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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my son that

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Speaker 1: he ruined Christmas for me and his stepdad when he

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Speaker 1: decided to spend it with his dad.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's a bit dicey. We're gonna have to see

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Speaker 2: what this story says.

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Speaker 1: Me female and my husband Male are divorced. We have

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Speaker 1: a sixteen year old son together, Mason. I got remarried

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Speaker 1: to my husband male. Nathan, my ex husband, and I

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Speaker 1: used to argue on who she get Mason for the

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Speaker 1: holidays back when he was little. As he got older,

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Speaker 1: we started letting him decide. Last year, he spent Christmas

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Speaker 1: with me, Nathan, and my in laws, and he complained

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Speaker 1: that the experience was terrible because he said Nathan and

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Speaker 1: his family had little to no accommodation for his food choices.

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Speaker 1: I'm not defending them, but my in laws are quite

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Speaker 1: traditional when it comes to food and a bit ignorant

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Speaker 1: when it comes to what Mason eats. I only eat

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Speaker 1: white foods.

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Speaker 2: I am a sugartarian. M I only eat sugar.

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Speaker 1: I had an ex girlfriend that would only eat white

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Speaker 1: foods like rice, white bread.

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Speaker 2: That seems like I write a story in the making.

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Speaker 1: She grew out of it by when she was younger.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, like like as a kid.

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Speaker 1: He as a kid.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I thought you were saying. She was like, I

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Speaker 2: only eat white foods, buy me bread, buy me bananas,

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Speaker 2: or get the out of buck out of my life. Yep, no, no.

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Speaker 1: He also said he doesn't feel as welcome as the

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Speaker 1: other kids in the family, and that Nathan forced him

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Speaker 1: to share his personal stuff like his phone, so that

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Speaker 1: his step nephews could watch Christmas movies. Yesterday, Daring Breakfast,

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Speaker 1: we were talking about Christmas and what we were planning

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Speaker 1: this year. But then out of nowhere, he announced he'll

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Speaker 1: be spending this Christmas with his dad at a rental

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Speaker 1: Christmas cottage in his favorite town.

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Speaker 2: Sounds lit, Yeah, it is Christmas cottage in his favorite town. Yo.

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Speaker 1: Like, you can't beat that, bro.

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Speaker 2: That's that's also after like being in a place with

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Speaker 2: myself the worst Christmas ever? Come on, I was stunned.

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Speaker 1: How you stunned? Then it's like, Hey, would you rather

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Speaker 1: go to Disneyland or a landfill?

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Speaker 2: Would you rather smell stinky rotting diapers.

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Speaker 1: Or delicious Funnelkay, it's not really much of a competition diapers, obviously,

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Speaker 1: I asked Mason when and how he agreed to this arrangement,

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Speaker 1: but he pointed back to what happened last Crismith and

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Speaker 1: said he didn't want to basically have another shitty house.

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Speaker 1: Damn Mason savage, have another shitty holiday and be miserable.

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Speaker 1: I told him that his dad should have come to

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Speaker 1: me first, but he argued that he's already okay to

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Speaker 1: it and he saw no need for my opinion. Well,

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Speaker 1: they did say that he could choose, so they literally

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Speaker 1: said that. We started arguing and he started complaining about

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Speaker 1: me trying to ruin the experience. But in response, I

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Speaker 1: told him that he already ruined Christmas for me and

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Speaker 1: his stepdad, and the minute he agreed to this arrangement,

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Speaker 1: he got up and walked away after saying that I

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Speaker 1: was being over dramatic. Nathan just sat there and looked down.

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Speaker 1: You know, Mason is savage savagery. How old is he? Sixteen?

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Speaker 2: Sixteen? Ye checks out.

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Speaker 1: I had a huge argument on the phone with Mason's dad,

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Speaker 1: and he kept giving me an attitude and laughing and

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Speaker 1: saying that I sounded pathetic. When I told him I'd

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Speaker 1: have my lawyer call him, he backpedaled and said he

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have done this if Mason didn't like it. Here's

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Speaker 1: me to drop it and let Mason have his experience,

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Speaker 1: or he'll resent me for missing it. Now Mason isn't

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Speaker 1: speaking to me. Nathan is trying to convince him to

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Speaker 1: stay with us because without him, our Christmas is ruined,

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Speaker 1: but he won't budge. From the looks of it, am

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Speaker 1: I the a hole for not dropping it as well?

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Speaker 1: What I meant by why did his dad come to

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Speaker 1: me first is that he planned to take Mason out

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Speaker 1: of town, which is like a big deal to me.

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Speaker 1: They're going to be traveling together, and I guess that's

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Speaker 1: a big deal with her. But like, bro, like your lawyer, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's kind of shit talking about what are you talking about?

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Speaker 1: What are your son won't hang out with me? So

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Speaker 1: I'm getting a lawyer involved to force him to hang

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Speaker 1: out literally.

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Speaker 2: Like you you think, what are you going to like

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Speaker 2: sue your son for not loving you?

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Speaker 1: Like? They probably have like like strict visitation rights in

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Speaker 1: the divorce right and so the father might like be

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Speaker 1: not like like might might be going against those visitations.

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Speaker 2: That does make more sense, but it's also like lady

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Speaker 2: have have have some common sense like you let him

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Speaker 2: choose where to go. He had a shitty Christmas, and

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Speaker 2: now he's going with his dad to his favorite city

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Speaker 2: in a Christmas cotge. And that sounds so late, there

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Speaker 2: is no comparison, sounds so you idiot,