Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,
Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's
Speaker 1: tip is for when you are sharing responsibilities with a partner, roommate,
Speaker 1: or kids, consider whether a longer cadence of trading off
Speaker 1: chores might make your loads feel lighter. So oftentimes, when
Speaker 1: we are sharing responsibilities, we take turns on short timeframes.
Speaker 1: You cook one day, your partner cooks the next, and
Speaker 1: then it is your turn again. This week. Your daughter
Speaker 1: sets the table and your son takes out the trash,
Speaker 1: and then next week they swap chores and your son
Speaker 1: sets the table and your daughter takes out the trash.
Speaker 1: Roommates likewise might cycle through a schedule where one person
Speaker 1: cleans the kitchen and the other vacuums the second floor,
Speaker 1: and then they switch for the next week. If short
Speaker 1: turns like those are working in your household, that's great,
Speaker 1: carry on. But if you are feeling frazzled with doing
Speaker 1: chores or with reminding other people in your household about
Speaker 1: what chores they need to do and how to do them,
Speaker 1: consider whether a longer cadence could help. That is, you
Speaker 1: don't trade off for many weeks. Or possibly even months.
Speaker 1: A few things happen with a longer cadence. First, each
Speaker 1: person develops knowledge and expertise. If your youngest child is
Speaker 1: in charge of setting the table for this semester, she
Speaker 1: has plenty of time to get confident about what goes where.
Speaker 1: She won't ask you every single night whether the fork
Speaker 1: goes to the left or the right of the plate.
Speaker 1: Or maybe your spouse is in charge of laundry for
Speaker 1: the summer. After a few weeks, maybe he or she
Speaker 1: will realize that everybody has what they need and life
Speaker 1: isn't consumed with laundry if it mostly happens on Sundays,
Speaker 1: with just one extra load of athletic clothes on Thursdays
Speaker 1: so that the kids have clothes for weekend sports practices
Speaker 1: and games. You may find that a longer cadence creates
Speaker 1: unexpected other efficiencies as well. I know of one couple
Speaker 1: that went from one person cooking the first half of
Speaker 1: the week and the other cooking the second half of
Speaker 1: the week to one person cooking the first half of
Speaker 1: the month and the other cooking the second half. They
Speaker 1: reduced their food waste and grocery spending by a lot.
Speaker 1: They realize that whenever one person's turn in did food
Speaker 1: that person had bought but hadn't used tended to go
Speaker 1: to waste. With the longer cadence, they changed turns less frequently,
Speaker 1: so they used more of the food they bought, and
Speaker 1: less food ended up languishing unused in the back of
Speaker 1: the fridge. Of course, choosing a longer cadence for chores
Speaker 1: doesn't mean a chore is yours forever. If you feel
Speaker 1: you have to rake the yard, or give the dog
Speaker 1: a bath, or do the dishes forever, that could start
Speaker 1: to feel burdensome. And if it's been ages since you
Speaker 1: were in charge of a given chore, you may forget
Speaker 1: what you can do to make the chore easy for
Speaker 1: the person responsible for it. For instance, my hunch is
Speaker 1: that the person who is in charge of dishes is
Speaker 1: much likelier to use the same water glass all day
Speaker 1: than a person who hasn't done dishes in years and
Speaker 1: doesn't think twice about getting a new glass yes every
Speaker 1: time she's thirsty. Switching chores keeps a given chore from
Speaker 1: wearing you out, But we may not need to switch
Speaker 1: chores as frequently as we assume, So if you and
Speaker 1: others in your household, are feeling burdened by chores, consider
Speaker 1: a longer cadence, perhaps taking on a given chore for
Speaker 1: a month, a season, or a semester at a time.
Speaker 1: By taking turns on a longer cadence, you have time
Speaker 1: to develop expertise and efficiency without feeling like you will
Speaker 1: never be free from the chore. How do you and
Speaker 1: your family members or roommates share responsibilities? You can let
Speaker 1: me know at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com. In
Speaker 1: the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks for listening and here's
Speaker 1: to making the most of our tasks. Hey, everybody, I'd
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