1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: My racist mother in law hates her brown grandkids. Am 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 1: I the a hole for banishing her from seeing them? 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,719 Speaker 1: Seems reasonable? Honestly, seems reasonable to be racist, you'd be 4 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: banished goodbye? Like, what are we doing here? Good riddance. 5 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:17,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna Sparta kick you right into the freaking Sparta hole. 6 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 1: When I was twenty seven, I got pregnant from a 7 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 1: one night stand. Dude, happens for the best of me. 8 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: Shoot man, good show, fuck and one one pump in 9 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: your pregnant one hit wonder over here. The father, Robert 10 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 1: fake name, told me that he wanted to be part 11 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 1: of our girls' lives as co parents. That's I mean, hey, 12 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: it's gonna happen badter than most, bader than most. Before 13 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: this month, I had met Robert's mother, the grandmother mentioned 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 1: in the title once when I was in the hospital 15 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 1: recovering from giving birth. Robert brought her to meet his granddaughters. 16 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: She told him in front of me to make sure 17 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 1: to get a paternity test because she didn't want to 18 00:00:57,000 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: be tricked by a gold digging slur. Wow my god, wow. 19 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: Right after this poor woman had just given birth to 20 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 1: her grandkids, and she also sounds like it seems like 21 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: she gave the option of like like hey, you don't 22 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: even have to be involved, okay, the to the god, 23 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:18,480 Speaker 1: to the guy, yeah yeah, She's like hey yeah yeah. 24 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: He Basically the conversation was he was like, hey, I 25 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 1: want to be yea a part of this kid's life. 26 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: So my god. Because Robert lived in another state and 27 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: was a workaholic, he only had the girls for alternating 28 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: major holidays and one month every summer, which I guess 29 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: there's twins. That's pretty crazy. The fact that it's twins 30 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 1: on the first One Night Stand insane. The legions of IVF, 31 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: people getting IVF from our stories like validating, they're salidating this. Dude, 32 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: give me your wiener. He would bring the girls to 33 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 1: see their grandmother during this time. Grandmother was his only family, 34 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: so I never said anything about it. However, when the 35 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: girls were about five, he and his grandmother had a 36 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 1: falling out. I later found out it was because she 37 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: kept making racist comments towards the girls, disgusting gross. One 38 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: example he gave me is that she kept telling the 39 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: girls to stop showing their monkey side. Foo. This is 40 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: making my blood boil whenever they misbehaved. That's disgusting. Over time, 41 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:22,359 Speaker 1: his relationship with his grandmother improved, but the girls never 42 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: met her in person again. Good. When my family found 43 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: out about the falling out, they invited Robert to spend 44 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,119 Speaker 1: the holidays with us. He would rent a hotel room 45 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: nearby or stay in my guest house and come to 46 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: my family events. A year and a half ago, Robert 47 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: was diagnosed with a terminal illness. Even with aggressive treatment, 48 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: he would only live for a couple years. He regretted 49 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 1: not spending more time with the girls, so Robert decided 50 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: to quit his job and move nearby. He asked me 51 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 1: to change the custody to fifty to fifty custody so 52 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: he could spend more time with our girls. I reminded 53 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 1: him that the guest bedroom has always been open to him. 54 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,359 Speaker 1: He could move in with us and spend the remaining 55 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: time with our daughters. Wow. Wow, this is like like 56 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: besides the grandmother, like everyone's being super accommodating and nice 57 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 1: and like like like I'm like, oh wow, everyone's making 58 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 1: the right decisions. Yeah, I'm almost like getting chills. This 59 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: is like, I mean, it's beautiful that that they could 60 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,799 Speaker 1: work that out from from you know, a one night 61 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:23,359 Speaker 1: stand to being able to do this, I feel like 62 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: it is a pretty incredible estimate to both of the 63 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: I had only one condition. While he can go out 64 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: to see the grandmother and he can bring the girls along, 65 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: she cannot come to my house. HM interesting, which I 66 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: feel is even more than I would do. Like, like 67 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: I was the mother, I would be like Grandma, Yeah, 68 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: my girls aren't seeing that racist pieces. I'm I'm I'm 69 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: curious as to what. I'm sure op has some sort 70 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: of motive, So I'm curious to see, like what exactly 71 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: that that motive is, motif motive for why she wants 72 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: the kids and Robert to see the grandmother. I imagine that 73 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 1: she just wants the like she she probably thinks Robert 74 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 1: wants them to have a relationship with his mother. Maybe maybe. Yeah, 75 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,600 Speaker 1: Robert agreed and he moved in. His mother never came 76 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: to my house, though he did go see her a 77 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:17,640 Speaker 1: few times without our girls. Robert passed away last month. 78 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: It's been rough and we dearly miss him. Okay, so 79 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: it sounds like Robert was super respectful and didn't want 80 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 1: his girls around his mother. Seems like it seems like 81 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 1: it which very understandable. Last week, grandmother showed up on 82 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 1: my doorstep. Wow, the girls weren't home. She told me 83 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 1: that the twins were the only thing she has left 84 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: of Robert. She asked if she could regularly see the girls. 85 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: I laughed and told her no, her only connection to 86 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: them was through Robert and Robert only. I have not 87 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: and will not help her see my girls. She protested 88 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: and said that I was cruel to deny my girls 89 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: their grandmother. I reminded her that it was Robert who 90 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: originally didn't let her see the girls. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, 91 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: she's still like let it. She didn't get in the 92 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,920 Speaker 1: way initially. It sounds like basically op was like, hey, 93 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: you can take the girls to your your mother, yeah, 94 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:09,840 Speaker 1: and roberts like, nah, yes, that's exactly what happened. Yeah. 95 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: So it's like like almost respecting Robert's wishes literally would 96 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:19,239 Speaker 1: be not introducing them twins to the grandmother literally, even 97 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 1: though he has passed away. I was not going to 98 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: change that. Grandmother left crying after I said that. I 99 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,840 Speaker 1: believe I'm in the right, but some of my family 100 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 1: members think I was too harsh. She's grieving and I 101 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 1: should let her see the girls at least once. Am 102 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 1: I the ahole? And there's a quick edit to those 103 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: telling me to lawyer up, I am a family attorney. 104 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: Wow wow, Ope, he's got all the skills. Not only 105 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:45,039 Speaker 1: do I know the law, I have the home court advantage. Wow, 106 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: well I am. You know, we love hearing stories from 107 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: everyone in our community, and I'm curious if any sort 108 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: of really hard you know, the mother in laws can 109 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 1: always be tricky. Yeah, I want to know from everyone 110 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 1: watching if you have I've had a very hard experience 111 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 1: with your mother in law and how did you overcome 112 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 1: it or what what did you do? Like was there 113 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: that scenario ever had any bigotry coming from it? Again, 114 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 1: coming from the mother in law. I think it would 115 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,600 Speaker 1: be really good for you know, some great discussions that 116 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:15,919 Speaker 1: have been happening. It would be really great for you 117 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 1: to share your experiences. And we're gonna start reading some 118 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: on the show. So I'd be very curious to see that. 119 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 1: But I think the big question here is what OPI asked. 120 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: Is Opie the a hole for not letting the grandmother 121 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:30,720 Speaker 1: see the children? I don't think Ope's the I don't 122 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: think Ope's the a hole because it's more like she's 123 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: sticking to the wishes of her late late like the 124 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:42,320 Speaker 1: late father of these children. Yes, so I don't think 125 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:46,039 Speaker 1: she's the a hole for basically maintaining his wishes beyond 126 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: the grave totally. If it was me, I might let 127 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: the grandmother see them like on holidays or something, but 128 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: be really like like I'll always be there and see, 129 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 1: like you know, and if she says some rape like 130 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 1: cutting you out, yeah you know, yeah, but you just 131 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,600 Speaker 1: like you also just don't want the kids exposed to 132 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff, you know too. It's yeah, like 133 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 1: I I can see how some family members might see 134 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,800 Speaker 1: it as cruel, but at the end of the day, 135 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 1: it's like you don't want to expose your kids to 136 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,239 Speaker 1: that kind of bigotry. And that's the husband want didn't 137 00:07:19,280 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: want his girls to be exposed to the grandmother. So 138 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: it's like he's they're just maintaining that the status quo 139 00:07:25,600 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: there exactly. And like like you said, the first the 140 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: biggest thing is literally it was the son's wish. So 141 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 1: that right there kind of like lays it all out. 142 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: But then there's also there's also the aspect of life 143 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 1: of like you know, you can say like, oh, well, 144 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: now the grandmother won't get to like learn or maybe 145 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: have a greater understanding the issue there, which is true. 146 00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 1: There is like that potential like maybe she could kind 147 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: of come around the corner and learn that she's being racist, 148 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: which is true. But at the same time, it's at 149 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: the expense of both the children and OP. So that's 150 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: where it gets really tricky, is like I don't think 151 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: if like this is OP and her children, right, I 152 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 1: believe that OP and her children should have have the 153 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: autonomy to not especially the children. That's the biggest thing, right, 154 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 1: So like that's the other piece of the puzzle here. 155 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: I think where it's like it was both the dad's 156 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: wish and it's like especially you know if you bring 157 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: them over to the house, you know you can't be 158 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: around them constantly. You do not know what plants the 159 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 1: grandma is like planting in their heads, and you don't 160 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 1: want them to grow up with self hate or any 161 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:35,360 Speaker 1: any other kind of like ideas like that. So I 162 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:41,079 Speaker 1: completely understand from both perspectives why OP has made the 163 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: decision that she's Yeah, I agree, so I and conclusion, 164 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: I don't think opcahole same. But what we love is 165 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: we love your stories and your perspectives. Especially the perspectives 166 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: of our public subscribers. And I have a comment from 167 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 1: the video coworker demands I take a paternity test. This 168 00:08:58,360 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 1: is the one where Opie's coworker things he boned his wife, 169 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: but op he is gay, and Ronnie Pickett says after 170 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: it comes back negative, I would sue him for slander, 171 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: which is a great idea, you know, get a double 172 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,319 Speaker 1: trouble over here. And then public subscriber Chrissy skya One says, 173 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: there's been a couple updates to this now also on 174 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: Best of rehetitor updates and it gets even wilder. Okay, 175 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: so we might have to we want to do it right. 176 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,120 Speaker 1: One back a little bit. Thank you so much for 177 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: your comments. We love reading them, and if you want 178 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 1: us to maybe read one of your comments, make sure 179 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: to publicly subscribe and leave a comment below. Love you 180 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 1: scammer steals my identity and convince my friend's family and 181 00:09:38,200 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 1: ex boyfriend that I am going insane. Identity theftis is 182 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: not a joke. It's not a joke. Jim. Yeah, come on, Jim, 183 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 1: I always think of the office the office quote. Identity 184 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: theftist not a joke, Jim. It's a joke. I was 185 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: thinking of the one where he put the stapler and 186 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: gelatin or like all his stuff and this is he 187 00:09:55,960 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 1: literally tried Jim tries to steal. Wait, no, what is 188 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:05,719 Speaker 1: he do? Oh he dresses like him. He dresses just 189 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: like Dwight. Yeah, I was getting that mixed up with 190 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: the one where Asian Jim comes in that too. We 191 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:18,480 Speaker 1: should start office spranking each other. Oh yeah, like we 192 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 1: walk in and we sit down at our desk and 193 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:28,640 Speaker 1: it's just the microphone explodes in your face and destroys 194 00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: our redness. Hilarious. So last week, while on an extended 195 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: trip to California, I live in New York, I received 196 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 1: a text from my former landlord stating that she could 197 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: no longer keep in touch with me. Why that's kind 198 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: of a weird thing to get right. I feel like 199 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 1: the landlord is someone that you needed to be okay about, 200 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 1: like Peig rents. Yeah, my toilet is broken. No, I 201 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,240 Speaker 1: will never talk to you again. You know, maybe the 202 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: maybe not paying rent anymore so that the wind wind. Hey, 203 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: hey you read rent. Yeah, I won't talk to you anymore. 204 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 1: Those checks, I don't know what happened to them, she said. 205 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 1: She stopped talking to me because I violated her house 206 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: rules and her beliefs by having a terminated pregnancy which 207 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 1: did not happen. Okay, where wait wait? Wait? Where is this? 208 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 1: Is this in California? This is in New York? Either way, Bro, 209 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 1: that's like that's like a violation or something. Bro, I 210 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: don't know. This is a very very strange scenario. And 211 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 1: also that I lied to her about it and set 212 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: a bad example for her teenage daughter, who's like a 213 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 1: sister to me. Wait what this is a very weird 214 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: I'm confused by this state. And so basically she thought 215 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: she thought she got an abortion, and the landlord is 216 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 1: like personally offended because of this, or landlord, her her 217 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: friend's mother, her father. Yeah yeah, yeah. So she's very 218 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 1: close with her landlord and her landlord's daughter, who is 219 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,559 Speaker 1: like a sister, like a younger sister. So they were 220 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:00,840 Speaker 1: landlords to her first before they were like friends. Yeah. 221 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 1: Now they're like very close friends. But apparently some lie 222 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: that she had an abortion has, for some random reasons, 223 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: sprung about. It's very odd. Rubs mustache inquisitively carols the 224 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,880 Speaker 1: tips of my mustache. Now here's the thing. I am 225 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,480 Speaker 1: very close to my landlord. She is like the mother 226 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: I never had. Oh wow, that's a weird relationship with 227 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: the landlord. Really is though, I guess my parents were 228 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:32,680 Speaker 1: my landlords before. Look at it. That's hilarious. I spend 229 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:35,040 Speaker 1: my weekends with her, tell her all my secrets, et cetera, 230 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:38,400 Speaker 1: et cetera. Man, this is just a lot opie. Where's 231 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: your friends? Yeah, seriously, please expand your friend group. Yeah, 232 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: this kind of reminds me of like the lonely kid 233 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 1: in uh in like middle school that like the lunch 234 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:55,840 Speaker 1: lady is their best friend. Yeah, like b out branch. 235 00:12:56,440 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 1: The text contained details that made it seem very very convincing, 236 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,120 Speaker 1: like mentioning her son by name and a mention of 237 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: my ex boyfriend by name, who is the one who 238 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:10,280 Speaker 1: supposedly told her what It was really strange and out 239 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 1: of the blue, mostly because I knew she would be 240 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:15,559 Speaker 1: in a remote part of upstate New York without any service, 241 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: and her and my ex rarely ever talk. I was 242 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 1: unable to reach her to discuss it, and I was 243 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: extremely worried because she's usually a person who will call 244 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: and not just text something like that. Why would you 245 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: text that out of the blue, especially if you have 246 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: like this really deep relationship with your landlord. Yeah, it's 247 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 1: it's very strange, very strange. That's so weird. It doesn't 248 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: seem like the text is coming from like the landlord. 249 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: I feel like there's maybe like a hacke that's like 250 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,719 Speaker 1: come into the FODE system, like put a bunch of 251 00:13:45,760 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: malware in, Like she needs Guardia to protect her from 252 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 1: all that she really does. This is way to sus so. 253 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,319 Speaker 1: I sent a screenshot of the text to my ex 254 00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 1: boyfriend asking if he had said something to her or 255 00:13:55,480 --> 00:13:57,760 Speaker 1: her family he still keeps in touch with them, He 256 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,839 Speaker 1: said he hadn't. Why is everyone keeping in touch with 257 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: the land Everyone just is this socialite, social butterfly landlord. 258 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: I feel like this landlord is like something else. Yeah, 259 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: this is that's a whole other renaissany How, my landlord 260 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:18,640 Speaker 1: became my mommy or it's like the Great Gatsby. The 261 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: landlord is the Great Gatsby, just throwing all these parties in. 262 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 1: These people connected with all the people in the New 263 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 1: York area. They are the nexus. When we finally spoke, 264 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: she told me that she had never sent that text. 265 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: I sent her a screenshot of our conversation and she 266 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: sent one back without that message in it. My ex 267 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 1: spoke to her as well, and she told him that 268 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: we spoke, that she never sent this text and none 269 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 1: of this ever happened. Okay, this is weird, this is funky. 270 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 1: Something is funky. Something is a miss suit someone like 271 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 1: got on her phone. I guess this is but someone 272 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:54,840 Speaker 1: who also knew all that information. They know a lot 273 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: of info, So how do they know? I guess we're 274 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: going to have to find out. But then my ex 275 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: tried to convince her that I was lying about the 276 00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: entire thing and could have doctored the photo myself. Plot 277 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: to us. Now, now the boyfriend's conspiring again. Bro, everyone's 278 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 1: just like coming for OP right now. This is crazy. 279 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 1: Wait the X, I guess is maybe salty, and it's 280 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: just like coming to just grasping onto this opportunity to 281 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 1: like so wait, wait, wait wait, So the ex boyfriend 282 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: is trying to convince the landlord that OP doctored this 283 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: photo yes to met to fuck with them or ruin 284 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 1: the relationship or something. I don't know what. It's crazy, bro, 285 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 1: it's crazy. Confused. I would never do so, Opie says, 286 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: I would never do so she means the world to me. 287 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: So this is so ridiculous and would backfire insanely. It's 288 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:49,680 Speaker 1: something I would never do. And another similar incident also 289 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: recently happened in which a former colleague of mine that 290 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: I now freelance with send me a text stating that 291 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: they had requested I take over a project and provide 292 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,880 Speaker 1: files to a client, and that they hadn't heard back 293 00:16:01,880 --> 00:16:05,760 Speaker 1: from me. They said that I hadn't jeopardized the client's 294 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: entire business and they would be escalating a report directly 295 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: to the lead marketing manager and canceling my contract with them. 296 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 1: What the hell, bro, she's Opie is getting messed with 297 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: hardcore right now? Wow? What is happening? Like? And like 298 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: the motive of the part, Like what motive? What are 299 00:16:25,240 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: you going to get money out of her doing this? No, 300 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,240 Speaker 1: Like this is a I don't know about it because 301 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 1: maybe like with this this second thing, like with the business, 302 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,880 Speaker 1: like maybe they're trying to get information and so it's 303 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:41,680 Speaker 1: like a phishing scam. Yes, but with the landlord and 304 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:45,720 Speaker 1: the abortion stuff like where crazy where fish? They would 305 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 1: have to know so many details. Yeah to make it. Yeah, 306 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: that's really weird. This was a little surprising because we 307 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:56,640 Speaker 1: make requests over base Camp or email, never text, and 308 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: as a freelancer, I don't have a direct report to 309 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: their clients. So now see some of their intel. I 310 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 1: ain't adding up anymore. The cracks are starting to show. 311 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: I immediately jumped on a call with them to discuss 312 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:11,160 Speaker 1: saving the account, only to find they were totally clueless 313 00:17:11,240 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 1: to what I was talking about. What she keeps getting 314 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 1: these messages? Bro, dude, I don't even know how, Like 315 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 1: how could they have some pro level hacker stuff? Yeah, okay, 316 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: so like she's definitely being hacked. Yeah, I mean there's 317 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: either that or God aids. Yeah, are the only two option. 318 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 1: She's getting smited. So here's what I've done already. I 319 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 1: went to the police in California. I fouled a report 320 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 1: of the text and I sent a money request, but 321 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:40,320 Speaker 1: they advised the police department in my home jurisdiction would 322 00:17:40,320 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: be more capable of helping me. The officer advised off 323 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 1: the record that if I'm concerned that I'm being watched, 324 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 1: I could download some sort of spyware app to see 325 00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:51,360 Speaker 1: if someone was spying on my computer. Someone also commented, 326 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:53,919 Speaker 1: sounds like you have a rat virus or remote access 327 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: trojan that is literally something that allows someone to control 328 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:01,439 Speaker 1: your entire device. Like it's completely insane. Okay, this person 329 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: definitely needs like some protection. They need Guardio to make 330 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:09,000 Speaker 1: sure they're not getting hacked and not having all these 331 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:12,359 Speaker 1: crazy people with crazy accusations. Yeah, Guardio might just save 332 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,560 Speaker 1: Opie's life, honestly, Like this is a life or death situation. 333 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:19,240 Speaker 1: And Guardia actually just released a new feature that allows 334 00:18:19,280 --> 00:18:22,520 Speaker 1: you to block any rat viruses on your devices. Yeah, 335 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: they blocked like malicious downloads too. It's like that's everything exactly. 336 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 1: So make sure you don't get in a situation like 337 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:30,720 Speaker 1: op You'll get Guardio now to be protected online. Okay, 338 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,639 Speaker 1: so what happened next after that? I immediately filed a police 339 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: report at my local department. When I returned to New York. 340 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: They reiterated what this officer said in California that unless 341 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: someone is hurt and or money is exchanged, there's not 342 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:45,639 Speaker 1: much they can do in terms of investigating. They just 343 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:49,320 Speaker 1: file the report. Damn, the police don't do shit. Bruh. 344 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 1: Come on now. Meanwhile, OPI's entire life is like crawing apart. 345 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,359 Speaker 1: They stated that it's a common scam for people to 346 00:18:58,440 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: use your phone number to impersonate or solicit money from friends. 347 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 1: But like where they haven't gotten to the soliciting money 348 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: part though exactly Like this person is literally just like 349 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 1: destroying her life for seemingly no reason whatsoever. Feel like 350 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:13,520 Speaker 1: it's the boyfriend. Roe. I feel like the boyfriend like 351 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:17,600 Speaker 1: install this on her phone while they were dating and 352 00:19:17,640 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: then uh and now has access to all our shit 353 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: and it's just trying to fuck with her. Dude, that 354 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,679 Speaker 1: that is the theory, because that used it against her 355 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: once it popped up. So yeah, this is pretty fun, dude. Yeah, 356 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: I think I think you're right. They said that detailed 357 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: text impersonation usually targets older individuals and usually results in 358 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,560 Speaker 1: wirefraud or something similar. They've seen this before, but the 359 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 1: landlord slash work context is very unusual. Yeah. It seems weird. Yeah, 360 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: just very strange. There's like no money involved. Yes, I've 361 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 1: given them a list of anyone who might want to 362 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 1: harm me and then I might have upset in the 363 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 1: last three years. Still hard to think of anyone who 364 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:57,120 Speaker 1: would want to do that. I mean, like, like thinking 365 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: right now, is there anyone that would want to be 366 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: like who would do this to you. You know, like this 367 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,160 Speaker 1: girl I dated that was a Disney princess that kind 368 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: of was like a little crazy, like like a like 369 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 1: a crack pot like like kind of like like a manipulator, 370 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:16,960 Speaker 1: but not like not a smart one like you know, 371 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 1: I like, she wasn't good at manipulating, but she was 372 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 1: like trying her best. And uh, she's your parents. I'm pregnant. 373 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,399 Speaker 1: Yeah she was. She she got pretty, she was she 374 00:20:28,520 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: was not happy with me at all, and so I 375 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: could see her. There's probably a couple of you you've 376 00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:40,119 Speaker 1: been through some these these women be doing your dirty 377 00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: man well with her, with her, I I stepped out 378 00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: of that situation that but she's like going crazy on you. Yeah, yeah, 379 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: it's wild, dude. I'm here all I'll tell you. Started 380 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 1: after the officer working with me advised that I check 381 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: all of my credit card statements and reports for anything suspicious. 382 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: I found two charges from Florida on one of my 383 00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,680 Speaker 1: credit cards, which I haven't visited in almost a year, 384 00:21:05,840 --> 00:21:08,439 Speaker 1: duplicate charges from the gas station and a small purchase 385 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 1: I couldn't confirm. So I canceled all my credit cards 386 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 1: and completely froze my credit just to be safe. My god, 387 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 1: like someone's infected. Having to do the absolute most. A 388 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: site said that my information was detected in eighteen different 389 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: data breaches based on the credit cards and the data 390 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:28,199 Speaker 1: breach info, and the police advised that I file an 391 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: additional report for identity theft and also freeze my credit. Finally, 392 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,200 Speaker 1: they advised me that had changed my number, which I've 393 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,920 Speaker 1: already done and got a completely new phone as well. 394 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 1: I've only shared my number with four people closest to me. 395 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 1: But I'm wondering where the hell do I go from here? Dude, 396 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 1: I think you go off grid. Honestly, Get a cabin. Yeah, 397 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 1: get a cavin take all of your money out, get 398 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:54,480 Speaker 1: to transfer it from fiat currency to gold. Ooh, you know, 399 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: go from the paper money to the gold money. Bury 400 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,560 Speaker 1: it next to the cabin, but a little bit far away, 401 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: like maybe like one hundred meters away, so people can't 402 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: find it in Canada. So you're using meters, you know, 403 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,239 Speaker 1: move move out of the states. I mean, you go 404 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: back from London. It was they're talking all meters there. Yeah, yeah, no, 405 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: they used meters in but uh yeah, dude, this this 406 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:25,200 Speaker 1: person's kidding, so screwed. I feel so so so bad 407 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,040 Speaker 1: for them. But wait, so do you have a story 408 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: that is oh, just like okay, yeah, so I I'm 409 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 1: and so there was this girl that I dated a 410 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:36,479 Speaker 1: little bit ago, like a couple of years ago, and 411 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 1: she was she was super cute. She was like an actress. 412 00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:42,679 Speaker 1: She was a Disney princess, super cute, and I like 413 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 1: literally a Disney princess at like Disney. Yeah, yeah, like 414 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: she was about at Disney and she was super cute. 415 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:53,239 Speaker 1: And I ran into her at a coffee shop. I 416 00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 1: was with my sister and she was there and I 417 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: recognized her because I went to high school with her, okay, 418 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:58,480 Speaker 1: or not with her, but she was like in my 419 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: friend like friend group, not group, but like like on 420 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 1: the outskirts, and I'm like, hey, how's it going, And 421 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 1: like she'd had a glow up. I had a glow up, 422 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 1: and so we're like, oh, like let's let's let's chat. 423 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 1: And I got her number and then we started hanging out, 424 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 1: but like instantly it was just like really weird and 425 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 1: she would get like mad at me for no reason. 426 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,159 Speaker 1: And also I was like I had just broken up 427 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,199 Speaker 1: with my ex girlfriend, so I was kind of like 428 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:28,199 Speaker 1: in an emotionless mode yeah and very like robotic. But 429 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:34,400 Speaker 1: I remember like she is like she like texted me like, hey, 430 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,639 Speaker 1: do you want to come over? And I'm like sure, 431 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: like that yeah. So I go over to her apartment 432 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:46,239 Speaker 1: and then I get there and immediately she's just like 433 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:48,639 Speaker 1: you just came over here to have sex with me, 434 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:54,439 Speaker 1: didn't you? And I'm like what, like is that the 435 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:56,159 Speaker 1: first thing that you said? Of like I mean like 436 00:23:56,200 --> 00:24:00,360 Speaker 1: I'm down, but right, but I'm like that's not that's 437 00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: not they do it. Like I was like it was 438 00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: like soccue to her. It'll like like open the door 439 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 1: and just yell yeah yeah, like like like like like 440 00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 1: two seconds in and I'm like, yo, I'm gonna leave then, 441 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,760 Speaker 1: like this is weird. And then she's like you're just 442 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:20,439 Speaker 1: gonna leave after you liked it? Of like where do 443 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 1: you want? What do you want? Like what what do 444 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: you want me to say? And so I was just 445 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: like I was so confused. I remember just being like 446 00:24:30,320 --> 00:24:36,479 Speaker 1: like baffled that like someone could be this I don't know, 447 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,399 Speaker 1: just like on like disconnected. Yeah. It just it just 448 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,440 Speaker 1: felt like I like I'm like I don't understand what's 449 00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: going on? Yeah Yeah, And then yeah. Oh. And then 450 00:24:47,400 --> 00:24:51,760 Speaker 1: and then she she got free tickets to Disneyland for 451 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 1: me and my cousins, which is super nice. I appreciate 452 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: that she gets like a watch of tickets free. And 453 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 1: I remember I was with all of my It was 454 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 1: with all of my cousins, and she was like working 455 00:25:06,080 --> 00:25:09,879 Speaker 1: her shift. And then I was with my cousins and 456 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: my my sister, and I hadn't seen them in a while, right, 457 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 1: and she went in line with us, and then she 458 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 1: just decided like hey, like I need like I want 459 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 1: to leave. And then we had been waiting in line 460 00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 1: for like an hour and a half. She's like, hey, 461 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:28,679 Speaker 1: I want to leave. And then she's like can you 462 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:32,479 Speaker 1: walk me out of the park. And I'm like yo, 463 00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 1: with my cousins and my sister, and like you got 464 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 1: to know this play is like I think you could 465 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: contro yourself. What was her response? And she got so 466 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 1: pissed brow she got and see that feels like a setup. Yeah, 467 00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 1: like I set up, like you wait in line and 468 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,800 Speaker 1: then you just leave and then like you want me 469 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,800 Speaker 1: to walk all the way out of the Park's like 470 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,280 Speaker 1: come on, that's a bit nuts. And it's not like 471 00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: we're dating. We were dating, it's all like you're seeing 472 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,760 Speaker 1: each other, you're seeing each other. It just feels like 473 00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 1: she was like trying to set me up all the time. 474 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 1: She was listen that bella though, Yeah bells you catch 475 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,760 Speaker 1: min dress? She was super cute. She was super cute. 476 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:28,359 Speaker 1: She's a great actor. I think maybe mate, she was 477 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 1: method acting. She was coming up a crazy big role 478 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:35,439 Speaker 1: and look if she told you that would ruin like 479 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 1: because she has to like be in the authentic whatever headspace. 480 00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,440 Speaker 1: So she was preparing for the biggest method actor life 481 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: as a toxic queen. And so I think conclusion, I 482 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 1: think I think she would hack my phone? Got it? 483 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 1: Got it? Wow? Then maybe one other girl that I dated, 484 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:57,440 Speaker 1: Sam is just like running down the roll with dex 485 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 1: of excess who wanted to destroy his life. Yeah, I know, 486 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,560 Speaker 1: like a decent about like ended well out on this 487 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:10,119 Speaker 1: other one. She's a that's for another story. That's for 488 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:10,879 Speaker 1: another story.