WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: “You Got Me Going”

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<v Speaker 1>second day. Business conventions are good for three reasons. One,

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<v Speaker 1>you get to learn new techniques about whatever industry that

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<v Speaker 1>you're in, maybe help you increase your business. Number two

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<v Speaker 1>of the sex and then number three the sex are

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<v Speaker 1>the three reasons that business conventions are really really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Meaningtime you meet somebody at a convention, you just assume

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably gonna be having sex with. Are you in

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<v Speaker 1>the port industry? Like industry in everybody knows that about

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<v Speaker 1>business conventions. It's like you're in town for one night,

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<v Speaker 1>you're for the weekend, and you're just there and you

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<v Speaker 1>go and you learn whatever it is that you have

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<v Speaker 1>to learn for the day. Then you got drinking at

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<v Speaker 1>night and usually probably hook up with somebody, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's where James, who's on the phone today, he met

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that he wants to call at a business convention.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm assuming that they slept together, did you, James?

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<v Speaker 1>We did not? What are you doing? Man? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a convention girl. They're so easy. I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if that's true yet. Is that the way

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<v Speaker 1>it is? You know what? I haven't been to a

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<v Speaker 1>business convention in a long time, so was it in

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<v Speaker 1>a marketing company for like a couple of years and

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<v Speaker 1>it was terrible. But that's what I remember always thinking

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<v Speaker 1>every time I had to go to convention, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna get lucky. Did you ever myself? That's just

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<v Speaker 1>so there's no fact at all to what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Our business convention is like what I think they are.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Uh, it's a lot of people. We're trapped

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<v Speaker 1>in space, you know. Yeah, when you get out, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess things could happen. It happened for me this time.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, why don't you tell us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about the girl that you want to call today? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>her name is Kia. We met at a convention. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>I come in at interesting You met at a convention convention? Shock? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>I come in from town every couple of weeks. That's

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<v Speaker 1>where I met her and we just kind of hit

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<v Speaker 1>it off. Have you ever seen her before or no? No,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my first time seeing her. Was that this

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<v Speaker 1>specific convention. Did you guys actually go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date or did you just hang out all day at

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<v Speaker 1>the convention? Well, we like hung out and then I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hey, do you want to grab you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some dinner tonight. I'm believe it's in tomorrow, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to grab dinner tonight. And she said, yeah, was it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, was it clear that it was a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I feel like, if you're hanging out all day

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<v Speaker 1>with business people, it could just be like, hey, we're

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<v Speaker 1>both from out of town, we both have to go

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<v Speaker 1>out to eat. That's when the sex happens. Oh, of course. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>have you never been in business before ever? Apparently not.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you knew that this was more than a

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<v Speaker 1>dinner date, and you know, honestly, I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that we would end up having a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of sex maybe at the end of the night. You go,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually knew that already because I read your email

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<v Speaker 1>and it says at one point you started actually asking

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<v Speaker 1>her about getting physical with each other. Yeah, after a

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<v Speaker 1>few drinks that I did. Oh, that sounds so awkward

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Well, I mean, you know, we had We're

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<v Speaker 1>having a couple of drinks and I felt comfortable. I

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<v Speaker 1>felt like she was comfortable too, so I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it wasn't I got to look back at it.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not the kind of move I should have made.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you approach that with her? Though? What did

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<v Speaker 1>you say? You know? I was just like, how about

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I I got my room key hotels right

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<v Speaker 1>next door. You know, I was trying to be sly,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was not sly. What did she say to

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<v Speaker 1>you back? She kind of got a little uncomfortable and

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<v Speaker 1>was like ready to go. And I felt awful. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a human, and I offered to walk her back

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<v Speaker 1>to her hotel and she said no, no thanks and

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<v Speaker 1>got a cab and I just went back to my place.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I tried to reach out. I did

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<v Speaker 1>because I felt bad. And I haven't heard from her.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do about trying to reach out? You

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<v Speaker 1>text her or call her? Yeah, yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>sent her a text. Let's seems to be easy way

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of her, and I haven't heard anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the problem was that you actually asked her

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<v Speaker 1>to like go to your hotel. You know, everybody knows

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<v Speaker 1>the way you approach that is you just slide your

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<v Speaker 1>room ki across the table in a wink three times

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<v Speaker 1>and then you go uh huh, and then she'll just

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<v Speaker 1>pick up on that hint. I mean, like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like all joking, decide, I really really like this girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean that's why I wrote in because I

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<v Speaker 1>want to try to make this happen, you know. And

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<v Speaker 1>so do you want to apologize to her for being

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<v Speaker 1>a maybe a little too forward and then ask her

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date. Absolutely, I want to apologize and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see if you know, if I can't

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<v Speaker 1>get a second chance. You know, you feel like she's

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<v Speaker 1>got the wrong impression. Yeah, you know that's like that's

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<v Speaker 1>not really me, that's not really you. But if she

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<v Speaker 1>would have said yes to going back to your done

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<v Speaker 1>it right, So it's you sometimes, So sometimes that's really you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you would actually like to date her. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>there's two sides each person, right, Yeah, before all that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>I really do think we had an actual connection and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very interested and attracted to her. So you think

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<v Speaker 1>you just messed up by trying to get it back

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<v Speaker 1>to your room same night that you totally messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I totally messed it up. I mean we were drinking

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I mean, you know how it is. It

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<v Speaker 1>takes signs that might not be there, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well we'll play a song, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second date update. All right, all right, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang on brooking jubil in the morning. We've

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<v Speaker 1>got James on the phone with us. And today he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call a girl named Kiara. They met at

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<v Speaker 1>a convention. He thinks he screwed up their first date

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<v Speaker 1>because during dinner he asked her if she wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>go back to his hotel room not to like check

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<v Speaker 1>out the great deal on Wi Fi, that they have

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<v Speaker 1>their great amenities to do stuff that adults do with

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<v Speaker 1>each other in hotel rooms on occasion. And she turned

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<v Speaker 1>him down and said no, and hasn't talked to him since.

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<v Speaker 1>But he'd liked to get her on the phone because

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<v Speaker 1>they met at this convention. He's in town once in

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<v Speaker 1>a while. He wants to go out with her again,

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<v Speaker 1>like on an actual date and not just try to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get some butts, one way to put it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not ready to give her a call and see

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<v Speaker 1>if you can do some damage control and get another date.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see what happened, all right. You know the tough

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<v Speaker 1>part about this for you is convincing her that you're

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<v Speaker 1>not just interested in sex, right, because you already went there.

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<v Speaker 1>So how do you go back and be like, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise that wasn't the only thing that I'm interested in.

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<v Speaker 1>I would actually like to date you. Charm. Yeah, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you think you have some of that, James. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we'll find out today. If you had charm, you

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<v Speaker 1>would have been able to get her to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to your room. You wouldn't even be having this problem. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it's the power of persuasion. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think just be honest and true to yourself, James,

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<v Speaker 1>is probably the best goal here. O. Hey, yeah, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>just I mean apologize and let her know that I

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<v Speaker 1>was just too forward and see if we can't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>go back and try it again and sure who I

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<v Speaker 1>really am? Okay? Cool? Well, I'm gonna doll the phone

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<v Speaker 1>right now and get her on the phone. You're ready,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's do it? Okay? Hello? OHI can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Kara? Please speaking? Hi Kara, this is Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewil in the morning. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is true? Jebil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Je Bowl, I'm sorry, I don't know who this is. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show, Okay. One of our listeners recently emailed

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<v Speaker 1>us about you, asking if we could get you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Someone wants me on the phone? Yes, sort of.

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<v Speaker 1>We do a segment on our show called the Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update. It's basically, if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and then blow them off, they email

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<v Speaker 1>us and ask if we can get you on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and ask if they did something wrong? Who would

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<v Speaker 1>do that? His name is James and you recently met

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<v Speaker 1>him at a convention. God really yep. James emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>and asked if we get a hold of you because

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<v Speaker 1>you're apparently not answering any of his text messages. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you like James at all? Well? I liked him on

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<v Speaker 1>our date until the very end. But no, are you

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<v Speaker 1>talking about the point where he asked if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to his hotel room? He told you that, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did. Ye, he told us because we asked him

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<v Speaker 1>about your date and about meeting you. He said that

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<v Speaker 1>he really liked you, but he also felt like he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of overstepped his bounds there and he felt bad

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<v Speaker 1>about it. He kind of overstepped his boundary. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>tell you everything? That's all I know is that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys met at a convention, went out for dinner, and

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<v Speaker 1>he asked you to go back to his room, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the last he heard from you. That's all he

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<v Speaker 1>told us. Okay, so did he tell you towards the

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<v Speaker 1>end of dinner? And I understand we've both had a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of drinks, but did he tell you that he'd

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<v Speaker 1>said me, Hey, you know, I'm in town every couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks and I would love to have you as

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<v Speaker 1>my friend with benefits. That is seriously, what proposition do

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<v Speaker 1>He was already trying to get me back to his

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<v Speaker 1>place that night, which I figured out. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not stupid. It's not my first convention, but just

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<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, baby, I'm in found every couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>You could be my regular friends with benefits. What the

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<v Speaker 1>hell is that all? Is that really how he said it,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's not how he explained it to us at all. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure he's being all sweet when he explains it

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<v Speaker 1>to you, guys, he doesn't want to sound like a

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<v Speaker 1>good point. I mean so, I mean when I said no,

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<v Speaker 1>because seriously, I've known him over a dinner for maybe

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<v Speaker 1>an hour and a half. Yeah, he accused me of

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<v Speaker 1>being a prude. No he didn't, he sure did. How

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<v Speaker 1>did he say that? Because I value myself as a

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<v Speaker 1>human being, not just as a woman, but as a

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<v Speaker 1>human being. He just doesn't want to spread my legs

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<v Speaker 1>over cheap wine. And she says, what did he say

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<v Speaker 1>to you? I mean, did he's flat out call you

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<v Speaker 1>a prude? He did. He called me a prude to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and that was that there. I got up and

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<v Speaker 1>I went to go get a cat, so back to

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<v Speaker 1>my hotel. That is so like the way he painted

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<v Speaker 1>it was how much he enjoyed your company and how

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<v Speaker 1>great he thought you were. Like I would have never

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<v Speaker 1>guessed he was that sleazy. I would have never thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was that sleazy when he so very nicely asked

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<v Speaker 1>me out after we hung out all day. But as

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out, he's no different than the majority of

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<v Speaker 1>the sleez falls who go to these conventions are like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>time to hook up. Wife's not around. I mean, they're all, God,

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<v Speaker 1>does this happen a lot of conventions? Oh my god. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean everyone who's ever been to a convention knows.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like cod for one. I was joking about

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<v Speaker 1>that earlier. We were talking about it, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the way, at least I would think of conventions. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess you get a bunch of horny

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<v Speaker 1>businessmen out there. Is this the first time something like

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<v Speaker 1>this has happened to you? Actually, it is, because this

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<v Speaker 1>is the first time I've ever said, guess to going

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner with anyone. Yeah. Normally I just go, I

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<v Speaker 1>do my thing, I hang out with whoever's there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just go back to my hotel room and go

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<v Speaker 1>to bed. Yeah. So he told us that he tried

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<v Speaker 1>to text you after your date. Oh yeah, he sure did.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh did he not just apologize in his text? No? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he did. He's like, listen, I'm sorry if

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<v Speaker 1>things got out of hand. And I wrote him back

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, just don't contract me ever again. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the guy has evolved to say, well, you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're missing with this, and I'm like, he really

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<v Speaker 1>said that to you? Really? I still have the text message. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>he left all of that out. It didn't From his

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<v Speaker 1>side of the story, it sounds like he was very

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<v Speaker 1>sweet to you after, like, I really apologize for asking

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<v Speaker 1>you go to back to my room. That was so

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<v Speaker 1>wrong of me. Wouldn't you love to just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>talk to him about it? Though, Actually I really wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>like to talk to him about it. I hope I

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<v Speaker 1>never talk to him or see him again at all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a shame, because he's on the phone listening right now.

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<v Speaker 1>He wants to talk to you. What yeah, he do

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<v Speaker 1>you think you're like over exaggerating this. No, I seriously

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<v Speaker 1>am not over exaggerating. I have those text messages that

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<v Speaker 1>you sent me, and you're like a foul cross pig,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't worry and here it please, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just just hang on one second, all right. I apologize

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<v Speaker 1>for the text messages, and you know, like it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>really mean but at the same time, we were both

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<v Speaker 1>drinking a lot. I don't remember sending you that text message.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember apologizing, but I don't remember saying anything about

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<v Speaker 1>my I thought it was just another piece of proof

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<v Speaker 1>I would have discussing pig that you are that I

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<v Speaker 1>saved It showed it to all the women that I

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<v Speaker 1>know that are going to the convention in a week,

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that they didn't as much as even

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<v Speaker 1>say hello to you. But you know what, you were

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<v Speaker 1>the one that went out with me. Didn't you just

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<v Speaker 1>say that you knew that these conventions were all about,

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<v Speaker 1>and yet you came out to dinner with me. Why

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<v Speaker 1>I went out to get with you. I didn't go

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<v Speaker 1>back to your hotel with you and then suddenly become

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<v Speaker 1>a crude. There's a big difference. Well, but here's the deal.

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<v Speaker 1>You got me going. You we were very together and

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<v Speaker 1>then all of a sudden, you're gonna walk away. That

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<v Speaker 1>sounds true to me. We were drinking, you were flirting,

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<v Speaker 1>you were trying to get me going, and you got

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<v Speaker 1>me going. Why do you have to say it like that, stup,

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<v Speaker 1>It's true you did it to me. Oh my god, Seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys, I'm so sick of this side. He's a

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<v Speaker 1>fun cake. If you can't tell that all of your delusion,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think anybody liked outs that. Everybody's on your

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<v Speaker 1>side with this one. Kia. Once I heard the phrase

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<v Speaker 1>got me going a few times in there on I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on board. Hey, Karatt, regardless, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with James again on a second date. I'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for it. No, no, what if we don't

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<v Speaker 1>get him going is bad? I would soon go out

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<v Speaker 1>with my dog. Yeah yeah, yeah, whatever you proved you

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<v Speaker 1>can learn how to throw your signals out. Yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's definitely arras fault. Don't get a prostitute next time, honey. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know there's not a convention coming up. I'll see

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<v Speaker 1>what I can do now. Now, you guys got me

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<v Speaker 1>going with that whole process, dude. And when you got

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<v Speaker 1>me going, you got me going broken jewel in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>It's