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Speaker 2: The kids are good, They're sleeping through the night, but

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Speaker 1: Are you keeping guard watching them? Breathe?

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Speaker 3: I can't. I am that mother.

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Speaker 2: The minute I hear like a rat, like a little cat,

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Speaker 2: and they're like, why are you touching me? I'm trying

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Speaker 3: I'm Michelle Bhuta.

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Speaker 4: And I'm Jordan Carlos and welcome, Welcome, Welcome to Adulting

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Speaker 4: from WNYC Studios, the podcast where we learn how to

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Speaker 4: be grown ass adults together.

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Speaker 2: They recorded a really great episode at Union Hall in Brooklyn, Yes, with.

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Speaker 3: These two really funny, funny, amazing, great people.

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Speaker 4: Also Slade, who is basically cooler than the other side

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Speaker 4: of this pillow. I got that vibe from him right

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Speaker 4: put it on a magnet my friend.

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Speaker 3: And Francesca Ramsey, I mean love her.

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Speaker 2: Michelle Obama arms, yes, her cool new haircut, Icut, She's

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Speaker 2: got a book out.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, are you lost? Did you get lost in

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Speaker 1: the way from alban Ale dance.

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Speaker 5: Like this is weird.

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Speaker 2: I know she definitely looks like she gallops in like

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Speaker 2: a very she prancis. Stay tuned, everybody, and yo, let's

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Speaker 2: grow the fuck up to.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for fucking come, thank you, thank you. I'm

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Speaker 5: acting like a fucking Beto o'roca.

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Speaker 3: People, and I'm taking a backsid. Listen, I just did

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Speaker 3: like two circles on stage. I'm out of breath.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: Can we get the ivy bag up here for me? Please?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I.

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Speaker 3: Know I feel the same way you feel it right.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I just I just welcome twins nine weeks

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Speaker 6: You come.

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Speaker 4: But these precious angels who will remain nameless, they basically Hazel.

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Speaker 2: Notice they're amazing, all right, Hazel and Notice are amazing names.

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Speaker 2: Those are my children. I love them so much. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I have always been very maternal. I think it's what

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Speaker 2: what's been really difficult for me is not the responsibility

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Speaker 2: Tell somebody what's been hard for me is finding a nanny.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to find that right person.

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Speaker 2: It is because here's the do you have a babysitter

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Speaker 3: It's like, I don't wanna. I don't want to do

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Speaker 2: Know, give them their first traumatic experience with like fucking

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Speaker 2: Elsa whatever the fuck her name is, and these bitches out.

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Speaker 2: Like no, but the nanny thing is like really weigh

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Speaker 3: That happened to me this morning.

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Speaker 5: What are you serious?

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Speaker 3: It wasn't a big shit.

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Speaker 2: It's also finding a cleaning lady is so hard. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean sorry, a cleaning person.

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Speaker 5: Exactly? Say you have to know your audience.

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Speaker 4: I can't just be like, oh it's so hard to

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Speaker 5: Where of all the white governess is gone?

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Speaker 8: Where it was?

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Speaker 5: My Mary Poppins? When did she ride her umbrella down?

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Speaker 2: So I'm just okay. I'm so sorry. I wish, I

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Speaker 5: That's a part of adult and that's that's what level

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Speaker 3: Does anyone have a dog walker?

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Speaker 5: Some people in the crowd are dog walkers? Know who

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Speaker 9: Do people pay ten dollars to be in here?

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Speaker 5: Do you? You are not a hall like Press the Mighty?

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, where do you guys mark your other car?

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Speaker 5: What do you do.

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Speaker 6: Really hard to buy that?

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Speaker 10: I welcome back to a don't very.

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Speaker 8: Show.

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Speaker 5: You have to start this show?

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Speaker 2: We do, I mean, we shout this shart it, Oh

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Speaker 8: Walking.

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Speaker 5: This is a podcast w and Les brought to you

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Speaker 5: by Blue.

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Speaker 6: Nothing more than Feelings.

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Speaker 3: Nobody knows that song unless like Kanye West Raymond.

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Speaker 1: It's a beautiful It's a beautiful song.

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Speaker 3: Okay. Can I just say this in my defense?

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Speaker 4: Oh you're you've got the ninety nine and what do

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Speaker 5: Oh my god? Is this about summer homes?

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Speaker 3: I am just okay. I just want to say this.

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Speaker 2: I will work my ass off to like live the

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Speaker 2: And I just like love what I do, so work

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Speaker 3: So I feel like I've done it.

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Speaker 2: So now that I've like finally like had these embryos,

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Speaker 8: Fu very funny he.

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Speaker 3: Is funny as fun. If you don't know whom you

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Speaker 2: For Also, yeah, this is so great.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, hold hello, hello, Yeah, I talk to me.

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Speaker 11: Y'all was down here clowning. The round was on fire. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, now.

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Speaker 8: And then John was like, let's bring our first guess.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, oh yeah, you know, I got feelings.

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Speaker 8: So is it time for me to be vulnerable?

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Speaker 1: It's about that time.

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Speaker 8: I'm a black man in America. We don't do ship

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Speaker 11: Can smell the Quaker blood on you.

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Speaker 8: Oh John Brown, looking at that Yeah.

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Speaker 5: It's cold, Wake up cold.

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Speaker 8: I'm forty two, you're forty two.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you looked cool.

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Speaker 11: With that Brooklyn tap water beyond you gotta drinking all

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Speaker 3: So where are you from?

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Speaker 8: How did you grow up there? The South in the mouth.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard the full extension of that being extended, Clay.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. The city of yrself privilege?

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Speaker 8: And I was born?

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Speaker 11: I was born in jackson, Mississippi, and my former years

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Speaker 8: No, I moved from Jackson to Austin. Oh.

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Speaker 2: what the meat sweats?

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Speaker 3: You never heard the meat sweats?

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Speaker 8: What is that?

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Speaker 2: When you need so much brisket you just sweat and

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Speaker 11: No, I ain't never heard of that bullshit. You making

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Speaker 8: I need you to make some adjustments lying to these people.

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Speaker 1: But you like Austin.

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Speaker 8: Now Austin was dope. So let me so Austin.

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Speaker 3: Can I ask you a question?

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Speaker 4: Do you still enjoy? Do you like funny people? Are

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Speaker 8: But then they're after this shit was whack, you.

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Speaker 3: Know how Like yeah, but honestly, that's what happens.

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Speaker 2: You got to put your best foot forward. You're gonna

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Speaker 3: You the first five years.

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, that's the fucked up shit. I feel like

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had your heartbroken?

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Speaker 8: Yes? This shit sucks?

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Speaker 3: What are you looking for in a.

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Speaker 8: Partner, ambitious, free thinker.

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Speaker 11: Go to bed at night, hopefully you're a better person

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Speaker 8: Like just working on.

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Speaker 3: Doesn't have to go out every night to prove something.

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Speaker 8: Hell no, stay in, we can kick it all right.

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Speaker 2: What's the most adult thing you want to do for

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Speaker 2: yourself this year? This is the last question, by the way, Okay.

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Speaker 8: Paid my taxes for the years I missed them? Ships?

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Speaker 3: Should I hope to hire wrestling?

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Speaker 8: Listen to.

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Speaker 3: Thank you already?

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Speaker 1: We're good God get that.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to adult Okay, personal quick queue. What's it

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Speaker 2: what's it like going from zero to two kids at once?

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Speaker 1: That's a question for you.

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Speaker 3: It is real talk.

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Speaker 2: It's wild, but it feels like very comfortable. I think

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Speaker 2: when you know, I think it's very important to know

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Speaker 2: always wanted them, Like I never even saw myself being married.

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Speaker 3: I was just like, I'm gonna be a mom.

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Speaker 2: So I was always just like, I'm gonna have kids,

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Speaker 1: You were really ready for those babies.

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Speaker 4: I mean her nursery looks like the fucking covers of

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Speaker 4: Real Simple and Domino and everything else.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to touch anything. I was like yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was also like, take you shoes of.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna do it all right? What are you

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Speaker 4: more afraid of the irs or her bees?

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Speaker 2: That was written by a single person who is probably

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Speaker 2: fucking and also just getting ten ninety nine.

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Speaker 5: Just a freelancerlan scary time. Yes, put the graphic and

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: Last question, last question on what is the adulting way

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Speaker 2: to get out of friends invitations? Oh?

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Speaker 1: My kids?

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Speaker 3: Did you write that? You did write it?

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Speaker 2: You get invites a lot of ship that. Yeah, are

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Speaker 2: you popular? People like hanging out with you?

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Speaker 1: How do you get out? How do you get out

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Speaker 1: of it?

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Speaker 4: Fuck?

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Speaker 3: I don't I like cave into the system.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's terrible, especially for because my husbands always like,

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Speaker 2: don't do it.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, it's so easy for you. You're the husband,

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Speaker 3: and you like.

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Speaker 6: Don't do it. It's so easy for you.

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Speaker 3: Motherfucker.

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Speaker 4: I just want a well attended funeral for myself.

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Speaker 1: I know everything I go to.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I got it.

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Speaker 4: They are bringing that good good And I'm like, because

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Speaker 4: they're they're gonna remember.

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Speaker 3: Me, there, gonna love me. Can't you are you?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: That's fucking have a.

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Speaker 1: Kid and you can get out of anything. Have a

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Speaker 1: kid and you can get out any I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: Like, do you have a dog?

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Speaker 8: No, get a dog.

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Speaker 3: Nobody cares about cats. They know cats are very self sufficient.

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Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta get.

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Speaker 2: A dog with diarrhea. And she's a white carpet. People

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Speaker 2: will be like, girl, I know you can't come.

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Speaker 4: She's feeding it very juicy fruits, Yato chocolate.

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Speaker 3: She tomatoes coming in chocolate.

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Speaker 5: The red grapes. Do that ship.

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Speaker 3: Very exciting to bring our next guest out.

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Speaker 5: You're always adding them up so well off of the

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Speaker 5: dog diarrhea.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Very exciting to bring her last guest to the

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Speaker 2: motherfucking stage.

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Speaker 3: She's also a very good friend of both of ours.

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Speaker 2: I think it's very rare to meet somebody who is

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Speaker 2: so fucking talented, so like, such a truth teller, but

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Speaker 2: also very fucking fun, do you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: She she gets real about serious subjects, but she also

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Speaker 2: knows how to have fun.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how she does it. She has like

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Speaker 1: a switch. She goes from silly to serious.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she's a fucking accidental activist and she hosts her

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Speaker 2: own show and MTV cull to Coded.

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Speaker 3: Please give it up for our friend.

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Speaker 10: And your friend.

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Speaker 7: Yes, Gran, Yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: You're always slaying you know this is adulting.

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Speaker 1: You did something very radical with your look by Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: I cut all of my hair off at the end

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Speaker 12: hear and I just quarter life, Cris, what happened?

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Speaker 3: How'd you do it?

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Speaker 5: Why did you do it?

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Speaker 3: Did you ask? Did you ask people first before you

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Speaker 3: did something?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 3: I didn't ask anyone.

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Speaker 12: I told my representation. I like sent an email. I

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Speaker 12: you're not supposed to cut your hair when you're depressed.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, how do you know about women rules?

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Speaker 3: And also, fuck you.

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Speaker 5: Do what I want?

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Speaker 3: Were you depressed?

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Speaker 12: I was stressed out and I've heard from people you're

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Speaker 12: not supposed to cut your hair when you're stressed out.

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Speaker 12: But I'm actually so glad that I did it, and

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Speaker 12: I felt like a new attitude.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the game, you know, I always like, look like

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Speaker 2: I always listened to like Lenny Kravits Lisa bo I

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna like they are.

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Speaker 2: So sessual, but He's like, yeah, I felt like I

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Speaker 3: A time in my life. Yes, like like, let you

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Speaker 12: I do have them in a bag in a closet,

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Speaker 12: so I have them if like sometimes I'm around like

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Speaker 12: what the fuck?

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Speaker 5: Oh right, those are the dreads in a bag.

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Speaker 12: I have them because I'm like, you know, like with technology,

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Speaker 12: I mean I can sew them back in or something.

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Speaker 12: I haven't decided, but like I cut, I mean.

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Speaker 2: What I've But what I love about your videos, right,

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Speaker 2: And then like you in general is you don't mind

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Speaker 2: teaching somebody what the fuck something is?

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Speaker 3: I do very one on one.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, So can you explain to people how important

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Speaker 2: hair is two black women?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 12: I mean it's interesting because we've been told for so

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Speaker 3: It's professional, I.

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Speaker 12: Mean, and there's so many instances where women have been

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Speaker 12: our natural hair. And so that's why, like having short

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Speaker 3: It's like, fuck you, I still look good. I also

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Speaker 3: I didn't know.

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Speaker 12: I thought dudes were just like doing that to be like, no,

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Speaker 12: we got to get away from them. Women's like, no,

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Speaker 12: they actually need, yeah, to go to the barber every Yes,

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Speaker 12: my college boyfriend went to the barber twice a.

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Speaker 3: Week and then I found out he was cheating. Oh okay,

456
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:52,679
Speaker 3: So the part of the story just something I want

457
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Speaker 3: to share.

458
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Speaker 2: Has it changed the way you carry yourself and also

459
00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 2: your style?

460
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 3: It has to like a hair, yeah, Drassic hairt has.

461
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,800
Speaker 12: Oh yeah yeah yeah, Like the makeup has to be poppy.

462
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 12: I've been called sir so many times when I don't

463
00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 12: have makeup on, I'm like, God, I need to get

464
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 12: my lashes done.

465
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 3: I also, I've always loved the big jewelry, but I feel.

466
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,920
Speaker 12: Like I embrace it more. You not give them knack

467
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 12: all the time. You know, I'm talking about how hot

468
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 12: I look for a podcast, so that works.

469
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: Has it changed your relationship with your husband? I know

470
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 2: you don't talk about sex, so I won't.

471
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:32,840
Speaker 12: I'm like, a, I'm a huge prudy, and it's I

472
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,199
Speaker 12: think it's like a moment of tension in our friendship

473
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 12: always because I.

474
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,600
Speaker 2: Like Dick and I'm like, I just want to go

475
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 2: down and starting and talk about like Mary Dick.

476
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:43,480
Speaker 3: And she's like, do you want to like get a

477
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:47,760
Speaker 3: brownie place that has organic brownie?

478
00:23:48,160 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 1: Because it's not Maybe she doesn't consider it sex.

479
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:54,439
Speaker 4: Maybe it's you know, sexual congress or celebration of bodies.

480
00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 12: Stop.

481
00:23:57,960 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 3: I know I love.

482
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 12: When you talk about I can't.

483
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 3: I can't.

484
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 4: I can't.

485
00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:19,119
Speaker 5: She can for those listening, she can stand it. She

486
00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 5: has grown to stand up.

487
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 1: Oh man, I need my inhaler, Oh my god.

488
00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 3: To answer your question.

489
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,200
Speaker 12: My husband loves the short hair because when my hair

490
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 12: was long, I was always like, oh, don't touch it,

491
00:24:33,920 --> 00:24:35,919
Speaker 12: don't bother it, Like yeah, he always wanted to, like

492
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 12: go like get in there. He always wanted to, and

493
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,760
Speaker 12: I was like, oh my edges, my up, do my this,

494
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 12: my blah blah blah, and like now it's fine, and

495
00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 12: he loves like when we're on the couch, just kind

496
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 12: of like rubbing my head like he loves it.

497
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 3: But even with that, don't you find it.

498
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 2: Hard sometimes to take compliments because people don't know how

499
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: to compliment black women.

500
00:24:57,240 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 12: And I find listen, I love a compliment, the compliment

501
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:02,479
Speaker 12: as long as it's not like treating me like a

502
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 12: fucking exotic zoo animal, like don't touch me, don't put

503
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:07,000
Speaker 12: your hands on.

504
00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 2: Me, girl, when you got titties and freckles, motherfuckers act.

505
00:25:10,359 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 12: Like that's not my story. I don't have titties or freckles.

506
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:19,440
Speaker 12: I've got one little one in one larger than little one,

507
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 12: and no one.

508
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 5: Comes for either of those.

509
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 12: But especially when I have long hair, people would be

510
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 12: reaching out to grab my hair.

511
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,640
Speaker 3: I've seen it. I've seen it. I've seen it. I've

512
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 3: just seen it.

513
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,360
Speaker 12: And so like, if you're gonna compliment me, just keep

514
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:38,919
Speaker 12: your hands yourself and don't go overboard, like it just

515
00:25:38,960 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 12: can sometimes feels so suddenly it turns into about them.

516
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:46,200
Speaker 12: They're like, oh, your skin is so good skin.

517
00:25:46,040 --> 00:25:49,480
Speaker 3: And I'm like, you have problems when person the sun,

518
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:53,119
Speaker 3: we got the melanin and you get to live like

519
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 3: what Like, I'm not gonna feel bad for.

520
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 2: You it, but like when you have light skin, they're like,

521
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 2: look at me, I get darker than you, isn't that?

522
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:02,160
Speaker 7: Yeah?

523
00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:03,200
Speaker 3: So crazy?

524
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 12: Yeah, I'm from South Florida and like every girl would

525
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 12: go to Barbados for spring break and come back with

526
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 12: like little braids and like their edges like snatched with

527
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 12: an inch of their life.

528
00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 3: And they're was like, Okay, look just like you. I know,

529
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 3: but I'm also like you can't blink comfortably, bitch. Yeah,

530
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 3: that tight ass break. It's the funk out of my fat.

531
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Speaker 12: I like to think that when girls go to Barbados,

532
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 12: Muhammas wherever, that there's some black woman that's just like

533
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 12: stiffing them out of all of their money for those

534
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:31,159
Speaker 12: tight ass braids.

535
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I love that, Like I think that was

536
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,560
Speaker 2: my grandma to four.

537
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: I mean I would ask this too.

538
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 4: There's so much you give, wonderful cogent advice, What does

539
00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 4: it work you?

540
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,640
Speaker 12: I'm using my context clues to know what.

541
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 4: It means very much. So are you ever like, what

542
00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 4: was it like the first time is someone asked you?

543
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:00,520
Speaker 4: Like after you did it decoded, like they got at

544
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 4: you and they wanted to know, not only like you know,

545
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 4: some people come at you trolling, but some people want

546
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 4: to know more. How do you feel about being like,

547
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 4: you know, an expert on a on a topic or

548
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:11,360
Speaker 4: a subject.

549
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:15,640
Speaker 12: It's very flattering, but it's also nerve wracking because I'm

550
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 12: reading a teleprompter and so people are like, you know

551
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 12: everything and I don't know everything, and I think you

552
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 12: know kind of what we were taught. We've talked about

553
00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 12: this a number of times, like people look at social

554
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 12: media and they perceive it as like perfection.

555
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 3: They see like this story that they're kind of comparing

556
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:33,199
Speaker 3: themselves to.

557
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 12: And unfortunately, I think that happens in my work too,

558
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 12: where people are like, wow, I never knew that I

559
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 12: shouldn't be saying this word, and now I know it,

560
00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 12: and now I feel terrible, and it's like, no, I didn't.

561
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 3: Know either until we did the research.

562
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 2: Of my bitch, But bitch you also meant Michelle Obama.

563
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm sorry we didn't.

564
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 7: Yeah.

565
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I also just michell? So what did she smell like?

566
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,679
Speaker 6: Why does everyone want to know what's celebrities smell like?

567
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 3: I don't smell smell like?

568
00:27:59,040 --> 00:27:59,879
Speaker 6: Now you know michello?

569
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 3: Bamba? No no no no no, no, no no no.

570
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 12: This has happened numerous times. Anytime I've met someone, the

571
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 12: first question is what did they smell like?

572
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 6: Lavender? I didn't. I just didn't smell her.

573
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 12: How do you casually sniff somebody you don't?

574
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no past lady. They did a

575
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 5: fucking background check on us. There were like secret service.

576
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,119
Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to have my nose up in her like.

577
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,720
Speaker 3: I wasn't about to get like thrown out. Have you

578
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:32,520
Speaker 3: been arrested?

579
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: Yes, that's right, you have.

580
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 6: You knew that.

581
00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 5: It's an amazing.

582
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 3: Told I've told that story before.

583
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, she got high.

584
00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 12: Yeah, I took mush well, I took mushrooms. My mom

585
00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 12: doesn't know anything about drugs. She called nine one one.

586
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 12: They put me in a fucking straight no psych worn.

587
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: It was awful.

588
00:28:55,320 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 12: I mean, I made it out, but there's no like

589
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 12: tripping and having like e mts putting like ship in

590
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 12: your arms.

591
00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 3: I mean it was terrible.

592
00:29:05,080 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 5: Let's talk about Michelle Obam.

593
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 3: I the same.

594
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 12: I was basically tripping when I met her. Yeah, yeah, No,

595
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 12: Michelle was amazing.

596
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:16,479
Speaker 3: She's so nice.

597
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 12: She's so like she looks deep into your eyes when

598
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 12: she's talking to you, you know what I mean, Like

599
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 12: you can see like she looks to your soul.

600
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, okay, we're gonna ask you. Oh, there's only

601
00:29:29,240 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 3: a few questions. But we have some questions. We all

602
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:33,360
Speaker 3: answer them.

603
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:38,040
Speaker 12: When was the last time you use the Pythagorean theorem?

604
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:39,719
Speaker 5: That high school?

605
00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 7: It is?

606
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 3: Wow, you actually know it?

607
00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 5: Oh my god, let's do it. Let's get fucking.

608
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 3: What's the question?

609
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 5: All right?

610
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 3: What's your name? Where you're calling from?

611
00:29:57,920 --> 00:29:59,960
Speaker 5: Someone wants to know if it's the question?

612
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 4: Is is it okay that I eat cereal three times a day?

613
00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 9: Yes?

614
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: That is freedom? That is fucking freedom.

615
00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 4: You were obviously not married, you were obviously not relationship.

616
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:13,479
Speaker 1: That is beauty.

617
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 4: That is It depends on what what what's the cereal?

618
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 5: Just yell it? What is it? What type?

619
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 6: You want to die?

620
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:36,720
Speaker 5: Especially with strawberries?

621
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 12: No, no, no, I personally hate cold breakfast. I think

622
00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 12: cold breakfast is gross.

623
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: Cold breakfast is a snack. That ship's a snack. It's

624
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: not breakfast.

625
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, what's your idea with the cereal?

626
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 8: Oh?

627
00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 3: I like to mix it up. I like to do eggs.

628
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 3: I like to do a toasted bag. Look, I like,

629
00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 3: you know, I love breakfast.

630
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 4: I think we just found her love like like.

631
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 5: I don't, I don't talk about I come to talking

632
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 5: about my sex.

633
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 3: Life of them, like oh yes, oh my god.

634
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: I literally have to look in why right now?

635
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 4: I can't can't bread oatmeal with raisin?

636
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: Yes, I love cranberry is a little like no, yeah,

637
00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 2: likes to good for your brain.

638
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 3: Yes, and they look like little brains all right.

639
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: The question I got is when is adulting sexy.

640
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 3: Dude from like five years old?

641
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,719
Speaker 4: Last night, okay, I came home. My wife was like,

642
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 4: she accidally broke the key off in the door, and

643
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 4: she was like, what is she drinking? She's like ginger,

644
00:31:56,320 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 4: he has the strength of too'schbres and broke.

645
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:05,200
Speaker 5: You mean, yeah, like she broke.

646
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 3: This is what happens in bach, what happens to be rich.

647
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 5: You don't you don't turn the key, the key turns to.

648
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: You whatever the fuck.

649
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 3: So she he bailed on it, like, here's the deal.

650
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: She broke it, and then she was like kind of

651
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: nervous to tell me. She's like, I want to tell

652
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 1: you because we have to get a locksmith. And I

653
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: was like, actually, I think I remember how to do this.

654
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 4: So I got like a knife point and pulled that

655
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 4: ship out and she was like hot.

656
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: She was like you are necessary, you.

657
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 8: Know, and I was like.

658
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, Oh my gosh.

659
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 12: If I was a different person, I would make a

660
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 12: sex joke out of that.

661
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:39,760
Speaker 5: But I'm not saying.

662
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:45,880
Speaker 12: There's something a long person. No, I'm not going to,

663
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 12: but like, just think of your answer, your own make

664
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 12: a breakfast.

665
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:54,240
Speaker 3: Joke out, yes, add to your own omelet.

666
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 12: Yeah, okay, really really okay, I can't Okay, at what

667
00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 12: age do I need to do basic household chores?

668
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:08,959
Speaker 3: Yes, bitch, get it to Katherine.

669
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: Well, if you're asking that question, you're done. That should

670
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: have been done around five six around there.

671
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 4: Like I make my daughter like make her bed up,

672
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 4: and then she does this little trick where she's like.

673
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,240
Speaker 5: Mom, Dad, my my room is a mess.

674
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 1: And then you go in and it's all meant She's like, I.

675
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 6: Got I got you.

676
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 5: You will never have to question that child's fraternity. That

677
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 5: is your babe, bea.

678
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: It is.

679
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 11: Love it.

680
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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joe here, I.

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Speaker 12: Feel personally attacked by this. Is being early, really on time?

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Speaker 12: Is being on time actually being late? Yeah, I've grown

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Speaker 12: like if I say be here at this time, you

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Speaker 12: know me, if we're gonna hang out, to do a

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Speaker 12: calendar alert, like I am that person.

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Speaker 3: If we're gonna yes, she is that person.

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Speaker 5: I think I do and I want to make sure

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Speaker 5: I do them.

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Speaker 3: And if we're gonna hang out, I'm gonna pencil you in.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, did I up something?

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Speaker 3: Ship?

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 1: Cool, go ahead ahead.

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Speaker 3: So if I'm inviting people.

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Speaker 12: To things and I know they're consistently late, I stopped

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Speaker 12: doing like planned events with them, I say, get abound

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Speaker 12: nine ish you know what I mean, And you know

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Speaker 12: it's okay. I also think in New York you need

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Speaker 12: to be early because otherwise you are going to get

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Speaker 12: the plan.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna be late.

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Speaker 12: Like in New York, as soon as you're riding on time,

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Speaker 12: that like someone just dies or something on the train,

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Speaker 12: a bunch of you know, yeah, I play.

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Speaker 6: Train.

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Speaker 5: It's like an ice cream call and exploded on the track.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna selling the actual run on the river.

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Speaker 9: What you will use a seesaw train to get to

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Speaker 9: de Lancy, at which point your ex girlfriend will take

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Speaker 9: a lift with you.

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Speaker 1: That's gonna be and you're only gonna drive in reverse

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Speaker 1: to whatever.

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Speaker 8: You gotta know.

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Speaker 2: What, Francesca, you're fucking amazing. Tell everybody your book and

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Speaker 2: your show.

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Speaker 12: Oh yeah, I wrote a book called well that escalated

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Speaker 12: quickly and you have to say it.

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Speaker 2: Just like that.

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Speaker 3: And I used to show what I'm TV called Da Codd. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're loving amazing.

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Speaker 9: Nice everybody, Now.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't been fucking amazing. Thank you so much for coming,

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Speaker 2: said ADULTA. Thank you for enjoy the rest of your weekend.

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Speaker 2: Wear condoms would be kind to your cut it fine.

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Speaker 1: This show was so much fun.

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Speaker 5: It was Yeah.

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Speaker 4: We had also Slid and Francesca Ramsey. They joined us

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Speaker 4: to share their stories and answer our questions.

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Speaker 3: I had no idea that Francesca was so hot over breakfast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah she really.

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Speaker 3: Look you laid down that waffle she got opaha legs.

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Speaker 4: Adulting was produced by Blakeney Schick and Odelia Rubin. The

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Speaker 4: Adulting team includes Joanna Sealatara, Paula Schuman, Joe Floored Ed

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Speaker 4: Haber and Irene Trudell. The live show was produced by

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Speaker 4: Christian Banda. Our theme music is by Isaac Jones, with

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Speaker 4: additional music by Don will.

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Speaker 3: Here's a fashion tip.

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Speaker 2: Don't go in public if you know you have a

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Speaker 2: stain on your shirt, If you have a stay on

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Speaker 2: your shirt, I can't trust you if you didn't know,

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Speaker 2: if you didn't know your stain was there, that's one thing.

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Speaker 2: But if you willingly put on something like a little hole,

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Speaker 2: I understand you're like in love with You're not ready

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Speaker 2: to let it go.

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Speaker 3: If it's a big hole, you're a hoarder. Did you

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Speaker 3: guys liked this episode? I mean for real, just tell us.

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