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Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject He said it was

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Speaker 1: a break not a breakup. Dear Stephen Shirley, I was

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Speaker 1: in a relationship for seven years with a man that

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Speaker 1: sent mixed signals. I chose to leave a relationship, and

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Speaker 1: I don't think that he cares. He told a mutual

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Speaker 1: friend that we broke up a lot and got back together.

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Speaker 1: I thought we were taking breaks, not breaking up. He

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Speaker 1: would tell me that he needed some time to himself,

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Speaker 1: and I would give him a week or two to

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Speaker 1: his personal affairs without me. He told our mutual friend

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Speaker 1: about the times you went on vacation without me, and

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Speaker 1: he meant lots of beautiful ladies overseas. He told our

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Speaker 1: met in Columbia, but she didn't want to move to

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Speaker 1: the US. When I asked my boyfriend about everything I

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Speaker 1: had heard, he did not deny any of it and

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Speaker 1: said he was relieved that everything was out in the open.

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Speaker 1: He gave me a pep talk about being a sweet

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Speaker 1: and caring woman and how I deserve someone better than him.

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Speaker 1: He apologized for wasting my time, and he said he

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Speaker 1: would do better if I decided to stay with him,

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Speaker 1: or I could choose myself and leave him for good.

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Speaker 1: I was stunned by his quote take it or leave

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Speaker 1: it attitude about our relationship. I gave the best years

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Speaker 1: of my life to him, and now I'm past the

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Speaker 1: age of having babies. So if I start over with

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Speaker 1: someone new, the man would have to accept the fact

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Speaker 1: that I cannot have children. Part of me wants to

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Speaker 1: make lemonade out of lemons and stay with this man,

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Speaker 1: and another part of me is saying I can do better.

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Speaker 1: But can I really? My single friends say that dating

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Speaker 1: is harder than it's ever been. This man actually considered

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Speaker 1: marrying another woman while we were on a break, So

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Speaker 1: can he be trusted to straighten up and be the

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Speaker 1: man that I need?

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Speaker 3: What should I do here?

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Speaker 1: Well, I got to tell you that this is one

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Speaker 1: of the first letters that I can say right from

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Speaker 1: the start, leave him, leave him.

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Speaker 4: All very first time you said that, Newslash just wanted

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Speaker 4: to say that.

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Speaker 3: First time I've said it this early.

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Speaker 1: Okay, everything you said is true, and everything you said

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Speaker 1: is real in this letter. You got to stop trying

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Speaker 1: to make it into something else it's not. He's never

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Speaker 1: been for you, and he was only with you when

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Speaker 1: it was convenient for him. Seven years in this relationship.

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Speaker 1: You left and he didn't even care. Those weren't mixed

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Speaker 1: signals he was sending you. It was the truth. You

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Speaker 1: just chose to ignore all the red flags. He never

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Speaker 3: It should be crystal clear to.

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Speaker 1: You, no more mixed signals now that he doesn't give

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Speaker 1: a darn.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't.

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Speaker 1: He apologized for wasting your time and basically said that

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Speaker 3: Yourself and not him. So stop right there.

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Speaker 1: You cannot make lemons out of this lemonade mess he's

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Speaker 1: given you. You gave him seven years. That is enough.

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Speaker 1: Now that you know the real Please don't think that

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Speaker 1: you can. You know that you can't do better. You

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Speaker 1: can do better and all of this. Just leave his

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Speaker 4: Steve Well, this letter right here is actually mistitled because

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Speaker 4: the title of the letter is he said it was

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Speaker 4: a break, not a breakup. No, you said it was

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Speaker 4: a break he broke up. Yeah, because it says this

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Speaker 4: all the way through the letter. Now, I want to

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Speaker 4: point out something. You were in this relationship for seven

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Speaker 4: years with a man that sent mixed signals for seven years.

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Speaker 2: How did it take.

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Speaker 4: You seven years of mixed signals before you got the signal?

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Speaker 4: I don't understand, ma'am. Ladies, if you're getting constantly mixed

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Speaker 4: signals from a guy, what should that tell you? I mean,

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Speaker 4: he told a mutual friend that we broke up a

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Speaker 4: lot and got back together. I thought we were taking breaks.

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Speaker 4: How many times have I said on this show that

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Speaker 3: A million times?

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Speaker 4: Ladies, We do not do on again off again. You can,

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Speaker 4: but we don't. When you go off and we and

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Speaker 4: you say we off again, we go get on with

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Speaker 4: somebody else. Men don't need breaks from sex. We need

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Speaker 4: break from drama. And when we get to break from drama,

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Speaker 4: we go fix the drama with some sex.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how sex is the healer.

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Speaker 3: You've said it a million times, you have.

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Speaker 4: It's it's whatever you need. It's it's the advil. It's

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Speaker 4: the time of all. Listen day quill and not quill.

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Speaker 4: It's it's suit of fed it's it's it's it's it's

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Speaker 4: it's ieboop ho forri.

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Speaker 3: It's it's just it's everythavorite than a cyling.

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Speaker 4: It's your fan, it's pen of cyling. They don't even

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Speaker 4: have that no more. No, it's all of that. That's

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Speaker 4: what it is. So we when you're doing talking about

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Speaker 4: we own again.

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Speaker 2: Off again. He off with you so he can be

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Speaker 2: owned somewhere else.

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Speaker 4: He would tell me that he needed some time to himself,

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Speaker 4: and I would give him a week or two go

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Speaker 4: back to his own, to his own home and take

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Speaker 4: care of some personal fans without me.

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Speaker 2: What are you talking about? He need to leave you

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Speaker 2: at home.

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Speaker 4: Go down there.

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Speaker 2: He signed the shoes papers. He didn't lead on. Go

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Speaker 4: He told a mutual friend about the times he went

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Speaker 4: one of these ladies he met in Columbia, but she

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Speaker 4: ain't want to move to the US. And then I

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Speaker 4: asked him about everything I heard. He didn't deny any

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Speaker 2: You know why.

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Speaker 4: He was relieved that everything was in the open so

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Speaker 4: you could finally read the mixed.

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Speaker 2: Signals that he was sending you.

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Speaker 4: He was sending you the mixed signals, and you wasn't

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Speaker 4: getting the message.

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Speaker 2: You thought it was Morris cold.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, we'll have part two of your response coming up.

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Speaker 1: At twenty three minutes after the hour, Steve the Today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters subject. He said, it was a break now

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Speaker 1: a breakup. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, see let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject he said it was a break, not a breakup.

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Speaker 4: He said it was a break and not a breakup

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Speaker 4: is the wrong title of this letter, because he told

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Speaker 4: you you thought it was a break, but for him,

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Speaker 4: it was on again, off again. And I've told y'all

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Speaker 4: me and don't do on again off again. We off

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Speaker 4: with you, but we go we get off with you

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Speaker 4: and go on with somebody else because we need to sumbody.

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Speaker 2: Else to heal us.

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Speaker 4: The healing power of eyebu pos, the.

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Speaker 2: Healing power of night, quill, day quill, ad.

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Speaker 4: Vil, p M, suit of fed and like Shirley said,

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Speaker 4: my favorite penicilla, Nothing like it because when I was

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Speaker 4: growing up, pensilic could fix anything. He don't do nothing,

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Speaker 4: no more nothing. They got stuff. Now you can't even

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Speaker 4: do it. You ain't hear everybody the whole COVID thing.

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Speaker 4: Nobody said nothing about no penicilla.

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Speaker 2: I was looking for him. Why don't break out the

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Speaker 2: penicilla because it works for.

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Speaker 3: Everything everything else?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we got COVID. Why ain't nobody drinking cast or

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Speaker 4: what the hell going on?

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Speaker 2: Because it didn't elevated. Now he'd have told your mutual friends.

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Speaker 4: While he was off, and you thought he needed time

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Speaker 4: to go back to his hometown and get some business

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Speaker 4: taken care of him. Don't need no time to go

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Speaker 4: take care of no business. We got emails. You can

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Speaker 4: do everything over the phone. Now you doc you signed, and.

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Speaker 2: All this help.

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Speaker 4: Then he told about the time he went on vacation

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Speaker 4: he met in Columbia, but she didn't want to move

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Speaker 4: to the US. Columbia got some beautiful women. But let

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Speaker 4: me highly recommend that you don't get no woman from Columbia.

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Speaker 4: I can't go to Columbia because I never set foot

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Speaker 4: in Columbia again. After I said the wrong name. They've

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Speaker 4: been looking for me ever since. So clearly, I don't

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Speaker 2: Let's just stop this right here. Don't let that beauty

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Speaker 4: It's extravagant beauty, but don't go down there. And please,

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Speaker 4: if you go down there, don't mention my name. That's

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Speaker 4: all I'm saying. When I asked my boyfriend about everything

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Speaker 4: I heard, he didn't deny any of it, and he

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Speaker 4: You know why he was relieved because you are finally

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Speaker 4: getting the message he was sending to you with the

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Speaker 4: mixed second, Ladies, mixed signals are what we give to

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Speaker 4: you as hints. Mixed signals is what we give to

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Speaker 4: you as hints. That part because one day we'll be

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Speaker 3: Told you, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Or I never told you.

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Speaker 4: If he's never told you he wants to get married

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Speaker 4: to you. If he said to you, I'd like to

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Speaker 4: that's a mixed sickness.

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Speaker 3: Okay, got it.

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Speaker 4: If he said to you, I want to fall in

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Speaker 4: in love with you, that's a hint. So all through

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Speaker 4: this thing, he been dropping my hip. Then he apologized.

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Speaker 4: Then he said he gave me a pep talk about

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Speaker 2: He said he would do.

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Speaker 4: Better if I decided to stay with him, or I

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Speaker 2: He said that he would do.

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Speaker 4: Better, but see better better than what see When the

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 4: No, you either gonna straighten up and do right. Don't

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Speaker 4: give me this. I'm gonna do better. You gonna change

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Speaker 4: how you don't need to do better? You need a change.

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Speaker 4: He never gave you that. He said, if you decided

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Speaker 4: for good. Another mixed signal. I can do what you

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Speaker 4: areout you do. I was stunned by his taking a

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Speaker 4: leave of attitude about our relationship. I gave him the

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Speaker 4: past the age of having babies. So if I started

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Speaker 4: I cannot have children.

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Speaker 1: Okay, oh okay.

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Speaker 4: So.

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Speaker 2: That can't be your problem. See now you can't.

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Speaker 4: Now you're creating a scenario in your head to justify

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Speaker 4: and you can't have kids with him, so.

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Speaker 2: What difference do with me?

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Speaker 4: You're nothing to have no more kids. Part of me

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Speaker 4: wants to make lemonade out of lemons? How Charlie said

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Speaker 4: it best? How and stay with this man? And another

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Speaker 4: part of me is saying I can do better? Okay?

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Speaker 4: But can I really?

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Speaker 5: Yep?

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Speaker 4: Well, let me ask you a question. Can I really what?

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Speaker 4: You don't think? This is worse?

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Speaker 3: For seven years?

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Speaker 2: Can I do better than this?

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Speaker 4: Worst mixed signal go nowhere relationship I'm in?

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Speaker 2: Can I do better? But?

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Speaker 4: Can I really? My single friends say that the dating

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Speaker 4: that's true. This man actually considered marrying another woman. Why

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Speaker 4: I do here? He gonna find somebody else too, Because

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Speaker 4: when he says I'm gonna do better, you know what

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Speaker 4: he might be telling you I'm gonna do I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: do better at cheat, all right, Next time I cheat,

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna tell no mutual friends, and then they'll

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Speaker 4: never tell you, and then we'll keep these mixed signals going.

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Speaker 2: Girl, leave him smile sho.

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