me than taking a 21 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 1: mental health day, because I find when I take the 22 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: whole day off, I fill it with cleaning or running errands, 23 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: or doing whatever I would have found other time to 24 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: do anyway, because it had to be done. The other perk, 25 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: she says, is that by only using two hours per month, 26 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: I only end up using three days of vacation per year, 27 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: and that leaves enough PTO to take real vacations too. 28 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: She says that I find my productivity and creativity always 29 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: shoot up on the week I do this. A big 30 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: bonus is no mom guilt because I'm using time I 31 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: would have been at work anyway. I think this idea 32 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 1: of a mental health morning is great for people with 33 00:01:51,240 --> 00:01:54,840 Speaker 1: full lives. Sometimes taking a small break can have a 34 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: big impact. And while people with flexible jobs might be 35 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:00,720 Speaker 1: able to just start late some mornings without it being 36 00:02:00,760 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 1: an issue, or take a long lunch after a big 37 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: project without anyone actually noticing, plenty of people's jobs do 38 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: involve reporting to a specific place at a specific time. 39 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,920 Speaker 1: If you're doing that kind of job, then officially designating 40 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: a break is PTO can make sure that you honor 41 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,679 Speaker 1: that commitment to yourself. If you have some paid time 42 00:02:19,680 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: off banked up, but no longer vacations on the horizon. 43 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:24,400 Speaker 1: This might be a good way to use some of 44 00:02:24,440 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: that time off that you're entitled to. I also like 45 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: that Melinda took her mental health breaks in the morning. 46 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:33,600 Speaker 1: I mean, you could certainly take a mental health afternoon 47 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: and use PTO to leave early. But sometimes the day 48 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:40,640 Speaker 1: will start to seem so busy that you feel you 49 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: just can't slip out, and then the time is gone. 50 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,320 Speaker 1: If you can't control what time you leave work, maybe 51 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: you can control what time you show up. So that's 52 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: the argument for a mental health morning. And I'm not 53 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,520 Speaker 1: surprised at all that Melinda finds herself more productive after 54 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: these breaks. No one's tank runs unempty. Taking time to 55 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: relax and to do something fun is how we can 56 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 1: all fill ourselves up. So today, consider if a small 57 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: break from normal life might make you feel recharged. And 58 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: if you've ever used a small amount of PTO to 59 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: take a break and do something fun, let me know. 60 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: As always, you can email me at Before Breakfast podcast 61 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 1: at I heart media dot com. In the meantime, this 62 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: is Laura. Thanks for listening and here's to making the 63 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: most of our time. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear 64 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 1: from you. You can send me your tips, your questions, 65 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: or anything else. Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook, 66 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 1: and Instagram at Before Breakfast pod. That's b E the 67 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: number four, then Breakfast p o D. You can also 68 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: shoot me an email at Before Breakfast podcast at i 69 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: heart media dot com that Before Breakfast is spelled out 70 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: with all the letters. Thanks so much, I look forward 71 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: to staying in touch. 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