WEBVTT - Switching Gears (with Allyson Felix and Vanessa Williams)

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<v Speaker 1>You and Me Both is a production of I Heart Radio.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Hillary Clinton and this is You and Me Both.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when you're well known for doing one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not always easy to put yourself out there and

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<v Speaker 1>try something else. Stay in your lane, people tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, look, I've heard that more than a few times.

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<v Speaker 1>Certainly when I was first lady working on healthcare, or

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<v Speaker 1>when I decided to run for the Senate myself. No

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<v Speaker 1>first lady had ever done that before. Even writing a

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<v Speaker 1>political thriller with my friend Louise Penny, or becoming a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast host. All of those things ruffled some feathers of

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<v Speaker 1>those who didn't think I was in the right lane. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>today I'm talking with two incredible women who did switch

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<v Speaker 1>gears and change lanes in their lives and careers. Later

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<v Speaker 1>we'll hear actor, singer, author, advocate and former Miss America

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<v Speaker 1>Vanessa Williams. But to start and rite in time for

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<v Speaker 1>the Winter Olympics, I'm talking to track and field superstar

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<v Speaker 1>Alison Felix. Last summer in Tokyo, Allison competed in her

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<v Speaker 1>fifth Olympic Games, where she won two medals, making her

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<v Speaker 1>the most decorated American track and field athlete in Olympic

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<v Speaker 1>history with nineteen medals total. She's also the most decorated

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<v Speaker 1>athlete regardless of gender in World Athletics championship history. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Allison announced that those Olympics were her last, but at

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<v Speaker 1>age thirty five, she is not slowing down. In addition

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<v Speaker 1>to her incredible athletic achievements, Allison also started Safe, a

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<v Speaker 1>woman's lifestyle sneaker company, and she wore the shoes when

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<v Speaker 1>she competed last summer. She's also switched gears to become

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<v Speaker 1>a vocal advocate for black maternal health and for women athletes.

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<v Speaker 1>After experiencing trauma with the birth of her daughter, Cammy,

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<v Speaker 1>who's now three. I was so delighted to have the

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<v Speaker 1>chance to speak with her for this podcast. Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? Oh? I'm great, And I gotta start

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<v Speaker 1>by saying, how is that adorable daughter of yours? He

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<v Speaker 1>is doing well. She is thriving, happy three year old,

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<v Speaker 1>running all over the place, keeping me super busy. Um

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, life with her, it's going great. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you've done so many amazing things. I want to go

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<v Speaker 1>back though, to the early days, because I read recently

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<v Speaker 1>that you didn't actually start running track until you were

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<v Speaker 1>in ninth grade, which you know it's really young, but

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<v Speaker 1>still you know, a little bit later than some. And

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<v Speaker 1>how did you get into it? What motivated you to

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<v Speaker 1>actually get out there and start to run? What kind

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<v Speaker 1>of kid were you? Well? I was a really active

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<v Speaker 1>kid in like my neighborhood and my community, and my

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<v Speaker 1>parents did an awesome job of keeping us really busy.

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<v Speaker 1>But it wasn't until high school that I actually found track.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're absolutely right as a as a runner and

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<v Speaker 1>for an Olympian, that is a later start. And I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just stumbled into it, you know. I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to high school and so I was brand new

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<v Speaker 1>school and I didn't know anybody, and my family encouraged

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<v Speaker 1>me to go out for the track team. Um My

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<v Speaker 1>brother was at a different school and he was running

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<v Speaker 1>track and he was doing really well, and so they thought,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, might have some potential there. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>went out to meet friends and I did. I met

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<v Speaker 1>my best girlfriends that you know are still that to

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<v Speaker 1>this day. But I also found the sport and I

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<v Speaker 1>fell in love with it and I am like this,

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<v Speaker 1>this was my thing. You know, the thrill of competition

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, just having a sensible longing and it

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<v Speaker 1>taught me so many lessons and so I'm so grateful

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<v Speaker 1>that I did find it. You know, that word belonging

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<v Speaker 1>is one that I've been thinking a lot about. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>has to have some place or people or passion that

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<v Speaker 1>they feel gives them that sense of belonging well. And

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<v Speaker 1>then two thousand three, Track and Field News named you

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<v Speaker 1>the high school Athlete of the Year. Yeah, what did

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<v Speaker 1>that feel like? You know, it was kind of surreal

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<v Speaker 1>because it was like I had just started running, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of years prior, and here things are happening quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>And I felt like it was a kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>turning point at that time because that's when I heard like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the Olympics are the next year, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, is that a possibility for me? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's I didn't realize that, you know, you could

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<v Speaker 1>go to the Olympics, you could make a career, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>out of being a runner. And so it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like a whole new world was open for me.

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<v Speaker 1>And who did you turn to for advice? So here

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<v Speaker 1>you are, Uh, You're getting named high school athlete of

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<v Speaker 1>the Year, and somebody says well, you know, the Olympics

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<v Speaker 1>are next year. How did you think that through? That's

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<v Speaker 1>such a big decision for a teenager, it is. It

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<v Speaker 1>was huge, and I'm so grateful because my parents, although

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't know anything about the sport um, they were

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<v Speaker 1>really committed to me and they were present. And I

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<v Speaker 1>always tell you know, parents who are involved with their

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<v Speaker 1>kids in sports, you know, the best way you can

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<v Speaker 1>support them is to show up. You know, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be this super hard on your kids to

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<v Speaker 1>specialize and do all these things. But my parents, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter if it was a really small meat or

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<v Speaker 1>a big one, they were there. So when it came

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<v Speaker 1>time to make a lot of decisions or think about

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<v Speaker 1>the future, they were the typical parents that really thought

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<v Speaker 1>things through, and we talked to people we knew, and

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<v Speaker 1>we tried to understand what was going on. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think the biggest thing was that I had that support system,

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<v Speaker 1>and I had them in my corner, you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>I could lean on them. And so you tried out

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<v Speaker 1>for the Olympics, you made the American team and mettled

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<v Speaker 1>in the two thousand for Olympics. Obviously, I'm talking to

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<v Speaker 1>you now when you are the most highly decorated metal

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<v Speaker 1>Olympic athlete and track and field ever. But what was

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<v Speaker 1>that first time like going to the Olympics. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>everything was so new and exciting. I remember walking and

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<v Speaker 1>opening ceremonies, and I was meeting people that had idolized,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, growing up, and it just felt like a dream,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and a bit overwhelming. But at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it lit a fire for me. It was like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this is what the Olympics are about, and if I

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<v Speaker 1>really want to get to the next level and be

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<v Speaker 1>successful on the stage, it's going to require a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of dedication, a lot of sacrifice. We're taking a quick break.

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<v Speaker 1>Stay with us. You've also suffered setbacks in your career.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, in you you tore your hamstring. You couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>compete for I think it was like nine or ten months,

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<v Speaker 1>right and then right before the Summer Olympics you sprained

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<v Speaker 1>your ankle. But you still competed and you still want

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<v Speaker 1>two gold medals. By the way, what's it like for

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<v Speaker 1>a world class athlete to have an injury? What's it

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<v Speaker 1>feel like for you when you do something like tear

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<v Speaker 1>your hamstring? Yeah, it's really challenging, And I think the

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<v Speaker 1>hardest part is that you know what your body is

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<v Speaker 1>capable of doing. You know, this is a lifestyle, and

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<v Speaker 1>you train day in and day out for hours and hours,

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<v Speaker 1>and so when it feels like your body betrays you

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<v Speaker 1>and you try to do something that you used to

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<v Speaker 1>do and not give a second thought, it's really challenging,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and then it takes you back to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of square one. You have to do all the tedious things.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to step away from the competition, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>when no one is kind of seeing what's going into it,

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<v Speaker 1>and no on is really cheering you on except your

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<v Speaker 1>your inner circle. So it really requires you to do

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<v Speaker 1>all the things and to take all the steps, and

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<v Speaker 1>so it's really challenging, especially at inopportune times. Before the Games,

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to do something that very few people

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<v Speaker 1>have done and running the two hundred, running the four hundred,

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<v Speaker 1>and I felt like training was going amazing, and so

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<v Speaker 1>to have that setback right before it was time to

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<v Speaker 1>to get out there, it was it was really tough.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think, you know, you challenge yourself in new ways.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it's about how can you pick up the

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<v Speaker 1>pieces when adversity hits and and what are you gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do with it? And sometimes I think it's more meaningful

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<v Speaker 1>to show people when it's not perfect and when it's

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<v Speaker 1>not pretty, you know how to get it done. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>You have done that, and you did it especially for

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<v Speaker 1>which I am incredibly grateful. Around your pregnancy, and first

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<v Speaker 1>of all, you had a really traumatic birth experience in

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<v Speaker 1>twenty nineteen when your daughter Cammy was born. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been an advocate for maternal mortality, decreases, you better

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<v Speaker 1>birthing experiences, all of that, But it was a terrifying

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<v Speaker 1>time for you, wasn't it. Yeah. I first have to

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<v Speaker 1>just say thank you for all the work that you've

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<v Speaker 1>done on those areas. It's so important. It was terrifying

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<v Speaker 1>for me, you know, being an athlete, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>really took my health for granted. You know, I've always

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<v Speaker 1>been healthy and I've always known how to take care

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<v Speaker 1>of my body, and so when I became pregnant, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really give it too much thought. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>kept training, I felt strong, I felt good, And it

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<v Speaker 1>was at thirty two weeks just going to a routine

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<v Speaker 1>doctor's appointment. Right away, it became very concerning I was

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<v Speaker 1>sent to the hospital for further monitoring, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>there that I was diagnosed with a severe case of preclampsia.

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<v Speaker 1>And never, in my wildest dreams what I think that

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<v Speaker 1>I would be at risk for a complicated pregnancy, or

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<v Speaker 1>that my life would be at risk or my child.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I just didn't even comprehend that, and so

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<v Speaker 1>things started to spiral out of control and it got

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<v Speaker 1>really scary, and um, you know, as at risk of

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<v Speaker 1>having a stroke or losing my vision and all of

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<v Speaker 1>these things that it just didn't even make sense. I

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<v Speaker 1>had the birth plan of you know, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>have a natural, beautiful birth experience, and uh, nothing went

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<v Speaker 1>that way. I had an emergency C section, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was in the hospital for quite a bit, and

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter spent a month in the nick. You and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a really heavy time for us to

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<v Speaker 1>go through. You know, I'm so sorry that that you

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<v Speaker 1>had to go through that, and I'm incredibly thankful that

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<v Speaker 1>you came out healthy, your daughter came out healthy through

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<v Speaker 1>all of that trauma. But also during your pregnancy, you

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<v Speaker 1>tried not to let people know you were pregnant. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>here you are an elite athlete, You're training, You're you're

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<v Speaker 1>still working hard every day. Um, what did that feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that you had to in effect hide your pregnancy.

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<v Speaker 1>It was the worst experience. I mean, you know, before

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<v Speaker 1>all of that traumatic birth experience happened. Yeah, I was

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<v Speaker 1>hiding my pregnancy. I was going through, you know, this

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<v Speaker 1>fight with Nike about maternal protections and contracts, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just such a scary time because in sports, and

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<v Speaker 1>specifically track and field, there had been this culture of

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<v Speaker 1>silence around pregnancy and friends of mine, colleagues, they would

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<v Speaker 1>be pregnant and their contracts would either be paused or

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<v Speaker 1>they would be trying to secure a new contract and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hide their pregnancy. And so that was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of my situation. I didn't have the offer on the table.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew what had happened in the past, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I was literally training four o'clock in the morning while

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<v Speaker 1>it was still dark. And it just breaks my heart. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this time that should have been so happy and beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>was really lonely and isolating. And I look back on

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<v Speaker 1>it and it does bring me sadness to to know

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<v Speaker 1>that that was the situation. I mean, what an horrible,

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<v Speaker 1>outdated unfair caricature of pregnant women. I mean, it just

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<v Speaker 1>drives me crazy hearing about it, you know, these years later.

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<v Speaker 1>But you've said that before all this happened, that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you avoided speaking out on issues that mattered you. Know,

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<v Speaker 1>you were an athlete. Your your accomplishments, your metals, your records,

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<v Speaker 1>they all spoke for you. And I totally get that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you also were really conscious of how you were perceived,

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<v Speaker 1>particularly in the world that gives you contracts, that supports you,

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, does what the whole athletic industrial complex does.

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<v Speaker 1>But after your pregnancy you started speaking out and your

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<v Speaker 1>letter to The New York Times, I read that, and

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, I thought that was so brave, so important,

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<v Speaker 1>so needed. In it, you talked about women athletes losing

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<v Speaker 1>money and contracts during pregnancy, and you also then spoke

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<v Speaker 1>out and even testified before Congress about the maternal health

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<v Speaker 1>disparities that impact Black women disproportionately. So can you talk

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about how you decided to really use

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<v Speaker 1>your powerful voice to speak on things that you had

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<v Speaker 1>personal experience, but that you could then draw a larger

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<v Speaker 1>audience for. Yeah, it was such a journey to get

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<v Speaker 1>to that point. I mean absolutely what you said is

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. I was the athlete that was hyper focused

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<v Speaker 1>on performance. You know, I felt like my job is

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<v Speaker 1>to get medals, to break records, and I was such

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<v Speaker 1>a people pleaser, you know. I didn't want to rock

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<v Speaker 1>the boat and I just wanted to stay in my

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<v Speaker 1>lane and do what I did. And that worked for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. And then I started to go through

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<v Speaker 1>these real life experiences and I started to really see

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<v Speaker 1>kind of what was happening behind the curtain and understand

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<v Speaker 1>that I was in a position that I had a

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<v Speaker 1>platform and I could speak out. And I think the

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<v Speaker 1>thing that really kind of shifted me to get to

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<v Speaker 1>that point was having my daughter. You know, I started

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<v Speaker 1>to think about, you know, the world that she is

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<v Speaker 1>going to grow up in, and here, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want her to have these same battles, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that have been happening for so long. And I got

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<v Speaker 1>to a place where it was like, even if nothing happens,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I just deeply believe that this is the

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<v Speaker 1>right thing to do and I have to speak out

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<v Speaker 1>on it, and you know, I want to make her proud.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also thinking about the other women you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so many women came before me who didn't have the

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity to speak out, and a lot of these situations

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<v Speaker 1>there's in d a s and that's why it's happened

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<v Speaker 1>for so long. And here I had the opportunity to really,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, come forward and say this is what's happening.

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<v Speaker 1>And so um, yeah, it took a long time, but

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<v Speaker 1>grateful that I got to a place where I could

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<v Speaker 1>get outside of my comfort zone and speak up. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank goodness you did. And I totally get what happens

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<v Speaker 1>to you when you have a child and in my

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<v Speaker 1>case now three grandchildren, and you really do think about

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<v Speaker 1>the world you want them to grow up in and

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<v Speaker 1>what they'll inherit. And it seems almost you know, preordained

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<v Speaker 1>in some way that you know, you and Serena Williams

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<v Speaker 1>would both have had these really traumatic birth experiences because

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<v Speaker 1>so many black women have had similar experiences. Some did

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<v Speaker 1>not survive, some did not see their baby survive. And

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<v Speaker 1>I was really pleased to see Vice President Harris take

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<v Speaker 1>this on as an issue, and you know, members of

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<v Speaker 1>Congress past start passing laws you testified on behalf of

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<v Speaker 1>you know, better attention, better resources. This should not be

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<v Speaker 1>and thank you for being the advocate that you are.

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<v Speaker 1>And part of what you did to keep going further

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<v Speaker 1>than you'd ever gone before was to found your own

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<v Speaker 1>women's shoe company as as very explicitly an alternative to

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<v Speaker 1>the male oriented sneaker companies that drive the sports world.

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<v Speaker 1>So tell me about that. You know, where'd you find name?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, why do you think we need our own

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<v Speaker 1>shoe company? Yeah? So it actually happened very organically. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for a footwear sponsor. I had Athleta

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<v Speaker 1>as a apparel sponsor, and I was very empowered by

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<v Speaker 1>the way they did business, you know, their female lead,

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<v Speaker 1>their mission, you know everything. And I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>if I could find this in footwear, that would be amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>And started to search and I realized that here's another

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<v Speaker 1>area where women are an afterthought and shoes aren't made

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<v Speaker 1>for women. Um. And so I was talking with my

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<v Speaker 1>brother and I was basically venting to him about like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to four Olympics and I don't have shoes

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<v Speaker 1>to wear in the Olympics, Like this is so frustrating.

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<v Speaker 1>And he looked at me and he was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>what if we did this ourselves? And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds so big, But the more I sat with it,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Wow, instead of asking for change, here's

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to be that change. And so we found

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<v Speaker 1>in Sage, which is a lifestyle brand for women, and

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<v Speaker 1>our first product is a lifestyle sneaker. And one of

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<v Speaker 1>my proudest moments was being able to compete in the

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<v Speaker 1>Olympics wearing my own brand, you know, shoes made by

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<v Speaker 1>my company, and it was incredible. Um. The name comes

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<v Speaker 1>from the French word seschet to move back and forth,

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<v Speaker 1>but we use it in the context of the wave.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a the safe wave is found in enclosed bodies

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<v Speaker 1>of water and atmospheric pressure pushes that water to one side,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's the safe wave that restores balance. And so

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<v Speaker 1>we're looking to bring balance into the marketplace. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>these are shoes designed and engineered by women for women.

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<v Speaker 1>The female foot is actually has differences than a man's foot,

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<v Speaker 1>and so we think that, you know, we should be

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<v Speaker 1>a priority. So that's what we're doing. And we exist

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<v Speaker 1>to see women and too no women and so that

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<v Speaker 1>women will never feel how I felt when I was

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<v Speaker 1>training at four o'clock in the morning, So that nobody

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<v Speaker 1>would know that I was pregnant. Sou just really cited

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<v Speaker 1>about it and looking forward to serving women. Oh I

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<v Speaker 1>love that story and I love the name Sage. That

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<v Speaker 1>really has a great feel to it. And now that

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<v Speaker 1>you told us all what it means, thank you. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>Once again, you broke several Olympic records this past summer

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<v Speaker 1>in Tokyo, becoming the most decorated female trek and field

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<v Speaker 1>athlete in Olympic history, all the way back to the Greeks,

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<v Speaker 1>which didn't even allow women. It's just so extraordinary. How

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<v Speaker 1>did this Olympic competition feel for you? There? You were

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<v Speaker 1>wearing your own safe shoes, a mom, competing at the

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<v Speaker 1>highest levels possible. What was that like compared to past

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<v Speaker 1>games you were in? Yeah, oh my gosh, it felt

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<v Speaker 1>so good. And it was much bigger than the race.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I went and I felt like I was

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<v Speaker 1>a representation for women and for mothers and for anyone

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<v Speaker 1>who was told that, you know, their best days were

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<v Speaker 1>behind them. And that just gave me an added motivation.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I usually I am so stress about every

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<v Speaker 1>little thing and every performance competition thing, and this time

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<v Speaker 1>it was so free because I had heard from so

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<v Speaker 1>many women, connected with so many people who just told

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<v Speaker 1>me to get out there and enjoy myself and that

0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:22.720
<v Speaker 1>they were proud of me. And it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>weight was lifted off of my shoulders. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's the first time I felt so fulfilled, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I crossed the line. It was like, wow, I was

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<v Speaker 1>told that this couldn't be done. And how many of

0:19:33.119 --> 0:19:36.160
<v Speaker 1>us are told that, you know, like we we all

0:19:36.359 --> 0:19:38.480
<v Speaker 1>we all can relate to that. And so it was

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<v Speaker 1>so special to you know, to cross that line and

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<v Speaker 1>in the shoes, and to know that my daughter was

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<v Speaker 1>watching and that she has been on this journey and

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to really, you know, tell her what

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<v Speaker 1>it has been like and that she has also been

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<v Speaker 1>that motivation to keep going. Oh my gosh. Well you

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<v Speaker 1>also decided, uh and announced that this would be your

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<v Speaker 1>last time competing at the Olympics. Was that a tough

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<v Speaker 1>decision to make? Where you conflicted about it? It was

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<v Speaker 1>mixed emotions, you know, I knew it was probably time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, on the Olympic stage. I I had such

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<v Speaker 1>a beautiful journey, you know, five Olympic Games, and but

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't sure how it was going to feel I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like I had no regrets. You know, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>stepping on the track for that last race and just

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<v Speaker 1>feeling a lot of joy. Ah. That is uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>beautifully said. And I don't think you will ever slow down.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you'll just change direction and take on new challenges.

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<v Speaker 1>Thinking about developing any new hobbies or taking up something else.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, are you. You know? The one thing

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really looking forward to doing that I haven't been

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<v Speaker 1>able to do is skiing. It's like the one thing

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<v Speaker 1>every time we go out for the holidays, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always the one at the bottom of the hill

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for everybody. So I think that's one little hobby

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<v Speaker 1>that I hope to take up. It's a great sport

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<v Speaker 1>by no means a great or even a mediocre skier,

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<v Speaker 1>but I loved and you know, I hope you will

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<v Speaker 1>take it up and enjoy that. One of those small

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<v Speaker 1>things that's kind of been on my list that it's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>now I can actually do that. Of course, knowing you,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll probably see you in the Winter Olympics in eight years.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not going to cut it out. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we're safe there. Well, Allison, I cannot tell you

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<v Speaker 1>how much I have enjoyed watching you as a great

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<v Speaker 1>fan and admirer. Watching you in the Olympics and to

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<v Speaker 1>see you become a mom and stand up for other

0:21:33.800 --> 0:21:36.479
<v Speaker 1>mothers and stand up for yourself and stand up for

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<v Speaker 1>what's right has been absolutely a joy. And uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>just wish you the very best whatever direction you decide

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<v Speaker 1>to go, I pill downhill wherever you end down. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you so much. It's been so nice to talk

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<v Speaker 1>with you, and I just appreciate everything that you've done

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<v Speaker 1>in the inspiration that you've been to me and to

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter as well. To keep track of Alison Felix's

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<v Speaker 1>next moves, you can follow her on Twitter. Now. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you know Vanessa Williams as the chart topping singer of

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<v Speaker 1>hits like Save the Best for Last, or maybe for

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<v Speaker 1>her Emmy nominated role on the hit TV show Ugly Betty,

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<v Speaker 1>or for one of her many starring roles on Broadway.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, seriously, Vanessa has been nominated for or one

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<v Speaker 1>nearly every award there is, and she's worked in every

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<v Speaker 1>facet of the entertainment industry, in addition to having her

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<v Speaker 1>own fashion line and becoming a best selling author. And advocate.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fortunate to know Vanessa not just as a fan,

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<v Speaker 1>but as a neighbor since she grew up and her

0:22:51.040 --> 0:22:54.840
<v Speaker 1>mother still lives in Chappaqua, New York. The thing that

0:22:54.960 --> 0:22:58.880
<v Speaker 1>first brought Vanessa Williams to national attention was her barrier

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<v Speaker 1>breaking crowning as the first black woman to be Miss

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<v Speaker 1>America back in nineteen three. Soon after, she was forced

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<v Speaker 1>to resign when Penthouse Magazine published risque photos of her

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<v Speaker 1>without her consent. But boy did she make a comeback.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I am so happy to have you on

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<v Speaker 1>this show. Vanessa and Chelsea and I did the very

0:23:24.400 --> 0:23:27.720
<v Speaker 1>last event in promoting our book of Gutsy Women with

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<v Speaker 1>you as the moderator at Pace University on a very

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<v Speaker 1>snowy winter night in December of twenty nineteen. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was one of the very last things that I did,

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:42.919
<v Speaker 1>and I think you did before the world shut down. Right. Absolutely,

0:23:43.400 --> 0:23:46.000
<v Speaker 1>we had a wonderful turnout. Of course, your book is

0:23:46.040 --> 0:23:50.600
<v Speaker 1>amazing and so inspirational. And then uh we started twenty

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<v Speaker 1>I went off to London what I has told you,

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<v Speaker 1>I was going to start in City of Angels at

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<v Speaker 1>the Garrick Theater. We went into rehearsal, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>were in previews and then slowly people's arted calling and

0:24:00.680 --> 0:24:04.400
<v Speaker 1>saying I'm sick, I canceled my flight, or oh, I'm

0:24:04.440 --> 0:24:07.240
<v Speaker 1>nervous about coming because people are starting to get sick

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<v Speaker 1>around me. And then Broadway closed that March twelve, and

0:24:11.280 --> 0:24:14.760
<v Speaker 1>we closed the following Monday that the March, and then

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<v Speaker 1>all theaters shut down for a while. So it was hard.

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<v Speaker 1>It was hard. So how are you now? How have

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<v Speaker 1>you gotten through this pandemic time that we've all been

0:24:25.560 --> 0:24:28.119
<v Speaker 1>living through since then? Well, I was one of the

0:24:28.240 --> 0:24:32.200
<v Speaker 1>lucky ones. You know. For instance, Renee Fleming, brilliant soprano.

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<v Speaker 1>As a friend of mine, we started doing all these

0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:40.160
<v Speaker 1>Zoom cocktail hours, which everybody did, and while we're sipping

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:43.119
<v Speaker 1>our wine, we're like, you know, we should do something together.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do it live from our living rooms. And then

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:49.280
<v Speaker 1>we started thinking about programs and shows, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, why don't we do it actually in

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<v Speaker 1>a venue and do it socially distance And we end

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<v Speaker 1>up doing a show at the Kennedy Center, something that

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<v Speaker 1>we came up with a zoom and then you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I did a Elephantzgerald Christmas Swinging Christmas thing that we

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<v Speaker 1>did outside. I did a live from the West Side,

0:25:07.200 --> 0:25:10.640
<v Speaker 1>a Broadway thing that we did, you know, socially distanced streaming,

0:25:10.720 --> 0:25:14.080
<v Speaker 1>so you kind of change the game. And and I

0:25:14.119 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 1>still got a chance to sing from my piano, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in the next room. And you made it work, so

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really lose much at all, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>the convenience of doing most of my performing in my

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<v Speaker 1>own house. I love that. I love that, you know,

0:25:29.400 --> 0:25:32.520
<v Speaker 1>let's make it happen attitude. You also had that, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's exactly, you know, one of the reasons why I

0:25:35.840 --> 0:25:39.080
<v Speaker 1>admire you so much. You know, when I think about

0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:42.800
<v Speaker 1>your early career, it really was very much focused in

0:25:42.800 --> 0:25:45.920
<v Speaker 1>this place where we both live. And your parents were

0:25:45.920 --> 0:25:49.719
<v Speaker 1>both music teachers, right, and you came from a musical family.

0:25:50.200 --> 0:25:53.080
<v Speaker 1>You had the talent and the drive and the interest

0:25:53.200 --> 0:25:57.560
<v Speaker 1>to do it yourself. And as you know everybody knows,

0:25:57.600 --> 0:26:01.920
<v Speaker 1>you became the first black woman who was crowned Miss American.

0:26:02.040 --> 0:26:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I remember watching that. I remember seeing you long before

0:26:05.960 --> 0:26:09.160
<v Speaker 1>I knew I would live in your town. And god,

0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:11.919
<v Speaker 1>you are, I mean, you are just so magnetic. And

0:26:11.960 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 1>then you waged one of the great comebacks in entertainment history,

0:26:16.640 --> 0:26:19.879
<v Speaker 1>and you're such a role model for not only women

0:26:19.920 --> 0:26:22.080
<v Speaker 1>of color, but you know, young women and not so

0:26:22.200 --> 0:26:25.240
<v Speaker 1>young women. Uh. You know, just recently, I released a

0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:30.119
<v Speaker 1>master class about resilience, so you know, talk a little

0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:34.720
<v Speaker 1>bit about what you have inside of you that keeps

0:26:34.720 --> 0:26:38.399
<v Speaker 1>you up and going. Well, thank you for um that

0:26:38.520 --> 0:26:43.119
<v Speaker 1>observation and also being compared and in the same group

0:26:43.240 --> 0:26:46.280
<v Speaker 1>as you, because resilience is one of those things that

0:26:46.600 --> 0:26:48.399
<v Speaker 1>I don't know whether the fire in the belly is

0:26:48.560 --> 0:26:50.919
<v Speaker 1>what you're just born with, but I have it and

0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:53.680
<v Speaker 1>I know you have it. And we both had very

0:26:53.760 --> 0:26:57.720
<v Speaker 1>strong mothers that I do believe that I always wanted

0:26:57.760 --> 0:27:01.240
<v Speaker 1>to please, which is still she's still eighty two and

0:27:01.240 --> 0:27:04.639
<v Speaker 1>I'm still trying to fleeze her, which you know, it

0:27:04.720 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 1>informs a lot. I mean, I look back at my

0:27:06.920 --> 0:27:09.600
<v Speaker 1>marriages and like, you didn't like this person, Well guess what,

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna marry him anyway. And I mean, like a

0:27:11.560 --> 0:27:15.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of my choices, a lot of mother isches. But

0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:18.720
<v Speaker 1>we did write a book together and kind of wanted

0:27:18.720 --> 0:27:20.399
<v Speaker 1>to mention that. I mean, it has one of the

0:27:20.480 --> 0:27:24.520
<v Speaker 1>great titles of any mother daughter memoir. You have no

0:27:24.640 --> 0:27:28.480
<v Speaker 1>idea a famous daughter, her no nonsense mother and how

0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:34.040
<v Speaker 1>they survived pageants, Hollywood, love loss, and each other. Yes,

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:38.480
<v Speaker 1>so you know, I think it gets passed down that

0:27:38.520 --> 0:27:42.399
<v Speaker 1>my mother is super very resilient and just fought her

0:27:42.480 --> 0:27:45.840
<v Speaker 1>way to the top of what she wanted to do.

0:27:46.000 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 1>And well, she was born in Buffalo, you know, raising

0:27:49.280 --> 0:27:54.040
<v Speaker 1>a very segregated place, and just fought to prove herself

0:27:54.080 --> 0:27:58.480
<v Speaker 1>time and time again. So I think that watching her journey,

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:03.000
<v Speaker 1>seeing her resilience definitely was I would say the footprint

0:28:03.119 --> 0:28:07.160
<v Speaker 1>for my ease at being able to always kind of

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:11.120
<v Speaker 1>trigger what I think comes naturally within my my bones.

0:28:11.680 --> 0:28:14.680
<v Speaker 1>But also as I've grown, and you know, at fifty

0:28:14.760 --> 0:28:17.560
<v Speaker 1>eight years old, I have way more wisdom. I realized

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:21.280
<v Speaker 1>that you're always going to be judged no matter you

0:28:21.320 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 1>know from high school too, you're always going to be judged,

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:25.840
<v Speaker 1>and they don't know who you are, they don't know

0:28:25.840 --> 0:28:28.240
<v Speaker 1>what you're thinking, they don't know what you're feeling. So

0:28:28.960 --> 0:28:33.879
<v Speaker 1>just leave that judgment at the door and believe in

0:28:33.880 --> 0:28:37.159
<v Speaker 1>yourself and know that, okay, you know what, they'll eventually

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:39.480
<v Speaker 1>know who I am. I don't get a chance to

0:28:39.520 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 1>show them, and it's, you know, one of those things

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 1>that I've just kind of used as my template to

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 1>survive and to not give a dam. Really, yeah, you know,

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:53.520
<v Speaker 1>everybody's judged, but look, it's harder for women. There is

0:28:53.520 --> 0:28:57.680
<v Speaker 1>still this you know, blatant double standard as somebody in

0:28:57.720 --> 0:29:01.000
<v Speaker 1>the public eye. You know, you do getticism, and you

0:29:01.000 --> 0:29:03.400
<v Speaker 1>know you can learn something. Sometimes your critics will tell

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 1>you things your friends you know won't. But you can't

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 1>let it pull you down and keep you down and

0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:12.440
<v Speaker 1>make you doubt yourself and lose your confidence in yourself.

0:29:12.480 --> 0:29:15.200
<v Speaker 1>And that's what I try to tell young people, particularly

0:29:15.240 --> 0:29:17.320
<v Speaker 1>young women, all the time. I said, get used to it.

0:29:17.360 --> 0:29:20.360
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna get criticized. It doesn't matter how hard you

0:29:20.440 --> 0:29:23.400
<v Speaker 1>try and how good you do. You're gonna get criticized.

0:29:23.560 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 1>Isn't that right? Absolutely? And also I mean what I

0:29:27.040 --> 0:29:29.760
<v Speaker 1>tell young younger women, I say, you know, do the work.

0:29:30.240 --> 0:29:32.239
<v Speaker 1>You'll get hired when people know that you show up

0:29:32.240 --> 0:29:35.280
<v Speaker 1>in your professional and you can handle stress, you can

0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:40.400
<v Speaker 1>solve problems. You're not incapable of of getting yourself out

0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:43.400
<v Speaker 1>of a situation or managing a situation. Right, that's what

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:45.320
<v Speaker 1>your employer is gonna want to see, and that's what

0:29:45.360 --> 0:29:48.080
<v Speaker 1>makes you a good team player, a good actor that

0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:49.920
<v Speaker 1>they're going to bring onto an ensemble, that they know

0:29:49.960 --> 0:29:52.080
<v Speaker 1>that you can handle it and be able to to

0:29:52.160 --> 0:29:55.000
<v Speaker 1>be professional. You know, I've I've I've got four kids,

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:56.920
<v Speaker 1>and that's what I always try to say. Show up

0:29:56.920 --> 0:30:00.200
<v Speaker 1>on time, do your best, and you'll always continue need

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:06.840
<v Speaker 1>to get hired. Yeah, do the work right, We'll be

0:30:06.960 --> 0:30:20.000
<v Speaker 1>right back. I've always wanted to ask somebody who's in

0:30:20.040 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 1>the spotlight as you are, how do you memorize all

0:30:22.760 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 1>your lines? Do you have a trick? I do have

0:30:25.360 --> 0:30:29.960
<v Speaker 1>a trick. So most of the time people will look

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>at a page and think that they're gonna they do

0:30:32.360 --> 0:30:34.360
<v Speaker 1>it by road and go over and over and over again,

0:30:34.560 --> 0:30:36.400
<v Speaker 1>and as as soon as they stand up, they can't

0:30:36.400 --> 0:30:39.880
<v Speaker 1>remember a thing. So you have to make your muscle

0:30:40.160 --> 0:30:43.520
<v Speaker 1>memory work. So I do all myself on the treadmill,

0:30:43.800 --> 0:30:46.640
<v Speaker 1>So I'll say it out loud while I'm walking on

0:30:46.680 --> 0:30:50.720
<v Speaker 1>the treadmill, so when I'm in the scene and I'm walking,

0:30:50.960 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 1>I still have it connected to my body. So that's

0:30:53.800 --> 0:30:57.360
<v Speaker 1>one aspect. And then I also write out everything in scripts,

0:30:57.360 --> 0:31:01.120
<v Speaker 1>so I'm actually again physically writing out the words that

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:07.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm speaking, and and just it's it's repetition, it really is. Yeah,

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:09.680
<v Speaker 1>but I love this idea of doing it on the treadmill.

0:31:09.720 --> 0:31:12.680
<v Speaker 1>Another reason why I should get on the treadmill. Okay,

0:31:12.040 --> 0:31:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I am being I am being, you know, encouraged and

0:31:15.200 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 1>a little bit shamed, to be honest. You know, my

0:31:17.800 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 1>my daughter ran the marathon, the New York City Marathon, uh,

0:31:22.000 --> 0:31:27.320
<v Speaker 1>this past November, and I think all that athletic DNA

0:31:27.440 --> 0:31:30.040
<v Speaker 1>skipped a generation, you know, if it just went right

0:31:30.080 --> 0:31:32.480
<v Speaker 1>to her. You know. The other thing I just heard

0:31:32.560 --> 0:31:36.400
<v Speaker 1>is that you've got a really fun new role. You

0:31:36.560 --> 0:31:40.640
<v Speaker 1>switched gears again to become a judge on a drag

0:31:40.880 --> 0:31:45.040
<v Speaker 1>queen singing competition called Queen of the Universe. What's that

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 1>been like? It was amazing. We we shot it in London.

0:31:49.400 --> 0:31:53.200
<v Speaker 1>It is a global singing competition for drag queens, which

0:31:53.280 --> 0:31:56.959
<v Speaker 1>is always fun. Give me more sparkle, give me more glitter,

0:31:57.400 --> 0:32:03.280
<v Speaker 1>give me more sequence and uh. These queens competed from India,

0:32:03.320 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, Brazil, China, France, the UK of course, the

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:11.760
<v Speaker 1>United States, Mexico, Netherlands, all over the globe. And the

0:32:11.800 --> 0:32:15.080
<v Speaker 1>cash prize was two d fifty thousand dollars, which is amazing.

0:32:15.880 --> 0:32:20.120
<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of money for contest on TV and

0:32:20.160 --> 0:32:22.040
<v Speaker 1>they have to sing live. That was a big thing.

0:32:22.080 --> 0:32:25.080
<v Speaker 1>No lip sinking. They are singing live. You know that's good.

0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean the lip sinking, you know. Yeah, okay, that's fine,

0:32:27.840 --> 0:32:30.840
<v Speaker 1>but really for these contests, people should sing live. I'm

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:33.040
<v Speaker 1>so happy you're doing that. Yeah, yeah, it was a

0:32:33.080 --> 0:32:36.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. You know, you've been incredible in the

0:32:36.840 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 1>range of your roles your activities. Obviously you are a singer,

0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:45.880
<v Speaker 1>as we all know, but also an actor, a fashion designer,

0:32:46.240 --> 0:32:51.400
<v Speaker 1>a writer, an advocate. How have you switched between these,

0:32:51.560 --> 0:32:54.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, various talents and these roles that you've had.

0:32:54.520 --> 0:32:56.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I loved you in Ugly Betty, by the

0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:59.080
<v Speaker 1>way I loved you. I mean I don't know, I

0:32:59.160 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 1>loved and hated you, but I basically loved you. And

0:33:02.880 --> 0:33:06.040
<v Speaker 1>so how what would you advise somebody who had, you know,

0:33:06.360 --> 0:33:09.239
<v Speaker 1>a variety of interests and talents, because they do have

0:33:09.280 --> 0:33:11.280
<v Speaker 1>to do the work, But how do they know what

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:13.960
<v Speaker 1>area to do the work in and how to build

0:33:13.960 --> 0:33:16.560
<v Speaker 1>a career or how can they follow your example and

0:33:16.600 --> 0:33:20.920
<v Speaker 1>be so versatile well, be open to um taking challenges

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.640
<v Speaker 1>and risks. A lot of things that I never thought

0:33:23.760 --> 0:33:25.959
<v Speaker 1>I was going to be able to do came to

0:33:26.000 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 1>me because of doing something else. Uh. So you know, yes,

0:33:29.840 --> 0:33:31.920
<v Speaker 1>have a plan, yes, you know, have an outline of

0:33:31.960 --> 0:33:33.920
<v Speaker 1>what you think you want to do in life, but

0:33:34.000 --> 0:33:36.440
<v Speaker 1>then be open to the opportunities that you're not even

0:33:36.480 --> 0:33:38.840
<v Speaker 1>aware of that will come. I'm at this age now

0:33:38.960 --> 0:33:43.240
<v Speaker 1>or midlife. Have I made enough impact in my life?

0:33:43.240 --> 0:33:45.800
<v Speaker 1>What am I going to do? And the advocacy portion

0:33:45.880 --> 0:33:48.400
<v Speaker 1>of it really kind of fell in my lap. I

0:33:48.400 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 1>would say my biggest role as of yet as as

0:33:51.080 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 1>a founder of Black Theaty United, which happened um last

0:33:54.760 --> 0:33:58.760
<v Speaker 1>year after the George Floyd murder and all of my

0:33:58.840 --> 0:34:02.560
<v Speaker 1>friends from me Scoll Theater that we've been in shows

0:34:02.560 --> 0:34:05.600
<v Speaker 1>with for over thirty years. Augia McDonald called me, Lashawn's

0:34:05.640 --> 0:34:08.799
<v Speaker 1>called me, Norm Lewis, Brian Stokes, Mitchell. We were so

0:34:08.960 --> 0:34:12.719
<v Speaker 1>stunned and so enraged. We said, what are we gonna do?

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:15.400
<v Speaker 1>We've got to do something. So we've been able to

0:34:15.600 --> 0:34:20.360
<v Speaker 1>not only um have amazing platforms where hopefully we'll have you,

0:34:20.719 --> 0:34:23.400
<v Speaker 1>be able to have you. Uh, but we've done town halls.

0:34:23.520 --> 0:34:26.280
<v Speaker 1>We have a new deal for Broadway which is about

0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:29.279
<v Speaker 1>e d I A b um and making sure that

0:34:29.360 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 1>there is inclusion and equity within commercial theaters, and that

0:34:34.160 --> 0:34:39.160
<v Speaker 1>advocacy part of my life, that real active boots on

0:34:39.200 --> 0:34:43.839
<v Speaker 1>the ground. Starting a foundation just recently happened and I

0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:46.200
<v Speaker 1>couldn't be prouder. And we're doing all the work, but

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:48.920
<v Speaker 1>it's it's a lot, but it means something. It's meaningful,

0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:51.200
<v Speaker 1>and I'm happy to be a founding member of something

0:34:51.239 --> 0:34:53.440
<v Speaker 1>that will be a legacy and I can pass on

0:34:53.480 --> 0:34:56.520
<v Speaker 1>to my children, my grandchildren. You mentioned E D I

0:34:57.080 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>B D I A b SO equity, diverse city, inclusion,

0:35:01.160 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 1>accessibility and belonging. Oh, I love that. And we held

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:12.640
<v Speaker 1>seminars with theater owners, producers, directors, casting directors, union people,

0:35:13.280 --> 0:35:16.320
<v Speaker 1>so people in front of the stage, behind the stage,

0:35:16.600 --> 0:35:20.919
<v Speaker 1>owning this stage, about how there has been damaged, how

0:35:21.200 --> 0:35:23.279
<v Speaker 1>you might not even be aware of the power of

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 1>diversity in the dollars and marketing UH and allowing everybody

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:30.400
<v Speaker 1>to have a chance. The quote that I love is

0:35:31.040 --> 0:35:35.160
<v Speaker 1>diversity is a fact. Inclusion is a choice, So make

0:35:35.239 --> 0:35:38.960
<v Speaker 1>the choice to include us. That's really great. And you know,

0:35:39.040 --> 0:35:41.480
<v Speaker 1>when I think about the pandemic and how disruptive and

0:35:41.520 --> 0:35:44.600
<v Speaker 1>difficult it's been, I also think that a lot of

0:35:44.600 --> 0:35:48.000
<v Speaker 1>people found these kind of silver linings. You all are

0:35:48.120 --> 0:35:52.040
<v Speaker 1>such busy people, and so it's almost hard to believe

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:54.719
<v Speaker 1>that you could have from your various you know, vantage

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:57.360
<v Speaker 1>points and everything you were doing, found the time and

0:35:57.400 --> 0:36:00.560
<v Speaker 1>the energy to build this, except for the stomach when

0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:04.480
<v Speaker 1>everything was closed. But what a blessing that you did. Absolutely,

0:36:04.880 --> 0:36:07.560
<v Speaker 1>As as we discussed a little bit earlier, you know,

0:36:08.160 --> 0:36:12.080
<v Speaker 1>we both have had big public you know, moments that

0:36:12.120 --> 0:36:15.520
<v Speaker 1>we wished we hadn't had. You know, some people when

0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:19.239
<v Speaker 1>they go through things that are difficult, they get hyper cautious,

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:23.319
<v Speaker 1>they get really defensive, they kind of shut down. How

0:36:23.360 --> 0:36:26.239
<v Speaker 1>how do you think about navigating life in the public eye.

0:36:26.239 --> 0:36:28.279
<v Speaker 1>You've been in it a really long time. I've been

0:36:28.280 --> 0:36:31.040
<v Speaker 1>in a really long time. It never gets easier, but

0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:35.480
<v Speaker 1>you get better at it, don't you exactly? Um, and

0:36:35.520 --> 0:36:38.760
<v Speaker 1>I certainly was very defensive for a long long time.

0:36:39.080 --> 0:36:42.759
<v Speaker 1>I mean I became famous at twenty years old, so um,

0:36:42.800 --> 0:36:45.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, uh, it really took me a long time

0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:48.919
<v Speaker 1>to say, yes I'm talented, Yes I'm smart, don't put

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:53.239
<v Speaker 1>the beauty queen have that negate anything that is really me.

0:36:53.400 --> 0:36:57.359
<v Speaker 1>So I battled that for years and uh it was

0:36:57.520 --> 0:37:01.759
<v Speaker 1>probably once I got more success. My my career has

0:37:01.760 --> 0:37:03.840
<v Speaker 1>always been I didn't know she could do that. Really,

0:37:03.880 --> 0:37:06.759
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know she did. And every accomplishment I've been

0:37:06.880 --> 0:37:11.359
<v Speaker 1>undervalued and underestimated, and every time I've had an accomplishment, oh,

0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:13.319
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know if she could do that. So that

0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:16.000
<v Speaker 1>gave that gave me the thrill. It's like, okay, you

0:37:16.040 --> 0:37:18.600
<v Speaker 1>know what, just cut me out and I'm gonna come

0:37:18.640 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 1>in and surprise you all. So you know, it's like

0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:25.440
<v Speaker 1>with me, oh my gosh, oh wow, okay, And and

0:37:25.520 --> 0:37:27.880
<v Speaker 1>it's it's and people are always trying to fit you

0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:32.920
<v Speaker 1>into the box they've created, and it does get tiresome.

0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:36.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you feel, as such a successful artist

0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:40.000
<v Speaker 1>in so many ways, do you feel like it's better

0:37:40.200 --> 0:37:42.160
<v Speaker 1>not just for you because you've proven yourself over and

0:37:42.200 --> 0:37:45.080
<v Speaker 1>over again, but for you know, young women coming behind.

0:37:45.760 --> 0:37:50.319
<v Speaker 1>Well for me personally, I finally reconciled and instead of

0:37:50.360 --> 0:37:53.239
<v Speaker 1>saying no, no, no, no no, I've said yes. I

0:37:53.280 --> 0:37:56.200
<v Speaker 1>was Miss America. So the pageant thing, because I was

0:37:56.520 --> 0:37:58.719
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be involved with anything with a

0:37:58.760 --> 0:38:01.520
<v Speaker 1>crown and pageant all the kind of stuff. So that

0:38:01.719 --> 0:38:04.359
<v Speaker 1>has taken me a while too. When people say you'll

0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:06.120
<v Speaker 1>always be my queen, I would roll my eyes, like

0:38:06.719 --> 0:38:11.280
<v Speaker 1>here we go again. And and now I think, Okay,

0:38:11.360 --> 0:38:14.080
<v Speaker 1>I remember when I was twenty years old and black

0:38:14.120 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 1>women would come up to me who are elderly and say,

0:38:16.280 --> 0:38:18.360
<v Speaker 1>I never thought i'd see it in my lifetime and weep.

0:38:19.120 --> 0:38:21.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, when you are the first, that's so important

0:38:21.960 --> 0:38:25.839
<v Speaker 1>to so many people. So I've embraced that now as

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<v Speaker 1>opposed to saying oh, it didn't matter or oh please

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<v Speaker 1>don't bring it up, which has helped me just like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my history, and that's let me accept it instead

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<v Speaker 1>of trying to fight it all the time. So that's

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<v Speaker 1>taken a lot of angst and defensiveness away. But for

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<v Speaker 1>women again, it's it's about the judgment and being put

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<v Speaker 1>in a box. And I mean you have to just

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<v Speaker 1>use that fuel for your fire and just say I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna I'm gonna prove to you, okay, got me out,

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<v Speaker 1>guess what I'm coming for you and and and prove it. Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't change the past, and at some point, even

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<v Speaker 1>if other people can't get on and move from it,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to what is it that you're now fired

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<v Speaker 1>up about? Doing. I mean, do you have some plans

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<v Speaker 1>that you're looking forward to, some activities that get you

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<v Speaker 1>up in the morning. Oh, there's always something that comes

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<v Speaker 1>my way. Uh. I'm really excited about a Broadway project

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<v Speaker 1>that has a lot to do with the White House.

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<v Speaker 1>As soon as I have signed on. As soon as

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<v Speaker 1>we get a theater, I will call you immediately because

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<v Speaker 1>you will die. You will be there helping night. I

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<v Speaker 1>guarantee you. I will give you seats and you will

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<v Speaker 1>love it. It's a comedy, it's hilarious and you will

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<v Speaker 1>get everything and I will play the first lady. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'll have to call you for some tips. But it

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<v Speaker 1>is really funny. I am more than happy to be,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a consultant and do whatever I can for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot tell you how much I always enjoy you.

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<v Speaker 1>Always put a smile on my face. Vanessa. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to wish you and your one her full family

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<v Speaker 1>all the best going forward. Thank you so much, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's always an honor to talk to you. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always amazed at what your next stage in life is,

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<v Speaker 1>which is always amazing. So thanks so much. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about you, but I can't wait for this

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<v Speaker 1>mysterious play that Vanessa Williams told us is in the works.

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