1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club Morning. 2 00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,159 Speaker 2: Everybody is the dj n V Charlamagne de goud We 3 00:00:08,200 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 2: are the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in 4 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: the building. 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:14,320 Speaker 3: Thank you. 6 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, how are you feeling this morning? 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:16,639 Speaker 4: I feel good? 8 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 3: You look good, look good. No sleep but you know, yes, 9 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,680 Speaker 3: four am, my daughter's here. 10 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: Okay. 11 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 4: So she helicopters in the bed, you know, turns around, turns, 12 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 4: she twirls in the bed. She's five. She just turned five. Yeah, 13 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 4: she just turned five. So yes, we had like a. 14 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 3: Wonderful birthday party for her. She was a princess Disney princesses. 15 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 5: And to expect nothing other than that. 16 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 3: Change, you know, custom everything. 17 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 6: And I know you when you start, when you talk 18 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 6: about being tired, you put your head down, like. 19 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:02,319 Speaker 2: Well, you're here for the Carlicia Gather's story. Yes, yeah, 20 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 2: for people that don't know, break down who she is. 21 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 2: She was a young lady abducted and yes, she was 22 00:01:07,840 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 2: smart enough to leave clues, so break it down and 23 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 2: police were able to find an abduct them. 24 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: I mean, you just told the story. 25 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 4: No, So it's the Carlicia Gather story. Abducted off the street. 26 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 4: It's a lifetime movie. It's gonna be premiering on Saturday. 27 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 3: We're so excited. I'm so excited. But it was a 28 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 3: young lady. 29 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 4: It was like all in the news. She's from Philadelphia. 30 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 4: She was a nurse's assistant. She was twenty two, and 31 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 4: she was walking home after a family gathering and there 32 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 4: was this you know, crazy guy, psycho killer rapist who 33 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 4: basically snatchers. You know, you tell your kids, you know, 34 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 4: you better be careful with somebody can snatch her ass, 35 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 4: and that's exactly what happened. 36 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 3: He forced her into the car, but she was smart 37 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,559 Speaker 3: enough that she started leaving little clues, like. 38 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 4: Making him like go to the ATM machine and use 39 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 4: her her ATM car to you know. So of course 40 00:02:05,680 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 4: there's a trail on that she dropped certain things that 41 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 4: they would get out of the store, like. 42 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 3: Her her cut, her handcuffs and things like that. 43 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 4: So she was just like really really cognizant of I 44 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 4: need you guys to find me, and this is how 45 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 4: you can. So she was just leaving clues and she 46 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 4: ended up getting rescued within seven seventy two hours. Yeah, yeah, 47 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:34,079 Speaker 4: it was intense. So I play her mom, I know, yes, yes, 48 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 4: I know. I look too young to play this girl's. 49 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 7: Mom because we was definitely gonna say that, okay. 50 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 5: And the mom's name is Keisha. 51 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, her name is Keisha, and she was just really determined, 52 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 4: really determined. 53 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 3: To find her child. 54 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 4: And the one thing about this story is, you know, 55 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 4: when we come up missing black women, black girls, the 56 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 4: news coverage is not there. It's just like such a 57 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 4: disparity and the way they cover us going missing and 58 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 4: the way they cover other people going missing, so yes, others, 59 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 4: And so I love this for us, I love this 60 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 4: for a lifetime because they've like taken on this initiative 61 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 4: to highlight all of these black girls missing stories and 62 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 4: like a series. 63 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 3: Of lifetime is doing. 64 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:23,119 Speaker 4: But yeah, but her back to you know, the role 65 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 4: that I play, it's a really serious role for me, 66 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 4: is one of like I haven't been a lead in 67 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 4: a movie in. 68 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:32,639 Speaker 3: A long time, so I'm just excited. You know. She's tough, she's. 69 00:03:32,480 --> 00:03:36,840 Speaker 4: Brave, and she's like, you know, in a way, very controlled. 70 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 4: She's a thinker, she's not like emotional, yeah, you know, 71 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 4: fall And I didn't want to play her like that. 72 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 4: I wanted to play her controlled and like methodic. 73 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 2: Did you get a chance to talk to mom and. 74 00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 4: No, no, they've been active, Like, you know, the story 75 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 4: is pretty fresh, so she's not. 76 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 3: She didn't come to the set. 77 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 4: She's but she's been talking to producers and writers Carlsha. 78 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:07,760 Speaker 4: But it's really, you know, it's still really kind of fresh. 79 00:04:07,800 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 4: So I don't know if you'll ever like really talk 80 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 4: to her see her anytimes. 81 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 8: Did you get to meet Carlsia. How involved was she? 82 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 5: No? Not not either. 83 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,080 Speaker 4: No, Carlish is the one who's been like giving her, 84 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 4: you know, her accounting of what happened. 85 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 3: But uh, yeah, she hasn't been seen. She may show up, 86 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: but I'm not sure. 87 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 4: But I just respect the fact that through all the 88 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 4: pain and I mean the ordeal, that the man almost 89 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 4: killed her, he raped her multiple times, so she survived 90 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:38,480 Speaker 4: and she was determined, like her sole focus was I 91 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:39,719 Speaker 4: need to get home to my family. 92 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 2: Did you take this role after I can't remember the 93 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 2: lady's name, but after the girl who was on the 94 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 2: side of the road, so has she's seen a white 95 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 2: baby walking down? 96 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 3: That was I shot it. Yeah, I shot it before. 97 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 4: I shot it before, but imagine like they're kind of parallel, 98 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 4: but obviously one was lying. But the fact that she 99 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:59,839 Speaker 4: was trying to capitalize off of like someone kidnapping her, 100 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 4: abducting her. 101 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 7: So that was like and then to see a real story, 102 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 7: yeah like this, yes, slay out like that that it 103 00:05:06,880 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 7: has to be. 104 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 8: I just make it feel. 105 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 4: Bad exactly, like, girl, this stuff is really happening. Girls 106 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 4: are not coming home and you over heere playing with us, 107 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:15,799 Speaker 4: playing in our faces. 108 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 7: So as a mother, how did you relate to the role, Like, 109 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 7: how did it do? Was it very sensitive for you 110 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 7: some parts just because you are a mom? 111 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:29,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, it was tough because in my mind I put 112 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 4: the script down when I read it the first time. 113 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:34,640 Speaker 4: I think I read ten pages and then I was like, oh, 114 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 4: I can't do this. 115 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 3: I was like, yeah, no, this one is not for. 116 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 4: Me, because it did like hit close to home. I 117 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 4: think a mother's biggest fear, especially a mother of a 118 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 4: of a of a daughter, a girl, you want to 119 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 4: protect them at all costs, and your biggest fear is 120 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 4: something will happen to them. 121 00:05:56,080 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 3: And so when I read the first scenes of. 122 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 4: Her being matched, her being you know, raped, all that stuff, 123 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 4: I was like, oh, I can't, I can't do this, 124 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 4: you know, And then I thought about, Okay, let me 125 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 4: why why did this script come to me? Because I 126 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 4: think it's a higher it's it's it's it's a deeper reason. 127 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 3: Why projects come to you or work come to you. 128 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,800 Speaker 3: I think it's divine steps. So I said, let me, 129 00:06:20,960 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 3: let me look at this in a different way. Why 130 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 3: should I do it? 131 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 1: Awareness? 132 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 3: Yeah? Awareness, because honestly, the way that the story is 133 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 3: written in the movie Unfold, it will save lives. If 134 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 3: you watch this movie, you will get ahead. 135 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 4: Of situations, you will avoid situations, you will know what 136 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 4: to do in situations to basically survive and get back home. 137 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 3: You know. 138 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 4: So I said, you know, if I can help to 139 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 4: save lives, especially with girls and women who look like me, 140 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 4: that's that's all the reason I needed to like overcome 141 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 4: my fear. 142 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 6: I wont how triggering this is for the family, like 143 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:59,799 Speaker 6: when they watch it, and and for you know, Carlicia, 144 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 6: like she watches it like you kind of got to 145 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 6: relive all of that. 146 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 3: Yeah you do. I don't know. 147 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 4: You know, we haven't had an opportunity to talk to her, 148 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 4: but I think she was just so brave to tell 149 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 4: her story. But she has two kids, you know, I 150 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 4: know that she's focusing on that. 151 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: And she had kids before. 152 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 3: I've seen photos. 153 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 4: It's actually a photo at the end of the movie, 154 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 4: and she's the children are fairly young, two little boys, 155 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 4: I think, so, I'm not exactly sure, but you know 156 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 4: she's focusing on being a mom. So can you imagine 157 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 4: like being able to talk about I think she had 158 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 4: them after. 159 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 2: I think, yeah, well, I want to I want to ask. 160 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 2: I know your housewives, O G. 161 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:47,160 Speaker 5: Have to ask. 162 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 3: We talked about the movie while you. 163 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:57,400 Speaker 2: Hear and Century Okay says she's not doing housewives anymore. 164 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 5: What's your thoughts after fourteen years. 165 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: I heard you behind the saying how happy you were 166 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: that she's not coming back. 167 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 3: Now, you know, Charlotte was bubblings and rumblings. 168 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 4: You know, no, so I knew she had told me 169 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 4: before that she had made the decision. 170 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 3: And sometimes you. 171 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 4: Know, you need you may need a break. You know, 172 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 4: she's doing a lot of things. That girl is a. 173 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 3: Mini Mogo, you know she's doing She's got her hands 174 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 3: and some of everything, and she's very successful. And honestly, money. 175 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 4: Just matriculates around Kenny. You know, for years, Kenny, she's 176 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 4: got the Midas touch. Whatever she touches turns to goal. 177 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 4: So she is going to be obviously all right financially, 178 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 4: I think she might just be like, you know, I 179 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 4: want to explore some other things. I think it's because 180 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 4: they did take so long to try to figure out 181 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,839 Speaker 4: who's coming back, what are they doing with the cast? 182 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 3: So I'm happy for you know, I think she's chasing 183 00:08:58,160 --> 00:08:58,760 Speaker 3: her dreams. 184 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 4: She's happy, her relationship is great, her family is good. 185 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: I remember, now, they were getting rid of everybody at 186 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: one point, didn't they. 187 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 4: There were rumors, they didn't announce, there were rumors, but everybody. Yeah, No, 188 00:09:12,240 --> 00:09:15,080 Speaker 4: they were trying to do like they were saying that 189 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 4: they possibly could do a recast like New York did. 190 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 4: But I'm like, nah, you can't get it, get rid 191 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 4: of everyone. 192 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 3: It's too many, like network, you know what I mean. 193 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 3: We were the. 194 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 4: Crown jewel of Bravo above all the other shows. So hopefully, 195 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 4: you know, we can get back to that. 196 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: Say people saying the ratings were low. 197 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 3: See, that's that is a complete lie. The ratings never drive. 198 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 4: We are actually doing We're in the top five of 199 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 4: all of the shows on Bravo, So how are our 200 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 4: ratings doing poorly? That's just again things people say because 201 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:51,520 Speaker 4: of their perception of what they're you know, what they're 202 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 4: looking at in terms of, oh, well, I don't like 203 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 4: this season, in which you know, people always complain about seasons, 204 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 4: and then they'll start saying, yeah, that's why the ratings 205 00:09:59,640 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 4: are love. 206 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 3: But they're comparing. 207 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 4: They have to look at the ratings for the network 208 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 4: and how people are watching TV now. So before they 209 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 4: would always release live ratings, but the ratings count their 210 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:15,319 Speaker 4: plus ten numbers, so their plus three, their plus sevens, 211 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 4: they're plus ten. 212 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 3: That's what they look at. 213 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,840 Speaker 4: And even our live ratings are again on par with 214 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 4: the top five on the entire network. So what do 215 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 4: you it's just rumors people. 216 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 7: I believe that they like to be in the comments 217 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 7: and that that is the comments people, you know, and 218 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 7: people say that, but you know, people have their favorites 219 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 7: and everything opinionated. But I want to ask you, it 220 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:49,439 Speaker 7: took you three years to finalize your divorce? Well, congratulations, 221 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 7: thank you. 222 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: This is. 223 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 4: There. 224 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 3: I love it. Look it's amazing. 225 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 4: Why the judge still didn't sign off yet, So the 226 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 4: paperwork is there. So I'm waiting every day, I'm checking 227 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 4: online to see if he signed off. He didn't get foolishness, 228 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 4: you know, I'm one I'm very sensible. Like I know 229 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 4: what y'all might think of me on TV or whatever, 230 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 4: I'm on a show, but I am very reasonable if 231 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 4: you sit down and you talk to me and you 232 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 4: make sense. 233 00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 3: Okay. I didn't think we should ever go to court. 234 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 4: I think we didn't have any property together, we didn't 235 00:11:37,200 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 4: build anything together. 236 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 3: We had a child. 237 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 4: We can agree on the child support because he was 238 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,079 Speaker 4: already paying a number already. 239 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'll take this. 240 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna ask for more or less, and let's 241 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 4: just you come in and you leave with what you 242 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 4: came in, you know with, you leave with what you 243 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 4: came in with, and that's what it should have been. 244 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 4: And I don't think that all the money that we 245 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 4: spent for him fighting me, he ended up with less 246 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:02,959 Speaker 4: than what he started with. 247 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 3: And I'm out of three years of tuition for my 248 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 3: child to. 249 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 5: Go to school. 250 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: So he wanted more? 251 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 3: What did he want? 252 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 2: Because it seems like like you said, you come in 253 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 2: with I can that's what he wanted. 254 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 3: Drama. He wanted drama. 255 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,679 Speaker 4: He started off the line just kept moving whenever, and 256 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 4: at some point I. 257 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 3: Was like, here you go, this is what you want. 258 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 4: Here you go, and the line kept being moved on 259 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 4: what he wanted. 260 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 3: Then it was this, then it was that, and then 261 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 3: he had the nerve to want. 262 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 4: Now you remember how he was saying he didn't want 263 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 4: to be on TV, okay, and then so he at 264 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 4: the end he supposedly had some opportunity to be on 265 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 4: TV and he wanted to. 266 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 3: Film with my daughter. 267 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 4: And I was like, but that's why I sued you 268 00:12:41,080 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 4: to begin with, because you you wouldn't sign the release 269 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 4: for Brooklyn to film with me, someone who's been on 270 00:12:45,840 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 4: the show for ten years. And then you want to say, oh, well, 271 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 4: if I go, I'm taking Brooklyn with me. So I'm like, yeah, no, no, no, 272 00:12:54,280 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 4: that's the one thing I stood on business with Yeah, 273 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 4: because I'm like, that's the. 274 00:12:59,320 --> 00:13:00,400 Speaker 3: One thing you're not gonna take. 275 00:13:00,400 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 4: I take care of this child twenty four to seven, 276 00:13:02,559 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 4: and it is my right as the primary custodio parent 277 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,040 Speaker 4: to be able to allow her to do whatever I 278 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 4: want her to do. And he tried to basically remove 279 00:13:14,440 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 4: that right for me when it comes to him because 280 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 4: he wanted to do his little TV show. 281 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, because that there was a statement that he tried 282 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:22,599 Speaker 7: to undo your rights. 283 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 9: He did. 284 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, when it comes to that yeah. 285 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, he supposedly he told me that, yeah, that they 286 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 4: were filming he wanted Brooklyn the film or. 287 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,800 Speaker 3: He doesn't say a lot of details on purpose. So 288 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 3: but now I have soul custodies. 289 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 8: I was gonna say, is he still doing that? Okay? 290 00:13:41,160 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 3: No, no, the judge awarded me sold custody. 291 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:44,680 Speaker 1: It sound like he didn't want to let you go. 292 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 3: It was that he didn't want he wanted his marriage. 293 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 4: I know people see and say things a lot of 294 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 4: crazy stuff on TV. 295 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 3: At the end of the day, that man will not 296 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:55,839 Speaker 3: sign those papers. Because if you want somebody to leave, sure, 297 00:13:56,160 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 3: and y'all don't have anything together. Why are you sitting 298 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 3: here fighting. I'm not with you about child support? What 299 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 3: else is there? 300 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,439 Speaker 1: Why can't he just be honest about it? Why can't 301 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:05,600 Speaker 1: he just come to you and say, can you I want 302 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: to work? 303 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 4: He did, He did, he did before, and and I 304 00:14:10,040 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 4: was just like at some point I was like, it's 305 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 4: too toxic. They're not doing the work. You know, he 306 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 4: wasn't doing the work to me. He needed he needed 307 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 4: to go to therapy, and then we needed to go together. 308 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 3: I always go to therapy, you know, I think that 309 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 3: it's a great thing. 310 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 4: I think so many years it's been like this dark 311 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:32,600 Speaker 4: stigma of you know, black people think, you know, oh therapy, 312 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 4: When are you crazy? You know, saying things like that, 313 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 4: But it is so beneficial to to just learning about yourself, 314 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:43,400 Speaker 4: how you interact with people. It's just necessary. So I 315 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 4: was just like, well, you keep saying you want the marriage, 316 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 4: but you're not doing the work. And then at some 317 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 4: point I was just like, yeah, I'm okay, Yeah. 318 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 3: I'm okay. 319 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 1: What if he started doing the work now? 320 00:14:53,040 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 3: Oh well, apparently he has a fiance now, so I 321 00:14:55,120 --> 00:15:03,880 Speaker 3: don't know. Is she she's not black? 322 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 6: Jesus, how you feel about that? 323 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 3: Come through with the breakfast club ex. 324 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 6: How do you feel about him and his wife? 325 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 3: Right races? I don't really care what she is. Good 326 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 3: good luck to her, that's you know. 327 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 7: And at some point that's all you can do is 328 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 7: I wish you well, it's not my problem anymore. 329 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 4: Please Judge, hurry up inside my papers. And then that's it, 330 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 4: you know. I just feel a relief like this is 331 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 4: like the new era of me. I'm going to do 332 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 4: any and everything that I want to do. I feel 333 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 4: like when you have someone taking up that space in 334 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 4: your life, you can't have anybody else come feel it 335 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 4: because there's no space there. 336 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 3: They always in the back of your mind, you know, 337 00:15:55,600 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 3: doing all. 338 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 4: Kinds of things to try to bring you down, hurt you, 339 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 4: prevent you from thriving. And I feel like, you know what, 340 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 4: You're not gonna hold me down anymore. 341 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 3: So this is new era of me, you know. So 342 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 3: I'm actually happy. It feels good. When I heard that, 343 00:16:08,640 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 3: I just laughed. I was like, oh, girl, not girl, 344 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 3: but you know, but yeah. 345 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, is not an issue with him at all? 346 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 3: Now, Well he doesn't see her to co parent, so 347 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 3: you don't even see her. No, Yeah, I think the 348 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 3: last time was like last year March. 349 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, are you keeping that because of you? Because he's 350 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 6: just not making the effort. 351 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 3: He's not making the effort, is you know, he's not 352 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 3: making the effort. She's here now and he's from lives 353 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 3: in Williamsburg. 354 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 5: You had a party in New York. 355 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 3: What you said you had a birthday party? 356 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 4: You had no birthday party is in Atlanta. Yeah, he 357 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 4: lives across the bridge and she's here and he's too. 358 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:57,360 Speaker 3: Busy to see her. 359 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: Damn ain't being a single I don't know. 360 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's different, you know actually the days. Yeah, 361 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:09,560 Speaker 3: it's different, it's different, but you know, thanks to us. 362 00:17:09,560 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: Sure. 363 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 3: Oh it's been a lot of activity in the d N. 364 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 3: You know. 365 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 6: You know when when he serenated, Yeah that was oh 366 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 6: so you mean like people saw the video and it 367 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 6: was like, damn. 368 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: Can you steel that? 369 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:23,480 Speaker 3: Like you forgot about this? 370 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 1: Talked about. 371 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: You know, Yeah, it was fun. Likes it's interesting. Yeah, 372 00:17:37,800 --> 00:17:38,959 Speaker 3: I'm dating. I'm dating. 373 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:41,399 Speaker 2: So what if somebody take Kenya that that you that 374 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 2: you love? I mean because I remember that list came out. 375 00:17:43,480 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 2: They can't take you to at of Garden. 376 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 3: Cheese you mean because she was like a cheese factory 377 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,600 Speaker 3: probably twice a week, like with my daughter. I mean, 378 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 3: I don't care about stuff like that. 379 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,879 Speaker 4: I like somebody that I can have fun with, that 380 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 4: is a good person, that's a good partner, who can. 381 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:03,119 Speaker 3: Make you laugh. 382 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:06,040 Speaker 4: They don't have to match me dollar for dollar, you know, 383 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 4: they just have to I don't want to take care 384 00:18:08,200 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 4: of anybody, but. 385 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 3: You know what I mean, be gainfully employed. 386 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 4: But you don't have to be a mega millionaire, you 387 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 4: know with your own yacht and private plane and all that, 388 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 4: but just be a good person. 389 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 8: Yes, we can eventually build and get there. 390 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can get there together. You have to have 391 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 3: the potential and. 392 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:28,439 Speaker 4: The desire, you know, you have to be ambitious, I think, yeah, 393 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 4: and you are. 394 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, yeah, absolutely, I love that. 395 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 7: I love that because you hear how you know some marriages, 396 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 7: you know, it doesn't work for women, and then they 397 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 7: just be like, I'm not doing this. 398 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, and then here she got married three years later. 399 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 3: You just can't let one. You can't break my soul. Yeah, 400 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 3: you can't break my soul. 401 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 8: How has business been going with the hairs girl? 402 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:54,600 Speaker 3: So good? 403 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:59,800 Speaker 4: Right, So it's it's amazing, like it's learning a whole 404 00:18:59,840 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 4: new business, you know, brick and mortar. 405 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 3: My hair care line is doing well. We're in like 406 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 3: over five thousand doors. Can you more haircare? 407 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:13,720 Speaker 4: You know, expanding in in the spring to two more 408 00:19:13,760 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 4: major retailers. 409 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:15,879 Speaker 5: Congratulation. 410 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 4: I'm just it's growing, you know what I mean. It's 411 00:19:19,920 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 4: I'm doing well. 412 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:22,679 Speaker 5: You have some special clients. 413 00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:29,440 Speaker 3: Your daughter, yes, yes, and yeah I've never straightened her hair, 414 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 3: you know. 415 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 5: Yeah. 416 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I don't believe in like I just little 417 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 4: girls should just be a little gunless. It's a special occasion, 418 00:19:36,040 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 4: like my grandmother, did you know straighten my hair if 419 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,160 Speaker 4: it was like a birthday or like a wedding or something, 420 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:43,200 Speaker 4: but it wasn't like every day. 421 00:19:43,280 --> 00:19:45,679 Speaker 1: Would you like edge of edge protection stuff? 422 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:48,800 Speaker 4: I tell everything in shampoo conditioners, like you know, stuff 423 00:19:48,840 --> 00:19:50,440 Speaker 4: like that. 424 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:52,640 Speaker 6: Now, I saw you recently to say that any Leek's 425 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 6: future with Real Housewives of Atlanta is day. 426 00:19:54,960 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 9: Well, the way you just said, you are very it's 427 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 9: a house husband's coming to you. 428 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:14,919 Speaker 1: Soon, Starr, She said she doesn't have a future. 429 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:15,880 Speaker 3: I didn't say. 430 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:21,200 Speaker 4: Now listen, what I said was this what Andy said, 431 00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:24,520 Speaker 4: which is our boss. He decides yes or no. Recently 432 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:28,040 Speaker 4: when we did Bravo Khan. So the question always comes 433 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:30,160 Speaker 4: up because people love Nini, you know, they love her 434 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:31,679 Speaker 4: and I love her too like I love her for 435 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 4: the Show's been very very clear about that, and I'm 436 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:41,040 Speaker 4: honest about that. He said, Ninnie told me to keep 437 00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 4: her name out of my mouth, and that's exactly what 438 00:20:43,320 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 4: I'm doing us. That is what he said verbatim. I 439 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 4: didn't make that up. Okay, it's not my fight. I 440 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,679 Speaker 4: don't have a dog in that fight. So that was 441 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 4: just to answer the question. You know, I don't know. 442 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:56,160 Speaker 4: Maybe things could change. 443 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 3: But you know, she sued, her employer. 444 00:20:58,800 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 4: She was saying a lot of really nasty things about 445 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 4: each and everyone of you know, the parties. 446 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,639 Speaker 3: I just don't know how you can come back from that. 447 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:11,960 Speaker 4: But hey, I'm a forgiving person, so maybe there are 448 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:15,360 Speaker 4: people at the network and others that could forgive and 449 00:21:15,359 --> 00:21:17,600 Speaker 4: and there may be a future. I don't know what 450 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 4: those cards say. I was just going by what our 451 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 4: boss said. 452 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 1: So where did that headline come from? 453 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,159 Speaker 4: I mean the headline, Yeah, that's why I didn't know. Well, 454 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 4: not exactly how you said it. 455 00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 1: Ken you more says let doesn't have a shuture in 456 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:30,840 Speaker 1: real health. 457 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:34,440 Speaker 4: Well, I said, I don't think so I can't call 458 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 4: somebody's future, you know, I'm just going by what our 459 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 4: boss said. 460 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 3: You know, so that's it. 461 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:40,640 Speaker 1: But you do think she'd be good. 462 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,280 Speaker 3: I've always said that. I mean, I've never said she 463 00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 3: with me. 464 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 4: She I mean, listen, she was, she was the breakout 465 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 4: star of that show and she has left a legacy 466 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 4: behind and of course she's she's a mess. You know, 467 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:01,720 Speaker 4: you don't heeds a mess. She's talking about her her man. 468 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,760 Speaker 3: And he wasn't good and bad and he's this and. 469 00:22:03,680 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 4: That, like you know, like, girl, why how old are 470 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 4: you talking about this man like. 471 00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 7: This, But yeah, these are the things that people want 472 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:12,960 Speaker 7: to see, is those you know. 473 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,879 Speaker 4: They like people that don't have it together. 474 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 3: Nobody is perfect. So if you could just take a peek. 475 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 4: At other people's lives and they're doing all kinds of 476 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 4: crazy stuff. 477 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,720 Speaker 3: It's fun to watch. Kind of fun to watch a 478 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 3: train wrack. 479 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 6: Right, Remember that conversation that was happening when they were saying, 480 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 6: how you know, like a black reality TV start couldn't 481 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:33,439 Speaker 6: get to the hypes of a Kim Kim Kardashian. 482 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 3: Yes, oh that was Oh who was that? She didn't 483 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 3: get what at the time what Kim was? Getty? 484 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:46,439 Speaker 1: Correct? 485 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,160 Speaker 6: You think it's possible for a black reality TV started 486 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 6: to get to the Kim Kardashian level. 487 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,879 Speaker 4: I mean, who else is on Kim Kardashian's level, whether 488 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,560 Speaker 4: they're on reality TV or not, Like, Kim Kardashian is 489 00:22:57,600 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 4: a billionaire mogul, and who else could like? 490 00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 3: Who else is on her level? Forget about reality. 491 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,760 Speaker 7: And the actually watched them grow up like their whole franchise, 492 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 7: the whole family. 493 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 4: You know, you can't those are apples and yeah, oranges, 494 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,080 Speaker 4: you can't compare the two. But I thought it was 495 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,680 Speaker 4: very interesting that she tried it though she I think 496 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:20,720 Speaker 4: that was it. She tried it statement because. 497 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,679 Speaker 6: It's more than reality TV, like like when they come 498 00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:24,439 Speaker 6: to k Like, it's not just that that made her 499 00:23:24,480 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 6: who she is. 500 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, listen, there there are a lot of 501 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:30,360 Speaker 4: things that play there. 502 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 3: There are the family dynamics. You know, her her family 503 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 3: came from like Holly, you know, Hollywood. 504 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 4: Royalty, who dated She's a stunning girl. 505 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 3: You know it was a stunning girl. 506 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 4: I mean, I'll just say that that you can you 507 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 4: can't compare the two and what's for her is for 508 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 4: her and what what's for Nini is Forernini? 509 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 2: What do you think about compensation? Do you think that 510 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 2: you know, the black cast members get compensated like. 511 00:23:58,040 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 3: Beverly Hills, like. 512 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 4: Jersey, Like, yeah, on our network, yeah, Nini was the 513 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 4: highest pay well Nini and then Candy took over that, 514 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:08,720 Speaker 4: but at some point, yeah, the two highest paid women 515 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 4: on the network were two black women. So yeah, I 516 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 4: do absolutely. I can't speak for other networks. I don't 517 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,080 Speaker 4: really know the inner work, and I can just tell 518 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 4: you what I know. I enjoy it at times, you know, 519 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:23,360 Speaker 4: sometimes it's really fun. I didn't enjoy last season at all. 520 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 3: I just feel like it was dark. 521 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 4: It was people just there. You know, when people come 522 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 4: in and they're so desperate to hold a peach and 523 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:34,360 Speaker 4: they just do anything and lie and just cause commotion 524 00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 4: and it's not organic. Like when I came on, I 525 00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 4: was a mess, and I was a mess because I 526 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,119 Speaker 4: just was you know, I wasn't trying to play this 527 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:43,639 Speaker 4: or play it. 528 00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 3: I wasn't trying to play the reality start. 529 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,160 Speaker 4: I became a reality start, you know what I mean, 530 00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 4: because I was myself. I didn't watch seasons ahead of time. 531 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:55,919 Speaker 4: I didn't know what anybody was doing. I was just 532 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 4: reacting to all the stuff that was going on around 533 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 4: me and then just bringing my own, you know, crazy 534 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 4: life to the table. 535 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,840 Speaker 3: These girls, now. 536 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:08,440 Speaker 4: They've had what fifteen seasons to watch us, study us, 537 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 4: and they know and they're fans. 538 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 3: They're coming in as fans, and they're coming in desperate 539 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 3: to hold the peach. And that's what. 540 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:18,959 Speaker 4: Makes it unfortunate, because when you are desperate for something, 541 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,160 Speaker 4: you will do anything, and we saw that play out, 542 00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 4: and that's to me what was unfortunate. 543 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,639 Speaker 3: Like Kim Zosiak is a natural mess, you know, Nini 544 00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,119 Speaker 3: had her own issues. She was funny, but she also 545 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 3: had her her issues that she brought. 546 00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:37,000 Speaker 4: Candy has always been the poster child for being transparent, 547 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,919 Speaker 4: you know what I mean with her mom's situation and 548 00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 4: all the things that's going on. 549 00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,560 Speaker 3: So we just kind of need to go get back 550 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,920 Speaker 3: to what's real? What's real? 551 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:46,760 Speaker 5: Would you want to see that? 552 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 2: The original the OG's Kim you Porscha Nini? Would you 553 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 2: want to see that? You think people would want to 554 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:53,879 Speaker 2: see that? You read all, Oh yeah. 555 00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:55,120 Speaker 3: People would call for that all the time. 556 00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 4: I don't think it's a possibility, but if they could 557 00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,919 Speaker 4: make that happen, yeah, that would be cool. They need 558 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,960 Speaker 4: to do an ultimate Girls trip and have all the 559 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 4: ogs there. 560 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 3: I think I think that I think that would be 561 00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:06,480 Speaker 3: hot right that? 562 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 4: Yes the least, Yes, Ravo, you better run me my 563 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 4: check for that. 564 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 6: How hard was it like when you first made the transition, 565 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 6: because you know, you come from the pageant world. 566 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 4: For twenty twenty plus years before even doing uh reality, 567 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 4: So that's why I was like clueless, like, okay, what 568 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 4: we we don't have a schedule, we don't have lines. 569 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:30,320 Speaker 1: What is this? 570 00:26:30,400 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 4: You know? 571 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 3: I didn't know what I was doing? Was it you 572 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 3: said it was what. 573 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 1: Was the transition? Was it hard for you to start 574 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:37,800 Speaker 1: being transparent or. 575 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 4: It was hard because you know I'm I am an 576 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,680 Speaker 4: og not just by like being there a long time, 577 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 4: but you know, I'm not twenty years old, so. 578 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 1: Really no stop cutt it out. 579 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 4: But you know, there wasn't social media. There wasn't like 580 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 4: stars didn't talk to the media. Like the biggest stars 581 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 4: never talked to the media. You never saw Brad Pitt 582 00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:04,399 Speaker 4: talk to me. You never saw you know, these huge 583 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 4: Tom Cruise He never talked to the media. 584 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,439 Speaker 3: And then once he did, everything started going crazy. 585 00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 4: So we didn't have this thirst for you know, blood 586 00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:16,959 Speaker 4: like you see in social media now. So everything, you know, 587 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 4: people didn't have iPhones. 588 00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:20,360 Speaker 3: I had my first phone. Let me not tell my age, 589 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 3: let me shut up. Just yeah you do, you do. 590 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 3: But we didn't have cell phones, you know what I mean. 591 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:33,959 Speaker 3: We had the phones at home. Your your recorder. 592 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,199 Speaker 4: You know what is it with the voice recorder When 593 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,879 Speaker 4: people leave you message you have to go home and 594 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 4: press the but answer me. 595 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 596 00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:46,600 Speaker 7: She tried to bury it so far back, but yeah, 597 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,400 Speaker 7: we we it was a different era. 598 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:54,679 Speaker 4: So now yeah, everything is everything was just shocking to me. 599 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 3: I fought social media still do. I rarely like to post, 600 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:00,000 Speaker 3: but I know it's good for business. 601 00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 1: It's not good for your mental health. 602 00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 3: No, it's nice, so toxic and so crazy. 603 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 4: And the things that people say, like again making up 604 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:09,000 Speaker 4: stuff like just as you oh, you know whatever, they 605 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 4: feel like saying it could just make up a lie 606 00:28:10,720 --> 00:28:12,520 Speaker 4: and then all of a sudden it spreads and then 607 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:13,320 Speaker 4: people really. 608 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 3: Believe it, like even saying people are dead, like you 609 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 3: know how it. 610 00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 7: Is, Yeah, run like that, and the person got to 611 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 7: be like ya, I'm here. 612 00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I don't have to be put in a 613 00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,520 Speaker 3: position of like fact checking, like if you're alive or not, 614 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:28,720 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. 615 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 6: Your people in the background, like okay. 616 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:38,720 Speaker 5: Over five minutes, no, no. 617 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: Laughing more. 618 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, so I'm just just hilarious. 619 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, your family Baltimore. 620 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 8: I always be like when when she when she first 621 00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 8: came on, Like that's my aunt. 622 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 3: I used to say it all the time. 623 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, because you're you're you're a beautiful woman. 624 00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. 625 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 5: People ain't believe me and. 626 00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 4: Know I just that's so yeah, yo, Auntie not have 627 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:13,640 Speaker 4: family in Virginia Louisiana primarily, but not Yeah, it's all right. 628 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 5: So now they know it's a. 629 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,520 Speaker 2: Last tell them when they can catch out the check 630 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 2: out the Lifetime shut Off the Street. 631 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 4: Abducted Off the Street is coming out on Saturday at 632 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 4: a PM on Lifetime. 633 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,520 Speaker 3: Everybody, please support this movie. 634 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 4: This is how we're going to bring our black girls 635 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 4: who are missing, our black women who are missing home. 636 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 4: And if something ever happens to your family, you can 637 00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 4: figure out how to survive, how to get out, and 638 00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 4: how to see your family again. 639 00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:42,120 Speaker 5: All right, ladies and gentlemen 640 00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 3: In the Morning Breakfast Club