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Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome to the Therapy Gecko Podcast. I am Lyle,

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Speaker 1: I am a gecko. I am in New York City

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Speaker 1: in a park. Today is what day is today? Does

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Speaker 1: anyone know what day it is? Today? Is August something,

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Speaker 1: and it's something. It's sometime in the afternoon. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: The time is now. It will never be August. What

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Speaker 1: day is today? Today's August twenty fifth. It will never

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Speaker 1: be August twenty fifth, twenty twenty five ever again. And

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Speaker 1: that is why I have come to the park to

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Speaker 1: be a gecko and talk to people about life. This

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Speaker 1: is what I'm gonna do with my time alive on

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Speaker 1: the earth. This is how I'm spending the one August

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Speaker 1: twenty fifth, twenty twenty five that I get and by

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Speaker 1: God is in an honor. So let's talk to some

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Speaker 1: people at the park about life. It'll be fun, great, sick.

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Speaker 1: Let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Hi. What's your name?

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Speaker 3: I'm Sid, Sid.

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Speaker 2: Nice to meet you.

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Speaker 3: Nice to meet you.

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Speaker 2: What's going on, Sid? How's life?

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Speaker 3: Life is pretty good? Just moved into NYU.

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Speaker 2: Oh very nice. What are you studying.

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Speaker 3: I'm studying recorded me.

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Speaker 2: You're studying recorded music?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So this is the opposite of studying music production.

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Speaker 1: This is the music has been recorded and now we're

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Speaker 1: gonna study it.

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Speaker 3: So it's kind of everything. It's the school for like

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Speaker 3: just an overarching music education. So it's production, it's songwriting,

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Speaker 3: it's the business, it's it's a little school inside of this.

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Speaker 3: It's a very small program, but it's just it's a

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Speaker 3: school of recorded music.

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Speaker 2: So basically, what are your dreams for the future. Is

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Speaker 2: it to record music or to recorded music?

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Speaker 3: Well, I'd like to be an artist, a singer, a performer,

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Speaker 3: and I record my own music already. But yeah, my

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Speaker 3: dream is to be a touring artist.

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Speaker 2: I uh, you use to be a touring artist?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Very nice, very cool. What do you make music about?

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Speaker 6: Do you sing?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I sing, So singing is my main thing. My music

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Speaker 3: is just a lot about my personal experiences and personal

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Speaker 3: things that have happened in my life because I just

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Speaker 3: I like to make music to try to make music

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Speaker 3: relates to people as best as I can.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what uh I mean? For whatever?

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Speaker 6: For whatever?

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Speaker 1: You want to talk about what happened? What what's happened

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Speaker 1: in your life?

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Speaker 3: Well, I've had some interesting relationships with people, just friendships,

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Speaker 3: not friendships, and I write about them, and I write

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Speaker 3: about the good things and the bad things and high school,

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Speaker 3: which is, you know, an experience for everybody.

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Speaker 1: Do you talk so you go like Taylor Swift mode

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Speaker 1: a little bit? Okay, a little bit?

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Speaker 2: And how old are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm seventeen, You're seventeen? Yes, Oh, so you're still in

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Speaker 1: high school?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: I'm in college.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Did you graduate a year early?

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Speaker 3: No, just just a little, a little delayed, about to

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Speaker 3: turn eighteen?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So what?

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Speaker 1: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Who are who?

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Speaker 2: Were like the artists that you like?

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Speaker 3: Well, my favorite of all time is Billie Eilish, Okay,

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Speaker 3: obsessed with her?

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Speaker 2: She's cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm very like singer songwriter. So I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you know like Lizzie Mcallpin. She's beautiful voice.

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Speaker 3: I love her, saw her in concert, pretty great.

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Speaker 1: I don't I feel anyone that you know, I almost

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Speaker 1: guarantee I don't know. I know Billy, I don't know

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Speaker 1: Billie Eilish is who do I listen to? I search

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Speaker 1: Royalty free jazz music on YouTube and I listened to

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Speaker 1: whatever that is. It's probably AI generated, Honestly, it's good.

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Speaker 1: I don't know like the names of people, Okay, fair fair,

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Speaker 1: But I mean that's cool. So do you like post

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Speaker 1: music on the internet.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So I.

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Speaker 3: Have three songs out right now, and I have a

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Speaker 3: new one and it's coming on September nineteenth, and that's

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Speaker 3: like on Spotify and anything you want to stream it on.

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Speaker 3: And then I'm pretty active on TikTok as well, and

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Speaker 3: I post like a lot of covers and just like

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Speaker 3: about my life.

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Speaker 1: So it's it's August, like, I see you have barely

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Speaker 1: even been in school yet you just moved in two days,

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Speaker 1: are you How do you Are you nervous?

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Speaker 2: Are you excited? How do you feel both?

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Speaker 3: I'm definitely nervous. I'm from the city as well, so

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Speaker 3: it's a less of a big change for me as

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Speaker 3: it is for other people.

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Speaker 1: For you grew up in New York. What was that

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Speaker 1: like going to high school in New York? Because it's

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Speaker 1: are there any there's no TV? All the TV shows

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Speaker 1: in Los Angeles, Like, there's none, none of them are

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Speaker 1: there's no like high school shows that are in New York?

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Speaker 2: Are they think?

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Speaker 3: So?

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Speaker 2: So, what's that experience like?

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Speaker 3: It's definitely a little bit crazy. I high school was

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Speaker 3: it was an experience, so I was definitely ready for

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Speaker 3: college for sure. I mean it's kind of all I've

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Speaker 3: ever known because I've just grown up in the city.

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Speaker 3: And when I was younger, I did not like the city.

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Speaker 3: But as I got to high school and stuff, I

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Speaker 3: I definitely grew to like this, like love the city

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Speaker 3: in high school because there was a lot more independence

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Speaker 3: than my friends in the suburbs who are just getting

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Speaker 3: their driver's license and I can't drive.

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It would be a waste of time for you to

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Speaker 1: learn how to drive in New York. Yeah, so is

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Speaker 1: your I guess. So you went to high school like what,

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Speaker 1: you went high school in Manhattan? Yeah, holy shit? Okay,

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Speaker 1: and then you're going to college in Manhattan. So your

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Speaker 1: life is not going to be that much different.

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Speaker 3: No, But I mean it is different in a way

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Speaker 3: because I'm doing what I like want to. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I wanted to do music forever and so now I'm

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Speaker 3: actually I get to go to school for it. And

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Speaker 3: six out of seven of my classes are music classes,

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Speaker 3: and I have a writing class that I have to take.

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Speaker 1: It's exciting. Yeah, that's exciting. Okay, I guess uh hmm.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think if I have any questions for

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Speaker 1: you about life. Well, and you're here with your two homies.

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Speaker 3: Yes, one is my roommate.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you guys just meet?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well we had been texting a little bit, but

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Speaker 3: we did just meet.

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Speaker 2: Are you getting along well?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 3: I love her. It's a great match.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: And another one is my sister.

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Speaker 2: Do you sister get along well?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, biggest supporter, promoter. She helps me hang these

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Speaker 3: flyers all around the city. You might you might see

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Speaker 3: them if you're walking around today. They say looking for

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Speaker 3: fans of my music. And so they're like, oh, they're

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Speaker 3: a play on the guy that put the posters all around,

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Speaker 1: And I actually think I have seen I actually I

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Speaker 1: actually have seen that. No, are they they have like

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Speaker 1: the little tear off shit right looking for fans. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's kind of it's like a play on like a

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Okay, I've seen that. Okay, I've seen I haven't

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Speaker 1: seen the looking I've seen your thing. I haven't seen

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Speaker 1: looking for a perfect woman? Is there only that's you?

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Speaker 1: I feel there's not like another person. I actually it's funny,

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Speaker 1: I actually have seen that.

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Speaker 2: That's crazy, all right, cool?

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Speaker 1: I have people like found you through that? How long

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Speaker 1: have you been putting those up? Because I feel like

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Speaker 1: I saw that like a month ago, a couple of

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Speaker 2: You've been putting them out for a while. Yeah. Have

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Speaker 2: you had people like message you being like I found

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Speaker 2: you through that? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I have a bunch of like Instagram and TikTok comments

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Speaker 3: being like, oh, like I found your poster in Chelsea

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Speaker 3: and Washington Square Park, Like, so glad I found your music.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty cool, very exciting stuff.

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope that your musical journey is successful.

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Speaker 2: I hope you don't.

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Speaker 1: I hope you don't get jaded by the world. I

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Speaker 1: hope you continue to love life. And uh, that's all

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Speaker 1: I can really hope for you. I think you're gonna

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Speaker 1: I think you're gonna do great, dude. I mean you're

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Speaker 1: gonna live amazing life. And you know, I mean, someone's

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Speaker 2: Is there anything else you want to say to the

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Speaker 3: Well, if you want to listen to my music, my

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Speaker 3: name is Sid Sid Hudson And yeah, that's it.

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Speaker 2: Marker, thank you. I'll see you around the universe by Sid.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 1: What's your name? My name is Drew because you want

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Speaker 1: to hold the microphone? Sure, my name is Drew.

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Speaker 2: How's life going, Drew?

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Speaker 6: It's going good.

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Speaker 9: I actually drew some celebrities, okay, Seth Rogen and like

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Speaker 9: Bill Murray and like Elton.

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Speaker 2: John You drew Bill Murray and Elton I give an

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Speaker 2: ar piece and everything. Oh okay, how did you get

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Speaker 9: I just like met them, like you know, just like

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Speaker 9: bumped into them and like just like drew them, like

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Speaker 9: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Like how did you bump into the can I actually

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Speaker 2: just hold the mic?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, but yeah, I just bump into them, like I

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Speaker 9: just like like randomly and I just like find some

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Speaker 9: like I just like see them and they're like, you know,

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Speaker 9: I say hi and everything, and like I asked them

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Speaker 9: to ask them to draw them.

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Speaker 6: And then I draw them and then take the arpiece.

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Speaker 2: Now where did you bump into Seth Rogan?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, oh, okay, and you and you were just

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Speaker 1: like you just drew them and you gave him the thing.

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Speaker 2: That's cool. How many celebrities have you bumped into?

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Speaker 6: Ten?

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Speaker 2: Ten?

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Speaker 4: Ten?

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Speaker 6: And I also bumped into a you ten bumped into twelve?

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Speaker 9: So I also saw Pamela Anderson like twice okay, she

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Speaker 9: was jogging. And also saw Nicki Minaj. She was like

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Speaker 9: she was like a surprisingly really nice person.

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Speaker 2: How do you how do you randomly bump into these celebrities?

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Speaker 9: I don't know, I just like I just come across them.

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Speaker 9: Of like anime with like like you know, I watched like.

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Speaker 9: Like our and like like I feel like celebrity culture

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Speaker 9: Movies and ship and like TV shows like Friends and

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Speaker 6: I was like I was like, I was like stone

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, you.

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Speaker 2: What's your what's your name again? I'm sorry, Drew.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and my video game.

454
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Speaker 2: I like, I like that your name is you draw

455
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Speaker 2: and your name is Drew.

456
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Speaker 6: So Drew, Drew.

457
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Speaker 1: Sorry, that's stupid. Has anyone ever said that to you before? Okay,

458
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Speaker 1: I'm glad. That's a stupid thing to say, But I'm nobody.

459
00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:04,000
Speaker 1: Nobody's ever said that. Nobody never made the connection.

460
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Speaker 6: Not really, I do not really maybe they maybe they

461
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Speaker 6: think about it.

462
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Speaker 2: But what was your childhood? Like did you have a

463
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Speaker 2: nice childhood?

464
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Speaker 6: I like traveled a lot.

465
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Speaker 2: Where'd you go?

466
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Speaker 9: I went to Europe a lot? And why I don't know,

467
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Speaker 9: Like I studied there. Like I went to like, uh

468
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Speaker 9: private school, and like would study there and like would

469
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Speaker 9: like read like the best textbooks in the world and

470
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Speaker 9: like just like really learn ship and I liked that experience,

471
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Speaker 9: and like, I don't know, it's like almost like I

472
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Speaker 9: still went to school, but I still would have done

473
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Speaker 9: well with the school schooling I got when I was

474
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Speaker 9: really young, because private school is like that good. And

475
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Speaker 9: I feel like if you like went to private school

476
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Speaker 9: for a long time, it would just be so much

477
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Speaker 9: knowledge like somebody.

478
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Speaker 6: Sometimes people say too much on it, but I don't know.

479
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Speaker 9: I feel I feel like at least I went to

480
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Speaker 9: private school, and maybe like.

481
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Speaker 6: The amount of teaching I got, I was like just enough.

482
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Speaker 6: But I don't know. I went to private school and

483
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Speaker 6: I was really young.

484
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Speaker 9: I liked I like to go in private school.

485
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Speaker 1: Would yeah, would you say if are you do you

486
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Speaker 1: think you have kids?

487
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Speaker 6: One day, I'll put them in private school?

488
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Speaker 2: You put them in private school?

489
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Speaker 1: Really, I feel like I'm like, I'm pretty I went

490
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Speaker 1: to private school for a few years. Yeah, but I

491
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Speaker 1: think public public school is good, right, because you don't

492
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Speaker 1: want to like you want you want your kids to

493
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Speaker 1: be in the world, don't you word?

494
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Speaker 6: Yeah, So I.

495
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Speaker 9: Wouldn't give them a lot of like like year school

496
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Speaker 9: time or like yearly like like maybe like five years

497
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Speaker 9: or something or ten.

498
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Speaker 6: I don't know, maybe ten. I don't know. It depends.

499
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Speaker 6: I had like five.

500
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Speaker 9: Years of like private school when I was really young,

501
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Speaker 9: So I don't know.

502
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Speaker 6: I feel that's a good mouth, but I don't know.

503
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Speaker 6: This good question, Drew.

504
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Speaker 1: Is there anything else you want to say to the people,

505
00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:56,919
Speaker 1: like a computer before we go?

506
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Speaker 6: You're a really cool dude.

507
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Speaker 2: Oh thanks, Sure? You are too, man.

508
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:01,280
Speaker 9: You should people should keep watching a show thank you

509
00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,719
Speaker 9: because it's like it's just hilarious and thanks watching one episode.

510
00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 2: But yeah, shit, thanks Ruey. I'll see okay, I'll see

511
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Speaker 2: you later.

512
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Speaker 8: Man.

513
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Speaker 1: I hope you run into Lizzie McGuire or whatever. Yeah,

514
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Speaker 1: I'll see you on the universe.

515
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Speaker 6: Man.

516
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:15,719
Speaker 2: Hey, what's your name?

517
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:16,680
Speaker 4: What's your name?

518
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:18,000
Speaker 2: My name is Lyle, Lyle.

519
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:18,800
Speaker 4: Nice to meet you.

520
00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 1: I just had to be a dick to those guys.

521
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 1: Why you know, sometimes you got to be a dick.

522
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Speaker 2: I don't know.

523
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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, the selection here's well, okay, here's the thing,

524
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Speaker 1: the selection processes. I mean, we're near NYU, So there's

525
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Speaker 1: a lot of like.

526
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Speaker 2: Like eighteen year old college students here. No, I don't.

527
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Speaker 1: There's a lot of like eighteen year college students. And

528
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Speaker 1: also that happens to be a demographic of people who

529
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Speaker 1: I think have seen my show on TikTok. But I

530
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Speaker 1: don't want to just interview eighteen year old college students.

531
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Speaker 1: So and I also don't want to interview people who

532
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Speaker 1: really want to be on. I want I want someone

533
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Speaker 1: to begrudgingly be I want to someone who's like I

534
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,920
Speaker 1: don't know, if I really want to, and then they

535
00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,440
Speaker 1: come to be on that, and then then we get

536
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 1: you know, people who always people who want to really

537
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:12,879
Speaker 1: want to be on the show generally don't have a

538
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Speaker 1: lot of set to say.

539
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Speaker 2: I guess I really don't have.

540
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Speaker 4: A lot to say. Is there anything you want to

541
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Speaker 4: talk about it?

542
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Speaker 6: Yeah?

543
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Speaker 2: Sure?

544
00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 6: Wait?

545
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Speaker 2: What's your name? Nor Lyle? Nice to meet you. Okay,

546
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 2: so you're not a college student.

547
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Speaker 6: Who are you?

548
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Speaker 2: What do you do? Why'd you drop out?

549
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Speaker 4: Fuck? Fordham University? I'm joking. I'm joking. I did go

550
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Speaker 4: to Fordham for a little It was just too expensive.

551
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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good reason. Wait, nor can you hold

552
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Speaker 1: the microphone like?

553
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, So how was dropping out?

554
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,360
Speaker 4: It was pretty chill, you know, dropped out. I'm going

555
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Speaker 4: back to school now, going around to community college.

556
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Speaker 2: So okay, how's community calls going?

557
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Speaker 4: I've been started. I don't know. Man, I'm kind of scared.

558
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,199
Speaker 2: Why you're scared? Tell me why? What's you're scared of?

559
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,159
Speaker 4: Because low ki covid funched me over. I was so

560
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Speaker 4: used to like online school, and this is like my

561
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Speaker 4: first time in a hot minute, going back in person.

562
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Speaker 2: Really, it's been fun years man, dude, I.

563
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Speaker 4: Was like kind of in school towards out of high school,

564
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Speaker 4: but like like it wasn't like really, I don't know.

565
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 4: I just got really used online.

566
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Speaker 2: This is your first time going. What have you been

567
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Speaker 2: doing for the past five years?

568
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Speaker 6: Dude?

569
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Speaker 4: Literally fucking around? Can I say this on the show?

570
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 2: Can I say? You say whatever you want?

571
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Speaker 4: I've been on a bender for the past month.

572
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Speaker 2: I've been on a bender kind of bender.

573
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Speaker 4: Literally, I just be going out any club in Bushwick

574
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Speaker 4: I'm there probably unfortunately.

575
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Speaker 2: Okay, why.

576
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Speaker 6: How old are you?

577
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Speaker 4: Twenty one?

578
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Speaker 2: Okay? Do you have do you have children?

579
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Speaker 4: I take care of children.

580
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Speaker 2: Actually that's yeah, that's different though, do you have are

581
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Speaker 2: do you? Are you responsible to anyone in any way,

582
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Speaker 2: shape or form?

583
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Speaker 6: Really?

584
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Speaker 4: All right, my bunny?

585
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Speaker 1: But ap okay, all right, so you don't have any

586
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Speaker 1: living thing that requires you to be all right?

587
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,320
Speaker 2: So yeah, this is a living thing. But great, that's fine.

588
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, going on benders, I think there's

589
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Speaker 1: a Look, here's the thing. We all have it in us, right,

590
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,640
Speaker 1: and we got we all gotta get it out right,

591
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: and I better to get it out now when you

592
00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: nobody gives this shit exactly like you know. Look, if

593
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Speaker 1: you were forty five and you had two kids and

594
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,639
Speaker 1: they were starving and you were out at the club,

595
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Speaker 1: that'd q that'd be a little questionable.

596
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 2: But you're fine. Who cares go get drunk, Go live

597
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 2: your life.

598
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Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying.

599
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Speaker 1: I mean, don't you know there's a balance right because

600
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Speaker 1: you want to you don't want to get drunk and

601
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 1: live your life too much and then you realize you

602
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: never did anything with it.

603
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 4: Get out the way now when I'm like twenty one and.

604
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Speaker 2: Have it like in me, how have the vendor's been going?

605
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 2: You having fun?

606
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,400
Speaker 4: I've been having a lot of fun. Yeah, okay, yeah,

607
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,399
Speaker 4: I'm about a drink. I actually just smoked before this. Okay,

608
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 4: get on here.

609
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Speaker 2: But it's not illegal. I don't think nah, I don't

610
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Speaker 2: think it's legal.

611
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Speaker 4: This guy over here, I'm here with this guy from Amsterdam.

612
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Speaker 2: Honest, Oh he looks a little Dutch. How do you

613
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 2: know this Dutch guy?

614
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:54,159
Speaker 4: That's how we know each other? Uh tinder so close

615
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,240
Speaker 4: hinge We met on Hinge. Okay, I this is our

616
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Speaker 4: first time meeting. We've been talking for like, oh.

617
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Speaker 2: This is his first time meeting like so long.

618
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Speaker 4: This is our first time meeting.

619
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Speaker 2: Okay, do you want to come up? Do you want

620
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Speaker 2: to talk?

621
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Speaker 4: Come here? Come here?

622
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,919
Speaker 2: You don't want to you have a come up? Is you?

623
00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:15,159
Speaker 2: I mean you know, if you don't have to, you

624
00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 2: don't want to. I don't guys.

625
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 4: This is what his name is?

626
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 6: All right?

627
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: What's his name?

628
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 6: Glue?

629
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Speaker 2: Glue?

630
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Speaker 6: Is that?

631
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna guess. Really funny, hold on, I'm gonna guess.

632
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 1: His name is Dufinlage.

633
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 2: What what is it?

634
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 4: It's tunis Lute. His first name, tunis Loute.

635
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 6: See.

636
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: You can make fun of Europeans because they've been Dick's

637
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: for all of history. You can make fun of Americans

638
00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: and Europeans because they've all they've just been assholes for

639
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: the whole time.

640
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 4: Nah, i'd be saying, I don't know what you're saying.

641
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 4: You hang it in at Urgan. So that's kind of fun.

642
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love you too, man, Thank you very much.

643
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: What okay, wait, wait, what's his name again? Tunis Lute?

644
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: Tunis lute? That's cool. Do you get free healthcare? He

645
00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,560
Speaker 1: gets free healthcare. We can make fun of him.

646
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 4: You don't get free healthcare in the Netherlands.

647
00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to. If you don't want

648
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 1: to talk on the microphone. I can't. He can't here,

649
00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 1: hold on, I'll talk. I'll just talk to you. If

650
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,360
Speaker 1: he's not gonna talk on the microphone, I don't want

651
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: to talk to.

652
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 4: Him, but it's okay.

653
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I do want. I want to talk

654
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Speaker 2: to you.

655
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: But if he doesn't want to talk, but you're you're like,

656
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,640
Speaker 1: it's like talking to a ghost right now. If I'm

657
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 1: talking to you and you're over there and I can't,

658
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 1: it's okay, it's all right. I'll talk to you. Nor

659
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 1: I'll talk to I'll okay, So nor out of the question.

660
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 1: Toutis lose out of the question. Okay, So you met

661
00:26:35,760 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: this Amsterdami and man, Yeah, I'm hinge, right, Okay, how's

662
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:40,800
Speaker 1: hinge going for you?

663
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 4: I'm actually two weeks two months sober off hinge.

664
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: But so are you? Okuys you met this guy first

665
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: on hinge. You guys were texting for a while. Yeah, okay, I.

666
00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 4: Mean I'm a hingebop. I can't lie I'm a hingebop.

667
00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:53,400
Speaker 2: What's a hingebop?

668
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 4: I'm just using hinge too much? Like why am I

669
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:56,680
Speaker 4: on hinge so much?

670
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Speaker 1: You know?

671
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 2: That's okay? I use I use Hinge a lot too, dude.

672
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 4: It's it's dangerous. You get on there and then like

673
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 4: you just start talking all these like I used to

674
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:06,520
Speaker 4: be an amagal kid. I used to be one of

675
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 4: the Yeah, so this is like a megal but like

676
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 4: low key, like attracted people and like consentually seeing dick

677
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 4: you know.

678
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: Okay, but okay, yeah, how are you?

679
00:27:19,840 --> 00:27:23,360
Speaker 2: Are you enjoying the hinge life?

680
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:25,959
Speaker 4: I'm not enjoying hinge. That's why I deleted it.

681
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:27,479
Speaker 2: Okay, cool, How's how has it been?

682
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:28,720
Speaker 4: Thoughts on hinge?

683
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 2: Sorry the crowd?

684
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: Hold wait, we're we're having a conversation. I can't talk

685
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: to that. I can't talk to them. They're not I

686
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:41,400
Speaker 1: only have I only have two microphones. Okay, okay, hold on, So.

687
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:43,359
Speaker 4: Give me your thoughts on hinge. Like, I know you

688
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,159
Speaker 4: use it, but like, what are your thoughts? Like I

689
00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 4: feel like it's a scam.

690
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:48,879
Speaker 1: I have a lot of thoughts on hinge. One is

691
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: I think hinge has changed? First of all, as I

692
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 1: use Hinge, I'm fully realizing and understanding that it is.

693
00:27:58,320 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 2: Hey, there's pros and constant hinge.

694
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:01,679
Speaker 1: One of the cons is that as I'm using it

695
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 1: and the longer I use it, the more I'm like,

696
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 1: this is doing something irreversibly damaging to my brain.

697
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, it's.

698
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 4: Like the validation and then like low key, this is

699
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 4: so on a pocket not every Okay, no one's ugly.

700
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 4: They're just not my type, right, but i'd be getting

701
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 4: the craziest people liking my hands when I'm like dog,

702
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 4: like i think I'm chopped, Like.

703
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,480
Speaker 2: Well no, well, well okay, so there's.

704
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 4: Subjectively but like still I'm like dog, I think this

705
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 4: is a scam, and I think they're trying to get

706
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,000
Speaker 4: you to pay for Hinge premium.

707
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:29,399
Speaker 2: Of course, they're trying to get you to pay for

708
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:29,920
Speaker 2: Hinge previous.

709
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 4: Look that, bro, I'm gonna go out to the bar

710
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 4: and find my husband. Like that's what I'm gonna do, Well,

711
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 4: Hinge exactly, That's what I'm gonna That's what I'm doing.

712
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: But also also people dog pusing, people dog on dating apps,

713
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: and there's good reasons why people dog today. But like

714
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: everything every part of life, every every era of life,

715
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 1: like okay, the nineteen hundreds, right you or like whatever,

716
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: like when when we lived in villages, It's like, okay,

717
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: we used to live in I'm talking completely out of

718
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: my asshole right now. But we used to It used

719
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: to be you, they're was it. There was another girl

720
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,240
Speaker 1: in the village or another boy in the village, and

721
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: they were the only person that you had sex with forever,

722
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: and then you died, And that has its pros and cons. Right, Okay,

723
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: you know that has his pros and cons. And then

724
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 1: there's hinge and you can have your infinite your perceived

725
00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: choice of an infinite amount of people to have sex

726
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: with their date or get married too, and that has

727
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 1: its pros and cons, so that there's no better or worse.

728
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 4: Wait, like Swiss topics. So you see how we have

729
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 4: all those options.

730
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 7: Though.

731
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 4: That's why New York City is the worst fucking dating pool.

732
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 1: Whycause but that's not an objectively bad or good thing.

733
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 4: I think everyone is fucking situation shipts central. Right now,

734
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 4: riddle me that weather boy, well, gecko boy, I don't know.

735
00:29:46,960 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, say this again.

736
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 4: Why do you think, like, no, it's situationship central. Well,

737
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:57,520
Speaker 4: it's like too hard to make a choice.

738
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, but it depends on who you are, and

739
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: it depends on what you value. Right, because there's something

740
00:30:02,120 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question, because there's some people

741
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: who are different. Well I'm not I mean, you can

742
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 1: answer this specifically, but there's some people who they want

743
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 1: a wide variety of connections throughout their life, and there's

744
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 1: some people who want just one. And then you know,

745
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: you get the opportunity to connect with people you would

746
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: have never connected with before through these apps, I guess.

747
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 1: And yes, there is a paradox of choice that it presents,

748
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 1: and that's a legitimate paradox of choice. But you know,

749
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 1: it's just a new thing that has its pros and cons,

750
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: just like the old things had.

751
00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 4: But like, would you rather just like NonStop, like be

752
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 4: talking to all these people wasting your energy and they're

753
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 4: like you never find the right person because like it's

754
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 4: just like everything is so unseerious and like there's so

755
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 4: much short term gratification from those apps.

756
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree with everything you're saying.

757
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I agree that having an endless amount of

758
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: choices and talking to another of people, I agree that

759
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:54,320
Speaker 1: it's emotionally taxing. But again it's pros and cons because

760
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 1: think about like those think about like these old couples

761
00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 1: who hate each other. Do you have you ever met

762
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 1: to parents are divorced Okay, your parents, did your parents

763
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 1: when you your grub, did your parents like hate each

764
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: other a little bit?

765
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 2: Okay, so your your.

766
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: Parents probably grew up without this paradox of choice. And

767
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 1: so the people used to just get married to whoever

768
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: was fucking around, right, so that had that was a

769
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 1: pro There was pros to that. It was two people

770
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 1: and there was no decision paralysis and they just had

771
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: to fucking sit and make it work.

772
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 2: And there's something really beautiful and amazing about that.

773
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 1: But there's a sort of con of like, you know,

774
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,719
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, we're trapped in this thing that

775
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: we got into because we was just the thing that

776
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 1: was there. And so again, all these things they have

777
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: pros and cons. So you now have the opportunity to

778
00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 1: sift through hundreds of different dudes to see which one

779
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 1: is the one that you feel the most naturally aligned to,

780
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: which is emotionally taxing but also is better than you

781
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: just you know, being with the first guy that was around,

782
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 1: and it was maybe not the right.

783
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:00,959
Speaker 4: These people and like you can break up whatever. But

784
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 4: like what I liked about pre dating apps is like

785
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 4: when you met someone, it was like I believe in

786
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 4: the fact that like things are meant to be, so

787
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 4: I feel like you were meant to meet that person.

788
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 4: It's like destiny or whatever. So I don't know, i'd

789
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 4: prefer that over Hinge and like Tinder like that. The

790
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 4: options are nice, but that's my hot take.

791
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if I believe in something really no universe.

792
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 4: I think I'm sitting here right now. I feel like

793
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,560
Speaker 4: the universe like why am I here? Like imagine if

794
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 4: I came like a few hours later or a few

795
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 4: hours earlier, I would to have been sitting here.

796
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: I sure that somebody else would be and I'd be

797
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: doing that and you'd be doing something else.

798
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 4: True, but like it's like we're interacting right now, so

799
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 4: it's like it means something, you know, Like I feel

800
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 4: like we're.

801
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,520
Speaker 1: Meant to like it means whatever we want it to mean.

802
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: There's no the universe has no laws. Okay, there's no

803
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 1: judge jury of the universe. Right, you're the judge and

804
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: jury in God of your own life, which means that

805
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: you can derive meaning from whatever you choose to be

806
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: and it's inherently valid because you're God.

807
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 4: But I like co star decide that for me. I

808
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 4: don't really do that deciding what coast You don't know

809
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 4: what coastar?

810
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 2: Wait? Astrology?

811
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 4: Yes, okay, it's probably a fucking scam, but I use that.

812
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 2: Do you pay premium?

813
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 4: No? I don't pay premium. I just like make it

814
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 4: go along. I'm like, if I see something and it's like, oh,

815
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 4: do it gives you like three dus three domes? Right?

816
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 2: What are your three dues and three dots of the day.

817
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: This is not an ad for coast Star, by the way,

818
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 1: this is a completely random thing.

819
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 4: Oh my god. Wait, my ex texted me. I haven't

820
00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:26,320
Speaker 4: talked to him in two years.

821
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: Wait your sex? You just now?

822
00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 6: Yes?

823
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:35,959
Speaker 4: I showed my should I read this? Okay, standard first generation?

824
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 4: I don't even know what that means. Anyways, let's see

825
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 4: what our thing is.

826
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: Okay for today?

827
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 4: Okay, guys, My co star for today is love is

828
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 4: when a question mark feels more like a period. Oh dude,

829
00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 4: friend zone, borrowed items, hold hands, don't hot takes nitpicks?

830
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 2: Wait, I said, wait, let me look at this again.

831
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

832
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, Okay, so the okay, So this is

833
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 1: cost Star. This is not an ad, but co Star

834
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: is like an astrology app. And what's your what's your sign?

835
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 4: I'm a cancer?

836
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:06,360
Speaker 2: Okay? So this is so every cancer who has this app.

837
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 4: Gets this, Yes, every cancer, but not technically every cancer.

838
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 4: It goes based on like when you were born, what

839
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 4: city you were born in?

840
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:14,439
Speaker 2: Okay, so you gave co Star all this shit?

841
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, oh, you gave it your social Security number

842
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,800
Speaker 1: and it was like, here's what is going on with you?

843
00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 4: Don't I don't even realized I carried my social Security

844
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 4: number on me up until like last week. It was

845
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 4: in my wallet. I didn't know that.

846
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,359
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, all right, So I'm gonna let

847
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: me read this, Okay. So love is when a question

848
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: mark feels more like a period. Stop hunting for hitting meetings.

849
00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: In your partner's words, your suspicion is creating the very

850
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 1: distance you fear.

851
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 2: Woo.

852
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: Okay, co Star, this is definitely written by Ai. Okay,

853
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 1: So dudes, friend zone, borrowed items, holding hands, don't hot takes, nitpicks,

854
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 1: strong sense, Okay do you So what do you do

855
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 1: with this information?

856
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,919
Speaker 4: I mean, I feel like it goes pretty accurately because

857
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 4: I'm here with a guy from Hinge and we're friends now,

858
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 4: so I feel like it's already going in the red direct.

859
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:00,839
Speaker 2: That's cool.

860
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, this guy, this is the this is such a standard,

861
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,280
Speaker 1: polite European man, just standing there.

862
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:10,320
Speaker 4: So scared of me. He was like, I'm so scared

863
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 4: to meet you. I don't want dude looking at your

864
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 4: face right now?

865
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: Is so? Why did he say he was scared of you?

866
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 4: Why wouldn't he be scared of me?

867
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 10: Like?

868
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 2: Why wouldn't What reasons do you believe him?

869
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:23,560
Speaker 4: So many reasons? Why are you scared of me? Give

870
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 4: me some reason.

871
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 2: We can't talk to him.

872
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:26,800
Speaker 1: He doesn't want to be talked to, and he doesn't

873
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: have a microphone where I'm all, I can only learn

874
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 1: about him vicariously through you. Why why what reasons have

875
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: you given him to be scared of you?

876
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 4: Probably because I'm like loud and crazy and I like,

877
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,040
Speaker 4: oh my god, I loke. He did block him for

878
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 4: a month when I was in Norway, I got mad

879
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 4: at him.

880
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 2: Why did you get mad at him when you were

881
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 2: in Norway?

882
00:35:44,040 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 6: Oh?

883
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: Was he supposed to go? Were you supposed to go

884
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: to Norway? I'm not gonna talk to you. Was he

885
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 1: supposed to go to Norway?

886
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 2: I didn't know.

887
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: I guess he was supposed to go to Norway to

888
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,840
Speaker 1: visit you not to kind.

889
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 4: Of it was like kind of you were gonna go

890
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 4: to Oslo and then you bailed. But it's not.

891
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: It's it's what's his name again, dude, that's like the

892
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 1: name that's like the fucking that's like the kid from

893
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 1: Willy Wonka.

894
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 2: Dude, that's like an Augustus.

895
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 4: Gloop, like you're talking to Like back in the day,

896
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 4: they were like, you're talking to someone named Tunis Lupe.

897
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 4: Please stand up.

898
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: No, this guy is all. This guy is a great guy.

899
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: I hope, I really hope you don't kill him.

900
00:36:19,560 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 4: Am I gonna am I gonna kill you? No, he's

901
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna kill him confirmed, So I'm not gonna

902
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 4: kill him.

903
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 1: Guys, So, okay, So you've been going out to the

904
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 1: club a lot. Is what's going on at the club.

905
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 4: It's it's just really fun, dude, why not go to

906
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 4: the club with you? You need to go to the

907
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 4: club in this get up.

908
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 2: I've done that.

909
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:43,759
Speaker 4: You would pull, you would pull.

910
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 2: I've gone to the club in this get up.

911
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 4: Dude. You gotta go to Bushwick. They would eat you

912
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 4: up there.

913
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 6: I don't know if.

914
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 4: Bwick is like I it's not even like.

915
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 2: With all the clubs.

916
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,160
Speaker 1: Okay, I've gone there once or twice, dude, yes, right

917
00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: house of Yes.

918
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, you're thinking more so like near Jefferson.

919
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 4: Right house of Yes. This is near Jefferson.

920
00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 2: H huh. I mean I'm not a big club guy.

921
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 2: I don't like dance.

922
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,239
Speaker 4: I don't I've never really been a house of Yes.

923
00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 4: So it's like, I don't know if anyone here has.

924
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, So what's what's your name again? Nor?

925
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 2: Nor?

926
00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 6: Nor?

927
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 2: So what's uh? What's the future look like for you?

928
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:23,399
Speaker 6: Nor?

929
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 4: The future looks like for me. I'm gonna start school.

930
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:27,360
Speaker 4: I have to clean my room. I've been sleeping on

931
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,759
Speaker 4: a bed that's slanted like this Free Palestine. I don't

932
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 4: know if I could be political on this, bitch, but yeah,

933
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 4: what he said, Yeah, I'm gonna clean my room. Oh

934
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 4: and then I'm going to Maine tomorrow.

935
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: I forgot you forgot you were going to Maine tom Yeah,

936
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: how do you forget a ticket?

937
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 4: Like three days ago?

938
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: What are you doing in Maine?

939
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 4: My friend Georgia just moved there.

940
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: Shout out Georgia, Shout out Georgia. Is he coming with?

941
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,399
Speaker 2: Is two for coming with? I don't know two for.

942
00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 4: Is not coming with I think I think Tunis is

943
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 4: never gonna hang out with me again after this. He's

944
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 4: probably really scared.

945
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 2: I really, are you sure you don't?

946
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 1: Can you tell what you talk afterwards?

947
00:38:01,040 --> 00:38:03,080
Speaker 2: Okay? All right, wait nor wait nor can you hand

948
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 2: the mic to Tunis?

949
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 4: Okay, guys, this going to Tunis?

950
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 6: Okay?

951
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 11: Yeah, I have a seed, have a set, Okay, Tunisis, Tunis,

952
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 11: nice to be you, Tunas.

953
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:12,960
Speaker 2: Sorry for making fun of your name.

954
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 12: That's okay. Yeah, I need to get used to it

955
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 12: a bit.

956
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 1: I I I love Amsterdam. I've been there like three times,

957
00:38:18,239 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: two shows. There's a great time. Shout up Boom. You

958
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 1: ever been to Boom Chicago?

959
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 12: No?

960
00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 1: Oh, I did a show there. It's a good time. Anyway,

961
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: it gives a shit me. Okay, So what are you

962
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: doing in America?

963
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 6: Well?

964
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 12: I just moved there? Actually, Oh really, I was here

965
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:31,240
Speaker 12: in March.

966
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 11: I auditioned to music school cool play drums cool, and

967
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:40,359
Speaker 11: now I'm going to city college here. Yeah that's why

968
00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 11: I'm here. So now I live here?

969
00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 2: What made you wanna?

970
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: So?

971
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: Despite everything? You were like, yeah, I'll come to America.

972
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 11: Yeah, it's a bit crazy, but uh, I come here,

973
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 11: Like it's been a kind of in my head for

974
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 11: a really long time because I studied jazz, I wanna

975
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 11: and this is like the you know, the place for uh,

976
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:05,080
Speaker 11: for jazz music. It's the it's super nice New York. Yeah,

977
00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 11: so that's why I wanted to come here basically, And

978
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,799
Speaker 11: I don't know. I figured I just try and you

979
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:14,800
Speaker 11: cannot plan on yeah things sometimes.

980
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: So so how does New York compare to Amsterdam?

981
00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 12: I mean Amsterdam is just totally different.

982
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 11: I feel it's very like small compared to here, Like

983
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 11: I bike everywhere, you know, like you can walk most places, like,

984
00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:32,839
Speaker 11: I mean, the layout is more it's like a half circle, right,

985
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 11: I mean, here's like straight lines most like up and down.

986
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:39,000
Speaker 6: Like.

987
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 2: So, so, what what happened in Norway?

988
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 12: Nothing?

989
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 11: I mean, so okay, I will tell my story.

990
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 2: Yeah what happened?

991
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,399
Speaker 11: Well nothing because I was like, okay, So I came

992
00:39:54,440 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 11: here in March and I had hinges and then basically

993
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 11: I saw a picture she was in Sandum, which is

994
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 11: my hometown, and I was like, whoa, you're why were

995
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 11: you in Sandum because that's I just recognized the background.

996
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 11: It's really random. I was like, wow, what we're in

997
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 11: Sandom and then we met, but then she just came

998
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,800
Speaker 11: back from Amstem and I was just leaving back home basically,

999
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 11: and then I mean we stayed in touch and you

1000
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,880
Speaker 11: were like I want to go to Epstein, but I

1001
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 11: was like like I don't.

1002
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 12: Know like how to say.

1003
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:29,480
Speaker 2: Yeah I was, and now I can't talk to you

1004
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 2: and everyone.

1005
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 11: Yeah, so I was like, you know, like if I

1006
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 11: go to New York, we'll just have We'll just meet

1007
00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 11: in New York.

1008
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,280
Speaker 1: Like, so, wait, is you guys first time ever meeting? Yeah,

1009
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:41,879
Speaker 1: how's it gone.

1010
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:46,440
Speaker 11: Well, it's like it's been like like literally one minute

1011
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 11: and then we saw you.

1012
00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: So it's like I'm severely interrupting this first meeting.

1013
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 12: We're more we're conversing through you now.

1014
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 1: Oh okay, I see, yeah, I see, It's okay, Yeah, okay.

1015
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 1: Wait wait, so we just talked about me and Nora

1016
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: talked about here for a while, talking about your view

1017
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 1: on on Hinge.

1018
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 12: I mean, it's I don't know.

1019
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 11: I also haven't been on it for I guess since

1020
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 11: March kind of almost or like no, it's short, it's

1021
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 11: a bit.

1022
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 12: April or something, Okay, but yeah, I don't know.

1023
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: It's are you looking for love? Do you want to

1024
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 1: like get married and have children and stuff at some point?

1025
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 11: Yes, okay, but uh, I mean yeah I was on

1026
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 11: it and then it's like it didn't make me super happy.

1027
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,880
Speaker 11: I mean, you meet people like I wouldn't have met you,

1028
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:37,280
Speaker 11: Like I met a lot of people just through Hinge.

1029
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:41,920
Speaker 12: But like it doesn't mean like it's what you make

1030
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 12: of it.

1031
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 11: I feel, what gives meaning to a relation, Like you

1032
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 11: can just be friends or you can I mean, maybe

1033
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 11: you like someone and you will Like it's just facilitating,

1034
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,799
Speaker 11: but it's also a bit manipulative in the way it's

1035
00:41:55,840 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 11: made because it's still like like, yeah, someone is making

1036
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,960
Speaker 11: money off of is monetizing off of this platform, right,

1037
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 11: So I feel inherently it's a bit like you shouldn't

1038
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 11: trust it always, you know what I mean, Like.

1039
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 1: I see, yeah, but people have been monetizing this stuff forever, right,

1040
00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:18,320
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know, Like what about those guys

1041
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: who come up to you at the park and they're

1042
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 1: like a rose for the lady, you know, like people

1043
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,399
Speaker 1: do that, and like it's actually it's very funny because

1044
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 1: on Hinge you can buy roses, right, and it prompts you.

1045
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: It says, do you want to buy a rose? And

1046
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 1: there are places where you go like like this is

1047
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: in a lot of like parks in Europe, right, there's

1048
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: like dudes handing out.

1049
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 6: They're like dudes.

1050
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:38,799
Speaker 1: They'll go up to like a couple and they'll be

1051
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 1: like a rose for the lady and they're like in

1052
00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: real life, try to.

1053
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:43,920
Speaker 2: Get yeah around to buy a rose. So you know,

1054
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 2: it's nothing new.

1055
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 11: You can flip it like it's yeah, in a way,

1056
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 11: it's this is similar. But I feel because I don't know,

1057
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:50,799
Speaker 11: I don't really have a strong up.

1058
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 12: I feel you used to do whatever you want.

1059
00:42:53,080 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 11: Basically like if you feel good with hinge, you should

1060
00:42:57,080 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 11: use it. Like but also it's very it can be addictive,

1061
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 11: you know, Like that's for me, Like that was why

1062
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 11: it was better to just not use it.

1063
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:08,479
Speaker 2: Yeah it can it can be, yeah, like.

1064
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 12: It has many sides. I don't know.

1065
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,720
Speaker 2: So are you guys gonna go out to the club?

1066
00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 6: Are you club?

1067
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 12: I'm not like a club person, to be honest, Like.

1068
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:18,839
Speaker 2: You're not a club guy?

1069
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: No?

1070
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 12: Yeah, you ever been.

1071
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 2: To uh Paradise so that.

1072
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,480
Speaker 12: Was called so yeah, yeah, yeah I've been there. Yeah

1073
00:43:27,520 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 12: that's nice.

1074
00:43:28,080 --> 00:43:29,879
Speaker 1: That's where I did mdm A for the very first

1075
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: time there really. Yeah, like seven years ago you.

1076
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,399
Speaker 12: Were there in the crowd.

1077
00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was there for the Amsterdam Dance event like

1078
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: seven years ago. Yeah, that was a that was a

1079
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: crazy night of my life.

1080
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 12: That was a fun time.

1081
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 6: Man.

1082
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 11: Man is really nice. Yeah, it's I mean, yeah, it's

1083
00:43:45,200 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 11: really nice. Everything is kind of close, like you're in PARADISEA.

1084
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 11: You can go to lights, lights supply, you know, it's

1085
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 11: like where the clubs other clubs are like you can

1086
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 11: go out.

1087
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 12: It's really nice. Yeah.

1088
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:59,240
Speaker 2: Okay, so what should uh? What?

1089
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 6: What do you?

1090
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 2: Uh? What do you what's better about America than Europe?

1091
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: Let us let us have something?

1092
00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,680
Speaker 11: Well, I don't know yet because I just I arrived Saturday.

1093
00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:14,439
Speaker 11: I mean I'm here for the music, like for jazz music.

1094
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,600
Speaker 1: Have you there's a lot of really great jazz artists

1095
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: playing in the park all the time.

1096
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 12: Yeah, I haven't. I mean, I just I haven't seen

1097
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:23,960
Speaker 12: it here. But I saw a guy playing the sexophone.

1098
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:26,960
Speaker 2: Well listen, I don't want.

1099
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: I don't wanna. I'm gonna. I don't wanna. I don't wanna.

1100
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: Keep you guys waiting, is there? What's your name? In

1101
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: Tunis yea, Tunis, is there anything else you gonna say

1102
00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:36,880
Speaker 1: to the people of the computer before we go?

1103
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:38,560
Speaker 6: No, h.

1104
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:44,280
Speaker 12: Like, well, it's it's cool, like it's crazy meeting you. Actually,

1105
00:44:44,320 --> 00:44:45,240
Speaker 12: that's yeah.

1106
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 2: Crazy meat. Wait have you seen my show before? Yeah?

1107
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 11: Cool like Instagram or something. Okay, cool, Yeah you're talking

1108
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 11: to Mark Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah crazy.

1109
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. He did a show over in parody, so I think.

1110
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 12: Really, wow, that's crazy.

1111
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1112
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 11: I was in Japan one time and I went up

1113
00:45:07,000 --> 00:45:09,399
Speaker 11: the elevator from Sheba station and then he was.

1114
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 12: There calling someone.

1115
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 11: It's crazy, literally, so random, and then I think I

1116
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 11: discovered him at the same time as you.

1117
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 1: Well, I'm happy that we could you and I could

1118
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,919
Speaker 1: finally cross paths from the Internet into real life.

1119
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, well, thank you to Tunis.

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00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 1: Tunis, Nora, you want, you want anything else you want

1121
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: to say to the people?

1122
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 4: I'm so hungry and Lilah's super awesome.

1123
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 2: Oh, thank you, Norah. Thank you guys.

1124
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 1: You guys have a good rest of you guys, have

1125
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: a good rest of your lives. Bye Nora, Bye, Tunis.

1126
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 1: I'll see you guys around the universe.

1127
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 12: Oh yeah, okay.

1128
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:47,279
Speaker 1: Bye Tunis. Bye, guys. Have a seat what's your name?

1129
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 1: I'm Sarah, Sarah.

1130
00:45:49,520 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 2: My name is Lyle, So Sarah. Yeah, what's up the sky?

1131
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,720
Speaker 6: You know, how's life?

1132
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 7: I just moved here last week? So yeah, no, it's

1133
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:01,880
Speaker 7: been pretty hectic.

1134
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 2: What made you want to move to New York for college? Okayeah?

1135
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 13: You know the basic art school experience?

1136
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 6: Okay?

1137
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,120
Speaker 2: So yeah, how what do you make art about?

1138
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 7: I mean, honestly, whatever makes money? Like I do like design,

1139
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 7: so like, yeah, I mean I do art for fun,

1140
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 7: but like I'm majoring in design because like I feel

1141
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 7: like that's more money making.

1142
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 13: Not gonna lie. Not no offense to the fine arts majors.

1143
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 1: So what kinds of things do you design to make money?

1144
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 13: Well, I mean I'm going to school for it right now.

1145
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 7: I haven't started working yet, okay, but like, I mean

1146
00:46:37,920 --> 00:46:39,480
Speaker 7: I enjoy like editorial design.

1147
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 13: It's pretty cool.

1148
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 2: Are these your homies?

1149
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,960
Speaker 13: Yeah, they're also going to school here.

1150
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 2: Oh do you just meet them? No?

1151
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 13: We graduated together from high school.

1152
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:52,600
Speaker 1: Ye okay, and and now you guys are going into

1153
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: college together.

1154
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 13: We're going to college together. She's going upstate.

1155
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 2: So are you guys like from New York?

1156
00:46:58,960 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 6: Oh?

1157
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:00,000
Speaker 13: No, we're from Florid.

1158
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,239
Speaker 2: Oh oh wait, so what's she doing here? Oh you're

1159
00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 2: going to she's visiting.

1160
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, you know why not? I didn't mean that

1161
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:10,839
Speaker 1: like an accusat curious. Well, let's see Sarah. You said

1162
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: your name was. You have a lot of cool trinkets

1163
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,800
Speaker 1: on your bag. You gotta you got three different bears,

1164
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 1: the two bears. Oh, you have a diet coke pin.

1165
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,919
Speaker 2: I like that. Why are they laughing at that? Why

1166
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 2: is that so funny? I don't know that.

1167
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:26,400
Speaker 13: I guess they hate me. They secretly they have.

1168
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: You have a diet coke pin? I love that. Actually, No,

1169
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: I'm not.

1170
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:32,640
Speaker 13: Actually jingle around everywhere I go.

1171
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 2: So it's got a ribbon on it?

1172
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 13: Oh yeah, yeah, because why not.

1173
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,319
Speaker 2: You've got Uma Thurman from pulp fiction.

1174
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 13: Mm hmmm. I actually dressed up as her one year.

1175
00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:44,479
Speaker 2: So yeah, did you have like the cocaine nose?

1176
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:47,640
Speaker 13: Oh yeah, not real, not real. Just don't worry, don't worry.

1177
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 2: It was auth that you can do whatever you want

1178
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 2: with your life.

1179
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 4: I know.

1180
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:55,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, cocaines don't do cocaine too much. Yeah, cocaine's like

1181
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: a little like fun. Cocaine's like very you don't want

1182
00:47:57,920 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: to like buy your own.

1183
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:00,720
Speaker 13: Yeah, just like a sample.

1184
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you'll you only want to do cocaine.

1185
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 1: Twice a year if you're in a weird situation where

1186
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 1: someone offers it to you, but it don't You don't

1187
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: want to.

1188
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 13: Go to You don't want to get into the red like.

1189
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 2: Buying it yourself, you know.

1190
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1191
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the meaning of life?

1192
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 13: Drugs? Bitches and coke?

1193
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 2: Very cool?

1194
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:26,839
Speaker 1: Sarah's anything else you want to say to the people

1195
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 1: of the computer before we go, Stay.

1196
00:48:29,880 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 13: In school, do what you want with your life?

1197
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:36,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sarah forever? Yes for having of course, thank you

1198
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: for joining me on the Get Go show.

1199
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:38,280
Speaker 13: Of course.

1200
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: Here you go, you sir, I see you. You come on,

1201
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: come on over, that's going.

1202
00:48:43,160 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 2: What's your name?

1203
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:44,799
Speaker 6: Alex? Alex?

1204
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: Nice to meet you. Where we met before? Have we?

1205
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? You know I remember you from where signs say.

1206
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,879
Speaker 8: Oh right now, I'm giving a free dating advice many

1207
00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 8: one of the many signs that I hold.

1208
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:56,440
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah you I So.

1209
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: I come to this park like almost every day, okay,

1210
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 1: and you do you you're here a lot, right.

1211
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,280
Speaker 6: I'm here like every weekend.

1212
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: Okay, and you hold up you make little content? Yeah,

1213
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:08,960
Speaker 1: oh you Okay. Here's where we first met you have

1214
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,480
Speaker 1: you held there's so many people watching. You held up

1215
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 1: a sign that said, uh, make me laugh and give

1216
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 1: win a thousand dollars.

1217
00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 2: I tried. I tried to make you laugh.

1218
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 8: I have you know, I have so many people, so

1219
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,239
Speaker 8: many like characters that approached me, So it's hard for

1220
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 8: me to remember everybody. There's a guy in a banana

1221
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 8: suit that approached me, a guy in a fucking corn

1222
00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 8: dog suit that approached me. I get all kinds of

1223
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 8: characters out here, A major salib of the park, I

1224
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 8: get it.

1225
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 6: Oh, there's just so many characters out here.

1226
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: Welso, so yeah, I met you doing that well? Actually

1227
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 1: could we talked for a little bit and then you

1228
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:40,240
Speaker 1: weren't recording?

1229
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:41,320
Speaker 5: Uh?

1230
00:49:41,760 --> 00:49:44,320
Speaker 8: Yes, So I record some days. Other days I just

1231
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,040
Speaker 8: feel like coming out and just hanging out.

1232
00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: You know, no, no, you know you thought you thought

1233
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: you were recording, but then you weren't.

1234
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 2: It wasn't like we were just hanging out.

1235
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 6: Occasionally, I'll like, forget to press record.

1236
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:55,640
Speaker 1: You're not gonna remember me. I'm gonna stop trying to

1237
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 1: get you to remember me. What's your name again?

1238
00:49:58,080 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 6: I'm Alex, Alex.

1239
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 1: I just told you my name. Is you already forgot, Yeah,

1240
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 1: I will see. Here's the thing is, I'm okay. So

1241
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: we're different, right, yeah, maybe we're not different. Maybe we're

1242
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: the same. Yeah, but like I don't remember, I will

1243
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: forget your name immediately, but I remember who you are.

1244
00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 6: Yes, I definitely remember you a fraud costume. You can't

1245
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:15,920
Speaker 6: forget that.

1246
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: No, I wasn't in the fraud cost And it's not

1247
00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 2: what Who cares? Who cares? Who cares?

1248
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 11: What?

1249
00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 2: How's life going? What's going on?

1250
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 6: Pretty good? I mean, everything is going pretty spot on.

1251
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:29,880
Speaker 8: Besides you know, my dating life, you know everything else, Like,

1252
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 8: I'm so satisfied, okay, just dating?

1253
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,879
Speaker 1: Why what's wrong with your dating life? You're not doing

1254
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:35,440
Speaker 1: a bit right now?

1255
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:36,840
Speaker 2: Are you okay? What's this?

1256
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:37,320
Speaker 6: Go ahead?

1257
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 3: No?

1258
00:50:37,600 --> 00:50:43,160
Speaker 6: No, no, go ahead? Honestly, situationships are they into me?

1259
00:50:43,239 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 6: Are they not? X's?

1260
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: You know?

1261
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:48,399
Speaker 6: Heartbreaks? You know, it's it's so it's so much, it's

1262
00:50:48,440 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 6: so much going on.

1263
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: Are you doing you? Are you you swearing your life?

1264
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:53,279
Speaker 1: You're not doing a bit right now?

1265
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 6: No? No, okay, I understand.

1266
00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:55,520
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

1267
00:50:55,560 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 1: You sound like you're in like content making voice right now,

1268
00:50:58,480 --> 00:50:59,399
Speaker 1: and I wanted I.

1269
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:01,320
Speaker 8: Fully respect and other people are making content so I

1270
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:02,279
Speaker 8: don't try to mess up.

1271
00:51:02,320 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 6: I'm not to mess up.

1272
00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I don't think you're trying to have a

1273
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 1: good time. It's all right, all right, all right, Sorry,

1274
00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,479
Speaker 1: I know I'm being a dick. Right now, you're gonna

1275
00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 1: know I'm being a dick.

1276
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 8: Sometimes when I tell people think like Alex, are you

1277
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 8: are you working with me?

1278
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 6: I'm like, no, I'm being serious. What are you?

1279
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:17,840
Speaker 2: What are you looking for in your dating life?

1280
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:20,120
Speaker 8: What am I looking for my dating Honestly, I'm just

1281
00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:22,919
Speaker 8: trying to I'm trying to settle down. You know, if

1282
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:26,120
Speaker 8: I've had my whole phase, it was fun. Right now,

1283
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 8: I'm just trying to like settle down, find someone that's

1284
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 8: just like long term, long term relationship.

1285
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:31,960
Speaker 6: That's that's all I'm looking for.

1286
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 2: So why has that been hard for you to find?

1287
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:38,280
Speaker 8: Because everyone else just wants to I guess it's still

1288
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 8: in their whole phase or is it just starting.

1289
00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:40,359
Speaker 6: Their whole phase?

1290
00:51:40,480 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 2: Where are you finding these people? You know?

1291
00:51:43,080 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 6: I come here a lot.

1292
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 2: I coeople out here.

1293
00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 8: You know, occasionally I will go to like bars or nightclubs,

1294
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 8: But again, people over there are just trying to hook up,

1295
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:54,800
Speaker 8: So that doesn't help.

1296
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 2: Are you looking for guys girls.

1297
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,600
Speaker 1: All right, really you're really having a hard time because

1298
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:04,160
Speaker 1: here's what's Here's what's annoying, I mean, not annoying, but

1299
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: interesting I'll say, is everyone says the same thing. We

1300
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,560
Speaker 1: just had a girl sit down and say this. Everyone's

1301
00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,919
Speaker 1: always like, oh, New York, nobody wants to settle down.

1302
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: It's like if everyone's saying that, then I mean it

1303
00:52:18,120 --> 00:52:19,880
Speaker 1: must not be true to an extent.

1304
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 8: I mean, I guess we're just meeting the wrong people,

1305
00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:24,000
Speaker 8: you know. I guess it's just bad luck, bad timing.

1306
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 1: Have you met a lady where you're like, oh, I

1307
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:31,400
Speaker 1: where you've said to her like, hey, I want something

1308
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: more and she's like.

1309
00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 2: Ah, this.

1310
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:37,280
Speaker 6: So I'm never for me. I'm never forward.

1311
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 8: I don't let them know, like straight up like hey,

1312
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:40,960
Speaker 8: I'm into you, let's go out, because I've done that

1313
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:43,920
Speaker 8: before and it seems to like freak people out, okay

1314
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 8: when I'm just too forward, which I get, you know,

1315
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 8: which I get. So my my whole like I guess

1316
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 8: my whole ethos not ethos, I guess the way I

1317
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 8: pursue dating nowadays, like I'm just super like nonchalant, laid

1318
00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 8: back about it, like hey, yeah, we can hang out

1319
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 8: if something happens, it happens, but I'm not gonna like

1320
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:07,600
Speaker 8: rush to anything. I'm not gonna pursue anything if the

1321
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 8: other person doesn't feel the same way.

1322
00:53:09,160 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: Well that's that's how I think it should be, right, Yeah,

1323
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:12,560
Speaker 1: like youse hinge.

1324
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 6: No, I'm not into dating.

1325
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, well like cause like like even I mean

1326
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:19,440
Speaker 1: it's actually this isn't even a dating app thing, but

1327
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: like when some people there's some people who are like, uh,

1328
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: you know, I'm looking for my my love and I

1329
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: need and I'm like, it's a little weird because it's like,

1330
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 1: well aren't we all we all yeah, pretty much.

1331
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:34,839
Speaker 2: But it's like you.

1332
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 1: Can't start is that how That's like you can't like

1333
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: start off that way, right, Like people have to kind

1334
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 1: of naturally get into things.

1335
00:53:44,000 --> 00:53:46,800
Speaker 8: I mean, of course, there's like to an extent, you

1336
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:49,919
Speaker 8: do have to pursue like a little bit, I guess

1337
00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:54,360
Speaker 8: from both parties also. But the thing is, like you,

1338
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 8: when I come out here, I meet so many amazing people,

1339
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 8: like I will make so many friendships and it gets

1340
00:54:02,200 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 8: to a point where I'm like this person is cool.

1341
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 8: I would love to hang out with them, Do I

1342
00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:11,439
Speaker 8: want to mess it up, like ya feel that way

1343
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,839
Speaker 8: about them and then mess up a good friendship. Yeah,

1344
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 8: because I've had had that in the past, where I've

1345
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 8: had people that I do like.

1346
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 6: Start off having strong feelings about them.

1347
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:23,759
Speaker 8: As I get to know them, I do do a

1348
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 8: good friendship and it gets to the point where I'm Okay,

1349
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,000
Speaker 8: I wouldn't want to pursue a relationship with you because

1350
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:29,720
Speaker 8: I do see you as a really cool friend.

1351
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,760
Speaker 1: It's sure, don't want to tarnish that friendship, extremely safe.

1352
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:35,319
Speaker 6: But I guess that's where I'm stuck.

1353
00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 8: I'm meeting so many people and and I'm always I

1354
00:54:39,000 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 8: guess I'm always putting myself in the friend zone before

1355
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,320
Speaker 8: they do that to me, which is my bigining.

1356
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 2: You know, well, is that an issue? I mean, can

1357
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 2: you go wrong with that?

1358
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 6: Really? I mean, of course, but how many friends? How

1359
00:54:49,600 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 6: many more friends do you need? Like? How many more

1360
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 6: friends can you have? You know?

1361
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,160
Speaker 2: Part of me wonders.

1362
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:58,480
Speaker 1: Are you supposed to feel some kind of like natural

1363
00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 1: gravitational pull or are you else to for me?

1364
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 8: For me, I can think anybody is cute, I can

1365
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 8: think anybody is attractive upon first meeting them.

1366
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 1: You can think anybody is shut up. You can think

1367
00:55:09,920 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: anybody's shut up. You can think anybody. You can think

1368
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: anybody's attractive. You can decide to find anyone attractive. I mean,

1369
00:55:18,680 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 1: of course, I'm not gonna let you run away from

1370
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,799
Speaker 1: the statement you make. You can you can decide like

1371
00:55:26,440 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 1: you can decide that anyone is attractive.

1372
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 8: I mean, yeah, I can think I can look at

1373
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,640
Speaker 8: anyone and say, yeah, they're attractive, they've got nice features.

1374
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, that person is attracted. Anyone, anyone.

1375
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're lying for me.

1376
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 6: No, I'm being dead serious. You hold.

1377
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 2: I just want to make sure I understand what you're

1378
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,880
Speaker 2: trying to say. Yes, go ahead, you can look.

1379
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:50,239
Speaker 1: At anyone m hm any like literally anyone with no Well,

1380
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 1: let me can look at anyone and.

1381
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:55,960
Speaker 8: Go and decide that they're attractive. Okay, Well that's not

1382
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 8: what exactly what I was saying. I see where you're

1383
00:55:58,719 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 8: coming from.

1384
00:55:59,080 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 1: Now.

1385
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 8: What I was trying to say is that obviously I

1386
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:07,720
Speaker 8: find attractive. I find the people who I find attractive.

1387
00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 8: I find attractive, right, Like, you see what I'm saying, right,

1388
00:56:11,239 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 8: anyone I find attractive I will find attractive for me

1389
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 8: to catch.

1390
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 1: Feelings, somebody, what are you what are you even saying.

1391
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm not going to find everybody attractive.

1392
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:23,439
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, well that's what you were just saying about.

1393
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:24,280
Speaker 6: Everyone has preference.

1394
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,400
Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, anyone that you find attractive.

1395
00:56:26,440 --> 00:56:27,760
Speaker 6: Attractive, I will find attractive.

1396
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:28,280
Speaker 2: Okay.

1397
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 8: For me to catch for me to really fall for someone,

1398
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 8: to catch feelings for someone, I have to get to

1399
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 8: know them.

1400
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,359
Speaker 2: Okay, I see what you mean. I see what you mean.

1401
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 2: I see Okay.

1402
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,280
Speaker 1: Basically, there's a lot of women that you find attractive,

1403
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,239
Speaker 1: but not a lot of women who you're like, I

1404
00:56:43,280 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: want to give my soul to you.

1405
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 2: That makes sense, or a lot.

1406
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:51,800
Speaker 1: Of women you find attractive, but not a lot of

1407
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,440
Speaker 1: women you're like, I deeply want to emotionally invest myself

1408
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:54,640
Speaker 1: in you.

1409
00:56:56,560 --> 00:57:01,640
Speaker 8: I guess. I guess, like, I see, I see what

1410
00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:02,239
Speaker 8: you're trying to say.

1411
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,280
Speaker 1: I think a lot of people to feel that way.

1412
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 8: No, I mean for me, like, I can't really fall

1413
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:10,680
Speaker 8: for someone head over here unless I really get to

1414
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:11,080
Speaker 8: know them.

1415
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,799
Speaker 6: I can't get butterflies unless I really get to know them.

1416
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,479
Speaker 8: Oh okay, I have to really vibe with them at first.

1417
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 8: I have to really like see what their humor is like, see, like.

1418
00:57:20,960 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 2: Like, how for you're you're you're slow to love.

1419
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 6: Yes, yes, I get, yeah.

1420
00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 2: I get. I feel like I'm not like that at all.

1421
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 8: I mean everyone's different, you know, yeah, the same, everyone

1422
00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 8: like has their own preference.

1423
00:57:33,600 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 6: That's just how I am. And I feel like that's

1424
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 6: what I struggle. That's what I'm at that it's not about,

1425
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 6: that's why.

1426
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 2: That's just why does that make you.

1427
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 8: A disavant a disadvantage because everyone is like everyone that

1428
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 8: I meet is in their whole face and they just

1429
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,240
Speaker 8: want to hook up, and that's not what I'm looking

1430
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:47,440
Speaker 8: for anymore.

1431
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, But I don't think that puts you

1432
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 1: at a disadvantage.

1433
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 2: That's just who you are.

1434
00:57:51,560 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: I mean you could say that only wanting sex's has

1435
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 1: everything else is pros and cons, you know.

1436
00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:01,680
Speaker 8: I mean yeah, pretty much where you're set. We're trying

1437
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,480
Speaker 8: to say, yeah, I guess, yeah, I agree.

1438
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: Why is everything else so amazing in your life? What

1439
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: else is going on?

1440
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm satisfied. I'm my social life is going great.

1441
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 8: I come out here and hold a stupid sign and

1442
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 8: people approach me, So my social life is good.

1443
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 6: That's cool. I have so many great friends.

1444
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:16,439
Speaker 2: You mean to let you make a lot of friends

1445
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:16,880
Speaker 2: at the partes.

1446
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 6: Yeah. Absolutely, that's why I come out here.

1447
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:20,320
Speaker 2: The content.

1448
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 8: Content is going great. I'm making a lot of memories.

1449
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 8: I love my job. I love my job.

1450
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 6: Not this isn't my job, my job that I do

1451
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 6: during the week when I'm not here. I love you.

1452
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:31,160
Speaker 2: What's your job.

1453
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 6: I'm a teacher's aide.

1454
00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 8: Oh cool, So I take care of like I teach

1455
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 8: pre k so I take care of like three year olds.

1456
00:58:37,640 --> 00:58:37,920
Speaker 6: Cool.

1457
00:58:38,960 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 8: I love my job. I love my family. So I'm

1458
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 8: just Yeah, I'm satisfied in.

1459
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,880
Speaker 6: All aspects except dating. That's where I struggle with. Yeah.

1460
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:49,920
Speaker 2: Hm hmm.

1461
00:58:50,880 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 1: So you have this problem where you have you been

1462
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 1: in like, have you ever been in a situationship with

1463
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:58,880
Speaker 1: someone where you're like, oh, I could see myself.

1464
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 2: But isn't a situationship?

1465
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:04,960
Speaker 1: House is in the situationship the the inception of for

1466
00:59:05,080 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: me relationship.

1467
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 8: For me, a situationship is not like, oh, we can

1468
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 8: fuck around and maybe it'll go somewhere. No, a situationship

1469
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 8: is no, We're gonna fuck around and that's it.

1470
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 6: It's not gonna go anywhere. That's my headphones.

1471
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, sure, But that's like a labeled thing like

1472
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:19,520
Speaker 1: can't anything become.

1473
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 2: Something? It could?

1474
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 6: It could.

1475
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,960
Speaker 8: Uh, that's just my headspace going into situationships, Okay, Like

1476
00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 8: I I just prepare myself for that, not prepare myself.

1477
00:59:30,160 --> 00:59:32,000
Speaker 8: I just I'm just in that headspace. Like, Yo, we're

1478
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:36,280
Speaker 8: in a situationship. We're gonna mess around. I'm not looking

1479
00:59:36,280 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 8: for anything after that. I'm not looking for anything past that.

1480
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 8: If we're gonna just gonna keep messing around.

1481
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 6: You know, I wouldn't here.

1482
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,160
Speaker 2: Who's your ideal woman?

1483
00:59:45,640 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 6: My ideal woman? Like, yeah, like what do I like?

1484
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 6: What do I look for? Yeah?

1485
00:59:50,920 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 8: Sure, I don't really have a specific type, you know,

1486
00:59:53,280 --> 00:59:56,520
Speaker 8: I don't really you know, check boxes like oh, she

1487
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:58,920
Speaker 8: has to have this, this and that for for me

1488
00:59:58,960 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 8: to want her.

1489
00:59:59,720 --> 01:00:01,080
Speaker 6: Like, no, I don't have a type.

1490
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 8: Just someone who's just someone who can joke around like me,

1491
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 8: someone who I guess, yeah, just someone who can joke

1492
01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 8: around like me. Someone who can like have a good laugh,

1493
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 8: someone who can mess around. Uh, someone who I want

1494
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 8: someone very like laid back, someone's very nonchalant. Okay, someone

1495
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 8: who can match my energy, but in general, someone who's.

1496
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:24,400
Speaker 6: Very laid back.

1497
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, because.

1498
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 8: I wouldn't want someone to you know, like outshine my personality.

1499
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 8: You know, I'm very outgoing, but to an extent.

1500
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:35,200
Speaker 2: So you don't want somebody who's also outgoing.

1501
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 8: Like someone who can match my energy, but not to

1502
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 8: the point where they can over overshine me, overpower me.

1503
01:00:40,360 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 1: Okay, you want to make sure you want to be

1504
01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 1: the guy, like you want to be the guy?

1505
01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 8: Hey, like I want to be like yeah, like this

1506
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,720
Speaker 8: is me, Like this is what you got. And it's

1507
01:00:49,720 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 8: tough because there's so much competition out here, and it's

1508
01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 8: very easy for someone that you're dating to look at

1509
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 8: someone else and oh, this guy's got what he doesn't have?

1510
01:00:58,280 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 8: Like he there's there's pretty obvious he doesn't. He doesn't

1511
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:02,919
Speaker 8: compare it to that guy.

1512
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:05,240
Speaker 1: Well, it's whack a mole, you know, it's like, yeah,

1513
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 1: someone has. There's many, in fact, not many, infinite people

1514
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 1: out there who have an infinite amount of positive qualities

1515
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:15,280
Speaker 1: that you do not possess but they don't have. But

1516
01:01:15,520 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 1: it's swackamle, right, it's like, oh, I like this one thing.

1517
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 1: I Anyone that your date is gonna have things you

1518
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 1: like about them and things you don't like about them,

1519
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: and there will be somebody who has the things that

1520
01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:28,440
Speaker 1: they don't have that you want, but then they have

1521
01:01:28,480 --> 01:01:29,160
Speaker 1: other things that you don't.

1522
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:32,120
Speaker 2: It's what you know. It's no no one literally nobody

1523
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 2: is perfect.

1524
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 6: You know.

1525
01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 8: At this point, I'm just like you do know how

1526
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,280
Speaker 8: to have to be perfect. I'm not looking for anyone perfect.

1527
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 8: I'm willing to accept any flaws. But for any flaws, Yes,

1528
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:44,120
Speaker 8: any flaws.

1529
01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:45,160
Speaker 6: Sorry, that'd be just scared. Scared.

1530
01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:46,280
Speaker 2: I don't like bees.

1531
01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, but no for me, I'm just I have a

1532
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 8: lot of insecurities that like, it's they it's very obvious

1533
01:01:56,200 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 8: when uh me showing my insecurities, Like I'm I can

1534
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 8: try to hide it as much as I can, but

1535
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 8: they just come out at random times.

1536
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:05,040
Speaker 1: You don't have to talk about this if you don't

1537
01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 1: want to, but I'm I'm naturally curious. What are your insecurities?

1538
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 6: My insecurities?

1539
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:14,480
Speaker 8: Uh, damn, which one? There's so many, there's like a hole.

1540
01:02:14,640 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 8: I could write a whole script, a whole novel about

1541
01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 8: my insecurities.

1542
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:22,120
Speaker 1: Well, what's like, I guess you're well, one my height, Like,

1543
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 1: I'm how tall are you?

1544
01:02:23,280 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 8: I'm five to ninety five to nine, I'm very average height.

1545
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 8: If I want to date someone, they would have to

1546
01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:29,440
Speaker 8: be like really short.

1547
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 2: You know. I mean, let's talk about this. Yes, I'm

1548
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:34,680
Speaker 2: five to seven, right.

1549
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:40,600
Speaker 1: Commara, I'm actually five six, but I just tell everyone

1550
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: I'm five seven.

1551
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 2: So I'm five to seven, right.

1552
01:02:44,120 --> 01:02:47,439
Speaker 1: And I've also throughout my life been pretty insecure about

1553
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:51,920
Speaker 1: my height. But you know what, But here's the thing

1554
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 1: right with like all these things, is like you were

1555
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:56,800
Speaker 1: delta hand in life.

1556
01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were born as this.

1557
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1558
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 1: There's things you can change about your body if you

1559
01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 1: don't like it, you can get you can there's things

1560
01:03:05,480 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: you can change about your body if you don't like them.

1561
01:03:07,280 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 1: And there's things that you cannot change about your body.

1562
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 1: And the way I think about my height, the way

1563
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 1: I've kind of reconciled is like, oh my god, here's

1564
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: here's how I reconciled my height.

1565
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:23,240
Speaker 2: I would not roll the dice again, you know what

1566
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:23,960
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

1567
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 6: Like, in terms of what rolling the dice.

1568
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:31,919
Speaker 2: I was born with certain things about me and my essence.

1569
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:33,400
Speaker 6: In my life, and you can't change your height.

1570
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:37,160
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of things I love about my

1571
01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: life and about my essence and about my body and

1572
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:42,560
Speaker 1: about my brain, about my who I am. There's a

1573
01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: lot of things I don't like about my body, my

1574
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:48,400
Speaker 1: brain and my essence and who I am. But if

1575
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 1: if God came down from the heavens and was like, hey,

1576
01:03:51,760 --> 01:03:54,080
Speaker 1: would you you want to Hey, you don't like being

1577
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,560
Speaker 1: five seven? You want to roll the dice again. I'm

1578
01:03:56,600 --> 01:04:00,320
Speaker 1: not rolling those dice. I'm not taking another chance. I'll

1579
01:04:00,320 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: take this, I'll key, I'll stay. I'm not that's like

1580
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 1: black check. You know, I'm not. I'm not gonna hit.

1581
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 8: I get what you mean when you have, like when

1582
01:04:09,920 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 8: you have quite a few friends that like like, obviously

1583
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 8: you don't want to compare yourself to other people, but

1584
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 8: when you're with other people you like, your mind ghost

1585
01:04:20,240 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 8: places like you can't help it.

1586
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 6: You can't help but compare yourself.

1587
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:25,400
Speaker 1: One thing I've oh, I've never forgotten that I heard

1588
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:27,720
Speaker 1: once is that if you're gonna be jealous of someone,

1589
01:04:27,960 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 1: you have to be jealous of all of them. You

1590
01:04:30,440 --> 01:04:35,880
Speaker 1: can't just run around picking your favor picking all the

1591
01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: best qualities from everyone, because that's not real life. So

1592
01:04:41,960 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 1: you know, if someone someone might be taller than you,

1593
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:46,920
Speaker 1: but they have other things going on and their life

1594
01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: that are fucked, that are that your life is, you

1595
01:04:49,600 --> 01:04:50,880
Speaker 1: know better than I mean, that's the same with like

1596
01:04:50,920 --> 01:04:51,560
Speaker 1: all insecurities.

1597
01:04:51,760 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 8: I see what you mean. I see what you mean. Yeah,

1598
01:04:55,120 --> 01:04:57,720
Speaker 8: I see what you mean. Another one of my biggest,

1599
01:04:57,760 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 8: like insecurities.

1600
01:04:58,680 --> 01:04:59,479
Speaker 6: It's just like.

1601
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,360
Speaker 8: It's as well, I want to retract to Bacca what

1602
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 8: I was saying earlier, shut out.

1603
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 6: For me to fall for someone, I have to get

1604
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 6: to know them.

1605
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 8: Once I get to know someone, the reason I've been

1606
01:05:10,880 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 8: in so many situationships is because that first impression, the

1607
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 8: first few interactions is always like the easiest to me.

1608
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 6: Like you'd be like, oh, I just met you, you

1609
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:20,240
Speaker 6: don't know.

1610
01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,200
Speaker 8: Me, so I can pretty much put on a bask

1611
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:23,560
Speaker 8: and be whoever the fuck I want to be in.

1612
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess that's what people people like, right, It's.

1613
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:28,480
Speaker 1: All you're right, at a certain point, you gotta you know,

1614
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:30,760
Speaker 1: you gotta till a certain let your breath go and

1615
01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 1: let the stomach hang out metaphorically.

1616
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 8: Like after like a while that you really get to

1617
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 8: know someone, then I start that's when I started really

1618
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 8: catching feelings. That's when I started getting the butterflies, like yo,

1619
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 8: I can't be how I was at the beginning, Like

1620
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:48,280
Speaker 8: it's just it's messing with me, Like I've known you

1621
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 8: for so long, but I don't know. Something's changed now

1622
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 8: to the point where I can't be around this person.

1623
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 8: I can't act like how I used to be at

1624
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:58,840
Speaker 8: the beginning. It just fucks with my head and messed

1625
01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 8: with my head. I get the butterflies, know mm hmmm hm.

1626
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 8: This one person that that I would see frequently at

1627
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 8: this park at the beginning, I for like, oh, yeah,

1628
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 8: she's cute.

1629
01:06:08,600 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 6: Like she's cute.

1630
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 8: I don't think much of it. I wouldn't say I'm

1631
01:06:12,560 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 8: head over heels for her. I'm not getting butterflies, but yeah,

1632
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:19,120
Speaker 8: she's cute. I wouldn't see myself pursuing a relationship with her,

1633
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 8: but yeah, she's cute. I don't I'm not getting butterflies,

1634
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 8: as I would constantly see her here all the time

1635
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 8: when I would come out here, and she would give

1636
01:06:28,360 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 8: me like these little nudget like hey, like take down

1637
01:06:30,840 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 8: my number. Let's hang out sometime, like oh, let's hang out,

1638
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:37,040
Speaker 8: get some boba without your sign, like without your content,

1639
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 8: let's just hang out. Like yeah, I'm down, come to this.

1640
01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 8: I just moved into a new apartment. Come to my apartment.

1641
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:44,320
Speaker 8: Let's hang out, Let's let's grab a drink like, yeah,

1642
01:06:44,320 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 8: I'm down. As I gotten to know them, and I

1643
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:56,560
Speaker 8: would see all these signs, I'm like, ooh.

1644
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:54,320
Speaker 6: Are they flirting with me?

1645
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 2: Like oh, like.

1646
01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 8: I'm getting the butterflies. I'm like, am I getting Am

1647
01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:02,200
Speaker 8: I getting butterflies? Like the more I'm seeing them, like yeah,

1648
01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 8: now now that I'm seeing them, now that I'm vibing

1649
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:06,560
Speaker 8: with them a little bit, and I'm like, now I'm

1650
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:08,160
Speaker 8: getting the butter more.

1651
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:09,280
Speaker 6: Butterfly, I'm getting butterflies.

1652
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, quick, can I a see to just hold

1653
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 2: the Yeah.

1654
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,919
Speaker 6: I got her, I got you. My bad, My bad. Yeah.

1655
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:16,080
Speaker 8: As I'm getting to know them more and more, I'm like, oh,

1656
01:07:17,800 --> 01:07:19,000
Speaker 8: now I'm catching feelings.

1657
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:20,520
Speaker 6: Now I'm starting to get butterflies.

1658
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 8: Okay, okay, okay, And now it's gone to it after that,

1659
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 8: this was all last year. By the way, the winter,

1660
01:07:26,400 --> 01:07:29,240
Speaker 8: the winter comes and goes, there's like no communication, like

1661
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 8: I don't like the winter.

1662
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 6: I hibernate in the winter.

1663
01:07:31,360 --> 01:07:33,680
Speaker 8: I stay at home until the winter passes, like I

1664
01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 8: don't like going out in the winter. So as winter passes,

1665
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 8: there's no there's no interactions, no text, no phone calls,

1666
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 8: no FaceTime, there's nothing.

1667
01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 6: There's there's no interactions.

1668
01:07:44,400 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 8: I completely go ghosts, which is not intentionally, not something

1669
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 8: I want to do.

1670
01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:49,600
Speaker 6: It's just something that I do.

1671
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:57,560
Speaker 8: As the spring starts and I see her like again

1672
01:07:57,640 --> 01:08:00,560
Speaker 8: after after a whole winter not seeing her, She's like, hey, you.

1673
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:03,080
Speaker 6: Know, it's good to see you. YadA, YadA, YadA.

1674
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 8: I started getting the butterflies again, and I'm like yo, like, uh,

1675
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:12,040
Speaker 8: like I would I would assume, like all this time

1676
01:08:12,120 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 8: spent a part would make me miss her, and it did,

1677
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:18,760
Speaker 8: but no, we're back to square one. I'm getting the

1678
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:23,879
Speaker 8: butterflies again. Uh so, Yeah, I saw her in April.

1679
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:27,639
Speaker 8: In April I would see her a few times. Then

1680
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 8: May I did not see her. June I did not

1681
01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:33,800
Speaker 8: see her. July I saw her again, and at that

1682
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 8: point I was like, dude, I don't care, like I

1683
01:08:35,439 --> 01:08:36,599
Speaker 8: don't have butterflies anymore.

1684
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:38,439
Speaker 6: I genuinely missed seeing you.

1685
01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 8: I've genuinely missed seeing that person, and my fuck it,

1686
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:44,840
Speaker 8: like I I'm back. I gave my confidence back again,

1687
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 8: like I missed that person so much to the point

1688
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:48,240
Speaker 8: where I'm like, I don't care.

1689
01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:48,800
Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

1690
01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:53,440
Speaker 1: The in so the insecurity is just the insecurity.

1691
01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:58,439
Speaker 2: Of being who you are when you don't feel nervous.

1692
01:08:59,040 --> 01:09:01,320
Speaker 8: Well, when I don't see that that person as much,

1693
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:03,719
Speaker 8: I guess as much.

1694
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 2: So is this a general insecurity, you would.

1695
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 8: Say, I'd say so, I'd say so. But yeah, as

1696
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 8: as I was saying, uh, where where was I? So yeah,

1697
01:09:14,160 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 8: after after not seeing her for so long, I started

1698
01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:19,160
Speaker 8: seeing her again, and I'm like, yo, I genuinely missed you.

1699
01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 6: I genuinely missed her.

1700
01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:25,200
Speaker 8: I think she noticed because when I started getting butterflies,

1701
01:09:25,240 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 8: I started acting nonchalant around her, and I think she

1702
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:29,320
Speaker 8: picked up on that, like, oh, this guy's was so

1703
01:09:29,400 --> 01:09:30,320
Speaker 8: fun at the beginning.

1704
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 6: What happened?

1705
01:09:32,200 --> 01:09:35,719
Speaker 8: Like he's so laid back in nonchalant now, like what's

1706
01:09:35,760 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 8: going on? And I did not tell her why, but

1707
01:09:37,920 --> 01:09:42,920
Speaker 8: I think she picked out all my nonchalant iss But again,

1708
01:09:43,040 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 8: as once she saw me in June, after a whole

1709
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 8: long time of not seeing not seeing me, I gained

1710
01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:50,760
Speaker 8: my confidence back. I saw her again. I missed her

1711
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 8: and we talked. We were viving again. I think she

1712
01:09:53,880 --> 01:09:57,679
Speaker 8: she saw like, oh he's back. He's not nonchalant anymore,

1713
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 8: Like he's back, he's back to his old self again.

1714
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:03,200
Speaker 8: Something happened. He's back to his own self. Now I

1715
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 8: want to see him again. Now I want to keep

1716
01:10:05,160 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 8: seeing him and again that that fucked with my mind again.

1717
01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:14,679
Speaker 8: I got the butterflies again. She gave me her number,

1718
01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:16,200
Speaker 8: even though I have her on Instagram.

1719
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:18,799
Speaker 6: She gave me her number. She invited me to her apartment.

1720
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,840
Speaker 6: I bought her. She was here one day.

1721
01:10:22,640 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 2: Do you like this lady? Do you like this lady?

1722
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 6: Yes?

1723
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 2: Okay, because this whole thing, I'm like, do you fucking

1724
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 2: like this lady?

1725
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:28,680
Speaker 6: I'm getting to that point.

1726
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:32,080
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, sorry, get it to that part.

1727
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 6: It's the whole back and forth thing.

1728
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:34,799
Speaker 2: Sure, sure, sure.

1729
01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:39,040
Speaker 8: So I she comes to the park one day, She's like, Alex,

1730
01:10:39,400 --> 01:10:39,840
Speaker 8: I'm bored.

1731
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 6: What should I do?

1732
01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 8: I'm like, uh, do you want a buzzball? We can

1733
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:47,360
Speaker 8: go get a buzzball. She's like, fuck yeah, let's do that. Okay, okay,

1734
01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 8: well we'll go get a buzzball. We went to we

1735
01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 8: went to the store. I was like, you know, I

1736
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:52,320
Speaker 8: got you, I got you. It's like five bucks, I

1737
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:52,920
Speaker 8: got you covered.

1738
01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:53,720
Speaker 2: She's like.

1739
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 8: She came up from behind me. She's like, Alex, I'm

1740
01:10:56,280 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 8: gonna give you the boyfriend hug. And she comes from

1741
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 8: behind me and she squeezed. She squeezes me, Like, dude,

1742
01:11:01,080 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 8: you don't say that ship to like anybody, Like I'm

1743
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 8: gonna give you the boyfriend.

1744
01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 6: You don't say that to anybody.

1745
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:08,280
Speaker 8: This girl clearly likes you, right, Okay, Okay, she clearly

1746
01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:08,680
Speaker 8: likes me.

1747
01:11:09,240 --> 01:11:10,360
Speaker 6: I clearly like her.

1748
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:12,599
Speaker 2: Okay, like, dude, let's just fucking hang out.

1749
01:11:12,680 --> 01:11:15,439
Speaker 6: Let's hang out, like I'm I'm like, I know.

1750
01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:17,400
Speaker 8: She said that she had to go, like afterwards because

1751
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 8: she had, like I don't know, I think she had

1752
01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 8: worked the next day, but she said she had to go. Okay, okay,

1753
01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:24,719
Speaker 8: we will. We will schedule a hangout. We will schedule

1754
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 8: hang out to meet each other.

1755
01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:28,680
Speaker 2: Like why is this so complicated?

1756
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 6: I'm getting to that point.

1757
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry, I'm sorry, sorry sorry.

1758
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:40,840
Speaker 8: So, uh yes, three times we schedule a hangout three

1759
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:43,800
Speaker 8: times for me, It's like three strikes.

1760
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:45,800
Speaker 2: Like you should oh, she kept delaying.

1761
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 8: No, no, So we made a day to hang out

1762
01:11:48,080 --> 01:11:51,160
Speaker 8: on a Saturday. Okay, I'm like, yeah, absolutely, let's fucking

1763
01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:51,920
Speaker 8: get lunch or whatever.

1764
01:11:52,000 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 6: Let's hang out.

1765
01:11:52,640 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 2: Yeah she but did she yes, Okay, you hung out.

1766
01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 2: We were both so hola, hola.

1767
01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 1: Okay, what's your name again? By the way, like, Alex,

1768
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:03,960
Speaker 1: you said three strikes, you're out? Uh huh what were

1769
01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:04,679
Speaker 1: the three strikes?

1770
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:07,720
Speaker 8: I'm getting I was just getting to that, okay, Okay,

1771
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:10,040
Speaker 8: So we made us data. This was on our Friday.

1772
01:12:10,040 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 8: We made a day to hang out on Saturday. Saturday

1773
01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 8: morning comes like, hey, we're still on fridayday and she's like, yeah,

1774
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:17,160
Speaker 8: I'm down. Let's let me know when you're here. Text

1775
01:12:17,200 --> 01:12:19,639
Speaker 8: me when you're here, like, all right, perfect, I got you.

1776
01:12:20,040 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 8: I will be there at three o'clock. It's it's like

1777
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:24,320
Speaker 8: one o'clock. I will be train takes me like thirty minutes.

1778
01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 8: She didn't show up. No, no, As I was making out,

1779
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 8: hopping on the train about to head there, train Delace

1780
01:12:33,600 --> 01:12:34,960
Speaker 8: train is now working on weekends.

1781
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 6: You gotta take the bus.

1782
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:37,920
Speaker 8: You gotta take the long ass bus to Atlantic and

1783
01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:41,640
Speaker 8: transfer do all this, and you know NYC traffic, you know.

1784
01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:46,360
Speaker 8: And I'm like I text him like, hey, you know

1785
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 8: the trains aren't working. I'm so sorry. I will be

1786
01:12:48,760 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 8: there as soon as I can, but I don't know

1787
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 8: with traffic, I don't know how long it'll take me

1788
01:12:52,000 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 8: to get there.

1789
01:12:52,439 --> 01:12:52,919
Speaker 2: Okay.

1790
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:54,880
Speaker 8: It's like, yeah, just let me know when you get here.

1791
01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:58,680
Speaker 8: Buses take a long time. Trains take a long time.

1792
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 8: I get here at it like eight and nine o'clock

1793
01:13:00,400 --> 01:13:02,880
Speaker 8: at night, like, hey, I'm so sorry, Like are you here?

1794
01:13:02,920 --> 01:13:04,120
Speaker 6: She's like no, I had to head her out.

1795
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:06,680
Speaker 8: I'm sorry, Like no, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry the

1796
01:13:06,720 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 8: fucking trains. Wait, so this is strike on, this is

1797
01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 8: strike one, okay, Like, hey, can we reschedule?

1798
01:13:12,040 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 6: It's like, yeah, let's get lunch tomorrow.

1799
01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:16,120
Speaker 1: Alex, I don't think I can. I don't think we

1800
01:13:16,160 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 1: can do all three strikes. Listen all right, because listen,

1801
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 1: because how long ago did this happen?

1802
01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:27,600
Speaker 6: This has been going on for like two months? What

1803
01:13:27,720 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 6: the fuck?

1804
01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,760
Speaker 2: Alex? Do you like this?

1805
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 6: Lady?

1806
01:13:31,360 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 2: I do? Okay, doude? Then what the fuck she likes you?

1807
01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:35,960
Speaker 6: Yes?

1808
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:36,800
Speaker 2: Why I don't.

1809
01:13:36,840 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: I don't know anytime things are this complicated, it kind

1810
01:13:39,920 --> 01:13:43,639
Speaker 1: of it's like it's like, what even is this.

1811
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:46,559
Speaker 8: The second time we made to reschedule? She said, yeah,

1812
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,040
Speaker 8: let's let's get lunch tomorrow. Like the trains are fucked up,

1813
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:51,439
Speaker 8: but let's get lunch tomorrow. I'm like, fuck, yeah, I

1814
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 8: showed up. She's like, actually, I don't feel like going

1815
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:56,320
Speaker 8: out anymore. Like hey, you know, that's fine. Sometimes you

1816
01:13:56,320 --> 01:13:58,040
Speaker 8: don't feel like it's a Sunday. Not everyone likes going

1817
01:13:58,040 --> 01:13:59,040
Speaker 8: out on Sunday. That's fine.

1818
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:01,920
Speaker 6: She's like, we do Monday, Like, okay, yeah, let's do that.

1819
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:02,679
Speaker 6: Let's do Monday.

1820
01:14:04,240 --> 01:14:07,479
Speaker 8: I come on Monday. She does to show up. Okay,

1821
01:14:08,560 --> 01:14:10,280
Speaker 8: I guess I got an answer. I guess she doesn't

1822
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:16,280
Speaker 8: like me. Okay, and then retracting to that statement like

1823
01:14:16,560 --> 01:14:18,240
Speaker 8: this was after by the way, I get her a

1824
01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 8: buzzball and she comes from after a while of not

1825
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 8: seeing her. Okay, she comes from behind me, Alex, I'm

1826
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:23,160
Speaker 8: gonna give you the boyfriend hug.

1827
01:14:23,200 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 2: Alex.

1828
01:14:23,520 --> 01:14:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm exhausted by this. I know me too, Okay. So

1829
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:28,400
Speaker 1: here's what okay, Okay, okay.

1830
01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:30,479
Speaker 6: So and I'm like, dude, I don't know anymore.

1831
01:14:30,520 --> 01:14:31,559
Speaker 2: Okay, Yes you do know?

1832
01:14:31,680 --> 01:14:32,240
Speaker 6: I don't know.

1833
01:14:32,360 --> 01:14:34,360
Speaker 2: Yes you do. She hasn't been no no, no, no, you

1834
01:14:34,439 --> 01:14:34,760
Speaker 2: do know?

1835
01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:35,680
Speaker 6: Don't yes you do?

1836
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:38,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, Yes you do? You do know? You

1837
01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 2: know that you're exhausted. I am you shouldn't be exhausted.

1838
01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 2: So you do know?

1839
01:14:42,920 --> 01:14:45,720
Speaker 6: I don't know, Yes you do do? I what do

1840
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:45,960
Speaker 6: I know?

1841
01:14:46,040 --> 01:14:47,600
Speaker 1: What do you know that you're exhausted. You know that

1842
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:50,840
Speaker 1: this relationship is exhausted. You know this dynamic is exhausting you. Yeah,

1843
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:53,000
Speaker 1: but that's a lot of information to have, you know,

1844
01:14:53,040 --> 01:14:54,280
Speaker 1: the dynamics exhausting you.

1845
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:56,200
Speaker 2: It is exhausting me hearing it.

1846
01:14:56,400 --> 01:14:59,559
Speaker 1: So it's like, you know, go find something that doesn't

1847
01:14:59,600 --> 01:15:01,439
Speaker 1: exhaust Jesus fucking Christ.

1848
01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 8: She texted me one day when I'm here chilling, doing

1849
01:15:03,800 --> 01:15:05,160
Speaker 8: my own thing. She texts me like, Hey, I'm at

1850
01:15:05,200 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 8: the park. I get so fucking nervous that I just

1851
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 8: run out of the park and I just wait for

1852
01:15:09,200 --> 01:15:10,680
Speaker 8: her to leave, Like, I'm just tired of this back

1853
01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:11,120
Speaker 8: and forth.

1854
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,639
Speaker 2: Alex, You're you know what, Alex, You're a sweet boy.

1855
01:15:15,479 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 1: I think you'll find a relationship one day that doesn't

1856
01:15:19,120 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 1: exhaust you.

1857
01:15:19,920 --> 01:15:22,320
Speaker 6: You know, I'm trying. I'm out here trying. Actually, actually no,

1858
01:15:22,360 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 6: I'm not out here.

1859
01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 2: You're not really out here trying.

1860
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 1: You're out here existing, being, living your own life, being

1861
01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:32,639
Speaker 1: who you are, exerting your authentic self upon the universe.

1862
01:15:32,680 --> 01:15:34,839
Speaker 1: And when you do that for long enough, the universe

1863
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:38,160
Speaker 1: brings you back, whatever the fuck it brings you back.

1864
01:15:38,320 --> 01:15:40,320
Speaker 6: At the point, I'm just like do whatever. It's whatever.

1865
01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:41,680
Speaker 6: I'm like, I'm exhausted.

1866
01:15:42,160 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm exhausted, Alex, is there anything else you want to

1867
01:15:43,960 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 1: say to the people of the computer before we go?

1868
01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:50,960
Speaker 8: Surround yourself with good people, because good people will bring

1869
01:15:51,000 --> 01:15:53,200
Speaker 8: you up. If it were for the people that I

1870
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 8: surround myself with, I would not be up sitting here, uh,

1871
01:15:56,560 --> 01:15:58,760
Speaker 8: doing this talking about all my fucking insecurities.

1872
01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:01,760
Speaker 6: So I have my friends to thank for that. So

1873
01:16:01,880 --> 01:16:03,479
Speaker 6: love y'all. Surround yourself with good people.

1874
01:16:03,720 --> 01:16:05,360
Speaker 1: I thank you very much for your time and your honesty. Man,

1875
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:07,400
Speaker 1: I really appreciate it. Thank you, Alex. You have a

1876
01:16:07,400 --> 01:16:07,720
Speaker 1: good one.

1877
01:16:07,800 --> 01:16:08,599
Speaker 2: I'm sure. I'm sure.

1878
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:12,920
Speaker 1: I'll see you in the park later. Man, Andrew, nice

1879
01:16:12,920 --> 01:16:14,599
Speaker 1: to meet you. Has life, what's going on?

1880
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:15,400
Speaker 6: I'm doing, lile.

1881
01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:18,200
Speaker 5: I just just moved here from Florida. Okay, it's my

1882
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 5: first time. Actually it's like my third week here.

1883
01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:24,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1884
01:16:24,200 --> 01:16:25,680
Speaker 5: I just saw you, so I was like, you know what,

1885
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:28,240
Speaker 5: I'll pop a squat. You seem like a really interesting person.

1886
01:16:28,360 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 2: Well thanks man. What brought you to New York work?

1887
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:35,680
Speaker 5: Actually, as well as just pretty much. I grew up

1888
01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 5: in Florida felt like I was stunted, like my growth

1889
01:16:40,439 --> 01:16:43,080
Speaker 5: was stunted there. I didn't have like a lot of creativity.

1890
01:16:43,160 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 5: I had like some falling out with friends over my

1891
01:16:45,040 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 5: sexuality and religion, and so I felt like New York

1892
01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:51,800
Speaker 5: was a safe place for me, not only creatively, but

1893
01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:55,200
Speaker 5: also to express myself fully. So I'm kind of out here.

1894
01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 5: I don't really have too many friends out here either,

1895
01:16:57,400 --> 01:16:59,080
Speaker 5: So I was like, you know what, it would.

1896
01:16:58,880 --> 01:17:00,400
Speaker 2: Be nice to sit down and talk with someone.

1897
01:17:00,520 --> 01:17:01,240
Speaker 6: Okay, cool man?

1898
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:01,800
Speaker 3: Sure that.

1899
01:17:02,040 --> 01:17:05,000
Speaker 2: I was so patient, you know, it's why. So how

1900
01:17:05,080 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 2: you said you've been here for three weeks?

1901
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:06,879
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1902
01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 2: Okay, And what are you doing here? You going to school?

1903
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 2: You're working? I'm working. I'm a marketing director right now? Okay?

1904
01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 2: Yeahs you are? I am thirty one, thirty one?

1905
01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:16,679
Speaker 6: Okay.

1906
01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:19,920
Speaker 2: Have you been doing anything to try to make friends?

1907
01:17:20,000 --> 01:17:21,719
Speaker 2: Meet people? So that's the thing.

1908
01:17:21,920 --> 01:17:24,800
Speaker 5: I've been so like occupied focus on work as well

1909
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:28,920
Speaker 5: as like trying to get familiar with the city that

1910
01:17:29,000 --> 01:17:30,800
Speaker 5: I really haven't had made time for that, which I

1911
01:17:30,840 --> 01:17:34,960
Speaker 5: need to is definitely, uh, something I kind of have

1912
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 5: to adjust to, just because I would say for so long,

1913
01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:40,439
Speaker 5: since I was from Florida, I had most of my

1914
01:17:40,439 --> 01:17:43,880
Speaker 5: friends growing up. I never had to make friends again,

1915
01:17:44,000 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 5: like like as an adult, now, and especially as like

1916
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:49,240
Speaker 5: a new person. I guess you could say, because now

1917
01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:52,280
Speaker 5: I'm like living more in my like authenticity, living.

1918
01:17:52,520 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 2: Who I am. That's good.

1919
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:57,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, So now it's like navigating that and learning to

1920
01:17:57,600 --> 01:18:01,240
Speaker 5: kind of not HIGs parts of me and learn how

1921
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:05,759
Speaker 5: to like really kind of navigate this new version of myself.

1922
01:18:05,800 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 5: I guess you can call it, and uh, I guess

1923
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:10,760
Speaker 5: navigate it. And I don't even want to call it

1924
01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 5: the correct way, because I guess there is no correct

1925
01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 5: way about going about things. But just like I guess

1926
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:20,000
Speaker 5: my goal is just to like completely be authentic with its.

1927
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:22,160
Speaker 1: And it's well, it sounds like, yeah, you mentioned Florida

1928
01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:24,640
Speaker 1: as being kind of stifling to your growth, as being

1929
01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:26,280
Speaker 1: a place where you did not feel as though you

1930
01:18:26,360 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 1: could be that authentic self. Yeah, exactly, and so wait,

1931
01:18:29,439 --> 01:18:31,200
Speaker 1: so and how long did you live in Florida for

1932
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:32,080
Speaker 1: up until now?

1933
01:18:32,360 --> 01:18:32,559
Speaker 12: Yeah?

1934
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, so it is the first three weeks out

1935
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:35,280
Speaker 2: of Florida exactly.

1936
01:18:35,320 --> 01:18:39,240
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Okay, so you're in You're in this

1937
01:18:39,280 --> 01:18:41,200
Speaker 1: is this is this the first time you actually feel

1938
01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 1: like you are living as your authentic self?

1939
01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,639
Speaker 2: Pretty much, get out of here. That's that's amazing. That's

1940
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:47,120
Speaker 2: really cool. It is a big leap.

1941
01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:52,200
Speaker 5: I find it as free like as possible. I feel

1942
01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:54,479
Speaker 5: like I would never change my life. I went through

1943
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 5: a lot of trials and tribulations, like I said, you know,

1944
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:58,960
Speaker 5: coming out late in life, as well as like losing

1945
01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:01,519
Speaker 5: a lot of friends my church, Like it was like

1946
01:19:01,920 --> 01:19:05,720
Speaker 5: really difficult time for me, but it literally sharpened me.

1947
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:08,840
Speaker 5: It made me polish me into the person I am today.

1948
01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:12,000
Speaker 5: I like to tell people gave me superpowers. I feel

1949
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:15,360
Speaker 5: like I have a level of understanding people now from

1950
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 5: all walks of life and understanding them just because of

1951
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 5: those hardships. I felt like they gave me a level

1952
01:19:20,920 --> 01:19:23,840
Speaker 5: of sympathy and empathy for people that I wouldn't have

1953
01:19:23,920 --> 01:19:26,479
Speaker 5: had if I didn't go through those those certain things.

1954
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:30,439
Speaker 5: And I guess it's just I'm happy that I was

1955
01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:32,120
Speaker 5: able to get come out of the other side of

1956
01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:34,400
Speaker 5: it with a positive outlook on life. And because I

1957
01:19:34,439 --> 01:19:36,400
Speaker 5: know a lot of people don't. So I'm just even

1958
01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:39,000
Speaker 5: sharing this too, because I know you have probably a

1959
01:19:39,040 --> 01:19:41,280
Speaker 5: lot of people who watch you, so just to let

1960
01:19:41,280 --> 01:19:44,520
Speaker 5: them know that, like you got to just like authentically

1961
01:19:44,520 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 5: be yourself. I know that word is like thrown around

1962
01:19:46,840 --> 01:19:49,040
Speaker 5: a lot now. But it's so true. It's so freeing

1963
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:52,040
Speaker 5: to be yourself no matter what you're going through, Like

1964
01:19:53,240 --> 01:19:56,160
Speaker 5: you'll find peace when you like when you start loving

1965
01:19:56,160 --> 01:19:58,800
Speaker 5: yourself more, because no one could love yourself like love

1966
01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:00,240
Speaker 5: you as much as you can love yourself.

1967
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:02,400
Speaker 1: Well, look, I know you said you're having you know,

1968
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:04,799
Speaker 1: trouble making friends and whatnot, But I ever new nothing

1969
01:20:04,840 --> 01:20:07,519
Speaker 1: you have said is quite out of the ordinary for

1970
01:20:07,560 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 1: only being in a place for three weeks.

1971
01:20:09,160 --> 01:20:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you know.

1972
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:13,200
Speaker 1: So I are you in person as this marketing director

1973
01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:14,320
Speaker 1: or is this like an online thing?

1974
01:20:14,439 --> 01:20:16,519
Speaker 5: So no, I'm in person. I worked two days a

1975
01:20:16,520 --> 01:20:21,519
Speaker 5: week there. Co workers are cool, just like I guess

1976
01:20:21,560 --> 01:20:23,719
Speaker 5: they're like older than me. So it's like a little.

1977
01:20:23,640 --> 01:20:26,559
Speaker 1: Well here's the here's the good news is that where

1978
01:20:26,600 --> 01:20:28,559
Speaker 1: in Florida were you? West Palms?

1979
01:20:29,080 --> 01:20:31,520
Speaker 2: Okay of West Palm. It's like it's a little posh.

1980
01:20:31,640 --> 01:20:34,599
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like right across from like there's literally right

1981
01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:36,120
Speaker 5: over the bridge is Palm Beach Island.

1982
01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:42,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like a wes West Palm is definitely yeah. Yeah,

1983
01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:44,840
Speaker 1: I Well, the good news is that you moved to

1984
01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:50,759
Speaker 1: one of the best places in America to meet people.

1985
01:20:51,120 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 2: There's infinite I mean, what do you like? What are

1986
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:53,080
Speaker 2: you into?

1987
01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:57,120
Speaker 5: I love art, I love fashion, I love photography, I

1988
01:20:57,160 --> 01:20:57,799
Speaker 5: love writing.

1989
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:00,519
Speaker 2: Oh, I mean, bro, I know that's what I'm saying.

1990
01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:04,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, here's the thing I mean, dude, I mean, this

1991
01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:06,439
Speaker 1: is why I live in New York, right, It is

1992
01:21:06,479 --> 01:21:09,320
Speaker 1: because you know, I mean, I come to this park

1993
01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:10,040
Speaker 1: almost every day.

1994
01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:11,040
Speaker 2: It makes me feel alive.

1995
01:21:11,160 --> 01:21:13,920
Speaker 1: Anytime I feel like I'm dying or I'm like old,

1996
01:21:14,040 --> 01:21:17,800
Speaker 1: or I like that everything. You know, there's nothing left

1997
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:19,599
Speaker 1: for me to do on this planet, I just come.

1998
01:21:19,640 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 1: I you know, New York is the place to where where,

1999
01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:26,000
Speaker 1: even after you think you've you know, seen it all

2000
01:21:26,080 --> 01:21:28,160
Speaker 1: or done it all or whatever, there's places and people

2001
01:21:28,240 --> 01:21:32,120
Speaker 1: and rooms you can go into and things to remind

2002
01:21:32,200 --> 01:21:35,559
Speaker 1: yourself that, oh shit, there's more. There's always there is more,

2003
01:21:35,800 --> 01:21:38,800
Speaker 1: and and and here's the but here's the thing. It

2004
01:21:38,880 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 1: doesn't find you. It doesn't find you. It doesn't find you.

2005
01:21:44,200 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 1: But you don't even have to do it in the

2006
01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:50,920
Speaker 1: correct way. But it's if you go out in search,

2007
01:21:52,240 --> 01:21:52,800
Speaker 1: you find it.

2008
01:21:53,520 --> 01:21:53,720
Speaker 2: You know.

2009
01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:56,080
Speaker 1: So like if you go on the internet and you

2010
01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:59,679
Speaker 1: search for weird art events, or you see some stupid

2011
01:21:59,680 --> 01:22:02,400
Speaker 1: fly as you're walking and you click the QR code

2012
01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:04,880
Speaker 1: and you actually go to the thing, and then when

2013
01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:05,800
Speaker 1: you're at the thing, you.

2014
01:22:05,720 --> 01:22:07,120
Speaker 2: Actually talk to some people.

2015
01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:10,400
Speaker 1: You start, you know, so the more again, the more you,

2016
01:22:10,400 --> 01:22:13,920
Speaker 1: you know, authentically exert yourself upon the city and the world.

2017
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:15,679
Speaker 2: You you you find these things.

2018
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I mean even the fact that you came

2019
01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:21,719
Speaker 1: to sit and talk to a random dude on the thing.

2020
01:22:22,080 --> 01:22:23,880
Speaker 2: Is a good sign.

2021
01:22:24,640 --> 01:22:27,640
Speaker 1: So yeah, all like crazy cool art, fashion, whatever the

2022
01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:29,200
Speaker 1: fuck shit exists?

2023
01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:30,720
Speaker 2: Ye do you?

2024
01:22:30,800 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 1: I'll give you some like Instagram pages to follow and

2025
01:22:34,200 --> 01:22:34,760
Speaker 1: some shit too.

2026
01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:37,240
Speaker 2: Later after we've done this, I appreciate that someone take

2027
01:22:37,240 --> 01:22:38,080
Speaker 2: a little video of us.

2028
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:40,559
Speaker 1: What's up? How's it going? Look at this guy? Look

2029
01:22:40,560 --> 01:22:44,560
Speaker 1: at this guy? Who's this guy? I love this combination.

2030
01:22:44,760 --> 01:22:47,320
Speaker 1: Look at this guy. He's got a combination. I've never

2031
01:22:47,360 --> 01:22:51,000
Speaker 1: seen a combination of a leopard print shirt with an

2032
01:22:51,160 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 1: army bag and he's got the leopard.

2033
01:22:54,320 --> 01:23:03,080
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, look at this guy? Well why do I? Man?

2034
01:23:05,160 --> 01:23:09,120
Speaker 1: Nice to see you too, man, God bless But yeah, dude,

2035
01:23:09,120 --> 01:23:10,599
Speaker 1: you're you're in a great position.

2036
01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel And that's the good thing is I'm

2037
01:23:12,760 --> 01:23:15,600
Speaker 5: giving myself time. Like I said, I'm navigating it. I

2038
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:18,080
Speaker 5: feel like I'm in a good place. Uh, sometimes I

2039
01:23:18,080 --> 01:23:20,080
Speaker 5: could get it lonely. You know, I haven't really made

2040
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:21,800
Speaker 5: too many friends out here yet, so that's why I

2041
01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 5: was like, let me, let me, let me just sit

2042
01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 5: down and have a good conversation for once.

2043
01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:27,000
Speaker 2: And you see, like I said, you seem like a

2044
01:23:27,040 --> 01:23:28,840
Speaker 2: really interesting guy. Yeah, you're doing well here.

2045
01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:31,080
Speaker 1: After after we're done, there's a couple of like, uh,

2046
01:23:31,240 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 1: like email lists I'm on and like Instagram pages.

2047
01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:37,679
Speaker 2: I'll give yeah, for sure, for sure. Can I ask

2048
01:23:37,680 --> 01:23:40,400
Speaker 2: you some questions? Yeah, hit man? Okay, is that what?

2049
01:23:40,600 --> 01:23:42,240
Speaker 2: You just have one suit or you have multiple suits?

2050
01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:46,320
Speaker 1: Oh? I have I have well, I don't know anymore. Honestly,

2051
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:48,120
Speaker 1: I have a this is a hundred. I just have

2052
01:23:48,160 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 1: a room and it's got a pile of like there's

2053
01:23:52,120 --> 01:23:54,439
Speaker 1: five parts to wait, there's five parts to the suit.

2054
01:23:54,479 --> 01:23:58,519
Speaker 1: There's there's the head, the hands, which are technically two parts,

2055
01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:06,639
Speaker 1: but actually no, there's there's Okay, I'm gonna count this one, two, three, four, five, six, seven.

2056
01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:10,200
Speaker 1: There's seven parts to the suit, okay, two hands, two feet,

2057
01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:14,160
Speaker 1: a torso, pants, and a head. And I just have

2058
01:24:15,320 --> 01:24:19,760
Speaker 1: an amalgam a big green pile of parts.

2059
01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:19,880
Speaker 2: Of the suit.

2060
01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:22,280
Speaker 1: It's awesome, just a room of like like you know

2061
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:27,240
Speaker 1: in the Simpsons, the giant burning tower of tires. That's

2062
01:24:27,280 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 1: why I have that, but with uh with echo suits.

2063
01:24:30,240 --> 01:24:32,800
Speaker 1: So I don't know how many that compiles when you

2064
01:24:32,880 --> 01:24:34,639
Speaker 1: add them up, but yeah.

2065
01:24:34,640 --> 01:24:35,840
Speaker 2: That's that's what I got.

2066
01:24:36,240 --> 01:24:38,120
Speaker 5: The second question is I guess, out of all the

2067
01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:41,200
Speaker 5: interviews I've ever done, what was the most interesting thing

2068
01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:43,559
Speaker 5: You've learned about yourself in the process of doing this?

2069
01:24:43,640 --> 01:24:45,600
Speaker 2: Can I tell you the truth? Yeah?

2070
01:24:45,680 --> 01:24:47,840
Speaker 1: I get asked this question a lot of like what's

2071
01:24:47,880 --> 01:24:49,840
Speaker 1: like the craziest thing you've learned, or like what's the

2072
01:24:49,840 --> 01:24:51,120
Speaker 1: most interesting thing you've learned?

2073
01:24:51,240 --> 01:24:53,680
Speaker 2: Or what have you learned about humanity? I'm gonna be

2074
01:24:53,680 --> 01:24:54,280
Speaker 2: honest with you.

2075
01:24:55,479 --> 01:24:58,599
Speaker 1: The more I travel and talk to people and do this,

2076
01:24:59,320 --> 01:25:02,839
Speaker 1: the more I know I don't know fucking anything. I actually,

2077
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:06,920
Speaker 1: the more the more agnostic I become. Actually oh wow,

2078
01:25:07,120 --> 01:25:09,920
Speaker 1: yeah wow, oh wait, sorry, I'll answer in one second, but.

2079
01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:12,720
Speaker 5: Now altruistic, like you don't feel like you like love

2080
01:25:12,760 --> 01:25:14,040
Speaker 5: more because you know, like.

2081
01:25:14,280 --> 01:25:14,880
Speaker 2: No, I know.

2082
01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:17,920
Speaker 1: I become more agnostic about my beliefs, and I become

2083
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:21,040
Speaker 1: more agnostic about how what I know about the world

2084
01:25:21,120 --> 01:25:23,200
Speaker 1: and what I know about myself and I by my

2085
01:25:23,320 --> 01:25:26,640
Speaker 1: identity crumbles the more I talk to people, because when

2086
01:25:26,680 --> 01:25:28,400
Speaker 1: you're when you're younger and when you're in high school,

2087
01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 1: it's way easier to have a sense of identity and

2088
01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:32,160
Speaker 1: an ego. And then the more you talk to people

2089
01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:34,120
Speaker 1: and the more you travel and learn things and do things,

2090
01:25:34,120 --> 01:25:37,160
Speaker 1: the more my identity my ego crumble and I don't

2091
01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:40,080
Speaker 1: know and the more I know nothing. Yeah, this in

2092
01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:42,880
Speaker 1: uh and this is lame that I'm gonna quote this,

2093
01:25:42,960 --> 01:25:44,839
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna do it is in Rick and Morty.

2094
01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:48,200
Speaker 2: You know the actually you know what this is in

2095
01:25:48,320 --> 01:25:48,960
Speaker 2: Rick and Morty?

2096
01:25:49,160 --> 01:25:49,360
Speaker 6: Yeah?

2097
01:25:49,439 --> 01:25:51,600
Speaker 1: Do you know the scene where Rick is talking not

2098
01:25:51,960 --> 01:25:54,400
Speaker 1: when Morty's talking to Summer and he's like, you hang

2099
01:25:54,439 --> 01:25:56,760
Speaker 1: out with Rick, And the more you hang out with Rick,

2100
01:25:56,840 --> 01:25:59,599
Speaker 1: the more you know nothing and he knows everything. And

2101
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:01,400
Speaker 1: all I know is that we're all gonna die and

2102
01:26:01,400 --> 01:26:02,479
Speaker 1: nobody belongs anywhere.

2103
01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:05,200
Speaker 2: Come watch TV. Yep. That is how I feel when

2104
01:26:05,200 --> 01:26:05,639
Speaker 2: I travel.

2105
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:07,160
Speaker 1: Wow, and when I do this and when I talk

2106
01:26:07,160 --> 01:26:10,400
Speaker 1: to people, the more I'm like, oh, the universe knows everything.

2107
01:26:10,520 --> 01:26:13,840
Speaker 1: I know nothing, nothing matters, No one belongs anywhere. I'm

2108
01:26:13,880 --> 01:26:15,559
Speaker 1: gonna go play video games and jerk off.

2109
01:26:15,600 --> 01:26:16,439
Speaker 2: So I get that it.

2110
01:26:16,439 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 5: Almost feels like the Yeah, because you can't have any

2111
01:26:19,400 --> 01:26:21,759
Speaker 5: go at that point, especially if you're interviewing people constantly

2112
01:26:21,800 --> 01:26:24,680
Speaker 5: learning new stuff, and then everyone's a reflection of you.

2113
01:26:25,040 --> 01:26:27,840
Speaker 1: And it's honestly, it's almost less about even like the

2114
01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:29,720
Speaker 1: work that I do, and even just like living my

2115
01:26:29,800 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 1: life on a personal level. The older I get, the

2116
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:34,720
Speaker 1: more I live my life on a personal level and

2117
01:26:34,760 --> 01:26:37,679
Speaker 1: I have my own personal experiences, is how I arrive

2118
01:26:37,720 --> 01:26:39,240
Speaker 1: at the fact that I don't fucking know anything.

2119
01:26:39,320 --> 01:26:39,519
Speaker 6: Yeah.

2120
01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:41,960
Speaker 2: Do you feel like that makes what you do harder?

2121
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:42,200
Speaker 1: Though?

2122
01:26:43,600 --> 01:26:43,760
Speaker 8: Uh?

2123
01:26:43,840 --> 01:26:44,200
Speaker 2: Kind of.

2124
01:26:44,240 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 1: I think existing on the internet and having a podcast

2125
01:26:47,080 --> 01:26:49,719
Speaker 1: almost beckons upon you to have strong opinions.

2126
01:26:49,880 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's almost like you're.

2127
01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:56,400
Speaker 5: It's not that you're catering to the algorithm, but almost

2128
01:26:56,400 --> 01:26:58,160
Speaker 5: like you kind of have to in a sense.

2129
01:26:59,200 --> 01:26:59,400
Speaker 6: You know.

2130
01:26:59,720 --> 01:27:02,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, but I mean, I don't know, we're

2131
01:27:02,160 --> 01:27:04,479
Speaker 1: having we're having this conversation right now, and I guess,

2132
01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:07,400
Speaker 1: and I guess I have expressed a strong opinion in it, yeah,

2133
01:27:07,400 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 1: which is that I don't have a lot of strong opinions,

2134
01:27:11,080 --> 01:27:12,160
Speaker 1: a strong opinions, but.

2135
01:27:12,240 --> 01:27:15,160
Speaker 5: That's hey, and what opinions changed every day. Man, you

2136
01:27:15,160 --> 01:27:16,559
Speaker 5: don't know who you're gonna talk to the next day.

2137
01:27:16,600 --> 01:27:18,879
Speaker 5: So that strong opinions does how strong is the next conversation?

2138
01:27:19,200 --> 01:27:21,200
Speaker 2: Oh you're gonna hate me. But what's your name again?

2139
01:27:21,280 --> 01:27:25,080
Speaker 1: Andrews get So it's okay, Well Andrew, listen, you're my

2140
01:27:25,160 --> 01:27:26,920
Speaker 1: last interview of the day. I'm gonna pack all this

2141
01:27:26,960 --> 01:27:29,960
Speaker 1: shit up. But is there is there any bring us home?

2142
01:27:30,000 --> 01:27:30,320
Speaker 6: Andrew?

2143
01:27:30,320 --> 01:27:31,360
Speaker 2: What do you want to say to the people of

2144
01:27:31,360 --> 01:27:32,439
Speaker 2: the computer before we get out?

2145
01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:35,320
Speaker 5: To anyone out there watching this or listening, just know

2146
01:27:36,040 --> 01:27:38,639
Speaker 5: that you have to. You don't have to, but it's

2147
01:27:38,640 --> 01:27:40,640
Speaker 5: so much beneficial if you do what you love and

2148
01:27:40,720 --> 01:27:43,320
Speaker 5: you are who you are, and just know that I am.

2149
01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:45,720
Speaker 5: That I am is the key, and you learn that

2150
01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:49,360
Speaker 5: you that life is coming literally out of you.

2151
01:27:49,360 --> 01:27:51,560
Speaker 2: You what's inside of you. You manifest.

2152
01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:55,479
Speaker 5: Sometimes it takes time for reality to catch up. But

2153
01:27:55,600 --> 01:27:57,840
Speaker 5: if you if you say I love yourself all the

2154
01:27:57,880 --> 01:28:00,759
Speaker 5: time in your head, you start actually bringing up to reality.

2155
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:03,200
Speaker 5: So just know that I know it's not silly and

2156
01:28:03,200 --> 01:28:04,479
Speaker 5: woo woo, but it's true.

2157
01:28:04,800 --> 01:28:05,000
Speaker 2: You know.

2158
01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:08,000
Speaker 5: So it's been great knowing you. It's been a great conversation.

2159
01:28:08,000 --> 01:28:08,920
Speaker 5: I appreciate your time my friend.

2160
01:28:08,920 --> 01:28:11,600
Speaker 1: Appreciate you Andrew folks. Thank you guys very much for

2161
01:28:11,680 --> 01:28:15,639
Speaker 1: listening to the Therapy Gecko Podcast. I'm Lyle, I'm a Gecko.

2162
01:28:17,240 --> 01:28:21,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home or not, or I'll just sleep

2163
01:28:21,360 --> 01:28:23,080
Speaker 1: here at the park. I don't care. I mean, I

2164
01:28:23,120 --> 01:28:24,599
Speaker 1: do care. I don't want to sleep at the park,

2165
01:28:24,600 --> 01:28:26,880
Speaker 1: but I like the park. I'm I'm this is a

2166
01:28:26,880 --> 01:28:29,960
Speaker 1: bad act, this is a bad outro, but it's what

2167
01:28:30,080 --> 01:28:32,639
Speaker 1: I said. I can't take it back. I theoretically can.

2168
01:28:32,680 --> 01:28:34,000
Speaker 1: I can, of course I can take it back. I

2169
01:28:34,000 --> 01:28:35,320
Speaker 1: can edit it out, but I'm not gonna do that.

2170
01:28:35,520 --> 01:28:38,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave it in. Thanks for listening. I'll be

2171
01:28:38,320 --> 01:28:40,679
Speaker 1: back in a few days with another episode of the thing.

2172
01:28:41,120 --> 01:28:44,360
Speaker 1: Ghek bless you. Thanks for being here. See you guys

2173
01:28:44,360 --> 01:28:45,080
Speaker 1: around the universe.