WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Why Didn’t You Take a Picture?

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels Second d Update. We've been doing second date

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<v Speaker 1>updates for a long time now. We've pretty much heard

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<v Speaker 1>every single place you can meet somebody, but we haven't

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<v Speaker 1>had anybody who's met on Instagram yet. You realize that met, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't. We've not done a second day update with

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<v Speaker 1>people who've met on Instagram until today. That's how the

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<v Speaker 1>girl that's on the phone for a second date update

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<v Speaker 1>today met the guy that she wants to call. What's up? Amy? Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you doing it? Okay, I'm impressed. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>even meet a guy on Instagram? It's pretty easy? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like a lot of people meet guys on Instagram. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I should rephrase that, how did you meet a guy

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't creepy on Instagram? There you go, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>better way to say. Okay, that's there. I've gone out

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<v Speaker 1>with some creepy guys on Instagram. So how did you

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<v Speaker 1>meet this dude? Did he just hit you up? One day?

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, nice picks. Now he started following

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<v Speaker 1>me on Instagram and I had been like on his Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>like liking his photos that I wasn't following him yet.

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<v Speaker 1>So then he started following me and he would like

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<v Speaker 1>comment on my stuff and he was I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>he seems really like funny, like the kinds of comments

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<v Speaker 1>that he would make, they were really really clever. And

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<v Speaker 1>he has the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I ask, did you guys? I mean, did you

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<v Speaker 1>run in the same circles? Do you have friends of friends?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is this a complete stranger? Is this actually a

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<v Speaker 1>complete stranger? Wow? I am scared for you. That's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my instant things like a guy's commenting on your

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<v Speaker 1>Instagram page and you're willing to just meet him up. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I do it all the time, broke ye happens a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually no, but I mean I didn't meet him right away, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And like I've been dating, I've been dating a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of guys lately and just but just for fun. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm young and I'm not looking for anything serious, like

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<v Speaker 1>not really looking to settle down. So I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody'll talk to someone on Instagram, will go out for

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<v Speaker 1>a few drinks, and it's like not any think scary?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this fun? All right? So tell us about your

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<v Speaker 1>date with Rick? Then well, oh god, see that change

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<v Speaker 1>things so Rick and I, like, we had talked for

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<v Speaker 1>like a week or so before we met, so he

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<v Speaker 1>seems normal. I knew he seemed normal and brolsom So

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<v Speaker 1>we went and we grabbed drinks at a bar, and

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<v Speaker 1>when we met, like, he gave me a really big

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<v Speaker 1>hug and I felt super comfortable with him from the

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<v Speaker 1>very beginning. Like, you know, any of you were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about creepy I don't know creepy people off of Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I had met some creepy people off of Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>but it doesn't like that. With him, it felt like

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<v Speaker 1>so easy and so good. I don't know. Yeah, your

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<v Speaker 1>email does say that you don't remember too much of

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<v Speaker 1>your date though. What happened there? Well, okay, usually when

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<v Speaker 1>I go out, I have a couple of cosmos. That's normal,

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<v Speaker 1>So I did that, but I might have had an

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<v Speaker 1>extra and I had a couple of other drinks as well.

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<v Speaker 1>It happens to the best of us. You get excited,

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<v Speaker 1>You're all I amped up for meeting this cute guy,

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<v Speaker 1>then suddenly blacked out. Well I never flagged out, but

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<v Speaker 1>but something kind of happened that was kind of kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird. Um, I don't remember all of it. So

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<v Speaker 1>so we have a drink. We went back to my

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<v Speaker 1>place and Rick came with me. It's my place. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that we we got in like a fight

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<v Speaker 1>about something, like we were arguing about something I know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like really emotional and he was really

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<v Speaker 1>upset and I and he ended up leaving, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of drunk, So I don't know what happened, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I did something wrong or is

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<v Speaker 1>that the last thing you've heard from him? Yeah, did

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<v Speaker 1>you text him and try to ask what happened? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, Like I woke up in the morning and

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<v Speaker 1>I remembered that, like what I just told you, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'm like, oh my god, what happened? So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to text him, and he's not answering anything,

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<v Speaker 1>like you won't talk to me online anymore. He's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of disappeared. So I don't know what happened. And

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<v Speaker 1>you don't remember it all what the fight was about, no,

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<v Speaker 1>like not at all. I just remember the part where

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<v Speaker 1>I was really emotional and he was really upset and

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<v Speaker 1>then he left, okay, And I don't and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why, and I'm like, I just feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>finally met a really good guy that I'm like, oh wait,

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<v Speaker 1>actually maybe I could be in a relationship. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I just like went threw it up somehow. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>you guys already got your first fight out of the way,

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<v Speaker 1>which is nice. I was going to say, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a relationship already. All right, Well we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call him and get your second date up date. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on. Nobody wants to go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a first date and get along the whole time, have

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<v Speaker 1>chemistry or whatever. That's boring, right, that's old school dating.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all about arguing. Now, a good first date should

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<v Speaker 1>include at least one argument and an emotional breakdown. Which

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<v Speaker 1>is why Amy's on the phone because she had a

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<v Speaker 1>fabulous date with a guy named Rick. She actually doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>remember a lot of the evening, but she does remember

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<v Speaker 1>that they got in an argument at one point. She

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<v Speaker 1>was emotional, He left her place, and they haven't talked since. Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you want to call him if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>got in an argument. Yeah, because, like, up until we

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<v Speaker 1>got in the argument, we were having a really good time.

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<v Speaker 1>And sorry, what was the question again? My question was

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<v Speaker 1>why do you want to call him? If you guys

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<v Speaker 1>got in a fight on your first date, I really

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<v Speaker 1>want to know what happened. Okayeh? Are you like an

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<v Speaker 1>emotional person that often brings up maybe politics or religion

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<v Speaker 1>or some sort of topic that people can find her No,

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<v Speaker 1>not politics and religions. No, I mean like I have

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<v Speaker 1>my moments, just like everybody. Are you okay? Well, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>call him right now and see if we can find

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<v Speaker 1>out what you guys were arguing about. Okay, thank you,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. Here we go. Hello. Hi is Rick there? Uh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was Ri Rick. How are you? Man? My name

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<v Speaker 1>is jew Bowl. I host a morning show, Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. Um, okay, are you serious? Yeah? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm good. Well, I'm calling you today

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<v Speaker 1>because I wanted to speak with you about a date

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<v Speaker 1>you went on a date I went on. What's she

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? I'm talking about a girl named Amy that

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<v Speaker 1>you met off on Instagram. Amy. Yeah. We do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show called the Second Date Update. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>it's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody and then end up not calling them after they

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<v Speaker 1>email us to see if we can get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and ask what happened? Oh my god, So

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<v Speaker 1>has been trying to get a hold of you, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not returning into her phone calls or text messages.

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<v Speaker 1>So she asked if we could get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and ask what happened? Are you serious? Yeah? I am.

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<v Speaker 1>She really wanted to allow my day win. I do

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<v Speaker 1>even more than me. Amy wants to know because she says,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't really remember the last part of it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She did tell us a little bit about the date

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<v Speaker 1>and said, you guys were arguing at some point, which

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<v Speaker 1>is a great way to end a date. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it sounded really romantic, lasting impressions. Yeah, no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it definitely was not romantic. So what was it? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys arguing about? Do you remember? Yeah? I remember.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't know if it's okay to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it on the radio, But I don't know she

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<v Speaker 1>would be cool with that or well, she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>has no choice because she agreed to do the second

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<v Speaker 1>day update, so she wants to know, all right. So

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<v Speaker 1>I went over to her place and we were making

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<v Speaker 1>out in her bathroom and bathroom that's um, yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>her bathroom, just kind of like where we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>and things were getting hot and heavy, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at one point my shirt came off, and then she

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of turned and she looked at the mirror

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<v Speaker 1>and she started like freaking out and she looks at

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<v Speaker 1>herself and she's like, oh my god, I look so ugly, weird, sad, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, no, no, you don't, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't write like she's gorgeous. So I'm like, no, like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't, right, And I'm trying to make her feel

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<v Speaker 1>better and she's like, no, no, I do. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like working herself up and I'm feeling really

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<v Speaker 1>weird because my shirts off, right, And then as I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to like calm her down, she starts to like

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<v Speaker 1>argue with are you like arguing over whether or not

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<v Speaker 1>she looks pretty? Yeah? Kind of She's like she's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know what you're talking about, Like you're lying

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<v Speaker 1>to me. And I'm like, no, I'm not like you

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<v Speaker 1>look fine, you look great, you look beautiful. You're like

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<v Speaker 1>I was just in here with my shirt off making

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<v Speaker 1>out with you because I think that you're attractive, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And eventually like this kind of like half fight turns

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<v Speaker 1>into like a whole fight. Like she actually was getting

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<v Speaker 1>aggressive with you because you were telling her that she

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<v Speaker 1>looked good. That at me for calling her pretty? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you think at first she was just fishing for compliments

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<v Speaker 1>and then it took a weird turn? Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>kind of I thought that, you know, because like sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>girls get down on themselves, but like this was way

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<v Speaker 1>beyond anything that I've ever seen before. She was just

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<v Speaker 1>out of control, and so finally she's just like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, like get out. Yeah, she kicked you out

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<v Speaker 1>for calling her pretty, is what you're saying, right? Did

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<v Speaker 1>she kicked me out of her bathroom and she locks

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<v Speaker 1>the door behind her, but my shirt and my wallet

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<v Speaker 1>were still inside the bathroom? Oh yeah, So she's in

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<v Speaker 1>there freaking out, so would you. She's like going ballistic

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like sobbing in there, and I'm like, can

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<v Speaker 1>I get my shirt back? Oh? I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>give her a home. How long did it take? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you got your shirt back? I didn't get my shirt back.

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<v Speaker 1>She just opened up the door at one point and

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<v Speaker 1>then threw my wallet at me and told me to

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<v Speaker 1>get this out, and I just ran home. Copless, That

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<v Speaker 1>all right? Well, that was an interesting evening for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Any chance you'd ever talked to her again? Ever? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think so. I mean, it was just a little

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<v Speaker 1>too crazy for me. Oh that's unfortunate because she's actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone listening to this conversation. What yeah, Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? Oh my god, I don't remember that,

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<v Speaker 1>like at all? Did that seriously happen? Did I seriously

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<v Speaker 1>cry and then kick you out in my apartment? You've

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<v Speaker 1>been listening the whole time that I was talking. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I like don't remember any of that, Like are

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<v Speaker 1>you here? Did I want to go out like that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You did all of that? It was you don't remember anything. No,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's so funny. You think that's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not mortified mortified, it's kind of hilarious, Like did

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<v Speaker 1>you hear that story? That's so funny. So it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>bother you that you were freaking out because apparently you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think you looked good that night and he thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were pretty and that pissed you up. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I think I was just like having a moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, like sometimes I have a moment, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>totally need to just like have a moment, but then

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<v Speaker 1>it's fine, Like he didn't have to leave, He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have to leave. I didn't have to leave. You threw

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<v Speaker 1>my wall. I mean, then you told me to get

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<v Speaker 1>the out, like you said, My god, I was drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>We were having fun. My god, I don't know any

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<v Speaker 1>having fun. Yeah if I was. If I was at

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<v Speaker 1>your place and you threw something at me and said

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<v Speaker 1>get the f out, I would think that I would

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<v Speaker 1>have to leave at that point or I would be

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<v Speaker 1>in trouble with the law. I don't know. Okay, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>but I did you Rick? Did you like get a

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<v Speaker 1>video of this at least? Oh my gosh, Aby, what

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<v Speaker 1>a video? Nor you get a video? You serious? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't Why not? I could have totally posted that on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>We've gotten so many like you would actually is you'd

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<v Speaker 1>actually post a video of you having this freak out online? Amy?

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<v Speaker 1>Why not? I mean, like obviously right now, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty It's fine. Everybody has a meltdown every once

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<v Speaker 1>in a while. I'm just like, you know what, like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>deserve me at my desk. It's okay for people to

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<v Speaker 1>see me like that. It's fine, Aby, I got to

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<v Speaker 1>say when when Rick was telling this story, I was

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<v Speaker 1>feeling so bad you and I thought we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to this like horribly like lacking self confident

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<v Speaker 1>woman that was crying on the end of the line,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were handling this way differently than I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you would. I don't know, you know, it's just life, life,

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<v Speaker 1>and like that happen sometimes, right, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't don't believe you didn't take a video. And

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<v Speaker 1>take a video next time, Yes, seriously, the next time

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<v Speaker 1>you're having a meltdown like that, you need to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure somebody is there at a videotape it at all times. Amy, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>then would you guys like to go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? Rick, I will pay for a second date. No,

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<v Speaker 1>hell no, you might get a viral video out of

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<v Speaker 1>the deal. This has not happened to me on a

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<v Speaker 1>regular basis, Like girls that I'm with don't have freakouts

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<v Speaker 1>and then kick me out of there at their place

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<v Speaker 1>and feel my shirt. Well, it sounds to me like

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<v Speaker 1>you're not really living. I don't feel like everybody has

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<v Speaker 1>these comments, okay, And like I know that was probably

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<v Speaker 1>a little muxt but like, if you knew me better,

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<v Speaker 1>you would know that even though I was freaking out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I do believe I wasn't really serious. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really mean it. Like I know that, and just because

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<v Speaker 1>I happened, I don't think that it means you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>go out with me, Like you should still go out

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<v Speaker 1>with me. I'm really fine and like we could obviously

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<v Speaker 1>have really great stories. See, like, come on, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what's fine as long as I can end this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>right now, as long as we could finish this up.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we can finish the phone call here, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her again. No, I'm not gonna go out.

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<v Speaker 1>So which one is it? You're confusing me. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>tell when you're serious and when you're not serious. You're

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<v Speaker 1>harder to read than she is. I want to end

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation. I don't ever want to see her again.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, Thank you. You're really really hot, but you

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<v Speaker 1>are crazy in the morning. It's not often that a

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<v Speaker 1>girl freaks out on a guy on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>kicks him out of the house pretty much naked, and

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<v Speaker 1>he has to run home, and then all of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners are texting in at seven, eight, five, and nine

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<v Speaker 1>two going I'll go on a date with her. She

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<v Speaker 1>sounds awesome. I'm talking about today's second date update. This

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<v Speaker 1>girl Amy want to call a guy named Rick. He

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling her back. After they had a drunken night

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<v Speaker 1>of fun, they went back to her house. It turns

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<v Speaker 1>out that while they were at her house, they got

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<v Speaker 1>into an argument because she was in the bathroom looking

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<v Speaker 1>at herself in the mirror and said that she was ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was trying to tell her that she's not ugly,

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<v Speaker 1>and he thinks that she's rather attractive, and that made

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<v Speaker 1>her even more angry, and she kicked him out of

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<v Speaker 1>the house after a huge argument on a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>but she still wanted to call him. We got him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and found all that out, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was a very good sport about it. Most people be

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<v Speaker 1>kind of embarrassed, but she's like, that's just who I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes I have freakouts and you have to deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>She couldn't stop laughing. She was like, why didn't you

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<v Speaker 1>videotape it? That is YouTube goal right there. At least

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<v Speaker 1>she embraces it, right. I feel like she needs a

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<v Speaker 1>reality show like she is the perfect person for she is.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a text in at seven eight five to

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<v Speaker 1>nine two that said I thought Amy was awesome and

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<v Speaker 1>handled that amazingly until she asked him if he took

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<v Speaker 1>a video and said, OMG, like that have gone so viral.

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<v Speaker 1>We've gotten so many likes. Another text in seven eighty

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<v Speaker 1>five to nine two that says, I'm screaming in my car.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the best second date update ever. They didn't

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<v Speaker 1>agree to go out again because Rick is a bore

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<v Speaker 1>and can't handle Amy. That's what I'm thinking. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>hates just you know, total freakouts on the first date.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't like that. Remember, if you want a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, I have to do is email the show

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<v Speaker 1>and we will call the person who didn't call you back.