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Speaker 1: Good morning, my gorgeous full happy hump day. If motherfucker

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Speaker 1: La La can't welcome back to give them La La podcast,

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Speaker 1: how is everybody?

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Speaker 2: How are you, Jess? I'm good, I'm good. We both

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Speaker 2: just got back into town. Sorry it's oh no, I

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Speaker 2: told him.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, people are like really loving you on the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's what I love about this podcast is that it

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Speaker 1: creates a safe place for people to come and we

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Speaker 1: can talk, and you know, it takes me out of

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Speaker 1: vander Pump, which is you know, no matter how you

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Speaker 1: want to break it down, there's positive moments in reality TV.

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Speaker 1: But let's be honest, like we're tuning in to watch

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Speaker 1: bitches beat each other. Like that's just what it is, right,

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Speaker 1: If you can't compartmentalize, like being a part of reality TV.

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Speaker 2: Will eat you alive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to separate the two real life from

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Speaker 1: real life. I've or like you're done for Yeah, it's interesting.

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Speaker 2: Too to hear you say that, because it is real.

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Speaker 3: Like, like I've said before, it's like I've never I

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Speaker 3: never When I first started working with you, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I bet they set up and no, the cameras just

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Speaker 3: pop in and you guys are just going about your

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Speaker 3: your days.

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Speaker 1: Yes, so yeah, people loved him on the podcast. I

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Speaker 1: feel like, and I told him, like a while back,

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Speaker 2: I think we should squash the beef.

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Speaker 1: We had a really intense reunion last year m hm,

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Speaker 1: and like he came for me, I was just tired

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I like literally.

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Speaker 1: Couldn't give one fuck about this reunion right now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: with my life.

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Speaker 2: So we've moved on.

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Speaker 1: He got to sit here last week and kind of

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Speaker 1: And I just got back from Mexico.

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Speaker 2: They got married, Yes, they got married husband and wife.

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Speaker 1: Now. I guess people will see that unfold. Yes, So

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Speaker 1: maybe we can't talk about it, but I will say though,

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Speaker 1: I always talk about how I just can knock it

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Speaker 1: down with weddings, even before I became like I don't

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Speaker 1: believe in marriage. I just like, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: it was about weddings. But then when you put me

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Speaker 1: at the actual wedding, yeah, I'm sobbing. I'm like, when

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Speaker 1: is the next one? I want to feel this forever,

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Speaker 1: Like it's just like so beautiful, full of love like

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he was just so sweet. I've always been that

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Speaker 3: I remember talking to Kyle about it a couple of

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Speaker 3: years ago and being like, but what's like having the conversation.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, but what's the point of marriage?

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Speaker 3: Because Kyle's always, ever since I met him, been like

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Speaker 3: I'm like, but I need to know the point, and

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Speaker 3: I used to make the argument, well, I can do

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Speaker 2: But I see both sides, and I do think marriage

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Speaker 1: I I think the ceremony is beautiful. Yes, I think

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Speaker 1: And for me, you know, I thank God every day

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Speaker 1: What's mine is mine and what's yours is yours? Right,

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Speaker 2: But no, we're running. We're running a tight ship over here,

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Speaker 1: And this is real that like I could get married

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Speaker 1: I told Kyle too, I don't know why I've always

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Speaker 2: Loans, and I, like, literally a month ago paid them off.

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Speaker 2: I know, I'm so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, so I have to I saved this and

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Speaker 1: it's on Instagram and it said it's the biz owners.

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Speaker 1: Six Non sexual advice is for youngsters. Okay, do not

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Speaker 1: do not spend too much time. I'm trying to be

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Speaker 1: more physically attractive in order to just impress your crush

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Speaker 1: rather than making yourself mentally attractive. Educate yourself, address reoccurring

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Speaker 1: needing to over explain yourself. If someone is offended by

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Speaker 1: obviously sober. Don't subscribe to other people's definition of fun.

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Speaker 1: Fund doesn't have to mean drinking, party and socializing. Fun

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Speaker 1: This one is the winning one where I'm like, everyone

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Speaker 1: it before you get married, discuss bills, parenting styles, credit debt,

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Speaker 1: You make friends, lose them, you make mistakes, correct them,

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Speaker 1: If I would have read this at the age of

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Speaker 2: Everyone's married six kids deep at my age.

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Speaker 1: Right, I'm telling you to No, it sounds so cliche

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Speaker 3: But that's why I love that post because it's like,

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Speaker 2: So let's figure this out. So I have to talk

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Speaker 1: Find the happy met Yeah, I mean back in the

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Speaker 1: The sex was a mind blowing and the dick had

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Speaker 1: I tell you what my mother said to me. So

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Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, I I just love Laylah so much?

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Speaker 2: You know, do you think you'll ever move if it

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Speaker 1: You it's not you were we were eight years old,

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Speaker 1: whatever like festival when she's fifteen, born and raised in

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00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:09,280
Speaker 1: Los Angeles, California, freaks me out. I want to show her,

439
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:13,679
Speaker 1: I know, and you know, yes, got it. Like she's

440
00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:16,480
Speaker 1: my kid and she's gonna see me. She's not gonna

441
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 1: see substances around. I'm not gonna see alcohol. But like

442
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,720
Speaker 1: kids are curious, and I see her personality right now,

443
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:28,280
Speaker 1: and I tell her one hundred and fifty thousand times hot, hot,

444
00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 1: don't touch She's gonna touch it, Like that's just her personality.

445
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 1: She has to learn for herself.

446
00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,800
Speaker 3: And that's probably what terrifies you, because some things that

447
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 3: you learn for yourself as you grow up can get

448
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 3: real dangerous, right, Yeah, like you don't wanna.

449
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 1: So these are the things that keep me up at

450
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 1: night is how do I protect ocean? While Also because

451
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 1: you have to know, I was like a super good kid.

452
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: I never had a curfew, Like I really like I

453
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,800
Speaker 1: could do whatever the fuck I wanted. Yeah, however, if

454
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 1: I crossed my mom and dad, like the world was

455
00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:07,840
Speaker 1: gonna end really like you were terrified, Like I knew,

456
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 1: I have all the freedom in the world, but if

457
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:13,280
Speaker 1: I mess this up, the wrath ain't worth it.

458
00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 2: Right?

459
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 3: Would you get in trouble if you came home like

460
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,600
Speaker 3: drunk or anything? In high school or call it or whatever.

461
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:22,159
Speaker 3: So my first drink was the night I graduated from

462
00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:26,760
Speaker 3: high school. I never had a drink before, and I

463
00:22:26,800 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 3: wasn't a big drinker. I was such a homebody, like

464
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,720
Speaker 3: I probably went out once a month.

465
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it just wasn't a big drinker, like my friends

466
00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,280
Speaker 1: were drinking all the time. Yeah, and I just wasn't

467
00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 1: like that. Did your mom know you drank? You would

468
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:40,920
Speaker 1: be honest with her though, Yeah, I know I told

469
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:43,240
Speaker 1: her everything. I think she knew that I had had

470
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: drinks before. But it was like I just felt like

471
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: I had a lot of freedom. No, I didn't smoke

472
00:22:48,760 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 1: weed until I was like twenty. My first puff of

473
00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 1: weed was like twenty years old. Do you think that's

474
00:22:53,800 --> 00:22:58,080
Speaker 1: how you'll be with Ocean, because I do notice being

475
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 1: raised in a strict household, a strict Catholic household.

476
00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 3: Love my parents. They're way better now. But I kids

477
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 3: naturally want to rebel. And when I say rebel, I

478
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 3: don't mean like be bad. I just mean like figure

479
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,200
Speaker 3: stuff out, go do stuff that they're told not to do. Yes,

480
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,479
Speaker 3: would you want to raise her with that same freedom

481
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 3: you eraise me?

482
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: I think yes, I think I want to tell her

483
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,920
Speaker 1: I would prefer you not drink. Let's just say it's

484
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: senior prompt. I would prefer you not drink. However, I'm

485
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,320
Speaker 1: not stupid. Yeah, I know what goes down. I know

486
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,359
Speaker 1: you may not realize this, but like I've been in

487
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,679
Speaker 1: high school prom before, all right, I know what goes on.

488
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 2: Yes, if you choose to do that, I want you

489
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:42,159
Speaker 2: to call me.

490
00:23:42,600 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 1: I will come pick you up. I won't ask any questions.

491
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 1: I will baby you. You're in a safe place, yea.

492
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,600
Speaker 1: Even though I would prefer because this is what could

493
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:54,359
Speaker 1: happen I want you safe, So you call me, Yeah,

494
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,199
Speaker 1: I Ariah, I let me know where you are. You

495
00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:00,720
Speaker 1: let me know if you've decided to drink. My goal

496
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,399
Speaker 1: as your mother is to create a safe place. I

497
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: know shit that goes on, and I'm not stupid, but

498
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 1: I want to baby you and protect you. So however

499
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: I can do that is what I'm going to be doing. Yeah,

500
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 1: I also know kids have sex. I would prefer you

501
00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 1: to have the person wear a condom. M I would

502
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 1: prefer you not have sex at all, but if you do,

503
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 1: please make sure he's wearing a condom. Right, And yeah, no,

504
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: I think that's the way to go. I've just seen

505
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 1: it with my friends.

506
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,480
Speaker 3: I sat with myself with my family, how my parents

507
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 3: were different with me than they were with mister Bubbs.

508
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 3: He's the most well behaved kid ever, right because he

509
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 3: has more freedom.

510
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, he gets allowed, he's allowed to have a party

511
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 1: at the house, he's allowed to have alcohol, and then

512
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: he doesn't even drink.

513
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 3: It's like it's the freedom. I think that's the way

514
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 3: to do it. And I think I mean Ocean's also

515
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 3: And I'm not just saying that she is a genius.

516
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 3: You can see it in her she's smart. So I

517
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 3: think she's not going to grow up and be like

518
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:58,000
Speaker 3: she's smart, She's gonna Well.

519
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: I remember my dad was raised in a very strict

520
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 1: Mormon home, and like when they would pass by bars,

521
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 1: my dad would be like, what's in there? And his

522
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,400
Speaker 1: parents would be like, the devil's work happens in there.

523
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:08,439
Speaker 1: It's a really bad place.

524
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 2: So when he was.

525
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,480
Speaker 1: Twenty two and finally was like, the church just ain't

526
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,640
Speaker 1: hiding this is wrong, he was like, the first thing

527
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 1: I went and did was walked into where the devil's

528
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: work has happened, and he probably loves it, you know.

529
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 2: He said.

530
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,399
Speaker 1: The only thing I saw was a football game on

531
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 1: the TV and people like sitting.

532
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: There with like a drink in hair. Yeah, that was it.

533
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 1: And can you imagine being twenty two and finding out

534
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: my entire life, or at least about this bar was

535
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:33,640
Speaker 1: a lie.

536
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 2: I would be questioning everything. Yeah.

537
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like the polygamus, who their like leader or whatever,

538
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: said if you wear rad, you'll burst into flames. And

539
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 1: one girl escaped and put on red and she didn't

540
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 1: burst into flames, So was like, are.

541
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 2: You kidding me? I ever been able to wear red

542
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,920
Speaker 2: this long? Yees. Yeah, See, that's what I want to teach.

543
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: Do you think you'll teach Ocean about all religions or

544
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,479
Speaker 1: do you think you'll say, this is what Mama believes.

545
00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 2: This is but there's a ton of other beliefs out there. Well.

546
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: I've always said I don't want to raise her with religion.

547
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: I want to raise her with spirituality. I want to

548
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 1: raise her with a higher power. But I think when

549
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: she gets older, whatever resonates with her, even if it

550
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 1: doesn't resonate with me, it doesn't matter. Your higher power

551
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: is to create a safe place for you and something

552
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 1: to lean back on when you feel like the world

553
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: is just too much. Right, So whatever resonates with her

554
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 1: and she feels a connection to that's what we're going with. Right.

555
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: As long as I can raise her to believe that

556
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 1: there is something greater than her that she cannot explain,

557
00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: then I've done my job. And she could look at

558
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:37,119
Speaker 1: organized religion and find one that she falls into and

559
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,680
Speaker 1: is like obsessed and her moral compasses on point and

560
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: she lives a great life. I'm all about it. Coming

561
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:50,399
Speaker 1: from Utah, organized religion for me scares me, freaks me out.

562
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:50,679
Speaker 2: A little bit.

563
00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, yeah, that makes sense. So but Lord knows,

564
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 1: you know, I'm no stranger to the Lord. Lord knows

565
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: the Lord.

566
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,680
Speaker 2: No, I'm no strangers to the Lord.

567
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: He hears from me often. Please God give me guidance. Oh,

568
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: this is what I wanted to talk about really quickly.

569
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:15,120
Speaker 1: That made me going back to like how I don't

570
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: proof read what I post, and like, is she dead?

571
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 2: She's never on social media.

572
00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 1: So we're like out hanging out in Mexico. Sheena heard,

573
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: you know, guess all the girls, and I'm clicking through

574
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:35,679
Speaker 1: everyone's stories and there's like ten to fifteen posts like

575
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 1: her story. Yeah, oh my God, like content. They all

576
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 1: got pictures on the boat. They all had stories of

577
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: the water, them swimming. Oh, there's a moment that I

578
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 1: was sitting one time, so we got to capture that. Oh,

579
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,160
Speaker 1: there was a moment that I was in the water.

580
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: But then there's a moment I was in the water

581
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: on a floaty, so we got to capture that too.

582
00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:59,399
Speaker 1: And I literally Jessica scanned scanned the water, and I was.

583
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 2: Like, I'm but you're living in the moment. That's how

584
00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 2: I feel.

585
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,919
Speaker 1: But then I look at my social media versus everyone

586
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: else's and I'm like, yo, you gotta you have to

587
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,679
Speaker 1: get it together, like you have to step it up.

588
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:16,440
Speaker 1: This is this is what life is about right now?

589
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:20,600
Speaker 1: Is social media is content? Yeah, no, I get that,

590
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: But on your deathbed, you're not gonna be like I

591
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: wish I posted more.

592
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,919
Speaker 2: The second that I don't have to deal with social media. Yeah,

593
00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 2: because it will happen. There will be a day where

594
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm punting it to someone else. Like a

595
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 2: lot of times you'll post for me.

596
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but obviously you can't post me in Mexico if

597
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: I'm not sending you content, yeah, because I'm.

598
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 2: Not taking it. Yeah, I have other things to do.

599
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 1: Well.

600
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 3: You were just like I was hoping when you went

601
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 3: on that trip. I'm like, you know, you're you gotta

602
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 3: do some things that are scheduled, but I was hoping,

603
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 3: like just chill and relax and have a good time.

604
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 3: If I saw you post, if I saw ten stories,

605
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,960
Speaker 3: I'd be like, oh damn, like what's going on with her?

606
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: Because she's obviously not having a good time. No, I

607
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 2: was not posting anything.

608
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: And the one picture I got that Christina Kelly took

609
00:29:05,480 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: of me because she was like the lighting's great.

610
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 2: She took a few steps.

611
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: I love that picture, and then I was done with it.

612
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: But even you know, before we start doing anything, it's like,

613
00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,960
Speaker 1: let's take a picture today of like whatever I'm wearing,

614
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 1: And then you asked me, should we take the picture?

615
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I don't feel like it.

616
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 2: I know it's so much work.

617
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 3: It's a lot of work. And I wish too that

618
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 3: I was passionate because I worked. You know, I worked

619
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 3: in social media before I worked with you. I was

620
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 3: a digital producer for American Idol and that was my

621
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 3: full time job Monday through Friday, eight to freaking seven pm,

622
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 3: posting the contestants. I was like helping them run their platforms,

623
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 3: all of it. But it is a full time job,

624
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,320
Speaker 3: and it's like it's a lot, and I know people

625
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:52,800
Speaker 3: are passionate about it, but it's also like I went, I.

626
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: Was at a gathering. I won't say exactly what it

627
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 1: was because it'll give it away.

628
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 3: And out of my group of ten friends, there are

629
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 3: about five who like social media as their thing, and

630
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 3: I talked to them we were out of town. I

631
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 3: talked to them a couple times because when they weren't

632
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,479
Speaker 3: posting and taking selfies, and taking videos. They were planning

633
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 3: for the next thing they were gonna shoot, and they

634
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: just weren't existing in the trip. And when they weren't posting,

635
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 3: they were on their phone texting. We'd be out to

636
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 3: dinner and they were like, weren't there. I don't even

637
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 3: feel like I was on the.

638
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 2: Trip with them. And I hated that, and I was like, ugh.

639
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,959
Speaker 1: You know what, though, a lot of my some of

640
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: my cast members who are also my friends, they don't

641
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 1: love social media either, so it makes it easy, yeah,

642
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:41,719
Speaker 1: because I've been in situations like that that you've been

643
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: talking about. My first experience with it, I was twenty

644
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: one and there was this girl who was like very.

645
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 2: Well known in Salt Lake and.

646
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,560
Speaker 1: She you looked at her social media page. I don't

647
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: even think I had social media at the time. I

648
00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 1: think you're thinking I had like a Facebook page, but

649
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: her her life looked insane. It was amazing right through

650
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: social media. I remember going to a dinner with her.

651
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: She was like kind of moody the whole entire trip, right,

652
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: And I was like, this is weird because, like, you know,

653
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: social media looks like you have so much fun, and yeah,

654
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 1: what is happening here? I remember sitting down whatever she's moody.

655
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 1: I see her pick her phone up, get super happy,

656
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 1: living her best life, films her food, films her drink,

657
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 1: picks it up, puts the phone down, back to just

658
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: the mood, and I was like, oh my god, it's

659
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:45,680
Speaker 1: not real. That's why yesterday, when these bitches are on gram,

660
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: they're like, the lighting is hitting right. It's like, no, bitch,

661
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: the face tune, the face tune, the snow plus the

662
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:56,400
Speaker 1: lighting is all coming together and hitting right for a

663
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 1: postable moment.

664
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 2: See what we love? A relatable we love relatable queen.

665
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 2: I hate that fucking saying, but we do.

666
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: But can I tell you what? I was watching someone

667
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 1: I won't say, who edit a picture for their page.

668
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: The shit that I do to my photos.

669
00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: Nothing.

670
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: This person was lowering the hairlines, thinning the legs, doing

671
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 1: the body making the boobs, the eye shaped, tilting up.

672
00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 2: I was like, Yo, this is crazy. Okay, I saw them.

673
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 2: I need to learn how to lower the hairline.

674
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 1: Thanks, But how I won't do that because I'm terrified

675
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 1: I'll meet people and they'll be like, wait, you aren't

676
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: not gonna very You don't look like you do in

677
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: your photos no. But by the way, you're gonna see

678
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: me on TV, right, You're gonna know what my face

679
00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: looks like. Yeah, So if I just want to like,

680
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: this is how my routine goes. When I didn't have

681
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 1: my new lips, yeah, because I just got them injected,

682
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 1: like a couple months ago. Before that, when I couldn't

683
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: get injections, I was definitely plumping the lips a bit

684
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: for you. I was plumping the in what face tune

685
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: or snow in snow okay. Never fucked with the eyes.

686
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: I've brightened the eyes and photos because I like clarity,

687
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 1: but tilting the eye shape, Okay, I don't want to

688
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 1: meet someone and then be like, this is a different human.

689
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 2: Do you change the face shape at all? Ever I have,

690
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 2: I won't lie.

691
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: I don't now because I kind of got my face

692
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: on point again where how I like the structure of it,

693
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: so you would lift or no, not lift. It was

694
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 1: more like creating more of like a jalla a jaw

695
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 1: yeah interesting, okay, or like when I started losing the chin,

696
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: it was like, okay, we'll do that. But usually it's

697
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: just a little bit of the skin cover up the molassma,

698
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 1: you know, smooth it out a bit.

699
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I can tell.

700
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 3: Maybe I can't, but I can usually tell when people

701
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:53,560
Speaker 3: over edit and it makes me feel a little e yeky.

702
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: Well you can definitely tell. Yeah.

703
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 3: With this person you're talking about, could you tell in

704
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 3: their Instagram that they overest?

705
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 1: Whenever I see her on Instagram, I'm like, holy shit,

706
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,759
Speaker 1: she's never looked better. And then on like the rare

707
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: occasion that I see her in person, yeah, I'm like

708
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: still beautiful, Yeah, actually stunning, but a different person than

709
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: on social media.

710
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,399
Speaker 3: Do you feel this is an interesting question because I've

711
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 3: always I've gone back and forth. Do you think that

712
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 3: for social media would you rather everyone just like, like,

713
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 3: let's stop the editing, let's post who we really are

714
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,080
Speaker 3: and really because that helps younger people and or is

715
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 3: it like no, At the end of the day, social

716
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 3: media can be a very lucrative business. So if you

717
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,160
Speaker 3: got to craft it, it's like how people craft their websites.

718
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 3: If you've got to do it and make it art,

719
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 3: do it, do some edits?

720
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 2: Do some?

721
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: No. I don't think that we should take filters and editing,

722
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: but I think we should educate people in the fact, like, hey,

723
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: it's not real.

724
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not real, because it is hard when a

725
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 3: young I was looking at my little cousin and she's

726
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 3: I think twelve, and she just got on Instagram and

727
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,759
Speaker 3: I'm like looking at out everything she's scrolling through and

728
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 3: it's all these influencers who are young, these like teeny boppers,

729
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 3: and I'm like looking at their photo and I'm like,

730
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:11,600
Speaker 3: they don't look like that.

731
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: They don't like, don't.

732
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 3: Freak out because she's got you know, acne air right,

733
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 3: and you know you can tell. It like makes them

734
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 3: so insecure because there's these other thirteen fourteen year old

735
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 3: girls that they see and they're like, but how is

736
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 3: she so perfect?

737
00:35:22,760 --> 00:35:23,840
Speaker 2: And I'm like, it's not.

738
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: But that's why I appreciate the pages that show like

739
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 1: Instagram versus real life, and because even me at thirty

740
00:35:29,760 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: two years old, I sit there and.

741
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, how the fuck does this person have this

742
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 2: kind of skin?

743
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you see a picture of them on

744
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: the red carpet and it's like, Okay, I don't feel

745
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 1: so bad like this.

746
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 2: This is what skin is supposed to look like. How

747
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 2: do they look so fawless?

748
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: Why is there not one freckle, one mole, one blemish

749
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 1: one bump. Yeah, and it's like, oh, but here's the

750
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 1: reality and I'm seeing all of that.

751
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,400
Speaker 2: So I do like those pages. But people got it

752
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 2: tough en up a bit. Yeah, yeah, Wait, what do

753
00:35:56,120 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 2: you mean by that?

754
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 1: We we cannot This world is getting very sensitive. Everything

755
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 1: you say, everything you do is how does this affect

756
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 1: other people? And it's like, we cannot live for other people.

757
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:09,919
Speaker 2: We have to live.

758
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 1: I'm not saying go out and be an asshole, but

759
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,760
Speaker 1: when you start telling people you can't edit this photo

760
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 1: anymore because there are young girls who are as a

761
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:25,960
Speaker 1: parent to ocean. The world is nitty gritty. There's nothing

762
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:26,799
Speaker 1: I can do about it.

763
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 2: Right. What I can do.

764
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 1: I can go out, I can post about what I

765
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,560
Speaker 1: want to see change in the world. And granted, yes,

766
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:35,760
Speaker 1: in numbers we do make a difference.

767
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 2: But you have to create that safe space for your

768
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 2: kid at home.

769
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 1: Teach them what's real versus what isn't real, so that

770
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 1: they go into the world and they know the difference

771
00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 1: between an illusion and they can be tough motherfuckers. Because

772
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: this world, whether it's your job, social media, your friend group,

773
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:59,879
Speaker 1: it will eat you alive if you let it. M Yes,

774
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: you have to build that kid up to their highest

775
00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: self so that when they go out there they can

776
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: handle it.

777
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. I love that.

778
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 3: It's all about education, I agree, rather than limiting others

779
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 3: and being like, you can't just teach, educate.

780
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 1: That's why I feel it's important every time I get

781
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 1: a filler or a poke to say what it is.

782
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: This is what it is, and you can tell me

783
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: to stop doing it. But at the end of the day,

784
00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: I'm doing this because I feel confident when I do

785
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 1: have a little bit more of a jawline, when my

786
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:33,120
Speaker 1: forehead isn't super freaking wrinkled. Yeah, but I'm gonna tell you.

787
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that I've done that.

788
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: Yeah.

789
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm going to tell you that I facetune my

790
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 1: photos because I'm sick of these bitches who don't, who

791
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: sit there and they're like natural life.

792
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 2: You're like no, no, no, like suck my ovarias.

793
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:50,759
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't. I'm not a fan of the and

794
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 1: we all know what I'm talking about when.

795
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 2: I say it.

796
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 3: But the women who are asked if they've ever had

797
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 3: surgery and then they hate decline it.

798
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,319
Speaker 2: If you're gonna do it, I support it. Do what

799
00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 2: makes you happy.

800
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,279
Speaker 1: But I don't know if I support you declining it

801
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: and saying no, no, no, I'll natural honey, No I know,

802
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: But can I tell you my nose does look smaller,

803
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: does it? Yeah? People have done before and after photos,

804
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,839
Speaker 1: being like she definitely got a nose job, which, by

805
00:38:14,880 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: the way, I like a discounted or free procedure.

806
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: Way too much to not let y'all know. So you're

807
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 2: saying you've never got done a nose job. No, I've

808
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 2: never had a nose job. You have a great nose.

809
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,200
Speaker 1: It tilts a little, which is why I like my

810
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 1: right side better because it kind of tilts to the

811
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: left and the left side has like this shadow whatever

812
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: it's in my head, but there's no real like but

813
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 1: if I looked at that, I'd be like, this bitch

814
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: got a nose job. Yeah, And it wasn't done with contoying,

815
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: Like what is it? Is it because I filled my

816
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: face maybe a little bit? Yeah, who knows, Maybe I

817
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: grew into.

818
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 2: It a little more.

819
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 1: See.

820
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,440
Speaker 3: But then I was the girl who was looking at

821
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 3: pictures of Koe Kardashian and defending her, and I was

822
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 3: like they were like, nose job, nose job, And I'm like, no, no,

823
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 3: absolutely not. And I was like talking to mister Bubbs

824
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,319
Speaker 3: and I was like, see, it's the same. And then

825
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 3: she comes out and she like, I got a nose job,

826
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 3: and I'm like, okay, so I don't know.

827
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: Then I just don't know. I can't tell. I'm not.

828
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 1: You can tell when someone's been cut, and you can

829
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: tell when someone's just been inject filled.

830
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:13,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a big difference. Yeah.

831
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: I was so happy this week. So we got home

832
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: on until I get home Wednesday or Thursday, Wednesday night Wednesday, Yeah,

833
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: just in time for ocean. And I got to spend

834
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: every waking moment with her because usually, you know, my

835
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 1: schedule's filled and I have to work and we I know,

836
00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: you guys.

837
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,280
Speaker 2: There's cameras sometimes.

838
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:47,719
Speaker 1: Anyway, I didn't have to do any of that, and

839
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: I got to spend like every second with her. Where

840
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 1: did you would you guys do? Because I saw content

841
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:55,799
Speaker 1: at the beach. We went back down to Newport, my

842
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,800
Speaker 1: my baby. So I hate the sand, Okay, I hate this.

843
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: I like to admire the beach, yeah, but like the

844
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: ocean unless it's crystal blue and warm.

845
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 2: So I can see what's going on in there. It

846
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 2: freaks me out.

847
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:14,280
Speaker 1: My baby wants loves the sand so much, she wants

848
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: it in her body. Okay, I have to stop her

849
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 1: from eating it. I'm like, you're gonna have diarrhea if

850
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: you keep putting it in, and she does and it

851
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,400
Speaker 1: burns her and I don't know how to make it stop.

852
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, she loves the beach.

853
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,040
Speaker 1: She's upsets to be which I was like, thank god,

854
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,400
Speaker 1: because if I named her ocean and she wanted nothing

855
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:35,760
Speaker 1: to do with it, it would be like not great.

856
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,800
Speaker 2: Do you do you take her into the water and no.

857
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,640
Speaker 1: Yes, That's why I'm saying. She's like making me have

858
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: to get down and dirty. Yeah, like she wants to

859
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: be in the water, she wants to dig in the sand.

860
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 1: She wants to dump sand on me. Yeah, she wants

861
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 1: to hug me covered in sand. And I'm like, my

862
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 1: baby's gonna be the one where, at six years old,

863
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to be like around the tower, around

864
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: because she doesn't get it around.

865
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 3: That is actually, up until this point, I had no

866
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 3: idea you hated sand. I thought you were like your

867
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 3: mom because you always want to go to the beach with.

868
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: My mom always wants to do and what mama want Mama,

869
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,439
Speaker 1: get okay, because I'm like, oh, wild, I thought you're

870
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 1: just ocean lady, through and through ocean lady.

871
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: You know, I like to yacht on the ocean. I

872
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 2: as I am yacht. How big of you? How big

873
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 2: of me? I love it?

874
00:41:27,200 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 1: And I was like, I could totally live in that house.

875
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 1: It's like ten million dollars, How big of you?

876
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 2: I learned that from you, and I say it all

877
00:41:32,360 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 2: the time. Now I could, oh how big of you?

878
00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: To people always say, yeah, we get home from I

879
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: get home from Mexico.

880
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 2: And keep in mind there's a lot of human interaction.

881
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:44,480
Speaker 1: When filming, right, and you know, I'm an introvert extrovert,

882
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 1: so I need time to like reel it in extroverted

883
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: intro Nope, introvert, extroverted introvert.

884
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 2: You're an extrovert. Okay, that's what it is.

885
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I come home and my mom wants to

886
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 1: talk and I'm like, I just want to listen to

887
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: this fucking song for five seconds, please, I'm begging you.

888
00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: And she's like, my feelings are hurt because I haven't

889
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 1: seen you in so long.

890
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, it's been four days. It's been four days.

891
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: Okay to talk tomorrow and she's like, well, we're going

892
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 1: to the beach tomorrow, which makes me really happy because

893
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 1: my childhood friends were there.

894
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 2: They wanted to see ocean. Ocean loves the beach.

895
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: But I'm telling you today, yeah, I'm tired.

896
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 2: You're tired. I'm a little tired. Yeah, so you are.

897
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:27,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, see, because I always Kyle's like that a little

898
00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 3: where I'll come home from work and he will have

899
00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 3: come home from long day of work and I'll just

900
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 3: talk talk talk, and he'll be on the couch and

901
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 3: he'll just be like, A mean you guys can't see me,

902
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:38,240
Speaker 3: but he's just like laying on the couch, eyes wide,

903
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 3: and I could tell he's like, I just need and

904
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 3: he's nice about it. He doesn't ever say anything, but

905
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 3: I look at him and I go, do you need

906
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,959
Speaker 3: like an hour to just like for me to stop talking?

907
00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 2: And he's like, yes, please, and I'm like, okay, get it.

908
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: Just like five minutes, yeah, to regroup, unwind, gather your thoughts. Yes,

909
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: because you throw me into the real world and I

910
00:42:59,239 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: can handle it. Can put on the face and I

911
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,879
Speaker 1: am having a good time. But when I get home,

912
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm just like freaking beat and we need to recharge

913
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: and I have to silence the noises in my head,

914
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, so I do a lot of like

915
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 1: hot boxing, the room with sage.

916
00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, baths, relaxing, a lot of baths. Yeah, all of that.

917
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, a lot of watching Real Housewives. By the way,

918
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: let's talk about that.

919
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 2: Did you start watching it again?

920
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 1: Started watching because I love Jersey Shore. But I will

921
00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:37,160
Speaker 1: say the Housewives franchise, like every season you're freaking interested,

922
00:43:37,280 --> 00:43:41,759
Speaker 1: even in ones that are like not great, which we

923
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 1: all know which seasons and cities I'm talking about, but

924
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: like you go to OGC seasons, they're amazing. So I'm

925
00:43:49,280 --> 00:43:54,160
Speaker 1: rewatching Beverly Hills. I'm watching the current season, and obviously,

926
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 1: you know, because I've had so many days off. When

927
00:43:57,080 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: ocean goes down for a nap, I am balls deep

928
00:43:59,640 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: in house content.

929
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 2: You are, Oh yeah.

930
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 1: So Lisa Renna is getting a really hard time this year.

931
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 2: Yes, that's okay, yeah not great. Yeah.

932
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 1: Number one, we've already spoken about this, the grieving process,

933
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: like she just lost her mom, like let her allow

934
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 1: her to like get angry and do all those things.

935
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: And so many people are like, I lost my parent

936
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: and I didn't act like that, and that's like, well,

937
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: that's good for you. But grieving isn't one size fits all.

938
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 2: It's just not so.

939
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: Even though you may have grieved quote unquote properly, which

940
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,520
Speaker 1: is bullshit. When someone tells me they grieved properly, it's

941
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: like that doesn't even make it doesn't exist, there's no

942
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: such thing.

943
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,880
Speaker 2: You just deal with it how it comes. Yeah, it's

944
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: my biggest thing.

945
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: If you feel angry, surround yourself with people who will

946
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: allow you to feel angry. Because I got angry and

947
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 1: I was beheading anybody who was in my way of

948
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: grieving the way I felt like I needed to right.

949
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: But so many people there was like this post that

950
00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: said certain cast members had either been demoted to friends

951
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:03,799
Speaker 1: of and somebody was leaving. And it's so interesting when

952
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 1: you go into the comments section. I've seen this with

953
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 1: my own with our own show with Vander Pump, But

954
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:13,319
Speaker 1: so many people saying keep this person, this person, and

955
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 1: let go of this person, this person, And it's like

956
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 1: the quote unquote mean girls, okay, And I want to

957
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,920
Speaker 1: shake these people because I'm like, are you you're not

958
00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: tuning in? Like do you realize why you're tuning in?

959
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:25,640
Speaker 1: You're not tuning into Kumbai.

960
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 2: Yah right, all right. I know you think you love.

961
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:34,080
Speaker 1: This character, character, this person, but you're not tuning in

962
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: to watch them. Yes, you're tuning in to watch all

963
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 1: the people that you want to have let go.

964
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:41,800
Speaker 2: And by the way, once they're let go.

965
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna bitch your boy. Yeah, and everyone was. There

966
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 1: were a few comments that were like, until Lisa Renna

967
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: is fair game, I can't watch or well know you're

968
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:55,560
Speaker 1: a game to like what what that come for? Oh?

969
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, got it? And I want to remind

970
00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 2: everybody everyone is fair game.

971
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, but usually what happens is the person who's strong

972
00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: and shuts shit down. It's like there are so many

973
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 1: times where they're like even with me, you did this

974
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: that in the other and it's like, well, that person

975
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: could have rebuttled, and I'll tell you how I would

976
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: have rebuttled.

977
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know.

978
00:46:15,560 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, like Tom and Ariana. I told them their house

979
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 1: was beautiful and Tom made a comment I, well you

980
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: used to revert or oh so you don't think it's

981
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: a frat house anymore? And I was like, you want

982
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: to know how you come back at what I said

983
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: about your house being a frat house. You asked to

984
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 1: see my house because I don't have one. Yeah, so

985
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: like that's that's what you say, something like that. Like

986
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: it's like, so you can't say Lisa Rinna isn't fair game.

987
00:46:45,320 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 2: She is fair game.

988
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, you just haven't seen a bitch who can put

989
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: her in her place yet.

990
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 2: Yes, you can't be mad at it. Can't be mad

991
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,880
Speaker 2: at her, you know. Yes, she just goes heavy in

992
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 2: the paint.

993
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 1: So put someone against her who's also willing to go

994
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 1: heavy in the paint like me and Katie Maloney. Yeah, yeah, hello, god, yeah,

995
00:47:03,880 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 1: fair game. Everyone's fair game. You sign you sign on

996
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 1: the dotted line, you are fair game?

997
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:13,760
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah right, yeah, no, one hundred percent.

998
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 3: I need to start watching because all I've learned is

999
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 3: that that mister Bubbs told me.

1000
00:47:17,440 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: He said, Garcella is a fan favorite this season, and

1001
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: myself's amazing. She knows how to remain interesting and still

1002
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,320
Speaker 1: be like a voice of reason, be a badass bitch,

1003
00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: and be classy at the same time. M h that's

1004
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,960
Speaker 1: an hard yeah, or is just something you're born with?

1005
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 2: Yeah? Because I only it's like which lane are we

1006
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 2: are we gonna be classy today? Are we gonna be

1007
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 2: a bad bitch. I can't.

1008
00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: I've never seen anything like it.

1009
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but how is Kathy this season?

1010
00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:50,359
Speaker 1: Because last season I would see so many videos and

1011
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: now I don't really see a ton is she just

1012
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 1: kind of I think her stuff is coming. I know

1013
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,160
Speaker 1: that most of it happened on like the Aspen trip,

1014
00:47:58,719 --> 00:47:59,760
Speaker 1: but she was funny.

1015
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:02,319
Speaker 2: So I do this thing. I like to binge watch.

1016
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: So if an episode comes out of something and I

1017
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 1: know that I have to wait a whole week to

1018
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 1: see the next one, I wait until I have like

1019
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: at least a.

1020
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 2: Stack of three. Okay, got it? You know you can't

1021
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,440
Speaker 2: just watch one, No, and then I lose interest.

1022
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's not another one, and then so it's

1023
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 1: just better for me to like compile them and watch through. Okay,

1024
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: but the last one I just watched and I'm far behind.

1025
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: But I know my listeners already know that the Homeless

1026
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: and Toothless thing you So I didn't see the episode.

1027
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 2: I didn't know that that was the actual name of

1028
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 2: the charity. Name of the charity.

1029
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,879
Speaker 3: Bubba made me watch it like four times, and then

1030
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 3: she's like, I work with the homeless. I worked with

1031
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 3: the toothless I've worked with the homeless, I've worked with

1032
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 3: the toothless, and they're like, I was dying.

1033
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: And finally they admitted, like even Kyle was like, the

1034
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:49,320
Speaker 1: name isn't great.

1035
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 2: The name needs some work, but it's horrible.

1036
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: That's a really strange name because it feels like I

1037
00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 1: think it's it's homeless, not toothless. Correct, but it's hard

1038
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,280
Speaker 1: to think of because you're like, oh, toothless, not homeless.

1039
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 1: But either way, it's not a very it doesn't feel

1040
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:10,360
Speaker 1: like a very kind name. So it's like and it

1041
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:13,719
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like a very great charity. But out of

1042
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: all the charities.

1043
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 2: In the world, I'm going to get in trouble for

1044
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 2: this from people.

1045
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 1: Out of all the charities in the world, I'm not

1046
00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: going to be like, you know what I could give

1047
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: to this person a new smile, a new set of

1048
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: teeth maybe down the line, but I think there are

1049
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: other things that I want to help with. For providing

1050
00:49:33,480 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: this man or woman without a home with a new grill. True,

1051
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 1: granted I didn't look into it. Maybe it's like toward

1052
00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: the end and they're helping them, and but it feels

1053
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:53,719
Speaker 1: weird and almost unkind for me when it's called homeless

1054
00:49:53,800 --> 00:49:56,520
Speaker 1: not toothless, because it almost feels like they're like, oh yeah,

1055
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: well yeah, yeah, yeah, they're so homeless, but at least

1056
00:49:58,719 --> 00:49:59,839
Speaker 1: they're not toothless.

1057
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 2: And then I'm like, that's what isn't hitting for me,

1058
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 2: it's not hitting.

1059
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 1: I was kind of dying, and then she was getting mad,

1060
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:08,600
Speaker 1: and then Kathy's like, wow, they're really coming.

1061
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 2: I really messed up with calling it the homeless, suff

1062
00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 2: tooth or toothless, that homeless. I was kind of laughing.

1063
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:16,959
Speaker 2: It was. It was a chaotic scene. I was like,

1064
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 2: it made this scene. As a viewer, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

1065
00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 2: But the name needs some work. Yeah, I've worked with

1066
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 2: the homeless.

1067
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: I've worked with the toothless, Like okay, you gotta really.

1068
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, and then they get upset at ourselves.

1069
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 2: She's like she's funny.

1070
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: He's like.

1071
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 2: It was funny. She's not making fun of it. She's

1072
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,720
Speaker 2: just like trying to get it right. I'm just thrilled

1073
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 2: that Kyle was like, the name's not good.

1074
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:50,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, the name is not A name isn't good, but

1075
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 1: it's a great organization we to read. She's like, it's

1076
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: a really good organization and it means a lot to her,

1077
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: it does, I know, you know, for everything I just said,

1078
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: but you know what Dorri is helping. So that's more

1079
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:05,960
Speaker 1: I can say. That's more than I can say for

1080
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people.

1081
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 2: I know.

1082
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: She's doing what she wants, she has, she's doing what

1083
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 1: she feels is right, and I'm like, bravo dey right though. Yes,

1084
00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: it's like when people talk about like you care about this,

1085
00:51:19,600 --> 00:51:21,839
Speaker 1: but what about this, and it's like, okay, okay, but

1086
00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: like if you care about that, like it's not that

1087
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: I don't care about it, but like this is this is.

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00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 2: My is it a niche? This is my Yeah, this

1089
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 2: is my this is my calling.

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00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, and maybe if if you're like really

1091
00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: passionate about that, you should go make a difference, you know,

1092
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,440
Speaker 1: and let me know what to post in the link

1093
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: and all for.

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00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 2: Sure do that. Yeah.

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00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,840
Speaker 1: There's a woman who lived a town next to my

1096
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:49,600
Speaker 1: town growing up, and her thing was getting designer.

1097
00:51:49,200 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 2: Bags for people who couldn't afford them. And I was like, okay,

1098
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 2: you're too fine, find your cause and it was.

1099
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 3: Like donate to get her a Louis or whatever, and

1100
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 3: I'm just like, okay.

1101
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 2: I don't know I think that.

1102
00:52:04,120 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 1: But everyone if they feel they have a calling, I

1103
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:12,240
Speaker 1: guess at least it's helping someone in living for others, answer,

1104
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 1: help the the the woman living in Middle America get

1105
00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 1: a chanel back.

1106
00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:23,759
Speaker 2: It's not yet, I'm sorry. Not No.

1107
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 1: There's a lot of things like that where it's like, okay,

1108
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 1: there's a lot of organization.

1109
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 2: But you know what I don't know it is do

1110
00:52:31,880 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 2: any of us really know?

1111
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 1: We're all just out in these it's doing the best

1112
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,560
Speaker 1: we can. We're all doing the best we can. We

1113
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,320
Speaker 1: are all doing the no. We're trying to raise these kids.

1114
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: Put food on the table, fill our cars up with gas,

1115
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:45,440
Speaker 1: send our kids to elementary school, junior high, high school,

1116
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: provide them if they want to go to call.

1117
00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:49,279
Speaker 2: It's just a lot.

1118
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:49,839
Speaker 1: I know.

1119
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,760
Speaker 2: These are the things that I think about.

1120
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 1: So when I tell you I got to silence the mind,

1121
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: it's very intense up there.

1122
00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's intense up there. It's intense up there.

1123
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, So good for organizations. Actually speaking of this is

1124
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,880
Speaker 3: a tangent. This was a tangent, but I kind of

1125
00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 3: like that. And we have a guest coming up that

1126
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 3: I think people will really enjoy.

1127
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 2: Can't wait for.

1128
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 3: Her, Yeah, so I think that'll be great. I kind

1129
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 3: of like because this is what most people said they wanted.

1130
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 3: They loved the tangents, but they also loved interviews with

1131
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:19,840
Speaker 3: people close to you.

1132
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,960
Speaker 2: And that's what you've been doing to give the people

1133
00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 2: what they want, which is LA, give them la la.

1134
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: I just want to make people feel good when they're

1135
00:53:29,520 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 1: driving to work or driving home from work. You know,

1136
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: I hope they're not listening to this with their kids

1137
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:35,959
Speaker 1: in the car, but if they are.

1138
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 3: If they are, we're teaching them lessons full circle. Now,

1139
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,760
Speaker 3: this is what you don't say when you're a kid.

1140
00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:45,799
Speaker 1: My friend texted me the other day and she goes,

1141
00:53:45,840 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 1: you will never believe what my daughter just said. And

1142
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 1: she's like, five, Okay. They're listening to a song and

1143
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,480
Speaker 1: she screamed. She goes, this is the part where they

1144
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 1: say the fuck word, so don't say it.

1145
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:02,280
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, I guess that's a good job.

1146
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 3: This is the part where they say fuck, so please

1147
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 3: don't say It's like.

1148
00:54:07,680 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, why is it so funny?

1149
00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 3: Though funny when little kids swear it's funny, it's so funny.

1150
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 3: It's there's a fine line when little kids swear. I

1151
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 3: laugh when the parents are like mortified or off guard,

1152
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 3: caught off guard. But when I see videos on tiktoks

1153
00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 3: of like of.

1154
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,880
Speaker 1: The parents like encouraging them, like say it, and then

1155
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 1: the little kid swears and the parents die laughing.

1156
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 2: No, cringe, Are you kidding me? Ultimate?

1157
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 1: Oh no, there's a gross and the parents like say

1158
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 1: it and then they die laughing and all the parents

1159
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,520
Speaker 1: and the kids like and I'm like ultimate cringe.

1160
00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 2: No, that is horrific. Yeah, it's gross.

1161
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 1: But when the parents are mortified to stay in this

1162
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: sweet and I.

1163
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 2: Know, But when the parents are mortified, it's flairs. I don't.

1164
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:52,479
Speaker 2: Then I die laughing.

1165
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:54,920
Speaker 1: All right, that was a fun podcast. I love you

1166
00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: guys so much.

1167
00:54:56,320 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 2: Happy hump Day again, and I will catch you next