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Speaker 1: Second date update. Second date updates can be about a
Speaker 1: lot of things. They can be about a love that
Speaker 1: somebody feels like they have lost walked out of their life.
Speaker 1: They can be about riding or wrong on a date,
Speaker 1: just calling up to say I'm sorry that was bad.
Speaker 1: And sometimes they can just be about getting your money back.
Speaker 1: Oh whoa, We've never had a refund date before. That's
Speaker 1: why Evan is on the phone today to do a
Speaker 1: second date update. Evan wants his money back. What's up Evan? Hi, guys? Uh,
Speaker 1: I'm all right. You know, I'm just looking to get
Speaker 1: my cash back. Wait before we goity further, We're not
Speaker 1: talking about any illegal prostitution deal that went wrong, right, No, No,
Speaker 1: no prostitution. This is just food. I'm looking to get
Speaker 1: paid back for some grub. I did not know I
Speaker 1: was spending money on. You know how many dates I've
Speaker 1: been on, Evan where I spend a bunch of money
Speaker 1: on dinner. I'm like, man, I wish I could get
Speaker 1: my money back, So kudos to you for using our
Speaker 1: radio show to do that. Yeah, that's the only thing
Speaker 1: I could think of. Well, let's start by talking about
Speaker 1: the girl that you want to call today. What's her name?
Speaker 1: Her name is Chrissy, Chrissy, okay, and how did you
Speaker 1: meet Chrissy? I met Chrissy because she's a local at
Speaker 1: the bar. I frequent, kind of like my watering hole,
Speaker 1: you know. Okay, So you've run into her before or
Speaker 1: was that the first time you've met hers when you
Speaker 1: asked her out? We run into each other before, okay,
Speaker 1: all right? And then how did you ask her out? Finally? Well,
Speaker 1: one day I came to go get a drink after
Speaker 1: work and she just sat down next to me. And
Speaker 1: I'd always thought she was cute, and then before you know,
Speaker 1: we're grabbing a drink and chatting. Okay, And where did
Speaker 1: you guys go on your date? Oh? We went to
Speaker 1: this Greek restaurant. So how did dinner go? Well, I
Speaker 1: got to be honest with you, guys. We're having a
Speaker 1: good time until we sat down for dinner. And I
Speaker 1: should note she asked to meet me directly at the
Speaker 1: restaurant instead of picking her up which was, you know,
Speaker 1: since a little more like the typical course of action. Sure,
Speaker 1: and we sit down at dinner and she orders every
Speaker 1: appetizer on the menu. Wait, and three full entrees. Wait?
Speaker 1: Hold on how many appetizers there on the menu? Is
Speaker 1: there like two or like six types of hummus? You know,
Speaker 1: chickpeas and grilled lamb? And I don't even know what? Why?
Speaker 1: Why did she do that? That's what I was thinking.
Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell? So I ended up
Speaker 1: asking her, you are really hungry, what with all the food?
Speaker 1: And she looks at me and says, well, my kids
Speaker 1: first mentioned of ever hearing that she had kids have
Speaker 1: never had Greek food. Oh, she's she's ordering to bring
Speaker 1: food home to her children. Yeah, she wants it all
Speaker 1: boxed up so she can bring it home for them.
Speaker 1: And did she make you pay for this entire bill? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I was expecting her to at least kick in some money,
Speaker 1: and she handed me the whole check. So that's awesome.
Speaker 1: You bought her kids dinner and you didn't even intend to.
Speaker 1: That's very nice of you. And the whole thing turned
Speaker 1: out to be a hundred and sixty five dollars and
Speaker 1: I just had a salad I had. Did you say
Speaker 1: anything to her about it? I mean, I would hope
Speaker 1: if I were in that situation, be like, Hey, I'll
Speaker 1: pay for your dinner, but do you mind paying for
Speaker 1: your kids dinner? No? I didn't. I was so flustered
Speaker 1: at the time. I just hate it. Okay, is there
Speaker 1: any way like that she is out of a job
Speaker 1: that can't afore to feed her, chill threaten or something?
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't know why she didn't
Speaker 1: offer to pay, but it kind of seemed like she
Speaker 1: was using me and the fact that I like her
Speaker 1: to get her to pay for dinner. How did the
Speaker 1: date end with her? The crazy thing is the date
Speaker 1: didn't end there. It kept going. Where did you go next?
Speaker 1: She demanded that we get more drinks together at another
Speaker 1: bar down the street. Did she take those drinks into
Speaker 1: go cups? So back to the kids too? I wouldn't
Speaker 1: be surprised if that did happen. How long were you
Speaker 1: hanging out with her after you bought all that food? Like?
Speaker 1: Another hour or two? Okay? Are you just a man
Speaker 1: who can't say no? I was so confused inside, but
Speaker 1: I liked her, so I didn't know what to do.
Speaker 1: I got very nervous. So how did it all end? Then? Like,
Speaker 1: what was the moment you guys said goodbye to each other? Well,
Speaker 1: we're paying for everything, and she then she starts talking
Speaker 1: about how all men are just children who are trying
Speaker 1: to find their mothers. I don't even know where this
Speaker 1: came from. Get wait, wait, wait, So the check comes
Speaker 1: and that's what she brings up. I don't understand what
Speaker 1: you're saying. Yeah, she starts vncing about how all men
Speaker 1: are just children looking for their mothers. Interesting, but why
Speaker 1: would they not know where their mothers are? Like all
Speaker 1: the men in my life know exactly what you're telling me. Obviously,
Speaker 1: the lady has issues. I don't know why she was
Speaker 1: saying that. And then she gets a text from her babysitter. Okay,
Speaker 1: and the babysitter wants her to come home immediately because
Speaker 1: she's already an hour or two over, and she leaves
Speaker 1: me with the bill. So did she just cut like that?
Speaker 1: Like she just left right away, boom out of there?
Speaker 1: All right, So you don't necessarily want a second date,
Speaker 1: you just want to call her and go. You have
Speaker 1: to pay for the money that I spent on our date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she sipped me on to bill. All right, well we'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call her and try to
Speaker 1: collect your money. Yeah, thank you. I need to be
Speaker 1: reimbursement is all right, this should be interesting. We'll do
Speaker 1: it right after this. Hang on five looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. As somebody who's gotten a lot of calls
Speaker 1: from bill collectors in their time, I'm excited to be
Speaker 1: on the other end of the phone today. That's pretty
Speaker 1: much what today's second date update is. We're trying to
Speaker 1: collect a debt. Evan is on the phone, and in
Speaker 1: case you missed the first part, he went out on
Speaker 1: a date with a girl named Chrissy. They went out
Speaker 1: to a Greek restaurant and they sat down to order food.
Speaker 1: She ordered pretty much everything on the menu, and he
Speaker 1: asked her why, and she said she wanted the extra
Speaker 1: food to bring home to her kids. One she didn't
Speaker 1: tell him about the kids. Two she made him pay
Speaker 1: for all that extra food, And now he wants to
Speaker 1: call her to tell her that she owes him money.
Speaker 1: All right, Evan, are you about ready to make the
Speaker 1: phone call? I am. I forgot to ask Evan, how
Speaker 1: many kids does she have? Just three kids. Oh, she's
Speaker 1: deep in children, three whole children. What if when we
Speaker 1: get her on the phone, we can come to some
Speaker 1: sort of a compromise, Like she takes care of the tip,
Speaker 1: would you be happy with that? No, she needs to
Speaker 1: pay for the whole damn meal. All right, well, I'll
Speaker 1: dial her phone umber right now and get her on
Speaker 1: the phone. Then let's not waste any more time. Thank you. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is Chrissy there? Yeah, Hi Chrissy. This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. What this is
Speaker 1: Jewil from the radio show Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: And you're calling for me? Yeah? Your name's Chrissy, right, Yeah? Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I'm calling for you. Did you recently go
Speaker 1: out on a date with a guy named Evan? Oh?
Speaker 1: I did? Okay? Did he die? No? He didn't. Are
Speaker 1: you hoping that he did? No? No, this is just
Speaker 1: like super weird. You're the Chrissy that I'm looking for you. Definitely?
Speaker 1: Are you went out on a date with a guy
Speaker 1: named Evan? And Evan is a listener to our show? Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, and if your date with Evan? He emailed
Speaker 1: us and he wanted to see if we could get
Speaker 1: you on the phone to talk about something. Okay, why
Speaker 1: didn't Evan just call me? You know, I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: Maybe he felt like this would be a conversation better
Speaker 1: for you and I to have. All Right, that sounds
Speaker 1: pretty dumb, but whatever. Evan told us about your date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and he talked about how you guys went out to
Speaker 1: a Greek restaurant. Yeah, it was delicious, he said he
Speaker 1: really enjoyed it. He thought you were really cool. Cool, okay,
Speaker 1: but he did say there was one problem. Apparently you
Speaker 1: ordered a bunch of food. Yeah, what's the problem. Well,
Speaker 1: the problem is the food that you ordered. I guess
Speaker 1: was to take home to your kids. Yeah, Haisley, Brian
Speaker 1: and Jack. So what is the problem. He feels like
Speaker 1: you sort of wronged him in making him pay for
Speaker 1: the entire bill, basically buying food for your family. Are
Speaker 1: you kidding me right now? No? Joke? Right? No, I'm
Speaker 1: not not at all. He emailed us. Yeah, and he
Speaker 1: said he wanted us to call you today to ask
Speaker 1: you to pay him back for the money that he
Speaker 1: spent on the extra food. What ye who wants to
Speaker 1: deprive children of food? What the hell is wrong with him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but he feels like he was on a date with you,
Speaker 1: so he didn't have a problem buying your meal. It
Speaker 1: was just when you ordered. And it's myself and Paisley
Speaker 1: and Brian and Jent like that's the deal. But you
Speaker 1: got it. I mean you gotta understand he didn't even
Speaker 1: know you had kids going into this estate. Look, if
Speaker 1: someone's going to take me out, they have to accept
Speaker 1: me for who I am, and I am a mother
Speaker 1: first and foremost. So I don't really understand what the
Speaker 1: problem is. And I think he's got some boys asking
Speaker 1: for his money. I mean, you honestly didn't offer to
Speaker 1: pay for any of the food that you brought home. No,
Speaker 1: I believe in chivalry, like open doors, love chairs, pay
Speaker 1: for the chet. Yeah, but paying for your meal is
Speaker 1: one thing. Paying it for extra food so you can
Speaker 1: bring it home to your kids is another. Don't you think?
Speaker 1: Excuse me, am I on trial here? No, we're just
Speaker 1: we're literally just calling so he can get his money
Speaker 1: back because he feels like you owe him money for that. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's pretty pathetic. Is it like you're going through a
Speaker 1: hard time right now and you just need help hard time? No,
Speaker 1: I don't need help. No, I have a job. My
Speaker 1: kids have never had great food, so I thought it
Speaker 1: was a great opportunity to take them some. So really,
Speaker 1: I don't understand what your problem is. It's just an
Speaker 1: interesting situation. I've never heard of anybody ordering extra food
Speaker 1: for their kids and then making their date pay for it. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: then you've never been on a date with me, and
Speaker 1: that's probably very likely not going to happen. Sure, I
Speaker 1: was thinking about asking you out right now. The thing is,
Speaker 1: I'm a mother, so my kids are always going to
Speaker 1: get their meals when they need them. So if I'm
Speaker 1: going to go out with you, I need to make
Speaker 1: sure that they are fet Do you have a problem
Speaker 1: with that? They're going to come first. But he mean,
Speaker 1: he does have a problem with it. Sick manners, basic manners.
Speaker 1: Are you a woman hater? I'm supposed to be on
Speaker 1: the same side. What are you talking about? What you think?
Speaker 1: It doesn't even make sense because by the time you
Speaker 1: got home, which apparently you were one to two hours
Speaker 1: late for the babysitter, which is rude in and of itself,
Speaker 1: your kids were long past dinner time. Excuse me, how
Speaker 1: the hell do you know all of this that's because
Speaker 1: we talked to him about your day and he told
Speaker 1: us all that information. Wow. Yeah, and he's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line and wants to talk to you. What, Evan,
Speaker 1: are you there? Hey? Hey here? Oh you have to say, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm here, Chrissie. I'm pretty I'm pretty upset. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be honest with you. I really want back, Evan. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It takes a real scumbag to try and take food
Speaker 1: away from children and complain about what you paid for it.
Speaker 1: I didn't know I was paying for four people on
Speaker 1: a two person date, so that's really pathetic, Evan. What
Speaker 1: pathetic is lying about your intentions on our date. My
Speaker 1: intentions were clear. I liked you and I thought you
Speaker 1: liked me, So I just didn't know that I was
Speaker 1: paying so much money for a two person date, and
Speaker 1: I'd really appreciate it if you chipped in. I just
Speaker 1: think it's crazy to expect me to pay that much.
Speaker 1: I think it's crazy that you have to call up
Speaker 1: a radio station to fight your bottles. That's pretty cowardly.
Speaker 1: What kind of man are you, Evan? Wow, I'm a
Speaker 1: real man. Way to state your case there, Evan, If
Speaker 1: you were a real man, you would have paid for
Speaker 1: both bills and then asked me out on another date.
Speaker 1: I didn't expect that those dinners would clear me out
Speaker 1: for the month one month. Oh god, Evan, are you poor?
Speaker 1: I'm not poor, but I'm not Warren Bait either. Your
Speaker 1: expectations of me are ridiculous, and any guy who's going
Speaker 1: to accept that doesn't have their head on straight. And
Speaker 1: I think that you should pay me back part of
Speaker 1: that dinner, and I think then we will be even
Speaker 1: before baby getting all the defensive. Defensive is one way
Speaker 1: to put it, but another way to put it is
Speaker 1: sticking up for myself. Well, Evan, you're not getting any
Speaker 1: money from me. Oh, Chrissy. I would like to ask,
Speaker 1: if you go on a second date with Evan, we
Speaker 1: will pay for it, so Evan doesn't even have to
Speaker 1: worry about it. Would you go out with Evan again?
Speaker 1: The only way I would ever go out with that
Speaker 1: again is if we agreed upfront that he will take
Speaker 1: me and my children together so I don't have to
Speaker 1: deal with another radio embarrassment. I think she's upfront about
Speaker 1: the deal. Evan. Will you take her and her whole
Speaker 1: family out for dinner again? Sure? I'll take her her kids,
Speaker 1: the Queen of England. That sounds like a really nice date.
Speaker 1: It's congratulations you too. I guess you guys are going
Speaker 1: out again. You're a great man. Evan sarcast Oh, I
Speaker 1: thought you were really saying yes. I thought the Queen
Speaker 1: of England was going to come along and everything that's
Speaker 1: sad broken jewel in the morning. A lot of hate
Speaker 1: on the text message board at seven eighty five to
Speaker 1: nine and two about today's second date update. Everybody is
Speaker 1: calling the woman from today's second date update pathetic, a
Speaker 1: horrible person. Somebody texted it and asked if she's a dominatrix.
Speaker 1: I don't know why you would pose that question, but
Speaker 1: who knows. Maybe you can do in internet search and
Speaker 1: find out. It seems like you're interested in something other
Speaker 1: than the second eate update. But if you missed today's
Speaker 1: second date update, this dude, Evan when out with a
Speaker 1: girl named Chrissy. They went to a Greek restaurant and
Speaker 1: she ordered a bunch of food so that she could
Speaker 1: bring the leftovers to her kids. Not even the leftovers,
Speaker 1: just dishes, just whole dishes to her children. Evan felt
Speaker 1: like he was tricked and wanted her to pay him back.
Speaker 1: We got Chrissy on the phone and she was appalled
Speaker 1: that Evan would claim would complain about feeding her children.
Speaker 1: She said, if somebody's gonna take me out, they need
Speaker 1: to accept me for what I am. I'm a mother. Wow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really thought we were going to get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and it was going to be some sad
Speaker 1: story about how she's a struggling single mom with three
Speaker 1: kids he needed some help. Instead, she was just making
Speaker 1: fun of him and calling hip hoor Yeah whoa him?
Speaker 1: Just like a thank you maybe or I totally understand.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I get paying for the kids, by
Speaker 1: the way, but that's if they're on the date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if the kids came along, you could buy them dinnerly.
Speaker 1: And I don't believe her. She's not taking those meals
Speaker 1: to her kids. I think she's eating them, seating them all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think she's just embarrassed to say how hungry she
Speaker 1: really is being hungry. Argued back and forth for a
Speaker 1: while about who was right. In the end, she says,
Speaker 1: no matter what, she's a packaged deal. Take her out
Speaker 1: on a date. You have to buy food for her kids,
Speaker 1: even if they're not there. Hey, you know, her kids
Speaker 1: are gonna be like thirty years old eventually, and she's
Speaker 1: still gonna be pulling this crowd. Oh yeah, she will be.
Speaker 1: She'll be like sixty years old, still single, probably, yeah,
Speaker 1: and still trying to get extra food to bring to
Speaker 1: her kids. Ultimately, there was no second date update and
Speaker 1: no refund for Evan. He just spent a bunch of
Speaker 1: money to buy her food for herself and her children,
Speaker 1: and she doesn't feel bad about it at all? Did it?
Speaker 1: If you think about it? I mean, he's still you know,
Speaker 1: like I don't know, Sorry, I don't know what I say. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's still bought foods for the kids, so he ste
Speaker 1: proud about that he's feeding children. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second date update, all you have to
Speaker 1: do is email the show and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back five