1 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lex Pee and it's 2 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: your girl's draining a call and you were tuned in 3 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:16,640 Speaker 1: to another episode of Wine Down Wednesday. 4 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: How y'all feeling this week, y'all? I hope y'all feeling good? 5 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: Y'all. Hope y'all have y'all's wine poured up and ready 6 00:00:23,920 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: to go. Of course, we have our wine as always. 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: Y'all can't see, of course, but we have our Wine 8 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: Down Wednesday glasses shout out to Big any one time. 9 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. And also we have an announcement. 10 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,919 Speaker 1: I know, I told y'all the other day I had 11 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: something that I wanted to share with y'all. So y'all 12 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 1: have been asking us over and over and over again, 13 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: you wanna. 14 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 2: You wanna tell them the good news? 15 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 1: Little Drell? 16 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 2: Sure. 17 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: So you know, we know that y'all been wanting us 18 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: to put out more content and things of that nature. 19 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 1: So we decided that this upcoming year, we're gonna be 20 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: giving y'all bonus episodes every week. 21 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 2: Oh shit, no, So it's gonna get lit right, So 22 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 2: that's super exciting. 23 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: I mean, we're gonna be touching on a lot of 24 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: different subjects. Nothing in particular is really just gonna kind 25 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: of be like random, different little topics that we just 26 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 1: decide that we wanna talk about, or something major might 27 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: happen in the media, we decide we wanna do like 28 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: a little Bonies episode. Cause I feel like sometimes things 29 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: go down and y'all, like y'all have to wait to win, 30 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:30,839 Speaker 1: y'all have to wait till Wednesdays. So we're not doing 31 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: that anymore. We're not making y'all wait till Wednesday anymore. 32 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: Sometimes things happen. I may go on a terrible day 33 00:01:36,720 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: and I want y'all to know what the what the 34 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: hell just went on? So I'm gonna get on the mic, 35 00:01:42,840 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: right So I feel like I need to get on 36 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: the mic and let y'all know what we're down, because 37 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: at this point, I feel like we're family. I feel 38 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: like the Wine Down Wednesday family. Like honestly, I feel 39 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: like we're family. So if anything goes down to my 40 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: personal life or I just wanna share something with you y'all, 41 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: or something went down anything, it's just it's just time. 42 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: I feel like Wednesdays are just not enough. Yeah, Wednesdays 43 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 1: are not enough. We know, y'all, be wanting to hear 44 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: from us more, and we want to start interacting with 45 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: y'all more as well, you know what I mean. And 46 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: also feel free with us doing the bonus episodes every 47 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: week now, feel free to, like, you know, send us 48 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: y'all suggestions of things that y'all would like us to discuss, 49 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:26,640 Speaker 1: are things that y'all would like us to touch on 50 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: and talk about, because we really open to anything like 51 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 1: these bonus episodes is really where we're gonna be getting 52 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: real in depth and juice, right because I feel like 53 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: on wind Down Wednesday, you know, of course, we have 54 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: our certain topics that we like to hit on, you know, 55 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: the relationship topics, the sex topics, you know, the item 56 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: of the week and things like that. 57 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: So I kind of feel like. 58 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes we don't, yeah, and we don't get too deep 59 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:52,079 Speaker 1: into discussions like we could be. So these bonus episodes 60 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: are basically gonna be one topic and basically us just 61 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: focusing on a one topic or one story or whatever 62 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: y'all want to talk about and just going in on 63 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: that one thing. So y'all brainstorm whatever, if y'all have 64 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: any questions for us anything, We're gonna focus on one 65 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: thing per bonus episode, and we're gonna let y'all have it. 66 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 1: Y'all know how to get in touch with us, Yes, 67 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: let on Instagrams or in a call on Instagram, Will 68 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: Instagram and Twitter and me, and of course you guys 69 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 1: could always email us at our email addris for the show, 70 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:29,960 Speaker 1: which is dra and Leak Show at Gmail. And you know, 71 00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: just seeing all of y'all inquiries or topics y'all want 72 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: us to discuss. Okay, thanks, Yes and Diddy, So we're 73 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: gonna get go ahead and get straight into it. Okay, 74 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: because I said this the other day on Twitter and 75 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: everybody was talking to me like, what's crazy? 76 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: So let me ask you this, Drella. 77 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: Now, the age that we're at, you know, we ain't 78 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: no young Spring chickens. We're not old, but we're not 79 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: in We're not eighteen twenty one age group anymore, you 80 00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So I said this and me 81 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: right now, I'm twenty nine years old this year. I'm 82 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: turning thirty in August. So I feel like me big 83 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:13,160 Speaker 1: thirty thirty at my big age. If I start dating 84 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,160 Speaker 1: a man right now, if I start dating a man 85 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: right now, and I feel like we've been together for 86 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: like six to eight months. I feel like we need 87 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 1: to start talking about marriage, moving in together, a little 88 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: more serious step, because I just feel like, why are 89 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:30,799 Speaker 1: we wasting time. 90 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 2: I'm thirty, I'm grown. 91 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: It's not like I'm twenty five and I'm unsure about 92 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,360 Speaker 1: the things that i want and the things that I need. 93 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: But everybody was acting like I'm crazy. What was they saying? 94 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: They was just like, nah, you don't know somebody in 95 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: that amount of time. But honestly, I can't relate because 96 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm real and I don't know. 97 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 2: How to be anything else other than me When. 98 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: I start a relationship off, I'm very consistent. I don't 99 00:04:55,520 --> 00:04:58,680 Speaker 1: know how to be fake sweet or fake funny, or 100 00:04:58,720 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: fake this or fake this. It's like what you see 101 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: with lex is what you get. So some people feel like, oh, 102 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,760 Speaker 1: people put their good foot forward in the beginning of 103 00:05:07,839 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: dating and they get to them, which I do agree with. 104 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: But the thing is, after eight months, at that point, 105 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: you know if you want to be with somebody or not. 106 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 1: Now I will say things change. 107 00:05:19,200 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if I agree with that. 108 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: I feel like maybe eight months in today and somebody 109 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: y'all should be discussing marriage or y'all should be discussing 110 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: like having kids and things like that because y'all be 111 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: in dating for eight months. Yeah, you can't pressure, no niggas, No, 112 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:39,320 Speaker 1: not now, not no pressure. I will never do that. 113 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 1: I'm not pressuring that. I feel like that's something you 114 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: should discuss. Why wait till the eight month mark or 115 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 1: six month marks to disgust it. If there's something that 116 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 1: you want, you can save yourself a world of trouble 117 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: and a whole bunch of time wasted. 118 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 2: If you discussed it. 119 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: From the real right, because I met like at this age, 120 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:57,039 Speaker 1: if you want to right? Because no. But the reason 121 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: that I thought about this because this guy that I 122 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: was talking to at one point he was like, honestly, 123 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:04,039 Speaker 1: I can tell within three months if I'm dating a 124 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 1: girl of if I want to like really really be 125 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: with her. But we had a little throwback moment the 126 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:10,159 Speaker 1: other day. 127 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: We was watching. 128 00:06:11,200 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: Sierra videos and the song with Her and Jeezy came 129 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: on and I was like, in the lyrics, she say, 130 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 1: if that boy don't love you by now, he will 131 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: never love you. And I was like, Drea, do you 132 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,640 Speaker 1: really feel that way? He was like, Hell, yeah, I do. 133 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: Feel that way, but I think that song. She didn't. 134 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: She didn't say no specific time. No, I'm not saying 135 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: no specific time frame. But at the same time, if 136 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: that's certain period of time exactly, I don't love, but 137 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: love don't have nothing to do with it. Niggas be 138 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 1: in love with a lot of niggas. Niggas fall in 139 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: love with a lot of people. That does not mean 140 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,280 Speaker 1: that he's going to marry Okay, there's a difference between 141 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 1: having love for somebody and being in love. Being in 142 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:49,800 Speaker 1: love with people before and you didn't marry them. Yeah, 143 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: because I but that, I would say I've been in 144 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: love one time. But yeah, but the reason was because 145 00:06:56,720 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: I was young. 146 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 2: We didn't know. 147 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 1: I can guarantee you if it would if we would 148 00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: have been older and we would have been making more 149 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 1: mature decisions. I understand that. But but I'm talking about. 150 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: All I'm saying is people have been in love with 151 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: people before and did not marry them. Being in love 152 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: with somebody is not the end. Like, that's not the 153 00:07:15,800 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 1: ultimate reason why I feel like people don't get married. No, No, no, 154 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: I don't either. It is about timing. But like I said, 155 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: for a lot of people, it don't be timing. I 156 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: feel what you're saying. But like I said at my 157 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: big age, what am I just but that that's why 158 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: I Okay, well, maybe you don't give up the pussy. 159 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: That's why I'm not you know I'm talking about but 160 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: you're not dating anyone right now if we be in 161 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: safe I mean, I have a lot of people pursuing 162 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,400 Speaker 1: me right now. I've been talking about Wait, can I 163 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,160 Speaker 1: finish my thought. What I'm saying is I have people 164 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: pursuing me right now. I've had plenty of opportunities to 165 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: have sex. I told you at the end of the 166 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:57,880 Speaker 1: year that I'm just not I said that people on 167 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:00,440 Speaker 1: Twitter that follow me, no, I said, I want to 168 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: be selling it this year. I don't want to at 169 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: least wait to have sex till at somebody I feel 170 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 1: a real connection with. I'm just over casual sex, That's 171 00:08:10,760 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So it's like, okay, yeah, so stick 172 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: to that, then you won't just be Yeah, that's what 173 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm over the casual sex. Now. I'm not 174 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 1: saying I feel like like I said earlier, you know, 175 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: going back to what I said earlier, if you marriage 176 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: is something that's really really important to you. You feel 177 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 1: like you're about to turn thirty this year, you want 178 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: to get. 179 00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 2: Married, and you stand in stone on it. 180 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: That should be something that you discussed with somebody off 181 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: the rip right now, let me say this, six months 182 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 1: in you liking this person, you feeling this person, and 183 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: then now you in love with him, so you like, oh, 184 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:45,079 Speaker 1: I want to talk to him because I want him 185 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: to know, like for six months I'm ready to talk 186 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 1: about marriage, and he like, well, I don't want to 187 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: get married. I don't believe it married. Right now, I 188 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:56,240 Speaker 1: want to say that, I'll say this one let me 189 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: not say let me take that back what I said, 190 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:00,959 Speaker 1: because like I said, I do want to get married 191 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,040 Speaker 1: one day, of course, I feel like most women do. 192 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: But that's not like my end goal in life. But 193 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: I will say, and I don't even know if I 194 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: want to be married honestly, and I and I can 195 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: agree with that as well, but. 196 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:15,079 Speaker 2: I'm dead. 197 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: So it's just like as far as the mayor singles, 198 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: I will never like pressure somebody. But I do feel 199 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 1: like if we've been together for a while, we at 200 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 1: least need to be moving in together. At the least 201 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: moving in together if we hit that year mark and 202 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 1: we aren't living together, we grown what are we doing now? 203 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm not saying with you, I don't think at this 204 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,720 Speaker 1: point in my life, if I'm dating somebody and I 205 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 1: really like them, I'm not about to wait no year 206 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 1: to move in with you. 207 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 2: We should be moving in with each other. The verse 208 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 2: two three months. 209 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: I feel and I feel you on that, but I 210 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: swear I mean, but that's because I'm used to like. Okay, 211 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 1: let me say this. When you fuck with niggas who 212 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:02,079 Speaker 1: got money, and I'm not trying to be funny, but 213 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 1: them niggas moved fast in comparison to like, you know, 214 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 1: your average guy. It ain't nothing wrong with the average guy. 215 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, dude, to be having like a 216 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: substantial amount of money and success, they moved really fast 217 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: because they know what they wanted life. They've done, have 218 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: been through a life, they know what they wanted. All 219 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: he is an issue. So it's like, if they want you, 220 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: they'd be like, hey, I'm pretty sick, but I'm not 221 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: gonna lie. I've lived with a guy with a lot 222 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: of money, and I've lived with two guys before I 223 00:10:29,080 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: lived with a guy with a lot of money, and 224 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 1: I've lived with somebody who was just like we was 225 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: on the same level. How long did you live with them? 226 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: My first guy that I lived with, we was in 227 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: a like relationships, so we were together for about three 228 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: and a half years, and we lived together for like 229 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:46,840 Speaker 1: a year and a half. The other guy that had 230 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:48,719 Speaker 1: a lot of money, we was together on and off 231 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: for about seven eight years, but I actually lived with 232 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 1: him for about it was probably about an eight to 233 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: ten month period, just because I was kind of in 234 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 1: between places at the time, so it was like, you 235 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, I was living there night permanently 236 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 1: for the whole eight months, or I was there like 237 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 1: you was there. No, I was there a lot, just 238 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: because my sister she was like I was. Me and 239 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 1: my sister had a place together and she got a 240 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 1: boyfriend at the time, and I just didn't like being there, 241 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 1: so I was just like never there. So it's like 242 00:11:22,120 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: technically I had somewhere to go, but my room was 243 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: empty because literally my closet was empty everything. But like 244 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: if anything ever happened, I had a room to go to, 245 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:32,959 Speaker 1: but nothing ever happened, So it's like I was living 246 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: with him, so I'll say, as far as that goes, 247 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 1: I feel like if a man money or not, if 248 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:40,360 Speaker 1: a man want to live with you, a man gonna 249 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:44,839 Speaker 1: live with you. I mean, I don't necessarily feel that 250 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 1: way only because I've declined offers to live with me. 251 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 1: Because and this is the one thing I'll say, I 252 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: haven't never lived with a guy my whole life. 253 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 2: I've always had my own place. But I've had like three. 254 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: Niggas asks me to move in with them, and I 255 00:11:58,080 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: declined every time. So I don't necessarily feel like if 256 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,719 Speaker 1: a nigga wants you to live with him, like moving with. 257 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 2: Him or lived there, he gonna do it. 258 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: Because it's like he don't have no control over what 259 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:10,440 Speaker 1: you want to do because I had control all of them. 260 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: I'm not saying, but he they wanted you to live there, 261 00:12:12,679 --> 00:12:15,040 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So if a man wants you 262 00:12:15,080 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: to live with him, he's gonna say that. So you're 263 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 1: saying the same thing I said. You show well, I 264 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:22,320 Speaker 1: thought you just said that if a man wants you 265 00:12:22,360 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 1: to live with him, he gonna do it. Yeah, he's gonna. 266 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:28,719 Speaker 1: He's gonna not do it. I mean as far as 267 00:12:28,760 --> 00:12:31,400 Speaker 1: he's gonna ask you, and he's gonna make that effort 268 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 1: to be like, you need to come live with me. 269 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: But I but what I was saying, I disagree with 270 00:12:35,920 --> 00:12:38,480 Speaker 1: you on because you're like as far as niggas w money. 271 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: Because I will say I had another boy, my other 272 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: serious boyfriend. I know, y'all like this whole got a 273 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: lot of boyfriends. First of all, this was my serious 274 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 1: relationship I was in before I moved to Atlanta, and 275 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: he wanted me to live with him. He didn't want 276 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: me to move to Atlanta. It was just a whole 277 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 1: bunch of mess. But I feel like he wasn't rich 278 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: at all. He was stable, Like he had a very 279 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: good job. You know, he did well for himself. So 280 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: it's just like I don't feel like money doesn't really 281 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: have anything. But how long were y'all dating you and 282 00:13:06,480 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: this person before he asked you the movie? 283 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 2: Oh we were together for a while. Okay, So that's 284 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:12,760 Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Money do have something to do with it. 285 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:14,560 Speaker 1: I mean, but he had money. 286 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:17,559 Speaker 2: His money, His money was the same from the start to. 287 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: But you're not understanding the point that I'm making. The 288 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 1: point that I only only thing I said is the 289 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,560 Speaker 1: difference between a guy that has money and an average show. 290 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: Is that niggas with money move very fast. And you 291 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 1: just proved my point. I mean, but no that you said, 292 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:36,079 Speaker 1: I don't agree with you. I don't because my first 293 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: boyfriend that I lived with, we started living together after 294 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:41,319 Speaker 1: four or five months, we had sex on the first night, 295 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 1: we started saying I love you. 296 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 2: In the next week. 297 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 1: Is this to do with the money, because because I mean, 298 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 1: keep in mind, I know the people that you're right, right, 299 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:50,559 Speaker 1: is this the person with the money? No, this is 300 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: this is the first they didn't have nobe right. Yeah, Okay, 301 00:13:57,280 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: So again going back to my point that I said, 302 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 1: niggas when money move fast, he don't have moving but 303 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: five months to me that dating after the bills, let's 304 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: I mean, let's let's keep I'm gonna kick one hund 305 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: I was saying, he has a teense of moving with 306 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: somebody if I I mean, I wasn't. I was playing 307 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: like little stuff but you was paying for stuff. Yeah, 308 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: I mean I was paying. 309 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 2: Different from living with a nigga who got money, right. 310 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 1: But I mean, but honestly, I'm gonna keep it one 311 00:14:28,440 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: hunted Like I've always felt like you're supposed to do 312 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 1: something around the house, whether it be like groceries, cooking, 313 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: and you have to do something. Yeah, you gotta do something. 314 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: You gotta do, you gotta cook, you gotta fuck, you 315 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: gotta clean. And my nigga is a multi millionaire. You 316 00:14:44,440 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: got me fucked up. I'm not paying no fucking bills 317 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 1: I'm paying from I don't mind doing things like paying 318 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 1: my parnal right, that paying paying my own right, that's 319 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 1: what I was doing household bills. Especially if and this 320 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 1: is the thing, I'm never gonna move in with a 321 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: man unless you asking me to move in with you. 322 00:15:04,760 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna just impose. Yeah, I'm not be like, 323 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: oh that's oh, I love you. I feel like we 324 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,320 Speaker 1: need to be living together. You never gonna hit allse 325 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 1: warris come out of my mouth. I agree with you 326 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: have a movie with a man is if he asked 327 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 1: me to move in with him. And so I'm assuming 328 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:22,120 Speaker 1: if you asking me to leave my place where I 329 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: pay my own bills to move in with you, I 330 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 1: hope that you don't think we about to split. Bet now, 331 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie when I say like I was paying, 332 00:15:29,160 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: I'm not paying for a ship. And especially if I'm 333 00:15:31,840 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: moving into your house. Are y'all award me? No, I'm 334 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:38,240 Speaker 1: not paying for a motherfucking thing but my own bills. 335 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: And now what I'm saying, when you want to fuck 336 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: and when you want me to cook and you want 337 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 1: me to go grocery shopping and do all those wifely 338 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: women do the laundry, I don't have no issues with you. 339 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: I'm assuming that you're going to cover the task, right. No, 340 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 1: I now, I one hundred and agree with you on that. 341 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 1: So going back, so going down? So what I say 342 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: about it? But that's what I was saying. I was. 343 00:16:02,320 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: I was paying things. I was paying my own phone bill, 344 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 1: I was paying my carnal. But you say he was 345 00:16:08,680 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 1: paying little things. Yeah, I was paying little things. You 346 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: didn't say that you was paying your bills. You made 347 00:16:13,160 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: me seem like you was paying like part of the 348 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:18,200 Speaker 1: bills for the household. How did I say that when 349 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: I don't even finish my se because you Because I 350 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 1: feel like if you was only paying I mean, I 351 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,960 Speaker 1: don't know, but I know what I was. You wouldn't 352 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: be like I was just paying my No, because I was. 353 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: I was. 354 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 2: I was paying little bitty things. 355 00:16:30,200 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: I was buying pa no, not necessarily, because I know 356 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,720 Speaker 1: women that live women that don't pay jack understanding and 357 00:16:37,800 --> 00:16:41,400 Speaker 1: then also but living with somebody, but decided making the 358 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: decision to move in with somebody that's not you, assuming 359 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: that this niggas gonna pay your cell phone bill and 360 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: your carnal. I mean, but some women don't watch and 361 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 1: they don't do nothing. It's all the type of arrangement 362 00:16:51,680 --> 00:16:56,120 Speaker 1: when that person has But my right wasn't like that 363 00:16:56,240 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: because I mean I was in college at the time. 364 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: I mean, he wasn't rich making money, but he you know, 365 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:04,879 Speaker 1: he took care of himself for our ads. No, no, 366 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 1: definitely didn't pay the rent, no nothing. But you have 367 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 1: to realize this was two thousand and nine, twenty ten. 368 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: Things were a little bit cheaper than they are now. 369 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 1: As far as living situation, it was easy to make money. 370 00:17:16,760 --> 00:17:18,480 Speaker 1: Like the shit that he was doing. He was hustling. 371 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:20,720 Speaker 1: It was easy to make money now. As far as 372 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: like groceries. I was always stocking the girls. I'm not 373 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: gonna lie. It wasn't like, oh, he would give me 374 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 1: the card and go buy this little stuff around the 375 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: house that needed to get done. Like I was taking 376 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: care of that little bit of stuff. But like I said, 377 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 1: this was when I was nineteen twenty, Like, shit is 378 00:17:36,040 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 1: different now now. 379 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 2: I do one hundred percent agree agree with you on that. 380 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: Like if I'm moving in one I am never gonna 381 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 1: ask a man to be like, oh, I think we 382 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:46,439 Speaker 1: should move in together, because I feel like that's a 383 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:48,480 Speaker 1: little thirsty. That's just like to me, if you ask 384 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: a man to move in with you, that's just like 385 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: a woman getting on her knee and proposing to you. 386 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: That's just that's just a little a little thirsty. Asking 387 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 1: a nigga to movie in with shooting you need to 388 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 1: do all the holes that be talking about, Oh I 389 00:18:00,680 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 1: don't want to pay none of the bills. Well, if 390 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:04,040 Speaker 1: you ask them the nigga to move in, which you 391 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 1: need to prepare to pay your have for the red 392 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 1: because I'm sorry, I'm not about to ask mem the 393 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:09,879 Speaker 1: bees niggas to live with me. 394 00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 2: I'll be paying sh it on my own. If anything, 395 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 2: you want to be paying my bills? What bills? What 396 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: you mean with bills? 397 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 1: I'm asking anything a niggas gonna be paying my bills 398 00:18:20,800 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: like you're paying my bills before I ever be like, 399 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: oh I am about to come you should move in 400 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 1: with me, we should live together. Like, no, there's something 401 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 1: that you gonna say, but you're probably gonna already be 402 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,880 Speaker 1: paying my refirs to be honies before y'all even take 403 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 1: that even take that step to be. 404 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 2: Roommates but live in the same So this is what 405 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:41,800 Speaker 2: I'll say about this topic. 406 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 1: I just wanted to but I just wanted to just 407 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:47,120 Speaker 1: end on what I was saying because I didn't get 408 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: to finish. 409 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 2: I just feel like, yeah, like I don't know. 410 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 1: Rich niggas definitely move a little faster, in my opinion 411 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 1: than dudes that don't have all the coins, because a 412 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:01,640 Speaker 1: nigga who have money is nothing for him to be like, oh, baby, 413 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 1: come live with me, because he already paying me all 414 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 1: of these expensive ass bills anyway, So it's listened to 415 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 1: me like, oh, come move in with me and I'm 416 00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: gonna cover the tab. Now a nigga who don't have 417 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: as much money, that's a little more of an investment. 418 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 1: I just I mean, not a little more of an investment, 419 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: but it's a little bit more than he has to 420 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: think about because it's like it's more of a command. 421 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 1: I'm not about to have all of my freedom anymore, 422 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,719 Speaker 1: and like I'm about to have these person living in 423 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 1: my house, like gonna be doing what I'm doing. I'm 424 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: gonna be able to lay like creeping shit. But some 425 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 1: of them be cool with it because they want y'all 426 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 1: to pay y'all hairs for the rent. 427 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 2: I'm dead now. 428 00:19:36,080 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: I will say that I'm never, ever, ever, ever, ever, 429 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 1: ever ever splitting. 430 00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 2: Rent with a man. 431 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 1: I don't care how long we wait, I don't care 432 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 1: how much money you make it. I'm not splitting rent 433 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,160 Speaker 1: with you. So all the fellas out here listening, look, 434 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 1: I'm not splitting on rent. I think that's unnecessary. If 435 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 1: you got a splint rent with your girl, that you're 436 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: not ready for the type of relationship that I want. 437 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,879 Speaker 1: That's just my personal relationship you want. I want a 438 00:20:01,960 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 1: relationship that's beneficial for the both of us, but that's 439 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 1: also full of love. I want to create a home, 440 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I want whenever I 441 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:13,400 Speaker 1: come home, I want. 442 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,440 Speaker 2: It to be my safe haven. The same thing for you. 443 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,640 Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's men are making way 444 00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 1: more money than women, so it ain't nothing for you 445 00:20:21,800 --> 00:20:25,120 Speaker 1: to pay all the bills I'm talking about. Well, I'm 446 00:20:25,119 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 1: talking about corporately, like you know, when it comes down 447 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:32,360 Speaker 1: to the number statistically, No, I'm talking about statistically. I'm 448 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 1: just asking you who you dated, I mean, updated to 449 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,760 Speaker 1: god in corporate world before Yes, my last relationship, So 450 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: I went to Pais for a corporate nigga. So it's like, yes, 451 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:45,200 Speaker 1: I do you know what I'm saying that by the way, 452 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:47,280 Speaker 1: I mean, but I was still dating him. We were 453 00:20:47,320 --> 00:20:49,719 Speaker 1: together for long enough for me to take a few trips, 454 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I went to Paris, 455 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: and I went to Miami, and I went to New York. 456 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 1: That's three trips. I took a few trips. Like I said, 457 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:01,640 Speaker 1: I went to Paris, Miami, and New York. I don't know. 458 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 1: I don't be calling to you. Is this truth? I mean, 459 00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: if I get on a plane, it's a trip. So anyways, met. 460 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 2: It's not a true However, like I said, they didn't. 461 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:12,240 Speaker 1: I don't know. But anyways, like I'm saying, statistically, men 462 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: make de bab. But I'm gonna be so statistically. 463 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 2: Men make more than women. 464 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:21,160 Speaker 1: But that's why I feel like traditionally men take care 465 00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:25,240 Speaker 1: of the household because traditionally men make more money. So 466 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: when it comes to that aspect, I'm traditional you the 467 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 1: brand winner. I'm gonna make my own money. I'm gonna 468 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 1: have money coming in, but at the end of the day, 469 00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,400 Speaker 1: you paying the bills period, and I'm not. That's one 470 00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:40,120 Speaker 1: thing I'm not moving on like not well, I've always 471 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 1: feelt that way and I've always stood firm on that. 472 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 1: We're not sleep nothing we need to like, if you 473 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 1: want me to sleep anything, we about to sleep. Because 474 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: so let us know and let us know how y'all 475 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: feel about that situation about you know, do y'all feel 476 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: like rich men move quicker than men than the average man? 477 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,639 Speaker 1: And do y'all feel like time limits is an issue? 478 00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 1: Do you feel like the older you get, the shorter 479 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 1: your like time limit is on? What? 480 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 2: Like what the fuck we doing? 481 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: Like? 482 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 2: What do we have going on? Six months? 483 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: You ready to move? In a year? Let's get married? Like, 484 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: how do y'all feel about time limit as you get older? So? Yeah, 485 00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,760 Speaker 1: So the next topic is basically we're gonna be talking 486 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 1: about taking. 487 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 2: Relationship advice from single friends. 488 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,000 Speaker 1: I know all of y'all got some single friends who 489 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:29,679 Speaker 1: always be trying to give y'all relationship advice. And you know, 490 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 1: you just want to know how y'all feel about it? 491 00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 1: How do you feel about it? Because I always single, right, 492 00:22:34,960 --> 00:22:39,679 Speaker 1: So I'll say this, out of all my friends, only 493 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: one of my friends is in a serious relationship. So 494 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: do I take advice. I think I take advice, but 495 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 1: I listen to it, But that doesn't necessarily mean I 496 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 1: use it, cause I feel like everybody has different opinions. 497 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 1: But I'll take advice more so of my friends who 498 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: have been in the situations I've been in before. You 499 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, if I'm dealing with a 500 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 1: nigga who has money, who is giving me this and that, 501 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: of course I'm gonna ask Drea because she has a 502 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: little more expertise in that area. Or if I have 503 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: somebody who is I've been dealing with for a long 504 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 1: time and it's a deep relationship and we in love 505 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:20,199 Speaker 1: and things getting a little serious, I'm gonna ask my 506 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 1: friend Lauren because she has more experience in serious relationships 507 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 1: and being in love. 508 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,680 Speaker 2: So I think you can take. 509 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 1: Advice from your single friends, but I think at once, 510 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:31,919 Speaker 1: at some point, you have to kind of draw a 511 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:35,040 Speaker 1: line because your beliefs may not be the same as 512 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: your friend's beliefs, but also sometimes HOWE is behaving. So 513 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 1: you also gotta be careful who you as because sometimes 514 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 1: you can ask your friends something that she could give 515 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: you the wrong advice just because she's jealous of you 516 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: and she don't want to see you happy. Now, what 517 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 1: I was gonna say about that is I'm gonna keep 518 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:56,199 Speaker 1: it one honey with y'all. I listen to what my 519 00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: friends say, but I don't really take advice from nobody, like. 520 00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 2: Gonna always do WHATREA. 521 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 1: Want to do, and people other people opinions or advice 522 00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:09,879 Speaker 1: never influenced my decisions. And when I say never, I 523 00:24:09,920 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: mean never, like I'm always going to do what I 524 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 1: want to do. And that's mainly because not to say 525 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 1: that I've necessarily dealt with having friends who were jealous 526 00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,600 Speaker 1: of who I was dating or situations that I've been in, 527 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 1: but I've seen people around me be in situations like 528 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 1: that where you know, they thought somebody was their friend 529 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:34,359 Speaker 1: and they was giving them bad advice and telling them all, 530 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:36,879 Speaker 1: don't fuck with these nigga, or oh, you need to 531 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 1: leave him alone, but mainly because they were jealous of 532 00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:43,960 Speaker 1: the person's situation because they had never been in a 533 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:45,919 Speaker 1: situation like that, And I feel like a lot of 534 00:24:45,960 --> 00:24:47,840 Speaker 1: the time, if you ain't never been in a situation, 535 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,240 Speaker 1: or you ain't never fucked with a certain type of nigga, 536 00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,919 Speaker 1: or you ain't never been or even for niggas, if 537 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: you ain't never fucked with a certain type of bitch. 538 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:59,200 Speaker 2: You just don't really have the the best advice. 539 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 1: Not to say they don't have the best advice, but 540 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 1: you don't have enough experience to give someone advice on 541 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 1: certain things. But ultimately, I'm gonna say these and this 542 00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: is all i gotta say about it. I don't feel 543 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,040 Speaker 1: like you need to take advice from no the emnbody. 544 00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: You could ask your friends sit and listen to their opinions, 545 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,400 Speaker 1: hear them out, but at the end of the day, 546 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,439 Speaker 1: you always need to do what the fuck you wanna do, 547 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 1: because I'm gonna keep it one honey, you don't never 548 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 1: know your friend's intentions when they're telling you sit. 549 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 2: They might not like the person. 550 00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 1: They might be holding their own little grudge against the 551 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:33,719 Speaker 1: person because the shit that you done to hold them 552 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: in the past, which is something that I think we're 553 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,359 Speaker 1: all guilty of a lot of the time. You know 554 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 1: what I mean, you be going through shit with your nigga, 555 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,719 Speaker 1: or you be going through sheit with your girlfriend, and 556 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,119 Speaker 1: you tell your homeboys, and you tell your homegirls, Ay, 557 00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: me and my nigga or me and my girl going 558 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 1: through this, and then y'all end up getting over it 559 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 1: and getting past it, and your homegirl or your homeboys 560 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:58,160 Speaker 1: feeling internalized and feelings about the situation, so they subconsciously 561 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 1: feel some type of way about your girl, girl or 562 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: your boyfriend. So I feel like that's why you should 563 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,600 Speaker 1: never take advice, because you gonna you not gonna never 564 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 1: be in your homegirl or your homeboy's head to know 565 00:26:09,200 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: what they really think about a situation. So you shouldn't 566 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,480 Speaker 1: even take the advice because what they telling you might 567 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:15,800 Speaker 1: not really be what they really think, right, and if 568 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: they got the opportunity to be in your shoes, they 569 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 1: might take you. 570 00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:20,239 Speaker 2: You just never out. 571 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,479 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I've seen situations, like 572 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: with some of my friends that be like getting advice 573 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 1: from people, and I'd be like, honestly, that just sounds 574 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:34,160 Speaker 1: a little jealous. Now I've seen my friends get advice 575 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 1: and they be like, oh, I feel like she's being jealous. 576 00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,199 Speaker 1: But I'm like, honestly, I always try to take a 577 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,159 Speaker 1: step back and come from an unbiased and I'll just 578 00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,200 Speaker 1: be like, this person is telling you the truth because 579 00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: you you can't see it. You don't see what we 580 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 1: see because honestly, being in a situation with the man, 581 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 1: we're always blinded because when you like somebody, you're always 582 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 1: trying to see the best in them, and you don't 583 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,959 Speaker 1: want to think that they're doing certain things. So I 584 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 1: will say, sometimes your friends are trying to have your 585 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 1: best interest at heart. But like I said, sometimes you 586 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 1: do have the people that just be like, well, one 587 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: thing I'm gonna say that's really fucking annoying to me 588 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: is people who give you their opinion when you needn't asks. 589 00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: One thing I can unestly say, and I put this 590 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 1: on my granddaddy, I put this on the Bible, and 591 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 1: Lex could even vouch for this. I don't give nobody 592 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 1: relationship advice unless they ask. I keep my opinions to 593 00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:34,119 Speaker 1: myself unless we having a conversation about it. Are you 594 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: coming to me about something? I'm not about to just 595 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,639 Speaker 1: voluntarily tell you how I feel about your negro or 596 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,679 Speaker 1: how I feel like you should do shit ify certain 597 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:45,000 Speaker 1: situations that lick them being in or even my other friends, 598 00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: and it's like hm hm, I don't necessarily agree with it. 599 00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: I might not even like the person, but I'm gona 600 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:50,520 Speaker 1: keep that shit to myself until you come to me 601 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,040 Speaker 1: and you tell when you fit up with they need 602 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 1: Then when you tell me you fit up with him, 603 00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: then I'll be like, okay, cool, right, yeah, I agree, yeah, 604 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 1: like he trash, but I'm just not their friend. It's 605 00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 1: gonna just down talk your nigga. However, we all got 606 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:09,479 Speaker 1: friends like that. Who will I just don't do this right, Like, 607 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 1: I keep my opinion somebody, And I'm gonna tell y'all 608 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 1: something I've learned my lesson. I have learned my lesson 609 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: because let me tell you something. As women, what we'll 610 00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,120 Speaker 1: do is we'll go to our friend. We'll talk about 611 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: the nigga like a dog, talk about like a dog. 612 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,959 Speaker 1: So as soon as our friend chime in and say something, 613 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:28,879 Speaker 1: you want to get mad. So that's one thing as 614 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 1: women we cannot do. If you start feeling some type 615 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 1: of way, but you don't want other people to start 616 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,919 Speaker 1: feeling some type of way, that don't say nothing, you 617 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:38,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like every single fight that you 618 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: and your man get into, you don't need to share 619 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 1: with your friends or your family, or. 620 00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 621 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,200 Speaker 1: Like, like in one of my past relationships, I never 622 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,040 Speaker 1: told my mom the things that the guy was doing 623 00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,280 Speaker 1: to me because they had a close relationship and I 624 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,640 Speaker 1: knew I wasn't ready to leave that nigga. You know 625 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Once I was ready to leave and 626 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: I realized I was done, I was like, Okay, Mom, 627 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 1: this is what happen with him, this is what he's 628 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 1: what he's done. So of course she's my mom. She 629 00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:06,920 Speaker 1: going in, Oh, this is not good. This is what 630 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,720 Speaker 1: you deserve better. You're this type of woman. You know 631 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,959 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, because I was ready to hear that. 632 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 1: So for all my ladies. 633 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 2: Out there, do not do not. 634 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: Do not get in an argument with your man and 635 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,320 Speaker 1: tell your friends or tell your family. 636 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 2: That's the first mistake. 637 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:27,080 Speaker 1: Because when you're mad hearing somebody be like, oh, that 638 00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: nigga was wrong for that, that's going to make the 639 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: situation worse. 640 00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 2: Don't bring other people into your problems. 641 00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm a single woman giving advice, but this is 642 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 1: just me being honest. That's one big mistake that I've 643 00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,440 Speaker 1: learned from the past and learned from what my friends 644 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: do to me. 645 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:42,800 Speaker 2: Because let me tell something. 646 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 1: Once you come to me as a friend and tell 647 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,520 Speaker 1: me some whole shit that your nigga did to you, 648 00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: I don't like it. 649 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,920 Speaker 2: I can't fuck with it no more. You know what 650 00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 2: I'm saying. 651 00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: I can't really relate because I'm not really like it. 652 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,560 Speaker 1: But for me, it just kind of be like because 653 00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, don't be I don't 654 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: have friends and they niggas be doing up shit to them, 655 00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I'll be feeling 656 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,120 Speaker 1: like shit if that's what you're gonna put up with 657 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:08,400 Speaker 1: the beach, that's what you're putting up with, right, I'm 658 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,160 Speaker 1: not about to tell you what to do, because right, 659 00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:11,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not gonna tell somebody what to do. 660 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 1: But at the time, it's like, I'm not gonna dislike 661 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 1: your nigga because you're allowing him to do this to you, right, 662 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: But I mean, but you're allowing this to happen. That's 663 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: but I mean, like I said, people are manipulative, and 664 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: things happen, So people manipulative, Right, at the end of 665 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 1: the day, you always got the ball of your court 666 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 1: to finally be like okay, like you're not about to 667 00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 1: keep manipulating me, especially when you know somebody manipulated, right. 668 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: I mean that's true, But like I said, for me, 669 00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 1: I I'm not I'm not that strong. I'm gonna be 670 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real, I'm not that strong of a person. 671 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:43,720 Speaker 1: So for me, it's easier said than done. Like my 672 00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:48,120 Speaker 1: last situation I was in, like my homegirls like. 673 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:50,000 Speaker 2: Like really got me through that shit. I was like, Okay, 674 00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:51,360 Speaker 2: you don't. 675 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 1: Feel like some of them had too much opinion know 676 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: by your situation sometimes, but at the end of the day, 677 00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,280 Speaker 1: my friends know me. So it was just kind of 678 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,600 Speaker 1: like I was like, okay, I can't hear this right now, 679 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 1: and it was like, okay, cool, we don't have to 680 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: talk about it, and the situation was dropped. It was 681 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: never like girl, I don't know, it was only they 682 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 1: only brought it up when I would bring it up, 683 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 1: and I would be like like, because that's how I mean, 684 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: you are, Like I only I'm like, okay, cause you 685 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 1: know you you always keep your mouth shut, So I'm 686 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: only like he dress, But that's what I was about 687 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 1: to say. But that's the difference between me and some 688 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: of your others. Right. But some of my I don't project, right, 689 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 1: but until you ready to talk, right, But some of 690 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 1: like sometimes but as bad as it is, like with 691 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,960 Speaker 1: this last situation, like my friend that was like interjected 692 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 1: because I needed her to do that, you know what 693 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So sometimes it's it's okay. But like I said, 694 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,760 Speaker 1: it just depends because I'm just a firm believer in 695 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, and maybe that's just I don't know 696 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 1: what that is and me it's like that, But I 697 00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:51,680 Speaker 1: just believe in like letting people do what they want 698 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: to do, because at the end of the day, I 699 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: don't see people being crazy situations and everybody around them 700 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,720 Speaker 1: be against their situation and then they be together for 701 00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,560 Speaker 1: years and years and years and to get married and 702 00:32:02,600 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: have kids and all this type of shit. That's why 703 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 1: I just feel like, you don't need to interject your 704 00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 1: opinions because something that my mom always told me was, 705 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: you know, as people friend or as their sibling or whatever, 706 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 1: you could look at your sister or your best friend 707 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,720 Speaker 1: or your cousin and be like, oh. 708 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 2: She deserves better. 709 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 1: But the fact of the matter is you can never 710 00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:27,880 Speaker 1: do for that person what that man or that woman 711 00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,680 Speaker 1: is doing for them. You can never step in the 712 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,320 Speaker 1: shoes of that person to do for them what the 713 00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,680 Speaker 1: person that they fucking what he's doing for them. I 714 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 1: just felt like, sometimes that's why you need to keep 715 00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 1: your comment see yourself. And I only say that because 716 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,400 Speaker 1: just honestly speaking on my parents' situation. Like my parents 717 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:47,520 Speaker 1: they've been married for like over thirty years, and my 718 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 1: dad's parents did not well, my dad's mom did not 719 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,440 Speaker 1: like my mom, and his sisters did not like my mom, 720 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: and then my mom her brothers and like two of 721 00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,280 Speaker 1: her brothers and my granddad didn't like my dad. But 722 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,959 Speaker 1: they still ended up getting married and they've been together 723 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 1: for thirty years. And it's like, what if they would 724 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: have listened to the people who was like opposing their 725 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,479 Speaker 1: relationship and had some much to say about it. That's 726 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 1: why I just feel like he's best to say. And 727 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:15,600 Speaker 1: I will say I agree to a certain cent, but 728 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 1: it's just like, but you know, like I said, sometimes 729 00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 1: like you have that friend who was just always like 730 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: my homegirl, was always always crying, always upset, and it's 731 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: just like sometimes I just reached my breaking point, I'm like, Okay, brouh, 732 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 1: what do you want? What do you want me to say? 733 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 2: Like this is toxic for you? 734 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,240 Speaker 1: Though, how many times do you am I just supposed 735 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,520 Speaker 1: to sit there and listen to you deal with a 736 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: toxic situation. And now she's good, She's like better than 737 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,760 Speaker 1: ever now she's like, I'm so glad that I let 738 00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,600 Speaker 1: that situation go, cause it's the same thing for me, 739 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,200 Speaker 1: because I'm like, bruh, I'm so glad I let that 740 00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:54,959 Speaker 1: situation go. You know what I'm saying, because sometimes you know, 741 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 1: your parents are very blessed, very in love, real been 742 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 1: together for thirty but when they were dating, dating was 743 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 1: a lot different than it is now. Now niggas just 744 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: won't all they can and they want to eat it too. 745 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,120 Speaker 1: When they will use you, use you, use you until 746 00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:18,640 Speaker 1: you can't fucking be used. No, Yeah, but not to this. 747 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: Dating is different now, just like women were using men, 748 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,480 Speaker 1: but not to this extent. The dating game is ugly. 749 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,200 Speaker 1: You ain't gonna lie to y'all. Though I don't necessarily 750 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 1: know if I feel like dating is different now or 751 00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:31,399 Speaker 1: if it's just more. 752 00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 2: It's definitely different. 753 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,400 Speaker 1: Rap it's just more like we can see what's going 754 00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 1: on because we're on social media. Not only that, but 755 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 1: you have like back in the day, you kazaying sheep 756 00:34:43,239 --> 00:34:43,759 Speaker 1: was going on. 757 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,359 Speaker 2: No, it just wasn't. 758 00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:50,799 Speaker 1: When Barbara In broke up with Billy, the sheet wasn't 759 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:54,279 Speaker 1: on Facebook. True. And also Billy didn't have access to 760 00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,279 Speaker 1: five hundred bitches in one town. But it don't matter 761 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 1: if he has access to five hundred baches. He had 762 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 1: a it's to like twenty of them holes at his job. 763 00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 1: And yeah, but that's what I'm saying it right, so 764 00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: that access be cheated since the beginning, cheating. But like 765 00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,400 Speaker 1: I said, there's no value in love and marriage, no 766 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 1: more so dating is. But this is the this is 767 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,320 Speaker 1: what I made. So was it value back in the 768 00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,960 Speaker 1: day because people have been getting cheated on since the 769 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 1: beginning of time? I'm not because you can cheat on 770 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 1: somebody and still love them and still value. So what's 771 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:28,280 Speaker 1: the difference, then, That's what I'm saying, what's the difference 772 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 1: because people are not getting people are the divorce rates 773 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:35,800 Speaker 1: are higher, the baby mama's baby daddy statistics are higher. 774 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:40,360 Speaker 1: People just but but you don't feel like that's because 775 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,760 Speaker 1: back in the day we were conditioned to believe that 776 00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 1: because exactly, exactly exactly, So if I'm not happy, I'm 777 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,959 Speaker 1: leaving you. That's why I said that all goes into 778 00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:56,960 Speaker 1: Dating is different now because back in the day, if 779 00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,000 Speaker 1: you weren't happy, you would try and you were gonna 780 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 1: work it out. You may went through a bad hump. 781 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,120 Speaker 1: You know how many times people break up and get 782 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: remarried because they don't take that time out or really 783 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 1: try to work it through. 784 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,920 Speaker 2: Back then, it wasn't no divorce. So absolutely. 785 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 1: Divorced like three times, I don't know, and you can't. 786 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 2: Still getting them. 787 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 1: But it's what That's what I'm saying. Dating is different now. 788 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 1: Older people are doing that. Young people ain't doing that. Shit, 789 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,400 Speaker 1: they're not even getting married. They don't care. People are 790 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 1: having babies. Yeah, but I'm talking about dating. Dating is 791 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,960 Speaker 1: very very different now. It's not the same, bru. And 792 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: that's fine because times are always times are always gonna change. 793 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,279 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like that's inevitable. 794 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,200 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is, you know you're that you're mad, 795 00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 1: you're nd finding your mom and having people in their ear. 796 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,319 Speaker 2: It's a little bit it's a little bit different than now. 797 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:50,839 Speaker 2: People being in people's ear. 798 00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: How is it different my opinion, my opinion not trying 799 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:56,640 Speaker 1: to put my parents business out there like that. But 800 00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:58,520 Speaker 1: they don't even listen to these shows, so it wouldn't 801 00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,399 Speaker 1: even matter. But my mom actually got in a fight 802 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: with my grandmother. She don't get no more real. I 803 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,720 Speaker 1: mean shit, like I mean what I'm like Dad's mom. 804 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: But what they still remain married, right. But what I'm 805 00:37:12,080 --> 00:37:16,400 Speaker 1: saying is because back then, you know, like I mean, 806 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:21,040 Speaker 1: argument is telling the people, not your But what I'm 807 00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,880 Speaker 1: saying is because back then, just like the point I 808 00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 1: was making, people were gonna fight for their love and 809 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,279 Speaker 1: fight for what the hell they wanted. Nowadays people not 810 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 1: doing that shit. Yes, absolutely, that ain't nothing. Families argue 811 00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:38,800 Speaker 1: on my home, my home, my home, girl. Have people 812 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:42,439 Speaker 1: fight at her cousin funeral back in the gap, Yes, 813 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: because that's how people were fighting for their relationships. Back then. 814 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,879 Speaker 2: People ain't fighting for shit because you know why, they. 815 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:53,640 Speaker 1: Can get on Instagram like a bitch pictures five times 816 00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,600 Speaker 1: in a row and they in the DNS tomorrow she 817 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 1: on the flight, next flight out, and they fucking That's 818 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:01,759 Speaker 1: why people were Your mama was gonna fight for what 819 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,759 Speaker 1: she won't need girls ain't doing that now. I ain't 820 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:07,000 Speaker 1: fighting no nigga mama right now. And that's just the truth. 821 00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:10,480 Speaker 1: You damn try and fight you. But I'm sewing her 822 00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:11,520 Speaker 1: bitchit exactly. 823 00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 2: But that's what I'm saying. Like, it's just things are 824 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:14,879 Speaker 2: different now. 825 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: So it's just like and I'm suing YouTube. So it's like, 826 00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 1: if somebody tell me something at the end of day, 827 00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do what i want. 828 00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:23,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna do what I want. 829 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: But to sit there and fight and fight and fight 830 00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,640 Speaker 1: and all admit, I'm not gonna keep fighting for something. 831 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,719 Speaker 1: If it's meant to be, it's gonna meant If I 832 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: feel like I want love to be easy going, it 833 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:37,439 Speaker 1: should be easy and it should be enjoyable. Now, relationships 834 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: are work. I'm not saying that it's gonna be all 835 00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 1: peachy creams, but I'm not about to fight for shit. 836 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:44,520 Speaker 1: And that's just me being real. Back in the gap, 837 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,920 Speaker 1: people is fighting for relationships. But what I'm not saying, 838 00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 1: what about the saying that nothing worth having comes easy? 839 00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying. I agree relationships are hard work, 840 00:38:57,440 --> 00:39:00,479 Speaker 1: but I'm not about to have to keep but down 841 00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 1: doors and busting down doors and busting down doors to 842 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 1: be with you, because there's another saying. 843 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,440 Speaker 2: God gonna give you the warnings. 844 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,120 Speaker 1: He gonna throw a rock, he gonna wait, he gonna 845 00:39:11,120 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 1: throw a pebble, he gonna throw a rock, and then 846 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,359 Speaker 1: he gonna throw a motherfucking boulterer at your ass. If 847 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 1: God giving me signs that this is maybe not it 848 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,440 Speaker 1: and I'm not happy, if I'm weighing my pros and cons, 849 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 1: I'm not fighting for it. 850 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:24,840 Speaker 2: I'm just not doing it. 851 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,399 Speaker 1: So that's why I said, like, and we gotta got 852 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 1: a little off topic, like we always do. But going 853 00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 1: back to what I said, Like I said, getting advice 854 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,120 Speaker 1: from friends, I don't think that it's a bad thing, 855 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, you need to 856 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 1: listen to yourself at the end of the day and 857 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:43,600 Speaker 1: do whatever makes you happy. If you're unhappy, I don't 858 00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 1: care what anybody is telling you. Somebody could be telling 859 00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 1: you girls, stay with this nigga he got money, or 860 00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 1: stay with this nigga. He can get you this job, 861 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,239 Speaker 1: or he can put you onto this or whatever the 862 00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: beneficial thing may be. Or oh he got good hair, 863 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,680 Speaker 1: he gonna give you a pretty baby. Ever is well, 864 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:02,840 Speaker 1: first of all, if you hoses out here, hands and 865 00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: babbies with niggas for good hair, y'all absolutely dumb. Oh 866 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 1: they absolutely are. I don't about your hair. What about 867 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:16,959 Speaker 1: yall bank roll to say? I thought you were about 868 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 1: to say your heart wow? Wow dre, So let us 869 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,680 Speaker 1: know what y'all throw all at the bank roll. So 870 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: let me know what y'all think about, you know, get 871 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,120 Speaker 1: a relationship advice from your single friends. So we're gonna 872 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:37,320 Speaker 1: move on into the bed topic. The b Hey, the bed, 873 00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 1: the bed? Okay, so, oh what I feel like? We 874 00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:44,880 Speaker 1: were watching a movie. This is why this came up. 875 00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: Were we watching a movie when this name? We're watching 876 00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,879 Speaker 1: the movie? I forgot what movie it was, but oh yeah, 877 00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,360 Speaker 1: we was watching Why did I Get married? Too? Okay, 878 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,840 Speaker 1: so a lot of right, So why did I get married? 879 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,800 Speaker 1: The second one, y'all remember Tyler parents care through his wife. 880 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:03,719 Speaker 1: She wasn't necessarily cheating on him, but she kind of 881 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:08,080 Speaker 1: had a little flirting relationship, an emotional affair was her coworker. 882 00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: So when they were having a conversation in the bed, 883 00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,040 Speaker 1: he was like, okay, so what happened on this date? 884 00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,040 Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, we had went out to 885 00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,480 Speaker 1: dinner or whatever. He was like, yeah, I could smell you. 886 00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,920 Speaker 1: I could smell him on you. He was like, you 887 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 1: came home and made love to me that night. Were 888 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,000 Speaker 1: you thinking about him? He said in a way that 889 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: you never made love to me before, right, So obviously 890 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 1: she gave it to him that night. He was like, 891 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,560 Speaker 1: were you thinking about him? And she was like yeah, 892 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:35,560 Speaker 1: So I'm like, damn, she was crying. 893 00:41:35,640 --> 00:41:36,840 Speaker 2: She was remorseful at that. 894 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:42,600 Speaker 1: That's some crocodile tears, bitch, please, because she was thinking 895 00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:46,720 Speaker 1: about what was his name, Philip, Philip Philip was putting 896 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:48,000 Speaker 1: the dad of her fantasy. 897 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:49,640 Speaker 2: So this is what I want to know. 898 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,160 Speaker 1: Have y'all ever had sex with somebody and was thinking 899 00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:56,560 Speaker 1: about somebody else? Little Drea, look. 900 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:57,080 Speaker 2: At your face. 901 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:58,920 Speaker 1: I wish you have to see her face right now, 902 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 1: because I think she's thinking about it right now. So 903 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 1: fucking lutely, it would be easier to count the times 904 00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,000 Speaker 1: that I wasn't thinking about somebody else in the time. 905 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:13,120 Speaker 1: So why do you do that? Are you not enjoying 906 00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,239 Speaker 1: the sex that you're having with that person? What the 907 00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 1: fuck like? Explain to me, because for you to say 908 00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:21,800 Speaker 1: that you've done it more time a lot of times. 909 00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 1: But why who are you fucking that you would have 910 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: to no, because you know listeners, they gonna be shady 911 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 1: with the other episode that we have the other week. 912 00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:37,480 Speaker 1: Ain't not to bring up the other episode like you 913 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 1: just need so anyway, they might have forgot about it. 914 00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:48,400 Speaker 1: I didn't forget about ship. You don't know that anyhood. 915 00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:53,120 Speaker 1: Why are you thinking about other men while you're having sex, man, 916 00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 1: because I done haved like some bomb ass six and 917 00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 1: then some six just kind of be you know, mediocre, 918 00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,920 Speaker 1: So so you'll be thinking about the other sex that 919 00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 1: you had. Ye, So you never like fantasized about somebody 920 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:06,680 Speaker 1: that you've never had sex with, when absolutely not, I 921 00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,400 Speaker 1: don't need to fantasize about it. But that's what she 922 00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,319 Speaker 1: was doing in the movie cause she hadn't had sex 923 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,680 Speaker 1: with Philip. She was fantasizing that it was Philip. Now, 924 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:15,719 Speaker 1: I never fantasized about anybody that I haven't had sex with. 925 00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,480 Speaker 1: If anything, I'd be having sex with somebody and I'd 926 00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 1: be like thinking about a nigga that I used to 927 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,600 Speaker 1: fuck Bacon the day right, Like nigga was way better 928 00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 1: than you. So that's not necessarily necessarily like think. I mean, 929 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 1: it's thinking about way, but I'm thinking about it and 930 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:33,719 Speaker 1: more of a sort like you're not enjoying sex with 931 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,960 Speaker 1: their partner, so you're getting to the mind frame like Ooh, 932 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,279 Speaker 1: I'm fucking this nigga, and it starts getting good to 933 00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:40,719 Speaker 1: you cause he remember, he said she was fucking him 934 00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:43,359 Speaker 1: like she never fucked him before because she was thinking 935 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 1: about another man. 936 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 2: So that's what I think. 937 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I think we've all had instances where we 938 00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:49,360 Speaker 1: were like, oh, he not fucking me like this. But 939 00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying, have you ever started turning tricks and acting 940 00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:55,919 Speaker 1: out because you're imagine them that it's somebody else? Oh? 941 00:43:56,000 --> 00:43:56,799 Speaker 2: Absolutely not. 942 00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:58,800 Speaker 1: That's the weirdest fuck because any me God want, I 943 00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:00,840 Speaker 1: can get his eggs. I'm not about the fantasized about you. 944 00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,600 Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm not saying that like you're in 945 00:44:02,640 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 1: a situation so like I'm not saying that you're saying it. 946 00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 1: I'm just saying how I feel about it. I'm not 947 00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:10,080 Speaker 1: about to fantasize about no nigga that I ain't ever fucked, 948 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:11,680 Speaker 1: because it's like, if I really want to fuck you 949 00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,520 Speaker 1: there bad, I'm gonna fuck you, right, I mean, But 950 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,560 Speaker 1: if you're like dealing with somebody else and you're having 951 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 1: sex with him and his sex is not good, but 952 00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:20,920 Speaker 1: this is the person that you're dealing and I'm thinking 953 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 1: probably about somebody else that I fucked before, right, So 954 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,000 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. So you're performing on a on 955 00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: a memory of somebody else, like you're fantasizing. That's what 956 00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,600 Speaker 1: we was talking about. That's what I just said. I know, 957 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,800 Speaker 1: but you was like, but no, but you were saying 958 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 1: because you were making it seem like you were just 959 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,680 Speaker 1: thinking about somebody. You were just like, oh, he used 960 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:40,359 Speaker 1: to fuck me better than this. But I'm talking about 961 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: like you start fucking the nigga. You're good, but I'm 962 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 1: still thinking about you. I'm like, damn, these niggadique was 963 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,400 Speaker 1: good as fuck. These niggaique was way better. I'll be 964 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,080 Speaker 1: thinking about, right, So are you performing better? I feel 965 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 1: like I'm performing like I'm fucking that nigga because that's 966 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:55,919 Speaker 1: what I'm thinking about in my head. 967 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:57,359 Speaker 2: Okay, That's what I was trying to ask. 968 00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 1: Cause me, let me say from my point of view, 969 00:44:59,760 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 1: like I I said, I feel baby girl what she 970 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:05,200 Speaker 1: was going through, because honestly, yes, because I've done that before. 971 00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,319 Speaker 1: I've literally had a man on top of me that 972 00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:09,799 Speaker 1: I was dealing with and we had okay sex, but 973 00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,280 Speaker 1: it was just like I was just always I don't 974 00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:15,480 Speaker 1: I am a very controlling person in the bed. So 975 00:45:15,680 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 1: if you know how to take control of me, but 976 00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:19,279 Speaker 1: there's a certain way that you go about it. I 977 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,200 Speaker 1: hate guys like, let me do it. I don't know. 978 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 1: That's not how you take control of me. And what 979 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:27,840 Speaker 1: I hate a nigga you try to like correct them, 980 00:45:28,080 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 1: but exactly because I'm not. I'm not because there's a 981 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:34,360 Speaker 1: difference between me trying to like be aggressive and show 982 00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,000 Speaker 1: you what I want but and then me just kind 983 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:40,879 Speaker 1: of being aggressive like oh, you know, and I'm trying 984 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,200 Speaker 1: to teach you, nigga, So sit here and let me 985 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:47,279 Speaker 1: teach you, right because I'm thinking about it and I'm 986 00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 1: getting mad, y'all. 987 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:49,719 Speaker 2: See y'aw, she's looking at me. 988 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,719 Speaker 1: No, don't take the wing off. Now. You got a 989 00:45:55,800 --> 00:46:00,359 Speaker 1: cane here because of that kell, So let me see 990 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:03,960 Speaker 1: the visual right now. So this is what I was 991 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 1: saying with like they're they're I'm thinking about these two 992 00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:13,080 Speaker 1: men because one just gives me the best sex ever 993 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,200 Speaker 1: every time I know who you're talking about, and one 994 00:46:16,760 --> 00:46:19,080 Speaker 1: not because I fucked him with this, because she knows 995 00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,160 Speaker 1: how I talked about him. And the other one was 996 00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:24,839 Speaker 1: just like it was okay, like he had some good dick, 997 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:29,239 Speaker 1: but it was just up to Park. Well I know this, yes, recently, 998 00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 1: my most recent boyfriend. So a right, calm down, mary Pall. 999 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,200 Speaker 1: So basically, I felt like when me and him were 1000 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 1: having sex, I was trying to teach him what I 1001 00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:45,359 Speaker 1: liked and I was trying to show him so I 1002 00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,719 Speaker 1: had to be aggressive. Other dude, I would be aggressive 1003 00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,319 Speaker 1: with him, but he knew how to take charge in 1004 00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,760 Speaker 1: a way that was like you know what I'm saying. 1005 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,839 Speaker 1: So it was I'm trying to but it's just so 1006 00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:16,320 Speaker 1: ham juice to that dy. So anyways, Wow, I'm sorry, 1007 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:18,239 Speaker 1: but I will say this. It's not something that I 1008 00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: do a lot. It's definitely not something I do a lot, 1009 00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:22,959 Speaker 1: but I definitely have done it a few times. 1010 00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:26,200 Speaker 2: You do it every time with your ex boyfriend? Not 1011 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:28,720 Speaker 2: every time, y'all. 1012 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:32,480 Speaker 1: But I tell y'all, she is being so shady, Like 1013 00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:37,440 Speaker 1: you don't be being shady on other I swear to god, y'all, 1014 00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:41,080 Speaker 1: lex be shady as fuck on every episode. I watched 1015 00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: last week's episode, you were shady as fully, but then 1016 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:49,279 Speaker 1: when I say one thing occasionally, I'm being shady and 1017 00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,640 Speaker 1: y'all shoul see how she looking at No. But all 1018 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying is as far as having safe with somebody. 1019 00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,120 Speaker 1: Like I told y'all before I did share this on 1020 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,319 Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions episode, I am a cheater. I did. So 1021 00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 1: It's like I was fantasizing about this other man so 1022 00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 1: much that it wasn't enough, so I just started having 1023 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:09,840 Speaker 1: the girl. You know what. This is off topic, but 1024 00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 1: and maybe maybe we should talk about these next week, 1025 00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:14,720 Speaker 1: but I want to get into you being a cheater. 1026 00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:17,239 Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it. I do, okay, 1027 00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:21,920 Speaker 1: talking about the bonus episode gotta be the first we'll 1028 00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:23,640 Speaker 1: get into that. We can talk about one of my 1029 00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 1: flaws as well. So we're gonna do a bonus episode 1030 00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,440 Speaker 1: this weekend, and we're gonna get into why I cheat 1031 00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,640 Speaker 1: so much. I mean, I feel like I'm being open 1032 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 1: even with me saying this right now, so we'll get 1033 00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:36,960 Speaker 1: into that. But anyways, back into the second wave, So 1034 00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:39,600 Speaker 1: back into the sex topic. Yeah, I fantasized about him 1035 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:42,239 Speaker 1: until because he wouldn't let me teach him. Would you 1036 00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:47,560 Speaker 1: be okay if your friend listen to the show, I 1037 00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:50,440 Speaker 1: don't care? You okay with him knowing that she was 1038 00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 1: a cheater. I mean yeah, because I did it. I'm 1039 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,880 Speaker 1: not I'm not ashamed about it. I'm not. 1040 00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 2: I stand by the things I do now, no I know, 1041 00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:01,600 Speaker 2: But I'm just. 1042 00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,279 Speaker 1: Like over here, like, wow, what if he listens to 1043 00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,200 Speaker 1: these I don't care and calls you? 1044 00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,600 Speaker 2: What is he gonna say? What is he gonna do? Bitch? 1045 00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:13,600 Speaker 1: Oh you cheated on me? Yeah? Dirty as hor so 1046 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:19,239 Speaker 1: you can't you near from the store show? Wasn't? Now? 1047 00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:19,960 Speaker 2: Where do we go from? 1048 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 1: All those smashes on the radio? That okay? So the 1049 00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 1: next the next thing we got is the Bob of 1050 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:32,360 Speaker 1: the Mother and the smash's on the radio, the Bob 1051 00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 1: of the Wait, oh my goodness, let me pull up 1052 00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:48,560 Speaker 1: a little song real quick. I saw you. That's cute, 1053 00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 1: That's okay. So first of all, let me tell you 1054 00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm not fucking with this nigga right now because he 1055 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:56,759 Speaker 1: tried to say something about jay Z. And let me 1056 00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,640 Speaker 1: tell you'll something. Jay Z is the greatest rapper of 1057 00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:00,719 Speaker 1: all time. You cannot say ain't nothing to jay Z? 1058 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,920 Speaker 1: You cannot look at ja Z. You cannot touch jay Z. 1059 00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:04,919 Speaker 2: Everything you do touch his hair. 1060 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:06,920 Speaker 1: No, nobody needs to touch his hair because it's the 1061 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,080 Speaker 1: king's crown, bitch, and don't touch it. 1062 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:10,879 Speaker 2: Do you hear what I'm saying? Do you understand me? 1063 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:12,759 Speaker 2: Do you understand the words that are coming out of 1064 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:13,160 Speaker 2: my mouth? 1065 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:15,319 Speaker 1: That is a king? Okay, he is a king, and 1066 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:19,640 Speaker 1: you don't touch them. However, I do feel like he 1067 00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:23,560 Speaker 1: can use a little touch. Anyways, back to the subject 1068 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,120 Speaker 1: that here, stop looking at me. I looked at y'all 1069 00:50:26,160 --> 00:50:28,200 Speaker 1: in the same boat she looking at my hair. Y'all 1070 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,120 Speaker 1: have no wig on my head, and she is looking 1071 00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,799 Speaker 1: at my hair, embarrassing me, like, damn bitch, just because 1072 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,080 Speaker 1: you laid your hair and did jo makeup. And I 1073 00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:36,800 Speaker 1: look a mess right now. Don't get it twisted. You 1074 00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:42,480 Speaker 1: don't look a mess. You always look beautiful always. Y'all 1075 00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,680 Speaker 1: can see me right now, and let me let me 1076 00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 1: tell y'all how good of a friend Joya is, because 1077 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,480 Speaker 1: if y'all saw me right now, y'all be like bitch 1078 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:53,240 Speaker 1: because she looks beautiful. So anyway, future has this song 1079 00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:59,040 Speaker 1: called crazy but True, and it's oh oh wow, shit, 1080 00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:08,239 Speaker 1: oh shit, is everything home. My goodness, oh my goodness. Yeah, 1081 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:12,399 Speaker 1: that's my fucking So Anyways, the bop of the week 1082 00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:14,839 Speaker 1: is Future Crazy but True, because I'm not gonna lie. 1083 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,319 Speaker 1: Everything he said on the song is fucking crazy but 1084 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,960 Speaker 1: it's true. He puts y'all niggas onto a lot of 1085 00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:25,680 Speaker 1: stuff and y'all yes because you just no, because you 1086 00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:27,200 Speaker 1: just said you said this to me. 1087 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,160 Speaker 2: Artists that used to do that back in the day 1088 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:31,440 Speaker 2: drop projects like this. 1089 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,480 Speaker 1: Future really was the first one to really start doing 1090 00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:38,280 Speaker 1: that with the song be because it's crazy but it's true. 1091 00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,279 Speaker 1: He said that. Okay, look up the lyrics, bitch. He 1092 00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,919 Speaker 1: says it in the song. He puts you niggas on 1093 00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 1: to drop it say that because I heard I heard 1094 00:51:48,960 --> 00:51:51,399 Speaker 1: that part. I was just like, damn. Future just came 1095 00:51:51,440 --> 00:51:54,000 Speaker 1: out with Be Small Too in July and here it 1096 00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 1: is January. But it's crazy, but we got a whole 1097 00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,640 Speaker 1: another album, right because you know why other artists are 1098 00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:03,840 Speaker 1: dropping music, Wizard, I'm telling you, bro, But that's what 1099 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 1: he was saying in the song So crazy but true. 1100 00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,440 Speaker 1: Not only is now some of the songs, some of 1101 00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 1: the part of the song he was kind of gassing 1102 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,280 Speaker 1: talking about his fashions and he put. 1103 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 2: Them niggas on and shit like fashionable. 1104 00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:22,359 Speaker 1: Because of Cisi. Let's keep it real fashionable. No, but 1105 00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:26,280 Speaker 1: this is what I'm saying. Future ain't never attended front 1106 00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,080 Speaker 1: row seats at a high fashion show until he was 1107 00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:32,960 Speaker 1: with Sierra. Now, I take that Bagcierra fashionable in her 1108 00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 1: own in her own way, but she has the let 1109 00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 1: me take Let me tell you something, these fashion Gucci, Ja, Vinci, Versace, 1110 00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,759 Speaker 1: she has the body. They love her. They love her, 1111 00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 1: That's why she's always Yes, they love her body type 1112 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:48,279 Speaker 1: that she is. 1113 00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:49,440 Speaker 2: You know, a black woman. 1114 00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,920 Speaker 1: So she connects to the crowd that they want to 1115 00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:55,360 Speaker 1: but they not gonna spend some money. So when Future 1116 00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:57,759 Speaker 1: was front row at these fashion shows, let me tell 1117 00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:59,440 Speaker 1: you something. I ain't see the front row at a 1118 00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 1: fashion show since bitch, first. 1119 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:06,319 Speaker 2: Of all, because this because he be front road. 1120 00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so shut up. We are playing We 1121 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:19,080 Speaker 1: love Future, We really do we love I. 1122 00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:22,280 Speaker 3: Will know you didn't let me say my bob, oh 1123 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 3: my babe, God damn, so to you know, keep to 1124 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 3: stay on topic with the current topic. 1125 00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,520 Speaker 2: I really like the song with Travis Sky. 1126 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:40,600 Speaker 1: Oh come on, yeah, I'm not gonna lie that actually whenever, 1127 00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,440 Speaker 1: whenever I listen to the album, I listened to the 1128 00:53:43,480 --> 00:53:45,680 Speaker 1: first track and then I skipped to the Travis Scott 1129 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 1: track because y'all know how I am about Travis Scott. 1130 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,960 Speaker 1: The song is about anything that Travis. I understand what 1131 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 1: they were saying. 1132 00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 2: About Dwayne Wade. 1133 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:57,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I was confused at this point. Did you 1134 00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 1: no say something? I don't understand anything Travis Scott talks about. 1135 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:07,200 Speaker 1: But it goes hard, Okay, nothing nothing. I understood what 1136 00:54:07,200 --> 00:54:14,839 Speaker 1: he was saying. One give me the lute. That would 1137 00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:18,920 Speaker 1: be quote, God, you are such. 1138 00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:21,760 Speaker 2: I don't even know. 1139 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 1: I am. We gotta get off the microphone. Let me 1140 00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:33,000 Speaker 1: let me sit over here and eat my food. So anyways, 1141 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,719 Speaker 1: that's our bop of the week. Of course, shout out 1142 00:54:35,760 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 1: to European Wax Center. As always, I'm gonna go to 1143 00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:44,200 Speaker 1: the Halamel location or the Edua location mentioned our name, 1144 00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:46,600 Speaker 1: and you'll get a discount on products and a discount 1145 00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 1: on some waxing. And I have a so you get 1146 00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:55,800 Speaker 1: you get a discount, and that's that's a good discount 1147 00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,960 Speaker 1: because let me tell you something, Brazilians are not cheap. 1148 00:54:58,719 --> 00:55:01,960 Speaker 1: And you had and you gotta keep the maintenance up 1149 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,480 Speaker 1: on them. So yeah, mention our name, you'll get a discount. 1150 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 1: Shout out to Tamika, shout out to Devana. And I 1151 00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:08,360 Speaker 1: do have a little announcement. 1152 00:55:08,440 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 2: I wanna let y'all know. 1153 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,080 Speaker 1: I announced this on my Instagram, but I want to 1154 00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:15,320 Speaker 1: let y'all know that my blog is coming. 1155 00:55:15,840 --> 00:55:17,759 Speaker 2: Y'all always ask me questions about like my. 1156 00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:21,960 Speaker 1: Hair, my makeup, food diets, things that I'm on, things 1157 00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:24,919 Speaker 1: that I'm doing. So I have a blog coming. It's 1158 00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:28,320 Speaker 1: called Love LEXP So it's just all my go tos. 1159 00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:31,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna have little chats, conversations. Y'all can ask me advice. 1160 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,200 Speaker 1: So that's something that I'm working on and I'm so 1161 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:38,080 Speaker 1: excited for that. So y'all just keep a lookout. Mama 1162 00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 1: got y'all. And I'm also gonna have some merchandise on there, 1163 00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:44,360 Speaker 1: so y'all keep a lookout. Oh God, period. And this 1164 00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 1: has been another episode. Well look we drunk now, I 1165 00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:49,440 Speaker 1: think I'm a little. 1166 00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:53,680 Speaker 2: Bit wind Wednesday Beach. Bye, Okay, y'all, see y'all next week.