WEBVTT - INTERVIEW: Tika Sumpter Talks Sonic, Tyler Perry's Influence, Interracial Marriage + More

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<v Speaker 1>Wake that ass up in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>The Breakfast Club Morning, Everybody's DJ Envy Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne

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<v Speaker 2>the guy.

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<v Speaker 3>We are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest

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<v Speaker 3>in the bill.

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<v Speaker 2>Indeed always quiz get the money when she's here, Ladies

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<v Speaker 2>and gentlemen, Tika something welcome, Thank you morning, Tka.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you feel?

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<v Speaker 4>I love your show one and I'm happy to be back.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you blessed? Black and holly food. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know your real name was Euphemia.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's Euphemia. It's a Greek goddess. She was a

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<v Speaker 5>martyr and my dad named me that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, So Latika latique is where you get tika from?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, you femia latik. My grandma somehow figured out teak.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like a tiki bird, a black teaky bird in Florida.

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<v Speaker 5>So you fema latik someter but sumter. But in school,

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<v Speaker 5>I would be like, they'd be like, oh for me,

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<v Speaker 5>I'd be like, just Tika.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you learn what you fema? You fema?

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<v Speaker 4>Met you fhemia femia?

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<v Speaker 5>Well I looked it up because I was like, what

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<v Speaker 5>is that? And oh and I met some like Greek

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<v Speaker 5>people and they were like, Faia, that's Greek. And I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, oh, okay, cool, and I looked it up

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, oh, my dad kind of you know,

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<v Speaker 5>thought of me as this beautiful human being. He saw

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<v Speaker 5>the future confidence nothing because I thought it was I

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<v Speaker 5>thought it was a terrible name and it was too

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<v Speaker 5>big for me, and I'm like, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>this is. You know, you're in Queens and you're like

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<v Speaker 5>and the teacher's like uphamia u canuba, Like You're like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh God, just call me Tika. So it did nothing

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<v Speaker 5>until now, until like my older age.

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<v Speaker 3>It all worked out. And how did you get into acting?

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<v Speaker 3>Come from queens? Like what made what was the acting bug?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, it's crazy because you don't see anybody.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, my sisters actually were dancers, like when they

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<v Speaker 5>danced in videos back in the day and like kid

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<v Speaker 5>in Play like MC light all that stuff. So I

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<v Speaker 5>like saw pictures, like I stole pictures from them and

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<v Speaker 5>took them to school and was like she's eating this person,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, or but so I saw it from Afar,

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<v Speaker 5>but I didn't know that I can actually do it. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>I used to love watching cartoons and things like that.

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<v Speaker 5>I only knew I could do it when I went

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<v Speaker 5>to Long Island and I heard of this woman named

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<v Speaker 5>Mariah Carey who's from Huntington, and I was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>that's interesting. And so I started going on the L

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<v Speaker 5>I R R. Long Island Railroad to New York and

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<v Speaker 5>taking classes. But I didn't know that I can do it.

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<v Speaker 5>I just saw the TV and I was like, this

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<v Speaker 5>is a job, like you know, you don't know it

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<v Speaker 5>until you can see somebody, yeah, or you see somebody

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<v Speaker 5>else who's actually doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>And your parents believe back then, because I mean they

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<v Speaker 3>had to take you, right.

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<v Speaker 5>My parents, No, my mom didn't know what the hell

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<v Speaker 5>I was doing was going to because I used to

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<v Speaker 5>work at a movie theater. So I had my own

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<v Speaker 5>money to do it and take classes. But like she

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<v Speaker 5>trusted me. I was a very trusting child because my

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<v Speaker 5>siblings made all the mistakes.

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<v Speaker 4>And she was like, okay, exactly.

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<v Speaker 5>And so I would go to New York and on

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<v Speaker 5>the weekends take classes and and and it wasn't until

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<v Speaker 5>I moved to New York to go to Marymount Manhattan College.

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<v Speaker 5>I couldn't afford it. It was too expensive. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know why I chose a private college. And I told

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<v Speaker 5>my mom that I was leaving and I'm going to

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<v Speaker 5>try acting, and she was like, what is First of all,

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<v Speaker 5>where's your four to one? Like, you know, I grew

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<v Speaker 5>up in that kind of environment. My mom was a

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<v Speaker 5>corrections officer at Rikers, So you know, she's like, what's

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<v Speaker 5>the plan because we don't know anybody who acts, who's

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<v Speaker 5>making any money.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was gonna Actually, when do you feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you like your breakout moment? When do you feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you actually made it?

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like there are many different breakout moments for

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<v Speaker 5>different people, right. And I remember quitting my job in

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<v Speaker 5>New York. I worked at a private members club and

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<v Speaker 5>I was just done, Like I was done with people

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<v Speaker 5>being inconsiderate and entitled and talking to me sideways. I

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<v Speaker 5>literally walked out like just I didn't tell anybody. I

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<v Speaker 5>just left and I'm like crying down the street New

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<v Speaker 5>York moment, and the ladies like are you okay?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm home?

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<v Speaker 1>Stop.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a white lady, must look that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Something's wrong with.

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<v Speaker 5>Lady.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like are you okay?

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like okay, you know, and you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I auditioned for this show called One Life to Live

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<v Speaker 5>at the time, and you know, my ex at the

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<v Speaker 5>time was like, look, how about you go for your dream.

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<v Speaker 5>This is the first time I've ever felt like I've

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<v Speaker 5>had like a fall somebody to fall back on. And

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<v Speaker 5>he I was like, go for my dream. He's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'll take care of everything.

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<v Speaker 4>You go for your dream.

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<v Speaker 5>But that only lasted a week because then I.

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<v Speaker 1>Can take care of you for one week.

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<v Speaker 4>No, it only lasted a week because I've booked.

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<v Speaker 6>A job for seven days. Yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I booked One Life to Live and after

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<v Speaker 5>that I never had to like waitress or do any

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<v Speaker 5>of those things ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Again.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that you worked at a movie theater, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, when think back on your life, you

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<v Speaker 1>look at all of these different moments that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>gave you signs. Did that give you a sign back then?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was the closest thing I had to like

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<v Speaker 5>what I wanted my reality to be. And so, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I worked at a movie theater for a while. It

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<v Speaker 5>was United Artists, it's not and it's no longer around.

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<v Speaker 5>But I would get my mom some free movies. I'd

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<v Speaker 5>give her a free candy and popcorn and all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, it was one of those things where I

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<v Speaker 5>was that was the closest I ever got to what

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted to be.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>You played Michelle Obama a few years ago.

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<v Speaker 4>I did, Well, how was that?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get to pick her brain?

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<v Speaker 6>And all?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't we got the okay to do it because

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<v Speaker 5>you know, we definitely didn't want to step on anybody's toes.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was just from the point of view of

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<v Speaker 5>you know, before she became Michelle, you know, like their

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<v Speaker 5>first date. And so it was something that I produced

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<v Speaker 5>and we took to sun Dance and we sold it

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<v Speaker 5>to Mirrimax at the time, and you know, it worked

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<v Speaker 5>out and my friend Richard Tanny wrote script and I

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<v Speaker 5>got to work with my friend Parker Sawyers.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was it was.

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<v Speaker 5>Really fun to do and and I feel that that project,

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<v Speaker 5>like it was very close to my heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't come out before after becoming her.

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<v Speaker 4>Book, way after before.

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<v Speaker 1>Before, before before before you didn't have nothing to work on.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, he had, he had wrote his books already,

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<v Speaker 5>but she also her brother wrote a book, so I

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<v Speaker 5>got to like understand the inside of who she was

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<v Speaker 5>before she became the Michelle Obama, you know, And so

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<v Speaker 5>that was more fun for me because I wasn't trying

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<v Speaker 5>to replicate who she is now. I had to kind

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<v Speaker 5>of get an idea of who she was before that, right,

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<v Speaker 5>and she was his boss. So the their first date

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<v Speaker 5>was definitely like you know it was. It was walking

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<v Speaker 5>the line.

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<v Speaker 1>You get canceled with that to day.

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<v Speaker 2>Your person got your boss, though, can't your boss you

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<v Speaker 2>out here in the workplace?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, human resources?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a double standing. Maybe it was different when

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<v Speaker 1>it's a woman and the guy.

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<v Speaker 5>I just feel like, where do you meet your significant

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<v Speaker 5>another nowadays? Like nobody goes to bars.

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<v Speaker 2>Nowadays. It's the toughest thing, Like you can't. I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>gonna say you're not allowed to because you don't watch

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<v Speaker 2>the human resource video that they make you watch every week.

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<v Speaker 2>You got somebody and.

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<v Speaker 4>I met my man in the bar. I did, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>two years ago.

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<v Speaker 5>I met guys in the bars. But I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 5>that's when you used to go out, you know. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>most of it was at work. So for me to

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<v Speaker 5>now tell us.

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<v Speaker 3>About the sonic, the hedgehogging, and it.

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<v Speaker 4>Was that dirt installment because you're not.

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<v Speaker 3>It's well, it is a person, but it's not a person.

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<v Speaker 3>It's animation.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I mean it's it's incredible what they do

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<v Speaker 5>and how they make them look. The first one was

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<v Speaker 5>just like a golf tennis ball. I was like connecting

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<v Speaker 5>with the second Sonic two, it was these huge three

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<v Speaker 5>D cutouts of like me talking us talking to Sonic

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<v Speaker 5>and Tails and all that stuff. And then the third

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<v Speaker 5>one was like these huge puppeteers who actually had like

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<v Speaker 5>talking to us as their voice as each Wress and

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<v Speaker 5>Keanu and whoever else, And so yeah, it grow, it

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<v Speaker 5>grew as the budget grew.

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<v Speaker 4>On the same room or is it like is it individually? No,

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<v Speaker 4>they're in the same room. Okay, they're in the same room.

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<v Speaker 5>Not not not the voiceover part, Like they do their

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<v Speaker 5>part separately, like Ben Schwartz who does Sonic and all

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<v Speaker 5>that stuff, they do it in a booth. But for

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<v Speaker 5>us to make it real, they bring these like puppeteers

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<v Speaker 5>and like we're like, I love you Sonic or Knuckles

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<v Speaker 5>is like I don't understand you know.

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<v Speaker 4>That kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And so yeah, we get to like act across from

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<v Speaker 5>real actors.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you like it?

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<v Speaker 2>I love it weird, like you're talking to a muppet

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<v Speaker 2>and I know one time you're talking to a tennis ball.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, but it's like using your imagination, right, Like

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<v Speaker 5>the closest thing to creativity is play. So I mean

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<v Speaker 5>that's what you'd get to I got to do it,

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<v Speaker 5>and I feel like I'm the coolest mom ever have

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<v Speaker 5>daughter who's eight, is like she saw like she saw

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<v Speaker 5>it and she's like, thank you so much, mom, And

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<v Speaker 5>then all her friends were like, your sonic's mom. Yes,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I have different street Crid. She's eight

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<v Speaker 5>years old playing not at all with or without you?

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<v Speaker 4>Without you?

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<v Speaker 2>When they first booked you for that, did you what

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<v Speaker 2>made you say I want to do this because it's

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<v Speaker 2>totally different than what you've done before.

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<v Speaker 3>What made you want to do that?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, honestly, they asked me to come read at like

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<v Speaker 5>a huge paramount table reading all the executives. Everybody was there,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, do y'all y'all want me to

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<v Speaker 5>come read with you guys? That's awesome, And so then

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<v Speaker 5>they offered me the job. I wanted to do it

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<v Speaker 5>because I wanted to do something that my daughter can

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<v Speaker 5>actually watch.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like everything I do is. It's like she

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<v Speaker 4>can't really watch it. So how is it working with

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<v Speaker 4>Jim Carrey? Oh, doctor, yes, which nobody else could play

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<v Speaker 4>that role. And he plays two roles in this.

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<v Speaker 5>He plays his own grandfather and then the grandson, and

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<v Speaker 5>so he's in First of all, I grew up watching

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<v Speaker 5>him on in Living Color. Yeah. Same, And so to

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<v Speaker 5>see somebody who you look up to for so long

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<v Speaker 5>the first one, I was like, oh my god, Jim

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<v Speaker 5>Carrey and he's like, all right, let's let's talk about

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<v Speaker 5>the script and like all the things and what do

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<v Speaker 5>you think about this? And help like write this joke?

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, what's me? No, I can't help

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<v Speaker 5>with anything.

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<v Speaker 4>You write that, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>But it was really cool that he kind of embraced

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<v Speaker 5>us and he's just super normal. Now it's like, oh

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<v Speaker 5>that's Jim, you know. Yeah, it was awesome. It was awesome,

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<v Speaker 5>a dream come true.

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<v Speaker 1>I wonder when you have you know yourself and then

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<v Speaker 1>you have stars of that magnitude like Keanu and Jim,

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<v Speaker 1>do they need to be seen clearly?

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<v Speaker 5>Not?

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<v Speaker 4>Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Do y'all need to be seen?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 6>And what like?

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<v Speaker 1>As far as like being on the screen, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>your voices, but it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Not oh them, yeah, I mean you see Jim on

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<v Speaker 5>the screen, you see what he does. I think with

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<v Speaker 5>Keanu and Idris, you know their voices, so you don't

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<v Speaker 5>have to. People are excited that it's Keanu and Idris,

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<v Speaker 5>you know. And but also you know, the characters that

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<v Speaker 5>they're playing are super iconic, so it's like they you

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<v Speaker 5>know it, it's great that we have them, we love them.

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<v Speaker 5>But also like the characters are the gamers are like,

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<v Speaker 5>we're down for the ride.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you tell people? Is you like if somebody

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<v Speaker 1>like I love that character, you'd be like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's me.

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<v Speaker 4>But you see me.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not. No, I'm not a cartoon.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never seen it because you was talking like

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<v Speaker 1>you were the voice actors.

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<v Speaker 5>I know I'm talking to like the characters on screen,

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<v Speaker 5>like Sonic and Tails.

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<v Speaker 4>And Knuckles because he the only one that's not really

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<v Speaker 4>not real. He was I'm real who so yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Knuckles he knew Sonic wasn't real.

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<v Speaker 1>I know Sonic and Knuckles not.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, you just thought the whole movie, the whole thing

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<v Speaker 4>was No.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's live action, like there you know, James Marson

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<v Speaker 5>and me and you know other people are real.

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<v Speaker 4>Jim Carrey is real.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so be just confused.

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<v Speaker 1>I never got it. I never got into the sonic thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually what caught me with the trailer for Knuckle one time,

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<v Speaker 1>but that was on TV.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah that was a series. Yeah that was.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. I talked earlier that your mom

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<v Speaker 3>just allowed you to go right, Yeah, that was your

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<v Speaker 3>your son and daughter daughter. Because your daughter get older,

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<v Speaker 3>would you let her just go and say go ahead?

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<v Speaker 4>These days? I mean it's hard. I do. Like we

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<v Speaker 4>went like camping one and she's like, I just want

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<v Speaker 4>to go. We did. We went camping.

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<v Speaker 5>Queens, but we went to like auto camp.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like a glamping Yes, it's like in a community.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like, I want to walk over. She's very independent.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's really important to allow your child to

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<v Speaker 5>have some access to independence because I feel like or

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<v Speaker 5>you can be kind of clobbering them and like, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I used to when I was in

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<v Speaker 5>Queen's I would go down the block until the lights

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<v Speaker 5>start and it was like Tica come home, and I

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<v Speaker 5>just felt like, I that's how you learn, that's how

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<v Speaker 5>you learn how to fight for yourself. I remember getting

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<v Speaker 5>jumped by my two friends.

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<v Speaker 6>That day.

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<v Speaker 4>They're like, te could come over here. I'm like, what.

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<v Speaker 1>You got hit with? The come outside? You're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>jump you coming.

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<v Speaker 6>Going to somebody's house.

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<v Speaker 4>The girls are like, y'all gonna fight? What What did

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<v Speaker 4>you do?

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't do I am I was a very sweet child.

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<v Speaker 5>I did not do anything. I think they just wanted to.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know why they wanted to fight me.

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<v Speaker 6>She got jump.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me tell you my adrenaline when they told me

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<v Speaker 5>the girl. I wish I could say her day because

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<v Speaker 5>I remember. That's how impacted. I remember everybody's name. And

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, I'm gonna fight her. And she was

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<v Speaker 5>big in my big.

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<v Speaker 1>Like big back of like like.

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<v Speaker 5>Like Diesel big back, and I was like my adrenaline

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<v Speaker 5>shot to my heart.

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<v Speaker 4>And I remember taking her hand.

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<v Speaker 5>There was a thorn bush, swinging her throwing her in

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<v Speaker 5>the thorn bush, and she being like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to fight you. I was like what, Like it was

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<v Speaker 5>a weird It was like I was in a dream

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know where the power came from.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, wasn't an angel because it was not me.

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<v Speaker 4>It couldn't have.

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<v Speaker 5>Been me, yeah, and I walked away alive to jump. Well,

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<v Speaker 5>they were all around me, so it was like it

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<v Speaker 5>was a setup. They didn't they didn't jump me one

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<v Speaker 5>on one, but the other my friends were around me.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I don't understand that.

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<v Speaker 1>Smart you took the biggest one out first. So once

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<v Speaker 1>they see everybody stories.

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<v Speaker 5>She asked me the other day, she asked me the

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<v Speaker 5>day She's like, she did ask the other day, mom,

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<v Speaker 5>have you ever been drunk?

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, what was she watching? I want

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<v Speaker 4>to ask all the questions. I'm just open with my child.

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<v Speaker 5>I really am, and not in a way where it's

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<v Speaker 5>like inappropriate, but like I was drinking a beer at

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<v Speaker 5>home one night and we were talking. She's like, have

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<v Speaker 5>you ever been drunk? And I was like, my husband's like, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>she has, and he tells her the store and she's like, wow,

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<v Speaker 5>we want to know. I've been drunk many times. You

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<v Speaker 5>don't want to know that was my past life.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny though, because you talk about how you came up,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's like, yo, we can't do that with our

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<v Speaker 1>kids nowadays. I don't feel comfortable to letting my kids

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<v Speaker 1>just go out.

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<v Speaker 5>And I mean, you know that lady who got arrested

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<v Speaker 5>for letting her ten year old walk.

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<v Speaker 4>He was walking to the store. Yeah he's ten.

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<v Speaker 3>And that was in the South too. Well, he walked nothing,

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<v Speaker 3>he walked.

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<v Speaker 5>He walked to the store, and they came to arrest

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<v Speaker 5>her to say he was in Somebody called the cops

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<v Speaker 5>he was in danger. And you know most states have

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<v Speaker 5>that law. There's like only four that don't, Like, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't even know that that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, it's like a child endangerment or something like that.

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<v Speaker 5>But like I'm like, you can't even let your child

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<v Speaker 5>walk to a store, which is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>So many times.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, an Astra credit, Yeah, exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 7>And you worked with Tyler Party on a few projects.

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<v Speaker 7>I did, and I noticed that, you know a lot

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<v Speaker 7>of actors that work with him say that that was

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<v Speaker 7>the first time that they ever got paid what they

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<v Speaker 7>were worth.

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<v Speaker 4>Was that the same for you?

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<v Speaker 5>I I'm lucky in this industry. Like for the jobs

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<v Speaker 5>that I have had, I've been paid very well and

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<v Speaker 5>he has continued the process for me. And so I

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<v Speaker 5>feel super grateful because even now, like I brought a

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to get a project made for five

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<v Speaker 5>years and I had it with different production companies and

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<v Speaker 5>I co wrote something with a friend of mine who's

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<v Speaker 5>a writer on Pea Valley, and I brought it to

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<v Speaker 5>him and within days he calls me. He's like, I'll

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<v Speaker 5>direct it. This is the first time he's ever directed

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<v Speaker 5>something that he didn't write. And he's like, you you

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<v Speaker 5>produce it for like, you really go out and produce it,

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<v Speaker 5>which I love. He's like, so, I'm co writing, producing,

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<v Speaker 5>and starring in a film that Amazon sisters in Italy

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<v Speaker 5>and Amazon bought it and so we're finishing it in

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<v Speaker 5>Italy in April. So and he said yes in June July.

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<v Speaker 5>We started in September.

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<v Speaker 4>Congratulations.

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<v Speaker 1>Kyla is a great dude, man. I don't think he

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<v Speaker 1>really gets the flowers with a credit that he deserves.

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<v Speaker 5>I think he gets it, and he gets it from

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<v Speaker 5>the people that matter to him.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>I think you know, there's obviously a group of people

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<v Speaker 5>who don't like what he does, but you don't have

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<v Speaker 5>to watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>You said something very important, you said, the people that

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<v Speaker 1>matter to him. If more of us can embrace that,

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<v Speaker 1>like just caring about the opinions of people that actually

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<v Speaker 1>matter to us and don't care about the pinions of

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<v Speaker 1>the people who don't mad at us.

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<v Speaker 4>That means it, that's it.

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<v Speaker 5>My word this year was like, do not chase my words.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going to chase after anything that is not

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<v Speaker 5>for me, or nor am I going to chase people

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<v Speaker 5>that I'm like begging you to come see me, because

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<v Speaker 5>there are so many people who see me and love

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<v Speaker 5>what I do and follow what I do and say

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<v Speaker 5>it every day, you know, when I'm in the airport

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<v Speaker 5>or whatever, and I'm like, oh my god, So just

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<v Speaker 5>go after.

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<v Speaker 4>The people who are going after you. That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you're not gonna get everybody, and you're not

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<v Speaker 5>gonna always get the you know, the Oscar people.

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<v Speaker 4>Who deem that important.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you know remember the time at the oscars where

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<v Speaker 5>they went on the street to everyday people and they're.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, do you know this movie? Do you know this movie?

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<v Speaker 5>They're like, no, nope, nope, no, most people don't know

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<v Speaker 5>those movies.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, not that they don't matter, but the masses go.

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<v Speaker 5>And look at other A lot of things that YouTubers do,

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<v Speaker 5>other people do, and so you know, not.

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<v Speaker 4>That they can't live in the same world. But that's

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<v Speaker 4>not all that matters.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I don't get mad when I'm watching the

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<v Speaker 1>Oscars and like, let's say Angela Bassett doesn't win for

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<v Speaker 1>or the Black Panther two. I didn't see the other movies,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know she got right right.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't.

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<v Speaker 5>You can't have this voice of like, well they deserve

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<v Speaker 5>It's like, well did you see everything else too?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 5>Although she does. I mean, I think What's Love got

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<v Speaker 5>to do what it got rob But.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't. I don't even know the other movies that.

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<v Speaker 1>Were there neither.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just said the same thing that said she

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<v Speaker 2>got around for that one.

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<v Speaker 1>That was too much. She did too much of a.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 7>So speaking of going after people will go for you,

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<v Speaker 7>I met You're a man, yes, her husband on the

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<v Speaker 7>set of the Have and Have Not?

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<v Speaker 4>Who approached who I honestly I did.

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<v Speaker 5>Shot, which I usually do in my life anyway, but

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<v Speaker 5>he was just making me laugh and it was a

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<v Speaker 5>long day, and I honestly I said I will not

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<v Speaker 5>date any more actors. Like I was like, no more,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm done, I'm finished. And then I gave him my

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<v Speaker 5>number and I was like call me, Like if you

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<v Speaker 5>guys go out and he didn't. And he's like, no,

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<v Speaker 5>there's no way, you're not married, and I was like, no,

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<v Speaker 5>there is a way, and so yeah, we went out

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<v Speaker 5>one night and then that was history.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he really making you laugh? And you just thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was cute?

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<v Speaker 4>So I thought he was cute.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought he was cute, and then I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what, No, That's when I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not doing this, and.

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<v Speaker 4>Then he really did. He's he's really funny.

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<v Speaker 5>Like dry humor, and I love to laugh, and so

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<v Speaker 5>that would that's actually what really did attract me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you say you're not doing this though, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I've dated.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a quiet dater and I love that about my life.

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<v Speaker 5>I keep things very close to the chest and I've

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<v Speaker 5>dated enough people in our industry where I'm like, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 4>You know Drake.

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, no, no, no, No.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't date Drake.

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<v Speaker 5>But I hosted a show when I first came out

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<v Speaker 5>called Best Friend's Date, and he was on it.

0:20:43.400 --> 0:20:44.040
<v Speaker 4>He was like the.

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<v Speaker 5>Celebrity guy on it, and I called him Aubrey during

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<v Speaker 5>that time.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's probably why, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Drake, No, I did not.

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<v Speaker 2>Who it pops up yes, and then you look on

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<v Speaker 2>the screen it says right here, it's like she allegedly

0:20:58.680 --> 0:20:59.720
<v Speaker 2>dated Dr No.

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<v Speaker 4>No, alleged he was the most impled. That's why just

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<v Speaker 4>start trouble.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, was it insulting when he said, uh, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>married or you know what, you're not married.

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<v Speaker 5>No, it was like it was a thing of like

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<v Speaker 5>nobody like, you know, nobody asked.

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<v Speaker 4>You yet, like how could you be single?

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<v Speaker 7>It was that there's no way, there's no way you're

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<v Speaker 7>singing and the way, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, I'm just having fun. But yeah, yeah, but I

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<v Speaker 4>was single.

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<v Speaker 7>The previous actors that you had dated were you working

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<v Speaker 7>with them? Is this was Nick the first person that

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<v Speaker 7>you were working with that you actually dated.

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<v Speaker 1>No, Okay, this is why this is why you said

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<v Speaker 1>that that would makes sense. That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 3>That makes sense.

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<v Speaker 4>Now the other people want sat Pete that like, okay,

0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:54.800
<v Speaker 4>Seka and Nick over there doing something like my gosh, dude,

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<v Speaker 4>you know during you know you're in your dressing.

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<v Speaker 5>Rooms, not anything crazy, Z But he had my makeup on. Well,

0:22:03.320 --> 0:22:06.359
<v Speaker 5>Tyler has like a strict like you don't mess up

0:22:06.400 --> 0:22:09.479
<v Speaker 5>my stuff over here, right, because if y'all don't get along,

0:22:10.040 --> 0:22:13.360
<v Speaker 5>my show must go on, and so he went downstairs

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<v Speaker 5>to go on set and his nose was brown and

0:22:16.880 --> 0:22:18.719
<v Speaker 5>Tyler is like, what black girl, you been kissing?

0:22:19.440 --> 0:22:24.199
<v Speaker 4>Like He's like he knows, he literally knows. And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh my god. Then he came he called me.

0:22:26.280 --> 0:22:28.399
<v Speaker 4>He's like, what are you doing? What's happened? And I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, oh, you know, I don't know, we don't know.

0:22:31.200 --> 0:22:34.080
<v Speaker 4>It's just hanging out. Person ain't got no black face sings.

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<v Speaker 4>Was going on, what you're doing? It's crazy with Shade,

0:22:47.080 --> 0:22:47.800
<v Speaker 4>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>When I when I got pregnant, nobody knew that I

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<v Speaker 5>was pregnant. I get a phone call, Tyler calls me,

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<v Speaker 5>are you pregnant? I was not even showing nothing. I

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<v Speaker 5>just found out like like literally like I was probably

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<v Speaker 5>two months pregnant or month. So that was something early.

0:23:04.480 --> 0:23:07.000
<v Speaker 5>He called me, He's like, are you pregnant? Something in

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<v Speaker 5>my spirit is saying that.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, and my mom didn't even know. Nobody

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<v Speaker 5>knew except me and Nick. It's crazy. So I did

0:23:16.119 --> 0:23:20.479
<v Speaker 5>confirm it. That was with Tiffany, Yeah, yeah, yeah, So

0:23:20.520 --> 0:23:25.080
<v Speaker 5>who was that with? No, I don't my timelines are yeah, right,

0:23:25.520 --> 0:23:29.080
<v Speaker 5>you have a child, You're like, you know it's then sick.

0:23:29.600 --> 0:23:30.439
<v Speaker 4>I don't know it was.

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<v Speaker 7>It was in the beginning though, So yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 7>doctor Lumar.

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<v Speaker 5>I just.

0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:45.720
<v Speaker 4>First of all, Nick loves you.

0:23:45.800 --> 0:23:50.440
<v Speaker 5>He brought your bought your book, and Doctor Umer he

0:23:50.520 --> 0:23:51.280
<v Speaker 5>I don't think he knows.

0:23:51.320 --> 0:23:54.320
<v Speaker 4>I know Doctor Umer. I love doctor I think. Look,

0:23:54.680 --> 0:23:58.440
<v Speaker 4>I understand empowerment to our community. It's not like I

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<v Speaker 4>haven't come from I have a black mom, a black.

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<v Speaker 5>Dad, I have black siblings, I have a black child.

0:24:04.920 --> 0:24:06.760
<v Speaker 4>Like I have a lot of blackness in my life.

0:24:07.160 --> 0:24:10.760
<v Speaker 5>I give back. I'm creating things for black people. So

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, I don't know what he wants me to

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<v Speaker 5>do and also.

0:24:20.080 --> 0:24:20.880
<v Speaker 4>What he wants me.

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<v Speaker 7>To do, so I'll get to his school, Like what.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you want tell me? Is that is it coming

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<v Speaker 4>out of your money or that white man's money. It's

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<v Speaker 4>all green. You know.

0:24:32.840 --> 0:24:34.760
<v Speaker 1>One of the first time you heard of doctor Lumar

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<v Speaker 1>video and you was like, what the You gotta feel

0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:38.040
<v Speaker 1>a way when.

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<v Speaker 5>You first heart you're so interested in I am so

0:24:42.280 --> 0:24:43.800
<v Speaker 5>interested when I hear people are like.

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<v Speaker 4>Black people need to keep it black.

0:24:45.600 --> 0:24:49.440
<v Speaker 5>You know, It's like I'm always interested because I understand.

0:24:49.600 --> 0:24:53.119
<v Speaker 4>I understand like a communal sense. I understand. I've dated

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<v Speaker 4>many black men, and I get it. It's like it's

0:24:57.760 --> 0:24:58.840
<v Speaker 4>it's it's a great thing.

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<v Speaker 5>But I feel like one I know, he would say,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, people can't people fall in love with who

0:25:03.440 --> 0:25:06.080
<v Speaker 5>they fall in love with. But also the percentage of

0:25:06.080 --> 0:25:09.760
<v Speaker 5>black women to black men, they there's way more of us.

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<v Speaker 5>There's not one for and there people black. Most black

0:25:12.520 --> 0:25:16.040
<v Speaker 5>men are married to black women and so. But also

0:25:16.080 --> 0:25:18.679
<v Speaker 5>there's a lot of single black women who are the

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<v Speaker 5>numbers don't match.

0:25:19.760 --> 0:25:22.480
<v Speaker 4>It's just like there's not enough of y'all. Well where

0:25:22.520 --> 0:25:25.119
<v Speaker 4>else are they supposed to go to? Who else? So

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<v Speaker 4>like figure that out?

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<v Speaker 2>So what do you what do you tell a father

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<v Speaker 2>of four black daughters that.

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<v Speaker 3>Possibly might be dating a white boy? What what would you

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<v Speaker 3>tell that father? Look to the right.

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<v Speaker 6>Private school?

0:25:41.080 --> 0:25:42.480
<v Speaker 4>They go to all white schools.

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<v Speaker 2>Private school would what would you tell that black man?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I would say, look, the first thing I

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<v Speaker 5>did ask Nick, I'm like, have you dated anybody other

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<v Speaker 5>than black people?

0:25:53.800 --> 0:25:55.880
<v Speaker 4>Because I'm not your fetish you know what I mean?

0:25:56.000 --> 0:26:02.480
<v Speaker 4>Like you got its? He does, and so he does.

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<v Speaker 5>I would just I mean, you know, if this person

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<v Speaker 5>is a good person, just first of all, start there

0:26:07.880 --> 0:26:08.440
<v Speaker 5>is he kind?

0:26:08.720 --> 0:26:09.000
<v Speaker 4>Is he?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:12.520
<v Speaker 4>Have him over, get to know him. Don't push it

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<v Speaker 4>away like it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Not going to happen, because they probably will be the

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<v Speaker 5>daughter will rebel.

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<v Speaker 4>Rebel like bring it in.

0:26:20.480 --> 0:26:21.080
<v Speaker 6>To your house.

0:26:30.320 --> 0:26:33.480
<v Speaker 5>But when you push it away, that's when it's gonna happen.

0:26:34.280 --> 0:26:37.040
<v Speaker 4>Don't put Just bring it in and allow your kids

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<v Speaker 4>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, he she sees the amazing black man you

0:26:40.400 --> 0:26:43.240
<v Speaker 5>are doesn't mean that she doesn't value that. It's just

0:26:43.840 --> 0:26:45.560
<v Speaker 5>you like who you like at the moment, and it's

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<v Speaker 5>moments in times.

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<v Speaker 1>So I wonder if those other brothers you were dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with stepped up the did they, because it seemed like

0:26:51.680 --> 0:26:54.480
<v Speaker 1>Nick from the beginning knew, like yeah, yeah, he knew.

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:55.919
<v Speaker 1>When you're make it statements like I can't believe you're

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<v Speaker 1>not married, that's already on your mind.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god. Yeah, I mean I think people are.

0:27:02.320 --> 0:27:04.120
<v Speaker 4>I mean, you you are where you are in life.

0:27:04.160 --> 0:27:06.600
<v Speaker 4>You're either ready for more or you're not.

0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:08.719
<v Speaker 5>And I used to say, I say to women all

0:27:08.760 --> 0:27:10.359
<v Speaker 5>the time, if you don't know where you stand, you

0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:12.879
<v Speaker 5>stand nowhere at all? You know, with somebody, And so

0:27:13.600 --> 0:27:16.679
<v Speaker 5>I knew and you're either afraid to ask the question,

0:27:16.920 --> 0:27:18.800
<v Speaker 5>or you're like, where are we if you don't if

0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:20.440
<v Speaker 5>you're asking that, you don't you know where you are?

0:27:21.440 --> 0:27:22.160
<v Speaker 4>Nowhere? Right?

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 5>And so you know, and and some people are ready,

0:27:25.680 --> 0:27:28.359
<v Speaker 5>and then some people are not. And I was ready

0:27:28.359 --> 0:27:30.040
<v Speaker 5>when I met Nick, and so and so was he.

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:34.000
<v Speaker 5>They weren't ready.

0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:36.919
<v Speaker 4>And that's okay, though, that's okay.

0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:38.760
<v Speaker 7>Because Nick got you. Nick proposed to you with a

0:27:38.760 --> 0:27:42.520
<v Speaker 7>peloton bike. How true is that bike?

0:27:42.640 --> 0:27:42.920
<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no you no he he actually he proposed when

0:27:48.200 --> 0:27:50.119
<v Speaker 5>I had the baby, because we already did all the

0:27:50.160 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 5>things like we had the people always think like it

0:27:53.280 --> 0:27:55.239
<v Speaker 5>took us a while to get married, because that was

0:27:55.720 --> 0:27:58.359
<v Speaker 5>my choice. People are like, he ain't married, and see

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:00.399
<v Speaker 5>that white man, you know. I'm like, that's not even it.

0:28:00.400 --> 0:28:00.720
<v Speaker 4>It's me.

0:28:01.280 --> 0:28:03.960
<v Speaker 5>We got together, I got pregnant, we bought a house,

0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:05.560
<v Speaker 5>like there was so many things happening.

0:28:05.600 --> 0:28:09.440
<v Speaker 4>I was like, slow down, I like it.

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:18.560
<v Speaker 7>I was those men who weren't right too much, too much.

0:28:19.480 --> 0:28:23.760
<v Speaker 5>And then we he proposed on Christmas, Like around Christmas,

0:28:24.040 --> 0:28:26.960
<v Speaker 5>he put the the ring under my daughter and told

0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:29.040
<v Speaker 5>me to pick her up, and he had a note

0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:30.880
<v Speaker 5>and he was down and I.

0:28:30.800 --> 0:28:34.520
<v Speaker 4>Was like, are you sure? Like he was like I'm

0:28:34.560 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 4>a lot. He's like I am positive. I was like, okay, cool,

0:28:38.760 --> 0:28:40.240
<v Speaker 4>So where did the Peloton bike come in?

0:28:40.240 --> 0:28:40.400
<v Speaker 1>At?

0:28:40.720 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 4>He just bought me a Peloton bike?

0:28:42.280 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 6>Okay?

0:28:42.560 --> 0:28:44.640
<v Speaker 4>He say like he proposed with a.

0:28:44.600 --> 0:28:50.920
<v Speaker 5>Bike, scavenger hunts during Christmas and like he pied stuff

0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 5>and put you know, he does all. He's thoughtful and

0:28:54.120 --> 0:28:56.560
<v Speaker 5>where I'm like, what do you want for Christmas?

0:28:57.240 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 4>You know he's very thoughtful.

0:28:59.160 --> 0:29:01.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you got a very black name.

0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:07.080
<v Speaker 4>If it's to James, it's Euphemia something. No, it's his.

0:29:07.080 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 5>His name is Nicholas Muscarellascrella tka Muscarella. You want to

0:29:12.800 --> 0:29:17.600
<v Speaker 5>do fea Sumter Muscarella.

0:29:17.760 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 4>I have the longest name.

0:29:18.760 --> 0:29:20.640
<v Speaker 5>It doesn't even fit on like most of my when

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 5>I travel, they're like the name doesn't fit definitely.

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 3>Not on tests.

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:27.800
<v Speaker 2>When you were a kid, what did your family think

0:29:28.280 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 2>when they first met him? And what did they think

0:29:29.600 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 2>because they're from Queens, I know family back then, parents

0:29:32.960 --> 0:29:33.880
<v Speaker 2>back then were little racist.

0:29:34.040 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 5>No, my mom my, mom my, you know, my dad

0:29:37.160 --> 0:29:41.520
<v Speaker 5>passed away when I was thirteen, unfortunately, and my mom

0:29:41.600 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 5>remarried a white guy actually, and so I when she

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:45.400
<v Speaker 5>first brought him.

0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 4>I never saw like. I was like, what the hell

0:29:49.120 --> 0:29:49.400
<v Speaker 4>is this?

0:29:49.680 --> 0:29:50.240
<v Speaker 3>What you said?

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 4>I was scared. I didn't I didn't know.

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:55.440
<v Speaker 5>I was around black people all the time, and I

0:29:55.520 --> 0:29:58.720
<v Speaker 5>was like, who is this? Like what I didn't understand.

0:29:58.800 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 5>He's like, you want to go get ice C. I'm like,

0:30:02.720 --> 0:30:08.560
<v Speaker 5>you're scaring me. I didn't know.

0:30:08.640 --> 0:30:09.840
<v Speaker 4>So my mom was fine with it.

0:30:09.880 --> 0:30:12.000
<v Speaker 5>My mom got a divorce and she went back and

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 5>she married a black man who's amazing and they're in

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:15.560
<v Speaker 5>a great relationship.

0:30:15.640 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 1>I said, doctor Lamar frown and smiled.

0:30:20.840 --> 0:30:25.959
<v Speaker 4>So your mama dated what it's like?

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:32.040
<v Speaker 5>No, doctor Ymar. She went back, so she was fine

0:30:32.080 --> 0:30:35.120
<v Speaker 5>with it. We were fine with it. I mean it's nobody,

0:30:35.400 --> 0:30:37.800
<v Speaker 5>you know. I think everybody was like, you know what,

0:30:38.600 --> 0:30:41.040
<v Speaker 5>you know, what is this? And is he serious? And

0:30:41.080 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 5>what does he want? And all that stuff.

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:45.960
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, they were. They were definitely supportive.

0:30:46.120 --> 0:30:47.840
<v Speaker 1>This might be a stupid question, but is there anything

0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:52.520
<v Speaker 1>you learned on mixed that you bring into your your

0:30:52.520 --> 0:30:53.000
<v Speaker 1>life now?

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:54.960
<v Speaker 4>You know?

0:30:55.120 --> 0:30:57.600
<v Speaker 5>I try not to bring any baggage that I've had

0:30:57.640 --> 0:30:59.800
<v Speaker 5>onto my daughter because her her experience is going to

0:30:59.840 --> 0:31:02.760
<v Speaker 5>be so different than mine in a lot of different ways,

0:31:03.360 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 5>like I'll I'll be.

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:06.680
<v Speaker 4>We homeschool our daughter now.

0:31:06.760 --> 0:31:10.959
<v Speaker 5>We took her out of private school, and she we

0:31:11.040 --> 0:31:13.040
<v Speaker 5>read more than ever, We do more math than ever.

0:31:13.360 --> 0:31:16.480
<v Speaker 5>But we've been reading these civil rights you know. Actually

0:31:16.560 --> 0:31:19.240
<v Speaker 5>Nick reads them to her and she's like, I love history, mom,

0:31:19.760 --> 0:31:23.000
<v Speaker 5>And she's like, how could somebody not let people sit

0:31:23.040 --> 0:31:25.520
<v Speaker 5>where they want to sit? And one day she came

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<v Speaker 5>home when she was in school, she's like, Mom, you

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<v Speaker 5>know Martin Luther King junior. Right. I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>She's like you know them, you know. She's like that

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<v Speaker 5>man who shot him looked like dad.

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<v Speaker 3>Damn right, damn.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, well.

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<v Speaker 6>He looks like dad. Well, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, people were crazy. I was like, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that's what happened. And we talked to our

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<v Speaker 5>child how we want to give her. For me, I remember,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you grew up like you know, kids aren't

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<v Speaker 5>meant to talk or just sit there and be quiet.

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<v Speaker 5>But I think for me, what I struggled with was

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<v Speaker 5>not understanding my own emotions as I got older, not

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<v Speaker 5>being able to communicate with a guy and tell them

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<v Speaker 5>what I actually want, because I'm like, what do I feel?

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<v Speaker 5>What do I feel? And I want my daughter to

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<v Speaker 5>be able to express herself. And so I don't think

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<v Speaker 5>she talks back to me. She just asked a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of questions and she's like, well, I need to understand

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<v Speaker 5>why this is the way it is, or all the things.

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<v Speaker 5>And so I'm giving her the tools to be able

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<v Speaker 5>to speak up for herself. And you want, you say

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<v Speaker 5>you want your kid to have a voice, then you

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<v Speaker 5>got to give him a voice to have. And so

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<v Speaker 5>that's how I feel with my daughter. So we talk

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<v Speaker 5>about a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>I love were just having that conversation earlier about emotions,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, they love to say women are more

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<v Speaker 1>emotional than men, which I don't believe. And I believe

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<v Speaker 1>if you are a man that doesn't know how to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, probably express your emotions, there's work you can

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<v Speaker 1>go do on yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, for sure. And that's what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>I started Adventures of Curiosity Code, which is a kid's

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<v Speaker 5>podcast that maybe your hells is your You're not your twelve,

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<v Speaker 5>he's twelve, but it's about emotional intelligence and it's about

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<v Speaker 5>we created all these stories for kids because Ella used

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<v Speaker 5>to be like, tell us, just tell me a story,

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<v Speaker 5>tell me a story. And that now she's like, can

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<v Speaker 5>you put on my podcast while she's in the bath,

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<v Speaker 5>And but it's these stories that like help kids.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, yes, yes, yes she is and she you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it's these stories that for kids that.

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<v Speaker 5>Help them with understanding social emotional intelligence.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I'm excited about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, absolutely make sure she got a children's book

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<v Speaker 1>coming out too, called I Got It from My Mama.

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<v Speaker 3>I got it, I got it from Mama.

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<v Speaker 4>I got it from my mama.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>It comes out next year around Mom's Day Mother's Day,

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<v Speaker 5>and you can pre order it now. But it's really

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<v Speaker 5>about the idea of like old school parenting mixed with

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<v Speaker 5>new school parenting and when gentle parenting is not so gentle.

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<v Speaker 5>And so it's this idea of like this little girl

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<v Speaker 5>being like I.

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<v Speaker 4>Got this from my mama.

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<v Speaker 5>I got this, and it shows all these things like

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<v Speaker 5>I love how she does her hair and I try,

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<v Speaker 5>and she sprays this perfume and then I've sprayed my dream,

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<v Speaker 5>all these things she's gotten from her mom. Her mom

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<v Speaker 5>one day snaps at her and she goes to school

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<v Speaker 5>and she ends up snapping at somebody like her mom,

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<v Speaker 5>and her mom is basically like, where'd you get that?

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<v Speaker 5>From and she's like, I got it from you, mama.

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<v Speaker 5>And so it's the idea of mirroring what we see

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<v Speaker 5>and it's okay as long as you repair it. And

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<v Speaker 5>so the mom basically takes responsibility and apologizes to her

0:34:38.680 --> 0:34:42.080
<v Speaker 5>child for snapping. And I think for me, like even

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<v Speaker 5>to this day, my mom did something to my daughter

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<v Speaker 5>and she's.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I ain't apologize it, and I'm like, Mom, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>It doesn't take anything from you to just apologize, like,

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<v Speaker 5>because you're teaching your children behavior, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>Like when you're all, I'm not apologizing, You're a kid.

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:01.920
<v Speaker 5>They're growing up up thinking they don't need to. You're

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<v Speaker 5>it's a cycle of you know, kao to break yes.

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<v Speaker 5>And so for me it's me it's it's the understanding

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<v Speaker 5>of newness and and what that means in parenting.

0:35:10.840 --> 0:35:12.400
<v Speaker 4>And so it's called I got it from my mama.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, what's the greatest piece of advice

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<v Speaker 1>you got from yourma?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh man, I don't know if I got the advice,

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<v Speaker 5>but I saw the advice. And my mom is super resilient,

0:35:22.800 --> 0:35:25.520
<v Speaker 5>and I see I saw her struggle a lot, and

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<v Speaker 5>she never gave up she knew she had my mouths

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<v Speaker 5>to feed, and she knew that she had to work

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<v Speaker 5>really hard. And so for me, I feel like the

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<v Speaker 5>biggest thing a kid could have is resilience, because if

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<v Speaker 5>you have that, I feel like you really can You're

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<v Speaker 5>not so easy to give up on everything.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think nowadays even for my own daughter, teaching

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<v Speaker 5>her like girl, no, you're gonna do this. You we

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<v Speaker 5>made her stand piano when she didn't want to do it,

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<v Speaker 5>and now she's like, she goes downstairs by herself and

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<v Speaker 5>she just plays a piano and all that stuff, and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, no, you gotta follow through. And so for me,

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<v Speaker 5>it's never given up, Like my mom never gave up

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<v Speaker 5>on us, and she never gave up on herself.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw you posted this on Instagram once and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was good. You said, would you speak to

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<v Speaker 1>your best friend the way you speak to you to yourself?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like and I'm I'm guilty of this, like

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<v Speaker 5>the way we were so hard on ourselves nowadays, and

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<v Speaker 5>especially like the hustle culture and like you know, Jess

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<v Speaker 5>is doing this and Envy's doing that, and you're you

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<v Speaker 5>have all these podcasts.

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<v Speaker 4>Like you're doing.

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<v Speaker 5>We look at all these people and thinking I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>doing enough, or I'm not enough or I'm not smart

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<v Speaker 5>enough to do what they do, or it's like do

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<v Speaker 5>what you do and speak to yourself. You I would

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<v Speaker 5>never just if we were best friends, I wouldn't be like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, I wouldn't be mean to you, right, Or

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<v Speaker 5>if you were talking about yourself crazy, I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 5>are you crazy?

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<v Speaker 4>You're you're You're amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>And then we go home and we're like beating ourselves

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<v Speaker 5>up daily and it's like you're just you're literally whipping

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<v Speaker 5>your own self, yeah, you know, into a frenzy. And

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<v Speaker 5>so I just feel like, talk to yourself how you

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<v Speaker 5>would talk to your best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a home gun Nay. So she was like

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<v Speaker 1>if she heard me talking crazy about myself, she'd be like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk to my friend like that.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right, that's right. I agree with Rachel. Rachel and doctor.

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<v Speaker 1>UMARNI start doing some research, Like what you mean you agree.

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<v Speaker 4>With doctor be like, I'd love to have a conversation

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<v Speaker 4>with him.

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<v Speaker 7>The first question, so you read black doing a silver rights.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, doctor Mark gonna come after me and you want

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<v Speaker 4>more kids?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know if I don't know if that's in

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<v Speaker 5>the cards for me. I'm older now, and we'll see

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<v Speaker 5>what happens. My daughter wants, she wants either a dog

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<v Speaker 5>or a She does want a sister, but we'll see.

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<v Speaker 4>I do, I do.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll check out Sonic the Hedgehog three in theaters on

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<v Speaker 2>the twentieth of this month.

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<v Speaker 3>And thank you for joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>So much pleasure.

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<v Speaker 4>I love you, Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys do a great job.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta come be together one day. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>have doctor That would be amazing fireworks.

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<v Speaker 6>Actually, him and.

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<v Speaker 5>Doctor Umar might be best friend Nick can He somehow

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<v Speaker 5>becomes best friends with.

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<v Speaker 4>People you would never think he eats. Wait.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, we were at a club in Atlanta one time,

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<v Speaker 5>this before we were together, and he's sitting there, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>he has his drink. Is full of black people, not

0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:31.400
<v Speaker 5>one was probably one other white, and it was his

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<v Speaker 5>friend who came.

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<v Speaker 4>And he's comfy and I'm like, hey, you're you're good.

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<v Speaker 5>He's like, yeah, what what what? And I'm like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 5>he is comfortable. It doesn't matter who you are. He's

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<v Speaker 5>very comfortable. So Doctor Umar, you me and him for lunch.

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<v Speaker 4>Please used to have.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ. Nick, don't have questions after this interview. Does

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<v Speaker 1>I got it from my mama or your mama was

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<v Speaker 1>the white guy that she look the white guy for

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<v Speaker 1>a black guy. And you want to meet doctor Wilmot.

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<v Speaker 6>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>Crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>Took us something.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Wake that ass up in the morning. The Breakfast Club