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Speaker 1: second day. Business conventions are good for three reasons. One,

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Speaker 1: you get to learn new techniques about whatever industry that

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Speaker 1: the three reasons that business conventions are really really good.

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Speaker 1: Meaningtime you meet somebody at a convention, you just assume

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Speaker 1: business conventions. It's like you're in town for one night,

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Speaker 1: So I'm assuming that they slept together, did you, James?

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Speaker 1: so there's no fact at all to what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: This is true? Jebil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: Je Bowl, I'm sorry, I don't know who this is. Okay,

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Speaker 1: a radio show, Okay. One of our listeners recently emailed

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Speaker 1: the phone. Someone wants me on the phone? Yes, sort of.

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Speaker 1: you like James at all? Well? I liked him on

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Speaker 1: because that's not how he explained it to us at all. Well,

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Speaker 1: the sleez falls who go to these conventions are like, hey,

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Speaker 1: time to hook up. Wife's not around. I mean, they're all, God,

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Speaker 1: does this happen a lot of conventions? Oh my god. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean everyone who's ever been to a convention knows.

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Speaker 1: It's just like cod for one. I was joking about

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Speaker 1: that earlier. We were talking about it, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: that's the way, at least I would think of conventions. Wait,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess you get a bunch of horny

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Speaker 1: businessmen out there. Is this the first time something like

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Speaker 1: this has happened to you? Actually, it is, because this

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Speaker 1: is the first time I've ever said, guess to going

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Speaker 1: to dinner with anyone. Yeah. Normally I just go, I

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Speaker 1: I just go back to my hotel room and go

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Speaker 1: to bed. Yeah. So he told us that he tried

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Speaker 1: to text you after your date. Oh yeah, he sure did.

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Speaker 1: Oh did he not just apologize in his text? No? No, No,

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Speaker 1: I mean he did. He's like, listen, I'm sorry if

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Speaker 1: things got out of hand. And I wrote him back

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Speaker 1: I'm like, just don't contract me ever again. And then

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Speaker 1: the guy has evolved to say, well, you don't know

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Speaker 1: what you're missing with this, and I'm like, he really

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Speaker 1: said that to you? Really? I still have the text message. Wow,

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Speaker 1: he left all of that out. It didn't From his

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Speaker 1: side of the story, it sounds like he was very

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Speaker 1: sweet to you after, like, I really apologize for asking

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Speaker 1: you go to back to my room. That was so

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Speaker 1: wrong of me. Wouldn't you love to just kind of

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Speaker 1: talk to him about it? Though, Actually I really wouldn't

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Speaker 1: like to talk to him about it. I hope I

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Speaker 1: never talk to him or see him again at all.

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Speaker 1: That's a shame, because he's on the phone listening right now.

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Speaker 1: He wants to talk to you. What yeah, he do

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Speaker 1: you think you're like over exaggerating this. No, I seriously

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Speaker 1: am not over exaggerating. I have those text messages that

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Speaker 1: you sent me, and you're like a foul cross pig,

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Speaker 1: and I don't worry and here it please, you know,

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Speaker 1: just just hang on one second, all right. I apologize

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Speaker 1: for the text messages, and you know, like it doesn't

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Speaker 1: really mean but at the same time, we were both

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Speaker 1: drinking a lot. I don't remember sending you that text message.

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Speaker 1: I remember apologizing, but I don't remember saying anything about

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Speaker 1: my I thought it was just another piece of proof

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Speaker 1: I would have discussing pig that you are that I

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Speaker 1: saved It showed it to all the women that I

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Speaker 1: know that are going to the convention in a week,

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Speaker 1: to make sure that they didn't as much as even

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Speaker 1: say hello to you. But you know what, you were

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Speaker 1: the one that went out with me. Didn't you just

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Speaker 1: say that you knew that these conventions were all about,

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Speaker 1: and yet you came out to dinner with me. Why

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Speaker 1: I went out to get with you. I didn't go

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Speaker 1: back to your hotel with you and then suddenly become

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Speaker 1: a crude. There's a big difference. Well, but here's the deal.

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Speaker 1: You got me going. You we were very together and

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Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, you're gonna walk away. That

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Speaker 1: sounds true to me. We were drinking, you were flirting,

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Speaker 1: you were trying to get me going, and you got

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Speaker 1: me going. Why do you have to say it like that, stup,

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Speaker 1: It's true you did it to me. Oh my god, Seriously,

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Speaker 1: you guys, I'm so sick of this side. He's a

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Speaker 1: fun cake. If you can't tell that all of your delusion,

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Speaker 1: I don't think anybody liked outs that. Everybody's on your

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Speaker 1: side with this one. Kia. Once I heard the phrase

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Speaker 1: got me going a few times in there on I'm

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Speaker 1: on board. Hey, Karatt, regardless, would you like to go

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Speaker 1: out with James again on a second date. I'd love

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Speaker 1: to pay for it. No, no, what if we don't

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Speaker 1: get him going is bad? I would soon go out

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Speaker 1: with my dog. Yeah yeah, yeah, whatever you proved you

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Speaker 1: can learn how to throw your signals out. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's definitely arras fault. Don't get a prostitute next time, honey. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know there's not a convention coming up. I'll see

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Speaker 1: what I can do now. Now, you guys got me

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Speaker 1: going with that whole process, dude. And when you got

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Speaker 1: me going, you got me going broken jewel in the morning.

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Speaker 1: It's