Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second d Update. We've been doing second date
Speaker 1: updates for a long time now. We've pretty much heard
Speaker 1: every single place you can meet somebody, but we haven't
Speaker 1: had anybody who's met on Instagram yet. You realize that met, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you haven't. We've not done a second day update with
Speaker 1: people who've met on Instagram until today. That's how the
Speaker 1: girl that's on the phone for a second date update
Speaker 1: today met the guy that she wants to call. What's up? Amy? Hi?
Speaker 1: Are you doing it? Okay, I'm impressed. How did you
Speaker 1: even meet a guy on Instagram? It's pretty easy? Yeah.
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of people meet guys on Instagram. Okay,
Speaker 1: I should rephrase that, how did you meet a guy
Speaker 1: that wasn't creepy on Instagram? There you go, that's a
Speaker 1: better way to say. Okay, that's there. I've gone out
Speaker 1: with some creepy guys on Instagram. So how did you
Speaker 1: meet this dude? Did he just hit you up? One day?
Speaker 1: I was like, hey, nice picks. Now he started following
Speaker 1: me on Instagram and I had been like on his Instagram,
Speaker 1: like liking his photos that I wasn't following him yet.
Speaker 1: So then he started following me and he would like
Speaker 1: comment on my stuff and he was I don't know,
Speaker 1: he seems really like funny, like the kinds of comments
Speaker 1: that he would make, they were really really clever. And
Speaker 1: he has the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen ever.
Speaker 1: Can I ask, did you guys? I mean, did you
Speaker 1: run in the same circles? Do you have friends of friends?
Speaker 1: Or is this a complete stranger? Is this actually a
Speaker 1: complete stranger? Wow? I am scared for you. That's I mean,
Speaker 1: that's my instant things like a guy's commenting on your
Speaker 1: Instagram page and you're willing to just meet him up. Hey,
Speaker 1: I do it all the time, broke ye happens a lot.
Speaker 1: Actually no, but I mean I didn't meet him right away, okay,
Speaker 1: And like I've been dating, I've been dating a lot
Speaker 1: of guys lately and just but just for fun. Like
Speaker 1: I'm young and I'm not looking for anything serious, like
Speaker 1: not really looking to settle down. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: somebody'll talk to someone on Instagram, will go out for
Speaker 1: a few drinks, and it's like not any think scary?
Speaker 1: Is this fun? All right? So tell us about your
Speaker 1: date with Rick? Then well, oh god, see that change
Speaker 1: things so Rick and I, like, we had talked for
Speaker 1: like a week or so before we met, so he
Speaker 1: seems normal. I knew he seemed normal and brolsom So
Speaker 1: we went and we grabbed drinks at a bar, and
Speaker 1: when we met, like, he gave me a really big
Speaker 1: hug and I felt super comfortable with him from the
Speaker 1: very beginning. Like, you know, any of you were talking
Speaker 1: about creepy I don't know creepy people off of Instagram.
Speaker 1: Like I had met some creepy people off of Instagram,
Speaker 1: but it doesn't like that. With him, it felt like
Speaker 1: so easy and so good. I don't know. Yeah, your
Speaker 1: email does say that you don't remember too much of
Speaker 1: your date though. What happened there? Well, okay, usually when
Speaker 1: I go out, I have a couple of cosmos. That's normal,
Speaker 1: So I did that, but I might have had an
Speaker 1: extra and I had a couple of other drinks as well.
Speaker 1: It happens to the best of us. You get excited,
Speaker 1: You're all I amped up for meeting this cute guy,
Speaker 1: then suddenly blacked out. Well I never flagged out, but
Speaker 1: but something kind of happened that was kind of kind
Speaker 1: of weird. Um, I don't remember all of it. So
Speaker 1: so we have a drink. We went back to my
Speaker 1: place and Rick came with me. It's my place. Um,
Speaker 1: I remember that we we got in like a fight
Speaker 1: about something, like we were arguing about something I know,
Speaker 1: and I was like really emotional and he was really
Speaker 1: upset and I and he ended up leaving, but I
Speaker 1: was kind of drunk, So I don't know what happened, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I did something wrong or is
Speaker 1: that the last thing you've heard from him? Yeah, did
Speaker 1: you text him and try to ask what happened? Yes,
Speaker 1: of course, Like I woke up in the morning and
Speaker 1: I remembered that, like what I just told you, and
Speaker 1: then I'm like, oh my god, what happened? So yeah,
Speaker 1: I tried to text him, and he's not answering anything,
Speaker 1: like you won't talk to me online anymore. He's just
Speaker 1: kind of disappeared. So I don't know what happened. And
Speaker 1: you don't remember it all what the fight was about, no,
Speaker 1: like not at all. I just remember the part where
Speaker 1: I was really emotional and he was really upset and
Speaker 1: then he left, okay, And I don't and I don't
Speaker 1: know why, and I'm like, I just feel like I
Speaker 1: finally met a really good guy that I'm like, oh wait,
Speaker 1: actually maybe I could be in a relationship. And then
Speaker 1: I just like went threw it up somehow. I'm sure
Speaker 1: you guys already got your first fight out of the way,
Speaker 1: which is nice. I was going to say, it sounds
Speaker 1: like a relationship already. All right, Well we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call him and get your second date up date. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hang on. Nobody wants to go out on
Speaker 1: a first date and get along the whole time, have
Speaker 1: chemistry or whatever. That's boring, right, that's old school dating.
Speaker 1: It's all about arguing. Now, a good first date should
Speaker 1: include at least one argument and an emotional breakdown. Which
Speaker 1: is why Amy's on the phone because she had a
Speaker 1: fabulous date with a guy named Rick. She actually doesn't
Speaker 1: remember a lot of the evening, but she does remember
Speaker 1: that they got in an argument at one point. She
Speaker 1: was emotional, He left her place, and they haven't talked since. Amy,
Speaker 1: why do you want to call him if you guys
Speaker 1: got in an argument. Yeah, because, like, up until we
Speaker 1: got in the argument, we were having a really good time.
Speaker 1: And sorry, what was the question again? My question was
Speaker 1: why do you want to call him? If you guys
Speaker 1: got in a fight on your first date, I really
Speaker 1: want to know what happened. Okayeh? Are you like an
Speaker 1: emotional person that often brings up maybe politics or religion
Speaker 1: or some sort of topic that people can find her No,
Speaker 1: not politics and religions. No, I mean like I have
Speaker 1: my moments, just like everybody. Are you okay? Well, I'll
Speaker 1: call him right now and see if we can find
Speaker 1: out what you guys were arguing about. Okay, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you. Here we go. Hello. Hi is Rick there? Uh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was Ri Rick. How are you? Man? My name
Speaker 1: is jew Bowl. I host a morning show, Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay, are you serious? Yeah? Man,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good. Well, I'm calling you today
Speaker 1: because I wanted to speak with you about a date
Speaker 1: you went on a date I went on. What's she
Speaker 1: talking about? I'm talking about a girl named Amy that
Speaker 1: you met off on Instagram. Amy. Yeah. We do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called the Second Date Update. Basically,
Speaker 1: it's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not calling them after they
Speaker 1: email us to see if we can get you on
Speaker 1: the phone and ask what happened? Oh my god, So
Speaker 1: has been trying to get a hold of you, but
Speaker 1: you're not returning into her phone calls or text messages.
Speaker 1: So she asked if we could get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask what happened? Are you serious? Yeah? I am.
Speaker 1: She really wanted to allow my day win. I do
Speaker 1: even more than me. Amy wants to know because she says,
Speaker 1: you can't really remember the last part of it. Yeah.
Speaker 1: She did tell us a little bit about the date
Speaker 1: and said, you guys were arguing at some point, which
Speaker 1: is a great way to end a date. By the way,
Speaker 1: I thought it sounded really romantic, lasting impressions. Yeah, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: it definitely was not romantic. So what was it? What
Speaker 1: are you guys arguing about? Do you remember? Yeah? I remember.
Speaker 1: I just I don't know if it's okay to talk
Speaker 1: about it on the radio, But I don't know she
Speaker 1: would be cool with that or well, she kind of
Speaker 1: has no choice because she agreed to do the second
Speaker 1: day update, so she wants to know, all right. So
Speaker 1: I went over to her place and we were making
Speaker 1: out in her bathroom and bathroom that's um, yeah, in
Speaker 1: her bathroom, just kind of like where we ended up
Speaker 1: and things were getting hot and heavy, and you know,
Speaker 1: at one point my shirt came off, and then she
Speaker 1: just kind of turned and she looked at the mirror
Speaker 1: and she started like freaking out and she looks at
Speaker 1: herself and she's like, oh my god, I look so ugly, weird, sad, yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was like, no, no, you don't, not at all.
Speaker 1: She didn't write like she's gorgeous. So I'm like, no, like, no,
Speaker 1: you don't, right, And I'm trying to make her feel
Speaker 1: better and she's like, no, no, I do. I do.
Speaker 1: And she's like working herself up and I'm feeling really
Speaker 1: weird because my shirts off, right, And then as I'm
Speaker 1: trying to like calm her down, she starts to like
Speaker 1: argue with are you like arguing over whether or not
Speaker 1: she looks pretty? Yeah? Kind of She's like she's like, no,
Speaker 1: you don't know what you're talking about, Like you're lying
Speaker 1: to me. And I'm like, no, I'm not like you
Speaker 1: look fine, you look great, you look beautiful. You're like
Speaker 1: I was just in here with my shirt off making
Speaker 1: out with you because I think that you're attractive, right,
Speaker 1: And eventually like this kind of like half fight turns
Speaker 1: into like a whole fight. Like she actually was getting
Speaker 1: aggressive with you because you were telling her that she
Speaker 1: looked good. That at me for calling her pretty? Did
Speaker 1: you think at first she was just fishing for compliments
Speaker 1: and then it took a weird turn? Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: kind of I thought that, you know, because like sometimes
Speaker 1: girls get down on themselves, but like this was way
Speaker 1: beyond anything that I've ever seen before. She was just
Speaker 1: out of control, and so finally she's just like, you
Speaker 1: know what, like get out. Yeah, she kicked you out
Speaker 1: for calling her pretty, is what you're saying, right? Did
Speaker 1: she kicked me out of her bathroom and she locks
Speaker 1: the door behind her, but my shirt and my wallet
Speaker 1: were still inside the bathroom? Oh yeah, So she's in
Speaker 1: there freaking out, so would you. She's like going ballistic
Speaker 1: and she's like sobbing in there, and I'm like, can
Speaker 1: I get my shirt back? Oh? I just want to
Speaker 1: give her a home. How long did it take? Do
Speaker 1: you got your shirt back? I didn't get my shirt back.
Speaker 1: She just opened up the door at one point and
Speaker 1: then threw my wallet at me and told me to
Speaker 1: get this out, and I just ran home. Copless, That
Speaker 1: all right? Well, that was an interesting evening for you.
Speaker 1: Any chance you'd ever talked to her again? Ever? I
Speaker 1: don't think so. I mean, it was just a little
Speaker 1: too crazy for me. Oh that's unfortunate because she's actually
Speaker 1: on the phone listening to this conversation. What yeah, Amy,
Speaker 1: are you there? Oh my god, I don't remember that,
Speaker 1: like at all? Did that seriously happen? Did I seriously
Speaker 1: cry and then kick you out in my apartment? You've
Speaker 1: been listening the whole time that I was talking. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I like don't remember any of that, Like are
Speaker 1: you here? Did I want to go out like that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You did all of that? It was you don't remember anything. No,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so funny. You think that's funny.
Speaker 1: You're not mortified mortified, it's kind of hilarious, Like did
Speaker 1: you hear that story? That's so funny. So it doesn't
Speaker 1: bother you that you were freaking out because apparently you
Speaker 1: didn't think you looked good that night and he thought
Speaker 1: you were pretty and that pissed you up. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, I think I was just like having a moment.
Speaker 1: I guess, like sometimes I have a moment, like it's
Speaker 1: totally need to just like have a moment, but then
Speaker 1: it's fine, Like he didn't have to leave, He didn't
Speaker 1: have to leave. I didn't have to leave. You threw
Speaker 1: my wall. I mean, then you told me to get
Speaker 1: the out, like you said, My god, I was drunk.
Speaker 1: We were having fun. My god, I don't know any
Speaker 1: having fun. Yeah if I was. If I was at
Speaker 1: your place and you threw something at me and said
Speaker 1: get the f out, I would think that I would
Speaker 1: have to leave at that point or I would be
Speaker 1: in trouble with the law. I don't know. Okay, wait,
Speaker 1: but I did you Rick? Did you like get a
Speaker 1: video of this at least? Oh my gosh, Aby, what
Speaker 1: a video? Nor you get a video? You serious? I
Speaker 1: don't Why not? I could have totally posted that on Instagram.
Speaker 1: We've gotten so many like you would actually is you'd
Speaker 1: actually post a video of you having this freak out online? Amy?
Speaker 1: Why not? I mean, like obviously right now, I think
Speaker 1: I'm pretty It's fine. Everybody has a meltdown every once
Speaker 1: in a while. I'm just like, you know what, like,
Speaker 1: if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't
Speaker 1: deserve me at my desk. It's okay for people to
Speaker 1: see me like that. It's fine, Aby, I got to
Speaker 1: say when when Rick was telling this story, I was
Speaker 1: feeling so bad you and I thought we were going
Speaker 1: to talk to this like horribly like lacking self confident
Speaker 1: woman that was crying on the end of the line,
Speaker 1: and you were handling this way differently than I thought
Speaker 1: you would. I don't know, you know, it's just life, life,
Speaker 1: and like that happen sometimes, right, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just don't don't believe you didn't take a video. And
Speaker 1: take a video next time, Yes, seriously, the next time
Speaker 1: you're having a meltdown like that, you need to make
Speaker 1: sure somebody is there at a videotape it at all times. Amy, Well,
Speaker 1: then would you guys like to go out on a
Speaker 1: second date? Rick, I will pay for a second date. No,
Speaker 1: hell no, you might get a viral video out of
Speaker 1: the deal. This has not happened to me on a
Speaker 1: regular basis, Like girls that I'm with don't have freakouts
Speaker 1: and then kick me out of there at their place
Speaker 1: and feel my shirt. Well, it sounds to me like
Speaker 1: you're not really living. I don't feel like everybody has
Speaker 1: these comments, okay, And like I know that was probably
Speaker 1: a little muxt but like, if you knew me better,
Speaker 1: you would know that even though I was freaking out,
Speaker 1: and I do believe I wasn't really serious. I didn't
Speaker 1: really mean it. Like I know that, and just because
Speaker 1: I happened, I don't think that it means you shouldn't
Speaker 1: go out with me, Like you should still go out
Speaker 1: with me. I'm really fine and like we could obviously
Speaker 1: have really great stories. See, like, come on, you know
Speaker 1: what's fine as long as I can end this conversation
Speaker 1: right now, as long as we could finish this up.
Speaker 1: So if we can finish the phone call here, you'll
Speaker 1: go out with her again. No, I'm not gonna go out.
Speaker 1: So which one is it? You're confusing me. I can't
Speaker 1: tell when you're serious and when you're not serious. You're
Speaker 1: harder to read than she is. I want to end
Speaker 1: this conversation. I don't ever want to see her again.
Speaker 1: I'm fine, Thank you. You're really really hot, but you
Speaker 1: are crazy in the morning. It's not often that a
Speaker 1: girl freaks out on a guy on a first date,
Speaker 1: kicks him out of the house pretty much naked, and
Speaker 1: he has to run home, and then all of our
Speaker 1: listeners are texting in at seven, eight, five, and nine
Speaker 1: two going I'll go on a date with her. She
Speaker 1: sounds awesome. I'm talking about today's second date update. This
Speaker 1: girl Amy want to call a guy named Rick. He
Speaker 1: wasn't calling her back. After they had a drunken night
Speaker 1: of fun, they went back to her house. It turns
Speaker 1: out that while they were at her house, they got
Speaker 1: into an argument because she was in the bathroom looking
Speaker 1: at herself in the mirror and said that she was ugly,
Speaker 1: and he was trying to tell her that she's not ugly,
Speaker 1: and he thinks that she's rather attractive, and that made
Speaker 1: her even more angry, and she kicked him out of
Speaker 1: the house after a huge argument on a first date,
Speaker 1: but she still wanted to call him. We got him
Speaker 1: on the phone and found all that out, and she
Speaker 1: was a very good sport about it. Most people be
Speaker 1: kind of embarrassed, but she's like, that's just who I am.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I have freakouts and you have to deal with it.
Speaker 1: She couldn't stop laughing. She was like, why didn't you
Speaker 1: videotape it? That is YouTube goal right there. At least
Speaker 1: she embraces it, right. I feel like she needs a
Speaker 1: reality show like she is the perfect person for she is.
Speaker 1: We got a text in at seven eight five to
Speaker 1: nine two that said I thought Amy was awesome and
Speaker 1: handled that amazingly until she asked him if he took
Speaker 1: a video and said, OMG, like that have gone so viral.
Speaker 1: We've gotten so many likes. Another text in seven eighty
Speaker 1: five to nine two that says, I'm screaming in my car.
Speaker 1: That was the best second date update ever. They didn't
Speaker 1: agree to go out again because Rick is a bore
Speaker 1: and can't handle Amy. That's what I'm thinking. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: hates just you know, total freakouts on the first date.
Speaker 1: He doesn't like that. Remember, if you want a second
Speaker 1: date update, I have to do is email the show
Speaker 1: and we will call the person who didn't call you back.