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Speaker 1: What's type of slift service.

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Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gg Maguire, I'm Jeordie Geor, and

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Speaker 2: I'm desdy Or.

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Speaker 1: We had a little congratulatory toast. Take notes to the

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Speaker 1: EPs out how you feeling.

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Speaker 2: I feel amazing.

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Speaker 1: I'm very happy with what I released, So yeah, I

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Speaker 1: feel good. Yet Listen, we are loving it. I feel

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Speaker 1: like the girl these are loving it too.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, they're getting warm out. We need that right on time.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and your video posts are also hitting two. Listening

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Speaker 1: that pole one girl, it got a little hot.

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Speaker 4: Let's get into this poll because that's my jam, right.

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Speaker 4: I actually when I retired from Agen City, I opened

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Speaker 4: up a studio in Atlanta where I was one of

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Speaker 4: the first pole dance studios in Atlanta where I was

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Speaker 4: teaching it, and I taught way more women who weren't

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Speaker 4: in the industry, like regular everyday women, than I did

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Speaker 4: actual dancers. So I want to ask you what inspired

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Speaker 4: you to not only take classes and learn, but to

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Speaker 4: actually share with the world that that's what you were doing.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, if it's always been something I fantasized about, but

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Speaker 1: like never I was always scared. But when I started

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Speaker 1: recording this certain type of music, like the song I

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Speaker 1: did it too, spinning. It just inspired my creativity and

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Speaker 1: my artistry to want to actually go take a class,

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Speaker 1: And then I was scared to share it. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna lie. I was so scared because I'm more reserved.

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Speaker 1: But I'm realizing a part of my artistry is a

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Speaker 1: big It's like visual as well, So if I want

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Speaker 1: people to understand my music and feel it, I just

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Speaker 1: gotta channel into that too.

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Speaker 2: So that's what made me want to do it and

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Speaker 2: share it with the world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because visually, people also know you for your fashion

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Speaker 1: so much. I think the whole thing just ties in together.

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Speaker 1: So it's just something for people to look at and

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Speaker 1: be able to say like, ooh, you know, give them

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Speaker 1: another feeling to the song.

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Speaker 2: Is that something that you think you would bring to

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Speaker 2: your shows at one point? For sure? The girls dancing

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Speaker 2: on the pole, absolutely, I would be so fire.

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Speaker 1: I kind of was like, I want that to be

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Speaker 1: like the music video, but I have other professionals as

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Speaker 1: well in it. But I think it's very sexy and

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Speaker 1: artistic and I want to.

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Speaker 2: Take more classes. I mean, I'll that's my shoes off. Girl.

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Speaker 1: If yes, do you still have the studio in la

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I actually moved here back in twenty fourteen and I

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Speaker 4: closed it then.

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Speaker 1: But that class for the girl, yeah, like let's you know,

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Speaker 1: something for home for a girl and actually made like

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Speaker 1: a couple other people go take dancing classes and like

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Speaker 1: pull dancing classes, because I think every girl just it's

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Speaker 1: always been something they just want to do.

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Speaker 2: It looks to fire them and it's a good workout.

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Speaker 2: It's the best, is it? Full body?

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Speaker 4: It also does so much for self esteem because I

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Speaker 4: would have my students tell me like I would see

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Speaker 4: you on stage and you would do all these crazy

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Speaker 4: tricks and I would think of my mind and I

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Speaker 4: could never do that. But then they would come to

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Speaker 4: my class and I would show them that, yes, you

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Speaker 4: can do that, and it just did so much with

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Speaker 4: them self seeing yeah, yeah, it's such a confidence and

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Speaker 4: Sexy was like my tax exactly and we really would

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Speaker 4: you really bring your confidence out by learning like, oh

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Speaker 4: my god, I can do this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think it does something for your confidence for sure,

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Speaker 1: like just being in there and like just feeling you

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Speaker 1: movements of your body, like you gotta have confidence to

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Speaker 4: When I dance, I called it being in my zone.

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Speaker 4: Some fact, I used to dance with my eyes closed.

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Speaker 4: Really I didn't know that. No, I didn't know that

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Speaker 4: I would be on stage. Somebody brought it to my attention.

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Speaker 4: One of my homegirls was like, why your eyes always

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Speaker 4: closed on stage? And I'm like, my eyes goos and

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Speaker 4: she was like, playing attention to your hosby clothed in

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Speaker 4: my zone that I just started calling it in my zone.

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Speaker 1: In the studio, I was at it had a mirror

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Speaker 1: and like I would focus on myself so much I

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Speaker 1: get into the movement. There just were your dms looking

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Speaker 1: like after that post, they was like, oh, I'm like

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Speaker 1: all right, even that much, did anybody ask you to

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Speaker 1: teach them? M m m m. If anything, everybody was like,

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Speaker 1: oh no, I'm about to go take my class.

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Speaker 2: This just confirmed and then class.

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Speaker 1: The guys yeah, yeah, you know. Of course the guys

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Speaker 1: like they love seeing stuff like that. So anybody dad

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Speaker 1: was like reflected in your glasses that you know what,

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Speaker 1: because I don't I don't want that to be the

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Speaker 1: reason why niggas reached out to me. So anybody reaching

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Speaker 1: out to me for that video, like, no, okay, thanks

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Speaker 1: for like you know, the detectives are trying to figure

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Speaker 1: out they was like, oh we saw this guy's reflection.

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Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, is really that deep?

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Speaker 2: Like Jesus.

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Speaker 1: But I fucked up though. I think that found because

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Speaker 1: I should have been more attentive to like what I

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Speaker 1: just really didn't think people would.

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Speaker 3: Like inspector gadget on them. Yeah, oh yeah, it's it's

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Speaker 3: not serious.

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Speaker 2: You're not used to that yet.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like people be watching that was

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Speaker 1: no but like that was like you gotta like really

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Speaker 1: really really like my shades. Yes, yeah, and my shades

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Speaker 1: were like really tiny, so like.

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Speaker 2: They was on it. You know.

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Speaker 1: The people know they want to be all up in

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Speaker 1: your mix, they want to be out with my mix.

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Speaker 1: But I like keeping my relationships private, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: piece of that. I gotta keep that sacred, all right,

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Speaker 1: So that is a relationship, it's just private and sacred.

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Speaker 1: Is that something that was Is that something that you

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Speaker 1: learned from previous relationships that may have been people known

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like people feel too.

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Speaker 1: Obligated to give their opinion and just like it's just

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Speaker 2: To be honest to me, personally.

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Speaker 1: I could feel that because when you post stuff, if

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Speaker 1: you're posting, people feel like, well you posted it, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then it's like now people in on this person's life,

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Speaker 1: and now it's the fact. It's just like everything gets affected.

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Speaker 1: You know. I don't want people trying to go comment

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Speaker 1: think it's best to just keep everything private. I say

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Speaker 1: the same thing, like, sometimes it's annoying because something could

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Speaker 1: his page and why I can like get used to

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Speaker 1: stuff I don't know that he can deal with for everybody.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because when you're not in a public eye

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Speaker 4: like that, and I'm speaking on Angelus, I don't know

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Speaker 4: who you deal with. But Angela, he's not a public

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Speaker 4: person like that, so she's very much used to being

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Speaker 2: But I feel like knowing him, he don't really he.

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Speaker 4: Don't really care for like the commentary, I don't need

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Speaker 4: him to like crash out. Yeah, he's a quiet riot,

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Speaker 4: quiet riots, so we don't need him popping off on

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Speaker 4: nobody saying even if.

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Speaker 3: My partner didn't have a page each, I don't think

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Speaker 3: I would post a man on Instagram. Yeah, even if

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I just feel some type of way

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Speaker 3: about that. I think would have to be married for

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Speaker 3: five years, and even that would be the biked like

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Speaker 3: you'd have to have gloves on, only you couldn't even

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Speaker 3: tell nothing about him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just because I don't like Yeah, exposing you were

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Speaker 1: married was Kelly.

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Speaker 2: Basically you never posted that.

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Speaker 1: You never posted a guy maybe like in college okay girl,

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Speaker 1: but that pictures be long deleted, like no one could

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Speaker 1: find college like as adult you like, No, my last relationship,

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Speaker 1: we was posting each other. It was given collab, collab, collab,

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Speaker 1: and now we're not to together anymore. So uncollabed uncola colab.

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Speaker 1: Because you were in such a long term relationship, and

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Speaker 1: y'all didn't really never.

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Speaker 2: Mised once in the blue moon when like shocking, you know.

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Speaker 4: And then I remember one time I posted us court

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Speaker 4: side and yeah it went crazy bets.

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Speaker 1: But you know, okay, never mind, I'm not gonna say nothing.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, let's talk about the tell me now, tell

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Speaker 1: me now. Listen. There's certain questions that we were talking

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Speaker 1: you first start dating somebody, because you're like, who is

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Speaker 1: psychotic enough to not like volunteer certain information. But sometimes

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Speaker 1: gods will be like, well you didn't even ask me, Like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, that's their favorite thing.

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Speaker 1: Now are those real things? Then you get the bag.

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Speaker 2: With the shoes, well, yeah, that's a real thing. That's real.

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Speaker 2: That's a real thing.

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Speaker 4: And the belt and all the accessories.

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Speaker 2: The wire that's my favorite. Okay, if we were got that,

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Speaker 4: A limit on it so much through Zell that wire

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Speaker 4: you not get wrong.

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Speaker 2: Zero.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes that wire take a long time to hit.

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Speaker 4: Listen, if you on the weekend, it's like a quick

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Speaker 4: day or same day right.

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Speaker 2: But right now.

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Speaker 1: Friday, thank you please.

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Speaker 3: I do feel like zell Owes you a check though,

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Speaker 3: because you mentioned them a couple of times.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they do owe me a check. A lot of

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Speaker 1: people ow me a check if we we're going.

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Speaker 3: To bed partnership in our future, y'all hear that right,

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Speaker 3: Zell needs to be a partnership.

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Speaker 1: Now, I thought this was cute, well, going along with

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Speaker 1: the hotel me. Now, I remember I dated a guy

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Speaker 1: and he did not tell me he had a kid, right,

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Speaker 1: And so I only found out because I was at

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Speaker 1: going somewhere and he was like, I did come. He

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Speaker 1: was like, no, you went to go see your daughter.

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Speaker 1: I was like, you have a daughter? Like, And after

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Speaker 1: that I could never date him again because how do

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Speaker 1: you not mention child? Not only did he not mention it,

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Speaker 1: he lied because he told me he didn't have any kids. Also,

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Speaker 2: Yeah that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Now. The reason he said he said that was because

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Speaker 4: in an open relationship.

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Speaker 2: Remember that open relationship I was in years ago. I

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Speaker 2: It was years ago. Actually it was before the long time.

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Speaker 4: but I'm not sure if it's not. You name that

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Speaker 4: So that's what ended my open relationship because he lied

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Speaker 2: And it was clearly it was open, so why lie? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Meanwhile, that child was born in two thousand and nine.

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Speaker 4: So here we are, okay, cross house man. These days, okay.

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Speaker 1: They'll have every opportunity to tell the truth, and they

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Speaker 2: I don't get it. I always say that guys need to.

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Speaker 4: Really let a woman know what she's getting herself involved

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Speaker 2: You never know what she might agree to. You never

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Speaker 4: So like for me on a personal level, like I

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Speaker 2: If they want to go that way. They are not,

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Speaker 1: I did tell you I'm living with my baby mim,

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Speaker 1: Sometimes are like praying it's not there the best way

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Speaker 2: They don't be.

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Speaker 1: Will did you don't know what you gave me the option,

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Speaker 1: if you gave me the option, But my crazy stuff

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Speaker 1: like I'm never gonna not ever. And I also feel

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Speaker 1: didn't work out.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I always feel like it's a lesson and everything, like,

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Speaker 1: well we have this little game. It's called tell Me Everything,

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Speaker 2: Me now song.

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Speaker 1: So actually, I own a coffee shop in Brooklyn, and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you her name. Let me not mess

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Speaker 1: this up. I think it's all a day, Yes, all

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Speaker 1: a day, all day, oh day, Oh light day, Okay,

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Speaker 1: light day, all right, So I'm gonna have you pick.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna pick a card, all right.

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Speaker 2: Oh light day. It's called tell Me Everything Dating.

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Speaker 1: Edition, So pick any card anyone, and then you're gonna

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Speaker 1: answer the question.

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Speaker 2: Read it to us.

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Speaker 1: If a show was made about your date in life,

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Speaker 1: what would the trailer look like? The trailer would be

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Speaker 1: would be like, hmm, maybe two men that I'm like

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Speaker 2: This is just a show. To this just a show.

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Speaker 2: But that's what it would look like.

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Speaker 1: It's a competition, y'all like that.

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Speaker 2: It's like a vampire diary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll see.

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Speaker 4: I never seen that, but I heard about it. But like,

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Speaker 4: I love them both and it's like, damn, like have

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Speaker 1: No, I never got a chance to experience that because

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Speaker 1: I'm like an all in type of person. I'm like

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Speaker 1: Never really just dated, Like I never really just like

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Speaker 1: I've always like wanted to But and the people that

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Speaker 2: Like a scorpio, it's all or nothing.

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Speaker 1: I can't help it's all or nothing, Like I can't

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Speaker 2: You know, Yeah, it's obsessed with me. Don't look at me.

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Speaker 3: I'm a Capricorn can we're both capricorn, a.

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Speaker 1: Gemini, Gemini, my best friend of Gemini. Yeah, what was

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Speaker 3: It would just be Tumbleweeds, you know what, in dust

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Speaker 1: That's my choice, though it is by choice. It would

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Speaker 3: There's a bar that you say. That's like I'm quick

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Speaker 3: of telling man to go to hell. That's mesolutely, and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Just not ready to not tell him. I feel that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta be very clear on your boundaries and

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Speaker 2: Do you ever feel like maybe you were too harsh on.

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Speaker 1: Somebody sometimes but then something happens and it always showed

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Speaker 2: You know, I should have did more.

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Speaker 1: I should have did more, Like I should have cheated, right,

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Speaker 2: You ever cheated? Yeah? I did.

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Speaker 1: My partner just kind of didn't want to separate. So

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Speaker 2: I wasn't really.

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Speaker 1: There no more mentally, and I expressed that.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a woman thing. That's why it's easier

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Speaker 1: But have y'all ever had somebody like that didn't want

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Speaker 2: But was mentally not there.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I felt bad, but I definitely

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Speaker 3: whenever I cheated, it was revenge cheating, Okay, So and

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Speaker 3: then I was like, Okay, I'm gonna try to forgive

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Speaker 1: I can feel bad. But I'm also like, I mean,

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Speaker 1: guys will try to guilt trip you. Yeah, like they'll

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Speaker 1: This didn't mean anything to me.

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Speaker 3: Building right, my just told me her dude told her

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Speaker 2: I thought, we're trying to build intentionally? What does that

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: It's a It's like, you know, one of those buzzwords

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Speaker 1: He said that online. What was your dating reality?

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Speaker 2: Dating show? Looks like? Yoah, where is Bob Brocker spend

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Speaker 1: Right? Do you know?

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Speaker 4: That's a good question because again, I'm so just like

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Speaker 2: My life is a movie. Every day is a holiday.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 4: My life's a vacation every well, not anymore because I

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Speaker 4: So yeah, it would be hella fucking random.

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Speaker 2: Coming here next week like I'm engaged.

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Speaker 1: Guys, I'm like, that happened, and then coming the next week,

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Speaker 4: Sixty five days, sixty five days, and again. I was

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I wake up and be like, okay, let's try this today.

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Speaker 1: Right after saying you didn't think you'd have a girlfriend

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Speaker 2: Right, for years, I was always like, you know, I

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Speaker 2: I like her. We like each other.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Poorsia. Now I want to ask you also before

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Speaker 1: whole friends? Because people were thinking that was in a category, yes,

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00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 1: like how she was being treated. Yes, what are your

443
00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,960
Speaker 1: thoughts about that? As like, because we all had thoughts

444
00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,960
Speaker 1: about it, not about you, because I know she wasn't

445
00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 1: talking about you.

446
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:02,200
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, we knew that.

447
00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:04,679
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, because that's your friend and she

448
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 1: made that statement, do you find that to be true?

449
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 1: Like people judge you based off of who you're around.

450
00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 1: I feel like naturally, like people look at friend groups like, Okay,

451
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:19,639
Speaker 1: birds of a father feather flow together. So by mixing

452
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:21,919
Speaker 1: and mingling with people that really don't align with what

453
00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:24,639
Speaker 1: you own, you can get they can't get mixed and

454
00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 1: screw Like, Okay, maybe she kind of like fun or

455
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:27,960
Speaker 1: going that way.

456
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 2: Or a little bit like that, y'all don't think so.

457
00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 4: I feel like people do look at you and your

458
00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 4: friend group and it's associate you together. And then there's

459
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 4: also the kind of like band by association thing. But

460
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:43,960
Speaker 4: I will say that I've definitely had.

461
00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,040
Speaker 2: Some whole tendencies over the years. You know what I'm saying.

462
00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:48,119
Speaker 4: My whole things might have lasted longer than most. And

463
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 4: I'm not afraid to talk about that because I do

464
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,680
Speaker 4: what I want. Yeah, I don't like my life for

465
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,200
Speaker 4: other people, and I don't care about what people think

466
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,720
Speaker 4: or say about me or people's opinion. Tomorrow isn't promise,

467
00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 4: and I'm do what I want because I want to

468
00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:01,480
Speaker 4: do it.

469
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 1: You know, I don't like I don't like people who

470
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 1: act like they're not like that, but they are they want.

471
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: I'd rather you just be like, yeah, live on, because

472
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 1: I can't stand people who act like I would never

473
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:13,919
Speaker 1: do that.

474
00:22:14,040 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 2: I don't do this. I've never done this.

475
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: I never said there.

476
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:18,520
Speaker 2: There's one person that we all know that came to

477
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 2: mind when or yes.

478
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 1: Them people who try to like get around you and

479
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,640
Speaker 1: kind of like pick up on your persona because right

480
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 1: they don't want to bowl themselves, like if you want,

481
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:31,879
Speaker 1: and that's cool, fine, that's just don't do it with

482
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 1: my man. Just don't do it with my man. Everybody,

483
00:22:36,760 --> 00:22:40,119
Speaker 1: that's it. But it kind of always because you know,

484
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 1: sometimes it's hard to be friends with somebody and you

485
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,120
Speaker 1: got to defend their actions because that's part of being

486
00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 1: friends with someone, right, Like, if something goes down, I

487
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: could tell you privately it was back, but publicly I

488
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 1: got to have your back, and it's hard to defend

489
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 1: certain things sometimes. Yeah, sometimes you just don't even want

490
00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 1: to like be in the mix of those certain things. Yeah,

491
00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:02,159
Speaker 1: Like at this age, I don't want no old friends.

492
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: I don't want no friend I don't want no friends.

493
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: That we don't have nothing in common and we just

494
00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 1: don't align, Like I don't want to be in a

495
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 1: club till six am every night, Like I don't want

496
00:23:12,560 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 1: to be a nigga's faces. I'm not trying to see

497
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 1: where the nigga's at. Like, we don't have nothing in common,

498
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 1: so I think we should just casually go our separate ways.

499
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 1: Like I don't have nothing against you. You ain't gotta

500
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 1: have nothing against me. We just don't really align, and

501
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 1: I think that's normal very much.

502
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 2: So all right, you want to pull a question out

503
00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 2: from here? All right? Tell me everything she really in here?

504
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 2: Like is it okay?

505
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 3: Oh lord?

506
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 4: If you've ever been in love, do you like the

507
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 4: version of yourself that comes out when you're in love?

508
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:48,400
Speaker 4: Why or why not? I'm always in love. I'm love

509
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 4: at first sight, love at first night.

510
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 2: I fall in love.

511
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 1: Hello, I was engaged after day three and even though

512
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: it only lasted sixty five days, like how you really

513
00:23:58,440 --> 00:23:58,920
Speaker 1: was with the shit?

514
00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: I tattooed that man's name on my vagiant. She did, Oh,

515
00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: I didn't know it's on your vagina. It was right here.

516
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: It's covered now.

517
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:11,040
Speaker 4: But yeah, my tattooed misses his name. Girl, I got

518
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:14,360
Speaker 4: going through that, pas. She that was my fourth cover

519
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 4: PA fifth cover up. But anyway, I do like the

520
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:20,640
Speaker 4: I am a lover girl.

521
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 2: Like I go all in.

522
00:24:22,119 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 4: I'm very intensive, exactly and literally like my whole entire

523
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 4: life since teenager, since high school, I've always been in

524
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,440
Speaker 4: some form of relationship and or situation. Like I'm never

525
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,159
Speaker 4: single for long, Like single don't don't last long on

526
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 4: me at all.

527
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 2: And I really be balls deep pun intended on the

528
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 2: love thing. So you want you to be single for

529
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 2: a little, do.

530
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,199
Speaker 1: You feel like you've like you've got the chance to

531
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 1: really like understand yourself for real?

532
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 2: Yes, I was single for a while.

533
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 4: I was single for maybe like probably the longest was

534
00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 4: maybe like two two and a half years.

535
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 1: It was like.

536
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 4: When I when I moved from New York to Atlanta

537
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 4: in twenty nineteen, I had a little stint of I

538
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 4: was saying that probably was the longest time in my

539
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 4: adult life.

540
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:08,719
Speaker 2: But yeah, did you like that?

541
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 4: Since I did, I did use that time to reflect

542
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 4: on past situations and make better decisions in the future.

543
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 4: And I learned to fall more in love with myself.

544
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,360
Speaker 4: As much as that sounds very cliche, but I did

545
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 4: get to know who I am and have a better

546
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 4: picture of what it is that I really want moving forward.

547
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,080
Speaker 4: And I'm like a master manifestor so since then, I've

548
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 4: really been like praying for and asking for what I

549
00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:36,440
Speaker 4: really want.

550
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 2: And I have to say I've been getting it.

551
00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 1: Yeah right now, and yeah, if you believe it and

552
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: you got that confidence that everything in your life is

553
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:47,680
Speaker 1: going to happen how you wanted to.

554
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: I feel like you will. You gotta have faith.

555
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 4: So I love myself yourself and I love myself.

556
00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: What about your dance?

557
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 2: Do I like?

558
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you've been in love and you have right,

559
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:01,640
Speaker 1: do you the version of yourself that comes.

560
00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:02,440
Speaker 2: Out when you're in love?

561
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 1: Yes and no? Yes, because I like how like nurturing

562
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 1: and I can get. I like how soft I can

563
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: get and like submissive and just feminine all together. And

564
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: know because I kind of like lose sight of everything

565
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: I got going on, and I might see that fully

566
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:20,640
Speaker 1: just invested in my.

567
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 2: Person, Like it's like what.

568
00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 1: Like I'm willing to like risk it, like I just

569
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: want to be up under my man and live skins

570
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: like I have a life too, I have friends, I

571
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: have family, Like you got to pour in those areas

572
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: to and I just kind of just go ahead, deep on,

573
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:39,720
Speaker 1: my man, are.

574
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:40,400
Speaker 2: You going to go on tour?

575
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: Then, with all that being said.

576
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,879
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying, don't owe me?

577
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 1: Would have been like I didn't. I didn't almost like

578
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: called off opportunities.

579
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 2: Right, you can't do that and want you to do that.

580
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,199
Speaker 1: No man should want you to do that. But I

581
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:58,879
Speaker 1: did have one that wanted me to do that, but

582
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 1: he was like.

583
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take care of you. You don't need to

584
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 2: do that.

585
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I will never even consider doing

586
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: that no more. And if a man wants me to

587
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 1: do that, that's a red flag for me and I'm

588
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 1: probably gonna reconsider the relationship. Yeah, he should be like

589
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: like get up, get going, Yeah, and is it got.

590
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: Got to get to it? YEA nobody should be sitting on.

591
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,000
Speaker 2: What about him coming with you while you're working?

592
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: How do you feel about that? No, I don't want

593
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 1: him coming with me while I'm working because I I

594
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 1: just I don't need that, you know, I don't need that.

595
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,639
Speaker 1: How did he feel about the whole video?

596
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 2: He liked it.

597
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 1: He actually came to one of my classes and he

598
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 1: was like, you look a little stiff you got but

599
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,880
Speaker 1: he was like in support. You practiced on him at home.

600
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 2: That's real, brong. I ain't did that.

601
00:27:45,160 --> 00:27:55,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was only seven classes. That was only seven classes,

602
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: so let me get a little more experienced. I'm like,

603
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,439
Speaker 1: you know, fucking around with give.

604
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:03,119
Speaker 2: Been in love? No?

605
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 3: No, I've never been in love in like a safe situation.

606
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,239
Speaker 3: So I feel like it brought out the worst of

607
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 3: me because I'm liking somebody, I'm into somebody, and I'm

608
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 3: giving myself to somebody that's not.

609
00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:23,520
Speaker 2: So probably not I knew.

610
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,879
Speaker 3: That, yeah, but I feel like you where it's like

611
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 3: I kind of lose sight of what I'm doing because

612
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 3: if i'm it takes a lot to crack me open.

613
00:28:34,480 --> 00:28:36,479
Speaker 3: So if I'm going to be vulnerable, it's like I

614
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 3: want that to last, So then I try to do

615
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 3: everything to make it work, even past the time I

616
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: need to. I don't know if I would do that now.

617
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 3: I also haven't been in a relationship.

618
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:49,840
Speaker 1: It's so used to it so long and It's like,

619
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: when you do get to that space of being vulnerable,

620
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 1: you want somebody to really appreciate it. They will never

621
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: really fully appreciate it how you want them to because

622
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 1: they don't understand what it took for you to be

623
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 1: honible exactly. So it do scar you when you do that,

624
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:05,960
Speaker 1: and people it's not reciprocated.

625
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 2: One thousand person. I can't wait for my friend to

626
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 2: really find her person amazing.

627
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: You know, I would love an all women teams. Can

628
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: you imagine that she would? That would be crazy, that

629
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: would be really cool. And she's single, so she's available

630
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: and she got that attitude, that demeanor quick to tell him,

631
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: I think you'll find a man if you go out

632
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:40,959
Speaker 1: on the road, a little tour, get outside a little bit,

633
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: a couple of them. I'm here first, your first, second

634
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: options Jordie Jordan hair. You can pass that to her.

635
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 1: You pick one.

636
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: Thank you.

637
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: This is cute, this little game tell me everything.

638
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 2: It's so cute. Okay.

639
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 3: Is there a the area of your life where you've

640
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 3: been holding back and what's stopping you from showing up fully?

641
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 2: That's a good one. We just talked about it.

642
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think for me it's always vulnerability

643
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 3: is tough. I lost my mom, like, I lost a

644
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,680
Speaker 3: lot of importance people in my life in a short

645
00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 3: period of time, and I think that, you know, it

646
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 3: closes you off in a lot of ways. And even

647
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 3: like when breakups happen or friend breakups happen, like that

648
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 3: loss is triggered still in me, So I would say

649
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,600
Speaker 3: that's been holding me back. And I think that is

650
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:35,200
Speaker 3: something I struggle with still.

651
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: And sometimes you feel like you don't want to waste time,

652
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,280
Speaker 1: right when you lose people close to you, it makes

653
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,160
Speaker 1: you feel like I don't want to waste time on

654
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 1: things that don't matter. Like that are people who just

655
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 1: are not like really exactly pouring into what I have

656
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: going on in my life, and I can pour back

657
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: into them, and it kind of makes you feel like

658
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: life is precious and it can't be short.

659
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 2: Time is definitely I feel like a huge thing.

660
00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 3: When you, you know, go through something like that, it's

661
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 3: like you're more aware of it, but.

662
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 2: What's going on.

663
00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 4: I feel like friend breakups don't get spoken about enough,

664
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 4: and you know, we all do go through them, and

665
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 4: that's a whole different kind of grieving process than losing

666
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 4: a partner. And I just feel like people don't really

667
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 4: acknowledge that. You could be like, oh fuck hert but

668
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 4: then there comes a time where something happens and you

669
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 4: want to call it everything. Damn I can't even to

670
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 4: her about that.

671
00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: You know that hurts too. I am a little soft y'all.

672
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 1: We glide over betrayal in like girlhood a little too easily.

673
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 1: Like it really is traumatizing, you know, like somebody you

674
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: trusted confided in, like lay next to and cry your

675
00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: eyes on. Waking up the next day and doing something

676
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: that is like detrimental to our friendship is traumatizing.

677
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:51,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the worst friend betrail you've been through?

678
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 1: Uh? Somebody literally going to talk to my ex that

679
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: I like, this person knew what I went through with

680
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: this person, Like was there like seeing everything, seeing like

681
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 1: just every emotion there was to that. And yeah, soon

682
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 1: as we stopped being she did like two things. But

683
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: as soon as we stop being cool, she would and

684
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: dealt with that person. This is the same person like

685
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: telling me, like you deserve better than that. I never

686
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 1: really had to like deal with that, but.

687
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:26,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was that happened.

688
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: What happens if you see her or have you seen

689
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: her honest I haven't seen her okay since then, But honestly,

690
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 1: like I feel sorry for people like that, you know,

691
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 1: like always happened to be in that type of survival

692
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: mode that you're willing to do anything in life, Like

693
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: you're willing to do anything to get to where it

694
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:46,600
Speaker 1: is in your mind that you think you want to be.

695
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: You know, you're willing to just sell yourself so short

696
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 1: and like go against people that actually.

697
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: Care about you.

698
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:54,200
Speaker 4: Right for somebody who made a different in a similar

699
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 4: situation that I went through with a friend that was

700
00:32:58,080 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 4: a very close friend, I never thought about it in

701
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 4: that way. You gotta be a little person through that, Yeah,

702
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 4: get bad for you. Yeah, And I never even had

703
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 4: that thought process. But you really just like like Bulb.

704
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: Said, it took a lot for me to really like

705
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 1: come to that conclusion. Like I went through I'm angry,

706
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: I'm sad, I'm this, I'm that. But it's like ultimately,

707
00:33:15,800 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: like I really feel sorry for you that you will

708
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 1: do that, And then I also feel like, what is

709
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: the guy's motivation and doing that? Is it to try

710
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: to hurt you? Because could he really like you know

711
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Like a lot of times guys will

712
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:30,800
Speaker 1: do that be like I'm just buy her friend, Like

713
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 1: it's a revenge type of thing, try to hurt you

714
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: type of And I feel like guys don't like themselves

715
00:33:36,960 --> 00:33:39,280
Speaker 1: so like they don't put too much thought into anything,

716
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: like yeah, I'm gonna do this to get back at hurt,

717
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: but like I don't care about you know, I don't

718
00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 1: want to have any friends that I couldn't trust around

719
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 1: my man on my AX.

720
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,479
Speaker 2: I don't want none of those friends.

721
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: You know how people would be like, you know, we cool,

722
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:55,959
Speaker 1: but I don't know.

723
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 2: Yeah we're not.

724
00:33:57,040 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: But it's a live and learned type of thing. Are

725
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 1: you greeting friendships?

726
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 2: Past friendships I have?

727
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like I don't think I have I

728
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 4: have I had.

729
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:12,360
Speaker 2: I had a best friend of twenty years.

730
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 4: I had a best friend of twenty years twenty years,

731
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 4: Like literally we were so close from day one, Like

732
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,080
Speaker 4: I'd spent a little time in jail, and she took

733
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 4: care of my daughter in my house during that time,

734
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 4: and like we were really really close like family. And

735
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 4: she fucked my ex while we were like together, and

736
00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 4: we had broken up, and we were kind of like

737
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 4: trying to mend things and we were in the Bahamas.

738
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 4: We were in the Bahamas on like the let's make

739
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 4: up you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, And literally

740
00:34:49,600 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 4: literally the first night while we were there, we were

741
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 4: like vibing and we were out at the club and

742
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 4: she caught my phone crying like I gotta tell you.

743
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,040
Speaker 4: And then I found out later on that the only

744
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 4: reason why she called me and to tell me what

745
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 4: she did was because her boyfriend found out and was

746
00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 4: going to call and tell me, so she had to

747
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 4: tell me.

748
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 1: So it wasn't even like, yeah, it was at least

749
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: I mean, dang, she called you and told you.

750
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 4: It was because her Yeah, the boyfriend was gonna found

751
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 4: The boyfriend found messages of them two in her phone.

752
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: It was like, why are you talking to her? Man

753
00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 2: like that, like what's going on?

754
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 4: And she confessed to him and he's like, I'm going

755
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,439
Speaker 4: to tell Gigi and she literally it was like two

756
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 4: three in the morning she called my phone. Crime to

757
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,359
Speaker 4: be that low down, yeah, desperate, So we can never

758
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 4: be friends again.

759
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 2: How did you make up with him? Though?

760
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:34,759
Speaker 1: After that?

761
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: Girl?

762
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,360
Speaker 1: You know her, I know, but I'm just saying I

763
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 1: feel like I don't know what y'all.

764
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 2: We didn't know in that moment.

765
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 4: We didn't get back there, like because the trip was

766
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 4: because the trip was like, let's make up trip, and

767
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 4: like I flip the funk out on him, So the

768
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 4: trip did not go well. But you know, eventually I

769
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:53,959
Speaker 4: spun that block and reverse like Diddy and the Hippo

770
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:55,959
Speaker 4: top videos.

771
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,239
Speaker 1: Why would be so quick to forgive the guy?

772
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 3: But you know what I'm saying, I know, be stupid,

773
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 3: have lower expectations for them, and then we do our

774
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 3: peers and homegirls and everything, like we hold ourselves and

775
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 3: our people to a higher standard.

776
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 1: Than we do that.

777
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 4: I do feel like the betrayal was on both ends,

778
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,439
Speaker 4: but I feel like it was worth coming from her

779
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,280
Speaker 4: him because we expect niggas to not be shipped.

780
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: I don't know that we should have that expert I

781
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 1: remember I had a boyfriend who cheated on me, and

782
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 1: I consider getting back together with him, but then I

783
00:36:32,320 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 1: was like I told him, I was like, I don't

784
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,120
Speaker 1: think I'll ever be okay with that, and so I

785
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: don't think it's even a good idea for us to

786
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,360
Speaker 1: try to get back together because I'm never gonna like

787
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,560
Speaker 1: trust you or be nice to you like that.

788
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 2: Even though it did eventually go back. It was never

789
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 2: the same. Yeah that was all the way over, but

790
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 2: yeah it was.

791
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: It was sometimes you got to go back to see

792
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: like it's never going to be the same, right, And

793
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 1: sometimes you got to go back to let him see

794
00:36:56,160 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: what he's never gonna I want to ask you about this. So, Tia,

795
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: I was on way up on my other show and

796
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: he was talking about women in Atlanta and so you

797
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: being out there for so long. I want to ask

798
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:10,919
Speaker 1: you what your thoughts that he was saying. The problem

799
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: with women in Atlanta is that, like on the first day,

800
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,439
Speaker 1: they asking you for stuff.

801
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:18,600
Speaker 6: Like Atlanta are very difficult to deal with because they

802
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 6: also their expectations are astronomical.

803
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 1: You know what I.

804
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 2: Wouldn't I wouldn't. I wouldn't say that though. I wouldn't say.

805
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 7: That what you say because your testimony, you know, I

806
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 7: have a testing Yeah, yeah, your testimonist. I want to say,

807
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 7: men you we got to get back to write that

808
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 7: movie was talking about us having a New York or

809
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,040
Speaker 7: Atlanta culture clash.

810
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 2: Sometimes either you coming here, me coming out. Remember we

811
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 2: talking about it. We did.

812
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 5: But as far as women in Atlanta, for me, when

813
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 5: I first went to Atlanta, I couldn't believe how progressive

814
00:37:48,360 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 5: the women were down there. Like it was like I

815
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 5: was like every girl out here, got a call, got

816
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 5: a got a crib.

817
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 2: They doing good?

818
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:57,279
Speaker 1: When did you go?

819
00:37:59,080 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 2: When were you there?

820
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 5: This is the first time when I first started coming

821
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:03,360
Speaker 5: on line, I'm like, oh four.

822
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 6: Five okay, yeah, okay, things have changed.

823
00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 1: So you're telling me it's not they not as progressive.

824
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 6: Not as much as they were then, not as much. Well,

825
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 6: and I'm just telling you from other people who have

826
00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:18,399
Speaker 6: a single men who have a similar testimony, right, that's

827
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 6: you of course understand. So yeah, people that their complaint

828
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 6: is I meet a girl to day and she already

829
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:28,799
Speaker 6: asking me to help with her being right before.

830
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: The first.

831
00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 2: In Atlanta are progressive?

832
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: Thank you? Like pay for this?

833
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:41,280
Speaker 4: I got this, dude, old Georgia power.

834
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 1: Now what do you think when it? Because I saw

835
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: a lot of people arguing in the comments over this.

836
00:38:46,440 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: Some people were like, well, women are like that because

837
00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 1: we have to have more expectations out of men, right,

838
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:53,879
Speaker 1: And Jordan's looking like.

839
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I just had this conversation with my cousin this weekend.

840
00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 2: What was the conversation about how.

841
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 3: He was like he met this girl and he felt

842
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 3: like she was too thirsty, but he didn't want to

843
00:39:04,680 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 3: like get her flowers or whatever take her out on

844
00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:08,919
Speaker 3: the date because he feels like a lot of women

845
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,319
Speaker 3: are asking too much. He's also in Atlanta, and I'm like,

846
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 3: but we're the prize. You need to do something. You've

847
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 3: already decided whether you're at tracked to us or not.

848
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 3: When we agree to go out with you, you already got

849
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 3: a prize there. We need to know what's going on

850
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:22,920
Speaker 3: behind the.

851
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: I'm coming, I'm stepping into your world. Show me what

852
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 1: it's going to be, Like, I need.

853
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 3: A little previous, give me aise. Why am I wasting

854
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 3: my time?

855
00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:34,240
Speaker 1: So we're not expectations and win Like now I feel

856
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 1: like you know first day all of that. You ain't

857
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,400
Speaker 1: got to just approach the situation like oh well, can

858
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: we go to Chanelle or can we do this, this

859
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:45,919
Speaker 1: and that? Now it gets to that, and it gets

860
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: there once you realize, okay, we got some here, like

861
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 1: we're getting to know each other, like we to a

862
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 1: good space. Now it's like, okay, we have more expectations.

863
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 1: But I feel like at the base beginning, let's see

864
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 1: if the vibe is cool before we get to that level,

865
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 1: because need you ask me for no woosy And I'm

866
00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 1: not gonna be asking you.

867
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 2: For no stuff.

868
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: Right, We could just get to know each other, Let's

869
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 1: see if we organically like each other, and then let

870
00:40:08,239 --> 00:40:10,520
Speaker 1: the gifts and all the stuff come naturally.

871
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:10,880
Speaker 2: You know.

872
00:40:11,320 --> 00:40:13,600
Speaker 1: But I do feel like women should naturally expect flowers,

873
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: Like you should.

874
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 2: Want to like wind and down a woman.

875
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: You should want to like court her, take her to

876
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 1: experience nice things, take her to a day, a basketball

877
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 1: games and stuff like that.

878
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 2: I don't think that.

879
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: Thoughtful, like make a girl want to like.

880
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:27,439
Speaker 2: Feel like a girl.

881
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, while you being low, what if your man wanted

882
00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 1: to take you to court side to a game? You know,

883
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: we can't do courtside. We can't do courtside, but like

884
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:43,399
Speaker 1: we could, we could do stuff like that. But yeah,

885
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: so you would saying no to court side?

886
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 2: Yeah no, because I'm not that's too much. That's too much.

887
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 1: Honestly, I would get so weird, like I would be

888
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:56,200
Speaker 1: so like uncomfortable that it wouldn't even be about Yeah,

889
00:40:56,280 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: so how did he even bag you? I just got

890
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: to ask, how did this happened? We actually met at

891
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: a wedding.

892
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 2: We met at a wedding one of my friends mom introduced.

893
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:14,480
Speaker 3: Us, that's really cute.

894
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: Did he know who you were? Probably so yeah, but

895
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: like not really on like that level at all.

896
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: Right, he wasn't like watching the impact.

897
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:27,400
Speaker 1: And like, no, not like that because he's kind of

898
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 1: like an off the scene type of guy.

899
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 5: I like that.

900
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that girl. When you got him, did

901
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: you immediately think this could be something? Like you know

902
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,280
Speaker 1: how sometimes you have a little intuition or a little

903
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: like all I did.

904
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:42,880
Speaker 2: All I did was say he was cute.

905
00:41:42,920 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: Like I didn't like start even think that far.

906
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 2: Like I was like, oh, he's cute.

907
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: You know you when you walking a room you peeped

908
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 1: the wrong let you in. I was just like, oh,

909
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: you're cute. But even when like her mom introduced us,

910
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:53,959
Speaker 1: it still wasn't like.

911
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: A oh, like what's up?

912
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: Nothing like that.

913
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:02,000
Speaker 2: But she was probably intentional, but I didn't think anything

914
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 2: of it.

915
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 1: When was the moment that you realized like, okay, this

916
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: could really be a thing, probably like ours second or

917
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,239
Speaker 1: third day Okay, yeah, probably like a second or third day.

918
00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 2: And what was it about him or what did he

919
00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:16,960
Speaker 2: do that made you be like?

920
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: It's his demeanor, it's his conversation. You know, I like

921
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 1: a man who's very intentional and knows exactly what he

922
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: what he wants and does what he has to do

923
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 1: to like secure that. You know, I feel like a

924
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 1: lot of men got a good talk game, but when

925
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: it comes to like showing and proving, it just don't

926
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: match up. You know, a lot of people say they

927
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:40,520
Speaker 1: want longevity, but your conversation don't even give longevity. How

928
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: you move don't even give longevity, you know. So it

929
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 1: was his demeanor and just everything this is cute and

930
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: look that you talk about it. She was like, so

931
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: I met him at a wedding by himself and you

932
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: went by yourself to the wedding or did y'all have

933
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: a date? He No, we were by ourselves, okay, because

934
00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 1: you know sometimes we be ditch our date.

935
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

936
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 1: See, I haven't even been to that many weddings.

937
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 2: Okay, wedding you might have.

938
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: I guess it is the right etiqette to go to

939
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,600
Speaker 1: a wedding with a date. But but you know what,

940
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 1: this is what I think about dates and weddings. You

941
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,360
Speaker 1: cannot bring a date unless it's somebody you're very serious with,

942
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: because they're taking a plate. You know, like the people

943
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: who are putting a wedding together and I produce a

944
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,919
Speaker 1: Dan would tell you had a huge wedding, and you're

945
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: not going to just bring a random plus one to

946
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 1: the wedding that I'm paying three hundred dollars a plate for.

947
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: You know, for all these people, it's got to be

948
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 1: they always say, if you're going to bring a plus one,

949
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: it got to be like your significant other. Yeah.

950
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 4: I've even seen people say that only married couples, right, yeah, okay,

951
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 4: and no kids.

952
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: Like long long term. Yeah, you know, I think I

953
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: would do that. What else you planning for your wedding?

954
00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: I think it would be very intimate. I don't want

955
00:44:02,080 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: to just have like random people at my wedding. I

956
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 1: see a lot of floral design. Yes, I might want

957
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,279
Speaker 1: to have a destination wedding, you know, so that would

958
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 1: make it even more intimate.

959
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:10,959
Speaker 2: Yeah for sure.

960
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 1: Okay, destination to you? You have an idea web destination?

961
00:44:18,239 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: What's your favorite place to go?

962
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 2: I gotta keep traveling.

963
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: I haven't been enough places to really say, okay, yeah,

964
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 1: so so so far, though, if you had to say

965
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 1: this was my best like so far? I like Greece, Okay,

966
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: I like Greece and I like Dubai.

967
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 2: I love. Actually just went to Terrence Jay's wedding in

968
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 2: Dubai November. Yeah.

969
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 4: It was so And honestly, I never wanted to go

970
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 4: to Dubai because I'm a big pot here and I'm like,

971
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 4: I ain't gonna be the smoke while I'm there.

972
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: But when I tell you, I can't wait to go back.

973
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 4: I had view such I had such a good time,

974
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 4: and I was only there for the wedding, so I

975
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 4: really didn't get to do much more to experience Dubai. Now,

976
00:44:56,680 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 4: of course we can't go now, thanks Trump. But I

977
00:45:00,160 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 4: can't wait until I can actually go back and really,

978
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:03,480
Speaker 4: you know, enjoy myself there.

979
00:45:03,520 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, the vibes I've never been nice. Yeahs darting to

980
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 1: was it Mikonos Micono's. Yeah, it's so hot and the

981
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: mosquitos are so I'm going.

982
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 2: You're going to Miconos birthday, great place.

983
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: You have so much fun except for the so much

984
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,280
Speaker 1: I heard, it's really fun.

985
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 2: Make sure you bring some like mosquito. But they have

986
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:30,560
Speaker 2: organic repellent. I didn't know that either, But them little

987
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:32,479
Speaker 2: plugins they give us a hotel enough.

988
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: They don't work all right now, let's talk some more

989
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 1: about this this EP that you have out right now?

990
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: What are your plans for music? Because I know you're

991
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: going all in and so what's the plan? Like, what

992
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: would you like to see happen? So would you sign

993
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 1: like a major?

994
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:49,919
Speaker 2: What's the deal?

995
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, if the situation is right, I would definitely sign.

996
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,120
Speaker 2: But the terms just got to be right.

997
00:45:55,480 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 1: I like having I like maintaining control and independency and

998
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 1: my deals, you know, So I just want to make

999
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,280
Speaker 1: sure whatever deal I did sign would be like very authentic.

1000
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 1: I like people who genuinely mess with me. I feel

1001
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 1: like a lot of people get signed like on the

1002
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 1: spot and then deal with people who really not hands

1003
00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: on with them or really just don't care about the

1004
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 1: journey behind the music.

1005
00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 2: So whoever I.

1006
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 1: Did sign with, I just wanted to be a very organic,

1007
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: authentic relationship where I can flourish and just keep growing

1008
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: as an artist and being myself. Have people been coming

1009
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: at you because I could see a label really wanting

1010
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 1: to sign yea, it feels like you've got the package,

1011
00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: You've got the music, you've got the relationships, you've got

1012
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 1: the name, You've got a lie in those things already.

1013
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 1: It kind of feels like a.

1014
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 2: So has that been happening?

1015
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 1: Yes, But like I said, I like I want to

1016
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:53,239
Speaker 1: maintain my control and the business side of things just

1017
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 1: got to be all the way right, because I've been

1018
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: semi in a situation to where it was like I

1019
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: didn't get all my deliverables that I was expecting because

1020
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: I can do a lot myself for myself as far

1021
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 1: as like the investing part, so I just look for

1022
00:47:07,320 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 1: a lot of like marketing and being pushed in areas

1023
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 1: I can't really push myself.

1024
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,920
Speaker 2: So yeah, I kind of be very cautious with that.

1025
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: Is it intimidating for a man to day to knowing

1026
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 1: that you can do so many things for yourself. I've

1027
00:47:22,400 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 1: heard people talk about how hard that is today a

1028
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 1: women who already has so much. Yeah, I think it

1029
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 1: can be intimidating for men simply because women who can

1030
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 1: do things for themselves have a different demeanor to them,

1031
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 1: like a little more dominant, not as needy. And to

1032
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,720
Speaker 1: feed a man's ego, I feel like you gotta somewhat

1033
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: be a little needy, you know. They like to feel needed,

1034
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: they like to feel like you just can't do things

1035
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: yourself and a woman who can really do everything herself

1036
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: and like run a business, have a career.

1037
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 2: They just don't move around like that, you know.

1038
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: So how are you with asking for help from your man?

1039
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 2: I like a man that.

1040
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: Just doesn't really want to have to ask, But sometimes

1041
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: you do have to.

1042
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 2: You have to.

1043
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 1: I'm learning you you will have to ask because something

1044
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: can't read mind.

1045
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,480
Speaker 2: They can't read minds.

1046
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 1: I wish they could, but sometimes they just really just

1047
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 1: don't know. But my thing is why don't you know?

1048
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 1: But I will say sometimes were so used to doing

1049
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: and they're used to seeing you do stuff yourself, Like

1050
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: I'm sending out these packages, I'm doing this and they're like,

1051
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 1: all right, well you know, hit me later.

1052
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:31,880
Speaker 7: They're not.

1053
00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:33,480
Speaker 1: They don't want to overstep.

1054
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 2: Their brains work completely different.

1055
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,240
Speaker 1: But they might think, like if you don't say anything,

1056
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 1: they don't know how hard certain things are that you're

1057
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:41,399
Speaker 1: doing or that.

1058
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 2: It might be.

1059
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,359
Speaker 1: But if they might think you're doing this, you want

1060
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: to handle it. They don't know all the intricacies. Sometimes

1061
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 1: you do. I think it's hon us sometimes to be like, hey,

1062
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 1: I'm having a tough day, I have this and this

1063
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 1: to do. Would you mind helping me in this way

1064
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: because sometimes men think that we get offended, yeah, which

1065
00:48:58,120 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 1: is a you.

1066
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 2: Know, I've seen that happen.

1067
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: It's a little bit of my pride too, like I

1068
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 1: don't want to ask, but I need to start opening

1069
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:06,640
Speaker 1: up because think about it. If your man asked you

1070
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 1: for something, you feel good, like, Oh, he came to

1071
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 1: me to ask me. That's how he feels too. Like

1072
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: she trusts me enough to ask me for help, that's

1073
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: because she needs it. And so, like you said, men

1074
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:17,600
Speaker 1: want to feel neat.

1075
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:18,919
Speaker 2: And they want to come with their capes and save

1076
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 2: the day.

1077
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:23,120
Speaker 1: They want to say, want to really pour it. And

1078
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, you helped me so much. Yes,

1079
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful.

1080
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:35,280
Speaker 2: I actually had to call my sneaky link. You're calling

1081
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 2: the sneaky the.

1082
00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 3: Sneaky link, because I had a really bad day on

1083
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:43,000
Speaker 3: Thursday and I was like, you know what, I could

1084
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 3: really use a hug.

1085
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: I had a bad day. And he was like okay,

1086
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:49,439
Speaker 2: and he came over I'm sure and did yes.

1087
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 3: But he was really nice because I really like started

1088
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 3: bawling crying at one point and he just brought me

1089
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 3: in the shower and he like showered me, and it

1090
00:49:58,200 --> 00:50:01,399
Speaker 3: was like really nice me, this.

1091
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: Is crazy, but this is crazy because that's very romantic.

1092
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,920
Speaker 2: It was very sweet. Sneaks don't shower you.

1093
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:13,640
Speaker 3: They don't, but I fear that's all he's ever going

1094
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 3: to be.

1095
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 1: Bathed, you know, and he lets you boohoo cry. I

1096
00:50:18,640 --> 00:50:20,080
Speaker 1: know you're going.

1097
00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 3: To be best friends forever, but beyond that, it's giving.

1098
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:25,200
Speaker 2: I don't think.

1099
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: So what is that black age?

1100
00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 3: Well, I think we have different goals. I think we

1101
00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:34,319
Speaker 3: look at life completely differently. He's not American, so he

1102
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 3: comes from a different country and they do things differently over.

1103
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: There, and I don't know. I just want more.

1104
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 2: I want more. Okay, yeah, that's great answer. Yeah, that's valid. Yeah,

1105
00:50:48,719 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 2: let me you can get what you can't. I'm enjoying it.

1106
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 3: I feel like it's teaching me a lot about asking

1107
00:50:56,400 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 3: for what I want and like seeing how easy things

1108
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 3: can come to a man, you know, because he does

1109
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 3: do things automatically that I'm like, well, exactly, Like my

1110
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 3: closet came off the thing and he just.

1111
00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 2: Put it back. I need that.

1112
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of feel like I know what you're

1113
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: going to say.

1114
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 2: Okay, here's the question I have. If you had.

1115
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 1: Unlimited space, what kind of collection would you start? Like

1116
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:31,959
Speaker 1: vintage jewelry, you know, bags? If you had unlimited space,

1117
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 1: what kind of collection would you start?

1118
00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:35,960
Speaker 2: I think I would collect cars.

1119
00:51:36,080 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: I knew you were going to say that I don't

1120
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: know about cars.

1121
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 2: I don't either, But.

1122
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:44,399
Speaker 4: If I literally could drive a different car every day,

1123
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:46,080
Speaker 4: I would what I would.

1124
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: Want.

1125
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 4: I've never had multiple cars before. Well, I access to

1126
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 4: multiple cars, but I've never owned multiple cars, so space

1127
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,720
Speaker 4: I would fill them up with multiple cars, like vintage cars.

1128
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,120
Speaker 1: I'm a type of person that came because I don't

1129
00:52:01,120 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: feel like you.

1130
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 2: Would.

1131
00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,120
Speaker 1: I like cars, and I do feel like I could

1132
00:52:08,160 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 1: drive a different car every day, But now that I

1133
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,400
Speaker 1: have two cars, I only drive I feel like I

1134
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 1: felt that way because I didn't have a car that

1135
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 1: I really really loved and I got arranged and I

1136
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:20,319
Speaker 1: just fell in love with it. So I don't even

1137
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: drive my other car like I love. But if I

1138
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:28,320
Speaker 1: could start a collection of something, maybe it would be

1139
00:52:30,800 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: Maybe I would collect like artsy jewelry.

1140
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 4: Okay, I think Angela would collect art.

1141
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 2: Very beautiful art collections.

1142
00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:47,719
Speaker 1: I really love our idea, yes, and I think that

1143
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: it's like transforms your whole home sometimes when you go

1144
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 1: home and you have some art pieces that you love,

1145
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:55,200
Speaker 1: and you could just go and look at it and

1146
00:52:55,239 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, and different things mean, Like different pieces

1147
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 1: mean different things to you at different times. Like I

1148
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: have this one piece and as a guy, he's got

1149
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: boxing gloves and there's like these different emojis on the

1150
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 1: boxing gloves, and I remember at a certain time it

1151
00:53:10,960 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 1: meant like something different than what it means. Like basically

1152
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: I was feeling like every day I got to get

1153
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:17,720
Speaker 1: up and fight and you know, go and handle things

1154
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:20,720
Speaker 1: and like fight for yourself. But now it just feels different,

1155
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 1: like at a different place in my life. Good that

1156
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: you aret makes you feel that way, yeacause I want

1157
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:29,799
Speaker 1: to get into art. I have this piece caused Zin

1158
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,719
Speaker 1: in my in my living room, and it makes me

1159
00:53:33,719 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: feel very peaceful, like when I look at it, you know.

1160
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I've got all over your house and it's

1161
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 4: all beautiful.

1162
00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 2: I like the Prince one.

1163
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:46,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I have this mister Brainwash piece and it's

1164
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: Prince but it's made out of vinyl records and it's

1165
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: But I do think that art is so nice to

1166
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:56,160
Speaker 1: like have some statement pieces in your home, you know,

1167
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 1: and you have got good taste and good style. It

1168
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: don't got to be like the most expensive. It could

1169
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 1: be like an up and coming artist and you see

1170
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 1: a piece that you like. And this means something like

1171
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,880
Speaker 1: when you see something you like, you feel it like

1172
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: you could look at it like that's cool, that's good,

1173
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,319
Speaker 1: and then you see something you'd be like, damn, I'm

1174
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:14,319
Speaker 1: not that I really like. If it's in your space

1175
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: is important to So, yeah, it would be art for me.

1176
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 1: What would you say to any door man, that's hard.

1177
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 3: I would do art too, because I studied arts and

1178
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 3: I really like it. Ironically, I don't have any in

1179
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 3: my house, but I do love art. I feel like

1180
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,799
Speaker 3: it would be animals. I really want to farm.

1181
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 2: I want to farm. Is that any pets?

1182
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: Not?

1183
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 2: Not at the moment.

1184
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 3: No, But I grew up with dogs. I had a

1185
00:54:44,200 --> 00:54:46,800
Speaker 3: pet pig at one point, some horses.

1186
00:54:48,160 --> 00:54:48,920
Speaker 2: Her name was Willow.

1187
00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:57,760
Speaker 3: I didn't want I had her. Now the bacon is baconing?

1188
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 3: Just launch my pajama line. Yes, so that would be

1189
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:08,720
Speaker 3: in the space too. I love potatoes, don't.

1190
00:55:09,960 --> 00:55:10,440
Speaker 2: I love.

1191
00:55:13,120 --> 00:55:14,399
Speaker 1: Wearing it right now?

1192
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:19,080
Speaker 2: I know I know we're going to have She spoke

1193
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 2: about it talking about it, So yeah, we'll have that.

1194
00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 2: We'll have that moment.

1195
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 3: So yes, and they're really cute and comfortable.

1196
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:28,759
Speaker 1: Now let me ask you this, since in your real

1197
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 1: life you're so busy with everything that you do, you're

1198
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,279
Speaker 1: a boss, how are you in the bedroom? Are you

1199
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 1: a take control type of person or are you more

1200
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 1: of a you take control person. I'm a little bit

1201
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:40,759
Speaker 1: of both. I'm a little bit of both. I know

1202
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 1: how to take control. I know how to you know,

1203
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:46,360
Speaker 1: take over and can tell about how you just touched yourself.

1204
00:55:46,560 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1205
00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:49,360
Speaker 1: I don't know how to please my man, but I like

1206
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 1: for a man and take control as well. Okay, so

1207
00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:56,920
Speaker 1: I know how I want to feel, so yeah, like

1208
00:55:56,960 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: when I take control, I just know what I want

1209
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 1: to feel. So you're good at giving directions, saying do X,

1210
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 1: Y and Z. Yeah, I'm not scared to give directions

1211
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:09,360
Speaker 1: very nicely, very nice, Yeah, very nicely.

1212
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I'm cool with either.

1213
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:14,439
Speaker 1: Has anybody ever been too freaky for you?

1214
00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:17,399
Speaker 2: Like that's too much? Bro?

1215
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 3: My brain is going up of the places one time.

1216
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:28,799
Speaker 1: What was so freaky that you were?

1217
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 2: Like much?

1218
00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 6: What it was?

1219
00:56:30,520 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: It's kind of like weird you didn't do that right?

1220
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:39,319
Speaker 2: No, I don't want to say it. I just I don't.

1221
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 2: I don't want to.

1222
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:43,000
Speaker 1: Because guys, we'll try to do something and you like, uh,

1223
00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: it's not here.

1224
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just a little too far. Lift did

1225
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 2: he want you to that? No?

1226
00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: No, no, not like no, not like that. All right,

1227
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,520
Speaker 1: but it was like weird though, but it wasn't pegging.

1228
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:57,920
Speaker 2: Was it weird or was it just weird for you?

1229
00:56:58,080 --> 00:56:58,759
Speaker 2: Is it something that.

1230
00:56:58,800 --> 00:56:59,759
Speaker 1: It was just weird for me?

1231
00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 2: Like why are you want to.

1232
00:57:03,440 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: Use that DJ?

1233
00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 2: Have you ever said no to anything? I said no

1234
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:14,040
Speaker 2: to Peggy? Okay, but you would have wish I would

1235
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 2: have did it? Why you would would have did it?

1236
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,840
Speaker 4: Because now I want to do it, But at the

1237
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 4: time I wasn't ready. So when he said that he

1238
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:21,360
Speaker 4: wanted to do that, I was like.

1239
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: I know, it's crazy because I can't see you saying

1240
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 1: no to anything, not anything.

1241
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 2: But it was a long time ago, I manifested, not

1242
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:30,440
Speaker 2: for you me pegging.

1243
00:57:30,520 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like we could find somewhere every time.

1244
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 2: Talking about it, every time we talk about it.

1245
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 4: But I would never just randomly hook up with somebody

1246
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 4: in my dams, especially for that type of thing, Like yeah,

1247
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:45,480
Speaker 4: so yeah, that's very intimate.

1248
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think because I was young.

1249
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:51,040
Speaker 2: I was like really really young.

1250
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:54,840
Speaker 1: Like out of high school, Like yeah, that's nineteen, so

1251
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 1: maybe it was like it was just like a little weird.

1252
00:57:57,840 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. This was always in my twenties at the time.

1253
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 2: I my forties now, so it was a really long time.

1254
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 2: But it wasn't as weird as pegging. No, it wasn't

1255
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:04,920
Speaker 2: as weird as pegging.

1256
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: No, not that I want to shame everybody that's extreme,

1257
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:11,520
Speaker 1: but it was still too weird for me at that time.

1258
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:15,760
Speaker 4: Like you know, like it isn't a shameful but pegging

1259
00:58:15,920 --> 00:58:19,640
Speaker 4: is something that's on the more extreme right level.

1260
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: Of requires like things anything you have to.

1261
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, and they have.

1262
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:32,960
Speaker 1: Very pegged someone because you got to have like the equipment.

1263
00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 4: Yeah you got and that was the whole thing. It

1264
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:36,520
Speaker 4: wasn't like we could have done it in the moment,

1265
00:58:36,560 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 4: but I want you to get get a strap on?

1266
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:46,600
Speaker 2: Can you Like? That was just like can you strap on?

1267
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: Probably Uber package something if you could do it.

1268
00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:53,920
Speaker 2: I never seen a sex store. It's a car, but

1269
00:58:53,960 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 2: I never looked right both, I've got vibrators. I probably

1270
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:02,640
Speaker 2: got it.

1271
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 4: You can definitely get sex on pub I don't know

1272
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 4: if it's if a strap, but you could definitely find

1273
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 4: like didos and vibrators strapped.

1274
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 2: Jordy, you ever said no to something?

1275
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 3: Yes, I don't like butt stuff. I'll try it once,

1276
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,160
Speaker 3: but I'm not doing anything to your ass.

1277
00:59:23,640 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 2: Okay, not to your ass.

1278
00:59:25,040 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: And you don't like nothing to your ass either, I don't,

1279
00:59:27,000 --> 00:59:29,760
Speaker 1: but I've tried stuff for mo for me, Okay, I'm

1280
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 1: not licking anybody's ass.

1281
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 3: I'm not fingering anybody's ass, and I'm not strapping on

1282
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 3: to penetrate anybody's ass. I don't even think i'd have

1283
00:59:38,720 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 3: good stroke game if I'm really gonna.

1284
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 1: Be honest, You don't think so, You'd be like, I'd

1285
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: be like, I don't, I don't know what I'm doing.

1286
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: You'd be like you like it. You probably woudn't even

1287
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:50,840
Speaker 1: put it all the way in. I would be doing

1288
00:59:50,920 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: too much, like I don't know. I probably I agree

1289
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 1: with you with it. You know I'm not into like

1290
01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 1: the butt play either. I also don't like spit. Yeah,

1291
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 1: Like I don't want nobody to like spit in my mouth.

1292
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 1: I know some people love that, but I'm not into.

1293
01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:14,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.

1294
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: I could do a little like a little skit not

1295
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 1: too much like not don't.

1296
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:23,040
Speaker 4: You know, hard not so much, but a little sexy,

1297
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 4: a little sexy.

1298
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1299
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 2: I don't know why I don't like that. It's just

1300
01:00:28,200 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 2: maybe it's cringe you out.

1301
01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's I just could never get into

1302
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:34,440
Speaker 1: that even like seeing it.

1303
01:00:34,480 --> 01:00:34,880
Speaker 2: I'm porn.

1304
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:38,200
Speaker 1: I don't like it either, but you know that's just

1305
01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 1: my thing. I might be the only person.

1306
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,960
Speaker 2: No, I don't love it. I've let it happen. I

1307
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 2: don't like it. Have you spit in someone's mouth? Absolutely not?

1308
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:51,000
Speaker 2: Absolutely not? No, have you does? Yeah? Guys like that.

1309
01:00:51,440 --> 01:00:53,440
Speaker 1: I've had people ask me do you think some like

1310
01:00:53,760 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: is it something really that they like?

1311
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 2: Notice?

1312
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:55,640
Speaker 1: Like? Is it?

1313
01:00:55,640 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 2: Ain't? Like you?

1314
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:04,040
Speaker 1: But has anybody ever said spit in my mouth? No?

1315
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I've done it and I'll do it again.

1316
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 1: But if somebody I would, well, okay, and that's what

1317
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 1: I was gonna say to you. Nobody's ever said, hey,

1318
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 1: can you put your finger in my butt? Or can

1319
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 1: you lick my butt? No?

1320
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:16,439
Speaker 2: But they don't.

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Speaker 1: They've done It's like they're asking with their body. It's

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01:01:20,440 --> 01:01:22,960
Speaker 1: not start coking and and.

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Speaker 3: Right like a little nuns, little leg going wider, like

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Speaker 3: get away from it.

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01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the communication. Yeah, or if they do at

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01:01:33,800 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 4: they say play with my balls and then you know what,

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01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 4: that's cold.

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01:01:37,560 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 2: That got a little more.

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01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:51,000
Speaker 1: So that do you feel like this is it for you?

1330
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 1: Like this is this relationship? Yeah? I mean I hope.

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01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 1: So okay, I'll.

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01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 2: Say for you can't tolerate no ship, but I hope.

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01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,080
Speaker 1: So you know, if everything just goes how it's going

1334
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:07,920
Speaker 1: right now and just stay at a high mm hmmm.

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01:02:08,200 --> 01:02:09,600
Speaker 2: I feel like it's cool.

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01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 1: So it's a good time.

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01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:11,160
Speaker 2: It's new.

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01:02:11,240 --> 01:02:16,600
Speaker 1: Music is out, it's operations are high. You know. Album

1339
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 1: on the way yeah, album okay, full length album? When

1340
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 1: is that happening? Early April?

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01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 2: Okay?

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01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:26,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, so my EPP was just advertizer okay, and then

1343
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: we got a full body of work yes, yes, okay, yeah,

1344
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:34,960
Speaker 1: this is not coming out for a couple of weeks.

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01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 1: So she notes to so okay, so she took the notes,

1346
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:40,160
Speaker 1: take notes, and now this is notes to something.

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01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 2: I love it. Yes, journey, Yeah, the journey.

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01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. I was very intentional with my release this time.

1349
01:02:48,320 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: So I'm excited. And will there be a tour with

1350
01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,640
Speaker 1: the album, Yes, there will be a tour. We're thinking

1351
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: like maybe fall summer, so We're gonna all my whole

1352
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:03,960
Speaker 1: first line, first headline, congratulations, and I know people are

1353
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:07,200
Speaker 1: going to pop out to guess yes, yes, yes in

1354
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:11,600
Speaker 1: every city, have some merch requests okay, so.

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01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:16,120
Speaker 4: Yes, while she pulls up that and be asked this

1356
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:20,440
Speaker 4: questions because our mother, Queen Beyance, started this trend with

1357
01:03:20,520 --> 01:03:22,400
Speaker 4: the tour, so we have to have this look. So

1358
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:24,040
Speaker 4: what do you think your lok would be if you

1359
01:03:24,120 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 4: had to choose, like right now, what the look would

1360
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 4: be for that you want the girl used to come

1361
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 4: in for the tour.

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01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:30,840
Speaker 1: Like the aesthetic of my tour.

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01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, hmmm.

1364
01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 1: I feel like I want to do something opposite of

1365
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:37,960
Speaker 1: what my norm is. So I've been doing a pixie.

1366
01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:40,600
Speaker 1: I will go pink pixie. So I want to see

1367
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:42,920
Speaker 1: like pink splots of pink. And I want to be

1368
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: real like cunt almost like.

1369
01:03:47,960 --> 01:03:49,400
Speaker 2: Not too rock star, but.

1370
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:59,400
Speaker 1: Like a tour like right away just fashion forward okay, okay, edgy.

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01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:00,360
Speaker 2: But fashion for edge.

1372
01:04:00,400 --> 01:04:03,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, with the mullets. I want the girls to come

1373
01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: taking risks, you know, take risk, like risk, even if

1374
01:04:08,160 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 1: it don't work out, I think it's good that you

1375
01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 1: took the risk. Like sometimes you'd be like what you

1376
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 1: ever have an output that you was like, what was

1377
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 1: I thinking? Absolutely but all the time because if you

1378
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 1: played it safe. Yeah, I didn't have some outfits I

1379
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 1: didn't want out in like damn, I know I missed,

1380
01:04:23,880 --> 01:04:25,680
Speaker 1: but I feel like people know you for being able

1381
01:04:25,720 --> 01:04:28,880
Speaker 1: to dress really well if anything, so definitely I was like, okay,

1382
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 1: people know how you know the favorite thing to say?

1383
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:34,360
Speaker 2: How I give it? Did you? Oh?

1384
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 3: Yes, okay, okay, so T shirt sayings bad bitch benefits.

1385
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 1: Bad bitch benefit.

1386
01:04:42,240 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 2: Okay benefit.

1387
01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 1: We were hear that bad bitch benefits because I'm actually

1388
01:04:47,320 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: about to drop a line. Also, thank you, Paul.

1389
01:04:50,960 --> 01:04:51,560
Speaker 2: I like that.

1390
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 3: We already said this, but definitely send a wirefuckers l

1391
01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 3: that needs to be on a T.

1392
01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 2: Shirt as well. Whirefucking out because if.

1393
01:04:59,880 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: You know the limits.

1394
01:05:01,720 --> 01:05:04,120
Speaker 3: Oh, if your ex is done, you better not wish

1395
01:05:04,120 --> 01:05:11,720
Speaker 3: the well hello, you get it, I was rhy. And

1396
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 3: then don't either don't let me touch no bills or no.

1397
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 1: Fifty to fifty no fifty fifty yes, yeah, guys.

1398
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:19,960
Speaker 2: Straight to the points.

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01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 3: Those were the lines. I was like, yes, I need

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01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 3: those on the shirt pronto.

1401
01:05:23,520 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 1: Okay, I like it, I wear it.

1402
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:30,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 1: Oh and then I feel like you need a shirt

1404
01:05:35,120 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 1: with the guy in the glasses, A guy in the glass. Yeah,

1405
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 1: like the reflection in the glass. I feel like that

1406
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 1: is important, like to take things and make the moment.

1407
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:56,040
Speaker 3: Or a music video like you know when they used

1408
01:05:56,080 --> 01:05:57,760
Speaker 3: to like zoom in and like they would.

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01:05:57,520 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: Be Yeah, thank you more than just marketing.

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01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:08,040
Speaker 5: Me.

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01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 1: It's like I'm sitting with the glasses in the same

1412
01:06:11,120 --> 01:06:13,600
Speaker 1: like and then it just zoom into the then.

1413
01:06:13,560 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 2: It turns into a fire. That's little video.

1414
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 1: She's got it. You got it girl. Well, thank you

1415
01:06:23,160 --> 01:06:25,400
Speaker 1: so much for coming and sitting with us. We appreciate

1416
01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:28,120
Speaker 1: it and playing games with us and everything. These are

1417
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:31,320
Speaker 1: the only games she'll play. Okay, no games in real life,

1418
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 1: but we do really appreciate you and congratulations on everything.

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01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:36,960
Speaker 2: Thanks y'all. I was really glad to be here. Y'are

1420
01:06:37,000 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 2: so sweet.

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01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:43,000
Speaker 1: Conversation was so interesting and see so much fun. Next

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01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:46,400
Speaker 1: time we're going to do it again. Yes, okay, thank

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01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 1: you for telling us everything. Take notes periods service service