1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Sharon in Columbus. Sharon writes, 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:12,319 Speaker 1: my son is the shortest kid in his class. He's 4 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: been getting bullied about it, and I'm trying to teach 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: him to hold his head high and celebrate how unique 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 1: he is. That's not working, So I need help. How 7 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: do I help him deal with being teased constantly? 8 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: Well, even if he hold his head high, he still 9 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: can't see over nobody. So I'm not going to be 10 00:00:34,080 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: able to help your babies because I'm the one at 11 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: the school riding him. You're not a bully, No, I'm 12 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 2: not a bully, but you can't be really shot now, Mitchen, 13 00:00:51,440 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 2: I'm not in this. 14 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:55,360 Speaker 3: I'm not What could you say to the baby? I 15 00:00:55,360 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 3: ain't saying nothing to the baby. Why I got to 16 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 3: say something you don't want to say to the mama? 17 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 4: You get through it. I'm not going through nothing because 18 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 4: you ain't a five nine now. 19 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: You was back then? Well, but you wasn't back then though. 20 00:01:12,000 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 2: Now this is where the boy struck me. She told 21 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: him hold his head or he didn't held it up. 22 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,559 Speaker 2: He still can't see nothing. What did you tell this chat. 23 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 5: She did not say that. 24 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 4: I can't help the boy. I'm sorry. 25 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 5: Can you encourage him in any way? 26 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 4: Stand on something? 27 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: What? 28 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,479 Speaker 3: Yeah? And when I used to do that. I used 29 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,480 Speaker 3: to always stand on something. Huh. 30 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 4: Yeah, but she used to make you get out too. 31 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, like them. 32 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 1: You used to stand on stuff, Tommy. 33 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 2: When I felt, you know, look stuff too. Like when 34 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 2: he was trying to eat, he had to sit on 35 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 2: these two phone boards so he could eat. 36 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 4: Why are you bringing that up? Why are you doing 37 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 4: that trade? 38 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 5: Now? 39 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 3: Let me. 40 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 5: We didn't even have phones anymore. 41 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 4: Wow, he just swinging. 42 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 5: Yet her son's being bullied. She just wants to know 43 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 5: how to stop that, all right? 44 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 2: He stop bullying? Is you got to whoop one of 45 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: the bullets? That's that's all I got for you. I 46 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: don't know how to do this here. I grew up 47 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 2: in the hood, I damn hood rouge. You got to 48 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:29,400 Speaker 2: whoop one bully in front of everybody, and that'll slow 49 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 2: it down. 50 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 5: That'll shut it down. Okay, Oh, slow it down. 51 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 4: It's gonna slow it down. They still gonna know he short. 52 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 5: Uh. Moving on to Philip and. 53 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 2: Still be saying new stuff man, little man, crazy, little man, got. 54 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 4: Hands and heart. 55 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 1: Yeah, Philip and Topeka, Uh right to My ex girlfriend 56 00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 1: popped up late last night trying to have sex with me. 57 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: She was half naked under her coat, and I told 58 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,120 Speaker 1: her to leave my house. As bad as I wanted 59 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 1: to tear off tear her coat off, I can't allow 60 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:10,839 Speaker 1: her to pop up on me like that. 61 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 5: Did I do the right thing? 62 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 4: I don't know how you did that. He cannot see 63 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 4: how you did it? Hard to see naked and keep walking. 64 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 4: You can't allow her to pop up on. 65 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 5: It, That's what he said. 66 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 1: I can't allow her to pop up on me like that, 67 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 1: as badly as I wanted to tear her coat off. 68 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 4: Right, but even even if she brained. 69 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 5: Like yips, well, she would have naked under her coat. 70 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 5: That's the gift, shure, I know. 71 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 2: Oh she came over the empty handed mm hmm, yeah, 72 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 2: come over there asking for a couple of sugar. She 73 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 2: came over there and asked him did he won't some sugar? 74 00:03:59,200 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 5: Uh? Okay? So he's asking now, did he do the 75 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 5: right thing? And your answer is absolutely no. 76 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 2: I don't think so. But you know, depend on watching 77 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 2: your ex. If you have a current, you did the 78 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 2: right thing. 79 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 5: Right, Okay? Setting the boundaries and all that. You can't 80 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,039 Speaker 5: just be over here. 81 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 2: Right now, you're out there wild? Then I would have 82 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 2: just added that to the. 83 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 5: Wild Wilin Wilin Wi. All right, Vonda and Bronsville. 84 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: Right, My sister's first husband is interested in me, and 85 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: my sister. 86 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:40,239 Speaker 5: Is blocking us from talking. 87 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: She's on her third husband, so why can't she let 88 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: the first one be free so he can date whoever 89 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: he wants today? 90 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 5: Why does he have to be off limits? What are 91 00:04:51,600 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 5: you kidding me? 92 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: Right now? 93 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 4: I mean, y'all know how y'all are. You can't do that? 94 00:04:56,680 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 5: No girl code? 95 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 4: Why does he have to be off limit? Because he is? 96 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 4: Y'all y'all got girl codes? 97 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yes, you don't mess with your sister's 98 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 1: ex husband. 99 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,160 Speaker 4: What are you kidding me? 100 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: And then she's judging her sister because she's done her 101 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: third marriage. 102 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 5: She's doing that too well. 103 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 4: At least she can get somebody. 104 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 5: So she can too for her sister's husband. 105 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, but you got to get her ex husband the 106 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 4: first one. Wow? 107 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 5: Yeah man, Yeah, come. 108 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 4: On now, you now you've got to take you. 109 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, but he shouldn't want to be a part of 110 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 5: it again. 111 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 4: Yeah, man, I'm not going nowhere near this. 112 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: You're right, you're right, Philo, All right, last one, last one. 113 00:05:55,480 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 1: This is from Roman and Little Rock. Roman rites. The 114 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 1: woman that I'm dating has never met my parents or 115 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: my son, and it's a problem for her. I don't 116 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:10,120 Speaker 1: get along with my family, mainly my mom. I know 117 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 1: that's a red flag for ladies, and I can't keep 118 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: making making up excuses. 119 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 5: Is aunt? Oh? Is honesty the best policy? Does he 120 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 5: know what show? He wrote? 121 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 2: In Honesty the best Policy? You say you don't get 122 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 2: along with your mom, and you know that's a red 123 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 2: flag for women, and it is. 124 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 4: It's very much a red flag, yes, it is. Yes, 125 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 4: Listen to me, ladies. 126 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 2: If a man ain't willing to get along or work 127 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 2: it out with his mama when y'all run into some problems, 128 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 2: how you. 129 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 4: Think that's gonna go? 130 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 5: Come on? Yeah, right there, this is his mama. 131 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:55,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she's never met him something right now, son. 132 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 4: That's worse than a mama's boy. 133 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:04,080 Speaker 5: Hmm a man, Yeah, this is the polar opposite. 134 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 4: You're right, Steve, Yeah, that's a direct opposite. 135 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: But that's worse because man, you just this see especially 136 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 2: for a boy, because let me explain. 137 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: Some to you. 138 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 4: Our mother is the first woman we ever loved. That's right, 139 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:22,239 Speaker 4: that love never goes away. 140 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, hey man, first thing you need to do fixing 141 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: relationship with your mama. That's the most important thing. You 142 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 2: can go and fix it with your mama. That's what 143 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 2: you need to do. Don't worry about this girl, bring 144 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:35,680 Speaker 2: it whole in. 145 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, thank you. Clo. Coming up at the 146 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 5: top of the hour. 147 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: In twelve years, we'll have we'll have some entertainment news 148 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 1: for you right after this. 149 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 5: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.