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Speaker 2: Tasha is on the phone today for a first date
Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jordan.
Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
Speaker 2: maybe get her another date for first Tasha, how long
Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Jordan?
Speaker 1: It's been nine days?
Speaker 3: Okay, good amount of time. Yeah, So have you been
Speaker 3: trying to get a hold of him? How have you
Speaker 3: felt during that time?
Speaker 1: Oh? Man, haven't you been so nervous? Like I actually
Speaker 1: did reach out to him two days ago and he
Speaker 1: didn't respond.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, let's talk about your date, like what could
Speaker 3: have gone wrong? How was it?
Speaker 1: I thought it was great, you know, like it was
Speaker 1: a classic get to know you sing coffee in a bookstore,
Speaker 1: and you know, we just like kept hanging out and
Speaker 1: we watched some people watching, you know, like by the
Speaker 1: park and he's really funny, low key you know, she's
Speaker 1: a low key Okay, Yeah, And we had this moment
Speaker 1: where he brushed my hair back while we were sitting
Speaker 1: on the bench, and well, things got a little romantic
Speaker 1: after that. I mean it just made me think he
Speaker 1: lent me and he was real, like none of the
Speaker 1: like performative stuff you get on the apps, and like
Speaker 1: I felt so seen. I don't know, he even remembered
Speaker 1: the book I said I loved in high school.
Speaker 3: Oh that's cool, that it's cool. So you felt like
Speaker 3: he was vibing you too, Yeah, and.
Speaker 1: His voice is so dreamy for I don't know, I'm
Speaker 1: just like so into him, and I don't get it.
Speaker 1: I thought he was into me too.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, why do you think he's ghosting you?
Speaker 1: I can't really think of anything. I just feel like
Speaker 1: maybe he found me too talkative, or he didn't like
Speaker 1: my jokes, you know, Like I mean I made this
Speaker 1: like one political joke, but like it wasn't even a
Speaker 1: joke that I made up, you know, I just like
Speaker 1: googled jokes to talk about on dates, and.
Speaker 3: So you went political, Like.
Speaker 1: I'm not even a political person, Like I don't care
Speaker 1: about politics, you know, but maybe he found what I
Speaker 1: said offensive.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean usually they say talking about politics on a
Speaker 2: first date is a bad thing joke, but you google
Speaker 2: jokes before you go on dates.
Speaker 3: And that's the thing if you preferred.
Speaker 1: You don't know.
Speaker 3: I mean I've never done it before, but I think
Speaker 3: that's kind of cool. Actually, I'm about to start.
Speaker 2: So you go to dates with like a list of
Speaker 2: pre approved or pre googled jokes to use.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's cool. I think that.
Speaker 2: Like, actually, if I were to go on a date
Speaker 2: with you, I think that was dope. If you if
Speaker 2: you told me that you googled their things, I'd be like,
Speaker 2: that's awesome, that's effort, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't tell him. I mean,
Speaker 1: you don't tell the person you're on a date with
Speaker 1: that you googled jokes or something. That's like months into
Speaker 1: the relationship.
Speaker 2: Then you then you tell them right when they're like
Speaker 2: she had all these jokes but now she doesn't, You're like, yeah,
Speaker 2: it's because I've been googling them.
Speaker 3: But yeah, how was this mood after the political joke?
Speaker 4: Then?
Speaker 3: What did it change after that?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 1: I mean I mean, he you know, but I don't
Speaker 1: know if it was like an awkward laugh.
Speaker 3: Did you guys change the subject after that?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean honestly, the conversation just kept flowing naturally,
Speaker 1: like and then we just liked made fun of people
Speaker 1: walking by and and and I don't know, I just
Speaker 1: I didn't really think anything bad happened. So that's why
Speaker 1: I'm just very confused. You know, he gave me a
Speaker 1: little kiss on the cheek and and that was good.
Speaker 3: Well, so how did you guys leave it? Did you
Speaker 3: plan on seeing each other again or was it just
Speaker 3: like oh this is fun things?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I mean I was like, okay, well i'll
Speaker 1: see you, you know soon hopefully, And then that's kind
Speaker 1: of like how we ended it. And then, like you know,
Speaker 1: these days go by and I'm just like replaying the
Speaker 1: date in my head over and over again, and I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: what did I do? Like, I don't get it. I
Speaker 1: thought we were good. I wasn't being weird or anything
Speaker 1: when I texted him two days ago, like I just
Speaker 1: you know, sent him a playful text, and you know,
Speaker 1: he didn't respond, so it's like, what's up.
Speaker 3: Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back and then call
Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another day if you still
Speaker 2: want one.
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, I want one, all right, Okay.
Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and call him and
Speaker 2: get your first day follow up next if you're just
Speaker 2: joining us.
Speaker 3: For today's first Day follow up.
Speaker 2: Tasha is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by
Speaker 2: a dude named Jordan's. So we're gonna call him in
Speaker 2: just a second and see if he'll tell us why
Speaker 2: he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. You still
Speaker 2: want one, right, Tasha? Oh yeah, and maybe get her
Speaker 2: another dat or she wants one, which she said she does.
Speaker 2: But first, Tasha, let's get a recap of your date
Speaker 2: real quick before we call him.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was such a beautiful date. You know.
Speaker 1: We went to a bookstore and a coffee shop and
Speaker 1: then we like sat at the park and people watched
Speaker 1: and it was it was literally like a movie, like
Speaker 1: a romantic comedy movie, and I was the star and
Speaker 1: he was a hero.
Speaker 2: The only reason you can think of that he might
Speaker 2: be ghosting you is because you made a play political
Speaker 2: joke on your date.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't care about politics.
Speaker 3: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Okay, here we go.
Speaker 6: I'm i aspeaking to Jordan please, uh.
Speaker 2: Hey, Jordan, how are you my name is Jebel and
Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show.
Speaker 3: It's called The Jewbel Show.
Speaker 5: Hi.
Speaker 3: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: Wait.
Speaker 6: Is this a prank?
Speaker 3: No, it's not. We're calling you today for a different
Speaker 3: reason though it's not a prank.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 2: So we do a segment on our show it's called
Speaker 2: the first Day follow Up. That's where if you go
Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and then you end
Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can ask us to get
Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 2: So we got an email about you from someone that
Speaker 2: you've been out with but aren't calling back.
Speaker 3: Oh wait, Tasha, Yes it is Yeah. She emailed us. Yeah,
Speaker 3: and she told us about your days.
Speaker 2: She said she really liked you, but she's confused because
Speaker 2: it's been nine days and you ever responded to her.
Speaker 4: I mean, she was great.
Speaker 6: The date was actually a lot of fun and she made.
Speaker 4: Me laugh a lot.
Speaker 6: She's actually really funny.
Speaker 3: Do you mind telling us why you're not talking to her?
Speaker 1: Though?
Speaker 6: It's the glitter.
Speaker 1: She had a lot of glitter on.
Speaker 6: Her face, like like.
Speaker 4: A lot of it, you know, And I don't know
Speaker 4: It's just by the time we were done, it was
Speaker 4: all over me, and it was all over my clothes
Speaker 4: and my car, and I could never get it off.
Speaker 4: And I know, I know it sounds crazy, but I'm serious.
Speaker 4: It's just I kept finding glitter on myself for days.
Speaker 4: It was like I was dating a disco ball.
Speaker 3: So he eyeshadow.
Speaker 6: I don't know she wore in her hair. I guess
Speaker 6: her face. I think it was on her hands hat.
Speaker 4: It has been on her hands.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 6: It was everywhere glitter on I mean, I guess it
Speaker 6: was like I wore it all day, kind of a
Speaker 6: clean freak.
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, you ghosted me because of glitter?
Speaker 2: Heyasha, she's actually on the phone listening and wants to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 6: Oh my, this is embarrassing. Hi, Pasha.
Speaker 1: Look, it's nothing personal.
Speaker 6: I swear.
Speaker 4: I really did have a great day and you were
Speaker 4: very pretty and hilarious. But I'm saying about messes and
Speaker 4: it just stressed me out. And I can't have glitter
Speaker 4: all over me like I took a bath.
Speaker 1: It's called sparkle. Jordan and some of us like to shine.
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, okay, it's fine, but I don't like this sparkle,
Speaker 4: and I kind of think that's like a little kid
Speaker 4: things too.
Speaker 1: Wow. No, okay, sparkle life, you know. And I'm a
Speaker 1: sparkly girl and I don't think there's anything wrong with him.
Speaker 1: And I mean, you've been to strip clubs before, so
Speaker 1: I'm sure you've had your you know, load of.
Speaker 4: I knew what I was and what's actually I don't
Speaker 4: really go to strip clubs like that because of this reason.
Speaker 6: I sparklestan it is what it is.
Speaker 1: I mean, what's so bad about it? Like it just
Speaker 1: makes your life a little bit more shiny. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'll hope you clean it off.
Speaker 6: It's sempossible to clean up. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Well, the date was great.
Speaker 6: But I just it was like it was ending up
Speaker 6: in my food because it was all over my head
Speaker 6: and my hair and oh my god.
Speaker 3: If there was least Jordan, would you be down with that? Jordan?
Speaker 2: Would you like another day with Tasha? Will pay for it?
Speaker 2: If Tasha was willing to cut back on the glitter
Speaker 2: a little.
Speaker 4: Bit, if there's no glitter involved, Yeah, I mean, yeah,
Speaker 4: those are good date.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm not sure about that because I am a
Speaker 1: sparkly girl and I don't know if I even want
Speaker 1: to live a life without glitter.
Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, stand on your girl.
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I mean maybe we pick like somewhere less
Speaker 4: glitter friendly, like a tool.
Speaker 3: I feel like that would be worse, Jordan. Honestly, you're
Speaker 3: swimming in it then.
Speaker 6: I mean I already was.
Speaker 3: Just embrace it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not even sure anymore, Jordan, because I
Speaker 1: thought we had something special and I can't believe you
Speaker 1: ghosted me because I sparkle.
Speaker 5: And I don't even know.
Speaker 1: I don't even think I want another date with you.
Speaker 1: I don't want you did in my light?
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So does that a no, then, Tasha, you
Speaker 2: don't want another day with Jordan?
Speaker 1: Uh no, I will pass.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, at least you know now why he's ghosting you
Speaker 2: and that he's probably not a good.
Speaker 3: Fit for you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm very disappointed about this, Jordan.
Speaker 6: Hey, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm sure there's
Speaker 6: a lot of guys who would love to have your
Speaker 6: sparkle all over them.
Speaker 1: Yeah. There is. And his name is Nate and I'm
Speaker 1: going on a day with him actually tonight. So whatever, okay.
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