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Speaker 1: Hey Pete, good morning, Welcome to the show. How are you?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Good morning?

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Speaker 3: I'm all right.

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Speaker 1: So Pete, tell us what's going on with this woman? Brinn?

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Speaker 1: How did you meet? We gotta know about any dates

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Speaker 1: you've been on, any details you can give us and

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Speaker 1: why you think she's ghosting you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so we met at we were watching the playoffs.

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Speaker 3: We're at a bar, the playoffs we're on I was

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Speaker 3: watching the game and she seemed pretty great.

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Speaker 1: We hit it off.

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Speaker 3: I got her number, and we plan to go out again,

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Speaker 3: not football oriented, and grab some drinks and dinner a

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Speaker 3: few nights later, and it was I don't know, we

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Speaker 3: just hit it off, like I don't know what happened,

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Speaker 3: because afterwards she just starts acting a little off and

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Speaker 3: she's not really in a rush to go out on

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Speaker 3: another date. And I thought we were connecting. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: we could talk about all these other things, and then

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Speaker 3: she just kind of ghosted. And I'm just I'm hoping

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Speaker 3: you guys can help me figure out why.

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Speaker 1: I do love a meeting in the wild situation. You know,

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Speaker 1: we don't hear about a lot of those. I feel

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Speaker 1: like all of these start on an app which is

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Speaker 1: how everybody meets. I got that, But like the thing

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Speaker 1: about meeting in the wild is it sort of takes

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Speaker 1: away that is there going to be chemistry? Does the

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Speaker 1: person look the same? We've obviously heard that one before.

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Speaker 1: They don't look the same as their pictures or whatever.

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Speaker 1: So there's a lot that you kind of can read

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Speaker 1: when you first meet somebody that you don't know when

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Speaker 1: you meet on the apps, which I think if that works,

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Speaker 1: then you're off to a better start. But in this case,

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Speaker 1: you're saying you did actually hang out separately, and now

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Speaker 1: she's not calling you exactly.

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Speaker 3: Like it's we got to know each other. We were laughing,

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Speaker 3: like I think laughter's great. On a day you realize like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I can connect with this person, and I just I

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Speaker 3: The silence afterwards is also like did I do something? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm okay if I did, but I just want to

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Speaker 3: know what I was so I don't do it again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, I get it. Pete, it's not a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: Let's call this woman Brinn in just a second, well

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Speaker 1: place long will come back. You'll be on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I don't want you to say anything right at first,

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Speaker 1: but at some point you're welcome to jump in on

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Speaker 1: a call. And the hope, as always is that we

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Speaker 1: can straighten this out and then set you up on

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Speaker 1: another date that we pay for.

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Speaker 3: Sound good, awesome, Thank you, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Show radio? Hey Pete, all right, welcome back. Let's call

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Speaker 1: it Brin. You actually met out in person. You were

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Speaker 1: watching football games, You got her number. You guys went

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Speaker 1: on a date. The date went well, but you've been

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Speaker 1: reaching out since the date, trying to get a hold

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Speaker 1: of her to plan another one because you thought there

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Speaker 1: would be another one. Except she's not responding to you,

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly exactly it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call it Brinn right now. Good luck man? Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Brin? Hey Brin, good morning. My name

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Speaker 1: is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning

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Speaker 1: radio show, and I have to tell you that we

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Speaker 1: are on the radio right now, and I do need

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Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can which that

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Speaker 1: for just a second, would you mind?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much for calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 1: guy named Pete. I guess you guys met in person

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Speaker 1: and then went on a date recently. Do you recall Pete.

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Speaker 4: I recall a Pete, but but I wasn't a date.

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Speaker 1: Well, what do you mean, because he we just talked

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Speaker 1: to this guy Pete. He says he met you at

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Speaker 1: a bar, you were watching football, and then he asked

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Speaker 1: you on a date. And then he says you went

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Speaker 1: on a date. And so now I.

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Speaker 4: Want to hang out, like, you know, like dinner, drinks,

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Speaker 4: maybe watch another game or something.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like a date though, like dinner and drinks. It's possible.

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Speaker 1: Why because.

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Speaker 4: Because Pete's a guy, and I've been a lesbian for

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Speaker 4: as long as I can remember.

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Speaker 1: Oh minor detail that is a twist in the story

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Speaker 1: that I did not see. Is Pete aware of your interests?

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Speaker 4: I mean, we didn't talk about that kind of thing.

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Speaker 4: I just I don't know, thought I was making a

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Speaker 4: new friend.

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Speaker 1: So this dude approaches you asked what he thought he

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Speaker 1: was doing was asking you out, And you're just like, no,

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Speaker 1: this is a nice man at a bar who wants

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Speaker 1: to buy me dinner. And you're like, I go, okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't have to disclose that I actually don't like

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Speaker 1: what he has to offer. I mean, that's you're right,

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Speaker 1: by the way you don't. You don't have to like

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Speaker 1: qualify anything, like, you know, someone can ask you to

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Speaker 1: hang out and that doesn't mean that anything is happening.

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Speaker 1: But I guess that it would be safe to assume

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Speaker 1: that if a dude approaches you, he's a stranger and

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Speaker 1: wants to take you to dinner. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: it's unfair for him to assume that was a date. Right, Well, that.

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Speaker 4: Doesn't happened that often. I guess.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I just thought we like we're just clicking and yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's all okay, well cool, yeah, I mean that's that's honest,

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Speaker 2: and it's fair.

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Speaker 1: I got to bring Pete in, though I forgot to

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Speaker 1: mention that Pete is here with us. I get caught

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Speaker 1: up in a streng so forgetful. Pete turns out, so

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Speaker 1: we just learned a piece of information that would have

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Speaker 1: been vital to this whole thing. Turns out she doesn't

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, nos.

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Speaker 1: Am I the first to tell you that. Maybe she

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Speaker 1: just hold it where you been? I mean, I mean

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Speaker 1: we were wearing the same shoes. Oh well in that case,

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Speaker 1: gay both wearing like birkenstocks, Like what kind of shoes?

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Speaker 1: What was the giveaway?

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Speaker 2: There.

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Speaker 1: I don't understand what kind of shoes were we both

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Speaker 1: wearing steel toe booming? I guess, honestly, I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know that the footwear would have given it away.

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Speaker 1: I don't, That's what I'm saying. No one gave me

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Speaker 1: the guide book on what lesbian shoes looked like. We

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Speaker 1: got to look at her shoes, gotten the look book

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Speaker 1: on that yet, But what what shoes were you wearing?

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Speaker 1: Britnin that would have given it all the way?

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Speaker 4: We were definitely Snikeys from the men's fiction.

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Speaker 3: We girl.

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Speaker 1: The women in his room. He's from the men's section.

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Speaker 1: So I don't okay, Peter, are you okay over there?

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Speaker 1: Because you're not saying much. You seem a little stunned,

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Speaker 1: like are you okays? Oh, it's just an honest mistake.

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Speaker 3: It's I mean, it makes so much sense now. But

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Speaker 3: I can't believe I called this in and now everybody

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Speaker 3: gets to hear it.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, don't worry about that. Is this is the

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Speaker 1: least sinister of all of them. Like we've heard a

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Speaker 1: lot of really bad stuff.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I just say, you have my number if you

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Speaker 4: still to hang out.

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Speaker 1: Oh friends, Yeah, no, wait a minute, how about that, Like,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's ever happened before, where people at

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Speaker 1: the end of waiting on the phone wind up being

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Speaker 1: actual friends. Like she's not saying she doesn't like you

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Speaker 1: as a human, she just doesn't like your parts.

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Speaker 3: I yeah, I mean I might. I might need some

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Speaker 3: time just so every time I see you, I don't

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Speaker 3: think about how uh embarrassed I am.

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Speaker 1: Eventually, you didn't know you didn't know your health, ste

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Speaker 1: that's not your fault.

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Speaker 2: Let's hit me up.

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Speaker 1: I'll tell you what if you guys want to go

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Speaker 1: out again, let me know. We'll pay for that. You

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Speaker 1: guys can go a little friendly date. And uh, I'm

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Speaker 1: sure that was embarrassing. You know, I might have asked

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Speaker 1: a few more questions like I don't know who's your

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Speaker 2: Christ not the lesbian screening questions.

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Speaker 1: Well, we were trying to This would have avoided this situation.

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Speaker 1: Needs something something needs to go to the next situation. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I guess My point is I feel like Pete may

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Speaker 1: have missed some obvious clues. But he's a sweet man.

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Speaker 1: But Brin, hey, I think you've been very cool about this,

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Speaker 1: and Pete, I don't think you should be embarrassed, and

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Speaker 1: I think that. I think if you guys choose to

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Speaker 1: go out again and be friends, which you should, let

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Speaker 1: us know and we'll pay for the date or not date.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for the outing, the activity or whatever.

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Speaker 5: Okay, oh my god, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Just suggesting things a friend do. They're bros.

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Speaker 5: They're bros what watching sports when they met women who

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Speaker 5: like men watch sports. I don't think that's the giveaway.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying, you like sports, and.

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Speaker 1: You're very very strange, I might say, very very straight

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Speaker 1: love sports. Guys watch for her. Yeah, I've seen her shoes.

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Speaker 1: You guys, thank you for being this sport