WEBVTT - New Year's Resolutions and Predictions 0:00:05.120 --> 0:00:09.080 Yamaha, welcome to my show. You're for the savings, your girl, 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:12.119 and you're listening to exactly a matter of production of 0:00:12.200 --> 0:00:15.040 I Heart Radio. I think it's so so much for 0:00:15.080 --> 0:00:17.680 tuning in as usual. You come in and you listen 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:19.920 to all my craziness, the good, the bad, and all 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:23.279 everything and all the above. Miamor, can you believe that 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.079 we are the survivors. I'm a survivor. I am a 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:29.680 survivor of the COVID, of the pandemic, of everything that 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:33.000 has happened in my life. I am a survivor of 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:35.760 so many things. And I finally made it to two. 0:00:35.840 --> 0:00:38.279 Not me, all of us made it to twenty two. 0:00:38.320 --> 0:00:40.280 I always say, no matter how bad things are me 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:46.320 hint Tamobibo Tamo hockey, things could have been so much worse. 0:00:46.360 --> 0:00:48.720 And there's so many people going through so many terrible things. 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:51.560 Battle we survived them. We're here. And guess who else 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:58.280 survived Stevie Noon, Stevie Noon, tam ultra survivor. I cannot 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:01.480 believe it. I thought we were never the way the 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:04.800 world was looking. And look at that boy. Don't mean 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:08.720 because Mina last year I got influenza, I had the 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:12.600 covid out have a little bit of griep it you 0:01:12.760 --> 0:01:18.520 hear it, But guess why I'm still here. No, look 0:01:19.400 --> 0:01:24.080 now New Years Yogo, sit down, he said. I did 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:26.399 so much. I partied so hard. I was just so 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:29.559 happy and so excited because I'm just excited to see whatever, 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:31.760 you know, everything that God has waiting for me this 0:01:31.800 --> 0:01:36.759 New Year. It will be. Look and I was screaming me, yes, 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:40.760 be careful out there. But anyways, it was yeah, for sure. 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:43.920 But I'll tell you this much this year I don't know. 0:01:44.000 --> 0:01:47.640 But it's really about resolutions and just predicting your future 0:01:47.760 --> 0:01:52.200 and truly believing in the law of attraction and attracting 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:56.720 the good into your life and just I I don't 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.600 want to sound corny because every year everybody has New 0:01:58.680 --> 0:02:01.080 Year's resolutions, and you know, we're like I'm gonna do 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:03.600 this and I'm gonna do that that you don't end 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:05.880 up doing none of the ship New Year, ye like 0:02:05.920 --> 0:02:09.720 a new Year. Knew me shut the hell up while 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:12.800 studying the year. Yeah, like less than halfway through, like 0:02:12.840 --> 0:02:16.160 a month later, nobody's following through with any other things 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:20.880 that they said. So stabe, let me tell you about me. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:23.240 One I definitely want to be the best mother that 0:02:23.280 --> 0:02:24.959 I can be because this is gonna be this year 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:30.320 is so important to me. It's with two babies, Okay, 0:02:30.440 --> 0:02:35.520 so definitely I'm gonna be a mother this year. So 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:38.440 definitely it's a new stage in my life. So I'm 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:41.440 definitely looking forward to that. I'm looking forward to learning 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:44.880 how to. I think that I do pretty well administrating 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:46.520 my money, but I want to I want to get 0:02:46.560 --> 0:02:49.639 more money. I want more money. Who doesn't. Everybody wants 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:51.800 more money, but I'm willing to work for it. So 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:55.320 I definitely want to find more, uh, presidual income. I 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:57.880 want to find more more you know, sources of income. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:01.760 That's like super important to me. Definitely looking forward to that. 0:03:02.200 --> 0:03:07.000 Moving towards UM still my personal life, but I definitely 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:10.000 UM want to create more memories. I think that sometimes 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:11.960 we're so busy working and so busy looking for the 0:03:11.960 --> 0:03:14.760 next big thing to do. Okay, you don't, You're not president. 0:03:15.160 --> 0:03:17.120 It's important to be president in your life. I want 0:03:17.120 --> 0:03:19.960 to be president. I want to create more memories. I 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:22.200 want to enjoy more of my life. Everything can be 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:24.600 just work, work, work, work. Definitely take more trips to 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:27.960 the Dominican Republic, continue to do investments. At least one 0:03:28.440 --> 0:03:32.560 property investment a year definitely remains one of my goals 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:35.880 because you already know I'm big into generational wealth and 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:38.200 I definitely want to be able to give my kids 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:42.000 some inheritance. So definitely one property, whether it's one apartment, 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:46.920 one house, one farm, when acre, when whatever, Definitely keep that. 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:49.840 And then as far as my career is concerned, I 0:03:49.960 --> 0:03:52.720 definitely want to continue to grow this podcast because it 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:55.640 means so much to me. Exactly a Mata started off 0:03:55.720 --> 0:03:59.280 not too long ago. It was like my little baby, 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:01.240 what could I see to look how much we've evolved, 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:04.120 So definitely want to continue growing Exactly a Mata my 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:07.320 TV show, don't cancel me on fuse. I want to 0:04:07.360 --> 0:04:11.280 be a really good, well known uh TV host and 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:13.960 I'm not gonna lie. I missed doing music so much. 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:17.600 I miss being in the studio. So this year, I 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:18.960 don't know if I'm gonna be doing a lot of 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.640 shows because why not. Shoot, I can still have a 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.440 little baby weight and still be a bad bite battle. 0:04:24.839 --> 0:04:26.599 I definitely want to see myself being in the studio 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:29.840 more often, doing more music besides everything else that God 0:04:29.880 --> 0:04:33.080 has um on his way for me. So my new 0:04:33.160 --> 0:04:35.400 Year's resolution so much like I have a lot of 0:04:35.440 --> 0:04:37.680 ship to write down, a lot of things to organize. 0:04:37.960 --> 0:04:40.320 You know, I need to love me more. I need 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:41.800 to I need to do a lot of things. I 0:04:41.839 --> 0:04:44.480 want to continue to you know, keep going therapy, thin 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:47.160 watch on that. But what about you, Stevie? Wait? I 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:49.200 want to ask you a question because I want to 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:52.680 get into your two real quick. Um, is there gonna 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:58.320 be loving hip hop Miami again this? Or what what 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.520 is it looking like? Could we do something? Can news? 0:05:00.640 --> 0:05:04.920 Or what? Well? I mean, I've been hit up for 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:09.440 several different TV shows, so this year you'll definitely see 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:12.839 me on several different TV shows and in different networks. 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:21.040 So like, you know what, you can't put all your 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:26.240 exit one basket? Do you have to? And M and 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:27.880 l A. I like I always saying, ever put any 0:05:27.880 --> 0:05:30.080 limits to my to my art and what I'm capable 0:05:30.120 --> 0:05:31.840 of doing. I want to try and experiment as much 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:34.440 as they cancel that best see maybe yes, maybe not? 0:05:34.600 --> 0:05:37.240 Just stay tuned. What about you, Stevie? What's happening with you? 0:05:37.240 --> 0:05:40.160 What are your New Year's resolution? I mean, definitely thank 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.960 you so much for joining our first episode of two. 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:45.280 What are your New Year's resolutions? What are you looking 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:47.479 forward to, what are your plans? What do you want 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:49.760 to get rid of? What do you want to continue doing? 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.440 Oh my god, well, first of all, as an honored 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:56.960 to be on the very first episode exactly about this 0:05:57.200 --> 0:06:01.279 is like a great way to kick off twenty twenty two, 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:04.839 ladies and gentlemen. I am so happy. Now. There is 0:06:04.880 --> 0:06:07.440 a lot of things I want to accomplish this year, 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:13.560 like more traveling, more than little three. Yes, but I 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.119 do want to get lose like thirty five pounds because 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:21.320 this quarantine fitteen got to many times three. Now everybody's 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:24.640 stays New Year's like, I'm gonna go to the gym. 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:26.760 I need you to say, I've been paying a gym 0:06:26.800 --> 0:06:28.680 membership like the past year. And I even forgot that 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:31.359 I had that to the other day's on my bank account, 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:33.040 that they keep taking the money out. Oh my god, 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:35.599 I having been there's the one types of gym fees. 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:37.360 Let me tell you there's all types of GM fees. 0:06:37.360 --> 0:06:39.640 Now everybody wants to lose weight. How much fun do 0:06:39.640 --> 0:06:42.400 you want to lose? I want to lose about party five. 0:06:43.480 --> 0:06:49.480 But if cho I see I work out a lot 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:53.080 with my wrist. My wrist be working out, risk the mouth, 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:55.760 risk the mouth, let me tell you. And it is 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:58.080 so hard because you know, everybody wants to go to 0:06:58.120 --> 0:07:01.000 the gym on Monday and lose. Everybody going to the 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:04.560 gym on Monday. That was like me all this year. 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:07.800 The resolution is to start. But like I was like me, 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:10.680 hello Jim, step one in my pact around this time 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:13.000 because everybody trying to get that body right and tight 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:16.440 for the year. You know, you know Dr Miami wasn't 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.480 trying to do my body. You know, Oh my god, 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:23.400 you're so silly. But goes he can come to dr 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:26.640 remembering get sucked thing, stuck down and tucked in. Thought, 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:28.960 Oh my god, girl, that's a resolution of mine too, 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:31.320 Like I want to go to DR. Actually, what you 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:35.120 because I went to d R and I went to Putakana, 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:38.360 and I you know, I need to start like going 0:07:38.480 --> 0:07:42.440 and visiting like the inner cities of Dominican Republic. I 0:07:42.480 --> 0:07:44.640 don't want to be like bougie because you know a 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.400 lot of us we come from the States and we 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:52.160 go and we go. But that's why though, like when 0:07:52.200 --> 0:07:54.440 I'll tell you this much, I've been a person that 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:57.000 has traveled a lot. If you're gonna travel, one of 0:07:57.000 --> 0:07:59.840 the most important things is being able to really experience 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:03.920 the culture, experience the country itself while you're there. So 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:08.880 if you're gonna go wherever it is that you may 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:11.760 be going, even if you're going to valley, whatever, if 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:14.640 you're going to a bougie spot, or just whatever the 0:08:14.640 --> 0:08:17.640 case may be, don't just go to the resort. Don't 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:20.160 just be stuck in the hotel. Go out there and 0:08:20.160 --> 0:08:22.400 eat with the people, really eat, go out there and 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:25.280 really live their lifestyle. That's the only way you really 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:27.720 get to travel and and enjoy and know that you 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:31.520 were there because party sort. There's resource resources and hotels 0:08:31.560 --> 0:08:35.240 everywhere right absolutely, and the resort gives me Like if 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:37.440 you live like in a state like we do in Florida, 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:41.079 there's so many resorts and so many beautiful places that 0:08:41.120 --> 0:08:44.200 look like those resorts. So for me, it's important to 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:46.640 get I want to get to something Amingo, I want 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:50.200 to get to body, I want to get to So 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:54.200 definitely traveling is is on your bucket list. I see 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:57.200 I want to go see my Maggie, don't see, Okay, 0:08:58.040 --> 0:08:59.880 thinking like glory, I want to go see them in 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:03.480 is it you want to lose thirty five pounds, you 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:07.600 want to travel more games, and the other thing that 0:09:07.679 --> 0:09:10.880 I really want to do, I want to have another baby. No, 0:09:11.000 --> 0:09:16.520 I don't real no. I mean we've thought about it, 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:22.120 but I don't know that's easy. I know, boom boom boom. 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:26.000 But you know that all I don't know for sure. 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.360 Don't quote me on it. It's been a little thought. 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:31.680 It's been a little thought. But you know, really I 0:09:31.720 --> 0:09:34.080 want to start producing, like in the industry level. I 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:37.120 want to start producing UM. I feel like there needs 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:41.359 to be more latinex representation and within you know, movies 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:44.480 and just shows in general a matter. Maybe we could 0:09:44.480 --> 0:09:48.280 link up and do a really dope like UM series 0:09:48.440 --> 0:09:51.280 or something that we could produce something really dope. I 0:09:51.280 --> 0:09:53.600 think that would be great. You know what, don't put 0:09:53.600 --> 0:09:55.760 any limits to yourself if you think that you have 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:59.600 something within ecomole hole. Dezel Washington in a motivational speech, 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:03.200 I I heard um don't ever die with you know, 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:06.480 with any of those ideas inside. The biggest millionaires and 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:09.480 the biggest ideas are in the graveyard. People die and 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:11.719 they're like, I was going to do this. I was 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:13.480 gonna do this and then you never do it. If 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:15.320 you feel something in your spirit and your gut, just 0:10:15.400 --> 0:10:19.200 go ahead and freaking do that. So definitely, I'm I'm 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:28.600 definitely down for that, Polcuano. But I'll tell you this much. 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:31.319 One of the biggest issues that happened overall is that 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:35.000 we don't end up actually staying on track when we 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:37.480 come up with all these resolutions and all these ideas 0:10:37.480 --> 0:10:39.640 and all these concepts. So what do you think are 0:10:39.679 --> 0:10:41.640 some of the best ways of staying on track with 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:45.440 you know, your progress and your New Year's resolutions. I 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:48.400 think you gotta track your progress right from the beginning 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:51.040 of the year. Write it down visually so that you 0:10:51.040 --> 0:10:53.560 can see it every day, put it on your refrigerator 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:57.199 so that you can look back or every morning see 0:10:57.320 --> 0:11:00.040 what you're looking. You're lying as you don't put a 0:11:00.120 --> 0:11:05.600 thing that can your refrigerator. Like I'm in kindergarten, they 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.880 caa rigon in your wall out It would be nice, 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:11.000 but realistically do we do it? No? I have a 0:11:11.040 --> 0:11:14.520 little I have a little sketch thing that I did 0:11:15.080 --> 0:11:17.400 this year. It was a little sketch thing, and you 0:11:17.440 --> 0:11:20.880 know that's Bible, you know, write the vision make it plain, 0:11:21.080 --> 0:11:23.880 like you really have to write your vision so that 0:11:23.960 --> 0:11:28.560 it is visual media. Because how about a vision board. 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:31.199 I remember when I was in college. When I was 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:33.959 in college, one of our assignments, um right when the 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:36.719 Law of Attraction the Secret came out, they made a 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:39.199 zoo vision boards. And I don't know where the hell 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:40.959 that vision board is. I wish it I had it. 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:43.280 I know that I have made half of the ship 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:46.480 that I put in there. But I think it's important. 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:49.360 I think it's such a great activity. It sounds so corny, 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:52.559 but if you're at home or you have like your boyfriend, 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:55.080 you know, you guys are in that I'm in love stage. Well, 0:11:55.080 --> 0:11:57.160 I'm sure that he'll do it with you, or your 0:11:57.200 --> 0:11:59.800 mom or dad, your family, kids, whatever. Get a couple 0:11:59.840 --> 0:12:04.679 of vistas, a couple of magazines anywhere or whatever the case. 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:07.720 Maybe or buy some go to like you know, walker, 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:11.800 inspire yourself one of those neon cardboards or a white one, whichever, 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:14.719 when you feel attracted to and created, like today is 0:12:14.720 --> 0:12:17.880 gonna be Sunday project. Sunday project. We're all gonna sit 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:20.640 here and we're gonna cut out these pictures because it 0:12:20.640 --> 0:12:22.680 doesn't have to be anything specific, but cut out pictures 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:25.360 of things that motivate you, inspire you, things that you 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:27.559 would like to achieve. Or you can even cut out 0:12:27.559 --> 0:12:31.199 the words letters, individual words. Um, whether as you want 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:32.520 to go to college, whether it is you want to 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:35.040 buy a house, cut out a house of something that 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:37.120 the house that you would like to live on. Nothing 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:40.040 like I said exact, I mean but similar. Um, if 0:12:40.080 --> 0:12:41.560 you want to have more kids, but then just cut 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:43.719 out a picture of a family that has children and 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:46.559 they're happy. Just do a vision board of what you 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:49.720 would like to accomplish two and watch and look at 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:51.880 it as much as possible, and at the end of 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:53.520 the year, look and see how many of those things 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:56.040 that you actually accomplished. Now it's not just about cutting 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:57.719 them out, it is about putting in the WORKUS hope 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.440 that goes like a but it's like you'll get away 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:03.160 the idea of the NADA. So that's definitely one way 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:06.520 of keeping on track of your goals and your resolutions 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:08.280 and the things that you want to you know, accomplish. 0:13:08.520 --> 0:13:12.120 I would also say by a notebook, I'm I'm such 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.000 a fan of writing. A lot of people like the 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:16.920 you know, like the technology or computer or digital ship. 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:20.040 But personally I like to write things. I like to 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:23.280 scratch things out and all those things I love to erase. 0:13:23.440 --> 0:13:26.720 You know, people don't use pencils anymore, but UM, being 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:32.280 able to write things down every chance you have, you know, right, 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.800 the things that you want to accomplish, and not just 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:37.360 what you want to accomplish this year, because you should 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:41.040 definitely do that. Meda goals for two right down. I 0:13:41.080 --> 0:13:43.000 want to do this, this, this, this, this, this, this 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:47.880 boom right now, let's go into January. January, here are 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:51.480 the three or four goals I want to accomplish this month, 0:13:51.720 --> 0:13:54.160 because then sometimes we look at the big picture and 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:57.760 it becomes so big and so wild that we forget 0:13:57.880 --> 0:14:00.200 that everything in life is one step at it's time. 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:04.640 Local like, you need to accomplish these small goals in 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:07.679 order to accomplish this. So this month, my goal is 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:12.240 to accomplish one to three four. Now, let's go into 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:17.079 week by week of January. This week, my goal is 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:20.520 to accomplish one to three You know what I'm saying. 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.440 Then I got a little baby steps. See the full picture, 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:27.640 but also see baby steps. Um, and some people believe 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:31.000 in rewarding yourself. Do you believe in that. Yeah, you 0:14:31.040 --> 0:14:33.600 have to reward yourself, like you know, little steps, you know, 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:37.240 like you said, monthly, reward yourself every month like with 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:41.280 what what what's your rewarding? Okay, So for instance, um, 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:46.040 if you are like dieting, like if you're you know, 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:49.640 really about your figure and really working out, you know, 0:14:49.800 --> 0:14:53.360 maybe each month, go go on a day, go on 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.760 a food day, have a cheap day. You know, I 0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:58.720 feel like a cheap day is very rewarding. It is 0:14:58.920 --> 0:15:02.840 very rewarding. Days are very rewarding. So go on a 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:06.720 cheat you know day, and and really reward yourself for 0:15:06.840 --> 0:15:10.480 the accomplishments. Because guess what if you don't celebrate you, 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:13.000 who and the hell is going to celebrate you? So 0:15:13.200 --> 0:15:17.240 make sure that you are rewarding yourself because you have 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:19.800 to have something to look forward to and you need 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:22.760 like some motivation. Uh you know, you know, you know, 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:24.960 it's a good way that I like to reward myself 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:27.800 and I would like to I've done it before, and 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:29.240 otherwise I think can I do it all the time? 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:31.240 But I would like to get back into it. A 0:15:31.360 --> 0:15:35.560 nice reward besides eating, it's also to just have some 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.040 time for yourself. I'm gonna reward myself by going to 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.360 the beach. I live in Miami and we have the 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:43.600 beach literally a La Kina. But because you know, we 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:47.080 have so much access to it, sometimes we don't appreciate it. 0:15:47.120 --> 0:15:49.120 But just taking off some time for yourself, whether it 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:50.640 is going to the beach or whether it is going 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:53.800 to your favorite spot. Because I did good and I 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:56.480 was focused, I was determined in this week because it's 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:59.760 a weekly thing. Don't not like you know you're in 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.520 Ni Schmidt, it's a weekly thing. This week. I want 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:06.000 to reward myself on Saturday, on Sunday, whatever, even it 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:07.720 seems like it's like a lot of work, but it's 0:16:07.720 --> 0:16:10.440 really not. I'm gonna I'm gonna dedicate one or two 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:14.600 hours to myself and be here and be present and 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:16.760 love what I'm doing right now. Even if you're just 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:20.000 sitting in the beach, walking in the beach or whatever, 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:22.040 or if you want to go to park, whatever turns 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:24.720 you on. Sometimes being by yourself can be the biggest 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:33.280 gift that you can give yourself. Sometimes you just need 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:35.760 to be away and still remind yourself that you're an 0:16:35.760 --> 0:16:39.000 individual person. So that can be a great a great 0:16:39.040 --> 0:16:42.680 game time. Some me time. Girls, Yeah, for sure. And 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:45.320 you know what, in the meantime, I love to pray. 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:47.080 I love to pray. I like I like to talk 0:16:47.120 --> 0:16:52.200 to myself. I answer myself sometimes because you're so busy 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:54.160 listening to everybody else. You're caught up in work, you're 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:55.520 caught up in bills, you're caught up in the kids. 0:16:55.520 --> 0:16:56.880 You're trying to be a good husband and good wife, 0:16:57.080 --> 0:17:00.800 good Sometimes you just need to like to talk to yourself. 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:02.840 A girl, By the way, you're doing really good and 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:05.120 I'm so proud of you. I really am. I love 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:08.560 what you're doing. You're looking great. Um you can do better. Though, 0:17:08.960 --> 0:17:10.919 you can do better. I know, I know within you 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:12.600 that you have more to give. But you're doing good 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:15.160 so far. Babies, It's like, sometimes you need to hype 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:17.880 yourself up and motivate yourself and talk to yourself at all. 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:20.800 Don't forget to pamper yourself in the process of hitting 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:24.200 all your New Year's resolutions. Don't go so hard that 0:17:24.280 --> 0:17:29.240 you wear yourself out, Like whether it's a massage. You 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:31.200 know what, I did really good this week. I'm gonna 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:34.400 go get a pedicure, a manicure. I'm gonna get a massage, 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:38.280 I'm gonna get a body. Just do something that makes 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:40.680 you feel good because that keeps you motivated to continue. 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:43.160 And here's something else. They say that you shouldn't beat 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:46.280 yourself up when it comes to like achieving your goals. 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:49.840 I I am a big believer in beat your ass up, 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:54.439 be upset with yourself, be angry with yourself, especially if 0:17:54.440 --> 0:17:59.200 you know that you can do more, like um I goes, 0:17:59.240 --> 0:18:01.800 I can see it. If you know within yourself that 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:04.080 you have more to give, that there's more in you, 0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:07.080 don't just settle, don't just sit there like, oh why 0:18:07.160 --> 0:18:09.720 then get enough this week? Well that wasn't that bad. No, 0:18:10.200 --> 0:18:12.120 Because the people that you admire, the people that you're 0:18:12.119 --> 0:18:15.320 looking up to, they beat themselves up and they fight 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:17.760 to be better every single day, and they fight to 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:20.600 do great things in life. And that doesn't come from 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:22.639 just being they're like, oh, well this is good enough. No, 0:18:23.160 --> 0:18:25.080 it wasn't good enough, and you know it wasn't good enough, 0:18:25.119 --> 0:18:28.119 and stopped lying to yourself. Don't expect other people to 0:18:28.160 --> 0:18:34.560 come sugarcoated or you know, because when everybody and everything's 0:18:34.560 --> 0:18:38.240 like all good, NOAs you don't improve, sometimes we need 0:18:38.320 --> 0:18:41.200 that tough love even as an adult, we think the 0:18:41.280 --> 0:18:44.120 only children need you know, tough love. No, as an adult, 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:47.800 we need those real friends. New Year's resolution clink clank, 0:18:47.880 --> 0:18:58.520 Let me preach New Year's resolutions. Get rid of people. 0:18:59.040 --> 0:19:02.480 Get rid of people from your circle they get them 0:19:02.520 --> 0:19:04.000 be there. If you have any friends that you know 0:19:04.040 --> 0:19:06.240 they are envious of you, get rid of them. If 0:19:06.280 --> 0:19:08.919 you have any friends that take away from your concentration 0:19:08.960 --> 0:19:10.440 and the things that you need to be focused on, 0:19:10.760 --> 0:19:13.280 get rid of them. If you have any family members 0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:16.560 or whatever, they're always with their where their negativity, telling 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:18.480 you what you can't do, what you can't do, or 0:19:18.480 --> 0:19:20.840 bringing down your self esteem, calling you fat, or telling 0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:23.440 you ugly, or telling you whatever. Always have an opinion. 0:19:23.840 --> 0:19:25.800 Get rid of them. If you can't get rid of them, 0:19:26.000 --> 0:19:28.720 distance yourself from them, because that's another thing you could 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:30.879 be really focused in, determined on your on your New 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:41.080 Year's resolution. Is so opinion and their negativity, and then 0:19:41.119 --> 0:19:44.080 they just mess up your whole vibe. And there's nothing 0:19:44.119 --> 0:19:46.800 worse than when you're concentrated and somebody comes and just 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:50.040 kills your no absolutely that part, you know, let me 0:19:50.080 --> 0:19:52.639 take your back on that, because that is one of 0:19:52.680 --> 0:19:55.080 the reasons why I moved away, And I feel like 0:19:55.160 --> 0:19:57.600 making a move should be a lot of people's resolution 0:19:57.720 --> 0:20:01.280 this year, because sometimes we're stuck a on the same circle, girl, 0:20:01.400 --> 0:20:03.840 and to make change, you have to change everything, an 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:07.879 area code, your zip code, your phone number, everything, because 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:11.120 sometimes you do have some people that are lashed onto you, 0:20:11.160 --> 0:20:13.840 that are leeches that are not adding value to your life. 0:20:14.000 --> 0:20:16.399 And you're wondering why you're still in a place that 0:20:16.480 --> 0:20:19.160 you're stuck and you can't move forward, and it's because 0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:21.679 you have these people holding you back. And it's okay 0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:26.440 to let go and let God come on now, miam. Okay, 0:20:26.560 --> 0:20:29.960 we're at the church today. But whatever that. It's like, 0:20:30.200 --> 0:20:32.000 sometimes you work so hard and like, you know what, 0:20:32.160 --> 0:20:34.479 this year, I'm gonna leave all this negativity behind. I'm 0:20:34.480 --> 0:20:38.840 gonna do this, this, this, this this Evianna juani. Whoever 0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:41.720 telling you that you can't that you can't do this, 0:20:41.880 --> 0:20:43.280 or that you're not good enough for this, or you 0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:46.240 shouldn't do this, or if you have a business idea, 0:20:46.840 --> 0:20:50.320 do it. God gave you that idea for you to accomplish. 0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:52.800 Stop telling everybody what you're gonna do, because a lot 0:20:52.800 --> 0:20:55.040 of people are just gonna come there to like try 0:20:55.080 --> 0:20:57.080 to kill your vibe and kill your spirits of doing 0:20:57.119 --> 0:20:59.160 it like that's I'm gonna be the olds. I don't 0:20:59.160 --> 0:21:03.720 really got to all the Another thing New Year's resolution, 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:08.000