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Speaker 1: here's what I want to share with you. Stop complaining.

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Speaker 1: So I had to let you see how I let

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Speaker 1: Last time she says something to me, I should have

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Speaker 1: you know, oldest, that in all of your complaining, it

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Speaker 1: has provided not one solution. The reason I'm telling you

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Speaker 1: to stop complaining because God is able, Because God is capable.

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Speaker 1: He is capable and able of fixing anything, capable and

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Speaker 1: A lot of times I find myself complaining because I

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Speaker 1: with God. You all have one. Now. You may not

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Speaker 1: you as his child. He's available to you now. The

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Speaker 1: who fathers that? Stop complaining until you strengthen your relationship

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Speaker 1: with God and formulate this relationship. You don't have enough weapons.

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Speaker 1: Whoever that is BPE TMC. Why it's an organization we've

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Speaker 1: What is that for? Uh? Bp t MC is is uh,

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Speaker 1: Who is this man? I am Caucasian, sir, Yes, Now,

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Speaker 1: why are you calling me with this? Well, what we're

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Speaker 1: I'm with BPE TMC. How you doing. I'm doing fine

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Speaker 1: So what we're trying to do is get black people

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Speaker 1: chicken this year. Why does then make sense? We just

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Speaker 1: And what we're after doing the test study, we did

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Speaker 1: Your chest I don't just do it after two black people.

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Speaker 1: I mean, did you use white people? That white people

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Speaker 1: Okay man, well Asian? What about the Hispanics? Did you

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Speaker 1: study should be everybody. This is something. Where'd you get

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Speaker 1: the supermarkets that people that number from No supermarkets. I

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Speaker 1: what the hair? I can't you know? La mine? He

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Speaker 1: this calling somebody telling up something black people eat too

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Speaker 1: much chicken? You and your partition. Would you like to

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Speaker 1: hear what the survey is actually saying. No, I don't

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Speaker 1: you're saying about a whole bunch of but the survey

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Speaker 1: is saying that This is nephew Tommy from the Steve

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Speaker 1: the Steawalker. God, oh oh, I'm some chicken. Do anybody

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Speaker 1: ain't survey them too much? Chicken? People, well on it.

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Speaker 1: But I'm grilling it all weekend, All weekend, I'm grilling chicken.

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Speaker 1: I'm really be on a groom too much. Check ye

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Speaker 1: from where where are you now in DCM shooting ready

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, miss Anne is standing

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Speaker 1: by with today's news, and she has the latest on

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Speaker 1: the school shooting in Arlington, Texas. But first in today's

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Speaker 1: entertainment news, ESPN SportsCenter anchor Sage Steele has been taken

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Speaker 1: off the air to to her comments on former Chicago

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Speaker 1: Bears quarterback podcast Uncut with Jake Cutler. We all remember

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Speaker 1: Jay Cutler from the Bears. Well, anyway, Sage Steele said

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Speaker 1: that President Obama checking black as his race on his

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Speaker 1: sin his form was fascinating to her. Tick listen, if

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Speaker 1: they make you choose a race, She's like, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: put I go Walt Boat. She's like, well you can't.

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Speaker 1: He was what Barack Obama chose black and he's bi racial.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, congratulations to the president. That's his thing.

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Speaker 1: I think that's fascinating, consider considering his black day was

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Speaker 1: nowhere to be found, but as white mom and grandma racing.

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Speaker 1: But hey, you do you what? Whoa bi racial? Come on? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Obviously she said that that's crazy right for her? Yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: you know, it's like white girl too, I think. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, if he chose black as his ethnicity, come on,

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Speaker 1: and that's what he chooses to identify with. Uh, that's

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Speaker 1: his choice. Why are you questioning it? Because he was

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Speaker 1: raised by his white mother and his white grand that's

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Speaker 1: not the issue. A lot of people are raised that way.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are by racial in this country.

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Speaker 1: But let me let me just say this to you.

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Speaker 1: If one of your parents is black and the other

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Speaker 1: one his wife, in this country called the United States,

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Speaker 1: you are considered black. You might not want to consider

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Speaker 1: yourself that. I want you to understand something unless you

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Speaker 1: get and even if you famous, famous, and I don't

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Speaker 1: care how much money you get, when you walk in

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Speaker 1: the room, I'm telling you, that's what they're gonna see.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna find any spect of it to identify and

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Speaker 1: and and and put you in that category. I don't

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Speaker 1: care who you are. No body gets to go through

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Speaker 1: this world with this thing called blackness and not have

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Speaker 1: to deal or identify with that side of it. You

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Speaker 1: just can't. We live in a racist country. This country

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Speaker 1: the very beginning started and the country was built because

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Speaker 1: of racism. Slavery is an act of racism. This country

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Speaker 1: was built on that period. Now, I mean, it's cool,

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Speaker 1: but you can't. And I don't see why these people

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Speaker 1: get on these podcasts with these people that ain't nobody. Man,

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Speaker 1: everybody go on the podcast get in Trouble. You can

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Speaker 1: think of several famous people that them went on podcasts

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Speaker 1: and got in trouble and nobody listening to Ja Cutler

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Speaker 1: uncut podcast. But he got cut off the bands. You know,

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Speaker 1: our boy Nick got in trouble off something all from

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Speaker 1: a podcast. Look, man, you get on a podcast and

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Speaker 1: you get more comfortable because it's a podcast, but they're

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Speaker 1: recording everything. Yeah. Man, And even though I can, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you something I found out about podcasts. Even though

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Speaker 1: there are not a huge number of people making money

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Speaker 1: on podcasts, there's not a huge number of people making money.

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Speaker 1: Not real. Well, okay, let me just say this, hire

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Speaker 1: wit k, none of us give up what we're doing

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Speaker 1: and go to no podcast. Let me just put that way,

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Speaker 1: facts upon back. That's true. Okay, yeah, back today. All right,

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Speaker 1: we gotta move on, Steve. Time for today's headlines. Ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Miss a trip much. Good morning everybody. This

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Speaker 1: is a trip with the news. Okay. It looks like

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Speaker 1: there's a little bit of melting going on in the

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Speaker 1: US Senate. Republican leader Mitch McConnell is extending a slightly

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Speaker 1: warmer offer to the Democrats, saying that the GOP will

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Speaker 1: not object to a short term hike in the US

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Speaker 1: debt limit up to some fixed amount. MN Senator Bernie

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Speaker 1: Sanders says he's down the greates a long term. The

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Speaker 1: problem is, though, that the Democrats would still be short

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Speaker 1: of their goal, which is to suspend the debtcat through

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Speaker 1: most of next year. Anyway, They'll take what they can get. Apparently,

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Speaker 1: the current proposal that the Republicans are willing to okay

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Speaker 1: would only hike the death ceiling by enough to last

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Speaker 1: till December, which means they'll have to go through all

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Speaker 1: this rigamarole again. A top Department of Justice civil rights

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Speaker 1: officials urging Senators to restore the Voting Rights Act. Efforts

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Speaker 1: to pass new voting rights legislation of stall thanks to

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Speaker 1: the bitterly divided Senate. Democrats hoping to count of the

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Speaker 1: voting restrictions enacted in GOP dominated states. They're hoping anyway.

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Speaker 1: Authorities say that a Texas a teenager opened fire inside

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Speaker 1: of his high school yesterday, injuring four people. Eighteen year

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Speaker 1: old Timothy Simpkins turned himself in hours after the morning

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Speaker 1: rampage that was at the timber View High School in Arlington.

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Speaker 1: His family says he was being bullied and that's why

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Speaker 1: he was carrying a gun. One student is in critical condition,

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Speaker 1: another in good condition. A third pupil was listed as

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Speaker 1: treated for minor cuts and at a local hospital and released.

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Speaker 1: Yes ESPN's a Sage Seal are reportedly pulled off the

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Speaker 1: air yesterday overcommas she made during a podcast steal called

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Speaker 1: vaccine mandates sick and scary. She professed her support for

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Speaker 1: right wing conservative radio host Larry Elder, and Steele, whose

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Speaker 1: mother's white and father's black, says she didn't understand why

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Speaker 1: former President Barack Obama listed himself as only black in

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Speaker 1: the US census. In Georgia, two of the three white

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Speaker 1: men who shot and killed an innocent jogger named Ahmad

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Speaker 1: Aubury have been trying to have a picture of their

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Speaker 1: license plate not presented in court. Travis McMichael's plate features

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Speaker 1: the Confederate stars and bars, and McMichael says a picture

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Speaker 1: of that would quote not be relevant and only prejudiced

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Speaker 1: the jury all The jury selection for the trial begins

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Speaker 1: October eighteenth. Finally, nothing blurry about a Grammy Award winning

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Speaker 1: producer Farrell has made himself perfectly clear. He says he's

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Speaker 1: not bring his very popular Something in the Water Festival

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Speaker 1: to Virginia Beach this year because he's upset over the

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Speaker 1: police killing of his cousin and frustrated by the lack

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Speaker 1: of accountability for it. Local police department claiming neither of

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Speaker 1: the cops involved had their body cam on. Now back

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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the show. Well, guys,

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Speaker 1: people are still talking about that viral video of Jacksonville

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Speaker 1: Jacksonville Jaguar's coach Urban Meyer in Ohio. Remember, he was

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Speaker 1: at the club with the woman who was not his wife,

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Speaker 1: a blonde woman. In the video, Urban touched the woman's

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Speaker 1: bottom and she was kind of, you know, backing it

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Speaker 1: up on him, dancing on him. You know, you know what.

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Speaker 1: Video about the video, but I haven't seen Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: you gotta check it out. Okay, he was busted. It

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Speaker 1: was inappropriate, man, very much. He ain't even games right,

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Speaker 1: get a pass? Okay. It was after they lost to

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Speaker 1: the Cincinnati Bengals recently that last week. Go ahead, we

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Speaker 1: can all assume his wife knows about it because he

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Speaker 1: was just one hundred percent just out there busted. Uh.

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Speaker 1: He also recently apologized to the team for his conduct

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Speaker 1: and for distracting the team. So here's a question for

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Speaker 1: the guys. I'm on, comedians, what is the worst thing

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Speaker 1: you've ever been caught doing by your partner? I'm not

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Speaker 1: answering that, damn Well, have you? Well? I agree with Tommy. Guys,

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Speaker 1: I love it. I'm with Tommy on this right here,

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Speaker 1: and I can do things I've been when I was yo.

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Speaker 1: Well that's all we want to know. You don't have

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Speaker 1: to see. I've been very since I was twenty four,

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Speaker 1: So you've been busted a lot. Jordan, five years have

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Speaker 1: been married since I was joining four? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: the only years I didn't understand that concept. Who is

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Speaker 1: about to depth of your heart? What about if you

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Speaker 1: feel like you're dying? Can I get out now? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I've had some crazy things happened in my life. Crazy

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Speaker 1: stuff began actually in college. That's when I didn't know

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Speaker 1: how seeing more than one person could even be done

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Speaker 1: for a short period of time. Dormitory rooms is just

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Speaker 1: open the door. That's the room, you know, ain't no

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Speaker 1: way out the story. Yeah, I'm just saying that door

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Speaker 1: was opened one time and I was just standing there,

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Speaker 1: just clothing. Right. A girl, a girl I was seeing,

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Speaker 1: was friends with the girl I was other girl I

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Speaker 1: was seeing, and I didn't know it. She came over

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Speaker 1: standing in there with nothing known, and I was just yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was looking in the mirror trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: how the ZiT head got on my face looking in

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Speaker 1: the mirror. When I looked in the mirror, I saw

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Speaker 1: both of them behind. We gotta go. Coming up in

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Speaker 1: thirty four minutes after, we're gonna talk about Dave chappelle

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Speaker 1: new special and what he said. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, Dave Chappelle

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Speaker 1: is making headlines for a joke he makes in his

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Speaker 1: new Netflix comedy special. It's called The Closer. Dave joked

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Speaker 1: that upsetting the LGBTQ community in the US is more

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Speaker 1: offensive than killing a black man, and he uses it

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Speaker 1: downfall of the baby's career to back it up. A

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Speaker 1: listen a lot of the LBGTQ. He doesn't know the

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Speaker 1: baby's history. He's a wild guy. He wants shot and

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Speaker 1: killed him in Walmart. Oh, this is true. Googling the

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Speaker 1: baby shot and killed in Walmart, North Carolina. Nothing bad

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Speaker 1: happened to his career. Do you see where I'm going

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Speaker 1: with this? In our country, you can shoot and kill it,

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Speaker 1: but you better not hurt the gay person's feelings. It's

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Speaker 1: this new Netflix comedy special called The Closer. Steve say

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Speaker 1: what he wanted to say, this is the freedom of

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Speaker 1: no sponsors. You could do be and this is what's

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Speaker 1: happened to comedy. Comedy is now has fallen under the

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Speaker 1: guidelines of political correctness, and I'm in disagreement with that

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Speaker 1: because comedians are our just like hip hop is. Comedians

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Speaker 1: are our reflections of ourselves. Comedians are our mirror with

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Speaker 1: the smoke gone away from it. We take the rose

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Speaker 1: colored tent off of everything. And that's what and that's

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Speaker 1: one of the reasons that I left stand up when

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Speaker 1: I did to have a television career, because if I

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Speaker 1: say something like that, I'm gone as offended as you

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Speaker 1: made about the joke. Is it not the cutting burning truth?

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Speaker 1: What he said? The genius of comedy is that we

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Speaker 1: get to phrase these cutting burning truths into forms of

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Speaker 1: humor and allow yourself to laugh fatty, you know. But

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Speaker 1: you can do this on this half, but if you

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Speaker 1: heard somebody's feeling, you can't do nothing on that half.

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Speaker 1: And the dangerous thing about that is all your jokes

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Speaker 1: has to be about somebody. I'm sorry, folks, but all

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Speaker 1: of our jokes can't be about spaceships and aliens. All

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Speaker 1: of our jokes can't be about acute video you saw

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Speaker 1: on TikTok. We can't have a career like that. We're

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Speaker 1: going to have to address the things that's out there

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Speaker 1: that everybody's looking and dealing with and put the humorous

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Speaker 1: spin on it. I don't see the damage in that

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Speaker 1: joke right there. Dave Chappelle is the only stand up

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Speaker 1: comedian living that I know of that has the abilities

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Speaker 1: to say these cutting edge things and can still have

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Speaker 1: a career because he's not sponsor driven. Hats off to

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Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle and the ability to hold true to what

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Speaker 1: this craft is about. Well, he had it again his

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Speaker 1: brand new Netflix Netflix Comedy Specialists called The Closer I'm going,

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Speaker 1: I'm right to it, and two I was hollowing. I'm

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Speaker 1: almost screaming. The first time I saw I was in

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Speaker 1: Africa and I was sitting up and I put it on.

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Speaker 1: I was hollowing. He's brilliant. He is um just f YI.

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Speaker 1: So you'll know, the baby did it meant to killing

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Speaker 1: a man in Walmart in North Carolina, just like Chappelle said.

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Speaker 1: This was back in twenty eighteen. The charges were dropped

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Speaker 1: because the baby claimed it was self defense. So there

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Speaker 1: you go. So right, many of us didn't even know

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Speaker 1: said nothing happened to his career. You see where I'm

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Speaker 1: going with this. He dropped the album's right after that.

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Speaker 1: He is not lying. He is a truth teller. You

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Speaker 1: see where I'm going with this. And he doesn't have

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Speaker 1: to It's the beauty Steve, Just like you said, he

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00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 1: doesn't have to worry about the cancel culture. He has

633
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 1: nothing you can cancel, yeah, and see, but the rest

634
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: of those who do it are stripped of that. Yeah, dog,

635
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: we have less. This is the part of our that

636
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,880
Speaker 1: since I've been in this business, this is the least

637
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 1: amount of comedians I've seen out there today that can

638
00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,760
Speaker 1: just go at it and give it up. Dave Chappelle,

639
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 1: isn't yep? All right? Coming up next the Nephew with

640
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 1: today's praying phone call. Right after this, you're listening to

641
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top

642
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my

643
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: strawberry letter for today and the subject is bubble bath

644
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: bourbon and berries. Bubble bath bourbon and berries. We'll get

645
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: to that and just a little bit, but right now, Yeah,

646
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 1: the Nephew is here with today's prying phone call. What

647
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: you got for a SNAPf uh wedding bells, the wedding

648
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:14,319
Speaker 1: with Butcher, The wedding with Butcher? What the what? Let

649
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 1: me get yourself some water. He's at water, but he

650
00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: can't say what. The wedding with Butche. That's what we're

651
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:34,640
Speaker 1: gonna get. Hello, I'm trying to uh, I'm trying to

652
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 1: reach Alan. Hey, y'all, how you doing this? Butcher? Man?

653
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: But yeah, you was? You was at the cookout the

654
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:48,919
Speaker 1: other day with the family. I'm I'm Christian's cuse okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

655
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: y'all was at you was at the cookout the other day.

656
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to y'all. Know the wedding

657
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 1: is in the next two weeks, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah?

658
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 1: You you it for that? Yeah? Okay, Well, hey man,

659
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 1: I got a little bit of a problem that, you

660
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 1: know that we kind of wanted to call you about,

661
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 1: you know, because the family got together and had a

662
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: little meeting, like and what the deal is is this here?

663
00:46:16,520 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 1: I know, I know you're excited to want to marry

664
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: my cousin and she kind of excited too about the

665
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 1: old thing. But you know, like the family members we

666
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 1: got together and decided that, uh for right, na, I

667
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: mean right now we've been to like we've been to

668
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: call the wed no off for right now? What you

669
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: talk what you're talking about calling the wind off? We'll

670
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 1: see you know, everybody thank you cool and I and

671
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:44,040
Speaker 1: uh you know we're real, real passionate man about you know,

672
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: people marrying into our family or whatever. Like you know

673
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 1: the gathering of the day. You know that was a

674
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: potlook thing. Everybody brains something right old on. Christy ain't

675
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:56,759
Speaker 1: never told mething like that about what about something about

676
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: not getting no married? Okay, we'll see right here, like

677
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: I say, this is what the family doesn't decided on.

678
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 1: What the family decided on? Okay, you see this one.

679
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you. See we're real closing the

680
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 1: family and it's like this here see further all let

681
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:10,800
Speaker 1: me get you to understand this here you're talking to

682
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 1: Butcher right now. All right, sit, here's a deal. You

683
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 1: know we didn't decided that the weird name for the

684
00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: album in two weeks until like when we had we

685
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,560
Speaker 1: had the potluck barbecue. Everybody brain something? Why you ain't

686
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:25,879
Speaker 1: brain nood what you're talking about? I'm paying for oh

687
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: Oh oh, that's what you've been to throw up in

688
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 1: our face that you're paying for the wed Hell? Yeah,

689
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 1: what was I supposed to bring? Hey? Man, everybody brains

690
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: someone we have a potluck, you know, everybody brains something

691
00:47:36,600 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 1: contribute to the function or the event that's going on,

692
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,040
Speaker 1: you know. And for you to walk up in there

693
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:43,880
Speaker 1: and I have none that let us know what kind

694
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: of person you're gonna be in the family. We can't

695
00:47:45,719 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: add it. Who this again? This butcher right here? I

696
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,720
Speaker 1: don't know, no butcher. Look. I came to the family

697
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:55,839
Speaker 1: gathering picnic. I came there, showed up, loving on all y'all,

698
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:57,839
Speaker 1: telling y'all great this was gonna be. And now you're

699
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:01,880
Speaker 1: telling me I can't married Christen? Is that what telling me? Amen?

700
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,839
Speaker 1: The family that already voted to win the family boat dog,

701
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: that's it. I ain't marrying the family, you man. You've

702
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: married my cousin, Christian, that's what you're trying to do.

703
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: And then you ain't been the man. Huh. Look, len't

704
00:48:13,719 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: me calling up to my job talking like this. I'm

705
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,680
Speaker 1: already on hot from the day with some boots my

706
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: supervis of them pools. Do not come calling me with

707
00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: no book, hey man, Let me tell you this hill

708
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 1: until we can decide that you good for Christian, until

709
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 1: we can decide that you know you can handle being

710
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: married to hood and you come correct as a family member.

711
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 1: And if you're gonna come to pot lucks, then you

712
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: bring a pot. You ain't bringing nothing. I ain't gotta fear,

713
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: ain't nothing. I'm paying for this wedding. I don't get

714
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: what's you up there? All that money out and drop

715
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: for this? How about two bottles of wine to it

716
00:48:45,080 --> 00:48:48,399
Speaker 1: you when you I ain't seeing no wine. I don't

717
00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: care if you got that wine or not. I saw

718
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 1: her mamma drinking it. Okay, well, I ain't getting no wine.

719
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: I don't remember nobody bringing no wine. See Butcher, only

720
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,319
Speaker 1: see anything that go on. I got class. I don't

721
00:48:58,360 --> 00:49:01,720
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about, Butcher. Whatever, I brought some wine,

722
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:03,880
Speaker 1: My mama was drinking it. And I ain't playing that

723
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 1: this wedn going down. I don't spend over twenty three

724
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:08,719
Speaker 1: thousand dollars on that, hey man, I hadn't already told

725
00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: you that the family didn't voted on that the wind name.

726
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 1: I don't give up what the family voted on. How

727
00:49:14,719 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 1: do I'm paid for this. I ain't heard nothing from

728
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 1: Christan about this. Christian might not know what we didn't

729
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: voted on. We've made the seasons sometimes for everybody. You

730
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 1: understand that don't include me. We'll let Christian know that

731
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: we've been to stop the wed Well, I'm just calling

732
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 1: to let you know before I adn't tell her what's

733
00:49:31,800 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: up you're trying to tell me Christen don't even know. Na.

734
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 1: We ain't told Hood and we don't agree with you yet,

735
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: and then we're gonna stop the wind. We ain't told

736
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 1: of it. Man, get out of here. I'm paid all

737
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 1: this money for this. Man, you ain't stopping. Hey, man,

738
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: I hadn't already told you what we're doing, all right,

739
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm nothing to continue to go back and forth with you.

740
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,239
Speaker 1: You better go off my phone raising your voice at me.

741
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, Hell, I'll tell you what. Let me

742
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:54,279
Speaker 1: say this to you. I don't care if I got

743
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:56,880
Speaker 1: to bust up in that church and stop this wedding

744
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,480
Speaker 1: because you don't win against what we just said. Whatever

745
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,040
Speaker 1: I got the do, I don't know who you with.

746
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:05,120
Speaker 1: I wish y'all wots try to stop this wedding. Look,

747
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 1: we can handle it right now. I can get off

748
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,319
Speaker 1: of work. I'm already going through some books and I'm

749
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 1: already on fire. I will come there and bust yo

750
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,439
Speaker 1: right now. I don't you know what see see see

751
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:18,439
Speaker 1: what she was going with Nigel, See Nigel A act

752
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: like this saying, oh what what? I don't know? You

753
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: didn't bring that me and that already had don't even

754
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 1: bring that came up in me? Amen? Amen, I'm just

755
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 1: keeping it real with you, Nigel, A act like this

756
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,839
Speaker 1: hill that we don't have words and if that, don't

757
00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 1: want to come and bust up in that too, he

758
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,800
Speaker 1: get that with up like that. Man. All I'm just

759
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: trying to say is a harm family, a hunting peat.

760
00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: I want to hear nothing about this no more. Tell

761
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 1: me where to be and we can deal with this

762
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:45,360
Speaker 1: right now. I'm just letting you know. The family then voted,

763
00:50:45,640 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: the family that already voting. Now what we will do.

764
00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 1: We will push the wind back and then give us

765
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: time to reevaluate you that we evaluate me. I don't

766
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:57,879
Speaker 1: even know evaluate you from y'all. And here Christy getting

767
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,040
Speaker 1: married and don put some money on it. All I

768
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,279
Speaker 1: know if the wedd name happening, that the weddings happening now.

769
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 1: I thought I'm payfall it awsome bulls. You the family.

770
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,040
Speaker 1: We're gonna get married in two and a half weeks.

771
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,040
Speaker 1: If if y'all don't come in, if y'all come up

772
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:14,680
Speaker 1: in there, y'all gonna get dealt with it straight. I'm

773
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 1: drinking that I'm trying to say, hello, Amen, I'm trying

774
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: to tell you man, right now, the family don't want

775
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: you in the family right now. I don't give about ya.

776
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: I ain't in love with y'all. I'm here and Christens.

777
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: I can give a if I see y'all ever again. Oh,

778
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this here. The family voted on

779
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: one more thing. You need to go. Don know that

780
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 1: while we're at it. This ain't no damn democracy. We're

781
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: getting married. That is between her and I and if

782
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:39,800
Speaker 1: y'all I don't want to be there, jump off and

783
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:43,279
Speaker 1: the dinner. Yeah, it's one more thing. We didn't vote

784
00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 1: it on what the house you don't vote it on.

785
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 1: We voted on Mitch. This is nephew Tommy from the

786
00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 1: Steve Horby Morning Show. Christians and Todd Family got me

787
00:51:53,080 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: the prank phone. Call you yosselor y'aselor we don't put

788
00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:10,760
Speaker 1: all that money out like that. I was like, no, Sun,

789
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:14,399
Speaker 1: I got one more thing. I got to ask you, dog,

790
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:16,840
Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest and I mean the

791
00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the late Steve Harry Morning Show,

792
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 1: Baby Tommy, I'm being real with you, man, somebody gonna

793
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:37,399
Speaker 1: you up. That's my favorite part. But you know what, though,

794
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:40,560
Speaker 1: the thing that stood out most for me and this

795
00:52:40,760 --> 00:52:45,759
Speaker 1: plank was this twenty three thousand dollars he all in

796
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:55,360
Speaker 1: this decision. I don't know, no damn butcher Man, I

797
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 1: love it. You gotta bring something to the pot luck.

798
00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 1: Now you come in the empty hand that we don't

799
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 1: know about having you and the family like that. Man,

800
00:53:02,520 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: you gotta do this. We got to reevaluate you. You know,

801
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:08,319
Speaker 1: we need to push this thing back a few weeks. Man.

802
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: Let us let us do a few ticks on you

803
00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:13,880
Speaker 1: for we that you married my cousin like that. But

804
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 1: he did not care. But Ni, she wouldn't ask like

805
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:19,919
Speaker 1: that when you were dating. Not I know you didn't

806
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: bring that N word. I'm already dealt with him. Just

807
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 1: right here, be cleared, peop, been clearing out all the

808
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: clutter that's right right, family that I'm already dealt with

809
00:53:38,480 --> 00:53:43,520
Speaker 1: him money. I know you ain't talking about night Man

810
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:49,839
Speaker 1: with you. Where did you get nagle from? All right?

811
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:53,120
Speaker 1: Thinking that you coming up next Strawberry Letters subject to

812
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: bubble Bath, Bourbon and Berries. We'll get into it right

813
00:53:56,760 --> 00:54:00,320
Speaker 1: after this. Oh yes we will. You're listening. She was

814
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

815
00:54:05,160 --> 00:54:08,240
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816
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:12,600
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817
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818
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air. You hear that,

819
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:21,839
Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here,

820
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: right now. You never know, it could be yours. You

821
00:54:24,600 --> 00:54:28,680
Speaker 1: never know, just never know, so buckle up, hold on tight.

822
00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: We got it for it you here. It is the

823
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, subject Bubble Bath, Bourbon and Berry's. Dear Stephen Shirley,

824
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,880
Speaker 1: My husband and I have been married for two years

825
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 1: and when I met him, he came from out of nowhere.

826
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,359
Speaker 1: I do not know anyone that knows him and could

827
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 1: not vouch and could vouch for his character. I knew

828
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,920
Speaker 1: he'd been married before, and I found who she was

829
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:54,080
Speaker 1: and how she looked and carried herself on social media.

830
00:54:54,239 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: She was dressed ghetto and she loved multi colored wigs.

831
00:54:57,960 --> 00:55:01,280
Speaker 1: But she's a nurse, so she must be professional at times.

832
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 1: I also noticed that she was still wearing her bridle set,

833
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 1: the ring, and the band. I asked him if he

834
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 1: still talked to her, and he said only on social media.

835
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:16,760
Speaker 1: I felt like he wasn't being truthful, so I decided

836
00:55:16,800 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: to keep an eye on him and this woman. I

837
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: never checked his phone, but I knew the pass code

838
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:25,480
Speaker 1: to his phone out of the blue. On her second anniversary,

839
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 1: he called me and said he got arrested for failure

840
00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 1: to pay a traffic fine. I got to the jail

841
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: to try to bail him out, and they said he'd

842
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,959
Speaker 1: have to stay overnight. I got his belongings and found

843
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 1: out that he had lied about what he was arrested for.

844
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 1: It was for issuance of a bad check and it

845
00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 1: was to an apartment building. I got his watch, wedding ring,

846
00:55:47,120 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 1: and cell phone and headed home mad as heck. I

847
00:55:50,400 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 1: got home and checked his phone. The first thing I

848
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 1: checked was his call log and texts, but and both

849
00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: were deleted. I checked the pictures and there was a

850
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: video of him in one of those two our motels,

851
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:07,600
Speaker 1: sitting in a sunken tub full of bubbles, holding a

852
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:11,760
Speaker 1: cup of brown liquor with a bowl of blueberries beside

853
00:56:11,800 --> 00:56:15,320
Speaker 1: the tub. The ex wife was standing over him, and

854
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: I won't tell you what he was doing to her.

855
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 1: I'm so outdone with this nasty man, and I want

856
00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 1: to move out while he's in jail. I found his

857
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: ex wife's phone number and told her to go bail

858
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 1: him out because I'm done with him. What do I

859
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 1: do now? Well, what do you mean? What do he

860
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: do now? I mean, I think it's quite clear what

861
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,799
Speaker 1: needs to be done. You already said that you want

862
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: to leave him while he's in jail. Your husband is

863
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,280
Speaker 1: cheated on you, lied to you about why he got arrested,

864
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 1: and more importantly, he might still be married. Is he

865
00:56:49,719 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 1: paying her rent to You said he was in jail

866
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:57,319
Speaker 1: for a bad check to an apartment building. You saw

867
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 1: him with his ex wife with your own eyes, doing

868
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,479
Speaker 1: what you didn't even want to tell us he was doing.

869
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 1: So you said you didn't know him very well when

870
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:08,760
Speaker 1: you married him. It's just like he came out of nowhere,

871
00:57:09,360 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 1: and there was no one to vouch for his character,

872
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 1: So why did you marry him? Well, now you know

873
00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:18,800
Speaker 1: quite a bit about his character, So what are you

874
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,560
Speaker 1: gonna do? Are you gonna stay and take the disrespect

875
00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: of seeing him, you know, in videos doing whatever to

876
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,400
Speaker 1: his ex wife or his current wife whatever she is

877
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:30,160
Speaker 1: to him, or are you gonna leave and keep your

878
00:57:30,200 --> 00:57:32,880
Speaker 1: dignity those you know? That's up to you. What are

879
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 1: you going to do? Now that you know what's up?

880
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 1: You've seen it, Steve Well, Shelley's right, okay, really say

881
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 1: nothing about that. She's correct. Bubble bell, bourbon and berries.

882
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:53,320
Speaker 1: Here's the first part explains his whole letter to me.

883
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:57,560
Speaker 1: Shelley and Steve my husband and I've been married for

884
00:57:57,680 --> 00:58:01,920
Speaker 1: two years when I Mattie came out of nowhere. I

885
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: don't know anyone that knows him and could voute for

886
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 1: his character. I knew he'd been married before, and I

887
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: found out who she was and how she looked and

888
00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: carried herself on social media. She was dressed ghetto, she

889
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: loved multi colored wigs, but she's a nurse, so she

890
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: must be a professional. At times, I also noticed that

891
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: she was still wearing her bridle set Now, I think

892
00:58:30,200 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: that you waited a little bit too late for all

893
00:58:33,960 --> 00:58:39,480
Speaker 1: this research you'd have done. It seemed to me like

894
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: you should have moved the forensic science up to the

895
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: beginning when you first met him. So now, ain't nobody

896
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 1: come out of nowhere? Don't ever say that because you

897
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:58,919
Speaker 1: never mentioned y'all's age. But he's been round the whole time.

898
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,439
Speaker 1: He has been growing on this planet with the rest

899
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 1: of us. And he has a history. That's a fact.

900
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,560
Speaker 1: The fact that you didn't bother to research this history.

901
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 1: This is your fault. You married him too quick. So

902
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but you just did

903
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: it too quick. Are you ask him if he still

904
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 1: talked to her? And he said only on social media?

905
00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: Well that's talking these days, so you can say only

906
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 1: on social media, but text They got emojis. Now you

907
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,760
Speaker 1: can see it video social media and you can FaceTime

908
00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 1: shit chat. You know, you just go here and on

909
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: and old and all that old. So are they still talking? Yes,

910
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: So you felt like he wasn't being truthful, So now

911
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna keep out him and this and you've never

912
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:55,480
Speaker 1: checked this phone, but you got the pass code and

913
00:59:55,560 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: then out the blue on our second anniversary. He called

914
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 1: you and said he got arrested for failure to pay

915
01:00:02,720 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 1: a traffic fine. That can happen, but you got to

916
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 1: the jail to try to bail him out, and they

917
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 1: said he'd have to stay overnight. I got his belongings

918
01:00:14,440 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 1: and find out that he lied about what he was

919
01:00:16,360 --> 01:00:21,680
Speaker 1: arrested for. It was for in short of a bad check,

920
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:25,400
Speaker 1: and it was to an apartment building. I got his

921
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: watch with mean cell phone head at home, mad ass heck, okay,

922
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:37,440
Speaker 1: so he lied about what he was arrested for. You

923
01:00:37,520 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 1: don't know this man, and there's more to come. Oh m,

924
01:00:44,560 --> 01:00:47,520
Speaker 1: all right, Hold on, Steve. We'll have part two of

925
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:50,720
Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after subject

926
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:53,680
Speaker 1: bubble back, Bourbon and Berries. We'll get back into it

927
01:00:53,880 --> 01:00:59,360
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, All right, Come on, Steve,

928
01:00:59,440 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter, bubble bath, Bourbon and berry.

929
01:01:05,680 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 1: We haven't gotten to the bubble bath, berries and bourbon

930
01:01:08,680 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 1: part yet. This is strawberries. We've now discovered that this

931
01:01:14,800 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 1: woman don't know this man. She didn't married at all,

932
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:20,800
Speaker 1: and through research or social media, after two years of marriage,

933
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 1: she's discovering some things about this man. Well, the man

934
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:31,439
Speaker 1: gets arrested. While he's arrested, she goes down to bail

935
01:01:31,520 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 1: him out on their second anniversary. He said he was

936
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: arrested for not paying a fine for a ticket. She

937
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 1: gets down there and find out his for insurance and

938
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:49,440
Speaker 1: a bad check. She get all his belongings, watch cell phone,

939
01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:57,680
Speaker 1: go back to the house. She had been suspicious about

940
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:02,560
Speaker 1: this woman who was his X, but she's always had

941
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,000
Speaker 1: his pass code, never checked her. She decided to check

942
01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: call log and messages. Everything is deleted, but she finds

943
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:23,200
Speaker 1: a video. She finds a video. Boy, why we keep videos? Man? Anyway,

944
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 1: goes to the phone, finds a video. He's in a

945
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:33,640
Speaker 1: sunken tub with a glass of brown liquor some blueberries,

946
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: is next to the tub, and she's standing over him.

947
01:02:39,880 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 1: And she don't want to say what he's doing to her.

948
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:51,000
Speaker 1: I wish you had her No, I wanted you to

949
01:02:51,240 --> 01:02:55,160
Speaker 1: tell us what he was doing to her, so we

950
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: don't have to assume what we all know what's going on.

951
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 1: I like to be told, see, I don't like you know,

952
01:03:04,120 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 1: figure it out, you know, because when you assume, what

953
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 1: does assuming do make ass out of you and me Na.

954
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:24,920
Speaker 1: Since we're talking about that part, we're assuming that's what happened. Anyway,

955
01:03:25,000 --> 01:03:29,480
Speaker 1: that's not the story. I was so overdone with this

956
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 1: nasty man that I want to move out while he's

957
01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:36,200
Speaker 1: in jail. I found his actual I phone number told

958
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 1: her to go bail him out because I'm done with him.

959
01:03:38,920 --> 01:03:41,480
Speaker 1: What do I do now? Shirley said it right, you

960
01:03:41,600 --> 01:03:46,240
Speaker 1: move out while he's in jail. You're done with the

961
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:51,120
Speaker 1: nasty man. Now? How old is the video? Yeah? See,

962
01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:55,160
Speaker 1: you didn't say that if it's from when they was

963
01:03:55,280 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: married and it's just a video. Now, you called him

964
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:07,320
Speaker 1: a nasty man because he ain't never did that you, yeah, man,

965
01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 1: if he doing it, I'm assuming he didn't think it

966
01:04:09,680 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 1: was Nash. But you know we've all seen Janet Jackson,

967
01:04:21,880 --> 01:04:26,360
Speaker 1: Miss Jackson. If you nasty, now, I'm saying, that's fine

968
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:29,640
Speaker 1: with me sometimes nasty. Ain't ain't nothing wrong with nasty

969
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 1: if you you know, if that's what you want, Yeah,

970
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:39,080
Speaker 1: he'll beat, give me a beat a lately rhythm Nation Star.

971
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 1: You know, so, I don't know your definition to nasty.

972
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 1: If his definition nash is two different things. I'm going

973
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:51,080
Speaker 1: around in a circle with this because you already know

974
01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:54,800
Speaker 1: what to do. You don't know the man, you don't

975
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 1: trust him now, and now he's lied about this. You

976
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 1: want to move out while he's in jail. Hand move out.

977
01:05:01,840 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 1: It's really nothing I can give you. What are you

978
01:05:05,120 --> 01:05:06,919
Speaker 1: gonna wait on the rest of it to come out?

979
01:05:06,960 --> 01:05:10,320
Speaker 1: Because it's some mote. Oh, it's some more. This is

980
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 1: just what you found out. Listen to me. Whenever you

981
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 1: find out something, it's some moment. It's always more. But

982
01:05:21,640 --> 01:05:24,840
Speaker 1: to be honest, you cannot have a relationship with a

983
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:27,920
Speaker 1: person that's been around and not expect to see some

984
01:05:28,120 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: history show up. That's life. We all have history. And

985
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:35,600
Speaker 1: so now if you're waiting to find somebody ain't got

986
01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:38,080
Speaker 1: no history, then you got to start dating sixteen yell

987
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:44,600
Speaker 1: and lady. That ain't gonna work out for you. You'll

988
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:48,040
Speaker 1: be in jail. Yeah, yeah, we already know who are

989
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:56,160
Speaker 1: jailed right as he should be. In the words of

990
01:05:56,320 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: Little Douvo, if you really believe you can fly, nah

991
01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:11,960
Speaker 1: would be good. So that's the response. I don't have

992
01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: nothing for this young lady. She knows what the deal is.

993
01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:18,120
Speaker 1: It's clear, and you can stick around and wait and

994
01:06:18,280 --> 01:06:19,920
Speaker 1: hear what he say. When he get out, but it's

995
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 1: gonna be more the same. And so now there you

996
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:26,120
Speaker 1: have it. I don't know what else to say, Shirley, Okay,

997
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:30,480
Speaker 1: I mean that was good. Sometimes that's all you can say.

998
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 1: You know, you can't help everybody. I think he helped

999
01:06:34,400 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 1: her just fine. I'm glad it was blueberries, like I said,

1000
01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:41,760
Speaker 1: and he is paying her rent. Right. He wrote the

1001
01:06:41,800 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 1: bad check to the apartment building. What was that? A

1002
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 1: bad chick. That's why he's in jail. Hot checks. Yeah,

1003
01:06:56,080 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: because that money is immediate. They don't chase checks. No more, no, no,

1004
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: ain't no. Yeah, all right, all right, thanks Steve. Post

1005
01:07:08,840 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 1: your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM

1006
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast

1007
01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: on demand coming up at forty six minutes after the

1008
01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 1: hour Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're listening

1009
01:07:21,840 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the

1010
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: top of the hour. It's Carla's Reality Update. But right

1011
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 1: now it is time for Junior with Sports Talk. What

1012
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:35,120
Speaker 1: you got Junior? All right? Everybody Fight Weekend Alert on

1013
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 1: Fight Weekend Alert. Alright, boy, okay, you read it. I

1014
01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 1: just need to know how are we gonna look at

1015
01:07:41,400 --> 01:07:45,919
Speaker 1: this man? Deante wild Of Tyson Fury number three? Yeah,

1016
01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 1: this weekend, I'm gonna have to go with you on

1017
01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 1: this woman's in Vegas, Junior. It's in Vegas at T

1018
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:59,640
Speaker 1: Mobile Arena. Timmy, we should go, man, we should that

1019
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 1: jet around here. Let's come on. I won't be in town,

1020
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 1: but I'm sorry. I wanted to go. You don't need him.

1021
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 1: Ja here with you? Is the jet here? Give me

1022
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:28,400
Speaker 1: your pilot. How is he gonna get out of town? Nephew?

1023
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 1: Who who you got? Look at this? How you look

1024
01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:37,120
Speaker 1: at this fight? I definitely want Wilder to win because

1025
01:08:37,160 --> 01:08:43,360
Speaker 1: I like him. Here's here's the problem, Tyson Fury. When

1026
01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:49,599
Speaker 1: got that boy, Emmanuel Emmanuel Sander's nephew. Yeah, I sat

1027
01:08:49,800 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 1: in front. Right behind me was Mike Tyson on one

1028
01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:57,360
Speaker 1: side and Thomas Hearns on the other side. They told

1029
01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:59,960
Speaker 1: us exactly. They told me exactly what was gonna happen.

1030
01:09:00,840 --> 01:09:03,240
Speaker 1: They knew, but c D got that boy from that

1031
01:09:03,360 --> 01:09:07,000
Speaker 1: crunch gym. That know just enough for Emmanuel Sanders. Did

1032
01:09:07,439 --> 01:09:14,479
Speaker 1: that change? Tyson Fury? If Wilder now he got rid

1033
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 1: of breathing because he threw in the tie. Mark Brilling

1034
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 1: was not the problem. The problem is the trainer, the

1035
01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:27,479
Speaker 1: guy that gets up in the ring that works on

1036
01:09:27,600 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 1: the strategy for Wilder. I do not like him. I

1037
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:34,479
Speaker 1: do not think he is the guy. And if they

1038
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:38,439
Speaker 1: don't understand that they are fighting a soft paw, and

1039
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 1: if they ain't talking to Wilder about where his foot

1040
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:44,720
Speaker 1: placement need to be, then the results it's gonna be

1041
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:49,040
Speaker 1: the same. Because if Wilder is the hardest hitting heavyweight ever,

1042
01:09:49,960 --> 01:09:52,599
Speaker 1: but you didn't throw not one of them. Hey, makeup

1043
01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:57,559
Speaker 1: punches at Wilder. I mean that fury. Yeah, it's gonna

1044
01:09:57,560 --> 01:10:00,640
Speaker 1: be oly Man. But I'm pulling for Dante wild But

1045
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 1: if I'm getting my butt, whoop lantime, throw in the

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Speaker 1: town that little stool, throw everything and then get them

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Speaker 1: up off me. Mate. Throw some people in there and

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Speaker 1: the ring girl. Throw that UNDR. Throw that in there,

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Speaker 1: that spit bucking in there, the water, it's the round number.

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Speaker 1: Throw to Mike in the ring, and the commentate your

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Speaker 1: heill throw the bell in here ill j Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys. Coming up at the top of the hour

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Speaker 1: Carla's Reality Update. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Come on, Tommy and you douce that girl.

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Speaker 1: She is here. All right, ladies and gentlemen, she is here.

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Speaker 1: Call a Ferrell with what reality update coming in hot?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew, thank you surely. Okay. So in the

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Speaker 1: real Housewifs of Potomac, what is going on with Candice?

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01:11:04,439 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 1: What is her problem? We see Monique told y'all last

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01:11:07,600 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 1: season her mouth. Monique told y'all that's why she snatched

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Speaker 1: the last season they left the show. But anyway, Wendy

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Speaker 1: and her husband Eddie, they hosted a couple's trip and

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Speaker 1: Mia and her husband Gee arrived. They were getting settled

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Speaker 1: in doing shots, drinking, and the more guests came and

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Speaker 1: Gee is a little bit off the chain. He had

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Speaker 1: tipsy and then he told his wife Mia to shut

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Speaker 1: the f ups that go down. I don't excuse that.

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Speaker 1: Don't excuse that, but din't care the same way anyway

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Speaker 1: they've been not say it. But basically he was trying

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Speaker 1: to surprise her with a phone call I think from

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Speaker 1: like a car dealer or something like that, to let

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Speaker 1: her know on the surprise announcement phone call with a

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Speaker 1: car dealer on speaker phone that she was getting a

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Speaker 1: g Wagon, that he was getting her customized g wagon.

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Speaker 1: So that's why I guess he was trying to tell

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Speaker 1: her to be quiet so he could tell her all that. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: the ladies went into the room to talk, and then

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Speaker 1: Mia and Candice they got into it again. Things got heated.

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Speaker 1: Then Mia called her BFF or she got on the

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Speaker 1: phone with her BF and basically was walking around and

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Speaker 1: telling her BF on the phone that she was around

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Speaker 1: some broke b words, if you will, I guess, referring

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Speaker 1: to the women there on the trip. Candice heard that,

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Speaker 1: and Candice said, your mama is a broke B word.

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Speaker 1: No it should have, but no it didn't. Mia kind

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Speaker 1: of you know, they had a house on a beach, so,

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Speaker 1: oh my goodness. So anyway, we all know that, you know, Mia,

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Speaker 1: she's trying to mend her relationship with her mother and

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Speaker 1: her mother she grew up. Her mother was a drug addict,

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Speaker 1: so saying stuff like that it's really mean and harmful

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Speaker 1: to Mia. So I don't know, Candice needs to slow down.

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Speaker 1: Her mouth is gonna get hurt in a lot of trouble. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: they went back to the kitchen Karen and Ashley. They

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Speaker 1: finally arrived. Mia tells Karen basically that Candice is mean.

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Speaker 1: That's what she's basically saying to her. And then they

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Speaker 1: got into it again and then Mia tells Candice your video,

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Speaker 1: your music video was low budget, because you remember Candice

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Speaker 1: did the whole music video in the parking lot. Then

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Speaker 1: Candace said, your mama's low budget. That's the second time.

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Speaker 1: Why she still on the episode right this second time

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01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:54,880
Speaker 1: talking about this girl's mama. Well, Candice through some let

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Speaker 1: us at Mia, Mia through, let us back at Candice.

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Speaker 1: So we will see next week what happens. It was

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Speaker 1: a salad fight time, my mom, and I'm gonna throw

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01:14:07,320 --> 01:14:10,200
Speaker 1: some letters at you that that letters has got to

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01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 1: be on the plate. You really go get served the salad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was really it was really mean. And check this out, Shirley.

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Speaker 1: You do remember that the whole theme of the trip

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01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:26,919
Speaker 1: was supposed to be good vibes only video. Yeah, GVO,

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01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:29,640
Speaker 1: that's supposed to be the theme of this strip. Not

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01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:32,080
Speaker 1: starting out that way, good vibes only. So we will

1112
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Speaker 1: check it out again next week, and then quickly before

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Speaker 1: we run out of time, I want to remind everybody

1114
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:42,759
Speaker 1: Chicago get ready the fifth annual Sister Strut Breast Cancer

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Speaker 1: walk is happening this Saturday with a home station V

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Speaker 1: one oh three Saturday, October ninth, at the Salvation Army

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Speaker 1: Ray and Jane Croc Community Center. Shirley, We've been there before,

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Speaker 1: twelve fifty West one hundred and nineteenth Street. It's a

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Speaker 1: pink celebration. I'll want you guys to go to V

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Speaker 1: one oh three dot com slash Strut to get all

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Speaker 1: the details, or you can follow me at lip Spark

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01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 1: Carla and I will break it down for you there.

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Speaker 1: It is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. What's you guys, Shirley,

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you, Carla. Coming up next, more of

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the hour,

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01:15:23,520 --> 01:15:26,840
Speaker 1: or tell Me Something Good segment right after this. You're

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01:15:26,880 --> 01:15:31,960
Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show and are tell

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01:15:32,040 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 1: Me Something Good segment. Black Girl Magic is finally making

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01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 1: its way into the National Inventors Hall of Fame. NPR

1130
01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:44,680
Speaker 1: reports that Marian Croak and late doctor Patricia Bath will

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Speaker 1: make history as the first ever black women inducted into

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Speaker 1: the Hall. Croak, a current Google executive, invented voice over IP,

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01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:57,479
Speaker 1: which allows users to make calls over the Internet and

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01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 1: holds over two hundred patents. Meanwhile, doctor Bath created a

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01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:08,439
Speaker 1: medical device used in surgeries to easily extract cataracts. Okay,

1136
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 1: these women are not playing. Whoa that playing? Yes, she

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Speaker 1: was also the first black woman doctor to receive a patent,

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Speaker 1: So congratulations to both these ladies. So both these inventive doctors,

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Speaker 1: you know. So that's wonderful. Yeah. It is also some

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01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 1: more good news. Thrive Cosmetics, this is a cosmetics company

1141
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 1: based in Los Angeles, donated one hundred thousand dollars steed

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Speaker 1: of a two million dollar funding goal to the University

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01:16:38,439 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 1: of Louisiana to start what would become the Brianna Brianna

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01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:48,360
Speaker 1: Taylor Memorial Endowment. So that's great news for that UM

1145
01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 1: scholarship recipient who like Brianna, have dreams of pursuing nursing

1146
01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:58,559
Speaker 1: and medical related careers are eligible. So all around, good news,

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01:16:58,600 --> 01:17:03,560
Speaker 1: good news. We need some good news, all right, and

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01:17:03,680 --> 01:17:05,920
Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

1149
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 1: up at thirty three minutes after the hour right after

1150
01:17:08,400 --> 01:17:13,479
Speaker 1: this you're listening show. All right, guys, time now for

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01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:17,960
Speaker 1: ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey into the building.

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01:17:18,080 --> 01:17:21,759
Speaker 1: This one is from Donna in Mobile, Alabama. Donna writes,

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01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:24,160
Speaker 1: my mother and I are at odds because she owes

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01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:26,880
Speaker 1: me money. It's been over sixty days that I loaned

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Speaker 1: her money for an outpatient procedure, and I meet my money.

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01:17:31,560 --> 01:17:33,960
Speaker 1: My mother is in her early sixties and she's having

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01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:37,720
Speaker 1: trouble growing old gracefully. The only problem with that is

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Speaker 1: that she doesn't have the money for the cosmetic procedures

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01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 1: she wants monthly. I am a single mom with two girls,

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Speaker 1: and I don't have that luxury of botox and lashes

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01:17:48,520 --> 01:17:50,680
Speaker 1: every month. How do I get my money back and

1162
01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:54,000
Speaker 1: stop her from using me? Well, why don't you do this?

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01:17:54,800 --> 01:17:56,600
Speaker 1: This is what I've done. You may not want to

1164
01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 1: hear this one, but this is what I've done. It's

1165
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 1: called I I buy people out of my life. Now,

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01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:06,639
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you get rid of your mother. Listen

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01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 1: to me carefully. Once you give me money and you

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01:18:10,479 --> 01:18:14,679
Speaker 1: do not return it, cool, you are now purchased out

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01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 1: of my life. You can't come to me for nothing else.

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01:18:18,560 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 1: You can't ask me now if your mom is doing

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01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:24,759
Speaker 1: all this surgery, these cosmetic surgeries, you have to stop

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01:18:24,800 --> 01:18:28,360
Speaker 1: participating in it. You are single mother, I don't have it,

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01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 1: and I remember the last time I gave you the money,

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01:18:32,479 --> 01:18:35,560
Speaker 1: you didn't return it, So no, I don't have it.

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna have to do You're gonna have to

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01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:43,519
Speaker 1: do it like that. Secondly, don't loan out nothing. Do

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01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:49,000
Speaker 1: not loan money that you cannot afford to lose. If

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01:18:49,080 --> 01:18:51,479
Speaker 1: you can afford to lose it, don't loan it because

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01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 1: there's a good chance they're not gonna pay it back.

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01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: So don't give away nothing to nobody you need back,

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01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 1: including mama, especially for naught. Look if your mama had

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Speaker 1: needed surgery to save her life, I mean, I'm all

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01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 1: in for that. But you want some boattox and some lashes.

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01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:15,720
Speaker 1: That's my mother in law to mama. You're gonna have

1185
01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:18,840
Speaker 1: to get somebody. I've seen a commercial for all mascarrol

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01:19:19,520 --> 01:19:22,360
Speaker 1: that lengthens and thickens. You're gonna have to go that route.

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Speaker 1: We're not gonna you know that though. Stick TV shi.

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Speaker 1: This is from Sincere in Jacksonville. Sincere says, I'm thirty

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Speaker 1: nine years old and my boyfriend is thirty seven. He

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Speaker 1: works as a fashion editor for an offline site, and

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Speaker 1: he thinks he's ready for the cover of GQ. Magazine

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Speaker 1: all the time. I'm more on the conservative side and

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Speaker 1: I don't care to wear designer clothes all the time

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01:19:48,439 --> 01:19:51,600
Speaker 1: or have expensive purses. When I met him, he was

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Speaker 1: basic like me, and over time he reinvented himself. I

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Speaker 1: told him that he needs someone flashy, but he said

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Speaker 1: he loves me. It's he outgrowing me. That's interesting. Interesting

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Speaker 1: as you, as I was listening to the question, I

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Speaker 1: was going to say, you said he reinvented himself. Well,

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Speaker 1: he's actually grown into something he loves. Maybe he loved

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Speaker 1: fashion and loves being a fashion editor, and he was

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01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:20,840
Speaker 1: very simple then, but then he wanted more. He became that.

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Speaker 1: Coming up, it is our last break of the day,

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01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:26,000
Speaker 1: and at forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll have

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Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only, our fearless leader,

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01:20:29,439 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 1: our Captain Steve Harvey. Right after this you're listening show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are our last break of

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Speaker 1: the day on this Thursday, one day before our favorite

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Speaker 1: day of the week. But it's been a good day. Well,

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Speaker 1: been a good day today. I thank the Lord's Day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got for Steve. I don't know, Shirley. I was

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Speaker 1: kind of debate, going back in, back and forth. But

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Speaker 1: you know, the one thing I've learned in my life

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Speaker 1: that I'll share with you today is I do understand

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01:21:14,000 --> 01:21:16,280
Speaker 1: that the things that you're planning and hoping for in

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01:21:16,400 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 1: life for all of us, that they're not happening at

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01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:25,120
Speaker 1: the pace we wanted to happen. That's usually always the case,

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Speaker 1: even with me. I find myself constantly, man, because I

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01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: have so many dreams and aspirations. I keep finding myself

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Speaker 1: looking for them and anticipating them and putting my own

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01:21:38,280 --> 01:21:41,880
Speaker 1: timelines on things when I think things should have happened,

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Speaker 1: and then when they don't happen. After readjust my thinking

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01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:49,719
Speaker 1: charge sort of realign my time latin still be okay

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01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:53,880
Speaker 1: with the fact that it hasn't happened yet. That's hard

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Speaker 1: to do as a human being, it really really is.

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Speaker 1: But I've had to learn something, and I'm constantly battling

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Speaker 1: myself with this. So if you want of those people

1228
01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:05,400
Speaker 1: that's kind of having the same feelings, I'm gonna show

1229
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:09,960
Speaker 1: you something. I had to come to terms with everything

1230
01:22:10,120 --> 01:22:14,040
Speaker 1: you've asked God for everything that you are willing to

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01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:18,880
Speaker 1: put forth an maximum effort to attain every dream and

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01:22:19,160 --> 01:22:23,439
Speaker 1: vision that you have that's good and righteous will come

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01:22:23,680 --> 01:22:30,839
Speaker 1: to pass. But it will come to pass in God's

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01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:39,719
Speaker 1: perfect timing. That's the thing. Man in his perfect timing.

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Speaker 1: You hear old people say he may not come when

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01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 1: you want it, but he's always on time. He has

1237
01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:51,240
Speaker 1: never been late. He's never missed an appointment, he's never

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01:22:51,320 --> 01:22:56,360
Speaker 1: missed a mission, he's never missed his deadline, his deadline.

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Speaker 1: Because you have to understand that if you're believer, if

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01:23:00,479 --> 01:23:04,439
Speaker 1: you love God and you're calling on him, he's always there.

1241
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:07,800
Speaker 1: But it's going to happen in his perfect timing. And

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01:23:08,000 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 1: I can assure you, if you anything like me, his

1243
01:23:11,000 --> 01:23:13,719
Speaker 1: timing it were off from the one I had in mind.

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01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:18,880
Speaker 1: It usually always is. So I've had to understand that

1245
01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:24,160
Speaker 1: everything happens for a reason. Have you ever had something

1246
01:23:24,400 --> 01:23:27,880
Speaker 1: happened to you and while it was happening to you,

1247
01:23:29,040 --> 01:23:31,560
Speaker 1: it was actually happening to you, but being done to

1248
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:36,800
Speaker 1: you by someone else? Excuse me? And you sit there

1249
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:39,680
Speaker 1: and you go, wait a minute, God, you know I

1250
01:23:39,840 --> 01:23:43,920
Speaker 1: haven't done this, but you're allowing for this to happen

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Speaker 1: and this person is doing it to me. Well, let

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Speaker 1: me give you another thoughts or ever had to pick

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Speaker 1: up on that God never puts more on you than

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Speaker 1: you can bear, and he uses his soldiers, his strong soldiers,

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Speaker 1: to teach lessons and do other things that other people

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Speaker 1: need to learn and know. Let me just give you

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Speaker 1: an example. Somebody's doing something to me right now and

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Speaker 1: they just flat out lying. They are just flat out lying,

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Speaker 1: and they're doing something to me, and I know they're lying. Now.

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Speaker 1: If I come out with this publicly because I'm famous,

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Speaker 1: it's not a blog. If I talk about it or

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Speaker 1: bring it up, it becomes a news conference. So I

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Speaker 1: have to sit still because that would be taking matters

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Speaker 1: into my own hands. But what's really happening to me,

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Speaker 1: and what sometimes it's happening to you, is God is

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Speaker 1: teaching another person a real lesson about messing with his

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Speaker 1: And sometimes what feels like it's being done to you,

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Speaker 1: if you think about it, ain't really nothing happening to you.

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Speaker 1: That you might be a little long comfortable with it,

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Speaker 1: but really it's not going to change anything. And this

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Speaker 1: person can be skipping through life thinking they're doing something,

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Speaker 1: they're gonna get away with something they're not. They not.

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Speaker 1: But you are the instrument in this thing called life

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Speaker 1: that's being used to prove several points. But remember, God

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna put more on you than you can bear.

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Speaker 1: He never does. He never takes you to the point

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Speaker 1: where you just can't. I've been to give up, now

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Speaker 1: you don't. You've never given up before. You've always survived it.

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Speaker 1: And so I've had to learn those two things that

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Speaker 1: I have to wait on God's perfect timing, and that

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Speaker 1: everything that's happening in my life ain't causing me. It's

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Speaker 1: two people got to learn something in this. I have

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Speaker 1: to learn to trust in him, because all things work

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Speaker 1: for the good for those who love the Lord. I

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Speaker 1: love him, So whatever's happening in my life is working

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Speaker 1: out for the good. Now it may be to teach

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Speaker 1: somebody else a lesson. It might be what he needs

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Speaker 1: them to go through so he can show them something.

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Speaker 1: But you're gonna be just fine. So learning that everything

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Speaker 1: that's happening in your life is happening for a reason,

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Speaker 1: and on the other side of it, it's something absolutely

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Speaker 1: wonderful you. It has taught me to stay strong when

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Speaker 1: I'm going through those difficult moments, and it's also taught

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Speaker 1: me and I've learned to trust in his perfect timing,

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Speaker 1: because man, it's not gonna happen when you want it too.

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Speaker 1: It almost never does. But when it finally does happen,

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Speaker 1: ask yourself something, don't it be right? It be right?

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Speaker 1: When it really go down, it really be right. And

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Speaker 1: then it go down in a way where it k

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Speaker 1: nobody come behind him and undo it. That's the deal.

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Speaker 1: Those are the two things I've had to learn. And

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Speaker 1: then trust in him because all things work for the

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Speaker 1: good for those who love him. I love him and

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Speaker 1: he loves me, and everything goes according to his purpose.

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Speaker 1: It's all gonna work out. It's gonna line up. Man.

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Speaker 1: I know a little crazy sometime for hanging here, y'all.

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Speaker 1: God is always coming. You just got to believe. Those

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Speaker 1: are my closer remark. Y'all have a good one today,

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Speaker 1: God willing, We'll see y'all to mard if you wake

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Speaker 1: me up? Who be here? For here for all? Steve

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