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Speaker 1: I don't care my little sister can't have a baby.

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Speaker 1: I'm not taking care of her anymore.

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 1: That seems a bit harsh.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to take care of her and the

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Speaker 1: Double not taken care of over Yeah, canceled.

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Speaker 3: You know, if you want to be a mother, little sister,

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Speaker 3: you gotta stop asking for my help and start trying

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Speaker 3: to act like a caregiver instead of a care receiver.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: My sister Julie has tried to have a baby for

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Speaker 3: five years. Dang, that's a long time raw dogging, that's right. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: miscarriage two years ago, and outside that has been unable

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Speaker 3: to get pregnant.

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Speaker 1: My heart hurts for her. Yeah, dang.

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Speaker 3: However, one thing I don't agree with is how my

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Speaker 3: family has handled it. We're not allowed to talk about

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Speaker 3: babies around Julie at all. Any kids younger than three

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Speaker 3: can't come to family events that she'll attend. She won't

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Speaker 3: attend baby showers, baptisms, et cetera. The last one I understand,

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Speaker 3: but the rest feel a little overkill. It's like, I

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Speaker 3: don't do baptisms, I don't do baby showers. I don't

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Speaker 3: do birthdays under twenty one. I don't do playgrounds. I

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Speaker 3: won't be within five hundred feet of a school. It

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Speaker 3: sounds like a sex offender. I got pregnant last year.

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Speaker 3: I told Julie first, and she reiterated her boundaries. I

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Speaker 3: don't want to hear about that pregnancy. No, no, you know,

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Speaker 3: I have a baby right now, not in front of me,

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Speaker 3: I said, I understood. The first hurdle came with my

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Speaker 3: baby shower. My mother in law was throwing it. I

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Speaker 3: didn't expect Julie to come. Then my mom told me

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Speaker 3: I shouldn't have one period while you're at I just

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Speaker 3: don't have the baby out of respect.

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Speaker 1: To have some danger respect bro.

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Speaker 3: I said, that was ridiculous. She didn't have to come,

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Speaker 3: so what did it matter? Only three people from my

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's terrible, Mike.

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Speaker 3: You know, you would think that this person would be

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Speaker 3: babies and yeah, show the love that she can't show

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Speaker 3: her own baby because doesn't exists. When my son was born,

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Speaker 3: I posted a birth announcement on Facebook. My parents lectured

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Speaker 3: me for this and said it was going to hurt Julie. Julie,

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Speaker 3: just get off Facebook. All that is is marriages and

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Speaker 4: Also on the grandparents not excited for their grandchild.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what are we doing here?

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Speaker 1: Come on the wrong thing.

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Speaker 4: I'm so yeah, I'm like, I'm so thrilled to have

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Speaker 2: No, it's like, stop it, Julie will.

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Speaker 3: Be Julie would be angry with you. I said she

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Speaker 3: could just block or mute me on Facebook. They said

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Speaker 3: I should make the effort. Julie echoed that if I cared,

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Speaker 3: i'd stop. I ended up blocking her just to save

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Speaker 3: the drama. Julie's nothing about drama, but she does make

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Speaker 3: it interesting, at least family drama. My aunt's seventieth birthday

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Speaker 3: go bringing our son.

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Speaker 1: How dare you?

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Speaker 3: Julie called and asked, if we are going, you seriously

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Speaker 3: can't or be around any babies?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: She then asked me to get a sitter for our son.

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Speaker 3: I said no, she doesn't want to miss the party.

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Speaker 3: My aunt is one of the few people who agreed

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Speaker 3: that Julie's boundaries aren't fair and wants my son there

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Speaker 3: as she doesn't get to see him often. Because Julie

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Speaker 3: is so mad about everything that she's like banned all babies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, baby man, Yeah, she's like that.

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Speaker 3: Uh you know like in that Bible story of Moses,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was why they put Moses in the river.

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Speaker 3: Yea, the same, this is, this is exact same.

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Speaker 1: Well, we need to find a river for this baby,

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Speaker 3: Julie got upset and started crying, saying that I was unfair.

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Speaker 3: I finally snapped and asked what would happen when she

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Speaker 3: She said that was different. Why is it different, Julie?

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Speaker 3: I said, no, I'm not coddling her anymore. My son exists,

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Speaker 3: he's family and he's coming. Put in the foot down.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: She can decide if she wants to or not. My

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Speaker 3: parents yelled at me for being mean to Julie. They

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Speaker 3: offered to pay first at her, but I said, no,

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Speaker 3: it's not even at her house.

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Speaker 1: So am I the A hole?

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Speaker 2: John?

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Speaker 1: What's your verdict in the breakdown? My god?

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Speaker 4: I mean I I really do feel for Julie, like

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Speaker 1: No, it's super tough. It's super tough.

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Speaker 4: But like earlier in the episode with cousin E, it's

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Speaker 4: like that doesn't necessary. And you know, I do think

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Speaker 4: it so so mind numbingly far as how do.

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Speaker 1: You have a complete baby band?

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Speaker 3: That's insane to me, you know, it's absolutely insane.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of that. In my word, It's just unreasonable.

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Speaker 4: And again it's like now O P, Like what is

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Speaker 4: OP left to do? Like she literally can't bring her

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Speaker 4: baby to events, like like all all of this stuff.

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Speaker 1: And it's like you're.

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Speaker 3: Saying every family event, I can't bring my family what

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Speaker 3: Like that's essentially what you're saying. Crazy, that's yeah, you know,

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Speaker 3: what would you say? Who's the a okay?

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Speaker 1: Op?

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Speaker 4: Not the A hole Julie is the a whole. Parents

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Speaker 4: so just mind bogglingly insane is the A hole.

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Speaker 3: I almost feel like the parents are more of the

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Speaker 3: A hole than Julie because, like Julie, I understand why

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Speaker 3: super like broken up about this, right, But the.

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Speaker 1: Parents happy for me? Yeah, be happy for your other daughter.

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Speaker 4: I just the whole human that is your direct like descendant, Like,

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Speaker 4: I know, can I get a little yeah, a little praise,

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Speaker 4: Literally imagine you're like, oh, I just finally just finished

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Speaker 1: What insane experience on Facebook? Bro, it was just absolutely

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Speaker 1: too much. I don't care about little sister, can't have

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Speaker 2: Damn.

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Speaker 1: That seem's a bit harsh.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to take care of her and the baby,

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Speaker 3: of over yeah, canceled.

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Speaker 1: You know, if you want to be a.

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Speaker 3: Mother, little sister, you gotta stop asking for my help

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: My sister Julie has tried to have a baby for

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Speaker 3: five years. Dang, that's a long time raw dogging, that's right.

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Speaker 3: Miscarriage two years ago, and outside that has been unable

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Speaker 1: My heart hurts for her. Yeah, dang.

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Speaker 3: However, one thing I don't agree with is how my

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Speaker 3: can't come to family events that she'll attend. She won't

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Speaker 3: attend baby showers, baptisms, et cetera. The last one I understand,

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Speaker 3: sounds like a sex avender. I got pregnant last year.

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Speaker 3: I told Julie first, and she reiterated her boundaries.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to hear about pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: No, no, you know I have a baby right now,

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Speaker 3: not in front of me, I said, I understood. The

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Speaker 3: Then my mom told me I shouldn't have one period

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Speaker 3: while you're at I just don't have the baby out

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Speaker 3: of respect.

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Speaker 1: To have some danger respect. Bro.

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Speaker 3: I said that was ridiculous. She didn't have to come,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's terrible, Mike.

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Speaker 3: You know, you would think that this person would be

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Speaker 3: just get off Facebook. Now all that is is marriages

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Speaker 4: Also on the grandparents not excited for their grandchild.

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Speaker 1: Come on, I do the wrong thing.

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Speaker 1: No, it's like, stop it.

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Speaker 2: Julie will be.

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Speaker 1: Julie would be angry. With you.

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Speaker 3: I said she could just block or mute me on Facebook.

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Speaker 3: They said I should make the effort. Julie echoed that

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Speaker 3: if I cared, i'd stop. I ended up blocking her

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Speaker 3: just to save the drama. Julie's nothing but drama, but

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Speaker 3: she does make it interesting at least, you know, fly drama.

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Speaker 3: My aunt's seventieth birthday party is next week. My husband

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Speaker 3: and I plan to go bringing our son.

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Speaker 1: How dare you?

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Speaker 3: Julie called and asked if we are going, you seriously

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: She then asked me to get a sitter for our son.

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Speaker 3: I said no, she doesn't want to miss the party.

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Speaker 3: My aunt is one of the few people who agree

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Speaker 3: that Julie's boundaries aren't fair and wants my son there

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Speaker 3: as she doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Get to see him often.

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Speaker 3: Because Julie is so mad about everything that she's like

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Speaker 3: banned all babies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah baby man, Yeah, she's like that.

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Speaker 3: Uh you know, like that Bible story of Moses where

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Speaker 3: like the king Solomon is like, I must kill a baby.

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Speaker 1: I think babies.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that was why they put Moses in the river.

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Speaker 1: Like the same, this is this is exact same. We

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Speaker 1: need to find a river for this baby. Bro.

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Speaker 3: Julie got upset and started crying, saying that I was unfair.

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Speaker 3: She said that was different? Why is it different, Julie?

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Speaker 1: I said, no, I'm not coddling her anymore.

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Speaker 3: My son exists, he's family and he's comment put in

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Speaker 3: the foot down.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 3: She can decide if she wants to or not. My

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Speaker 3: parents yelled at me for being mean to Julie. They

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Speaker 3: offered to pay for a sitter, but I said no,

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Speaker 3: it's not even at her house. So am I the

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Speaker 3: a hole?

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Speaker 1: John? What's your verdict in the breakdown? My god?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I I really do feel for Julie, like

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Speaker 4: that is probably such a hard thing to go through.

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Speaker 1: No, it's super tough. It's super tough.

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Speaker 4: But like earlier in the episode with cousin E, it's

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Speaker 4: like that doesn't necessary, And you know, I do think

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Speaker 4: it is good that the family is like aware and

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Speaker 4: trying to be considerate. I think as a general philosophy,

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Speaker 4: that's a good, like empathetic thing. But then to take

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Speaker 4: it so so mind numbingly far.

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Speaker 3: How do you have a complete baby band? That's insane

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Speaker 3: to me, you know, it's absolutely insane.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of that. In my word, it's just unreasonable.

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Speaker 4: And again it's like, now O P, Like what is

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Speaker 4: OP left to do? Like she literally can't bring her

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Speaker 4: baby to events, like like all all of this stuff,

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Speaker 4: and it's like.

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Speaker 3: You're seeing every family event. I can't bring my family

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Speaker 3: what Like that's essentially what you're saying crazy. That's yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know what would you say, who's the age?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Op?

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Speaker 4: Not the A whole. Julie is the A whole. Parents

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Speaker 4: are the A whole. Everyone in the family who is

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Speaker 4: so just mind bogglingly insane is the A whole.

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Speaker 3: I always feel like the parents are of the A

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Speaker 3: hole than Julie because like Julie, I understand why she's

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Speaker 3: the A hole, Like she's not thinking clearly, she's super

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Speaker 3: like broken up about this, right, But the parents happy

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Speaker 3: for me?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, be happy for your other daughter.

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Speaker 4: I just the whole human that is your direct like descendant, Like.

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Speaker 3: I know, can I get a little, a little praise,

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Speaker 3: you know, affection.

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Speaker 1: Like, Wow, I was so exciting.

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Speaker 4: Literally imagine you're like, oh, I just finally just finished

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Speaker 4: burthing this baby. What an insane experience. Hit on Facebook, bro,

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Speaker 4: It was just absolutely too much