WEBVTT - “I DRAW THE RICH AND FAMOUS” 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:04.240 Hello, and welcome to the Therapy Gecko Podcast. I am Lyle, 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:06.640 I am a gecko. I am in New York City 0:00:06.680 --> 0:00:09.119 in a park. Today is what day is today? Does 0:00:09.119 --> 0:00:12.080 anyone know what day it is? Today? Is August something, 0:00:12.360 --> 0:00:16.120 and it's something. It's sometime in the afternoon. It doesn't matter. 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:19.119 The time is now. It will never be August. What 0:00:19.239 --> 0:00:22.560 day is today? Today's August twenty fifth. It will never 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:26.400 be August twenty fifth, twenty twenty five ever again. And 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.639 that is why I have come to the park to 0:00:28.720 --> 0:00:31.800 be a gecko and talk to people about life. This 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:34.000 is what I'm gonna do with my time alive on 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:37.720 the earth. This is how I'm spending the one August 0:00:37.760 --> 0:00:41.279 twenty fifth, twenty twenty five that I get and by 0:00:41.320 --> 0:00:44.760 God is in an honor. So let's talk to some 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:49.080 people at the park about life. It'll be fun, great, sick. 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:49.760 Let's do it. 0:00:49.840 --> 0:00:50.600 Hi. What's your name? 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:51.600 I'm Sid, Sid. 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:52.319 Nice to meet you. 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:52.880 Nice to meet you. 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:54.600 What's going on, Sid? How's life? 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:56.880 Life is pretty good? Just moved into NYU. 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:58.560 Oh very nice. What are you studying. 0:00:58.960 --> 0:00:59.880 I'm studying recorded me. 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:01.840 You're studying recorded music? 0:01:02.000 --> 0:01:02.200 Yes? 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:05.080 Okay, So this is the opposite of studying music production. 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:08.560 This is the music has been recorded and now we're 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:09.320 gonna study it. 0:01:10.120 --> 0:01:12.480 So it's kind of everything. It's the school for like 0:01:12.640 --> 0:01:17.120 just an overarching music education. So it's production, it's songwriting, 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:20.000 it's the business, it's it's a little school inside of this. 0:01:20.200 --> 0:01:23.280 It's a very small program, but it's just it's a 0:01:23.280 --> 0:01:24.360 school of recorded music. 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:26.720 So basically, what are your dreams for the future. Is 0:01:26.720 --> 0:01:30.839 it to record music or to recorded music? 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:35.440 Well, I'd like to be an artist, a singer, a performer, 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:39.959 and I record my own music already. But yeah, my 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:41.720 dream is to be a touring artist. 0:01:42.360 --> 0:01:44.199 I uh, you use to be a touring artist? 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:44.800 Yeah? 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:47.319 Very nice, very cool. What do you make music about? 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:47.920 Do you sing? 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:48.760 Yes? 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:52.080 I sing, So singing is my main thing. My music 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:55.040 is just a lot about my personal experiences and personal 0:01:55.040 --> 0:01:57.760 things that have happened in my life because I just 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.880 I like to make music to try to make music 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:03.440 relates to people as best as I can. 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:07.000 Yeah, what uh I mean? For whatever? 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:07.639 For whatever? 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:10.079 You want to talk about what happened? What what's happened 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:10.800 in your life? 0:02:11.200 --> 0:02:17.560 Well, I've had some interesting relationships with people, just friendships, 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.680 not friendships, and I write about them, and I write 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:23.280 about the good things and the bad things and high school, 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.400 which is, you know, an experience for everybody. 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:27.360 Do you talk so you go like Taylor Swift mode 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.240 a little bit? Okay, a little bit? 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:30.480 And how old are you? 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:34.040 I'm seventeen, You're seventeen? Yes, Oh, so you're still in 0:02:34.080 --> 0:02:34.600 high school? 0:02:34.760 --> 0:02:34.880 No? 0:02:35.120 --> 0:02:35.800 I'm in college. 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:37.880 Okay. Did you graduate a year early? 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:41.200 No, just just a little, a little delayed, about to 0:02:41.240 --> 0:02:41.800 turn eighteen? 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:44.320 Okay? So what? 0:02:44.520 --> 0:02:44.640 Uh? 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:46.119 Who are who? 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:48.360 Were like the artists that you like? 0:02:48.960 --> 0:02:51.160 Well, my favorite of all time is Billie Eilish, Okay, 0:02:51.280 --> 0:02:51.840 obsessed with her? 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:52.480 She's cool. 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:54.680 Yeah, and I'm very like singer songwriter. So I don't 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:59.400 know if you know like Lizzie Mcallpin. She's beautiful voice. 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:02.000 I love her, saw her in concert, pretty great. 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:06.200 I don't I feel anyone that you know, I almost 0:03:06.280 --> 0:03:08.959 guarantee I don't know. I know Billy, I don't know 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:13.120 Billie Eilish is who do I listen to? I search 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:16.560 Royalty free jazz music on YouTube and I listened to 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:20.639 whatever that is. It's probably AI generated, Honestly, it's good. 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:23.959 I don't know like the names of people, Okay, fair fair, 0:03:25.000 --> 0:03:28.040 But I mean that's cool. So do you like post 0:03:28.400 --> 0:03:29.679 music on the internet. 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:31.200 Yeah, So I. 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:33.320 Have three songs out right now, and I have a 0:03:33.360 --> 0:03:37.119 new one and it's coming on September nineteenth, and that's 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.480 like on Spotify and anything you want to stream it on. 0:03:39.600 --> 0:03:42.360 And then I'm pretty active on TikTok as well, and 0:03:42.400 --> 0:03:44.160 I post like a lot of covers and just like 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:46.400 my music and stuff and just kind of share everything 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:47.160 about my life. 0:03:47.840 --> 0:03:50.760 So it's it's August, like, I see you have barely 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:53.520 even been in school yet you just moved in two days, 0:03:53.680 --> 0:03:55.400 are you How do you Are you nervous? 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:57.400 Are you excited? How do you feel both? 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:01.800 I'm definitely nervous. I'm from the city as well, so 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:03.360 it's a less of a big change for me as 0:04:03.360 --> 0:04:04.080 it is for other people. 0:04:04.160 --> 0:04:06.200 For you grew up in New York. What was that 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:08.120 like going to high school in New York? Because it's 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:10.880 are there any there's no TV? All the TV shows 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:13.560 about like teens in high school they all take place 0:04:13.600 --> 0:04:16.160 in Los Angeles, Like, there's none, none of them are 0:04:16.440 --> 0:04:18.920 there's no like high school shows that are in New York? 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:19.640 Are they think? 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:20.120 So? 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:21.640 So, what's that experience like? 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:26.320 It's definitely a little bit crazy. I high school was 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.280 it was an experience, so I was definitely ready for 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:31.720 college for sure. I mean it's kind of all I've 0:04:31.720 --> 0:04:33.599 ever known because I've just grown up in the city. 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:36.920 And when I was younger, I did not like the city. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:38.680 But as I got to high school and stuff, I 0:04:38.680 --> 0:04:40.479 got a lot more independence and I went out with 0:04:40.520 --> 0:04:43.280 people and went out with friends and stuff, and so 0:04:43.720 --> 0:04:46.080 I definitely grew to like this, like love the city 0:04:46.120 --> 0:04:48.200 in high school because there was a lot more independence 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:49.960 than my friends in the suburbs who are just getting 0:04:49.960 --> 0:04:52.080 their driver's license and I can't drive. 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:54.520 That's what I mean. 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.480 It would be a waste of time for you to 0:04:56.640 --> 0:05:01.320 learn how to drive in New York. Yeah, so is 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.400 your I guess. So you went to high school like what, 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:06.320 you went high school in Manhattan? Yeah, holy shit? Okay, 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:08.400 and then you're going to college in Manhattan. So your 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:11.560 life is not going to be that much different. 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:14.360 No, But I mean it is different in a way 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.480 because I'm doing what I like want to. I mean, 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:18.760 I wanted to do music forever and so now I'm 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:22.000 actually I get to go to school for it. And 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:24.799 six out of seven of my classes are music classes, 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:26.800 and I have a writing class that I have to take. 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:32.919 It's exciting. Yeah, that's exciting. Okay, I guess uh hmm. 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:37.080 I'm trying to think if I have any questions for 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:41.880 you about life. Well, and you're here with your two homies. 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:43.640 Yes, one is my roommate. 0:05:43.760 --> 0:05:45.120 Okay, did you guys just meet? 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:47.279 Yeah, well we had been texting a little bit, but 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:48.120 we did just meet. 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:49.840 Are you getting along well? 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:50.360 Yes? 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:51.719 I love her. It's a great match. 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:52.120 Okay. 0:05:52.320 --> 0:05:53.719 And another one is my sister. 0:05:54.520 --> 0:05:55.800 Do you sister get along well? 0:05:55.839 --> 0:06:00.839 Yes, yes, biggest supporter, promoter. She helps me hang these 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:03.080 flyers all around the city. You might you might see 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:06.000 them if you're walking around today. They say looking for 0:06:06.080 --> 0:06:09.159 fans of my music. And so they're like, oh, they're 0:06:09.160 --> 0:06:11.400 a play on the guy that put the posters all around, 0:06:11.400 --> 0:06:12.919 who is like looking for the perfect woman. 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:16.000 And I actually think I have seen I actually I 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:18.720 actually have seen that. No, are they they have like 0:06:18.800 --> 0:06:21.599 the little tear off shit right looking for fans. Yeah, 0:06:21.640 --> 0:06:23.040 it's kind of it's like a play on like a 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:24.040 dating profile. 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:24.200 Right. 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:27.479 Yeah, Okay, I've seen that. Okay, I've seen I haven't 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:29.360 seen the looking I've seen your thing. I haven't seen 0:06:29.400 --> 0:06:32.640 looking for a perfect woman? Is there only that's you? 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:35.479 I feel there's not like another person. I actually it's funny, 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:36.440 I actually have seen that. 0:06:36.440 --> 0:06:37.640 That's crazy, all right, cool? 0:06:38.320 --> 0:06:40.160 I have people like found you through that? How long 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:42.120 have you been putting those up? Because I feel like 0:06:42.160 --> 0:06:43.520 I saw that like a month ago, a couple of 0:06:43.560 --> 0:06:44.919 months probably, Oh okay, all right, so. 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:47.120 You've been putting them out for a while. Yeah. Have 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.440 you had people like message you being like I found 0:06:49.440 --> 0:06:50.160 you through that? Yeah? 0:06:50.160 --> 0:06:52.080 I have a bunch of like Instagram and TikTok comments 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:54.679 being like, oh, like I found your poster in Chelsea 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:57.560 and Washington Square Park, Like, so glad I found your music. 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.599 It's pretty cool, very exciting stuff. 0:06:59.640 --> 0:07:04.720 Well, I hope that your musical journey is successful. 0:07:05.480 --> 0:07:06.039 I hope you don't. 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:09.840 I hope you don't get jaded by the world. I 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:14.680 hope you continue to love life. And uh, that's all 0:07:14.720 --> 0:07:17.320 I can really hope for you. I think you're gonna 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:19.160 I think you're gonna do great, dude. I mean you're 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:25.720 gonna live amazing life. And you know, I mean, someone's 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:29.240 gotta make someone's got to write songs about stuff. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:31.520 Is there anything else you want to say to the 0:07:31.560 --> 0:07:33.000 people of the computer before we go. 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.080 Well, if you want to listen to my music, my 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:39.400 name is Sid Sid Hudson And yeah, that's it. 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:44.240 Marker, thank you. I'll see you around the universe by Sid. 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:45.280 Hi. 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:48.760 What's your name? My name is Drew because you want 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.080 to hold the microphone? Sure, my name is Drew. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:52.120 How's life going, Drew? 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:52.840 It's going good. 0:07:52.880 --> 0:07:56.800 I actually drew some celebrities, okay, Seth Rogen and like 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:58.360 Bill Murray and like Elton. 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:00.520 John You drew Bill Murray and Elton I give an 0:08:00.560 --> 0:08:03.280 ar piece and everything. Oh okay, how did you get 0:08:03.320 --> 0:08:04.080 involved in doing this? 0:08:04.320 --> 0:08:06.000 I just like met them, like you know, just like 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:08.640 bumped into them and like just like drew them, like 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:09.320 you know what I mean. 0:08:09.240 --> 0:08:11.400 Like how did you bump into the can I actually 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:12.000 just hold the mic? 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:14.200 Yeah, but yeah, I just bump into them, like I 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:16.840 just like like randomly and I just like find some 0:08:17.040 --> 0:08:19.160 like I just like see them and they're like, you know, 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:21.160 I say hi and everything, and like I asked them 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:23.000 to ask them to draw them. 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:24.840 And then I draw them and then take the arpiece. 0:08:25.600 --> 0:08:27.320 Now where did you bump into Seth Rogan? 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:27.640 Oh? 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:30.920 So yeah, oh, okay, and you and you were just 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:33.000 like you just drew them and you gave him the thing. 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:36.000 That's cool. How many celebrities have you bumped into? 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:36.480 Ten? 0:08:37.320 --> 0:08:37.560 Ten? 0:08:38.200 --> 0:08:38.400 Ten? 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:41.880 And I also bumped into a you ten bumped into twelve? 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:45.440 So I also saw Pamela Anderson like twice okay, she 0:08:45.520 --> 0:08:48.240 was jogging. And also saw Nicki Minaj. She was like 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:51.440 really nice where like yeah, she was like she was 0:08:51.480 --> 0:08:53.120 she was like a surprisingly really nice person. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:56.400 How do you how do you randomly bump into these celebrities? 0:08:56.600 --> 0:08:58.360 I don't know, I just like I just come across them. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:00.439 I guess it's like they're just walking and like, I 0:09:00.480 --> 0:09:01.680 don't know, it's kind of strange. 0:09:01.720 --> 0:09:03.199 It's like I just kind of. 0:09:03.160 --> 0:09:07.280 Like seem to like know where the like vibrancy or 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:10.120 like the where the like the really popping places are 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:10.520 or something. 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:12.920 Maybe Okay, are you like a cool guy? 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:13.160 Yeah? 0:09:13.160 --> 0:09:15.320 I guess like I do hang around or like like 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:17.720 places where it's they do? 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:19.920 They do like play a lot of music and stuff. 0:09:20.040 --> 0:09:22.400 Are you are you? Like? Are you are you? How 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:23.640 hard are you trying to gate keep this? 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:26.120 Like? Would you like where would you tell us where 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:29.120 all the cool people hang out? Or like is it 0:09:29.240 --> 0:09:34.400 bad if you spot where do the cool people hang 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.760 out these days? You're here? 0:09:36.800 --> 0:09:37.120 Okay? 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:38.400 Yeah one of them? 0:09:38.480 --> 0:09:41.960 Yeah, let's see who's the who? Uh? 0:09:42.000 --> 0:09:42.960 Who are who are? 0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:44.800 Name all ten of the celebrities? 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:52.160 Okay, so Els and John Bill Murray, the guy from 0:09:52.640 --> 0:10:00.040 seth Rogen, the guy from uh Pineaple Express, Cecil Gilly. 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:04.280 Hall, Cecial, Jill and Home Jake Jillenhomes Yeah okay. 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:12.160 Also the guy from from uh Silicon Valley, Silicon Valley, 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:17.560 the TV show What Camell Come Camel, Yeah, come yeah camell. 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:20.679 And I also Drew like a really famous artist. Uh. 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:23.560 His name is Julian Schnabo. His artwork goes for like 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:26.720 ten million dollars in auction. I drew him here, so 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:28.120 that's like six. But I can't remember. 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:28.760 The other one was. 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:31.360 Like that's okay, it's like you know what, I honestly 0:10:31.640 --> 0:10:33.360 the fuck all the fun all those people? 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:33.760 Who are you? 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:33.960 Man? 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:34.480 What's your name? 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:35.439 Uh? 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:40.160 Drew? Drew probably said that before, but I remember. So 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:41.079 how'd you get into drawing? 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:44.320 I just like I liked I was like drawing and everything, 0:10:44.360 --> 0:10:47.800 Like I like studied like how to like like drawing 0:10:47.840 --> 0:10:50.240 outside of like play, like opera and like all the 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:53.280 arts and everything and everything, and I like drawing a 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:54.360 lot because it helped. 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:56.120 Me like get out of like a lot of like. 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:57.400 Like I was always that quiet kid in the room 0:10:57.480 --> 0:10:59.560 like just like drawing by myself and everything, and like 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:02.520 I was like drawing people and like making drawings and 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:05.600 showing people, and people would always be excited about like 0:11:05.640 --> 0:11:07.719 what I show them and everything, and I always had 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:11.120 like a I would like uh like just saying Japanese style, 0:11:11.200 --> 0:11:13.760 like I would just like draw anime or like represent 0:11:13.800 --> 0:11:15.200 anime in like my own way. 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:15.680 Cool. 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:17.240 Like basically what I do is like I just draw 0:11:17.280 --> 0:11:18.720 people as anime characters. 0:11:18.800 --> 0:11:21.080 Well you drew all those people's anime characters, draw people 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:23.439 as anime? Would you draw me as an anime character? OK? 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.320 Yeah that's awesome? Wait why what what attracts you to 0:11:26.360 --> 0:11:27.040 the anime style? 0:11:27.200 --> 0:11:29.400 It just looks cool, Like I like it's quick and 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:31.640 easy and like it looks cool to look at. 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:34.680 So do you do you watch a lot of anime? 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:35.040 Yeah? 0:11:35.120 --> 0:11:36.000 What's favorite anime? 0:11:38.320 --> 0:11:38.640 Damn? 0:11:38.679 --> 0:11:44.720 I feel like my favorite anime is uh like start 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:46.400 Out Online or something or like. 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:47.920 Do you ever imagine? 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:51.880 Like? Oh, I like, do you ever sit around Neon 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:54.679 Genesis seven. Do you ever imagine, like, oh, what if 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:55.800 my life was an anime? 0:11:56.480 --> 0:11:58.640 Yeah, but like I don't know, like I mean, I guess, 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:01.000 like no, but like it's the same school, like how 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:02.199 it looks No, you. 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:04.440 Never you never get lost in escapist fantasy. 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.839 I mean I guess, like I see, I can kind 0:12:06.840 --> 0:12:08.480 of see how it can be similar to life, but 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:10.320 it seems like anime. 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:13.080 Seems like I I watched a lot. 0:12:12.920 --> 0:12:19.120 Of like anime with like like you know, I watched like. 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:19.720 Like high School to Dad and like house Club and Ship. 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:24.800 So I watched animate within a lot of like like 0:12:24.800 --> 0:12:28.840 like school related Yeah, well a lot of them to watch, 0:12:28.920 --> 0:12:30.920 Like I also play like Dona Rampa the video games. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:34.600 So I watched such school because I taught high schoolers 0:12:34.960 --> 0:12:37.679 how to chol cool high school to how to draw 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:38.400 for like a year. 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:41.160 Cool, And like I feel like school is where. 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.680 Like a lot of stuff, like I learned to like 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.880 really like it's where I learned to really home myself 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:51.679 myself as like an artist. So I like school oriented 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:54.880 things like yeah, I like, yeah. 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.719 Like well there's there's it's you know, there's something very 0:12:57.760 --> 0:12:58.880 nostalgic about that time. 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:01.360 Yes, so elegist, you know, like you're you're, you're. 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:08.360 It's a weirdly paradoxically care free yet stressful time. Yeah. 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:11.199 Being in high school, yeah. 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:13.080 You know, I mean, I mean ship the lady who 0:13:13.200 --> 0:13:16.040 was just here, she was, she was she just graduate 0:13:16.160 --> 0:13:18.080 high school. She was talking about, you know, all of 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:21.480 my life experiences, and I was like, in my head, 0:13:21.520 --> 0:13:23.719 I was like, how much life experience can you have? 0:13:23.840 --> 0:13:25.520 But then I remember, I'm like, yeah, I get when 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:29.600 you're in high school, you still are stressed out about things. 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:33.439 You get older and you realize, well, I was gonna say, 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:34.880 you get older and you realize it didn't matter. 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:38.199 Like video games like I used to play, like like 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:42.080 like Japanese video games, okay, like like Pokemon. 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:43.760 And like, yeah, I know Pokemon, Like that's cool. 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:44.720 I like. 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:48.080 I also like the Digimon animes and Pokemon animes. 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:50.520 Those those are those are like the best I feel 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:52.520 I was gonna. I was gonna say, you get older 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:53.560 and you're and you're like. 0:13:53.880 --> 0:13:57.160 I feel like those are the top three Pokemon Digimon Like. 0:13:57.280 --> 0:14:00.440 You get older and you're like, oh that stuff didn't matter, 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:02.320 but everything matter, well nothing really matters. 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.440 Everything only matters relative. 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:07.520 To what to what's how you feel and in the moment, yeah, 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.120 and like how you express yourself right right, So even 0:14:10.160 --> 0:14:12.240 if it felt like it didn't matter, of course it 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.360 doesn't matter fucking now, But it mattered then. 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:17.280 I mean, nothing that matters now. It's gonna matter later anyways. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:19.600 But uh, what matters to you these days? What matters 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:20.280 to you right now? 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:28.080 Like our and like like I feel like celebrity culture 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:29.880 and also like like. 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:35.920 Anime. It's our anime celebrity culture. 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:37.680 Why does tell me why celebrity culture? 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:41.360 I like like. 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.560 Movies and ship and like TV shows like Friends and 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:47.960 like Big Bang Theory. It just seems like cool to 0:14:48.040 --> 0:14:51.560 like to to watch those shows and like and it's 0:14:51.560 --> 0:14:54.240 like hilarious and just like it's is. It's just cool 0:14:54.360 --> 0:14:56.280 to watch, you know what I mean? And to like 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:59.480 and the people who are like like actors and everything 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:02.920 work for the show are like really cool. 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:05.640 Is there a celebrity? 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:10.560 Okay, you're clearly very you like celebrities, like bumping into celebrities. Yeah, Well, 0:15:10.720 --> 0:15:13.240 is there a celebrity that you want to draw more 0:15:13.280 --> 0:15:15.720 than anyone else? Who's the number one who would be 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.080 the number one get for you? 0:15:18.720 --> 0:15:26.160 I mean, I guess like either like Beyonce or like 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:28.840 Share or something like jay Z. 0:15:29.320 --> 0:15:30.480 What do you think? What do you think it's like 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:32.320 to be Beyonce? Like you ever thought about that? 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:36.000 I don't know, Like she must have like a really 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:36.680 nice life. 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:39.520 I guess like it's yeah, she seems nice, like she 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:41.760 sings really well, so like obviously, like do. 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:42.240 You think anything? 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:43.880 Do you think anything? Like what do you think sucks 0:15:43.920 --> 0:15:45.200 the most about being Beyonce? 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:48.360 Nothing? 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:51.400 You think this is something? Yeah, there's something's gotta talk 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:52.400 about being up. 0:15:52.560 --> 0:15:54.480 Up to one point, like up to a certain point, 0:15:54.560 --> 0:15:57.320 like like it's like nothing really bothers you. But like 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:00.720 I feel like maybe she's like really like I don't know, 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:02.560 like she seems like a normal person. I feel like 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:03.280 they're just normal. 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:03.600 I don't know. 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:06.480 I feel like celebrities are like more normal than like 0:16:07.560 --> 0:16:09.760 people sometimes like not people up did there are more 0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:13.560 people normal than people And it's like I mean that's 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:15.080 not weird in itself, But I don't know, I don't know. 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:19.880 I guess like yeah, like but like I guess I 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:25.920 celebrities do have like certain like interesting personalities. Like I 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:27.880 remember like Elton John when I drew him, like he 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:30.600 was like like I drew him and then he was like, oh, 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:32.360 you messed up, and he was like, oh, it's okay. 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:34.920 He was like nice about it. He was disappointed, but 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:35.640 nice about it. 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:38.760 Oh wait, he just you. He was like, you messed up? 0:16:38.880 --> 0:16:41.160 Yeah, right again? 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.200 How can you messed up? In what way? 0:16:43.560 --> 0:16:46.480 I don't like the drawing that come out right? So 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:48.080 but I dream again and he took it. He was 0:16:48.080 --> 0:16:50.320 the right way it too, and like I draw, I 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.800 drew the drawing. He took the drawing and like yeah, 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:56.040 he went just like a really fancy card, like he. 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:59.640 Was sorry, there's a gentleman over here carrying a wet 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:03.920 wanna and I'm it's distracting me a little bit. This 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:06.119 is one of the most stimulating place. This is among 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:11.480 the most stimulating places in New York City. So, uh, actually, 0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:13.840 I would love to Actually, I would love to take 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:14.760 you up on this drawing. 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:15.680 Is it cool? 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:18.680 Can I can I interview someone while you're drawing? Or 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:19.880 do you want to draw while we talk? 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:21.760 I mean, I guess I could draw later, but I 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:25.760 guess like it was cool, Like I don't know, I 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:27.439 guess like it was cool talking, like you know. 0:17:27.480 --> 0:17:29.600 Yeah, I saw I'll saw your show. And stuff like 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:30.640 it was cool. 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:32.080 Like it was like when I was watching it, it 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:35.280 was like I feel like it's like really like kid 0:17:35.320 --> 0:17:38.960 friendly too, and like I like, you know, like it's 0:17:38.960 --> 0:17:40.920 like cool, like because I draw kid friendly stuff too. 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:43.760 Kind Oh I get I don't. It's absolutely not intended 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:44.520 to be a kid. 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:47.040 Friendly but it would be like that call like that 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:50.840 like that like that like that knnot call of duties 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:52.399 to call everyone nigger or some ship, you know what 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:52.720 I mean? 0:17:52.800 --> 0:18:01.280 Like why is you went from? But I guess like 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:02.879 you went from hold on? 0:18:03.080 --> 0:18:06.080 Hold on? You said you said, my my show is 0:18:06.119 --> 0:18:07.080 both kid friendly. 0:18:07.200 --> 0:18:09.840 Everybody watching your watching your show when I was really young, 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:13.680 about a lot younger and like like two years back 0:18:14.040 --> 0:18:15.960 or three years back, and like it was cool. 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:18.600 So like I like watching your show. Thank you. 0:18:20.960 --> 0:18:22.080 Okay, Okay, I was watching it. 0:18:22.119 --> 0:18:24.080 I was like I was like, I was like stone 0:18:24.119 --> 0:18:24.560 this ship, and. 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:28.560 I was Okay, So it's kid friendly, but it's friendly 0:18:28.600 --> 0:18:33.800 with the kind of kids who who yelled slur zone 0:18:33.840 --> 0:18:35.040 call of duty lobbies. 0:18:34.760 --> 0:18:35.400 Is what say? 0:18:35.920 --> 0:18:38.120 Okay, Okay, you. 0:18:38.080 --> 0:18:40.840 Know what I'm gonna I'm going to take that as 0:18:40.920 --> 0:18:43.000 I'm going to take that as a compliment from you. Yeah, 0:18:43.080 --> 0:18:46.120 I'll take that as a compliment from you. 0:18:46.200 --> 0:18:48.800 What's your what's your name again? I'm sorry, Drew. 0:18:48.840 --> 0:18:50.480 Yeah, and my video game. 0:18:50.760 --> 0:18:52.960 I like, I like that your name is you draw 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:53.840 and your name is Drew. 0:18:53.960 --> 0:18:54.840 So Drew, Drew. 0:18:55.720 --> 0:18:59.399 Sorry, that's stupid. Has anyone ever said that to you before? Okay, 0:18:59.440 --> 0:19:02.040 I'm glad. That's a stupid thing to say, But I'm nobody. 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:04.000 Nobody's ever said that. Nobody never made the connection. 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:08.679 Not really, I do not really maybe they maybe they 0:19:08.680 --> 0:19:09.159 think about it. 0:19:09.160 --> 0:19:11.240 But what was your childhood? Like did you have a 0:19:11.320 --> 0:19:12.120 nice childhood? 0:19:12.240 --> 0:19:13.160 I like traveled a lot. 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:13.960 Where'd you go? 0:19:15.800 --> 0:19:18.679 I went to Europe a lot? And why I don't know, 0:19:18.720 --> 0:19:22.159 Like I studied there. Like I went to like, uh 0:19:22.400 --> 0:19:26.480 private school, and like would study there and like would 0:19:26.560 --> 0:19:29.199 like read like the best textbooks in the world and 0:19:29.320 --> 0:19:33.120 like just like really learn ship and I liked that experience, 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:36.760 and like, I don't know, it's like almost like I 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:41.520 still went to school, but I still would have done 0:19:41.560 --> 0:19:43.359 well with the school schooling I got when I was 0:19:43.400 --> 0:19:45.679 really young, because private school is like that good. And 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:47.240 I feel like if you like went to private school 0:19:47.240 --> 0:19:48.960 for a long time, it would just be so much 0:19:49.040 --> 0:19:50.399 knowledge like somebody. 0:19:50.720 --> 0:19:52.679 Sometimes people say too much on it, but I don't know. 0:19:52.680 --> 0:19:55.639 I feel I feel like at least I went to 0:19:55.680 --> 0:19:57.680 private school, and maybe like. 0:19:58.080 --> 0:20:03.800 The amount of teaching I got, I was like just enough. 0:20:04.000 --> 0:20:06.440 But I don't know. I went to private school and 0:20:06.480 --> 0:20:06.879 I was really young. 0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:10.720 I liked I like to go in private school. 0:20:10.560 --> 0:20:13.040 Would yeah, would you say if are you do you 0:20:13.240 --> 0:20:14.040 think you have kids? 0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:16.520 One day, I'll put them in private school? 0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:17.639 You put them in private school? 0:20:17.800 --> 0:20:20.880 Really, I feel like I'm like, I'm pretty I went 0:20:20.920 --> 0:20:25.000 to private school for a few years. Yeah, but I 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:27.120 think public public school is good, right, because you don't 0:20:27.160 --> 0:20:29.840 want to like you want you want your kids to 0:20:29.880 --> 0:20:31.920 be in the world, don't you word? 0:20:32.000 --> 0:20:32.439 Yeah, So I. 0:20:32.400 --> 0:20:36.280 Wouldn't give them a lot of like like year school 0:20:36.320 --> 0:20:39.760 time or like yearly like like maybe like five years 0:20:39.840 --> 0:20:41.000 or something or ten. 0:20:41.080 --> 0:20:42.960 I don't know, maybe ten. I don't know. It depends. 0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:44.200 I had like five. 0:20:44.080 --> 0:20:46.920 Years of like private school when I was really young, 0:20:47.720 --> 0:20:48.560 So I don't know. 0:20:48.760 --> 0:20:50.600 I feel that's a good mouth, but I don't know. 0:20:50.920 --> 0:20:53.720 This good question, Drew. 0:20:53.760 --> 0:20:55.240 Is there anything else you want to say to the people, 0:20:55.760 --> 0:20:56.919 like a computer before we go? 0:20:57.040 --> 0:20:57.880 You're a really cool dude. 0:20:57.880 --> 0:20:59.040 Oh thanks, Sure? You are too, man. 0:20:59.080 --> 0:21:01.280 You should people should keep watching a show thank you 0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:04.719 because it's like it's just hilarious and thanks watching one episode. 0:21:04.720 --> 0:21:07.280 But yeah, shit, thanks Ruey. I'll see okay, I'll see 0:21:07.280 --> 0:21:07.560 you later. 0:21:07.600 --> 0:21:07.679 Man. 0:21:07.720 --> 0:21:11.359 I hope you run into Lizzie McGuire or whatever. Yeah, 0:21:12.240 --> 0:21:13.240 I'll see you on the universe. 0:21:13.280 --> 0:21:13.480 Man. 0:21:14.440 --> 0:21:15.719 Hey, what's your name? 0:21:16.119 --> 0:21:16.680 What's your name? 0:21:16.720 --> 0:21:18.000 My name is Lyle, Lyle. 0:21:18.200 --> 0:21:18.800 Nice to meet you. 0:21:18.840 --> 0:21:20.639 I just had to be a dick to those guys. 0:21:20.800 --> 0:21:23.760 Why you know, sometimes you got to be a dick. 0:21:25.080 --> 0:21:25.520 I don't know. 0:21:25.560 --> 0:21:29.800 I'm like, well, the selection here's well, okay, here's the thing, 0:21:30.000 --> 0:21:36.040 the selection processes. I mean, we're near NYU, So there's 0:21:36.040 --> 0:21:39.840 a lot of like. 0:21:38.359 --> 0:21:42.040 Like eighteen year old college students here. No, I don't. 0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:45.320 There's a lot of like eighteen year college students. And 0:21:45.800 --> 0:21:48.560 also that happens to be a demographic of people who 0:21:48.560 --> 0:21:50.600 I think have seen my show on TikTok. But I 0:21:50.600 --> 0:21:53.720 don't want to just interview eighteen year old college students. 0:21:54.240 --> 0:21:56.680 So and I also don't want to interview people who 0:21:56.720 --> 0:21:59.960 really want to be on. I want I want someone 0:22:00.119 --> 0:22:02.800 to begrudgingly be I want to someone who's like I 0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:04.920 don't know, if I really want to, and then they 0:22:05.000 --> 0:22:08.440 come to be on that, and then then we get 0:22:08.480 --> 0:22:10.880 you know, people who always people who want to really 0:22:10.880 --> 0:22:12.879 want to be on the show generally don't have a 0:22:12.920 --> 0:22:13.760 lot of set to say. 0:22:13.800 --> 0:22:15.480 I guess I really don't have. 0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:16.800 A lot to say. Is there anything you want to 0:22:16.800 --> 0:22:17.240 talk about it? 0:22:17.400 --> 0:22:17.600 Yeah? 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:17.960 Sure? 0:22:18.600 --> 0:22:18.800 Wait? 0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:21.600 What's your name? Nor Lyle? Nice to meet you. Okay, 0:22:21.640 --> 0:22:22.720 so you're not a college student. 0:22:22.880 --> 0:22:23.320 Who are you? 0:22:23.359 --> 0:22:25.680 What do you do? Why'd you drop out? 0:22:26.040 --> 0:22:28.679 Fuck? Fordham University? I'm joking. I'm joking. I did go 0:22:28.680 --> 0:22:30.960 to Fordham for a little It was just too expensive. 0:22:31.119 --> 0:22:33.280 Okay, that's a good reason. Wait, nor can you hold 0:22:33.280 --> 0:22:33.960 the microphone like? 0:22:34.040 --> 0:22:37.800 Okay? Okay, So how was dropping out? 0:22:38.080 --> 0:22:40.360 It was pretty chill, you know, dropped out. I'm going 0:22:40.400 --> 0:22:42.240 back to school now, going around to community college. 0:22:42.280 --> 0:22:44.480 So okay, how's community calls going? 0:22:45.080 --> 0:22:48.040 I've been started. I don't know. Man, I'm kind of scared. 0:22:48.119 --> 0:22:50.199 Why you're scared? Tell me why? What's you're scared of? 0:22:51.160 --> 0:22:54.159 Because low ki covid funched me over. I was so 0:22:54.320 --> 0:22:56.560 used to like online school, and this is like my 0:22:56.640 --> 0:22:58.919 first time in a hot minute, going back in person. 0:22:59.240 --> 0:23:02.120 Really, it's been fun years man, dude, I. 0:23:02.160 --> 0:23:05.080 Was like kind of in school towards out of high school, 0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:08.000 but like like it wasn't like really, I don't know. 0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:10.000 I just got really used online. 0:23:10.600 --> 0:23:12.520 This is your first time going. What have you been 0:23:12.520 --> 0:23:13.600 doing for the past five years? 0:23:13.840 --> 0:23:14.119 Dude? 0:23:14.200 --> 0:23:17.560 Literally fucking around? Can I say this on the show? 0:23:17.560 --> 0:23:18.800 Can I say? You say whatever you want? 0:23:19.200 --> 0:23:20.960 I've been on a bender for the past month. 0:23:21.240 --> 0:23:22.960 I've been on a bender kind of bender. 0:23:23.680 --> 0:23:26.640 Literally, I just be going out any club in Bushwick 0:23:26.680 --> 0:23:28.320 I'm there probably unfortunately. 0:23:28.400 --> 0:23:29.040 Okay, why. 0:23:30.480 --> 0:23:31.040 How old are you? 0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:31.960 Twenty one? 0:23:32.160 --> 0:23:33.960 Okay? Do you have do you have children? 0:23:34.680 --> 0:23:35.760 I take care of children. 0:23:35.800 --> 0:23:39.880 Actually that's yeah, that's different though, do you have are 0:23:39.880 --> 0:23:41.880 do you? Are you responsible to anyone in any way, 0:23:41.920 --> 0:23:42.480 shape or form? 0:23:42.520 --> 0:23:42.760 Really? 0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:44.760 All right, my bunny? 0:23:44.760 --> 0:23:47.880 But ap okay, all right, so you don't have any 0:23:47.920 --> 0:23:51.159 living thing that requires you to be all right? 0:23:51.240 --> 0:23:54.320 So yeah, this is a living thing. But great, that's fine. 0:23:54.400 --> 0:23:58.520 Yeah, but you know, going on benders, I think there's 0:23:58.560 --> 0:24:01.320 a Look, here's the thing. We all have it in us, right, 0:24:01.400 --> 0:24:03.640 and we got we all gotta get it out right, 0:24:04.200 --> 0:24:07.919 and I better to get it out now when you 0:24:07.960 --> 0:24:11.119 nobody gives this shit exactly like you know. Look, if 0:24:11.160 --> 0:24:12.960 you were forty five and you had two kids and 0:24:13.000 --> 0:24:14.639 they were starving and you were out at the club, 0:24:14.680 --> 0:24:16.679 that'd q that'd be a little questionable. 0:24:16.720 --> 0:24:19.440 But you're fine. Who cares go get drunk, Go live 0:24:19.440 --> 0:24:20.159 your life. 0:24:19.960 --> 0:24:20.640 That's what I'm saying. 0:24:20.720 --> 0:24:23.280 I mean, don't you know there's a balance right because 0:24:23.280 --> 0:24:25.879 you want to you don't want to get drunk and 0:24:25.920 --> 0:24:27.600 live your life too much and then you realize you 0:24:27.640 --> 0:24:28.520 never did anything with it. 0:24:28.600 --> 0:24:30.600 Get out the way now when I'm like twenty one and. 0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:33.160 Have it like in me, how have the vendor's been going? 0:24:33.160 --> 0:24:33.720 You having fun? 0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:36.400 I've been having a lot of fun. Yeah, okay, yeah, 0:24:36.400 --> 0:24:39.399 I'm about a drink. I actually just smoked before this. Okay, 0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:40.360 get on here. 0:24:40.400 --> 0:24:42.600 But it's not illegal. I don't think nah, I don't 0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:43.160 think it's legal. 0:24:43.359 --> 0:24:46.080 This guy over here, I'm here with this guy from Amsterdam. 0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:49.199 Honest, Oh he looks a little Dutch. How do you 0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:50.240 know this Dutch guy? 0:24:50.400 --> 0:24:54.159 That's how we know each other? Uh tinder so close 0:24:54.359 --> 0:24:57.240 hinge We met on Hinge. Okay, I this is our 0:24:57.240 --> 0:24:59.240 first time meeting. We've been talking for like, oh. 0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:03.400 This is his first time meeting like so long. 0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:04.520 This is our first time meeting. 0:25:04.680 --> 0:25:06.360 Okay, do you want to come up? Do you want 0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:06.640 to talk? 0:25:06.800 --> 0:25:09.120 Come here? Come here? 0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:13.919 You don't want to you have a come up? Is you? 0:25:14.080 --> 0:25:15.159 I mean you know, if you don't have to, you 0:25:15.160 --> 0:25:16.760 don't want to. I don't guys. 0:25:16.760 --> 0:25:19.359 This is what his name is? 0:25:19.359 --> 0:25:19.720 All right? 0:25:19.920 --> 0:25:20.560 What's his name? 0:25:20.960 --> 0:25:21.240 Glue? 0:25:21.320 --> 0:25:21.600 Glue? 0:25:21.840 --> 0:25:22.000 Is that? 0:25:22.000 --> 0:25:25.240 I'm gonna guess. Really funny, hold on, I'm gonna guess. 0:25:25.240 --> 0:25:27.679 His name is Dufinlage. 0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:30.520 What what is it? 0:25:30.520 --> 0:25:34.160 It's tunis Lute. His first name, tunis Loute. 0:25:34.320 --> 0:25:34.520 See. 0:25:34.560 --> 0:25:36.680 You can make fun of Europeans because they've been Dick's 0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:40.280 for all of history. You can make fun of Americans 0:25:40.280 --> 0:25:43.520 and Europeans because they've all they've just been assholes for 0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:44.040 the whole time. 0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:46.760 Nah, i'd be saying, I don't know what you're saying. 0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:48.760 You hang it in at Urgan. So that's kind of fun. 0:25:48.960 --> 0:25:52.480 Yeah, I love you too, man, Thank you very much. 0:25:52.480 --> 0:25:55.800 What okay, wait, wait, what's his name again? Tunis Lute? 0:25:55.840 --> 0:25:59.720 Tunis lute? That's cool. Do you get free healthcare? He 0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:01.560 gets free healthcare. We can make fun of him. 0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:05.320 You don't get free healthcare in the Netherlands. 0:26:05.880 --> 0:26:08.920 I mean, I don't want to. If you don't want 0:26:08.920 --> 0:26:11.760 to talk on the microphone. I can't. He can't here, 0:26:11.920 --> 0:26:14.600 hold on, I'll talk. I'll just talk to you. If 0:26:14.640 --> 0:26:16.360 he's not gonna talk on the microphone, I don't want 0:26:16.359 --> 0:26:16.639 to talk to. 0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:18.439 Him, but it's okay. 0:26:18.600 --> 0:26:20.200 Yeah, I mean I do want. I want to talk 0:26:20.240 --> 0:26:20.560 to you. 0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:23.600 But if he doesn't want to talk, but you're you're like, 0:26:23.680 --> 0:26:25.640 it's like talking to a ghost right now. If I'm 0:26:25.640 --> 0:26:27.359 talking to you and you're over there and I can't, 0:26:28.080 --> 0:26:30.680 it's okay, it's all right. I'll talk to you. Nor 0:26:30.680 --> 0:26:33.640 I'll talk to I'll okay, So nor out of the question. 0:26:33.680 --> 0:26:35.720 Toutis lose out of the question. Okay, So you met 0:26:35.760 --> 0:26:39.760 this Amsterdami and man, Yeah, I'm hinge, right, Okay, how's 0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:40.800 hinge going for you? 0:26:41.040 --> 0:26:43.800 I'm actually two weeks two months sober off hinge. 0:26:44.000 --> 0:26:45.920 But so are you? Okuys you met this guy first 0:26:45.960 --> 0:26:48.920 on hinge. You guys were texting for a while. Yeah, okay, I. 0:26:48.840 --> 0:26:51.800 Mean I'm a hingebop. I can't lie I'm a hingebop. 0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:53.400 What's a hingebop? 0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:55.720 I'm just using hinge too much? Like why am I 0:26:55.760 --> 0:26:56.680 on hinge so much? 0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:56.960 You know? 0:26:57.200 --> 0:26:59.880 That's okay? I use I use Hinge a lot too, dude. 0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.560 It's it's dangerous. You get on there and then like 0:27:02.600 --> 0:27:04.520 you just start talking all these like I used to 0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:06.520 be an amagal kid. I used to be one of 0:27:06.520 --> 0:27:10.119 the Yeah, so this is like a megal but like 0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:14.160 low key, like attracted people and like consentually seeing dick 0:27:14.400 --> 0:27:14.600 you know. 0:27:14.920 --> 0:27:19.800 Okay, but okay, yeah, how are you? 0:27:19.840 --> 0:27:23.360 Are you enjoying the hinge life? 0:27:23.960 --> 0:27:25.959 I'm not enjoying hinge. That's why I deleted it. 0:27:26.080 --> 0:27:27.479 Okay, cool, How's how has it been? 0:27:28.000 --> 0:27:28.720 Thoughts on hinge? 0:27:28.880 --> 0:27:29.640 Sorry the crowd? 0:27:29.680 --> 0:27:33.120 Hold wait, we're we're having a conversation. I can't talk 0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:35.040 to that. I can't talk to them. They're not I 0:27:35.080 --> 0:27:41.400 only have I only have two microphones. Okay, okay, hold on, So. 0:27:41.720 --> 0:27:43.359 Give me your thoughts on hinge. Like, I know you 0:27:43.520 --> 0:27:45.159 use it, but like, what are your thoughts? Like I 0:27:45.200 --> 0:27:46.720 feel like it's a scam. 0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:48.879 I have a lot of thoughts on hinge. One is 0:27:48.960 --> 0:27:53.520 I think hinge has changed? First of all, as I 0:27:53.640 --> 0:27:56.840 use Hinge, I'm fully realizing and understanding that it is. 0:27:58.320 --> 0:27:59.760 Hey, there's pros and constant hinge. 0:28:00.000 --> 0:28:01.679 One of the cons is that as I'm using it 0:28:01.720 --> 0:28:03.199 and the longer I use it, the more I'm like, 0:28:03.240 --> 0:28:05.680 this is doing something irreversibly damaging to my brain. 0:28:05.760 --> 0:28:07.040 Oh for sure, it's. 0:28:06.960 --> 0:28:09.560 Like the validation and then like low key, this is 0:28:09.600 --> 0:28:13.120 so on a pocket not every Okay, no one's ugly. 0:28:13.160 --> 0:28:14.840 They're just not my type, right, but i'd be getting 0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:17.720 the craziest people liking my hands when I'm like dog, 0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:19.760 like i think I'm chopped, Like. 0:28:20.200 --> 0:28:22.480 Well no, well, well okay, so there's. 0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:25.080 Subjectively but like still I'm like dog, I think this 0:28:25.160 --> 0:28:26.560 is a scam, and I think they're trying to get 0:28:26.560 --> 0:28:28.000 you to pay for Hinge premium. 0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:29.399 Of course, they're trying to get you to pay for 0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:29.920 Hinge previous. 0:28:29.960 --> 0:28:32.000 Look that, bro, I'm gonna go out to the bar 0:28:32.040 --> 0:28:34.119 and find my husband. Like that's what I'm gonna do, Well, 0:28:34.720 --> 0:28:36.520 Hinge exactly, That's what I'm gonna That's what I'm doing. 0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:40.040 But also also people dog pusing, people dog on dating apps, 0:28:40.040 --> 0:28:42.320 and there's good reasons why people dog today. But like 0:28:42.400 --> 0:28:47.480 everything every part of life, every every era of life, 0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:51.080 like okay, the nineteen hundreds, right you or like whatever, 0:28:51.200 --> 0:28:53.920 like when when we lived in villages, It's like, okay, 0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:56.440 we used to live in I'm talking completely out of 0:28:56.440 --> 0:28:58.400 my asshole right now. But we used to It used 0:28:58.400 --> 0:29:01.280 to be you, they're was it. There was another girl 0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:03.240 in the village or another boy in the village, and 0:29:03.280 --> 0:29:06.080 they were the only person that you had sex with forever, 0:29:06.160 --> 0:29:10.200 and then you died, And that has its pros and cons. Right, Okay, 0:29:10.680 --> 0:29:12.560 you know that has his pros and cons. And then 0:29:12.600 --> 0:29:16.680 there's hinge and you can have your infinite your perceived 0:29:16.760 --> 0:29:19.200 choice of an infinite amount of people to have sex 0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:21.640 with their date or get married too, and that has 0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:24.960 its pros and cons, so that there's no better or worse. 0:29:25.160 --> 0:29:30.080 Wait, like Swiss topics. So you see how we have 0:29:30.160 --> 0:29:30.880 all those options. 0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:31.040 Though. 0:29:31.080 --> 0:29:33.600 That's why New York City is the worst fucking dating pool. 0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:39.040 Whycause but that's not an objectively bad or good thing. 0:29:40.320 --> 0:29:43.320 I think everyone is fucking situation shipts central. Right now, 0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:46.640 riddle me that weather boy, well, gecko boy, I don't know. 0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:48.960 Yeah, say this again. 0:29:49.760 --> 0:29:55.840 Why do you think, like, no, it's situationship central. Well, 0:29:56.160 --> 0:29:57.520 it's like too hard to make a choice. 0:29:58.200 --> 0:30:00.120 Yeah, sure, but it depends on who you are, and 0:30:00.120 --> 0:30:02.000 it depends on what you value. Right, because there's something 0:30:02.120 --> 0:30:03.520 Let me ask you a question, because there's some people 0:30:03.520 --> 0:30:05.400 who are different. Well I'm not I mean, you can 0:30:05.440 --> 0:30:09.200 answer this specifically, but there's some people who they want 0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:12.320 a wide variety of connections throughout their life, and there's 0:30:12.360 --> 0:30:15.080 some people who want just one. And then you know, 0:30:15.240 --> 0:30:17.360 you get the opportunity to connect with people you would 0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:20.200 have never connected with before through these apps, I guess. 0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:24.360 And yes, there is a paradox of choice that it presents, 0:30:24.360 --> 0:30:27.080 and that's a legitimate paradox of choice. But you know, 0:30:27.160 --> 0:30:29.800 it's just a new thing that has its pros and cons, 0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:31.240 just like the old things had. 0:30:31.400 --> 0:30:34.280 But like, would you rather just like NonStop, like be 0:30:34.400 --> 0:30:36.840 talking to all these people wasting your energy and they're 0:30:36.880 --> 0:30:39.400 like you never find the right person because like it's 0:30:39.520 --> 0:30:42.320 just like everything is so unseerious and like there's so 0:30:42.400 --> 0:30:44.640 much short term gratification from those apps. 0:30:44.720 --> 0:30:46.240 I agree, I agree with everything you're saying. 0:30:46.440 --> 0:30:49.000 Yeah, and I agree that having an endless amount of 0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:51.160 choices and talking to another of people, I agree that 0:30:51.200 --> 0:30:54.320 it's emotionally taxing. But again it's pros and cons because 0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:57.280 think about like those think about like these old couples 0:30:57.560 --> 0:30:59.360 who hate each other. Do you have you ever met 0:30:59.600 --> 0:31:02.040 to parents are divorced Okay, your parents, did your parents 0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:03.840 when you your grub, did your parents like hate each 0:31:03.840 --> 0:31:04.480 other a little bit? 0:31:04.960 --> 0:31:06.440 Okay, so your your. 0:31:06.280 --> 0:31:12.160 Parents probably grew up without this paradox of choice. And 0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:15.160 so the people used to just get married to whoever 0:31:15.320 --> 0:31:19.160 was fucking around, right, so that had that was a 0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:21.520 pro There was pros to that. It was two people 0:31:21.760 --> 0:31:23.880 and there was no decision paralysis and they just had 0:31:23.880 --> 0:31:25.400 to fucking sit and make it work. 0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:27.640 And there's something really beautiful and amazing about that. 0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:30.520 But there's a sort of con of like, you know, 0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:32.719 all of a sudden, we're trapped in this thing that 0:31:32.760 --> 0:31:34.760 we got into because we was just the thing that 0:31:34.840 --> 0:31:37.040 was there. And so again, all these things they have 0:31:37.080 --> 0:31:41.040 pros and cons. So you now have the opportunity to 0:31:41.080 --> 0:31:45.480 sift through hundreds of different dudes to see which one 0:31:45.600 --> 0:31:48.440 is the one that you feel the most naturally aligned to, 0:31:48.720 --> 0:31:53.200 which is emotionally taxing but also is better than you 0:31:53.360 --> 0:31:56.600 just you know, being with the first guy that was around, 0:31:56.760 --> 0:31:57.960 and it was maybe not the right. 0:31:58.680 --> 0:32:00.959 These people and like you can break up whatever. But 0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:03.520 like what I liked about pre dating apps is like 0:32:03.520 --> 0:32:06.280 when you met someone, it was like I believe in 0:32:06.320 --> 0:32:08.200 the fact that like things are meant to be, so 0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:09.800 I feel like you were meant to meet that person. 0:32:09.840 --> 0:32:13.000 It's like destiny or whatever. So I don't know, i'd 0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:16.000 prefer that over Hinge and like Tinder like that. The 0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:19.320 options are nice, but that's my hot take. 0:32:19.440 --> 0:32:23.640 I don't know if I believe in something really no universe. 0:32:23.680 --> 0:32:25.240 I think I'm sitting here right now. I feel like 0:32:25.280 --> 0:32:27.560 the universe like why am I here? Like imagine if 0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:29.240 I came like a few hours later or a few 0:32:29.280 --> 0:32:31.200 hours earlier, I would to have been sitting here. 0:32:31.200 --> 0:32:33.560 I sure that somebody else would be and I'd be 0:32:33.720 --> 0:32:35.440 doing that and you'd be doing something else. 0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:39.080 True, but like it's like we're interacting right now, so 0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.080 it's like it means something, you know, Like I feel 0:32:41.080 --> 0:32:41.640 like we're. 0:32:41.480 --> 0:32:43.520 Meant to like it means whatever we want it to mean. 0:32:43.760 --> 0:32:46.920 There's no the universe has no laws. Okay, there's no 0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:49.320 judge jury of the universe. Right, you're the judge and 0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:51.360 jury in God of your own life, which means that 0:32:51.440 --> 0:32:54.640 you can derive meaning from whatever you choose to be 0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:56.960 and it's inherently valid because you're God. 0:32:57.400 --> 0:32:59.440 But I like co star decide that for me. I 0:32:59.440 --> 0:33:01.760 don't really do that deciding what coast You don't know 0:33:01.760 --> 0:33:02.240 what coastar? 0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:03.440 Wait? Astrology? 0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:07.000 Yes, okay, it's probably a fucking scam, but I use that. 0:33:07.160 --> 0:33:08.080 Do you pay premium? 0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:10.360 No? I don't pay premium. I just like make it 0:33:10.440 --> 0:33:13.520 go along. I'm like, if I see something and it's like, oh, 0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:16.160 do it gives you like three dus three domes? Right? 0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:18.360 What are your three dues and three dots of the day. 0:33:18.760 --> 0:33:20.560 This is not an ad for coast Star, by the way, 0:33:20.560 --> 0:33:22.680 this is a completely random thing. 0:33:23.160 --> 0:33:25.440 Oh my god. Wait, my ex texted me. I haven't 0:33:25.440 --> 0:33:26.320 talked to him in two years. 0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:27.560 Wait your sex? You just now? 0:33:27.720 --> 0:33:27.880 Yes? 0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:35.959 I showed my should I read this? Okay, standard first generation? 0:33:36.040 --> 0:33:37.640 I don't even know what that means. Anyways, let's see 0:33:37.640 --> 0:33:38.120 what our thing is. 0:33:38.200 --> 0:33:39.760 Okay for today? 0:33:39.920 --> 0:33:42.760 Okay, guys, My co star for today is love is 0:33:42.800 --> 0:33:45.640 when a question mark feels more like a period. Oh dude, 0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:49.760 friend zone, borrowed items, hold hands, don't hot takes nitpicks? 0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:51.920 Wait, I said, wait, let me look at this again. 0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:52.880 Oh my god. 0:33:53.040 --> 0:33:55.800 Okay, hold on, Okay, so the okay, So this is 0:33:55.920 --> 0:33:58.280 cost Star. This is not an ad, but co Star 0:33:58.400 --> 0:34:01.800 is like an astrology app. And what's your what's your sign? 0:34:02.080 --> 0:34:02.800 I'm a cancer? 0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:06.360 Okay? So this is so every cancer who has this app. 0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:09.400 Gets this, Yes, every cancer, but not technically every cancer. 0:34:09.440 --> 0:34:11.160 It goes based on like when you were born, what 0:34:11.239 --> 0:34:12.160 city you were born in? 0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:14.439 Okay, so you gave co Star all this shit? 0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:16.839 Yeah, like, oh, you gave it your social Security number 0:34:16.840 --> 0:34:18.800 and it was like, here's what is going on with you? 0:34:18.840 --> 0:34:21.200 Don't I don't even realized I carried my social Security 0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:23.480 number on me up until like last week. It was 0:34:23.520 --> 0:34:24.799 in my wallet. I didn't know that. 0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:27.359 I didn't know that, all right, So I'm gonna let 0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:30.000 me read this, Okay. So love is when a question 0:34:30.000 --> 0:34:33.040 mark feels more like a period. Stop hunting for hitting meetings. 0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:36.200 In your partner's words, your suspicion is creating the very 0:34:36.200 --> 0:34:37.080 distance you fear. 0:34:37.200 --> 0:34:37.399 Woo. 0:34:38.200 --> 0:34:41.600 Okay, co Star, this is definitely written by Ai. Okay, 0:34:41.680 --> 0:34:47.799 So dudes, friend zone, borrowed items, holding hands, don't hot takes, nitpicks, 0:34:48.360 --> 0:34:52.480 strong sense, Okay do you So what do you do 0:34:52.560 --> 0:34:53.280 with this information? 0:34:53.440 --> 0:34:55.919 I mean, I feel like it goes pretty accurately because 0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:58.080 I'm here with a guy from Hinge and we're friends now, 0:34:58.160 --> 0:35:00.000 so I feel like it's already going in the red direct. 0:35:00.400 --> 0:35:00.839 That's cool. 0:35:00.920 --> 0:35:05.120 Yeah, this guy, this is the this is such a standard, 0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:08.280 polite European man, just standing there. 0:35:08.320 --> 0:35:10.320 So scared of me. He was like, I'm so scared 0:35:10.360 --> 0:35:13.319 to meet you. I don't want dude looking at your 0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:13.960 face right now? 0:35:14.120 --> 0:35:18.080 Is so? Why did he say he was scared of you? 0:35:18.160 --> 0:35:19.440 Why wouldn't he be scared of me? 0:35:19.640 --> 0:35:19.680 Like? 0:35:19.719 --> 0:35:21.839 Why wouldn't What reasons do you believe him? 0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:23.560 So many reasons? Why are you scared of me? Give 0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:24.000 me some reason. 0:35:24.280 --> 0:35:25.080 We can't talk to him. 0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:26.800 He doesn't want to be talked to, and he doesn't 0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:29.560 have a microphone where I'm all, I can only learn 0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:32.640 about him vicariously through you. Why why what reasons have 0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:33.839 you given him to be scared of you? 0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:36.960 Probably because I'm like loud and crazy and I like, 0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:39.040 oh my god, I loke. He did block him for 0:35:39.080 --> 0:35:41.120 a month when I was in Norway, I got mad 0:35:41.120 --> 0:35:41.440 at him. 0:35:41.480 --> 0:35:42.960 Why did you get mad at him when you were 0:35:42.960 --> 0:35:43.480 in Norway? 0:35:44.040 --> 0:35:44.239 Oh? 0:35:44.320 --> 0:35:45.640 Was he supposed to go? Were you supposed to go 0:35:45.680 --> 0:35:47.120 to Norway? I'm not gonna talk to you. Was he 0:35:47.120 --> 0:35:48.040 supposed to go to Norway? 0:35:48.440 --> 0:35:48.840 I didn't know. 0:35:48.880 --> 0:35:51.600 I guess he was supposed to go to Norway to 0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:53.840 visit you not to kind. 0:35:53.600 --> 0:35:56.640 Of it was like kind of you were gonna go 0:35:56.640 --> 0:35:59.000 to Oslo and then you bailed. But it's not. 0:35:59.120 --> 0:36:04.440 It's it's what's his name again, dude, that's like the 0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:06.719 name that's like the fucking that's like the kid from 0:36:06.719 --> 0:36:07.400 Willy Wonka. 0:36:07.440 --> 0:36:09.080 Dude, that's like an Augustus. 0:36:08.560 --> 0:36:11.319 Gloop, like you're talking to Like back in the day, 0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:13.160 they were like, you're talking to someone named Tunis Lupe. 0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:13.960 Please stand up. 0:36:14.840 --> 0:36:16.640 No, this guy is all. This guy is a great guy. 0:36:16.680 --> 0:36:19.400 I hope, I really hope you don't kill him. 0:36:19.560 --> 0:36:23.600 Am I gonna am I gonna kill you? No, he's 0:36:23.680 --> 0:36:26.680 I'm not gonna kill him confirmed, So I'm not gonna 0:36:26.719 --> 0:36:27.080 kill him. 0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:31.040 Guys, So, okay, So you've been going out to the 0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:33.920 club a lot. Is what's going on at the club. 0:36:35.440 --> 0:36:38.040 It's it's just really fun, dude, why not go to 0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:40.120 the club with you? You need to go to the 0:36:40.120 --> 0:36:40.880 club in this get up. 0:36:41.760 --> 0:36:42.239 I've done that. 0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:43.759 You would pull, you would pull. 0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:45.279 I've gone to the club in this get up. 0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:47.800 Dude. You gotta go to Bushwick. They would eat you 0:36:47.920 --> 0:36:48.239 up there. 0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:52.160 I don't know if. 0:36:52.719 --> 0:36:55.640 Bwick is like I it's not even like. 0:36:59.200 --> 0:37:00.640 With all the clubs. 0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:04.160 Okay, I've gone there once or twice, dude, yes, right 0:37:04.360 --> 0:37:05.000 house of Yes. 0:37:05.080 --> 0:37:08.360 Oh no, no, no, you're thinking more so like near Jefferson. 0:37:08.440 --> 0:37:10.160 Right house of Yes. This is near Jefferson. 0:37:10.320 --> 0:37:12.359 H huh. I mean I'm not a big club guy. 0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:13.280 I don't like dance. 0:37:13.600 --> 0:37:15.239 I don't I've never really been a house of Yes. 0:37:15.360 --> 0:37:17.000 So it's like, I don't know if anyone here has. 0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:20.680 But yeah, okay, So what's what's your name again? Nor? 0:37:20.400 --> 0:37:20.560 Nor? 0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:20.919 Nor? 0:37:21.000 --> 0:37:23.120 So what's uh? What's the future look like for you? 0:37:23.160 --> 0:37:23.399 Nor? 0:37:23.440 --> 0:37:25.520 The future looks like for me. I'm gonna start school. 0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:27.360 I have to clean my room. I've been sleeping on 0:37:27.400 --> 0:37:30.759 a bed that's slanted like this Free Palestine. I don't 0:37:30.760 --> 0:37:32.680 know if I could be political on this, bitch, but yeah, 0:37:32.920 --> 0:37:37.480 what he said, Yeah, I'm gonna clean my room. Oh 0:37:37.480 --> 0:37:38.760 and then I'm going to Maine tomorrow. 0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:41.920 I forgot you forgot you were going to Maine tom Yeah, 0:37:42.000 --> 0:37:42.880 how do you forget a ticket? 0:37:42.960 --> 0:37:43.640 Like three days ago? 0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:44.560 What are you doing in Maine? 0:37:44.760 --> 0:37:46.200 My friend Georgia just moved there. 0:37:46.400 --> 0:37:48.799 Shout out Georgia, Shout out Georgia. Is he coming with? 0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:51.399 Is two for coming with? I don't know two for. 0:37:51.400 --> 0:37:54.120 Is not coming with I think I think Tunis is 0:37:54.120 --> 0:37:56.000 never gonna hang out with me again after this. He's 0:37:56.000 --> 0:37:56.920 probably really scared. 0:37:57.000 --> 0:37:58.200 I really, are you sure you don't? 0:37:58.239 --> 0:38:00.879 Can you tell what you talk afterwards? 0:38:01.040 --> 0:38:03.080 Okay? All right, wait nor wait nor can you hand 0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:03.920 the mic to Tunis? 0:38:03.960 --> 0:38:05.600 Okay, guys, this going to Tunis? 0:38:05.800 --> 0:38:06.120 Okay? 0:38:07.000 --> 0:38:10.600 Yeah, I have a seed, have a set, Okay, Tunisis, Tunis, 0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:11.480 nice to be you, Tunas. 0:38:11.480 --> 0:38:12.960 Sorry for making fun of your name. 0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:14.799 That's okay. Yeah, I need to get used to it 0:38:14.840 --> 0:38:15.080 a bit. 0:38:15.239 --> 0:38:18.040 I I I love Amsterdam. I've been there like three times, 0:38:18.239 --> 0:38:20.400 two shows. There's a great time. Shout up Boom. You 0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:21.480 ever been to Boom Chicago? 0:38:22.120 --> 0:38:22.279 No? 0:38:22.600 --> 0:38:24.720 Oh, I did a show there. It's a good time. Anyway, 0:38:24.760 --> 0:38:27.360 it gives a shit me. Okay, So what are you 0:38:27.400 --> 0:38:28.239 doing in America? 0:38:28.320 --> 0:38:28.560 Well? 0:38:28.600 --> 0:38:30.719 I just moved there? Actually, Oh really, I was here 0:38:30.760 --> 0:38:31.240 in March. 0:38:31.360 --> 0:38:36.360 I auditioned to music school cool play drums cool, and 0:38:36.440 --> 0:38:40.359 now I'm going to city college here. Yeah that's why 0:38:40.360 --> 0:38:41.879 I'm here. So now I live here? 0:38:41.920 --> 0:38:43.360 What made you wanna? 0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:43.560 So? 0:38:43.600 --> 0:38:46.200 Despite everything? You were like, yeah, I'll come to America. 0:38:47.040 --> 0:38:51.680 Yeah, it's a bit crazy, but uh, I come here, 0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:53.960 Like it's been a kind of in my head for 0:38:53.960 --> 0:38:57.239 a really long time because I studied jazz, I wanna 0:38:57.480 --> 0:39:00.400 and this is like the you know, the place for uh, 0:39:01.400 --> 0:39:05.080 for jazz music. It's the it's super nice New York. Yeah, 0:39:05.120 --> 0:39:07.600 so that's why I wanted to come here basically, And 0:39:08.480 --> 0:39:10.799 I don't know. I figured I just try and you 0:39:10.840 --> 0:39:14.800 cannot plan on yeah things sometimes. 0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:19.279 So so how does New York compare to Amsterdam? 0:39:19.440 --> 0:39:21.920 I mean Amsterdam is just totally different. 0:39:21.960 --> 0:39:25.600 I feel it's very like small compared to here, Like 0:39:26.120 --> 0:39:29.880 I bike everywhere, you know, like you can walk most places, like, 0:39:30.400 --> 0:39:32.839 I mean, the layout is more it's like a half circle, right, 0:39:32.920 --> 0:39:37.640 I mean, here's like straight lines most like up and down. 0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:39.000 Like. 0:39:39.080 --> 0:39:41.080 So, so, what what happened in Norway? 0:39:41.680 --> 0:39:42.080 Nothing? 0:39:42.239 --> 0:39:47.680 I mean, so okay, I will tell my story. 0:39:49.480 --> 0:39:50.240 Yeah what happened? 0:39:51.360 --> 0:39:54.399 Well nothing because I was like, okay, So I came 0:39:54.440 --> 0:39:58.840 here in March and I had hinges and then basically 0:39:59.239 --> 0:40:01.320 I saw a picture she was in Sandum, which is 0:40:01.400 --> 0:40:04.200 my hometown, and I was like, whoa, you're why were 0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:07.920 you in Sandum because that's I just recognized the background. 0:40:07.920 --> 0:40:10.600 It's really random. I was like, wow, what we're in 0:40:10.640 --> 0:40:13.640 Sandom and then we met, but then she just came 0:40:13.640 --> 0:40:16.800 back from Amstem and I was just leaving back home basically, 0:40:17.760 --> 0:40:20.600 and then I mean we stayed in touch and you 0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:22.880 were like I want to go to Epstein, but I 0:40:22.920 --> 0:40:25.200 was like like I don't. 0:40:25.040 --> 0:40:26.120 Know like how to say. 0:40:26.280 --> 0:40:29.480 Yeah I was, and now I can't talk to you 0:40:29.560 --> 0:40:29.960 and everyone. 0:40:30.160 --> 0:40:32.880 Yeah, so I was like, you know, like if I 0:40:32.920 --> 0:40:36.200 go to New York, we'll just have We'll just meet 0:40:36.280 --> 0:40:36.839 in New York. 0:40:36.920 --> 0:40:40.280 Like, so, wait, is you guys first time ever meeting? Yeah, 0:40:41.320 --> 0:40:41.879 how's it gone. 0:40:42.280 --> 0:40:46.440 Well, it's like it's been like like literally one minute 0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:47.359 and then we saw you. 0:40:48.360 --> 0:40:52.040 So it's like I'm severely interrupting this first meeting. 0:40:52.200 --> 0:40:54.399 We're more we're conversing through you now. 0:40:54.520 --> 0:40:57.799 Oh okay, I see, yeah, I see, It's okay, Yeah, okay. 0:40:57.800 --> 0:40:59.480 Wait wait, so we just talked about me and Nora 0:40:59.520 --> 0:41:01.839 talked about here for a while, talking about your view 0:41:01.880 --> 0:41:02.800 on on Hinge. 0:41:03.239 --> 0:41:06.120 I mean, it's I don't know. 0:41:06.160 --> 0:41:10.040 I also haven't been on it for I guess since 0:41:10.160 --> 0:41:13.080 March kind of almost or like no, it's short, it's 0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:13.520 a bit. 0:41:14.960 --> 0:41:18.000 April or something, Okay, but yeah, I don't know. 0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:21.239 It's are you looking for love? Do you want to 0:41:21.320 --> 0:41:23.800 like get married and have children and stuff at some point? 0:41:23.920 --> 0:41:26.799 Yes, okay, but uh, I mean yeah I was on 0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:31.200 it and then it's like it didn't make me super happy. 0:41:31.239 --> 0:41:33.880 I mean, you meet people like I wouldn't have met you, 0:41:34.040 --> 0:41:37.280 Like I met a lot of people just through Hinge. 0:41:37.640 --> 0:41:41.920 But like it doesn't mean like it's what you make 0:41:42.000 --> 0:41:42.239 of it. 0:41:42.360 --> 0:41:46.000 I feel, what gives meaning to a relation, Like you 0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:48.040 can just be friends or you can I mean, maybe 0:41:48.080 --> 0:41:53.120 you like someone and you will Like it's just facilitating, 0:41:53.160 --> 0:41:55.799 but it's also a bit manipulative in the way it's 0:41:55.840 --> 0:42:00.960 made because it's still like like, yeah, someone is making 0:42:01.000 --> 0:42:03.960 money off of is monetizing off of this platform, right, 0:42:04.000 --> 0:42:08.600 So I feel inherently it's a bit like you shouldn't 0:42:08.640 --> 0:42:10.719 trust it always, you know what I mean, Like. 0:42:10.800 --> 0:42:16.239 I see, yeah, but people have been monetizing this stuff forever, right, 0:42:16.360 --> 0:42:18.320 I mean I don't know, Like what about those guys 0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:20.640 who come up to you at the park and they're 0:42:20.680 --> 0:42:23.720 like a rose for the lady, you know, like people 0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:26.399 do that, and like it's actually it's very funny because 0:42:26.400 --> 0:42:29.400 on Hinge you can buy roses, right, and it prompts you. 0:42:29.440 --> 0:42:31.080 It says, do you want to buy a rose? And 0:42:31.120 --> 0:42:33.640 there are places where you go like like this is 0:42:33.640 --> 0:42:35.279 in a lot of like parks in Europe, right, there's 0:42:35.320 --> 0:42:36.759 like dudes handing out. 0:42:36.760 --> 0:42:37.400 They're like dudes. 0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:38.799 They'll go up to like a couple and they'll be 0:42:38.840 --> 0:42:40.480 like a rose for the lady and they're like in 0:42:40.480 --> 0:42:41.440 real life, try to. 0:42:41.360 --> 0:42:43.920 Get yeah around to buy a rose. So you know, 0:42:44.040 --> 0:42:44.839 it's nothing new. 0:42:44.960 --> 0:42:47.040 You can flip it like it's yeah, in a way, 0:42:47.080 --> 0:42:49.640 it's this is similar. But I feel because I don't know, 0:42:49.719 --> 0:42:50.799 I don't really have a strong up. 0:42:51.480 --> 0:42:53.040 I feel you used to do whatever you want. 0:42:53.080 --> 0:42:56.960 Basically like if you feel good with hinge, you should 0:42:57.080 --> 0:43:00.480 use it. Like but also it's very it can be addictive, 0:43:00.520 --> 0:43:02.560 you know, Like that's for me, Like that was why 0:43:03.239 --> 0:43:05.120 it was better to just not use it. 0:43:06.400 --> 0:43:08.479 Yeah it can it can be, yeah, like. 0:43:08.400 --> 0:43:10.160 It has many sides. I don't know. 0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:13.720 So are you guys gonna go out to the club? 0:43:14.719 --> 0:43:15.200 Are you club? 0:43:15.520 --> 0:43:18.040 I'm not like a club person, to be honest, Like. 0:43:18.000 --> 0:43:18.839 You're not a club guy? 0:43:19.040 --> 0:43:19.120 No? 0:43:19.719 --> 0:43:21.880 Yeah, you ever been. 0:43:21.760 --> 0:43:24.080 To uh Paradise so that. 0:43:24.160 --> 0:43:27.480 Was called so yeah, yeah, yeah I've been there. Yeah 0:43:27.520 --> 0:43:28.000 that's nice. 0:43:28.080 --> 0:43:29.879 That's where I did mdm A for the very first 0:43:29.920 --> 0:43:32.680 time there really. Yeah, like seven years ago you. 0:43:32.640 --> 0:43:34.399 Were there in the crowd. 0:43:34.840 --> 0:43:37.160 Yeah, I was there for the Amsterdam Dance event like 0:43:37.280 --> 0:43:40.000 seven years ago. Yeah, that was a that was a 0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:41.120 crazy night of my life. 0:43:41.160 --> 0:43:41.960 That was a fun time. 0:43:42.040 --> 0:43:42.200 Man. 0:43:42.360 --> 0:43:45.200 Man is really nice. Yeah, it's I mean, yeah, it's 0:43:45.200 --> 0:43:47.680 really nice. Everything is kind of close, like you're in PARADISEA. 0:43:47.719 --> 0:43:50.239 You can go to lights, lights supply, you know, it's 0:43:50.239 --> 0:43:53.000 like where the clubs other clubs are like you can 0:43:53.040 --> 0:43:53.399 go out. 0:43:54.120 --> 0:43:55.520 It's really nice. Yeah. 0:43:55.840 --> 0:43:59.240 Okay, so what should uh? What? 0:43:59.239 --> 0:44:00.000 What do you? 0:44:00.080 --> 0:44:04.160 Uh? What do you what's better about America than Europe? 0:44:04.239 --> 0:44:05.480 Let us let us have something? 0:44:06.280 --> 0:44:09.680 Well, I don't know yet because I just I arrived Saturday. 0:44:10.160 --> 0:44:14.439 I mean I'm here for the music, like for jazz music. 0:44:14.600 --> 0:44:16.600 Have you there's a lot of really great jazz artists 0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:17.839 playing in the park all the time. 0:44:17.960 --> 0:44:20.719 Yeah, I haven't. I mean, I just I haven't seen 0:44:20.760 --> 0:44:23.960 it here. But I saw a guy playing the sexophone. 0:44:25.719 --> 0:44:26.960 Well listen, I don't want. 0:44:27.000 --> 0:44:29.000 I don't wanna. I'm gonna. I don't wanna. I don't wanna. 0:44:29.400 --> 0:44:32.040 Keep you guys waiting, is there? What's your name? In 0:44:33.239 --> 0:44:35.600 Tunis yea, Tunis, is there anything else you gonna say 0:44:35.600 --> 0:44:36.880 to the people of the computer before we go? 0:44:37.160 --> 0:44:38.560 No, h. 0:44:40.520 --> 0:44:44.280 Like, well, it's it's cool, like it's crazy meeting you. Actually, 0:44:44.320 --> 0:44:45.240 that's yeah. 0:44:45.760 --> 0:44:48.480 Crazy meat. Wait have you seen my show before? Yeah? 0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:53.640 Cool like Instagram or something. Okay, cool, Yeah you're talking 0:44:53.640 --> 0:44:58.080 to Mark Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah crazy. 0:44:58.400 --> 0:45:02.120 Yeah. He did a show over in parody, so I think. 0:45:02.080 --> 0:45:04.080 Really, wow, that's crazy. 0:45:04.160 --> 0:45:04.359 Yeah. 0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:06.960 I was in Japan one time and I went up 0:45:07.000 --> 0:45:09.399 the elevator from Sheba station and then he was. 0:45:09.360 --> 0:45:10.840 There calling someone. 0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:14.440 It's crazy, literally, so random, and then I think I 0:45:14.480 --> 0:45:16.000 discovered him at the same time as you. 0:45:16.800 --> 0:45:19.359 Well, I'm happy that we could you and I could 0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:21.919 finally cross paths from the Internet into real life. 0:45:22.000 --> 0:45:25.200 Yeah, well, well, thank you to Tunis. 0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:27.759 Tunis, Nora, you want, you want anything else you want 0:45:27.760 --> 0:45:28.480 to say to the people? 0:45:29.800 --> 0:45:31.920 I'm so hungry and Lilah's super awesome. 0:45:32.000 --> 0:45:33.560 Oh, thank you, Norah. Thank you guys. 0:45:33.560 --> 0:45:35.040 You guys have a good rest of you guys, have 0:45:35.080 --> 0:45:39.200 a good rest of your lives. Bye Nora, Bye, Tunis. 0:45:39.239 --> 0:45:40.560 I'll see you guys around the universe. 0:45:41.200 --> 0:45:42.719 Oh yeah, okay. 0:45:42.760 --> 0:45:47.279 Bye Tunis. Bye, guys. Have a seat what's your name? 0:45:48.160 --> 0:45:49.440 I'm Sarah, Sarah. 0:45:49.520 --> 0:45:54.160 My name is Lyle, So Sarah. Yeah, what's up the sky? 0:45:54.640 --> 0:45:56.720 You know, how's life? 0:45:57.880 --> 0:46:01.000 I just moved here last week? So yeah, no, it's 0:46:01.000 --> 0:46:01.880 been pretty hectic. 0:46:02.120 --> 0:46:06.520 What made you want to move to New York for college? Okayeah? 0:46:06.800 --> 0:46:09.040 You know the basic art school experience? 0:46:09.239 --> 0:46:09.560 Okay? 0:46:09.680 --> 0:46:11.120 So yeah, how what do you make art about? 0:46:12.160 --> 0:46:16.200 I mean, honestly, whatever makes money? Like I do like design, 0:46:16.480 --> 0:46:18.640 so like, yeah, I mean I do art for fun, 0:46:18.680 --> 0:46:20.879 but like I'm majoring in design because like I feel 0:46:20.920 --> 0:46:22.120 like that's more money making. 0:46:22.239 --> 0:46:25.680 Not gonna lie. Not no offense to the fine arts majors. 0:46:26.960 --> 0:46:32.080 So what kinds of things do you design to make money? 0:46:32.280 --> 0:46:35.359 Well, I mean I'm going to school for it right now. 0:46:35.360 --> 0:46:37.880 I haven't started working yet, okay, but like, I mean 0:46:37.920 --> 0:46:39.480 I enjoy like editorial design. 0:46:39.760 --> 0:46:40.399 It's pretty cool. 0:46:40.520 --> 0:46:41.480 Are these your homies? 0:46:41.880 --> 0:46:43.960 Yeah, they're also going to school here. 0:46:44.080 --> 0:46:45.600 Oh do you just meet them? No? 0:46:46.040 --> 0:46:48.360 We graduated together from high school. 0:46:48.400 --> 0:46:52.600 Ye okay, and and now you guys are going into 0:46:52.640 --> 0:46:53.360 college together. 0:46:54.040 --> 0:46:56.680 We're going to college together. She's going upstate. 0:46:56.840 --> 0:46:58.520 So are you guys like from New York? 0:46:58.960 --> 0:46:59.120 Oh? 0:46:59.160 --> 0:47:00.000 No, we're from Florid. 0:47:00.440 --> 0:47:02.239 Oh oh wait, so what's she doing here? Oh you're 0:47:02.280 --> 0:47:03.200 going to she's visiting. 0:47:03.280 --> 0:47:05.680 Wow, okay, you know why not? I didn't mean that 0:47:05.800 --> 0:47:10.839 like an accusat curious. Well, let's see Sarah. You said 0:47:10.840 --> 0:47:14.000 your name was. You have a lot of cool trinkets 0:47:14.040 --> 0:47:16.800 on your bag. You gotta you got three different bears, 0:47:16.880 --> 0:47:19.799 the two bears. Oh, you have a diet coke pin. 0:47:19.920 --> 0:47:22.919 I like that. Why are they laughing at that? Why 0:47:22.960 --> 0:47:24.360 is that so funny? I don't know that. 0:47:24.560 --> 0:47:26.400 I guess they hate me. They secretly they have. 0:47:26.640 --> 0:47:30.160 You have a diet coke pin? I love that. Actually, No, 0:47:30.200 --> 0:47:30.560 I'm not. 0:47:30.719 --> 0:47:32.640 Actually jingle around everywhere I go. 0:47:32.760 --> 0:47:34.680 So it's got a ribbon on it? 0:47:34.840 --> 0:47:36.279 Oh yeah, yeah, because why not. 0:47:36.840 --> 0:47:39.319 You've got Uma Thurman from pulp fiction. 0:47:39.480 --> 0:47:41.799 Mm hmmm. I actually dressed up as her one year. 0:47:41.880 --> 0:47:44.479 So yeah, did you have like the cocaine nose? 0:47:44.719 --> 0:47:47.640 Oh yeah, not real, not real. Just don't worry, don't worry. 0:47:47.640 --> 0:47:49.319 It was auth that you can do whatever you want 0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:49.719 with your life. 0:47:49.719 --> 0:47:50.080 I know. 0:47:50.360 --> 0:47:55.200 Yeah, cocaines don't do cocaine too much. Yeah, cocaine's like 0:47:55.239 --> 0:47:57.920 a little like fun. Cocaine's like very you don't want 0:47:57.920 --> 0:47:59.520 to like buy your own. 0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:00.720 Yeah, just like a sample. 0:48:00.880 --> 0:48:03.920 Yeah, like you'll you only want to do cocaine. 0:48:04.920 --> 0:48:08.279 Twice a year if you're in a weird situation where 0:48:08.280 --> 0:48:10.000 someone offers it to you, but it don't You don't 0:48:10.000 --> 0:48:10.200 want to. 0:48:10.200 --> 0:48:12.520 Go to You don't want to get into the red like. 0:48:12.480 --> 0:48:13.719 Buying it yourself, you know. 0:48:13.840 --> 0:48:14.080 Yeah? 0:48:14.239 --> 0:48:16.480 Yeah, what's the meaning of life? 0:48:19.760 --> 0:48:22.120 Drugs? Bitches and coke? 0:48:23.960 --> 0:48:24.440 Very cool? 0:48:25.320 --> 0:48:26.839 Sarah's anything else you want to say to the people 0:48:26.840 --> 0:48:30.120 of the computer before we go, Stay. 0:48:29.880 --> 0:48:31.920 In school, do what you want with your life? 0:48:32.239 --> 0:48:36.360 Yeah, Sarah forever? Yes for having of course, thank you 0:48:36.360 --> 0:48:37.600 for joining me on the Get Go show. 0:48:37.840 --> 0:48:38.280 Of course. 0:48:38.440 --> 0:48:41.279 Here you go, you sir, I see you. You come on, 0:48:41.400 --> 0:48:43.120 come on over, that's going. 0:48:43.160 --> 0:48:43.719 What's your name? 0:48:44.000 --> 0:48:44.799 Alex? Alex? 0:48:44.880 --> 0:48:47.160 Nice to meet you. Where we met before? Have we? 0:48:47.360 --> 0:48:51.120 Yeah? You know I remember you from where signs say. 0:48:51.000 --> 0:48:53.879 Oh right now, I'm giving a free dating advice many 0:48:53.920 --> 0:48:55.400 one of the many signs that I hold. 0:48:55.239 --> 0:48:56.440 Okay, yeah you I So. 0:48:56.480 --> 0:48:59.080 I come to this park like almost every day, okay, 0:48:59.400 --> 0:49:01.360 and you do you you're here a lot, right. 0:49:01.520 --> 0:49:03.280 I'm here like every weekend. 0:49:03.480 --> 0:49:06.719 Okay, and you hold up you make little content? Yeah, 0:49:06.800 --> 0:49:08.960 oh you Okay. Here's where we first met you have 0:49:09.120 --> 0:49:11.480 you held there's so many people watching. You held up 0:49:11.480 --> 0:49:15.560 a sign that said, uh, make me laugh and give 0:49:16.160 --> 0:49:17.680 win a thousand dollars. 0:49:18.280 --> 0:49:20.160 I tried. I tried to make you laugh. 0:49:20.360 --> 0:49:22.080 I have you know, I have so many people, so 0:49:22.080 --> 0:49:24.239 many like characters that approached me, So it's hard for 0:49:24.239 --> 0:49:27.000 me to remember everybody. There's a guy in a banana 0:49:27.000 --> 0:49:29.319 suit that approached me, a guy in a fucking corn 0:49:29.360 --> 0:49:31.320 dog suit that approached me. I get all kinds of 0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:33.719 characters out here, A major salib of the park, I 0:49:33.719 --> 0:49:34.000 get it. 0:49:34.040 --> 0:49:35.520 Oh, there's just so many characters out here. 0:49:35.880 --> 0:49:37.920 Welso, so yeah, I met you doing that well? Actually 0:49:37.920 --> 0:49:39.440 could we talked for a little bit and then you 0:49:39.440 --> 0:49:40.240 weren't recording? 0:49:40.840 --> 0:49:41.320 Uh? 0:49:41.760 --> 0:49:44.320 Yes, So I record some days. Other days I just 0:49:44.360 --> 0:49:46.040 feel like coming out and just hanging out. 0:49:46.080 --> 0:49:48.040 You know, no, no, you know you thought you thought 0:49:48.040 --> 0:49:49.520 you were recording, but then you weren't. 0:49:49.640 --> 0:49:51.160 It wasn't like we were just hanging out. 0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:53.560 Occasionally, I'll like, forget to press record. 0:49:53.880 --> 0:49:55.640 You're not gonna remember me. I'm gonna stop trying to 0:49:55.640 --> 0:49:58.000 get you to remember me. What's your name again? 0:49:58.080 --> 0:49:59.000 I'm Alex, Alex. 0:49:59.080 --> 0:50:01.080 I just told you my name. Is you already forgot, Yeah, 0:50:01.120 --> 0:50:02.840 I will see. Here's the thing is, I'm okay. So 0:50:02.880 --> 0:50:06.000 we're different, right, yeah, maybe we're not different. Maybe we're 0:50:06.040 --> 0:50:08.680 the same. Yeah, but like I don't remember, I will 0:50:08.680 --> 0:50:12.600 forget your name immediately, but I remember who you are. 0:50:12.960 --> 0:50:15.520 Yes, I definitely remember you a fraud costume. You can't 0:50:15.520 --> 0:50:15.920 forget that. 0:50:16.000 --> 0:50:18.040 No, I wasn't in the fraud cost And it's not 0:50:18.200 --> 0:50:20.480 what Who cares? Who cares? Who cares? 0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:21.319 What? 0:50:22.080 --> 0:50:23.560 How's life going? What's going on? 0:50:23.880 --> 0:50:27.239 Pretty good? I mean, everything is going pretty spot on. 0:50:27.320 --> 0:50:29.880 Besides you know, my dating life, you know everything else, Like, 0:50:29.920 --> 0:50:32.200 I'm so satisfied, okay, just dating? 0:50:32.280 --> 0:50:34.879 Why what's wrong with your dating life? You're not doing 0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:35.440 a bit right now? 0:50:35.440 --> 0:50:36.840 Are you okay? What's this? 0:50:36.960 --> 0:50:37.320 Go ahead? 0:50:37.400 --> 0:50:37.440 No? 0:50:37.600 --> 0:50:43.160 No, no, go ahead? Honestly, situationships are they into me? 0:50:43.239 --> 0:50:44.840 Are they not? X's? 0:50:44.920 --> 0:50:45.120 You know? 0:50:46.000 --> 0:50:48.399 Heartbreaks? You know, it's it's so it's so much, it's 0:50:48.440 --> 0:50:49.160 so much going on. 0:50:49.239 --> 0:50:51.600 Are you doing you? Are you you swearing your life? 0:50:51.680 --> 0:50:53.279 You're not doing a bit right now? 0:50:53.360 --> 0:50:54.960 No? No, okay, I understand. 0:50:55.040 --> 0:50:55.520 I'm sorry. 0:50:55.560 --> 0:50:58.480 You sound like you're in like content making voice right now, 0:50:58.480 --> 0:50:59.399 and I wanted I. 0:50:59.360 --> 0:51:01.320 Fully respect and other people are making content so I 0:51:01.360 --> 0:51:02.279 don't try to mess up. 0:51:02.320 --> 0:51:03.040 I'm not to mess up. 0:51:03.080 --> 0:51:06.400 No, no, no, I don't think you're trying to have a 0:51:06.440 --> 0:51:08.040 good time. It's all right, all right, all right, Sorry, 0:51:08.040 --> 0:51:10.479 I know I'm being a dick. Right now, you're gonna 0:51:10.480 --> 0:51:11.120 know I'm being a dick. 0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:13.520 Sometimes when I tell people think like Alex, are you 0:51:13.560 --> 0:51:14.279 are you working with me? 0:51:14.320 --> 0:51:15.640 I'm like, no, I'm being serious. What are you? 0:51:15.719 --> 0:51:17.840 What are you looking for in your dating life? 0:51:18.360 --> 0:51:20.120 What am I looking for my dating Honestly, I'm just 0:51:20.120 --> 0:51:22.919 trying to I'm trying to settle down. You know, if 0:51:23.000 --> 0:51:26.120 I've had my whole phase, it was fun. Right now, 0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:28.799 I'm just trying to like settle down, find someone that's 0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:30.880 just like long term, long term relationship. 0:51:30.920 --> 0:51:31.960 That's that's all I'm looking for. 0:51:32.160 --> 0:51:34.200 So why has that been hard for you to find? 0:51:35.120 --> 0:51:38.280 Because everyone else just wants to I guess it's still 0:51:38.280 --> 0:51:40.200 in their whole phase or is it just starting. 0:51:39.880 --> 0:51:40.359 Their whole phase? 0:51:40.480 --> 0:51:42.920 Where are you finding these people? You know? 0:51:43.080 --> 0:51:43.960 I come here a lot. 0:51:44.480 --> 0:51:46.799 I coeople out here. 0:51:48.840 --> 0:51:51.200 You know, occasionally I will go to like bars or nightclubs, 0:51:51.239 --> 0:51:53.440 But again, people over there are just trying to hook up, 0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:54.800 So that doesn't help. 0:51:55.239 --> 0:51:56.520 Are you looking for guys girls. 0:51:57.640 --> 0:52:01.600 All right, really you're really having a hard time because 0:52:01.640 --> 0:52:04.160 here's what's Here's what's annoying, I mean, not annoying, but 0:52:04.560 --> 0:52:09.759 interesting I'll say, is everyone says the same thing. We 0:52:09.920 --> 0:52:12.560 just had a girl sit down and say this. Everyone's 0:52:12.560 --> 0:52:14.919 always like, oh, New York, nobody wants to settle down. 0:52:15.280 --> 0:52:18.040 It's like if everyone's saying that, then I mean it 0:52:18.120 --> 0:52:19.880 must not be true to an extent. 0:52:20.000 --> 0:52:21.920 I mean, I guess we're just meeting the wrong people, 0:52:22.000 --> 0:52:24.000 you know. I guess it's just bad luck, bad timing. 0:52:24.840 --> 0:52:27.960 Have you met a lady where you're like, oh, I 0:52:28.040 --> 0:52:31.400 where you've said to her like, hey, I want something 0:52:31.880 --> 0:52:33.080 more and she's like. 0:52:33.120 --> 0:52:33.520 Ah, this. 0:52:33.840 --> 0:52:37.280 So I'm never for me. I'm never forward. 0:52:37.600 --> 0:52:39.200 I don't let them know, like straight up like hey, 0:52:39.200 --> 0:52:40.960 I'm into you, let's go out, because I've done that 0:52:41.000 --> 0:52:43.920 before and it seems to like freak people out, okay 0:52:43.920 --> 0:52:46.480 when I'm just too forward, which I get, you know, 0:52:46.520 --> 0:52:50.880 which I get. So my my whole like I guess 0:52:50.880 --> 0:52:54.719 my whole ethos not ethos, I guess the way I 0:52:54.840 --> 0:52:58.960 pursue dating nowadays, like I'm just super like nonchalant, laid 0:52:59.000 --> 0:53:01.040 back about it, like hey, yeah, we can hang out 0:53:01.040 --> 0:53:04.719 if something happens, it happens, but I'm not gonna like 0:53:04.920 --> 0:53:07.600 rush to anything. I'm not gonna pursue anything if the 0:53:07.600 --> 0:53:09.040 other person doesn't feel the same way. 0:53:09.160 --> 0:53:11.200 Well that's that's how I think it should be, right, Yeah, 0:53:11.239 --> 0:53:12.560 like youse hinge. 0:53:13.320 --> 0:53:14.879 No, I'm not into dating. 0:53:15.000 --> 0:53:17.520 Okay, okay, well like cause like like even I mean 0:53:17.560 --> 0:53:19.440 it's actually this isn't even a dating app thing, but 0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:22.440 like when some people there's some people who are like, uh, 0:53:22.880 --> 0:53:27.239 you know, I'm looking for my my love and I 0:53:27.719 --> 0:53:30.560 need and I'm like, it's a little weird because it's like, 0:53:30.680 --> 0:53:33.960 well aren't we all we all yeah, pretty much. 0:53:33.960 --> 0:53:34.839 But it's like you. 0:53:34.800 --> 0:53:39.200 Can't start is that how That's like you can't like 0:53:39.440 --> 0:53:41.680 start off that way, right, Like people have to kind 0:53:41.680 --> 0:53:44.000 of naturally get into things. 0:53:44.000 --> 0:53:46.800 I mean, of course, there's like to an extent, you 0:53:46.840 --> 0:53:49.919 do have to pursue like a little bit, I guess 0:53:50.160 --> 0:53:54.360 from both parties also. But the thing is, like you, 0:53:54.440 --> 0:53:57.480 when I come out here, I meet so many amazing people, 0:53:58.239 --> 0:54:02.200 like I will make so many friendships and it gets 0:54:02.200 --> 0:54:04.080 to a point where I'm like this person is cool. 0:54:04.120 --> 0:54:07.160 I would love to hang out with them, Do I 0:54:07.200 --> 0:54:11.439 want to mess it up, like ya feel that way 0:54:11.480 --> 0:54:13.839 about them and then mess up a good friendship. Yeah, 0:54:14.000 --> 0:54:16.239 because I've had had that in the past, where I've 0:54:16.280 --> 0:54:17.560 had people that I do like. 0:54:19.320 --> 0:54:21.080 Start off having strong feelings about them. 0:54:21.640 --> 0:54:23.759 As I get to know them, I do do a 0:54:23.800 --> 0:54:25.880 good friendship and it gets to the point where I'm Okay, 0:54:26.000 --> 0:54:28.000 I wouldn't want to pursue a relationship with you because 0:54:28.040 --> 0:54:29.720 I do see you as a really cool friend. 0:54:29.800 --> 0:54:33.760 It's sure, don't want to tarnish that friendship, extremely safe. 0:54:34.080 --> 0:54:35.319 But I guess that's where I'm stuck. 0:54:35.760 --> 0:54:39.000 I'm meeting so many people and and I'm always I 0:54:39.000 --> 0:54:41.520 guess I'm always putting myself in the friend zone before 0:54:41.719 --> 0:54:44.320 they do that to me, which is my bigining. 0:54:44.440 --> 0:54:46.480 You know, well, is that an issue? I mean, can 0:54:46.520 --> 0:54:47.520 you go wrong with that? 0:54:47.680 --> 0:54:49.600 Really? I mean, of course, but how many friends? How 0:54:49.600 --> 0:54:51.200 many more friends do you need? Like? How many more 0:54:51.239 --> 0:54:53.160 friends can you have? You know? 0:54:53.680 --> 0:54:55.160 Part of me wonders. 0:54:56.360 --> 0:54:58.480 Are you supposed to feel some kind of like natural 0:54:58.480 --> 0:55:01.279 gravitational pull or are you else to for me? 0:55:02.160 --> 0:55:04.920 For me, I can think anybody is cute, I can 0:55:04.960 --> 0:55:07.040 think anybody is attractive upon first meeting them. 0:55:07.080 --> 0:55:09.799 You can think anybody is shut up. You can think 0:55:09.920 --> 0:55:14.200 anybody's shut up. You can think anybody. You can think 0:55:14.920 --> 0:55:18.640 anybody's attractive. You can decide to find anyone attractive. I mean, 0:55:18.680 --> 0:55:23.160 of course, I'm not gonna let you run away from 0:55:23.160 --> 0:55:25.799 the statement you make. You can you can decide like 0:55:26.440 --> 0:55:28.400 you can decide that anyone is attractive. 0:55:28.560 --> 0:55:29.920 I mean, yeah, I can think I can look at 0:55:29.920 --> 0:55:32.640 anyone and say, yeah, they're attractive, they've got nice features. 0:55:32.719 --> 0:55:34.560 Yeah, that person is attracted. Anyone, anyone. 0:55:34.640 --> 0:55:35.920 Yeah, you're lying for me. 0:55:36.000 --> 0:55:38.839 No, I'm being dead serious. You hold. 0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:40.239 I just want to make sure I understand what you're 0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:42.880 trying to say. Yes, go ahead, you can look. 0:55:42.760 --> 0:55:50.239 At anyone m hm any like literally anyone with no Well, 0:55:50.320 --> 0:55:52.320 let me can look at anyone and. 0:55:52.239 --> 0:55:55.960 Go and decide that they're attractive. Okay, Well that's not 0:55:56.280 --> 0:55:58.719 what exactly what I was saying. I see where you're 0:55:58.719 --> 0:55:59.080 coming from. 0:55:59.080 --> 0:55:59.239 Now. 0:56:00.040 --> 0:56:02.680 What I was trying to say is that obviously I 0:56:02.719 --> 0:56:07.720 find attractive. I find the people who I find attractive. 0:56:07.760 --> 0:56:11.200 I find attractive, right, Like, you see what I'm saying, right, 0:56:11.239 --> 0:56:14.040 anyone I find attractive I will find attractive for me 0:56:14.120 --> 0:56:15.200 to catch. 0:56:15.160 --> 0:56:20.400 Feelings, somebody, what are you what are you even saying. 0:56:20.120 --> 0:56:22.000 Okay, I'm not going to find everybody attractive. 0:56:22.040 --> 0:56:23.439 Okay, Yeah, well that's what you were just saying about. 0:56:23.440 --> 0:56:24.280 Everyone has preference. 0:56:24.320 --> 0:56:26.400 Okay, Yes, anyone that you find attractive. 0:56:26.440 --> 0:56:27.760 Attractive, I will find attractive. 0:56:27.880 --> 0:56:28.280 Okay. 0:56:28.719 --> 0:56:31.680 For me to catch for me to really fall for someone, 0:56:31.680 --> 0:56:34.040 to catch feelings for someone, I have to get to 0:56:34.080 --> 0:56:35.040 know them. 0:56:35.840 --> 0:56:37.359 Okay, I see what you mean. I see what you mean. 0:56:37.400 --> 0:56:37.960 I see Okay. 0:56:37.960 --> 0:56:40.280 Basically, there's a lot of women that you find attractive, 0:56:41.400 --> 0:56:43.239 but not a lot of women who you're like, I 0:56:43.280 --> 0:56:44.520 want to give my soul to you. 0:56:47.760 --> 0:56:50.560 That makes sense, or a lot. 0:56:50.440 --> 0:56:51.800 Of women you find attractive, but not a lot of 0:56:51.840 --> 0:56:54.440 women you're like, I deeply want to emotionally invest myself 0:56:54.440 --> 0:56:54.640 in you. 0:56:56.560 --> 0:57:01.640 I guess. I guess, like, I see, I see what 0:57:01.680 --> 0:57:02.239 you're trying to say. 0:57:02.400 --> 0:57:05.280 I think a lot of people to feel that way. 0:57:05.480 --> 0:57:07.520 No, I mean for me, like, I can't really fall 0:57:07.560 --> 0:57:10.680 for someone head over here unless I really get to 0:57:10.760 --> 0:57:11.080 know them. 0:57:11.120 --> 0:57:13.799 I can't get butterflies unless I really get to know them. 0:57:14.000 --> 0:57:16.479 Oh okay, I have to really vibe with them at first. 0:57:16.480 --> 0:57:22.080 I have to really like see what their humor is like, see, like. 0:57:20.960 --> 0:57:23.600 Like, how for you're you're you're slow to love. 0:57:24.120 --> 0:57:26.160 Yes, yes, I get, yeah. 0:57:26.000 --> 0:57:28.520 I get. I feel like I'm not like that at all. 0:57:29.080 --> 0:57:31.240 I mean everyone's different, you know, yeah, the same, everyone 0:57:31.360 --> 0:57:32.400 like has their own preference. 0:57:33.600 --> 0:57:35.440 That's just how I am. And I feel like that's 0:57:35.440 --> 0:57:38.400 what I struggle. That's what I'm at that it's not about, 0:57:38.480 --> 0:57:38.880 that's why. 0:57:39.040 --> 0:57:40.000 That's just why does that make you. 0:57:40.000 --> 0:57:42.400 A disavant a disadvantage because everyone is like everyone that 0:57:42.440 --> 0:57:44.200 I meet is in their whole face and they just 0:57:44.200 --> 0:57:46.240 want to hook up, and that's not what I'm looking 0:57:46.280 --> 0:57:47.440 for anymore. 0:57:47.080 --> 0:57:49.360 You know, Okay, But I don't think that puts you 0:57:49.400 --> 0:57:50.360 at a disadvantage. 0:57:50.480 --> 0:57:51.400 That's just who you are. 0:57:51.560 --> 0:57:55.280 I mean you could say that only wanting sex's has 0:57:55.320 --> 0:57:57.240 everything else is pros and cons, you know. 0:57:59.560 --> 0:58:01.680 I mean yeah, pretty much where you're set. We're trying 0:58:01.720 --> 0:58:03.480 to say, yeah, I guess, yeah, I agree. 0:58:03.520 --> 0:58:05.880 Why is everything else so amazing in your life? What 0:58:05.920 --> 0:58:06.680 else is going on? 0:58:06.880 --> 0:58:09.120 I mean, I'm satisfied. I'm my social life is going great. 0:58:09.160 --> 0:58:10.720 I come out here and hold a stupid sign and 0:58:10.760 --> 0:58:13.240 people approach me, So my social life is good. 0:58:13.320 --> 0:58:14.880 That's cool. I have so many great friends. 0:58:15.320 --> 0:58:16.439 You mean to let you make a lot of friends 0:58:16.440 --> 0:58:16.880 at the partes. 0:58:16.960 --> 0:58:18.600 Yeah. Absolutely, that's why I come out here. 0:58:19.840 --> 0:58:20.320 The content. 0:58:21.560 --> 0:58:23.520 Content is going great. I'm making a lot of memories. 0:58:23.840 --> 0:58:25.760 I love my job. I love my job. 0:58:27.000 --> 0:58:28.960 Not this isn't my job, my job that I do 0:58:29.040 --> 0:58:30.400 during the week when I'm not here. I love you. 0:58:30.520 --> 0:58:31.160 What's your job. 0:58:31.200 --> 0:58:32.160 I'm a teacher's aide. 0:58:32.160 --> 0:58:35.000 Oh cool, So I take care of like I teach 0:58:35.040 --> 0:58:37.640 pre k so I take care of like three year olds. 0:58:37.640 --> 0:58:37.920 Cool. 0:58:38.960 --> 0:58:44.200 I love my job. I love my family. So I'm 0:58:44.240 --> 0:58:45.720 just Yeah, I'm satisfied in. 0:58:45.680 --> 0:58:48.880 All aspects except dating. That's where I struggle with. Yeah. 0:58:49.520 --> 0:58:49.920 Hm hmm. 0:58:50.880 --> 0:58:54.680 So you have this problem where you have you been 0:58:54.720 --> 0:58:57.120 in like, have you ever been in a situationship with 0:58:57.160 --> 0:58:58.880 someone where you're like, oh, I could see myself. 0:59:00.040 --> 0:59:01.200 But isn't a situationship? 0:59:01.200 --> 0:59:04.960 House is in the situationship the the inception of for 0:59:05.080 --> 0:59:05.800 me relationship. 0:59:05.840 --> 0:59:08.120 For me, a situationship is not like, oh, we can 0:59:08.160 --> 0:59:10.960 fuck around and maybe it'll go somewhere. No, a situationship 0:59:11.000 --> 0:59:12.520 is no, We're gonna fuck around and that's it. 0:59:12.520 --> 0:59:15.760 It's not gonna go anywhere. That's my headphones. 0:59:15.800 --> 0:59:17.960 Oh okay, sure, But that's like a labeled thing like 0:59:18.000 --> 0:59:19.520 can't anything become. 0:59:20.680 --> 0:59:21.680 Something? It could? 0:59:21.880 --> 0:59:22.280 It could. 0:59:22.560 --> 0:59:25.960 Uh, that's just my headspace going into situationships, Okay, Like 0:59:26.040 --> 0:59:30.160 I I just prepare myself for that, not prepare myself. 0:59:30.160 --> 0:59:32.000 I just I'm just in that headspace. Like, Yo, we're 0:59:32.040 --> 0:59:36.280 in a situationship. We're gonna mess around. I'm not looking 0:59:36.280 --> 0:59:39.880 for anything after that. I'm not looking for anything past that. 0:59:39.920 --> 0:59:41.280 If we're gonna just gonna keep messing around. 0:59:41.320 --> 0:59:43.240 You know, I wouldn't here. 0:59:43.240 --> 0:59:45.160 Who's your ideal woman? 0:59:45.640 --> 0:59:49.400 My ideal woman? Like, yeah, like what do I like? 0:59:49.480 --> 0:59:50.840 What do I look for? Yeah? 0:59:50.920 --> 0:59:53.240 Sure, I don't really have a specific type, you know, 0:59:53.280 --> 0:59:56.520 I don't really you know, check boxes like oh, she 0:59:56.600 --> 0:59:58.920 has to have this, this and that for for me 0:59:58.960 --> 0:59:59.600 to want her. 0:59:59.720 --> 1:00:01.080 Like, no, I don't have a type. 1:00:01.520 --> 1:00:04.680 Just someone who's just someone who can joke around like me, 1:00:04.800 --> 1:00:08.960 someone who I guess, yeah, just someone who can joke 1:00:09.000 --> 1:00:11.200 around like me. Someone who can like have a good laugh, 1:00:11.280 --> 1:00:17.120 someone who can mess around. Uh, someone who I want 1:00:17.120 --> 1:00:21.520 someone very like laid back, someone's very nonchalant. Okay, someone 1:00:21.520 --> 1:00:23.920 who can match my energy, but in general, someone who's. 1:00:23.760 --> 1:00:24.400 Very laid back. 1:00:24.760 --> 1:00:26.160 Okay, okay, because. 1:00:25.920 --> 1:00:30.640 I wouldn't want someone to you know, like outshine my personality. 1:00:30.680 --> 1:00:32.960 You know, I'm very outgoing, but to an extent. 1:00:32.760 --> 1:00:35.200 So you don't want somebody who's also outgoing. 1:00:35.640 --> 1:00:37.720 Like someone who can match my energy, but not to 1:00:37.760 --> 1:00:40.280 the point where they can over overshine me, overpower me. 1:00:40.360 --> 1:00:42.680 Okay, you want to make sure you want to be 1:00:43.640 --> 1:00:45.440 the guy, like you want to be the guy? 1:00:45.480 --> 1:00:46.960 Hey, like I want to be like yeah, like this 1:00:47.000 --> 1:00:49.720 is me, Like this is what you got. And it's 1:00:49.720 --> 1:00:52.480 tough because there's so much competition out here, and it's 1:00:52.560 --> 1:00:55.080 very easy for someone that you're dating to look at 1:00:55.080 --> 1:00:58.080 someone else and oh, this guy's got what he doesn't have? 1:00:58.280 --> 1:01:02.000 Like he there's there's pretty obvious he doesn't. He doesn't 1:01:02.000 --> 1:01:02.919 compare it to that guy. 1:01:03.120 --> 1:01:05.240 Well, it's whack a mole, you know, it's like, yeah, 1:01:05.240 --> 1:01:08.840 someone has. There's many, in fact, not many, infinite people 1:01:08.880 --> 1:01:11.880 out there who have an infinite amount of positive qualities 1:01:11.920 --> 1:01:15.280 that you do not possess but they don't have. But 1:01:15.520 --> 1:01:17.920 it's swackamle, right, it's like, oh, I like this one thing. 1:01:17.960 --> 1:01:21.320 I Anyone that your date is gonna have things you 1:01:21.400 --> 1:01:23.040 like about them and things you don't like about them, 1:01:23.600 --> 1:01:26.480 and there will be somebody who has the things that 1:01:26.520 --> 1:01:28.440 they don't have that you want, but then they have 1:01:28.480 --> 1:01:29.160 other things that you don't. 1:01:29.160 --> 1:01:32.120 It's what you know. It's no no one literally nobody 1:01:32.160 --> 1:01:33.160 is perfect. 1:01:33.200 --> 1:01:33.400 You know. 1:01:33.520 --> 1:01:36.080 At this point, I'm just like you do know how 1:01:36.040 --> 1:01:38.280 to have to be perfect. I'm not looking for anyone perfect. 1:01:38.320 --> 1:01:43.600 I'm willing to accept any flaws. But for any flaws, Yes, 1:01:43.640 --> 1:01:44.120 any flaws. 1:01:44.120 --> 1:01:45.160 Sorry, that'd be just scared. Scared. 1:01:45.640 --> 1:01:46.280 I don't like bees. 1:01:46.480 --> 1:01:50.400 Yeah, but no for me, I'm just I have a 1:01:50.440 --> 1:01:56.120 lot of insecurities that like, it's they it's very obvious 1:01:56.200 --> 1:02:00.200 when uh me showing my insecurities, Like I'm I can 1:02:00.200 --> 1:02:01.520 try to hide it as much as I can, but 1:02:02.320 --> 1:02:03.800 they just come out at random times. 1:02:03.800 --> 1:02:05.040 You don't have to talk about this if you don't 1:02:05.040 --> 1:02:08.360 want to, but I'm I'm naturally curious. What are your insecurities? 1:02:09.120 --> 1:02:10.040 My insecurities? 1:02:10.120 --> 1:02:14.480 Uh, damn, which one? There's so many, there's like a hole. 1:02:14.640 --> 1:02:17.160 I could write a whole script, a whole novel about 1:02:17.160 --> 1:02:17.880 my insecurities. 1:02:19.440 --> 1:02:22.120 Well, what's like, I guess you're well, one my height, Like, 1:02:22.200 --> 1:02:23.280 I'm how tall are you? 1:02:23.280 --> 1:02:26.040 I'm five to ninety five to nine, I'm very average height. 1:02:26.080 --> 1:02:27.400 If I want to date someone, they would have to 1:02:27.400 --> 1:02:29.440 be like really short. 1:02:30.960 --> 1:02:33.160 You know. I mean, let's talk about this. Yes, I'm 1:02:33.200 --> 1:02:34.680 five to seven, right. 1:02:35.680 --> 1:02:40.600 Commara, I'm actually five six, but I just tell everyone 1:02:40.640 --> 1:02:41.800 I'm five seven. 1:02:42.480 --> 1:02:43.640 So I'm five to seven, right. 1:02:44.120 --> 1:02:47.439 And I've also throughout my life been pretty insecure about 1:02:47.440 --> 1:02:51.920 my height. But you know what, But here's the thing 1:02:52.040 --> 1:02:55.680 right with like all these things, is like you were 1:02:55.720 --> 1:02:56.800 delta hand in life. 1:02:57.280 --> 1:02:59.800 Yeah, you were born as this. 1:03:00.240 --> 1:03:01.120 Yeah. 1:03:01.240 --> 1:03:03.240 There's things you can change about your body if you 1:03:03.240 --> 1:03:05.440 don't like it, you can get you can there's things 1:03:05.480 --> 1:03:07.240 you can change about your body if you don't like them. 1:03:07.280 --> 1:03:10.080 And there's things that you cannot change about your body. 1:03:11.440 --> 1:03:12.720 And the way I think about my height, the way 1:03:12.720 --> 1:03:16.480 I've kind of reconciled is like, oh my god, here's 1:03:16.520 --> 1:03:18.000 here's how I reconciled my height. 1:03:19.120 --> 1:03:23.240 I would not roll the dice again, you know what 1:03:23.240 --> 1:03:23.960 I'm saying. 1:03:24.600 --> 1:03:26.000 Like, in terms of what rolling the dice. 1:03:26.080 --> 1:03:31.919 I was born with certain things about me and my essence. 1:03:31.600 --> 1:03:33.400 In my life, and you can't change your height. 1:03:33.560 --> 1:03:37.160 And there's a lot of things I love about my 1:03:37.480 --> 1:03:39.520 life and about my essence and about my body and 1:03:39.520 --> 1:03:42.560 about my brain, about my who I am. There's a 1:03:42.560 --> 1:03:44.360 lot of things I don't like about my body, my 1:03:44.400 --> 1:03:48.400 brain and my essence and who I am. But if 1:03:48.480 --> 1:03:51.760 if God came down from the heavens and was like, hey, 1:03:51.760 --> 1:03:54.080 would you you want to Hey, you don't like being 1:03:54.160 --> 1:03:56.560 five seven? You want to roll the dice again. I'm 1:03:56.600 --> 1:04:00.320 not rolling those dice. I'm not taking another chance. I'll 1:04:00.320 --> 1:04:03.680 take this, I'll key, I'll stay. I'm not that's like 1:04:03.720 --> 1:04:06.720 black check. You know, I'm not. I'm not gonna hit. 1:04:06.960 --> 1:04:09.880 I get what you mean when you have, like when 1:04:09.920 --> 1:04:13.680 you have quite a few friends that like like, obviously 1:04:13.760 --> 1:04:16.200 you don't want to compare yourself to other people, but 1:04:16.840 --> 1:04:20.160 when you're with other people you like, your mind ghost 1:04:20.240 --> 1:04:21.440 places like you can't help it. 1:04:21.440 --> 1:04:23.000 You can't help but compare yourself. 1:04:23.040 --> 1:04:25.400 One thing I've oh, I've never forgotten that I heard 1:04:25.440 --> 1:04:27.720 once is that if you're gonna be jealous of someone, 1:04:27.960 --> 1:04:30.400 you have to be jealous of all of them. You 1:04:30.440 --> 1:04:35.880 can't just run around picking your favor picking all the 1:04:35.920 --> 1:04:41.840 best qualities from everyone, because that's not real life. So 1:04:41.960 --> 1:04:44.080 you know, if someone someone might be taller than you, 1:04:44.120 --> 1:04:46.920 but they have other things going on and their life 1:04:46.920 --> 1:04:49.560 that are fucked, that are that your life is, you 1:04:49.600 --> 1:04:50.880 know better than I mean, that's the same with like 1:04:50.920 --> 1:04:51.560 all insecurities. 1:04:51.760 --> 1:04:55.080 I see what you mean. I see what you mean. Yeah, 1:04:55.120 --> 1:04:57.720 I see what you mean. Another one of my biggest, 1:04:57.760 --> 1:04:58.640 like insecurities. 1:04:58.680 --> 1:04:59.479 It's just like. 1:05:01.960 --> 1:05:04.360 It's as well, I want to retract to Bacca what 1:05:04.440 --> 1:05:05.840 I was saying earlier, shut out. 1:05:05.880 --> 1:05:07.080 For me to fall for someone, I have to get 1:05:07.120 --> 1:05:08.360 to know them. 1:05:08.520 --> 1:05:10.840 Once I get to know someone, the reason I've been 1:05:10.880 --> 1:05:15.080 in so many situationships is because that first impression, the 1:05:15.120 --> 1:05:17.800 first few interactions is always like the easiest to me. 1:05:18.400 --> 1:05:19.840 Like you'd be like, oh, I just met you, you 1:05:19.880 --> 1:05:20.240 don't know. 1:05:20.200 --> 1:05:22.200 Me, so I can pretty much put on a bask 1:05:22.240 --> 1:05:23.560 and be whoever the fuck I want to be in. 1:05:23.720 --> 1:05:26.680 Yeah, I guess that's what people people like, right, It's. 1:05:26.600 --> 1:05:28.480 All you're right, at a certain point, you gotta you know, 1:05:28.600 --> 1:05:30.760 you gotta till a certain let your breath go and 1:05:30.840 --> 1:05:33.560 let the stomach hang out metaphorically. 1:05:33.760 --> 1:05:36.440 Like after like a while that you really get to 1:05:36.480 --> 1:05:39.200 know someone, then I start that's when I started really 1:05:39.240 --> 1:05:42.320 catching feelings. That's when I started getting the butterflies, like yo, 1:05:42.400 --> 1:05:45.200 I can't be how I was at the beginning, Like 1:05:45.280 --> 1:05:48.280 it's just it's messing with me, Like I've known you 1:05:48.360 --> 1:05:51.400 for so long, but I don't know. Something's changed now 1:05:51.480 --> 1:05:54.400 to the point where I can't be around this person. 1:05:54.440 --> 1:05:56.600 I can't act like how I used to be at 1:05:56.600 --> 1:05:58.840 the beginning. It just fucks with my head and messed 1:05:58.880 --> 1:06:01.120 with my head. I get the butterflies, know mm hmmm hm. 1:06:01.480 --> 1:06:04.400 This one person that that I would see frequently at 1:06:04.400 --> 1:06:07.880 this park at the beginning, I for like, oh, yeah, 1:06:07.880 --> 1:06:08.440 she's cute. 1:06:08.600 --> 1:06:09.280 Like she's cute. 1:06:09.360 --> 1:06:12.520 I don't think much of it. I wouldn't say I'm 1:06:12.560 --> 1:06:15.000 head over heels for her. I'm not getting butterflies, but yeah, 1:06:15.000 --> 1:06:19.120 she's cute. I wouldn't see myself pursuing a relationship with her, 1:06:19.160 --> 1:06:22.000 but yeah, she's cute. I don't I'm not getting butterflies, 1:06:23.080 --> 1:06:25.880 as I would constantly see her here all the time 1:06:25.880 --> 1:06:28.320 when I would come out here, and she would give 1:06:28.360 --> 1:06:30.840 me like these little nudget like hey, like take down 1:06:30.840 --> 1:06:33.520 my number. Let's hang out sometime, like oh, let's hang out, 1:06:33.760 --> 1:06:37.040 get some boba without your sign, like without your content, 1:06:37.120 --> 1:06:39.320 let's just hang out. Like yeah, I'm down, come to this. 1:06:39.880 --> 1:06:41.760 I just moved into a new apartment. Come to my apartment. 1:06:41.800 --> 1:06:44.320 Let's hang out, Let's let's grab a drink like, yeah, 1:06:44.320 --> 1:06:48.640 I'm down. As I gotten to know them, and I 1:06:48.640 --> 1:06:56.560 would see all these signs, I'm like, ooh. 1:06:53.360 --> 1:06:54.320 Are they flirting with me? 1:06:54.480 --> 1:06:55.960 Like oh, like. 1:06:56.120 --> 1:06:59.600 I'm getting the butterflies. I'm like, am I getting Am 1:06:59.640 --> 1:07:02.200 I getting butterflies? Like the more I'm seeing them, like yeah, 1:07:02.240 --> 1:07:05.080 now now that I'm seeing them, now that I'm vibing 1:07:05.080 --> 1:07:06.560 with them a little bit, and I'm like, now I'm 1:07:06.600 --> 1:07:08.160 getting the butter more. 1:07:08.160 --> 1:07:09.280 Butterfly, I'm getting butterflies. 1:07:09.280 --> 1:07:10.640 I'm sorry, quick, can I a see to just hold 1:07:10.640 --> 1:07:11.120 the Yeah. 1:07:10.920 --> 1:07:13.919 I got her, I got you. My bad, My bad. Yeah. 1:07:13.960 --> 1:07:16.080 As I'm getting to know them more and more, I'm like, oh, 1:07:17.800 --> 1:07:19.000 now I'm catching feelings. 1:07:19.160 --> 1:07:20.520 Now I'm starting to get butterflies. 1:07:20.560 --> 1:07:23.200 Okay, okay, okay, And now it's gone to it after that, 1:07:23.320 --> 1:07:26.120 this was all last year. By the way, the winter, 1:07:26.400 --> 1:07:29.240 the winter comes and goes, there's like no communication, like 1:07:29.280 --> 1:07:30.080 I don't like the winter. 1:07:30.400 --> 1:07:31.360 I hibernate in the winter. 1:07:31.360 --> 1:07:33.680 I stay at home until the winter passes, like I 1:07:33.680 --> 1:07:37.120 don't like going out in the winter. So as winter passes, 1:07:37.480 --> 1:07:41.400 there's no there's no interactions, no text, no phone calls, 1:07:41.440 --> 1:07:42.680 no FaceTime, there's nothing. 1:07:43.080 --> 1:07:44.400 There's there's no interactions. 1:07:44.400 --> 1:07:48.040 I completely go ghosts, which is not intentionally, not something 1:07:48.080 --> 1:07:48.600 I want to do. 1:07:48.640 --> 1:07:49.600 It's just something that I do. 1:07:53.640 --> 1:07:57.560 As the spring starts and I see her like again 1:07:57.640 --> 1:08:00.560 after after a whole winter not seeing her, She's like, hey, you. 1:08:00.480 --> 1:08:03.080 Know, it's good to see you. YadA, YadA, YadA. 1:08:04.560 --> 1:08:09.560 I started getting the butterflies again, and I'm like yo, like, uh, 1:08:10.360 --> 1:08:12.040 like I would I would assume, like all this time 1:08:12.120 --> 1:08:14.880 spent a part would make me miss her, and it did, 1:08:16.600 --> 1:08:18.760 but no, we're back to square one. I'm getting the 1:08:18.760 --> 1:08:23.879 butterflies again. Uh so, Yeah, I saw her in April. 1:08:25.680 --> 1:08:27.639 In April I would see her a few times. Then 1:08:27.920 --> 1:08:30.160 May I did not see her. June I did not 1:08:30.200 --> 1:08:33.800 see her. July I saw her again, and at that 1:08:33.840 --> 1:08:35.439 point I was like, dude, I don't care, like I 1:08:35.439 --> 1:08:36.599 don't have butterflies anymore. 1:08:36.640 --> 1:08:38.439 I genuinely missed seeing you. 1:08:38.520 --> 1:08:42.240 I've genuinely missed seeing that person, and my fuck it, 1:08:42.400 --> 1:08:44.840 like I I'm back. I gave my confidence back again, 1:08:45.000 --> 1:08:47.360 like I missed that person so much to the point 1:08:47.400 --> 1:08:48.240 where I'm like, I don't care. 1:08:48.400 --> 1:08:48.800 I'm sorry. 1:08:48.840 --> 1:08:53.440 The in so the insecurity is just the insecurity. 1:08:52.760 --> 1:08:58.439 Of being who you are when you don't feel nervous. 1:08:59.040 --> 1:09:01.320 Well, when I don't see that that person as much, 1:09:01.600 --> 1:09:03.719 I guess as much. 1:09:03.960 --> 1:09:06.160 So is this a general insecurity, you would. 1:09:06.000 --> 1:09:10.400 Say, I'd say so, I'd say so. But yeah, as 1:09:10.479 --> 1:09:14.080 as I was saying, uh, where where was I? So yeah, 1:09:14.160 --> 1:09:17.160 after after not seeing her for so long, I started 1:09:17.160 --> 1:09:19.160 seeing her again, and I'm like, yo, I genuinely missed you. 1:09:19.640 --> 1:09:20.519 I genuinely missed her. 1:09:20.560 --> 1:09:25.200 I think she noticed because when I started getting butterflies, 1:09:25.240 --> 1:09:27.280 I started acting nonchalant around her, and I think she 1:09:27.320 --> 1:09:29.320 picked up on that, like, oh, this guy's was so 1:09:29.400 --> 1:09:30.320 fun at the beginning. 1:09:30.880 --> 1:09:31.559 What happened? 1:09:32.200 --> 1:09:35.719 Like he's so laid back in nonchalant now, like what's 1:09:35.760 --> 1:09:37.920 going on? And I did not tell her why, but 1:09:37.920 --> 1:09:42.920 I think she picked out all my nonchalant iss But again, 1:09:43.040 --> 1:09:45.400 as once she saw me in June, after a whole 1:09:45.439 --> 1:09:48.559 long time of not seeing not seeing me, I gained 1:09:48.560 --> 1:09:50.760 my confidence back. I saw her again. I missed her 1:09:50.800 --> 1:09:53.880 and we talked. We were viving again. I think she 1:09:53.880 --> 1:09:57.679 she saw like, oh he's back. He's not nonchalant anymore, 1:09:57.720 --> 1:10:00.559 Like he's back, he's back to his old self again. 1:10:00.760 --> 1:10:03.200 Something happened. He's back to his own self. Now I 1:10:03.240 --> 1:10:05.120 want to see him again. Now I want to keep 1:10:05.160 --> 1:10:11.559 seeing him and again that that fucked with my mind again. 1:10:11.600 --> 1:10:14.679 I got the butterflies again. She gave me her number, 1:10:15.000 --> 1:10:16.200 even though I have her on Instagram. 1:10:16.240 --> 1:10:18.799 She gave me her number. She invited me to her apartment. 1:10:19.520 --> 1:10:21.840 I bought her. She was here one day. 1:10:22.640 --> 1:10:24.760 Do you like this lady? Do you like this lady? 1:10:24.840 --> 1:10:24.960 Yes? 1:10:25.160 --> 1:10:27.240 Okay, because this whole thing, I'm like, do you fucking 1:10:27.320 --> 1:10:27.880 like this lady? 1:10:27.960 --> 1:10:28.680 I'm getting to that point. 1:10:28.680 --> 1:10:32.080 I'm sorry, I'm sorry, sorry, get it to that part. 1:10:32.240 --> 1:10:33.519 It's the whole back and forth thing. 1:10:33.920 --> 1:10:34.799 Sure, sure, sure. 1:10:35.360 --> 1:10:39.040 So I she comes to the park one day, She's like, Alex, 1:10:39.400 --> 1:10:39.840 I'm bored. 1:10:39.840 --> 1:10:40.439 What should I do? 1:10:41.439 --> 1:10:43.800 I'm like, uh, do you want a buzzball? We can 1:10:43.840 --> 1:10:47.360 go get a buzzball. She's like, fuck yeah, let's do that. Okay, okay, 1:10:47.360 --> 1:10:48.800 well we'll go get a buzzball. We went to we 1:10:48.800 --> 1:10:50.880 went to the store. I was like, you know, I 1:10:50.960 --> 1:10:52.320 got you, I got you. It's like five bucks, I 1:10:52.360 --> 1:10:52.920 got you covered. 1:10:53.360 --> 1:10:53.720 She's like. 1:10:53.840 --> 1:10:56.280 She came up from behind me. She's like, Alex, I'm 1:10:56.280 --> 1:10:58.160 gonna give you the boyfriend hug. And she comes from 1:10:58.200 --> 1:11:01.040 behind me and she squeezed. She squeezes me, Like, dude, 1:11:01.080 --> 1:11:03.240 you don't say that ship to like anybody, Like I'm 1:11:03.240 --> 1:11:04.040 gonna give you the boyfriend. 1:11:04.200 --> 1:11:05.200 You don't say that to anybody. 1:11:05.280 --> 1:11:08.280 This girl clearly likes you, right, Okay, Okay, she clearly 1:11:08.400 --> 1:11:08.680 likes me. 1:11:09.240 --> 1:11:10.360 I clearly like her. 1:11:10.439 --> 1:11:12.599 Okay, like, dude, let's just fucking hang out. 1:11:12.680 --> 1:11:15.439 Let's hang out, like I'm I'm like, I know. 1:11:15.439 --> 1:11:17.400 She said that she had to go, like afterwards because 1:11:17.400 --> 1:11:18.559 she had, like I don't know, I think she had 1:11:18.600 --> 1:11:21.439 worked the next day, but she said she had to go. Okay, okay, 1:11:21.600 --> 1:11:24.719 we will. We will schedule a hangout. We will schedule 1:11:25.160 --> 1:11:26.200 hang out to meet each other. 1:11:26.840 --> 1:11:28.680 Like why is this so complicated? 1:11:28.680 --> 1:11:29.439 I'm getting to that point. 1:11:29.479 --> 1:11:34.479 Okay, sorry, I'm sorry, sorry sorry. 1:11:34.680 --> 1:11:40.840 So, uh yes, three times we schedule a hangout three 1:11:40.880 --> 1:11:43.800 times for me, It's like three strikes. 1:11:43.479 --> 1:11:45.800 Like you should oh, she kept delaying. 1:11:45.520 --> 1:11:48.040 No, no, So we made a day to hang out 1:11:48.080 --> 1:11:51.160 on a Saturday. Okay, I'm like, yeah, absolutely, let's fucking 1:11:51.160 --> 1:11:51.920 get lunch or whatever. 1:11:52.000 --> 1:11:52.559 Let's hang out. 1:11:52.640 --> 1:11:55.840 Yeah she but did she yes, Okay, you hung out. 1:11:55.920 --> 1:11:58.240 We were both so hola, hola. 1:11:58.320 --> 1:12:00.519 Okay, what's your name again? By the way, like, Alex, 1:12:01.720 --> 1:12:03.960 you said three strikes, you're out? Uh huh what were 1:12:03.960 --> 1:12:04.679 the three strikes? 1:12:04.800 --> 1:12:07.720 I'm getting I was just getting to that, okay, Okay, 1:12:07.880 --> 1:12:10.040 So we made us data. This was on our Friday. 1:12:10.040 --> 1:12:12.960 We made a day to hang out on Saturday. Saturday 1:12:13.000 --> 1:12:15.439 morning comes like, hey, we're still on fridayday and she's like, yeah, 1:12:15.439 --> 1:12:17.160 I'm down. Let's let me know when you're here. Text 1:12:17.200 --> 1:12:19.639 me when you're here, like, all right, perfect, I got you. 1:12:20.040 --> 1:12:22.080 I will be there at three o'clock. It's it's like 1:12:22.160 --> 1:12:24.320 one o'clock. I will be train takes me like thirty minutes. 1:12:24.479 --> 1:12:29.040 She didn't show up. No, no, As I was making out, 1:12:29.160 --> 1:12:33.320 hopping on the train about to head there, train Delace 1:12:33.600 --> 1:12:34.960 train is now working on weekends. 1:12:35.200 --> 1:12:36.000 You gotta take the bus. 1:12:36.000 --> 1:12:37.920 You gotta take the long ass bus to Atlantic and 1:12:37.960 --> 1:12:41.640 transfer do all this, and you know NYC traffic, you know. 1:12:42.520 --> 1:12:46.360 And I'm like I text him like, hey, you know 1:12:46.400 --> 1:12:48.720 the trains aren't working. I'm so sorry. I will be 1:12:48.760 --> 1:12:50.320 there as soon as I can, but I don't know 1:12:50.360 --> 1:12:51.960 with traffic, I don't know how long it'll take me 1:12:52.000 --> 1:12:52.360 to get there. 1:12:52.439 --> 1:12:52.919 Okay. 1:12:53.240 --> 1:12:54.880 It's like, yeah, just let me know when you get here. 1:12:56.640 --> 1:12:58.680 Buses take a long time. Trains take a long time. 1:12:58.720 --> 1:13:00.360 I get here at it like eight and nine o'clock 1:13:00.400 --> 1:13:02.880 at night, like, hey, I'm so sorry, Like are you here? 1:13:02.920 --> 1:13:04.120 She's like no, I had to head her out. 1:13:04.160 --> 1:13:06.680 I'm sorry, Like no, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry the 1:13:06.720 --> 1:13:09.519 fucking trains. Wait, so this is strike on, this is 1:13:09.520 --> 1:13:11.880 strike one, okay, Like, hey, can we reschedule? 1:13:12.040 --> 1:13:14.280 It's like, yeah, let's get lunch tomorrow. 1:13:14.000 --> 1:13:16.120 Alex, I don't think I can. I don't think we 1:13:16.160 --> 1:13:20.840 can do all three strikes. Listen all right, because listen, 1:13:21.040 --> 1:13:25.000 because how long ago did this happen? 1:13:25.880 --> 1:13:27.600 This has been going on for like two months? What 1:13:27.720 --> 1:13:28.080 the fuck? 1:13:28.160 --> 1:13:30.760 Alex? Do you like this? 1:13:30.880 --> 1:13:31.160 Lady? 1:13:31.360 --> 1:13:35.360 I do? Okay, doude? Then what the fuck she likes you? 1:13:35.680 --> 1:13:35.960 Yes? 1:13:36.120 --> 1:13:36.800 Why I don't. 1:13:36.840 --> 1:13:39.920 I don't know anytime things are this complicated, it kind 1:13:39.920 --> 1:13:43.639 of it's like it's like, what even is this. 1:13:43.640 --> 1:13:46.559 The second time we made to reschedule? She said, yeah, 1:13:46.640 --> 1:13:49.040 let's let's get lunch tomorrow. Like the trains are fucked up, 1:13:49.040 --> 1:13:51.439 but let's get lunch tomorrow. I'm like, fuck, yeah, I 1:13:51.479 --> 1:13:53.960 showed up. She's like, actually, I don't feel like going 1:13:53.960 --> 1:13:56.320 out anymore. Like hey, you know, that's fine. Sometimes you 1:13:56.320 --> 1:13:58.040 don't feel like it's a Sunday. Not everyone likes going 1:13:58.040 --> 1:13:59.040 out on Sunday. That's fine. 1:13:59.520 --> 1:14:01.920 She's like, we do Monday, Like, okay, yeah, let's do that. 1:14:02.000 --> 1:14:02.679 Let's do Monday. 1:14:04.240 --> 1:14:07.479 I come on Monday. She does to show up. Okay, 1:14:08.560 --> 1:14:10.280 I guess I got an answer. I guess she doesn't 1:14:10.360 --> 1:14:16.280 like me. Okay, and then retracting to that statement like 1:14:16.560 --> 1:14:18.240 this was after by the way, I get her a 1:14:18.240 --> 1:14:20.080 buzzball and she comes from after a while of not 1:14:20.080 --> 1:14:22.160 seeing her. Okay, she comes from behind me, Alex, I'm 1:14:22.160 --> 1:14:23.160 gonna give you the boyfriend hug. 1:14:23.200 --> 1:14:23.479 Alex. 1:14:23.520 --> 1:14:26.200 I'm exhausted by this. I know me too, Okay. So 1:14:26.400 --> 1:14:28.400 here's what okay, Okay, okay. 1:14:28.680 --> 1:14:30.479 So and I'm like, dude, I don't know anymore. 1:14:30.520 --> 1:14:31.559 Okay, Yes you do know? 1:14:31.680 --> 1:14:32.240 I don't know. 1:14:32.360 --> 1:14:34.360 Yes you do. She hasn't been no no, no, no, you 1:14:34.439 --> 1:14:34.760 do know? 1:14:34.840 --> 1:14:35.680 Don't yes you do? 1:14:35.880 --> 1:14:38.080 I don't know, Yes you do? You do know? You 1:14:38.120 --> 1:14:41.040 know that you're exhausted. I am you shouldn't be exhausted. 1:14:41.680 --> 1:14:42.400 So you do know? 1:14:42.920 --> 1:14:45.720 I don't know, Yes you do do? I what do 1:14:45.800 --> 1:14:45.960 I know? 1:14:46.040 --> 1:14:47.600 What do you know that you're exhausted. You know that 1:14:47.640 --> 1:14:50.840 this relationship is exhausted. You know this dynamic is exhausting you. Yeah, 1:14:50.880 --> 1:14:53.000 but that's a lot of information to have, you know, 1:14:53.040 --> 1:14:54.280 the dynamics exhausting you. 1:14:54.560 --> 1:14:56.200 It is exhausting me hearing it. 1:14:56.400 --> 1:14:59.559 So it's like, you know, go find something that doesn't 1:14:59.600 --> 1:15:01.439 exhaust Jesus fucking Christ. 1:15:01.920 --> 1:15:03.800 She texted me one day when I'm here chilling, doing 1:15:03.800 --> 1:15:05.160 my own thing. She texts me like, Hey, I'm at 1:15:05.200 --> 1:15:07.200 the park. I get so fucking nervous that I just 1:15:07.240 --> 1:15:09.160 run out of the park and I just wait for 1:15:09.200 --> 1:15:10.680 her to leave, Like, I'm just tired of this back 1:15:10.720 --> 1:15:11.120 and forth. 1:15:12.320 --> 1:15:14.639 Alex, You're you know what, Alex, You're a sweet boy. 1:15:15.479 --> 1:15:19.080 I think you'll find a relationship one day that doesn't 1:15:19.120 --> 1:15:19.920 exhaust you. 1:15:19.920 --> 1:15:22.320 You know, I'm trying. I'm out here trying. Actually, actually no, 1:15:22.360 --> 1:15:22.960 I'm not out here. 1:15:22.960 --> 1:15:23.840 You're not really out here trying. 1:15:23.880 --> 1:15:27.120 You're out here existing, being, living your own life, being 1:15:27.160 --> 1:15:32.639 who you are, exerting your authentic self upon the universe. 1:15:32.680 --> 1:15:34.839 And when you do that for long enough, the universe 1:15:35.080 --> 1:15:38.160 brings you back, whatever the fuck it brings you back. 1:15:38.320 --> 1:15:40.320 At the point, I'm just like do whatever. It's whatever. 1:15:40.520 --> 1:15:41.680 I'm like, I'm exhausted. 1:15:42.160 --> 1:15:43.960 I'm exhausted, Alex, is there anything else you want to 1:15:43.960 --> 1:15:45.280 say to the people of the computer before we go? 1:15:48.560 --> 1:15:50.960 Surround yourself with good people, because good people will bring 1:15:51.000 --> 1:15:53.200 you up. If it were for the people that I 1:15:53.200 --> 1:15:56.519 surround myself with, I would not be up sitting here, uh, 1:15:56.560 --> 1:15:58.760 doing this talking about all my fucking insecurities. 1:15:59.479 --> 1:16:01.760 So I have my friends to thank for that. So 1:16:01.880 --> 1:16:03.479 love y'all. Surround yourself with good people. 1:16:03.720 --> 1:16:05.360 I thank you very much for your time and your honesty. Man, 1:16:05.360 --> 1:16:07.400 I really appreciate it. Thank you, Alex. You have a 1:16:07.400 --> 1:16:07.720 good one. 1:16:07.800 --> 1:16:08.599 I'm sure. I'm sure. 1:16:08.600 --> 1:16:12.920 I'll see you in the park later. Man, Andrew, nice 1:16:12.920 --> 1:16:14.599 to meet you. Has life, what's going on? 1:16:14.640 --> 1:16:15.400 I'm doing, lile. 1:16:15.640 --> 1:16:18.200 I just just moved here from Florida. Okay, it's my 1:16:18.240 --> 1:16:21.519 first time. Actually it's like my third week here. 1:16:23.800 --> 1:16:24.040 Yeah. 1:16:24.200 --> 1:16:25.680 I just saw you, so I was like, you know what, 1:16:25.720 --> 1:16:28.240 I'll pop a squat. You seem like a really interesting person. 1:16:28.360 --> 1:16:31.439 Well thanks man. What brought you to New York work? 1:16:31.680 --> 1:16:35.680 Actually, as well as just pretty much. I grew up 1:16:35.680 --> 1:16:40.400 in Florida felt like I was stunted, like my growth 1:16:40.439 --> 1:16:43.080 was stunted there. I didn't have like a lot of creativity. 1:16:43.160 --> 1:16:44.960 I had like some falling out with friends over my 1:16:45.040 --> 1:16:49.120 sexuality and religion, and so I felt like New York 1:16:49.200 --> 1:16:51.800 was a safe place for me, not only creatively, but 1:16:51.840 --> 1:16:55.200 also to express myself fully. So I'm kind of out here. 1:16:55.280 --> 1:16:57.240 I don't really have too many friends out here either, 1:16:57.400 --> 1:16:59.080 So I was like, you know what, it would. 1:16:58.880 --> 1:17:00.400 Be nice to sit down and talk with someone. 1:17:00.520 --> 1:17:01.240 Okay, cool man? 1:17:01.400 --> 1:17:01.800 Sure that. 1:17:02.040 --> 1:17:05.000 I was so patient, you know, it's why. So how 1:17:05.080 --> 1:17:06.280 you said you've been here for three weeks? 1:17:06.479 --> 1:17:06.879 Yeah? 1:17:07.000 --> 1:17:09.920 Okay, And what are you doing here? You going to school? 1:17:09.920 --> 1:17:13.400 You're working? I'm working. I'm a marketing director right now? Okay? 1:17:13.479 --> 1:17:16.280 Yeahs you are? I am thirty one, thirty one? 1:17:16.320 --> 1:17:16.679 Okay. 1:17:16.720 --> 1:17:19.920 Have you been doing anything to try to make friends? 1:17:20.000 --> 1:17:21.719 Meet people? So that's the thing. 1:17:21.920 --> 1:17:24.800 I've been so like occupied focus on work as well 1:17:24.840 --> 1:17:28.920 as like trying to get familiar with the city that 1:17:29.000 --> 1:17:30.800 I really haven't had made time for that, which I 1:17:30.840 --> 1:17:34.960 need to is definitely, uh, something I kind of have 1:17:35.040 --> 1:17:38.080 to adjust to, just because I would say for so long, 1:17:38.880 --> 1:17:40.439 since I was from Florida, I had most of my 1:17:40.439 --> 1:17:43.880 friends growing up. I never had to make friends again, 1:17:44.000 --> 1:17:47.120 like like as an adult, now, and especially as like 1:17:47.200 --> 1:17:49.240 a new person. I guess you could say, because now 1:17:49.280 --> 1:17:52.280 I'm like living more in my like authenticity, living. 1:17:52.520 --> 1:17:53.599 Who I am. That's good. 1:17:53.920 --> 1:17:57.479 Yeah, So now it's like navigating that and learning to 1:17:57.600 --> 1:18:01.240 kind of not HIGs parts of me and learn how 1:18:01.280 --> 1:18:05.759 to like really kind of navigate this new version of myself. 1:18:05.800 --> 1:18:08.599 I guess you can call it, and uh, I guess 1:18:08.720 --> 1:18:10.760 navigate it. And I don't even want to call it 1:18:10.800 --> 1:18:12.400 the correct way, because I guess there is no correct 1:18:12.439 --> 1:18:16.040 way about going about things. But just like I guess 1:18:16.080 --> 1:18:20.000 my goal is just to like completely be authentic with its. 1:18:20.040 --> 1:18:22.160 And it's well, it sounds like, yeah, you mentioned Florida 1:18:22.160 --> 1:18:24.640 as being kind of stifling to your growth, as being 1:18:24.680 --> 1:18:26.280 a place where you did not feel as though you 1:18:26.360 --> 1:18:29.320 could be that authentic self. Yeah, exactly, and so wait, 1:18:29.439 --> 1:18:31.200 so and how long did you live in Florida for 1:18:31.479 --> 1:18:32.080 up until now? 1:18:32.360 --> 1:18:32.559 Yeah? 1:18:32.600 --> 1:18:34.280 Oh, okay, so it is the first three weeks out 1:18:34.280 --> 1:18:35.280 of Florida exactly. 1:18:35.320 --> 1:18:39.240 Oh my god, Okay, so you're in You're in this 1:18:39.280 --> 1:18:41.200 is this is this the first time you actually feel 1:18:41.200 --> 1:18:42.559 like you are living as your authentic self? 1:18:42.600 --> 1:18:45.639 Pretty much, get out of here. That's that's amazing. That's 1:18:45.640 --> 1:18:47.120 really cool. It is a big leap. 1:18:47.960 --> 1:18:52.200 I find it as free like as possible. I feel 1:18:52.200 --> 1:18:54.479 like I would never change my life. I went through 1:18:54.479 --> 1:18:56.479 a lot of trials and tribulations, like I said, you know, 1:18:56.520 --> 1:18:58.960 coming out late in life, as well as like losing 1:18:59.000 --> 1:19:01.519 a lot of friends my church, Like it was like 1:19:01.920 --> 1:19:05.720 really difficult time for me, but it literally sharpened me. 1:19:06.360 --> 1:19:08.840 It made me polish me into the person I am today. 1:19:09.320 --> 1:19:12.000 I like to tell people gave me superpowers. I feel 1:19:12.000 --> 1:19:15.360 like I have a level of understanding people now from 1:19:15.439 --> 1:19:18.840 all walks of life and understanding them just because of 1:19:18.840 --> 1:19:20.880 those hardships. I felt like they gave me a level 1:19:20.920 --> 1:19:23.840 of sympathy and empathy for people that I wouldn't have 1:19:23.920 --> 1:19:26.479 had if I didn't go through those those certain things. 1:19:27.080 --> 1:19:30.439 And I guess it's just I'm happy that I was 1:19:30.479 --> 1:19:32.120 able to get come out of the other side of 1:19:32.160 --> 1:19:34.400 it with a positive outlook on life. And because I 1:19:34.439 --> 1:19:36.400 know a lot of people don't. So I'm just even 1:19:36.439 --> 1:19:39.000 sharing this too, because I know you have probably a 1:19:39.040 --> 1:19:41.280 lot of people who watch you, so just to let 1:19:41.280 --> 1:19:44.520 them know that, like you got to just like authentically 1:19:44.520 --> 1:19:46.800 be yourself. I know that word is like thrown around 1:19:46.840 --> 1:19:49.040 a lot now. But it's so true. It's so freeing 1:19:49.080 --> 1:19:52.040 to be yourself no matter what you're going through, Like 1:19:53.240 --> 1:19:56.160 you'll find peace when you like when you start loving 1:19:56.160 --> 1:19:58.800 yourself more, because no one could love yourself like love 1:19:58.840 --> 1:20:00.240 you as much as you can love yourself. 1:20:00.320 --> 1:20:02.400 Well, look, I know you said you're having you know, 1:20:02.479 --> 1:20:04.799 trouble making friends and whatnot, But I ever new nothing 1:20:04.840 --> 1:20:07.519 you have said is quite out of the ordinary for 1:20:07.560 --> 1:20:09.080 only being in a place for three weeks. 1:20:09.160 --> 1:20:10.000 Yeah, yeah, you know. 1:20:10.520 --> 1:20:13.200 So I are you in person as this marketing director 1:20:13.280 --> 1:20:14.320 or is this like an online thing? 1:20:14.439 --> 1:20:16.519 So no, I'm in person. I worked two days a 1:20:16.520 --> 1:20:21.519 week there. Co workers are cool, just like I guess 1:20:21.560 --> 1:20:23.719 they're like older than me. So it's like a little. 1:20:23.640 --> 1:20:26.559 Well here's the here's the good news is that where 1:20:26.600 --> 1:20:28.559 in Florida were you? West Palms? 1:20:29.080 --> 1:20:31.520 Okay of West Palm. It's like it's a little posh. 1:20:31.640 --> 1:20:34.599 Yeah, it's like right across from like there's literally right 1:20:34.640 --> 1:20:36.120 over the bridge is Palm Beach Island. 1:20:36.280 --> 1:20:42.280 Yeah, it's like a wes West Palm is definitely yeah. Yeah, 1:20:42.479 --> 1:20:44.840 I Well, the good news is that you moved to 1:20:45.840 --> 1:20:50.759 one of the best places in America to meet people. 1:20:51.120 --> 1:20:52.680 There's infinite I mean, what do you like? What are 1:20:52.680 --> 1:20:53.080 you into? 1:20:53.760 --> 1:20:57.120 I love art, I love fashion, I love photography, I 1:20:57.160 --> 1:20:57.799 love writing. 1:20:58.439 --> 1:21:00.519 Oh, I mean, bro, I know that's what I'm saying. 1:21:00.600 --> 1:21:04.840 Yeah, here's the thing I mean, dude, I mean, this 1:21:04.920 --> 1:21:06.439 is why I live in New York, right, It is 1:21:06.479 --> 1:21:09.320 because you know, I mean, I come to this park 1:21:09.360 --> 1:21:10.040 almost every day. 1:21:10.040 --> 1:21:11.040 It makes me feel alive. 1:21:11.160 --> 1:21:13.920 Anytime I feel like I'm dying or I'm like old, 1:21:14.040 --> 1:21:17.800 or I like that everything. You know, there's nothing left 1:21:17.840 --> 1:21:19.599 for me to do on this planet, I just come. 1:21:19.640 --> 1:21:23.439 I you know, New York is the place to where where, 1:21:23.600 --> 1:21:26.000 even after you think you've you know, seen it all 1:21:26.080 --> 1:21:28.160 or done it all or whatever, there's places and people 1:21:28.240 --> 1:21:32.120 and rooms you can go into and things to remind 1:21:32.200 --> 1:21:35.559 yourself that, oh shit, there's more. There's always there is more, 1:21:35.800 --> 1:21:38.800 and and and here's the but here's the thing. It 1:21:38.880 --> 1:21:43.080 doesn't find you. It doesn't find you. It doesn't find you. 1:21:44.200 --> 1:21:47.479 But you don't even have to do it in the 1:21:47.600 --> 1:21:50.920 correct way. But it's if you go out in search, 1:21:52.240 --> 1:21:52.800 you find it. 1:21:53.520 --> 1:21:53.720 You know. 1:21:54.120 --> 1:21:56.080 So like if you go on the internet and you 1:21:56.320 --> 1:21:59.679 search for weird art events, or you see some stupid 1:21:59.680 --> 1:22:02.400 fly as you're walking and you click the QR code 1:22:02.400 --> 1:22:04.880 and you actually go to the thing, and then when 1:22:04.880 --> 1:22:05.800 you're at the thing, you. 1:22:05.720 --> 1:22:07.120 Actually talk to some people. 1:22:07.680 --> 1:22:10.400 You start, you know, so the more again, the more you, 1:22:10.400 --> 1:22:13.920 you know, authentically exert yourself upon the city and the world. 1:22:14.200 --> 1:22:15.679 You you you find these things. 1:22:15.920 --> 1:22:17.960 Yeah, so I mean even the fact that you came 1:22:18.200 --> 1:22:21.719 to sit and talk to a random dude on the thing. 1:22:22.080 --> 1:22:23.880 Is a good sign. 1:22:24.640 --> 1:22:27.640 So yeah, all like crazy cool art, fashion, whatever the 1:22:27.640 --> 1:22:29.200 fuck shit exists? 1:22:29.479 --> 1:22:30.720 Ye do you? 1:22:30.800 --> 1:22:34.160 I'll give you some like Instagram pages to follow and 1:22:34.200 --> 1:22:34.760 some shit too. 1:22:34.840 --> 1:22:37.240 Later after we've done this, I appreciate that someone take 1:22:37.240 --> 1:22:38.080 a little video of us. 1:22:38.080 --> 1:22:40.559 What's up? How's it going? Look at this guy? Look 1:22:40.560 --> 1:22:44.560 at this guy? Who's this guy? I love this combination. 1:22:44.760 --> 1:22:47.320 Look at this guy. He's got a combination. I've never 1:22:47.360 --> 1:22:51.000 seen a combination of a leopard print shirt with an 1:22:51.160 --> 1:22:54.160 army bag and he's got the leopard. 1:22:54.320 --> 1:23:03.080 Uh yeah, look at this guy? Well why do I? Man? 1:23:05.160 --> 1:23:09.120 Nice to see you too, man, God bless But yeah, dude, 1:23:09.120 --> 1:23:10.599 you're you're in a great position. 1:23:10.880 --> 1:23:12.720 Yeah, I feel And that's the good thing is I'm 1:23:12.760 --> 1:23:15.600 giving myself time. Like I said, I'm navigating it. I 1:23:15.600 --> 1:23:18.080 feel like I'm in a good place. Uh, sometimes I 1:23:18.080 --> 1:23:20.080 could get it lonely. You know, I haven't really made 1:23:20.120 --> 1:23:21.800 too many friends out here yet, so that's why I 1:23:21.800 --> 1:23:23.599 was like, let me, let me, let me just sit 1:23:23.680 --> 1:23:25.479 down and have a good conversation for once. 1:23:25.760 --> 1:23:27.000 And you see, like I said, you seem like a 1:23:27.040 --> 1:23:28.840 really interesting guy. Yeah, you're doing well here. 1:23:28.880 --> 1:23:31.080 After after we're done, there's a couple of like, uh, 1:23:31.240 --> 1:23:34.439 like email lists I'm on and like Instagram pages. 1:23:34.960 --> 1:23:37.679 I'll give yeah, for sure, for sure. Can I ask 1:23:37.680 --> 1:23:40.400 you some questions? Yeah, hit man? Okay, is that what? 1:23:40.600 --> 1:23:42.240 You just have one suit or you have multiple suits? 1:23:42.240 --> 1:23:46.320 Oh? I have I have well, I don't know anymore. Honestly, 1:23:46.360 --> 1:23:48.120 I have a this is a hundred. I just have 1:23:48.160 --> 1:23:52.080 a room and it's got a pile of like there's 1:23:52.120 --> 1:23:54.439 five parts to wait, there's five parts to the suit. 1:23:54.479 --> 1:23:58.519 There's there's the head, the hands, which are technically two parts, 1:23:58.560 --> 1:24:06.639 but actually no, there's there's Okay, I'm gonna count this one, two, three, four, five, six, seven. 1:24:06.680 --> 1:24:10.200 There's seven parts to the suit, okay, two hands, two feet, 1:24:10.280 --> 1:24:14.160 a torso, pants, and a head. And I just have 1:24:15.320 --> 1:24:19.760 an amalgam a big green pile of parts. 1:24:19.360 --> 1:24:19.880 Of the suit. 1:24:19.920 --> 1:24:22.280 It's awesome, just a room of like like you know 1:24:22.439 --> 1:24:27.240 in the Simpsons, the giant burning tower of tires. That's 1:24:27.280 --> 1:24:30.120 why I have that, but with uh with echo suits. 1:24:30.240 --> 1:24:32.800 So I don't know how many that compiles when you 1:24:32.880 --> 1:24:34.639 add them up, but yeah. 1:24:34.640 --> 1:24:35.840 That's that's what I got. 1:24:36.240 --> 1:24:38.120 The second question is I guess, out of all the 1:24:38.160 --> 1:24:41.200 interviews I've ever done, what was the most interesting thing 1:24:41.280 --> 1:24:43.559 You've learned about yourself in the process of doing this? 1:24:43.640 --> 1:24:45.600 Can I tell you the truth? Yeah? 1:24:45.680 --> 1:24:47.840 I get asked this question a lot of like what's 1:24:47.880 --> 1:24:49.840 like the craziest thing you've learned, or like what's the 1:24:49.840 --> 1:24:51.120 most interesting thing you've learned? 1:24:51.240 --> 1:24:53.680 Or what have you learned about humanity? I'm gonna be 1:24:53.680 --> 1:24:54.280 honest with you. 1:24:55.479 --> 1:24:58.599 The more I travel and talk to people and do this, 1:24:59.320 --> 1:25:02.839 the more I know I don't know fucking anything. I actually, 1:25:03.640 --> 1:25:06.920 the more the more agnostic I become. Actually oh wow, 1:25:07.120 --> 1:25:09.920 yeah wow, oh wait, sorry, I'll answer in one second, but. 1:25:10.320 --> 1:25:12.720 Now altruistic, like you don't feel like you like love 1:25:12.760 --> 1:25:14.040 more because you know, like. 1:25:14.280 --> 1:25:14.880 No, I know. 1:25:14.960 --> 1:25:17.920 I become more agnostic about my beliefs, and I become 1:25:17.960 --> 1:25:21.040 more agnostic about how what I know about the world 1:25:21.120 --> 1:25:23.200 and what I know about myself and I by my 1:25:23.320 --> 1:25:26.640 identity crumbles the more I talk to people, because when 1:25:26.680 --> 1:25:28.400 you're when you're younger and when you're in high school, 1:25:28.400 --> 1:25:30.040 it's way easier to have a sense of identity and 1:25:30.080 --> 1:25:32.160 an ego. And then the more you talk to people 1:25:32.160 --> 1:25:34.120 and the more you travel and learn things and do things, 1:25:34.120 --> 1:25:37.160 the more my identity my ego crumble and I don't 1:25:37.200 --> 1:25:40.080 know and the more I know nothing. Yeah, this in 1:25:40.320 --> 1:25:42.880 uh and this is lame that I'm gonna quote this, 1:25:42.960 --> 1:25:44.839 but I'm gonna do it is in Rick and Morty. 1:25:45.880 --> 1:25:48.200 You know the actually you know what this is in 1:25:48.320 --> 1:25:48.960 Rick and Morty? 1:25:49.160 --> 1:25:49.360 Yeah? 1:25:49.439 --> 1:25:51.600 Do you know the scene where Rick is talking not 1:25:51.960 --> 1:25:54.400 when Morty's talking to Summer and he's like, you hang 1:25:54.439 --> 1:25:56.760 out with Rick, And the more you hang out with Rick, 1:25:56.840 --> 1:25:59.599 the more you know nothing and he knows everything. And 1:25:59.640 --> 1:26:01.400 all I know is that we're all gonna die and 1:26:01.400 --> 1:26:02.479 nobody belongs anywhere. 1:26:02.520 --> 1:26:05.200 Come watch TV. Yep. That is how I feel when 1:26:05.200 --> 1:26:05.639 I travel. 1:26:05.680 --> 1:26:07.160 Wow, and when I do this and when I talk 1:26:07.160 --> 1:26:10.400 to people, the more I'm like, oh, the universe knows everything. 1:26:10.520 --> 1:26:13.840 I know nothing, nothing matters, No one belongs anywhere. I'm 1:26:13.880 --> 1:26:15.559 gonna go play video games and jerk off. 1:26:15.600 --> 1:26:16.439 So I get that it. 1:26:16.439 --> 1:26:19.320 Almost feels like the Yeah, because you can't have any 1:26:19.400 --> 1:26:21.759 go at that point, especially if you're interviewing people constantly 1:26:21.800 --> 1:26:24.680 learning new stuff, and then everyone's a reflection of you. 1:26:25.040 --> 1:26:27.840 And it's honestly, it's almost less about even like the 1:26:27.880 --> 1:26:29.720 work that I do, and even just like living my 1:26:29.800 --> 1:26:32.519 life on a personal level. The older I get, the 1:26:32.560 --> 1:26:34.720 more I live my life on a personal level and 1:26:34.760 --> 1:26:37.679 I have my own personal experiences, is how I arrive 1:26:37.720 --> 1:26:39.240 at the fact that I don't fucking know anything. 1:26:39.320 --> 1:26:39.519 Yeah. 1:26:39.600 --> 1:26:41.960 Do you feel like that makes what you do harder? 1:26:41.960 --> 1:26:42.200 Though? 1:26:43.600 --> 1:26:43.760 Uh? 1:26:43.840 --> 1:26:44.200 Kind of. 1:26:44.240 --> 1:26:46.960 I think existing on the internet and having a podcast 1:26:47.080 --> 1:26:49.719 almost beckons upon you to have strong opinions. 1:26:49.880 --> 1:26:52.080 Yeah, but it's almost like you're. 1:26:53.479 --> 1:26:56.400 It's not that you're catering to the algorithm, but almost 1:26:56.400 --> 1:26:58.160 like you kind of have to in a sense. 1:26:59.200 --> 1:26:59.400 You know. 1:26:59.720 --> 1:27:02.160 Yeah, but yeah, but I mean, I don't know, we're 1:27:02.160 --> 1:27:04.479 having we're having this conversation right now, and I guess, 1:27:04.760 --> 1:27:07.400 and I guess I have expressed a strong opinion in it, yeah, 1:27:07.400 --> 1:27:10.479 which is that I don't have a lot of strong opinions, 1:27:11.080 --> 1:27:12.160 a strong opinions, but. 1:27:12.240 --> 1:27:15.160 That's hey, and what opinions changed every day. Man, you 1:27:15.160 --> 1:27:16.559 don't know who you're gonna talk to the next day. 1:27:16.600 --> 1:27:18.879 So that strong opinions does how strong is the next conversation? 1:27:19.200 --> 1:27:21.200 Oh you're gonna hate me. But what's your name again? 1:27:21.280 --> 1:27:25.080 Andrews get So it's okay, Well Andrew, listen, you're my 1:27:25.160 --> 1:27:26.920 last interview of the day. I'm gonna pack all this 1:27:26.960 --> 1:27:29.960 shit up. But is there is there any bring us home? 1:27:30.000 --> 1:27:30.320 Andrew? 1:27:30.320 --> 1:27:31.360 What do you want to say to the people of 1:27:31.360 --> 1:27:32.439 the computer before we get out? 1:27:32.560 --> 1:27:35.320 To anyone out there watching this or listening, just know 1:27:36.040 --> 1:27:38.639 that you have to. You don't have to, but it's 1:27:38.640 --> 1:27:40.640 so much beneficial if you do what you love and 1:27:40.720 --> 1:27:43.320 you are who you are, and just know that I am. 1:27:43.400 --> 1:27:45.720 That I am is the key, and you learn that 1:27:45.800 --> 1:27:49.360 you that life is coming literally out of you. 1:27:49.360 --> 1:27:51.560 You what's inside of you. You manifest. 1:27:51.600 --> 1:27:55.479 Sometimes it takes time for reality to catch up. But 1:27:55.600 --> 1:27:57.840 if you if you say I love yourself all the 1:27:57.880 --> 1:28:00.759 time in your head, you start actually bringing up to reality. 1:28:01.040 --> 1:28:03.200 So just know that I know it's not silly and 1:28:03.200 --> 1:28:04.479 woo woo, but it's true. 1:28:04.800 --> 1:28:05.000 You know. 1:28:05.320 --> 1:28:08.000 So it's been great knowing you. It's been a great conversation. 1:28:08.000 --> 1:28:08.920 I appreciate your time my friend. 1:28:08.920 --> 1:28:11.600 Appreciate you Andrew folks. Thank you guys very much for 1:28:11.680 --> 1:28:15.639 listening to the Therapy Gecko Podcast. I'm Lyle, I'm a Gecko. 1:28:17.240 --> 1:28:21.280 I'm gonna go home or not, or I'll just sleep 1:28:21.360 --> 1:28:23.080 here at the park. I don't care. I mean, I 1:28:23.120 --> 1:28:24.599 do care. I don't want to sleep at the park, 1:28:24.600 --> 1:28:26.880 but I like the park. I'm I'm this is a 1:28:26.880 --> 1:28:29.960 bad act, this is a bad outro, but it's what 1:28:30.080 --> 1:28:32.639 I said. I can't take it back. I theoretically can. 1:28:32.680 --> 1:28:34.000 I can, of course I can take it back. I 1:28:34.000 --> 1:28:35.320 can edit it out, but I'm not gonna do that. 1:28:35.520 --> 1:28:38.280 I'm gonna leave it in. Thanks for listening. I'll be 1:28:38.320 --> 1:28:40.679 back in a few days with another episode of the thing. 1:28:41.120 --> 1:28:44.360 Ghek bless you. Thanks for being here. See you guys 1:28:44.360 --> 1:28:45.080 around the universe.