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Speaker 1: Music Saved Me.

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Speaker 2: There are times a song will come to me so

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Speaker 2: fast I can't write, and that's when we know. We

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Speaker 2: call it the song ads. And you write and like

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Speaker 2: when somebody says talk to you like.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, no no, because if I forget that note,

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Speaker 1: I'll never get it back.

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Speaker 2: It's like, if it's given to you, you have to

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Speaker 3: I'm Lynn Hoffman and welcome to the Music Saved Me Podcast,

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Speaker 3: the podcast that delves deep into the power of music. Now,

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Speaker 3: if you love this podcast, please spread the word. Thank

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Speaker 3: you so much and share this episode with others if

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Speaker 3: you don't mind. We also work with a very proud

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Speaker 3: supporters of an organization called Musicians on Call and all

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Speaker 3: the wonderful great work they do that showcases the power

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Speaker 3: of music. Our guest today is Danelia Cotton, an award

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Speaker 3: winning musician, singer songwriter known for her trademark gritty, rich

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Speaker 3: and soulful blues and rock and Americana. And she also

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Speaker 3: has some new music out that we're going to talk about.

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Speaker 3: But she's also an artist who deeply knows firsthand about

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Speaker 3: the power of music. Danelia, Welcome to Music saved me.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for having me.

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Speaker 3: It's so great to have you. I want to start

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Speaker 3: off with a quote from Guitar World about you, because

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Speaker 3: I just think that it really gets to the heart

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Speaker 3: of why we're together today. Danelia Cotton, this is let's

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Speaker 3: start with a quote. Danelia Cotton has not had it easy,

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Speaker 3: but lucky for us, she channels her pain and suffering

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Speaker 3: into kick ass musical creations that we can all enjoy.

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Speaker 3: I can't agree more with that quote. And my first question.

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Speaker 3: We have so much to talk about in so little time,

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Speaker 3: but my first question is how did your journey as

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Speaker 3: a cancer survivor shape you as an artist and as

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Speaker 2: I think the fact that I had it late in

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Speaker 2: Like the doctor even said, this is the good cancer,

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Speaker 2: what cancer is good? But he's like, I can remove

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Speaker 1: But it's been good for me.

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Speaker 2: That operation gave me another octave, which was not that,

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Speaker 1: But I've always worked with a throat coach.

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Speaker 2: The first time I went on tour, I believe it

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Speaker 1: It was deep and I just sang, sang, sang, and

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Speaker 1: then drank red.

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Speaker 1: But I was like, whoa, it had never happened.

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Speaker 2: So when I went to a odorologist here in New York,

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Speaker 2: And I, you know, my advice to everybody there is

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so wow, experiencing that hard enough. I mean, let

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean cancer came later, but when I first

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Speaker 3: It's funny you mentioned your grandmother. There was a conversation

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Speaker 1: You know, a song is a song.

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Speaker 2: You know it's going to be what it's going to be,

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Speaker 3: You covered a lot of stuff there, and what was

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Speaker 1: It's in your DNA. You're tough.

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Speaker 2: I mean Springsteen we're all talking about.

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Speaker 2: It's like we're all trying to get out. I mean,

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Speaker 3: where can people find you and tell us about your tour?

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Speaker 1: So you can find me.

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Speaker 2: Danelia Cotton is such a rare name that at Danelia

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to think. That's kind of what I know

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Speaker 2: had a career, I had some time, I built a family,

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Speaker 2: and I'm just now sort of hitting a peek at

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Speaker 2: this age, which means that you know.

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Speaker 1: You take care of yourself. It's different.

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Speaker 2: We have different tools and different ways to take care

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Speaker 2: of us now, so we go longer and you can

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Speaker 2: live your life and you can do some of those

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Speaker 2: things that you didn't have. There's no rush to the

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Speaker 2: finish line. Just take care of yourself and you can

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Speaker 2: do it. You can go there.

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Speaker 1: I'd like that.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, Danelia Cotton, you are truly inspiring with your story,

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Speaker 3: your music, and everything going on with you. I wish

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Speaker 3: you nothing but the best in your future, and it

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Speaker 3: seems to me that you're on to great things and

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Speaker 3: continue on that path, and please come back and see

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Speaker 3: us again. Thank you for being on music save me.

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Speaker 1: No, thank you so much. Thank you