1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,640 --> 00:00:11,159 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEVARVFM dot com and 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter 5 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: live on the air, just like we're going to read 6 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, and you never know, 7 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: it could be yours. 8 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 2: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 9 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject to double standards are a thing 11 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:33,080 Speaker 1: of the past. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for 12 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: eight years and I have a girlfriend that I've been 13 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: with for the past three years. My wife has a girlfriend, 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,639 Speaker 1: and I told her that it's still cheating even if 15 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: it is a woman. She expected me to accept it 16 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: and think it was cool, but I can see that 17 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 1: she's really in love with the woman. We never talk 18 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 1: about my girlfriend, but I'm sure she knows that I 19 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:55,040 Speaker 1: have someone on the side. To add to the madness 20 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: of our marriage, my wife's younger sister has moved in 21 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:04,120 Speaker 1: with us. She's only she's only eighteen, and she was 22 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 1: sent to live with us after her dad walked in 23 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: on her in his house with a grown man. I 24 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 1: kept my father in law from busting her head. Now 25 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:15,120 Speaker 1: that she's living in my house, it's hard to talk 26 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: to her about morals because she can see her sister's 27 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: relationship with the woman, and she's seen me out with 28 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: my girlfriend before. She's still talking to the older man, 29 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: and I told her that man better not come to 30 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: my house. She's also seeing a guy that she works with. 31 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: She tells me everything because she considers me the same 32 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: grown up in the house. 33 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:37,759 Speaker 3: This morning, she. 34 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 1: Told me that she's interested in a girl she works with, 35 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: but she can't pursue the girl because she's dating the 36 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: girl's boyfriend. It's a mind blowing It's just mind blowing 37 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: talking to her because she has no boundaries. I talked 38 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 1: to her about double standards and having a bad reputation. 39 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: My wife overheard our conversation and came into the kitchen 40 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: with a lot of bad advice. She told her sister 41 00:01:59,880 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 1: the double standards are a thing of the past. I 42 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: wanted to curse her out. It's her bad example that's 43 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: making her sister think she can sleep with whoever she 44 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:10,800 Speaker 1: wants to do. I send this girl back to her 45 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: dad's house or keep trying to help. 46 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 3: Well, first of all, of course your wife is wrong. 47 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 1: Double standards are alive and well, okay, there's no way 48 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: of getting around that. 49 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 3: Men and women just have different rules and how they move. Okay. 50 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: And I think her father handled this situation all wrong. 51 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 1: I mean, you, as the brother in law, had good 52 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: intentions of taking the sister in, but you can't protect 53 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:41,799 Speaker 1: her from herself. Whatever you're doing is not working, and 54 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 1: you and your wife are just horrible examples. The thing 55 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 1: is is that she's grown now, she's eighteen, and she's 56 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: not equipped to handle herself in this real world. She 57 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,119 Speaker 1: should have gotten that lesson from her father, but he 58 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:57,959 Speaker 1: contributed zero. I mean he wanted to bust her head, 59 00:02:58,040 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: you said, and now under your roof, still learned nothing. 60 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: We all know that young people respond to what they see, 61 00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: not what you say to them. This girl has no values, 62 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: no morals, no concept of right and wrong, loyalty, no 63 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: self respect. But she doesn't know any better. The adults 64 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 1: in her life do know better, and no one's teaching 65 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: her anything. And here's a question, why are you and 66 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: your wife still married? I mean, where's the love here? 67 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 1: Except for the people that you both are cheating with. 68 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: This eighteen year old needs some real attention, some real 69 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,280 Speaker 1: help and guidance so she can learn about self esteem, 70 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: self love, and just learn about her value. 71 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 4: Steve, I'm so tripped out with this letter right here 72 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 4: is something is something in every line of this letter. 73 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 4: First of all, let's start with the beginning. Double standards 74 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 4: are a thing of the past. That shouldn't even be 75 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 4: the title, right. The tie to this letter is morals 76 00:03:56,080 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 4: are a thing of the past. This every line in 77 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 4: here is any immorl issue that we some of us, 78 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 4: have to unpack now. 79 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:08,960 Speaker 2: But okay, now I'm gonna get in trouble for some 80 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 2: of this. But here we go. Did Stevens Shell, I've 81 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 2: been married for eight years. 82 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 4: I have a girlfriend that I've been with for the 83 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 4: past three years. You know, you just throw that's out 84 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 4: there like you know, y'all just be y'all be typing 85 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 4: these letters man like this regular y'all. 86 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 2: Y'all, y'all be. 87 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 4: Normalizing this crazy mess man, and then you send it 88 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 4: to us. And I'm not finn do this in twenty 89 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 4: twenty six, y'all not finna wear me with this type 90 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 4: of letter right here. 91 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 2: This is crazy. 92 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 4: I've been married for eight years, I have a girlfriend 93 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 4: that I've been with for the past three years, and 94 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 4: then here we go, my wife has a. 95 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: Girlfriend and I told her that that's still cheating. 96 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,760 Speaker 3: What? 97 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 5: Man? 98 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 4: What this letter right here? Just I'm married for eight years, 99 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 4: I had a girlfriend for three My wife got girlfriend too, 100 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 4: and I told her that's still cheating. When did she 101 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 4: tell you it wasn't? I'm so confused here. I told 102 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 4: her that's still cheating if it even if it is 103 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 4: a woman. What your wife got a woman? What she 104 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 4: expected me to accept it and think it was cool? 105 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 2: How? 106 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 3: How? 107 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 2: How? 108 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 4: How did she expect you to accept that I'm chipping? 109 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 4: Because man, this letter crazy and expect you to accept 110 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 4: it and think it was cool? Now? 111 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 2: Hold up, didn't. But I can see that she really 112 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: in love with the woman. You can see that we 113 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 2: never talk about my girlfriend. 114 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 4: Dog. None of us can talk about our girlfriend if 115 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 4: we got one dog. Where's she throwing this information out? 116 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 4: Like you got some surprise. We never talk about my 117 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,479 Speaker 4: girl for none of us can talk about our girlfriend. 118 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 2: But as you're talking about man and you the rote 119 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 2: just messy in to MEA. 120 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 4: Shirley it's too early in the year for this, but 121 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 4: I'm sure that she knows I have someone on the side. 122 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 2: I can't even say that. I'm sure my wife. No, 123 00:06:20,520 --> 00:06:25,040 Speaker 2: I got somebody on the side, and we still living for. 124 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: Three yeah, yeah, all right, I need you to take 125 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: a break and breathe and calm down. 126 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 3: Okay, we have a part two coming up. 127 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 5: Then. 128 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:37,479 Speaker 4: The wife's younger sister that moved in with him and 129 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 4: she got sent to live with her because her daddy 130 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 4: caught her to bed with an older man. 131 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 2: Where we going with this letter? 132 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: Right, We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up 133 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour. 134 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 3: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 135 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 5: Hey, it's Carla Farroll. Kick that old mind and bucket aside. 136 00:07:01,279 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 5: Are you ready for a mop and bucket clean in 137 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 5: half the time? Make the swaps to Swiffer Power Mop 138 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,640 Speaker 5: the only one. Cleaning Hero has a built in solution 139 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 5: that breaks down dirt and grime like magic. With hundreds 140 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 5: of scrubbing strips on the pad, it absorbs sticky messes 141 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 5: with ease. Plus it'll leave your home smelling great for 142 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 5: hours after cleaning. Get yours today, and mop smarter with 143 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 5: the swiffer power mop. 144 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject 145 00:07:31,200 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: is double standards are a thing of the past. 146 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:38,360 Speaker 4: Let's change the name of this letter too, morals are 147 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 4: a thing of the past. And listen to this hill 148 00:07:42,920 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 4: sugar honey, ice teeth. All right, here we go. This 149 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 4: man been married for eight years, got a girlfriend that 150 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 4: he didn't had for three years. 151 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 2: But his wife got. 152 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 4: A girlfriend too that she's been cheating with, even if 153 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 4: it is a woman. You know how much is in 154 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 4: that statement? Do you know how much is packed in there? 155 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 4: I'm married, I got a girlfriend for three years, and 156 00:08:09,520 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 4: my wife got a girlfriend too, and it's a woman. 157 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 4: And I told her, I told her that's cheating if 158 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 4: even if it is a woman. 159 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: When did you find out what She expected me to 160 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:23,559 Speaker 2: accept it and think it was cool. 161 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 4: How what type of person are you where your wife 162 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 4: can bring you this information and she thinks cool? Then 163 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:34,880 Speaker 4: he said, but I can see she really in love 164 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 4: with the woman. Did he we never talk about my girlfriend? 165 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: Boy? 166 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 4: Stop man, old up dog? Did you just say we 167 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 4: never talk about my girlfriend? 168 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 3: That's the one that got you? 169 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 4: That that really just like that we none of us. 170 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:59,520 Speaker 4: No married man can talk about their girlfriend. What what? 171 00:08:59,520 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 5: What? 172 00:08:59,760 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 2: What? 173 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:00,560 Speaker 4: How does. 174 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 1: We? 175 00:09:02,200 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 2: You shouldn't even say? 176 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 4: But man, but I'm sure she knows that I have 177 00:09:07,160 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 4: someone on the side. Why because you cool with the 178 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 4: wife with the girlfriend. To add to the madness of 179 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,560 Speaker 4: our marriage with my wife's younger sister had to move 180 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:21,719 Speaker 4: here with her. She only eighteen. She was sent to 181 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 4: live with us because her dad walked in under in 182 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,160 Speaker 4: his house. She was with a grown man. I kept 183 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 4: my father in law from busting her head. Now she 184 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:32,040 Speaker 4: living in my house and it's hard to talk to 185 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,439 Speaker 4: her about mares because she could see her sister's relationship 186 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 4: with a woman. And she's seen me out with my 187 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 4: girlfriend before. 188 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 3: Horrible. 189 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:44,480 Speaker 2: You got that right. You can't say nothing to her. 190 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 4: Because she done seen your wife with hug girlfriend and 191 00:09:52,640 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 4: then seeing you out with show girlfrid And she's still 192 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 4: talking to the older man. And I told her that 193 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 4: that man better not come. 194 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 2: To my house. 195 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 4: Oh, now you got some rules now. Oh I don't 196 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 4: know where that rule came from, but thank you. Hey man, 197 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 4: I'm like that. That's one of my favorite dudes on 198 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 4: the internet. Hey, y'all, look at this him The dude, 199 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 4: they pore folks. That's what I ought to send this 200 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 4: letter to him. Hey, y'all look at this him and 201 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 4: read this ignorant letter right here, and now you met. 202 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 4: You done told her she's seeing the older man, and 203 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 4: you told her he better not bring her to your house. 204 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:42,000 Speaker 2: But then she's also seeing a guy that she. 205 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 3: Works with, and she wants to see. 206 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,439 Speaker 2: She tells me everything because she considers me the same 207 00:10:51,640 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 2: grown up in the house. Boy. 208 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 4: She ain't got no options for moraleity. You the same 209 00:10:57,679 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 4: one in the house. This morning, she told me that 210 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 4: she's interested in a girl that she worked with, but 211 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 4: but she can't pursue the girl because she dating the 212 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 4: girl's boyfriend. All y'all going to hell? All yeah, everybody's 213 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:18,400 Speaker 4: hold you gotta go here. You're a matter of fact man. 214 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 4: Why don't all y'all go the same church? I did 215 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 4: write that letter in all y'all should go to the 216 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 4: same church. 217 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:28,959 Speaker 2: That's the only thing that that was the only thing 218 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 2: that could make. 219 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 4: This even more. You just say, and we all go 220 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 4: to the same church. That's all she could say. It's 221 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 4: a mind blowing talking to her because she has no boundaries. 222 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: Wait a minute, hold a don't. She ain't got no. 223 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 3: Boundary, none of you. 224 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 4: You ain't got no boundaries. Your wife ain't got no boundaries. 225 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 2: Where where is she boundaries? That y'all don't have that 226 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 2: all you all in the same house and all y'all like. 227 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:12,760 Speaker 4: Everybody right, boys, girls, girls, girls, girls got boys like 228 00:12:12,840 --> 00:12:16,360 Speaker 4: another girl. Hey man, hey, hey, hey, now listen, listen, 229 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 4: you you're free to do what you want to do. 230 00:12:19,040 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 2: That just ain't my thing. So how you want me to, 231 00:12:22,280 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 2: how you want me to? 232 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:28,359 Speaker 4: And then two of y'all married, So y'all, y'all compounded 233 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 4: the problem. 234 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 2: So I look, okay, now, let's go on ahead. 235 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 4: Then you was trying to tell her about double standards 236 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,439 Speaker 4: and having a bad reputation. My wife overheard our conversation, 237 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 4: came into the kitchen with a lot of bad advice. 238 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 2: She told her sister that double standards are a thing 239 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 2: of the past. 240 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 4: I wanted to cuss her out, but you didn't, because 241 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 4: all she did was go over to her girlfriend's house. 242 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:06,840 Speaker 4: When when you when you start cussinghyut wit wit because 243 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 4: obviously he's a little late. It's her bad example that's 244 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,439 Speaker 4: making her sister think she can sleep with whoever she 245 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 4: wants to. I don't know why y'all wrote me and Shirley, 246 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 4: but it's too early in the year for this. And 247 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 4: let me make my statement for twenty twenty six. 248 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: What is it? 249 00:13:29,320 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 3: Steve? 250 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 2: I don't care? 251 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 1: Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey 252 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:37,680 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry 253 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio. 254 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 3: App for it never sounded so good. 255 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:44,319 Speaker 1: You can download it today now coming up at forty 256 00:13:44,320 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour, it is Junior and Sports Talk. 257 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning 258 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 1: Show