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Speaker 2: You know what. I'm so mad. You better go and

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Speaker 1: No Jesse at all.

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Speaker 3: Because here's what's worse. Jesse ruining the funeral for the grandparents.

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Speaker 1: I think you reading this next story?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Wow? Are we over?

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Speaker 1: We're over? Oh my, that's the last update?

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Speaker 1: this is before every like like Opie's wife passed away.

443
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,199
Speaker 1: I called my in laws and a few friends, but

444
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: no one's seen her. I'm starting to get worried, and

445
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 1: I called my mom to see if she can babysit

446
00:21:46,119 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 1: while I go out and look for her. Before my

447
00:21:49,240 --> 00:21:54,120
Speaker 1: mom get home. My wife gets back. Jesse's driving. So

448
00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 1: now we're getting the context, like what actually happened when

449
00:21:57,320 --> 00:22:01,360
Speaker 1: she disappeared? Right, Jesse doesn't come. She hasn't been back

450
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: in the house since I kicked her out because she

451
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 1: was offended by my behavior. A good thing that you

452
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 1: kicked her out, but my wife does. She's clearly upset,

453
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:11,560
Speaker 1: been crying. I asked what happened. I thought at first

454
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,400
Speaker 1: the house might have been robbed. She starts screaming at

455
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 1: me that I'm being unfaithful and that the therapy is

456
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 1: a front so I can meet my mistress, which I imagine

457
00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:20,720
Speaker 1: is planted by Jesse.

458
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

459
00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,160
Speaker 1: I tried to calm her down and tell her that's

460
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:26,639
Speaker 1: not true, but she came at me and she hit me.

461
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:32,520
Speaker 1: My nose is broken, so it's not even a light hit. Yeah,

462
00:22:32,840 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 1: she kind of realized what she did and sat down

463
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:38,080
Speaker 1: on the couch and went comatose, just stared at the wall.

464
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,120
Speaker 1: I went to my daughter's room and locked the door,

465
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Speaker 1: called my mom to tell her what happened. She was

466
00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 1: already on her way, and my mother in law to

467
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 1: ask her to come over and take care of my wife.

468
00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 1: I packed a bag for my daughter, and when my

469
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 1: mom got there, we left. My wife didn't even look up.

470
00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,400
Speaker 1: We dropped my daughter off with my dad and then

471
00:22:55,480 --> 00:22:58,640
Speaker 1: went to urgent care for my nose because the nose

472
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 1: is completely broken. I got blood all over my mom's

473
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 1: new Suparu. I mean, luckily, superus are pretty terrible, but

474
00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 1: so sorry. I just had to.

475
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 2: No responsors, no responsors named vehicle.

476
00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: My daughter and I are staying. That was bad.

477
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, guy.

478
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 1: My daughter and I are staying with my parents for

479
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: a while, and my wife's staying with hers. I'm looking

480
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Speaker 1: into getting a restraining order against Jesse. My wife and

481
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 1: I are separating. I love her, but I won't live

482
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Speaker 1: with someone who hurts me and who could potentially hurt

483
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Speaker 1: our daughter. I am not going forward to the divorce yet,

484
00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: with hopes that my wife will get the treatment she

485
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,160
Speaker 1: needs and we can work things out. My in laws

486
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 1: told me that they're looking at an impatient treatment at

487
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 1: a local hospital, but I also have everything well documented

488
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: in case of an eventual custody battle. My heart's broken

489
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,399
Speaker 1: because I know this isn't my wife. This is a

490
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,480
Speaker 1: sickness in her mind. But I need to keep myself

491
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: and our daughter safe and give her the space to recover.

492
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that this is the right decision. Thanks everyone.

493
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 1: So I guess that's that's more of the context that

494
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 1: we kind of missed in between those two updates. But

495
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,679
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, it's it's so rough because it's like

496
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 1: you can i mean, people change, you know, in.

497
00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 2: Terms of like Jesse, oh, in terms of in terms.

498
00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 1: Of the wife. It's like it's like and it's it's

499
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: not it's hard because it's like not really her fault

500
00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 1: at all.

501
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

502
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 3: So, I mean, some people like, uh, develop schizophrenia and

503
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 3: they're like thirties and forties, you know, and it's like.

504
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 1: Fun, dude, don't tell me that. I'm like I want

505
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 1: already coming around the corner we go.

506
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, also this gives me even more.

507
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 1: This is the context.

508
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, thinking about Carr's comment of like what if Jesse

509
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 3: comes to try to ruin the funeral. This makes me

510
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 3: think even more that Jesse is going to do that.

511
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah. I mean we just got more

512
00:24:54,960 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: context that like she like was driving opsy, she was

513
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 1: she possibly contributed tearing up the entire place. And what

514
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,560
Speaker 1: I guess he was saying in the third update was

515
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 1: like she was the one that left the daughter home alone.

516
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, daughter, I feel like as soon as you tell

517
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 3: the grand the in law is that like, yeah, Jesse

518
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,880
Speaker 3: like you know, left left her alone. That's like enough

519
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,679
Speaker 3: because she left her alone to prioritize stirring up the drama,

520
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 3: Like that alone should be enough to get her out

521
00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:28,440
Speaker 3: of the funeral.

522
00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, hopefully. Yeah.

523
00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: I feel like if I if I like, if I

524
00:25:31,720 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 1: presented this to uh, the the the mother in law

525
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,719
Speaker 1: and the father in law be like like, look, this

526
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 1: is this is my documentation of what's happened. Yes, like

527
00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,239
Speaker 1: she cannot be there. Danielle said, this story is so

528
00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: sad and tragic. Yeah, completely. How old is the daughter?

529
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,200
Speaker 1: The daughters a newborn, so it's like yeah, yeah, yeah,

530
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: so I imagine it's like maybe no more than a

531
00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 1: year old, yeah, probably less, but yeah, so that uh

532
00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: we we just we just got we got like a

533
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 1: little bit more context. And Sarah, thank you for tuning

534
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 1: into the live Yes, A got her. You're here. But John,

535
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: now that we have the full story, this full sad,

536
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 1: sad story to start with us, do you have another

537
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: story for me? Possibly that is maybe a little less sad?

538
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 2: Producer Riley? Right, do we have is our next story? Uh? How?

539
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 2: What's what's the mood? What's the vibes?

540
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 5: Yeah? You just gotta figure it out.

541
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 2: We just gotta figure it out, all right, We're gonna

542
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 2: do that.

543
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:34,239
Speaker 3: Nothing easy, nothing easy, okay, Producer Riley keeping us on

544
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 3: our toes with this story. Am I a holfer re

545
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,359
Speaker 3: turning the shoes I got from my husband after he

546
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 3: accused me of stealing from him?

547
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: Again?

548
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 3: This is okay, op, Home of the craziest true stories

549
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,399
Speaker 3: on Earth. I'm John and Sam. Do we think the

550
00:26:49,440 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 3: OP is a dirty, filthy thief?

551
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah, I think Op is a dirty, filthy thief.

552
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 1: And he's trying to cover up the tracks by using

553
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: Reddit as an alibi. Ah, I wrote those Reddit posts

554
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,200
Speaker 1: and it says I'm innocent. How could I not be innocent?

555
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 3: Well, we're about to see we're about to get another

556
00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: verdict from all of you watching me right now.

557
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 1: If my no context guess is right.

558
00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 2: Woo.

559
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 3: So this is from Campfire by Lake seventy seven, who says,

560
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 3: my twenty nine husband thirty six is the breadwinner of

561
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,359
Speaker 3: the family. I stay at home with the kids who

562
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:29,280
Speaker 3: are preschool age. He pays for the mortgage bills, household needs, food, kids,

563
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 3: et cetera, et cetera. He has set a monthly budget

564
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 3: for each category and handles getting everything done. Recently he

565
00:27:36,440 --> 00:27:39,640
Speaker 3: has become overwhelmed and told me to handle grocery shopping.

566
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 3: But before he let me, he asked me to write

567
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 3: a list of all the stuff that we need so

568
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 3: he could calculate the total, and also so he'd have

569
00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 3: an idea of how much I'll be spending when I.

570
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 2: Take his credit card.

571
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,159
Speaker 3: So he's still staying on top of the budget like

572
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 3: doing his budgeting.

573
00:27:55,200 --> 00:27:55,760
Speaker 2: It's a worship.

574
00:27:55,760 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 1: It feels like too much, A little bit.

575
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:04,160
Speaker 3: Well, I mean bro was doing uh, he was providing

576
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 3: for the family, handling the budget and handling grocery shopping.

577
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 1: Like is he handling grocery shopping?

578
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 3: You're passing it off? I believe right, Okay, he's passing

579
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,239
Speaker 3: it off. Yeah, so he was grocery shopping and he's like,

580
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,439
Speaker 3: this is too much. I'm gonna pass it off. But

581
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 3: I'm I'm staying on my budget game. Let me know,

582
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 3: so I can like account for that.

583
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: Wow, that is that would be so stressful doing it

584
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: that detailed of a budget.

585
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 2: I think.

586
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 3: I think what you're pointing out, which which is a

587
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:35,679
Speaker 3: good observation, is so I can know how much to

588
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:36,919
Speaker 3: expect you'll spend.

589
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:39,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. Some people are putting financial abuse

590
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 1: in the chat. The raven says it. Yeah, Yeah, it

591
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: feels like it feels like a lever of control.

592
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, because why don't is hey just say like, hey,

593
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 3: we're gonna shoot for a thousand bucks a month.

594
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 2: Just try to stay in tide of that.

595
00:28:53,480 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: That's really what he's that's reasonable. But it's like, don't

596
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 1: spend more than five dollars on milk.

597
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 2: A week like bro way way Way actually.

598
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes costs more. Do you see about the egg crisis

599
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: and eggs were crazy expensive for a while.

600
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 2: Eggs blowing up out here. Well, back to the story.

601
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 3: I didn't have an issue with that because this way

602
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:17,320
Speaker 3: we would watch our spending habits. However, he said, I'm

603
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,960
Speaker 3: never allowed to get something that isn't on the list

604
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 3: unless I'm paying for it some other way.

605
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: And here we go, Pattison.

606
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 1: But how how she's taking care of your children?

607
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: This is this is the like financial control. This is

608
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 3: him like sinking his closet him. Yeah, this is crazy.

609
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 3: This show's he's crazy.

610
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: That is a red flag, red flags in the chat.

611
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: Red flags in that seems like a red flag to you.

612
00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 3: Giant, giant, giant red flag again, Like I feel like

613
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 3: all you would need to do is be like, hey,

614
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 3: let's shoot for one thousand a month.

615
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you go like a little bit over, who cares?

616
00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:56,760
Speaker 1: Actually I don't really. I mean I've never been married,

617
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: so I don't actually know how this do you? Like

618
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: for anyone who is married? In the chat? Like, do

619
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: you guys like have budgets for like groceries or like

620
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: budgets for especially like stay at home moms? Like do

621
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 1: you have like budgets for how much you spend or

622
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 1: that you agree on? I mean people have budgets. Yeah,

623
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 1: I don't even know how it works. How does it work?

624
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: You have budgets? Yeah, let us know about your break? Oh,

625
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: share your budgets your budget let us know. I mean,

626
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: you're just your philosophy. You don't have to give numbers

627
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: eggs every security number. Job.

628
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 3: Anyways, So on Friday, I was doing some grocery shopping

629
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,960
Speaker 3: as usual and saw that the store had some nice

630
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 3: shoes on sale. The price was insanely low for this brand,

631
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 3: and so is.

632
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: It on the list? I have a suspicion it's not

633
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: the listen, Oh my goodness, And.

634
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 3: So I decided to grab a pair for my husband,

635
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 3: not even for her yep, yep, thinking that he'd be

636
00:30:56,560 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 3: happy with them since he needed new sneakers. Anyways, I

637
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 3: bought them, and when I showed them to him, he

638
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 3: flipped out on me, saying I made a huge mistake

639
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:09,200
Speaker 3: by buying something that was not on the list.

640
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 1: I wonder, My question is, are they like what is

641
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: their financial situation like? Are they like super strapped? Yeah,

642
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,840
Speaker 1: and so every dollar counts? Or does like man have

643
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 1: like a comfy tech job and he's just being super controlling. Yeah,

644
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,320
Speaker 1: it feels like it's just the controlling.

645
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 2: It's the controlling.

646
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 1: It feels like it's the control.

647
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna kind of guess and assume that maybe they're

648
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 3: not like super super loaded. But it's he's he. This

649
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 3: is clearly him just doing control. I think, yeah, it

650
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 3: wouldn't even matter if he made.

651
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: Me because there I feel like there, it feels like

652
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 1: there's just no trust, like financial trust in this relationship.

653
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:49,360
Speaker 2: It's so Yeah, it's so dumb because if you if you.

654
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 1: Just agree upon a budget, then there's financial trust. It's like, oh,

655
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 1: I can I can go about and like work within

656
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: what we've agreed upon. But this is way too over there.

657
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 3: And why would you like it's It would be if

658
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 3: I was the husband, I would be stressed out keeping

659
00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 3: track of all this. It's just further shows he's using

660
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 3: it as a means of control over the life.

661
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, let us know. Do you think it's control or

662
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 1: do you think man is just on his budget game?

663
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: But your answer to watch a lot of Dave Ramsey

664
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: financial guru over here. Yeah, let us know what you

665
00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: think for your answers in the chat and we have

666
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 1: it live.

667
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: We have it live.

668
00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 3: So I agreed with him, but I thought that since

669
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: the shoes were for him, that it would be different.

670
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 3: He said, I screwed up and shouldn't have bought those sneakers,

671
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 3: even without telling them. But in my defense, I said

672
00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: that the price was low, so it's not like I

673
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 3: spent one hundred dollars on shoes. And also I saw

674
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 3: that this was a great deal and wanted to and

675
00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 3: wanted him to have those nice sneakers. He plainly said

676
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 3: that what I did is considered stealing since he never

677
00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 3: your Red team, y'all you're married, you're married, since he

678
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,480
Speaker 3: never consented to having those sneakers purchased, and said that

679
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 3: I'm being irresponsible with his money, and that is why

680
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 3: I no longer have an income and have my and

681
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 3: have my spending habits.

682
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,440
Speaker 2: Needing a grib?

683
00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: What's a grib? What is a gribe? Tell us what

684
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 1: a grib is.

685
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: I'm guessing it's like guardrails a grib.

686
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 1: But wow, Like, also just the language that he uses

687
00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: my money, Like I feel like if you're in a

688
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: if you're in a partnership, especially in this kind of partnership,

689
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 1: it's like like you start using words like our right,

690
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: this is this.

691
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,440
Speaker 2: It's just further further.

692
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 3: The more this man opens his mouth, the further it

693
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,160
Speaker 3: shows that he's like grossly discussed.

694
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: I think Christian has a solution for us. Oh, devorse, divorse, divorse, divorsevorse. Yeah,

695
00:33:53,480 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree that I think it's a way

696
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 1: way like, definitely a method of control.

697
00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 3: Leave this guy, my goodness, I felt hurt by what

698
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 3: he said, as you should, as you should a duh.

699
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 3: We argued about it for hours and he avoided speaking

700
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:10,919
Speaker 3: to me for the rest of the day.

701
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 2: What a baby, What a douche? Yeah, this guy's big

702
00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 2: old awful.

703
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,400
Speaker 3: The next day, I went and returned the sneakers and

704
00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 3: took the money back. He got home in the evening

705
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 3: and lost it when he found out I returned them. Yeah,

706
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 3: this guy, This guy's no, no.

707
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 1: He's like, I was bad that you bought the but

708
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,640
Speaker 1: now I feel attached to totally my style.

709
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 3: Literally completely to control her, and just like, it's not

710
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:33,879
Speaker 3: about the.

711
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 2: Shoes, No, not about the shoes, about the money, It's.

712
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,240
Speaker 1: Not about that. It is all about control.

713
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 3: He got home in the evening and lost it when

714
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 3: I found out I had to return them. He said

715
00:34:42,480 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 3: that he couldn't believe how petty and childish I was

716
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 3: to actually do this.

717
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,360
Speaker 2: How petty and childish are you? Mother effort, I explained

718
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,239
Speaker 2: that I was just correcting my quote unquote mistake. He

719
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 2: tried to.

720
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 3: Contact the store and was told that the sneakers were

721
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,319
Speaker 3: already sold. He got even angrier with me, and I

722
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 3: told him that he accused me of stealing for him

723
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 3: when I was just trying to do a nice gesture

724
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,960
Speaker 3: for him. He yelled, saying that I had a lot

725
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 3: of nerds, a lot of nerve, calling what I did

726
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 3: a nice gesture while using his money to do it.

727
00:35:13,640 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 3: I I told him he had no right to yell

728
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 3: at me. After I corrected my quote unquote mistake and

729
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 3: gave that back the money he accused me of stealing,

730
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 3: he threw a fit and went out with his friends

731
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 3: and came home late at night, still not talking to me.

732
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 2: I have something for the breakdown. Now, Did I mess up?

733
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 3: Maybe I shouldn't have purchased them, knowing that they weren't

734
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 3: on the list, but I just wanted to. I just

735
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 3: wanted him to have those sneakers, and I thought I

736
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 3: was doing a nice gesture. That is the end of

737
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 3: the story. I think that, in addition to his controlling, manipulative.

738
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 3: Just like I don't know a psychopathic, I don't know

739
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,919
Speaker 3: the exact term psychopathic, I don't know something to give us.

740
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: Some terms we can call this Yeah, yeah, gross behavior.

741
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 3: Basically, I think he's cheating and yeah, he's like, okay, wow,

742
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,280
Speaker 3: look at look at what you made me do, buying

743
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,280
Speaker 3: me shoes and returning I'm like literally all doing good things.

744
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: And then he goes out using that extree to go

745
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: out late and cheat. Yeah.

746
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I don't I don't know

747
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: if I can say he's cheating quite yet, Like we

748
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 1: just John's going and I did. Yeah, but I mean

749
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,880
Speaker 1: like he's definitely sus I mean, just to just to

750
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,760
Speaker 1: go out late and do god knows what, like not

751
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: not there's another red flag. It's like there's a communication

752
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: breakdown too. It's control and there's a breakdown of communication.

753
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's something that the thing is

754
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: like in the case of divorce, like it's definitely going

755
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 1: to be because he has so much control over it's

756
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:49,959
Speaker 1: gonna be hard for her too. Yeah, but I feel

757
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: like it's the It is the best path.

758
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 3: It is overall, like long term, the best solution, although

759
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 3: it might hurt a lot more now in the meantime.

760
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:02,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, someone said leave as soon as possible. Yeah, Jessica says,

761
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 1: leave as fast as possible. Yeah, I mean, you gotta leave,

762
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 1: you gotta leave. It's it, it's it's it's terrible.

763
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

764
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 3: Emotional Yeah, someone else said emotional and financial abuse.

765
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

766
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: Then he says wife breathed husband. How dare you? That's

767
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,800
Speaker 1: what it feels, right, That's what it feels like.

768
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,280
Speaker 2: That is exactly what's happened.

769
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 3: She she's literally not only is she not doing anything wrong,

770
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,959
Speaker 3: she's doing things that are good because like, think, think.

771
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: About this, she's fixing problems.

772
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 3: She saw that his shoes were old, and it's like,

773
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 3: we're gonna have to buy shoes. Anyways, these are a

774
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 3: good deal, so we will save money me getting this

775
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 3: deal right.

776
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:39,800
Speaker 1: And the thing is he obviously liked them because he

777
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: wanted them back. Not only did she get like shoes

778
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 1: that were on sale and a great deal, she got

779
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: some swaky has shoes that he was so mad that

780
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 1: he couldn't get back that he yelled at everyone he

781
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: could what what?

782
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 4: What?

783
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:53,399
Speaker 2: More?

784
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 1: Like, she sounds super thoughtful. I mean, she just has

785
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:57,880
Speaker 1: to get out of there. I wonder if there's like,

786
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:02,360
Speaker 1: are there like resources for like stay at home parents

787
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:06,400
Speaker 1: that like in divorce, because like to hire a lawyer,

788
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: you need money. But if someone is super controlling of

789
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: the finances. Like, how does that? I wonder how that

790
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,240
Speaker 1: even works if anyone knows, But like put your answers

791
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: in the comments, because it's like, how does that? How

792
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: does that work? When you don't when when the financewers

793
00:38:19,640 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: are being so controlled that you couldn't even hire a

794
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: lawyer to start to get a divorce?

795
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:24,799
Speaker 2: Yeah?

796
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 3: Maybe, I mean maybe there's a public defender. I don't

797
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 3: know if you can get a public defender in absolutely everything.

798
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:31,720
Speaker 2: I'm really not sure.

799
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, I have no Yeah, I mean I imagine shelters.

800
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 2: Shelters be a place to go.

801
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: But how do you Yeah, but how do you? Like,

802
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 1: how do you how do you get a lawyer? You

803
00:38:42,160 --> 00:38:42,760
Speaker 1: need a lawyer?

804
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 2: That's the question. Yeah, that is the question.

805
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:48,439
Speaker 1: But you know what question I have for you? John?

806
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 2: What is that?

807
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 1: Are you ready to put this next story?

808
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: No? But do it anyway?

809
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: I captain. So this is today. I a ft up

810
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: by accusing my husband of cheating when I thought I

811
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: had a really good reason to be suspicious.

812
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 2: What is the reason.

813
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: I'm very curious about the reason. What what is a

814
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,040
Speaker 1: good reason? Leaving? Uh?

815
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:11,160
Speaker 2: The seeing them?

816
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's a pretty good reason, babe.

817
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:17,000
Speaker 3: I was just she she had some you know, suspicious

818
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 3: stuff going on.

819
00:39:17,680 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 2: I was doing a thorough and spell building a fort.

820
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 2: He's a doctor, and he's like, the only way I

821
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 2: can do this inspection that.

822
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 1: It's at home inspection. He was a doctor.

823
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 3: He was a doctor, the bed doctor with a migraine.

824
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 3: I had to turn off all the lights, and then

825
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 3: I was on. I didn't want her to be the

826
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 3: only one naked, so I had to get naked too.

827
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:40,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, for comfort, for comfort, for comfort probably. I also

828
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: put in the chat some of the best reasons to

829
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: be suspicious of a partner cheating. But my hubby's been

830
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 1: working late on and off for the past few weeks,

831
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:55,280
Speaker 1: which is very new because in our nearly twelve years together,

832
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: that's a long time. The one thing he's always been

833
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,200
Speaker 1: adamant about is separating his wor in his home life.

834
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes he'd stay only an hour, sometimes two, sometimes thirty minutes.

835
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 1: I began to grow a bit suspicious, but I haven't

836
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: said anything, so I guess it's like he's staying over

837
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: like an hour, two hours, sometimes thirty minutes. He's like

838
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: he's working late. I began to grow suspicious, then yesterday.

839
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: He stayed afterwards for about an hour, which delayed date

840
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 1: night that we had planned. When he came home, I

841
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 1: was just looking at him, admiring my man, and then

842
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 1: I caught a glimpse of orange in his beard. For context,

843
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 1: my hobby is not ginger, neither am I. In fact,

844
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,680
Speaker 1: he is black and his hair is black. I looked

845
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:46,560
Speaker 1: a bit closer and there was an orange hair in

846
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 1: his beard. It caught the light perfectly, and it was

847
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: the confirmation of my worst fears. He's eating out a ginger.

848
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:58,399
Speaker 2: Oof, that's a no ipe.

849
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: He did not say that, but oh my god, I

850
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 1: just said I fing knew it and started crying. Would

851
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: you be suspicious if you saw a another person's hair

852
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 1: in someone's beard, like if someone's if if Naima saw

853
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:19,320
Speaker 1: a long red strand of hair in your beard, would

854
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:19,919
Speaker 1: she be mad?

855
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 3: I guess, I guess because you could, like, what are

856
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 3: the scenarios where it's innocent?

857
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 2: Work, colleague, you know, working? Like like hey, all right,

858
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:28,479
Speaker 2: hey have a good one.

859
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, John has gets stuff in his beard all the

860
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: time too.

861
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 3: Damn really wait, nice, have you ever seen stuff in

862
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,439
Speaker 3: my beard and just eating eating?

863
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: I'll be like, yeah, you got a little bit of

864
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: schmutz all my beard. Boys like they get schmutz in

865
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:46,160
Speaker 1: their beard?

866
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 2: What is it?

867
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,760
Speaker 3: Venni Vennie says, beard is a red flag. Sorry job guys,

868
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 3: Why what? What's just no question? Just know that it is.

869
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:57,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

870
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 1: He asked me what was wrong, and I called him

871
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 1: a lot eyeing cheater and he said what the f

872
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 1: And I said, who's that ginger hair from? He looked confused,

873
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 1: and he said he knows there's a ginger hair in

874
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:13,240
Speaker 1: his beard, and what's so bad about that? I was flabbergasted.

875
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: And then he was like, you haven't noticed this time

876
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 1: that I have dark orange hairs. What turns out that

877
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: his whole life he's always had a few random orange

878
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 1: hairs in his beard, and that he never thought anything

879
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:34,839
Speaker 1: about it. And I've never noticed. Nice con bro. Now

880
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: you have to dye those hairs, so the rest are

881
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: your marriage.

882
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

883
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: He told me to grab the hair and pull on it,

884
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 1: and I grabbed some tweezers and sure enough it was

885
00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:47,600
Speaker 1: his hair. And he even looked like the rest of

886
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: his hair coarse and curly. Man, the girl was really

887
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 1: he was stretching. Yeah, the last girl out here. He

888
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: showed me some of the other ginger hairs that he had.

889
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: Apparently when he shaves it off or pulls out, it

890
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: grows back ginger. I felt like the biggest idiot in

891
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 1: the world. My hobby took it wonderfully, and I apologize

892
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: for being so insecure and told him that I was

893
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 1: feeling about you know, she was feeling about like him

894
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 1: working late. He said that he knows that he that

895
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,279
Speaker 1: that this is a problem and he's sorry, but he's

896
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 1: had a couple of mortgage and investment deals lately and

897
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 1: he stays behind to finish the paperwork instead of punting

898
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,399
Speaker 1: it to the next workday. I love how he's apologizing

899
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: for kind of having orange.

900
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 3: Beerd and and for trying to be as productive, and

901
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 3: like he's like, you know what, I need to get

902
00:43:33,280 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 3: ahead of it, let me finish it today.

903
00:43:35,000 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 2: So that was proactive.

904
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. His company has an app to track time which

905
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,959
Speaker 1: worked his which his boss signs off and on of.

906
00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:45,359
Speaker 1: And he logged into his app and showed me all

907
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 1: the authorized overtime, which perfectly lined up with the times

908
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: he had been working late. I apologize for being insecure,

909
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,000
Speaker 1: and he accepted my apology and we moved and we

910
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: moved on from it, but I still cringe when thinking

911
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: about it. I suck I out. Don't kill me, y'all. Hahaha. Question,

912
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 1: is this a red flag for op? I want to

913
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 1: know what your thoughts are in the chat. But John,

914
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: do you think this is a red flag?

915
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna say red flag because the I mean,

916
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 3: I guess I could see the suspicion. I mean, it's

917
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 3: it's almost like where your mind first jumps to. I guess, like,

918
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 3: and I'm just generally not observed it like that, but like,

919
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 3: I feel like if I saw that, it wouldn't even

920
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 3: the synapses wouldn't synapse enough to be able to.

921
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 1: Make cheating is so far from your mind.

922
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 3: So far from my mind. But I guess apparently I

923
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 3: have stuff in my beard all the time. You do,

924
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 3: and it's so suspicious, So.

925
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,680
Speaker 1: It is, bro you know a lot of Riley curls

926
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,960
Speaker 1: in your hair every once in a while. You never know, dude,

927
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 1: you never know. Yeah, right, don't bring me Riley is

928
00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: shedding all over the place. But John, I feel like

929
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: it may be time to pull up that next story.

930
00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 2: Really, I gotta say. Kimberly and Brazil ginger flag orange.

931
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,839
Speaker 1: That's orange flag. But while John is pulling off this

932
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: new story, I'll read some comments from the chat. So

933
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: Amy Gooseman says, my dad's hair was different textures and colors,

934
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: like a calico cat. So he kept his head and

935
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: beard cut until he retired. It happens, and why and

936
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 1: why did the wife not notice?

937
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:26,720
Speaker 2: Before?

938
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: I am proud to say I know at least ninety

939
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,480
Speaker 1: percent of my hubby's body. Only ninety percent. You got

940
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 1: to explore that one hundred percent. Go inside it out, girl.

941
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 2: We got to make that the deep ocean.

942
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, all yeah, it would be like James Cameron spullunk

943
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 1: to the bottom of the depths, right. Don't be like

944
00:45:43,000 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 1: Ocean Gate, though, because you don't want to explode in

945
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 1: the wrong place.

946
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:49,359
Speaker 2: Millionaire, So goodness, gracious, yeah, that's no good. What are

947
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:50,840
Speaker 2: the comments we got? What do we got going on?

948
00:45:50,880 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah? Ted ed and lime juice. How would she not

949
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,719
Speaker 1: notice the hairs though, because depending on how long they've

950
00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 1: been together, I feel like you would notice something like that.

951
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I feel twelve years, twelve years,

952
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,280
Speaker 3: that's a while.

953
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 2: I definitely feel that's a while.

954
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:09,719
Speaker 1: But like I don't know, some people aren't as perceptive,

955
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 1: and especially maybe if he's growing out the beard and

956
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 1: doesn't know.

957
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 2: In twelve years, you probably have done enough if you have.

958
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 1: I've been able to grow a beard for at least

959
00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: eight years, and I've never seen it at full length.

960
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:27,280
Speaker 3: Because you've never got Guys, put up a beard man emoji.

961
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 3: If so grow a beard, do not drop beard man emojis.

962
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 3: Do not drop the do not please do not make

963
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:34,080
Speaker 3: me grow a beard.

964
00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 2: Drop the beard man emojis.

965
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 3: Guys, if we get a thousand beard man emoji, Sam

966
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 3: will legally be forced to have to.

967
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:41,720
Speaker 2: Wear or have to grow a beard.

968
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 3: By the way, also, can we get a quick round

969
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 3: of applause for producer Riley?

970
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: Thank youducing that. Yeah, this is our first long live stream.

971
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna be We're gonna be live streaming for a while,

972
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: so please stick with us. We are not done yet

973
00:46:56,680 --> 00:47:00,839
Speaker 1: because John, you have a big, juicy Thicks story for us.

974
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is right, and that story is my ex

975
00:47:04,840 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 3: girlfriend told me my current girlfriend sabotaged our relationship. Am

976
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 3: I the ahle for getting back with my ex? This

977
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:14,240
Speaker 3: is Okayop, we read the craziest two stories on Earth.

978
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 3: I'm John and Sam should op get back with his X.

979
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 3: Uh because the ex girlfriend is sabotage your relationship, right,

980
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:26,640
Speaker 3: So the.

981
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:30,399
Speaker 1: Ex girl friend sabotage the ex girlfriend relationship.

982
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 3: That's what the eventually, that's what the ex claim. I cla,

983
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:36,080
Speaker 3: I might hear her out.

984
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: I might hear her out, because then it's at least

985
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: you know, it's a red flag for current girlfriend if

986
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: it's true. Exactly, not necessarily you should get back with

987
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: the X. But maybe if it's true, on the off

988
00:47:45,560 --> 00:47:47,960
Speaker 1: chance that's true, sit down and hear Yeah, what we

989
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: all recently watched The Notebook together. There was not a

990
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: dry eye in in our in our house. But she

991
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 1: went back with Ryan Gosling at the end because it's

992
00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: her first and truest love. So maybe this is what

993
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: is happening.

994
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 2: Wow, that's so true.

995
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:02,920
Speaker 3: And then, of course what else is true is that

996
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 3: everyone has commented beard emoji su I'm not know.

997
00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 2: Sam is legally.

998
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 1: I will look so terrible.

999
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 3: Thank you ladies and gentlemen, and as your reward, let's

1000
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 3: get into this juicy story. So this one comes from

1001
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 3: fur Away ex girlfriend two five three two four, who says,

1002
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 3: I twenty eight male am really confused about the events

1003
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 3: of the last month. My ex girlfriend, Julie twenty nine

1004
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:31,240
Speaker 3: female thinks that my current girlfriend, Mindy twenty eight female

1005
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 3: is manipulative and sabotaged our four year relationship. I was, Wow,

1006
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 3: that's a big that's a big statement, bold clamaka. I

1007
00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 3: was was in a loving relationship with my ex girlfriend

1008
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 3: Julie for the last four years.

1009
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:53,360
Speaker 2: We met through some mutual friends.

1010
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 3: My ex Julie and I were very compatible in terms

1011
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 3: of our love for outdoor activities and running. We have

1012
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 3: a very similar lifestyle and supported each other well for

1013
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 3: the last four years. We also have been living together

1014
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 3: for the last three of those four years. We even

1015
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 3: discussed getting married during the summer. Everything was great and

1016
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,400
Speaker 3: I was planning to propose to her over the holidays.

1017
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: Planning to propose to the current girlfriend to Julie the

1018
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: ex Oh go great, right, Oh no, it's gonna go great.

1019
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:25,800
Speaker 2: It's gonna go great, right right.

1020
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 1: Rather, but I see, if you know where it's going,

1021
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 1: it's gonna go great. Uh.

1022
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 3: However, However, I started to see changes in behavior and

1023
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:40,320
Speaker 3: Julie around September. She was acting quite distant and looked stressed.

1024
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 3: It was quite noticeable and I was worried. I trust

1025
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:45,000
Speaker 3: her with all of my heart, and I was not

1026
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 3: worried or sorry. I trust her with all of my heart,

1027
00:49:49,000 --> 00:49:51,400
Speaker 3: and I could not imagine that she would be cheating

1028
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:55,480
Speaker 3: on me. However, she did spend more time by herself.

1029
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 1: Okay.

1030
00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 3: Around that same time, my exll's friend Mindy messaged me

1031
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,800
Speaker 3: privately and asked me if I could meet her secretly

1032
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:09,720
Speaker 3: as she wanted to tell me something about Julie. Okay,

1033
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 3: Mindy and my ex Julie work together, and I have

1034
00:50:13,320 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 3: known Mindy ever since I started dating Julie. I was surprised,

1035
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 3: but to be honest, I had assumed the worst. I

1036
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 3: met her at a cafe after work, and she asked

1037
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 3: me if things were going okay between Julie and me.

1038
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 3: She told me that Julia had told her she was

1039
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 3: planning to leave me soon.

1040
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: Oh oh man, that that is ice cold. Like we

1041
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: almost need like an ice pack on one of these

1042
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: cameras to to really cool this thing down.

1043
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 3: Almost, it's almost it's getting it's hot, it's on fire.

1044
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:47,640
Speaker 3: I don't know if we can bring it back down.

1045
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 3: We really don't know. I have a question for everyone

1046
00:50:50,239 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 3: in the comments right now. I mean, so she is

1047
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 3: going it's not even cheating. She's like, oh, she's planning

1048
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 3: to leave you soon.

1049
00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:58,720
Speaker 1: But that's like why would the friend do that?

1050
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,120
Speaker 2: That's the thing I would.

1051
00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 3: I would think if it was like, hey, she's cheating

1052
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,760
Speaker 3: on you, that's more of a reason to like actually

1053
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,360
Speaker 3: sit sit down and tell the one.

1054
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,000
Speaker 1: But to say, like she's planning on, why would And

1055
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: also why.

1056
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 2: Would you take that upon yourself?

1057
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:13,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1058
00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 2: Is that really your place?

1059
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,640
Speaker 1: That's a I would that's a red flag. Like anyone

1060
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: who told me that, I would be like, that's a

1061
00:51:19,480 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: red flag from you.

1062
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if I would think it's a

1063
00:51:22,200 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 2: red flag, but it's like.

1064
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,280
Speaker 1: I would, I would think it's a red flag from

1065
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: from the person telling me that information. Many who are

1066
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: you to tell that to me? That should be coming

1067
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 1: from my from my partner. If she's really planning on,

1068
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: it should be it should be I don't know, let's

1069
00:51:37,280 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: see what is it? It is meddling? Yeah, thenny I

1070
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:41,239
Speaker 1: agree with you.

1071
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 3: So after Oh he got this news, this was a

1072
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,759
Speaker 3: total shock to me. I asked her if there was

1073
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 3: anyone else? I asked her if there was anyone else do?

1074
00:51:52,600 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 3: I asked her if there was anyone else that Julie

1075
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:56,400
Speaker 3: was interested in, and she told me no.

1076
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 2: Julie confided in.

1077
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:01,799
Speaker 3: Her that she was not sure about marry me. She

1078
00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:04,120
Speaker 3: told me that she just had to tell me this

1079
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 3: as she didn't want me to be blindsided again in

1080
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 3: the comments, is this Mindy's place?

1081
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 2: Is this Mindy's place? Yes? Or no?

1082
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,960
Speaker 1: Is it think? I think no? I think. I think

1083
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: it's definitely meddling, and I I just I don't. I

1084
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 1: don't think that's at all. And what happened.

1085
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 3: What's not meddling is the special guests that is here too, Sophia.

1086
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:34,400
Speaker 2: Guys say hi to Sophia, come over here, come over here.

1087
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:35,799
Speaker 2: Well she's she is.

1088
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 1: Hi fea.

1089
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 4: I'm just delivering food.

1090
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: Thank you. Toba probably is going to come into live

1091
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: stream later today. Get ready, get ready. But let's go

1092
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:47,200
Speaker 1: back into this story.

1093
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 2: I was devastated.

1094
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:53,320
Speaker 3: I started putting more effort into making a relationship more exciting,

1095
00:52:53,640 --> 00:52:57,280
Speaker 3: planning more dates, et cetera, et cetera. Mindy was also

1096
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,919
Speaker 3: helping me through this time and telling me more about

1097
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:02,439
Speaker 3: what Julie told her.

1098
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 1: Oh, dude, Mindy wants some Mindy wants a piece. Yeah,

1099
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: Mindy put in the chat, Mindy wants a piece. If

1100
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:11,040
Speaker 1: you think Mindy wants.

1101
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:15,440
Speaker 2: A piece, Mindy wants a piece. Eventually before Thanksgiving, Julie

1102
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 2: told me that she loved me.

1103
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 1: Oh Julie dy wants a piece.

1104
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 2: No, that's Julie.

1105
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm so excited.

1106
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:26,040
Speaker 2: Oh no, partner.

1107
00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 3: But she wanted to take a break for a month

1108
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 3: to live alone. So she did technically want to, you know,

1109
00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 3: quote unquote, let leave she could.

1110
00:53:38,719 --> 00:53:40,960
Speaker 2: This makes it a lot more plausible that Mindy was.

1111
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: I can we take a like a hot sec right

1112
00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:48,720
Speaker 1: here and talk about like marriage and breaks and stuff

1113
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,040
Speaker 1: to do it. I don't know if I actually necessarily

1114
00:53:51,120 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 1: see wanting to take a break for a little bit

1115
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 1: before getting marriage as necessarily a huge red flag in

1116
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 1: a relationship, especially if you're not like cooking up with people.

1117
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 1: I could see like just a time of I don't know,

1118
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: meditation to think about. Am I am I truly ready

1119
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,480
Speaker 1: to commit the rest of my life to this person

1120
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 1: and like really take it seriously and like one of

1121
00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: my I have a friend that took a break. He

1122
00:54:17,600 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 1: was dating this his current girlfriend for a couple of

1123
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: years and before they like they really were like getting

1124
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:26,879
Speaker 1: serious and basically planning their life together. It's like, hey,

1125
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:28,480
Speaker 1: like I need to take a break to like make

1126
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:30,359
Speaker 1: sure that this is the right thing, and then I'm

1127
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: ready to commit. And he did, and now they're very

1128
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 1: happily in a relationship and like planning kids and planning

1129
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 1: marriage and so like I do, I do see that

1130
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: as potentially helpful to a very very long term marriage.

1131
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 1: But I could also see sometimes as a red flag.

1132
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 1: I would love to know what you guys think in

1133
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 1: the chap but I don't know.

1134
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 3: What do you think, John, I've seen I have a

1135
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 3: story of the exact opposite, which was a little bit

1136
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 3: more extreme, and this man, he was a wild boy,

1137
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:02,000
Speaker 3: but he planned to get married to this person and

1138
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 3: basically they had a year of just going bananas and

1139
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 3: then you're supposed to come together at the end of

1140
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:09,879
Speaker 3: the year, like just.

1141
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:11,720
Speaker 1: Like hooking up with a bunch of random people.

1142
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 2: I think just kind of like can do you can

1143
00:55:14,640 --> 00:55:16,879
Speaker 2: do what you want? Right?

1144
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 1: Was the garden and it imploded the relationship?

1145
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yeah, definitely, dude.

1146
00:55:24,000 --> 00:55:25,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd imagine it doesn't always work.

1147
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:27,479
Speaker 2: Yes, it doesn't always work, But.

1148
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:29,120
Speaker 1: Did it work in this scenario.

1149
00:55:29,120 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 3: We're about to find out so she said that she

1150
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:35,879
Speaker 3: wanted to live alone for a month to make sure

1151
00:55:35,920 --> 00:55:39,200
Speaker 3: that she wanted to marry me. I was completely heartbroken.

1152
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 3: I asked her if she wanted to pursue someone else.

1153
00:55:42,160 --> 00:55:44,439
Speaker 3: She told me that that was not the case.

1154
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, and.

1155
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 3: I better not do anything stupid either. She loves me

1156
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,280
Speaker 3: with all of her heart, but she says she wants

1157
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,759
Speaker 3: to stay away from me to make sure that she's

1158
00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 3: marrying me for love and not because she is used

1159
00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 3: to being me. I did not understand that at all.

1160
00:56:02,440 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 1: I think that's a good. It's like, I want to

1161
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: marry you not because I'm dependent on you, but because

1162
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:08,880
Speaker 1: I love you.

1163
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, the reasoning is is good. I would say. Yeah.

1164
00:56:12,080 --> 00:56:14,000
Speaker 2: I told her that if she was not sure after

1165
00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: four years, if she wants to marry me, then maybe

1166
00:56:16,600 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 2: we should just break up.

1167
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 1: Joanna says lies. Joanna doesn't believe it.

1168
00:56:20,520 --> 00:56:23,760
Speaker 2: Doesn't believe it. Yeah, doesn't believe it. Real quick.

1169
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 3: This is a quick tinfoil conspiracy, very quick, very quick.

1170
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 3: Everyone in the comments, do they break up or stay together?

1171
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:35,640
Speaker 3: Do they break up or stay together? Riley, get get

1172
00:56:35,640 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 3: your get your face.

1173
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,400
Speaker 1: On the Okay, do you have conspiracy comments?

1174
00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 2: The conspiracy is the question do they break up or

1175
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 2: stay together?

1176
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like Mindy is the wild card,

1177
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: So I feel like they might break up because of

1178
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 1: some ship. Mindy says Mmm.

1179
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 2: Riley producer Riley Big Protein.

1180
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 5: I think that they they I think they break up

1181
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:02,920
Speaker 5: for sure. Yeah, yeah, I'm with Sam on this one.

1182
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 1: What do you think? John?

1183
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 2: Let's see I already read it.

1184
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 1: A lot of people are saying breakup. Let's yeah, break up,

1185
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 1: break up. Nichol says stay together, La and says breakup.

1186
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: Let's see who's right.

1187
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 2: All right, let's take off that, go back to reality.

1188
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:23,200
Speaker 2: Back to reality. Are we ready? We had a big

1189
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:25,440
Speaker 2: fight and broke.

1190
00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:27,960
Speaker 1: Up a few days after this seriously.

1191
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 2: Done dune Dune, they broke up already. They broke up already.

1192
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: I wonder what the reasons were for breaking up.

1193
00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:39,880
Speaker 2: That's a good question. Maybe what they just said. But

1194
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 2: also there is more.

1195
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,959
Speaker 3: As our lease was ending, we decided to part ways

1196
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 3: in December. She got a new apartment and our and

1197
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,560
Speaker 3: I kept our old apartment and just took her name

1198
00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 3: off the lease. After the breakup, I was feeling very lonely,

1199
00:57:53,360 --> 00:57:56,280
Speaker 3: as I was not used to being in the apartment alone.

1200
00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:01,440
Speaker 1: Mindy, big old bo He's coming through.

1201
00:58:01,920 --> 00:58:02,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, girl.

1202
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 3: I didn't want to keep on being sad, and hence

1203
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 3: invited a bunch of friends for a New Year's party.

1204
00:58:10,480 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 1: And Mindy was one of the friends.

1205
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 2: I also invited. Mindy.

1206
00:58:15,280 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: Bro, they're hooking up, but I see you in the

1207
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 1: chat if you think they're gonna hook up.

1208
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 3: We had a good time and my friends were doing

1209
00:58:23,240 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 3: their best to cheer me up. Mindy also mingled with

1210
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,720
Speaker 3: my friends and it was all good. Mindy decided to

1211
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 3: stay back and help me clean up, and we hooked

1212
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 3: up that night.

1213
00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:38,240
Speaker 1: Bro, that's a classic move. Yeah let me help, and

1214
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:39,520
Speaker 1: saying thing.

1215
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 2: That, oh oh, let me just bend over and just right.

1216
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 1: You're laughing too hard at the man who look at

1217
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 1: that boo? Oh yeah, can you get down a little

1218
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: a little further shut? That day has never happened in

1219
00:58:58,120 --> 00:58:58,479
Speaker 1: this house.

1220
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:02,440
Speaker 5: Wait wait, wait, wait wait wait wait? How late were

1221
00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 5: you up New Year's Eve?

1222
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 2: Me? Yeah you, oh yeah, that's true.

1223
00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 5: New Year's Day. You were sleeping the whole day because.

1224
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 1: You were like, I was late. I was up very late.

1225
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: I was up until like five six am.

1226
00:59:14,440 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 2: What were you doing?

1227
00:59:15,880 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 1: I was watching Big Lebowski. There's nothing to see here,

1228
00:59:17,960 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 1: guys watching?

1229
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, that's okay, Okay, So back to the story.

1230
00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 2: Should we do m finding the story and where we

1231
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 2: left off? Boo boo boo boo boo boo boo boo

1232
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 2: boo what they don't due du do doing? Yes?

1233
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 3: Sorry, no, it's perfect. I felt guilty, but Mindy did

1234
00:59:53,200 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 3: cheer me up. You don't say, dude, I am say.

1235
00:59:57,880 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 3: Since then, we have hung out almost daily at my place.

1236
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 3: I am still sad about Julie, but I won't lie

1237
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 3: that being with Mindy does make me feel happy.

1238
01:00:08,120 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 2: She is sweet and caring. Bro.

1239
01:00:11,040 --> 01:00:15,400
Speaker 1: Mindy has been planting the seeds this whole time. This

1240
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,000
Speaker 1: is all part of her master plan.

1241
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 2: Should Op take the rebound right now? Yes? Or no?

1242
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 2: In the comments?

1243
01:00:20,880 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 1: And what do you mean taking the rebound?

1244
01:00:23,600 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 2: Idribbling? Should he should? He like like? This is nah?

1245
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:31,360
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think it's way too I mean,

1246
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 1: but art isn't Mindy and Julie they're friends. They're co workers, okay,

1247
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: and friends, I guess they're that's not a friend thing.

1248
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 2: They were friends, but not anymore.

1249
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:49,480
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, don't date your ex's friends. Yeah, especially so soon,

1250
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: like so soon.

1251
01:00:50,680 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 2: So soon, it's crazy.

1252
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,920
Speaker 3: Last Sunday, we woke up and someone was banging at.

1253
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 1: The door and it was me and Mindy a.

1254
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 2: On the door. I went to open it and it

1255
01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 2: was Julie.

1256
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:09,680
Speaker 1: Was Mindy there when he opened it?

1257
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 2: No, they're laying in bed together. And Julie came and

1258
01:01:13,560 --> 01:01:14,240
Speaker 2: knocked on the door.

1259
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 1: Okay, but she she Julie hasn't seen Mindy yet, not.

1260
01:01:17,880 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 3: Not yet, not yet unless unless he got a studio,

1261
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:25,360
Speaker 3: so we assume not yet. She looked furious and started

1262
01:01:25,440 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 3: yelling at me. She kept accusing me of cheating on her.

1263
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 3: I told her I most certainly did not cheat on her,

1264
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 3: and she was the one who broke up with me.

1265
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:40,080
Speaker 3: Mindy again was also at my apartment. Julie was just

1266
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 3: angry at the both of us. She started calling Mindy

1267
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:44,560
Speaker 3: a manipulative She.

1268
01:01:45,680 --> 01:01:46,919
Speaker 2: Been there, she sees her there.

1269
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:51,120
Speaker 3: My goodness that she started calling Mindy a manipulative b

1270
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:54,640
Speaker 3: and told me that Mindy was the one who suggested

1271
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 3: to her that we should take some time away for

1272
01:01:57,520 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 3: me to understand her.

1273
01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 1: Mindy is playing both sides. She just wanted Oh p

1274
01:02:03,400 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 1: oh Pi is a snack dude. And everyone wants to bite.

1275
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 1: Everyone's a little munch.

1276
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:09,360
Speaker 2: Is Mindy a snake?

1277
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 1: Put snake in the chat? If you think Mindy a snake,

1278
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:17,960
Speaker 1: that's right, a little slither right, little slitherery slitherer. I

1279
01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 1: calmed her down and asked her to explain herself. She

1280
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: told me that ever since our marriage talk, she told

1281
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 1: Mindy about it, and Mindy kept on asking Julie if

1282
01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,720
Speaker 1: she was sure about marrying me. Mindy suggested that she

1283
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: take mandy suggestions that she takes some time to herself

1284
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: to understand her true feelings. Oh my, this is the

1285
01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 1: most manipulative ship that I have ever heard.

1286
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 2: This is insane.

1287
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 1: People exist like this, that's they do.

1288
01:02:45,480 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: Sad, they absolutely do.

1289
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,000
Speaker 1: Does anyone know of Mindy in their life? And like,

1290
01:02:49,480 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: please write a story? Well maybe we can read a

1291
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 1: couple from you guys after this story in.

1292
01:02:54,200 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 2: The chat to the snake was in the grass.

1293
01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 1: Now it's right on the sidewalk, and y'all, OPI needs

1294
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: a step on that shit.

1295
01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 3: I will understand and let me run it back a

1296
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 3: little bit. Mindy suggested that she take some time to

1297
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 3: herself to understand the drew feelings, and that I would

1298
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:15,520
Speaker 3: understand and give her the space. When I said no,

1299
01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 3: Mindy convinced her that I was so controlling that I

1300
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 3: could not even give her one month to herself, and

1301
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 3: convinced her to break up with Mick.

1302
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 2: Wow, Yep, yep.

1303
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,360
Speaker 3: Mindy told me that she did not say any such

1304
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,440
Speaker 3: things and these were all Julie's ideas.

1305
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 2: And she was just there during these conversations.

1306
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: This is totally a Jesse two point zero Jesse from

1307
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 1: the first story.

1308
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, is the Jesse here.

1309
01:03:42,440 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 1: Mindy is a Jesse.

1310
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1311
01:03:44,680 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 3: She did tell Julie that she was about to take

1312
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 3: some of the things so that I could get a

1313
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,919
Speaker 3: chance to make things right with her over the last

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Speaker 3: few months.

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Speaker 2: That made Julie more angry, and she started accusing me

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01:03:56,440 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 2: of emotionally cheating on her Julie Tool. Julie told me

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01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 2: that the last few weeks have made her realize that

1318
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 2: we were meant to be together, but she now cannot

1319
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,760
Speaker 2: believe I would move on from a four year relationship

1320
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 2: in one week.

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01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 1: Ah, that is that is brutal. But you guys did

1322
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 1: break up. She can't be mad. They did break up.

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01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,760
Speaker 1: You did break up. I don't think the relationship contract

1324
01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: the relationship contract ends when you break up.

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01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,640
Speaker 3: I mean, imagine you have a four or even let's

1326
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 3: say a three year relationship and then you do a

1327
01:04:30,640 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 3: rebound like imagine a again, even a three year relationship

1328
01:04:34,040 --> 01:04:36,480
Speaker 3: and you do that. Just imagine that everybody like a

1329
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 3: two year relationship. Oh oh. On one hand, I want

1330
01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,160
Speaker 3: to believe Julie, but she broke up with me for

1331
01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 3: no fault of my own. Mindy was there for me

1332
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:51,280
Speaker 3: when I was down, but now I also doubt her.

1333
01:04:51,600 --> 01:04:54,360
Speaker 1: Dude, doubt her so much?

1334
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 2: Get away from me.

1335
01:04:56,920 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 3: She suddenly started talking to me out of the blue,

1336
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:03,480
Speaker 3: as we were never really that close before, and immediately

1337
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:06,880
Speaker 3: became my support after the breakup, although Julie was her

1338
01:05:06,880 --> 01:05:10,960
Speaker 3: close friend. Am I the a hole to emotionally cheat

1339
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 3: on Julie? Should I have told her.

1340
01:05:13,200 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 2: About Mindy's texts? Should I have.

1341
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,600
Speaker 3: Not moved on from her so quickly? Even though Julie

1342
01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:21,600
Speaker 3: broke up with me, I was just hurting and Mindy

1343
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 3: was right there to support me. I need advice from

1344
01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 3: someone with a clear mind on knowing what the f.

1345
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 2: Is going on? And ladies and gentlemen watching right now.

1346
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 2: We have relevant comments, We have updates, We have comments

1347
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 2: from you right now, but we have to stop and

1348
01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:39,680
Speaker 2: break this down.

1349
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, uh, I'm a little confused on the

1350
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 1: emotional cheating side.

1351
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 2: I think because so Mindy.

1352
01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 3: So before the actual official breakup, Mindy was getting closer

1353
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:55,120
Speaker 3: with Op.

1354
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: But it sounds like it was in the context of

1355
01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 1: helping Ope through the relationship with Julie.

1356
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 3: Yes, and so basically that I think, Yeah, is was

1357
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 3: it emotional cheating that OPI kind of accepted the help

1358
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 3: and became more quote unquote emotionally close with Mindy, not

1359
01:06:14,240 --> 01:06:16,000
Speaker 3: that he was like I don't.

1360
01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I would love to know what y'all think

1361
01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:20,479
Speaker 1: if you think it's emotional cheating or not, but I don't.

1362
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I don't think that's emotional cheating.

1363
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 3: I definitely think it is a grey area, And it

1364
01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:30,680
Speaker 3: truly depends on what are these conversations and interactions.

1365
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 1: Like, because but like what it seems like it was

1366
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:35,320
Speaker 1: is like, hey, like things are hard with Julie. And

1367
01:06:35,360 --> 01:06:38,160
Speaker 1: then like what it seemed like the initial conversations where

1368
01:06:38,160 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 1: it's like Mindy's giving just terrible advice, but like Op

1369
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,920
Speaker 1: is talking to Mindy to try to work on things

1370
01:06:44,920 --> 01:06:47,600
Speaker 1: with Julie. Yeah, you know, because like Mindy's like, she's

1371
01:06:47,600 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 1: gonna break up with you, and and and OPI is like,

1372
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 1: oh shit, I need to step up my game. I

1373
01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 1: need to make sure that I'm like there for her

1374
01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:57,080
Speaker 1: even more. And so he's not taking what Mindy is

1375
01:06:57,080 --> 01:07:00,000
Speaker 1: saying to distance himself from Julie. He's taking what Mindy's

1376
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,920
Speaker 1: saying to make sure he's closer. And so for that reason,

1377
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:05,800
Speaker 1: I don't really think he is going into it with

1378
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 1: the idea of like, uh or even even like subconsciously

1379
01:07:10,400 --> 01:07:13,360
Speaker 1: emotionally cheating. That doesn't seem like what's happening here.

1380
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 2: It does.

1381
01:07:13,800 --> 01:07:15,880
Speaker 3: It did have the purists of intentions, and I can't

1382
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:19,600
Speaker 3: I mean to I think it was after that it

1383
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 3: really ramped up in Mindy, which probably was completely Mindy's intention.

1384
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:26,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, was like all all, all, just get.

1385
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:29,280
Speaker 3: In there as like a supportive friend and then I'll

1386
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 3: crank it up.

1387
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:33,720
Speaker 1: Yeah. No, Like Mindy is a terrible person. Mindy, Mindy

1388
01:07:33,760 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 1: has been planning this from the the I think there's

1389
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:38,320
Speaker 1: ope is like a little naive, maybe a little stupid.

1390
01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 1: But the second question is Mindy or is hooking up

1391
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 1: with Mindy after Julie breaks up with op a not

1392
01:07:48,560 --> 01:07:49,400
Speaker 1: cash money move.

1393
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 3: Not a great move. But I mean Op is like

1394
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:58,400
Speaker 3: very heartbroken. I will I will give him some like leniency,

1395
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 3: but like not not the best.

1396
01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:02,920
Speaker 1: I think what's us is it's not I don't think

1397
01:08:02,920 --> 01:08:07,040
Speaker 1: it's necessarily bad that he hooked up with someone after

1398
01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:10,360
Speaker 1: uh breaking up, Like people do that all the time.

1399
01:08:10,640 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 1: I think what's bad is he hooked up with a

1400
01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: close friend. Yeah, I think that's a little of us. Yes,

1401
01:08:16,240 --> 01:08:18,200
Speaker 1: that's like I don't I don't think that's a good

1402
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 1: Like I think you could hook up with someone who

1403
01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:21,720
Speaker 1: was in like the general friend group, but if it's

1404
01:08:21,760 --> 01:08:23,559
Speaker 1: a close friend and they've hung out one on one,

1405
01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a good one.

1406
01:08:24,800 --> 01:08:28,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, and just generally yeah, it's it's given, given, given

1407
01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 3: yourself some time is good.

1408
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 1: But but I wait, should we read some of the

1409
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,639
Speaker 1: comments before we dive into the to the update.

1410
01:08:35,080 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 3: Let's do it? Maybe Katie say again, Katie Lynn, Katie Lynn, Uh,

1411
01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:42,479
Speaker 3: I don't think it's emotional cheating. But this couldn't have

1412
01:08:42,520 --> 01:08:46,720
Speaker 3: happened if they spoke, if they uh, this couldn't have

1413
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 3: happened if they spoke to themselves, or if OP asked

1414
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:54,599
Speaker 3: Mindy said x Y z Is this true. He also

1415
01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 3: didn't seem to have thought about the feelings for Mindy

1416
01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 3: until after Julie and him broke up. Seemed seemed that

1417
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 3: he knew he it was convenient and that Mindy cared

1418
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:07,760
Speaker 3: about him, while OPI was happy to take the opportunity

1419
01:09:07,920 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 3: that Mindy created by being too faced.

1420
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with some of that. I think I

1421
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 1: agree with some of that. And then A says if

1422
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:18,640
Speaker 1: OPI and Julie were secure in the relationship, none of

1423
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,680
Speaker 1: that would have happened. They both kept Mindy's talks to

1424
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:25,040
Speaker 1: themselves instead of confronting the issue. That's kind of what

1425
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 1: the other person was saying. I agree with that. If

1426
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 1: they just had communicated with about what Mindy was saying,

1427
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:32,640
Speaker 1: it would have been fine. But I think they were

1428
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:33,720
Speaker 1: too scared to communicate.

1429
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:37,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I do not. Yeah, yeah, this is This is

1430
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:39,240
Speaker 3: a tricky one, y'all. This is a tricky one.

1431
01:09:39,280 --> 01:09:42,800
Speaker 1: But John, do you have an update for me?

1432
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:45,080
Speaker 3: We have should we should? We have some relevant comments?

1433
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:46,880
Speaker 3: Relevant update?

1434
01:09:46,920 --> 01:09:48,479
Speaker 2: Good? Let's do the relevant comments.

1435
01:09:48,600 --> 01:09:52,120
Speaker 3: So br Socks two four four five says, sounds like

1436
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:54,720
Speaker 3: you and Julie need to talk privately and discuss what

1437
01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 3: Mindy said to each of you. That is a great idea.

1438
01:09:57,280 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 3: Get get you know, get the story straight. Let's interrogate

1439
01:09:59,520 --> 01:10:02,200
Speaker 3: this bad boy. As others have said, this sounds all

1440
01:10:02,240 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 3: too convenient. Mindy was in both of your ears, telling

1441
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 3: you both what she wanted you to hear to orchestrate

1442
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:10,880
Speaker 3: this whole thing. Please reach out to Julie and ask

1443
01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 3: her to talk to you alone. Even if both of

1444
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:15,680
Speaker 3: you don't get back together. I'm sure you both care

1445
01:10:15,720 --> 01:10:18,120
Speaker 3: for each other deeply, and she would want you to

1446
01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 3: be with someone who cares about you and won't manipulate you.

1447
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mindy is a manipulator. You should not stay with

1448
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:25,840
Speaker 1: Mindy for sure.

1449
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 3: Her manipulation of you is more direct. But Julie is

1450
01:10:30,400 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 3: the victim as well. OPI, you are right, if Julie,

1451
01:10:35,040 --> 01:10:38,000
Speaker 3: If Julie is right, I just threw a four year

1452
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:43,040
Speaker 3: relationship under the bus in just two weeks. Artistic Asparagus

1453
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 3: one seventy five says, so, what's the reason for you

1454
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:47,759
Speaker 3: sleeping with your ex's good friend weeks after the breakup.

1455
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 3: It's understandable you wanted to move on, but why her specifically?

1456
01:10:52,439 --> 01:10:54,639
Speaker 3: Opie says, I wasn't planning on it.

1457
01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:59,400
Speaker 1: Convenient convenient, but she just stayed back after the party

1458
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:00,599
Speaker 1: and think happened.

1459
01:11:00,720 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. Did I feel guilty after that? Absolutely? Not just kidding.

1460
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 3: Yes, I did feel guilty. I felt discarded and unwanted

1461
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:12,400
Speaker 3: after a four year relationship and was just not thinking straight.

1462
01:11:13,240 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 3: So you know, there's some more context. Yeah, I think,

1463
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:19,680
Speaker 3: I think again. You know, Mindy was manipulating and was

1464
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:22,840
Speaker 3: very intentional with all this stuff and catching op at

1465
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:25,280
Speaker 3: the worst possible moment.

1466
01:11:25,560 --> 01:11:29,120
Speaker 1: Literally creating the worst possible creating it. I think massive

1467
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:32,640
Speaker 1: red flags all ends, and Lily says, why do you

1468
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:35,759
Speaker 1: not ship merch Island? We actually just updated our merch

1469
01:11:35,840 --> 01:11:37,840
Speaker 1: link so we should be able to ship everywhere. So

1470
01:11:38,000 --> 01:11:38,599
Speaker 1: check that again.

1471
01:11:38,720 --> 01:11:41,160
Speaker 2: Very nice. It's in the description right now.

1472
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:44,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you want to support the show, check out

1473
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 1: the merch. We're wearing it right now.

1474
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 2: Red flag versus green flag, pick what you want.

1475
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:51,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's little hats too, that's right, but that is

1476
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 1: there an update.

1477
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:54,439
Speaker 3: Those are the relevant comments, and now we have the

1478
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 3: big Juicy update. Juicy I twenty eight mail posts of

1479
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:02,839
Speaker 3: last week regarding my girlfriend Julie twenty nine female, accusing

1480
01:12:02,880 --> 01:12:06,600
Speaker 3: your friend Mindy sabotaging the relationship Julie broke up with

1481
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,840
Speaker 3: me in December after a four year relationship, and Mindy

1482
01:12:08,880 --> 01:12:10,839
Speaker 3: reached out to me when I was feeling down. However,

1483
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:13,880
Speaker 3: when Julie realized when Mindy was talking to me, she

1484
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 3: confronted both of us on Saturday Sunday morning and told

1485
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,559
Speaker 3: me that Mindy manipulated her into breaking up with me.

1486
01:12:18,920 --> 01:12:21,360
Speaker 3: The worst part, I wasn't thinking straight after the breakup.

1487
01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 3: It ended up hooking up with Mindy at a New

1488
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 3: Year's Eve party. After the incident, I asked Mindy that

1489
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:26,160
Speaker 3: I needed.

1490
01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:27,640
Speaker 2: Some time and did not want to meet her.

1491
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:31,799
Speaker 3: Since the following post on Reddit had three thousand people call.

1492
01:12:31,640 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 1: Me an idiot, and now you have more in the

1493
01:12:34,520 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: chat You're an idiot. Please do not see Middy.

1494
01:12:37,360 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 3: Indeed indeed so, I messaged Julie every day since then

1495
01:12:42,439 --> 01:12:44,800
Speaker 3: to try to talk to her. She did not reply

1496
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 3: to my messages. I was not sure if she had

1497
01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 3: blocked me. Mindy was constantly trying to message me, asking

1498
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 3: if we could meet up and talk about it.

1499
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: I wrote you for a year. I'm just quoting the notebook.

1500
01:12:56,439 --> 01:12:57,400
Speaker 1: We watched it recently.

1501
01:12:58,040 --> 01:13:02,120
Speaker 3: On Wednesday, one day after posting, I decided to message Mindy,

1502
01:13:02,640 --> 01:13:05,479
Speaker 3: I told her to tell me everything she said to

1503
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 3: Julie truthfully. I told her I would go no contact

1504
01:13:10,120 --> 01:13:12,800
Speaker 3: if I found out that she had been lying, which

1505
01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 3: Mindy knows. It's like, hey, if if she was actually lying,

1506
01:13:16,720 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 3: they would share what each other said and they would

1507
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:19,280
Speaker 3: figure it out.

1508
01:13:19,600 --> 01:13:21,559
Speaker 2: OPI and Julie would be able to figure it out.

1509
01:13:21,600 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 1: But Julie isn't talking to op Mindy, we don't know

1510
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:28,280
Speaker 1: if that maybe she does anything.

1511
01:13:28,320 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 2: This is a this is a crazy game of chicken

1512
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 2: right now.

1513
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:34,759
Speaker 1: But why why why? Dude, Like, go no contact now?

1514
01:13:34,840 --> 01:13:38,479
Speaker 1: You have enough information this moment to go no contact. Like,

1515
01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 1: why would you have a person like this in your life?

1516
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 1: She is manipulative, She is super toxic and just like

1517
01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:45,639
Speaker 1: wants drama.

1518
01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:47,640
Speaker 2: OPI doesn't know if he believes it yet or not.

1519
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:49,800
Speaker 2: That's why. That's why I mean, I feel like I

1520
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:50,639
Speaker 2: would believe it.

1521
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:54,000
Speaker 1: Oh he'd but but dude, you know she you know,

1522
01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:55,400
Speaker 1: she was talking in your ear.

1523
01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:59,640
Speaker 2: But he's still like, was she telling the truth the

1524
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:01,559
Speaker 2: whole time? I'm where she wasn't?

1525
01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:04,520
Speaker 3: She was talking to both of them, but wasn't planting

1526
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:07,320
Speaker 3: the stuff for Julie that's the question.

1527
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:10,679
Speaker 1: But she was regardless. She was revealing things that Julie

1528
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 1: probably want kept secret to Ope exactly. And that's a

1529
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:17,040
Speaker 1: red flag because if you're revealing other people's secrets, you're

1530
01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 1: probably revealing the secrets that you have between you and

1531
01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:20,439
Speaker 1: that person.

1532
01:14:20,560 --> 01:14:22,719
Speaker 3: You and me are on the same page. But Opie's

1533
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:28,720
Speaker 3: getting that Mindy pom pom right now. That's not too sad, exactly.

1534
01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 3: So Mindy wanted to meet me in person or talk

1535
01:14:33,400 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 3: to me on the phone, but I wanted everything in writing.

1536
01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:38,479
Speaker 2: That's smart. That's a good move.

1537
01:14:38,760 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, So like she couldn't like reprogram his head on

1538
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:44,800
Speaker 1: the back end and make the things. Oh I didn't

1539
01:14:44,800 --> 01:14:49,040
Speaker 1: say that, Yeah, great, great receipts. Receipts.

1540
01:14:49,160 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 2: Yep.

1541
01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:53,320
Speaker 3: She messaged me that Julia always said good things about

1542
01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:56,160
Speaker 3: me all of these years. When Julie told her about

1543
01:14:56,240 --> 01:14:58,680
Speaker 3: us talking and getting married in twenty twenty four, she

1544
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:04,240
Speaker 3: was happy for the both of us. Yes, However, wise, however,

1545
01:15:04,880 --> 01:15:07,640
Speaker 3: Julie started telling her that she had cold feet and

1546
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:09,679
Speaker 3: was not sure if we wanted to marry me because

1547
01:15:09,680 --> 01:15:12,599
Speaker 3: of issues she observed about her parents' marriage.

1548
01:15:13,400 --> 01:15:14,040
Speaker 2: Very convenient.

1549
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:17,400
Speaker 3: One day, Julie told me that she wanted to take

1550
01:15:17,400 --> 01:15:20,000
Speaker 3: a break from me. She was not too sure about

1551
01:15:20,000 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 3: her feelings for me.

1552
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 2: That was this time. That was the time that Mindy

1553
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:26,720
Speaker 2: told me.

1554
01:15:26,680 --> 01:15:29,840
Speaker 3: About Julie's behavior as she felt bad for me as

1555
01:15:29,840 --> 01:15:33,040
Speaker 3: we were already telling our families about the engagement plans.

1556
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:36,200
Speaker 3: After our fight, she said that she said that Julie

1557
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:39,519
Speaker 3: was extremely upset and told Mindy that she would never

1558
01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 3: marry me.

1559
01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:45,040
Speaker 2: She's literally doing it again. She's literally doing it again.

1560
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:49,439
Speaker 1: Dude, I think this was all little size, but Surest,

1561
01:15:49,840 --> 01:15:52,599
Speaker 1: why are you trusting her? This is silly.

1562
01:15:52,960 --> 01:15:56,439
Speaker 3: She said that the only reason Julie came back was

1563
01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 3: when she heard that I was moving on, as she

1564
01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:06,479
Speaker 3: is jealous of us pro She She also said that

1565
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:09,280
Speaker 3: I was a good guy and hopefully I see that

1566
01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 3: what we have.

1567
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 2: Is something special. What do we think? What do we think?

1568
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:18,519
Speaker 1: Chat?

1569
01:16:19,000 --> 01:16:19,639
Speaker 2: What do we think?

1570
01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:27,000
Speaker 1: I'm pissed? Yeah, I'm pissed. Yeah. Brizzle Manizzle says supersis Supersauce.

1571
01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:31,440
Speaker 1: Let's see Car says I don't know if a rebound

1572
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:35,600
Speaker 1: is moving on? But go Off says burning rows a

1573
01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:41,000
Speaker 1: bunch of red flags. A Meredith b s yeah, I agree.

1574
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:45,600
Speaker 1: Rose Osmond says red flag. Mindy Leavester says, heck no,

1575
01:16:45,800 --> 01:16:49,639
Speaker 1: Kimberly fine, people like Mindy will ghosts both pretend nothing

1576
01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:51,680
Speaker 1: happened and find a whole new friend group before they

1577
01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:56,840
Speaker 1: face any real life consequences for their actions. Yeah, totally agree.

1578
01:16:56,880 --> 01:17:00,000
Speaker 1: Mindy is not many's not even person.

1579
01:17:00,360 --> 01:17:00,639
Speaker 2: No.

1580
01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:03,880
Speaker 3: No, I think she's a total snake and Mike mind

1581
01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:09,120
Speaker 3: bogglingly using this opportunity to do more lies to wedge

1582
01:17:09,160 --> 01:17:10,880
Speaker 3: them in between like that, but do we know?

1583
01:17:11,160 --> 01:17:13,439
Speaker 1: I mean, like, how is Opie. I don't even know

1584
01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:15,640
Speaker 1: why he's listening, but like, how is Opie supposed to

1585
01:17:15,640 --> 01:17:17,280
Speaker 1: assess it out? Because he's here to talk to Julie

1586
01:17:17,280 --> 01:17:18,479
Speaker 1: and see if the story's line up.

1587
01:17:18,600 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 2: He's trying to Julie isn't responding.

1588
01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:24,439
Speaker 1: But can you please tell me there's a big, fat, juicy,

1589
01:17:24,520 --> 01:17:28,320
Speaker 1: thick update where Julie responds, and we could put Mindy

1590
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:31,599
Speaker 1: to rest and cast her out into the open ocean,

1591
01:17:31,600 --> 01:17:34,080
Speaker 1: hoping she trowns it gets fed on by live sharks.

1592
01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,360
Speaker 2: There's definitely more. So.

1593
01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:39,360
Speaker 3: After Mindy said that you know we have something special,

1594
01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 3: Opie responds, I just said okay, and I told her

1595
01:17:43,360 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 3: that I needed time. I kept on messaging Julie once

1596
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:49,559
Speaker 3: a day to at least talk to her once. It

1597
01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:51,800
Speaker 3: was heartbreaking to think that she might have blocked me

1598
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:53,759
Speaker 3: and may never talk to me again.

1599
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 1: Are your text green well?

1600
01:17:57,240 --> 01:18:03,800
Speaker 2: On Friday afternoon, Julie finally replied, Okay, that's good. She

1601
01:18:03,880 --> 01:18:06,960
Speaker 2: said she wanted to meet me and told me and

1602
01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:08,840
Speaker 2: told me that she would come to our apartment on

1603
01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:10,040
Speaker 2: Saturday afternoon.

1604
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:11,679
Speaker 1: Okay, this is something, This is movement.

1605
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:14,880
Speaker 3: I cleaned up the place. Hey, buddy, cleaning got you

1606
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 3: in this mess in the first place.

1607
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:19,760
Speaker 1: To be careful, be careful. Mindy helped me. She stayed.

1608
01:18:21,680 --> 01:18:24,519
Speaker 3: And I was just feeling deep guilt from the inside

1609
01:18:24,520 --> 01:18:27,080
Speaker 3: before facing her. When she came in, she looked like

1610
01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:31,120
Speaker 3: a shell of herself and completely broken. I sat on

1611
01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:33,400
Speaker 3: her sofa, but she chose to sit away from me.

1612
01:18:34,200 --> 01:18:36,920
Speaker 3: We asked how each other were, but it was clear

1613
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:40,920
Speaker 3: that neither of us were doing well. I started apologizing,

1614
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,679
Speaker 3: but she stopped me. She asked to let her finish

1615
01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 3: and to not interrupt her. She had brought her a

1616
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 3: little notebook and had written down things that she had

1617
01:18:48,320 --> 01:18:50,720
Speaker 3: wanted to say to me. She told me that she

1618
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 3: truly loved me, but after we discussed getting married, she

1619
01:18:54,160 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 3: started feeling scared of the next big step.

1620
01:18:57,040 --> 01:18:58,040
Speaker 2: She thought it was normal.

1621
01:18:58,280 --> 01:19:03,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, she thought those feelings were normal and would go away,

1622
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:07,120
Speaker 3: So she decided not to discuss her concerns with me.

1623
01:19:07,640 --> 01:19:10,439
Speaker 3: It kept on eating at her from the inside, and

1624
01:19:10,479 --> 01:19:13,439
Speaker 3: she made a mistake to talk to Mindy about them.

1625
01:19:13,920 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 3: She said that she wanted to. She said that she

1626
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:19,320
Speaker 3: wanted to say everything to me now, so I don't

1627
01:19:19,320 --> 01:19:22,679
Speaker 3: get secondhand information about why she was distant and broke

1628
01:19:22,760 --> 01:19:25,280
Speaker 3: up with me. She said that her parents had a

1629
01:19:25,479 --> 01:19:28,840
Speaker 3: very rocky marriage, though they were together until her mom

1630
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:32,000
Speaker 3: passed away in twenty twenty one during the pandemic. Her

1631
01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 3: parents argued constantly, and she always thought her mom did

1632
01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 3: not love her dad. However, her mom was extremely dependent

1633
01:19:39,360 --> 01:19:42,680
Speaker 3: on him for everything, and her dad knew it and hence.

1634
01:19:42,640 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 2: He did not treat her well. She never wanted to

1635
01:19:46,240 --> 01:19:49,720
Speaker 2: be like her mom after seeing their marriage. However, as

1636
01:19:49,760 --> 01:19:52,879
Speaker 2: we lived together, she started seeing some of those issues

1637
01:19:52,920 --> 01:19:56,479
Speaker 2: in our relationship. For example, when we met, Julie had

1638
01:19:56,520 --> 01:19:58,639
Speaker 2: a lot of credit card debt and was bad at

1639
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:00,640
Speaker 2: managing her money. Helped her with that.

1640
01:20:01,080 --> 01:20:04,040
Speaker 3: Even though we have separate finances, I ended up managing

1641
01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:07,839
Speaker 3: all of her finances, investments, et cetera at her request,

1642
01:20:08,320 --> 01:20:10,920
Speaker 3: to the point that she did not know or understand

1643
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 3: exactly where her money was. Real quick, is that a

1644
01:20:16,920 --> 01:20:17,760
Speaker 3: red flag?

1645
01:20:18,000 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 1: Is that Julie doesn't know where her money was because

1646
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:22,320
Speaker 1: OP is managing all of it.

1647
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:26,160
Speaker 2: OP came in at her request.

1648
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 3: OP came to help her manage her finances, but managed

1649
01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:31,760
Speaker 3: to finances to a point where Julie did not know

1650
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:32,599
Speaker 3: what was going on.

1651
01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 1: Hmmm, is that a red flag? I mean, it's definitely

1652
01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:42,120
Speaker 1: not like you should have an understanding of your finances.

1653
01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:44,599
Speaker 1: But like we were, this is not a good example,

1654
01:20:44,600 --> 01:20:47,599
Speaker 1: but we were talking about a relationship earlier where yes,

1655
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:51,000
Speaker 1: you had the husband managing all the finances and it

1656
01:20:51,080 --> 01:20:54,880
Speaker 1: was like a way of controlling the wife. I don't

1657
01:20:54,880 --> 01:20:59,599
Speaker 1: think this is what is happening here necessarily, but I

1658
01:20:59,640 --> 01:21:02,280
Speaker 1: think you should even you should you should know a

1659
01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:05,679
Speaker 1: little bit, even if even if like, yeah, you should

1660
01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:06,920
Speaker 1: know a little bit, you should know a little bit.

1661
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:10,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think it's it's possible, And I think

1662
01:21:10,439 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 3: this is what they're kind of leading up to that

1663
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 3: maybe Julie like doesn't you know, like budgeting and stuff,

1664
01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:19,000
Speaker 3: and so she kind of ignored it.

1665
01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:20,040
Speaker 2: Like she did in the first place.

1666
01:21:20,160 --> 01:21:22,599
Speaker 1: Maybe she's like, we're gonna be married so and he's

1667
01:21:22,640 --> 01:21:24,519
Speaker 1: gonna take care of the find it and finances when

1668
01:21:24,520 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 1: that happened, So maybe that's fine.

1669
01:21:25,960 --> 01:21:26,600
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.

1670
01:21:26,720 --> 01:21:28,880
Speaker 1: Is that a red flag? Let let us know in

1671
01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:29,679
Speaker 1: the comments.

1672
01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 2: Keep telling us elies and gentlemen.

1673
01:21:33,040 --> 01:21:36,120
Speaker 3: She also said that we always enjoy making nice meals

1674
01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:38,840
Speaker 3: for dinner every day. However, when I work late, she

1675
01:21:38,960 --> 01:21:41,760
Speaker 3: completely loses any motivation to cook and ends up eating

1676
01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:44,000
Speaker 3: cheese and crackers like a toddler for dinner.

1677
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:45,759
Speaker 2: Okay.

1678
01:21:46,439 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 3: She also complained that in the last four years of

1679
01:21:48,920 --> 01:21:52,880
Speaker 3: our relationship, I have never said no to her for

1680
01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:56,280
Speaker 3: buying anything. She feels that I coddle her and she

1681
01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:58,960
Speaker 3: just got comfortable with all of the luxuries that I

1682
01:21:59,000 --> 01:21:59,960
Speaker 3: can provide for her.

1683
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 1: It's your fault that I'm so dependent.

1684
01:22:03,439 --> 01:22:04,720
Speaker 2: Stop buying things from me.

1685
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:06,520
Speaker 1: Stop being so nice.

1686
01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:07,200
Speaker 2: Be mean.

1687
01:22:07,880 --> 01:22:10,720
Speaker 3: She talked about this with Mindy, and while Mindy initially

1688
01:22:10,800 --> 01:22:13,679
Speaker 3: just was just listening to her, she told her around

1689
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:17,439
Speaker 3: September that one of her cousins also have the same issue.

1690
01:22:18,920 --> 01:22:20,600
Speaker 2: She decided to stay away.

1691
01:22:20,360 --> 01:22:22,639
Speaker 3: From her fiance for a month, and within a week

1692
01:22:22,960 --> 01:22:25,800
Speaker 3: she realized how much she missed him and never had

1693
01:22:25,840 --> 01:22:29,680
Speaker 3: doubts again. When Julie asked for a break, all she

1694
01:22:29,760 --> 01:22:32,400
Speaker 3: wanted to do was live with her best friend for

1695
01:22:32,439 --> 01:22:34,640
Speaker 3: a few weeks to see if she was too co

1696
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:35,640
Speaker 3: dependent on me.

1697
01:22:37,080 --> 01:22:40,880
Speaker 1: Oh, so she realizes, she's realized, like, oh, I am

1698
01:22:41,000 --> 01:22:44,559
Speaker 1: so ridiculously dependent on this person. Let me see, let

1699
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:45,000
Speaker 1: me go.

1700
01:22:46,560 --> 01:22:49,000
Speaker 2: Retain or regain reclaim. There we go.

1701
01:22:49,040 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 3: Thank you my self sufficiency and my independence. So I'm

1702
01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 3: not coming in as like, Okay, I'm totally dependent on you.

1703
01:22:55,600 --> 01:22:57,800
Speaker 3: I'm a whole person. You're a whole person, and we're

1704
01:22:57,880 --> 01:22:58,720
Speaker 3: coming together.

1705
01:22:58,680 --> 01:23:00,400
Speaker 1: That I don't even know if a month is enough

1706
01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:02,719
Speaker 1: time to actually like understand that about yourself.

1707
01:23:02,800 --> 01:23:03,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is a good question.

1708
01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:06,080
Speaker 3: But I'll I guess I could see, like if he's

1709
01:23:06,120 --> 01:23:08,679
Speaker 3: helping with dinners and stuff like that, Like thirty days

1710
01:23:08,680 --> 01:23:12,440
Speaker 3: of her eating cheese and crackers every dinner, it's like, okay.

1711
01:23:12,320 --> 01:23:15,200
Speaker 1: Some some of this sid I guess, But didn't she just

1712
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:18,320
Speaker 1: proved like she like hasn't been taking care of herself

1713
01:23:18,360 --> 01:23:21,559
Speaker 1: in the time that they have been apart, right, Like

1714
01:23:22,600 --> 01:23:25,920
Speaker 1: is she actually is she actually doing anything to We

1715
01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:27,960
Speaker 1: don't know, all right, well, I don't know. I want

1716
01:23:27,960 --> 01:23:29,280
Speaker 1: to see out in bolts. Let's keep going.

1717
01:23:29,840 --> 01:23:32,879
Speaker 3: She knew I was planning to propose during our Christmas

1718
01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:36,400
Speaker 3: trip to my parents' house, okay, and when I told

1719
01:23:36,400 --> 01:23:39,479
Speaker 3: her that she could not take a break, she just

1720
01:23:39,560 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 3: freaked out and broke up with me, as she did

1721
01:23:41,600 --> 01:23:44,200
Speaker 3: not want to be engaged without knowing for sure that

1722
01:23:44,320 --> 01:23:46,280
Speaker 3: we won't end up like.

1723
01:23:46,479 --> 01:23:48,240
Speaker 1: Her parents, and she doesn't want to be controlled.

1724
01:23:48,360 --> 01:23:50,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, she had that fear of ending up like her parents.

1725
01:23:50,800 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 3: Basically we all do. After this, she asked me when

1726
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:57,599
Speaker 3: I started meeting Mindy and how many times we met?

1727
01:23:57,840 --> 01:24:00,519
Speaker 3: I opened my chat messages with Mindy. That's that's smart,

1728
01:24:00,560 --> 01:24:03,440
Speaker 3: and handed her the phone. Complete transparency.

1729
01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:06,880
Speaker 1: That's great. Yes, transparency is the best policy with love,

1730
01:24:07,160 --> 01:24:08,760
Speaker 1: absolutely romantic partners.

1731
01:24:08,960 --> 01:24:11,720
Speaker 3: I told her I met Mindy only once in September,

1732
01:24:11,960 --> 01:24:14,200
Speaker 3: where she told me that Julie wanted to break up

1733
01:24:14,200 --> 01:24:16,840
Speaker 3: with me because she was not happy with our relationship.

1734
01:24:17,200 --> 01:24:20,680
Speaker 3: I already had noticed Julie's dishavior, and when I asked her,

1735
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:23,600
Speaker 3: the only answer I got was, I am fine. We

1736
01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:30,040
Speaker 3: are fine. Gentlemen, There's one thing I've learned. I am fine,

1737
01:24:30,560 --> 01:24:33,240
Speaker 3: we are fine. We are fine, doesn't all with me mad.

1738
01:24:35,240 --> 01:24:38,240
Speaker 2: Due to my insecurities, I tried to hold on to

1739
01:24:38,400 --> 01:24:41,680
Speaker 2: Julie and started coddling her more. Ah ho.

1740
01:24:44,360 --> 01:24:50,680
Speaker 1: So when Mindy was all like, hey, she's going to

1741
01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:53,720
Speaker 1: break up with you, his response was to do the

1742
01:24:53,840 --> 01:24:56,800
Speaker 1: very thing that Julie did not want. His response was like, oh,

1743
01:24:56,960 --> 01:24:58,240
Speaker 1: if she's going to break up with me, I need

1744
01:24:58,240 --> 01:24:59,720
Speaker 1: to make sure I'm there for her more. I'm doing

1745
01:24:59,760 --> 01:25:03,040
Speaker 1: all nice things. But that's literally like Julie wanted what

1746
01:25:03,080 --> 01:25:06,280
Speaker 1: she wanted. Yeah, Julie wanted to be more independent, and

1747
01:25:06,320 --> 01:25:10,479
Speaker 1: so he's basically like, well, uh, not like that. Not

1748
01:25:10,560 --> 01:25:13,920
Speaker 1: swarming her, but not like like suffocating her in some ways.

1749
01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:18,479
Speaker 3: Honestly, I gotta say, Mindy at that point in this

1750
01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:21,400
Speaker 3: in the storyline must have been like, dude.

1751
01:25:21,360 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 1: Mindy's playing some four D relationship chess. Like all right,

1752
01:25:25,840 --> 01:25:27,800
Speaker 1: Mindy absolute dick wad of.

1753
01:25:27,800 --> 01:25:31,200
Speaker 2: Course, but a brilliant one bro, a brilliant.

1754
01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:34,759
Speaker 1: Great chess player. Man, Mindy needs to lead people into

1755
01:25:34,800 --> 01:25:39,000
Speaker 1: battle and like, just play some social games because Mindy,

1756
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:39,880
Speaker 1: Mindy's lethal.

1757
01:25:39,960 --> 01:25:42,120
Speaker 2: It's giving Voldemort. She's got all the.

1758
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:45,960
Speaker 1: Power she was in like the ancient lores of kings

1759
01:25:45,960 --> 01:25:48,720
Speaker 1: and queens. She would have her own fiefdom for sure, she.

1760
01:25:48,680 --> 01:25:49,880
Speaker 2: Could win the Game of Thrones.

1761
01:25:49,960 --> 01:25:53,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, maybe, dude, she's she's going for the starcause.

1762
01:25:53,240 --> 01:25:56,200
Speaker 2: That's right. See I put in that reference with very

1763
01:25:56,280 --> 01:25:56,920
Speaker 2: little tobacco.

1764
01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:58,599
Speaker 1: I thought, you you've seen the first season.

1765
01:25:58,680 --> 01:26:00,960
Speaker 2: The first season, Yeah, that's an stark. I don't even

1766
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:01,439
Speaker 2: know what that is.

1767
01:26:01,560 --> 01:26:03,920
Speaker 1: So that's a big people who's that put f's in

1768
01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:06,040
Speaker 1: the chat bro for John not knowing his Game of

1769
01:26:06,080 --> 01:26:06,679
Speaker 1: Throne knowledge.

1770
01:26:06,720 --> 01:26:07,639
Speaker 2: I don't watch things.

1771
01:26:08,120 --> 01:26:08,760
Speaker 1: We know that.

1772
01:26:10,000 --> 01:26:13,240
Speaker 3: So due to my insecurities, I tried to hold onto

1773
01:26:13,320 --> 01:26:16,320
Speaker 3: Julie and began coddling her, planning more dates, trying to

1774
01:26:16,320 --> 01:26:18,559
Speaker 3: spend more time at home with her, et cetera, et cetera.

1775
01:26:18,960 --> 01:26:21,400
Speaker 3: When Julie asked me for a break and to stay

1776
01:26:21,439 --> 01:26:23,360
Speaker 3: away from me for a few weeks, I thought that

1777
01:26:23,439 --> 01:26:28,240
Speaker 3: this was the final step before the breakup, which I

1778
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:31,040
Speaker 3: mean that I can't it can mean that sometimes, and

1779
01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:33,760
Speaker 3: I broke down. I fought with her, which led to

1780
01:26:33,800 --> 01:26:38,479
Speaker 3: our breakup and her moving out. At this point, Julie's

1781
01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:42,160
Speaker 3: voice started cracking up. She asked me, when Mindy contacted

1782
01:26:42,200 --> 01:26:45,160
Speaker 3: you after the breakup. I pointed her to the messages.

1783
01:26:45,560 --> 01:26:48,880
Speaker 3: Mindy initially just started sending me memes to cheer me up,

1784
01:26:49,520 --> 01:26:51,840
Speaker 3: and I just used to respond with a thanks or

1785
01:26:51,840 --> 01:26:52,479
Speaker 3: a thumbs up.

1786
01:26:52,680 --> 01:26:52,880
Speaker 2: Bro.

1787
01:26:53,439 --> 01:26:57,760
Speaker 1: Memes are the first step, first step, they are. That's

1788
01:26:57,760 --> 01:26:59,920
Speaker 1: how people work their way into your life. If they

1789
01:27:00,080 --> 01:27:03,240
Speaker 1: send you pictures of seals and they send you memes.

1790
01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:07,879
Speaker 2: And all of a sudden it and you're blinking. However,

1791
01:27:08,280 --> 01:27:09,479
Speaker 2: the messages.

1792
01:27:09,040 --> 01:27:11,640
Speaker 3: Started getting more and more frequent, and she offered to

1793
01:27:11,680 --> 01:27:14,200
Speaker 3: talk to me in case I needed help.

1794
01:27:14,640 --> 01:27:16,440
Speaker 2: The smoking gun.

1795
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:20,040
Speaker 1: Mindy's under fire baby.

1796
01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:22,640
Speaker 3: She asked me what I was doing for Christmas and

1797
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:24,799
Speaker 3: New Year's and when I told her I was inviting

1798
01:27:24,840 --> 01:27:27,639
Speaker 3: a few friends over, she told me that she didn't

1799
01:27:27,680 --> 01:27:33,960
Speaker 3: have any plans for New Years, and so I invited mindydd.

1800
01:27:32,800 --> 01:27:35,040
Speaker 1: She's playing her cards so well.

1801
01:27:35,800 --> 01:27:38,320
Speaker 3: Julie stopped me there. She told me that she did

1802
01:27:38,400 --> 01:27:41,160
Speaker 3: not need to hear the details. After that, she told

1803
01:27:41,200 --> 01:27:43,599
Speaker 3: me that when she moved out of our house after

1804
01:27:43,640 --> 01:27:46,200
Speaker 3: our fight, she thought that she was just not ready

1805
01:27:46,200 --> 01:27:48,320
Speaker 3: to get married to me. She stayed with her friend

1806
01:27:48,400 --> 01:27:50,960
Speaker 3: for two weeks and then got her own new apartment

1807
01:27:51,000 --> 01:27:54,000
Speaker 3: in January. She told me that she was miserable and

1808
01:27:54,000 --> 01:27:57,439
Speaker 3: missed me badly. It became more and more accurate when

1809
01:27:57,439 --> 01:27:59,920
Speaker 3: she moved into the apartment alone and could not stay

1810
01:27:59,880 --> 01:28:01,080
Speaker 3: there even one night.

1811
01:28:01,360 --> 01:28:03,320
Speaker 2: Her best friend is currently with her.

1812
01:28:03,439 --> 01:28:06,400
Speaker 3: Staying there in that new apartment, she realized she could

1813
01:28:06,439 --> 01:28:09,360
Speaker 3: not live without me. Within a week of living and

1814
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:12,040
Speaker 3: moving in there. When she asked one of our mutual

1815
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:15,160
Speaker 3: friends on Saturday about how I was doing, she told

1816
01:28:15,200 --> 01:28:18,679
Speaker 3: her about the party and told her that Mindy was there.

1817
01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:22,639
Speaker 1: Bro, why does everyone freaking stern up this drama? Right?

1818
01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:25,280
Speaker 2: Come on? I mean I guess or Julie did?

1819
01:28:25,920 --> 01:28:27,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I mean.

1820
01:28:28,920 --> 01:28:33,880
Speaker 3: Well, actually, uh, I don't think she asked about Mindy.

1821
01:28:34,160 --> 01:28:36,080
Speaker 3: The person just offered that Mindy was there.

1822
01:28:36,280 --> 01:28:38,240
Speaker 1: Yea drama.

1823
01:28:39,200 --> 01:28:41,360
Speaker 3: It did not make sense to her why Mindy would

1824
01:28:41,360 --> 01:28:44,000
Speaker 3: be at the party. She concluded that Mindy and I

1825
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:47,400
Speaker 3: were having an affair during our relationship, and that was

1826
01:28:47,439 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 3: the reason. Mindy must have tried to break us apart

1827
01:28:50,080 --> 01:28:53,599
Speaker 3: by constantly telling her that she should not that Julie

1828
01:28:53,640 --> 01:28:57,200
Speaker 3: should not get married if she had any doubts. When

1829
01:28:57,200 --> 01:29:00,720
Speaker 3: she saw Mindy in our apartment on Sunday, she.

1830
01:29:00,760 --> 01:29:02,000
Speaker 2: Completely broke down.

1831
01:29:02,080 --> 01:29:05,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, of course, yes, I mean yeah, that's

1832
01:29:05,760 --> 01:29:07,479
Speaker 1: that is like the biggest betrayal too.

1833
01:29:07,960 --> 01:29:11,120
Speaker 3: However, when she learned that Mindy was also talking to

1834
01:29:11,160 --> 01:29:14,480
Speaker 3: me and telling me the opposite of things, she realized

1835
01:29:14,520 --> 01:29:18,440
Speaker 3: how naive she was to throw everything away without properly

1836
01:29:18,640 --> 01:29:19,880
Speaker 3: talking to me first.

1837
01:29:20,360 --> 01:29:23,480
Speaker 1: Chat with the people, Check with the people that like

1838
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:27,240
Speaker 1: like get I feel like you should give you should

1839
01:29:27,640 --> 01:29:30,160
Speaker 1: if you hear a rumor about someone or you have,

1840
01:29:30,240 --> 01:29:32,720
Speaker 1: like a friend or someone who's like, I don't know,

1841
01:29:33,040 --> 01:29:37,680
Speaker 1: stirn up drama, give the opportunity for that person that

1842
01:29:37,800 --> 01:29:40,360
Speaker 1: is the subject of the drama and the subject of

1843
01:29:40,439 --> 01:29:44,519
Speaker 1: maybe the mistrust, an opportunity to defend themselves, especially if

1844
01:29:44,560 --> 01:29:47,160
Speaker 1: it's a long relationship before you like completely cut them

1845
01:29:47,160 --> 01:29:50,720
Speaker 1: out just based off someone's word, you know, because like

1846
01:29:50,800 --> 01:29:53,599
Speaker 1: they're there are manipulators and there are liars out there

1847
01:29:53,600 --> 01:29:55,360
Speaker 1: in the world. You got you gotta protect yourself, y'all.

1848
01:29:55,400 --> 01:29:56,719
Speaker 2: Gotta stay protected, y'all.

1849
01:29:56,920 --> 01:30:01,120
Speaker 1: So this so this doesn't happen to fucking have Mindy's

1850
01:30:01,160 --> 01:30:02,040
Speaker 1: in your life, Oh.

1851
01:30:01,920 --> 01:30:02,960
Speaker 2: Goodness, gracious.

1852
01:30:03,320 --> 01:30:05,920
Speaker 3: As hurt as she is seeing me with Mindy, she

1853
01:30:06,120 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 3: also doesn't want to lose me. And I'm reading between

1854
01:30:09,120 --> 01:30:11,439
Speaker 3: the lines, but like as she's a friend, as a

1855
01:30:11,439 --> 01:30:12,040
Speaker 3: person in her.

1856
01:30:12,040 --> 01:30:13,520
Speaker 2: Life even so, not in a relationship.

1857
01:30:13,640 --> 01:30:16,360
Speaker 1: But I mean it's probably been It's probably a little

1858
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:18,559
Speaker 1: bit too soon to have that kind of relationship. Yeah,

1859
01:30:18,560 --> 01:30:21,599
Speaker 1: it takes a while for the flames to die and

1860
01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:25,800
Speaker 1: the friendship to solidify.

1861
01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:26,400
Speaker 2: The embOS to a rose.

1862
01:30:26,600 --> 01:30:26,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1863
01:30:27,320 --> 01:30:30,280
Speaker 3: She kept on calling herself an idiot and apologizing for

1864
01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:33,519
Speaker 3: not telling her concerns to me. Sooner I sat next

1865
01:30:33,520 --> 01:30:35,800
Speaker 3: door and tried to hug her, but she moved away.

1866
01:30:36,439 --> 01:30:40,320
Speaker 3: She asked if I was willing to still be together.

1867
01:30:42,720 --> 01:30:47,280
Speaker 1: Willing to still be together? Yep, So Julie, after going

1868
01:30:47,320 --> 01:30:51,360
Speaker 1: through all of this, after being lied to by Mindy,

1869
01:30:51,880 --> 01:30:56,320
Speaker 1: after breaking up with Op, She's like, I want you back.

1870
01:30:57,360 --> 01:31:02,120
Speaker 1: After Op hooked up with Mindy, I wonder if I mean, like,

1871
01:31:03,000 --> 01:31:04,760
Speaker 1: it's it's just gonna be a hard thing to get through,

1872
01:31:04,800 --> 01:31:06,679
Speaker 1: Like they're gonna have to learn to trust each other again.

1873
01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:08,920
Speaker 2: That is true, That is true. But you know what

1874
01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:11,439
Speaker 2: Op said? What as a response, what do you say?

1875
01:31:12,520 --> 01:31:17,040
Speaker 2: And I told her I would give anything to get

1876
01:31:17,360 --> 01:31:18,200
Speaker 2: her back.

1877
01:31:18,479 --> 01:31:23,639
Speaker 1: Really really, that's great, that's great, right, I mean, I'm

1878
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:28,240
Speaker 1: glad they're finally communicating. Like so uh someone, Samantha, someone

1879
01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:32,599
Speaker 1: said they're almost thirty and they can't communicate. Yeah, burning

1880
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:35,280
Speaker 1: Roseaid can't believe everyone here is almost thirty and they

1881
01:31:35,280 --> 01:31:38,000
Speaker 1: still don't know how to communicate. At least they're learning.

1882
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:39,720
Speaker 1: At least they're learning now.

1883
01:31:39,800 --> 01:31:43,240
Speaker 3: They're breaking through now, and it seems like the power

1884
01:31:43,240 --> 01:31:48,200
Speaker 3: of the relationship is still uh is still prevailing. Yeah

1885
01:31:48,240 --> 01:31:49,679
Speaker 3: at the end of the day, right here, Yeah right,

1886
01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:54,880
Speaker 3: I mean, my goodness, but but bo So she told

1887
01:31:54,880 --> 01:31:57,559
Speaker 3: me she was willing to forget everything that had happened,

1888
01:31:58,080 --> 01:32:00,800
Speaker 3: but she had a few conditions. First condition was that

1889
01:32:00,840 --> 01:32:03,960
Speaker 3: I cut contact with Mindy fair enough I blocked her

1890
01:32:04,040 --> 01:32:07,599
Speaker 3: everywhere and never contacted her again, Or that I block

1891
01:32:07,640 --> 01:32:10,639
Speaker 3: her everywhere and never contact her again. If I see

1892
01:32:10,640 --> 01:32:12,840
Speaker 3: her standing in front of me, I act as if

1893
01:32:12,840 --> 01:32:13,800
Speaker 3: she is invisible.

1894
01:32:14,160 --> 01:32:14,960
Speaker 2: I was okay with that.

1895
01:32:15,320 --> 01:32:18,280
Speaker 3: Secondly, she had already signed up for individual therapy and

1896
01:32:18,360 --> 01:32:20,200
Speaker 3: is on the wait list. She wants us to do

1897
01:32:20,240 --> 01:32:22,400
Speaker 3: couples therapy so that way we can talk about all

1898
01:32:22,439 --> 01:32:24,120
Speaker 3: the concerns we have and work through her.

1899
01:32:24,280 --> 01:32:26,679
Speaker 1: So smart, so smart. If you're really going to rebuild

1900
01:32:26,680 --> 01:32:28,719
Speaker 1: the relationship, you need that one hundred percent.

1901
01:32:29,600 --> 01:32:32,200
Speaker 3: We also decided to hold off on our engagement or

1902
01:32:32,240 --> 01:32:35,120
Speaker 3: marriage until we can both get into couple's therapy. I

1903
01:32:35,160 --> 01:32:39,599
Speaker 3: was also okay with that too, another another great idea. Finally,

1904
01:32:39,640 --> 01:32:41,520
Speaker 3: she wanted me to forget.

1905
01:32:41,160 --> 01:32:44,000
Speaker 2: The last month as a bad nightmare and never talk

1906
01:32:44,080 --> 01:32:44,840
Speaker 2: about it again.

1907
01:32:46,439 --> 01:32:47,920
Speaker 1: I mean, this is that what therapy is for to

1908
01:32:47,920 --> 01:32:48,519
Speaker 1: talk about I.

1909
01:32:48,439 --> 01:32:50,960
Speaker 3: Think, I think, yeah, like, it's it's it's there is

1910
01:32:51,000 --> 01:32:53,320
Speaker 3: a little bit of some counterintuitive stuff going on. It's like, hey,

1911
01:32:53,400 --> 01:32:58,120
Speaker 3: let's go to like breakdown to observe and work on all.

1912
01:32:58,240 --> 01:33:01,400
Speaker 1: I see the communication almost waking down before our eyes

1913
01:33:01,479 --> 01:33:04,200
Speaker 1: of this paradoxical desires.

1914
01:33:04,600 --> 01:33:08,280
Speaker 3: Oh and if I ever make a we were on

1915
01:33:08,320 --> 01:33:10,840
Speaker 3: a break joke, she would punch me in the face.

1916
01:33:12,080 --> 01:33:14,519
Speaker 2: This was the first time we both smiled.

1917
01:33:14,680 --> 01:33:17,479
Speaker 1: Oh okay, at least it's going better.

1918
01:33:18,280 --> 01:33:19,880
Speaker 3: I asked her what she was going to do about

1919
01:33:19,880 --> 01:33:21,559
Speaker 3: Mindy as they worked together.

1920
01:33:22,280 --> 01:33:25,559
Speaker 1: We cannot forget. Yeah, dude, that's big. Yet you totally

1921
01:33:25,600 --> 01:33:26,240
Speaker 1: forgot about that.

1922
01:33:26,439 --> 01:33:29,200
Speaker 3: She said that the biggest punishment was for Mindy to

1923
01:33:29,320 --> 01:33:34,480
Speaker 3: know that she did not succeed in breaking up with us.

1924
01:33:34,760 --> 01:33:34,840
Speaker 5: Yo.

1925
01:33:35,280 --> 01:33:37,880
Speaker 1: That's yeah, okay, all right, all right, we're getting stronger

1926
01:33:37,880 --> 01:33:39,200
Speaker 1: with Like.

1927
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:42,160
Speaker 2: I could see Julie just walking back some Mindy. How's

1928
01:33:42,160 --> 01:33:45,040
Speaker 2: the weeked? How's the weekend?

1929
01:33:45,560 --> 01:33:47,719
Speaker 1: How you doing? Pretty sad?

1930
01:33:49,200 --> 01:33:51,840
Speaker 3: She wants Mindy to see how happy she is with me,

1931
01:33:52,080 --> 01:33:54,840
Speaker 3: and she wants Mindy to be there when she flaunts

1932
01:33:54,960 --> 01:33:57,599
Speaker 3: that big old engagement ring in the office and gets

1933
01:33:57,680 --> 01:33:59,280
Speaker 3: jealous when we get married.

1934
01:34:01,640 --> 01:34:05,840
Speaker 2: We hugged, We.

1935
01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:07,680
Speaker 3: Hugged, and I felt so relieved that I had a

1936
01:34:07,760 --> 01:34:09,880
Speaker 3: chance to make things right for her. I asked her

1937
01:34:09,960 --> 01:34:12,479
Speaker 3: to stay and she agreed. The rest of the evening.

1938
01:34:12,560 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 3: The rest of the evening was so nice. We ordered

1939
01:34:15,120 --> 01:34:18,400
Speaker 3: door Dash and watched reruns of Top Chef while cuddling on.

1940
01:34:18,320 --> 01:34:21,479
Speaker 1: Oh, that's exactly what you want, so cute, that's what

1941
01:34:21,520 --> 01:34:23,120
Speaker 1: you love to hear, so cute.

1942
01:34:23,720 --> 01:34:25,880
Speaker 2: In the morning, we discussed moving back in together.

1943
01:34:26,120 --> 01:34:28,439
Speaker 3: I want her to move back into our old apartment,

1944
01:34:28,720 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 3: but she wants a fresh start and asked me if

1945
01:34:31,200 --> 01:34:34,080
Speaker 3: I was willing to move into her new apartment. Her

1946
01:34:34,120 --> 01:34:37,320
Speaker 3: new apartment is tiny compared to our current one and

1947
01:34:37,520 --> 01:34:40,080
Speaker 3: also not in the best neighborhood, but we will decide

1948
01:34:40,120 --> 01:34:42,000
Speaker 3: to talk about it more, and decided later.

1949
01:34:43,560 --> 01:34:45,599
Speaker 1: What do you got right for us?

1950
01:34:46,160 --> 01:34:48,280
Speaker 5: She just signed the lease and she's like, I can't.

1951
01:34:48,400 --> 01:34:49,599
Speaker 5: I've put a deposit down there.

1952
01:34:50,920 --> 01:34:53,719
Speaker 1: She has bad vibe. Let's move to the worst part

1953
01:34:53,760 --> 01:34:57,559
Speaker 1: of her place and a terrible neighborhood. You need a

1954
01:34:57,600 --> 01:34:58,800
Speaker 1: fresh start.

1955
01:34:58,439 --> 01:34:59,200
Speaker 2: Let's freaking go.

1956
01:35:00,680 --> 01:35:03,800
Speaker 3: I also will have to deal with the issue of

1957
01:35:03,880 --> 01:35:07,000
Speaker 3: having two twelve month leases and how to get out

1958
01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:07,640
Speaker 3: of one of them.

1959
01:35:07,800 --> 01:35:11,559
Speaker 1: Dude, this seems like a bad idea. Yeah, you don't

1960
01:35:11,600 --> 01:35:13,800
Speaker 1: need to sign a new lease just because there's like

1961
01:35:13,840 --> 01:35:16,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, mindy juices or just like sad and tea.

1962
01:35:16,479 --> 01:35:20,080
Speaker 3: That's also also there's way more like a happy memories

1963
01:35:20,120 --> 01:35:21,679
Speaker 3: of the relationship in the old apartment.

1964
01:35:21,840 --> 01:35:22,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1965
01:35:22,680 --> 01:35:25,920
Speaker 3: If anything, the new apartment is tainted because she had

1966
01:35:25,960 --> 01:35:27,160
Speaker 3: to get that new apartment.

1967
01:35:26,760 --> 01:35:29,160
Speaker 1: Because I know because of mindy. I don't know what

1968
01:35:29,200 --> 01:35:31,719
Speaker 1: are you guys say? Are you pro get new apartment

1969
01:35:31,960 --> 01:35:33,920
Speaker 1: or are you pro keep the old place?

1970
01:35:33,960 --> 01:35:35,240
Speaker 2: A new apartment or old apartment?

1971
01:35:35,280 --> 01:35:36,759
Speaker 1: Slurp up the MINDI juice.

1972
01:35:37,320 --> 01:35:42,719
Speaker 3: Goodness gracious, But currently, Julie went to her apartment after

1973
01:35:42,720 --> 01:35:44,320
Speaker 3: we got lunch to get some of her stuff for

1974
01:35:44,320 --> 01:35:47,479
Speaker 3: the week, and I am now writing this post. I

1975
01:35:47,600 --> 01:35:50,360
Speaker 3: just feel so lucky that I did not lose Julie

1976
01:35:50,400 --> 01:35:53,479
Speaker 3: despite my terrible actions during the last month. I just

1977
01:35:53,520 --> 01:35:55,639
Speaker 3: hope that we're able to work things out and get

1978
01:35:55,640 --> 01:35:58,439
Speaker 3: married soon. And this whole incident is just a small

1979
01:35:58,479 --> 01:36:00,559
Speaker 3: bump in our perfect relationship ship.

1980
01:36:02,200 --> 01:36:07,560
Speaker 1: Perfect relationship. That's a little bit of a stretch. Perfect

1981
01:36:07,640 --> 01:36:10,639
Speaker 1: relations I don't know about that for love.

1982
01:36:11,720 --> 01:36:14,240
Speaker 3: I also don't know how to address the issue where

1983
01:36:14,280 --> 01:36:17,040
Speaker 3: she feels coddled by my behavior and feels like I'm

1984
01:36:17,080 --> 01:36:19,040
Speaker 3: making her code dependent on me, which is a little

1985
01:36:19,080 --> 01:36:21,080
Speaker 3: tough because he's just, you know, kind of trying to.

1986
01:36:21,040 --> 01:36:22,120
Speaker 1: Help stop doing nice shit.

1987
01:36:22,320 --> 01:36:25,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just my personality and I need to work

1988
01:36:25,400 --> 01:36:27,960
Speaker 3: on that during my couple therapy. However, any tips from

1989
01:36:28,000 --> 01:36:30,240
Speaker 3: you guys are welcome on how to make her feel

1990
01:36:30,600 --> 01:36:33,800
Speaker 3: less codependent. PS thanks to everyone who checked on my

1991
01:36:33,840 --> 01:36:36,439
Speaker 3: health during the last few days via DMS and sent

1992
01:36:36,520 --> 01:36:40,519
Speaker 3: me messages for helpliness. Don't worry, I am a marathon runner.

1993
01:36:40,680 --> 01:36:43,000
Speaker 3: I am a marathon runner, and I don't give up

1994
01:36:43,240 --> 01:36:46,800
Speaker 3: that easy. And ladies and gentlemen. Ladies and gentlemen. Yeah,

1995
01:36:46,840 --> 01:36:49,639
Speaker 3: we still have a few little, quick relevant comments. But okay,

1996
01:36:50,800 --> 01:36:53,880
Speaker 3: let's I think let's die. Then John right put the

1997
01:36:53,880 --> 01:36:55,960
Speaker 3: camera on John for a second, trying to check something.

1998
01:36:56,000 --> 01:36:59,120
Speaker 3: But John dive into some of the comments that the

1999
01:36:59,160 --> 01:37:01,479
Speaker 3: people have been saying absolutely.

2000
01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:02,040
Speaker 1: So.

2001
01:37:02,520 --> 01:37:04,280
Speaker 2: We have a few comments here.

2002
01:37:05,040 --> 01:37:08,719
Speaker 3: We have some from Lady Hayak keep the old place,

2003
01:37:08,920 --> 01:37:13,640
Speaker 3: so I personally am pro keeping the old place. We

2004
01:37:13,680 --> 01:37:18,639
Speaker 3: also had Leslie and Macdery I totally mispronounced that sorry

2005
01:37:18,800 --> 01:37:22,040
Speaker 3: saying old apartment and Luna Moon saying old apartment is better.

2006
01:37:23,040 --> 01:37:27,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I am one hundred percent in on moving into

2007
01:37:27,040 --> 01:37:28,200
Speaker 2: the old apartment. Again.

2008
01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:31,160
Speaker 3: I think that they had more happy memories, They had

2009
01:37:31,240 --> 01:37:34,840
Speaker 3: more good things that happened in the old apartment than

2010
01:37:35,000 --> 01:37:36,040
Speaker 3: the new apartment.

2011
01:37:35,760 --> 01:37:39,639
Speaker 2: Which is literally completely and utterly tainted.

2012
01:37:40,560 --> 01:37:44,800
Speaker 3: I also wonder from you all if you could throw

2013
01:37:44,880 --> 01:37:50,680
Speaker 3: some hold on red flags in the comments below and

2014
01:37:50,840 --> 01:37:53,439
Speaker 3: tell me if you think it was a red flag

2015
01:37:54,560 --> 01:37:59,719
Speaker 3: for Julie no longer wanting to discuss this incident ever again,

2016
01:38:00,320 --> 01:38:05,880
Speaker 3: because I do think that, you know, it was something

2017
01:38:05,920 --> 01:38:08,240
Speaker 3: that is worth discussing, especially the fact that they're going on.

2018
01:38:08,360 --> 01:38:11,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, it's it's like like you're gonna have

2019
01:38:11,439 --> 01:38:13,679
Speaker 1: to look under it at some point, because I think

2020
01:38:13,720 --> 01:38:15,600
Speaker 1: what will happen if you don't look at it is

2021
01:38:15,600 --> 01:38:16,799
Speaker 1: they'll be building resentment.

2022
01:38:17,320 --> 01:38:20,320
Speaker 2: What Jane Jackson says, just throw out the old sheets.

2023
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:27,559
Speaker 1: The only thing we gotta get at it heredess gracious,

2024
01:38:27,560 --> 01:38:28,479
Speaker 1: oh oh and then wow.

2025
01:38:28,760 --> 01:38:31,120
Speaker 3: Further on that, Bernie Gross says, buy a new mattress.

2026
01:38:31,120 --> 01:38:32,720
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be able to sleep in the same bed

2027
01:38:32,760 --> 01:38:34,720
Speaker 3: as Mandy. I mean, you know what, getting rid of

2028
01:38:34,720 --> 01:38:36,040
Speaker 3: the sheets, getting rid of the mattress, but.

2029
01:38:36,400 --> 01:38:39,280
Speaker 1: Deeper than getting a new apartment in a neighborhood.

2030
01:38:39,400 --> 01:38:40,160
Speaker 2: That's that's right.

2031
01:38:40,240 --> 01:38:44,400
Speaker 1: Yes, but I uh do have some relevant comments.

2032
01:38:44,560 --> 01:38:45,479
Speaker 2: We have some quick ones.

2033
01:38:46,280 --> 01:38:48,439
Speaker 1: Let's hit it. But we do have another story coming.

2034
01:38:48,560 --> 01:38:52,280
Speaker 1: So uh just get in your seat and get ready because.

2035
01:38:51,960 --> 01:38:53,200
Speaker 4: We're we're going.

2036
01:38:53,200 --> 01:38:55,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna go hard on this stream. This tream is

2037
01:38:55,320 --> 01:38:56,160
Speaker 1: going for a while.

2038
01:38:56,280 --> 01:38:59,760
Speaker 3: That is correct, Stay around, ladies and gentlemen. First one

2039
01:38:59,800 --> 01:39:00,960
Speaker 3: come from Debbie Coleman.

2040
01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:01,519
Speaker 2: Ten ten.

2041
01:39:01,840 --> 01:39:08,120
Speaker 3: So what happened to Mindy? Opie responds, no idea. As

2042
01:39:08,120 --> 01:39:10,479
Speaker 3: far as I'm concerned, she doesn't exist because remember, one

2043
01:39:10,479 --> 01:39:13,600
Speaker 3: of the conditions is to go completely no contact.

2044
01:39:13,280 --> 01:39:14,920
Speaker 1: Potential, which she is smart.

2045
01:39:15,000 --> 01:39:15,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2046
01:39:15,760 --> 01:39:18,240
Speaker 3: Ocean Breeze one two three says so it was Mindy

2047
01:39:18,280 --> 01:39:21,559
Speaker 3: who suggested to Julie that you take the break, OPI Yes,

2048
01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:24,720
Speaker 3: Mindy told Julie that she should take a break, and

2049
01:39:24,800 --> 01:39:27,719
Speaker 3: at the same time told me that Julie just wanted

2050
01:39:27,720 --> 01:39:30,360
Speaker 3: to break up with me because she was unhappy with me.

2051
01:39:31,080 --> 01:39:33,760
Speaker 3: I thought the break. I thought a break meant that

2052
01:39:33,840 --> 01:39:35,880
Speaker 3: she wanted to move away and I would never see

2053
01:39:35,920 --> 01:39:39,040
Speaker 3: her again if I said yes. Eight Marshmallows, a great

2054
01:39:39,120 --> 01:39:41,519
Speaker 3: user name, says, I don't know how you can make

2055
01:39:41,560 --> 01:39:43,960
Speaker 3: someone who can't even stay alone in their part in

2056
01:39:44,000 --> 01:39:47,679
Speaker 3: their own apartment less codependent. She needs her own therapist

2057
01:39:47,760 --> 01:39:50,800
Speaker 3: to make that happen, or she will again blame you

2058
01:39:50,840 --> 01:39:52,040
Speaker 3: for quote unquote making.

2059
01:39:51,880 --> 01:39:52,360
Speaker 2: Her that way.

2060
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:55,519
Speaker 3: Opie says, yes, she is looking for one right now.

2061
01:39:55,760 --> 01:39:57,640
Speaker 3: I have been in therapy and it takes time to

2062
01:39:57,640 --> 01:40:00,559
Speaker 3: find the right therapist that helps you big facts. At

2063
01:40:00,640 --> 01:40:03,080
Speaker 3: least now we have discussed this issue, so it will

2064
01:40:03,120 --> 01:40:06,160
Speaker 3: be easier for us to see the signs and work

2065
01:40:06,439 --> 01:40:07,559
Speaker 3: on them together.

2066
01:40:08,640 --> 01:40:12,599
Speaker 1: All right, Well, I progress, progress, progress, and that's all

2067
01:40:12,640 --> 01:40:15,719
Speaker 1: way that we could ask for. Definitely a way better

2068
01:40:15,840 --> 01:40:21,479
Speaker 1: place than we were. Yeah, that was that was wild

2069
01:40:21,479 --> 01:40:23,599
Speaker 1: And I'm glad they cut off contact with Mindy, which

2070
01:40:23,840 --> 01:40:26,400
Speaker 1: seems like the right thing to do. Yes, but I

2071
01:40:26,479 --> 01:40:28,320
Speaker 1: also am glad that you guys are not cutting off

2072
01:40:28,360 --> 01:40:32,200
Speaker 1: contact with us because Jack Glenn Diu, we love you too.

2073
01:40:32,280 --> 01:40:35,679
Speaker 1: Thank you for saying that you love us, and Nicole

2074
01:40:35,720 --> 01:40:39,679
Speaker 1: Stewart says, perfect long live stream, I enjoy watching your videos. Well,

2075
01:40:39,840 --> 01:40:42,840
Speaker 1: get buckled out because we are about to get into

2076
01:40:42,840 --> 01:40:45,439
Speaker 1: another story. So, oh man, this is a great one.

2077
01:40:45,560 --> 01:40:49,679
Speaker 1: Am the a hole for revealing my brother's body count

2078
01:40:50,120 --> 01:40:57,479
Speaker 1: to his fiance? What do you think?

2079
01:40:57,520 --> 01:41:03,640
Speaker 2: John? Yeah? Yeah, why you gotta be this is information

2080
01:41:03,840 --> 01:41:05,519
Speaker 2: you don't need to be now.

2081
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:10,240
Speaker 3: Now, now the two of them in the relationship, they

2082
01:41:10,240 --> 01:41:13,280
Speaker 3: can discuss that they rested that totally. Hey, talk about

2083
01:41:13,320 --> 01:41:16,160
Speaker 3: it one hundred percent. But you last time I've checked

2084
01:41:16,200 --> 01:41:19,400
Speaker 3: my sister are not in marral matic relationships.

2085
01:41:19,960 --> 01:41:20,360
Speaker 2: Hello.

2086
01:41:20,600 --> 01:41:25,479
Speaker 1: Also put your body counts at the job, Sam and

2087
01:41:25,560 --> 01:41:29,280
Speaker 1: John being ready? Yeah, all right, so we're not hydriading.

2088
01:41:30,040 --> 01:41:32,960
Speaker 1: This is actually very uh, this is this is this

2089
01:41:33,000 --> 01:41:35,800
Speaker 1: is very very recent. In January nineteen, twenty twenty four.

2090
01:41:35,920 --> 01:41:39,320
Speaker 1: So I, thirty female, was out having a girls' night

2091
01:41:39,360 --> 01:41:42,960
Speaker 1: with my little brothers twenty eight female, my fiance twenty

2092
01:41:43,000 --> 01:41:46,400
Speaker 1: four female. They recently got engaged after dating for about

2093
01:41:46,439 --> 01:41:46,840
Speaker 1: a year.

2094
01:41:47,240 --> 01:41:48,320
Speaker 2: Congrats, there you go.

2095
01:41:48,600 --> 01:41:51,040
Speaker 1: I enjoy hanging out with my soon to be sister

2096
01:41:51,040 --> 01:41:53,879
Speaker 1: in law, and this was one of the only times

2097
01:41:53,920 --> 01:41:56,280
Speaker 1: I've hung out with her without my brother in toel.

2098
01:41:56,800 --> 01:41:58,960
Speaker 1: So we're all having a ball and most of us

2099
01:41:58,960 --> 01:42:01,360
Speaker 1: were a bit tipsy and started asking me about my

2100
01:42:01,560 --> 01:42:05,479
Speaker 1: marriage and some more intimate questions like how does it

2101
01:42:05,520 --> 01:42:07,880
Speaker 1: feel to be with one person for the rest of

2102
01:42:07,920 --> 01:42:10,479
Speaker 1: your life? And all that jazz you're going to be

2103
01:42:10,520 --> 01:42:13,840
Speaker 1: able to do it. Following the conversation, someone in the

2104
01:42:13,840 --> 01:42:17,800
Speaker 1: group asked everyone how many folks each gal has slept with.

2105
01:42:18,800 --> 01:42:22,000
Speaker 1: I honestly wasn't comfortable with the conversation, but my soon

2106
01:42:22,160 --> 01:42:24,600
Speaker 1: to be sister in law sort of took hold of

2107
01:42:24,600 --> 01:42:27,719
Speaker 1: the topic and mentioned that her and my brother don't

2108
01:42:27,760 --> 01:42:31,439
Speaker 1: concern themselves with each other's pass which I think is

2109
01:42:31,600 --> 01:42:32,560
Speaker 1: someone healthy.

2110
01:42:32,680 --> 01:42:35,160
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, it's not necessarily you're not sitting like, all right,

2111
01:42:35,360 --> 01:42:36,880
Speaker 2: how many people you bang? Brother?

2112
01:42:37,479 --> 01:42:41,920
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I feel like it's fairly unrelevant,

2113
01:42:42,000 --> 01:42:45,280
Speaker 1: at least to me. But her words were, the past

2114
01:42:45,479 --> 01:42:48,200
Speaker 1: stays in the past, and if you slept with twenty women,

2115
01:42:48,720 --> 01:42:50,040
Speaker 1: that does.

2116
01:42:49,840 --> 01:42:51,880
Speaker 2: Not matter to her? What about thirty?

2117
01:42:52,280 --> 01:42:55,120
Speaker 1: What about forty? What about fifty? I actually actually have

2118
01:42:55,120 --> 01:42:58,640
Speaker 1: a question. Is there a deal breaker number for the

2119
01:42:58,720 --> 01:43:02,200
Speaker 1: amount of people someone slept with? Like so like body

2120
01:43:02,200 --> 01:43:06,720
Speaker 1: count forty thousand? Yeah, forty thousand, assuming they're like they're like,

2121
01:43:06,760 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 1: you know, it's still healthy and all that. You know

2122
01:43:09,479 --> 01:43:11,800
Speaker 1: that all is yeah, let us know. Do you have

2123
01:43:11,840 --> 01:43:15,000
Speaker 1: a deal breaker? A body count? But Opie says, I

2124
01:43:15,040 --> 01:43:18,639
Speaker 1: agree with her, But this is where I probably messed up.

2125
01:43:19,400 --> 01:43:23,439
Speaker 1: A little brother was somewhat adventurous in his late teens

2126
01:43:23,600 --> 01:43:26,920
Speaker 1: early twenties. He was a college athlete and in a frat.

2127
01:43:27,280 --> 01:43:28,400
Speaker 2: Oh boy, but.

2128
01:43:28,400 --> 01:43:30,280
Speaker 3: I see you in the comments if you know what's

2129
01:43:30,360 --> 01:43:31,479
Speaker 3: what we're about to see?

2130
01:43:31,560 --> 01:43:35,120
Speaker 1: And also can you guess what the body count is?

2131
01:43:35,240 --> 01:43:37,519
Speaker 1: Guess it? As we went to the same college, we

2132
01:43:37,520 --> 01:43:40,280
Speaker 1: had a lot of mutual friends, and this is information

2133
01:43:40,400 --> 01:43:43,160
Speaker 1: that was made aware to me without my wanting. So

2134
01:43:43,320 --> 01:43:47,679
Speaker 1: I know the ballpark of his body count is well

2135
01:43:47,760 --> 01:43:51,600
Speaker 1: over fifty women, probably closer to one hundred. And my

2136
01:43:51,720 --> 01:43:54,439
Speaker 1: brother confirmed this to me when I asked him if

2137
01:43:54,439 --> 01:43:56,760
Speaker 1: he was being safe with decisions at the time, eg.

2138
01:43:56,920 --> 01:44:00,439
Speaker 1: Going to the doctor and getting tested and such. Followed up,

2139
01:44:00,439 --> 01:44:03,439
Speaker 1: her comment was something like, and even if it was

2140
01:44:03,520 --> 01:44:07,000
Speaker 1: a huge number like thirty five people or so, I

2141
01:44:07,000 --> 01:44:13,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't care. Her saying that prompted me to ask what

2142
01:44:13,439 --> 01:44:19,160
Speaker 1: if it was fifty, which also at least he's using

2143
01:44:19,200 --> 01:44:22,360
Speaker 1: the conservative side to the scale. He said hundreds. But

2144
01:44:22,400 --> 01:44:27,639
Speaker 1: all right, stopping right here, is it a red flag?

2145
01:44:27,840 --> 01:44:31,000
Speaker 1: One of OP to say this is it a and

2146
01:44:31,080 --> 01:44:33,920
Speaker 1: also like like what do you think of OP saying

2147
01:44:34,160 --> 01:44:35,080
Speaker 1: asking that question?

2148
01:44:36,160 --> 01:44:39,040
Speaker 2: Okay? So and again so this is OP. Who is

2149
01:44:39,120 --> 01:44:40,559
Speaker 2: the sister?

2150
01:44:42,000 --> 01:44:45,840
Speaker 1: So just a reminder, I thirty female? Yep, I was

2151
01:44:45,880 --> 01:44:49,120
Speaker 1: out having a girl's net with my little brother's twenty

2152
01:44:49,160 --> 01:44:54,280
Speaker 1: eight male fiance, twenty four female. So they're out, So

2153
01:44:54,439 --> 01:44:59,519
Speaker 1: thirty female OP and twenty four female fiance. Oh, sister,

2154
01:45:00,080 --> 01:45:01,080
Speaker 1: he's the sister of the brother.

2155
01:45:01,280 --> 01:45:03,479
Speaker 2: Yes, and she's the one that was like, what about fifty?

2156
01:45:03,560 --> 01:45:04,600
Speaker 1: What about fifty.

2157
01:45:06,720 --> 01:45:07,040
Speaker 2: Again?

2158
01:45:07,160 --> 01:45:07,880
Speaker 1: Asshole or not?

2159
01:45:07,960 --> 01:45:08,360
Speaker 2: Asshole?

2160
01:45:09,320 --> 01:45:14,599
Speaker 3: I would say boink, asshole and red flag because again,

2161
01:45:14,720 --> 01:45:19,000
Speaker 3: like just by saying the question, you have now revealed

2162
01:45:19,640 --> 01:45:22,840
Speaker 3: a number, a number, And honestly, what is she? What

2163
01:45:22,920 --> 01:45:24,920
Speaker 3: is what would any human want to they would want

2164
01:45:24,960 --> 01:45:28,240
Speaker 3: to know? Curiosity will kill the cat? Yeah, So if

2165
01:45:28,240 --> 01:45:30,360
Speaker 3: she keeps going down the rabbit hole and the fiance,

2166
01:45:31,000 --> 01:45:33,759
Speaker 3: is she gonna find out that actually we're talking about

2167
01:45:33,800 --> 01:45:36,919
Speaker 3: air arrangement fifty to one hundred bodies.

2168
01:45:38,920 --> 01:45:43,840
Speaker 1: Do you think she's gonna take the bait and go

2169
01:45:43,920 --> 01:45:46,960
Speaker 1: down the rabbit hole. Is Alice falling down the rabbit hole?

2170
01:45:47,520 --> 01:45:51,599
Speaker 1: Let's put our conspiracy theory hats on. What do you think?

2171
01:45:53,200 --> 01:45:53,760
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

2172
01:45:53,840 --> 01:45:56,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, it's gonna take the bait. Absolutely debait. Yeah,

2173
01:45:56,680 --> 01:45:58,760
Speaker 1: what do you guys think? But your answer is in

2174
01:45:58,800 --> 01:46:03,519
Speaker 1: the comments. Opie has sown a seed, but not as

2175
01:46:03,560 --> 01:46:04,719
Speaker 1: many as her brother.

2176
01:46:04,840 --> 01:46:08,040
Speaker 2: So right, that's amazing right now, by the way, off, yeah,

2177
01:46:08,160 --> 01:46:08,839
Speaker 2: what a cute.

2178
01:46:11,120 --> 01:46:14,599
Speaker 1: All right, let's go down this hole just like Op's okay,

2179
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Speaker 1: oh uh. She got a sort of strange look on

2180
01:46:17,200 --> 01:46:23,120
Speaker 1: her face and mouth the word fifty fifty, but I

2181
01:46:23,160 --> 01:46:25,600
Speaker 1: played it off like I didn't know what I was

2182
01:46:25,640 --> 01:46:28,880
Speaker 1: talking about and more so curious about what her cutoff

2183
01:46:28,960 --> 01:46:32,960
Speaker 1: range for a lot is. Fast forward a few days

2184
01:46:33,040 --> 01:46:35,000
Speaker 1: and I meet them both for lunch and she seems

2185
01:46:35,040 --> 01:46:37,559
Speaker 1: sort of sullen and my brother is being short with me.

2186
01:46:38,680 --> 01:46:40,679
Speaker 1: When she goes to the bathroom. I ask my brother

2187
01:46:40,720 --> 01:46:44,240
Speaker 1: what's up, and he basically blames me for having revealed

2188
01:46:44,360 --> 01:46:48,040
Speaker 1: his past sexual history to his fiance, and now she's

2189
01:46:48,160 --> 01:46:51,840
Speaker 1: acting strange towards him, which I guess, which is what

2190
01:46:51,880 --> 01:46:54,839
Speaker 1: we were saying before, like transparency with your your partner,

2191
01:46:55,520 --> 01:46:58,400
Speaker 1: like I feel like maybe being transparent about your past

2192
01:46:59,240 --> 01:47:01,400
Speaker 1: will make it so things like this don't happen. Drop

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01:47:01,400 --> 01:47:03,920
Speaker 1: the body acount OPI is still the A hole? But yes,

2194
01:47:04,360 --> 01:47:06,639
Speaker 1: but but if they already knew, they already new wouldn't

2195
01:47:06,640 --> 01:47:08,920
Speaker 1: an issue. But if they already knew, would they have

2196
01:47:08,960 --> 01:47:12,759
Speaker 1: stayed together? True? I explained that it was a slip

2197
01:47:12,760 --> 01:47:14,680
Speaker 1: of the tongue and I didn't confirm any number. But

2198
01:47:14,720 --> 01:47:16,360
Speaker 1: now he has pissed and a couple of our mutual

2199
01:47:16,360 --> 01:47:20,200
Speaker 1: friends have let me know. I have fed up? Am

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01:47:20,320 --> 01:47:22,840
Speaker 1: I the A hole? And there is there is a

2201
01:47:23,040 --> 01:47:26,880
Speaker 1: relevant some relevant comments and an update which we will read.

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01:47:26,960 --> 01:47:29,320
Speaker 1: But what do you guys think? Is OP the A hole?

2203
01:47:29,960 --> 01:47:31,519
Speaker 2: Let us know in the comments below.

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01:47:31,560 --> 01:47:33,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and Joe, what do you think? I?

2205
01:47:33,920 --> 01:47:35,200
Speaker 2: So let's break it down a little bit.

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01:47:36,960 --> 01:47:39,000
Speaker 3: Yes, she did like ask a question, But the thing is,

2207
01:47:39,040 --> 01:47:43,240
Speaker 3: she revealed the information in the question. I truly think

2208
01:47:43,479 --> 01:47:47,200
Speaker 3: that the sister should have just kept her mouth closed.

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01:47:47,439 --> 01:47:50,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and A hole moved to ask the question.

2210
01:47:50,600 --> 01:47:52,280
Speaker 2: Here's a question. Would she be an A hole if

2211
01:47:52,280 --> 01:47:55,320
Speaker 2: she went to the brother and was like, your fiance

2212
01:47:55,439 --> 01:47:57,080
Speaker 2: thinks thirty five is a high number?

2213
01:47:57,400 --> 01:48:01,000
Speaker 1: Maybe that I don't think so. I don't think so,

2214
01:48:01,280 --> 01:48:03,360
Speaker 1: but I think like, like, hey, maybe this is something

2215
01:48:03,360 --> 01:48:05,479
Speaker 1: you want to get ahead of. Someone in the chat

2216
01:48:05,840 --> 01:48:08,880
Speaker 1: is right if you scroll up a little bit, they

2217
01:48:08,960 --> 01:48:14,320
Speaker 1: said a little bit more. Uh Yeah, transparency Kim Kwant says,

2218
01:48:14,320 --> 01:48:17,439
Speaker 1: transparency is so important relationships. And I think it is

2219
01:48:17,479 --> 01:48:20,880
Speaker 1: because it's like you're the truth comes out. The truth

2220
01:48:20,920 --> 01:48:22,840
Speaker 1: comes out, and if you, if it comes out from you,

2221
01:48:22,880 --> 01:48:27,559
Speaker 1: maybe it'll things will be a little bit easier. Yeah. Still,

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01:48:27,560 --> 01:48:30,479
Speaker 1: OPI is the a hole to be clear, but much

2223
01:48:30,479 --> 01:48:32,360
Speaker 1: better to be fully upfront. So I don't think OP

2224
01:48:32,439 --> 01:48:34,800
Speaker 1: would be the a hole for saying like, hey, just

2225
01:48:34,960 --> 01:48:36,360
Speaker 1: heads up, maybe you should get ahead of this.

2226
01:48:37,120 --> 01:48:39,799
Speaker 3: So but in reality, OPI is the ahole by art decree.

2227
01:48:39,840 --> 01:48:43,360
Speaker 3: But you you disagree, you want to let's talk about

2228
01:48:43,520 --> 01:48:45,719
Speaker 3: Let's come on and talk about those comments.

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01:48:46,000 --> 01:48:48,519
Speaker 1: Dustin Bilbo. The line says, like, why is OP out

2230
01:48:48,520 --> 01:48:49,839
Speaker 1: here thorough pots?

2231
01:48:50,320 --> 01:48:50,479
Speaker 2: Uh?

2232
01:48:51,360 --> 01:48:55,120
Speaker 1: Because because OP maybe likes it, Hope wants this thorough

2233
01:48:55,120 --> 01:48:56,840
Speaker 1: little pot. Maybe OP he's a cook. We've had a

2234
01:48:56,880 --> 01:48:59,080
Speaker 1: lot of OP is being controlled by a little French

2235
01:48:59,160 --> 01:49:01,240
Speaker 1: rat who knows really don't know. But let's get into

2236
01:49:01,240 --> 01:49:03,960
Speaker 1: the relevant comment. So typical internet seven thirty says you

2237
01:49:04,160 --> 01:49:06,800
Speaker 1: are the asshole, but I think you wanted her to

2238
01:49:06,800 --> 01:49:08,800
Speaker 1: know once she said such a low number compared to

2239
01:49:08,800 --> 01:49:11,200
Speaker 1: the truth. I think you believe your brother was reckless

2240
01:49:11,200 --> 01:49:14,639
Speaker 1: in using women, so she needed to know his past. Personally,

2241
01:49:14,680 --> 01:49:17,000
Speaker 1: I bet he was reckless in using women, but I

2242
01:49:17,000 --> 01:49:19,120
Speaker 1: have to assume it was consensual. He was given the

2243
01:49:19,120 --> 01:49:21,080
Speaker 1: opportunity to have a ton of sex and he took it.

2244
01:49:21,200 --> 01:49:23,439
Speaker 1: But I think only he should be the one discussing

2245
01:49:23,520 --> 01:49:28,640
Speaker 1: numbers with maybe not future sister in law. Thing oh Ophie,

2246
01:49:29,880 --> 01:49:32,920
Speaker 1: the comment is jumping. Once you put that number in

2247
01:49:32,920 --> 01:49:35,320
Speaker 1: the air, it was over. She is now obviously hurt

2248
01:49:35,320 --> 01:49:37,120
Speaker 1: to hear it. She may have believed it was high,

2249
01:49:37,160 --> 01:49:40,160
Speaker 1: but not knowing was easier. This is a very tough

2250
01:49:40,200 --> 01:49:44,040
Speaker 1: situation now, and their relationship may never recover, which I

2251
01:49:44,040 --> 01:49:46,360
Speaker 1: think could be true possible, or maybe it will, but

2252
01:49:46,400 --> 01:49:48,360
Speaker 1: it's going to take time. You force them to have

2253
01:49:48,439 --> 01:49:51,200
Speaker 1: a conversation they agreed to avoid, so be prepared to

2254
01:49:51,240 --> 01:49:54,439
Speaker 1: lose your brother for a while or possibly forever. I

2255
01:49:54,479 --> 01:49:56,800
Speaker 1: don't know if that may be true, but maybe I'm

2256
01:49:56,800 --> 01:49:58,760
Speaker 1: betting you meant no harm or malice, but now you

2257
01:49:58,760 --> 01:50:02,000
Speaker 1: have to live with the repercussions. Good luck repairing a relationship,

2258
01:50:02,040 --> 01:50:04,120
Speaker 1: and I hope they are able to move forward with

2259
01:50:04,200 --> 01:50:08,360
Speaker 1: theirs and op does respond, Yeah, I can accept I

2260
01:50:08,400 --> 01:50:10,320
Speaker 1: was totally the a hole in the situation, but I

2261
01:50:10,439 --> 01:50:12,360
Speaker 1: really did not mean to be the a hole. For

2262
01:50:12,400 --> 01:50:14,559
Speaker 1: what is worth. My brother and soon to be sister

2263
01:50:14,560 --> 01:50:16,800
Speaker 1: in law are fine now. She actually did text me

2264
01:50:17,200 --> 01:50:20,280
Speaker 1: sort of thanking me for alluding to it. In the end,

2265
01:50:20,360 --> 01:50:22,920
Speaker 1: it hasn't changed anything between them. My brother and I

2266
01:50:22,920 --> 01:50:25,920
Speaker 1: are all right. It really was just one lunch that

2267
01:50:25,960 --> 01:50:28,320
Speaker 1: he was like, what the f dude. In the end,

2268
01:50:28,400 --> 01:50:31,160
Speaker 1: he knows it was not out of malice, which is good.

2269
01:50:31,600 --> 01:50:33,600
Speaker 1: That is, if the relationship was strong enough to weather it.

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01:50:33,720 --> 01:50:35,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent, Yeah I would.

2271
01:50:35,680 --> 01:50:38,280
Speaker 3: I would hope that the brother and sister relationship would

2272
01:50:38,280 --> 01:50:40,720
Speaker 3: also be able to continue.

2273
01:50:40,439 --> 01:50:42,200
Speaker 1: Which I think it will. And there are is a

2274
01:50:42,200 --> 01:50:44,439
Speaker 1: more relevant comments and an update.

2275
01:50:44,520 --> 01:50:45,439
Speaker 2: Okay, there we go.

2276
01:50:45,640 --> 01:50:49,320
Speaker 1: So Bori sty seventeen says, what was the best possible

2277
01:50:49,400 --> 01:50:52,800
Speaker 1: outcome for this? In your head? Opie says, there just

2278
01:50:53,000 --> 01:50:55,679
Speaker 1: wasn't enough thought in terms of the best possible outcome.

2279
01:50:55,720 --> 01:50:58,360
Speaker 1: I was just taken by surprise that her high theoretical

2280
01:50:58,439 --> 01:51:01,840
Speaker 1: number was so much less than his actual number, his

2281
01:51:01,920 --> 01:51:05,799
Speaker 1: actual bottom range number, his bottom range, emphasis on bottom.

2282
01:51:06,080 --> 01:51:11,720
Speaker 1: But uh, we have another update, so shall we get

2283
01:51:11,760 --> 01:51:15,000
Speaker 1: into it's do it all right? So this is January

2284
01:51:15,040 --> 01:51:18,200
Speaker 1: twenty second, twenty twenty four, So this this is like

2285
01:51:18,520 --> 01:51:21,400
Speaker 1: a few days ago, less than a week ago. That's right,

2286
01:51:22,160 --> 01:51:26,639
Speaker 1: Kitty B Hello, hello to you as well. I showed

2287
01:51:26,680 --> 01:51:29,800
Speaker 1: my brother the post after apologizing for my mistake, and

2288
01:51:30,080 --> 01:51:33,519
Speaker 1: mostly he laughed but was baffled at the hostel applies.

2289
01:51:34,000 --> 01:51:36,240
Speaker 1: My brother and future sister in law are fine. My

2290
01:51:36,240 --> 01:51:38,640
Speaker 1: future sister in law actually approached me privately and let

2291
01:51:38,720 --> 01:51:41,360
Speaker 1: me know she was happy to have the conversation now

2292
01:51:41,680 --> 01:51:44,800
Speaker 1: with my brother versus later. She did say it was

2293
01:51:44,840 --> 01:51:47,240
Speaker 1: a shock when he told her his sexual history, but

2294
01:51:47,320 --> 01:51:50,400
Speaker 1: at that point I excuse myself out of the conversation

2295
01:51:50,479 --> 01:51:52,679
Speaker 1: and let her know I would not be having any

2296
01:51:52,680 --> 01:51:55,679
Speaker 1: discussions about my brother's sexual history from here on out.

2297
01:51:56,040 --> 01:51:58,800
Speaker 1: My brother is not plotting his revenge like commenters and

2298
01:51:58,880 --> 01:52:02,679
Speaker 1: messengers implied. Damn Rudd. It isn't really going after people's

2299
01:52:02,720 --> 01:52:03,519
Speaker 1: throats here.

2300
01:52:03,840 --> 01:52:04,679
Speaker 2: Goodness, jeez.

2301
01:52:05,479 --> 01:52:08,320
Speaker 1: He understands that although this was not in my court

2302
01:52:08,479 --> 01:52:11,160
Speaker 1: to say, he probably shouldn't have waved it off at

2303
01:52:11,200 --> 01:52:14,400
Speaker 1: the early stages of their relationship like he had done. Yes,

2304
01:52:14,560 --> 01:52:17,160
Speaker 1: brother and future system in law are still together. To

2305
01:52:17,200 --> 01:52:23,320
Speaker 1: the internet psychologists who diagnosed me with psychopathy and narcissism,

2306
01:52:23,760 --> 01:52:28,120
Speaker 1: you should consider touching some grass Ooh, I love terms

2307
01:52:28,400 --> 01:52:30,280
Speaker 1: for what it's worth. I also got a lot of

2308
01:52:30,280 --> 01:52:33,479
Speaker 1: messages telling me that they wished sexual history was discussed

2309
01:52:33,520 --> 01:52:36,040
Speaker 1: in greater detail with their partners prior to marriage. But

2310
01:52:36,080 --> 01:52:37,519
Speaker 1: I think is what we're talking about, like we're talking

2311
01:52:37,520 --> 01:52:41,360
Speaker 1: about transparency. Yes, take that as you will. I also

2312
01:52:41,400 --> 01:52:45,160
Speaker 1: got messages that were pretty explicit and in the opposite direction.

2313
01:52:45,840 --> 01:52:48,040
Speaker 1: For those who try to imply my brother and I

2314
01:52:48,080 --> 01:52:52,479
Speaker 1: have an incestuous relationship. Oh dear, please close those corn

2315
01:52:52,560 --> 01:52:55,679
Speaker 1: tabs and wipe the cheeto dust off your fingers. Something

2316
01:52:55,720 --> 01:52:58,799
Speaker 1: I didn't mention was that I was a college athlete myself,

2317
01:52:59,040 --> 01:53:01,840
Speaker 1: and word travel fast in those groups. I'm close enough

2318
01:53:01,880 --> 01:53:03,759
Speaker 1: to my brother to ask if he was being safe

2319
01:53:03,760 --> 01:53:07,000
Speaker 1: with his choices, and that's how I know about his

2320
01:53:07,120 --> 01:53:11,720
Speaker 1: sexual past. And there is another relevant comments. But what

2321
01:53:11,800 --> 01:53:14,400
Speaker 1: do you think? Do you think uh opie and the

2322
01:53:14,439 --> 01:53:15,479
Speaker 1: brother are too close?

2323
01:53:15,880 --> 01:53:16,000
Speaker 2: Uh?

2324
01:53:16,320 --> 01:53:19,520
Speaker 1: Do you agree with these Reddit Internet psychologists?

2325
01:53:19,520 --> 01:53:20,760
Speaker 2: What do you think, you know.

2326
01:53:20,800 --> 01:53:22,760
Speaker 3: I think by the mere fact of her wanting to

2327
01:53:22,800 --> 01:53:26,680
Speaker 3: back out of these body count conversations, it's clearly no.

2328
01:53:26,720 --> 01:53:27,200
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding.

2329
01:53:27,320 --> 01:53:30,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, there's no nothing's going on here. It's this is

2330
01:53:30,320 --> 01:53:34,040
Speaker 3: just what it is like brothers and sisters.

2331
01:53:34,640 --> 01:53:39,160
Speaker 1: Really, I'm not asking my sister about her body count

2332
01:53:39,320 --> 01:53:43,519
Speaker 1: for sure, but actually, should we have Sophia swap out

2333
01:53:43,640 --> 01:53:46,559
Speaker 1: for you if you wanted to eat and pee and

2334
01:53:46,600 --> 01:53:48,800
Speaker 1: then we can keep going and then you can swap

2335
01:53:48,840 --> 01:53:49,360
Speaker 1: back in for me.

2336
01:53:49,680 --> 01:53:50,639
Speaker 2: We we can do that.

2337
01:53:50,720 --> 01:53:51,360
Speaker 1: We want to do that.

2338
01:53:51,439 --> 01:53:53,040
Speaker 2: We can bring Sophia in on the mat.

2339
01:53:53,160 --> 01:53:56,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, comment Sophia if you want Sophia to come in

2340
01:53:57,000 --> 01:53:59,320
Speaker 1: the chat, and then Riley maybe tex Sofia to come

2341
01:53:59,320 --> 01:54:03,080
Speaker 1: on up here and I can read this relevant comment

2342
01:54:03,240 --> 01:54:06,080
Speaker 1: while it is coming up. But I'll also read some

2343
01:54:06,120 --> 01:54:10,240
Speaker 1: of your relevant comments. Lady Hike says, Geez, reddit incests

2344
01:54:10,320 --> 01:54:13,559
Speaker 1: they seem fine. Yeah. Reddit tends to jump to the

2345
01:54:13,720 --> 01:54:18,040
Speaker 1: like craziest collusions possible, the most and we do have

2346
01:54:18,680 --> 01:54:22,080
Speaker 1: a bunch more stories for y'all, So keep staying tune.

2347
01:54:22,080 --> 01:54:25,639
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this relevant comment. Please help thirty three

2348
01:54:25,880 --> 01:54:28,519
Speaker 1: So you got all pissy that you were rightly judged

2349
01:54:28,720 --> 01:54:31,280
Speaker 1: the a hole in your previous posts. So now you've

2350
01:54:31,320 --> 01:54:35,640
Speaker 1: posted again attacking the commenters again. You're the a hole.

2351
01:54:35,800 --> 01:54:40,400
Speaker 1: Damn Reddit, You're really leave up? He says. I'm not pissy.

2352
01:54:40,480 --> 01:54:43,440
Speaker 1: I take responsibility for my part and was the a

2353
01:54:43,560 --> 01:54:45,960
Speaker 1: hole in that situation, no doubt about it. I post

2354
01:54:46,040 --> 01:54:48,720
Speaker 1: this update because it was suggested by a few that

2355
01:54:48,800 --> 01:54:51,520
Speaker 1: I do, and a lot of folks were making assumptions

2356
01:54:51,560 --> 01:54:59,600
Speaker 1: that I ruined his relationship. Dude, Reddit is Reddit is rough? Dude,

2357
01:54:59,600 --> 01:55:04,200
Speaker 1: hey do the most Reddit is rough? But yeah, yeah,

2358
01:55:04,440 --> 01:55:10,200
Speaker 1: soriah Jade Uh says, Reddy gets so spicy sometimes. Robert

2359
01:55:10,200 --> 01:55:11,680
Speaker 1: Smart says, I just want to say this is kind

2360
01:55:11,680 --> 01:55:14,400
Speaker 1: of cool. I've never been in the comments of a

2361
01:55:14,400 --> 01:55:17,080
Speaker 1: live video where the readers interacting with the comments, and

2362
01:55:17,120 --> 01:55:20,000
Speaker 1: it's one of my favorite channels. Thanks y'all, Oh, thank

2363
01:55:20,040 --> 01:55:22,840
Speaker 1: you so much. We heart you too. Does Sophia know

2364
01:55:22,920 --> 01:55:30,440
Speaker 1: to come up yet, Riley, Sophia, they're chanting Queen Sophia.

2365
01:55:30,520 --> 01:55:35,520
Speaker 1: Sophia says, bring out, Sophia, Sophia, get over here. We're

2366
01:55:35,560 --> 01:55:40,120
Speaker 1: gonna get into this next story in a sec. But

2367
01:55:40,400 --> 01:55:43,440
Speaker 1: this is uh, should I read the title? While we're

2368
01:55:43,480 --> 01:55:47,320
Speaker 1: waiting for Sophia to come in.

2369
01:55:47,600 --> 01:55:48,040
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

2370
01:55:48,120 --> 01:55:52,800
Speaker 1: Let's do it. Okay, are you ready? My wife booked

2371
01:55:52,880 --> 01:55:58,880
Speaker 1: our anniversary trip without me? Shall we do it?

2372
01:55:59,000 --> 01:56:01,120
Speaker 2: Wife booked a trip with out?

2373
01:56:01,680 --> 01:56:04,600
Speaker 1: My wife booked my anniversary trip without me? Is that

2374
01:56:05,720 --> 01:56:06,480
Speaker 1: a red flag?

2375
01:56:06,920 --> 01:56:09,080
Speaker 3: Who else are you booking it with? Are you booking

2376
01:56:09,080 --> 01:56:12,400
Speaker 3: it without me and with somebody else? I feel like

2377
01:56:12,520 --> 01:56:15,120
Speaker 3: most likely? I feel like most likely.

2378
01:56:15,200 --> 01:56:16,640
Speaker 2: That's what it sounded like.

2379
01:56:17,400 --> 01:56:22,520
Speaker 1: This comes from big Apple parade. All right, So Riley

2380
01:56:22,560 --> 01:56:26,160
Speaker 1: is just pulling up it right here. Yeah, Limester says

2381
01:56:26,200 --> 01:56:30,440
Speaker 1: this is already bad. Yeah, it feels pretty bad. It

2382
01:56:30,480 --> 01:56:31,200
Speaker 1: feels pretty bad.

2383
01:56:31,240 --> 01:56:34,680
Speaker 2: I'm seeing a lot of red flags. Red flags in

2384
01:56:34,760 --> 01:56:35,160
Speaker 2: a chat.

2385
01:56:35,400 --> 01:56:40,720
Speaker 1: All right, let's get going into this. So my wife

2386
01:56:40,760 --> 01:56:44,480
Speaker 1: posted a question about this somewhere on reddits maybe here,

2387
01:56:44,520 --> 01:56:46,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, and now I can't find it. First

2388
01:56:46,440 --> 01:56:50,280
Speaker 1: time using reddit welcome, heyoh. She posted about me not

2389
01:56:50,360 --> 01:56:52,839
Speaker 1: wanting to go on an anniversary trip that she had planned.

2390
01:56:53,080 --> 01:56:56,200
Speaker 1: She showed me the responses, and some said I was

2391
01:56:56,400 --> 01:56:58,840
Speaker 1: checked out of the marriage. A lot of them said

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01:56:59,240 --> 01:57:01,880
Speaker 1: just to book the trip anyways, and I'd get over it.

2393
01:57:02,520 --> 01:57:05,120
Speaker 1: After she showed me the responses, we try to talk

2394
01:57:05,160 --> 01:57:07,360
Speaker 1: it out, but she was mad that I couldn't give

2395
01:57:07,360 --> 01:57:11,400
Speaker 1: her a valid reason for not wanting to go. And

2396
01:57:12,040 --> 01:57:15,880
Speaker 1: Sophia don't want to hop in the chair. Yeah, so

2397
01:57:16,000 --> 01:57:19,080
Speaker 1: John and I can eat. Yeah, I get in. Sophia's

2398
01:57:19,160 --> 01:57:26,280
Speaker 1: coming in. Okay, So Sophia, the question is infidel? My

2399
01:57:26,360 --> 01:57:29,600
Speaker 1: wife booked our anniversary trip without me? Is that a

2400
01:57:29,640 --> 01:57:30,960
Speaker 1: red flag?

2401
01:57:31,480 --> 01:57:31,720
Speaker 4: What?

2402
01:57:32,000 --> 01:57:34,840
Speaker 1: Wait? Yeah, my wife booked an anniversary trip without me?

2403
01:57:34,880 --> 01:57:35,560
Speaker 1: Is that a red flag?

2404
01:57:35,720 --> 01:57:40,240
Speaker 4: Yes, anniversary of the relationship. Presumably that's weird.

2405
01:57:40,440 --> 01:57:43,080
Speaker 1: So apparently, So to catch you up, the wife posted

2406
01:57:43,240 --> 01:57:45,800
Speaker 1: about him not wanting to go on an anniversary trip

2407
01:57:45,880 --> 01:57:48,080
Speaker 1: that she had planned, and she showed me some of

2408
01:57:48,120 --> 01:57:50,200
Speaker 1: the messages saying I was checked out of the marriage.

2409
01:57:50,320 --> 01:57:54,000
Speaker 1: So now op is being like, all right, time to

2410
01:57:54,080 --> 01:57:58,320
Speaker 1: defend myself and defend my honor. Okay, So after she

2411
01:57:58,400 --> 01:58:00,680
Speaker 1: showed me the messages, we try to talk out, but

2412
01:58:00,720 --> 01:58:03,320
Speaker 1: she was mad that I couldn't give her a valid

2413
01:58:03,360 --> 01:58:05,920
Speaker 1: reason for not wanting to go. Also, tell John that

2414
01:58:05,920 --> 01:58:07,760
Speaker 1: the food is right next to the door, so he

2415
01:58:07,800 --> 01:58:08,600
Speaker 1: doesn't get hungry.

2416
01:58:08,720 --> 01:58:09,240
Speaker 4: I brought it.

2417
01:58:10,760 --> 01:58:12,320
Speaker 1: So she was mad that I couldn't give her a

2418
01:58:12,360 --> 01:58:14,600
Speaker 1: valid reason for not wanting to go. She said she

2419
01:58:14,680 --> 01:58:17,760
Speaker 1: hasn't traveled in over five years, and she was going

2420
01:58:17,960 --> 01:58:20,960
Speaker 1: either way. I kind of thought she'd eventually get over

2421
01:58:21,000 --> 01:58:25,440
Speaker 1: it and forget about the trip. Well she didn't. I

2422
01:58:25,480 --> 01:58:26,520
Speaker 1: don't think she got over it.

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01:58:26,800 --> 01:58:29,920
Speaker 4: Hold on before you go on, to just see if

2424
01:58:29,960 --> 01:58:31,760
Speaker 4: I get this way. So they were going to go

2425
01:58:31,800 --> 01:58:33,880
Speaker 4: on an anniversary trip and then the husband was like,

2426
01:58:33,960 --> 01:58:35,320
Speaker 4: I don't op He was like, I don't want to

2427
01:58:35,360 --> 01:58:36,160
Speaker 4: go on anymore, and.

2428
01:58:36,200 --> 01:58:40,560
Speaker 1: Then yes, so yeah, so OPI didn't want to go

2429
01:58:40,600 --> 01:58:41,520
Speaker 1: on the anniversary trip.

2430
01:58:41,640 --> 01:58:42,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2431
01:58:42,080 --> 01:58:46,920
Speaker 1: And then Opee's wife was like, I'm gonna go on

2432
01:58:47,000 --> 01:58:47,680
Speaker 1: it anyway.

2433
01:58:47,760 --> 01:58:50,120
Speaker 4: Okay, I actually kind of I kind of vibe with it.

2434
01:58:50,160 --> 01:58:50,800
Speaker 4: I vibe with that.

2435
01:58:51,240 --> 01:58:54,440
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I craved Fried trick and says, that's so strange.

2436
01:58:54,520 --> 01:58:57,120
Speaker 1: I thought she went She meant she went alone.

2437
01:58:57,360 --> 01:59:00,440
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, I was confused the first, but I think

2438
01:59:00,480 --> 01:59:01,720
Speaker 4: I'm on the same page.

2439
01:59:02,440 --> 01:59:02,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2440
01:59:02,640 --> 01:59:03,040
Speaker 1: I don't know why.

2441
01:59:03,040 --> 01:59:04,520
Speaker 4: I a piece upset about that, because I feel like,

2442
01:59:04,600 --> 01:59:05,640
Speaker 4: if you if you don't want to go on the

2443
01:59:05,680 --> 01:59:08,720
Speaker 4: relationship or on the trip, too bad.

2444
01:59:09,280 --> 01:59:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think she's she's gone yet. Okay, she

2445
01:59:13,720 --> 01:59:15,480
Speaker 1: not hasn't gone yet. So after she showed me the

2446
01:59:15,520 --> 01:59:17,000
Speaker 1: messages we tried to talk about, but she was mad.

2447
01:59:17,000 --> 01:59:19,200
Speaker 1: I couldn't give her a valid reason for not wanting

2448
01:59:19,240 --> 01:59:22,240
Speaker 1: to go. She said she hasn't traveled in over five years,

2449
01:59:22,480 --> 01:59:25,000
Speaker 1: and she was going either way. I kind of thought

2450
01:59:25,000 --> 01:59:27,240
Speaker 1: she'd eventually get over it and forget about the trip. Well,

2451
01:59:27,400 --> 01:59:30,240
Speaker 1: she took Redd's advice and booked the trip anyways, but

2452
01:59:30,280 --> 01:59:32,680
Speaker 1: instead of booking it for the two of us, she

2453
01:59:32,800 --> 01:59:38,680
Speaker 1: booked it for her and a male coworker. Oh yes,

2454
01:59:38,840 --> 01:59:42,440
Speaker 1: a long weekend in the Caribbean with a male co worker.

2455
01:59:42,480 --> 01:59:44,880
Speaker 1: We're gonna pause right here. Is this a red flag?

2456
01:59:46,320 --> 01:59:49,080
Speaker 4: It could be, okay. I don't think that going on

2457
01:59:49,120 --> 01:59:50,600
Speaker 4: the anniversary trip is a red flag.

2458
01:59:50,640 --> 01:59:53,080
Speaker 1: I think that I think going on the anniversary tip

2459
01:59:53,120 --> 01:59:53,920
Speaker 1: solo is it's.

2460
01:59:53,760 --> 01:59:56,240
Speaker 4: Just a trip. At that point, it's just a trip,

2461
01:59:56,360 --> 01:59:57,960
Speaker 4: and she hasn't gone on a trip and she wants

2462
01:59:57,960 --> 02:00:01,640
Speaker 4: to go on a ship. I don't know about inviting.

2463
02:00:02,400 --> 02:00:06,120
Speaker 1: A male coworker that it feels like revenge. It feels

2464
02:00:06,120 --> 02:00:08,440
Speaker 1: like revenge. Let us know in the chat if you

2465
02:00:08,440 --> 02:00:12,919
Speaker 1: feel like it's revenge. It feels a little bit like revenge. Lady, yeah, Zodiac,

2466
02:00:12,960 --> 02:00:16,840
Speaker 1: says Major Red Elena says yes, Kim quant red fog,

2467
02:00:16,840 --> 02:00:20,520
Speaker 1: red five, red fag, red flag, fergolicious, great name, red flag,

2468
02:00:20,640 --> 02:00:24,040
Speaker 1: but living for the pettiness. We are too, And so

2469
02:00:24,120 --> 02:00:26,240
Speaker 1: we're going to get into this next bit. I asked

2470
02:00:26,280 --> 02:00:28,440
Speaker 1: her if anything was going on between them, and she

2471
02:00:28,520 --> 02:00:29,200
Speaker 1: said no.

2472
02:00:30,720 --> 02:00:31,520
Speaker 4: Why did you think that?

2473
02:00:32,000 --> 02:00:33,920
Speaker 1: I had no reason to believe she would cheat on

2474
02:00:34,000 --> 02:00:37,120
Speaker 1: me until today, which she is clearly going to do

2475
02:00:37,160 --> 02:00:40,080
Speaker 1: if she goes to resort with him. Oh that's that's

2476
02:00:40,120 --> 02:00:41,680
Speaker 1: a little Maybe that's a little much.

2477
02:00:41,720 --> 02:00:42,560
Speaker 4: Maybe that's a jump.

2478
02:00:42,720 --> 02:00:44,680
Speaker 1: She's a good looking woman, but she has been very

2479
02:00:44,720 --> 02:00:47,000
Speaker 1: loyal for the past ten years. I am shocked. What

2480
02:00:47,040 --> 02:00:49,160
Speaker 1: should I do? How can I fix this? She thought

2481
02:00:49,200 --> 02:00:50,960
Speaker 1: I was checked out of the marriage, but it's clear

2482
02:00:51,400 --> 02:00:53,800
Speaker 1: she's the one giving up. Do you think like this?

2483
02:00:54,120 --> 02:00:57,960
Speaker 1: Do you think her going on a on a all

2484
02:00:58,120 --> 02:01:03,960
Speaker 1: you know, Caribbean, a Caribbean vacation that established Yes, yeah, yeah,

2485
02:01:03,960 --> 02:01:08,240
Speaker 1: so there, so she is she booked a Caribbean long

2486
02:01:08,320 --> 02:01:10,680
Speaker 1: weekend in the Caribbean with a male coworker.

2487
02:01:11,160 --> 02:01:12,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think that.

2488
02:01:12,400 --> 02:01:14,640
Speaker 1: You think it's like that it's almost positive that they're

2489
02:01:14,640 --> 02:01:15,240
Speaker 1: going to hook up.

2490
02:01:15,720 --> 02:01:18,800
Speaker 4: No, No, I don't think that's a positive. I think

2491
02:01:18,800 --> 02:01:21,240
Speaker 4: it could happen. I think it's a little bit like

2492
02:01:21,280 --> 02:01:24,280
Speaker 4: I don't know if as partner would be super comfortable.

2493
02:01:24,080 --> 02:01:25,120
Speaker 1: I would not be comfortable.

2494
02:01:25,360 --> 02:01:28,840
Speaker 4: But after after establishing that this was originally going to

2495
02:01:28,880 --> 02:01:31,480
Speaker 4: be an anniversary trip and now it's just a trip trip.

2496
02:01:32,080 --> 02:01:35,360
Speaker 1: But I feel but I feel like the doing it

2497
02:01:35,400 --> 02:01:37,720
Speaker 1: with a male coworker is revenge. Even if they don't

2498
02:01:37,720 --> 02:01:38,120
Speaker 1: hook up.

2499
02:01:38,160 --> 02:01:40,919
Speaker 4: I don't think they're going to hook up. But well, okay,

2500
02:01:40,760 --> 02:01:41,120
Speaker 4: so what.

2501
02:01:41,080 --> 02:01:45,800
Speaker 1: They're staying in the same room, All right, Well, let's

2502
02:01:45,800 --> 02:01:48,160
Speaker 1: see it's out. I don't want to go because it's

2503
02:01:48,160 --> 02:01:50,440
Speaker 1: a long weekend in Canada and I'd rather just hang

2504
02:01:50,440 --> 02:01:53,560
Speaker 1: out at my cabin. Also, she arranged childcare. Oh, they

2505
02:01:53,600 --> 02:01:55,720
Speaker 1: have kids, but this way we won't have to worry

2506
02:01:55,720 --> 02:01:58,800
Speaker 1: about having someone watch the kids. The coworker, I don't

2507
02:01:58,800 --> 02:02:01,120
Speaker 1: know anything about him. She never talks about work. She

2508
02:02:01,120 --> 02:02:04,040
Speaker 1: goes to work and comes right back home. Or she's

2509
02:02:04,080 --> 02:02:06,160
Speaker 1: not at work. Yeah the coworker, Oh.

2510
02:02:06,040 --> 02:02:08,960
Speaker 4: No, no, like, oh, he should ask questions about her life.

2511
02:02:09,080 --> 02:02:10,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you should know about the co workers.

2512
02:02:11,000 --> 02:02:12,120
Speaker 4: She should know about her work.

2513
02:02:12,560 --> 02:02:14,800
Speaker 1: But she's not at work. She's with the kids and

2514
02:02:14,920 --> 02:02:16,680
Speaker 1: is never on her phone. So if she's having a

2515
02:02:16,760 --> 02:02:20,040
Speaker 1: fair she's really darn good at hiding it. So we're

2516
02:02:20,040 --> 02:02:23,120
Speaker 1: gonna get into the top comments and an update. But

2517
02:02:23,200 --> 02:02:23,640
Speaker 1: what do you think?

2518
02:02:23,800 --> 02:02:25,880
Speaker 4: I feel like their relationship is not very good on

2519
02:02:25,960 --> 02:02:29,200
Speaker 4: both sides. Like I mean, again, I don't really know

2520
02:02:29,200 --> 02:02:31,760
Speaker 4: what happened in the first half of the story.

2521
02:02:33,200 --> 02:02:34,800
Speaker 1: You came close to the beginning.

2522
02:02:34,680 --> 02:02:37,600
Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, then I guess I do, but it seems

2523
02:02:37,640 --> 02:02:38,960
Speaker 4: like they don't trust each other.

2524
02:02:39,920 --> 02:02:42,720
Speaker 1: And yeah, it feels I mean, if this.

2525
02:02:42,840 --> 02:02:44,760
Speaker 4: Is a revenge thing, then that's also not like a

2526
02:02:44,840 --> 02:02:45,720
Speaker 4: health needs.

2527
02:02:45,480 --> 02:02:47,320
Speaker 1: To be a revenge thing, right for health? I don't

2528
02:02:47,320 --> 02:02:49,640
Speaker 1: know it has to be a revenge thing because like,

2529
02:02:49,680 --> 02:02:51,520
Speaker 1: I mean, why would she do that? I don't know.

2530
02:02:51,520 --> 02:02:53,320
Speaker 1: What do you guys think it's a revenge thing? We'll

2531
02:02:53,360 --> 02:02:55,680
Speaker 1: lead some of the comments as Stella Davis says, I

2532
02:02:55,720 --> 02:03:00,320
Speaker 1: love kids, but I wouldn't want them on my anniversary trip. Yeah, oh,

2533
02:03:00,600 --> 02:03:02,680
Speaker 1: groovy hippie chick says is the coworker game.

2534
02:03:02,800 --> 02:03:04,720
Speaker 4: I was, That's what I was thinking, because I think

2535
02:03:04,720 --> 02:03:07,960
Speaker 4: that does death that change everything? That changes things, because

2536
02:03:07,960 --> 02:03:10,240
Speaker 4: that's like, oh we're best he's gone on a trip.

2537
02:03:10,360 --> 02:03:11,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was.

2538
02:03:11,520 --> 02:03:13,560
Speaker 4: I was thinking about but shouldn't.

2539
02:03:13,120 --> 02:03:14,680
Speaker 1: They kind of like, if they're going to do an

2540
02:03:14,720 --> 02:03:17,240
Speaker 1: anniversary thing, shouldn't they kind of like agree on something

2541
02:03:17,240 --> 02:03:18,360
Speaker 1: that they both would want to do?

2542
02:03:20,480 --> 02:03:21,040
Speaker 4: Yeah?

2543
02:03:21,200 --> 02:03:22,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, but what do you mean?

2544
02:03:22,440 --> 02:03:22,720
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2545
02:03:23,200 --> 02:03:26,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, I mean, who, like, you don't book

2546
02:03:26,400 --> 02:03:29,520
Speaker 1: an anniversary trip for yourself, you you decide together on something.

2547
02:03:29,680 --> 02:03:34,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's true. I guess is the trip like coinciding

2548
02:03:34,320 --> 02:03:38,240
Speaker 4: exactly with the anniversary? Yes, okay, that's I don't know.

2549
02:03:38,320 --> 02:03:42,240
Speaker 1: Is it a red flag? Ben on the Move says,

2550
02:03:42,320 --> 02:03:45,560
Speaker 1: I think it's revenge. Janey Jackson says are they in

2551
02:03:45,600 --> 02:03:48,280
Speaker 1: an open relationship? I don't think so. There's no mention

2552
02:03:48,320 --> 02:03:51,560
Speaker 1: of that. And Sarah Badov says he's trying to save money.

2553
02:03:51,680 --> 02:03:54,360
Speaker 1: Do you know how much a cabin slash second house costs?

2554
02:03:54,360 --> 02:03:59,600
Speaker 1: Here's here, Canada. Yeah, they're in Canada. Okay, so top

2555
02:03:59,640 --> 02:04:03,840
Speaker 1: comment Overrated New four to two three said why would

2556
02:04:03,920 --> 02:04:05,800
Speaker 1: you not want to go on a romantic trip with

2557
02:04:05,840 --> 02:04:06,400
Speaker 1: your wife?

2558
02:04:06,720 --> 02:04:08,600
Speaker 4: Yeah? That's what I was thinking. I'm like, why wouldn't

2559
02:04:08,600 --> 02:04:10,400
Speaker 4: you want to go on a fun little adventure.

2560
02:04:10,520 --> 02:04:11,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe a homebody?

2561
02:04:12,320 --> 02:04:12,680
Speaker 4: Maybe.

2562
02:04:13,400 --> 02:04:16,600
Speaker 1: Bodacious Shield says he'd rather sit around his cabin doing

2563
02:04:16,640 --> 02:04:19,920
Speaker 1: nothing apparently, while I wonder why his wife is losing

2564
02:04:19,920 --> 02:04:22,760
Speaker 1: interest in this marriage, and Bella Burr says, your wife

2565
02:04:22,840 --> 02:04:25,280
Speaker 1: brought up a want to you, You didn't listen, ignored

2566
02:04:25,320 --> 02:04:27,640
Speaker 1: her and couldn't explain to her why you can't meet her,

2567
02:04:27,960 --> 02:04:31,280
Speaker 1: and and are shocked she is checking out of the marriage.

2568
02:04:31,760 --> 02:04:33,080
Speaker 4: Wow, they really read him.

2569
02:04:33,200 --> 02:04:35,120
Speaker 1: They really they tore me to pieces. I mean, I

2570
02:04:35,160 --> 02:04:37,960
Speaker 1: think I think there's blame on both sides. Like you said,

2571
02:04:38,000 --> 02:04:39,560
Speaker 1: I think they're not communicating with each other.

2572
02:04:39,640 --> 02:04:41,120
Speaker 4: But yeah, I think it's not a great r.

2573
02:04:41,360 --> 02:04:42,960
Speaker 1: What do you think? Who I mean? Do you think

2574
02:04:43,000 --> 02:04:45,120
Speaker 1: they're both the blame? Do you think only one of them?

2575
02:04:46,280 --> 02:04:49,120
Speaker 1: Sarah Jade says these two need some damn therapy.

2576
02:04:49,960 --> 02:04:52,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, therapy, therapy, therapy, chant.

2577
02:04:52,680 --> 02:05:01,320
Speaker 1: Their therapy therapy therapy. Oh sorry, I was getting up

2578
02:05:01,640 --> 02:05:04,800
Speaker 1: all right, anyway, let's get into the update. I'm really

2579
02:05:04,840 --> 02:05:08,960
Speaker 1: embarrassed about all of this. A few things. My husband

2580
02:05:09,160 --> 02:05:12,600
Speaker 1: doesn't use social media. I'm surprised he made a Reddit

2581
02:05:12,600 --> 02:05:15,440
Speaker 1: account at all. Oh whoa, whoa. This is from the

2582
02:05:15,440 --> 02:05:21,120
Speaker 1: wife's perspective. Whoa I was so uh op posted on

2583
02:05:21,200 --> 02:05:25,280
Speaker 1: January twenty second, Which is the husband The wife posted

2584
02:05:25,320 --> 02:05:27,760
Speaker 1: on January twenty third. The next day.

2585
02:05:28,560 --> 02:05:29,400
Speaker 4: That's crazy.

2586
02:05:29,640 --> 02:05:31,840
Speaker 1: This is kind of cute. I don't know. It's like

2587
02:05:31,840 --> 02:05:36,880
Speaker 1: they're setting letters. Did they pronounce o pina coladas like

2588
02:05:37,160 --> 02:05:40,440
Speaker 1: pina escape? Yeah, they're like like, this is like the

2589
02:05:40,560 --> 02:05:44,720
Speaker 1: new version of writing letters to each other in the newspaper.

2590
02:05:44,800 --> 02:05:48,040
Speaker 1: They're to read it together. Shit, all right, we're about

2591
02:05:48,040 --> 02:05:50,440
Speaker 1: to get some tea, y'all. Put some tea in the chatter.

2592
02:05:50,520 --> 02:05:54,400
Speaker 1: You're excited a trick. So One, my husband doesn't use

2593
02:05:54,440 --> 02:05:58,240
Speaker 1: social media. I'm surprised he made a Reddit account at all. Obviously,

2594
02:05:58,240 --> 02:06:00,840
Speaker 1: you guys don't know each other very well, dedicating Yeah.

2595
02:06:00,960 --> 02:06:03,440
Speaker 1: When I saw the post, I confronted him about it.

2596
02:06:03,520 --> 02:06:06,200
Speaker 1: He said he made the post to prove a point,

2597
02:06:06,400 --> 02:06:10,880
Speaker 1: but clearly stop reading the responses early on, because I

2598
02:06:10,880 --> 02:06:12,880
Speaker 1: guess he didn't see all the backlast Oh.

2599
02:06:12,840 --> 02:06:14,240
Speaker 4: I thought I thought it was going to be that

2600
02:06:14,280 --> 02:06:16,520
Speaker 4: she like posted something in the responci.

2601
02:06:16,560 --> 02:06:18,920
Speaker 1: Oh No, I don't think so. Two. I only made

2602
02:06:18,920 --> 02:06:21,600
Speaker 1: my initial post to try to show him that wanting

2603
02:06:21,640 --> 02:06:24,920
Speaker 1: to go on a ten year anniversary trip wasn't asking

2604
02:06:24,960 --> 02:06:27,640
Speaker 1: a lot. I deleted the post because I was embarrassed

2605
02:06:27,640 --> 02:06:30,960
Speaker 1: he didn't want to travel with me. I know, I know,

2606
02:06:31,800 --> 02:06:34,360
Speaker 1: I know now not to get marriage advice from Reddit

2607
02:06:34,680 --> 02:06:37,360
Speaker 1: of all places, but I always like to hear other

2608
02:06:37,440 --> 02:06:38,480
Speaker 1: people's point of view.

2609
02:06:38,600 --> 02:06:40,080
Speaker 4: Get your marriage advice from us.

2610
02:06:40,120 --> 02:06:43,120
Speaker 1: And three, this is what we've all been waiting for.

2611
02:06:43,280 --> 02:06:48,840
Speaker 1: My coworker is gay. My husband knows that husband was

2612
02:06:48,880 --> 02:06:52,240
Speaker 1: intentionally uh not giving that information.

2613
02:06:52,320 --> 02:06:54,840
Speaker 4: This is what he said. First of all, he said that, oh,

2614
02:06:54,880 --> 02:06:58,000
Speaker 4: I don't know anything about my wife's coworker or anything

2615
02:06:58,040 --> 02:06:58,680
Speaker 4: about her jobs.

2616
02:06:58,760 --> 02:07:00,240
Speaker 1: He's trying to paint the wife as bad.

2617
02:07:00,360 --> 02:07:02,360
Speaker 4: And then he was like, they're definitely good at cheat.

2618
02:07:02,440 --> 02:07:04,520
Speaker 4: He literally seems like they're absolutely good cheat.

2619
02:07:07,480 --> 02:07:08,840
Speaker 1: What what Riley?

2620
02:07:09,200 --> 02:07:12,240
Speaker 5: What about what if he's what if it's an act

2621
02:07:12,840 --> 02:07:16,720
Speaker 5: he's actually not gay? You know how like like they'll

2622
02:07:16,760 --> 02:07:18,920
Speaker 5: be like, oh, I'm gay, invite me to the sleepover,

2623
02:07:19,800 --> 02:07:21,080
Speaker 5: the sleepover, the trip.

2624
02:07:23,160 --> 02:07:25,400
Speaker 1: Maybe, I don't know. Do you think this is the

2625
02:07:25,520 --> 02:07:27,280
Speaker 1: long con from?

2626
02:07:27,600 --> 02:07:27,720
Speaker 2: Uh?

2627
02:07:28,480 --> 02:07:33,040
Speaker 1: Now, op, the wife gay coworker is actually straight and

2628
02:07:33,200 --> 02:07:35,640
Speaker 1: is in this for the long that that that is?

2629
02:07:36,160 --> 02:07:38,960
Speaker 1: That is a conspiracy if I've ever heard that is

2630
02:07:39,000 --> 02:07:41,400
Speaker 1: a conspiracy if I ever heard one. I don't know

2631
02:07:41,560 --> 02:07:45,800
Speaker 1: if I completely agree, but uh stella Davis, says Riley

2632
02:07:45,800 --> 02:07:47,760
Speaker 1: do not be a Jesse. The Jesse was from the

2633
02:07:47,800 --> 02:07:52,600
Speaker 1: first story who was super manipulative. Yeah, do not be

2634
02:07:52,640 --> 02:07:58,480
Speaker 1: a Jesse or what was it, Miley, what's her name, Mindy, Mindy,

2635
02:07:58,640 --> 02:07:59,880
Speaker 1: don't be a Jesse or a.

2636
02:07:59,800 --> 02:08:03,440
Speaker 4: Min Yeah, I agree, Sydney, I can't Durand.

2637
02:08:03,160 --> 02:08:04,360
Speaker 1: Again, no one actually does that.

2638
02:08:04,440 --> 02:08:05,400
Speaker 4: No one actually does that.

2639
02:08:05,400 --> 02:08:07,440
Speaker 1: That's like a that's just like a trope from like

2640
02:08:07,560 --> 02:08:11,440
Speaker 1: bad eighties movies. Yeah, but hey, that's why we were

2641
02:08:11,440 --> 02:08:16,120
Speaker 1: putting the conspiracy hats on, So let's keep going. My

2642
02:08:16,200 --> 02:08:19,200
Speaker 1: husband knows that I've known him for four years and

2643
02:08:19,280 --> 02:08:23,760
Speaker 1: talk about him all the time. He paid his own

2644
02:08:23,800 --> 02:08:26,080
Speaker 1: way and is only going because none of my friends

2645
02:08:26,160 --> 02:08:28,880
Speaker 1: could go mom life and wanted to check out the

2646
02:08:28,960 --> 02:08:32,440
Speaker 1: island as he's getting married there next fall to another man.

2647
02:08:32,720 --> 02:08:36,000
Speaker 4: So not only is this man gay, but he's in

2648
02:08:36,040 --> 02:08:37,000
Speaker 4: a relationship.

2649
02:08:37,440 --> 02:08:39,800
Speaker 1: My husband doesn't want me traveling with some guy he

2650
02:08:39,880 --> 02:08:41,840
Speaker 1: never met, but none of my girlfriends could go, and

2651
02:08:41,840 --> 02:08:45,520
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go alone. Four I'm standing firm

2652
02:08:45,520 --> 02:08:47,880
Speaker 1: that I need a vacation. Yes, I wanted a ten

2653
02:08:47,960 --> 02:08:50,600
Speaker 1: year anniversary vacation to our honeymoon spot, and I'm really

2654
02:08:50,640 --> 02:08:53,920
Speaker 1: sad it's not happening. It's been five years since my

2655
02:08:54,000 --> 02:08:56,760
Speaker 1: last vacation, and that was a visit family, So really

2656
02:08:56,800 --> 02:09:00,000
Speaker 1: seven years since my last fun vacation. I've had two kids,

2657
02:09:00,120 --> 02:09:02,880
Speaker 1: survived a pandemic, and work my butt off to get

2658
02:09:02,880 --> 02:09:06,080
Speaker 1: an executive level job. I'm getting the hell out of

2659
02:09:06,080 --> 02:09:07,960
Speaker 1: here for a few days. It's only a few days.

2660
02:09:08,040 --> 02:09:11,000
Speaker 4: It's only a few days in op or old op.

2661
02:09:11,800 --> 02:09:15,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, like, I love how this update just completely

2662
02:09:16,440 --> 02:09:18,640
Speaker 1: trashes the initial ops.

2663
02:09:18,640 --> 02:09:20,960
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, well, I feel like most people in the

2664
02:09:20,960 --> 02:09:24,600
Speaker 4: comments of the original post kind of called trash him too.

2665
02:09:24,800 --> 02:09:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2666
02:09:25,600 --> 02:09:27,880
Speaker 1: Five, What the F is this about him wanting to

2667
02:09:27,880 --> 02:09:29,880
Speaker 1: go to his cabin? He never told me that. Plus

2668
02:09:29,920 --> 02:09:32,200
Speaker 1: he goes there at least eight times a year. I

2669
02:09:32,240 --> 02:09:34,839
Speaker 1: asked him about that and he said that it's because

2670
02:09:34,960 --> 02:09:37,440
Speaker 1: it's because he enjoys doing that, and he didn't want

2671
02:09:37,480 --> 02:09:40,040
Speaker 1: to tell me because I would make him feel bad. Anyway,

2672
02:09:40,040 --> 02:09:43,880
Speaker 1: this whole thing is embarrassing. We'll probably delete this post later,

2673
02:09:44,240 --> 02:09:47,160
Speaker 1: and there are some top comments, but damn if this

2674
02:09:47,320 --> 02:09:50,880
Speaker 1: is an addition your private relation to the whole group

2675
02:09:50,920 --> 02:09:53,560
Speaker 1: of people, I don't know what is Yeah, getting this

2676
02:09:53,600 --> 02:09:56,520
Speaker 1: is public fighting taken to a whole new level. Yeah,

2677
02:09:56,600 --> 02:09:58,839
Speaker 1: do you have a comment that you left at Oh.

2678
02:09:58,720 --> 02:10:00,800
Speaker 4: No, I was just laughing at the relationship.

2679
02:10:00,960 --> 02:10:07,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. Kim Quant says divorce, divorce, divorce, devorse.

2680
02:10:07,880 --> 02:10:13,160
Speaker 1: Gracie Macus says, I've waited for this all week. Schylarra says,

2681
02:10:13,200 --> 02:10:15,680
Speaker 1: oh wow, he really was selective with the truth.

2682
02:10:15,880 --> 02:10:18,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, true, yeah, no, Also, wait did I I don't

2683
02:10:18,920 --> 02:10:20,680
Speaker 4: know if I understood this correctly, but he was going

2684
02:10:20,680 --> 02:10:22,320
Speaker 4: to a cabin and he wasn't telling her.

2685
02:10:23,080 --> 02:10:24,880
Speaker 1: I think he just wanted to go to a cabin

2686
02:10:25,040 --> 02:10:26,920
Speaker 1: instead of going like he goes to a cabin all

2687
02:10:26,920 --> 02:10:29,040
Speaker 1: the time. He's like, I'd rather go to the cabin

2688
02:10:29,400 --> 02:10:33,000
Speaker 1: than like go on an anniversary trip. He sounds selfish

2689
02:10:33,000 --> 02:10:33,200
Speaker 1: on it.

2690
02:10:33,360 --> 02:10:35,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, He's like, well that's not what I want to do,

2691
02:10:35,960 --> 02:10:38,520
Speaker 4: so no, Yeah.

2692
02:10:38,280 --> 02:10:41,400
Speaker 1: He sounds selfish. He sounds like he doesn't listen. Yeah,

2693
02:10:41,440 --> 02:10:44,760
Speaker 1: and he sounds like he's being selective with his truths

2694
02:10:44,960 --> 02:10:48,320
Speaker 1: mm hmm. But also maybe y'all instead of like a

2695
02:10:48,400 --> 02:10:50,520
Speaker 1: dishing your stuff out on Reddit, which hey, you know what,

2696
02:10:50,560 --> 02:10:52,000
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be saying that because I'm glad I got

2697
02:10:52,000 --> 02:10:54,080
Speaker 1: to read it, But maybe you should go to a tarrapins.

2698
02:10:54,240 --> 02:10:56,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, why why are we getting both halfs of

2699
02:10:57,000 --> 02:10:58,120
Speaker 4: this marriage?

2700
02:10:58,320 --> 02:11:02,040
Speaker 1: It seems a little Yeah, took a foot one says

2701
02:11:02,040 --> 02:11:03,960
Speaker 1: their lives are not aligned. Yeah, I think so.

2702
02:11:04,160 --> 02:11:06,760
Speaker 4: No, it's like that moon chart trend.

2703
02:11:07,480 --> 02:11:08,320
Speaker 1: What's the moon chart?

2704
02:11:09,000 --> 02:11:09,120
Speaker 2: You know?

2705
02:11:09,240 --> 02:11:13,080
Speaker 1: Like, oh, like it fits your yeah? Yeah yeah. Do

2706
02:11:13,160 --> 02:11:16,800
Speaker 1: people know about the moon art chart trend? Let us

2707
02:11:16,800 --> 02:11:17,120
Speaker 1: know if you do.

2708
02:11:17,280 --> 02:11:19,520
Speaker 4: It was really funny because whenever people posted those videos,

2709
02:11:19,600 --> 02:11:21,800
Speaker 4: they were like, look, we fit perfectly, and it was

2710
02:11:21,880 --> 02:11:25,200
Speaker 4: just overlapping, like it was just the moon.

2711
02:11:25,520 --> 02:11:25,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2712
02:11:26,440 --> 02:11:29,000
Speaker 1: But you know what I want to look at is

2713
02:11:29,000 --> 02:11:32,200
Speaker 1: these top comments. So cart Grinder says, yeah, even his

2714
02:11:32,240 --> 02:11:35,480
Speaker 1: post from his perspective made him look lazy and or selfish.

2715
02:11:35,560 --> 02:11:38,160
Speaker 1: I hope you have a pleasant vacation, ope, and said

2716
02:11:38,520 --> 02:11:40,880
Speaker 1: Lucy says, I knew this guy was gay. I mean

2717
02:11:40,920 --> 02:11:43,240
Speaker 1: I show the other post to my husband and told

2718
02:11:43,320 --> 02:11:45,520
Speaker 1: him that the friend was probably gay, and the husband

2719
02:11:45,520 --> 02:11:48,000
Speaker 1: didn't know. He was like, I know who your gay

2720
02:11:48,000 --> 02:11:51,320
Speaker 1: friends are, and I answered telling him that he liked

2721
02:11:51,360 --> 02:11:54,240
Speaker 1: me and wanted to go a place with me, unlike

2722
02:11:54,280 --> 02:11:56,680
Speaker 1: that guy. I hope you have a great vacation, Ope,

2723
02:11:56,960 --> 02:11:59,720
Speaker 1: and zaf Fodd says, this is the update I've been

2724
02:11:59,760 --> 02:12:02,200
Speaker 1: looking for thank you. I hope you have a really

2725
02:12:02,320 --> 02:12:08,120
Speaker 1: enjoyable solo anniversary trip, which it seems like, oh he

2726
02:12:08,520 --> 02:12:12,400
Speaker 1: will have. But you know what I want you to have, Sofia, this.

2727
02:12:12,440 --> 02:12:14,080
Speaker 4: Next story, this next.

2728
02:12:13,760 --> 02:12:16,600
Speaker 1: Story, we're reading it into it, Sofia is going to

2729
02:12:16,640 --> 02:12:20,680
Speaker 1: be reading. But just look at some comments from y'all.

2730
02:12:20,760 --> 02:12:23,640
Speaker 1: Burning Rose said, never heard of it. Loll the moon,

2731
02:12:23,920 --> 02:12:26,800
Speaker 1: the moon, It's just like a TikTok thing. Yeah, classic

2732
02:12:26,840 --> 02:12:30,600
Speaker 1: TikTok with their TikTok gen Z with their TikTok trends.

2733
02:12:30,960 --> 02:12:35,440
Speaker 1: Tody's young gen Z too. Gracie macisays, get ready chickens. Yeah,

2734
02:12:35,440 --> 02:12:39,040
Speaker 1: we're freaking getting ready for this next story. And Innocent

2735
02:12:39,120 --> 02:12:41,400
Speaker 1: Star says both their posts make it sound like the

2736
02:12:41,480 --> 02:12:44,320
Speaker 1: husband would rather be alone than with his wife. That

2737
02:12:44,600 --> 02:12:48,040
Speaker 1: totally sounds true and he does not sound innocent at all.

2738
02:12:48,040 --> 02:12:50,040
Speaker 1: But Sofia, do you want to hit me with this

2739
02:12:50,080 --> 02:12:50,560
Speaker 1: next story?

2740
02:12:50,640 --> 02:12:52,160
Speaker 4: I do want to hit you with this next story.

2741
02:12:54,040 --> 02:12:56,400
Speaker 4: I found out I was the mistress in college and

2742
02:12:56,480 --> 02:12:58,960
Speaker 4: he wanted to be my sugar daddy. I said no,

2743
02:12:59,120 --> 02:13:01,520
Speaker 4: but kept the motor cycle. Am I the a hole?

2744
02:13:01,640 --> 02:13:07,560
Speaker 1: I love the motorcycle and kept the motorcycle. Oh, Okay,

2745
02:13:07,720 --> 02:13:10,680
Speaker 1: I guess the sugar daddy is like giving motorcycles as

2746
02:13:10,760 --> 02:13:12,360
Speaker 1: a form of sugar daddy payment.

2747
02:13:12,640 --> 02:13:16,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, okay, so yeah, he was like, here's a

2748
02:13:16,840 --> 02:13:19,840
Speaker 4: motorcycle if you'll be my sugar baby. And she was like, no,

2749
02:13:20,640 --> 02:13:21,280
Speaker 4: but I'll take.

2750
02:13:21,240 --> 02:13:22,400
Speaker 1: The motor I'm gonna keep the motors.

2751
02:13:22,480 --> 02:13:23,480
Speaker 4: I'll keep the motorcycle.

2752
02:13:24,160 --> 02:13:25,720
Speaker 1: Not that what you got, what you got for us.

2753
02:13:25,800 --> 02:13:27,160
Speaker 5: Guess where this came from?

2754
02:13:27,360 --> 02:13:30,240
Speaker 1: Oh? Is this an R slash okop show?

2755
02:13:31,560 --> 02:13:31,680
Speaker 2: Yo?

2756
02:13:32,240 --> 02:13:33,560
Speaker 4: I wonder if they're on right now?

2757
02:13:33,640 --> 02:13:35,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? Who does it come from?

2758
02:13:35,360 --> 02:13:35,400
Speaker 2: What?

2759
02:13:35,680 --> 02:13:39,760
Speaker 1: What's the one done? Millennial one done? Millennial one done millennial.

2760
02:13:39,760 --> 02:13:43,000
Speaker 1: If you are in the chat right now, please let

2761
02:13:43,080 --> 02:13:47,680
Speaker 1: us know. Hopefully you're probably watching or listening so or

2762
02:13:47,680 --> 02:13:50,680
Speaker 1: at least at least at a later time. But let's

2763
02:13:50,720 --> 02:13:54,240
Speaker 1: get into it. Let's go. If you want to submit

2764
02:13:54,280 --> 02:13:57,520
Speaker 1: your story, go to our slash Okop show or call

2765
02:13:57,600 --> 02:14:02,040
Speaker 1: us at four for zero five or eight six five.

2766
02:14:01,440 --> 02:14:04,760
Speaker 4: Yep, and let's get to the story.

2767
02:14:04,840 --> 02:14:05,440
Speaker 1: Let's get it.

2768
02:14:06,040 --> 02:14:09,080
Speaker 4: So. I got inspired by the show today to write

2769
02:14:09,120 --> 02:14:11,960
Speaker 4: about this experience from ten years ago. A buckle up.

2770
02:14:12,120 --> 02:14:13,120
Speaker 4: It is a bit long.

2771
02:14:13,200 --> 02:14:15,680
Speaker 1: Everyone, get your buckles.

2772
02:14:16,000 --> 02:14:18,120
Speaker 4: I went to college in a small Asian area. I

2773
02:14:18,160 --> 02:14:20,920
Speaker 4: am from the USA. Funnily enough, I actually moved to

2774
02:14:20,960 --> 02:14:23,160
Speaker 4: that area to be with my high school boyfriend who

2775
02:14:23,200 --> 02:14:26,080
Speaker 4: was from that country, but we broke up my freshman year.

2776
02:14:26,160 --> 02:14:28,600
Speaker 4: Crazy story there too. If you want that story.

2777
02:14:28,440 --> 02:14:28,960
Speaker 1: Later, we do.

2778
02:14:29,520 --> 02:14:31,640
Speaker 4: Anyway, I was in my third year of college, paying

2779
02:14:31,680 --> 02:14:33,720
Speaker 4: my way tutoring English on the side, as it was

2780
02:14:33,760 --> 02:14:36,320
Speaker 4: common way for expat college kids to make money there.

2781
02:14:36,760 --> 02:14:38,560
Speaker 4: I was heading to class one day when a man

2782
02:14:38,680 --> 02:14:41,280
Speaker 4: stopped me. This was not unusual, as many wanted to

2783
02:14:41,280 --> 02:14:43,880
Speaker 4: practice talking English with me as soon as they saw

2784
02:14:43,920 --> 02:14:45,880
Speaker 4: I was foreign. But this was the only But this

2785
02:14:46,040 --> 02:14:48,480
Speaker 4: was only the second time that the person actually wanted

2786
02:14:48,520 --> 02:14:51,040
Speaker 4: my number. I'm not a bad looking person, but I

2787
02:14:51,040 --> 02:14:55,160
Speaker 4: am not thin nor stereotypically attractive. I enjoy weightlifting and

2788
02:14:55,240 --> 02:14:58,800
Speaker 4: martial arts and my one and sixty five centime. Your

2789
02:14:58,840 --> 02:15:01,040
Speaker 4: frame has been able to pick up ninety two kilgrim

2790
02:15:01,840 --> 02:15:04,520
Speaker 4: dad since I was eleven. Oh, you were able to

2791
02:15:04,560 --> 02:15:06,680
Speaker 4: pick up your dad. You're so strong.

2792
02:15:06,880 --> 02:15:11,040
Speaker 1: I think I think op is saying I'm super hitting

2793
02:15:11,040 --> 02:15:11,920
Speaker 1: on her at eleven.

2794
02:15:12,120 --> 02:15:14,400
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, she's saying that.

2795
02:15:15,520 --> 02:15:16,320
Speaker 1: Repeat that line.

2796
02:15:16,400 --> 02:15:19,280
Speaker 4: Yeah. I enjoy weightlifting and martial arts and my one

2797
02:15:19,360 --> 02:15:21,440
Speaker 4: hundred and sixty five cent of you reframe has been

2798
02:15:21,440 --> 02:15:24,120
Speaker 4: able to pick up my ninety two kill gram dad

2799
02:15:24,200 --> 02:15:24,960
Speaker 4: since I was eleven.

2800
02:15:25,000 --> 02:15:26,800
Speaker 2: Oh okay, you're so strong.

2801
02:15:26,800 --> 02:15:29,720
Speaker 1: Able to pick up dads?

2802
02:15:30,320 --> 02:15:31,960
Speaker 4: Yes, muzzlemummy, so true.

2803
02:15:32,040 --> 02:15:32,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2804
02:15:32,320 --> 02:15:32,680
Speaker 1: Facts.

2805
02:15:33,120 --> 02:15:34,920
Speaker 4: So I ended up agreeing to meet up with this

2806
02:15:35,000 --> 02:15:37,760
Speaker 4: man for lunch one day between classes. He looked a

2807
02:15:37,760 --> 02:15:39,960
Speaker 4: little older, but anyone who has spent time in Asia

2808
02:15:40,000 --> 02:15:42,200
Speaker 4: and knows it's very hard to tell age and gender.

2809
02:15:42,600 --> 02:15:44,440
Speaker 4: Even I have two stories on that, but my friends

2810
02:15:44,440 --> 02:15:47,240
Speaker 4: have better ones. So this was where the red flags

2811
02:15:47,240 --> 02:15:50,440
Speaker 4: would start and never stop. But my dumb college self

2812
02:15:50,480 --> 02:15:53,080
Speaker 4: was being an idiot. On the first meeting, he wants

2813
02:15:53,120 --> 02:15:55,200
Speaker 4: to take his car to the restaurant from my college.

2814
02:15:55,440 --> 02:15:57,280
Speaker 4: I knew this was suspicious to hop in a car

2815
02:15:57,280 --> 02:15:58,200
Speaker 4: with a stranger, but.

2816
02:15:58,200 --> 02:16:02,200
Speaker 1: I already yeah, super suspicion. Sh wait wait wait with

2817
02:16:02,280 --> 02:16:03,000
Speaker 1: a stranger.

2818
02:16:03,120 --> 02:16:06,240
Speaker 4: Dude, Okay, but I already had my second black belt

2819
02:16:06,240 --> 02:16:06,760
Speaker 4: at the time.

2820
02:16:07,880 --> 02:16:10,360
Speaker 1: So he is a muscle bomby, as Jem said.

2821
02:16:10,160 --> 02:16:13,160
Speaker 4: Oh, he's like I could handle myself. I could take

2822
02:16:13,200 --> 02:16:14,680
Speaker 4: a man down with two moves.

2823
02:16:14,720 --> 02:16:16,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I could pick up all these dats.

2824
02:16:16,960 --> 02:16:19,680
Speaker 4: Yeah. When we parked and walked towards a restaurant. It

2825
02:16:19,760 --> 02:16:22,120
Speaker 4: kept feeling like his hand would knock into my butt.

2826
02:16:22,160 --> 02:16:25,080
Speaker 4: Ew It was weird. But the sidewalks are small, and

2827
02:16:25,160 --> 02:16:27,880
Speaker 4: I'm not I think he I you know.

2828
02:16:28,040 --> 02:16:30,480
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're big enough. I don't know

2829
02:16:30,520 --> 02:16:33,080
Speaker 1: if your your ass is so thick that it takes

2830
02:16:33,160 --> 02:16:35,240
Speaker 1: up the whole sidewalk that he can't help but bump

2831
02:16:35,280 --> 02:16:39,000
Speaker 1: his hands like, oh sorry, oh sorry, sorry.

2832
02:16:39,959 --> 02:16:43,240
Speaker 4: Anyway, it all seemed to go well, so I agreed

2833
02:16:43,240 --> 02:16:44,560
Speaker 4: to meet him again. A week later.

2834
02:16:44,600 --> 02:16:47,120
Speaker 1: It's going well him this old man touching your booty.

2835
02:16:48,560 --> 02:16:50,959
Speaker 4: Uh. This time he took me to Love Hotel.

2836
02:16:51,840 --> 02:16:53,959
Speaker 1: Oh that's like a like a japan thing.

2837
02:16:53,920 --> 02:16:56,520
Speaker 4: Right, I don't know anything about it.

2838
02:16:56,560 --> 02:16:58,560
Speaker 1: If you know what a Love hotel is. Put in

2839
02:16:58,560 --> 02:16:59,959
Speaker 1: the comments, I think.

2840
02:16:59,800 --> 02:17:02,400
Speaker 4: I've heard of it, but I don't know exactly what.

2841
02:17:03,080 --> 02:17:06,640
Speaker 4: But claimed it was because we could sing karaoke in private. There.

2842
02:17:07,000 --> 02:17:10,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, We're going to Love Hotel for the karaoke. I'm

2843
02:17:10,360 --> 02:17:14,480
Speaker 1: going to the strip club for the hot wings.

2844
02:17:14,640 --> 02:17:17,280
Speaker 4: Honestly, should have ducked out then, but I made it

2845
02:17:17,320 --> 02:17:19,960
Speaker 4: clear nothing was happening that day, though he still tried

2846
02:17:20,000 --> 02:17:23,959
Speaker 4: a few times. I didn't hurt him, but was for

2847
02:17:23,959 --> 02:17:26,439
Speaker 4: for She's like, I didn't use any of my black.

2848
02:17:26,280 --> 02:17:29,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was lethal weapons.

2849
02:17:29,640 --> 02:17:30,680
Speaker 4: I made it pretty clear.

2850
02:17:32,959 --> 02:17:33,680
Speaker 2: Where was it.

2851
02:17:33,800 --> 02:17:33,959
Speaker 1: Oh?

2852
02:17:34,200 --> 02:17:36,200
Speaker 4: At this point I had asked his age and he

2853
02:17:36,280 --> 02:17:38,959
Speaker 4: claimed he was twenty nine. I would have guessed early

2854
02:17:39,000 --> 02:17:41,960
Speaker 4: to mid thirties, but I have embarrassed myself before guessing

2855
02:17:42,000 --> 02:17:44,360
Speaker 4: too old. It was like that John mulaney snl skit

2856
02:17:44,400 --> 02:17:44,920
Speaker 4: where he's like.

2857
02:17:44,920 --> 02:17:47,160
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I get tired going.

2858
02:17:47,000 --> 02:17:50,640
Speaker 4: On thirty six that one. I did end up caving

2859
02:17:50,680 --> 02:17:53,160
Speaker 4: the next time he met, almost a week later though stupid,

2860
02:17:53,200 --> 02:17:55,200
Speaker 4: I know, but he did kind of spoil me and

2861
02:17:55,240 --> 02:17:57,760
Speaker 4: we texted a lot. The next time we met, he

2862
02:17:57,879 --> 02:17:59,959
Speaker 4: ended up at my place, but he didn't stay the night,

2863
02:18:00,040 --> 02:18:02,280
Speaker 4: even though I offered. At the time, I thought maybe

2864
02:18:02,320 --> 02:18:04,560
Speaker 4: he was still scared of my cat. He had jumped

2865
02:18:04,560 --> 02:18:05,959
Speaker 4: on the couch when he first saw her.

2866
02:18:06,280 --> 02:18:11,160
Speaker 1: White hot man just like so frail sounding. Yeah, like

2867
02:18:11,240 --> 02:18:13,320
Speaker 1: I was firm. I didn't hurt him though, he was

2868
02:18:13,360 --> 02:18:15,200
Speaker 1: scared of my cat. But don't worry, the cat didn't

2869
02:18:15,240 --> 02:18:15,680
Speaker 1: urt him either.

2870
02:18:15,720 --> 02:18:16,800
Speaker 4: The cat also knows black.

2871
02:18:17,160 --> 02:18:18,720
Speaker 1: That's true belt cat.

2872
02:18:18,920 --> 02:18:20,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you don't know, you don't know.

2873
02:18:20,760 --> 02:18:24,600
Speaker 1: It's like that cat in Kung Fu Panda, the snow leopard. Man,

2874
02:18:24,720 --> 02:18:27,600
Speaker 1: it's not a cat. It is a big cat.

2875
02:18:27,680 --> 02:18:28,280
Speaker 4: It's a big cat.

2876
02:18:28,360 --> 02:18:29,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a cat.

2877
02:18:29,440 --> 02:18:29,760
Speaker 4: You know what.

2878
02:18:30,120 --> 02:18:32,600
Speaker 1: Hey, I know my cat knowledge. It is a big cat.

2879
02:18:32,680 --> 02:18:35,280
Speaker 4: You're right, your son. I'm sorry, so sorry. Then I

2880
02:18:35,280 --> 02:18:37,080
Speaker 4: didn't hear for then I didn't.

2881
02:18:37,400 --> 02:18:40,199
Speaker 1: Crazy, he said, Macca says he can't handle the pussy.

2882
02:18:40,600 --> 02:18:41,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a.

2883
02:18:43,760 --> 02:18:47,600
Speaker 1: Nice one.

2884
02:18:48,000 --> 02:18:49,920
Speaker 4: Then I didn't hear from him for three days, and

2885
02:18:49,959 --> 02:18:51,920
Speaker 4: I was pretty upset when we got back in touch.

2886
02:18:52,000 --> 02:18:53,879
Speaker 4: He claimed it was a business trip, so he got

2887
02:18:53,920 --> 02:18:55,920
Speaker 4: scared of the cat, and then he ghosted her for

2888
02:18:55,959 --> 02:18:59,400
Speaker 4: three days. I guess, but he said.

2889
02:18:59,200 --> 02:19:01,360
Speaker 1: He was He said, I mean he could legitimately be

2890
02:19:01,440 --> 02:19:03,520
Speaker 1: on a business Yeah, every three.

2891
02:19:03,400 --> 02:19:05,200
Speaker 4: Days, I was on a business trip. But he wasn't

2892
02:19:05,200 --> 02:19:05,720
Speaker 4: texting her.

2893
02:19:06,040 --> 02:19:07,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't respond to people for multiple days.

2894
02:19:07,959 --> 02:19:10,039
Speaker 4: But that's just you, because you're bad at responding.

2895
02:19:10,320 --> 02:19:11,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2896
02:19:11,760 --> 02:19:13,800
Speaker 4: We met up this time because he was curious about

2897
02:19:13,840 --> 02:19:16,959
Speaker 4: my motorcycle and he wanted to try riding it. Oh,

2898
02:19:17,040 --> 02:19:20,560
Speaker 4: he sounds you. This is one of the okop fans. Yeah,

2899
02:19:20,959 --> 02:19:24,200
Speaker 4: you sound so cool, I know, like black that like

2900
02:19:24,680 --> 02:19:29,440
Speaker 4: the more that you you got a motorcycle, you're so cool? Like,

2901
02:19:29,720 --> 02:19:33,000
Speaker 4: uh okay. We met up this time because he was

2902
02:19:33,040 --> 02:19:35,720
Speaker 4: curious about my motorcycle and he wanted to try riding it.

2903
02:19:35,720 --> 02:19:37,960
Speaker 4: It was a twenty year old one hundred and fifty cc,

2904
02:19:38,240 --> 02:19:40,520
Speaker 4: so if something happened, it wasn't that big a deal,

2905
02:19:40,600 --> 02:19:42,840
Speaker 4: so I agreed. We hung out for a bit while

2906
02:19:42,879 --> 02:19:45,760
Speaker 4: I taught him out to ride. Like two days later, though,

2907
02:19:45,800 --> 02:19:48,560
Speaker 4: my motorcycle's engine broke down and could only be fixed

2908
02:19:48,560 --> 02:19:50,920
Speaker 4: by replacing the engine. I did not have that kind

2909
02:19:50,959 --> 02:19:53,320
Speaker 4: of money, So guess who comes in to buy me

2910
02:19:53,400 --> 02:19:55,680
Speaker 4: a new motorcycle with every.

2911
02:19:55,480 --> 02:20:02,840
Speaker 1: Figure in my baby sugar, she can't help such booty.

2912
02:20:03,480 --> 02:20:05,959
Speaker 4: It was just another little one hundred and fifty cc,

2913
02:20:06,240 --> 02:20:08,920
Speaker 4: but it was brand new, so I was half in love,

2914
02:20:09,120 --> 02:20:11,520
Speaker 4: even though I only knew this guy for like three weeks.

2915
02:20:11,920 --> 02:20:16,280
Speaker 4: This is when everything starts going to a real Are

2916
02:20:16,280 --> 02:20:18,240
Speaker 4: we allowed to swear on this swear?

2917
02:20:19,280 --> 02:20:20,400
Speaker 1: Oh my god?

2918
02:20:22,160 --> 02:20:25,680
Speaker 4: You know he now starts talking about how he prefers

2919
02:20:25,760 --> 02:20:27,600
Speaker 4: dogs to cats, so I should get rid of my

2920
02:20:27,640 --> 02:20:30,640
Speaker 4: cat so he can get me a dog. That's weird.

2921
02:20:31,080 --> 02:20:33,440
Speaker 4: I adopted her from the shelter and she was blind

2922
02:20:36,000 --> 02:20:40,120
Speaker 4: and she's still new karatea. Then he thinks my flat

2923
02:20:40,160 --> 02:20:42,720
Speaker 4: is too far away, small and cheap. I am, I'm

2924
02:20:42,760 --> 02:20:44,720
Speaker 4: in college overseas, so duh.

2925
02:20:44,760 --> 02:20:46,560
Speaker 1: And he's like, I will get you a new flat.

2926
02:20:46,760 --> 02:20:49,240
Speaker 4: Yeah no, yeah, so he wants to buy me a

2927
02:20:49,280 --> 02:20:52,880
Speaker 4: flat in the city. At this point, why buy So

2928
02:20:52,879 --> 02:20:55,160
Speaker 4: he's got he's got a new motorcycle. He's trying to

2929
02:20:55,160 --> 02:20:56,920
Speaker 4: get rid of the cat, which is weird.

2930
02:20:57,200 --> 02:20:58,879
Speaker 1: How rich is this dude?

2931
02:20:58,920 --> 02:21:02,000
Speaker 4: He's got money. He hasn't got muscles, but he's got money.

2932
02:21:02,080 --> 02:21:02,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2933
02:21:02,320 --> 02:21:05,080
Speaker 1: What he lacks and muscles and courage he makes up

2934
02:21:05,120 --> 02:21:06,400
Speaker 1: for dollar bells.

2935
02:21:07,920 --> 02:21:09,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, so he wants to buy me a flat in

2936
02:21:09,800 --> 02:21:12,160
Speaker 4: the city. At this point, alarm bells are ringing in

2937
02:21:12,200 --> 02:21:15,160
Speaker 4: my head because who does this three weeks into knowing

2938
02:21:15,160 --> 02:21:15,600
Speaker 4: a person?

2939
02:21:15,840 --> 02:21:16,920
Speaker 1: Dude like a billionaire?

2940
02:21:16,959 --> 02:21:20,720
Speaker 4: A billionaire? So I confront him. Turns out he's forty

2941
02:21:20,760 --> 02:21:28,320
Speaker 4: one and married. That's crazy. Yeah yeah, yeah, get get

2942
02:21:28,360 --> 02:21:30,480
Speaker 4: all the things you can get, well the motorcycles in

2943
02:21:30,520 --> 02:21:37,560
Speaker 4: her name, which you know might see why that's importantly Sorry.

2944
02:21:38,080 --> 02:21:39,440
Speaker 4: I see you in the commons, but.

2945
02:21:39,440 --> 02:21:41,200
Speaker 1: I see you in the comments. You see what's coming.

2946
02:21:41,240 --> 02:21:43,280
Speaker 1: I see it. Also, do you think he's going to

2947
02:21:43,320 --> 02:21:44,320
Speaker 1: get the flat?

2948
02:21:44,680 --> 02:21:47,000
Speaker 4: I hope, so I don't. I think it might be too.

2949
02:21:47,400 --> 02:21:48,840
Speaker 4: I think that was what we talked about.

2950
02:21:48,920 --> 02:21:50,879
Speaker 1: I feel. But also it's like, no free lunch. You

2951
02:21:50,879 --> 02:21:53,879
Speaker 1: don't just get a flat, you don't free You got

2952
02:21:53,879 --> 02:21:54,520
Speaker 1: a motorcycles?

2953
02:21:54,800 --> 02:21:54,959
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2954
02:21:55,040 --> 02:21:57,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you get a motorcycle over no flat.

2955
02:21:57,560 --> 02:22:00,640
Speaker 4: Yeah. He claims he hasn't been sleeping with his wife

2956
02:22:00,680 --> 02:22:03,040
Speaker 4: since meeting me, and that I'm the only girl for him.

2957
02:22:03,680 --> 02:22:06,080
Speaker 1: I swear I haven't been cheating. Got you with my wife?

2958
02:22:09,200 --> 02:22:12,120
Speaker 4: Yeah right, buddy. I immediately break up with him, and

2959
02:22:12,160 --> 02:22:13,880
Speaker 4: you would think that would be the end, but no,

2960
02:22:14,200 --> 02:22:16,200
Speaker 4: he decides the best way to try to get me

2961
02:22:16,280 --> 02:22:18,600
Speaker 4: back is to stalk me for the next five months.

2962
02:22:18,840 --> 02:22:24,959
Speaker 4: Why would you stalk a black belt? That's silly, nose broken?

2963
02:22:25,160 --> 02:22:28,800
Speaker 1: Yeah would? I think that's my favorite Sophia quote. Why

2964
02:22:28,800 --> 02:22:31,360
Speaker 1: would you stock get on her shirt?

2965
02:22:31,520 --> 02:22:35,800
Speaker 4: Yeah? No, this man is crazy. So he got Oh

2966
02:22:35,840 --> 02:22:38,840
Speaker 4: where was I? So he just yeah. I stupidly thought

2967
02:22:38,920 --> 02:22:40,640
Speaker 4: the breakup was the end of it, so I didn't

2968
02:22:40,680 --> 02:22:42,640
Speaker 4: tell the guards at my flat right away not to

2969
02:22:42,720 --> 02:22:45,760
Speaker 4: let him in. So he got into my flat one

2970
02:22:45,840 --> 02:22:48,000
Speaker 4: night and tried to get me to have sex with

2971
02:22:48,080 --> 02:22:50,200
Speaker 4: him again by stripping down and chasing me. He just

2972
02:22:50,240 --> 02:22:51,040
Speaker 4: assaulted you.

2973
02:22:51,680 --> 02:22:56,200
Speaker 1: That's horrible, bro, you some of that karate chop hisick off.

2974
02:22:56,280 --> 02:22:58,560
Speaker 4: I back kicked him, broke his rib, and then locked

2975
02:22:58,600 --> 02:23:00,680
Speaker 4: myself in my room with my cat ntil he left me.

2976
02:23:03,160 --> 02:23:07,600
Speaker 4: I am very badass. Also, I'm so sorry that happened

2977
02:23:07,600 --> 02:23:12,480
Speaker 4: you because that fully assaulted you. Yeah, that's horrible, but I'm.

2978
02:23:12,360 --> 02:23:15,920
Speaker 1: Glad you Yeah, yeah, okay.

2979
02:23:15,680 --> 02:23:18,200
Speaker 4: Very strong. Yeah, no, this is good. I hope he

2980
02:23:18,200 --> 02:23:20,840
Speaker 4: goes to jail. I immediately told the guards not to

2981
02:23:20,920 --> 02:23:23,320
Speaker 4: let him in anymore after that. So he started leaving

2982
02:23:23,360 --> 02:23:26,480
Speaker 4: presents on my motorbike, the one he bought, yes, and

2983
02:23:26,560 --> 02:23:29,120
Speaker 4: showing up at my college he even brought. He even

2984
02:23:29,160 --> 02:23:32,920
Speaker 4: bought himself a Honda CBR six hundred to try to

2985
02:23:32,959 --> 02:23:36,440
Speaker 4: impress me and offer to let me ride it. Yeah no, thanks, buddy.

2986
02:23:37,040 --> 02:23:38,920
Speaker 4: I finally got him to stop while I was at

2987
02:23:38,920 --> 02:23:39,480
Speaker 4: my agents.

2988
02:23:39,640 --> 02:23:42,440
Speaker 1: I feel like a broken rib would be enough of

2989
02:23:42,480 --> 02:23:44,640
Speaker 1: a signal like, hey, I'm not interested.

2990
02:23:44,720 --> 02:23:48,960
Speaker 4: Well, no, this guy is horrible person, and obviously yeah,

2991
02:23:49,200 --> 02:23:49,760
Speaker 4: very much so.

2992
02:23:49,959 --> 02:23:52,840
Speaker 1: I think this is probably what I can't imagine is

2993
02:23:52,879 --> 02:23:55,520
Speaker 1: the first person that he's done this too.

2994
02:23:55,600 --> 02:23:58,439
Speaker 4: No, No, he like has a wife and he's probably

2995
02:23:58,480 --> 02:24:01,040
Speaker 4: like kind of you know, going out after these young

2996
02:24:01,120 --> 02:24:04,720
Speaker 4: college girls, it seems, and it just it. Fortunately, Opie is.

2997
02:24:04,840 --> 02:24:05,480
Speaker 1: A black belt.

2998
02:24:05,520 --> 02:24:07,879
Speaker 4: A black belt, you know, so he can't do that.

2999
02:24:07,920 --> 02:24:08,879
Speaker 4: But no, this is horrible.

3000
02:24:09,360 --> 02:24:10,680
Speaker 1: He needs to break more than his ribs.

3001
02:24:10,840 --> 02:24:18,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, Jesus, I finally got him to stop. While I

3002
02:24:18,160 --> 02:24:20,120
Speaker 4: was at my agent's She set me up with tutoring

3003
02:24:20,200 --> 02:24:23,120
Speaker 4: jobs and another tutor was there. I was complaining to

3004
02:24:23,160 --> 02:24:25,440
Speaker 4: them about the guy, and the other tutor offered to

3005
02:24:25,480 --> 02:24:28,040
Speaker 4: take a picture together like we were dating. The guy

3006
02:24:28,040 --> 02:24:29,840
Speaker 4: didn't believe it at first, but only kept up the

3007
02:24:29,840 --> 02:24:32,240
Speaker 4: shenanigans for another week. So that was the end of it.

3008
02:24:32,560 --> 02:24:35,280
Speaker 4: I sold the motorbike when I graduated and left the country.

3009
02:24:35,560 --> 02:24:37,760
Speaker 4: I never tried to find or tell his wife, and

3010
02:24:37,840 --> 02:24:40,560
Speaker 4: not because I didn't want to. But in certain countries,

3011
02:24:40,560 --> 02:24:42,840
Speaker 4: including the area I was in, the wife cannot sue

3012
02:24:42,959 --> 02:24:47,440
Speaker 4: or divorce her husband with the reason of cheating. She can, however,

3013
02:24:47,560 --> 02:24:50,160
Speaker 4: sue the mistress, so I was advised to not try

3014
02:24:50,160 --> 02:24:52,400
Speaker 4: to find her in case she decided to blame me.

3015
02:24:52,520 --> 02:24:56,080
Speaker 1: That is whack. There's some whack laws right now. That's horrible.

3016
02:24:57,080 --> 02:24:58,680
Speaker 4: I know it has been ten years, but I hope

3017
02:24:58,720 --> 02:25:00,360
Speaker 4: she found out what a piece of gar but she

3018
02:25:00,520 --> 02:25:02,000
Speaker 4: is and left his ass.

3019
02:25:02,640 --> 02:25:06,039
Speaker 1: Dang, Wow that is rough, Okay, I mean, uh one,

3020
02:25:06,280 --> 02:25:08,959
Speaker 1: how how do you think you avoid situations like this?

3021
02:25:09,080 --> 02:25:11,600
Speaker 1: But your answers in the comments, I would love to

3022
02:25:11,760 --> 02:25:15,800
Speaker 1: hear what what you should do? But that is like like,

3023
02:25:15,879 --> 02:25:19,080
Speaker 1: and and do we know what country? Ope's in Japan?

3024
02:25:19,200 --> 02:25:21,600
Speaker 1: He did not say it Probably not is in Japan.

3025
02:25:21,879 --> 02:25:24,600
Speaker 1: I can't imagine Japan's divorce laws are like that.

3026
02:25:24,840 --> 02:25:29,000
Speaker 4: No, they didn't say they just a small Asian area. Yeah,

3027
02:25:29,040 --> 02:25:29,720
Speaker 4: so we don't know.

3028
02:25:29,720 --> 02:25:31,920
Speaker 1: If I wonder, I does anyone have any guesses what

3029
02:25:31,959 --> 02:25:34,560
Speaker 1: country this could be? And it's also I would does

3030
02:25:34,600 --> 02:25:38,760
Speaker 1: anyone have any sugar daddy stories stories? I remember this

3031
02:25:38,800 --> 02:25:41,160
Speaker 1: girl in college got like like one of my I

3032
02:25:41,760 --> 02:25:45,200
Speaker 1: lived with an ex girlfriend for like a year in college,

3033
02:25:45,240 --> 02:25:47,119
Speaker 1: and so we had all these other girls that were

3034
02:25:47,120 --> 02:25:50,440
Speaker 1: living with us, and one of the girls had this

3035
02:25:50,480 --> 02:25:53,080
Speaker 1: is okay story time. One of the girls literally got

3036
02:25:53,160 --> 02:25:57,200
Speaker 1: everything paid for by her sugar daddy, like everything, and

3037
02:25:57,240 --> 02:26:00,400
Speaker 1: got a monthly allowance of like two grand Wow. Yeah,

3038
02:26:00,440 --> 02:26:01,440
Speaker 1: isn't crazy crazy?

3039
02:26:01,600 --> 02:26:04,840
Speaker 4: See? I feel like the benefits of sugar daddy ing

3040
02:26:04,920 --> 02:26:07,920
Speaker 4: seem nice, but I just don't think I could. I mean,

3041
02:26:07,959 --> 02:26:10,680
Speaker 4: I'm an actor. I don't think I could act that

3042
02:26:10,360 --> 02:26:12,480
Speaker 4: at that. I don't know, dude, I don't think I

3043
02:26:12,480 --> 02:26:12,920
Speaker 4: could do that.

3044
02:26:12,959 --> 02:26:16,199
Speaker 1: But wait, I want to see so Zodiac says China.

3045
02:26:15,959 --> 02:26:18,720
Speaker 4: Could be so, another person says South Korea because you

3046
02:26:18,720 --> 02:26:20,160
Speaker 4: can sue the mistress.

3047
02:26:21,200 --> 02:26:24,040
Speaker 1: And then Eric says, f y, there is an update

3048
02:26:24,080 --> 02:26:26,760
Speaker 1: to the wife abandoning op and traveling around the world

3049
02:26:27,120 --> 02:26:31,320
Speaker 1: because she thought she was going to get dementia. This

3050
02:26:31,400 --> 02:26:33,840
Speaker 1: last story that we read, oh at the anniversary, I

3051
02:26:33,879 --> 02:26:37,240
Speaker 1: think for this, I think, And then Sydney says, why

3052
02:26:37,240 --> 02:26:38,440
Speaker 1: can't she get a restraining order?

3053
02:26:38,520 --> 02:26:39,279
Speaker 4: That's what I was wondering.

3054
02:26:39,320 --> 02:26:40,560
Speaker 1: I think it's because of the country.

3055
02:26:40,600 --> 02:26:43,680
Speaker 4: It might be the country specifically, because this all feels

3056
02:26:43,680 --> 02:26:46,600
Speaker 4: like things that you know, at least here you could.

3057
02:26:46,440 --> 02:26:47,800
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you could get a restraining order.

3058
02:26:47,840 --> 02:26:49,959
Speaker 4: You know, get a restraining order. Even well, I mean

3059
02:26:49,959 --> 02:26:51,560
Speaker 4: that's grounds for going to the police.

3060
02:26:51,480 --> 02:26:56,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what, definitely I have grounds for Sophia.

3061
02:26:56,959 --> 02:26:58,680
Speaker 4: That was a weird lead in this reading.

3062
02:26:59,640 --> 02:27:03,920
Speaker 1: Star he give me that phone the red flag? All right,

3063
02:27:04,000 --> 02:27:07,879
Speaker 1: let us hit this next story. I'm so glad everyone

3064
02:27:07,920 --> 02:27:09,840
Speaker 1: is here on the live By the way, the call

3065
02:27:09,879 --> 02:27:12,240
Speaker 1: in number I crave fried Chicken is four for zero,

3066
02:27:12,600 --> 02:27:15,440
Speaker 1: five zero eight, six, six hundred. Also, we're at five

3067
02:27:15,520 --> 02:27:19,160
Speaker 1: hundred and ninety four people on the between like Facebook, YouTube,

3068
02:27:19,200 --> 02:27:23,280
Speaker 1: and Twitch. So if let's let's see if we can

3069
02:27:23,280 --> 02:27:25,440
Speaker 1: get to six hundred. So stay on the line because

3070
02:27:25,440 --> 02:27:30,360
Speaker 1: we got some more juicy stories for you. This is today.

3071
02:27:30,360 --> 02:27:32,880
Speaker 1: I afked up by telling my girlfriend I knew she

3072
02:27:33,040 --> 02:27:38,840
Speaker 1: cheated on me. Juicy, juicy, juicy. This happened approximately six

3073
02:27:38,920 --> 02:27:41,640
Speaker 1: years ago. I was laughing about it with my friend today,

3074
02:27:41,680 --> 02:27:46,120
Speaker 1: who recommended that I posted here, so let's all laugh

3075
02:27:46,160 --> 02:27:47,040
Speaker 1: at it together.

3076
02:27:47,160 --> 02:27:49,440
Speaker 4: I am not cold. I'm sorry, I'm just I'm just

3077
02:27:49,480 --> 02:27:51,640
Speaker 4: sitting like that. Someone asked if I was cold. Yeah,

3078
02:27:51,760 --> 02:27:52,680
Speaker 4: it's actually quite hot.

3079
02:27:52,600 --> 02:27:55,840
Speaker 1: Now I'm actually burning up in this sweater. And then Riley,

3080
02:27:55,879 --> 02:27:58,720
Speaker 1: after this story, maybe John can sub it for me

3081
02:27:58,800 --> 02:28:03,960
Speaker 1: because I need to eat. So flashback to undergrad. Things

3082
02:28:04,000 --> 02:28:06,520
Speaker 1: are good and I just started dating this beautiful girl

3083
02:28:06,560 --> 02:28:09,840
Speaker 1: that I had met in class. I was enamored with her,

3084
02:28:10,000 --> 02:28:12,920
Speaker 1: shocked that I loved her so fast, and amazed that

3085
02:28:13,000 --> 02:28:17,080
Speaker 1: she even wanted to date me. The first months are amazing.

3086
02:28:17,400 --> 02:28:19,680
Speaker 1: We can't keep our hands off of each other and

3087
02:28:19,920 --> 02:28:22,880
Speaker 1: never seem to be sick of each other's company. After

3088
02:28:22,920 --> 02:28:25,760
Speaker 1: a few months into our relationship, I started to notice

3089
02:28:25,920 --> 02:28:32,320
Speaker 1: some concerning symptoms. As you can probably hypothesize. When I peeded,

3090
02:28:33,600 --> 02:28:34,160
Speaker 1: it burned.

3091
02:28:34,760 --> 02:28:37,240
Speaker 4: Oh oh, man, it wakes.

3092
02:28:37,760 --> 02:28:40,280
Speaker 1: You want that to be gone. You should go to

3093
02:28:40,280 --> 02:28:42,920
Speaker 1: the doctor about that us gania. At first, I just

3094
02:28:42,959 --> 02:28:45,040
Speaker 1: assumed it must have been something weird in my diet.

3095
02:28:45,320 --> 02:28:48,720
Speaker 1: To be sure, I decided to stop taking creatine just

3096
02:28:48,760 --> 02:28:51,760
Speaker 1: in case. But as time went on. A few days later,

3097
02:28:52,000 --> 02:28:54,080
Speaker 1: the burning became unbearable.

3098
02:28:54,640 --> 02:28:55,000
Speaker 4: Yikes.

3099
02:28:55,400 --> 02:29:00,720
Speaker 1: Love is a burning thing, and it makes a fire sting.

3100
02:29:01,200 --> 02:29:04,440
Speaker 1: I would literally be struggling to stand while I peed

3101
02:29:04,560 --> 02:29:08,240
Speaker 1: because the pain was so intense. After I would literally

3102
02:29:08,320 --> 02:29:10,680
Speaker 1: lay in my bed in the fetal position until the

3103
02:29:10,720 --> 02:29:13,760
Speaker 1: pain subsided. It was bad. Oh you go to a doctor.

3104
02:29:14,320 --> 02:29:14,840
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

3105
02:29:15,000 --> 02:29:17,199
Speaker 1: Well, at least this point, I was no longer convinced

3106
02:29:17,240 --> 02:29:20,760
Speaker 1: that my diet was causing the symptoms. No, it had

3107
02:29:20,800 --> 02:29:26,360
Speaker 1: to be what I thought was unfathomable. My girlfriend must

3108
02:29:26,360 --> 02:29:28,680
Speaker 1: have cheated on me. Yikes, Yeah, what would you think

3109
02:29:28,720 --> 02:29:30,640
Speaker 1: in the situation, Well.

3110
02:29:30,560 --> 02:29:32,119
Speaker 4: I would have gone to the doctor right away.

3111
02:29:32,240 --> 02:29:35,280
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, put your put your curiosity to rest. Just

3112
02:29:35,720 --> 02:29:39,879
Speaker 1: find out Underscore fifty five Nope, had to be a uti.

3113
02:29:39,959 --> 02:29:42,600
Speaker 1: It could be a uti. Yeah, it doesn't necessarily have

3114
02:29:42,640 --> 02:29:43,519
Speaker 1: to be cheating.

3115
02:29:44,920 --> 02:29:48,959
Speaker 4: That it's true. Yeah, but you can only find out

3116
02:29:48,959 --> 02:29:49,720
Speaker 4: if you go to the doctor.

3117
02:29:50,000 --> 02:29:50,760
Speaker 1: Go to the doctor.

3118
02:29:50,760 --> 02:29:53,520
Speaker 4: Op it tested regardless, even if it was like something

3119
02:29:53,560 --> 02:29:55,279
Speaker 4: in your diet. I feel like if if.

3120
02:29:55,160 --> 02:29:57,680
Speaker 1: It was just go to a doctor, I had been

3121
02:29:57,680 --> 02:30:00,000
Speaker 1: with anyone else. I hadn't been with anyone else since

3122
02:30:00,080 --> 02:30:04,039
Speaker 1: I began pursuing her months before we became exclusive. I

3123
02:30:04,400 --> 02:30:08,359
Speaker 1: was shocked. Things seemed to be so perfect. She seemed

3124
02:30:08,560 --> 02:30:12,160
Speaker 1: like such a good person. Where had I gone wrong?

3125
02:30:12,920 --> 02:30:17,640
Speaker 1: The thought made my blood boil until I outright confronted her.

3126
02:30:18,120 --> 02:30:20,520
Speaker 1: I told her I knew she must have been unfaithful

3127
02:30:20,520 --> 02:30:23,080
Speaker 1: because of my symptoms and asked her if she had

3128
02:30:23,200 --> 02:30:29,520
Speaker 1: similar symptoms. She told me no. Yeah. Someone asked, is

3129
02:30:29,560 --> 02:30:31,880
Speaker 1: it koalape again? We had a story about koala is

3130
02:30:31,920 --> 02:30:35,000
Speaker 1: peeing on someone? What do you guys think it is?

3131
02:30:35,040 --> 02:30:38,800
Speaker 1: Put your answer to the comments way actually conspiracy theories? Okay,

3132
02:30:40,240 --> 02:30:41,600
Speaker 1: what do you think? Fora wait?

3133
02:30:41,680 --> 02:30:43,760
Speaker 4: So he did he say that he has.

3134
02:30:43,640 --> 02:30:45,440
Speaker 1: Gone to the doctor yet hasn't got a doctor he's

3135
02:30:45,440 --> 02:30:46,560
Speaker 1: about to figure it find it out though.

3136
02:30:47,480 --> 02:30:49,440
Speaker 4: Uh oh after going what do you mean.

3137
02:30:49,640 --> 02:30:52,080
Speaker 1: He hasn't found out yet what it is?

3138
02:30:52,160 --> 02:30:54,320
Speaker 4: Oh from the Okay, Okay, Yeah, I think you gotta

3139
02:30:54,360 --> 02:30:57,199
Speaker 4: wait until you get your stuff back from the doctor

3140
02:30:57,200 --> 02:30:59,120
Speaker 4: before you go accusing anyone.

3141
02:30:59,480 --> 02:31:02,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be a it could be an urinary

3142
02:31:02,320 --> 02:31:04,959
Speaker 1: track infection. It could it could be an SDD. It

3143
02:31:04,959 --> 02:31:08,840
Speaker 1: could just be like I don't know, acid p is

3144
02:31:08,879 --> 02:31:11,560
Speaker 1: the place. Who knows. It could be a million things.

3145
02:31:11,720 --> 02:31:14,200
Speaker 1: The only way to truly know is go to a doctor. Yeah, yeah,

3146
02:31:14,680 --> 02:31:16,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. What do you guys think? Put your

3147
02:31:16,080 --> 02:31:18,000
Speaker 1: answers in the comments, but we're gonna go back to

3148
02:31:18,360 --> 02:31:21,279
Speaker 1: a reality. April says it could be a kidney infection.

3149
02:31:21,480 --> 02:31:24,959
Speaker 1: So there's a bunch of things, so many things. So

3150
02:31:27,000 --> 02:31:29,280
Speaker 1: she told me, no, I don't have the same symptoms.

3151
02:31:29,280 --> 02:31:31,000
Speaker 1: I demanded that she come with me to a clinic,

3152
02:31:31,080 --> 02:31:33,360
Speaker 1: that we both take a test and share results, and

3153
02:31:33,400 --> 02:31:34,040
Speaker 1: she said sure.

3154
02:31:35,080 --> 02:31:39,520
Speaker 4: She seems too calm for, you know, her to actually

3155
02:31:39,560 --> 02:31:40,000
Speaker 4: be cheating.

3156
02:31:40,760 --> 02:31:43,240
Speaker 1: So you think it is not a red flag? You

3157
02:31:43,280 --> 02:31:47,480
Speaker 1: think that her saying sure is a green flag?

3158
02:31:47,879 --> 02:31:52,000
Speaker 4: Yeah? I think I don't think she cheated personally because.

3159
02:31:51,800 --> 02:31:55,600
Speaker 1: I think she's so down to go. Yeah, yeah, she's lazy. Fine,

3160
02:31:55,720 --> 02:32:00,199
Speaker 1: So we agreed to go the next day. Looking back

3161
02:32:00,280 --> 02:32:02,840
Speaker 1: at this, I feel like a complete dick. Maybe some foreshadowing.

3162
02:32:03,160 --> 02:32:05,840
Speaker 1: The same night I confront of my girlfriend, my roommate's

3163
02:32:05,879 --> 02:32:08,240
Speaker 1: girlfriend came over to stay at our place. She was

3164
02:32:08,280 --> 02:32:10,119
Speaker 1: being nice and went to do some of the dishes

3165
02:32:10,160 --> 02:32:13,440
Speaker 1: for us. Around the time, my roommates and I had

3166
02:32:13,480 --> 02:32:17,320
Speaker 1: just moved into the new house. In the process of

3167
02:32:17,400 --> 02:32:21,320
Speaker 1: all of our belongings getting shuffled around, she went to

3168
02:32:21,360 --> 02:32:25,960
Speaker 1: get some dishwashing pods and exclaimed, why are you guys

3169
02:32:26,200 --> 02:32:32,640
Speaker 1: washing your dishes with laundry detergent. I heard that and

3170
02:32:32,840 --> 02:32:37,840
Speaker 1: it clicked, Holy shit, I've been pissing out bleach.

3171
02:32:39,560 --> 02:32:40,440
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

3172
02:32:40,720 --> 02:32:44,000
Speaker 1: I instantly felt ashamed and immediately apologized to my girlfriend.

3173
02:32:44,040 --> 02:32:46,320
Speaker 1: She took it really well, laughed at the situation, and

3174
02:32:46,360 --> 02:32:48,840
Speaker 1: we forgot about it. Sure Enough, a few days later,

3175
02:32:48,920 --> 02:32:51,800
Speaker 1: after our dishes slash cups were no longer saturated with

3176
02:32:51,879 --> 02:32:55,320
Speaker 1: bleach residue, my symptoms disappeared.

3177
02:32:55,440 --> 02:32:56,879
Speaker 4: She was microdosing bleach.

3178
02:32:56,959 --> 02:33:01,400
Speaker 1: Micro dosing bleach, which I've heard, Wow, is not very healthy.

3179
02:33:02,400 --> 02:33:04,520
Speaker 4: I've heard that's not very good. I'm not a doctor.

3180
02:33:05,560 --> 02:33:07,360
Speaker 1: Doctor, I mean, it's not very good for you. It

3181
02:33:07,400 --> 02:33:10,120
Speaker 1: could be a you know, a cool trend that the

3182
02:33:10,200 --> 02:33:13,080
Speaker 1: kids are doing these days, you know, yeah, you know

3183
02:33:13,200 --> 02:33:15,840
Speaker 1: like how like all the kids they're like, oh like

3184
02:33:15,920 --> 02:33:19,879
Speaker 1: let's uh uh eat tide pods micros But.

3185
02:33:20,200 --> 02:33:20,960
Speaker 4: Actually did that?

3186
02:33:21,080 --> 02:33:21,320
Speaker 1: Who?

3187
02:33:21,360 --> 02:33:23,800
Speaker 4: Actually? I feel like that was sensationalized.

3188
02:33:24,000 --> 02:33:25,280
Speaker 1: What tie pods?

3189
02:33:25,360 --> 02:33:25,920
Speaker 4: Yeah?

3190
02:33:26,040 --> 02:33:28,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, I've seen it all over TikTok exactly.

3191
02:33:28,680 --> 02:33:30,840
Speaker 4: Everything on TikTok is sensationalized.

3192
02:33:30,959 --> 02:33:35,280
Speaker 1: No, everything on TikTok is true and nothing but the true, Sophia,

3193
02:33:35,360 --> 02:33:37,680
Speaker 1: but leave the TikTok, said Bleach Maxing.

3194
02:33:38,000 --> 02:33:39,400
Speaker 4: I just want I don't know if you guys have

3195
02:33:39,440 --> 02:33:43,120
Speaker 4: seen the Curtis Connor Look Mac, Look Mac, I can't speak,

3196
02:33:42,600 --> 02:33:46,000
Speaker 4: look Max in video. It's like this thing on TikTok

3197
02:33:46,040 --> 02:33:51,520
Speaker 4: where people are just trying to look better but with makeup. No,

3198
02:33:51,680 --> 02:33:55,840
Speaker 4: like they're doing like jaw exercise. Yeah, the mewing.

3199
02:33:58,520 --> 02:33:59,720
Speaker 1: Do we look mute beautiful?

3200
02:34:01,800 --> 02:34:02,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

3201
02:34:02,120 --> 02:34:04,480
Speaker 1: That uh yeah? I think that that is why you

3202
02:34:04,520 --> 02:34:09,080
Speaker 1: don't jump to conclusions before seeing it out here. But Sophia,

3203
02:34:09,320 --> 02:34:11,160
Speaker 1: you know what you should see right now?

3204
02:34:11,360 --> 02:34:13,320
Speaker 4: You could have said, you know what you should jump to.

3205
02:34:13,560 --> 02:34:15,920
Speaker 1: You know what, you should jump through this next door?

3206
02:34:16,959 --> 02:34:19,920
Speaker 1: All right, here you go, are John. This is a thick,

3207
02:34:20,000 --> 02:34:23,720
Speaker 1: juicy one. If John wants to come in and relieve

3208
02:34:23,800 --> 02:34:26,080
Speaker 1: me so I can eat. I have been doing this

3209
02:34:26,120 --> 02:34:29,920
Speaker 1: for like hours and hours. I haven't pee, I haven't

3210
02:34:29,920 --> 02:34:33,440
Speaker 1: eaten the things we sacrifice for you, and we love

3211
02:34:33,480 --> 02:34:35,480
Speaker 1: doing it, but I I really I need to go

3212
02:34:35,480 --> 02:34:38,080
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. So if John can, you could start

3213
02:34:38,080 --> 02:34:39,960
Speaker 1: reading Sophia because we didn't get into this next door

3214
02:34:39,959 --> 02:34:41,560
Speaker 1: because the live stream death that stop.

3215
02:34:41,640 --> 02:34:43,720
Speaker 4: Y'all stop.

3216
02:34:46,200 --> 02:34:46,920
Speaker 1: Right now, let's go.

3217
02:34:47,000 --> 02:34:50,800
Speaker 4: Hold on, hold on. There is a little skit that

3218
02:34:50,920 --> 02:34:53,680
Speaker 4: I guess someone wrote, whereas since John, you know what's

3219
02:34:53,720 --> 02:34:59,680
Speaker 4: worse than cyberbuwling? Sam insert sam improv I.

3220
02:34:59,600 --> 02:35:05,160
Speaker 1: Don't know what's worse than cyber bowling, noating, cyber cheating. No,

3221
02:35:05,280 --> 02:35:08,120
Speaker 1: you didn't do the impression with that. I think I

3222
02:35:08,240 --> 02:35:12,280
Speaker 1: have to cheat on my co host by go snacking

3223
02:35:12,400 --> 02:35:15,039
Speaker 1: on some food. So John comes some in to me.

3224
02:35:15,600 --> 02:35:17,080
Speaker 1: It's about this start this next.

3225
02:35:16,959 --> 02:35:21,760
Speaker 4: Door so it says they did their dishes with chlorine

3226
02:35:21,840 --> 02:35:23,560
Speaker 4: and my pee doesn't burn. I don't know if you

3227
02:35:23,560 --> 02:35:24,400
Speaker 4: should be doing that.

3228
02:35:24,840 --> 02:35:28,680
Speaker 5: Wait, I'm sorry, John, you sit there. Should you sit

3229
02:35:28,720 --> 02:35:33,920
Speaker 5: where Sophia is because this hurts my head?

3230
02:35:35,600 --> 02:35:39,080
Speaker 1: Just thank you little musical chairs. Also, you can see

3231
02:35:39,120 --> 02:35:42,040
Speaker 1: we all live together, we're all we're all in all

3232
02:35:42,080 --> 02:35:44,520
Speaker 1: in the same. Sam's gonna get a uti here soon.

3233
02:35:44,640 --> 02:35:46,320
Speaker 1: Why would you put that into the universe?

3234
02:35:50,560 --> 02:35:52,960
Speaker 4: I was I'm knocking on the doubly.

3235
02:35:53,040 --> 02:35:55,920
Speaker 2: So that's everyone, Sophia.

3236
02:35:56,360 --> 02:35:56,840
Speaker 4: What's up.

3237
02:35:56,920 --> 02:35:57,520
Speaker 2: How's it been going?

3238
02:35:57,560 --> 02:36:00,680
Speaker 4: It's been going well? Just did the skit? That's one wrote?

3239
02:36:00,959 --> 02:36:02,680
Speaker 2: Nice. Oh that's amazing.

3240
02:36:02,760 --> 02:36:04,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're here, here, here we go. We'll do it

3241
02:36:04,840 --> 02:36:06,920
Speaker 4: again because Sam did a horrible chunk.

3242
02:36:07,040 --> 02:36:10,320
Speaker 3: All right, let's try this the real way, y'all. You

3243
02:36:10,360 --> 02:36:12,160
Speaker 3: know what's worse than cyberbillying?

3244
02:36:12,720 --> 02:36:16,640
Speaker 4: I don't know, uh, cyber.

3245
02:36:18,879 --> 02:36:24,200
Speaker 2: Tech, no, cyber cheating, and let me tell you all

3246
02:36:24,240 --> 02:36:24,800
Speaker 2: about it.

3247
02:36:25,040 --> 02:36:27,160
Speaker 4: You can only think of cyber rats, which is a doctor.

3248
02:36:26,920 --> 02:36:31,920
Speaker 3: Who's right, yeah, pirting, pirate, cyber pirting, cyber bullet.

3249
02:36:31,959 --> 02:36:32,879
Speaker 4: Wait wait.

3250
02:36:35,080 --> 02:36:38,960
Speaker 2: Doune dun dun. Okay, So this next story, which we're

3251
02:36:38,959 --> 02:36:43,160
Speaker 2: about to get into right, yes, yes, is my wife

3252
02:36:43,200 --> 02:36:46,080
Speaker 2: is texting her classmate every day and spending lots of

3253
02:36:46,120 --> 02:36:47,600
Speaker 2: time with him. What should I do?

3254
02:36:47,840 --> 02:36:51,000
Speaker 3: This is okayop, we read the craziest true stories on Earth. Again,

3255
02:36:51,400 --> 02:36:55,640
Speaker 3: I'm John, this is Sofia, Sophia, what should this person do?

3256
02:36:55,680 --> 02:36:58,080
Speaker 3: They're texting with their classmate all the time, Like.

3257
02:36:59,720 --> 02:37:02,200
Speaker 2: Uh, what should they do?

3258
02:37:02,720 --> 02:37:05,840
Speaker 4: I think they need to Actually, I'm totally zoned out.

3259
02:37:10,600 --> 02:37:11,400
Speaker 1: I was looking at the.

3260
02:37:11,360 --> 02:37:13,320
Speaker 2: Comments and I it is a lot, right, it's a

3261
02:37:13,400 --> 02:37:14,080
Speaker 2: lot to keep up.

3262
02:37:14,959 --> 02:37:17,320
Speaker 4: I'm in a new place right now in the chair.

3263
02:37:17,480 --> 02:37:19,720
Speaker 2: Yes, you're gonna have to read. We're back into reality.

3264
02:37:19,760 --> 02:37:21,080
Speaker 2: So basically, here's the situation.

3265
02:37:21,200 --> 02:37:25,120
Speaker 3: So the wife is texting this new classmate every day, right,

3266
02:37:25,480 --> 02:37:27,680
Speaker 3: and the husband is like, Yo, why are you? Why

3267
02:37:27,680 --> 02:37:29,039
Speaker 3: are you texting every day?

3268
02:37:29,120 --> 02:37:32,280
Speaker 2: Why are you that they're both close? Yeah? I don't

3269
02:37:32,280 --> 02:37:33,520
Speaker 2: know if they're both in college yet we have no

3270
02:37:33,720 --> 02:37:36,800
Speaker 2: Remember this is our no context, no context, no context zone.

3271
02:37:37,120 --> 02:37:42,200
Speaker 4: I think that, Yeah, don't maybe don't text them every day.

3272
02:37:42,200 --> 02:37:44,120
Speaker 2: Don't text them every day, maybe every two days.

3273
02:37:44,320 --> 02:37:48,720
Speaker 4: Text your your husband every one day, yes, and your

3274
02:37:49,160 --> 02:37:51,080
Speaker 4: your school friend every two days.

3275
02:37:51,200 --> 02:37:54,280
Speaker 3: Fulfill the quota. Yeah, every day with the hobby. You

3276
02:37:54,400 --> 02:37:55,760
Speaker 3: heard it here first, ladies and gentlemen.

3277
02:37:56,240 --> 02:37:57,560
Speaker 4: Put it on your Google calendar.

3278
02:37:57,840 --> 02:37:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, the same way.

3279
02:38:00,760 --> 02:38:03,520
Speaker 3: All right, So let's get into this story from fit

3280
02:38:03,680 --> 02:38:08,000
Speaker 3: Sherry seventy eight sixty two, who says we me thirty

3281
02:38:08,040 --> 02:38:11,960
Speaker 3: male and my wife twenty five female, have been married

3282
02:38:12,000 --> 02:38:15,600
Speaker 3: for around three years. We recently moved across the country

3283
02:38:15,600 --> 02:38:18,560
Speaker 3: so my wife could attend grad school. I found a

3284
02:38:18,600 --> 02:38:21,160
Speaker 3: career job in the new location and have been financially

3285
02:38:21,200 --> 02:38:24,320
Speaker 3: supporting us for the most part. She had been on

3286
02:38:24,360 --> 02:38:26,760
Speaker 3: her phone a lot more over the last.

3287
02:38:26,640 --> 02:38:28,360
Speaker 2: Few months, suspicious.

3288
02:38:28,680 --> 02:38:30,879
Speaker 3: I've asked a few times who she was texting all

3289
02:38:30,879 --> 02:38:34,320
Speaker 3: the time, and she says, it's just a friend from school.

3290
02:38:36,080 --> 02:38:37,880
Speaker 3: This is a friend from school.

3291
02:38:38,000 --> 02:38:39,520
Speaker 4: It's just a friend from school. They're working on a

3292
02:38:39,520 --> 02:38:40,040
Speaker 4: group project.

3293
02:38:40,080 --> 02:38:42,760
Speaker 3: That's it, group project. Okay, we can It takes two

3294
02:38:43,000 --> 02:38:46,920
Speaker 3: to make a group project project. Uh oh. When I

3295
02:38:47,040 --> 02:38:50,680
Speaker 3: ask more questions, she starts to get defensive. Wasn't sure

3296
02:38:50,760 --> 02:38:54,680
Speaker 3: what else to do, so unfortunately I took a peek

3297
02:38:55,360 --> 02:38:56,400
Speaker 3: through her phone.

3298
02:38:57,800 --> 02:39:02,920
Speaker 2: Uh oh, is that a flag alert? Where are we here?

3299
02:39:02,959 --> 02:39:05,240
Speaker 4: We are as a red flat.

3300
02:39:05,480 --> 02:39:07,920
Speaker 3: Everyone drop your red flags if you believe it is Sophia,

3301
02:39:07,959 --> 02:39:08,720
Speaker 3: give us a breakdown.

3302
02:39:08,920 --> 02:39:12,680
Speaker 4: I okay, I don't think that you should ever be look.

3303
02:39:12,760 --> 02:39:15,480
Speaker 4: I think you should talk to your I don't know,

3304
02:39:15,720 --> 02:39:18,240
Speaker 4: I think that looking through your partner's phone is kind

3305
02:39:18,240 --> 02:39:20,480
Speaker 4: of like end of relationship signs.

3306
02:39:20,600 --> 02:39:26,120
Speaker 3: Do you think that there's any scenario where like this

3307
02:39:26,160 --> 02:39:28,800
Speaker 3: one it was just like texting someone a lot, But

3308
02:39:28,920 --> 02:39:31,720
Speaker 3: do you think there are other scenarios where it's like

3309
02:39:31,760 --> 02:39:32,800
Speaker 3: a lot more evident.

3310
02:39:34,360 --> 02:39:35,520
Speaker 1: I think it's okay.

3311
02:39:35,760 --> 02:39:37,160
Speaker 4: I think you just have to be like I think

3312
02:39:37,200 --> 02:39:39,360
Speaker 4: there could be scenarios where you're like, know, this person

3313
02:39:39,400 --> 02:39:41,520
Speaker 4: is cheating and they're gaslighting me and all this stuff,

3314
02:39:41,520 --> 02:39:44,120
Speaker 4: and I just need some proof. Yes, but you have

3315
02:39:44,200 --> 02:39:47,040
Speaker 4: to know that that's going to be like your relationships.

3316
02:39:46,680 --> 02:39:50,160
Speaker 3: You're kind of locked and maybe maybe you have anecdotal

3317
02:39:50,200 --> 02:39:51,720
Speaker 3: proof that you don't have like a written record of

3318
02:39:51,959 --> 02:39:54,240
Speaker 3: or something like that. Yeah, it's it's like very specific

3319
02:39:54,280 --> 02:39:55,759
Speaker 3: situations maybe.

3320
02:39:55,440 --> 02:39:57,000
Speaker 4: But you know, continution is key.

3321
02:39:57,240 --> 02:39:57,480
Speaker 2: Yes.

3322
02:39:57,560 --> 02:40:00,320
Speaker 4: I think someone also said in the Burning, Rose Up.

3323
02:40:00,240 --> 02:40:03,080
Speaker 3: Burning, Bernie Ross has been going crazy this whole the

3324
02:40:03,600 --> 02:40:09,480
Speaker 3: whole thing. Yes, it's a tricky one. It's a tricky one, y'all. Yeah, Oh,

3325
02:40:09,640 --> 02:40:13,000
Speaker 3: y'all are so funny. No free sponsors. Yes, we love

3326
02:40:13,080 --> 02:40:16,800
Speaker 3: doctoc we love doc talk. Okay, So I wasn't your

3327
02:40:16,800 --> 02:40:19,039
Speaker 3: what else to do? So importantly, unfortunately took a peek

3328
02:40:19,080 --> 02:40:21,920
Speaker 3: through the phone. I found out that she has been

3329
02:40:21,959 --> 02:40:25,640
Speaker 3: texting some guy from her school all day, every day

3330
02:40:25,879 --> 02:40:30,840
Speaker 3: and night. The text lasts from seven am to twelve

3331
02:40:30,840 --> 02:40:33,800
Speaker 3: am every day, seven am to midnight.

3332
02:40:34,160 --> 02:40:39,880
Speaker 4: Whoa wait like you? They wake up and then good morning?

3333
02:40:40,480 --> 02:40:42,400
Speaker 2: How's that school? How's that group project going?

3334
02:40:42,760 --> 02:40:46,000
Speaker 4: They wake up in the morning, Good morning, good night?

3335
02:40:46,160 --> 02:40:51,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, great job studying hard on that group project. Wink

3336
02:40:52,160 --> 02:40:56,600
Speaker 2: wink wink. So yeah, are we? Are we innocent? Are

3337
02:40:59,400 --> 02:40:59,959
Speaker 2: even talking.

3338
02:40:59,760 --> 02:41:01,000
Speaker 4: About friends that much?

3339
02:41:01,320 --> 02:41:01,520
Speaker 6: Right?

3340
02:41:01,600 --> 02:41:01,880
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3341
02:41:01,920 --> 02:41:04,879
Speaker 4: And I'm pretty good at communicating with most times.

3342
02:41:05,160 --> 02:41:10,119
Speaker 3: Imagine texting someone every day, get bored from seven am.

3343
02:41:10,040 --> 02:41:11,959
Speaker 2: To try Yeah? Who is that interesting? That?

3344
02:41:12,000 --> 02:41:12,200
Speaker 4: You know?

3345
02:41:13,600 --> 02:41:18,959
Speaker 3: Truly interesting unless they got something specifically that they're interested in.

3346
02:41:19,040 --> 02:41:22,959
Speaker 4: Unless they're giving you, I don't know, like government secrets.

3347
02:41:23,160 --> 02:41:26,080
Speaker 3: Ooh, that would be pretty interesting. Actually, I would like

3348
02:41:26,080 --> 02:41:27,240
Speaker 3: to get government secrets.

3349
02:41:27,320 --> 02:41:29,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, Riley, I have tons of government secrets.

3350
02:41:29,800 --> 02:41:30,760
Speaker 2: You have tons of governments.

3351
02:41:30,800 --> 02:41:32,680
Speaker 5: But everyone's like, those aren't real.

3352
02:41:33,080 --> 02:41:37,320
Speaker 2: Those are conspirats. Okay, conspiracies coming after this story.

3353
02:41:38,840 --> 02:41:44,520
Speaker 3: So the texts seem innocent overall, okay, Uh, nothing sexual

3354
02:41:44,600 --> 02:41:46,920
Speaker 3: or anything like that, but they're worth a few things

3355
02:41:46,920 --> 02:41:47,720
Speaker 3: that were bothering me.

3356
02:41:48,360 --> 02:41:51,400
Speaker 2: I went all the way to the beginning of the thread.

3357
02:41:51,520 --> 02:41:55,880
Speaker 3: Mind you, this is a text thread that is, uh,

3358
02:41:56,200 --> 02:41:59,000
Speaker 3: seven am to midnight every single day.

3359
02:41:59,200 --> 02:42:03,440
Speaker 4: That's a long text thread. Presumably they're not talking every

3360
02:42:03,520 --> 02:42:06,280
Speaker 4: single minute from seven am to twelve am not but like,

3361
02:42:06,560 --> 02:42:09,360
Speaker 4: but like that's how long it is.

3362
02:42:09,480 --> 02:42:11,120
Speaker 3: Like I think, I think, yeah, maybe it's like it

3363
02:42:11,400 --> 02:42:12,800
Speaker 3: ends at like midnight.

3364
02:42:12,879 --> 02:42:13,920
Speaker 4: That's what I've understood.

3365
02:42:14,080 --> 02:42:19,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that'd be crazy. Every he keeps going, Yeah,

3366
02:42:19,879 --> 02:42:23,680
Speaker 2: you're just like eating. Okay, I gotta keep responding because

3367
02:42:24,440 --> 02:42:26,040
Speaker 2: not us doing the live stream right now.

3368
02:42:26,280 --> 02:42:28,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's seven am to midnight livestream.

3369
02:42:29,120 --> 02:42:34,960
Speaker 3: Yes, so you're ready. Riley, Hey, a lot of Celsius

3370
02:42:34,959 --> 02:42:36,600
Speaker 3: for this guy. I mean a lot of energy drinks.

3371
02:42:36,600 --> 02:42:38,840
Speaker 3: No free sponsors, so.

3372
02:42:40,160 --> 02:42:42,920
Speaker 4: Just a generalized energy drink.

3373
02:42:43,160 --> 02:42:46,800
Speaker 2: I am drinking sports drink today. Now.

3374
02:42:46,879 --> 02:42:49,440
Speaker 3: The first issue is that the texting started when my

3375
02:42:49,560 --> 02:42:52,119
Speaker 3: wife asked a friend for this guy's number and then

3376
02:42:52,200 --> 02:42:57,240
Speaker 3: started texting him randomly. Next she is always the one

3377
02:42:57,280 --> 02:43:00,160
Speaker 3: to text him first, and she double text him every

3378
02:43:00,240 --> 02:43:02,320
Speaker 3: time that he stops responding.

3379
02:43:02,480 --> 02:43:07,800
Speaker 4: Oh that's just well, that's like on their own separate plane.

3380
02:43:08,240 --> 02:43:09,359
Speaker 4: That's a little embarrassing.

3381
02:43:09,600 --> 02:43:16,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, honey, I wish I wish I were exaggerating,

3382
02:43:16,480 --> 02:43:19,800
Speaker 3: because he said every single time, Yeah, shield o, world's fawn.

3383
02:43:20,080 --> 02:43:22,360
Speaker 3: I've also never met this guy, don't know how old

3384
02:43:22,400 --> 02:43:24,240
Speaker 3: he is, don't know what he looks like.

3385
02:43:24,720 --> 02:43:27,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, honestly, I think even if it is innocent,

3386
02:43:27,760 --> 02:43:31,640
Speaker 4: that's a little bit or innocent seem Yeah, I think

3387
02:43:31,680 --> 02:43:34,800
Speaker 4: it's a little suspicious because you can tell, you can

3388
02:43:34,840 --> 02:43:39,160
Speaker 4: tell when something is, you know, flirty. Yeah, if it's

3389
02:43:39,200 --> 02:43:40,279
Speaker 4: not outright flirty.

3390
02:43:40,040 --> 02:43:42,240
Speaker 3: You can, especially if you're reading all of their like

3391
02:43:42,879 --> 02:43:46,200
Speaker 3: tens of thousands of texts, you could probably download the

3392
02:43:46,320 --> 02:43:48,240
Speaker 3: vibe of what's going on, right, Like, could you put

3393
02:43:48,280 --> 02:43:51,120
Speaker 3: yourself on the screen real quick. There's another there's another

3394
02:43:51,160 --> 02:43:54,600
Speaker 3: big issue here, Sophia. Op just said they don't know

3395
02:43:54,640 --> 02:43:58,320
Speaker 3: what the guy looks like. Unfortunately, it looks like this

3396
02:43:58,720 --> 02:44:02,600
Speaker 3: right here. It's you're gonna be you gotta be worried, Op,

3397
02:44:03,640 --> 02:44:06,000
Speaker 3: It's over. Sorry, buddy, Sorry buddy, Thank you right for

3398
02:44:06,120 --> 02:44:11,039
Speaker 3: let me use your beautiful face. Although the conversation seem innocent,

3399
02:44:11,160 --> 02:44:13,400
Speaker 3: it seems like she randomly texts him just to start

3400
02:44:13,440 --> 02:44:16,920
Speaker 3: a conversation, often tells him about her school drama, et cetera,

3401
02:44:17,040 --> 02:44:20,039
Speaker 3: et cetera. It also seems like I spend a lot

3402
02:44:20,040 --> 02:44:24,199
Speaker 3: of time at school together playing some card game, a card.

3403
02:44:23,959 --> 02:44:29,119
Speaker 1: Game, some card game, playing back game in all day.

3404
02:44:29,120 --> 02:44:30,440
Speaker 2: That game was not a card game, is it?

3405
02:44:31,400 --> 02:44:32,600
Speaker 4: I don't believe so.

3406
02:44:32,800 --> 02:44:33,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

3407
02:44:33,879 --> 02:44:35,800
Speaker 4: I don't think so. Isn't it that one it's like

3408
02:44:35,800 --> 02:44:36,879
Speaker 4: a it's like a board.

3409
02:44:36,959 --> 02:44:37,119
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3410
02:44:37,200 --> 02:44:39,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like chess.

3411
02:44:38,360 --> 02:44:40,280
Speaker 4: And it's got like those little spikes on it.

3412
02:44:40,400 --> 02:44:42,920
Speaker 2: We're trying, y'all. We we're trying to remember what games

3413
02:44:42,959 --> 02:44:43,840
Speaker 2: are cards and knots.

3414
02:44:45,080 --> 02:44:46,800
Speaker 4: I know all the card games she does.

3415
02:44:47,320 --> 02:44:48,280
Speaker 2: Sophia is actually very good.

3416
02:44:48,400 --> 02:44:50,080
Speaker 4: I'm very good at card games. It's my only thing.

3417
02:44:52,600 --> 02:44:54,760
Speaker 3: Uh oh, put in the comments what a card game

3418
02:44:54,800 --> 02:44:56,039
Speaker 3: you think you could beat Sophia at?

3419
02:44:56,080 --> 02:45:00,440
Speaker 4: And I'll let you know that you won't think people

3420
02:45:00,440 --> 02:45:01,280
Speaker 4: to read me in.

3421
02:45:02,640 --> 02:45:05,080
Speaker 3: She has even left dinner with me early to go

3422
02:45:05,160 --> 02:45:07,920
Speaker 3: back to school and play cards with him.

3423
02:45:07,920 --> 02:45:11,960
Speaker 4: Whoa, whoa, what if I'm obsessed with cards?

3424
02:45:12,280 --> 02:45:12,920
Speaker 2: They just love it.

3425
02:45:13,240 --> 02:45:15,400
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, the colic and the chat. They're like, hey,

3426
02:45:15,440 --> 02:45:19,400
Speaker 4: do you want to go play cards? That's actually a

3427
02:45:19,440 --> 02:45:20,080
Speaker 4: really good point.

3428
02:45:21,040 --> 02:45:27,640
Speaker 2: That's a tinfoil hackenspiracy. I don't know it's right there, you.

3429
02:45:27,600 --> 02:45:28,160
Speaker 1: Know, how like.

3430
02:45:30,560 --> 02:45:34,800
Speaker 5: You know how like there's a lot of like hard games. Yes,

3431
02:45:34,920 --> 02:45:37,360
Speaker 5: so like there's a lot of other things you could

3432
02:45:37,360 --> 02:45:40,560
Speaker 5: do when you're alone with people. So each card game

3433
02:45:40,640 --> 02:45:42,640
Speaker 5: is a different I think.

3434
02:45:43,040 --> 02:45:46,240
Speaker 3: Oh so they have they have specific code language.

3435
02:45:46,480 --> 02:45:52,400
Speaker 4: They're like, oh yeah, yes, solo so.

3436
02:45:54,520 --> 02:45:59,800
Speaker 3: No wait, oh I'm tired of playing and Solitaire. I'm

3437
02:45:59,800 --> 02:46:00,600
Speaker 3: ready to play.

3438
02:46:00,760 --> 02:46:04,480
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, They're like, I've been playing Solitaire for all week.

3439
02:46:05,440 --> 02:46:07,320
Speaker 4: Let's play war.

3440
02:46:08,040 --> 02:46:10,160
Speaker 2: Let's play Egyptian rat Slab.

3441
02:46:13,480 --> 02:46:18,640
Speaker 5: Rummy, go fish, not the fish?

3442
02:46:19,160 --> 02:46:21,400
Speaker 4: Are you wait? Are you listing just card games that

3443
02:46:21,400 --> 02:46:22,000
Speaker 4: they could be playing.

3444
02:46:22,040 --> 02:46:23,640
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to make in new windows out of

3445
02:46:23,720 --> 02:46:25,320
Speaker 5: these and it's the best way.

3446
02:46:25,200 --> 02:46:27,040
Speaker 2: We're trying to find out. We're trying to break their

3447
02:46:27,040 --> 02:46:27,440
Speaker 2: code here.

3448
02:46:27,520 --> 02:46:29,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, Sarah, I've been slacking.

3449
02:46:29,400 --> 02:46:32,440
Speaker 3: No sex, no guys, can you can you put down

3450
02:46:32,520 --> 02:46:35,600
Speaker 3: what code? What card games for? What code words you think.

3451
02:46:35,560 --> 02:46:36,200
Speaker 2: Is happening right now?

3452
02:46:36,240 --> 02:46:38,560
Speaker 5: I would love to see that Cards against Humanity. That's everything.

3453
02:46:38,640 --> 02:46:39,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's everything.

3454
02:46:39,520 --> 02:46:40,879
Speaker 3: That's that's that's an all of them.

3455
02:46:42,560 --> 02:46:45,199
Speaker 4: Is that a human It's Egyptian rat screw and Egyptian

3456
02:46:45,280 --> 02:46:48,800
Speaker 4: rat Slab. There are multiple names for this game. I've

3457
02:46:48,800 --> 02:46:49,400
Speaker 4: heard them.

3458
02:46:49,280 --> 02:46:54,480
Speaker 3: All that's true. Good one human, great user name. So

3459
02:46:54,800 --> 02:46:57,320
Speaker 3: she invites him to She invites him to spend one

3460
02:46:57,360 --> 02:46:59,720
Speaker 3: on one time, whether it's at school, at the bar,

3461
02:47:00,280 --> 02:47:03,039
Speaker 3: or wherever. When her parents came into town, she even

3462
02:47:03,040 --> 02:47:05,680
Speaker 3: invited this guy to the bar with her and her

3463
02:47:05,720 --> 02:47:07,400
Speaker 3: parents to meet the parents.

3464
02:47:07,440 --> 02:47:10,879
Speaker 4: She invitedly got the friend to meet her parents.

3465
02:47:10,959 --> 02:47:13,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I gotta have my best friend meet my parents

3466
02:47:13,520 --> 02:47:21,760
Speaker 3: before I you know, before my husband. Joking further, she

3467
02:47:21,959 --> 02:47:25,680
Speaker 3: baked cookies for this guy, whoa Sophia.

3468
02:47:26,000 --> 02:47:27,280
Speaker 2: We have a master baker in the room.

3469
02:47:27,480 --> 02:47:29,280
Speaker 4: I would bake cookies.

3470
02:47:29,360 --> 02:47:33,039
Speaker 2: That's all right, an you heard it here first ladies

3471
02:47:33,040 --> 02:47:33,879
Speaker 2: and gentlemen.

3472
02:47:33,640 --> 02:47:35,920
Speaker 4: Actually bake cookies for everyone, So that's true. Yeah, I

3473
02:47:35,920 --> 02:47:37,840
Speaker 4: don't know. Maybe she was just baking cookies. And I

3474
02:47:37,879 --> 02:47:38,240
Speaker 4: don't know.

3475
02:47:38,640 --> 02:47:40,359
Speaker 2: It's it's I think these are targeted.

3476
02:47:40,560 --> 02:47:43,440
Speaker 4: If they're targeted, targeted cookies, that's a little I've never

3477
02:47:43,520 --> 02:47:44,600
Speaker 4: targeted my cookies.

3478
02:47:44,800 --> 02:47:47,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, hey everyone, it's open.

3479
02:47:48,600 --> 02:47:50,080
Speaker 4: It's open cookie call.

3480
02:47:50,360 --> 02:47:51,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, come on.

3481
02:47:53,560 --> 02:47:55,760
Speaker 3: She loves to bake, and I remember her one day

3482
02:47:55,840 --> 02:47:58,960
Speaker 3: baking a type of cookie that she had never baked before,

3483
02:48:00,040 --> 02:48:00,920
Speaker 3: special cookies.

3484
02:48:01,440 --> 02:48:04,039
Speaker 4: Why was I And I remember she baked a cookie

3485
02:48:04,120 --> 02:48:09,640
Speaker 4: she had never made before that was suspicious trying new recipes.

3486
02:48:09,760 --> 02:48:11,120
Speaker 2: It was September twenty fast.

3487
02:48:11,160 --> 02:48:16,040
Speaker 3: She had never seen a mecadamia in her life. While

3488
02:48:16,080 --> 02:48:17,879
Speaker 3: I assumed that she was baking them for a party

3489
02:48:17,920 --> 02:48:19,440
Speaker 3: that she was going to go to that night, the

3490
02:48:19,480 --> 02:48:22,160
Speaker 3: text showed me that she was baking them just.

3491
02:48:22,080 --> 02:48:24,440
Speaker 2: For this guy. Oh that's right, a party for two

3492
02:48:24,959 --> 02:48:25,480
Speaker 2: What is he.

3493
02:48:25,520 --> 02:48:26,800
Speaker 4: Still looking at the text.

3494
02:48:26,600 --> 02:48:30,280
Speaker 3: Chain he's referencing that. I think he's read the entire

3495
02:48:30,360 --> 02:48:32,360
Speaker 3: thing at this point. I think he's gone all the

3496
02:48:32,360 --> 02:48:35,280
Speaker 3: way top to bottom. What makes it worse is the

3497
02:48:35,320 --> 02:48:37,320
Speaker 3: fact that she went out of her way to do it.

3498
02:48:37,800 --> 02:48:39,920
Speaker 3: I had the car that night, so she walked to

3499
02:48:39,959 --> 02:48:43,279
Speaker 3: the store in the rain to get the ingredients, baked

3500
02:48:43,280 --> 02:48:45,920
Speaker 3: the cookies, and then brought them over to his apartment,

3501
02:48:45,959 --> 02:48:48,120
Speaker 3: where she stayed for two hours.

3502
02:48:48,280 --> 02:48:49,240
Speaker 4: She likes this guy?

3503
02:48:49,840 --> 02:48:53,520
Speaker 2: Yeah right, I mean does she like them? Throwing in

3504
02:48:53,560 --> 02:48:55,360
Speaker 2: the comments below? Does she like them?

3505
02:48:55,959 --> 02:48:59,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3506
02:48:59,400 --> 02:49:01,959
Speaker 2: She did go to the party afterwards, but only stayed

3507
02:49:01,959 --> 02:49:04,840
Speaker 2: for a few minutes to say high and then leave.

3508
02:49:05,640 --> 02:49:06,760
Speaker 4: She was making appearances.

3509
02:49:06,920 --> 02:49:09,240
Speaker 3: Oh no, she stayed at his house for two hours,

3510
02:49:09,280 --> 02:49:11,040
Speaker 3: and it literally stayed at the party for two minutes.

3511
02:49:11,120 --> 02:49:11,760
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

3512
02:49:12,640 --> 02:49:14,720
Speaker 3: One thing I've been a bit insecure about is the

3513
02:49:14,760 --> 02:49:18,360
Speaker 3: fact that my profession does not pay great. She lived

3514
02:49:18,400 --> 02:49:22,320
Speaker 3: a very privileged, privileged life scott lifestyle through her parents

3515
02:49:22,400 --> 02:49:24,760
Speaker 3: before meeting me, and she is in grad school for

3516
02:49:24,760 --> 02:49:29,160
Speaker 3: a profession that pays significantly more than mine, like five

3517
02:49:29,320 --> 02:49:30,720
Speaker 3: times what I make.

3518
02:49:31,080 --> 02:49:33,560
Speaker 1: Oh wow, she will make more.

3519
02:49:33,400 --> 02:49:38,480
Speaker 2: In her summer internship than I will make this entire year. Uh.

3520
02:49:38,640 --> 02:49:40,400
Speaker 4: I know he's signing insecure.

3521
02:49:39,959 --> 02:49:42,879
Speaker 3: Which is yeah, a lot of things are out of it.

3522
02:49:42,920 --> 02:49:47,199
Speaker 3: And mind you, this guy goes to her program aka

3523
02:49:47,360 --> 02:49:48,480
Speaker 3: will earn the same amount.

3524
02:49:48,959 --> 02:49:51,920
Speaker 4: Oh, Sam's here, Sam, he's here the corner.

3525
02:49:52,080 --> 02:49:54,600
Speaker 2: Yes, a little sneaky Sam.

3526
02:49:55,080 --> 02:49:58,880
Speaker 1: Hello altogether?

3527
02:49:59,480 --> 02:50:03,280
Speaker 4: Yeah? Oh yeah, we are.

3528
02:50:02,879 --> 02:50:10,080
Speaker 3: Yes, we are indubitably Yes, she is enthused. This guy

3529
02:50:10,160 --> 02:50:12,680
Speaker 3: that she is texting is in the same profession.

3530
02:50:12,840 --> 02:50:13,560
Speaker 2: So there you go.

3531
02:50:14,320 --> 02:50:16,880
Speaker 3: Reading these messages made me feel sick to my stomach.

3532
02:50:17,040 --> 02:50:18,600
Speaker 3: I just wanted to post here to see if this

3533
02:50:18,640 --> 02:50:21,680
Speaker 3: sounds fishy to anyone else. Oh I'm not sure if

3534
02:50:21,720 --> 02:50:25,000
Speaker 3: anything physical has happened, but she has crossed some boundaries

3535
02:50:25,040 --> 02:50:30,360
Speaker 3: either way. How should I handle this? And we do

3536
02:50:30,480 --> 02:50:35,280
Speaker 3: have a few little little edits, so quick edit the

3537
02:50:35,320 --> 02:50:38,279
Speaker 3: meetup with the parents never actually happened. She did try

3538
02:50:38,320 --> 02:50:41,360
Speaker 3: to get him to the bar, but that plan fell through. Also,

3539
02:50:41,440 --> 02:50:43,680
Speaker 3: in reading the text, it seems like the guy tried

3540
02:50:43,720 --> 02:50:47,600
Speaker 3: to keep her at arm's length at first, keeping conversations

3541
02:50:47,879 --> 02:50:51,120
Speaker 3: short and not engaging too much, but over time to

3542
02:50:51,200 --> 02:50:55,000
Speaker 3: becoming much much more repetitive and interested in actually talking.

3543
02:50:55,480 --> 02:50:59,000
Speaker 3: This all happened over the course of about five or

3544
02:50:59,160 --> 02:51:02,200
Speaker 3: six months. I'm not paying for a school, just our

3545
02:51:02,240 --> 02:51:05,480
Speaker 3: living expenses for the most part. We have an update,

3546
02:51:05,800 --> 02:51:08,560
Speaker 3: but we have Yeah, we have to pause here, and

3547
02:51:08,640 --> 02:51:10,760
Speaker 3: we just got same. We just got Sam Sam.

3548
02:51:10,800 --> 02:51:13,560
Speaker 4: We have to update him on everything that's going on.

3549
02:51:13,760 --> 02:51:17,240
Speaker 3: Yes, so are you ready for a little TLDR Sami boy.

3550
02:51:17,959 --> 02:51:25,040
Speaker 3: So basically, Op thirty mail uh is paying for his

3551
02:51:25,040 --> 02:51:26,720
Speaker 3: his lovely lady twenty five female.

3552
02:51:27,480 --> 02:51:28,480
Speaker 2: He's making all the money.

3553
02:51:28,480 --> 02:51:31,760
Speaker 3: She's going to school, and she started texting this guy

3554
02:51:32,320 --> 02:51:34,520
Speaker 3: seven am to midnight, seven days a week.

3555
02:51:35,800 --> 02:51:37,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, seven am to midnight, seven.

3556
02:51:37,480 --> 02:51:40,640
Speaker 3: Am to midnight, seven days a week. So it's a lot.

3557
02:51:40,920 --> 02:51:41,560
Speaker 3: It's a lot.

3558
02:51:41,920 --> 02:51:42,280
Speaker 2: Uh.

3559
02:51:42,320 --> 02:51:45,840
Speaker 3: So now we have to figure out if Opie should

3560
02:51:45,879 --> 02:51:46,600
Speaker 3: be worried or not.

3561
02:51:47,640 --> 02:51:49,320
Speaker 2: I think should op be worried or not?

3562
02:51:49,560 --> 02:51:53,560
Speaker 1: I mean, of course, right, is there even a question?

3563
02:51:53,920 --> 02:51:56,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's clear that she likes this guy.

3564
02:51:57,200 --> 02:51:59,840
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think Also, it seems like in the beginning

3565
02:52:00,440 --> 02:52:03,520
Speaker 4: the school friend was trying to maintain a boundary and

3566
02:52:03,560 --> 02:52:04,360
Speaker 4: then she was like no.

3567
02:52:05,240 --> 02:52:07,879
Speaker 3: I mean she was double texting him every time he

3568
02:52:07,920 --> 02:52:12,000
Speaker 3: didn't respond. Every time he read the entire six month

3569
02:52:12,120 --> 02:52:13,160
Speaker 3: chat history.

3570
02:52:13,840 --> 02:52:16,000
Speaker 1: In the in the post no no no.

3571
02:52:17,920 --> 02:52:22,520
Speaker 4: Story pictures from the entire chain for five months.

3572
02:52:22,160 --> 02:52:24,160
Speaker 3: He read them on his own to get the full

3573
02:52:24,240 --> 02:52:27,120
Speaker 3: download on like everything that happened basically.

3574
02:52:28,720 --> 02:52:29,760
Speaker 1: So that's rough.

3575
02:52:29,959 --> 02:52:33,320
Speaker 3: That is rough, right, Sophia, What do we what do

3576
02:52:33,360 --> 02:52:34,760
Speaker 3: we think, Oh, he should do at this point?

3577
02:52:35,760 --> 02:52:38,520
Speaker 4: I think that Op needs to talk to his.

3578
02:52:38,480 --> 02:52:41,680
Speaker 2: Girlfriend and he sit down, conversation, sit down.

3579
02:52:41,800 --> 02:52:45,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, I don't know. I don't like this funny

3580
02:52:45,240 --> 02:52:46,440
Speaker 4: business that's going on.

3581
02:52:46,560 --> 02:52:49,879
Speaker 2: None of that. Yeah, sit down, have a top.

3582
02:52:51,120 --> 02:52:52,240
Speaker 4: It seems like he's going.

3583
02:52:52,040 --> 02:52:55,879
Speaker 3: There, put your beautiful face on. There also also a

3584
02:52:56,000 --> 02:52:56,879
Speaker 3: very important information.

3585
02:52:57,680 --> 02:53:00,600
Speaker 2: So the other guy looks like, looks like this, Oh

3586
02:53:00,640 --> 02:53:03,880
Speaker 2: my gosh, looks like that second time. So it's it's

3587
02:53:04,120 --> 02:53:06,760
Speaker 2: it's it's an issue. It's over. Give up now, right,

3588
02:53:06,840 --> 02:53:07,480
Speaker 2: and give up now?

3589
02:53:08,160 --> 02:53:10,320
Speaker 3: Knowing that the man looks exactly like you and it's

3590
02:53:10,360 --> 02:53:15,120
Speaker 3: equally a sexy What should op do in the scenario, Riley, I.

3591
02:53:15,240 --> 02:53:19,039
Speaker 5: Should run or fight him. But if he looks like me,

3592
02:53:19,120 --> 02:53:19,720
Speaker 5: he's gonna.

3593
02:53:19,560 --> 02:53:20,040
Speaker 1: Have a hard time.

3594
02:53:20,360 --> 02:53:22,320
Speaker 3: He's going to be too powerful, Riley, he looks like you,

3595
02:53:22,360 --> 02:53:24,720
Speaker 3: he's going to be too strong. So all you all

3596
02:53:24,760 --> 02:53:28,119
Speaker 3: you can do is so seriously, like do you try

3597
02:53:28,120 --> 02:53:29,119
Speaker 3: to do you try to sit down?

3598
02:53:29,160 --> 02:53:29,640
Speaker 2: And I would.

3599
02:53:29,720 --> 02:53:31,640
Speaker 5: I would try to sit down and first talk to

3600
02:53:31,720 --> 02:53:34,520
Speaker 5: his it's wife, right, why, Yeah, I would talk to

3601
02:53:34,520 --> 02:53:37,240
Speaker 5: the wife, be like, hey, I don't feel comfortable with this,

3602
02:53:37,760 --> 02:53:42,320
Speaker 5: and then after that, if it's not working, like try

3603
02:53:42,360 --> 02:53:44,440
Speaker 5: to get the parents involved, maybe because like I don't

3604
02:53:44,680 --> 02:53:48,240
Speaker 5: also the parents, let's talk about that.

3605
02:53:48,400 --> 02:53:49,560
Speaker 1: But what's talk about it?

3606
02:53:49,840 --> 02:53:53,200
Speaker 5: Why Why are we hanging out with Opie's parents at

3607
02:53:53,200 --> 02:53:55,120
Speaker 5: the bar with her friend?

3608
02:53:55,200 --> 02:53:57,320
Speaker 2: Like that's yeah, it's a little weird.

3609
02:53:57,360 --> 02:53:58,959
Speaker 5: Why are they letting that go? I know she's like

3610
02:53:58,959 --> 02:54:01,320
Speaker 5: twenty five and he's like thirty, but still like people

3611
02:54:01,400 --> 02:54:03,640
Speaker 5: should have developed brains by now and know better.

3612
02:54:03,840 --> 02:54:05,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, we talked about this in some of the earlier

3613
02:54:05,840 --> 02:54:08,840
Speaker 4: stories that Riley and I filmed this morning were Yeah,

3614
02:54:09,040 --> 02:54:12,400
Speaker 4: people old people don't have developed brains.

3615
02:54:12,440 --> 02:54:15,280
Speaker 1: Someone commented on the livestream is like, these people are

3616
02:54:15,600 --> 02:54:18,920
Speaker 1: thirty plus, should they should know better, They should know

3617
02:54:18,920 --> 02:54:21,200
Speaker 1: how to communicate, but they don't. They're acting like this.

3618
02:54:21,520 --> 02:54:24,039
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah they are red flag.

3619
02:54:24,200 --> 02:54:25,680
Speaker 2: They are thirty and twenty five.

3620
02:54:25,760 --> 02:54:28,680
Speaker 5: But try to talk some cinciner If you can't, not

3621
02:54:28,959 --> 02:54:32,240
Speaker 5: the person you want to be with. Exactly, baking cookies

3622
02:54:32,280 --> 02:54:34,959
Speaker 5: for the people. I would have left that personally as

3623
02:54:35,000 --> 02:54:37,920
Speaker 5: soon as the cookies drop. That was the final straw, Riley.

3624
02:54:37,920 --> 02:54:40,039
Speaker 5: Maybe scroll scroll through some of the comments that we

3625
02:54:40,040 --> 02:54:42,880
Speaker 5: can see here. Let's see here.

3626
02:54:42,920 --> 02:54:46,160
Speaker 3: So we got from Gracie Mecca just give up yep,

3627
02:54:46,240 --> 02:54:49,120
Speaker 3: laughing emoji. You know that does seem to be a

3628
02:54:49,160 --> 02:54:52,440
Speaker 3: common thread on burning Rose John stopped bowling, Riley. It

3629
02:54:52,520 --> 02:54:54,360
Speaker 3: is actually me loving him to death and thinking he

3630
02:54:54,400 --> 02:54:55,000
Speaker 3: is so beautiful.

3631
02:54:55,000 --> 02:54:56,080
Speaker 5: You should see us off camera.

3632
02:54:56,120 --> 02:54:58,160
Speaker 1: That's it's like a big brother relationship.

3633
02:54:58,280 --> 02:54:58,720
Speaker 2: That's right.

3634
02:54:58,760 --> 02:55:01,800
Speaker 3: That's right, Lady John is my fave. Not gonna lie.

3635
02:55:01,840 --> 02:55:04,360
Speaker 3: Those glorious locks are better than mine? What products does

3636
02:55:04,360 --> 02:55:04,760
Speaker 3: he use?

3637
02:55:05,160 --> 02:55:09,120
Speaker 2: Y'all? No free sponsors? All right, you can't. We can't

3638
02:55:09,120 --> 02:55:09,720
Speaker 2: even do that.

3639
02:55:10,640 --> 02:55:12,119
Speaker 4: And choosing what kind of comics?

3640
02:55:12,200 --> 02:55:16,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's reading the ones that are flattering himself, not

3641
02:55:16,160 --> 02:55:16,480
Speaker 3: not me.

3642
02:55:16,640 --> 02:55:18,520
Speaker 2: Kicking off the comment reading on this one, what.

3643
02:55:18,480 --> 02:55:22,560
Speaker 4: About the comment from CM that said they really love

3644
02:55:22,640 --> 02:55:23,160
Speaker 4: red vines?

3645
02:55:23,959 --> 02:55:28,040
Speaker 2: Uh, so let's have a quick conversation. Red vines are disgusting.

3646
02:55:28,320 --> 02:55:31,240
Speaker 3: Uh and anyone who likes them is just an incorrect

3647
02:55:31,320 --> 02:55:31,879
Speaker 3: human being.

3648
02:55:31,800 --> 02:55:33,920
Speaker 1: Because you're you're on Twizzler game. I am.

3649
02:55:34,160 --> 02:55:34,959
Speaker 2: I am team Twist.

3650
02:55:34,959 --> 02:55:36,920
Speaker 1: Whistlers taste like plastic bro.

3651
02:55:37,360 --> 02:55:41,480
Speaker 3: That tastes like chalk, that tastes like so good.

3652
02:55:41,720 --> 02:55:43,760
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I will.

3653
02:55:43,600 --> 02:55:46,520
Speaker 3: Accept No, I can't accept anything.

3654
02:55:46,520 --> 02:55:48,320
Speaker 2: Actually, yeah, I accept anything.

3655
02:55:48,400 --> 02:55:52,280
Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, Twizzlers are red vine because these are Twizzlers suck?

3656
02:55:53,280 --> 02:55:54,560
Speaker 1: Are you talking about my boys?

3657
02:55:54,959 --> 02:55:55,160
Speaker 2: Wait?

3658
02:55:57,320 --> 02:55:59,879
Speaker 3: CM, come on, come come to the come to the lights.

3659
02:56:00,080 --> 02:56:01,080
Speaker 3: Anyone else do we have?

3660
02:56:01,560 --> 02:56:04,320
Speaker 2: Okay? Red vines and Twizzlers are red flags?

3661
02:56:04,360 --> 02:56:07,680
Speaker 4: Oh no, see, I am a proponent of the age

3662
02:56:07,720 --> 02:56:12,879
Speaker 4: old Red Vine fan club from stark Kid, which you

3663
02:56:12,879 --> 02:56:16,119
Speaker 4: guys won't know, but hope. Yeah, if you've seen star Khit,

3664
02:56:16,200 --> 02:56:17,840
Speaker 4: you know you know all about the red vines.

3665
02:56:17,920 --> 02:56:19,000
Speaker 2: I have no idea what that is.

3666
02:56:19,720 --> 02:56:21,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, a very pun of musical.

3667
02:56:22,000 --> 02:56:24,320
Speaker 3: All I know is that bed Wolf said Twizzlers. That's

3668
02:56:24,360 --> 02:56:27,320
Speaker 3: that's all I know, you know, all liquorice is gross.

3669
02:56:27,879 --> 02:56:29,560
Speaker 3: I never even thought about that possibility.

3670
02:56:29,720 --> 02:56:33,920
Speaker 4: I actually I think beyond twizzlers and red vines, I

3671
02:56:33,959 --> 02:56:35,960
Speaker 4: prefer like the real to you know, like the liquors

3672
02:56:36,000 --> 02:56:37,080
Speaker 4: that you get from Trader Joe's.

3673
02:56:38,040 --> 02:56:40,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even know. So strong. It's almost like

3674
02:56:40,720 --> 02:56:44,520
Speaker 2: alcohol and a yeah twisty two. It is strong. It's strong.

3675
02:56:45,000 --> 02:56:45,680
Speaker 4: There's an update.

3676
02:56:45,959 --> 02:56:51,240
Speaker 2: There is an updates which Sam's face is needed to access.

3677
02:56:51,600 --> 02:56:55,160
Speaker 1: Everyone has my phone and computer in here, so I

3678
02:56:55,600 --> 02:56:56,320
Speaker 1: have nothing.

3679
02:56:56,800 --> 02:56:59,520
Speaker 2: He does nothing. I have nothing, well my red vines.

3680
02:57:00,240 --> 02:57:04,400
Speaker 2: Here we go. So update. I ended up deleting the

3681
02:57:04,400 --> 02:57:06,959
Speaker 2: original post. Sorry, but I was able.

3682
02:57:07,040 --> 02:57:08,840
Speaker 3: But I was able to have a conversation with a

3683
02:57:08,879 --> 02:57:14,800
Speaker 3: guy that she has been texting. I got his number

3684
02:57:14,920 --> 02:57:20,119
Speaker 3: off of her phone and just texted him saying, heys,

3685
02:57:20,560 --> 02:57:24,039
Speaker 3: this is my wife's husband. I caught wind of what's

3686
02:57:24,080 --> 02:57:25,880
Speaker 3: been going on between you two and just wanted to

3687
02:57:25,920 --> 02:57:27,959
Speaker 3: see if you'd be willing to be honest with me.

3688
02:57:28,080 --> 02:57:29,680
Speaker 2: About what has happened.

3689
02:57:30,879 --> 02:57:34,360
Speaker 3: He responded pretty quickly and was willing to meet with

3690
02:57:34,400 --> 02:57:37,600
Speaker 3: me for lunch in a public place. So we met.

3691
02:57:39,360 --> 02:57:41,360
Speaker 3: Are you ready for this next part? Are you ready

3692
02:57:41,360 --> 02:57:42,960
Speaker 3: for this next part. Are you ready for this next part?

3693
02:57:44,120 --> 02:57:45,680
Speaker 1: Can we can we conspiracy theorize?

3694
02:57:45,680 --> 02:57:47,280
Speaker 2: All right, all right, let's get the hats. Let's get

3695
02:57:47,280 --> 02:57:50,119
Speaker 2: the hats, break them out, break them out.

3696
02:57:50,200 --> 02:57:55,840
Speaker 4: Okay, I don't get.

3697
02:57:55,200 --> 02:58:00,000
Speaker 2: There. We go, nice brow. What have we got? Sam?

3698
02:57:59,840 --> 02:58:04,879
Speaker 1: I think red flag that he is asking for a

3699
02:58:05,000 --> 02:58:09,400
Speaker 1: public place, like specifically not not, because I feel like

3700
02:58:09,440 --> 02:58:14,160
Speaker 1: that means there's gonna be some crazy revelations of what

3701
02:58:14,280 --> 02:58:18,800
Speaker 1: has happened, because you wouldn't like if it like, you know, yeah,

3702
02:58:18,840 --> 02:58:21,720
Speaker 1: he's liked because what I'm about to say is going

3703
02:58:21,760 --> 02:58:24,360
Speaker 1: to piss you off that you're gonna want to kill me. Yeah,

3704
02:58:24,360 --> 02:58:26,080
Speaker 1: but we're gonna be in a public place, so you can't.

3705
02:58:26,400 --> 02:58:29,160
Speaker 2: Yeah. Red flag is in like a warning sign of

3706
02:58:29,160 --> 02:58:29,680
Speaker 2: what's to come.

3707
02:58:29,879 --> 02:58:32,640
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, I feel I feel like there's gonna be

3708
02:58:32,760 --> 02:58:35,800
Speaker 1: some some sauce that is spilt in the public.

3709
02:58:35,840 --> 02:58:36,760
Speaker 2: What do you think the sauces?

3710
02:58:37,480 --> 02:58:44,560
Speaker 1: Cheating chocolate sauce for the cookies, for the cookies.

3711
02:58:44,840 --> 02:58:46,279
Speaker 2: It all comes back.

3712
02:58:46,160 --> 02:58:47,960
Speaker 4: To the cookiesies.

3713
02:58:48,000 --> 02:58:49,840
Speaker 2: All right, guys, are you ready? You got y'all? Aren't

3714
02:58:49,879 --> 02:58:52,080
Speaker 2: ready for this next line? It's too perfect.

3715
02:58:52,520 --> 02:58:56,520
Speaker 3: He is twenty three years old and a very good

3716
02:58:56,560 --> 02:58:59,000
Speaker 3: looking man. I happen to know someone else that is

3717
02:58:59,040 --> 02:59:03,119
Speaker 3: those exact same things, eh, he.

3718
02:59:03,080 --> 02:59:05,320
Speaker 4: Said, Oh, he was like, he's twenty three and he's high.

3719
02:59:05,640 --> 02:59:10,760
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, he literally can't help it, he said, I'll

3720
02:59:10,760 --> 02:59:11,200
Speaker 3: give him that.

3721
02:59:11,320 --> 02:59:12,840
Speaker 2: He can't help. He can't help, but it acknowledge it.

3722
02:59:12,879 --> 02:59:13,480
Speaker 4: I'll give him that.

3723
02:59:13,720 --> 02:59:15,039
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's gorgeous.

3724
02:59:15,959 --> 02:59:18,440
Speaker 3: When we met for lunch, I started the conversation by

3725
02:59:18,480 --> 02:59:21,120
Speaker 3: asking him if he could give me his perspective on

3726
02:59:21,200 --> 02:59:24,440
Speaker 3: what's been happening between him and my wife. He started

3727
02:59:24,560 --> 02:59:29,960
Speaker 3: with a disclaimer that nothing physical has happened between them,

3728
02:59:30,080 --> 02:59:33,400
Speaker 3: and honestly, I believe him. He seems like a decent guy.

3729
02:59:33,760 --> 02:59:35,920
Speaker 3: He told me he respects me and never wanted to

3730
02:59:35,920 --> 02:59:38,240
Speaker 3: get involved with a married woman. And he started the

3731
02:59:38,280 --> 02:59:41,480
Speaker 3: story from the very beginning. I'll tell it as if

3732
02:59:41,520 --> 02:59:45,680
Speaker 3: he were telling it five months ago. It goes like this,

3733
02:59:46,000 --> 02:59:49,440
Speaker 3: and that is a direct quote. I approached her at

3734
02:59:49,440 --> 02:59:52,080
Speaker 3: the beginning of school because I found her attractive. I

3735
02:59:52,080 --> 02:59:54,800
Speaker 3: don't remember whether she was wearing a wedding ring. I'm

3736
02:59:54,800 --> 02:59:56,800
Speaker 3: not used to checking for that because most people my

3737
02:59:56,879 --> 02:59:58,480
Speaker 3: age generally aren't married.

3738
02:59:59,280 --> 02:59:59,640
Speaker 2: Is that true?

3739
02:59:59,720 --> 03:00:04,160
Speaker 5: Rally, yeah, yeah, yeah, But the women I look for

3740
03:00:04,600 --> 03:00:05,440
Speaker 5: oh kind of.

3741
03:00:05,879 --> 03:00:06,680
Speaker 2: There there you go.

3742
03:00:08,480 --> 03:00:11,800
Speaker 1: Well, because they're older, they're older, that was the jo. No,

3743
03:00:11,959 --> 03:00:14,000
Speaker 1: that doesn't know it means you're just in the married

3744
03:00:14,040 --> 03:00:19,160
Speaker 1: women bro older women married? Why are they're older married woman?

3745
03:00:20,080 --> 03:00:22,680
Speaker 5: I'm just saying I'm like the type of women that

3746
03:00:22,720 --> 03:00:26,400
Speaker 5: I'm looking for or older the state probably have wedding rings.

3747
03:00:26,400 --> 03:00:27,720
Speaker 5: But if they're older, they don't have one.

3748
03:00:27,720 --> 03:00:30,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, hello, there it is.

3749
03:00:30,640 --> 03:00:32,760
Speaker 1: I just heard Riley hits on women with wedding ring.

3750
03:00:35,040 --> 03:00:38,480
Speaker 5: I'm a gentleman. I'm a gentleman. I'm a gentleman. I

3751
03:00:38,480 --> 03:00:45,039
Speaker 5: would never but gemini gentlemen, what does that have to

3752
03:00:45,080 --> 03:00:45,600
Speaker 5: do with anything.

3753
03:00:45,680 --> 03:00:47,480
Speaker 4: I'm a Gemini. I would never.

3754
03:00:48,760 --> 03:00:51,840
Speaker 1: Missus. Sella Davis says, big protein on the prowl for

3755
03:00:52,000 --> 03:00:54,760
Speaker 1: some feisty cougars.

3756
03:00:54,160 --> 03:00:58,040
Speaker 5: Dude, I am close to Malibu. If you know any hookers,

3757
03:00:58,080 --> 03:01:01,480
Speaker 5: please let me know, let me know me, I will

3758
03:01:01,520 --> 03:01:03,800
Speaker 5: talk to them. Yeah, sorry, go ahead.

3759
03:01:05,400 --> 03:01:05,560
Speaker 1: Date.

3760
03:01:06,440 --> 03:01:11,240
Speaker 3: But when I approached her, this is again the possible

3761
03:01:11,280 --> 03:01:17,240
Speaker 3: affair partner, she seemed very interested. Absolutely zero indication from

3762
03:01:17,280 --> 03:01:19,800
Speaker 3: her part that she made that she may have been

3763
03:01:19,800 --> 03:01:22,760
Speaker 3: in a relationship. When she found out I had a

3764
03:01:22,800 --> 03:01:27,000
Speaker 3: post job, a post grad job offer. She was overly

3765
03:01:27,120 --> 03:01:29,959
Speaker 3: congratulatory back to the money.

3766
03:01:29,840 --> 03:01:30,760
Speaker 4: She made him cookies.

3767
03:01:32,040 --> 03:01:34,440
Speaker 3: After talking to her more over the next few days,

3768
03:01:34,600 --> 03:01:37,640
Speaker 3: I asked for her Instagram, which she seemed hesitant to give,

3769
03:01:37,920 --> 03:01:39,439
Speaker 3: but she gave me her Instagram.

3770
03:01:39,120 --> 03:01:41,000
Speaker 4: Anyways because she didn't want him to find out that

3771
03:01:41,280 --> 03:01:42,160
Speaker 4: she had a partner.

3772
03:01:42,440 --> 03:01:46,840
Speaker 3: Yes, true, always observant. When I followed her, I immediately

3773
03:01:46,879 --> 03:01:49,400
Speaker 3: realized that she was married. I was floored due to

3774
03:01:49,400 --> 03:01:52,920
Speaker 3: her behavior, but I decided to fall back. After falling back,

3775
03:01:53,000 --> 03:01:55,440
Speaker 3: I heard from some mutual friends that she seemed to

3776
03:01:55,440 --> 03:01:57,680
Speaker 3: be a bit offended that I stopped talking to her

3777
03:01:57,800 --> 03:02:00,840
Speaker 3: after finding out that she was married. I found that

3778
03:02:00,959 --> 03:02:04,360
Speaker 3: a bit strange, but whatever, some drama transpired, so I

3779
03:02:04,440 --> 03:02:06,480
Speaker 3: went out of my way to avoid her for about

3780
03:02:06,520 --> 03:02:09,039
Speaker 3: a month or so. But after a while, I felt

3781
03:02:09,040 --> 03:02:12,120
Speaker 3: the beef was a waste of time, so I decided

3782
03:02:12,240 --> 03:02:14,640
Speaker 3: to give her a compliment to kind of communicate that

3783
03:02:14,760 --> 03:02:16,440
Speaker 3: I don't mind being cordial with her.

3784
03:02:18,160 --> 03:02:19,640
Speaker 2: Hey, you look sexy today.

3785
03:02:20,200 --> 03:02:23,039
Speaker 1: Your eyes remind me be able to sea, and I want.

3786
03:02:22,840 --> 03:02:25,640
Speaker 2: To swim beef over. The beef has been ended.

3787
03:02:26,640 --> 03:02:30,280
Speaker 3: She seemed ecstatic about the compliments, and I heard from

3788
03:02:30,360 --> 03:02:33,400
Speaker 3: mutual friends that she was going around telling people that

3789
03:02:33,440 --> 03:02:34,000
Speaker 3: we were friends.

3790
03:02:34,040 --> 03:02:37,240
Speaker 2: Again. I also found that strange. I just wanted to

3791
03:02:37,240 --> 03:02:38,760
Speaker 2: be cordial, so.

3792
03:02:38,680 --> 03:02:43,000
Speaker 3: He started with a compliment. Come on, like be like, hey, uh,

3793
03:02:44,080 --> 03:02:47,200
Speaker 3: how's it going? I don't know, like anything talk yeah,

3794
03:02:47,280 --> 03:02:50,160
Speaker 3: small talk, small talk. Oh this man, this test has

3795
03:02:50,200 --> 03:02:52,160
Speaker 3: been hard this semester. Like, how's it been going?

3796
03:02:53,600 --> 03:02:54,640
Speaker 2: Did you get yeah?

3797
03:02:56,520 --> 03:02:56,720
Speaker 1: Yeah?

3798
03:02:56,800 --> 03:02:57,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, any tips?

3799
03:02:58,240 --> 03:02:59,280
Speaker 4: Yeah?

3800
03:02:59,480 --> 03:03:01,959
Speaker 2: I got it for you. Oh god, there he is.

3801
03:03:03,240 --> 03:03:04,440
Speaker 2: I just wanted to be cordial.

3802
03:03:04,600 --> 03:03:07,600
Speaker 3: Anyways, we made up, and shortly thereafter I got random

3803
03:03:07,640 --> 03:03:10,440
Speaker 3: text from her telling me that she got my number

3804
03:03:10,560 --> 03:03:11,560
Speaker 3: from someone else.

3805
03:03:12,320 --> 03:03:14,599
Speaker 2: Third thing that I found strange.

3806
03:03:14,400 --> 03:03:18,680
Speaker 4: That everyone's getting this guy's number. Second party.

3807
03:03:18,959 --> 03:03:21,720
Speaker 2: Again, he's a little he's a little beautiful, so it's hard.

3808
03:03:21,800 --> 03:03:23,040
Speaker 2: It's a gorgeous yes.

3809
03:03:24,040 --> 03:03:27,440
Speaker 3: The text started pretty infrequent, but gradually progressed to her

3810
03:03:27,480 --> 03:03:31,320
Speaker 3: texting him every single day, double texting at all. She

3811
03:03:31,480 --> 03:03:35,120
Speaker 3: even seemed really pressed about me meeting her parents when

3812
03:03:35,120 --> 03:03:37,879
Speaker 3: they came into town, again, me being, you know, the.

3813
03:03:38,160 --> 03:03:40,360
Speaker 2: Not a fair partner. Gorgeous Yes, the gorgeous guy.

3814
03:03:40,800 --> 03:03:43,640
Speaker 3: I am still not sure that what that was even about,

3815
03:03:43,680 --> 03:03:46,000
Speaker 3: but I dodged the invite and it never happened.

3816
03:03:46,320 --> 03:03:48,120
Speaker 2: So he was the reason that never happened. Good to know.

3817
03:03:48,600 --> 03:03:48,840
Speaker 1: Hey.

3818
03:03:49,000 --> 03:03:51,560
Speaker 3: At this point, it seemed like she was very interested

3819
03:03:51,600 --> 03:03:54,440
Speaker 3: in me, but I was, but I wasn't very responsive

3820
03:03:54,480 --> 03:03:56,240
Speaker 3: over text because she is married.

3821
03:03:56,640 --> 03:04:00,039
Speaker 2: Over time, however, my wall broke down slowly.

3822
03:03:59,720 --> 03:04:03,240
Speaker 3: Because as I did enjoy the attention, she's inviting me

3823
03:04:03,320 --> 03:04:05,800
Speaker 3: to hang out one on one playing cards with me,

3824
03:04:06,240 --> 03:04:12,280
Speaker 3: offering to bake me cookies. I mean, these just good

3825
03:04:12,280 --> 03:04:16,400
Speaker 3: old fashioned cards we asked people to I don't know

3826
03:04:16,400 --> 03:04:19,160
Speaker 3: if we had any, but put in euphemisms for card

3827
03:04:19,240 --> 03:04:20,199
Speaker 3: games that they had.

3828
03:04:21,280 --> 03:04:23,400
Speaker 2: We did. We did see Egyptian ratscrew.

3829
03:04:25,000 --> 03:04:26,680
Speaker 4: Oh is that a joke? I thought you.

3830
03:04:27,280 --> 03:04:28,560
Speaker 2: Oh no, oh no that.

3831
03:04:30,440 --> 03:04:33,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a Gyptian rat slap and Egyptian rat screw.

3832
03:04:33,120 --> 03:04:38,080
Speaker 2: Well those both work in that and that's the strip poker.

3833
03:04:38,240 --> 03:04:41,760
Speaker 2: There you go, okay, Space spades, spades, question mark.

3834
03:04:42,160 --> 03:04:44,520
Speaker 5: I think baby slap jack.

3835
03:04:46,280 --> 03:04:48,959
Speaker 2: There we go. Some someone's jack is getting slapped.

3836
03:04:49,520 --> 03:04:52,240
Speaker 3: She told me how upset she was over the fact

3837
03:04:52,280 --> 03:04:55,600
Speaker 3: that apparently you two had planned a trip for Thanksgiving

3838
03:04:55,640 --> 03:04:58,279
Speaker 3: to see her friends, but didn't end up going because

3839
03:04:58,280 --> 03:05:01,120
Speaker 3: of a tight budget. She also told me that she

3840
03:05:01,120 --> 03:05:04,840
Speaker 3: would sleep on the couch a lot this's a lot

3841
03:05:04,879 --> 03:05:07,680
Speaker 3: of information to share in your class.

3842
03:05:07,760 --> 03:05:09,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

3843
03:05:09,720 --> 03:05:10,000
Speaker 2: Nice.

3844
03:05:10,640 --> 03:05:12,720
Speaker 3: We didn't talk much over the final exams due to

3845
03:05:12,760 --> 03:05:14,680
Speaker 3: being busy, and we really didn't talk much over the

3846
03:05:14,680 --> 03:05:17,560
Speaker 3: winter break. However, at the start of the new semester,

3847
03:05:17,840 --> 03:05:21,280
Speaker 3: the texting all day, every day and double texting came

3848
03:05:21,320 --> 03:05:24,360
Speaker 3: back in full force. At this point, I kind of

3849
03:05:24,360 --> 03:05:28,560
Speaker 3: felt like she was pursuing me, but I enjoyed the attention.

3850
03:05:29,040 --> 03:05:31,120
Speaker 3: She baked me the cookies the first week of school,

3851
03:05:31,440 --> 03:05:33,800
Speaker 3: brought them over and sat on my bed for over

3852
03:05:33,879 --> 03:05:38,560
Speaker 3: two hours, but nothing physical happened, but.

3853
03:05:39,120 --> 03:05:41,960
Speaker 1: She wanted something physical to happen, for sure. You don't

3854
03:05:41,959 --> 03:05:43,760
Speaker 1: sit on someone's bed for two hours.

3855
03:05:44,000 --> 03:05:45,160
Speaker 2: It's comfortable.

3856
03:05:46,600 --> 03:05:49,600
Speaker 4: Two hours before the party, Yeah.

3857
03:05:49,400 --> 03:05:53,039
Speaker 2: For two minutes, Like come on, yeah, she's not She's.

3858
03:05:52,920 --> 03:05:54,680
Speaker 4: Not interested in relationship with her husband anymore.

3859
03:05:54,760 --> 03:05:58,280
Speaker 3: Does Well, here's here's what a Beautiful man goes on

3860
03:05:58,320 --> 03:06:01,840
Speaker 3: to say. She honestly didn't see interested and sex at all,

3861
03:06:02,240 --> 03:06:04,120
Speaker 3: even though I kind of wanted it to happen at

3862
03:06:04,120 --> 03:06:08,279
Speaker 3: that point. But here we are now. She still texts

3863
03:06:08,320 --> 03:06:11,200
Speaker 3: me every day, and honestly it has become more frequent

3864
03:06:11,240 --> 03:06:15,720
Speaker 3: than ever before. That is the end of Beautiful Man's story,

3865
03:06:16,320 --> 03:06:17,920
Speaker 3: maybe we take a quick pause right there.

3866
03:06:19,080 --> 03:06:23,440
Speaker 4: The beautiful man, I think, regardless of whether it's like

3867
03:06:23,480 --> 03:06:26,400
Speaker 4: there's a physical aspect to the relationship, I think it's

3868
03:06:26,440 --> 03:06:27,360
Speaker 4: still emotion cheating.

3869
03:06:28,320 --> 03:06:32,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, like it's I think at this point, like

3870
03:06:32,920 --> 03:06:36,120
Speaker 3: do we think I mean, definitely the woman has like

3871
03:06:36,280 --> 03:06:40,040
Speaker 3: pursued him heavily, But is a beautiful man still in

3872
03:06:40,400 --> 03:06:41,040
Speaker 3: the wrong here?

3873
03:06:41,680 --> 03:06:47,359
Speaker 1: I mean I think slightly, slightly because he knew.

3874
03:06:47,560 --> 03:06:49,640
Speaker 4: Slightly because he knew that there was a husband in

3875
03:06:49,640 --> 03:06:52,400
Speaker 4: the picture. But I think it's like obviously more on

3876
03:06:52,840 --> 03:06:55,480
Speaker 4: the people in the relationships.

3877
03:06:55,200 --> 03:06:56,520
Speaker 2: From a woman's perspective.

3878
03:06:56,640 --> 03:06:58,720
Speaker 4: From a woman, I am a woman.

3879
03:06:58,600 --> 03:07:04,720
Speaker 3: What do you think beautiful man should have done?

3880
03:07:05,160 --> 03:07:08,080
Speaker 4: I mean, I've been in this situation where, like I thought,

3881
03:07:08,160 --> 03:07:12,440
Speaker 4: I was like talking to someone in like a friendship aspect,

3882
03:07:12,480 --> 03:07:13,480
Speaker 4: you had a partner.

3883
03:07:15,400 --> 03:07:16,600
Speaker 2: Are we talking about Belgium?

3884
03:07:16,640 --> 03:07:20,560
Speaker 1: Boy, this is a different scenario where this happened because.

3885
03:07:20,480 --> 03:07:23,840
Speaker 4: I thought because like we were we had like the

3886
03:07:23,959 --> 03:07:28,000
Speaker 4: you know, theater stuff and seven, so I would see

3887
03:07:28,040 --> 03:07:30,360
Speaker 4: him reach all the time, and so I was like, yeah,

3888
03:07:30,400 --> 03:07:32,160
Speaker 4: this is my friend. And I literally like I was like,

3889
03:07:32,200 --> 03:07:35,640
Speaker 4: this is my older brother type figure. And I remember

3890
03:07:35,720 --> 03:07:38,080
Speaker 4: actually one time he was like, I'm not your older

3891
03:07:38,120 --> 03:07:42,119
Speaker 4: brother with which should have been his son him. Well,

3892
03:07:42,160 --> 03:07:45,760
Speaker 4: because I was and he was older than man.

3893
03:07:46,280 --> 03:07:47,120
Speaker 1: He was in a relationship.

3894
03:07:47,680 --> 03:07:50,800
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, we were pals. And then I

3895
03:07:50,800 --> 03:07:52,440
Speaker 4: found out that he cheated on his girlfriend, and I

3896
03:07:52,440 --> 03:07:55,279
Speaker 4: was like, he's getting a little too you know friendly.

3897
03:07:55,320 --> 03:07:57,200
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, this, yeah, so I would have

3898
03:07:57,240 --> 03:07:59,080
Speaker 4: pulled if I was gorgeous guy, I would have.

3899
03:07:59,000 --> 03:07:59,960
Speaker 2: Pulled back, pulled back.

3900
03:08:00,280 --> 03:08:01,320
Speaker 1: How is he getting too friendly?

3901
03:08:01,400 --> 03:08:01,840
Speaker 2: What happened?

3902
03:08:02,160 --> 03:08:03,800
Speaker 4: He was not not in the sense that he was,

3903
03:08:03,840 --> 03:08:06,279
Speaker 4: you know, trying to start anything, but he was texting

3904
03:08:06,320 --> 03:08:08,160
Speaker 4: me a lot and stuff. And I was like, and

3905
03:08:08,680 --> 03:08:10,600
Speaker 4: after I found out that he had cheated on his girlfriend,

3906
03:08:10,640 --> 03:08:11,160
Speaker 4: I was like this.

3907
03:08:11,160 --> 03:08:13,199
Speaker 2: You know it all be the glass was broken.

3908
03:08:13,360 --> 03:08:13,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3909
03:08:13,640 --> 03:08:15,000
Speaker 4: I was like, I don't know if this guy wants

3910
03:08:15,000 --> 03:08:15,640
Speaker 4: to be friends with me.

3911
03:08:16,600 --> 03:08:18,640
Speaker 1: He wanted more, but can you also tell your Belgian

3912
03:08:18,640 --> 03:08:22,959
Speaker 1: boys story so that I don't know? Yeah, both people

3913
03:08:22,959 --> 03:08:24,400
Speaker 1: haven't heard. I love that story.

3914
03:08:24,879 --> 03:08:26,240
Speaker 4: It doesn't even relate.

3915
03:08:26,440 --> 03:08:29,760
Speaker 1: Yes it does. He had a girlfriend, yeah, ok, and

3916
03:08:29,800 --> 03:08:30,800
Speaker 1: then she texted you.

3917
03:08:31,040 --> 03:08:34,760
Speaker 4: Okay, do we save it for half of the story? Sure?

3918
03:08:34,879 --> 03:08:36,560
Speaker 2: Okay, story time, Okay, story time.

3919
03:08:36,640 --> 03:08:38,039
Speaker 4: It slightly doesn't really, that's right.

3920
03:08:37,959 --> 03:08:42,120
Speaker 2: And Sam, you have been gifted your phone back. Congratulations.

3921
03:08:43,160 --> 03:08:46,119
Speaker 3: Yes, so all right, here we are, Ladies and gentlemen,

3922
03:08:46,240 --> 03:08:48,920
Speaker 3: just heard beautiful man's story. Now we're back to open.

3923
03:08:49,840 --> 03:08:52,360
Speaker 3: This seems pretty consistent with the text that I read

3924
03:08:52,400 --> 03:08:55,720
Speaker 3: as well. I don't really know what to think of this,

3925
03:08:55,959 --> 03:08:58,000
Speaker 3: but it kind of seems like she's playing the long

3926
03:08:58,120 --> 03:08:59,879
Speaker 3: game with him in order to get him to fall

3927
03:08:59,879 --> 03:09:02,920
Speaker 3: in love with her so she can leave me. I

3928
03:09:02,959 --> 03:09:05,800
Speaker 3: appreciate the guy's willingness to meet with me, and honestly,

3929
03:09:05,920 --> 03:09:08,440
Speaker 3: I do believe what he is telling me. Seems like

3930
03:09:08,520 --> 03:09:11,200
Speaker 3: this is beyond the point of no return. I plan

3931
03:09:11,360 --> 03:09:14,879
Speaker 3: on talking to her tomorrow, but I think that this

3932
03:09:15,000 --> 03:09:17,200
Speaker 3: is it for me. I don't think there's anything she

3933
03:09:17,240 --> 03:09:19,240
Speaker 3: can say that will change my mind. At this point,

3934
03:09:19,480 --> 03:09:22,360
Speaker 3: it's over. I will give an update if I feel

3935
03:09:22,440 --> 03:09:26,879
Speaker 3: up to it. And Ladies and gentlemen, there is another update.

3936
03:09:26,680 --> 03:09:29,720
Speaker 4: Also a non reddit poster. Hit is Live.

3937
03:09:30,080 --> 03:09:34,520
Speaker 1: It's so freakin' live, Yeah, lady hike. Okay, story time,

3938
03:09:34,520 --> 03:09:36,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna get to Sophia's Belgian story.

3939
03:09:36,560 --> 03:09:39,880
Speaker 4: He's three forty three pm Pacific Standard time.

3940
03:09:40,080 --> 03:09:44,880
Speaker 2: Yes, coming to you live. Yeah, So okay, storry time.

3941
03:09:45,680 --> 03:09:47,440
Speaker 2: Oh yes, yes.

3942
03:09:47,640 --> 03:09:52,280
Speaker 6: Anyway, I was in London with Sam and we met

3943
03:09:52,360 --> 03:09:56,200
Speaker 6: this sky from Belgium and I chatted with him and

3944
03:09:56,240 --> 03:10:00,600
Speaker 6: he was being flirty, and then I followed him on

3945
03:10:00,720 --> 03:10:02,959
Speaker 6: Instagram and immediately saw that he had a girlfriend, so

3946
03:10:02,959 --> 03:10:06,720
Speaker 6: I was like no, and so then he kept trying

3947
03:10:06,720 --> 03:10:08,160
Speaker 6: to text me and I was like, I'm not interested.

3948
03:10:08,760 --> 03:10:12,120
Speaker 4: And then a couple months later, I received a random

3949
03:10:12,200 --> 03:10:15,520
Speaker 4: dm uh from this girl and I was like, who

3950
03:10:15,560 --> 03:10:18,640
Speaker 4: is this and so I accepted it because I saw

3951
03:10:18,680 --> 03:10:23,520
Speaker 4: that she was following the guy, and she basically, very nicely,

3952
03:10:23,680 --> 03:10:27,080
Speaker 4: was like, hey, I just wanted to ask if you know,

3953
03:10:27,360 --> 03:10:29,640
Speaker 4: like I know that my boyfriend met you in London,

3954
03:10:29,680 --> 03:10:33,000
Speaker 4: which I didn't know how she knew because I really

3955
03:10:33,040 --> 03:10:35,520
Speaker 4: didn't follow. Yeah, I guess we're following each other. But

3956
03:10:35,560 --> 03:10:39,120
Speaker 4: I only saw him for one day. And she was like,

3957
03:10:39,160 --> 03:10:41,440
Speaker 4: did anything happen? Like I just want to know, like

3958
03:10:41,480 --> 03:10:44,280
Speaker 4: I'm not sure if something's going on, and I was like,

3959
03:10:44,400 --> 03:10:48,160
Speaker 4: nothing happened. I'm so sorry. I hope everything's okay, but

3960
03:10:48,200 --> 03:10:49,800
Speaker 4: I feel like he was probably you know, he probably

3961
03:10:49,840 --> 03:10:51,560
Speaker 4: she'd done her if she was asking those questions.

3962
03:10:51,800 --> 03:10:53,080
Speaker 2: Yeah.

3963
03:10:53,240 --> 03:10:55,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, so that's the long and short of it of

3964
03:10:55,680 --> 03:10:57,160
Speaker 4: the Belgian Boys story.

3965
03:10:57,280 --> 03:11:00,520
Speaker 3: The Belgian Boys story, by the way, I love Fried

3966
03:11:00,600 --> 03:11:03,119
Speaker 3: Chickens said they have a story. If you all watching

3967
03:11:03,200 --> 03:11:06,400
Speaker 3: right now have a story, please share it in the

3968
03:11:06,440 --> 03:11:09,760
Speaker 3: comments below and we just might take a look at it.

3969
03:11:10,600 --> 03:11:14,440
Speaker 3: Kaz also has a story. So guys, chumps, bring them on.

3970
03:11:14,600 --> 03:11:18,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, chump says, it's ten forty four am Australian Eastern daylights.

3971
03:11:18,360 --> 03:11:20,400
Speaker 2: Hey, shout out to you, chumps.

3972
03:11:20,800 --> 03:11:24,800
Speaker 4: Let's go, and it's hold on, hold on and hold

3973
03:11:24,879 --> 03:11:28,040
Speaker 4: on world'clock New York at six forty five pm Los Angeles.

3974
03:11:28,040 --> 03:11:31,520
Speaker 4: We already established Melbourn. Yeah, it's ten forty five London,

3975
03:11:31,560 --> 03:11:32,400
Speaker 4: eleven forty five.

3976
03:11:32,800 --> 03:11:34,440
Speaker 2: All right, now, is that a thing? Now we we

3977
03:11:34,920 --> 03:11:35,760
Speaker 2: read out our times.

3978
03:11:36,040 --> 03:11:38,600
Speaker 1: Times spam is proof that this is lies.

3979
03:11:38,760 --> 03:11:41,240
Speaker 2: Yes, in case you in case you were confused.

3980
03:11:42,160 --> 03:11:43,440
Speaker 4: So now now we're up to date.

3981
03:11:43,879 --> 03:11:45,600
Speaker 2: But you know what else is up to date?

3982
03:11:46,240 --> 03:11:49,760
Speaker 4: This next update up to date? Up to date?

3983
03:11:53,160 --> 03:11:59,520
Speaker 3: Okay, So I had the talk with her yesterday, the

3984
03:11:59,680 --> 03:12:05,280
Speaker 3: talk and it's over. Yeah, as crazy as it is.

3985
03:12:05,840 --> 03:12:08,440
Speaker 3: The guy actually didn't give her any heads up that

3986
03:12:08,520 --> 03:12:11,160
Speaker 3: we met, which I appreciated.

3987
03:12:11,440 --> 03:12:14,600
Speaker 4: Which in all that time texting, I wonder if they

3988
03:12:14,640 --> 03:12:17,400
Speaker 4: were still texting after they met up, or if he

3989
03:12:17,520 --> 03:12:19,119
Speaker 4: was like, I'm not going to text her at all.

3990
03:12:19,480 --> 03:12:23,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean he didn't message her about that

3991
03:12:23,360 --> 03:12:27,760
Speaker 3: heads up, so so it might have might have been Basically,

3992
03:12:27,879 --> 03:12:29,800
Speaker 3: I sat with her at the dining room table and

3993
03:12:29,840 --> 03:12:33,119
Speaker 3: started by telling her I heard what's going on with her.

3994
03:12:33,240 --> 03:12:35,160
Speaker 2: And beautiful man, beautiful man.

3995
03:12:35,400 --> 03:12:37,680
Speaker 3: When she asked what I was talking about, I kind

3996
03:12:37,680 --> 03:12:40,160
Speaker 3: of just went through all the highlights of the emotional affair,

3997
03:12:40,480 --> 03:12:44,480
Speaker 3: highlighting the cookie situation, meeting the parents, in cessant texting,

3998
03:12:44,800 --> 03:12:47,680
Speaker 3: disguising him as just a friend, et cetera, et cetera.

3999
03:12:48,200 --> 03:12:49,920
Speaker 3: When I told her that it seemed to me as

4000
03:12:49,959 --> 03:12:52,400
Speaker 3: if she was obsessed with the guy, maybe even in

4001
03:12:52,440 --> 03:12:57,080
Speaker 3: love with him, and seemingly planning for my replacement, she

4002
03:12:57,320 --> 03:13:02,720
Speaker 3: immediately broke down crying. I almost felt kind of bad,

4003
03:13:03,000 --> 03:13:06,800
Speaker 3: but also didn't at the same time. She then told

4004
03:13:06,840 --> 03:13:09,440
Speaker 3: me that she only did it because she liked the

4005
03:13:09,480 --> 03:13:12,480
Speaker 3: attention and nothing more, and that she would cut him

4006
03:13:12,520 --> 03:13:13,680
Speaker 3: off immediately.

4007
03:13:14,840 --> 03:13:16,520
Speaker 2: I shook my head.

4008
03:13:16,640 --> 03:13:18,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's too little, too.

4009
03:13:18,120 --> 03:13:19,360
Speaker 2: Late, Too little too late.

4010
03:13:19,440 --> 03:13:23,360
Speaker 3: Is there anything that she could do to, like, even

4011
03:13:23,400 --> 03:13:28,000
Speaker 3: attempt to salvage what's happened at this point, only.

4012
03:13:27,760 --> 03:13:29,800
Speaker 4: If he had been more receptive to it. But it

4013
03:13:29,840 --> 03:13:31,279
Speaker 4: seems like he's already.

4014
03:13:31,400 --> 03:13:32,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, he kind of made up his mind.

4015
03:13:32,720 --> 03:13:35,200
Speaker 4: He had already made up his mind before this. Yeah,

4016
03:13:35,240 --> 03:13:37,720
Speaker 4: if he had been like, like, is this you know,

4017
03:13:37,760 --> 03:13:39,680
Speaker 4: I don't know, if you had gone into it with

4018
03:13:39,720 --> 03:13:42,160
Speaker 4: a little bit more hesitancy. But it seems like he

4019
03:13:42,240 --> 03:13:45,240
Speaker 4: just wanted to tell her that he knew. Yeah, see

4020
03:13:45,240 --> 03:13:45,959
Speaker 4: how you know?

4021
03:13:46,400 --> 03:13:48,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, he like if he came in and gave her

4022
03:13:48,480 --> 03:13:49,959
Speaker 3: room to try to be like, all right, I earned

4023
03:13:49,959 --> 03:13:52,920
Speaker 3: my trust back or something, then it's like, okay, I could.

4024
03:13:52,840 --> 03:13:56,360
Speaker 2: Try to do something, but I don't think so. It's tough.

4025
03:13:57,520 --> 03:14:00,760
Speaker 2: She offered to find a couple's therapists, which uh while

4026
03:14:00,800 --> 03:14:03,920
Speaker 2: still belligerently crying, And I told her it seems like

4027
03:14:03,959 --> 03:14:07,720
Speaker 2: we are past that point already didn't really care whether

4028
03:14:07,760 --> 03:14:09,039
Speaker 2: she slept with the guy or not.

4029
03:14:09,360 --> 03:14:13,280
Speaker 3: This emotional situation was enough for me. I told her

4030
03:14:13,400 --> 03:14:16,080
Speaker 3: I'll be contacting an attorney this week and that she

4031
03:14:16,120 --> 03:14:16,760
Speaker 3: should do the same.

4032
03:14:16,800 --> 03:14:19,000
Speaker 2: Remember there married yeah in a rea.

4033
03:14:19,320 --> 03:14:22,080
Speaker 3: I forgot for a second too, honestly, and I walked

4034
03:14:22,120 --> 03:14:25,360
Speaker 3: out the door with her chasing me. I didn't have

4035
03:14:25,440 --> 03:14:28,119
Speaker 3: anywhere to go, but I needed to just leave before

4036
03:14:28,120 --> 03:14:31,520
Speaker 3: she tried me, Before she tried to convince me any

4037
03:14:31,560 --> 03:14:34,880
Speaker 3: further to stay. I didn't want to hear any bs.

4038
03:14:35,280 --> 03:14:39,480
Speaker 3: Received dozens of calls, say again, another card game?

4039
03:14:39,680 --> 03:14:44,680
Speaker 1: God, please, somebody finished it already.

4040
03:14:45,000 --> 03:14:46,160
Speaker 2: We know who the joker in the deck?

4041
03:14:46,320 --> 03:14:50,320
Speaker 4: Wash, who's the beautiful man?

4042
03:14:50,400 --> 03:14:54,920
Speaker 2: Then dang, he's the king damage he's too beautiful.

4043
03:14:55,879 --> 03:14:58,360
Speaker 3: I received dozens of calls and texts while I was gone,

4044
03:14:58,480 --> 03:15:01,720
Speaker 3: and when I came back, she se devastated. Still, I

4045
03:15:01,760 --> 03:15:03,800
Speaker 3: got calls from her parents to day as well, which

4046
03:15:03,800 --> 03:15:05,879
Speaker 3: I ignored. I haven't kicked her out of the house

4047
03:15:05,959 --> 03:15:08,160
Speaker 3: or anything. Not really sure what I want to do

4048
03:15:08,240 --> 03:15:11,360
Speaker 3: about that yet. I don't want her to be with

4049
03:15:11,560 --> 03:15:13,600
Speaker 3: I don't want her to be this guy or anyone

4050
03:15:13,600 --> 03:15:16,320
Speaker 3: else's burden. I'm just kind of feeling lost at the

4051
03:15:16,600 --> 03:15:19,919
Speaker 3: at this point, it's wild, how truly absurd.

4052
03:15:19,840 --> 03:15:22,640
Speaker 2: This just ended. After all this time.

4053
03:15:23,160 --> 03:15:25,760
Speaker 3: I moved to the state solely to support her, and

4054
03:15:25,800 --> 03:15:29,760
Speaker 3: now I'm just here. The majority of my friends and

4055
03:15:29,800 --> 03:15:33,200
Speaker 3: family are still across the country. Maybe I should have

4056
03:15:33,200 --> 03:15:35,960
Speaker 3: seen the writing on the wall. Our relationship wasn't perfect.

4057
03:15:36,200 --> 03:15:38,320
Speaker 3: I've been pretty busy over the last year or so

4058
03:15:38,440 --> 03:15:40,920
Speaker 3: with work, and it seems like she took every chance

4059
03:15:40,959 --> 03:15:43,680
Speaker 3: she could to go to every single school party slash

4060
03:15:43,800 --> 03:15:48,039
Speaker 3: outing she could without inviting me ninety five.

4061
03:15:47,879 --> 03:15:48,720
Speaker 2: Percent of the time.

4062
03:15:49,520 --> 03:15:52,920
Speaker 3: Ouch, she was never home and every time I asked

4063
03:15:52,920 --> 03:15:56,160
Speaker 3: any questions, she would chalk it up to studying quote unquote.

4064
03:15:56,600 --> 03:15:59,200
Speaker 3: How could I really argue with that when she's in

4065
03:15:59,200 --> 03:16:03,600
Speaker 3: grad school. Yeah, it may not be entirely her fault,

4066
03:16:03,600 --> 03:16:05,879
Speaker 3: but I'm glad I'm getting But I'm glad I'm getting

4067
03:16:05,879 --> 03:16:08,480
Speaker 3: out of us before it got any worse. Three years

4068
03:16:08,560 --> 03:16:10,960
Speaker 3: isn't a crazy amount of time, and now it's time

4069
03:16:10,959 --> 03:16:14,039
Speaker 3: to go find myself again. This does suck, though, Thank

4070
03:16:14,080 --> 03:16:16,720
Speaker 3: you all for your support. This has really helped me

4071
03:16:16,760 --> 03:16:19,680
Speaker 3: come to terms with this ending.

4072
03:16:21,000 --> 03:16:23,920
Speaker 4: Yeah. No, I think I think she had a lot

4073
03:16:23,920 --> 03:16:26,720
Speaker 4: of red flags and she wasn't really focused on the

4074
03:16:26,800 --> 03:16:28,360
Speaker 4: relationship for a while, it seems.

4075
03:16:28,760 --> 03:16:34,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, at least I'm curious on would you all stay

4076
03:16:35,280 --> 03:16:41,960
Speaker 3: or work on the relationship? Because nice to producer Riley,

4077
03:16:42,120 --> 03:16:44,560
Speaker 3: just on top of his game. Oh so we have

4078
03:16:44,600 --> 03:16:48,160
Speaker 3: a few then, Burning Rose says she's not sorry it happened.

4079
03:16:48,240 --> 03:16:51,039
Speaker 2: She's sorry that she got caught.

4080
03:16:51,720 --> 03:16:55,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it kind of seems like that is the case.

4081
03:16:55,040 --> 03:17:01,560
Speaker 3: And then uh, Karima Karn's Bond says, burning Rose you

4082
03:17:01,600 --> 03:17:04,760
Speaker 3: one hundredercent, right, So basically uh.

4083
03:17:04,600 --> 03:17:05,480
Speaker 2: Plus wanting that.

4084
03:17:06,680 --> 03:17:10,800
Speaker 3: Soriah Jade says she would have absolutely eventually slept with

4085
03:17:10,840 --> 03:17:14,240
Speaker 3: beautiful man if she hadn't have got caught. Look, it's

4086
03:17:14,280 --> 03:17:15,199
Speaker 3: hard to resist.

4087
03:17:14,959 --> 03:17:17,520
Speaker 2: Sleep sleeping with beautiful man. If I do say so myself,

4088
03:17:18,000 --> 03:17:20,080
Speaker 2: it's it's it's really tough.

4089
03:17:22,200 --> 03:17:24,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's tough that he like, he moved out

4090
03:17:24,120 --> 03:17:26,480
Speaker 4: to this place and then she didn't try to include

4091
03:17:26,560 --> 03:17:27,600
Speaker 4: him in her life at all.

4092
03:17:28,080 --> 03:17:32,120
Speaker 5: And like another point is like Bro's like thirty because

4093
03:17:32,120 --> 03:17:35,080
Speaker 5: she's twenty five and everyone that's like in college is like, yeah,

4094
03:17:35,080 --> 03:17:36,480
Speaker 5: well one college scene, you know.

4095
03:17:36,879 --> 03:17:39,600
Speaker 4: It is grad school. So I mean, based off of

4096
03:17:39,640 --> 03:17:42,840
Speaker 4: like theater grad school, there are it ranges from you know,

4097
03:17:43,680 --> 03:17:45,439
Speaker 4: mid twenties to thirties.

4098
03:17:45,920 --> 03:17:48,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just broke something on Oh that's okay, we

4099
03:17:48,040 --> 03:17:49,560
Speaker 2: can destroy the Harry Potter Fortress.

4100
03:17:50,480 --> 03:17:54,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I think that there's I don't think his

4101
03:17:54,600 --> 03:17:57,920
Speaker 4: age would have been a huge problem problem in grad school.

4102
03:17:57,959 --> 03:17:59,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's probably people in grad school I guess that

4103
03:17:59,640 --> 03:18:01,119
Speaker 2: are like twenty eight.

4104
03:18:01,320 --> 03:18:05,200
Speaker 4: Or I know thirty year olds and you see grad school.

4105
03:18:05,800 --> 03:18:07,279
Speaker 2: True and over thirty true.

4106
03:18:07,680 --> 03:18:09,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know people who were in their like forties

4107
03:18:09,760 --> 03:18:13,400
Speaker 4: who were in undergrad So you know, yeah, I think

4108
03:18:13,400 --> 03:18:15,640
Speaker 4: it's like less of a deal, especially in grad school

4109
03:18:16,000 --> 03:18:16,520
Speaker 4: your age.

4110
03:18:16,879 --> 03:18:20,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you're a beautiful man, yeah, that's all

4111
03:18:20,480 --> 03:18:24,680
Speaker 2: that matters. That is really all that matters. That really

4112
03:18:24,680 --> 03:18:27,440
Speaker 2: sucks for But you know what else matters a lot?

4113
03:18:27,920 --> 03:18:30,800
Speaker 2: This next story, this next story. Do we need to

4114
03:18:31,000 --> 03:18:31,760
Speaker 2: queue it up here?

4115
03:18:32,080 --> 03:18:33,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, let's do that.

4116
03:18:34,280 --> 03:18:41,080
Speaker 2: Three hundo and story number two. Here we go, Sophia,

4117
03:18:41,240 --> 03:18:42,080
Speaker 2: the floor is yours?

4118
03:18:42,160 --> 03:18:46,160
Speaker 4: Thank you? Oh right? Am I the a hole for

4119
03:18:46,240 --> 03:18:50,119
Speaker 4: overreacting to my wife's friends? Oh, to my wife's friends

4120
03:18:50,160 --> 03:18:51,600
Speaker 4: snooping on my laptop?

4121
03:18:53,120 --> 03:18:53,200
Speaker 2: No?

4122
03:18:53,720 --> 03:18:56,320
Speaker 4: I think what's your thoughts before we get into it?

4123
03:18:56,360 --> 03:18:58,640
Speaker 3: If the if the wife's friend is snooping on the laptop,

4124
03:18:59,240 --> 03:19:02,960
Speaker 3: don't don't why why why are you snooping on my laptop?

4125
03:19:03,120 --> 03:19:03,520
Speaker 4: Yeah?

4126
03:19:03,600 --> 03:19:06,879
Speaker 2: That's right, d Yeah, it's like, yeah.

4127
03:19:06,560 --> 03:19:08,920
Speaker 3: Is it almost worse that it's like the wife's friend

4128
03:19:08,920 --> 03:19:10,560
Speaker 3: and not even the wife, Yeah, because.

4129
03:19:10,320 --> 03:19:12,920
Speaker 4: She's sending someone else to do well, we don't know this.

4130
03:19:13,000 --> 03:19:13,400
Speaker 1: We don't know.

4131
03:19:13,560 --> 03:19:14,640
Speaker 4: I don't want to make assumptions.

4132
03:19:14,640 --> 03:19:15,480
Speaker 2: Good conspiracy theory.

4133
03:19:15,520 --> 03:19:18,320
Speaker 4: But I was gonna say, maybe she's sending him. Maybe,

4134
03:19:19,640 --> 03:19:23,080
Speaker 4: but let's read on. It's fine, I know it so

4135
03:19:23,320 --> 03:19:27,240
Speaker 4: level reaction forty five sixty nine says I twenty six male.

4136
03:19:27,320 --> 03:19:29,720
Speaker 4: Have been with my wife twenty four female for a

4137
03:19:29,760 --> 03:19:32,760
Speaker 4: little under five years, dating for three, engaged for one,

4138
03:19:32,879 --> 03:19:35,640
Speaker 4: and married just under one. She is the love of

4139
03:19:35,680 --> 03:19:37,360
Speaker 4: my life and I know her like the back of

4140
03:19:37,360 --> 03:19:39,680
Speaker 4: my hand. I know her needs. Once when she would

4141
03:19:39,680 --> 03:19:41,880
Speaker 4: prefer water over diet coke when she is starting to

4142
03:19:41,920 --> 03:19:45,080
Speaker 4: slip into a depressive state anxiety triggers et cetera.

4143
03:19:46,440 --> 03:19:46,920
Speaker 2: Pretty good.

4144
03:19:46,959 --> 03:19:49,880
Speaker 4: Oh, he knows everything about his wife.

4145
03:19:49,959 --> 03:19:50,480
Speaker 2: Yeah.

4146
03:19:50,879 --> 03:19:52,800
Speaker 4: One thing she's always worried about is that I will

4147
03:19:52,879 --> 03:19:55,920
Speaker 4: leave her or cheat on her. Her parents had issues,

4148
03:19:55,959 --> 03:19:58,200
Speaker 4: and she thinks I'll be the same. To combat this,

4149
03:19:58,400 --> 03:20:01,920
Speaker 4: she has full access to my phone and personal computer. However,

4150
03:20:02,080 --> 03:20:04,680
Speaker 4: my work computer is completely off limits due to the

4151
03:20:04,760 --> 03:20:07,720
Speaker 4: nature of my job. Ooh, what type of job is that?

4152
03:20:09,240 --> 03:20:10,640
Speaker 2: Secret? Nuclear missiles?

4153
03:20:11,480 --> 03:20:14,120
Speaker 4: And he's like, no, playing around with my computer. I

4154
03:20:14,200 --> 03:20:14,920
Speaker 4: launched the missile.

4155
03:20:15,080 --> 03:20:18,199
Speaker 2: If you want to live, that's.

4156
03:20:18,040 --> 03:20:20,560
Speaker 4: I Also, just before we go on, I think that's

4157
03:20:20,920 --> 03:20:23,800
Speaker 4: that's very kind of him to give her full access,

4158
03:20:23,800 --> 03:20:25,480
Speaker 4: But I think that's also something she should be in

4159
03:20:25,520 --> 03:20:28,640
Speaker 4: therapy for, Like, if you're expecting the worst out of relationship,

4160
03:20:29,879 --> 03:20:34,680
Speaker 4: then that's a great Yeah all right, so OPI continues.

4161
03:20:35,000 --> 03:20:37,240
Speaker 4: I recently got a promotion and now have people who

4162
03:20:37,240 --> 03:20:39,320
Speaker 4: will report to me. One of these people is female.

4163
03:20:39,680 --> 03:20:41,840
Speaker 4: Sometimes if I'm away from my computer and they have

4164
03:20:41,920 --> 03:20:44,400
Speaker 4: a question, they will call or text my personal phone

4165
03:20:44,920 --> 03:20:47,480
Speaker 4: and I typically reply with let me get online and

4166
03:20:47,520 --> 03:20:51,400
Speaker 4: we can talk over teams, our company's communication platform. Recently,

4167
03:20:51,520 --> 03:20:53,200
Speaker 4: she has looked through my phone and saw that the

4168
03:20:53,240 --> 03:20:55,360
Speaker 4: girl who reports to me has texted me quite a

4169
03:20:55,440 --> 03:20:58,080
Speaker 4: few times since she is new. And I always say

4170
03:20:58,120 --> 03:21:02,960
Speaker 4: I'll be online. Shortly, my my wife showed my wife

4171
03:21:03,000 --> 03:21:05,360
Speaker 4: showed her friends the text thread and they all think

4172
03:21:05,360 --> 03:21:07,680
Speaker 4: that it is sus and they were talking about stuff

4173
03:21:07,680 --> 03:21:10,400
Speaker 4: on the one device. I never let my wife see.

4174
03:21:10,800 --> 03:21:12,920
Speaker 4: When this is brought to my attention, I showed her

4175
03:21:12,959 --> 03:21:15,360
Speaker 4: text for my other reports. And I always say I'll

4176
03:21:15,400 --> 03:21:20,440
Speaker 4: talk online. Is there's just so much lack of trust

4177
03:21:20,480 --> 03:21:21,160
Speaker 4: in this relationship.

4178
03:21:21,280 --> 03:21:22,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of yeah tough.

4179
03:21:23,360 --> 03:21:25,880
Speaker 4: The reason I always say I'll talk online is because

4180
03:21:25,879 --> 03:21:28,440
Speaker 4: of the technical data I deal with. My company takes

4181
03:21:28,440 --> 03:21:31,880
Speaker 4: cybersecurity very seriously. To log in in the morning, there

4182
03:21:31,879 --> 03:21:34,240
Speaker 4: are three passwords I need to input. Because it takes

4183
03:21:34,280 --> 03:21:36,440
Speaker 4: so long to log in, I typically will just turn

4184
03:21:36,480 --> 03:21:39,000
Speaker 4: off my screen when I walk away instead of looking

4185
03:21:39,120 --> 03:21:41,960
Speaker 4: locking it. I figure I am in my own house

4186
03:21:42,000 --> 03:21:44,480
Speaker 4: and typically the only people with me are my dogs

4187
03:21:44,600 --> 03:21:45,240
Speaker 4: or my wife.

4188
03:21:45,520 --> 03:21:46,680
Speaker 2: Can you trust the dogs.

4189
03:21:46,480 --> 03:21:50,320
Speaker 4: Though, no, they're always snooping. It's obviously that movie Cats

4190
03:21:50,360 --> 03:21:51,000
Speaker 4: Versus Dogs.

4191
03:21:52,640 --> 03:21:53,320
Speaker 1: You're so right?

4192
03:21:53,440 --> 03:21:55,440
Speaker 4: Yeah? And the cats, I think we're trying to destroy

4193
03:21:55,480 --> 03:21:57,400
Speaker 4: the world. I think they were trying to start a.

4194
03:21:57,480 --> 03:22:00,480
Speaker 2: Nuclear war, right, what's up with the that's true?

4195
03:22:00,720 --> 03:22:02,560
Speaker 4: Don't I don't know if that's fully true, but I

4196
03:22:02,560 --> 03:22:03,080
Speaker 4: think that's.

4197
03:22:02,920 --> 03:22:05,320
Speaker 2: What we're going with that version of the True Cats.

4198
03:22:05,320 --> 03:22:07,039
Speaker 4: We're starting a cold war.

4199
03:22:07,440 --> 03:22:10,960
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, that was very bad.

4200
03:22:11,120 --> 03:22:14,439
Speaker 3: I also have an okay story time related to Op's

4201
03:22:14,480 --> 03:22:15,199
Speaker 3: super secret.

4202
03:22:15,280 --> 03:22:18,480
Speaker 4: Okay, well, anyway, information, Let's see what happens if these

4203
03:22:18,520 --> 03:22:23,520
Speaker 4: dogs were the culprits. Let's see the other day, I'm

4204
03:22:23,520 --> 03:22:26,640
Speaker 4: working in my in home office while my wife has

4205
03:22:26,640 --> 03:22:28,520
Speaker 4: some friends over, and I have to go to the bathroom,

4206
03:22:28,600 --> 03:22:30,840
Speaker 4: So I turn off my screen and go relieve myself.

4207
03:22:31,160 --> 03:22:33,440
Speaker 4: I decide to also grab a coffee from the kitchen,

4208
03:22:33,760 --> 03:22:35,760
Speaker 4: and when I come back, I see my wife at

4209
03:22:35,760 --> 03:22:38,920
Speaker 4: my desk with her friends around her. I flip out

4210
03:22:38,959 --> 03:22:41,400
Speaker 4: and ask what they think they're doing, and they're reading

4211
03:22:41,400 --> 03:22:46,920
Speaker 4: my messages with my coworkers. Again, these messages contain technical

4212
03:22:47,000 --> 03:22:49,920
Speaker 4: data that isn't open to the public. I kick her

4213
03:22:49,920 --> 03:22:51,440
Speaker 4: friends out of the house and tell them that they

4214
03:22:51,440 --> 03:22:53,480
Speaker 4: may have put my job in jeopardy since I now

4215
03:22:53,560 --> 03:22:56,640
Speaker 4: have to report a breach of security. Her friends argue

4216
03:22:56,640 --> 03:22:59,359
Speaker 4: they were just looking out for my wife, as it's suspicious.

4217
03:22:59,400 --> 03:23:03,600
Speaker 4: I always answer, on the computer, where else?

4218
03:23:03,720 --> 03:23:04,760
Speaker 2: Why is that suspicious?

4219
03:23:04,760 --> 03:23:08,599
Speaker 4: Where else would he answer? I?

4220
03:23:08,760 --> 03:23:11,800
Speaker 2: Like, who cares what device you're answering from?

4221
03:23:11,879 --> 03:23:12,080
Speaker 1: Yeah?

4222
03:23:12,200 --> 03:23:13,600
Speaker 2: Right, this is like a word.

4223
03:23:13,640 --> 03:23:17,560
Speaker 4: I don't know this is I understand that there might

4224
03:23:17,600 --> 03:23:20,560
Speaker 4: be cases where people are cheating, but like, if you

4225
03:23:20,640 --> 03:23:24,120
Speaker 4: have zero trust in your partner, what.

4226
03:23:24,520 --> 03:23:24,879
Speaker 2: Are we doing?

4227
03:23:24,959 --> 03:23:25,480
Speaker 4: What's the point?

4228
03:23:25,680 --> 03:23:29,400
Speaker 3: I also just put together that they're they're basically saying like, oh,

4229
03:23:29,480 --> 03:23:31,360
Speaker 3: you use this one device so you can hide all

4230
03:23:31,400 --> 03:23:32,520
Speaker 3: the messages.

4231
03:23:32,080 --> 03:23:32,760
Speaker 2: And right right right?

4232
03:23:32,840 --> 03:23:35,600
Speaker 4: Yeah? But still like what like why.

4233
03:23:35,720 --> 03:23:39,000
Speaker 2: Why why not? Just yeah?

4234
03:23:38,160 --> 03:23:40,800
Speaker 4: Come all in all? I kicked her friends out and

4235
03:23:40,840 --> 03:23:43,240
Speaker 4: told them to never come back. I called my boss

4236
03:23:43,280 --> 03:23:45,680
Speaker 4: with my wife and told my boss everything and made

4237
03:23:45,680 --> 03:23:49,200
Speaker 4: my wife tell which tell me which conversation conversations she

4238
03:23:49,320 --> 03:23:52,400
Speaker 4: read to determine what she saw. My boss told me

4239
03:23:52,520 --> 03:23:55,240
Speaker 4: I got lucky and nothing too sensitive was in the messages,

4240
03:23:55,280 --> 03:23:56,840
Speaker 4: and in private he told me to go to a

4241
03:23:56,879 --> 03:24:02,160
Speaker 4: couple's counseling. My wife. Yeah, my wife told her friends

4242
03:24:02,160 --> 03:24:03,640
Speaker 4: what I made her do, and they all think I

4243
03:24:03,680 --> 03:24:07,280
Speaker 4: overreacted and am a complete ass for embarrassing her. To

4244
03:24:07,320 --> 03:24:10,680
Speaker 4: my boss, No, I think that I think she deserved that.

4245
03:24:11,280 --> 03:24:13,760
Speaker 4: I think that this relationship I one. I think they

4246
03:24:13,800 --> 03:24:16,480
Speaker 4: need to go to coumple's counseling because this wife and

4247
03:24:16,560 --> 03:24:17,680
Speaker 4: this wife needs go to therapy.

4248
03:24:18,200 --> 03:24:20,039
Speaker 2: Yes, blank, definitely.

4249
03:24:19,600 --> 03:24:21,720
Speaker 4: If you have zero trust in your relationship, it's just

4250
03:24:22,400 --> 03:24:24,119
Speaker 4: with no evidence, with no yeah.

4251
03:24:24,040 --> 03:24:26,240
Speaker 3: And just for like you as a person, like like

4252
03:24:26,320 --> 03:24:29,160
Speaker 3: being able to like you know, work through those issues

4253
03:24:29,240 --> 03:24:32,480
Speaker 3: and then live a life where you're not constantly like

4254
03:24:32,959 --> 03:24:34,800
Speaker 3: looking over someone's shoulder, just at least.

4255
03:24:34,680 --> 03:24:36,760
Speaker 2: Make make progress in the in the right direction.

4256
03:24:37,160 --> 03:24:39,400
Speaker 4: And the fact that the wife's friends were like encouraging

4257
03:24:39,440 --> 03:24:40,920
Speaker 4: this behavior is wild.

4258
03:24:41,360 --> 03:24:44,120
Speaker 3: I feel like I wonder if because we actually read

4259
03:24:44,160 --> 03:24:45,879
Speaker 3: a bunch of stories earlier today at the top of

4260
03:24:45,920 --> 03:24:49,800
Speaker 3: the stream where uh the friends were the one that

4261
03:24:49,840 --> 03:24:52,880
Speaker 3: were planting all of these ideas, Like it didn't come

4262
03:24:52,959 --> 03:24:55,240
Speaker 3: from like the wife or the significant other. It was

4263
03:24:55,280 --> 03:24:59,879
Speaker 3: like the friend or friend group feeding that information to them.

4264
03:25:00,040 --> 03:25:01,520
Speaker 4: It seems like they might have done that. I wouldn't

4265
03:25:01,560 --> 03:25:02,760
Speaker 4: I wouldn't put it past.

4266
03:25:02,879 --> 03:25:04,360
Speaker 2: See is that the end of the end of this story.

4267
03:25:04,400 --> 03:25:06,200
Speaker 4: That is the end of this story?

4268
03:25:06,280 --> 03:25:08,600
Speaker 3: Uh ha, Well I do have an okay storytime related

4269
03:25:08,640 --> 03:25:12,440
Speaker 3: to this. So so obviously there's the breach of trust

4270
03:25:12,600 --> 03:25:17,520
Speaker 3: of going into the laptop. But a company I used

4271
03:25:17,520 --> 03:25:19,920
Speaker 3: to work for had I don't know if this is

4272
03:25:19,959 --> 03:25:22,320
Speaker 3: the same thing. It's called like sock two. It's basically

4273
03:25:22,360 --> 03:25:26,240
Speaker 3: like a big security thing and they send people to

4274
03:25:26,360 --> 03:25:29,200
Speaker 3: your office and sometimes to your house, like like to

4275
03:25:29,360 --> 03:25:32,760
Speaker 3: inspect your place, like house secure because think about like

4276
03:25:32,840 --> 03:25:35,959
Speaker 3: in this dude's case, he's like, oh, my house seems secure.

4277
03:25:36,440 --> 03:25:39,200
Speaker 3: But so they will literally fly people out sometimes to

4278
03:25:39,360 --> 03:25:42,040
Speaker 3: inspect and be like is there any is there anything

4279
03:25:42,040 --> 03:25:44,519
Speaker 3: that might be a breach of security?

4280
03:25:44,600 --> 03:25:47,879
Speaker 4: And the whole zoom testing protocol.

4281
03:25:47,959 --> 03:25:50,119
Speaker 2: The zoom testing protocol, Yeah, like they.

4282
03:25:50,120 --> 03:25:51,840
Speaker 4: Have they make you have the camera.

4283
03:25:51,600 --> 03:26:01,440
Speaker 2: On, Oh smart, smart Okay, Ah, guys, I fell for it.

4284
03:26:01,920 --> 03:26:04,800
Speaker 3: I am I am a millennial. Okay, all accept it?

4285
03:26:04,800 --> 03:26:07,240
Speaker 3: Can we accept millennial? Can we accept millennial?

4286
03:26:08,200 --> 03:26:09,520
Speaker 1: Come on, ninety six?

4287
03:26:09,720 --> 03:26:10,680
Speaker 4: You can be a cusper?

4288
03:26:11,400 --> 03:26:12,560
Speaker 2: That's what is millennial? Is?

4289
03:26:12,640 --> 03:26:14,160
Speaker 4: I know, but I don't like the words Elena.

4290
03:26:15,840 --> 03:26:19,120
Speaker 2: How millennial would be to say? Zeleniala? Am I as millennial? Thanks? Riley?

4291
03:26:19,400 --> 03:26:23,240
Speaker 4: John? Yeah, what's the cutoff? Because John says it's nineteen ninety.

4292
03:26:23,080 --> 03:26:27,280
Speaker 2: Nineteen ninety six, nineteen ninety six, nineteen ninety seven. Y'all

4293
03:26:27,280 --> 03:26:28,080
Speaker 2: don't even know how.

4294
03:26:28,120 --> 03:26:31,000
Speaker 3: Back in the day people were throwing ninety six down,

4295
03:26:31,400 --> 03:26:35,400
Speaker 3: throwing down ninety six. Oh it was crazy, mad surveys

4296
03:26:35,440 --> 03:26:38,279
Speaker 3: and stuff, saying nineteen ninety six is a cutoff from millennials.

4297
03:26:38,440 --> 03:26:41,360
Speaker 3: But now everyone switched up. Everyone switched up, and uh

4298
03:26:42,000 --> 03:26:44,080
Speaker 3: they said that all people are just people are just

4299
03:26:44,280 --> 03:26:45,840
Speaker 3: roasted me in the chat right now.

4300
03:26:45,959 --> 03:26:48,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know. Some people are saying that my

4301
03:26:48,879 --> 03:26:49,680
Speaker 4: mic is quiet.

4302
03:26:50,440 --> 03:26:52,320
Speaker 5: I don't know, speak louder.

4303
03:26:52,440 --> 03:26:54,400
Speaker 4: I'm trying. I'm speaking fairly loud.

4304
03:26:54,840 --> 03:26:57,959
Speaker 3: Guys, how is how is the volume now? Yeah, let

4305
03:26:58,040 --> 03:27:02,240
Speaker 3: us know it's ninety six ninety six? Is is isn't

4306
03:27:02,240 --> 03:27:03,879
Speaker 3: it all right?

4307
03:27:04,200 --> 03:27:04,400
Speaker 2: There?

4308
03:27:04,440 --> 03:27:06,080
Speaker 4: See, I'll give it to you job.

4309
03:27:06,040 --> 03:27:08,160
Speaker 2: That's right. Oh man. People are really going crazy over

4310
03:27:08,240 --> 03:27:14,240
Speaker 2: the gen Z thing. Millennial Light, Millennial light. I upgraid

4311
03:27:14,280 --> 03:27:14,720
Speaker 2: to pro.

4312
03:27:14,879 --> 03:27:16,480
Speaker 4: Everyone wants to be a gen Z.

4313
03:27:17,480 --> 03:27:20,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, but to put a pin in my story, yeah,

4314
03:27:20,440 --> 03:27:23,840
Speaker 3: like it could have not just cost him his job,

4315
03:27:24,160 --> 03:27:27,520
Speaker 3: but if they lost like this certification, like in my case,

4316
03:27:27,800 --> 03:27:30,160
Speaker 3: they would have lost like a lot of their customers.

4317
03:27:30,200 --> 03:27:32,480
Speaker 3: It literally could have killed the company. Yeah, like all

4318
03:27:32,520 --> 03:27:35,280
Speaker 3: of the people working for that company could have could

4319
03:27:35,360 --> 03:27:40,959
Speaker 3: have been, could have been you know, lost their job technically, dude.

4320
03:27:40,879 --> 03:27:45,760
Speaker 4: And depending on how you know, how secure this company

4321
03:27:46,000 --> 03:27:50,199
Speaker 4: could have gotten legal trouble too, legal trouble, like legal trouble.

4322
03:27:50,360 --> 03:27:55,080
Speaker 2: Bad, It's bad. One more one so from Pixie Pan.

4323
03:27:55,400 --> 03:27:56,800
Speaker 2: My daughter was born in ninety five.

4324
03:27:57,280 --> 03:28:00,000
Speaker 3: She's an older millennial, per her twelve year old brother

4325
03:28:00,320 --> 03:28:03,640
Speaker 3: who keeps calling her elderly older millennial.

4326
03:28:03,720 --> 03:28:05,560
Speaker 2: Now, older millennials are like thirty eight.

4327
03:28:05,840 --> 03:28:06,920
Speaker 4: That's a young millennial.

4328
03:28:07,200 --> 03:28:10,720
Speaker 2: A young millennial ninety five exactly, That's what I'm saying.

4329
03:28:10,800 --> 03:28:11,800
Speaker 4: That's a young millennial.

4330
03:28:11,920 --> 03:28:15,039
Speaker 2: Yeah, but they're they're twelve year old brothers gaslighting them

4331
03:28:15,840 --> 03:28:18,600
Speaker 2: thinking there like like some other.

4332
03:28:18,520 --> 03:28:22,240
Speaker 5: People I know, John, I would never.

4333
03:28:22,720 --> 03:28:26,680
Speaker 2: Anyway checks me a coke. Hey, do you gotta have

4334
03:28:26,720 --> 03:28:27,360
Speaker 2: a story?

4335
03:28:27,520 --> 03:28:30,640
Speaker 5: We do, let's do it.

4336
03:28:30,959 --> 03:28:33,640
Speaker 2: Okay, that is okay, the calls can wait. The people

4337
03:28:33,680 --> 03:28:34,600
Speaker 2: are here for content.

4338
03:28:34,920 --> 03:28:36,320
Speaker 4: Do we want to read any comments?

4339
03:28:36,879 --> 03:28:37,039
Speaker 2: Ah?

4340
03:28:37,160 --> 03:28:38,119
Speaker 5: Yes, read them?

4341
03:28:38,360 --> 03:28:41,360
Speaker 4: Will you find the new? Okay, move the mic closer

4342
03:28:41,360 --> 03:28:44,480
Speaker 4: to your mouth. It is, in fact, right next to

4343
03:28:44,520 --> 03:28:52,680
Speaker 4: my now nineties rule I've never been Yep, nda are

4344
03:28:52,720 --> 03:28:56,360
Speaker 4: real and it can be bad. So true. I have

4345
03:28:56,400 --> 03:28:59,960
Speaker 4: a password for my Oh who's this from my kid?

4346
03:29:00,560 --> 03:29:01,040
Speaker 4: Raise a con?

4347
03:29:01,440 --> 03:29:01,640
Speaker 1: I have?

4348
03:29:01,920 --> 03:29:03,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I have a password for my phone, and then

4349
03:29:03,840 --> 03:29:06,800
Speaker 4: another passcode to get into my business WhatsApp because I'm

4350
03:29:06,840 --> 03:29:09,360
Speaker 4: a psychologist and I need as many locks on my

4351
03:29:09,400 --> 03:29:13,199
Speaker 4: phone as possible. My ex partner understood that. Yeah, yeah,

4352
03:29:13,320 --> 03:29:15,120
Speaker 4: I feel like, yeah, it makes sense if you have

4353
03:29:15,280 --> 03:29:17,959
Speaker 4: like very sensitive sensitive information.

4354
03:29:18,040 --> 03:29:20,000
Speaker 3: That's like, hey, I want to protect you know, my

4355
03:29:20,160 --> 03:29:23,840
Speaker 3: clients sharing very confidential things like it's good, it's good, ladies.

4356
03:29:24,320 --> 03:29:24,760
Speaker 1: Respect.

4357
03:29:25,120 --> 03:29:26,400
Speaker 2: But what else is good?

4358
03:29:26,879 --> 03:29:28,720
Speaker 4: Is this next story?

4359
03:29:29,080 --> 03:29:34,160
Speaker 3: That's right, let's get into it, short and sweet title. Today,

4360
03:29:34,640 --> 03:29:37,440
Speaker 3: I af fed up by sexting my step mom.

4361
03:29:37,920 --> 03:29:42,960
Speaker 4: Ah ah, did you know? Did you know that they

4362
03:29:42,959 --> 03:29:51,200
Speaker 4: were your stuff? Change the word? Did you know that

4363
03:29:51,240 --> 03:29:51,760
Speaker 4: you were there?

4364
03:29:52,680 --> 03:29:54,760
Speaker 3: I'm going to assume it's an accident, because today, if

4365
03:29:55,000 --> 03:29:57,360
Speaker 3: up otherwise, it would be like today.

4366
03:29:57,400 --> 03:29:58,760
Speaker 2: I succeeded.

4367
03:30:00,240 --> 03:30:01,600
Speaker 4: Get seeing my step mom.

4368
03:30:01,959 --> 03:30:06,560
Speaker 2: Oh goodness, gracious, well, let's get into this one from

4369
03:30:06,640 --> 03:30:11,119
Speaker 2: crazy squirrel Girl who says my sister was getting married

4370
03:30:11,160 --> 03:30:11,720
Speaker 2: and all of.

4371
03:30:11,720 --> 03:30:15,320
Speaker 3: Us ladies went to get mayonnies and petties together. Oh yeah,

4372
03:30:15,720 --> 03:30:20,280
Speaker 3: my stepmom, all the bridesmaids, my sister and I. So

4373
03:30:20,520 --> 03:30:22,720
Speaker 3: because there was a flock of eight of us, they

4374
03:30:22,760 --> 03:30:24,760
Speaker 3: sat a few of us in the petticure chairs to

4375
03:30:24,800 --> 03:30:27,200
Speaker 3: soak the feet while we waited for a manicurist to

4376
03:30:27,240 --> 03:30:30,560
Speaker 3: become available. I decided I had had a long wait

4377
03:30:30,600 --> 03:30:33,880
Speaker 3: and I was bored. I really don't know the bridesmaids,

4378
03:30:33,879 --> 03:30:35,600
Speaker 3: only my sister and my step mom.

4379
03:30:35,640 --> 03:30:37,920
Speaker 2: So I would sext my husband.

4380
03:30:39,879 --> 03:30:45,360
Speaker 4: Oh I see where this is going. I put I

4381
03:30:45,400 --> 03:30:48,800
Speaker 4: see you in the comments because I see I see you.

4382
03:30:49,280 --> 03:30:55,640
Speaker 3: Drop them, drop them. Well, I started sending very descriptive.

4383
03:30:55,040 --> 03:30:59,000
Speaker 2: Messages to him at the many petty, at the MANI pe.

4384
03:30:58,879 --> 03:31:02,360
Speaker 4: During the manny petty hot the nail salon. She's going in, Yeah,

4385
03:31:02,480 --> 03:31:07,560
Speaker 4: she's getting her feet painted, her nails painted.

4386
03:31:07,320 --> 03:31:09,360
Speaker 2: Or painting something red.

4387
03:31:09,480 --> 03:31:12,040
Speaker 5: I will say whenever John went to get his nails done,

4388
03:31:12,080 --> 03:31:16,160
Speaker 5: he did say he was thirsty, so that for water Riley.

4389
03:31:17,120 --> 03:31:17,360
Speaker 1: Sure.

4390
03:31:18,360 --> 03:31:20,560
Speaker 4: I was also while we were talking about the Manning putties,

4391
03:31:20,640 --> 03:31:21,360
Speaker 4: I was thinking of.

4392
03:31:22,120 --> 03:31:25,880
Speaker 2: It had never apologize it's destroyed.

4393
03:31:27,120 --> 03:31:29,840
Speaker 4: I was thinking about an alternate video where you guys

4394
03:31:29,879 --> 03:31:32,640
Speaker 4: get four inch nails on your toes and you walk

4395
03:31:32,680 --> 03:31:33,760
Speaker 4: around like little.

4396
03:31:34,640 --> 03:31:38,279
Speaker 2: What are feet challenges that we could do?

4397
03:31:38,400 --> 03:31:40,080
Speaker 4: You're like tipping and tapping right?

4398
03:31:40,160 --> 03:31:40,320
Speaker 1: Oh?

4399
03:31:40,400 --> 03:31:41,080
Speaker 2: Tap dancing?

4400
03:31:41,440 --> 03:31:44,200
Speaker 4: Whoh No, I just been like tipping and tapping in general.

4401
03:31:44,280 --> 03:31:46,480
Speaker 2: Oh because of our giant clompers.

4402
03:31:46,560 --> 03:31:48,000
Speaker 5: If you do something with your feet, you have to

4403
03:31:48,240 --> 03:31:52,160
Speaker 5: like then do a foot finder like promotion.

4404
03:31:52,400 --> 03:31:55,320
Speaker 2: That's true. I really, I really don't know if you

4405
03:31:55,360 --> 03:31:56,080
Speaker 2: guys want that.

4406
03:31:56,520 --> 03:31:58,280
Speaker 4: No, I'm sorry, this was just my like, I don't

4407
03:31:58,320 --> 03:31:59,280
Speaker 4: want you to actually do it.

4408
03:32:00,200 --> 03:32:03,080
Speaker 5: Sure, Okay, now she's back pedal.

4409
03:32:05,200 --> 03:32:08,560
Speaker 3: Well, you know what, Erica Taylor Allen says, I see

4410
03:32:08,600 --> 03:32:12,160
Speaker 3: today is bully John Day vindication.

4411
03:32:13,480 --> 03:32:14,240
Speaker 1: Vindication.

4412
03:32:15,640 --> 03:32:16,959
Speaker 2: Hey, shout out to you, Erica.

4413
03:32:17,720 --> 03:32:22,400
Speaker 4: I would never I feel like Jenna Marbles would get

4414
03:32:22,440 --> 03:32:23,600
Speaker 4: four inch nails on.

4415
03:32:23,600 --> 03:32:26,119
Speaker 2: Her Oh, that's true.

4416
03:32:26,160 --> 03:32:28,920
Speaker 4: I want that video. Where is Jenna? I miss her?

4417
03:32:29,200 --> 03:32:34,200
Speaker 3: We got to get her on the show. See do

4418
03:32:34,240 --> 03:32:38,560
Speaker 3: you want Jenner Marbles on the show? Tag Jenna Marbles.

4419
03:32:38,600 --> 03:32:39,240
Speaker 4: I love you Jenna.

4420
03:32:39,440 --> 03:32:40,320
Speaker 2: Yes, let's get it wrong.

4421
03:32:40,360 --> 03:32:42,520
Speaker 4: I watched I have watched all your videos.

4422
03:32:42,600 --> 03:32:43,120
Speaker 2: Let's get her wrong.

4423
03:32:43,200 --> 03:32:46,520
Speaker 5: Hell yeah, we're gonna Bullie John Day. Let's go Coliners.

4424
03:32:46,640 --> 03:32:47,240
Speaker 2: Get out of here.

4425
03:32:48,000 --> 03:32:51,640
Speaker 4: She did, I'm getting four inch nails on her toes.

4426
03:32:52,720 --> 03:32:54,440
Speaker 4: Maybe I haven't watched videos.

4427
03:32:54,480 --> 03:32:55,480
Speaker 2: We got to run the catalog.

4428
03:32:55,600 --> 03:32:57,920
Speaker 4: Sorry, okay, okay, continue, Yes, so.

4429
03:32:58,920 --> 03:32:59,520
Speaker 2: Where you know?

4430
03:32:59,560 --> 03:33:02,160
Speaker 3: We sent the hot and hot and heavy messages. He

4431
03:33:02,240 --> 03:33:05,360
Speaker 3: wasn't responding, but the messages were marked as red, so

4432
03:33:05,720 --> 03:33:08,520
Speaker 3: I knew or so I thought that he was with

4433
03:33:08,600 --> 03:33:11,199
Speaker 3: my dad, and I figured that I would be evil

4434
03:33:11,520 --> 03:33:15,440
Speaker 3: and make it up to him later. After the fifth message,

4435
03:33:15,600 --> 03:33:18,440
Speaker 3: my step mom, who is two petty chairs over from me,

4436
03:33:18,879 --> 03:33:20,360
Speaker 3: leans over and clears your throat.

4437
03:33:22,520 --> 03:33:23,600
Speaker 2: That was a terrible throat clear.

4438
03:33:24,959 --> 03:33:28,680
Speaker 4: Oh p do I did not know you were that flexible?

4439
03:33:28,800 --> 03:33:38,119
Speaker 1: You have quite away with words? Oh, oh my.

4440
03:33:37,160 --> 03:33:41,840
Speaker 3: God, oh quite away with words, quite away with words

4441
03:33:42,320 --> 03:33:45,680
Speaker 3: meaning there's just you know, she's she's breaking it down.

4442
03:33:46,840 --> 03:33:47,480
Speaker 2: Horrified.

4443
03:33:47,879 --> 03:33:49,880
Speaker 4: I would I would leave the relationship.

4444
03:33:50,560 --> 03:33:53,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, leave the room, leave the relationship, leave the planet.

4445
03:33:54,200 --> 03:33:58,280
Speaker 4: Oh wait, they're not in a rep that's the stepmom. Sorry,

4446
03:33:58,360 --> 03:33:59,520
Speaker 4: I was thinking there.

4447
03:34:01,600 --> 03:34:01,760
Speaker 1: Too.

4448
03:34:02,120 --> 03:34:04,119
Speaker 2: Are we sparking the flames of munos?

4449
03:34:04,720 --> 03:34:09,720
Speaker 4: No, I would I would leave the country. Yeah, go

4450
03:34:09,800 --> 03:34:12,800
Speaker 4: off the grid, Yes, off the grid and start a farm.

4451
03:34:12,920 --> 03:34:14,039
Speaker 2: There we go. I like that.

4452
03:34:14,560 --> 03:34:16,920
Speaker 3: I feel like that's Riley's answer as well. Start a farm.

4453
03:34:16,959 --> 03:34:18,039
Speaker 3: That's like Riley's default.

4454
03:34:18,200 --> 03:34:21,160
Speaker 5: I feel like Star Farm in the appalach Mountains.

4455
03:34:21,240 --> 03:34:21,840
Speaker 2: There, he is.

4456
03:34:23,400 --> 03:34:26,320
Speaker 3: Horrified. I looked at my phone and see her name

4457
03:34:26,520 --> 03:34:30,000
Speaker 3: and not my husband's. We all ended up laughing until

4458
03:34:30,040 --> 03:34:30,840
Speaker 3: tears were.

4459
03:34:30,720 --> 03:34:32,320
Speaker 2: Streaming down our faces.

4460
03:34:32,320 --> 03:34:32,600
Speaker 4: Wow.

4461
03:34:32,840 --> 03:34:33,480
Speaker 2: So yeah.

4462
03:34:33,600 --> 03:34:36,560
Speaker 3: Now my stepmom thinks I'm an info and when I

4463
03:34:36,680 --> 03:34:37,680
Speaker 3: do text her.

4464
03:34:37,760 --> 03:34:41,160
Speaker 2: Will always respond immediately. You do know you are texting

4465
03:34:41,200 --> 03:34:44,600
Speaker 2: me right? Thank goodness we do not live in the

4466
03:34:44,720 --> 03:34:46,240
Speaker 2: same states.

4467
03:34:47,120 --> 03:34:52,440
Speaker 4: Yow's a yeah, owsa, yep, that's tough. Yeah. I always

4468
03:34:52,520 --> 03:34:53,560
Speaker 4: check who you're texting to.

4469
03:34:53,879 --> 03:34:55,199
Speaker 2: Always always check.

4470
03:34:55,200 --> 03:34:58,279
Speaker 4: Especially when you're texting those those texts, those.

4471
03:34:58,560 --> 03:35:02,920
Speaker 2: Those you're not empty decks. Do not send those, that

4472
03:35:03,040 --> 03:35:05,000
Speaker 2: is to your step mom.

4473
03:35:05,120 --> 03:35:07,920
Speaker 4: Yeah no, no, send them to whoever you'd like. Maybe

4474
03:35:07,959 --> 03:35:08,720
Speaker 4: not your step mom.

4475
03:35:08,640 --> 03:35:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, or maybe not whoever you'd like. But send them

4476
03:35:12,920 --> 03:35:14,080
Speaker 3: to anyone you.

4477
03:35:14,120 --> 03:35:15,359
Speaker 1: Want to send them.

4478
03:35:18,680 --> 03:35:21,480
Speaker 4: Send them to people who consent and want them. Yes,

4479
03:35:22,480 --> 03:35:26,040
Speaker 4: but not your stem. That's right, even if she consents,

4480
03:35:26,600 --> 03:35:29,000
Speaker 4: even if she asked for it, don't send them.

4481
03:35:28,879 --> 03:35:29,320
Speaker 1: You know what.

4482
03:35:29,560 --> 03:35:32,119
Speaker 2: Take a step back and say, yeah, I'm good.

4483
03:35:32,360 --> 03:35:35,760
Speaker 4: I'm glad that these. Stepmam was good with it. Though

4484
03:35:36,120 --> 03:35:36,840
Speaker 4: she laughed about it.

4485
03:35:36,959 --> 03:35:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know everyone, It seems like everyone had a good,

4486
03:35:39,120 --> 03:35:39,760
Speaker 2: good sense humor.

4487
03:35:39,879 --> 03:35:41,160
Speaker 4: Everyone laughed about it.

4488
03:35:41,200 --> 03:35:42,760
Speaker 2: What are the good people saying?

4489
03:35:43,680 --> 03:35:47,480
Speaker 3: Lemester Limester says, Oh my lord, I felt my face

4490
03:35:47,560 --> 03:35:48,400
Speaker 3: hot from that one.

4491
03:35:48,600 --> 03:35:49,360
Speaker 2: That is so funny.

4492
03:35:49,400 --> 03:35:52,279
Speaker 3: Though at least she didn't call her a floozy or something.

4493
03:35:52,520 --> 03:35:53,439
Speaker 3: That's true.

4494
03:35:53,680 --> 03:35:55,720
Speaker 2: It could have gone like very left, something we see

4495
03:35:55,720 --> 03:35:56,200
Speaker 2: all the time.

4496
03:35:56,320 --> 03:35:58,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, she couln't worry about it, but she was chill.

4497
03:35:58,480 --> 03:35:59,879
Speaker 2: She was chill, chill step mom.

4498
03:36:00,040 --> 03:36:02,120
Speaker 4: She's like, I'm a cool mom, don't worry about it.

4499
03:36:02,320 --> 03:36:07,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, who else have we got? Oh? Where's the one?

4500
03:36:08,000 --> 03:36:10,720
Speaker 2: Here we go? Uh? Do you want to take that one?

4501
03:36:11,360 --> 03:36:15,160
Speaker 4: Kim Kwant says, I sent hey I'm in the closet

4502
03:36:15,240 --> 03:36:17,279
Speaker 4: to my work chat one time when I was trying

4503
03:36:17,320 --> 03:36:21,760
Speaker 4: to tell my friend who had just come over. So

4504
03:36:23,879 --> 03:36:26,000
Speaker 4: you're like, oh, I'm in the closet, like when you

4505
03:36:26,000 --> 03:36:30,320
Speaker 4: get here. But she said your hey, guys, I'm in

4506
03:36:30,360 --> 03:36:37,240
Speaker 4: the closet. I'm imagining I'm in the closet. I'll be

4507
03:36:37,280 --> 03:36:37,920
Speaker 4: out in a sec.

4508
03:36:38,240 --> 03:36:42,880
Speaker 2: Yeah right, Oh my gosh, that is hilarious. Jem Oh

4509
03:36:42,920 --> 03:36:45,120
Speaker 2: my god. I want to know the flexible thing that

4510
03:36:45,240 --> 03:36:45,840
Speaker 2: she could do.

4511
03:36:46,959 --> 03:36:50,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I was confused by that because if it's

4512
03:36:50,280 --> 03:36:52,520
Speaker 4: just text, but if it's I was thinking maybe there

4513
03:36:52,520 --> 03:36:54,080
Speaker 4: were pictures and that's what she was.

4514
03:36:54,320 --> 03:36:58,080
Speaker 2: I think it was all all uh a descriptive.

4515
03:36:58,240 --> 03:37:01,720
Speaker 4: Oh oh she was telling Yeah, she was describing what

4516
03:37:01,800 --> 03:37:03,080
Speaker 4: she was going to do. And she was like, wow,

4517
03:37:03,200 --> 03:37:04,200
Speaker 4: your fex flexible.

4518
03:37:04,680 --> 03:37:06,600
Speaker 3: The Raven said it was a little bit down. The

4519
03:37:06,680 --> 03:37:10,119
Speaker 3: Raven said, I'm a cool mom. Won any snacks? Condoms?

4520
03:37:10,360 --> 03:37:11,400
Speaker 2: You crazy kids?

4521
03:37:11,840 --> 03:37:11,960
Speaker 1: Bro?

4522
03:37:12,560 --> 03:37:13,600
Speaker 2: Raven is a cool mom.

4523
03:37:13,720 --> 03:37:15,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it's so true.

4524
03:37:14,760 --> 03:37:16,160
Speaker 2: So that's great, that's great.

4525
03:37:16,280 --> 03:37:19,600
Speaker 4: The cringe, I'm cringing. Crystal Light says, God.

4526
03:37:19,600 --> 03:37:22,920
Speaker 2: Love it me do So are we do we have

4527
03:37:22,959 --> 03:37:25,600
Speaker 2: any more stories? Wow? Wow?

4528
03:37:25,720 --> 03:37:26,760
Speaker 4: Have we read all the stories?

4529
03:37:26,959 --> 03:37:27,840
Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen?

4530
03:37:28,200 --> 03:37:29,840
Speaker 5: We could go, we could keep going.

4531
03:37:29,920 --> 03:37:30,520
Speaker 1: It's all good.

4532
03:37:30,840 --> 03:37:31,520
Speaker 2: We've done.

4533
03:37:32,080 --> 03:37:33,800
Speaker 4: Guys, will never stop.

4534
03:37:34,000 --> 03:37:36,560
Speaker 2: Riley, Riley, get get on the get on the streamil

4535
03:37:36,600 --> 03:37:38,720
Speaker 2: let me see your po face. There he is there.

4536
03:37:38,879 --> 03:37:41,039
Speaker 2: You go an hour, Actually go small again.

4537
03:37:40,920 --> 03:37:43,959
Speaker 3: So we can see so great, ladies and gentlemen, thank

4538
03:37:44,000 --> 03:37:46,680
Speaker 3: you for joining us on our first like I would say,

4539
03:37:46,720 --> 03:37:50,439
Speaker 3: our first like official true, Yeah, because I'm here, Yes.

4540
03:37:50,240 --> 03:37:50,800
Speaker 2: Because.

4541
03:37:52,400 --> 03:37:54,520
Speaker 3: You are one hundred percent right? How could how could

4542
03:37:54,520 --> 03:37:57,080
Speaker 3: we ever think? And you know what to close it out?

4543
03:37:57,200 --> 03:38:01,280
Speaker 3: We have the entire crew, the higher okay fam here.

4544
03:38:01,400 --> 03:38:04,480
Speaker 4: Oh sorry, Estella Davis says, Wait, we haven't gotten to

4545
03:38:04,560 --> 03:38:07,240
Speaker 4: bully Sam yet. Don't worry. I beat you to it.

4546
03:38:07,440 --> 03:38:08,720
Speaker 2: There it is, there, it is.

4547
03:38:08,760 --> 03:38:11,640
Speaker 3: It was Bully John day, and Sam will have his day,

4548
03:38:11,760 --> 03:38:12,520
Speaker 3: ladies and gentlemen.

4549
03:38:13,840 --> 03:38:15,680
Speaker 2: But a few quick reminders.

4550
03:38:16,160 --> 03:38:19,560
Speaker 3: We are going to be doing some exclusive live streams

4551
03:38:19,600 --> 03:38:22,560
Speaker 3: on Twitch. If you go to the link in the description,

4552
03:38:23,240 --> 03:38:26,040
Speaker 3: you can go subscribe there, go subscribe now. Probably starting

4553
03:38:26,080 --> 03:38:28,360
Speaker 3: next week, we're gonna be doing some exclusive live streams

4554
03:38:28,400 --> 03:38:33,320
Speaker 3: over there. Also, we do have some fantastic red flag

4555
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Speaker 3: Green Flag merch which Sam is dawning right now.

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Speaker 4: Hey.

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Speaker 2: We have hats, we have hoodies, we have overalls.

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Speaker 3: We're grabbing the beautiful red flag hoodie right here, which

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Speaker 3: you saw me exclusively wearing earlier, as well as.

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Speaker 2: It's the red flag hat guys. The link is in

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Speaker 2: our description.

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Speaker 3: We are only selling us until February February ninth, or

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03:38:58,480 --> 03:38:59,840
Speaker 3: until supplies run.

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Speaker 2: Out, so please go grab some. I think that's a wrap, y'all.

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Speaker 2: If you love us, please make sure to subscribe.

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03:39:09,840 --> 03:39:15,720
Speaker 1: We love you and see all them a all right,

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Speaker 1: we're stopped