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Speaker 1: So honestly, the sessions were incredible. If any of you

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Speaker 1: About three sessions in, we discovered that both of us

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Speaker 1: I won't say too much about it, believe in us

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Speaker 1: We stayed separated during this time, but luckily we had space.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, so I guess the best you can

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we built the relationship back up from zero honestly,

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Speaker 1: Each cheek clap or ten points for each clap.

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Speaker 1: Each thrust plunges your relationship into negative ten points, but

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Speaker 1: twenty they you have twenty points for each thrust. Ye,

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Speaker 1: Let me know Chat, let us know Chat. I wanted

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Speaker 1: laying down that pipe, that little down. Whose birthday is it?

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Speaker 2: Whose birthday? Say your birthday? Now?

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Speaker 1: Go yeah, whose birthday?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm searching the chat. Technically have your birthday, oh,

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Speaker 2: Astronaut Monkey.

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Speaker 1: Technically technically, technically, happy birthday, Astronaut Monkey. But technically it

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Speaker 1: So it's been ten years since that all happened, and

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Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, cheatings something men do. Is that

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, really that like all men, that all men cheat,

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Speaker 1: Well, like I know people are like, oh, all men cheat,

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Speaker 1: She's she's like, I have nothing better to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no one else. You're punishing the victim again.

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Speaker 1: Exactly, like especially if they they're you know, maybe they're embarrassed,

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Speaker 1: Johnny Bahamian everyone in the chat, which maybe John can

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Speaker 1: what do you think is opda hole for cutting her off?

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Speaker 2: I do not think so one. Just the fact that

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Speaker 1: They're literally snooped through my entire house to find this

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Speaker 2: The only thing that I feel like you could kind

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Speaker 1: Worst way, in the worst, worst way. And it's like,

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Speaker 1: we can erect Riley's poll right now? Hey yo, Uh.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like, like, let's just say for a

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Speaker 1: And it's like at a certain point you kind of

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Speaker 2: But my read on the sister is like she's it

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Speaker 1: Kick the validation.

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Speaker 2: Validation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the snooping that was, like, that was a terrible

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Speaker 1: action itself. You shouldn't snoop into other people's stuff, violation

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Speaker 1: it's the exactly exactly. She's like, she's like one of

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Speaker 1: the the tabloid writers that writes about like, oh do

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Speaker 1: you know about the Queen's saucy Bahamas vacation where she

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Speaker 1: lets it all out. Oh God, it's like the queen

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Speaker 1: doesn't want that. I don't know if I want that,

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Speaker 1: But am I gonna read it? Maybe?

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Speaker 2: Maybe?

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's enough, if it's lacious enough, you know, rest

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Speaker 1: in peace of the queens. But relevant comments so cursed

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Speaker 1: an A says not the a hole. Also, we're putting

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Speaker 1: up a poll right now it says sister is the ahole?

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Speaker 2: Riley.

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Speaker 1: I think what we say, nah it's confusing because not

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Speaker 1: a whole is also a thing A whole.

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Speaker 2: No, I mean, what do you want me to say?

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Speaker 2: What do you want me?

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Speaker 1: but not sis A whole. SIS A hole should be

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Speaker 2: Sis A whole. But then it does change the dynamic

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Speaker 1: Uh maybe on the next one, because then it's like

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Speaker 3: Which is both like you're saying, you know, yeah, because

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Speaker 3: if he's starting it, nice sis A whole, no A

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Speaker 1: The age yeah, so not the assist SIS A hole

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Speaker 1: should be n T A and then option two should

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Speaker 1: be a whole a H no sis no sis there's

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Speaker 2: A whole or not the yeah yes, oh but who's

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Speaker 1: So on a I C A N A H means

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Speaker 1: no A holes here, which is why it's confusing to say.

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Speaker 1: Whole or so we just asked, so, am I the

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Speaker 1: all right, and then we're reading the comments people said,

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Speaker 1: not the a whole. All right, we're here, we've got it,

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Speaker 1: a hole or a hole. But to go back into uh,

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Speaker 1: someone get Riley more caffe It has a lot of caffeine.

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Speaker 2: I haven't had any yet, you haven't had.

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Speaker 1: Any yet today, So not the a whole. She wasn't

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Speaker 1: which kind of goes against like we were like, oh,

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Speaker 2: Total self interest.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Not one of her actions was caring about you.

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Speaker 1: She wanted to find something to justify attacking your husband,

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Speaker 1: Her intentions were bad, not good. It's likely that she

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Speaker 1: hoped you would join in her crusade and kick out

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Speaker 1: long term. I didn't even think about that. I didn't

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Speaker 1: In the process, she torched your family relations and abused

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Speaker 1: She deserves to be out of your lives for good

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Speaker 1: for all of her many betrayals. As for your family,

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, She's like, oh what can I do, which is

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Speaker 2: That is a wild level manipulation.

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Speaker 1: I think. I think OPI is not the a hole

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Speaker 1: for wanting to cut off the sister for sure. Yeah

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Speaker 1: how about using words and not conflicting acronyms. We could

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Speaker 4: If we do use words, it just makes it longer

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Speaker 1: Sorry everyone, no, no, right. Riley is also right.

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Speaker 2: It's what if it's this on top of the two yeah,

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Speaker 1: Or like yeah, sister, like we have like we have

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Speaker 1: Let us know if you guys would like that. We were.

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Speaker 1: We just got a new bar which is so beautifully created.

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Speaker 1: Shout out Riley and mo or Addie rather but uh yeah,

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Speaker 1: so we do have another update and Bella West Berlin

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Speaker 1: is asking for the donations link.

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Speaker 2: It's in the Okay, gotta go.

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Speaker 1: But Mushy Girl eighty nine says, your sister's honestly a

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Speaker 1: your husband tells me she doesn't really care about you,

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Speaker 1: nasty person. If my sister ever did that to me

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Speaker 1: I would cut her off completely, possibly any flying monkeys

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Speaker 1: that would be sent to So the flying monkey's referencing

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Speaker 1: You and your husband have both worked so hard to

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Speaker 1: possibly effed up all the work he did in personal therapy.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's true. I think like he's probably

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but it might have to bring him back to

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Speaker 1: I mean, I honestly probably should go back to therapy

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Speaker 1: for this. Yeah, your sister did all this terrible stuff.

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Speaker 1: is amazing. I feel through me backwards. You and your

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Speaker 1: she drove all of her partners away by being a

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Speaker 1: nosy twatz And that is where this story ends. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I think looking at the poll, seems like

441
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Speaker 1: eighty nine percent of you say Op is not the

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Speaker 1: a hole by cutting off the sister and possibly family,

443
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Speaker 1: and it seems like ten of you are just wrong.

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Speaker 6: Ouch got ham, got him get direct son a very

445
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Speaker 6: interesting and rare example of a cheating making the couple

446
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Speaker 6: like way stronger and standing the test of time.

447
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Speaker 1: What do we always say? Cheating makes relationships start stronger.

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Speaker 2: Dang, Same with Honor twenty twenty four. No, Samon John.

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Speaker 1: Four, Sam John twenty two.

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Speaker 5: I didn't even say anything, just John, No, no, No,

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Speaker 5: you can't do that.

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Speaker 2: You can not do that. We have the clips, roll

453
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Speaker 2: back the tape, editors, you know what to do. All right,

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Speaker 2: let's get into this next study. Here we go. My

455
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Speaker 2: sister falsely accused our all pair. Ruth came out, and

456
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Speaker 2: now my parents are trying to win.

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Speaker 1: Her back falsely accused them of what that's the question

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Speaker 1: accused of cheating? Some guesses should be should be? Should we?

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Speaker 2: Should we?

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Speaker 1: Should we do tread a little bit? Uh yeah, maybe

461
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Speaker 1: you could do to Nanny falsely accused the nanny of cheating.

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Speaker 1: Cowbot is God new stick member. Let's freaking go wave

463
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Speaker 1: those sticks in the air, wave them like you just

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Speaker 1: don't care. Oh, we'll read some donuts. Avery from the

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Speaker 1: Swamp says Sam. There are new people here, please don't

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Speaker 1: scare them off. All right, I'm joking, by the way.

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Speaker 1: I like that. You guys are like, like, don't scare

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Speaker 1: them away. Like if we have cool new people joining

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Speaker 1: the cool kids Stable.

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Speaker 2: We don't. We don't want to like, you know, we

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Speaker 2: want them to be friends, not food. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I guess I can only get freaky and the members only. Yes,

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Speaker 1: that's what I could get, like a little freaky true

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Speaker 1: Beca Elizabeth May says, you can also reply to comments

475
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Speaker 1: and like that just by tapping on them.

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Speaker 2: True.

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Speaker 1: Astronaut Monkey eighty four celebrating two months of membership, spending

478
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Speaker 1: my fortieth birthday with the Okay fam.

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Speaker 2: Let's go birthday twins all of us and.

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Speaker 1: You also, if you haven't already. Even if you have already,

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Speaker 1: go put some happy happy birthdays in the chat. Put

482
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Speaker 1: some happy birthdays in the chat. If you're a longtime lurker,

483
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 1: I want to see those birthdays, those birthday comments. That's right,

484
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Speaker 1: even just if it's a little cake. Blindbe says, the

485
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Speaker 1: members are used to being nuts. What are you talking about.

486
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Speaker 1: I'm a regular dude doing regular thing's so regular regular posts.

487
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Speaker 1: Yemmy Maine says they're celebrating three months of membership. Let's goo,

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Speaker 1: that's what I saw right before.

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Speaker 5: Uh yeah, oh boy, sitting without kidney's my first live

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Speaker 5: stream away.

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Speaker 2: That is not true. Here's money for the og starting

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Speaker 2: the stream od stream. Baby mel Us sixty eight fifteen

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Speaker 2: thanks he a five bucks. Gotta leave, but congratulations on

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Speaker 2: the anniversary. I'm glad to have found your content when

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Speaker 2: I needed it.

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Speaker 1: We should talk about that after we be.

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Speaker 2: Done for you guys. Absolutely, that's a good point. And

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Speaker 2: then Janelle aka crow Queen, thanks it a five bucks.

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Speaker 2: Happy third birthday to you for me on my forty

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Speaker 2: ninth birthday. I guess that solidifies me as an elder.

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Speaker 2: Love you, guys, and I'm so happy to be celebrating

502
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Speaker 2: with y'all. We did decide yesterday that the elder community

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Speaker 2: is called the elders the Council of I asked the

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Speaker 2: council and they said elders.

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Speaker 4: Was okay, Like John and the eldership, No, but shall

506
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Speaker 4: we talk a little bit about our origin story?

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Speaker 1: Our origin story right after Britt brad zero eight eight

508
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Speaker 1: A two two bouts of membership. So how does one

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00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,199
Speaker 1: go about gifting memberships? I would like to do so

510
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Speaker 1: to pay back for my gifted memberships in the past.

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Speaker 1: You can't figure it out, John, if you go there's.

512
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 2: A little option when you go to gift donations or

513
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:10,959
Speaker 2: when you go to do a donation in the YouTube

514
00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: super chat and you can it's like a little gift

515
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 2: box icon. Click that and then the donations will count

516
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Speaker 2: towards the gifted donations.

517
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,160
Speaker 1: Ye, until you do it. You can only gift donations

518
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: sadly on YouTube and not on Facebook. But just do

519
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: it over on YouTube. But today is okay story time

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00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: previously okops? Yes, official three year birthday? Yes, John, where

521
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: were we three years ago?

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Speaker 2: Oh? In not the best place, not the best place

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00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:47,960
Speaker 2: at least me. I was like fired. Yeah. We we

524
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Speaker 2: were doing a podcast together on the not to be

525
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Speaker 2: named network.

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Speaker 1: You can still find you can still out if you

527
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Speaker 1: look up Samuel Donner and John Fry, it will come up.

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Speaker 2: You can get the full piece together, the all the pieces.

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Speaker 2: Nice good job. But yeah, we we had just been

530
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Speaker 2: let go. We we had talked to the higher ups

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Speaker 2: and we were like, hey, so, like, what does it

532
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 2: look like when the show is successful, and what does

533
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,959
Speaker 2: it look like when you know, you guys have to

534
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 2: decide to set it down, Like, oh, we don't, we

535
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:20,399
Speaker 2: don't shut down shows.

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00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:25,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, but apparently they do sunset shows, which just means

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Speaker 1: they stop producing episodes, but they still have them on

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Speaker 1: the on the on the interwebs.

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Speaker 2: You know what I haven't thought about. I wonder if

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Speaker 2: any of those people have seen this.

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Speaker 1: Show, any of oh, any of the people that.

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Speaker 2: We were interacting with at the time.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I have to imagine.

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Speaker 2: I have to imagine, but it's possible.

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Speaker 1: They never said anything said hey, I feel like sorry

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Speaker 1: for being such douches, right.

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Speaker 2: We which, so right after they let us go, and

548
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 2: then they were like, hey, we love you guys, though,

549
00:28:56,800 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 2: so like keep pitching us new ideas, and we were

550
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Speaker 2: pitching seat heaters.

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00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 1: Wait, can we should we show them one of the one.

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Speaker 2: Of one of our trailers.

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00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, one of our trailers. Oh my god, can you

554
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Speaker 1: can you pull that up?

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00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? Probably, so it's in the drive.

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Speaker 1: In the drive. We were pitching them freaking heat, honestly,

557
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: like like I think podcasts that would have been not no,

558
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Speaker 1: this was like what what? What was even caught?

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Speaker 2: There was a dark web the dark web dark web one.

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Speaker 1: But then there was like the well we made a

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Speaker 1: whole podcast episode.

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00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 2: Yeah we did. We made multiple Yeah, they did an

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Speaker 2: episode trailer for every single of our six shows that

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Speaker 2: we created, and yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was like it was like sheesh, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, gen Z Grandaddies, gen Z Granddaddy's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, was it Zaddies Grandaddies? I believe because we were like, like,

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Speaker 1: I think that was the show that we pitched them

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Speaker 1: because we were the the oldest or at least I

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Speaker 1: was the oldest gen Z person could be.

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Speaker 2: But yet it was it was all great and fun

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Speaker 2: back then.

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Speaker 1: But now, but while John's pulling that up, we basically

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Speaker 1: we were like pitching it and they were like, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's really good. But they were just stringing us along,

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Speaker 1: you know, they weren't down to commit They're like, oh, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, like what if we both see other people

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Speaker 1: and we were just focusing on them? And you know what,

579
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Speaker 1: finally they pushed us away far enough that we're like,

580
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Speaker 1: you know what, where to go find someone that actually

581
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Speaker 1: loves us for who we are? And so John and

582
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Speaker 1: I were like in like a room coming up with

583
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Speaker 1: ideas and we stumbled upon someone that was doing like

584
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Speaker 1: just like reading Reddit stories but not really giving any commentary,

585
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: was like just like kind of robotic reading. And we're like,

586
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Speaker 1: we could do this so much better. What if we

587
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Speaker 1: brought our high octane commentary to the relationship. The relationship

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Speaker 1: Niche and Peyton said, I watch your old ones when

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00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: you first started h the Okop Show, and oy g

590
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,760
Speaker 1: it was low key cringe but you guys were talking dirty.

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Speaker 1: And John would be like, oh yeah, dude, some of

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00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 1: the first episodes are cringe, but people like them. Our

593
00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: first video ever on TikTok got like half a million views, yeah,

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00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 1: and we're like, somehow people like this, And ever since

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Speaker 1: that day we have posted two videos at least two

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Speaker 1: videos a day. Yeah, Like since that, non stop, NonStop

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Speaker 1: for three years straight, three years straight.

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Speaker 2: I'm having I know I can find it. I'm having trouble,

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Speaker 2: but I'm also thinking, uh, maybe this is too far

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Speaker 2: of with detrove right now.

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Speaker 1: But wait, what do you want to do? You want

602
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Speaker 1: to take over a little bit of storytelling, saying maybe,

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Speaker 1: like because that's like the origin story. Yeah, but we

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Speaker 1: haven't talked about the ups and downs of the last

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Speaker 1: three years.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let me let me think so, uh, I mean

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Speaker 2: the first I mean the beginning was just like we did.

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Speaker 2: We didn't make any money initially, so.

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Speaker 1: Dude, all right when John and I, so John and

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Speaker 1: I were would record for like twelve hours a day

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Speaker 1: in each other in my bedroom, yeah, with Christian in

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Speaker 1: the back of the of the like us recording, and

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Speaker 1: we didn't have like any money. So I was splitting

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Speaker 1: a room with Christian, and I could only afford to

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Speaker 1: eat cup of noodle soup. And so in the middle

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Speaker 1: of recording, because we didn't have time to stop recording,

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Speaker 1: I would open up a cup of newd like a

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Speaker 1: cold cup of noodle soup and just oh and just

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Speaker 1: fucking down to it.

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Speaker 2: I would hawk to it, and he taught me how

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Speaker 2: to talk to it. I did too. We were survived

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Speaker 2: to it together.

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Speaker 1: Nothing but Campbell, Cold, Campbell's Noodle, Soup, bulk packs. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: recording like non stop, and I thought we had the

625
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Speaker 1: stamina to do that long.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of crazy to imagine even the ten hour

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Speaker 2: streams right now. I'm like, dang, how am I so

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00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: tired right now? Yeah, dude, I don't have that dog

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Speaker 2: in me. I know.

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Speaker 1: We used to be able to do it, and we weren't.

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Speaker 1: Weren't doing it live. We were doing it alone in

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Speaker 1: our room with no one to listen. Yeah, just ourselves,

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Speaker 1: which I think is why maybe it got cringe because

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Speaker 1: we just were like going crazy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you just just going imagine talking to just you

636
00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:21,960
Speaker 2: have one other human in You're locked in a room

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Speaker 2: for twelve hours, no sunlight, the sunlight.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we closed all the windows because we wanted to

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Speaker 1: have the uh the video of the lights show exactly.

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Speaker 1: So there was no sunlight for twelve hours, and we

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Speaker 1: were editing all of our own videos. Yes, so like

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Speaker 1: after we would record for twelve hours, we were just editing.

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Speaker 1: I don't even remember how we did that. We were edible.

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Speaker 2: Initially, we just kind of like worked all the weekends,

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Speaker 2: and then we kind of hit a point where like, okay,

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Speaker 2: we have to.

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Speaker 1: I think it was like a year in we stopped

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Speaker 1: working weekends. I remember it was a conversation where it's like, hey,

649
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Speaker 1: like maybe we should stop, Yeah, we should take a break.

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Speaker 1: I think it was a year in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we decided to do a regular were work week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because we were also like we didn't we didn't cut,

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Speaker 1: we didn't like, we didn't take we like worked until

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Speaker 1: like ten pm every day. Yeah, basically, damn, I'm forgetting

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Speaker 1: all this. Yeah that's crazy. We worked until ten pm

656
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: like every single day, no breaks at all. That's crazy. Yeah,

657
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: is that not crazy?

658
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,800
Speaker 2: It's a lot. That's a lot. Do you remember that

659
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: I did kind of like my brain might be trauma blocking,

660
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 2: but yeah, it's crazy. That's a lot of time. Yeah.

661
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 1: But I feel like it was just like we're just

662
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 1: kind of like, uh, I feel like we just kind

663
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 1: of like, I don't know, it's just like one thing

664
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: after another, you know.

665
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's like I feel like the thing of the

666
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 2: journey is you kind of get these little bumps along

667
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 2: the way. So like the first bump is like the

668
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 2: TikTok taking off, and then we just like go go, go,

669
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 2: go go, right, And I'm like Okay, like we've been

670
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: like grinding like crazy, working every weekend, it hasn't made

671
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 2: any money yet, and then feel bad. It didn't feel

672
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 2: it didn't feel it didn't feel bad, but like every

673
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 2: part of the journey would there would be something that

674
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 2: happens that like kind of like puts another like the

675
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 2: next wave of energy, you know, the next battery in

676
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: your back, and you kept going.

677
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,680
Speaker 1: Because it's like like like initially it was TikTok and

678
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: then we transition podcast was the next, yeah, then it

679
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 1: was podcasts, and then after podcasts we kind of lent

680
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: more to YouTube, and then it was like YouTube that

681
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 1: we started to do Facebook live stream that oh yeah,

682
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: no YouTube, Then it was live stream on YouTube, and

683
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: then we still like did Facebook. After that, it was

684
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 1: like we would have all of these different like things

685
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:41,520
Speaker 1: that we were moving to next, and it was definitely

686
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 1: like it was definitely a lot of work, but I

687
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,799
Speaker 1: don't know if it was ever like like I never

688
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: felt like I was sacrificing everything like anything.

689
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 2: It's you have this feeling of I am putting this

690
00:35:57,560 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 2: in because it's moving the needle for me, you know

691
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:06,240
Speaker 2: what I mean, Like you feel aligned with the purpose,

692
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 2: like for me. I. I was working in the Bay Area,

693
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 2: like in Silicon Valley before any of this content stuff,

694
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,319
Speaker 2: and my the whole reason I left was, I was like,

695
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:18,239
Speaker 2: I can't become a successful content I don't think I

696
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,799
Speaker 2: can be the best, most successful content creator I can

697
00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: be in the Bay Area. So I quit my job

698
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 2: and moved. I quit my job actually with no plan initially,

699
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 2: and I just badass. Yeah yeah, it was stupid in

700
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:35,240
Speaker 2: the moment, but like eventually and it was the idea

701
00:36:35,320 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 2: hit me like right after I'm like, oh, I should

702
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 2: create podcasts for other people.

703
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,239
Speaker 1: And then Johnny Johnny kind of did it again that

704
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,400
Speaker 1: will tell them about the whole like selling.

705
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, so I had I they had had

706
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 2: basically started this agency, and uh so I had this agency.

707
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 2: It worked, It worked pretty well, like I had, you know,

708
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 2: been working for you years and I had built like

709
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 2: good relationships with people and was able to get clients.

710
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 2: So I was like producing all of these different podcasts.

711
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 2: And then when Sam got hit up, he was Sam

712
00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 2: looped me into it because like, oh, it's a co

713
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: hosted show, do you have a coast in mind? And

714
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 2: he graciously brought me in.

715
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 1: But we were we were friends that had been talking

716
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:20,839
Speaker 1: for like a year, like every two weeks.

717
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 2: About podcasting and like everything else. Like we were we

718
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 2: were peers in the journey, like trying to help each

719
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 2: other grow. And then so, uh then we we finally

720
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,640
Speaker 2: get the get the show that was canceled, the show

721
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: that must not be named, and uh then I was like, well,

722
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 2: maybe I can sell this agency.

723
00:37:42,920 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 1: And they were like paying us decail enough enough to

724
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 1: enough to live, and we're like, oh, like you know,

725
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: this is like a big podcast network. We could we

726
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,200
Speaker 1: could really grow with them, and so and they they

727
00:37:53,239 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: don't cancel shows, and so we're like, oh, like we

728
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: could really lean into this. And John fully leaned in

729
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,560
Speaker 1: as you usually do. John's like a kind of like

730
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:06,360
Speaker 1: zero to one hundred and sold the cop.

731
00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 2: Sold the agency the same month that we started. Because

732
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 2: I was like I could either like you know, do

733
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 2: stuff like this and like go gross and businesses and whatever,

734
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: or I can be a content creator like I once again,

735
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,439
Speaker 2: I will never be the truest version of a content

736
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:23,200
Speaker 2: creator that I can be if I kind of like

737
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 2: half asset, yeah, glad to go all in.

738
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:29,919
Speaker 1: And then like a couple months later, they canceled it.

739
00:38:30,040 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: And like and now it's like we didn't have really

740
00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 1: any income, and so we were trying to figure out

741
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:37,920
Speaker 1: what to do and that's why we were like pitching

742
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: shows and then luckily like this thing came along. But

743
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: you know, like like we were we were like scraping by.

744
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: It was like I was I didn't have a car,

745
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 1: I biked everywhere. I was living in the same room

746
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 1: as Christian and so like I was basically like living

747
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,200
Speaker 1: on maybe like less than a thousand dollars a month.

748
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:03,399
Speaker 2: And I'm pretty sure we didn't pay ourselves for.

749
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,200
Speaker 1: A year year and Alas, yeah, yeah, it was like

750
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: we didn't pay ourselves for a long time.

751
00:39:09,360 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 2: Yeah. And then we just like, okay, well we'll cover

752
00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 2: just our rents. Yeah. And then it was we were

753
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 2: like racking up a little debt. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah,

754
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: we're acting. Were acted some debt to make this hap guys.

755
00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 2: But it all, it all o panned out, It all

756
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 2: panned out. I was actually telling Riley in the car

757
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 2: the other day, I don't know if if you felt this,

758
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 2: I'm curious to hear what your experience was. But after

759
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 2: the show is canceled, I felt like the greatest like

760
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,400
Speaker 2: loss of identity I had felt since I like left

761
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 2: home from high school, because it was like all the

762
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 2: stuff had happening and it felt like it was like

763
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 2: about to reach you know, the apex, and then it

764
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 2: just like all of it was gone, and I'm like,

765
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: I don't know who I am anymore.

766
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: Because it's like you had you had leaned all the

767
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 1: way into this thing.

768
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like you wake up every day and

769
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 2: you're like, I know I need to like work towards

770
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 2: something to figure something out, but I don't even know.

771
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 2: I don't even know where to. Like I felt so

772
00:40:00,360 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 2: confident like oh, this is exactly where I should go,

773
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 2: and then it's all gone. And then you're like, how

774
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 2: do you like find a direction of your life and

775
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 2: your identity?

776
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think for me, like because I had, I

777
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: feel like I never had a real job and it

778
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 1: was always like I was.

779
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: You worked on projects though that were like real projects,

780
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 2: but like not I mean like I got like a

781
00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 2: traditional nine to five, Yeah I did. I never had

782
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 2: a traditional nine to five, and so I felt like

783
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 2: I was just like the closest thing I had For

784
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,800
Speaker 2: six months, I had a job after college interviewing port stars,

785
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 2: right like that's was like the only real job I had,

786
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:42,560
Speaker 2: but super traditional, super yeah, super corporate coate but it

787
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: was like like the life story of like creators in

788
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:50,560
Speaker 2: the adult industry. Yeah, but like that was that was

789
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 2: like the only real job I had. And then I

790
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 2: got fired from that, so like 'or not fired. I

791
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 2: got let go because the company was folding, and so

792
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,280
Speaker 2: I felt like I was just kind of like jumping

793
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 2: from thing to thing. And something I always felt is like,

794
00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 2: as long as I just have something in the background going,

795
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 2: because I always had finding founders in the background going,

796
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,560
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, like I know this will lead to

797
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 2: something if I just keep like trucking on it. And

798
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 2: it just felt like it's been It just felt like

799
00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:26,880
Speaker 2: it maybe had to work eventually.

800
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:28,439
Speaker 1: But actually, you know, I don't know if I even

801
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 1: felt like it would have to work. I was just

802
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: like enjoying what I was doing. Yeah, and I'm like,

803
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: I don't really care. I don't really need to make

804
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 1: money from it because I just enjoy it, Like it

805
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: was just intrinsically valuable and so and I'm just like,

806
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,799
Speaker 1: if I do something intrinsically valuable enough, maybe something will come.

807
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,240
Speaker 1: But it didn't feel like I was sacrificing anything because

808
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: I had no other opportunities and I enjoyed doing what

809
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:51,680
Speaker 1: I was doing.

810
00:41:51,840 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, as long as you follow your own It's interesting

811
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 2: because it's like you could take this other path of like, oh,

812
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 2: I'll get this corporate job and like try to figure

813
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 2: out on the side, but like, ultimately the fastest way

814
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 2: to your like dream destination is by going directly at it,

815
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:13,319
Speaker 2: Like it's in my experience so far in life, and

816
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:17,279
Speaker 2: just like seeing other people like that is the way

817
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:18,239
Speaker 2: to do it, and.

818
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 1: Usually the takeoff period can be slow.

819
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,560
Speaker 2: The thing is, it's it's like it's like the quote

820
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 2: unquote fastest way there, but the outset of when you

821
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: start that journey, which is literally is unavoidable. You have

822
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 2: to begin it. It seems like the it's at the worst,

823
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 2: it's the worst possible setup because you have nothing going

824
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:39,399
Speaker 2: nothing and you.

825
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: Have to create momentum. And I'm also like, you know,

826
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,840
Speaker 1: I couldn't have done this without John because it's vice versa.

827
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: It's like it is so hard to create momentum, and

828
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: to create momentum alone is like herculean effort. Yeah, and

829
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 1: like I think something that's been really cool is like

830
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: as John and I have kind of worked together, been

831
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:03,120
Speaker 1: different moments where John has been leading in different moments

832
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: where I have been leading, and it's really like more

833
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 1: it's more emotional, I think than anything else. Just having

834
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: someone who is there with you in the thick of it,

835
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: and it's just like, all right, we're gonna be like

836
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna be like just trying for this and showing

837
00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: up every day and trying to have like fun doing it.

838
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,279
Speaker 1: But like I never really felt like it was I

839
00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 1: don't know, I know, like there's definitely moments where like

840
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: things like weren't working, but it never really felt like

841
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,040
Speaker 1: too scary because like John's there and we're working on it,

842
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: and we're like smart, we can do anything we put

843
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: our minds.

844
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 2: So we're both scared, but we're like, oh we have

845
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:43,600
Speaker 2: the other person. Yeah, it's it's it's it's and that

846
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 2: like leaning into each other makes it work. And I

847
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 2: would also say, in addition to the emotional thing, one

848
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 2: thing my mentor taught me before I left uh Northern

849
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 2: California was look for like one plus one equals five partnerships, Yeah,

850
00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:00,160
Speaker 2: which is like when when you're working with someone, it's

851
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, it's it's so much better than just

852
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 2: like the sum of two parts. Yeah, right, And I

853
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 2: feel like that. I feel like me and Sam is

854
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 2: like one plus one equals one hundred. Like it's just.

855
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 1: Any time that we spend any like because like we

856
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: have to record a lot for the show, and there's

857
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: like a differently operational stuff that that we have to do,

858
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: like with running something like this. But whenever we like

859
00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: get together and brainstorm, it's crazy. It's like the ideas

860
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: that we can come up with, and like there are

861
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: some things that we've been thinking about that you guys

862
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 1: haven't seen yet that we're like so excited to bring

863
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 1: to y'all. It's like, uh, it's gonna be awesome. It's

864
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: gonna be awesome. But like when we when we get

865
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 1: together and brainstorm, which I think is why one of

866
00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:47,799
Speaker 1: the reasons like this partnership works so well, Like we

867
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: really create like magic. Yes, So it's uh, it's exciting

868
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:55,399
Speaker 1: to have you guys on for the journey too.

869
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, So thanks thank you to Sam and you guys

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00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:03,319
Speaker 2: for like make this happened. Riley, like everyone everyone in

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Speaker 2: the family here working with us, you guys in Chat's

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Speaker 2: good dude.

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Speaker 1: Yeah good, but with that, get this next story.

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Speaker 2: Let's do it.

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Speaker 4: We got another thirty minutes and a lot of donations.

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Speaker 2: Ohnap, let's go. Wow, that's got crazy dang do start

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Speaker 2: start here? Yeah yeah, all right, Tina, and thanks for

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Speaker 2: the five bucks a tipl like functions not with PayPal

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Speaker 2: but with credit card. Good to know. Appreciate your team.

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Speaker 2: You're a real one. Billy Claire, thanks for the one

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Speaker 2: thirty four. I want unhinged Sam and John Energy. Please

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Speaker 2: ask and we will deliver aussy girl in our shop.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for a five gifted memberships. Let's grow growing to family, uh,

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Speaker 2: making it up as I go. Celebrating three months of membership.

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Speaker 2: Lurkers like the stream pretty please please do that. Radish,

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Speaker 2: thanks for celebrating five months of membership. Happy okay, versary,

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Speaker 2: let's get that got great term. Best way to celebrate

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Speaker 2: such an important milestone is with a fifteen hour stream.

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Speaker 1: Riley was thrown around the twenty four hour stream the

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Speaker 1: other day.

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Speaker 2: It was it was in the ether. Yeah, I can

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Speaker 2: make every minute a dollar. Oh that would be so chaotics,

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Speaker 2: so chaotic. Oh that would be like a true TikTok

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Speaker 2: life Artica Waterman. Thanks for the five bucks. Hello, Zeke

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Speaker 2: or lesson seizures by sending regular mile pulses of electric

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Speaker 2: energy to the brain via the vegas nerve. It's going

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Speaker 2: to happen soon. But love you guys is always in

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Speaker 2: forever and good luck to Zeke are our number one champion. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: thoughts and prayers absolutely, Bella, Bella West Berlin, thanks for

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Speaker 2: the twenty five bucks. Happy third anniversary. Here's to many more.

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Speaker 2: Woo and Princess Tika too, thanks for being a member

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Speaker 2: for seven months. Hello everyone, Bella and Zeke are good.

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Speaker 2: They want to see the whim Queen. But Zeke still

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Speaker 2: loves John Riley now and Sam. He still thinks you're weird.

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Speaker 1: I mean that is true weird.

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Speaker 2: You want to take it away.

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Speaker 1: Joseph Medela Burquis. Remember the cringey spill that dude.

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Speaker 2: People did not like that.

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Speaker 1: People did not like that. There still holds a special

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Speaker 1: place in my head. Yeah, I understed angry cheese it sorry,

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Speaker 1: been gone schooling the baby, have me rolling angry cheese it?

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Speaker 1: That was That was the first Okaya first Okay baby,

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Speaker 1: Okay baby, shout out to you angry cheese It whole

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Speaker 1: baby cheese. It is trucking along constant Eliza twenty five

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Speaker 1: of Verse three. Glad I found you all two years ago.

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Speaker 1: Keep up the great work. We will try Harvest Sprite ten.

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Speaker 1: Been a podcast listener since day one on Spotify. Your

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Speaker 1: growth has been incredible. Keep it up. Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: all the places y'all come from. Some people come from TikTok,

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Speaker 1: from Spotify, from Facebook, from YouTube, YouTube shorts, YouTube videos.

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Speaker 1: It's like all around.

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Speaker 2: And if anyone has listened to all of our episodes,

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Speaker 2: you're amazing and also a maniac. Yeah, a maniac that

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Speaker 2: I love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, also like like you know so much about it.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know more than we know about ourselves.

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Speaker 2: More true?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, true.

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Speaker 4: When I was a fan, I listened to all of

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Speaker 4: the episodes and I'm at Sam for the first time,

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Speaker 4: and Sam was like kind of telling me about like stuff.

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Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, this one action was like was it

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Speaker 4: your uh, your first acts in college? He was like yeah,

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Speaker 4: And then I'll talk about something else, and I was like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: wasn't that like when you went to uh, you know,

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Speaker 4: uh South America for two weeks?

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Speaker 2: And he was like, yeah, it was just like that.

941
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Speaker 2: It was crazy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Raley Riley. Riley knew all the deep he was

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Speaker 1: in there. Louisa Tusk, thanks for the six sixty four.

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Speaker 1: I've been watching you guys since you had a fake

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Speaker 1: background and John.

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Speaker 2: Said, oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: But this is my live. Also, I can't figure out

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Speaker 1: how to become a member, Luisa Tusk. Can someone in

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Speaker 1: the chat help Luisa tesk out how to be a member,

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Speaker 1: But there should be a joint member button on YouTube,

951
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Speaker 1: Miss Silvertaire Janine, thanks for the twenty five bucks tip

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Speaker 1: Thanks for sharing with us all. You should be very proud.

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Speaker 2: We are.

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Speaker 1: I'll pass it back to John yez Heer.

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Speaker 2: Peyton, thanks for the two bucks. Proud of you guys.

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Speaker 2: that work. Thank you Njay, Lady Biker, thanks for the

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Speaker 2: ten bucks day four of my gift to you kids

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Speaker 2: for birthday week. Let's dude love love that we get

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Speaker 1: We appreciate you guys.

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Speaker 2: So here Pistachio, thanks for the three months of membership.

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Speaker 2: Your hard work in friendship is so touch an awesome

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Speaker 2: you guys, You guys make me ward. I read that

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Speaker 2: you guys maybe want to start a project with my

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Speaker 2: bff of eighteen years. We are one plus one equals

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Speaker 2: on our shop. Thanks performance of membership like the stream

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Speaker 2: and happy show, birthday Okay, storytime. Thanks and Peter Ruiny

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Speaker 1: the room?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Oh Approoi. So we got some stickers that need

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Speaker 1: thanks for the twenty dollars sticker. Also new stick gang

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Speaker 2: And then we had some Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And Carla Woods thanks to the five gifted memberships and

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Speaker 1: also recent spear acquirer Kerry Patterson just became a member

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Speaker 1: of the Knights or actually did you? Because you are

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Speaker 1: a you are an axe Panderu thanks for becoming a

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Speaker 1: stick member thanks to the five bucks. Dunsbro has been

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Speaker 1: taken over by my son. So I made this account

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Speaker 1: so I won't miss the content much.

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Speaker 2: Of the would you make a new account just to

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Speaker 2: keep watching the dedication education.

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Speaker 1: I think and also became a oh shout out you

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Speaker 1: Panderoo new freaking stick membership and Billy Claire for the

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Speaker 1: winks for the one thirty four. If Sam is weird,

999
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Speaker 1: I don't want to be normal. Thanks. Thanks. As much

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Speaker 1: as I love the Sam hate, I all still love

1001
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Speaker 1: the Sam love.

1002
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Speaker 2: Just the same. That's how we likes it, all right,

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Speaker 2: are we ready? Yeah? Let's read?

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Speaker 1: Let's do it wait really quick?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

1006
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: M And Dean CV says, who remember the okop night episode?

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00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: Do you remember that the night's stream where we had

1008
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:19,720
Speaker 1: the spooky It was like a spooky live stream.

1009
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah.

1010
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: That was fun.

1011
00:52:21,760 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 2: That was the cursed episode in the best way possible.

1012
00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we still haven't released our cursed episode.

1013
00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 2: Oh yeah that that can never ever released. Well, it

1014
00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:30,799
Speaker 2: could be here.

1015
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: It was so funny, it was so funny, so unhinged.

1016
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Speaker 2: We can't do we can't we can't do.

1017
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Speaker 1: Why I'm sorry, I ever we make such fucked up jokes.

1018
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Speaker 2: It is what it is, all right, boys and girls,

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00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 2: let's dive in boom. My sister falsely accused our nanny

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Speaker 2: of cheating. The truth came out, and now my parents

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Speaker 2: are trying to win her back.

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Speaker 1: Went back, then nanny winning back?

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Speaker 2: Hello, folks, Uh so my family and I twenty four

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Speaker 2: mail aren't are not talking to my sister eighteen female

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Speaker 2: after she lied about our nanny or all pair that

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Speaker 2: we'll call Nora twenty female. M My family consists of

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Speaker 2: me the eldest, my little sister Cynthia, and my little

1028
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Speaker 2: brother Connor fifteen male and my little brother Jake, five male.

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Speaker 2: My parents Sharon forty seven female and my dad fifty male.

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Speaker 2: And by the way, this comes from throwaway host Kid

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Speaker 2: on the R slash Okay, Storytime, sep red It. So recently,

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Speaker 2: my family has welcomed Nora, an al pair from France.

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00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:34,440
Speaker 2: Norah is tall, slimmed African woman. My mom was getting

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Speaker 2: tired with managing the household chores, so she asked my

1035
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Speaker 2: dad for some help. She's a stay at home mom

1036
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 2: and some days she can't shower because she has to

1037
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Speaker 2: take care of everything. My parents are both lawyers, but

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00:53:44,360 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 2: my mom stopped working when she had Jake. Yeah, I mean, dude,

1039
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Speaker 2: four kids, That's that's a handful.

1040
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 1: It's a handful for sure.

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00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:54,240
Speaker 2: Toddler's and teenagers almost Oh god, that is a lethal combo.

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00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 2: Terrible dudes of moody teens suit ko Through a website,

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00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 2: they found Nora profile and message her. They were simply

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Speaker 2: asking her to take care of my brother drape my

1045
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Speaker 2: brother Jake, to drop him off, pick him up from school,

1046
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,960
Speaker 2: play with him, etcetera, etcetera. But Nora did way more

1047
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Speaker 2: than that, and she soon became a pillar in our

1048
00:54:13,200 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 2: family without asking. She started to cook every day, sometimes,

1049
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:18,760
Speaker 2: do the laundry, and go grocery shopping.

1050
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: Dude, W Nora's doing everything?

1051
00:54:22,400 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 2: W Nora. My mom and her dad told her that

1052
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Speaker 2: she didn't had to since it wasn't part of the arrangement,

1053
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,720
Speaker 2: but Nora made it clear that she had no problem

1054
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 2: with that. She also noticed how exhausted my mom constantly was,

1055
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Speaker 2: so she took over some of the chores to give

1056
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Speaker 2: her more time. Nora's a w sweetheart. My mom has

1057
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,280
Speaker 2: been happy, to say the least. Nora's cooking is amazing,

1058
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Speaker 2: and she's just very nice to be around. She's very

1059
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 2: bubbly and smiles all the time. Connor and her bonded

1060
00:54:47,600 --> 00:54:51,319
Speaker 2: as well, as they both have the same passions for photography. Jake,

1061
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 2: who usually is not good with people he doesn't know,

1062
00:54:54,200 --> 00:54:57,360
Speaker 2: adjusted to her well as she's been very motherly. My

1063
00:54:57,440 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 2: mom and dad started to do things again as a couple,

1064
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 2: and my mom has been back to the gym. Overall,

1065
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Speaker 2: everyone likes her except Cynthia.

1066
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Speaker 1: Why is Cynthia and I like her? M Cynthia's the

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Speaker 1: eighteen year old.

1068
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Speaker 2: Right, I believe so? I believe so. Nora has all

1069
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Speaker 2: of her weekends off, so she does pretty much everything

1070
00:55:17,400 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 2: she wants. Sometimes she stays home, but the rest of

1071
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 2: the time she's often joining her time. I'm currently in

1072
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Speaker 2: college studying finance and Cynthia is in her last year

1073
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 2: of high school, Connor's in middle school, and Jake is

1074
00:55:28,080 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 2: in preschool. Ever since my parents have shown how fond

1075
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 2: they are of Nora, Cynthia started to make snarky comments

1076
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Speaker 2: about her.

1077
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: Oh is like Cynthia, Like, Oh, Nora's replacing me as

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Speaker 1: a child or something. May they're getting Nora like. It's

1079
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: like almost like golden child syndrome for Nora.

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Speaker 2: It seems like that similar ages, possibly worse. How her

1081
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Speaker 2: skin is so dark, How her mouth is so big,

1082
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 2: how she would perm her hair, how she would perm

1083
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 2: her hair if it were a coily, How photography is stupid,

1084
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:03,920
Speaker 2: et cetera, et cetera.

1085
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: My got a little bit of racist, racist, and a

1086
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:09,600
Speaker 1: little bit of.

1087
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 2: Hate on photography. Dude, this is terrible. One's worse, which

1088
00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:17,839
Speaker 2: is very easy to tell. One time at dinner, Nora

1089
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:21,760
Speaker 2: made Cynthia's favorite meal for dinner. We all complimented her cooking,

1090
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:24,640
Speaker 2: but my sister complained, saying how it was not how

1091
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:27,080
Speaker 2: it was supposed to taste. My dad gave her a

1092
00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 2: dirty look and told it a hush, and my mom

1093
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:32,719
Speaker 2: smiled awkwardly and changed the subject. My mom asked Nora

1094
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:35,479
Speaker 2: what she's been up to during the weekend. Nora said

1095
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,720
Speaker 2: that she was taking a cinematic shot with her camera

1096
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:41,040
Speaker 2: to do a little video project. Connor was immediately excited

1097
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 2: and started asking about details. They were excitedly exchanging about

1098
00:56:44,600 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 2: the topic when Cynthia said that it was stupid, very

1099
00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 2: loudly stupid, stupid. I like pictures. Wow, the videos? Why

1100
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:54,479
Speaker 2: of your life?

1101
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? You know what's better than one picture? What thirty pictures?

1102
00:56:58,040 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: A second?

1103
00:56:58,600 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 2: Wow?

1104
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:00,319
Speaker 1: That's video? Baby?

1105
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:01,799
Speaker 2: What FPS? Is real life?

1106
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 1: Twenty four?

1107
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:03,920
Speaker 2: Really?

1108
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: Human? I see? Is it twenty four?

1109
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:07,719
Speaker 2: Then why don't we have thirty and sixty?

1110
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,440
Speaker 1: Well that like twenty four is like the minimum to

1111
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: have like fluid motion in the eye or something. That's

1112
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:16,280
Speaker 1: why it was originally twenty four, I believe, But you

1113
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: can the humans can see like sixty. Ish, I think

1114
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: it's sixty. I think it might be sixty. Twenty four

1115
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: is like fluid motion for the eye, but sixty is

1116
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:26,320
Speaker 1: like up to what we can see.

1117
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 2: Like it something like that. Love us no love the

1118
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:34,040
Speaker 2: FPS lore. They were excitedly exchanging. They were excitedly exchanging

1119
00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 2: about the topic when Cynthia set it up, Or said

1120
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:38,680
Speaker 2: that Connor told her that she only cared about her

1121
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:41,840
Speaker 2: stupid makeup and nothing else, so obviously she couldn't understand them.

1122
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 2: My sister started to be upset and asked Nora how

1123
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 2: she could afford such a pricey camera, as my parents

1124
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 2: don't pay her enough to be able to buy one.

1125
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:54,640
Speaker 2: Geez ooh. Nora calmly responded that she was paying for

1126
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,840
Speaker 2: her camera in four months, as she took a credit

1127
00:57:56,960 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 2: via a website. We live in Switzerland, and my parents

1128
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 2: pay her a thousand CHF I get Swiss currency per month.

1129
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,360
Speaker 2: Her camera costs seventeen hundred from what I understood, so

1130
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 2: it's almost like two months of paya, which.

1131
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: Is a lot, which is is she living? Probably living,

1132
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 1: which means like basically all of what she's.

1133
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 2: Paid food and housing are food and housing are covered.

1134
00:58:21,920 --> 00:58:24,920
Speaker 2: Cynthia asked if she was sure that's how she was paying,

1135
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:30,120
Speaker 2: and that she'd better not lie. Oh put an icu

1136
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 2: in the comments.

1137
00:58:31,200 --> 00:58:32,760
Speaker 1: She says she's stealing.

1138
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 2: Oh. I wasn't even thinking that, but that she's stealing

1139
00:58:37,520 --> 00:58:40,680
Speaker 2: it sounds like I thought it was getting closer to

1140
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 2: the title. Oh, we shall see. I don't know. Nora

1141
00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 2: frowned her eyebrows and asked what she was talking about.

1142
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:52,000
Speaker 2: Cynthia angry at Angrily at that point told Nora that

1143
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 2: she should use the money to fix her teeth and

1144
00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:59,040
Speaker 2: not buy some stupid equipment for something as stupid as photography.

1145
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: Dude, this child, you're jealous without saying you're jealous. Also,

1146
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: this isn't a child though, Yeah, this is an eighteen

1147
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:06,919
Speaker 1: year old woman.

1148
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 2: So now you can punch in the face but not

1149
00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 2: go to jail for hitting a minor.

1150
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 1: That's true.

1151
00:59:14,600 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 2: You can go to jail for hitting an adult.

1152
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 1: I guess it's yeah, it's legal to hit any adult, right,

1153
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: I can just throw logic an adult. No, you can't.

1154
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 1: It's called assault.

1155
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,320
Speaker 2: There's no there's no shot.

1156
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:32,680
Speaker 1: Uh, California is a stand no what California is a

1157
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 1: standard ground state.

1158
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 2: For physical defending yourself for like hand to hand combat,

1159
00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 2: I imagine, yeah, not for other things, not for not

1160
00:59:43,000 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 2: for gun and in the way you are defending yourself.

1161
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: It's true defending your honor.

1162
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 2: What do you mean your pride? Oh? Now I see, I.

1163
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:55,920
Speaker 1: Am saying it's assault. That's what I said. That just

1164
00:59:56,080 --> 00:59:59,360
Speaker 1: is on and little kids. Sam's birthday is on November

1165
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 1: twenty fourth, at wrong.

1166
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:06,360
Speaker 2: That is correct, that is wrong, but Norah's her face

1167
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 2: remained inexpressive. She simply excused herself and went up to

1168
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 2: her room upstairs. Classy, this child's act. This child needs

1169
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:20,200
Speaker 2: corporal punishment. My mom, it's legal. Hit kids, yeah, not

1170
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 2: hit those kids. My mom told her that she was

1171
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,760
Speaker 2: out of line and that she has to apologize because

1172
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:30,000
Speaker 2: Nora did nothing wrong for her to be so mean.

1173
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 2: Cynthia said that we were all blind, and that Norah

1174
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 2: was a bad person, and that and that she were

1175
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:39,240
Speaker 2: that we were only nice to wear it because and

1176
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 2: that she was only nice to worry because the paycheck

1177
01:00:41,480 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 2: was so good. My dad slammed the table and we

1178
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 2: all remained silent. He told Cynthia to shut up and

1179
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 2: that he was going to apologize for both this conversation

1180
01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 2: and what she said about the meal, otherwise she wouldn't

1181
01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 2: be receiving any pocket money from him anymore, and he

1182
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,520
Speaker 2: told her to go finish her meal alone in the kitchen.

1183
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 2: My sister did what she was told, and things were

1184
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 2: calm for a while. We still don't know what the

1185
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 2: big mystery accusation is.

1186
01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:08,440
Speaker 1: I feel like Cynthia is cooking on that. Though Cynthia

1187
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:11,800
Speaker 1: is like, I'm gonna wreck Nora's life.

1188
01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:14,800
Speaker 2: She's like, she's like, could I get her to confess? Maybe,

1189
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 2: like live on the spot if I just say something

1190
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 2: like you know what you did? Oh, admit it? And

1191
01:01:20,200 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 2: then she's like totally bluffing, and she's like, maybe I

1192
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 2: can get her to just be like, you're right, I

1193
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,000
Speaker 2: did blah blah blah. But she's literally done nothing.

1194
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:29,400
Speaker 1: I excited to see.

1195
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 2: About a month after that, when Nora was gone for

1196
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:35,040
Speaker 2: the weekend visiting her family, Cynthia gathered me and my

1197
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 2: parents into my dad's office. She told us that Nora

1198
01:01:38,440 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 2: was promiscuous in sleeping around during the weekends. My parents

1199
01:01:43,600 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 2: didn't believe her at first, but Nora pulled out her

1200
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:49,439
Speaker 2: phone showing pictures of Nora smiling to three different men.

1201
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:52,960
Speaker 1: All right, well, first of all, even if Norah is

1202
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:57,440
Speaker 1: sleeping with three different men on the weekend, what's it

1203
01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,480
Speaker 1: to you. Nora is a free woman and can do

1204
01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: as she pleases exactly. Let her freak flag fly on

1205
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 1: her face. I don't even care if they're all freaking

1206
01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 1: going at it. At the same time, Norah is allowed

1207
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 1: to do whatever she wants on her weekends. It's our weekends,

1208
01:02:11,680 --> 01:02:13,720
Speaker 1: the best of all film if she wants to can

1209
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:16,520
Speaker 1: film with her new camera. Yep, exactly thirty to sixty

1210
01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 1: frame second. The best of all nannies are pleased well

1211
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 1: in the fannies. Wait what the best of.

1212
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 2: All the nannies are pleased well in the fannies.

1213
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: That is something John said, happy, yeah, yeah, twenty four Yeah, yeah,

1214
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 1: you can pin that on me.

1215
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:33,080
Speaker 2: I'll accept it.

1216
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,600
Speaker 1: John loves a Nay, I stand by what I say.

1217
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 1: He loves he loves nanny fannys. That's a big thing, incorrect,

1218
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:46,280
Speaker 1: big thing, nanny fanny. So this is Kia says, smiling,

1219
01:02:46,360 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: such a slutty thing to do.

1220
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 2: Right. Literally, oh my god, she was smiling and talking

1221
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:55,960
Speaker 2: to something that's a Oh my god, that's a body.

1222
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:58,680
Speaker 2: So this is quite a shock to my parents as

1223
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 2: they were both devout Christians and they really felt disappointed

1224
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 2: and disgusted by Nora. She's using she Cynthia knows, she

1225
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 2: knows that she can twist her parents', you know, views

1226
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:13,120
Speaker 2: on the world to her own wamp. When she came

1227
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 2: back on Sunday, it was awkward. The dynamics had changed,

1228
01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 2: and my mom was eyeing her every time she stepped

1229
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:20,800
Speaker 2: outside of the house. To add to that, my sister

1230
01:03:20,920 --> 01:03:24,800
Speaker 2: was adding oil to the fire. According to her, Nora

1231
01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,320
Speaker 2: would tell her how she needed some more protection, or

1232
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 2: how the men that she was sleeping with were not

1233
01:03:30,880 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 2: were skilled or not. One weekend, Nora was smiling and

1234
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 2: went out in the afternoon. My mom gave her a

1235
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:41,479
Speaker 2: dirty look, but she didn't realize. Cynthia said that Nora

1236
01:03:41,680 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 2: was going to meet one of her lovers, and that

1237
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:48,080
Speaker 2: is why she is smiling so much. Dude, we still

1238
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 2: have no evidence other than a picture that literally she's

1239
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 2: just smiling. She's just like, oh, I'm seiya.

1240
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 1: I forgot who said it, but someone was like, yeah,

1241
01:03:57,920 --> 01:04:01,560
Speaker 1: she's raw dogging the air. Those teeth are just being

1242
01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:05,560
Speaker 1: shown for the whole world to see. Kidding me, put

1243
01:04:05,600 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: those things away.

1244
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 2: I could never imagine, you know, Oh, I give you

1245
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 2: a little peek.

1246
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 1: Sorry, guys, job in his natural habitat.

1247
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 2: Yes, I was gonna do it. Yes, congratulations, Yeah that's right,

1248
01:04:22,360 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 2: you got left hag and son. Okay, So my dad

1249
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 2: shook his head disappointed, and my mom said that it

1250
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 2: was disgusting too. No evidence or stop judging her. Two

1251
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 2: hours later, Nora came back with a much bigger smile, dude.

1252
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 2: Maybe because she's a happy person.

1253
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: Frea kid. Put it in your bands, Nora, come on.

1254
01:04:43,720 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 2: Right, put it away. Dang really. Connor asked why she

1255
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:50,520
Speaker 2: was smiling so much, and she pulled out her camera,

1256
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 2: showing him all the pictures that she had took for

1257
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 2: the past two hours. I thought it was gonna show

1258
01:04:55,600 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 2: him something else. Insert vine boom sound effect, boom. It's

1259
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 2: like the the Dwayne the Rock Johnson Like I can't

1260
01:05:04,400 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 2: do it.

1261
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

1262
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:10,240
Speaker 2: My mom raised her eyebrows and my dad looked confused.

1263
01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 2: My mom asked if that's all she had been doing

1264
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 2: all afternoon, and she said yes. She went on to

1265
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:20,120
Speaker 2: explain that that's what she does every weekend, she takes pics.

1266
01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:25,040
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe she's so happy because she's doing what she enjoys.

1267
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 1: Photography of her fanny, of that nanny fanny, of trees

1268
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:34,640
Speaker 1: and things.

1269
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 2: Of wood, of Yeah, exactly.

1270
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 1: I knew I would.

1271
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 2: I knew he was gonna take it. I knew he's

1272
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:46,240
Speaker 2: gonna take it in perverse it. Anyways, thank you. My

1273
01:05:46,360 --> 01:05:48,720
Speaker 2: dad asked if she had more pictures, and Norse smiled

1274
01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:51,600
Speaker 2: and said yes. She showed her pictures and her camera,

1275
01:05:51,680 --> 01:05:54,920
Speaker 2: and they were all dated. We we now have receipts

1276
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 2: clearly showing where we had zero receipts before other than

1277
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:02,560
Speaker 2: a picture of smiling. My mom's scoffed and my dad

1278
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 2: gave a scary look to my sister, who simply remained silent.

1279
01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 1: So like maybe the parents are suddenly thinking, oh, maybe

1280
01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:16,360
Speaker 1: Cynthia is lying. This untrustworthy person exactly was finally getting

1281
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:19,360
Speaker 1: her come up and sack. I think Cynthia is going

1282
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:20,800
Speaker 1: to pull something wacky though.

1283
01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:23,160
Speaker 2: She's she's gonna keep upping the antie.

1284
01:06:23,200 --> 01:06:23,960
Speaker 1: She's up that an.

1285
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:28,200
Speaker 2: Cynthia is a mini little Karen sure is, dude, That's

1286
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 2: how it starts. She'll keep this is how it starts.

1287
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:31,919
Speaker 1: This is how Karens are born.

1288
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 2: Why you have to throw them in jail.

1289
01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:38,600
Speaker 1: Early or just you know, hit him like John John likes.

1290
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 2: He said capital punishment. You said hit huh murder?

1291
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:44,960
Speaker 1: He said corporal punishment.

1292
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:46,440
Speaker 2: Which he said, he said lethal injection.

1293
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I leave the capital punishment. There we go, all

1294
01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,480
Speaker 1: Karen should be lethally injected.

1295
01:06:51,520 --> 01:06:56,000
Speaker 2: Now that's something I can't stand behind John for president

1296
01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 2: oh Man. So my dad then apologized and asked Nora

1297
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 2: if despite the fact that it was the weekend, she

1298
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:05,080
Speaker 2: would mind going to the grocery store. Nora said it

1299
01:07:05,120 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 2: was no big deal, and he texted her a very

1300
01:07:06,840 --> 01:07:10,040
Speaker 2: long grocery list. My dad then asked Connor to watch

1301
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 2: Jake and my mom and my mom Connor, Connor and

1302
01:07:15,800 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 2: Jake are the two younger brothers fifteen and five, and

1303
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:22,440
Speaker 2: then took my mom, me and my sister and went

1304
01:07:22,440 --> 01:07:26,720
Speaker 2: into his office. My dad immediately asked for the truth,

1305
01:07:27,600 --> 01:07:30,560
Speaker 2: as my sister originally said that every single weekend Nora

1306
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 2: would go out and pretend to take a bunch of

1307
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 2: pictures and screw a bunch of different men. She named

1308
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 2: places and even said that Norah told her that with pride.

1309
01:07:39,520 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 2: My sister started to defend herself, saying that Nora could

1310
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 2: change the timelines on her camera and that proved nothing. Yeah,

1311
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 2: what how about you bring any any shred of evidence,

1312
01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:54,520
Speaker 2: unlike Noura has given all this evidence of timestamp photos.

1313
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 2: Dude on on on a moment's notice. Conspiracy theory. Conspiracy theory,

1314
01:08:00,080 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 2: THEA is.

1315
01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:07,200
Speaker 1: Going to make some deep fakes of Nora if she

1316
01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:10,640
Speaker 1: was if she if she was really being an evil genius,

1317
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 1: she would she would take the photos on the camera

1318
01:08:13,880 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 1: make deep fakes.

1319
01:08:14,600 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 2: You know what's funny when you start your conspiracyy When

1320
01:08:17,160 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 2: you started your conspiracy theory, I thought you were going

1321
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 2: to say that she's doing what she's accusing Nora, and

1322
01:08:24,200 --> 01:08:24,679
Speaker 2: that's where.

1323
01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 1: She's getting a classic of projecting projection. I don't think

1324
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:36,639
Speaker 1: anyone could like her that much to want this is true,

1325
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:40,519
Speaker 1: to be in close proximity to this is so factual.

1326
01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:43,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is what what what partner would want that

1327
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:47,559
Speaker 2: no one? Well, my mom called it bs and they

1328
01:08:47,600 --> 01:08:50,599
Speaker 2: pushed her to say the truth. She had made everything up,

1329
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:54,680
Speaker 2: and my dad lost it. He absolutely hated liars and

1330
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 2: he couldn't cal him down. When Nora came home, we

1331
01:08:57,160 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 2: all had dinner, and when Jake and Connor went to

1332
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:02,280
Speaker 2: bed went to bed. My dad was embarrassed but asked

1333
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,759
Speaker 2: her to stay. They made Cynthia confessed that she had lied,

1334
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 2: and Nora was visibly sad. Dude, this poor woman has

1335
01:09:10,479 --> 01:09:16,600
Speaker 2: had to deal with so much not nosed, racist, idiot, stupid.

1336
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:20,600
Speaker 1: Brat, and it like literally it's all because Cynthia is

1337
01:09:20,680 --> 01:09:22,839
Speaker 1: just jealous of how great Nora.

1338
01:09:22,760 --> 01:09:26,719
Speaker 2: Is, dude, and her photography school and her photography be better.

1339
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:28,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, just be better, just be greater, Just have that

1340
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:31,080
Speaker 1: nanny Fanny. Come on, have that the dunky.

1341
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 2: Then listen if she if she had the nanny Fanny,

1342
01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 2: I don't know if she would have these issues. No, no,

1343
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 2: she would have enough self worth, enough enough movie going around.

1344
01:09:40,080 --> 01:09:42,400
Speaker 2: My mom was embarrassed, and my dad was so ashamed

1345
01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 2: he couldn't even look her in the eyes. They made

1346
01:09:44,840 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 2: Cynthia apologize and Nora didn't utter a word and went

1347
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:50,360
Speaker 2: to her room. My dad said some pretty harsh words

1348
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:52,280
Speaker 2: to her that night, and my sister cried a lot.

1349
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 2: I told her, yeah, honestly, I mean she she she

1350
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 2: did the crime, got to do the time. I told

1351
01:09:58,360 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 2: her that she was a liar and that she deserved

1352
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 2: should be grounded. I suggested my mom to prevent her

1353
01:10:02,920 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 2: from seeing that concert that she wanted to go to

1354
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:08,439
Speaker 2: so badly, and she called me an a hole for that.

1355
01:10:08,920 --> 01:10:11,200
Speaker 2: She then went on its high rate about how I

1356
01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:13,719
Speaker 2: had a crush on Nora and that's why I wasn't

1357
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:18,679
Speaker 2: taking her side, dude. She then just screamed, waita wait,

1358
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:20,679
Speaker 2: why well she wasn't taking her sister's side.

1359
01:10:22,120 --> 01:10:25,040
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, wait wait, saying that the dad has

1360
01:10:25,080 --> 01:10:26,960
Speaker 1: a crush on who has a crush on Nora?

1361
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 2: That Opi the daughter? Oh yeah, I had a crush

1362
01:10:32,040 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 2: had a crush on Nora, although I think Opie is

1363
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:41,719
Speaker 2: a woman and given their religious that's also yet another

1364
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 2: thing of like her. The classic example of her like

1365
01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:48,559
Speaker 2: using her her parents mindset to try to like twist

1366
01:10:48,640 --> 01:10:50,759
Speaker 2: a lie to hurt the person even worse.

1367
01:10:51,760 --> 01:10:55,599
Speaker 1: Huh. Also, little kids, are you like chat gpting all

1368
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 1: these things? Okay? Story time is that the hosts have

1369
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 1: a secret of writing down the funniest moments or inside

1370
01:11:02,240 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 1: jokes from each episode in a shared journal. They occasionally

1371
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:06,599
Speaker 1: revisit it during recording.

1372
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:10,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, this this very much sounds like the AI description

1373
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 2: of the show.

1374
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:12,600
Speaker 1: That's so funny.

1375
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:13,799
Speaker 2: Giving out false information.

1376
01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:16,080
Speaker 1: Earlier they were a lot of false information.

1377
01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 2: It would be funny to react to our own false information.

1378
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:23,200
Speaker 1: We need to react to our old videos.

1379
01:11:23,439 --> 01:11:24,880
Speaker 2: We really do, We really do.

1380
01:11:25,280 --> 01:11:31,560
Speaker 4: John has a two inchure. That's the kind of reactions

1381
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 4: you guys would get if we did that.

1382
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:38,280
Speaker 2: What you mean the kind of like, like, uh, I

1383
01:11:38,800 --> 01:11:44,080
Speaker 2: just gave out false information. That was a reaction. Thanks

1384
01:11:44,160 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 2: Riley making the show better every day?

1385
01:11:46,840 --> 01:11:48,599
Speaker 1: Oh well, what I call producing.

1386
01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:52,000
Speaker 2: That's what I call producing. So she then screams, and

1387
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:54,599
Speaker 2: I just wanted time and to have a shot at

1388
01:11:54,800 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 2: fing the or nanny. My mom had enough and slapped her.

1389
01:12:05,720 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 2: Oh that's corporal. Well that's a little too so I

1390
01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:15,760
Speaker 2: was joking, she said. Uh. My sister was shocked, and

1391
01:12:15,800 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 2: Cynthia went to her room. She said that she has

1392
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 2: She said that she was our family and Norah was

1393
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 2: nothing but a stranger. My mom stopped listening, and my

1394
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:26,240
Speaker 2: dad told her to shut up before he threw all

1395
01:12:26,280 --> 01:12:28,919
Speaker 2: of her makeup in the trash and sold her collection

1396
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 2: of designer bags. Dude. My sister told me that I

1397
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:34,679
Speaker 2: was a weak man. Okay, oh he's not a female,

1398
01:12:34,720 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 2: My bad, and that it was pathetic to have a

1399
01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:39,920
Speaker 2: crush on a maid who's never going to be enough

1400
01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 2: with me anyway, who's never going to be with me anyways.

1401
01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 2: My dad had enough and took her phone. She's now

1402
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 2: grounded for the next four months, a whole season.

1403
01:12:50,720 --> 01:12:53,720
Speaker 1: What does that? What does that even mean? I don't

1404
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:55,439
Speaker 1: even know what it means to be grounded.

1405
01:12:55,560 --> 01:12:58,840
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever technically been grounded, but what yeah,

1406
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 2: I don't think so never.

1407
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,479
Speaker 1: I I was I was not grounded. I just wasn't

1408
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:04,559
Speaker 1: allowed to do anything.

1409
01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:05,920
Speaker 2: That's what grounding is.

1410
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:07,640
Speaker 1: No, just my whole life.

1411
01:13:08,960 --> 01:13:15,040
Speaker 2: Like so, so you've always been ground Actually I was

1412
01:13:15,040 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 2: never let out dag Sam started on hard mode. Yeah,

1413
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:20,599
Speaker 2: and he stayed there.

1414
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 1: It was only in It was only in college that

1415
01:13:24,479 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 1: I got freedom. Wasn't allowed to hang.

1416
01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:31,800
Speaker 2: Out when we went full soft modest. Yeah, oh my god.

1417
01:13:32,040 --> 01:13:33,840
Speaker 1: My parents never let me go over at any of

1418
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:34,759
Speaker 1: my friend's houses.

1419
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 2: You were going to sleep with the dog?

1420
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:41,200
Speaker 1: I wasn't able to. I wasn't able to have sleepovers

1421
01:13:41,240 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 1: in high school?

1422
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 2: No TV, you low key were grounded for for full life.

1423
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:47,719
Speaker 2: Wait when'd you get your first girlfriend?

1424
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:52,800
Speaker 1: Seventeen? I was only able to just go to her place.

1425
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:56,840
Speaker 2: Yeah that's that's not that Yeah.

1426
01:13:56,479 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 1: But only because they were family friends.

1427
01:13:59,600 --> 01:14:01,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean yeah you were. I mean you

1428
01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:01,840
Speaker 2: were allowed to go.

1429
01:14:02,040 --> 01:14:04,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I wasn't allowed to go to any of

1430
01:14:04,200 --> 01:14:05,479
Speaker 1: my other friend's place.

1431
01:14:06,040 --> 01:14:07,720
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, could you sleep over? No?

1432
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep over it and can just visit the house?

1433
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:11,160
Speaker 2: No?

1434
01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:15,679
Speaker 1: I could. I could barely do that, right, I could

1435
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 1: barely do.

1436
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:19,679
Speaker 2: What about Sophia? Could she go to her friend's house? Yes?

1437
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:26,519
Speaker 2: Glassic baby dude, listen, firstborn siblings.

1438
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:28,920
Speaker 1: Dude, it built different. It was tough different.

1439
01:14:29,040 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 4: My curfew was like ten o'clock every night, and I

1440
01:14:31,920 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 4: lived and I went to school an hour away from

1441
01:14:34,479 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 4: where I lived.

1442
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:38,640
Speaker 1: Oh ten o'clock when you were going to college.

1443
01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:41,720
Speaker 2: Whenever I was going to high school. Oh yeah, and

1444
01:14:41,840 --> 01:14:42,680
Speaker 2: slash college.

1445
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 1: Damn, ten o'clock had so late.

1446
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I had to leave everywhere, like around the

1447
01:14:47,160 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 2: hind Oh so late.

1448
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:52,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude. I had to be home like by like eight. Dude,

1449
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 1: I wasn't at swimming or piano. I had to be home.

1450
01:14:55,400 --> 01:14:56,759
Speaker 2: You had to be home before dark.

1451
01:14:57,439 --> 01:14:57,679
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1452
01:14:57,800 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 2: And senior year, I just started staying out till like

1453
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 2: three or four am.

1454
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 1: And you're a wild You're a wild child.

1455
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 2: My parents never shared such wild But ever since that happened,

1456
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:12,839
Speaker 2: Nora has been completely ignoring Cynthia, and my parents did nothing. Again.

1457
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 2: Connor heard what happened, and now he's angry with Cynthia too.

1458
01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:19,439
Speaker 2: He told her that she wishes Nora was his sister

1459
01:15:19,640 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 2: instead of her.

1460
01:15:21,760 --> 01:15:23,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, you kind of deserve it, right,

1461
01:15:23,920 --> 01:15:24,800
Speaker 1: you deserve it.

1462
01:15:25,120 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 2: I also heard Nora crying in her room. Oh my god.

1463
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 2: She was speaking French. So I didn't understand what she

1464
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:33,759
Speaker 2: was saying, so I guess she was on the phone.

1465
01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 2: By the way, you can be on the line with

1466
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 2: us every weekday Live three pmpst tapper profile and join us.

1467
01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 2: I'll update if there's something new. As Cynthia is now

1468
01:15:46,000 --> 01:15:49,320
Speaker 2: in her room complaining every day. My parents tried to

1469
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:51,479
Speaker 2: get the relationship with Nora back to what it was,

1470
01:15:51,600 --> 01:15:54,439
Speaker 2: but she was simply cordial to them. She's nice and

1471
01:15:54,479 --> 01:15:57,559
Speaker 2: bubbly to Jake and Connor, but that's it. She told

1472
01:15:57,560 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 2: me that she was hurt that I didn't say anything.

1473
01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 2: She also asked if I did indeed have a crush

1474
01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:06,240
Speaker 2: on her, and I simply remained silent and my face

1475
01:16:06,280 --> 01:16:07,200
Speaker 2: turned red.

1476
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:09,439
Speaker 1: Oh, pie's a crowd.

1477
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 2: He does have a CRUs probably super close in age.

1478
01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 1: Oh wait, bro, bro, bro, she's French and she's a maid.

1479
01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:27,040
Speaker 1: Uh oh oh no, look up French maid costume.

1480
01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 2: Right here. So to wrap us all up, am I

1481
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 2: the a hole for not taking my sister's side? That

1482
01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:43,439
Speaker 2: was the first one? A guy, that's funny. Those aren't

1483
01:16:43,520 --> 01:16:44,280
Speaker 2: very scandalous.

1484
01:16:44,400 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 1: Oh there we go, he says Riley put French made man.

1485
01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:49,320
Speaker 2: That's what I thought you wanted.

1486
01:16:50,120 --> 01:16:57,200
Speaker 1: Just look up French made costume. Oh my gosh, why.

1487
01:16:57,720 --> 01:17:02,880
Speaker 2: Those are a lot more scandalous. Dude, we can't. We're

1488
01:17:02,920 --> 01:17:04,679
Speaker 2: gonna get demonetize. That's true.

1489
01:17:04,880 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 1: That's your fault, Riley, right, what you did this.

1490
01:17:08,200 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 2: Coming out of your check buddy.

1491
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:12,200
Speaker 1: I did not ask you to look that up. I

1492
01:17:12,240 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 1: would never ask to look up something so raunchy.

1493
01:17:15,920 --> 01:17:18,439
Speaker 2: Every time Riley gets us to monetize, it just gets

1494
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:22,479
Speaker 2: docked from game. We haven't got paid.

1495
01:17:23,920 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why we have that giant box outside shipping

1496
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:28,839
Speaker 1: Riley awa.

1497
01:17:29,200 --> 01:17:32,160
Speaker 2: Buy a new couching of riley new home. Well, first

1498
01:17:32,240 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 2: let's answer the question.

1499
01:17:33,640 --> 01:17:39,640
Speaker 1: Uh, that was too smooth for falling in love with

1500
01:17:39,920 --> 01:17:43,639
Speaker 1: a French maid or not taking other sisters. Sorry French

1501
01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:48,120
Speaker 1: nanny Sarah and says Sam, it's recording.

1502
01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 2: Wait wait someone was the french maid before.

1503
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 1: I? Uh. April Hendrick says, I was a french maid

1504
01:17:57,040 --> 01:17:57,639
Speaker 1: senior year.

1505
01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 2: What does a French maid even mean? Is it just

1506
01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 2: a made in France? And that's like the outfits they

1507
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:05,280
Speaker 2: were they were. I feel like all the e're like

1508
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:08,280
Speaker 2: in like London, you know, like the Little Queen's Nannies.

1509
01:18:09,280 --> 01:18:11,120
Speaker 1: I think it just I think it just got like,

1510
01:18:11,800 --> 01:18:13,880
Speaker 1: uh sexualized over time.

1511
01:18:14,120 --> 01:18:17,719
Speaker 2: It's everything French. Yeah, every French girls wear the French

1512
01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 2: maid dress.

1513
01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:22,920
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, the French are sexual beings. It's it's truly

1514
01:18:23,160 --> 01:18:27,120
Speaker 1: horned up. Twenty four have always offering you cigarettes, trying

1515
01:18:27,160 --> 01:18:28,599
Speaker 1: to make you smoke too much.

1516
01:18:28,920 --> 01:18:30,479
Speaker 2: Got a baguett in their left hand.

1517
01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 1: Yep, all they eat all they eat all cigarettes. Yeah,

1518
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 1: cigarettes and baguetts.

1519
01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:38,160
Speaker 2: So that's a good song.

1520
01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:41,719
Speaker 1: Title band name Cigrettes and buguet.

1521
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 2: I agree, that's pretty fire, actually, dude, cigarettes and baguett. Well,

1522
01:18:45,439 --> 01:18:48,479
Speaker 2: they had that band called cigarettes after sex. So cigarettes and.

1523
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:53,720
Speaker 1: Baguettes, Cigarettes and baguetts, the corvettes and guests. I lived

1524
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:55,800
Speaker 1: my life a.

1525
01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 2: Cook cook and when things get too intense, I go

1526
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:05,240
Speaker 2: back to my but get s cigarettees.

1527
01:19:08,960 --> 01:19:12,519
Speaker 1: Is op the a hole? Uh? No? No, you know

1528
01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:15,679
Speaker 1: who is the a hole? Who Cynthia to the massive

1529
01:19:15,720 --> 01:19:18,680
Speaker 1: a hole? And also the poise that Nora has to

1530
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 1: have to like endure all this and still be in

1531
01:19:21,960 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 1: the house. I mean, like imagine not being able to

1532
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,960
Speaker 1: really have like your own space too far away from

1533
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:30,680
Speaker 1: all this commotion you can't leave. Yeah, OPI is not

1534
01:19:30,840 --> 01:19:32,840
Speaker 1: the a hole? Do you think OPI actually is?

1535
01:19:32,840 --> 01:19:35,479
Speaker 2: A crush on I think actually I think that I

1536
01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:38,439
Speaker 2: think Cynthia picked up on it. Cynthy, it's just like

1537
01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:40,920
Speaker 2: grabbing these things, so you used to her advantage. Right,

1538
01:19:42,600 --> 01:19:45,439
Speaker 2: here's the real question. What do the parents do about Cynthia?

1539
01:19:45,560 --> 01:19:48,759
Speaker 2: You are You are the parents, Cynthia is your child.

1540
01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:55,960
Speaker 1: How do you solve a problem like Cynthia? I think, uh,

1541
01:19:56,560 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 1: get a couch, take the couch out, put Cynthia in

1542
01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 1: the box at the couch.

1543
01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:03,679
Speaker 2: No, make Cynthia make the couch.

1544
01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 1: Make Cynthia make the couch together, and then live in

1545
01:20:06,520 --> 01:20:09,639
Speaker 1: the box. I mean, like I think, like, really, all

1546
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 1: you can do is ground her.

1547
01:20:13,680 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 2: I mean, like I be something more man like. It

1548
01:20:16,439 --> 01:20:19,879
Speaker 2: doesn't want your corporal punishment. No, no, not corporal capital punishment.

1549
01:20:20,000 --> 01:20:20,960
Speaker 2: But there we go.

1550
01:20:21,400 --> 01:20:24,840
Speaker 1: But like the must be something more lethal injection.

1551
01:20:25,360 --> 01:20:28,839
Speaker 2: But like there has to be a method of it's

1552
01:20:29,280 --> 01:20:32,320
Speaker 2: how can you go? How can you do the disappointed thing? Here?

1553
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:33,960
Speaker 2: What I'm trying to figure out.

1554
01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:35,920
Speaker 1: Like what do you actually say to Cynthia? Oh, like

1555
01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:38,599
Speaker 1: you're like this is real advice we're giving now, Okay, yes.

1556
01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:43,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, how do you get the I'm disappointed feeling?

1557
01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 1: Okay? So basically Cynthia is a grown adult and is

1558
01:20:47,280 --> 01:20:50,639
Speaker 1: causing all this rackus. I think it's like, hey, you

1559
01:20:51,880 --> 01:20:55,360
Speaker 1: are I actually think you get curious first. Hey, like,

1560
01:20:55,560 --> 01:20:59,320
Speaker 1: I've noticed you acting out against Nora. Can you tell

1561
01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:01,400
Speaker 1: me a little bit of about like what you're feeling

1562
01:21:01,600 --> 01:21:04,679
Speaker 1: and why you're feeling it cause, because the root cause

1563
01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:08,880
Speaker 1: is probably because she's feeling insecure about Nora being in

1564
01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:11,640
Speaker 1: the house. Maybe she feels replaced by Nora. Maybe she

1565
01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:15,200
Speaker 1: feels like she has to compete because they're similar ages,

1566
01:21:15,439 --> 01:21:19,200
Speaker 1: and Norah's like a woman, and the parents are favoring

1567
01:21:19,200 --> 01:21:22,320
Speaker 1: her as maybe more than their own daughter. Like, I

1568
01:21:22,360 --> 01:21:25,080
Speaker 1: think you have to get curious first to understand what

1569
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:29,040
Speaker 1: is this bad behavior. Once you get curious and understand

1570
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 1: the root cause of what's going on, then after that

1571
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:35,680
Speaker 1: I think you can kind of like, uh, be a

1572
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 1: little bit more, not like necessarily bring the hammer down,

1573
01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 1: but say like, like, hey, do you realize what you're

1574
01:21:45,360 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 1: doing is not solving the problem that you have? Right,

1575
01:21:47,479 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 1: It's not solving this this issue of self worth? Do

1576
01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:51,600
Speaker 1: you have an issue of self worth? Like, here are

1577
01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:53,800
Speaker 1: the things that we can do to address it. There

1578
01:21:53,840 --> 01:21:56,240
Speaker 1: are consequences for reactions, so we are going to be

1579
01:21:56,280 --> 01:21:58,680
Speaker 1: taking away some privileges, but we also want to make

1580
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 1: sure that you have this self confidence you need to

1581
01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 1: not be a bitch.

1582
01:22:02,520 --> 01:22:04,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, fact.

1583
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:07,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't use that. Sophia would be very mad me

1584
01:22:07,760 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 1: for being using the B word. I shouldn't use the

1585
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:12,760
Speaker 1: B word, but yeah, I think that's what I would say.

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01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:16,599
Speaker 2: Same. Yeah, I agree, but that's the end of the story.