1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,280 Speaker 1: Am Ida Hole for banning my parents from a family 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: event because they don't like my brother's wife. This comes 3 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: from icy Lcoln Mary two. Wait and they say so 4 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 1: my thirty female little brother is twenty three. I have 5 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:15,319 Speaker 1: another brother that's twenty. But this is about the twenty 6 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: three year old who I will call Blake. A few 7 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: months ago, Blake eloped with his girlfriend Shay, nineteen female. 8 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,880 Speaker 1: Our parents and my three sisters married twenty two female, 9 00:00:24,960 --> 00:00:27,680 Speaker 1: be A twenty seven female, and Sarah twenty five female, 10 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: were e levit. 11 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 2: Yeah what twenty three nineteen. It's like if I go 12 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 2: to a nineteen year old eulope. 13 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:36,440 Speaker 3: Oh, I wasn't even thinking. 14 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 4: I wasn't thinking that. 15 00:00:37,840 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 3: Bro. 16 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 1: We read a story where it was like a twenty 17 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: four year old and a nineteen year old, and you 18 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 1: need to batter I. 19 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 3: I was thinking of running away and doing the marriage young. 20 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 1: I mean, but like young By whose standards like Riley 21 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:54,960 Speaker 1: is like twenty twenty three years not should be married yesterday. 22 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 3: Not their yeah, not their age gap, but yeah yeah young. 23 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 4: Bye yeah young By. 24 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: Our are city boys standards, that's right, Like unusually angry. 25 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: I was a little confused, but I spoke to him, 26 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 1: and to me, it seemed like he and his girlfriend 27 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: loved each other very much and just wanted to make 28 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: a rash decision to a lope in Vegas. We live 29 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: about three hours from Vegas, so it's a popular day 30 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: trip destination. 31 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 4: So they were there for the day and e looped. 32 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it was a little silly, but I don't 33 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: understand why they're so angry about it. Blake and Shay 34 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,559 Speaker 1: didn't even tell anyone about their marriage until two months later. 35 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 2: Opie is a thirty female. Yeah, sorry, I just coming 36 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 2: from a thirty year old's mouth. 37 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 4: Female coming from a thirty year old's what. 38 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 2: Like, she's thirty and she thinks this is not crazy? 39 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:40,759 Speaker 4: What's is it crazy? I think it's a little it's rash. 40 00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 3: Two kids running away and getting married and young love. 41 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 3: It's it's true, but it's just, you know. 42 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: I think it's a little wild, But I don't think 43 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: it's like deserving of hatred. 44 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 3: No, no, not at all. Yeah, that's an over reaction. 45 00:01:55,520 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. 46 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: Blake and Shay are very wholesome and dare I say, 47 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 1: a perfect kuffle. They very obviously love each other, live 48 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: together and split the bills. Both study very good degrees 49 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 1: and have two cats. I've always said, you can't put 50 00:02:07,840 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 1: a timeline on life, and if they want to do 51 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: marriage earlier than usual. 52 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 4: Who cares? 53 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 3: I care. 54 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: My parents have made a point did not invite Shaye 55 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: to any family events since they'll call up Blake and say, 56 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: don't bring your girlfriend. They refuse to acknowledge the marriage. 57 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: Blake came the first two times they did this, but 58 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: left very early, and he's always politely declined all invitations 59 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:30,240 Speaker 1: since then. I've tried to tell my parents that they 60 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: are pushing Blake away and soon they can expect to 61 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 1: never hear from him again, but they don't seem to care. 62 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 4: I think that's true. 63 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,399 Speaker 1: I think that's true. I think that's wise words from Op. 64 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: They take every opportunity to insult Shay, even though they 65 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 1: used to love her before the elopements. It's my son's 66 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:50,119 Speaker 1: birthday soon and I'm planning a big party. I sent 67 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: the guest list in the family group chat, and my 68 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 1: parents saw that Shae was invited GOSP They demanded that 69 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: she's taken off, but I refuse. What do you think, Op? 70 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 1: In the there's a little bit more to the story, 71 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: but Oping the right or wrong for refusing. 72 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 3: For refusing to not disinvite her. 73 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 4: Yeah. 74 00:03:05,639 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 3: Yeah, not the Ahill at all, totally in the right. 75 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: They were acting in a way that made me suspect 76 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: they were going to make a scene, so I banned them. 77 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 4: Whoa right or wrong to ban? 78 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 3: Mmmm hmm. 79 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 2: It's your sound's birthday party, you get to choose. Maybeah 80 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: maybe kind of smoke. 81 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 3: Maybe that's kind of a teaching of a lesson. Maybe 82 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 3: I could coemt by that. 83 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, because we did read a story before where there 84 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 1: were two people that hated each other and they didn't 85 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 1: they invited both of them and then it was a 86 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 1: huge falling out that ruined the party. I don't want 87 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: them to isolate my younger brother, and he hasn't been 88 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: to any family events since he got married besides the 89 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: two he left early. 90 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 4: They are infuriated. 91 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: They are threatening to show up anyway and think I 92 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: have no right to ban them for someone who isn't 93 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: part of the family, which makes me think that they're 94 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: even more going to. 95 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 4: Cause a scene. 96 00:03:57,160 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: My sisters and youngest brother think I'm overreacting, and I 97 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 1: could have instead warned them to behave and told them 98 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: they would be removed if they couldn't do, so they 99 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: think the band is nuclear. My parents are demanding and 100 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: invite an apology. So am I the A hole? I 101 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: want to know what all of y'all think of the comments, 102 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: so put your comments right now. But Riley John is 103 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:23,880 Speaker 1: op the a hole by basically uninviting the parents because 104 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: the brother is invited. 105 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 4: No. 106 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,360 Speaker 3: I think actually Ope handled this well, which is hard 107 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 3: because you kind of have like two sides, one side 108 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 3: in particular kind of coming at you, and I think 109 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 3: the parents do need say hey, you can't be treating 110 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 3: them this way and going all crazy, so let me 111 00:04:40,920 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 3: teach you a little lesson, like you can't come if 112 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,600 Speaker 3: you're gonna be so crazy about this. 113 00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 4: But he didn't say that. He said, you're right, you 114 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 4: can't come. 115 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 3: That's a good point, and you just made it creepy. 116 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:51,840 Speaker 2: So they assumed that they. 117 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 4: Were going to do that. 118 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 1: But on the other side, Ope felt that they were 119 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: going to make a scene based on the interaction and 120 00:04:57,600 --> 00:04:58,359 Speaker 1: then uninvited. 121 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 3: I'm on the line if because explaining it, that's the move, 122 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 3: didn't explain it. Huh, what do you think, Riley? 123 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 4: Talk to me. It's tough. 124 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: It's tough because one she loves her brother a lot 125 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 2: and is like, I want you to come and want 126 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 2: you to feel a part of the family because you 127 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 2: haven't felt that way in alone time, and as a 128 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 2: result of that, the family is gonna then pick on 129 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:21,840 Speaker 2: the brother again. And she if you don't want that 130 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 2: kind of like animosity at your party, I don't think 131 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 2: she's able, like she Yeah, it might have not been 132 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: nice that she banned him, but like that, it's her 133 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,280 Speaker 2: son's birthday party. They should be celebrating, not like worried 134 00:05:34,279 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 2: about this possible souse. That's what was gonna happen. 135 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 4: I have a thought. 136 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: I think what you can say to your parents is 137 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: my brother hasn't been to an event in years, and 138 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: you have been hostile to Shay. I think it's really 139 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: important to have him come to this event and feel 140 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:56,640 Speaker 1: safe and loved, because if he doesn't, he's gonna feel 141 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: ostracized from the family, and you're gonna lose a son 142 00:05:58,839 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna lose a brother. 143 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 4: Yeah. 144 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: That's not to say that I want it to invite 145 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: you to future events and that you're both going to 146 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: be there, But I want to see my brother and 147 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: I don't want there to be a scene, and I'm 148 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 1: worried that you're going to make your distaste of Shay known. 149 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:15,440 Speaker 1: So for that reason, you're out. 150 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:21,880 Speaker 3: Damn damon. You know what all goes slightly easiest, weeniest, tiniest, 151 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 3: the a hole for not explaining ooh, because then it 152 00:06:27,040 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 3: could backfire and just end up. 153 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 4: Worsh which it already kind of has. It has backfired. 154 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 4: There's no, it's it's it's there's no. It's like hard 155 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 4: to be a mediator. 156 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's hard. It's hard to win in the middle. 157 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: It's hard to win in the middle. Right, I don't 158 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: know what do you all think? Put your answers in 159 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: the comic pits below. We'd love to know is Op 160 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:51,039 Speaker 1: the a hole or not? But you know who's never 161 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,680 Speaker 1: the a hole? Woo you because if you love us, 162 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe We love you and see it tomorrow. 163 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,719 Speaker 1: This is an episode from Deep Within the Air Time 164 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: for Okop Rewash. 165 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,239 Speaker 3: My cousin's trying to kick me out of her wedding 166 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 3: because I'm too young. So here's how I'm getting my revenge. 167 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I get that revenge, honey. 168 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. My twenty female cousin Isabelle twenty six 169 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 3: female is getting married in January. 170 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 4: Wo woo. 171 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 3: I have chosen a set of Royal Albert plates from 172 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 3: the gift registry that have already been delivered. 173 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 4: Nice. 174 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 3: The invitation said the ceremony would be first, followed immediately 175 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 3: by meals, and guests would start making their way to 176 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 3: the reception hall. The invitation also said be prepared for 177 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 3: a night of drinking and dancing at the reception. 178 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 4: Let's go. Sounds like a fun time. 179 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 3: It's gonna be fun, but. 180 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 4: Always a butte. 181 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 3: A couple of days ago, Isabelle called me and we 182 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 3: made some small talk. She then said she wanted a 183 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 3: call to confirm I knew the reception was more for 184 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: partying and it isn't really suitable for me. Can considering 185 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: I'm not even twenty one. Oh, I said, I'm fine, 186 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 3: just drinking water and soda. But she replied the capacity 187 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 3: for the reception hall is smaller, so they're not including 188 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 3: the younger guests. 189 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 4: Oh, rough invited. 190 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 3: Mind you, this is a child free wedding, so there 191 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 3: isn't really any younger guests. I get not wanting to 192 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 3: have kids around for the reception. Of course, Isabelle said, 193 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 3: I'm invited to the ceremony and the dinner, and I 194 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 3: was confused and told her this is really weird because 195 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 3: the invitation I got said ceremony and reception. She replied 196 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 3: that she's sorry for the misunderstanding, but that's how it is, 197 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 3: because there's going to be drinking and stuff. Eventually, I 198 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 3: told her, okay, really it's because, like the venue doesn't 199 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 3: allow people under twenty one possible, but yeah, it's so weird, 200 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,559 Speaker 3: Like why would you say say that, Like yeah, like, 201 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 3: oh sorry, like we found out the venue doesn't, you know, 202 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,719 Speaker 3: allow it. Eventually, I told her, okay, I respect that, 203 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,079 Speaker 3: but if she could kindly send me the plates back 204 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 3: so I could get a refund. Isabelle asked why, because 205 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 3: I'm going to be there for the most important part 206 00:09:09,480 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 3: and they've included me in the catering. I said, I 207 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:15,439 Speaker 3: was expecting to attend the tire wedding, not half, and 208 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 3: I bought the gift based on that. 209 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 4: Okay, that's a bit much. 210 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 3: I might not attend at all now, so she needs 211 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 3: to send the plates back and all decide on another 212 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 3: suitable gift if. 213 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 4: Any Wow, that seems like a little overreaction. 214 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 3: I also got a text from my other cousin, Isabelle's sister, 215 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,240 Speaker 3: that I'm making a scene. She's nineteen, by the way, 216 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 3: and attending the reception. Okay, wait, that sounds weird though. Yeah, 217 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 3: and I know another cousin the same age as me 218 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:47,439 Speaker 3: also attending the reception. Yike, So that I think it's 219 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:50,320 Speaker 3: just the Yeah, it's just yeah, they don't like you, man. 220 00:09:50,840 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 3: I think Isabelle's talked to other relatives about it. My 221 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 3: fiance thinks I'm in the right, though, So was I 222 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 3: have an ahile for trying to return the plates? 223 00:09:58,800 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 4: I mean a little bit. 224 00:09:59,640 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but uh, I feel like the un in like 225 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:08,160 Speaker 1: the uninviting uh when the other pretty damn harsh. 226 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's pretty like the why would they uninvite her? 227 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 4: Uh yeah? 228 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: From the reception, Like it makes no sense because her 229 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 3: her shit is her excuses obviously bs because other kids 230 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 3: younger than her are attending it. 231 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 4: So it's like, as the person getting married just doesn't 232 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 4: want you there. 233 00:10:27,120 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 3: Why did she Why did she invite her in the 234 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 3: first place? Yeah, just don't Yeah, yikes, But there is 235 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:36,199 Speaker 3: an edit. Oh, I just got off the phone with 236 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:38,280 Speaker 3: my mom because I wanted to ask her if they 237 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 3: could pick up the gift I left for Isabelle, otherwise 238 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 3: that could potentially take mine, she said. Isabelle called her 239 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 3: also and said that they are welcome to the ceremony, 240 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 3: but the reception is more for friends and partying. My 241 00:10:51,360 --> 00:10:54,679 Speaker 3: parents are definitely above twenty one and they also had 242 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 3: ceremony and reception on their invitation too. Parents were also 243 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 3: planning to gift money, so they haven't given it yet. 244 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 4: At this point. 245 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 3: They think it was really rude of Isabelle to invite 246 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 3: them and then uninvite, and they might attend the ceremony, 247 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 3: but they're not quite sure. 248 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, this is this is pretty poor taste. I think. 249 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's probably like they wanted to invite everyone and 250 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:17,959 Speaker 1: then realize, oh, actually we just want to have like 251 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: fun with our close friends. 252 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 3: Maybe yeah, like you gotta do it like then. I 253 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 3: don't know, it's just it just makes you look so 254 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:27,439 Speaker 3: bad on them. I could kind of see like, oh, 255 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 3: you want to celebrate because like the parents and everyone 256 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 3: versus like your close friends. It's like, oh, I want 257 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 3: to celebrate with my close friends the way that we celebrate, 258 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 3: which is maybe not PG. Yeah, then that's maybe figure 259 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 3: something out, But I don't. 260 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 4: Know, yeah, big eggs, big eggs. I don't like it. 261 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 4: I don't like it at all. But you know what 262 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 4: we do like, Sam, What do we like? 263 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:48,599 Speaker 3: We like people submitting their stories to our slash o 264 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 3: kop show. 265 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 4: Oh, submit your stories on retter right now, baby, we 266 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 4: want to read them. Give it to us.