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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocusla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Tasha is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jordan.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and

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Speaker 2: see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date for first Tasha, how long

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Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Jordan?

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Speaker 1: It's been nine days?

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Speaker 3: Okay, good amount of time. Yeah, So have you been

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Speaker 3: trying to get a hold of him? How have you

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Speaker 3: felt during that time?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Man, haven't you been so nervous? Like I actually

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Speaker 1: did reach out to him two days ago and he

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Speaker 1: didn't respond.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, let's talk about your date, like what could

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Speaker 3: have gone wrong? How was it?

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Speaker 1: I thought it was great, you know, like it was

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Speaker 1: a classic get to know you sing coffee in a bookstore,

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Speaker 1: and you know, we just like kept hanging out and

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Speaker 1: we watched some people watching, you know, like by the

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Speaker 1: park and he's really funny, low key you know, she's

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Speaker 1: a low key Okay, Yeah, And we had this moment

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Speaker 1: where he brushed my hair back while we were sitting

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Speaker 1: on the bench, and well, things got a little romantic

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Speaker 1: after that. I mean it just made me think he

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Speaker 1: lent me and he was real, like none of the

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Speaker 1: like performative stuff you get on the apps, and like

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Speaker 1: I felt so seen. I don't know, he even remembered

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Speaker 1: the book I said I loved in high school.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's cool, that it's cool. So you felt like

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Speaker 3: he was vibing you too, Yeah, and.

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Speaker 1: His voice is so dreamy for I don't know, I'm

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Speaker 1: just like so into him, and I don't get it.

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Speaker 1: I thought he was into me too.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 1: I can't really think of anything. I just feel like

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Speaker 1: maybe he found me too talkative, or he didn't like

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Speaker 1: my jokes, you know, Like I mean I made this

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Speaker 1: like one political joke, but like it wasn't even a

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Speaker 1: joke that I made up, you know, I just like

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Speaker 1: googled jokes to talk about on dates, and.

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Speaker 3: So you went political, Like.

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Speaker 1: I'm not even a political person, Like I don't care

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Speaker 1: about politics, you know, but maybe he found what I

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Speaker 1: said offensive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean usually they say talking about politics on a

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Speaker 2: first date is a bad thing joke, but you google

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Speaker 2: jokes before you go on dates.

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Speaker 3: And that's the thing if you preferred.

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Speaker 1: You don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean I've never done it before, but I think

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Speaker 3: that's kind of cool. Actually, I'm about to start.

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Speaker 2: So you go to dates with like a list of

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Speaker 2: pre approved or pre googled jokes to use.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's cool. I think that.

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Speaker 2: Like, actually, if I were to go on a date

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Speaker 2: with you, I think that was dope. If you if

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Speaker 2: you told me that you googled their things, I'd be like,

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Speaker 2: that's awesome, that's effort, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean I didn't tell him. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you don't tell the person you're on a date with

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Speaker 1: that you googled jokes or something. That's like months into

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Speaker 1: the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Then you then you tell them right when they're like

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Speaker 2: she had all these jokes but now she doesn't, You're like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's because I've been googling them.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, how was this mood after the political joke?

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Speaker 4: Then?

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Speaker 3: What did it change after that?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I mean I mean, he you know, but I don't

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Speaker 1: know if it was like an awkward laugh.

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Speaker 3: Did you guys change the subject after that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean honestly, the conversation just kept flowing naturally,

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Speaker 1: like and then we just liked made fun of people

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Speaker 1: walking by and and and I don't know, I just

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Speaker 1: I didn't really think anything bad happened. So that's why

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Speaker 1: I'm just very confused. You know, he gave me a

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Speaker 1: little kiss on the cheek and and that was good.

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Speaker 3: Well, so how did you guys leave it? Did you

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Speaker 3: plan on seeing each other again or was it just

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Speaker 3: like oh this is fun things?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I mean I was like, okay, well i'll

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Speaker 1: see you, you know soon hopefully, And then that's kind

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Speaker 1: of like how we ended it. And then, like you know,

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Speaker 1: these days go by and I'm just like replaying the

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Speaker 1: date in my head over and over again, and I'm like, wait,

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Speaker 1: what did I do? Like, I don't get it. I

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Speaker 1: thought we were good. I wasn't being weird or anything

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Speaker 1: when I texted him two days ago, like I just

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Speaker 1: you know, sent him a playful text, and you know,

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Speaker 1: he didn't respond, so it's like, what's up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back and then call

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Speaker 2: him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another day if you still

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Speaker 2: want one.

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Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, I want one, all right, Okay.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and call him and

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Speaker 2: get your first day follow up next if you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us.

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Speaker 3: For today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Tasha is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a dude named Jordan's. So we're gonna call him in

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Speaker 2: just a second and see if he'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. You still

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Speaker 2: want one, right, Tasha? Oh yeah, and maybe get her

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Speaker 2: another dat or she wants one, which she said she does.

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Speaker 2: But first, Tasha, let's get a recap of your date

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Speaker 2: real quick before we call him.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it was such a beautiful date. You know.

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Speaker 1: We went to a bookstore and a coffee shop and

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Speaker 1: then we like sat at the park and people watched

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Speaker 1: and it was it was literally like a movie, like

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Speaker 1: a romantic comedy movie, and I was the star and

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Speaker 1: he was a hero.

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Speaker 2: The only reason you can think of that he might

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Speaker 2: be ghosting you is because you made a play political

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Speaker 2: joke on your date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't care about politics.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well, are you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: I'm i aspeaking to Jordan please, uh.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Jordan, how are you my name is Jebel and

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Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 3: It's called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 5: Hi.

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Speaker 3: I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 1: Wait.

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Speaker 6: Is this a prank?

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Speaker 3: No, it's not. We're calling you today for a different

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Speaker 3: reason though it's not a prank.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 2: So we do a segment on our show it's called

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Speaker 2: the first Day follow Up. That's where if you go

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Speaker 2: out on a date with somebody and then you end

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Speaker 2: up ghosting them, that person can ask us to get

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Speaker 2: you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 2: So we got an email about you from someone that

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Speaker 2: you've been out with but aren't calling back.

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Speaker 3: Oh wait, Tasha, Yes it is Yeah. She emailed us. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and she told us about your days.

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Speaker 2: She said she really liked you, but she's confused because

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Speaker 2: it's been nine days and you ever responded to her.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she was great.

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Speaker 6: The date was actually a lot of fun and she made.

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Speaker 4: Me laugh a lot.

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Speaker 6: She's actually really funny.

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Speaker 3: Do you mind telling us why you're not talking to her?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 6: It's the glitter.

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Speaker 1: She had a lot of glitter on.

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Speaker 6: Her face, like like.

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Speaker 4: A lot of it, you know, And I don't know

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Speaker 4: It's just by the time we were done, it was

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Speaker 4: all over me, and it was all over my clothes

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Speaker 4: And I know, I know it sounds crazy, but I'm serious.

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Speaker 4: It's just I kept finding glitter on myself for days.

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Speaker 4: It was like I was dating a disco ball.

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Speaker 3: So he eyeshadow.

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Speaker 6: I don't know she wore in her hair. I guess

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Speaker 6: her face. I think it was on her hands hat.

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Speaker 4: It has been on her hands.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 6: It was everywhere glitter on I mean, I guess it

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, you ghosted me because of glitter?

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Speaker 2: Heyasha, she's actually on the phone listening and wants to

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Speaker 2: talk to you.

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Speaker 6: Oh my, this is embarrassing. Hi, Pasha.

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Speaker 1: Look, it's nothing personal.

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Speaker 6: I swear.

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Speaker 4: I really did have a great day and you were

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Speaker 4: very pretty and hilarious. But I'm saying about messes and

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Speaker 4: it just stressed me out. And I can't have glitter

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Speaker 4: all over me like I took a bath.

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Speaker 1: It's called sparkle. Jordan and some of us like to shine.

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Speaker 4: Oh, okay, okay, it's fine, but I don't like this sparkle,

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Speaker 4: and I kind of think that's like a little kid

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Speaker 1: Wow. No, okay, sparkle life, you know. And I'm a

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Speaker 1: sparkly girl and I don't think there's anything wrong with him.

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Speaker 1: And I mean, you've been to strip clubs before, so

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you've had your you know, load of.

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Speaker 4: I knew what I was and what's actually I don't

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Speaker 6: I sparklestan it is what it is.

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Speaker 1: I mean, what's so bad about it? Like it just

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Speaker 1: makes your life a little bit more shiny. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I'll hope you clean it off.

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Speaker 6: It's sempossible to clean up. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Well, the date was great.

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Speaker 6: But I just it was like it was ending up

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Speaker 6: and my hair and oh my god.

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Speaker 3: If there was least Jordan, would you be down with that? Jordan?

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Speaker 2: Would you like another day with Tasha? Will pay for it?

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Speaker 2: If Tasha was willing to cut back on the glitter

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Speaker 2: a little.

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Speaker 4: Bit, if there's no glitter involved, Yeah, I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 4: those are good date.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm not sure about that because I am a

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Speaker 1: sparkly girl and I don't know if I even want

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Speaker 1: to live a life without glitter.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Okay, stand on your girl.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I mean maybe we pick like somewhere less

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Speaker 4: glitter friendly, like a tool.

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Speaker 3: I feel like that would be worse, Jordan. Honestly, you're

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Speaker 6: I mean I already was.

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Speaker 3: Just embrace it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not even sure anymore, Jordan, because I

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Speaker 1: thought we had something special and I can't believe you

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Speaker 1: ghosted me because I sparkle.

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Speaker 5: And I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: I don't even think I want another date with you.

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Speaker 1: I don't want you did in my light?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So does that a no, then, Tasha, you

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Speaker 2: don't want another day with Jordan?

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Speaker 1: Uh no, I will pass.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Well, at least you know now why he's ghosting you

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Speaker 2: and that he's probably not a good.

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Speaker 3: Fit for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm very disappointed about this, Jordan.

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Speaker 6: Hey, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm sure there's

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Speaker 6: a lot of guys who would love to have your

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Speaker 6: sparkle all over them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. There is. And his name is Nate and I'm

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Speaker 1: going on a day with him actually tonight. So whatever, okay.

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Speaker 1: Juble's first day follow up