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Speaker 1: This is the Almost Famous podcast with iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Bob Trista, Hi, you look at dar. I thought

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Speaker 2: you said you were feeling sick. You look lovely.

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Speaker 3: I've been sick the past two days and I'm so

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Speaker 3: sorry I was running late you guys to start this.

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Speaker 3: I love it when when I get a text and

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Speaker 3: I'm like, wait, why are they Why are they texting

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Speaker 3: about Almost Famous? Oh, it's because you're supposed to be

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Speaker 3: actually recording right now.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I came running in my house. I

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Speaker 2: come around the corner, I go straight upstairs. Canyon and

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Speaker 2: Blaker downstairs are like high.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, Hi, gotta go, gotta go run upstairs, get

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Speaker 4: myself all situated. I think I'm gonna be the late one.

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Speaker 4: And then all of a sudden, I'm like, oh, she's

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Speaker 4: not here. Thank god, you actually gave me. You gave

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Speaker 4: me a breath of relaxation in a hasty and very

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Speaker 4: busy day.

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Speaker 2: So thank you.

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Speaker 1: You're so welcome. You're so welcome, Bob.

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Speaker 2: I can actually hear a little scratchiness in your voice.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I always always wanted to be to me

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Speaker 3: more with like the sexy scratchy voice you know when

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Speaker 3: I was whenever I'm sick, I'm like, yes, lose your voice, your.

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Speaker 2: Voice, this is what we want, we want this. Well,

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Speaker 2: I'm glad.

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Speaker 4: I'm glad to be back with all of our almost

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Speaker 4: famous the Og friends. And it is great to see

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Speaker 4: your beautiful face. And I'm loving it that today is

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Speaker 4: going to be such a fun day because we got

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Speaker 4: one of my best buddies on and I love this guy,

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Speaker 4: and we have quite a history ourselves, you know, and

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Speaker 4: so I'll be happy to talk about that. Of course,

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Speaker 4: we have on the show today our dear friend Graham Bunn,

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Speaker 4: who much beloved member of the Og family from back

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Speaker 4: in the day. He was on Deanna Poppus's season, and

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Speaker 4: I believe, I mean he was. He was right down

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Speaker 4: there to the end, I'm pretty sure on that season.

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Speaker 4: And you know, he's got quite an interesting story himself.

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Speaker 4: Our our story of how he and I met is

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Speaker 4: really really funny. And we kept each other in the divorces.

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Speaker 2: How's that going, I'll tease it that way.

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Speaker 4: So Graham and I we became buddies and kept each

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Speaker 4: other in the in the splits. But yeah, he was

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Speaker 4: from Deanna season. He was on Bachelor Pad, Bachelor in Paradise.

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Speaker 4: I mean, this guy has been around, He's been around

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Speaker 4: the block in the Bachelor of Family.

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Speaker 2: So were you a fan of Grahams.

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Speaker 3: I was a huge fan and still am. I just

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Speaker 3: I love him, Adoram. He's always been so supportive and

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Speaker 3: so kind. He just is so kind, and yeah, I

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Speaker 3: was a huge fan when he was on the show.

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Speaker 3: Just found out something that we're going to get into today.

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Speaker 3: I won't spoil it, but I had no idea of

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Speaker 3: this piece of information. So I'm very excited to talk

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Speaker 3: to him about the show. I actually was a judge

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Speaker 3: on Bachelor Pad when he was on, so that was fun.

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Speaker 3: So I've seen him a couple times. And you know,

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Speaker 3: we used to do those, like those reunions with Jesse Sinsak.

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Speaker 1: Do you know that. I feel like he probably came

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Speaker 1: on one of those.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I didn't make any of those, but I wanted to go,

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Speaker 4: but I was just at this different place and didn't

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Speaker 2: But yeah, those were fun.

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Speaker 4: I mean I used to love all the readings, So

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Speaker 4: I did some of the earlier ones before Jesse was

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Speaker 4: then as they kind of came along after. I think, yeah,

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Speaker 4: was there a cruise? Was when was a cruise?

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Speaker 2: Wasn't it or something?

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Speaker 3: I didn't go on the cruise, but yeah, I think

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Speaker 3: there was a cruise. We did have something up in Colorado.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it was in Breckenridge or something. I

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Speaker 3: at one of those. Anyway, We've stayed in touch too,

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Speaker 3: I'm just excited to chat with you today and to

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Speaker 3: bring Graham on the show.

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Speaker 1: So let's welcome in Graham.

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Speaker 4: Bun, there's my guyon everybody, My man.

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Speaker 2: What's up, buddy? What's going on?

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Speaker 4: How does this guy get better looking with age every

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Speaker 4: time I see him? Finest of the fine ripples, the

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Speaker 4: fine ripples, Now, I will tell you, Trista. We had

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Speaker 4: to meet some pretty shrewd demands to get Graham on

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Speaker 4: I had to acquiesce to something that I wasn't happy about,

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Speaker 4: but it was the only way to get my guy

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Speaker 4: on the show. Graham and I have a very very

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Speaker 4: complex relationship. We love each other like brothers, best of friends.

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Speaker 4: I'd take a bullet for this guy. But what I

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Speaker 4: will not do is allow this man to cheat at

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Speaker 4: the game of Madden NFL Football. And I am I'm

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Speaker 4: a staunch defender of my reasoning here. My rationale is

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Speaker 4: a talented player. Okay, he's a talented, talented man when

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Speaker 4: it comes to the video game sports. But I was

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Speaker 4: one of the few people that I know of that

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Speaker 4: could beat Graham Bun occasionally, not often, until I found

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Speaker 4: out his trick. He was using a playbook that was

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Speaker 4: the same playbook no matter where he was, no matter

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Speaker 4: when he was playing. He'd pull up this playbook and

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Speaker 4: every single time I let him have that playbook. So

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Speaker 4: I had to agree that the next time he and

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Speaker 4: play Madden again, and I'm gonna let him use his

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Speaker 4: go to playbook.

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Speaker 2: So there it is behind you, the lies and the

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Speaker 4: Oh brother, Oh my goodness, and he's got the beer

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Speaker 4: for you.

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Speaker 5: With the demands I went and bought this. Today, you

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Speaker 5: owe me twenty four dollars in eighty eight cents. I

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Speaker 5: saved the receipt The deal was a case of beer,

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Speaker 5: and I can use whatever playbook I want when we play.

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Speaker 2: That was the right, that's right. I'm here, so I'm

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Speaker 2: going to collect. I am gonna Venmo.

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Speaker 4: You are the money on this, and I appreciate that

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Speaker 4: you kept on the receipts.

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Speaker 2: I should.

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Speaker 4: I wish I would have kept the receipts when that won.

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Speaker 4: I'll never forget this. One game we were playing and

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Speaker 4: a dog fight, and man, at the very last play,

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Speaker 4: I just somehow, I think I think I had an

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Speaker 2: Bob has giving me a lot of credit.

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Speaker 5: Bob, Bob beat me a bunch of times, but he

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Speaker 5: would never let me use He would never let me

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Speaker 5: use my playbook.

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Speaker 2: And that that really I hated that.

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Speaker 4: It's so good to see my brother grahamn my brother

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Speaker 4: from another mother.

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Speaker 2: Man, the list must be getting short, you guys pulling

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Speaker 2: me in on this thing.

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Speaker 3: Come on now, no, sir, the ogs only.

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Speaker 5: This is the second time I've done the Ogs, but

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Speaker 5: I got I got the Cousins from uh Dukes of Hazzard.

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Speaker 5: You know when the Dukes of Hazards went to the

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Speaker 5: Cousins and it didn't work. You know, I got the Cousins.

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Speaker 5: The last time I did this show, I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 5: what's going on man?

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Speaker 2: The Cousins episode. That's right, I got the Cousins episode.

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Speaker 4: He did the actual, the actual, the starting grounds, he

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Speaker 2: Along and we just we started.

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Speaker 4: We start shining up some pennies, setting up all the

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Speaker 4: a lot of people might not know about my buddy

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Speaker 4: Graham is that when I was still living in la

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Speaker 4: and Graham and I actually met because of our respective exes.

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Speaker 5: We did Bob's if this is if this is a

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Speaker 5: podcast about heartbreak, Bob has lived through the two like

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Speaker 5: just heart wrench gut wrenching. I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 5: going to recover heartbreaks that in my lifetime. So I'm

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Speaker 5: hoping third times a charm. If that happens for me,

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Speaker 5: it will. It was for me, buddy.

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Speaker 4: Sometimes, you know, we got to take our gotta take

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Speaker 4: a lick and to keep on tickings sometimes, you know.

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Speaker 4: But but Graham and I were on a I actually

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Speaker 4: was kind of helped organize this cruise for the daytime

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Speaker 4: soap opera community, and we called it Rock the Soaps,

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Speaker 4: and and.

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Speaker 2: We were out there, rocked the boat. We rocked the Soaps. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and we did it.

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Speaker 4: And Graham was there with his girlfriend at the time,

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Speaker 4: was there with my now ex wife who was a

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Speaker 4: star of all my children. And Graham and I thankfully

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Speaker 4: found each other on this boat. And at the end

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Speaker 4: of that trip, you know, we everyone that sailed off

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Speaker 4: we flew into the same place. We're like, all right, this,

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Speaker 2: Let's go, buddy.

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Speaker 4: And this was us, and Graham and I lived together.

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Speaker 4: We we spent several years together out there in LA

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Speaker 4: I did make demands on him at that time, so

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Speaker 4: I think it was only fair that he demanded I'd

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Speaker 4: be like Graham tonight we are going to this party

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Speaker 2: We're going to eat Mexican food at this place. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was like, okay, yeah, He's like, all right, let's go. Sure.

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Speaker 2: It was Graham was there when I met Canyon.

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Speaker 4: In fact, we often say that if it weren't for

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Speaker 4: Graham Bun, there would be no Bob and Canyon, because

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Speaker 4: Graham was so sweet to Canyon when I was trying

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Speaker 4: to figure out if I even wanted to be in

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Speaker 4: a relationship, and he was like, you know, the only

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Speaker 4: reason he he would say, hey, why.

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Speaker 2: Don't you grab your girlfriend and we'll go do this.

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Speaker 2: And I'd be like, I'll have a girlfriend. He's like, oh,

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Speaker 2: oh that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 4: Why don't you grab the only girl that you ever

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Speaker 4: spend time with that you really enjoy hanging out with

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Speaker 4: Canyon and bring her to this thing.

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Speaker 2: And I'd be like, damn it, he's right again. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: So Graham was the brains of the operation for sure.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was, Yeah, it was. It was a great time.

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Speaker 5: Bob's definitely been a part of a lot of milestones

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Speaker 5: in my life. So this is the least I could

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Speaker 5: do again. I mean, hopefully I have some answers for

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Speaker 5: any kind of Cloe. I don't know what you guys

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Speaker 5: could ask me that people would be interested in.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we've got lots of lots of questions, lots of questions.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, what about I want to hear about the new

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Speaker 4: show before we get into anything, though. This is I

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Speaker 4: want to hear about this because this kind of came.

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Speaker 4: This was a surprise even to me when I when

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Speaker 4: I saw it on Instagram. I mean, You've been obviously

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Speaker 2: I'm back to living like I did with Bob.

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Speaker 5: Bob was a part of my I was landscaping when

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Speaker 2: So that's right.

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Speaker 5: So Bob has done a multitude of things for me

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Speaker 2: I love you, brother. Well still still owed me for

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I actually I actually took that Mrquy Costello

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember you take that She's I'm sure you

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Speaker 5: I was in there a shell, just like, oh man,

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Speaker 5: she's not.

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Speaker 2: She's tough.

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Speaker 1: She's she's tough for sure.

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Speaker 2: This story what oh no, I said? She do you know?

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Speaker 4: Like the reason why she is who she is was

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Speaker 2: Amazing.

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Speaker 1: I knew that at some point, but it has lost

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Speaker 5: Like family also, Trista, before before you ever met me,

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Speaker 2: Has always loved you. You were very kind to me

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Speaker 5: I don't know if you remember, you said some very

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Speaker 1: But I love that your family too.

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Speaker 3: I love that's actually something so sweet about this whole

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Speaker 3: like Bachelor Nation thing is just meeting people's families, like

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Speaker 3: Caitlin Bristow just posted her sister's birthdays today and I

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Speaker 1: Like It's just, you know, such.

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Speaker 3: A small world and just love everyone's family. So tell

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Speaker 1: So you mentioned.

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Speaker 3: Kind of the reason that you went on the Bachelorette.

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Speaker 2: I've never heard the story.

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Speaker 3: I just heard about this story, and we want to

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Speaker 3: confirm that what I heard is the truth. Yes, of course,

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Speaker 3: not the one who shared his couch. No, I'm sure

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Speaker 3: he knows this story, but we would love the rest

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Speaker 3: of us to hear the whole story. You can mention names,

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Speaker 3: by the way, but yes, we we hear.

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Speaker 2: That is it long enough that everything is public knowledge?

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Speaker 2: Now is everything? Because for a.

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Speaker 1: Long time it is.

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Speaker 2: For a long time, I was asked to keep this

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Speaker 5: And again my side of this story is, you know,

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Speaker 2: So okay, what did you hear? And I'll confirm it.

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Speaker 5: I'll give you all the details so people don't think, oh, well,

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Speaker 5: this guy's just offering up whatever his weird version is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, right.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So the girl that you mentioned maybe having your

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Speaker 3: heart broken by Krystles, Yes, Krishelle from selling Sunset and

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Speaker 3: So you guys had broken up and you actually actually

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Speaker 3: Krischelle and the Bachelorette.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, first of all, if Chrischelle ever sees this one,

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Speaker 5: you're the best And I am so happy for she's

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Speaker 5: anybody you know. Incredibly hard worker and when I say

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Speaker 5: I'm only proud of that in that sometimes when you

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Speaker 5: also falling in that space where I just need this human.

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Speaker 2: Struggles with it because I've never loved someone in that way.

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Speaker 5: I've only loved one other person, and I loved that

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Speaker 2: Accurate account of what happened.

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Speaker 5: It was my birthday, and Bob knows my best friend

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Speaker 5: when alcohol gets involved, like just anything, it was crazy

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Speaker 5: I did abuse alcohol after the breakup of Croschelle because

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Speaker 2: That was really challenging for me.

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Speaker 5: But I got into a bar fight that night and

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Speaker 5: somebody was like aggressive with Koshelle did not know we

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Speaker 5: Anybody watching this, please, I don't condone violence. I mishandled it.

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Speaker 5: I was at a position where it was not the

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Speaker 2: They drug me out of there.

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Speaker 5: I've also been drug out of it after party for

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Speaker 2: You can look that up on CMZ. So I Bob

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Speaker 2: Bob loves that one.

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Speaker 1: We're going to tell that story after it.

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Speaker 2: They touched me first. That's why I didn't get in trouble.

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Speaker 5: They touched me first, and I did tell them what

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Speaker 5: Chrishelle's like, hey, listen, I can't be with someone that

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Speaker 5: I said, Okay, what's going on? She said that I

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Speaker 5: But I wouldn't you know, that wouldn't change the way

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Speaker 5: Like we had a great talk. I wished her well

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Speaker 5: I lived with my best friend from college, like I

441
00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,879
Speaker 5: had a great support system around me to like, all right,

442
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:29,919
Speaker 5: well we're going to get through.

443
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:30,879
Speaker 2: This, like it's okay.

444
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:38,320
Speaker 5: And so fast forward to like into January, something happened

445
00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 5: and they gave the show to Deanna, so Chrishelle reached

446
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 5: back out to me and said, you know, some things

447
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 5: are changing. I don't know if I'm going to la anymore,

448
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,880
Speaker 5: and you know, if you're up for it, I'd love

449
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 5: to continue to spend time. And I was hesitant because,

450
00:21:59,600 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 5: like I, it was really hard on me the first time,

451
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,919
Speaker 5: like stepping away, and so we did.

452
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:07,879
Speaker 2: Then my grandfather passed.

453
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:12,479
Speaker 5: Away unfortunately, and he died on February tenth, and I

454
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 5: flew home, and to Chrischelle's credit, this was my dad's

455
00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,200
Speaker 5: like my hero, and so it was the first time

456
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:22,920
Speaker 5: I ever had to see my father in a compromise

457
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 5: position where he needed a little bit of support. My

458
00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 5: dad usually handles everything. He's a dressed, lose winding marine

459
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 5: and like just the toughest dude I know. And so

460
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 5: I leaned on Forrschelle. I kind of did some adult

461
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 5: things when it comes to the funeral and the services

462
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:42,880
Speaker 5: and the presentation of my grandfather and took some things

463
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,160
Speaker 5: off my dad's plate. But the person that I leaned

464
00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 5: on was Forschelle And so when I came back, I

465
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:53,439
Speaker 5: flew back to surprise her on Valentine's Day because the

466
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 5: funeral was on the thirteenth, So I didn't tell her

467
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:57,720
Speaker 5: I was going to come back and surprise her. Well,

468
00:22:57,760 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 5: she had plans, and that was that was really hard

469
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 5: on me because I had in my mind, I was

470
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:06,560
Speaker 5: thinking we were somewhere else, and that's on me. She

471
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:10,879
Speaker 5: never promised me anything. She was being a supportive person

472
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:14,160
Speaker 5: in my life. But when you have plans on Valentine's Day,

473
00:23:14,440 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 5: you know, as a guy who just lost his grandfather,

474
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 5: who was the closest person to me that I'd ever lost,

475
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 5: I went right to the bar that I worked at

476
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 5: with my best friend from college and indulged myself. And

477
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 5: so I think by midnight, now it's Valentine's Day. By midnight,

478
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 5: I had no shirt on one. I'm super poor. So

479
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 5: I was shredded out of my mind. Like if anybody

480
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 5: remembers what I look like on that season, it wasn't

481
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 5: because I was a workout feed. It was like I

482
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 5: had no money and I was living on like salads

483
00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 5: and like sandwich Deli sandwich me.

484
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,440
Speaker 2: You know, I was a poor kid right out of college.

485
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 5: So someone came up to me and was like, Hey,

486
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,200
Speaker 5: if you can pass a blood test.

487
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: I put you on TV next week. I'm like what

488
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: And I thought it was a joke, Like I was like,

489
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 2: no way.

490
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,639
Speaker 5: And they told me what the show was, and I

491
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 5: first I was like, no way, that can't be real,

492
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 5: like someone setting me up, someone that I've told at

493
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 5: the bar, like all the girl that I.

494
00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 2: Wanted, she's going off to do this show.

495
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:19,359
Speaker 5: So because I couldn't believe that that would actually happen,

496
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 5: Like what are the odds of that? You know, I

497
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 5: didn't apply. I didn't I didn't look for it. Someone

498
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,080
Speaker 5: just came up to me in the bar that I

499
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 5: worked at and was like, this guy looks like a

500
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 5: complete he'd be great.

501
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:40,840
Speaker 2: You know this guy.

502
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 5: This guy's walking around holding a bottle of Maker's Mark,

503
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 5: just talking to every girl in here with no shirt on.

504
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: Like we got to get him on the show. This

505
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 2: dude was built for this show.

506
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 5: Like we we are getting green lit for a decade

507
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 5: with this guy, Like here's the originator of the spin

508
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 5: off walking around the bar right now. So they called back,

509
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 5: and honestly it was my parents they reached out to me,

510
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:09,439
Speaker 5: and I think maybe my friend from home that was

511
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 5: living with me. It kind of shared, Hey, I don't

512
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 5: know if Graham is handling everything.

513
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 2: So well, and so.

514
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 5: They encouraged me to go. They're like, hey, listen, this

515
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 5: get you out of your bubble. Like you get away

516
00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 5: from New York, maybe you meet a nice girl.

517
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 4: Now.

518
00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 5: Granted they showed me that night, they showed me a

519
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:28,880
Speaker 5: picture of Deanna, so I knew it wasn't Krishelle. They

520
00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 5: had a little headshot of her, and they're like, hey,

521
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 5: if you think this girl's attractive and you'd like to

522
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 5: meet her, we'll put you on TV in a week.

523
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 5: I mean I showed up with like a like a

524
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:40,640
Speaker 5: carry on in a book bag, like I didn't have anything.

525
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 5: But yeah, so Chrishelle originally was supposed to do the show,

526
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:51,399
Speaker 5: and then I ended up on it, and it probably

527
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 5: wasn't fair to Deanna because I was a mess I had,

528
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 5: you know, I was still heartbroken and I felt like

529
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:02,159
Speaker 5: our relationship ended for reasons that weren't that wasn't me,

530
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 5: you know. And then my one of my best friends dies,

531
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 5: is someone I had never dealt with that, and now

532
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 5: I find myself drinking and I've never done that before.

533
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 5: So it just it was it was a wild like

534
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 5: I couldn't I couldn't understand what was happening, and like

535
00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 5: the first week I was there. I don't know if

536
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 5: anybody knows this. I don't think I've ever told Bob

537
00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:26,919
Speaker 5: of this. One of the pas on set for the

538
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 5: show walks up to me and goes, hey, I know

539
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 5: who you are. I'm like, great, I've been here a week.

540
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 5: You're not very good at your job.

541
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: There's only ten of us.

542
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 5: I know, I'm not crazy memorable, but I'm still here.

543
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 5: Like fifteen of those dudes went whole night one. So

544
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 5: he was like, no, I guess he was a PA

545
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 5: on Dancing with the Stars when Cameron Matheson was on,

546
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 5: and he was like, so, Chrishelle, her his co star,

547
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 5: would come to the showings and talk about you all

548
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:05,880
Speaker 5: the time. So that was on set and he was like, so,

549
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,439
Speaker 5: what's the deal there? And I was like, there is

550
00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 5: no deal. I don't I mean, I don't know, like

551
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,720
Speaker 5: I don't know what you're talking about. So like and again,

552
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 5: I didn't know anything about TV shows. I didn't know

553
00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 5: about anything. I was just there like am I a

554
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 5: fraud or am I doing the wrong thing? Or should

555
00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 5: I leave? Like every day it was like should I leave?

556
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:29,040
Speaker 5: You know, like am I hurting someone? So everyone looks

557
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 5: at that show, and like, man, you didn't talk much

558
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 5: or you didn't do much, And I was trying to

559
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 5: be as authentic of a person, Like I didn't want

560
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 5: to act for the show.

561
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 2: I didn't want.

562
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 5: To act for Deanna and act like I was madly

563
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 5: in love. I was trying to figure out myself. I

564
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 5: was trying to respect her as a person because I

565
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 5: love Deanna. I'm still close with Deanna. I wish the

566
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 5: best for her, and I think that she's she respects

567
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,640
Speaker 5: me and that I never lied to her. I did

568
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,000
Speaker 5: my best in the hand that I was dealt. I mean,

569
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:02,640
Speaker 5: that was a while scenario to think of, because that

570
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 5: I hear all these crazy stories that people want to

571
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 5: get on this show so bad, and it's such a

572
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:10,600
Speaker 5: wonderful opportunity, and like it was just surrounding my life.

573
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 5: You know, yeah, it was meant to I had to

574
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 5: lie for years. I was you know, I taught to

575
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 5: my parents after they met her, and you know, my

576
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 5: parents didn't want me to go to the fantasy suites

577
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 5: if I wasn't gonna pursue her or be in love

578
00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 5: or ask her to marry me. So I asked to

579
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 5: leave the show, and then I had to pretend like

580
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,639
Speaker 5: I got kicked off the show, and it was just

581
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,120
Speaker 5: really confusing and then live for years about it, and

582
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,959
Speaker 5: nobody knew about Herschelle's part, and it was just a weird,

583
00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 5: yeah thing, you know, for someone who's like average Joe regular,

584
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 5: you know, like like.

585
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 4: This whole I thought a lot of credit to you, though,

586
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 4: because you and Deanna created a really nice friendship too.

587
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 2: After the show. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I went to her wedding,

588
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 2: you know.

589
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 5: I I know that it's it's a challenging time for

590
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 5: her right now from from what I've heard, but I

591
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 5: will always support her, always love her. She's always been

592
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 5: crazy con Even when she found out some of the

593
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 5: backstory of this, she reached out and she couldn't have

594
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 5: been more supportive, and like, hey, I value who you

595
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 5: are as a person. You've continued to be a steadfast,

596
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 5: you know, constant in my life, you know, and I

597
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 5: appreciate that. And I think some people go on the

598
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 5: show and it's okay with motives to continue certain roads

599
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 5: and paths, And for me, I've always just tried to

600
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 5: make sure that whatever I do, whether it's being filmed

601
00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 5: or not filmed, that I'm the same person, and I

602
00:29:31,600 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 5: stay true to who I am as a person and

603
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 5: never kind of used that. Like when I left the show,

604
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:38,760
Speaker 5: I didn't. I know, I did some spinoff years later,

605
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 5: but I didn't blog about it. I didn't, you know,

606
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 5: I didn't ever try to use the franchise for anything

607
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 5: other than it was a wonderful opportunity experience to meet

608
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 5: like really cool people.

609
00:29:47,960 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, okay, So wait, you mentioned that you had

610
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 3: to lie for years? What were what what were you

611
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 3: lying about? Just I got a little confused there.

612
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 2: We set up that she sent me home.

613
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so the produce I wanted to.

614
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 5: Make sure I protected her. I was like, hey, look,

615
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 5: I'm going home whether you you know, no matter what happens,

616
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 5: I'm not coming back tomorrow. So tonight at the Rose ceremony,

617
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 5: you know, let her know, because it was it was

618
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 5: presented to me that she that they really wanted her

619
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,680
Speaker 5: to get a proposal. You know, she had been through

620
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 5: a lot with the season before and I can't remember

621
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 5: her handler's name, and I was say, well, I'm not

622
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,239
Speaker 5: going to propose, and I've talked to my parents about it,

623
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,240
Speaker 5: and I don't want to get in the way of something.

624
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: That is really important to her.

625
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 5: So just let her know I won't be coming back,

626
00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 5: and if she wants me to excuse myself, I will,

627
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 5: But if she wants to send me, so maybe it's

628
00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 5: a little bit easier on her, you know, just let

629
00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 5: her know, just don't pick me, and I'll go home

630
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 5: quietly and I won't I won't talk about it, which

631
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 5: and I didn't.

632
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 4: For years, which I think is cool too, because I

633
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 4: often thought, you know, we've we've seen it when they

634
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 4: do the season and they'll be like, you know, the

635
00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 4: line up for the rose ceremony up before you get started,

636
00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:11,680
Speaker 4: I'm out of here, you know, and it's such a

637
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 4: grand stand moment.

638
00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 2: And I always the fact that you.

639
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 4: Didn't, you didn't, you made it the complete opposite of

640
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,280
Speaker 4: a grand stand bowed out gracefully, and I think that's

641
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 4: that's a very gentlemanly way to handle that.

642
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: And I think that that was says a lot about

643
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 2: your character too, you know, which I love. I appreciate it.

644
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 5: I mean, I have a small ego. Hopefully I keep

645
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 5: it in check. But like so for years I was like, yeah, yeah,

646
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 5: and then people you know, you know, for years to

647
00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 5: come out you got dope, don't television.

648
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 2: You're like, yeah, yeah.

649
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 4: I did.

650
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: I did by myself.

651
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I did it.

652
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

653
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: That was And then like honestly, I'm talking a bomb

654
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:48,719
Speaker 2: about this. Uh.

655
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 5: ABC found out like the whole backstory because Chrishelle and

656
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 5: I uh picked it back up when I got home

657
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 5: a couple of months later, and you know, communicated and

658
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:00,960
Speaker 5: and again, I was living in New York in the

659
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 5: in the soap world. We had mutual friends, so we

660
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 5: would run into each other a lot, and we started

661
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 5: kind of hanging out and communicating. And ABC flew to

662
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 5: New York to our apartment we had moved in together

663
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 5: six months seven months later, and filmed a special with

664
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 5: us about it. Yeah, and I've never seen it. I'm like,

665
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 5: never seen a last day of that. Yeah, like what

666
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 5: happened to that?

667
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 1: It was a special just about you and Chrischelle or

668
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 1: was going to it was going to be.

669
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 5: Part of Oh I don't know that you would have

670
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 5: to talk to now, but they're like they spent a

671
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 5: whole day filming with us, and like the streets in

672
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 5: New York and our story, interviewing her, interviewing interviewing us

673
00:32:37,640 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 5: to get you know what I bet it was.

674
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 2: Remember that.

675
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: It was like it was like a follow up they

676
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: would do like a follow.

677
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 2: Us one twenty twenty special or the six evenus. I

678
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 2: can't remember. I think it was a twenty twenty special

679
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 2: they did a few years later.

680
00:32:48,640 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 4: And I'll bet you that's it was going to be

681
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 4: part of that somehow, some way, I'll bet you because

682
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 4: I remember that, and I remember that that segment, and

683
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 4: that was definitely ABC. That wasn't the Bachelor producers that

684
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 4: were doing it. It was ABC, not you know what

685
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:01,760
Speaker 4: I mean.

686
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 2: So I bet you that's what it was. No, I was,

687
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 2: it was Elon Gale, so he worked.

688
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,440
Speaker 1: Okay to say they actually did on the show.

689
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 3: They would do like just catch up, you know, catch

690
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:13,600
Speaker 3: up with people.

691
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 2: I remember that. But anyway, they also were like, yo,

692
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 2: that's wild, Like how in the world did that happen? So, yeah,

693
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: it's crazy.

694
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 3: I would love to know all the things that have

695
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 3: ended up on cutting room floors that like that. So

696
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: none of us even know about, Like we had no

697
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 3: idea that you and Krishelle were living together and you

698
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 3: know they were doing It's so crazy how much lage

699
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: is on the cutting room floor. Okay, so you're still single.

700
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 3: I assume, would you ever go on the show again?

701
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 3: You've been on Bachelor in Paradise once, would you do

702
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 3: it again?

703
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 5: What's the what's the paycheck? Looked like I would hope.

704
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 5: I'm in Bob's world now I'm in the hosting world.

705
00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 5: Come on, buddy, you got a gig now if they

706
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 5: let me be the main person like you two, like

707
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 5: you got you know, I never got to choose. I

708
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:13,880
Speaker 5: never got hey, I've never gotten to choose.

709
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 4: Like I'm recommending it, I'm gonna I'm gonna create a

710
00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 4: ground swell for this and make sure we get you

711
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,040
Speaker 4: back on that show.

712
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 2: I think that would be awesome.

713
00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 5: Hey, at this point, at this point, I'm not against it.

714
00:34:26,080 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 5: I'll be honest with you. I just got out of

715
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:31,760
Speaker 5: a relationship that was long distance, which I was bragging

716
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,760
Speaker 5: to Bob. I wanted I wanted to uh stoping in Michigan.

717
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 5: She she lived in Canada and that was challenging. So

718
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 5: like I've I've definitely nothing like the two relationships that that.

719
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,840
Speaker 5: I mean, I have a hard time letting people in

720
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 5: once I do, like, it's it's full go. And Chrishelle

721
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 5: was the young love and the next young Lady Bob

722
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 5: also knows very very well.

723
00:34:58,280 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 2: We have a.

724
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 5: Wonderful relationship as far as uh supportive and kind, and

725
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 5: she'll be someone that would reach out and say, hey,

726
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 5: I saw you got a new job, and I'm just

727
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 5: so proud of you, like just Falter the earth amazing

728
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 5: human being.

729
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 2: But that one also almost killed me.

730
00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 5: So hey, I don't know how it's gonna happen or

731
00:35:17,000 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 5: if it's gonna happen, but I'm not turning away any

732
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 5: any any help.

733
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,320
Speaker 2: So if you guys know some people, let your boy know.

734
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 2: I said with Canyon, it's either three strikes you're out

735
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 2: or third times a charm, you know. So it's uh,

736
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 2: thankfully we got we got it right on the third

737
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 2: time around. There you go. I think we're waiting for it, buddy,

738
00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,839
Speaker 2: it's coming right. It sounds good. If you guys think

739
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:36,880
Speaker 2: there's a hope for me, then I'll believe you.

740
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: There's always help for there's always that's right, that's right.

741
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 3: And there are other shows, you know, like I don't know,

742
00:35:46,480 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 3: Special Forces, like Got to Get Out.

743
00:35:50,000 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: I think the Traders, which Chris was on.

744
00:35:53,400 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 5: I've actually been approached by Traders, I have. Yeah, yeah,

745
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,319
Speaker 5: they were very kind. It was like a month before

746
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 5: I got this job, so I don't know how that affect.

747
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:09,359
Speaker 5: I mean, the people that do Traders also, they were

748
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 5: part of the executive team that launched the show that

749
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 5: I hosted that was on NBC. So some of that

750
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 5: team over at NBC Universal works on that show as well,

751
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 5: and they also in the meeting were made aware of

752
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 5: my relationship with Chrischelle and.

753
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 2: They're like, wait a minute. I was like, I want

754
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 2: to do something that's not predicated on Chrschelle.

755
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 5: She's obviously incredibly successful and in her own right, and

756
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 5: part of me also hopes that I can do some

757
00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 5: things with my life in a way where she was.

758
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 2: Like, all right, well he's doing it. He's doing good.

759
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 2: He's doing good. Man. I think this new show is

760
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 2: so great. First of all, you know what a lot

761
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:49,160
Speaker 2: of people might not know.

762
00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 4: I mean, you were you were so ingrained in the

763
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 4: country music community after obviously a big country one of five,

764
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:56,439
Speaker 4: and then you went off into your show.

765
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 2: I mean with gosh, who was on that show with you?

766
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 5: Had?

767
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: Uh the guy that I played the gig with that

768
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 2: I love. I can't I was gonna say Conway Twitty,

769
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 2: but I know that's not his name, Travis Tripp. Travis Tripp,

770
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 2: thank you. And I met him at the Derby a

771
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 2: few times and we would sit there and.

772
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 4: Talk about you, and he just loves you, absolutely loves you,

773
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 4: you know, and then you you obviously for all these years,

774
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 4: I mean, you've been getting really close with a lot

775
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 4: of the community doing your Amazon show and everything else.

776
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 4: So I mean, you've been doing so much, and it's like,

777
00:37:25,760 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 4: this is great that first of all, you get to

778
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 4: go back home, which I love because I know you

779
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 4: love North Carolina and you get to you get to

780
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 4: be I think it seems like you and your co

781
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 4: host have a great chemistry with one another.

782
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 5: And yeah, she's awesome. She's an incredible human and so

783
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 5: much fun and one of the hardest workers I know.

784
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:46,439
Speaker 5: I think we could build something pretty special. There's things

785
00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,360
Speaker 5: floating around about what could happen with the show. So

786
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 5: I'm I'm very blessed and very lucky. And yeah, I mean,

787
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 5: outside of outside of my love life, I'm crushing it.

788
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 5: You boys was fire.

789
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,439
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe we need to bring Trista in on this sooner,

790
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 4: you because Trista is very connected.

791
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, a lot of ladies love trista man.

792
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 4: They her about their woes and their whimsical thoughts, and

793
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 4: now she's got a guy to plug into this stuff.

794
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they do, they do, they do. And then

795
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 2: on the show, I've heard it, I've heard. Well.

796
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 4: I'm so proud of you, man. I love I love

797
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 4: seeing you so, I love seeing you happy, I love

798
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 4: seeing you so busy. I love seeing you back. I'm

799
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 4: sure I happen to know that Karen Bunn is very happy.

800
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 2: I am sure was very happy. She watches everything and

801
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 2: she loves Bob.

802
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 4: So, Mom, I'm just so happy that you get to

803
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:54,439
Speaker 4: be home because I know, I know what it meant

804
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 4: to me to move back home to Michigan and be

805
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 4: closer to my mom and dad and and and be

806
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 4: there for you know.

807
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 2: Some stuff and.

808
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,080
Speaker 4: Not have to regret have regret, you know, And so

809
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 4: that as our as our families get older, it's nice

810
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:11,080
Speaker 4: to kind of be a little more of a proximity.

811
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 2: And I think knowing you the way I do, and

812
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 2: knowing where your heart is, I knew that that was

813
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 2: when I saw that. I'm like, oh man, this is

814
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 2: this is the way it should be, you know, and

815
00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 2: it's it's great.

816
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,840
Speaker 4: So I'm so happy for you, and I'm happy that

817
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 4: you're my O G guy on the show and that

818
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,320
Speaker 4: we can talk about all this great stuff.

819
00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 2: Man, Yeah, I appreciate it. I mean it was a

820
00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 2: long ago. I was painting your buddy's fence in his

821
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,120
Speaker 2: backyard for three hundred bucks.

822
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, man, I'll never forget that as long

823
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 4: as I live. Oh, Graham does a nice so with

824
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 4: great like he said, if he if he's in, he's

825
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,600
Speaker 4: all in. And he did such an amazing job on

826
00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 4: this buddy, a mutual friend of ours, fence and he

827
00:39:51,840 --> 00:39:54,360
Speaker 4: was doing it, as you know, out of kindness.

828
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 2: But the guy said, I'm going to hire this job

829
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:58,520
Speaker 2: out unless you want to do it. Graham's like, I'll

830
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 2: do it. Graham sands it down.

831
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:04,680
Speaker 4: Graham buys all these tools, all this special stuff, does

832
00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:05,919
Speaker 4: an amazing job.

833
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,120
Speaker 2: I mean, this is a big ass fence. This fence

834
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 2: was this yard had a giant pull in the back.

835
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:12,880
Speaker 5: I mean it was seven it was seventy yards because

836
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 5: it wrapped around it was seventy yards.

837
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 2: I hand sanded it. I sanded it with my hands.

838
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,320
Speaker 1: And you only got paid three hundred dollars.

839
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,320
Speaker 2: And I spent four hundred on the on the supplies.

840
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 1: No, no, that is bad business. Grandbund.

841
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:31,320
Speaker 5: You can tell me what he's gonna pay me. He

842
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 5: was like, he was like, i'll pay you, and I

843
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 5: was like, okay. So I went out and bought the supplies.

844
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 5: And the funny thing was, so here's the kicker, and

845
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 5: then I'll stop talking and you.

846
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 2: Guys can hang up on me.

847
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 5: We Bob and I have a friend that runs a

848
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 5: construction company and this guy hauls him and goes, hey, man,

849
00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 5: I got this fence out back, and I'm gonna have

850
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 5: one of my buddies do it. I don't really know

851
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 5: what to pay him. What would you pay one of

852
00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 5: your guys? And our buddy looks at him and says,

853
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 5: because he tells us this story later, he goes, yeah,

854
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 5: I told him I paid about six hundred and fifty

855
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 5: seven hundred dollars, but I you know, I wouldn't even

856
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 5: make him send it. And then goes, what do you

857
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 5: pay you? I said, I sanded it, and he paid

858
00:41:11,360 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 5: me three hundred four hundred less than he was told

859
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 5: to without sanding it.

860
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:23,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't pay for the supplies or anything.

861
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 5: No, I lost some money on the gig those guys

862
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 5: when I'm partying in l A. I stayed home thinking

863
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,720
Speaker 5: like I'm supposed to be working, like I shouldn't be partying.

864
00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 2: I'm standing in this fence and I ended up it

865
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,400
Speaker 2: was it was one hundred dollars lesson that, Like, you

866
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,880
Speaker 2: know what, I gotta get a I gotta get a

867
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:43,279
Speaker 2: radio job. Oh my god, this is it's funny because

868
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 2: it's so true. So what do you pay you? So

869
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 2: what do you pay? You pay you a thousand? I

870
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: maybe three hundred bucks. Yeah, grahams just like.

871
00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 4: But you know, Graham's the type of guy too. Though

872
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 4: he didn't even he didn't like count it all for him.

873
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 4: He handed it to him like he man, thank you

874
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 4: so much for your hard work. And Graham, yeah, Graham.

875
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:04,400
Speaker 2: Puts it in his pocket. You know it looks at

876
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 2: it later. Yea God of telling me, well.

877
00:42:13,360 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 3: We're very happy for this next phase for you and

878
00:42:17,239 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 3: the new show and being with your family.

879
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 4: The new show is Graham Bycessarily in the Mornings, ninety

880
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 4: six point ninety the Cat.

881
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 2: It's on iHeart Country.

882
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 4: Obviously, it's already a huge hit and it's just going

883
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,439
Speaker 4: to be exploding into your ears much.

884
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 2: I can't wait, I mean with all the people, you know.

885
00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:35,240
Speaker 2: I mean, man, you've become.

886
00:42:35,080 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 4: Such good friends with so many of the country stars

887
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,239
Speaker 4: over the years, and you know, I do want to

888
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 4: end with this really quickly. So Graham Canyon and I

889
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 4: had moved to Seattle and it was our wedding anniversary weekend,

890
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 4: and she surprised me unannounced with a trip and we

891
00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 4: fly into la and she's got a car rented and

892
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 4: I get in the car and she drives me and

893
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 4: we go to Laguna Beach to this beautiful hotel and

894
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, this is amazing.

895
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 2: You know, I didn't she surprised me with all of it.

896
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 4: And I hear when I feel like, sounds like live

897
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 4: music out there somewhere, and I look down over the

898
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:13,839
Speaker 4: edge of this hotel and I look on the beach

899
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,240
Speaker 4: and there's this huge country well I didn't.

900
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 2: Know this country at the time. There's a huge concert

901
00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 2: going on. I'm like, oh my god, this is amazing.

902
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 4: So I text Graham and I'm like, you know, hey, man,

903
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 4: what you up too. He's like, oh, you know, I'm

904
00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:28,240
Speaker 4: working or whatever. So I get down and he doesn't

905
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:29,920
Speaker 4: tell me where he's working. So I get down to

906
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 4: this concert. We decided to go inside the concert and

907
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 4: I see I see with you know, Mornings with Graham,

908
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 4: his radio show at the time, all over this place.

909
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, what is going on?

910
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 4: And so I'm texting him like hey, look at this,

911
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 4: and he's like, where are you. I'm like, I'm outside, man,

912
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 4: I'm at this show. He's like, I'm backstage. So he

913
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 4: comes out, he gets me go backstage. It was it

914
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 4: was one of those moments. It was like so serendipitous, right,

915
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 4: like you don't even plan it. I didn't even know

916
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 4: I was going to California. I end up running with

917
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 4: best buddies there hosting the whole thing, and I'm just like,

918
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:03,959
Speaker 4: oh my god.

919
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 2: You know, it's like just and you were so kind

920
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 2: to us, buddy, and it was such a great trip.

921
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:09,560
Speaker 2: And Canyon loves you so much.

922
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 4: And like I said, we give we give Graham all

923
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 4: the credit for for us being where we are today

924
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 4: and and and it was one of those things that

925
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 4: was like to get to spend time with them unexpectedly

926
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 4: and and to see you there.

927
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 2: But that's that's the kind of the warmth and and

928
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: the kind.

929
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 4: Of love that you radiate everywhere you go, and I'm

930
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 4: sure the folks in North Carolina, you know who, who

931
00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,239
Speaker 4: maybe didn't know you when you were there before and

932
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:33,839
Speaker 4: know you now are going to just fall in love

933
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 4: with you, brother. And I'm excited for the show and

934
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 4: excited to see all the successes come in your way.

935
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,560
Speaker 2: I appreciate it. And if things don't work out with Canyon,

936
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:47,000
Speaker 2: holler at me. Yeah, welcome down my hands.

937
00:44:48,200 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 5: I haven't had someone say such nice things in a

938
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 5: long time, man, at least sweet nothings.

939
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 2: Brother, I'm not even whispered. I'm yelling them my microphone.

940
00:44:56,480 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 2: I'm just thank you for, you know, just putting up

941
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,760
Speaker 2: with us. I appreciate it. I love you, brother, we love.

942
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 3: Having you on, We love having you, and we're so

943
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,879
Speaker 3: excited for your new show and all the good things

944
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 3: that are going to be coming up in your future.

945
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, HARVESD season, you guys, throw some prayers out there.

946
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:17,799
Speaker 2: Nice young lady, you know what I mean.

947
00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 4: There you go, lady, I'm manifesting. I'm manifesting. Yeah, put

948
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 4: it on your vision boards.

949
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 2: Let's get this. He handled vision board.

950
00:45:26,520 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: No, it's all up here. I forget everything up here.

951
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 2: So yeah, I'll put it right now. Awesome. Well, thank

952
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 2: you for having me, guys. I appreciate it. Hopefully it

953
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 2: wasn't too boring.

954
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: It was great, man, stop it a thanks for coming.

955
00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:45,640
Speaker 4: We'll lockhorns on that game and we'll get the lines

956
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 4: and Commanders tipping off.

957
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 2: We'll get it done. I'll give us last time in

958
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 2: real world. Look, get you next time. I did not

959
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,480
Speaker 2: text you. I did not text you after that. No,

960
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 2: you do not thank you.

961
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 4: I literally sat there like I think I told you

962
00:45:58,239 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 4: the story when I texted you the next day.

963
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 2: But my son, so Graham, obviously, he has always.

964
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 4: Been a big you know, he was a big Redskins

965
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 4: Commanders fan, and he knows of my love for the Lions.

966
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 4: And this year in the playoffs, the Lions beat I'm sorry,

967
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 4: the Commanders beat the Lions, and uh and the next

968
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 4: and I was I may have shed a couple of

969
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 4: tears that night. And I didn't get any text. I

970
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 4: didn't get anybody, you know. The next day, I have

971
00:46:20,480 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 4: to go to my six year old son's flag football game.

972
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 4: He plays for the Washington Commanders, that was his team name,

973
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 4: and he ends up running a touchdown all the way

974
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 4: to length of field, and I text Graham I'm like,

975
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 4: this is the second time I've cried over the commanders

976
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:33,959
Speaker 4: in two days.

977
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 2: I was finally ready to talk about it. It's great,

978
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 2: it's great. Cut I love you, buddy, take care of me.

979
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 2: Thanks for joining GM. Graham bun Man, Salt of the Earth.

980
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,000
Speaker 2: That's my guy, right there is any something?

981
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: He is one of the good ones. Yeah, yeah, he is.

982
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,719
Speaker 1: And it's always so shocking to me that he is

983
00:46:59,000 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 1: still single.

984
00:46:59,800 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 3: You know, like obviously he's had some serious relationships but

985
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 3: that didn't work out. But ladies, if you are in

986
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:11,759
Speaker 3: North Carolina, you better go DM this guy because he.

987
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: Is one of the good ones.

988
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 2: He really is. Man, he absolutely is, and I will

989
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 2: tell you.

990
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 4: I mean I live with him. We lived together for

991
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:25,239
Speaker 4: a couple of years. And very courteous, very kind, very respectful,

992
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 4: you know. I mean, his parents raise him right. They

993
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 4: are wonderful people. And it's just you know, you see

994
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 4: somebody like that and you're like, man, okay, sooner or

995
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,800
Speaker 4: later they're going to find that right person, you know,

996
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,359
Speaker 4: and I know he will. He'll be a great dad

997
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,439
Speaker 4: if he ever decides to do that. I mean, he's

998
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 4: I mean, you just see him with people's kids. He's

999
00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 4: like such a sweet and kind person. He's a man

1000
00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 4: of faith. I mean, he's just a lot of good

1001
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:51,839
Speaker 4: stuff with that guy. So I wish him the very

1002
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 4: best in the Mornings with Sarah or with Graham B

1003
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 4: and Sarah Lee. I can't wait to have people. I

1004
00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 4: have a feeling that show is going to be a

1005
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 4: lot bigger than and just North Carolina soon.

1006
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's my hope anyway, that's my hope for him.

1007
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, me too.

1008
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 2: Yes, so much fun.

1009
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:10,680
Speaker 1: I love it all right, Who are we going to

1010
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,960
Speaker 1: have on next? People? You guys have many ideas.

1011
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 3: Just dm us and let us know if you want

1012
00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 3: to have anyone in particular on the show, and we'd

1013
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,919
Speaker 3: be happy to accommodate and get to chat with you again.

1014
00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 4: I would love it as always, great talking to you, Trista,

1015
00:48:25,120 --> 00:48:27,280
Speaker 4: great talking with everybody out there in the OG community.

1016
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 2: We love you guys, Thanks for listening, and I'm sure

1017
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 2: we'll be back soon.

1018
00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: He's out.