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Speaker 1: So people are texting like, you guys must have gotten

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know, because this is the kind

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Speaker 2: a little more than the night before. And then Jason

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Speaker 1: York, New York on Friday. Yeah, that's after our radios

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Speaker 2: But it's actually a very good book. He did a

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Speaker 6: Thank you, dear blog. So hit us up if you

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Speaker 6: can relate to this. But I just feel like our grandparents' generation,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, let's do it. And then another year

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Speaker 2: I'm going to rent a houseboat and put all my

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Speaker 2: So we docked there, but then at the nighttime, we

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Speaker 7: Even true it was late, it sounds like I mean,

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Speaker 3: But I feel like now Hobby is trying to be

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Speaker 6: That it might be your house and that's that's a

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Speaker 7: And I love saying that.

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Speaker 3: Because I want my daughter and that I have a baby,

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Speaker 2: Yes, we also just a is an offshoot speaking of

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Speaker 1: Whatever.

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Speaker 2: Hobby's idea was to put a porta potty in the

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Speaker 7: He was very serious about this, So let's not laugh at.

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Speaker 1: The actual porta potty. Yeah, your backyard permanent inside.

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Speaker 7: He was serious, and he was so serious.

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Speaker 3: He said, you know, people don't have to go inside,

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Speaker 3: are you sick?

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Speaker 7: Like what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: I want to see you tell my mother or your

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Speaker 7: I would love to see that happen.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot I'd like to unpack about that, but

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Speaker 1: I like that. Like if you go to rather if you.

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Speaker 2: Like an event like something whatever, and and they just

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Speaker 2: Like I go to a border body if you have to,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's the worst possible thing. Like I

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But can you imagine like crapping on top of your

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: I'm not trying to be gross, but like I can

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Speaker 2: see everybody who's used that. These are people I know.

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Speaker 2: Get I'm in there following people I know, and we're

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Speaker 7: It's should we have plumbing at home?

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Speaker 5: I don't know why?

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Speaker 1: When did you guys get that?

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Speaker 3: That's cool?

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Speaker 1: Little bit? Congratulations?

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Speaker 2: It's ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 2: Fredshell Meg, Good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 5: Hi? Good morning, I'm good.

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Speaker 7: How are you?

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Speaker 1: J and all right? What's going on with this guy? Seth?

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Speaker 2: This is of course waiting by the phone. We're trying

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Speaker 2: to figure out if you've been ghosted. It feels like

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Speaker 2: you've been ghosted. You think I got to know how

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Speaker 5: Sure, I honestly think this is probably some sort of

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Speaker 5: weird misunderstanding. So I'm hoping we can work it out.

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Speaker 5: I met Seth on Hinge and he's a really great guy.

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Speaker 5: We had a lot in common and we just hit

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Speaker 5: it off. We went on two dates. They were great,

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Speaker 5: Like I had the They're probably the best dates I've

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Speaker 5: to have a third date. But he like disappeared. So

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Speaker 5: I don't know. It feels like something. It just doesn't

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Speaker 2: Interesting, So this is a two date ghost. We hear

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Speaker 1: Wish I am.

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Speaker 2: We've had this debate many times, whether you really owe

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Speaker 2: you why I don't like you? Like I don't know,

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Speaker 2: but two dates, maybe three, I don't know. But here

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Speaker 2: you don't see a problem, and then he goes away

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Speaker 2: and you can't get a hold of him, and it's

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Speaker 2: like that, hold on a minute, Well we on two

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it just doesn't make sense to me, Like I said, like,

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Speaker 5: So it's clear to me that he didn't call, he

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Speaker 5: didn't reach out like I tried texting him, nothing like.

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Speaker 5: It just doesn't I don't know, like what happened.

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Speaker 8: It went so well, I don't understand.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well that's where we come in. We're going to

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Speaker 2: play a song. Come back, call Seth. You'll be on

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Speaker 2: the phone. We're going to ask these questions on your behalf.

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Speaker 2: And the hope is always is that we can straighten

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Speaker 2: and pay for that.

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Speaker 8: All right, I look forward to that.

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Speaker 5: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: Hey Meg, Hey, welcome back. Let's call Seth.

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Speaker 2: You guys actually went on two dates and you felt

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Speaker 2: like both dates went really well. I believe that, you said.

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Speaker 2: I want to make sure I get this right. These

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Speaker 5: Yes, they really were.

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Speaker 2: Which is interesting because you go from two of the

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Speaker 1: So where is the disconnect?

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Speaker 9: Right?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't understand, like there had there been something

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Speaker 5: that came up, like I just can't imagine an he's

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's see if we can figure this out.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Seth right now.

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Speaker 7: Good luck, Meg, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 5: I can't wait to talk to him. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Hello, hi's Seth.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is Seth.

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Speaker 2: Hi. You certainly may Seth. Well, we're so polite, may

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Speaker 2: I asked? My name is Fred. I'm calling for the

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Speaker 2: Fred Show, the morning radio show, and I have to

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Speaker 2: and I would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Can we chat for just a second on the year.

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Speaker 2: You can hang up at any time, okay, yeah, yeah, sure,

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Speaker 2: I know it. I know it's a little bit weird

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Speaker 1: I hope you remember her?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, yeah, I do, all right.

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Speaker 2: Kind of a standard, kind of a standard answer for

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Speaker 2: something that may have gone awry. What happened with her?

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Speaker 2: Because we spoke with her for a little while. She

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Speaker 1: Can't get a hold of you. What's your side of

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Speaker 8: Oh my goodness. Okay, she said it was awesome. That's

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Speaker 8: I mean, that's cool, that's flettering. I guess I believe.

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Speaker 2: If I'm correct about this, she said it was these

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Speaker 8: Well, I mean kind of half and half, But I

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Speaker 1: Took a strong turn, all right?

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Speaker 8: Why so she invited me out to she said, she

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Speaker 8: you know, that's that sounds fun, hang out a little bit,

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Speaker 8: The first the first day was great, Like honestly, I

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Speaker 8: Like I'm thinking we're gonna be hanging out with friends

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Speaker 2: Oh it was So this is a second date and

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Speaker 8: Yeah, But like that's not even the worst part of it.

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Speaker 8: Like as the night went on, I realized you must

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Speaker 1: And this is only the second date.

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Speaker 2: I mean it would have been I think it would

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Speaker 2: But this was family, and so they're treating you like

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, and I'm honestly, I felt I felt bad,

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Speaker 5: But as I was.

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Speaker 8: Going along with it, I was telling myself like I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like, what is she what does she think

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Speaker 2: this is after one date? What is she telling people?

443
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Speaker 2: And here to tell us more is Meg? Because I

444
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Speaker 2: forgot to mention that megus here. I want to bring

445
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Speaker 2: her in. I'm very forgetful. I get caught up in

446
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Speaker 2: the story.

447
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Speaker 1: Meg.

448
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Speaker 2: Did you bring him to a party with your parents

449
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Speaker 2: and siblings and tell them that you were in a

450
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Speaker 2: committed relationship?

451
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Speaker 5: I mean, you listen, high seth.

452
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Speaker 8: We had a really great time.

453
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Speaker 5: I did. I did in write you to a party,

454
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Speaker 5: and I did have two friends there, So it wasn't like,

455
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Speaker 5: you know, a lie.

456
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Speaker 2: Okay, the fairness hold on, No, Meg, I need you

457
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Speaker 2: to answer the question did you tell them that that

458
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Speaker 2: was your boyfriend?

459
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Speaker 5: I mean, I I think everyone you know dreads a

460
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Speaker 5: lot of questions when they're single during the holidays, so,

461
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Speaker 5: like you know, sometimes you just say things to get

462
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Speaker 5: people off your back. It wasn't really a big deal though.

463
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Speaker 2: But you got to tell you, Okay, if that's what

464
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Speaker 2: you're doing, you got to tell him that, like he

465
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Speaker 2: needs to be in on it, right, like if if

466
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Speaker 2: that's if it's a strategy, if it's a gimmick, just

467
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Speaker 2: simply so that people stop asking you questions, then you

468
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Speaker 2: got to be like, hey, this is what I'm thinking about.

469
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Speaker 2: First of all, we're going to a family party, and

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Speaker 2: second of all, I'm telling these people you're my boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: I think he didn't do that because you.

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Speaker 2: Know that that's but I think you also know that

473
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Speaker 2: it would sounds a little aggressive and he probably wouldn't

474
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Speaker 2: have been into it.

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Speaker 5: I mean maybe I just you know, it was just

476
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Speaker 5: to me, it was just a fun party. We were

477
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Speaker 5: having fun. He had a good time. He went along

478
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Speaker 5: with it, so like he clearly like he was picking

479
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Speaker 5: up on it, and I thought it was so cute.

480
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Speaker 5: I was like, wow, we're just like so like in sync,

481
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Speaker 5: Like he gets me.

482
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Speaker 2: I think he did that to be a kind person

483
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Speaker 2: because he didn't want to embarrass you in front of everybody.

484
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Speaker 5: Embarrassing I mean, like we had such a fun time,

485
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Speaker 5: but you're not in a relationship, okay, but like we

486
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Speaker 5: but we were just having fun.

487
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Speaker 7: It's a skit in a line. You do understand that.

488
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Speaker 5: It's not really a lie. I mean, I mean that's

489
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Speaker 5: a really that's stretch.

490
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Speaker 1: Are you in a relationship with this man?

491
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Speaker 5: I mean we're dating, aren't we?

492
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Speaker 1: Girl? We did bring you back. You went on Audi,

493
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Speaker 1: you went on you. You were you were a dater.

494
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Speaker 2: I mean one time people with Hey Meg, one date

495
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Speaker 2: like that doesn't One date does not necessitate or or

496
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Speaker 2: mean a committed relationship. Like that's a very difficult.

497
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Speaker 5: To put a committed relationship right off the bat. I

498
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Speaker 5: was just having fun, Like we all just want to

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Speaker 5: get through the holidays, don't we, Like our families put

500
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Speaker 5: so much pressure on a Like, let's just let's just

501
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Speaker 5: like enjoy it. We had a good time and like,

502
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Speaker 5: let's make some more memories together. Like, I don't know

503
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Speaker 5: why this is getting like so blown out of.

504
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Speaker 1: Whose side are you on?

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Speaker 9: I feel bad for her because I've been in this

506
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Speaker 9: position where family puts this pressure on you. Like, girl,

507
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Speaker 9: I'm out here living dreams and you're talking to me

508
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Speaker 9: about a man.

509
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Speaker 1: Okay, like it?

510
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Speaker 7: You know they always do that.

511
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Speaker 1: What two things can be to you?

512
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Speaker 2: Really do two things that can be true, and you

513
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Speaker 2: can also bring a man into a situation that he

514
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:03,439
Speaker 2: didn't know about.

515
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, you don't do a ski apparently.

516
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Speaker 1: Life that he's not aware of.

517
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Speaker 2: And at least you could have done is given him

518
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Speaker 2: a heads up about what you did so that he

519
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Speaker 2: can choose whether he wants to walk into that or not.

520
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:14,879
Speaker 2: And then he knows how to answer the questions and

521
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Speaker 2: he doesn't feel cornered. But you didn't do that, and

522
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Speaker 2: so now the guys thinks you're crazy.

523
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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, no, listen, I get like, okay, I

524
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Speaker 5: could have told him, but like he went along with

525
00:21:26,160 --> 00:21:28,960
Speaker 5: it and it went so well, like honestly for you

526
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Speaker 5: love him, my family loves him. Like it was great.

527
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Speaker 2: Have you never Meg been in a situation where you

528
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Speaker 2: you went along with it just to get out of it?

529
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Speaker 5: I guess so. But like I felt like going along

530
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Speaker 5: with it showed like how in sync we were, Like

531
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Speaker 5: he read my mind, Like we just had like such

532
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Speaker 5: a good time.

533
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Speaker 9: He was trying to survive sis, like he didn't know

534
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Speaker 9: what you were capable of.

535
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Speaker 5: It's like thriving. It felt like driving to me. I

536
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 5: don't know, I don't see it that way.

537
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Speaker 1: All right, Well, look, is that really wait?

538
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 3: Is that really?

539
00:21:58,119 --> 00:21:58,199
Speaker 8: Like?

540
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Speaker 5: Is that? Was that really a problem?

541
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Speaker 2: I think telling your family that you're in a relationship

542
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Speaker 2: with a man that you went on one day with

543
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,840
Speaker 2: and not telling him that, for him to be the

544
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:09,159
Speaker 2: only one in the room that doesn't know, is a problem.

545
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 2: But Sethil asked the question, I mean, you did like

546
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Speaker 2: the first date the second thing? She I don't fully

547
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Speaker 2: believe that she was just doing this as a gimmick,

548
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 2: because I think she would have let you in on it.

549
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Speaker 1: But would you like to go out with her again?

550
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Speaker 1: A third date?

551
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Speaker 2: We try this, maybe you know, dinner, we don't invite

552
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Speaker 2: mom and dad and Mema and you know, and the

553
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 2: siblings and nieces and years and you know, maybe we

554
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Speaker 2: don't have a family reunion on the third date and

555
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Speaker 2: we see what happens.

556
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Speaker 1: Would you like to try?

557
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Speaker 5: Man?

558
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Speaker 8: Honestly, no, I'm sorry, Meg, I can't do really.

559
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Speaker 7: Oh, you already tell the family, right, You're to get married?

560
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Speaker 1: When's the wedding that he doesn't know about?

561
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Speaker 5: You know, we had a good connection.

562
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Speaker 1: Are we being silly? I mean, I think we're just

563
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Speaker 1: being realistic.

564
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Speaker 2: But the roles reversed, you wouldn't have a problem with this, Meg,

565
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Speaker 2: I mean, you can go to Seth for a second day.

566
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Speaker 2: He takes you to his parents' house, he introduces you

567
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Speaker 2: as his girlfriend. I mean you wouldn't and you didn't

568
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 2: know anything about it, you wouldn't have any issue with that.

569
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Speaker 5: I mean, if we're still connecting and having a good

570
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 5: time and vibing like you know what, that's dating like

571
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 5: different now, you know, so you got to just like

572
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 5: embrace what.

573
00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: God, hey, dating might be different.

574
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 2: You just got to make sure everybody who's dating in

575
00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 2: this situation knows what where we're at, you know. And

576
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,360
Speaker 2: I think the biggest issue here with Seth was unaware

577
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:27,639
Speaker 2: that he was your boy.

578
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 5: I mean, I hear you like it was like a problem.

579
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 5: I mean, but you know what I thought, since we

580
00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 5: had so much fun, it wasn't a big deal.

581
00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:35,760
Speaker 2: Okay, well, hey, you see like a nice person. Meg,

582
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Speaker 2: I think you jumped the gun here. I'll ask one

583
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Speaker 2: more time, because I don't dislike Meg. I just think

584
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Speaker 2: I think that was that was we we jumped to

585
00:23:44,400 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 2: conclusions here a little bit. But Seth, one more time,

586
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Speaker 2: I'll ask, do you want to go out with her again?

587
00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

588
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

589
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 8: I need to pass.

590
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 2: Okay, he's not going to do it. Hey man, Oh

591
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Speaker 2: my gosh. Her surprise is a little it's a little concerning.

592
00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 7: I haven't shocked every time she convinced her.

593
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Speaker 1: I think she did amazing.

594
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 5: I really you know what, you meet people and you

595
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 5: have a connection with them, and you're like, you know,

596
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 5: this is special, this is something different, you know.

597
00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 2: And it's a shame. It's a shame when that's not reciprocated.

598
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: But my issue here is that it might have been

599
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Speaker 2: if we hadn't created this, this fantasy world that we

600
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:17,920
Speaker 2: weren't quite living in yet.

601
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 5: Yeah. No, I hear, I hear was the problem. Like,

602
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Speaker 5: I'm sorry that it was a problem.

603
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Speaker 1: But I mean, yeah, wow, receptive. I don't Normally people

604
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Speaker 1: are totally Delulu. They're like, I don't know what you're

605
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Speaker 1: talking about. She seems to be aware. All right. Look,

606
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Speaker 1: I hope things work out for you. Set. Thank you

607
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Speaker 1: for answering. I wish you the best as well. Yeah,

608
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Speaker 1: thank you.

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Speaker 4: Caitlin's entertainment report is on The Bread Show.

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Speaker 1: Shelley.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you got a couple of kids. Yes, have you

612
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Speaker 7: ever asked AI how to parent? All the time? Every day?

613
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Speaker 1: Okay, week, what's the last time you asked him?

614
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Speaker 7: But when was the last time?

615
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Speaker 10: Was the question something about congestion because my son's congested.

616
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Speaker 10: So I was asking something about like a saline solution

617
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Speaker 10: thing like how much is Okay?

618
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Speaker 2: They got these people called doctors, you know, and you

619
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Speaker 2: can like go there. It's a real human being. I

620
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 2: know it doesn't feel like it these days, and it

621
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Speaker 2: can be hard to actually find one and visit them

622
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Speaker 2: and then get assurance to pay for it.

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Speaker 7: But like chat GPT so much because I mean.

624
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Speaker 2: When it comes to like, when it comes to like

625
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Speaker 2: actual like you know, bodily things, I don't know, I

626
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Speaker 2: prefer professional. I mean, we found out that it's wrong

627
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Speaker 2: sometimes you.

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Speaker 10: Know so, but sometimes I just need validation in the moment. Okay,

629
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Speaker 10: what's happening.

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Speaker 6: Okay, So you might not be mad about this quote,

631
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Speaker 6: but I think some parents will be triggered. Open AI

632
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Speaker 6: CEO Sam Altman was talking to Jimmy Fallon and said, like,

633
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Speaker 6: I like, I'm saying a quote that may trigger some

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Speaker 6: and I quote he said, I cannot imagine having gone

635
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Speaker 6: through slash figure out how to raise a newborn without

636
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Speaker 6: chat GBT.

637
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Speaker 7: Okay, people have done it. Women used to give birth

638
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Speaker 7: and caves my guy, but hey, there you go.

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Speaker 6: He did admit that he feels kind of bad asking

640
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Speaker 6: technology about parenting, but said a couple months ago when

641
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Speaker 6: he was at a party, talk you know someone who's

642
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Speaker 6: also raising a newborn. This is an example he gave

643
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Speaker 6: about they're six months old. He said that they told

644
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Speaker 6: him that their child was crawling everywhere.

645
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Speaker 7: He got so worried he.

646
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Speaker 6: Ran to the bathroom and asked Chad, as you call

647
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Speaker 6: him around here, should I go to the doctor tomorrow?

648
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Speaker 7: He said.

649
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Speaker 6: Chad answered with a great response, saying his son's development

650
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Speaker 6: was normal, and he said it is personalized, like to you.

651
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Speaker 6: It gets to know you along the way, like Pauline

652
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Speaker 6: always says, we're not doing the work.

653
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Speaker 7: Do you want me to close this out, Freddy so

654
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Speaker 7: we can.

655
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Speaker 6: Get a show down or are we gonna is she

656
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Speaker 6: gonna get bumped again?

657
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Speaker 7: I'm sorry, Shelley Am.

658
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Speaker 2: You're getting bumped. They're getting played off. Okay, yeah, we'll

659
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Speaker 2: get you tomorrow. It's fine, We're gonna play. Don't worry, Okay.

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Speaker 6: The Queen of Christmas, Mariah Carres All I Want for

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Speaker 6: Christmas has made history again with its return to the

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Speaker 6: number one on the Billboard Hot one hundred this week.

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Speaker 6: The song becomes the first in history to rank at

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Speaker 6: number one on the charts in seven seven separate calendar

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Speaker 6: years twenty nineteen, twenty twenty one, twenty two, twenty three,

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Speaker 6: twenty four, and twenty five.

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Speaker 7: So congrats to or. In other music news, Jason's excited.

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Speaker 6: Christina Aguilera is working hard on new music and a

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Speaker 6: new documentary.

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Speaker 7: She said, Kiki's actually the excited one.

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Speaker 6: That it'll tie in with a very special documentary when

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Speaker 6: we get the new music that they've been filming for

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Speaker 6: the last few years.

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Speaker 7: So it looks so good, Mark, she looks really good.

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Speaker 6: If you want to see what we're wearing today, Fred

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Speaker 6: you're there. There's some content you may have not seen before.

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Speaker 2: We got Nikki lined up. I feel good about Nikki,

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Speaker 2: I feel good about Sholley. I feel like a great

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Speaker 2: battle is ahead. When I thank you, I have no idea.

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Speaker 2: I have actually no idea. Thank you knows anything, no clue,

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Speaker 2: but I know you do. So we'll see five hundred

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Speaker 2: bucks good money. We'll play next Kiki karaoke Christmas songs today,

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Speaker 2: let's do it. I haven't decided which ones yet, but

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Speaker 2: we'll discuss without you. Well, I can't. We can't tell

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Speaker 2: you what songs they are because then you would look

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Speaker 2: at the lrition sheet. Actually no, you probably still wouldn't,

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Speaker 2: but that's fine. Yeah, and definitely gonna be Pauline and

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Speaker 2: Paulina had to step out, which means it's definitely gonna

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Speaker 2: be Jason today. Big responsibility. I'm scared, Big responsibility. We'll

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Speaker 2: get to all of that next day. More pread show

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