WEBVTT - Just a Bling Thing 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.960 Hell, I Suck at Dating with Dengler Dared Haven and 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:11.840 I heard radio podcast What is going on? Sucky daters? 0:00:11.920 --> 0:00:14.800 Welcome to an all new episode of help I Suck 0:00:14.960 --> 0:00:18.280 at Dating. I am being Anglert recording from a car 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:21.040 somewhere in the middle of Nevada. No idea where on 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:24.320 my Apple Watch. Caitlin actually is getting into the car 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:26.759 lit very second. But don't worry, we will not be 0:00:26.840 --> 0:00:31.960 moving the entire time. So, uh, Jared, how's it going? Hello? Happy, 0:00:32.120 --> 0:00:37.560 Happy Sunday, Happy Sunday. Where this guy's listing it? It's Friday, Yeah, 0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:39.840 but this air is on a Sunday. Get with it, dude. 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:42.560 Fair point, fair point. I think this is the first 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:45.440 time in the history of podcasts that we're recording one 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:47.760 person is recording on an Apple Watch. I feel very 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:51.800 proud to be a part of it. This is futuristic. 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:53.960 This is definitely this is definitely history in the making. 0:00:53.960 --> 0:00:57.080 Hopefully the audio quality is up to snuff. Klin just 0:00:57.160 --> 0:01:00.639 bought some loud, crinkly Starbucks bags and she is terrified 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:04.760 of crinkling them. That's good stuff, right there. Yeah, I 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:07.200 just I just shot her a look and I told 0:01:07.200 --> 0:01:08.720 her that she better take that outside of the car 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:12.000 to eat it somewhere else because it's a little too nicey. 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:13.280 But we got a great episode for you guys to do. 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:15.039 What I gotta know, are you guys staying park the 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:17.480 entire time you're recording. Yeah, well, I don't want to 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:22.200 drive and like louse service halfway through the podcast, so 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:24.880 she just has to sit there and listen to you talk. 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:28.560 I've encouraged her to get out, walk around. There's a 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:31.000 Walmart down the street. She could go for shopping at 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.479 the Walmart. I mean, listen, it's not ideal, don't get 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:35.759 me wrong, but this is this is the life we've 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:37.440 chosen to live, and so we're gonna live it to 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:39.160 the best of our ability. I guess I like it. 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:42.280 I like it. We've got a great episode for you 0:01:42.280 --> 0:01:44.479 guys this week, though. We want to talk some some 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:48.400 hot topics with you guys, some hot gas. We've got 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:50.720 some some great guests this week, and then we'll get 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:54.080 to the listener emails just like we can normally do. So. Uh, 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:56.880 the first things first, Jared, I think we should discuss this. 0:01:57.040 --> 0:02:00.680 Last week's podcast, we discussed Peter and Key Least breakup. 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:04.280 This week's podcast we at least have to touch on 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:08.040 Claireen Dale's breakup. Do we not? Oh dude, yeah, I 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.440 mean it feels like do we have to watch out? 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:14.280 It feels like there's like this force just breaking bachelor 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:17.560 couples up one at a time. I'm I'm like watching 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.800 over my back right now. I feel bad. There's so 0:02:19.800 --> 0:02:21.919 many bachelor couples that have breaken up. It's so sad. 0:02:22.400 --> 0:02:24.519 I mean, Evan is the worst for me. I'm not 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:27.639 gonna lie. Oh yeah, Evan and Carley broke up. It's 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:30.480 definitely the last month there's been a lot of negative 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:33.760 energy and Bachelor Nation. Uh, and the most recent to 0:02:33.800 --> 0:02:36.920 succumb to it our Clarien Dale. So we talked a 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:39.320 little bit about Clarien Dale, I think when they first 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:42.480 got together. But what's your impression of everything that's happened. 0:02:42.840 --> 0:02:45.240 I mean it feels like Claire was all in and 0:02:45.320 --> 0:02:48.600 Dale wasn't not to not to make assumptions on things 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:50.880 I don't know about, but as being a podcast host, 0:02:51.000 --> 0:02:54.040 you have to have an opinion or else it's pretty boring. Yeah, dude, 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:58.040 Like I was watching, Uh, I was talking to Ashley 0:02:58.040 --> 0:03:00.400 about it, and I remember that clip I don't know 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:02.360 if you watched Claire season at all, but they had 0:03:02.800 --> 0:03:05.160 kind of like an after the final rose with Dale 0:03:05.200 --> 0:03:08.320 and Claire where Claire was like talking about how she 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:13.720 wanted babies and she wanted them immediately and they could 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.839 have kids before they got married, and let's just see 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:18.320 what happens. And you can tell tell that Dale was 0:03:18.400 --> 0:03:23.280 just internally freaking the f out, like he knew that 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:25.560 he didn't know what the hell to do. That's what 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:27.960 the problem was. And I just feel like, I don't know. 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:31.600 I I was rooting for Claire and Dale. I was 0:03:31.639 --> 0:03:33.880 wishing that they'd work out, because I was rooting for Claire, 0:03:33.960 --> 0:03:35.840 Like I never met Dale. I have really no investment 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:39.480 in Dale. But you know, knowing Claire, she's been on 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:43.280 so many seasons, she's so ready to settle down. She's 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:45.280 so ready to have kids in a family, and that's 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:47.160 exactly what she was looking for when she wanted to 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:49.400 become the bachelor at And to know that it just 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:53.560 didn't work out so soon afterwards, I guess is good 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:55.960 in one sense because at least like she can wash 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:58.280 her hands with it, because I don't think Dale is 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:01.760 ready to settle down. But in the other hand, it's 0:04:01.800 --> 0:04:08.240 so sad because here she is single once again. So 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.000 what do you think the reason for their breaking up? 0:04:11.120 --> 0:04:13.840 Obviously it's just but what do you think it was? 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:15.280 Do you think it was that there is so much 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:17.840 pressure on it? I think Dale just wasn't as into 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.560 it as Claire was. I mean, I have no inside knowledge. 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:23.000 I truly do not know. I'm talking out of my 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:27.080 ass right now. But from seeing you know, how their 0:04:27.120 --> 0:04:31.520 relationship developed on the show, to where they were at 0:04:31.560 --> 0:04:35.960 after the show to Instagram, it just seemed like Claire 0:04:36.080 --> 0:04:39.839 was more into it than Dale was. And I think Dale, 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:43.160 I think Dale not that to say like he was 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:47.440 solely in it for the fame, but like I think 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:51.640 Dale just wanted to go on the show, and you know, 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:53.719 go on it for multitude of reasons, just like we 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:56.200 all do. Like Dean, I'm sure you can agree with this, 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:59.120 Like sure, we go on the show to possibly find 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:01.680 a part, or like we also go on the show 0:05:01.720 --> 0:05:05.240 because it's a freaking TV show and it's a awesome experience, 0:05:05.400 --> 0:05:09.000 something that will never experience ever again. And like we 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.000 get to be on TV and we get to like 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:13.960 maybe gather a following on social media and it's just 0:05:14.000 --> 0:05:17.400 like more so now than ever, but like you just 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:18.960 go on the show for so many reasons. I feel 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:20.800 like Dale just went on for the experience, and then 0:05:20.800 --> 0:05:23.240 all of a sudden, this girl, you know, this woman, Claire, 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.359 fell head over heels for a madly in love and 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:30.800 I felt I felt like he was always trying to pretend, 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.840 not pretend, but like he was always trying to make 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:37.280 it seem he was on the same page as Claire, 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:40.359 when I just don't think he was. Granted, what the 0:05:40.360 --> 0:05:42.800 hell do I know? Right, I've got a couple of 0:05:42.800 --> 0:05:44.360 things that I want to at least add to that 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:47.520 is I find it kind of interesting and ironic in 0:05:47.560 --> 0:05:49.839 a way that like Dale is, you know, he's like 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:52.479 this aspiring host whatever that means, like whatever he wants 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:54.560 the host, I don't know. But now he's kind of 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:56.520 like made himself out to be the bad guy, and 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:58.480 it's like, who's gonna want to have Who's gonna want 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:00.840 to hire this guy after? Because I mean, I'm only 0:06:00.839 --> 0:06:02.719 assuming that he's the reason they broke up, right, Like 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:05.520 he probably was the one that what made the decision 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:09.520 for them, judging by Claire's Instagram where she said that 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:12.040 I just wasn't made aware of a mutual statement by 0:06:12.040 --> 0:06:16.320 both of us. Yeah, it sounds like Dale is the 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:17.800 one that kind of took it in his own hands, 0:06:17.800 --> 0:06:20.719 say we're breaking up, and so it's like, I feel 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:22.400 like he's kind of shot his own career in the 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:24.159 foot before he even had the chance to get going, 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:26.640 because you know, now that he's a public figure, like 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:28.600 he's going to be scrutinized for all this stuff and rightfully, 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:31.800 so don't get me wrong. Um. And then my my 0:06:31.839 --> 0:06:33.800 second thought on that too is I don't think there's 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:35.920 a problem with going on the show to get like 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:38.680 Instagram clout or whatever, you know, like as long as 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:41.440 that's not your only, uh main objunctive. Like I was 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:44.000 pretty honest about going on Paradise the second time just 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:47.560 to like maintain an Instagram following so I could continue 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.440 to live the black side that I was living of, 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.719 like traveling and you know all that stuff. I don't 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:53.640 think that's necessarily a bad thing. I do think it's 0:06:53.680 --> 0:06:57.080 bad when you go on the show and then you 0:06:57.160 --> 0:07:00.400 end up getting engaged to someone and then you know 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:05.200 you're still prioritizing like Instagram fame over your engagement, and 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:08.240 I think that's really you know, we're all just kind 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:11.240 of um ah shooting in the darct or because you 0:07:11.280 --> 0:07:13.480 don't know exactly what happened. But let's say Dale went 0:07:13.520 --> 0:07:15.800 on the show to gain like some notoriety. He did that, 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:18.320 and then he if you want to do that's fine, 0:07:18.320 --> 0:07:19.680 but then you just don't get engaged at the end 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:22.520 of it. So at least just be honest, be honest 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:25.160 with your partner and be like, hey, listen, I'm I'm 0:07:25.160 --> 0:07:27.480 still developing feelings for you. I really like you. I 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:31.080 don't think I'm where you are at right now, which 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:35.480 to Claire was like having kids tomorrow. Um. I think 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:38.679 that was probably his downfall. I would assume that he 0:07:39.560 --> 0:07:44.320 uh was just not on the same page and was 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:47.280 probably nervous to admit that because everything happened so fast 0:07:47.280 --> 0:07:49.640 and were like, I get it, dude, Like you know, 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:53.440 especially in this bachelor world, things just happened so freaking fast, 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:55.520 and then before you know it, you're like, holy hell, 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:59.520 I'm engaged and I don't know how I feel about 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:01.320 this girl, don't know where I'm at. Is this what 0:08:01.400 --> 0:08:03.960 I want? You know? And so I get that, like 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:06.080 things kind of spiral out of control. But at the 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:08.440 same time, like you said, you gotta just be up 0:08:08.440 --> 0:08:11.040 front and honest. Maybe that's what happened. I also just 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:17.640 don't if Claire did not have any participation in his rebuttal, 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:22.320 his his you know, announcement. Dude, that's so messed up 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:24.840 because I'm reading it right now and it starts off 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:26.640 like I wanted to share with you that Claire and 0:08:26.680 --> 0:08:29.040 I have decided to go everyways fine, it's only fine. 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.800 But then he goes, we appreciate the love and support. 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:37.000 We strongly believe in leading with love and always remaining. 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:39.880 We only hope the best for things for one another. 0:08:40.360 --> 0:08:43.640 And it's like, bro, you cannot say that if Claire 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:47.200 was not involved in this statement. The last part two 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.000 is really what what stuck with me? When he says 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:52.000 we really hope the best for each other. When he's like, 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.240 of course he hopes best for Claire, but he's basically 0:08:54.280 --> 0:08:56.760 saying Claire hopes the best for me, It's just like 0:08:57.679 --> 0:09:00.480 it's a little like narcissistic. I think it's funny to 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:03.800 to think about their situation in a weird way. Is 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:06.920 like a watered down version of yours, an Ashley situation, right, 0:09:06.960 --> 0:09:10.080 like guy and Girl go on TV show. Girl really 0:09:10.080 --> 0:09:15.560 wants guy, guy doesn't maybe necessarily want her at first. Ah, 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:16.959 I don't know, it's just it's like a it's like 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:20.080 a different version obviously, but it's it's somewhat similar. See. 0:09:20.120 --> 0:09:23.600 I think it's more similar to your relationship because you 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:28.280 went on Paradise. You guys had a relationship, Kalen wanted 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:32.560 to pursue that relationship. You didn't, you left and then 0:09:32.559 --> 0:09:34.679 you Because maybe it's not similar. I don't think it's 0:09:34.679 --> 0:09:36.840 actually similar to either one of our relationships now, Like 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:40.080 I'm thinking here, I think the only similarities we can 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:44.520 draw between the three situations is that the guys are assholes. Obviously, 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:49.400 guys are always the assholes. We we know this from 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:52.559 are three years of doing this podcast. I think you 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:55.520 can do that similarity similarity across most relationships, but not 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:58.839 to say, you know, women are absolved from being jerks. No, 0:09:58.920 --> 0:10:01.680 they're not perfect. Kayla just looked at me, not at 0:10:01.679 --> 0:10:03.040 her head, and said, yeah, I'm in a real big 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:07.240 jerk sometimes. I wonder if ye Ashley can be a 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:12.760 jerk sometimes, now, can you? Yeah? Yeah, she said, yes, 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:16.040 we're all in the wrong sometimes, kay Kayl can you 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:20.040 be a jerk sometimes, she says, never unbelievable. I actually 0:10:20.120 --> 0:10:22.040 kind of believe that she's so sweet and innocent, Like 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:26.920 I can't see has Kaylin ever been like angry? Yes, 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:29.960 she has been angry, very very very often. She's angry 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:32.600 right now actually as a matter of fact. So, uh, 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:34.600 maybe we should go on to another topic before she 0:10:34.920 --> 0:10:38.600 lashes out and does something. I think to end that 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:41.440 topic just to say I, of course we're wishing the 0:10:41.480 --> 0:10:43.680 most the best for Claire, and I'm wishing the best 0:10:43.720 --> 0:10:45.959 for Dale to like, I don't know, there's all these 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:50.080 rumors that he cheated on her. Uh and then but 0:10:50.160 --> 0:10:52.080 then like somebody are saying, no, that's just her his 0:10:52.200 --> 0:10:53.840 friend and they've been friends for a while, and like 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:56.200 I have friends that are girls too, so like I 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:58.920 kind of get that. I don't know what the truth is, 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.080 but more importantly, I just hope the best for Claire. 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:06.560 Obviously we both have have you ear Nick Claire? Yeah, 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.400 I was n batch to the winning games there, that's right. 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:11.720 So we both are friends with Claire, um, and we 0:11:11.800 --> 0:11:13.800 just know, like I know how ready she is to 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:16.720 find a guy, and I was really hoping it was Dale, 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:18.760 even though you know there are certain red flags throwing 0:11:18.840 --> 0:11:21.320 up in the beginning, but it didn't work out. So 0:11:21.440 --> 0:11:24.080 just wishing the best for Claire uh and Dale, I 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:25.839 wish I don't want to hate on day. Definitely wishing 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.120 the best for Claire. But that's where that's where we differ. 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:29.839 I'm not wishing the best for Dale. He needs to 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:33.400 needs he needs to learn the error of his ways. Yeah, 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:35.600 all right, I can agree with that if if, if, 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.640 what we're spewing is true, like yeah, he needs some 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:42.320 you know, some sense of learning throughout this thing. But 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:43.680 also at the same time, I don't want to do 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:45.760 to like be crying every night by himself. That would 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:50.079 be sad um. I don't think he's crying. That's I 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:51.880 think that's also another reason. Like I haven't seen much, 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:53.520 but I have seen, like like sometimes in my four 0:11:53.559 --> 0:11:56.720 youth page things pop up and he's like smiling talking 0:11:56.760 --> 0:12:02.199 to t MZ like it's not cool. And he didn't 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:05.160 walk away either. He like he pulled his mass down 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:06.800 and kind of walked with them, and it was like, bro, 0:12:07.080 --> 0:12:09.680 don't like, it's just not a good look for you, man, 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.200 Just walk away, go, don't say anything. Just that I 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:14.880 wish the best for Claire and then like, you know, 0:12:15.720 --> 0:12:17.559 move on. And that's why, that's why I'm saying, you 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:19.760 shoot himself in the foot. He just keeps shooting himself 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:23.319 in this But and like I mean, he has he hasn't, 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.640 Like I don't know, I don't know. Maybe we should 0:12:25.640 --> 0:12:28.200 just move on. But yeah, I agree, like you definitely 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:29.800 want the best for both of them, Like, hopefully he 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:32.280 realizes the mistakes he's made. If he's made mistakes, I'm 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.200 sure Claire made mistakes too. But yeah, at the end 0:12:35.240 --> 0:12:36.720 of day, you just want the best for goal for them. 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:40.280 But well, I do have a question for you, Dean. Yeah, 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:45.559 have you and Caitlin watched Bridgerton brig No, but I 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:47.760 keep hearing about it, Okay, I was hoping you guys 0:12:47.760 --> 0:12:51.080 watch it. Ashley watched it. Caitlyn just silently quinched her 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:53.000 fist and said, oh, it looks so good. Have you 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:55.560 watched it? Oh? Yeah, she did watch it without me once. 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:58.040 I remember she was like unpacking the house and cleaning things. 0:12:58.080 --> 0:12:59.400 And once she was doing that, she was packing and 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:01.520 then she came in raved about how good it was. Well, 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:04.360 there was an InStyle article about Drew Barrymore who said 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:07.600 that Britain inspired her to get back on dating apps, 0:13:08.200 --> 0:13:10.719 which is quite interesting because from what I've seen from 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:13.480 the show, it's a little risk ay to say the least. 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:15.559 I don't know if Caitlin can speak upon that, but 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:19.040 it seems like, uh, like porn for women. That's how 0:13:19.080 --> 0:13:21.480 Ashley described it to me. I'm not describing it like that. 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.120 That's the way Ashley, my wife, who has watched the show, 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:28.559 told me. It was sounds like fifty shades of Yeah. 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:30.400 That's why. I don't know. It looks like it it's 0:13:30.400 --> 0:13:33.440 just like this one dude who's like smoking hot and 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:35.880 it looks like he's just sleeping with I don't know 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:37.839 if it's one woman, multiple win. I don't know the 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:42.840 show all that well, but like I don't know, Apparently 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:44.960 it inspired Drew barry and get back on dating apps. 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:46.720 So if you're out there and you're on you know, 0:13:46.800 --> 0:13:49.839 you're a dating app? What what app do you think 0:13:49.880 --> 0:13:52.839 Drew Barrymore is on? Oh? Definitely what the what is 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:57.599 that one? Um ran? Oh? Yeah, don't think he's on 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:59.960 like Bumble or something. I mean, if Drew Barrymore is 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:05.880 on Bumble, huh? What show? Actually poking her head and 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:07.520 of course, what do you mean there's a whole bunch 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:10.200 of girls trying long guy? No? Is it one? All right? 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:12.440 I don't know the show concept, is it? I just 0:14:12.520 --> 0:14:16.439 know that really good looking guy, and is it? Is it? 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:19.560 He does he just sleep with one woman? Yes, that's 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:23.640 why it's so great, Okay, but it's very risk in 0:14:23.680 --> 0:14:29.440 the bounds of marriage. They're married. Oh yeah, they didn't 0:14:29.440 --> 0:14:31.680 do anything until they're married. They didn't do anything until 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:34.600 they're married. And then they have like S and M exactly, 0:14:34.680 --> 0:14:36.760 not S and M at all? How is it not 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:40.520 S ANDM? Worried? It's not that it's not man. This 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:43.000 is what we're talking about. This is a difference because 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:48.440 one they're very in love and too it's like romantic sactus. 0:14:48.520 --> 0:14:52.400 It's not like bounded. It's like she's like an empire 0:14:52.520 --> 0:14:57.720 waisted dress in the corset. Fireplace burning in the background, 0:14:57.760 --> 0:15:01.680 stone fired, but definite only a girl stuff. So that's 0:15:01.680 --> 0:15:03.680 what you want. You want a stone fireplace in the 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:09.280 background while you're wearing a corsett. Exactly. Well, I don't 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:10.880 know if we can. I don't know if that's gonna happen. 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:13.640 But you don't even mind that you like that not 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:16.760 that you'd like a corset in a fireplace? A corset 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:19.080 in a fireplace? What is a corset? Do you know 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:21.680 what a corsett is? Dean, Yeah, of course. It's the 0:15:21.720 --> 0:15:24.960 thing that gives the women the hour last figure. Oh 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:27.800 that okay, yeah, okay, I know what that is. Yeah, yeah, okay, 0:15:27.920 --> 0:15:30.800 all right, yeah, no, I like that. All right, Maybe 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:32.720 I can get down with the show. It's so nice 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:34.560 that we just had a glimpse into a regular conversation 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:36.600 with Ashley and Jared. Yeah, this is a daily thing 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:40.160 for us. It's very nice. Drew Barrymore is definitely not 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:44.720 on Bumble. She's definitely on RYA. Yeah, I think that. 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:48.400 I think the article said that she's on rya dating app. Though, 0:15:48.520 --> 0:15:53.040 come on, now, is she gonna be she just wants 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:54.720 to be like a regular guy. I don't know. I 0:15:54.720 --> 0:15:59.080 don't know who knows. I don't know. Honestly, ever, since dates, 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.880 I have no idea what you're Mary Bors has has done? 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:06.080 She's done? Uh yeah, that's a great question. Actually, what 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:08.880 the hell has Drew very More done recently? I don't know. 0:16:09.120 --> 0:16:12.640 But more importantly, I hope she finds a guy and 0:16:12.640 --> 0:16:14.880 then maybe she does want like just like you know, 0:16:15.000 --> 0:16:17.240 a construction worker, like who knows nothing wrong with that 0:16:17.400 --> 0:16:19.680 zac Efron. Do you hear his story? Our boy Zach, 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:25.120 he's dating uh a waitress that he meant well well 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:28.440 out to dinner one day. Wow, I think I think 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:31.720 that's the story. I'm also para that's great for the 0:16:31.720 --> 0:16:34.200 waitress to be able to like see Zach zac Efron 0:16:34.280 --> 0:16:36.320 come in light on him and then end up dating 0:16:36.360 --> 0:16:38.640 And that's pretty great. What about There's also some some 0:16:38.680 --> 0:16:43.680 topical news and the Armists and Ben Affleck have recently split. 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:46.680 Uh yeah, I mean you know my love for Ben Affleck. 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:48.760 I just feel like a kinship with that human being. 0:16:49.000 --> 0:16:51.320 Like he's a Boston boy, he's a Red Sox fan, 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:53.880 Pats fan. He's friends with Tom Brady. He defended Tom 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.720 Brady to know h Throughout the flake Gate he was batman. 0:16:57.200 --> 0:16:59.120 Like this guy he just like speaks to me. He 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:02.800 was a bad batman, but you know, out of here 0:17:03.080 --> 0:17:05.520 he was such a good batman after Christian Baylor's just 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:08.680 no comparison in my opinion. But well, anyway, we agree 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:12.159 to disagree. But one time I posted a clip of 0:17:12.200 --> 0:17:15.159 Ben Affleck on ESPN where he's talking about Tom Brady 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:18.560 and uh, he talks about how Tom Brady's God. It's 0:17:18.600 --> 0:17:20.760 very funny. So I posted and I tagged him in it, 0:17:20.840 --> 0:17:23.479 and he liked it on Instagram. Now, granted, does Ben 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:26.800 Affleck run his own Instagram account? Probably not, but as 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.120 you can see right there there it is. I didn't 0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:30.959 even I don't even think he had an Instagram account 0:17:30.960 --> 0:17:33.840 because I was creeping on a day armisis to see 0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:36.360 like how the split went on the Instagram for them, 0:17:36.480 --> 0:17:38.720 and he wasn't tagged in anything. So I was even surprised. 0:17:39.119 --> 0:17:41.240 He probably doesn't run his own Instagram. He probably just 0:17:41.280 --> 0:17:43.280 has it for like promotional reasons because he has like 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:45.000 four million followers, So like if he's doing a new 0:17:45.040 --> 0:17:46.760 movie or something like that, who just posted on there 0:17:46.760 --> 0:17:49.480 and get free marketing. Then Affleck has to have more 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:52.240 than four million followers on Instagram. He has four point four. 0:17:52.359 --> 0:17:57.480 He doesn't use it, that's why. But I also think, listen, 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:01.080 I mean it's sad. I hope I want Ben to 0:18:01.080 --> 0:18:03.520 be happy. Like I said, I feel for a certain kinship. 0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:05.000 I'm pretty sure that like him and I would be 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:06.760 best friends if we've met in real life. But the 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:09.639 point is I think him and Jennifer Gardner, I just 0:18:09.680 --> 0:18:12.080 really want them to get back together. Like that's one 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:14.120 of those couples that you're like, I get it. I'm 0:18:14.160 --> 0:18:16.760 just rooting for them, but it doesn't matter because I 0:18:16.800 --> 0:18:18.720 want them to be happy. And if they're happier without 0:18:18.720 --> 0:18:20.920 each other than I get it. But like, him and 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:24.680 Jennifer Gardner are just a great couple. They have kids together, 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:27.960 they seem so happy there. I just I want them 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:30.040 to be together, you know. And then he even said 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:32.879 one time his greatest regret was getting a divorce from 0:18:32.960 --> 0:18:36.800 Jennifer Garner. So sweet, Yeah, do you ever hear the 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:39.560 story He told about how one time he was late 0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:44.040 to his kid's birthday party and he like his um, 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:47.359 his agent forgot gifts for the kids, and he was like, 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:49.639 so here, I am like a divorced dad going to 0:18:49.720 --> 0:18:52.720 a birthday party without the gifts, like and I have 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:55.320 to tell them and so apparently, and then he told 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:57.680 the story. A week before he was filming or doing 0:18:57.720 --> 0:19:00.440 something with Adam Driver, who was obviously Kyler Rennis our Wars, 0:19:00.640 --> 0:19:05.119 and Adam Driver sent gifts to the house on on 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:07.600 like on his behalf saying like, oh, I met your 0:19:07.680 --> 0:19:09.679 dad wanted to give you some stuff, and he came 0:19:09.840 --> 0:19:12.560 like he gave the kid a lightsaber and like you know, 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:16.080 Kylo Rendall and Ben Affleck starts like tearing up, like 0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:19.000 tells his story because he felt like Adam Driver saved 0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:21.240 the day because he made Ben Affleck the cool dad 0:19:21.280 --> 0:19:24.560 that day even though his you know, assistant forgot the gifts. 0:19:24.600 --> 0:19:26.200 It was like such a cool story. So I'm always 0:19:26.280 --> 0:19:27.480 room for that guy. I don't really want him to 0:19:27.520 --> 0:19:29.199 Jennifer Garden to get back together. Do you want to 0:19:29.200 --> 0:19:30.520 know who? I think on a da Armis would be 0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:34.800 really good with my one of my best friends, Jackson 0:19:34.880 --> 0:19:37.119 show Fember So on a day Armis. If you're listening 0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:39.919 to this, Jackson's a really nice guy. He's got a 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:42.399